They prefer to do the rejection and not be rejected .They are not able to cope with being alone .They do nt like how great being rejected feels to them .They enjoy using people for their own benefit .
What may be the reason they fear rejection ?
There was a time when he told me , " I may not be the best person ... but I will try harder than anyone in the world . " He has , and I have to recognize that . He understands me better than anyone else ever did -- a close second being Tom , but I realize now that I was never completely honest with him , and this is because I feared stern rejection .