I have such mixed feelings on this book. 
 I feel like there were a lot of unnecessary things cluttering it up, not letting it interrogate the ideas of privilege and speaking over folks and the like as much as it needed to to be really great. The romantic subplot with Adam is frankly wholly unnecessary, as is the fact that (view spoiler)[ Hannah is dating Daisy's former baby bestie turned bully. The romance leads right into the parts of the ending that push it from a little unbelievable to VERY unbelievable and kinda pat. Every over-the-top with no foundation in reality promise Daisy made came true? Because her new boyfriend's brother is in a super star band? Too much. Plus it's college guy/high school girl romance, yikes, never a fan of that. Also the dating-my-bully factor is pretty cliche and honestly weakens the jealous-someone-else-is-so-important-to-my-friend plot. (hide spoiler)] Completely don't need either of those things, and all the page space devoted to them could have been used to deepen the perspective of Hannah and Nat, who I think needed it. I think the treatment of characters being accidentally outed, or forced out, needed work - in part because we never get enough of the perspective of any of the gay characters, really. Sure, being outed is bad, there are consequences, etc. But I don't think the narrative really captures the soul crushing fear and self hatred and isolation it can cause. We get what the gay characters can communicate with Daisy, which isn't usually enough, and Daisy's own conclusions, which even though she's become a better ally by the end, are still swathed in an obliviousness that you can't completely blame on her being straight. Nat at one point says she doesn't want to be pushed off a cliff and there's a lot of cliff pushing generally. Daisy backing off at the end is great, but when cliff-JUMPING happens it's narratively treated as the right thing to do in a way that makes me uncomfortable. And you know, I think accidentally outing people in potentially volatile home situations is a lot less forgivable an offense than it seems to be in the book. I guess there's just not enough understanding, even by the end, of just how devastating that can be to a person? It doesn't get enough page time and after (view spoiler)[ Daisy accidentally outs Nat on national TV (hide spoiler)], she goes back to flirting with Adam within pages and is more worried about how it upset Hannah than the real consequences of the action. I don't know. It's not the worst, and it tries but because it's solely Daisy's perspective it can never capture what outing someone DOES to them, fully. Also, the treatment of asexuality seriously made me wince - I get that Daisy is clueless and her comments about how she could be asexual because she never dates anyone etc. are meant in part to show that, but it only gets push backed against once in the text and so it remains too unchallenged, which is especially glaring in the last instance since Daisy is called out on something else almost immediately after. It's made worse by Daisy's mom's "leveling up" metaphor for dating or falling in love - some people are aromantic, and they aren't "lower level" or stunted because of that, but that's the book's unfortunate implication. I am also incredibly skeptical that a group of LGBTQIA folks would accept and promote a straight person as their voice, and then agree to have them Fake It. Me and all my friends who are also LGBTQIA tend to bristle immediately when someone tries to speak FOR us, so a central conceit of the plot falls very flat for me. 
 That said? It made me cry more than once. I really appreciate the fact that privilege was brought up and I think it is important for straight kids to read books portraying allies who have to learn to step back and let LGBTQIA folks be the voices of their own struggle. The overall lessons of the novel are good and necessary and I think if you aren't living the struggle yourself, this book would be an entertaining and enlightening read. But it's kinda hard to read as a queer person. I would recommend it to straight kids, with a recommendation for a book that shows just how dangerous emotionally and physically outing a person can be at the same time to mitigate this book's faults. Probably If I Was Your Girl, since this book also doesn't even touch on trans issues at all.