[header] How to convince your mom to give your girlfriend a chance [title] Ask your mom directly what her reservations are. [step] Your mom won't see your girlfriend the way you do at the beginning, but that's normal. Give your mom room to voice her issues about your girlfriend and feel heard.
[header] How to convince your mom to give your girlfriend a chance [title] Ask your mom directly what her reservations are. [step] Your mom won't see your girlfriend the way you do at the beginning, but that's normal. Give your mom room to voice her issues about your girlfriend and feel heard.
[substeps] Say something like, " i want to convince my mom to give my girlfriend a chance. " [title] Bring up your girlfriend's insecurities beforehand. [title] Treat this stage as an opportunity to prepare a new relationship for all involved. [step] This is where you are able to address your mother's reservations with a compliment. Once you know what your mom doesn't like, you can address the issues directly. [substeps] You could start the conversation by saying, " mom, i can tell you have some doubts about my girlfriend. Avoid accusatory, nagging, and judgmental comments. [substeps] Remember that a lot of verbal language is generated by the mother's point of view.