What I learned... 
 How to use words as a weapon. 
 This was an enjoyable book. You actual see the character progress. Making the unconscious decision to not be stepped on any longer and the struggle it takes in getting there. 
 Found a few flaws in this book that bugged me. First off- do all of the men have to be bastards?? You know your choosing your men wrong when the guy hired to kill you is the most charming. 
 Now I do realize that she is a submissive. Her backstory before the change was never explored. We are left with a lot of unanswered questions. Like if she was mousey before or if she was broken after she got all wolfy.