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 == what is consensual voyeurism called == 
 I saw a documentary on some sex enthusiasts organization where you could go as a viewable person, typically having sex at room with windows or as a watcher, with the mild encourgagement to participate.  Im thinking about becoming a consensual voyeur, yet as I casually describe these possible activities, at say job onterviews, id like to get the phrasing right.  that way if I say, ""well outside of work I enjoy voyeurism"" might bring up questions of consensuality at a job interview whereas if I said I was an observational swinger perhaps the interviewer would say ""my how pleasant sounding"""