that's the biggest that's the bottom line is it's your choice it's not told to you or pushed on you it's whatever choice you want to make you can make it yourself
The choice is totally up to you.
On a more sentimental note, Italy's Lake District at the foot of the Lombardy Alps its major lakes are Como, Garda and Maggiore is the perfect setting for mending broken hearts, breaking mended hearts, and all romantic conditions in between.