Tonto Dikeh is a beautiful diva on the screen. Her style of acting is superb. Tonto is always ready to go extra mile to interpret roles and make fans fall in love with her the more. Her expository knowledge in interpreting roles is rare. Within few years on screen, she became the toast of all, celebrity of purpose and melted the hearts of her fans with good movies, a pay for hardwork and persistent determination. Have you watched the movie titled "Dirty Secret? I fell in love with tonto dikeh the day I saw the movie. It was a complete dose for fun and entertainment. She was a leading Nigerian actress before she becomes instagram celebrity and presenter who sells life-story to live and survive. She is a controversial celebrity and always on the pages of newspaper for wrong reasons. In a viral video, Tonto Dikeh publicly nailed her ex-husband, Churchill. "He is a cheat, liar, fraud and 40secs man. Only the sex that produced my son lasted for a minute. He normally wraps a red cloth at his waist while browsing on laptop" she lamented. If you have ever watched movies produced by tonto dikeh especially "dirty secrets", you will understand her lamentations that 40secs man can not satisfy a woman of such sexual prowess. Do you know what yorubas call "Iyawo Asante"? When a man forcefully makes a woman his wife. Was Tonto Dikeh a victim of Iyawo Ashante? The first question I asked myself when I watched the viral video. Both were lovers for months before churchill got her pregnant. Was Tonto carried away by fragrant display of wealth, connections and family ties? Did Tonto ask Churchill about the source of his wealth before marriage? Did she ask about his family members or possibly meet them? Why did she go ahead with the marriage if Churchill was truly a 40secs man? If she was aware of all these yet went ahead to marry him then I have no sympathy for her but condolences for the marital oath. Like Tonto Dikeh Like Nigeria Politicians. Both live on denial and deceit. Both act with time duration and target. Tonto targeted Churchill's fragrant display of wealth and family ties while Nigeria politicians target minds of electorate. Get what you want, feed on it and leave; that is how lions hunt in the jungle. During campaigns, Nigeria politicians move around and take notes of people's problems. They know about the sorry state of health, miserable state of schools, woeful tales of insecurity, economy in recession, extent of unemployment, poor infrastructure, lack of social amenities and paucity of funds as Tonto Dikeh was already aware of Churchill shortcomings if they are true yet they make promises and assure people as Tonto assured her ex-husband that they will proffer solutions to these problems. They enjoy all benefits as public officers. They ride big cars, live in big apartments and travel across the continent. After 3years in office, they start lamenting and wailing in offices after their efforts yielded less as 1minute sex produces Tonto's son. They complain about degree of decay and paucity of funds they were already aware of. Paucity of funds that do not affect their basic salaries and allowances as public officer. They engage in projects they have once condemned as Tonto Dikeh comtinues to engage in habits of babymamas and single mothers she has once condemned. Distribution of motorcycles and wheelbarrows as empowerment. I have once read it on social media that packs of indomie were distributed in the north as empowerment. Citizens are in hasty to count solutions but politicians count problems. Please always try and pay courtesy visit to Nigeria politicians whenever they leave offices especially politicians who suffer electoral misfortune. Like Tonto Dikeh who shares miserable tales of his marriage , they share stories of what they did while in office; compare and contrast. "I funded our wedding ceremony and settled other bills. I was in charge of running our home financially and the husband of our family", she said. "People are ingrates. I distributed motorcycles and paracetamols as health intervention yet they did not return me to office. I enlisted hundreds of youths I pay salaries every month and other cheap means of empowerment. People are not grateful, they did not vote for me after all I have done" these are the lamentations of relegated politicians. It is my prayer that ladies do not read this article only for defense or fun rather they should read meanings to lessons embedded in it. Conditional love never lasts. Marry for love, affection and understanding. If you marry because of fragrant display of wealth, connections and family ties, if these expire, nothing can sustain the marriage. You will need to lament everyday like Tonto Dikeh. As public officials, develop and engage in socio-welfare intervention. Make