Just got ditched by my friend for the third time this week, when trying to make plans. Wish people weren't so flaky these days. Why does it feel like I'm putting in more effort to hang out with people than vice versa?
Its definitely not fair. It seems almost as if people do not TRY to create a friendship or are playing both ends of the candle to see which bargain (plans) per friends are better, and then make a choice
Not sure how to approach it. On the one hand we used to be good friends, and hung out all the time in college. Now after we graduated, they've grown distant. I don't want to be annoying, but I want to be available too, you know? Cause friendships are hard to maintain/create as you get older
Yes, true friends understand and will work around your schedule and won't put you off, or make you feel like you have done something wrong.  