Banker Robert 'Rob Boy' Grelman expressed annoyance with his wife Janet Monday, saying she consistently involves him in her marital problems. 'Every day, it's, 'Oh God, I'm married to someone who doesn't understand me,' or, 'Bob, do you think you could pick up after yourself?'' Grelman said. 'Don't get me wrongI have marriage problems of my ownbut I don't know what she wants me to do about hers.' Grelman added that his children, following their mother's example, have lately attempted to drag him into their family problems. 