"As you've been?" asked Arthur bitterly. His wife looked stunned. "You helped force a kind vibrant young lady into shackles to sacrifice her childhood for Dumbledore's version of the greater good. So that adults wouldn't have to get up and do the hard work needed. Even worse you wanted to steal the rest of her life to make her a meek docile doormat for Ron to abuse. A good wife? What does that make you?"