1. A method, comprising: receiving an electronic mail message in a computer; using the computer for displaying information about the electronic mail message; using the computer for displaying all of first, second and third controls, where said first control causes the computer to delete the message without indicating whether the message does represent a spam message or does not represent a spam message, the second control causes the computer to delete the message while indicating that it does represent a spam message, and the third control causes the computer to delete the message while indicating that the message does not represent a spam message; and using the computer for storing a database of scam likelihood, and wherein said deleting using said second and third controls causes changes to information in the database of spam likelihood, and said deleting using said first control does not cause changes to information in said database of spam likelihood.