"And I think they’ve made me stronger. I feel galvanised that I got through them ... and yes, there’s a vacuous part of me that sees getting Harry as a reward for surviving all that. Some people may see that as an unhealthy dependency, that I rely on someone else for my well-being. But it’s so much more than that. It’s not just Harry, as wonderful as he is, but it’s what he ignites in me, the ways he stokes the very fires of my essence.