== Looking for deleted comment on the decision on which character would be made lesbian or homosexual in page histories. == 

 I don't remember very well, but there was a quotation/comment by Joss Whedon or another writer for the series on either this page, Willow Rosenberg's page or possibly Anya Jenkins's page concerning the decision on which character would be made lesbian and possibly something about minorities (wording of the exact phrase is uncertain).  While the comment might be inaccurate (and has since been removed), I'm looking for the source and also the identity of the other character (i.e. the person other than Willow who was considered a possibility). 

 I've been looking through the histories of the three pages, but if someone could help narrow it down, it would be helpful.