DNF 54% 
 So, couldn't take it anymore. There is an incredible amount of very very clearly terrible (consensual) sex in this book, and there is little hope of that changing any time soon. And it's not just there in the plot, it's described in excruciating detail. 
 I just can't bring myself to continue reading, despite the strong recommendations I've gotten and the rave reviews I have seen. Reading page upon page of blatantly awful (consensual) sex makes me feel hopeless and terrible and is also triggering. 
 Trigger Warnings: (view spoiler)[ a lot of on the page obviously awful consensual sex, also a sexual predator villain that drives much of the plot, also an alcoholic character who abuses his wife, also a lot of shame around desire and sex. Note: I did not finish the book so there may be more. (hide spoiler)]