I don't know what to do in this situation.  She always comes to my house but she is starting to say that I should come to hers- and yes, I've told her I'm allergic to her cats.  How do I know?  When I go in her house, my eyes get watery and running and I start sneezing, but when I leave, I'm okay.  It happens every time I'm over there, and I'm to the point of crying (my eyes are watering so much) and I just feel miserable whenever I'm over there.  I want to be a good friend but I don't know how to when going to her house makes me so miserable.\n\nSuggestions?
Talk to her and agree to meet on middle grounds if she thinks it's not fair that she always has to be the one coming to your place. If she's a good friend, she should understand your situation and try to help you with it.
think about the things that you do agree with and go from there. the preacher doesn't need your aquiesences and neither do you need his. if your having a good time at this church and are doubtful that you'll find one that hold your attention as well, then you should definitely stay. if not, by all means, go. you don't need a preacher to tell YOU how YOU feel about YOUR faith. myabe you could find other like-minded people and have your very own group study. you don't have to stop going to that church if you should choose to do that either. you could just supplement your normal church going with my group study suggestion. bottom line, believe whatever you choose to because no man has power over your free will.