"I love being told I look like dad. It makes me feel proud, like I’m truly his, even if he’s not here to have me. But sometimes it’s stressful. Like, he was this great guy, a hero, and what am I? I’m only a "hero’ because I don’t really have a choice. But I’m not as brave as dad was, or as smart, or funny. He was better than me in almost every way possible. Whenever people who look at me see him instead, they’re reminded that I’m not."