<s>[INST] we had sex last week, and hence it is not confirmed, but they say we should not strain ourself for 1st 3 months, so if i strain myself in the 1st 2 weeks after sex and if i am going to be pregnant will it affect me from being pregnant, i mean will the baby get aborted? [/INST] Hello dear, i understand your concern. In my opinion straining after sex might not affect the conception. Almost most of the women don't know they are going to get pregnant and do their works normally till the pregnancy is confirmed. Once the pregnancy is confirmed one has to be careful like avoid physical strain, avoid lifting heavy weights, avoid intercourse etc. So heavy stress might lead to miscarriage during the initial weeks or months of pregnancy but not before conception. Best regards... Chat Doctor.  </s>