I'm not very close with my family.
I understand that, I am not either with some of my family! We are not always born in too families that are like us,
I wish I was but its never good when we get together. 
I am sorry, are they very mean or abusive?
Mean and dishonest. Its very toxic.
Well then it's no loss! Find family in others. That is no family!
You're so right