I think you could also try something like this:

SELECT * 
FROM Families 
WHERE Families.FamilyID IN (
  SELECT Children.FamilyID
  FROM Children
  WHERE Children.Gender&lt;>'m'
  GROUP BY Children.FamilyID
)

SQL Help in Access – Looking for the Absence of Data
How to load a properties file in java without calling laod method separately
i want to load the file while instantiation of the properties object itself. 
like i have pasted below but i am not able to succeed in it.

class test{
Properties configFile = new Properties(load(new FileInputStream("config.properties"));
}

