"But you are so much more than a husband. You're an amazing father and a generous friend. You're living proof that people can grow and change. And I'm so grateful you did, because my world revolves around you and Bea. I'm better for knowing you. It never occurred to me before you came into my life that I could get up and dance in the living room, or work part-time. I've always been such an all-or-nothing person. Either I could do everything, and do it perfectly, or I wouldn't even try. I'd give up. Or even worse, sometimes I would give my all and get nothing in return."