"Scary does not have to mean bad," she sighed. "From the age of eleven to fifteen, no one but my parents called me any kind of attractive. Most barely noticed I was a girl. Ron never complimented me while we dated. The compulsion to date him, overlook his flaws, and take care of him tricked my brain into believing I loved him. I have similar thoughts and impulses now. Which makes me worry about moving too fast. But don't let my issues make you doubt us, because I don't."