Would you be freaked out by a girl with a semen fetish?

Would you be grossed out or think it's hot? What should girls with the fetish do about it?

So this is my little story....I have been seeing someone for over 7 months. We've only gone as far as having oral. I've never had intercourse and won't until I'm ready. I've told him before that I like swallowing semen and getting it on me. About a month ago, I gave him a blow job then fingered myself while his semen was on my finger. I did it in the heat of the moment and it was a turn on. Last week, we were in his hot tub and talking about pregnancy, infertility and abortions (you know, the same stuff everyone talks about when they're in a hot tub lol). I decided to confess what I had done since it seemed related. His face squished up and I asked if he was mad. He said "well, you need to be careful about getting pregnant". After I reminded him I'm on birth control (to treat pcos. So there is like zero chance of getting pregnant), he didn't seem to care. We didn't talk about it for the rest of the night and things seemed normal, but I was still worried about what happened. We have barely talked since that night. He said he's in Canada seeing his mom who may have breast cancer, but I don't know if he's avoiding me just because he's busy with his mother or if he's freaked out by me.

In the future, I would probably not do that without permission from your guy.

If I had done that before my husband and I had gotten married (fetish or no fetish)and told him about it later on, he would not have continued to date me. He would have considered that an extreme violation of trust regardless of whether or not I was on the pill.

I'm with sloppy donkey on this one. He might be worried. Unfortunately, I have heard girls talk about all sorts of deceitful things they have done to "trap" men and I am not saying that was your intention, but I know men do talk about it because it scares the hell out of them.

When you talk to him again, I hope all is fine in the world. Good luck.

Oh, crap. I hate myself so much!!! The thing is, if he had a problem with it, I wish he would have spoken up about it because he didn't act weird at all and even talked about having me over again to eat dinner. He has had one girl try to get herself pregnant by him and I knew about this before I did anything. He never spoke to her after that. I made a huge mistake. I'm not going to bother him again. I did ask a few days ago about his mom and he replied so that's enough for now. If I speak to him again, I might bring this up if I feel like it's necessary. For now, I'm just going so sit here miserable. I'm so upset!

I agree with Redboxbaby and sloppy donkey on this one. Getting pregnant is a huge life changing thing, I know you said you are on the pill but there are women who get pregnant everyday while on the pill. Before my hubby & I were married we used BC and condoms so that he and I had some level of control. I think this is something that you guys should discuss before it happens again. I know that things happen in the heat of the moment but I think you can see why he might be a little apprehensive. I think you are doing the right thing by giving him some space and I think this should def be discussed when you talk to him again. After all, one of the most important things in a relationship is good communication.

I don't want to make you feel bad, but you really should not have done that. Even if you are on the pill, you very easily could have gotten pregnant. You should definitely clear it with your guy before trying that. My bf would be really upset if I had done that. The risk is just too high, and you don't know how he's going to react if you get pregnant.

He's probably not avoiding you, but you need to understand that he's probably more freaked out about the possible pregnancy rather than your fetish. Most guys get off on how much a girl loves semen. Just give it time and relax. I'm sure everything will work out.

Thanks everyone for the answers! I'm definitely NOT pregnant. Everything came on time and was normal. I didn't think that was why he would be avoiding me. I guess my biggest fear with all this was that he was freaked out by the fetish. I am relieved to read that guys don't usually mind that because I really didn't know. So thank you Batty Harlot for telling me

Welcome! I have never actually tried to swallow because my friend told me she felt sick afterwards, but was unsure if they were related. Personally, I think it's really sexy. I'm just a sissy. lol Has it ever made you a little sick?

Welcome! I have never actually tried to swallow because my friend told me she felt sick afterwards, but was unsure if they were related. Personally, I think it's really sexy. I'm just a sissy. lol Has it ever made you a little sick?

I've only performed oral on the guy that I've been talking about on here so I'm limited to only the experiences I've had with him. I've swallowed a few times. I have been grossed out twice because of the taste so I just spit it out. Wasn't a big deal. I didn't tell him it tasted bad and he didn't care that I spit it out. It's never made me sick in that I've never thrown up afterwards or got ill. To be honest, it doesn't really have a taste most of the time. I think it depends on what he's eaten.

