[header] How to give gifts unconditionally [title] Find a gift that means something about the other person to you. [step] Be proud of what you choose. Don't just buy something because it is in the bargain bin or because it was the most expensive item in the store.
[header] How to give gifts unconditionally [title] Find a gift that means something about the other person to you. [step] Be proud of what you choose. Don't just buy something because it is in the bargain bin or because it was the most expensive item in the store.
Put effort, care and consideration into the purchase or creation of the gift. Making the gift yourself is definitely an option too, and is even more a " piece of you ", so feel free to do so. Choose something that expresses your true feelings about another person that you truly think the other person will be likely to respond well to. [substeps] Don't feel afraid to apologize and express your deep feelings if needed. [substeps] Alternatively, reflect on your own values. Think about what the person gave you and choose a gift that fits those values. If people spend money on expensive things, they will eventually feel disgusted or disappointed. Don't : [substeps] Throw away an item you want.