<s>[INST] my son is 11 years old, very intelligent ,smart and very good in studies, he is little bit overweight than his old gps but very active, still i don t know whenever there is some fights occurs between them he always surrender or starts crying, in home also he always cries alot. what should i do [/INST] Hello, I would suggest you spend time with him every day after school and ask him about his day at school. Try to find out his interest and whether there is something happening in school OS affecting him.  Encourage healthy food and exercise and make sure his weight is appropriate for his age and height.  Make him understand that it is important that he should be healthy and not worry much about his looks much.  Find out his interest and try to channelize his energy and divert him if he is worried about unnecessary things. Hope I have answered your query. Let me know if I can assist you further. Take care Chat Doctor.  </s>