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# Your guide to what storytelling is and how to be a good storyteller

April 17, 2024- 18 min read

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We crave connection.

Human connection brings us so many physical, mental, and emotional well-being benefits. And while there are plenty of ways to connect with one another, one art form stands out: storytelling.

So when it comes to being a good storyteller, it takes work. And while storytelling is a skill set to work at, it doesn’t always come second nature to everyone. Some people suffer from social anxiety, a disorder that 7.1% of adults live within the US. Others, like me, feel more comfortable with written storytelling versus oral storytelling or presentations. There are plenty of mediums today to tell stories, especially with social media.

But when we boil down what it means to be a good storyteller, it means you’re a good connector. You can find something in the shared human experience that resonates with other people. You make people feel heard, feel validated, and feel listened to. As a good storyteller, you make people feel like they’re not alone.

Let’s talk about how to be a good storyteller. In this post, you’ll like what qualities make a good storyteller. You’ll also learn how to put your storytelling skills to the test. And most importantly, you’ll learn why storytelling matters.

## What is storytelling?

Storytelling is the art of using language, vocalization, and/or physical movement and gesture to reveal the elements and images of a story to a specific audience. At its core, storytelling involves a narrative, often with a structured plot and characters, conveyed through a variety of mediums such as spoken word, written text, film, music, or dance.

## Why is storytelling important?

Storytelling has long been a tool to help affect change. It’s an art and a science to create connections between human beings.

Storytelling can be used as a learning tool. Some of my best professors and teachers have one thing in common: they’re great storytellers. By building trust with their students, good storytellers can influence, inspire, and engage. Storytelling can actually help better equip students to be open to the act of learning.

A story about an American woman who starts a community and school in rural Nepal, this book illustrated the good that the human race is capable of. While I haven’t had any of the experiences shared by the author in the book, I could feel them. In many ways, the book captured the power of storytelling to make a change. As a founder of a nonprofit and leader of a community school, Maggie Doyne used storytelling as a key fundraising tool for her organization.

Connection makes us feel like we belong. Through stories, we feel that inherent connection to the storyteller, to the characters, and to the heart of the story. In a time when people are increasingly isolated and lonely, storytelling can help bridge the connection gap.

## What makes a great storyteller?

### Enthusiasm, energy, and confidence

A great storyteller brings a high level of enthusiasm and energy to their storytelling, which can captivate and invigorate an audience. Their confidence is contagious, making the story more compelling and engaging. Storytellers with this trait effectively use their voice, body language, and expressions to enhance their storytelling.

### They listen, engage, and interact with the audience

Effective storytellers are not just speakers but also attentive listeners. They tune into their audience’s reactions— observing body language, facial expressions, and feedback—and adjust their delivery accordingly. This dynamic interaction helps to keep the audience engaged, making them feel a part of the story. Storytellers who excel in this area often pose questions, invite audience participation, or tailor the story in real-time to align with the interests and emotions of their listeners.

### They empower others

Storytellers often share narratives that inspire and empower their audience. By showcasing characters who overcome adversity or individuals who achieve great things, storytellers can motivate listeners to reflect on their own potential and take positive actions. Empowering storytelling is particularly impactful in educational and leadership contexts, where the aim is to encourage growth and self-efficacy among listeners.

### They embrace vulnerability and authenticity

Authenticity is a hallmark of great storytellers. They share their own experiences and emotions openly, making themselves vulnerable to the audience. This vulnerability helps to humanize the storyteller, making them more relatable and trustworthy. It fosters a deeper, more personal connection between the storyteller and the audience, enhancing the emotional impact of the story.

### They create strong connections with others

A skilled storyteller can connect with their audience by sharing stories that touch on universal truths or shared experiences. This helps each listener feel understood and fosters a strong connection. This connection ensures that the story and its underlying messages are remembered long after the telling.

### They are adaptable

Great storytellers can adjust their stories to suit the context or the mood of their audience. They are quick to modify the tone, pacing, or even elements of the story based on real-time feedback and audience engagement.

### They are creative

They possess a creative flair that allows them to invent or reimagine stories in ways that are original and captivating. Creativity also enables storytellers to use metaphors, analogies, and vivid imagery to enhance the listener's experience and understanding.

### They are empathetic

A great storyteller has a deep sense of empathy, which allows them to understand and express the emotions of the characters in the story, as well as to connect with the feelings of the audience. This empathy helps make their stories more relatable and impactful.

### Clarity

They are able to communicate ideas and narratives clearly and effectively without unnecessary complexity. Clarity ensures that the audience understands the story, regardless of its depth or the intricacies of its plot and players.

## 9 tips for how to become a better storyteller

The art of storytelling is a powerful tool. You can master your storytelling technique to help create meaningful connections. Get ready to tell a good story, one word at a time.

### 9 tips for how to be a good storyteller

1. Know your audience
2. Think about the goal of your story
3. Choose the right time (and the right place)
4. Use a hook to get your audience’s attention
5. Be clear and concise
6. Get personal
7. Be aware of your body language
8. Practice often
9. Ask for feedback

### 1. Know your audience

There are plenty of types of stories that you can tell. Depending on the audience, some stories will be better received than others.

