[header] How to bond with small children [title] Be honest. [step] T's okay to admit when you don't know the answer or even that something had you a little scared. Children, especially older ones, can sense insincerity.
[header] How to bond with small children [title] Be honest. [step] T's okay to admit when you don't know the answer or even that something had you a little scared. Children, especially older ones, can sense insincerity.
Being honest with children lets them know that you are authentic and that they can trust you, which is one of the biggest part of forming a bond. It also sets an example for how you would like them to be with you. You may decide to be honest with them to establish your bond but be careful not to turn them off if you make a mistake. Give them the benefit of the doubt and try to be patient with them. If a child asks you what your errand is, telling them what makes you so nervous, and what upsets you, sounds like you've got something bad going on, s s/he may get offended. Saying you don't know the answer will be difficult, but it's better to keep the truth close to the surface. Telling them this is important will show that you care and matter to them. Show that you mean what you say and how you say it.