1. A method for guiding next step adaptive behavior of an individual comprising the steps of: utilizing a processor programmed to: generate clarified emotional responses to an event experienced by the individual; separate said clarified emotional responses into conscious and subconscious clarified emotional responses; rank said clarified emotional responses; determine at least one least biased and most subconscious emotional response from said ranked clarified emotional responses by: sorting intensities of said clarified emotional responses, determining the number of said at least one least biased and most subconscious responses that are relevant for determining a heart of the matter, calculating a quality value for each of said intensities, selecting the intensity with the best quality value as a least biased and most subconscious emotional response; displaying on a computer output device guidance to the individual based on said at least one least biased and most subconscious emotional response.