I'd say give it a try with just a little bit. Maybe just lick the tip afterwards and swallow what you got from that. If it's gross, keep in mind that the taste can vary so don't swear it off!

I've only performed oral on the guy that I've been talking about on here so I'm limited to only the experiences I've had with him. I've swallowed a few times. I have been grossed out twice because of the taste so I just spit it
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I've only performed oral on the guy that I've been talking about on here so I'm limited to only the experiences I've had with him. I've swallowed a few times. I have been grossed out twice because of the taste so I just spit it out. Wasn't a big deal. I didn't tell him it tasted bad and he didn't care that I spit it out. It's never made me sick in that I've never thrown up afterwards or got ill. To be honest, it doesn't really have a taste most of the time. I think it depends on what he's eaten.

I'd say give it a try with just a little bit. Maybe just lick the tip afterwards and swallow what you got from that. If it's gross, keep in mind that the taste can vary so don't swear it off!

Thanks for the advice. I read in Cosmo or somewhere that what a guy eats affects how his semen tastes, and it's the same thing with women. I've spit a bunch of times because I didn't like the way it tasted. Maybe next time I'll just do it and not think about it, see how I feel about it then.

I don't want to make you feel bad, but you really should not have done that. Even if you are on the pill, you very easily could have gotten pregnant. You should definitely clear it with your guy before trying that. My bf would be really upset if
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I don't want to make you feel bad, but you really should not have done that. Even if you are on the pill, you very easily could have gotten pregnant. You should definitely clear it with your guy before trying that. My bf would be really upset if I had done that. The risk is just too high, and you don't know how he's going to react if you get pregnant.

He's probably not avoiding you, but you need to understand that he's probably more freaked out about the possible pregnancy rather than your fetish. Most guys get off on how much a girl loves semen. Just give it time and relax. I'm sure everything will work out.

I agree. His silence probably has a lot more to do with his mom and her cancer than anything else, especially since everything seemed fine when you talked to him about it.

I also agree that most men get off on knowing their girl loves to see and handle their load.

Don't panic unless he gives you good reason too, otherwise it makes you look or seem to be high maintenance and that is NOT something he needs right now with his mom sick. He needs you to be the bright spot at the end of his day and to be cheery when he can get away to talk to you.

UPDATE! UPDATE! He texted me. We went 8 days without talking (longest we've ever gone without talking) and he's headed back home. Things seem normal! Thanks everyone for the support and advice. I don't feel like a freak anymore for having a fetish and I have definitely learned to be more respectful and careful. So no more sneaky fingers. lol!

Would you be grossed out or think it's hot? What should girls with the fetish do about it?

So this is my little story....I have been seeing someone for over 7 months. We've only gone as far as having oral. I've never had
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Would you be grossed out or think it's hot? What should girls with the fetish do about it?

So this is my little story....I have been seeing someone for over 7 months. We've only gone as far as having oral. I've never had intercourse and won't until I'm ready. I've told him before that I like swallowing semen and getting it on me. About a month ago, I gave him a blow job then fingered myself while his semen was on my finger. I did it in the heat of the moment and it was a turn on. Last week, we were in his hot tub and talking about pregnancy, infertility and abortions (you know, the same stuff everyone talks about when they're in a hot tub lol). I decided to confess what I had done since it seemed related. His face squished up and I asked if he was mad. He said "well, you need to be careful about getting pregnant". After I reminded him I'm on birth control (to treat pcos. So there is like zero chance of getting pregnant), he didn't seem to care. We didn't talk about it for the rest of the night and things seemed normal, but I was still worried about what happened. We have barely talked since that night. He said he's in Canada seeing his mom who may have breast cancer, but I don't know if he's avoiding me just because he's busy with his mother or if he's freaked out by me.

Am I paranoid or should I not have put his semen in me?

As a man I can tell you that is a turn on. However, just reading it I had the same "oops" thought your guy had, don't get the semen too close. After you told him about being on the pill things should have been cool.