==Real name is Matthew== 
 Not sure if there is a source for this yet but in Oakley's book Binge (released today) he reveals his first name is actually Matthew. His full name is Matthew Tyler Oakley. You can see the proof here: https://pbs.twimg.com/media/CRyJDJLWcAAraTw.jpg but I believe we have to wait for a source to post about his real name.