"Yes, it is, Ron," she said quietly.  "By refusing to accept the people who have come to mean everything to me, you refuse to accept me as well.  You want me to give them up, to go back to the way things were, but I can’t.  My life without my soulbinds in it would be... empty.  Lonely.  I’m not going back to that," she said.  She let go of Lucius and reached for Corban’s hand and he came to her side.  "I have come to love each of them desperately."