They might be lazy and unwilling to do anythingThey might enjoy that lifestyle and be happyThey might be depressed and unable to help themselvesThey might have been rebuffed when trying to access help
Why might the person 's dad be in that position ?
He spends his days going between meals at the local soup kitchen and hanging out at the local library . I ask myself the rhetorical question , " how can this be ? , " and have this insatiable urge to want to do something to help my dad . I know I ca n't .