One time I went out to eat with my friend. And there was a customer who was just very rude and vulgar. My friend and i gave each other "the look" and realized we were having the same thoughts. I was surprised. 
(Thank you for your words! I have a mom to talk too, so it helps but loads of trauma, abuse and death are hard to even talk about. Thank you! I hope you feel better too!) I have had to talk to customers who were nasty to clerks before! It's shocking.
(im glad to hear you have someone. But having someone who cant be biased always helps too) It really is. Some people can get so nasty and vicious over the smallest things! Im so glad i got out of the food industry. 
I know right? Oh lord- the food industry is the worst, especially for waitresses.
Yes! Specially when its something wrong with the food. Like they didn't make the food? the cook did. They get the heat for EVERYTHING. 