1. A communication assistance system, said system comprising: a database having a plurality of listings therein, each of said listings including a least one contact name and a contact information; a means for receiving incoming communications from a plurality of requesters seeking a listing among said plurality of listings; a table for storing past requested listings of said requesters, wherein said system reviews said table for storing past requested listings and, based on contents contained in said past requested listing table developing a list of requesters to target a promotion to, whereupon when a requester among said plurality of requesters who is among said list of requesters contacts said system, they are provided with said promotion.