"You have to ask for help ... rather than be the one who always gives it for once," Amelie explained. "Asking for help does not show weakness, Hermione ... it shows logic and maturity to admit that there are some things we cannot do alone. Narcissa has the knowledge you need, and if you truly want to succeed in this then you are going to need her help. Be humble enough to ask for it, draw strength from it ... then snap the bonds that are holding you down.