"Many things. Look on other lives besides your own. See what their troubles are, and how they are borne. Try to care about something in this vast world besides the gratification of small selfish desires. Try to care for what is best in thought and action--something that is good apart from the accidents of your own lot."
For an instant or two Gwendolen was mute. Then, again moving her brow from the glass, she said,
"You mean that I am selfish and ignorant."
He met her fixed look in silence before he answered firmly--"You will not go on being selfish and ignorant!"
She did not turn away her glance or let her eyelids fall, but a change came over her face--that subtle change in nerve and muscle which will sometimes give a childlike expression even to the elderly: it is the subsidence of self-assertion.

"Many things. Look on other lives besides your own. See what their troubles are, and how they are borne. Try to care about something in this vast world besides the gratification of small selfish desires. Try to care for something that is good apart from the accidents of your own lot."
For an instant or two Gwendolen was mute. Then she said-
"You mean that I am selfish and ignorant."
He met her fixed look in silence before he answered firmly- "You will not go on being selfish and ignorant."
She did not turn away her glance, but a subtle change came over her face: the subsidence of self-assertion.
