[header] How to explain to your partner that you are questioning your gender [title] Decide what you need to tell your partner about your identity. [step] This topic will likely be confusing for both you and your partner. You should know ahead of time what you want to share with your partner.
[header] How to explain to your partner that you are questioning your gender [title] Decide what you need to tell your partner about your identity. [step] This topic will likely be confusing for both you and your partner. You should know ahead of time what you want to share with your partner.
You want to avoid saying things that come off as accusatory or judgmental. [substeps] For example, you may consider your partner, " so you think i'm different from her? " or " i feel like someone is trying to make me uncomfortable ". If you are nervous that you will forget or get off topic, write down the things you want to talk to your partner about. [substeps] Just telling your partner " i'm questioning my gender, " is a good start, but it leaves a lot of unanswered questions. Being prepared for everything can help keep your partner from accidentally suspicion. [substeps] If you are uncomfortable with answering questions, then perhaps you don't want to tell your partner. Perhaps you don't want to tell your partner that you are drawn to sexy cats. Perhaps you want to disclose your gender or personality on the first date.