[header] How to give people advice [title] Take time to think. [step] Once you've decided to offer advice, take some time to think about what you want to say. It can be just a minute, or, if the situation is serious, a few days.
[header] How to give people advice [title] Take time to think. [step] Once you've decided to offer advice, take some time to think about what you want to say. It can be just a minute, or, if the situation is serious, a few days.
Everyone needs time to think and become comfortable with giving advice. [substeps] Think about your own needs before deciding to offer advice. If you think you know your main point you need to let your friend know in advance. This will make the conversation easier on both of you. [substeps] For example, if your neighbor wants to know if you can recommend a good gardener, you can probably feel comfortable answering right away. Alternatively, if someone asks for advice on choosing a college, say, " great question. Let the people you're talking to know that you're serious and interested in what they've to say. [substeps] Say something like, " i know you really care about creating drama out of this crush or being involved with your boyfriend, but you can take turns spending time with him too.