[header] How to get over a guy [title] Don't hang out with him. [step] An unclear breakup can be messy and confusing. Make it clear that you do not want to see him anymore.
[header] How to get over a guy [title] Don't hang out with him. [step] An unclear breakup can be messy and confusing. Make it clear that you do not want to see him anymore.
It might be fun to hang out or catch a show, but if he doesn't want to hang out, you'll know. Have them over and date him or work on getting him back. Don't hang out with his friends when you are too busy doing other things to think about him. Don't hang out at his house. Tell him that it's over, but don't initiate contact. [substeps] If you need some time to process things, you can suggest a " you could meet up on saturday. [substeps] If you're the one who ended the relationship, be sure to clear up any confusion about the status of things immediately. Don't use vague phrases like " things don't seem to be working out " or " i'm not sure this is what i want right now.