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Named after the enchanting Roman goddess, Venus is the vibrant planet that represents beauty, love, and abundance. Indulgent Venus is happiest when luxuriating: Fine wines, extended baths, and aromatic moisturizers align with the Venusian spirit. This planet's highbrow tastes reflect our interest in art and culture, while its romantic sensibilities reveal our idealized perception of love. Both earth sign Taurus and <anchor>air sign Libra</anchor> are ruled by Venus, each representing a different side of Venus's expression: sensual Taurus is physical, while flirtatious Libra is cerebral. It takes approximately four to five weeks to transit a zodiac sign and goes retrograde every 18 months. During Venus retrograde, try to avoid making major changes to your appearance, such as getting a tattoo or plastic surgery.
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All About Libra

# The Personality of a Libra, Explained

What you should know about this zodiac sign.

September 1, 2024

An illustrated rendition of Libra showing a figure with scales with flowers on them.

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Libra (September 23 - October 22) is an air sign represented by the scales (interestingly, the only inanimate object of the zodiac), an association that reflects Libra's fixation on balance and harmony. Libra is obsessed with symmetry and strives to create equilibrium in all areas of life. These air signs are the aesthetes of the zodiac: Ruled by Venus, the planet that governs love, beauty, and money, Libras adore high art, intellectualism, and connoisseurship. Suave Libras need to surround themselves with stunning objects and create environments that reflect their exquisite tastes. Accordingly, these air signs make excellent designers, decorators, art critics, and stylists.

While Libra's opposite sign, Aries, represents "me," Libra symbolizes "we." Relationships are paramount for Libras, who find balance in companionship. They love harmonious partnerships with fashionable mates, especially those who make attractive arm candy. (Libra governs the skin, and these air signs are highly motivated by physical appearance. There's no better way for a Libra to relax than with a luxurious face mask.)

Libras, when they are regularly coupled, must be careful about seeking attention outside the agreed-upon boundaries of their relationship. Since they try to keep everyone happy and engaged, they may find themselves tempted to push the limits of their agreements with their partners. People-pleasing Libras must remember that the happiness of their loved ones and the health of their relationships is more important than maintaining the attention of distant admirers.

Libra is a cardinal sign, which means Libras are accordingly great at launching new initiatives. However, because Libras consider multiple perspectives in all pursuits, these air signs struggle with indecision. Instead of constantly seeking outside perspectives, Libras would do well to develop (and trust) their own intuition. Their characteristic ambivalence aside, Libras can navigate virtually any social situation, effortlessly resolving conflicts by simply turning on the charm. Keep reading to find out more about Libra's personality traits, weaknesses, and who they're most (and least) compatible with.

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## What are Libras known for?

Symbolized by the scales of balance, Libras are renowned for their captivating charm, quality elegance, and diplomatic spirit. Famous Libras like Will Smith, Serena Williams, Kim Kardashian, Gwyneth Paltrow, and Bella Hadid exemplify the grace, sophistication, and tempered nature that define this sign. Libras have a unique ability to blend confidence with empathy, creating an atmosphere of harmony and ease around them. Their natural inclination towards justice makes them excellent mediators and friends who are always willing to see different perspectives. Libras' diplomatic skills and artistic flair allow them to express themselves in ways that resonate deeply with others; aesthetics are extremely important to Libras, who are often noted for their style, fashion, and design sensibilities.

## What are Libras weaknesses?

We can’t please everyone—but Libra is trying their absolute hardest to, damnit. As the diplomat of the zodiac, Libra wants to be… well, universally adored. Of course, pursuing this impossible goal means that Libra will easily override their convictions to appease others, or even adopt an indecisive spirit to bait others into action. After all, Libra would rather be neutral than rock the boat. This conflict-averse approach can make Libras appear insincere or superficial, agreeing with others to keep the peace rather than expressing their true feelings. To overcome these weaknesses, Libras should embrace assertiveness, prioritize their own needs, and focus on genuine connections rather than just fair weather friendships. We’re not for everyone, and everyone is not for us. And that’s not a bad thing!

## Who should Libras avoid?

Libras want to make everyone feel special, which can be an interesting interpersonal challenge. After all, not everyone wants to date a politician who’s always wining and dining the donors. Practical earth signs—Taurus, Virgo, and Capricorn—may find Libra's indecisiveness and need for socializing a bit frivolous, while the Water signs—Cancer, Scorpio, and Pisces—may end up annoyed at Libra's tendency to skim the surface of emotions, seeking harmony over deep emotional dives.

## Which signs are Libras' best matches?

Libras love to partner, which means this air sign can truly make it work with anyone. Of course, certain signs understand Libra’s social charm more than others. Fellow air signs (Gemini and Aquarius) admire Libra’s smooth and effortless flirtatious nature—they value Libra’s elegant aesthetics and sophisticated curiosity, making them instantly attracted to Libra’s Venusian sensibilities. Fire signs (Aries, Leo, and Sagittarius) are also a great match for Libra. Their hot-blooded energy and enthusiasm can ignite Libra's passions, adding excitement to the relationship. Fire signs admire Libra's stylish diplomacy and incredible social skills, creating a dynamic and harmonious union.

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Aliza Kelly is a New York-based astrologer, occultist, and writer. She is the author of The Mixology of Astrology (Adams Media/Simon Schuster), Starring You: A Guided Journey Through Astrology (little bee books), and This Is Your Destiny (Macmillan) and hosts the weekly podcast, Stars Like Us. Her writing... Read more

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