Acc. to CA bar I do not have to attend law school and can directly give my bar.Where can I find the study material for the bar, what and how should I study for the bar here, without any knowledege of the law  studies here, how should I go about it?
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The court -- specifically, the judge -- should stop her from dragging her feet.  Apparently you were notified of the opening of probate.  So you have a case number and the address of the court.  You don't need a lawyer to write a letter to the judge, expressing basically what your concerns are, and send a cc (courtesy copy; used to mean "carbon copy" in the ancient of days) to the executor and/or her lawyer, if she has one.  If she does have one, that name will be in the upper left corner of the notice you received.\n\nGood luck!