<s>[INST] When i think about my girl friend and do check myself the tip of my penis scarily and i notice that it leaks. When i talk with her also it leaks and in some instances when we spend long hours i do get pain on my balls and also leaks. I dont know what is going wrong with me. Is it because of too much of mastrubation done in my past. If yes what is the solution to overcome this problem. I feel very embrasse on these situations. I have heard it decreases memory power as well.Coz I have faced problems like whether i have locked the door properly or not kind of situations. Help me!!!! [/INST] Hello, It seems like premature ejaculation. Please remember it has nothing to do with masturbation. Please do not blame yourself. Try Keel exercise. Avoid smoking and alcohol.  Get relaxed. There are some special sex therapy techniques which are helpful. If these fail, you can take some medicines like SSRI to control this.  Hope I have answered your queries. Let me know if I can assist you further. Take care  </s>