Initial Impressions 8/29/16, edited for full review 8/31/16: I'm a HUGE Gayle Forman fan so any book of hers, no matter the age range or genre, will be on my radar. When I heard that LEAVE ME was adult contemporary, I had to admit that I wasn't super excited about it since I haven't been reading as much "serious" contemporary lately and I don't really read it on the adult level -- I'm more of a YA gal. Either way, it was Gayle Forman and I knew no matter what, I was in good hands so I was excited to receive a copy of LEAVE ME at BEA this year! Upon finishing, I don't really know how to feel about this book. If we're being perfectly honest, if it wasn't Gayle Forman's book, I wouldn't have read it. The entire premise of the book is that overworked, overtired Maribeth Klein whisks herself away for time to recover both mentally and physically after a heart-attack in her early 40s. She leaves her husband and two four-year-old twins with only a note, no way to contact her, and actively avoids ways that she can be traced so she can just take some time for herself. This really isn't a topic I'm drawn to but Gayle Forman is the master so I was along for the ride! 
 This book (and entire concept) is so confusing to me as I try to sort out my feelings towards it. I know how I personally feel about Maribeth's actions but there are just so many ways to look at it. The beginning of the book before Maribeth leaves was actually kind of hard for me to read with so many situations hitting a little too close to home. Having been in a similar situation with a medical emergency turning your life completely upside down, I just had a very hard time with the decisions that Maribeth made. I was not the person who was directly medically affected but I was a big part of that whole situation and yes, it's always hard but my thoughts were constantly directed towards, "How can I help?" and "How can I understand?" On the flip side, no matter how close you are to a person, you're not that person going through the medical issues and there are things and feelings you won't understand. You have fear of your own but may not understand the level of anxiety that person is feeling, in which case, I did identify with Maribeth. Her heart attack was such a complete disruption of her life in so many ways and her only way that she was finally able to handle everything was to leave all responsibilities behind, including her family. Leaving I had a hard time with. Leaving and cheating are two situations that I really struggle to forgive or forget and even if things did end up working out in the end of this book (I won't give anything away), I knew I wouldn't be able to forgive Maribeth for up and leaving. 
 But then there's the question of what strength is in this situation. Is strength staying and pushing through, working through all of the things with your family? Or is it leaving, taking some time off and gathering yourself up first? Honestly, I think either one could be the right answer but I had such a hard time with the fact that she literally abandoned her family. I know that she was not in the right mental state to really assess things, and that falls on her husband too since he didn't really try to help around the house or with anything after Maribeth's surgery, but it was hard for me to support Maribeth when her solution was to run. I guess we wouldn't have much of a story if she spoke with her husband and took some sort of retreat instead of simply running... But that would have been a workable situation for me where I wouldn't have hard feeling towards Maribeth. We've gone through some very hard things and our family is still in tact... but I'm also not a parent and don't have that added responsibility and role in my family so I can't speak on how that might affect a situation either. Life is messy and each situation is unique and complicated. I'm not in Maribeth's family so maybe I would have handled things differently if I was in her shoes but from a reader's perspective, it was really hard for me to fully understand. 
 My feelings for Maribeth aside, I thought this was a very good story and as always, Gayle Forman does an amazing job of bringing so many things to light. Maribeth's situation was definitely more complicated than just the heart attack too and these things really added to why she ended up running in the first place. I won't say hard things justify abandonment but it does help you understand where she's coming from a little bit more. Gayle Forman also just has a way of making these characters come to life. I felt like I really got to know Maribeth, all of her new friends, and I could easily picture Maribeth's life with her husband and children in so many ways. 
 I started and finished the book in one day. It was really easy to read and like so many of Gayle's books, just so easy to get lost in. She does an amazing job of making you really feel a setting, getting you invested in a character's story, and bringing raw, real emotions to the table. Her stories are about the more challenging sides of life and I'm actually glad she wrote this book because I wouldn't have read this story by another author. It's outside of my normal comfort zone -- both being adult contemporary and also the "leaving factor" -- and it was refreshing to think about things in a different way as I read. It's also a bit scary, to be honest. I've only been married for two years and we've already been through a lot. I have amazing confidence in my marriage and I'm not really worried for us in the future but it does make me wonder what our life will be like in five or ten years which isn't something I normally do. Life has taught me that there are too many thing you can't plan for so I don't map everything out but all I can do is hope that we grow together and build a solid foundation for our home and books like LEAVE ME really leave readers to reflect on their relationships/marriages/friendships. Even if you have an amazing relationship, there's always a little bit more you can take into account and it's interesting to have that reminder of what even the closest person to you might be going through without you even realizing.