<s>[INST] lostmy boyfriend said he quit maturbating...i dont believe it and its consuming my life...my mind...schooling....i have trust issues with men...i dont understand y its consuming my life and mind...ive been physically ill over this for a while...lost weight stomache ulcers...etc...i think he does it when he gets mad at me....help [/INST] Hi relax. You can't control him and should not even try to think whether he masturbates or not. His health won't get affected with masturbation. You should think more of your health, eat healthy, spend time with your family members. Engage in exercises and physical work. This will help you to relax and also your well-being. Think for your future after 10 years and focus on your education and health. Hope this helps you. Wish you good health. Regards </s>