[header] How to convince someone not to return to an abusive ex [title] Share your concerns gently. [step] You may be tempted to speak out defiantly against your friend returning to the abusive partner. But, intense emotional displays won't help the situation.
[header] How to convince someone not to return to an abusive ex [title] Share your concerns gently. [step] You may be tempted to speak out defiantly against your friend returning to the abusive partner. But, intense emotional displays won't help the situation.
Approach your friend calmly and let them know your concerns. [substeps] You might say, " lori, i know zach is begging you to come back. If you state your point in a gentle manner, your friend won't feel the need to vent or ask questions. [substeps] Use your words, not you words, to let your friend know you're willing to cooperate with their request. Allow your friend to hear you out rather than beating around the bush. [substeps] Use your concerns as a learning experience. Draw out your concern in writing and display it for at least two weeks, and try to keep it distinct during that time. [substeps] Let others know what you're concerned about by sharing photos and videos with this goal in mind.