And just to elaborate on that, I couldn't give a monkey's arse about being called a fucking cunt by someone I wouldn't piss on if they were on fire, but I do understand that others may not take such a robust view. That's partly why I'm always a little uncomfortable when I don't know the gender of the editor I'm talking to, as there are things that even I would hesitate to say to a woman that I would have no compunction in saying to a man. Not sure where this is going ... time for a beer.