My feelings on this book are mixed at best. It's incredibly readable, but this falls into my new sub-genre of YA "This Story Doesn't Warrant Praise Just for Diversity". I'm all for more YA about queer women, but that doesn't mean I'm giving mediocre a pass when it is trying to tackle difficult topics. And you're talking about religion and gay identity, and it's a big exploration of faith, except....not... I'm going to have hang-ups. There's not a lot of meat to the argument. She's a religious teen, that's never questioned despite the homophobia she experiences in church. Her relationships are tested, but it's never about her personal faith, it's like she's this fully-formed spiritual person despite being in a formative part of her life. The big G-O-D isn't much in question, it's a lot of friend and relationship drama, a lot of people being offensive, a lot of insta-love and closeted talk, and the whole portrayal is imbalanced. 
 Also, she wants a radio advice show, which implies she has all the answers, but she does some massively dumb shit, and it's never treated like she's being dumb, just that she's caught in an impossible place. And no, she is being dumb, she is in no place to act as a teen representative authority. 
 So the fact her preacher dad asks her to slide herself back in the closet is a really great time to get into the conflict of the entire novel. That he may not be homophobic because of her lifestyle, but he's homophobic because he cares that other people care. It's hypocritical, and he's a bad father, and you can do a lot with a story of a religious lesbian with a bad father, but the author then bends over backwards for him to seem like such a great guy, and he's not? And the stepmom, he's already married one shrew who was terrible -there is no blame on him for choosing such an unfit partner- and the second one our MC says she barely knows and had a whirlwind courtship and is much younger, but the dad can't be questioned in his judgement too harshly, so she's actually perfect too. She's just a lovely woman and the fact after talking to her about the MC's lesbian friend's behavior after the reception after the wedding the MC's father asks her to go back in the closet is pushed aside because it's all a misunderstanding... 
 No. He's a terrible father and no conversation that starts with "My conservative homophobic mother was offended" should end in "so let's shove my daughter back in the closet for her own good because she's the problem." 
 That father needed a slap in the face that never came, as a man of God and a spiritual counselor. He's a massive hypocrite, and it isn't not handled harshly enough that he was absolutely a horrible father. Which could have worked, if the author just let him be awful, but no, he's a wonderful father and this family is perfect. It was... so mistaken. 
 And the crux of this conflict if while in the closet, the MC meets The Girl Of Her Dreams. Who, 1. Ehh. I like girls and I was not sold on a super-religious golfer who let boys paw at her to closet herself and 2. tries to force her new girlfriend out of the closet and that was really unsavory. 
 There's also no reason for the MC to lie? And this book is built on lying, so there was a lot of eye-rolling. Just say, 'my kind of homophobic family wants me to keep this in the hush hush. Please respect that, it's important to my comfort and safety.' But she never says it, she lies, and this "perfect" girl spends the rest of the book in an abusive relationship 
 Also, the MC maliciously calls a girl (the only villains of this book are other lesbians, not homophobes?) a c**t really flippantly during the climax of the drama, and that to me was very jarring for a YA about sexuality for teenage girls. This is our protagonist; a selfless Christian. And that's her "Putting her in her place Yaas Queen" moment? 
 To go back to that previous point, the only villains are other lesbians. And there's a best friend who is an Atheist lesbian I honestly thought was going to be cut out of the MC's life by the end, she was horrible and selfish. There are so many predatory lesbians. Homophobes are just confused and don't get it, and most of them come around. They have very little significance for a story where the entire plot is about trying not to piss them off. 
 There was potential here that was wasted, and the characters were really weak. The prose flowed pretty well and I tore through it, but I can't remember a single name nor care about any of the things that went down. It didn't make lesbians or religious people look particularly good, or make a solid relatable story for either narrative.