I liked it. The mystery was interesting, the hero's conflicts were realistic. The relationship between the H/h was good. I absolutely can see him kissing her and then never calling, loved the way he thought about her talking! 
 I could have done without the moms - why do the moms always have to be so out there?? The ex-husband was also too much - (view spoiler)[I'm starting to see a trend with cross-dressing, gender bending ex's. I guess its an eye-popping plot line, but not all that realistic. I guess having him just be gay or bi wouldn't be "funny" enough. (hide spoiler)]