[header] How to determine if you should stay neutral in a fight between loved ones [title] Determine if your loved ones are being reasonable. [step] Certain fights actually have valid points. Some, however, seem completely irrational.
[header] How to determine if you should stay neutral in a fight between loved ones [title] Determine if your loved ones are being reasonable. [step] Certain fights actually have valid points. Some, however, seem completely irrational.
[substeps] Come to the conclusion that anger and sadness are valid in every situation, even when neither party necessarily means it. Sometimes anger can be a sign of helplessness. Children usually know that it is reasonable to try not to fight. Children sometimes understand that they don't deserve to be beaten or slapped when in a fight, and can end up being so frustrated or upset that they excuse themselves to use the bathroom without any rights. If, for example, they try to cut you off or remove you from their lives, then they might be fighting. [substeps] Usually, your loved ones are not willing to tell you how to behave if you are feeling frustrated or left out. Look at both sides from an unbiased perspective and ask yourself if it's a fight that should actually be fought, or one that is ridiculous. Chances are if the argument doesn't make sense, you'll want to stay out of it.