When it comes to those ABC’s and 1,2,3’s, most kids are curious enough to want to figure them out. So while it’s fine to gently introduce reading and math concepts, take it slow and make learning a pleasure, not a chore (educational games are more effective than strict drilling in preparing toddlers for school). Reading is a great way to get to know the alphabet; choose books that make the connection between letters and objects — C is for cat — so your tot can both hear the sound and see the symbol. You might also post your child’s name on her door in big block letters. Incorporate numbers into your daily routines by counting cookies, socks, stairs, etc. Games such as lotto, bingo, and animal dominoes promote premath and pre-reading skills, but take care that all activities and toys are age appropriate to keep her curiosity from turning into frustration. That eager mind can also work in more-challenging ways: Don’t be surprised to be on the receiving end of your toddler’s first lie. Hey, she hasn’t yet caught on to the concept that honesty is the best policy — in her mind, lying is just trying to retain the illusion of goodness and/or escape the consequences of what’s she done (if I deny breaking the dish, maybe the whole event will just go away). Plus, a toddler’s memory is still a work in progress, so your little darling may really not remember whacking her buddy with a bucket at the playground this morning. This fibbing phase shall pass but until it does, try to make it easy for your tot to tell the truth. Replace accusations with questions (“I wonder how this dish ended up on the floor?”); reward honesty (if she admits breaking the dish, tell her how much you appreciate her candor); and be a good role model by being honest with your toddler (and everyone else).