[header] How to maintain a relationship [title] Do not try to change your partner. [step] Accept that you can only change yourself, not your partner. This is perhaps the hardest but most important tenet of a solid relationship.
[header] How to maintain a relationship [title] Do not try to change your partner. [step] Accept that you can only change yourself, not your partner. This is perhaps the hardest but most important tenet of a solid relationship.
You need your partner to understand that not everyone is perfect. In fact, everyone has flaws, and having a healthy, lasting relationship with someone you love shouldn't go hand in hand with all others. You should never enter a relationship with the plan to " fix " your partner. You need to accept the fact that your partner may never change, and be okay with that. Obviously it is impossible, but it is the first step towards becoming a better partner. Don't argue or try to manipulate your partner. Forcing a partner to change or get rid of you is bad judgement. Try to remember that you are the one doing the work.