At first clandestine, the affair was Merope’s dream come true. Tom lavished her with attention forgetting all about his pregnant wife. By the time he became a father, Tom had Merope move into the Manor with him as his mistress shocking everyone and breaking his wife’s heart. Merope, despite being the mistress had become the lady of the house. Tom spent all his nights and even most days in her bed. He went on rides and picnics with her and completely ignored his wife and newborn daughter. Merope wanted nothing but Tom so she ignored all else as well. Tom’s wife tried to manage his estate best she could but even she was at her wits end.