Asking the groomWalking up to the barSneaking it in .None of the above choices .
How would someone acquire alcohol ?
They have all the tacky decorations you can get from Oriental Trading and are .... well , boring . When my friend got married , they had the reception in the community center , and it lasted for 45 minutes and consisted of punch and snacks ( like mixed nuts and mints ) . After the bride and groom arrived , there was a non - alcoholic toast and they cut the cake . Everyone had some cake while we all watched the bride and groom open their presents .