<s>[INST] hi, my name is Puneet and j hv been married fr 3 years now. I have been having a lot of issues and fights wth my wife mainly on issues related to my mother and sister. she gets extremely angry, abusive at times. also she feels my mom and my sis insults and mocks her. i have a 2 yr old daughter. my wife feels my sis wants to take away my daughter away from my wife. as a result, last week, she consumed some medicine in the attempt to kill herselves. since then i hvae been reading a lot and i think she might be suffering from Borderline personality disorder. when i told her that there is some problem with you and we should see a psychiatrist, she refuses to acknowledge that the issue is with her and she keeps blaming my sis for it all. Please guide me how can i make things better from here on [/INST] Hi, I have read your query. Since you are married for 3 years, and you are diagnosing your wife as personality disorders .this is not good try to communicate with both your sister and wife . Make some arrangement so that both can sit together and discuss the family matter ,,,also took advice from your parents etc. perhaps both of you husband and wife need some parental guidance ...do not straight way ask her to go to psychiatrist . If matter still not solved then take help from consultant or psychiatrist </s>