How to handle the big age gap in a relationship

Age gaps in relationships seem to be a perennial taboo. Yet many among us continue to defy any social convention that tends to look down upon huge age differences between partners. Celebs in Bollywood and Hollywood too have time and again proved that age is just a number when it comes to relationships or marriage. Take Milind Soman and Ankita Konwar, Shahid and Mira Kapoor and Priyanka Chopra and Nick Jonas. These celeb couples have certainly set us veritable relationship goals that make the big age difference issue completely inconsequential. So here's how you can make this a matter of no real concern:

Don't deny the differenceBut, at the same time, don't be too hung-up about the issue as well. Don't try to bring up the age difference issue in every conversation you have with each other.

Varying perspectivesIf the age gap is quite significant, there can be generational differences. Experts say that a mental age gap can also lead to complications later. Without dwelling on the negative aspects, focus on how divergent view points can enrich and enhance your relationship.

Let there be spaceKeep some time for your individual same age-cohort activities. One need not adhere to mingling with friends and peers who are of same age as his or her partner. All in all, respect each other's space and individuality. There should be no forceful imposition of views on each other.

About childrenFrankly discuss any issue regarding raising children together. If your partner is significantly older than you, he might have children from previous relationships. Or your partner might have reservations against having children. Whatever the case may be, experts say such issues need to be discussed before the relationship goes to the next level.

Ignore social biasesCeleb couples with large age gaps often get trolled, thanks to deep-seated social prejudices. For instance, if the woman is significantly older, people might scoff at the relationship as being a 'cougar thing'. But you and your partner should regard these as extraneous factors that can have no impact whatsoever on your relationship.