Being married to a high-ranking Death Eater, even when she was one herself, came with a lot of frustrations and aggravations that Hermione hoped would one day no longer be a problem. Waiting around and being patient had never been her greatest strength. If she had a choice, she would have rather been out in the middle of the excitement than sitting back home counting the minutes until Antonin returned home to tell her what happened. Some wives were capable of enduring those uncertainties with grace and patience. She wasn't one of them.