Harry licked his lips, and chose his words carefully, "Well, I think you’re thinking about this from slightly the wrong angle," he said kindly, and Draco peered down at him curiously, "I’m fairly certain, that people who have anal sex," saying the words made Harry feel faintly uncomfortable, but he was of the firm opinion that if you couldn’t speak about a sexual act, you weren’t ready attempt it, "do it because they enjoy it. So, if we ever did do that, I wouldn’t be "letting’ you do something to me - I’d be wanting you to. And quite frankly, if we ever did try it," the idea made Harry’s stomach twist in knots, but he tried to keep it off of his face and out of his voice, "and if I didn’t like it, I sure as shit wouldn’t be going along with it just to make you happy, if that’s what you’re worried about. Believe me - as a gay man who was married to a woman for years, I am more than prepared to turn down sex if I don’t want it. Even if I didn’t quite realise why I didn’t want it at the time," he added as an aside. Draco grinned reluctantly at him, "And furthermore -,"