Dear Queen Amberly, 
 You cut off your hair ... only because the prince suggested it? Idc if you've been thinking about cutting your hair and then the prince comes along to suggest that. But really? From the way you answered him when he hinted at cutting your hair, it sounded like you liked your hair long. But then the prince comes along, and it's like you're all hey! Let's cut my hair just because the prince wants it that way! :( 
 Also, remember when you said that you had an "impression" of the prince, from the way he appeared on TV? It's only his public image. I mean, for all you know, the prince could secretly love torturing animals just for the fun of it, right? (And from the way he turned out to be, it doesn't sound too far off) So I'll have to disagree with you on that - the Selection is pretty much like marrying a stranger. 
 Best wishes on marrying a psycho, (sorry, can't change fate) 
 Kassandra