" 

 Regarding BRD (new thread), I think you again misunderstand the purpose.  the WP:BRD page makes it very clear that it is a way to speed up reaching consensus.  If a discussion on the talk page has gotten stuck, then it says, use BRD.  When the other user is inviting you to the talk page, and you refuse, you cannot possibly claim that you are using ""BRD."".   "