I was at a comedy club a few months ago and three comedians performed. The first one was the least experienced, and he mentioned that he'd only been doing standup for a year. He was trying out some new material and gauging the audience's reaction.

He received real-time feedback and adjusted his set accordingly.While you might not be doing standup, you’ll want to employ this same sort of strategy in your own storytelling. What do you know about your audience? What context clues or information can you gather? How will you adjust and shape your story based on your audience?

### 2. Think about the goal of your story

Every story has some sort of goal, whether you recognize it or not. The best storytellers fashion their stories with the desired end result in mind. For some, it might be to make the audience laugh (like comedians). For others, it might be to help drive behavior change. For others, it might be to help educate or drive awareness about a specific issue.

Consider your audience and then think about your goal. What message do you want to send to an audience member? Beyond capturing your audience’s attention, what takeaway do you want them to walk away with?

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### 3. Choose the right time (and the right place)

Stories aren’t always appropriate in the right setting — and stories need to have the right voice.

At a summer wedding in Boston, the bride and groom asked their close friends and family to share personal stories about them. However, one family member went off-topic and told a long-winded story about the bride's family instead of the couple. It was awkward and not the right time or place for that kind of story.

Every storytelling experience has the right time and place. Lean on your emotional intelligence skills to figure out if the story will land well for when (and where) you want to tell it.

### 4. Use a hook to get your audience’s attention

Have you ever heard a story that you might not have realized was a story? Maybe halfway through the story, you’re wracking your brain around what the story is about. In writing, we call this the “hook” or the “lede” of the story. What is it that will capture your audience’s attention? What will keep them engaged and interested in the story? Is there a good hook to the story?

Think of ways you can creatively present your information that will keep your audience absorbed. By employing this storytelling technique, you’ll be sure to captivate your audience.

### 5. Be clear and concise

I know that I’m guilty of this when I tell oral stories. Sometimes, I can get long-winded and drone on and on. I add details that aren’t pertinent to the story that I’m telling. Or I go off on a tangent that doesn’t really have anything to do with the story I’m trying to tell.

Well, take it from me: it doesn’t work.

Be as clear and concise as you can with your story. Try asking yourself what details are important for the reader or the listener to understand. If they’re not critical to the story, why are you including them? What about those details make it a more compelling story?

As best you can, try to filter out what information is “must-have” versus “nice-to-have.”

### 6. Get personal

Personal experiences are just that: they’re personal. It can feel vulnerable and sometimes scary to share personal details about your own life.

But here’s the thing: real-life stories are impactful. It’s a big driver of connection. And by getting personal, you’re better positioned to reach the goal that you’ve identified for yourself.

Think about ways you can incorporate personal details into your story. For example, I was fundraising for NAMI while I was training for the New York City Marathon. I really felt passionate about the cause but I wasn’t sharing much detail about why I cared about this organization.

Once I shared my personal story about my family and my own experience with NAMI, people started to donate to my page. It helped to share those personal bits to achieve my goal. And it opened up new connections for me. People reached out and wanted to share their own stories about mental health. All in all, it was a win-win situation.

### 7. Be aware of your body language

Body language is big. It can send messages to your audience about your demeanor, your attitude, and your approachability.

If you’re telling a funny story with a scowl on your face and your arms crossed, your audience might not know it’s supposed to be a funny story. If you’re working on your public speaking skills but never make eye contact, your audience might not connect with you.

Try to tap into your awareness. What body language are you using? How can you use body language to your advantage as a storyteller?

### 8. Practice often

As the saying goes, practice makes perfect. Well, we may not believe in total perfection at BetterUp. But we do believe in practice.

At its core, practice is about learning. It’s about getting up close and personal with your mistakes and adjusting. It’s about trial and error, figuring out what works (and what doesn’t).

### 9. Ask for feedback

This last tip is a vulnerable one. You might want to get advice or feedback from a trusted confidante.

I’ve practiced my public speaking skills with my coach. I know that I can lean on her to help me refine my communication skills, which include how I present a story. You can lean on a mentor, a colleague, a teammate, or a friend.

Whoever it is, make sure that you ask for feedback from someone you trust. Feedback is an opportunity for us to grow. And feedback means that the person cares about you because they want to see you succeed. They want you to have your own success story. Don’t be afraid to ask for feedback.

## Start building meaningful connections through storytelling

No matter where you are on your storytelling journey, there’s always an opportunity to create stronger connections.

With strong storytelling skills, you can engage and hook your audience. You can help facilitate behavior change. You can be human. You can connect with other humans, too.

With BetterUp, you can take your storytelling skills to the next level. Virtual coaching can help you refine and perfect your communication skills. And by doing so, you’re one step closer to reaching your full potential. Get started today.

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Published April 17, 2024

## Madeline Miles

Madeline is a writer, communicator, and storyteller who is passionate about using words to help drive positive change. She holds a bachelor's in English Creative Writing and Communication Studies and lives in Denver, Colorado. In her spare time, she's usually somewhere outside (preferably in the mountains) — and enjoys poetry and fiction.

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