"Hermione," Dad said in a quiet whisper that I doubt Mum heard. "From what I have gathered, you didn’t treat him well. You might not have been ready to.. be a mother." He shook his head, "wow, that is an odd thing to say to your daughter." We all chuckled tearfully. When we calmed down, he continued, "but no one is. Not really. Hell, you were planned and we weren’t ready."