TEMPE, AZLillian Reselman celebrated her 91st birthday Monday by continuing to do what she's been doing for more than nine decades: outliving those closest to her. 'This amazing lady has outlived not only two sisters, a brother, and a husband, but scores of friendsand even her only son, who died in the Vietnam War,' Oak Hill nursing-home employee Tanya Stoles said. 'Lily is a real survivor.' Stoles credited Reselman's incredible longevity to her 'great endurance.' 