Agreeing that really only one of them was suited to the task, if theyre being honest here, the adult children of local couple Ron and Lydia Barnes stated Monday that it was pretty clear which sibling would be handling all the nursing home stuff. When the day comes, Sarah is obviously the one who will explain to Mom and Dad that its time for them to pack up and move into a retirement facility, said Andy Barnes, 35, referring to his older sister, whom he identified as the one who calls the most often and has even driven them to the rheumatologist once or twice. Its a Sarah thing, for sure. She can handle those things easily enough: finding the right place, signing them up, dropping them off, stopping by regularly, making sure the bill gets paid on time. I actually think shed kind of like doing it. Sources confirmed that Ron and Lydia are hoping for Sarah as well, since the prospect of depending on one of their other children for care absolutely terrifies [them]. 