Thank you NetGalley for the ARC. honestly don't know how I feel about this. I really, really wanted to like this, but it went all over the place for me. Very well written, as expected, and I appreciate the stream of consciousness, but I don't think this book was for me. Maybe I just couldn't get past Lemony Snicket writing this? :/ 
 Update: 
 Pros: it really is very well written and I think it's important for today's teens to be exposed to the fluidity of sexuality and gender. I gave it three stars because of the overall topic, but I wish there had been more focus on it because of the author's influence/popularity as it is. 
 Cons: it isn't for everyone, and I like books that I can recommend to everyone, regardless of rating. Like, there's tons of erotic fiction I can recommend, so it's not the sex that bothered me. I think it was hard for me to get into the head of someone who thought ONLY of sex, and nothing else. Like, there was nothing else. Blank. Empty. Devoid of anything but lust. It was too robotic, and not believable and this isn't billed as fantasy, so you have to have SOMETHING to ground you.