yourself accessible and available for people who elected you as their representative. It is a matter of time; your tenure will soon expire and whatever you do in office would determine your end either lamentation or another successful trial. Lawal Sodiq Adewale (Apagunpote Olayimika Chocomilo) is a freelance opinion writer and writes from Osogbo, the capital of Osun state<doc-sep>“Thank God President Buhari is back in the country. I feel some kind of relief.” “What is your own? Are you his son? And what is wrong in a man taking some time off work and returning 10 days later.” “But you will agree with me that private visit to the United Kingdom more or less heated up the polity and generated considerable anxiety. Too many people became lawyers. When some people quote the Constitution like this, you will think that they know it all. And then those ones who call themselves Constitutional lawyers…” “I think I have told you this before. There is nothing called Constitutional lawyer. There is no such special category. No lawyer has special rights over the Constitution than other lawyers. Every lawyer uses the Constitution. It is the basic law upon which every other law rests. It is like a work tool, like a mason’s square. It is even like you saying there are stethoscope doctors. Every doctor uses the stethoscope. It is like saying someone is a public affairs journalist. I am yet to see a private affairs journalist. If you know one, let me know.” “Yes, I do. I definitely know some journalists who like to poke their noses into people’s affairs, whether public or private. It is about time someone began to give such journalists a bloody nose.” “It is always so easy to blame the messenger, and preach to the media.” “Well, someone you know very well, just did that. Femi Adesina has been busy mocking the opposition, saying the online journalists who wrote stories speculating that President Buhari could extend his stay in the UK have been put to shame and the hogwash that they fed the public has been exposed as fake news.” “He was very specific. He talked about online media.” “What is the difference? In fact, you are likely to get more information from social media these days than from the mainstream media. Is that why Femi should be giving everyone a lecture on press freedom and the need for responsible conduct?” “He has a point there. And I will advise you not to push the point too hard. Indeed, the kind of things some people write on social media in this country, if you are on the other side, working for either the President or any other high-level government official, you are likely to fight back, except that certain things are just not worth paying attention to.” “So, are you now recommending censorship?” “No. I am making a point about the nexus between freedom and responsibility” “I disagree. The people in government should also be told about that nexus. The President exercises the freedom to go on a private visit, and then he comes back, and someone asks him about the security situation in the country and all he can say is that he noticed that the Inspector-General of Police has lost weight, so he must be working hard. Has anyone bothered to brief him about the kidnap of the traditional head of his own village and his Aide de camp’s father in law?” “I actually thought the President displayed a good sense of humour there.” “Humour? After how many persons have been killed across the North West within ten days? Who cares whether or not the Inspector-general of Police loses weight or not. We want him to protect Nigerians and get the job done?” “Try and be nice a little bit. The man has only spent 100 days on the job as Inspector-General of Police, and he has lost weight trying his best.” “Okay, may be by the time he spends a year, he will have no weight left at all. Who is that doctor saying people lose weight when they work hard?” “I think we should try to encourage people who work for this country. I disagree with you. And you can’t blame the IGP for anything. Nigeria’s security problem is far more complex than something anyone can solve in 100 days. You should know that. By the way, the Katsina State Commissioner of Police has been asked to relocate to Daura. That is based on the Inspector General’s directive.” “Eye service. Eye service. That is what we do in this country. The last time some persons were kidnapped in my own village, nobody directed the State Commissioner of Police to relocate there. The Inspector General of Police should consider himself lucky he is not from Sri Lanka. When people were killed in Sri Lanka on Easter Sunday and it was established that the police chief and the Defence Minister had failed to act on prior intelligence notice, they were both asked to resign, and the President