<s>[INST] Our adult son (30 years old) doesnt seem to care about his appearance, I dont think he actually sees it.  He will shave, think he is done; but, he has clearly missed some spots.  His truck is packed with garbage i.e. food containers, bottles, etc.  Basically, he is a slob!  We have told him to seek help; just not sure what his issues are. [/INST] Degree understand your concerns went through your details. Being slob and irresponsible never means a person has some mental disorder. That shows negative attitude. He is slob because he has not come across anything which teases his responsibility. He needs to have responsibility. Furthermore, he should learn from circumstances. Furthermore, he will get those lessons and one day he will be a responsible person. Wait for that to happen. Meanwhile, you may talk to a psychological counselor for help. If you require more of my help in this aspect, please use this URL. http://goo.gl/aYW2pR. Make sure that you include every minute details possible. Hope this answers your query. Available for further clarifications. Good luck. </s>