My mom is starting to develop dementia early. I feel like I'm losing such an important figure in my life much earlier than I should, even though she's still alive. Like, she struggles so much with daily activities and remembering who I am
I am so sorry. I just recently lost my mother after years of her having alzheimer's. I wish there was some way I could help you, it is such a tough road.
Yeah, I'm not looking forward to going down it. I'll just try to carve out as much meaningful time with her as I can. I feel selfish sometimes though because there are times when I don't want to be around her because it depresses me how she's changed. I need to get over it.
You are completely fine needing some time. There is nothing fair about something that takes your best friend and turns them into a stranger. Be there with her, but you have to take time to recharge yourself. No one can be strong all the time.