8 Uncommon Lessons: Preparing for an ApocalypseGaye Levy Of course back in the day if you can call 2010 the day there was concern that 2012 would represent the end of days. This was based upon the notion that on 12-21-2012, the Mayan calendar ended presumably because the planet Earth would be ravaged by a smorgasbord of cataclysmic astronomical events. Thus started an entire industry best labeled Doomsday. Whether the Mayans were right, wrong, or simply misunderstood makes no matter. For a myriad of reasons, their doomsday predictions set off an unprecedented movement to get prepared. Theget prepared message has since been promoted by governments, the Red Cross, and civilian organizations that are telling us that we need a kit. Taking this to the next step, we are bombarded with what belongs inThe Kit as it is known. Websites have been started promoting this theme. Many are excellent; they are kinder gentler websites set up to help teach you about preparedness so that you will be ready for whatever disaster or world calamity comes your way. They also expose the truth, for believe it or not, governments and corporations do not always have your best interests in mind. Sadly, many other websites have been started with the express intent of instilling fear enough fear to entice you to purchase overpriced info-products and eBooks that will supposedly teach you how to survive under the worst of circumstances. These websites cast a shadow on the more legitimate websites and the better products out there products that are well-written and well-priced and not a rip-off designed solely for the purpose of taking some of your well-earned cash. Eight Uncommon Lessons of Preparedness 1. Skills and stuff are equally important. What do I mean by that? Simply that you can have a years worth of freeze dried food, six ways to purify water and a well-stocked first aid kit; but if you dont have the skills to defend yourself, the knowledge to find food in the wild, and the ability to tend to serious wounds, all of the stuff you own will be of little use to you following a post-apocalyptic event. 2. Community organization with like-minded people can and will save lives. Unless you live in isolation, the bad guys are going to come around and it may be difficult if not impossible to defend yourself on your own. Not only is there strength in numbers, but members of an organized team will most certainly have a wider variety of skills at their disposal. 3. Mental discipline and a level head under pressure will prevail when tough decisions need to be made. When roaming groups of people show up on your street, or even worse, at your doorstep, they may be tired, hungry and in need of shelter. What do you do? Who gets to stay? How do you decide? This is just one example of the tough decisions you may have to make in a collapse situation. 4. Do not underestimate the need to defend yourself in ways you can not fathom in advance. How will you defend yourself, your family, and your worldly belongings following an apocalypse? Sure, it is easy to say that you will shoot anyone that comes close but could you really do it? Moreover, have you thought of alternative methods to defend what is yours such as setting up blockades or no-enter zones? 5. There will be casualties. Be prepared mentally and physically to deal with the seriously wounded and the deceased. You may feel prepared with a well-stocked first aid kit, antibiotics, suture kit, and a full complement of trauma supplies. But do you know how to use them? How do you determine dosages especially when the drugs on hand may be in short supply? Who gets them and who does not? And equally important, if people die (and they likely will), what will you do with the bodies? Bury them (hope you have a strong back and a good shovel)? Burn them? The ramifications may be horrific but if you are one of the survivors, you will have to have the mental capacity to deal with this. 6. Grieving is important as is the need to spend personal time alone to rest and recharge. No one can do it all 24 hours a day for days on end. When and if the time comes, you will need to take time to grieve your losses and also time to rest and recharge your mental and physical batteries. 7. Perceived good guys may be bad and perceived bad guys may actually be good. No surprise here. Just be prepared to evaluate, interview and act based upon as much knowledge and gut instinct you can muster. Trust no one until that trust in earned. Start building your criteria for trustworthiness starting today. Practice your interview questions and learn how to say no if you have to. 8. Feelings and compassion count as does the love and support of friends and family. This is an important. Without these qualities, the will to go on may be compromised. A good example of how feelings and compassion play a role in survival is demonstrated in in Cormac McCarthysThe Road. In the book (there is also a movie), the love between a father and his son is paramount to their ultimate survival. The Final Word Unless you have experienced a catastrophically disruptive event first hand, you likely have no concept of life in a post-apocalyptic society. I know that I dont. That being said, we can still look back at past events and study the dynamics of human nature to learn how to respond, how to live, and how to thrive given our preemptive preparations. How will it all turn out? Who knows. Perhaps we will maintain the status quo and nothing bad will happen. Then again, we may experience economic collapse, pandemic, famine, war or massive destruction caused by an unforeseen disaster. Whatever you believe, and whatever happens, know that you still have time to learn and that you still have time to live to the fullest extent possible. Isnt that the very best we can hope for? Click Here To Vote For Me at Top Prepper Websites! Did you know you can vote daily? Related selfnews Post Articles: Enjoy your next adventure through common sense and thoughtful preparation! Gaye started Backdoor Survival to share her angst and concern about our deteriorating economy and its impact on ordinary, middle-class folks. She also wanted to become a prepper of the highest order and to share her knowledge as she learned it along the way. She considers her sharing of knowledge her way of giving back and as always, we at selfnews Post are grateful for her contributions. If you would like to read more from Gaye Levy, check out her blog at http://www.backdoorsurvival.com/. You can also visit her Facebook page or sign up for updates by email by clicking on Backdoor Survival Updates. 