SAFETY: 
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 The H is about 11 years older than h. 
 No mention of H sexual past, just that he had very bad luck in dating. 
 Heroine has also good sexual experience, her friend even told her that her ex-boyfriends was telling how amazing she was in bed which was really refreshing when i take its usually the Hero we heard that about. 
 Condoms are used between them just the first time, than not. 
 No OW. 
 OM drama - Heroine has crazy-stalking ex. 
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