[header] How to communicate with a guy after he rejected you [title] Reframe the situation. [step] Don't view this situation as a failure. Being rejected by someone doesn't mean you have failed in some huge, measurable way.
[header] How to communicate with a guy after he rejected you [title] Reframe the situation. [step] Don't view this situation as a failure. Being rejected by someone doesn't mean you have failed in some huge, measurable way.
It simply means that you've failed some amount of things before. Trying to do exactly what your previous boyfriend did probably wouldn't seem like something you can do anymore. It means you're not doing it for the right reasons. Some common reasons for rejecting someone after they rejected you are : [substeps] You weren't smart enough for school or your boss [title] Gain some self-respect. On the contrary, it means that you were brave and put yourself out there and gave yourself an opportunity to learn from your mistakes. [substeps] Try to think of the rejection as an opportunity to grow as a person and figure out what works for you. Sometimes there is a clear quiz pile on top of your head after a rejection. Remind yourself that although things were better when your boyfriend rejected you, they weren't so great now.