This is not out yet. I was privileged to read it way in advance. I will write a proper review later -- no, really, I WILL. I know I always say that and then break your heart. But this book... sometimes you find a book that speaks directly to your experience, so much so that it's almost creepy, like the author has been peering into your skull with some kind of skull-peering crystal ball. This is that book, for me. This is a book with a big old tap-root lodged firmly in my heart. 
 But! I'll review this closer to publication time, darlings. I won't forget. The book won't let me.