1. A method for enabling remote operation of a pleasuring device through a communications network, comprising: receiving one or more text strings at a first communication device from a second communication device through the communications network; recognizing one or more words or phrases from the received one or more text strings; determining if the recognized one or more words or phrases are found stored in a lexicon that includes a plurality of user-selected words and phrases that have a corresponding action associated with each of the plurality of user-selected words and phrases, the corresponding action being performed by the pleasuring device; matching the recognized one or more words or phrases with the corresponding action stored in the lexicon; and signaling the pleasuring device to perform the corresponding action.