√ humiliate or yell at you?. criticise you and put you down?√ treat you badly enough so you don't want your friends and family to see you?. ignore your opinions and accomplishments?√ blame you for their own behavior?√ see you as property or as a sex object, rather than as a person?√ have an unpredictable temper?√ hurt you, or threaten to hurt you?. threaten to take away the children/money/home from you?. threaten to harm themselves if you leave them?√ force you to have sex?√ destroy your belongings?√ act excessively jealous or possessive?. control where you go and/or what you do?. keep you from seeing friends or family. limit your access to your money, contact with the outside world, or transportation to get away from them?. constantly check up on you?