They are having an affair behind their wife 's back .None of the above choices .They are in love with someone else more than their wife .They are unsure who they should be with .
What may be a fact about this person ?
Not to me , they are n't . Gee , maybe I should have a legal wife and an illicit , secretive affair instead , in which I ' m hurting both of the people I love instead of being open to the both of them that I love them ? I dunno .