<s>[INST] my wife is working in state govt employee she is always in narrow minded, negative thinking, and murmering the abusive words contoneously. Utterly selfish in routine life even she neglect our 4 years son caring also, please suggest me what type of symptoms are these. Her mother is also suffered with same n more n expired before 3 years. [/INST] Degree understand your concerns went through your details. I suggest you not to worry much. I think you must think in a broad manner. She is working and could be over stressed. The reason for her behavior could also be from your side. Before concluding anything, please consult a psychological counselor for expert advice. If you require more of my help in this aspect, Please post a direct question to me in this website. Make sure that you include every minute details possible. I shall prescribe the needed psychotherapy techniques which should help you cure your condition further. Hope this answers your query. Available for further clarifications. Good luck. </s>