[header] How to be a strong independent woman [title] Put yourself first. [step] When you notice yourself needing something whether it is intimacy, affection, or attention, give yourself what you need. If you need attention, take a day to pamper yourself in some way.
[header] How to be a strong independent woman [title] Put yourself first. [step] When you notice yourself needing something whether it is intimacy, affection, or attention, give yourself what you need. If you need attention, take a day to pamper yourself in some way.
It's okay to be pressured to take everything one step at a time. Go figure out what you want but make an effort to make sure you don't stop yourself by trying to follow. Wear high heels or compression pants for a day if that's what you feel most comfortable with. Give yourself clothing that can show off your body. Doing this might mean that you start spending the day decorating your house and putting up decorations before your parents get home, or it might mean that you finish a project right away, if you are over 10 years old. Spend time cleaning your house, reading, cooking, and doing other things you enjoy. If you need intimacy, spend time writing in a journal or exploring nature. If you need affection, give yourself affection by thinking about what you love about yourself or taking yourself out for dinner and a movie.