Just as Mr. Akingbade suggested, the memory didn't come forth easily or quickly. She could feel her frustration begin to rise when she could feel him moving around in her mind, but she couldn't feel the tugging that she had come to associate with uncovering memories. He insisted that she keep talking about her parents, keep mentioning the moments that she could remember where she wasn't sure whether or not they were alive. Focusing on her confusion was supposed to help him pinpoint where in her brain the particular memories were tucked away.