<s>[INST] hi,dont even know if it is a problem.i just cant get over being sad.i get these bouts of crying and dont know what to do??i have ateenage daughter n a 8 yr old son.i have been having regular disagreements with my husband.he seems to think i dont care about him at all.and to think i didnt make my career and have been looking fter them for 15 years....!!!! [/INST] Hi, I can understand what you must be going through. Having trouble in relationship with the person you care about a lot really makes us feel bad. Your symptoms of being sad and having crying episodes suggest that you are developing depression as a result of your marital conflicts. I would suggest that you consult a psychiatrist. Ant-depressants will help in overcoming your sadness and other symptoms. In addition, you and your husband must consider marital counseling as an option. It will help out ease the tension between you two and help you both feel better. I do hope that I was able to answer your query. Best wishes. </s>