In this coming-of-age novel, D.J. Schwenk deals with the impact of not talking about things -- with her parents, her friends, her brothers, and even Brian Nelson, the football player she's training in the art of work at "uncle" Jimmy Ott's request. This novel touches on some great topics, dealing with family issues in a dramatic but real way. On a metaphorical level, the story's ruminations on being a cow (and not thinking for yourself and making your own decisions) are thought-provoking and well-placed, giving this story the extra oomph I felt was missing at the beginning. 
 The cons? Perhaps a bit too verbose. By cutting some of D.J.'s ramblings, other elements would have stood out more: (view spoiler)[like Amber's secret, for instance. (hide spoiler)] I also have trouble believing everything that happened with Brian. It required a bit too much suspension of disbelief, (view spoiler)[though I like the note it ended on: a little sad, a little confused, but with hope for the future. The story doesn't answer all of our questions, and I like that some bits are left untied. (hide spoiler)] 
 Overall, a solid 3.5 stars (rated as 4 because curse GR's lack of half stars!). I'll likely check out the sequel.