"It's part of the game, Ron," Hermione said.  "I'm not really his property.  I only pretend I am - but in reality he treats me as much an equal as Narcissa.  It’s a role we play in the bedroom and has no bearing on real life."  She sighed.  "I love that I’m able to try things with them.  I love being with him, with Draco, even with Narcissa."