I really really had high hopes for this book and sadly it felt a little disappointed. I wanted to like Jessa and I wanted to like the instructions that Carissa had given her, but like Dylan Thomas in the book pointed out, the instructions were more for Carissa then for Jessa. It was stuff she didn't like about Sean or felt bad about. It didn't have to do with Jessa at all. And Jessa was kind of all over the place for me. I know she had her heart broken, but there was just something missing in her that made me feel badly. I will say that the book made me want to go to Italy though. All in all not what I had anticipated.