[header] How to deal with mommy shaming [title] Respond with kindness. [step] Especially if it's a family member who is shaming you, respond back with kindness. If it's a parent or parent-in-law, thank the person for how he or she raised children and comment on the person's wonderful job in parenting.
[header] How to deal with mommy shaming [title] Respond with kindness. [step] Especially if it's a family member who is shaming you, respond back with kindness. If it's a parent or parent-in-law, thank the person for how he or she raised children and comment on the person's wonderful job in parenting.
[substeps] For example, you could say, " mommy, you helped me with my homework today. Thanks for caring so much about keeping my kids from struggling. Otherwise, just say, " i'm glad it was done " and be kind without becoming overly emotional. [title] Chat with the baby's new guardian. [substeps] If the older adult is yelling, cursing, or being mean, respond in kind. Instead of lashing out, try speaking calmly and directing your response towards the person. Be sure to make your needs clear as well. If it's a family member, remind yourself that this person wants to feel needed and be involved in your child's life.