Initial Impressions 8/20/16, modified for full review 8/29/16: Probably 3.5 stars 
 THE FEMALE OF THE SPECIES is a hard book to talk about. It's incredibly important in so many ways and has some great not only feminist but also important universal notions that really bring to light how we excuse certain male actions and condemn female ones for the exact same thing (sex, drugs, violence). I really did love how Mindy McGinnis said so many of these things right to readers' faces and makes people truly confront all of these issues. That's part of the beauty of Alex's character as well. She's described as both closed off and yet feeling too much. She isn't afraid to say what she thinks or do what she thinks is right because she's really never been the person to cater to a society's "norms". She confronts people, makes people pay for their actions, and somehow becomes this great antihero for us to gather around. 
 The book has a sort of Dexter-like feel and yet stands on its own. Alex has a darkness within her. It drives her every day life, takes over in moments of extreme emotion, and she once she actually finds people to care about and who care about her, she tries to be as "normal" as possible to not scare away her new friends. She uses this darkness to right wrongs and to seek vengeance on people who have committed horrible acts of violence, sexual abuse, or general heinous injustices. THE FEMALE OF THE SPECIES isn't focused on Alex as a serial killer (because she's not) and I was both confused and satisfied with the ambiguity of "what she was". Alex couldn't even put a label on herself, seeking to fit in the category of sociopath or psychopath and didn't quite seem to fit anywhere. I liked the uniqueness and originality, not fitting into a specific box, but I was also anticipating more of something... which I guess Alex would probably reprimand me for trying to put a label on her! I think the anticipation of the something affected the read a little bit for me because I felt like I was missing something and the book never quite crossed that line into supremely satisfying for me. 
 THE FEMALE OF THE SPECIES doesn't shy away from really anything. Whereas some young adult books clean things up a bit for the sake of readers or publishing, Mindy McGinnis chooses to include all of the realistic speech (including swearing, descriptions of sex, and lewd behavior) that other books play down in order to reach a younger audience. I would definitely recommend this for a more mature young adult audience (although we always have that taboo of censoring younger teen audiences -- I'm not a librarian, educator, or parent so that's not for me to say but it a moderately explicit read even as an adult). There are also several instances or mentions of rape, date rape, sexual abuse, and scenes with near instances of all of these occurring so if that's a trigger for you, do be aware that it pops up many times throughout the book. 
 One thing that actually bothered me about the book was the confusing involvement of animals. If you have an animal abuse trigger, it will likely bother you for this one (more than one person has brought up that it was an issue for them), and it's not a trigger for me but I thought the violence towards animals was quite unnecessary. It wasn't out right on the pages with a character abusing an animal but there are some really hard-to-read scenes about what happens to a few animals that I just didn't get. It wasn't directly tied to a character and didn't push a plot point forward. The characters actually do take care of and help quite a few animals too but I didn't know why the harsh scenes with injuries and death needed to be included. It didn't serve a purpose for the book or assist a character's story line. There was also a very gruesome scene at a meat factory that wasn't abuse but a part of the job, but still seemed unnecessary to include (especially when I was trying to read this book as I was eating lunch -- that was just unfortunate timing on my part). 
 My middle of the road feelings aren't due to any of those factors though. As much as I thought the message was extremely important and valid, I just didn't really connect to the characters in the book. I know Alex is sort of emotionally closed off and yet over-feeling and I kind of felt stuck between those two emotions. I just didn't connect with her as much as I wanted to. I understand that she's not someone you really connect to emotionally but I wanted to understand her just a little bit more or be able to stand behind her a little bit more and I just didn't quite get there. It's a weird spot because in a way, that's the whole point of her character -- she's complex, she's cold, she's overly angered by injustices, she's not your average person in terms of emotional ranges -- but somehow it just didn't click for me. It's not that there was a lack of character development in any of the other characters either but none of the relationships really slid into place for me. It was just the little things with characters or perhaps the writing that just didn't click and although the content was there, I just didn't get bowled over like I thought I would. 
 Long story short, I'm just sort of a jumbled up from this book. I can't quite sort out what I feel but I know that I don't feel as wowed as I had hoped. When I end up rating books, it's based on an overall feeling and THE FEMALE OF THE SPECIES had a whole lot going on. The overall message of the book is so important but I feel like I can't rate a book for its message alone. There are several factors involved in my feelings toward a book and this one had so many things for me to consider.