It really shook me up when my wife filled for divorce 2 years ago. She gave me no warning and hired a lawyer right away.
That's terrible, you had no clue it was coming?
Non whatsoever, when I found out she had already left to her moms house, no text or anything. She had left a note on the table
what did the note say?
That she was taking the kids and leaving, that she was tired of the way things were going. And that she had hired a lawyer to begin filling for divorce.