[header] How to accept a colleague's criticism [title] Lower your defenses. [step] Defensiveness will only cloud your judgment, making it more difficult for you to identify the defining characteristics of your colleague's criticism. Remember that their criticism isn't a personal attack.
[header] How to accept a colleague's criticism [title] Lower your defenses. [step] Defensiveness will only cloud your judgment, making it more difficult for you to identify the defining characteristics of your colleague's criticism. Remember that their criticism isn't a personal attack.
You are merely acknowledging their errors and feeling your self-worth. [substeps] Never feel the need to justify an employee's criticism to your boss or to yourself, or to the rest of the world. Responding with anger can stress you out and throw you off balance. [substeps] For example, if your superior criticizer says you are a worthless piece of work, try to deny their insult and respond with something positive. See their comments merely as their own observations and assume that they're coming from a good place. [substeps] You might feel defensive at first, but remind yourself it's not personal. If they're attacking you, they are likely doing so in an attempt to save themselves in the spotlight. Determine the underlying reasons why you are angry and get at it.