<s>[INST] Hello Doctor..I m 30 y old male & my wife is 29 Y old, married from last 5 years & have a 4 year daughter. My is 4 months pregnant. From many days I want to take & give ORAL SEX with my wife. But she refuses as she doesnt likes it. I just want to ask that is ORAL SEX unhygeinic? & is it right to do with a pregnant woman? & if yes, then how should i convince her [/INST] Dear Friend, If the genital parts are kept hygienically clean and if there is no sexually transmitted infection, oral sex is not unhygienic. There are different steps - from just applying lips to the genital parts to swallowing the secretion or ejaculation of the sex. To which stage to proceed is an individual choice. However, if the partner does not like oral sex and hates it, it may create psychological trauma, and she may lose sexual interest. Please do not compel. Oral sex is safe in pregnancy. Hope this helps you. </s>