"But that's going to be incredibly hard for you, because you are still hurting on a fundamental level, and don’t fully trust men or attention lavished on you by them because of how you've conditioned yourself to be, for your survival. You believed that Ron would love and protect you ... and he blatantly destroyed that trust. Your female friends were also all abused by men in their own lives. Now you learn that Tom Riddle has some connection to your Marriage Bond, too, so you feel violated by that."