"I think the word you are looking for is fair. Or perhaps forgiving. And it happened at about the time I realized that it was high time to let some things go. There are more important things in this life than nursing trespasses against you." Harry laid a hand on her girlfriend's shoulder. "This isn't a term people having been using much lately, but they should: we just came out of a civil war, Ginny. Do you know what that means?"