** spoiler alert ** 
 I read a review here where someone had assumed this was something to do with shipping or seafaring (because of the cover picture) - likewise I was under a misguided assumption that this was some sort of sci-fi or futuristic novel where there is no longer male and female gender. I have absolutely no idea where I got this idea from since the book is definitely not either of these - funny how you "remember" things wrong. I first heard of this book years ago, probably around the time it won the Pulitizer and recently sought it out from the library. 
 From pretty much the first page I realized that this novel wasn't going to be anything along the lines I had assumed but soon found myself swept away on the story of Desdemona and Lefty. Having already established there was an incestuous relationship, I was intrigued to know how this would be handled and I quite enjoyed the exploration of the struggles of the couple having escaped death in Greece and their hopes in starting a new life in America. It was about halfway that I began to get a bit twitchy. This is supposed to be a novel about Cal - the grandchild of Desdemona and Lefty - a hermaphrodite who is raised as a girl but later lives his life as a man. Cal is there in the background for the first half/two-thirds of the book as an ominpresent narrator who, I have to say, can be a little intrusive. I can forgive the "risky" narration (where Cal tells of events he wasn't alive to see ) but found some of the third person/first person shifts a little choppy. FINALLY towards the end of the novel we see the events that lead to the discovery of Cal's condition - the exploration of the teenage years was really well done - very real in the insecurities and fears of that age about growing up, sexuality, finding oneself. This is about when I began to really enjoy the book and finished it quickly after getting to this point. 
 In essence this is an epic novel.It spans almost a century and covers events in Greece and Turkey, the struggles of immigrant families in the US, the depression, the history of Detroit, black activism, the Vietnam War etc etc but what I guess my main gripe with the book is that while Desdemona's life is catalogued pretty much from childhood through to old age, Cal's life from 17 to 41 is entirely missing ! I want to know why he never sought out the Object again, how he came to terms with his new body, and of course WHY HE CHOSE TO LIVE AS A MAN. I really feel like this was a seriously weak point - up to the point where there is medical intervention Calliope is a girl, exploring her feelings for other girls, but with a body that is slowly altering to that of a male. Then she writes a note to her parents saying she wants to be a boy and runs away! IDK, I expected some more emotional connect - some sort of revelation for Cal that would explain everything he had been feeling confused about but no. It was almost like, oh - ok then, I'll go be a man. I also thought the ending was weak and wish there was more about Cal and Julie and how a couple might overcome the issues and have a functioning relationship. 
 I really struggled with some of the book and at times it felt a bit like a literary slog, however it has given me plenty to think about and though I wavered between 3 and 4 stars, I think there were moments of brilliance in the writing and some brave choices in subject and writing style. That fact I have written my longest review ever for this book also makes this book a stand out - perhaps not one I wish to rush out and own, but one that will stay with me for a long time.