"Let's see, the Clearwaters get a one-time lump sum, and you renew several business contracts for two decades. The bride joins the family and is under their customs. The bride's family pays for the wedding. The manner in which the children are educated is to be determined by the groom's family. At the end of the two decades, the expectation is that the children from the union would be males old enough to join those businesses and the relationship would continue."