After nearly a decade of friendship, Jake Fitzwater said Monday that he is getting sick of standing up for his buddy Raymond Bauer's rapist behavior. 'Whenever someone would accuse Ray of crossing the line, I used to say, 'He doesn't mean anything by itthat's just Ray being Ray,'' Fitzwater said. 'I thought he'd grow out of it, but I've known him for nine and a half years now, and he's still at it. Defending him really puts me in an awkward position.' Fitzwater added that if Bauer fails to control his predilection for nonconsensual intercourse, he might skip the rapist's Fourth of July barbecue. 