New Rahway State Penitentiary inmate Andrew Traber, 19, was recognized Monday by longtime inmate Ronald Wayne Desmond, who met Traber in 1998 in the prison's 'Scared Straight' program. 'I couldn't believe it: There he was, little Andrew, all grown up,' said Desmond, 38, who is serving two consecutive life sentences for murder. 'So I yelled, 'Hey, Andrew, it's methe guy who told you when you were 14 what it's like to be brutally gang-raped in the prison laundry with a shiv held to your throat.' He kind of nodded hi, but I got the feeling he didn't remember me.' 