What do you do when you love someone with all your heart, but have to love yourself more? 
 This has to be the most enlightening book that I have ever read. My perception has changed and I hope that it stays that way. I no longer want to see 20/20. I want to see the naked truths. That's one of the problems in our world, that we shy away from things we don't want to hear, or feel. We ignore them. It's easy to take the worst case scenario of a bad situation and make it the standard. It protects ourselves from caring or hurting. 
 Now I get that none of this makes sense if you haven't read this book and that it doesn't clearly identify what I'm talking about. I don't want it to. If I recommend a book written by Colleen, I don't tell the person what it's about. That's how I feel her books are intended to be read, to receive the message fully. 
 To say that this book is bold is and understatement. This books is a lifeline. It's as vital as your heart beating and the inhale of your next breath. It needs to be read in schools. It needs to be taught across the country. It needs to be TALKED about. 
 I reserve a few books a year that will make me cry. I'm not a big book crier. I hate it in fact. CoHo's books are always the exception. I almost made it until the Author's note. The depths that Colleen had to search in her soul to push herself to write this book astonishes me. Thank you for doing that. I have learned a lesson from each book that I've read by her. In Ugly Love I learned what it feels like to mourn, in November 9 I learned what it means to forgive and in this book I learned that your sacrifice for the greater good is always the right answer. 
 I was blessed to have a wonderful friend send me this book. It delights me that she wanted to send it to me just because it made her happy. Thank you Shannon. It was also blessed to read this with a group of ladies that share my love for Colleen and her amazing writing. 
 Don't worry, no spoilers ahead, but if you have read It Ends With Us then you know that Ellen DeGeneres' names comes up quite frequently. I would love to see CoHo be invited to Ellen's show. Maybe not right now as the book is about to come out and we don't want people to be spoiled by it, but I would love to see this book discussed on a national platform.