<s>[INST] I am the mother of someone who is struggling terribly. He lives in another city and at this time will not take my phone calls or text messages. I just don t know how to help him. He seems angry especially at his father and I have no clue as to why he feels unloved or an inconvenience. [/INST] Dear serve understand your concerns went through your details. I Exactly understand your emotion and position. But there are no easy fixes. You or your husband can go in person to visit your son, or you can send an emissary. You can also request some of your friend who stays in that city to get in touch with your child. After having contact and after convincing him you can go for counseling.  If you require more of my help in this aspect, please use this URL. http://goo.gl/aYW2pR. Make sure that you include every minute details possible. Hope this answers your query. Available for further clarifications. Good luck. </s>