"The words alone will be wonderful enough ... but I want to join with you completely, in every way that we can. You deserve the best wedding, and this is the best to be had. The wedding night ritual will be the declaration of us giving up to each other utterly and wholly, adding a physical union to all our emotional and magical ones. It's a permanent bond, one not to be taken lightly ... and one I've only ever wanted to enter into with you."