My married sister has a massive feeling for one of her married relations. The guy does not bother about her neither does he speak to her. He maintains a enchanting silence around her coupled with a authority of impressing people around him. My little sister tries hard to forget him but confides that she finds it difficult. She goes into depression and bouts of headache whenever she forces herself to forget him. I want to help her out of this. My brother-in-law (my sister's husband) is a good gentleman. How can she help herself out of this?
I've been through this myself several times. The only thing she can do is occupy her time with a hobby or when he comes around walk away .It will be very hard to do but if she has you to help her every step of the way she can achieve her goal.If you have anymore and need my eyes & ears contact me at codyblacksunshine@yahoo.com ok.
hello dear, try to divert your mind and develop some useful hobbies.  Music is great.  Listening to music whether it is Indian or Western is divine.  Learn Yoga and practice it everyday.  Spend your time, studying, playing, dancing and talk with your friends, go for some nice programmes etc. etc.  You have plenty of time, why not spend it wonderfully.  Nothing is wrong, but such activities will highly diminish your health.  Rather, your valuable time, if spent usefully will give you lot of satisfaction and permanently healthy mind and body.  Don't be sick, feel always healthy, keeping your mind and body clean always.