<s>[INST] I had a girl do oral on my penis and there was a clear build up of smegma under the forskin and ridge of the head. I dont think it was from phimosis I retracted it late just id never been taught it could retract and that i should be washing it ( I blame the parents :p)since i have kept it clean and dry. But i have always had almost like red lips around the uretheral opening and a very red frenulum. When I am erect the forskin goes back over the head okay but sort of bunches up a bit behind the head. i can stretch it a bit further but then it can be a bit sore. I have a redness next to the frenelum. What should i do about all this ? [/INST] HelloThanks for your query, based on the facts that you have posted it appears that you have developed inflammation of terminal part of urethra and external urinary meats due to Aral sex that you had from your girlfriend. As oral cavity is full of bacterial flora it is the prime cause of getting infection of glans, and meats. You need to take broad spectrum antibiotic like Čeferin along with anti-inflammatory Chat Doctor. Along with topical antibiotic ointment like Newsprint twice daily. Ensure to wash your genitals with warm water twice dailyEnsure to avoid sexual encounters till it heals up completely. </s>