My brother just got a new job, and he and his family are moving into a bigger house in a nicer city. Kind of wish I had his success right now, but I'm struggling to remain proud of him too. I don't want to make it all about me.
Have you asked him how he feels about that entire situation?
He's excited, of course. But I'm sure he's nervous, too. I watched him during the job search process--it took a while. So I know he's relieved, which I'm happy about, too.
Life is a scary place, anything could happen at any time.