"Okay, fine... I agree that I don’t understand a lot of things about the magical world you are suddenly a part of, but I do understand people... Now from what I can see, that boy is smitten with you and you seem just as smitten as he is... I think he is very charming man with a good upbringing and he seems to be nice boy... I also think that whatever reason you have for not telling Ron and Harry is very childish... If they are your best friends and they can’t be happy for you then they really aren’t your friends... However if you feel their reasons are not childish and are perfectly justified, then I think you need make a choice..."