Setting aside this book for now, at 29%. May pick it back up later. I found the sexual coercion & non-consensual sexual objectification too difficult & triggering a read right now. 
 Trigger Warnings (view spoiler)[ Sexual coercion, non-consensual sexual objectification, MC w/very low self esteem that we witness at length, substantial alcohol use, misogyny directed toward femme queer cis man MC that's mostly textually challenged. (hide spoiler)]