<s>[INST] Hello doctor, im a lady of 26 yrs.our marriage is love cme arrange marg.from beginning itself we live separate frm his parent.bcoz my parent s wish is like that.we lived abt 8 months.on those days we fought amny times bcoz of his family.they called him at his leave days to do sme work for them.he immediately got started n went to his home to do his duty...but he didnt never mind abt me even i was not well...after sme days he fought with me for living as joint family.for that both r separated for 1 month.then i decided to accept his wish.his family is not gud.they dont hav gud name frm neighbour also..my husb has 2 sisters.there is a pblm for me.for 1 month me n motherinlaw had gud relationship.but his sis encourage her mother to fight with me.,,i told to my husb every actions against me did by his sis .but he didnt response.ill be quite for 3 months.,then one day they shouted at me as usual..just i asked y u always scold me...then everyone my husb his sis and his mother also came to men beat me alot....i cant tolerate..i informed to my parent..next day my parent came n took me to my mom s home.still they r not ready to convince my parent n also me.my husb not ready to live with me as separate..he need again joint family.but i feel so afraid of them..again ill go there they may be beat me n kill me...so now my parent asked me to get divorce from him.but i couldnt do it..i need to live with him as separate life frm his family..but he didnt accept...its nearly 4 months i came to my mom home..stillthey r not ready to call me..they need again joint family..what will do?my parent askde me to get divorce....i cant spk against my parent also...its very bad to me...kindly suggest me what will do in this? [/INST] Degree understand your concerns went through your details. I suggest you not to worry much. Family problems for the newly-wed people are very common. Almost Every newly-wed faces the same problems as you are facing. Meeting a psychological counselor who is specialized in marriage counseling in your demo-graphical set up, should be of immense help.  Know yourself and understand others. This is key. If you require more of my help in this aspect, Please post a direct question to me in this website. Make sure that you include every minute details possible. I shall prescribe the needed psychotherapy techniques. Hope this answers your query. Available for further clarifications. Good luck. </s>