Normally, this was a hard line for her. She found that the rougher you allowed a man to handle you, the less he thought of you as someone he could love. You become a fetish instead of a human. And that pattern has saved her a lot of trouble in the past. Since Ron, it’s been fast and rough or nothing at all. She tried to avoid kissing whenever possible as it was, and yet she needed this man’s mouth like it was oxygen. He had been right every time he accused her of baiting him into kissing her. She had been and she’d continue to do it for as long as he continued to shut her up with brute force. 