"And that still remains. But you have to heal ... you have to accept what has happened to you, and master it however you can. Pain doesn't just go away, it needs to be absorbed, assessed, then healed. Then you have to learn to love yourself again ... to let go of all the irrational blame that you place upon yourself for what you went through ... then, and only then, can you permit love to completely re-enter your life. You have to allow yourself to trust again, to love wholly and not be beaten by hate and fear. Harry will be there for whatever you need from him ... but this is your battle, one we all know you can win. You have all of our love as your support network."