How can i not be  made at her when my wife wasted all my retirement money
She spend all  youre retirement money? That's pretty messed up.  Why did she do that?
Yes, I just checked my account and realized I am broke :(
Are you going to divorce her?
No I will make her pay for what she did to me 
Are you going to the police?
I will make her work to pay my children's tuition in Yale when they graduate I will divorce her
Sounds like a plan.