He should have said, don’t go.  He should have said, stay with me, because I love you so much, and, can’t you see that? Don’t you know? Do you want to know? Pansy says you do but I’m still not convinced.  I’m sorry I got us into this mess.  Or, well, me. It’s me that’s the mess. Just me. You seem fine. You should be fine. You deserve to be fine.