I've decided, after reading many reviews, that I will be placing this on my will-not-read pile. 
 For a somewhat overview of my reasons, here: 
 -Homophobia 
 - Stereotypes 
 - Sexism/misogyny 
 - Kissing without consent 
 This is probably a good explanation of things 
 However I'm not enjoying the comments in that review either- 
 Because of the recommendations of Parrotfish and Luna both of which are terrible books, the links are to my reviews on why I either DNF'ed it or will not read. 
 I hope people will actually listen to trans people on the subject of books with trans characters. Some of these characters are very harmful and I, for one, do not want to be seen as a trans man that acts like J or Grady. I also don't want to be stereotyped as always masculine and that I have to be seen as masculine to "pass" or to "be valid as a man". I can be feminine or masculine or a mix of both or completely androgynous and still be a valid man. 
 That is all.