Now that I'm done sobbing I can review this book. 
 I really liked it, I enjoyed the character driven plot, and the writing was pretty without sliding into flowery. 
 I did have one pretty big issue with the story though. 
 (view spoiler)[ When Joseph is explaining what happened with Madeline he tells Jack's parents "she laughed, and she leaned forward and she kissed him for the first time. The first time." Then he goes on to explain how that day they got caught, and her parents made him stay away, and then a couple of months later, Madeline is pregnant . I thought for sure this was a plot twist, that Joseph isn't actually Jupiter's father, but they never bring it up again. Does Schmidt want my child to think you can get pregnant from kissing? Is he implying that Madeline and Joseph had sex but hadn't kissed? The Joseph was more elated by this first kiss than by intercourse? Did I miss something? Was there a page missing in my copy where after their first kiss, Joseph sneaks back in and then they had sex? (hide spoiler)] 
 So yea, I had a pretty big issue with that, but otherwise, I thought it was a very thoughtful, well written book. I could have done with a different ending, but we can't always get what we want.