I was only married for 4 weeks when I learned my husband was having an affair and ongoing after the wedding. I got him back by sleeping with a close family friend. I felt guilty and ashamed because it was out of character.
Yeah that sounds really sad. I am sorry for what you went through. 
Well I choose to stay and work it out, but I never told him. It has been 3 years.
Yeah maybe that was a good decision that you made. 
Well I thought I would be feel better but because I am not the cheating kind, I still feel guilty.