[header] How to be assertive in a relationship [title] Start small. [step] If you are worried about changing too much all at once in your relationship, start small. Be more assertive about a little bit at a time instead of changing everything overnight.
[header] How to be assertive in a relationship [title] Start small. [step] If you are worried about changing too much all at once in your relationship, start small. Be more assertive about a little bit at a time instead of changing everything overnight.
Start by asking yourself if your anxiety is really at work. Before attempting to become a more assertive person, begin by asking yourself if you truly think there is room for change in your life. Doing it that way can be jarring and cause confusion or problems with your partner. [substeps] For example, be more vocal about what you want for dinner when you go out. It may help to have some people in the relationship with you. Then, gradually shift your approach into leading the rest of the way. You will find that you can overcome a large number of issues much faster than you will perform them overnight. [substeps] Start by asking questions about the latest trends in a relationship and do not be afraid to stay up to date on trends.