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 :Fæ, don't be daft. No one cares about you being gay. I certainly don't. I think some of your keep decisions in Commons are iffy. You keep too many bloody penises! I think you've made some bad and needlessly provocative choices in the past about what images to display on your user page. I think using a video-streaming porn site as a source in Steffans' BLP was really off, and cruel. Wasn't her predicament much the same as yours? If you owe anyone an apology, it's probably Karrine. Perhaps consider giving adult entertainment topics a wide berth?  
 :I think you have painted an over-optimistic image of Wikipedia's BLP performance to the Parliamentary committee. You've been over-aggressive in your response to criticism, and/or others have been over-protective on your behalf. You've been too quick to shout homophobia when perhaps the criticism wasn't about you being gay, but about a lack of transparency, and perceived special treatment. Admins deleted your uploads when it became an embarrassment, but we don't delete other uploaders's stuff in the same way when they have regrets later on: and we should. Those are all things I would criticise. But you being gay figures nowhere in that landscape. We briefly met a few weeks ago at Sue's talk. Relax. You seemed like a nice, warm, friendly bloke in person, and smart with it. I enjoyed talking to you. And I for one am really sorry if this has been a harrowing and stressful experience for you and your husband. Regards.  "