SM101 by Jay Wiseman seemed good, The Mistress Manual seemed a bit too preachy, Protocols seemed decent, but I didn't think of Narcissa as my slave. I just enjoy... doing things to her, and being in charge. Then I saw The Sexually Dominant Woman: A Workbook for Nervous Beginners by Lady Green. Yeah, that's definitely me. I pulled the book off of the shelf and liked what I saw in the table of contents.