It was not as if she could rule directly as a Queen in her own name anyway. Nor did she want to anymore. A simple reading of the last three centuries of history had shown her that the Westerosi Lords had a deep dislike for female rulers. And it was quickly confirmed when all she received from the narrow sea houses that hadn't sworn to Aegon was lip service and a few dozen men at most. However, Daenerys was not surprised this time, despite hoping for a different result. This was another reason why she agreed to wed Aegon. As for the people... The unwashed masses were ungrateful no matter how gracious one was. What happened in Slaver's Bay was living proof. She gave them a hand in help, yet they tried to devour the whole arm instead. All people truly understood was violence.