"The way they were when? Things have never been perfect. I bet that there was never a time when you were perfectly happy, and content with how things were. There’ll always be things you regret, that you hate, that you wish you could take back, or erase, or forget. There will always be things going on imposed on you by others, or the world in general, that you don’t like, but...change is inevitable," Ginny said with surprising wisdom.