Acknowledging that she has the ability to forever change the dynamic of her marriage with only a few simple words, area wife Sarah Causley told reporters Tuesday that she already knows the single comment she will never be able to take back once spoken. There are a lot of things I could say that would be hurtful, but this ones differentif I ever said it out loud, theres no amount of apologizing that could make things right again, said Causley, who confirmed that she hopes she never has to use the remark, but stated that if she did, there would be absolutely no going back to the life that she and her spouse have shared for the past 18 months, from their day-to-day intimacy to their long-term plans and goals. The thing is, its always sitting right there in the back of my head whenever were arguing, and would be really easy to pull out if I had to. I know the exact wording too. Causleys husband later informed reporters that he already knows the one thing his wife most needs to hear that he will never be able to bring himself to say. 