[header] How to turn a friend into a lover [title] Understand the risks. [step] Before you sit down to have a conversation with your friend about your relationship and where it's going, understand the risks involved in asking to change your friendship into a romantic relationship. Your friend could feel the same, but they might not.
[header] How to turn a friend into a lover [title] Understand the risks. [step] Before you sit down to have a conversation with your friend about your relationship and where it's going, understand the risks involved in asking to change your friendship into a romantic relationship. Your friend could feel the same, but they might not.
Your decision to break up may be the final decision that they will take. The reason you need to decide whether or not to ask your friend out is a personal decision, and that choice is yours alone. Unfortunately, friendship is built on hearts and feelings, as well as the others'. Your friend might become jealous, and this could lead to unwarranted platonic affection. You need to prepare for your friend not to feel the way you do. [substeps] When assessing the risks you should also decide how you will react to your friend's potential response. It's perfectly normal for a friend to find out about some of the pros and cons of getting into a relationship, and ultimately, it's a decision. [substeps] Think about what you want out of the friendship.