"Ron, I will do my best to remain calm, but I'm not something you can have not now or at any other time in the past or future; what part of being soul mates do you not understand? I'm legally married to Harry now, so you're just going to have to deal with it; if you cannot get past it, then I'm sad to say that we cannot be friends any longer since you still haven't learnt your lesson from the last time you brought this so consider this your last warning".