This book isn't something I'd normally read but I'd heard a lot of good things about the romance and decided to give it a try. The BDSM theme was a turn off towards reading it initially. I'm not into reading about BDSM normally but it was enjoyable in 50 Shades of Grey because of the romantic element. Specifically, how Ana does it because she loves Grey so much that she is willing to do almost anything to bring him joy and to be with him. The book embodies the concept of love being selfless and explores the concept of having complete access and connection to the one you love. On a side note Grey is totally HOT.... in a slightly messed up way. He is gorgeous, protective, possessive, caring, understanding, strong and it doesn't hurt that he's rich. I can totally see how Ana fell for him. I also thought the book was really funny which was a nice surprise since it's not a subject that you associate humor with.