[header] How to become positive through forgiveness [title] Define forgiveness for yourself. [step] Forgiveness is a choice you must make consciously. If someone has wronged or hurt you, the bad feelings may fade with time.
[header] How to become positive through forgiveness [title] Define forgiveness for yourself. [step] Forgiveness is a choice you must make consciously. If someone has wronged or hurt you, the bad feelings may fade with time.
However, if you do not actively engage with feelings of resentment, they may remain present long term. To begin reaching a place of forgiveness, decide to forgive. It is not always healthy for your health to forgive others, but it can be a beneficial endeavor in the long run. It is important to recognize that practicing forgiveness is difficult, and that you will learn to. It's important to decide if forgiveness is for the good of you. [substeps] For example, you might decide to forgive someone who was unkind to you in the past. You can understand that without forgiveness you would still be considered a negative person, and that could be all the more painful. [substeps] The choice to forgive other people can be just as painful or as rewarding as having forgiven another.