She has learned to embrace that part of herself while also softening and becoming more willing to adapt to her environment and work with what is provided. More willing to be a woman. A little more willing to leverage those around her rather then shunning them and trying to play superman. 
 I am more then happy with how the direction of the series has turned out and am looking forward to delving into the next books in the series. 
 I cannot wait and I hope the author doesn't take all the negative reviews to heart. There is a large group of us out there that are really happy with how things are and want to continue to see more of Anita Blake. 
 For the love of God though... please let Richard die. Ugh. 
 The only downfall I see in the last few books has been the plot holes and things that are not addressed. They are like the elephant in the room. Things that are huge and very much touched on but aren't addressed by the end of the book, not even in passing. Conversations that should have happened just don't. Blood Noir included.