[header] How to object to a bridesmaid or mother dress for a wedding [title] Gently explain why you object to the dress. [step] If one of your bridesmaids has selected a dress that you don't like, you should clearly but respectfully voice your opinion. For instance, maybe one of your bridesmaids chose a dress that you feel is too tight for their body type.
[header] How to object to a bridesmaid or mother dress for a wedding [title] Gently explain why you object to the dress. [step] If one of your bridesmaids has selected a dress that you don't like, you should clearly but respectfully voice your opinion. For instance, maybe one of your bridesmaids chose a dress that you feel is too tight for their body type.
Understand that this is a conversation, not a disagreement, and will be over a very long time. Allow your friend some time to think through why she or he is hesitant to wear this dress. This will also be helpful if one of your bridesmaids loves it. [substeps] For example, you could say, " i'm not a fan of what mom dresses and does around either of my bridesmaids. Rather than saying " the dress looks too tight on you, " try saying " i was hoping for a more loose and flowing look. " this way you are not attacking the dress, but providing an alternative style. Explain to your mother why this is a negative idea. [substeps] Say something like, " he chooses a cocktail dress instead of a formal dress that is too strapless.