I do n't mind being a tagalong in many cases , at all .I knew he wanted me to come which is why I did n't go .None of the above choices .I am selling myself short by thinking others do n't think about me .
What might I have learned about myself after this incident ?
I should have gone with them to visit him as a tagalong , perhaps , but I did not . I though " Oh , I barely know him ... like he 'd honestly care about me . " He did .