that's yeah that's incredible i mean we just we're like well we're not going out for a while you know my folks live close you know fairly close here so it's like well we if we're going out to dinner we can drop the kid off at my folks and
my parents sometimes watch our child when we go out to dinner
well i i i don't think the problem so much is abuse i think the problem is is just the government is trying to do too much um i mean who where does it say that the government's supposed to be the one to take care of all of the people that are homeless or hungry or et cetera et cetera and and where does it say that that if someone is short that they can go to the government and and get a handout