<s>[INST] Hi, may I answer your health queries right now ?  Please type your query here... I am controlling obsessive and posseive over my boyfriend. I make demands and I boss him about. Most of the time I dont know Im even doing it till I take a step back and look at it from an outsiders point of view. I need help and I dont know where to go or who to turn to [/INST] Degree understand your concerns went through your details. I suggest you not to worry much.  I can assure you that you are not doing anything wrong. You are being possessive and authoritative towards your boyfriend because, you are in love with him Don't worry. All this behavior are part of every day life. Don't be amused. Just make sure that you think positive and right. Slowly, when you understand the depth of love and life, you will stop behaving possessively. Called maturity. Psychotherapy techniques should suit your requirement. If you require more of my help in this aspect, Please post a direct question to me in this URL. http://goo.gl/aYW2pR. Make sure that you include every minute details possible. I shall prescribe the needed psychotherapy techniques. Hope this answers your query. Available for further clarifications. Good luck. </s>