Even though I own the book, I chose to listen to the audiobook. I listened while sewing and walking. 
 The book was more about racism than I expected and less about feminism than I expected, but it didn't disappoint me. The author made some truly interesting and fascinating points about both racism and feminism. 
 For me some chapters about racism really made me aware of my privilege. I felt like (even during her chapter about privilege) that I was well aware of my privilege, racism within feminism, etc. But for sure, this book was eye-opening during different chapters. Especially the chapter abou praised movies about black slaves like The Help, 12 Years A Slave, Django Unchained and others. 
 The chapter about how you may be a "bad feminist" from time to time was equally fascinating. I feel like my sisters point out a lot when I enjoy music with the words bitch and slut in it and that 'if you're a feminist like you claim to be, you shouldn't listen to music like that'. 
 Gay explains why it is okay to listen or read or laugh about the 'wrong things' from time to time. So dancing to Gold Digger by Kanye West makes you a 'Bad Feminist' in theory, but at least you're a feminist. A feminist aware of her flaws and privileges. 
 Thank you for this book. I feel like I will have stronger arguments during the still ungoing battle to equality. Now I need to give this to my sisters.