I do n't share the same intense feelings with her .She does n't share the same intense intense feelings with me .I do n't want to hang out with her as much .I do n't have experience with relationships .
What may be your reason for wanting to remain friends with her instead of pursuing a relationship ?
I 'd like to remain friends but I do n't want to pursue a relationship . I feel she may be more interested in me than I am in her and she would therefore text / call me to hang out more . I do n't have experience with this , so what can I do to not hang out with her more so it seems like I want to date . At the same time I want to remain polite and not a douchebag .