==file: anglospeak.svg== 
 I need help to determine if I am being overly sensitive or if  is being as difficult as I feel he is.  The discussion in question, regarding the anglospeak map, is located on the [commons], and I have also tried to bring it up with him on his commons talk page [Joeldl]. 
 IMHO, he is distorting, and interpreting in isolation, the meaning of what I say, and he is also saying I have said things which I have not. 
 In addition, I feel that he is being argumentative and is making his own survey less than productive. 
 Further, he seems to attack that which he doesn't agree with. 
 Finally, I feel that he may be trying to go this route of a survey on the commons instead of the English_language or file_talk:anglospeak.svg talk pages because he apparently has been going around and around with other users about the map. 
 I can see that he has done a lot on Wiki and he knows the ropes really well.  Whereas, I'm new (mostly inactive) and know very little about the ins and outs of Wiki, and maybe I'm just too sensitive, so I really need a neutral party to help me see the real situation.  I don't want to keep on arguing with him - I want to come to a compromise that is acceptable for all (not just him)- but he doesn't seem to want that. 
 HELP!