"This thing, with Hermione? She's everything you shouldn't want. Everything that you know you shouldn't want. And she hasn't fallen head over heels for you like everyone else, hasn't expressed that sort of romantic interest in you and so... well. I think that you're... enticed by the chase. I think that you think that you love her. That you're mistaking what you do feel for her for love. I think you want to be in -"