Sometime last year I heard a lot of buzz about this book. I jotted down the title and decided I should read it one day. Then when I was burnt out from my 3rd re-listen to the In Death series by J.D. Robb, I thought I'd listen to Eleanor & Park instead of reading it. I remembered that it was about high schoolers. I downloaded my copy and started listening. And I listened and l listened and I listened. It was so good, but it was also heartwrenching. I'd stumbled into a trigger of mine and I had a hard time putting it down. I kept inventing chores to do so I could continue to listen. That night when I went to bed only half way through, I felt like I was abandoning Eleanor and her siblings! It haunted me! 
 I managed to finish it the next day, and it's still haunting me. In a good way, but disturbing, too. 
 Eleanor has just moved back in with her family after a year away. They're in a new house and a new school district, so besides her family, she knows no one. And after a year away, even her family feels like strangers. 
 Park first sees Eleanor on the bus. She's clearly going to be a target to be bullied, with her bright red bushy hair and weird clothes. When she can't find a seat on the bus he surprises himself by reluctantly making room for her in his. 
 The way their relationship unfolds is sweet and so true! This is the best description of first love I've ever read! Rainbow Rowell just nails it. Along with their relationship, we also hear about Park trying to live up to his father's expectations and dealing with his own issues as a half-Asian kid. And we hear about Eleanor's horrible step-father who abuses her mother and looms over the whole house like an awful shadow, infecting everything they do. And then theirs the abject poverty Eleanor's family lives in. It's just painful to read about. But the sweetness and hope that comes when Eleanor and Park are together is so wonderful, it balances out some of the bad. 
 Eleanor and Park were great characters. They weren't perfect and they both made mistakes that strained their relationship. They came across as very real and three dimensional. They grow and change as the story progresses. Even the bullies in the story are multi-dimensional. 
 The story takes place in the eighties, and it's quite a contrast to the anti-bullying climate we see in schools today. Not only is Eleanor bullied at school, but there are times that the teachers not only don't help, but make Eleanor's life even harder. I've rarely been so rage-filled toward a character as I was toward Eleanor's gym teacher! 
 This book made me wish I was back in high school or in a traditional book club and could analyze it to death. I hated that in high school, but I want to know what people think. Did they see this big twist coming? Why did this character act in this way. Was this just a perception in his head, or was it a real thing? WHY did Eleanor make that choice? What was up with Eleanor's mom? How much did Park understand? 
 I loved this story, and it's really stuck with me. I highly recommend it, with the caveat that it's emotionally wrenching! Honestly, I avoid a books like this, and i wouldn't have read this one if I'd known about the abuse in it. I'll for sure read Rowell again, though!