"One thing I’ve learned, is that comparing grief does no one any good. It’s not fair to you, or to the people you’ve lost, or whoever it is you’re trying to compare yourself to. All that matter is that...you lost someone. That’s it. Your grief is yours, and no one else’s. The flowers don’t have to fit. They don’t have to be perfect. The flowers aren’t what matter. It’s the thought behind them, and the person giving them. That’s what matters."