didn’t crack jokes. Bet with me…” “I don’t bet. I don’t gamble.” “You don’t know what you are missing. Let’s bet…you will see that all these our service chiefs and heads of security agencies will soon be given National Honours by the Federal Government. Just bet with me.” “You can’t punish a person for the failure of the system. I support the present Inspector-General of Police. Are you aware that one police officer has been redeployed from Lagos state to Ebonyi state, Abayomi Shogunle, the ACP in charge of Public Complaints Response Unit for publishing insensitive tweets on his twitter handle, calling some women prostitutes. ” “And the police told you he was transferred because of tweets? And how is transfer to Ebonyi state being interpreted as a punishment? Did he tweet on the official twitter account or his own private twitter account? Please don’t insult the people of Ebonyi State. Any police officer can be sent to any part of the country. What I condemn is eye service.” “I am talking about freedom of expression and responsibility. Even when you are free to do private things, as a public officer, you must be responsible enough to make sure that your private choices do not violate your professional responsibilities.” “I really don’t get your drift. You talk from every corner of the mouth.<doc-sep>The movie star made her reasons known via her Instagram page on Tuesday, May 7, 2019, while reacting to a statement from one of her followers. Tonto Dikeh had shared a post where she prayed that a number of women might have taken a lesson or two from her recent social media rants. "I truly Hope you learn a thing or 2!! If it can happen to me it sure can happen to you!! Read lots of heartbreaking experienced emails and I wept for you more than I did me, For every pain out there God will heal you!! But best believe there is someone out there who will love you silly!! #Dont let the naysayers stop your process #KINGTONTO #MAMAKING," she wrote. It didn't take long before a follower who apparently had a divergent view replied her. "ifygul I admired u till u brought the sexual part public, honestly that part was uncalled for," the follower wrote. Tonto Dikeh then went on to reveal the reason behind her comments on Churchill Olakunle's sexual deficiency. Pulse Nigeria "So a man fucking man say I'm on drugs and I cant use his sexual disease against him?? Ooo pls, honey, I sa8d more, For me, I will drag your life from hell and back until I'm ok!! We all cant be d same you know💋," she replied. Pulse Nigeria It would be recalled that about a week ago, Tonto Dikeh shut the internet down when she revealed that her former husband, Churchill Olakunle couldn't last long in bed. It didn't end there, Tonto went on to call him a ritualist. Tonto Dikeh makes outrageous claims about ex-husband [VIDEO] In a tell-it-all video, Tonto alleged that her ex-husband was involved in internet fraud and rituals. The movie star made this known in her two-part video, where she spoke on everything about her marriage and how it went from good to bad. She also revealed untold details of how she lived with her ex-husband before and after the birth of their son, King. "After I came back from giving birth to my son, I had been suspecting that he was into Yahoo...before I even came back to Nigeria I had already begun to suspect but the only thing that made me confirm was the night that he wasn't supposed to be home and I slept early because of my son. And I heard some noise in his room because he's in the penthouse and my room is under. "So, I heard a noise upstairs, nobody was supposed to be in that room. I opened up this room, I saw a full-grown man wearing a red cloth in his waist with red candles everywhere around him with a laptop in his hands. Immediately I saw that I was shocked, I was simply shocked. I was not scared but I was shocked. I just started laughing and he got me and that was one of the first fights we had after I had King," she said.<doc-sep>Eniola Akinkuotu, Abuja Nollywood actress, Tonto Dikeh, says she is a shameless person and therefore will not be cowed by the expectations of people. Dikeh, while chatting with radio presenter, Daddy Freeze, said she would continue to fight dirty with her ex-husband and father of her son, Olakunle Churchill, because “she has no shame”. The actress said most actresses marry ‘Yahoo’ boys (Internet fraudsters) in a desperate search for love only to realise their mistake afterward. She said, “This is the thing most of our actresses go through but nobody says anything. We get so lonely and when we need somebody to hold onto, we get into the wrong hands. Half of us have married ‘Yahoo’ boys. “Most of them are just walking away because it is too shameful for them but I am shameless; I will talk because I