<s>[INST] I have been married with my husband 25 years and recently I have diagnosed with Herpes 1 and herpes 2 his results are negative . I have been loyal to him all these years I have never kissed another man during our marriage. We have never shown any form of out brakes. We were both tested for sexual transmitted diseases in England 25 years ago and we botChatDoctore clear. Two questions if we are not using protection and we are sexually active how come that he has not got not even antibodies nothing he is totally clear. Second question : if we have been both true to each other how come, that I have Herpes 1 and Herpes 2? [/INST] Hi. Welcome to Chat Doctor . I have gone through your query and can understand your concerns. As per your complaint if your husband is not infected with herpes virus, and you are diagnosed with herpes there is a possibility that you have been exposed to some infectious things that have been used by an infected person like glasses, towels etc. In case if you do not have any breakout there is a possibility that the viral count in your body and over the surface of skin is low to cause outbreak. As your husband is still not infected I would suggest you to consult an Infectious Medicine Specialist and get evaluated and he can start anti-viral medication so that you do not get an outbreak. Take precautions while intercourse to prevent your husband from getting infected. Hope this information helps. Thanks and regards. </s>