don’t have any shame in my life. I don’t because if this man is arrested tomorrow, they will link him to me because I was once married to him.” Dikeh claimed she was the one who paid for the wedding ceremony with her husband in 2015. She said even the hotel rooms booked for the wedding were paid for by one of her male friends. The actress also said she did no wrong by changing her son’s surname from her husband’s to her own. She said she was the one that had been paying the school fees of her son, King, and therefore had the right to change his name. Dikeh said contrary to reports, her former husband did not buy her a house but they all lived in a rented apartment. When asked if there was anything good about her short marriage to Churchill, Dikeh said there was nothing good about the relationship because it was built on lies.<doc-sep>
Trust us when we say this new revelation by Tonto Dikeh will not only spark off a lot of conversation but will do a lot of harm on Churchill Olakunle's reputation and image. Some of the things she revealed in her new documentary aren't really new while for others, it will be the first time they will get to hear about how her marriage to Olakunle Churchill crashed. So guys, here are five shocking things Tonto Dikeh said about Churchill Olakunle that you need to read. 1. The premature ejaculation issues Pulse Nigeria During her chat with media personality, Daddy Freeze, Tonto Dikeh revealed that her ex-husband, Churchill Olakunle couldn't last long in bed. As humiliating as this may sound, the actress revealed that she was surprised he went around cheating when he couldn't satisfy a woman in bed. "The beginning of the relationship, I never suspected him of cheating because he has a disease, a sexual disease, it is called premature ejaculation. He can't stay inside a woman for more than 40 seconds. My son was the longest sex, one minute," she said. 2. Churchill Olakunle being an internet fraudster Tonto Dikeh has always called her ex-husband an internet fraudster but this time around in her Youtube channel, she went further to give a very detailed instance of the time she caught him red-handed carrying out what she feels was a ritual for his Internet fraud illicit business. "After I came back from giving birth to my son, I had been suspecting that he was into Yahoo...before I even came back to Nigeria I had already begun to suspect but the only thing that made me confirm was the night that he wasn't supposed to home and I slept early because of my son. And I heard some noise in his room because he's in the penthouse and my room is under. "So, I heard a noise upstairs, nobody was supposed to be in that room. I opened up this room, I saw a full-grown man wearing a red cloth in his waist with red candles everywhere around him with a laptop in his hands. Immediately I saw that I was shocked, I was simply shocked. I was not scared but I was shocked. I just started laughing and he got me and that was one of the first fights we had after I had King," she said. 3. Selling the car she got from him Pulse Nigeria A few months ago, Churchill Olakunle had filled a lawsuit against Tonto Dikeh over her alleged sale of his car. In her new interview with Daddy Freeze, she revealed how the name in the papers of the car where neither that of her ex-husband or hers'. She went to talk about how she discovered the car wasn't bought in her son's name after the police had stopped her friend who was driving the car. Tonto Dikeh said she didn't see any reason why she would have stayed married to Churchill and leave his house without anything. Hence her decision to take the car when she was leaving the house. 4. Churchill Olakunle was never her Mr. X Tonto Dikeh went on to clear the air about her relationship with the mysterious 'Mr. X' back in the days. According to her, Churchill Olakunle was never her Mr X, rather he was someone who wanted to keep their relationship private since all her previous relationships which had gotten publicity, didn't see the light of the day. "He was not originally Mr. X but as a girl, I had already flaunted this relationship, he had gotten me so much exotic gifts, he had done so much for me that other girls wanted their own Mr. X and for the relationship to have ended, I was so ashamed, I was so broken and couldn’t come out to say the relationship had broken, so when I met my son’s father on February 13. We started talking three days after and because I was an emotional wreck, I needed a new relationship, I needed some sort of consolation and he was there, so we got dating and that was how I declared him Mr. X. Initially, he was never Mr. X” she said. 5. Churchill Olakunle allegedly being gay Tonto Dikeh in one of her numerous attacks, had accused her ex-husband of being gay.