Watching him reshape his identity during his illness, learning to witness and accept his pain, talking together through his choices, those experiences taught me that resilience does not mean bouncing back to where you were before, or pretending that the hard stuff isn't hard.
Al verlo cambiar su identidad durante la enfermedad, aprender a sentir y aceptar su dolor, hablar juntos de sus opciones todas esas experiencias me enseñaron que la resiliencia no significa luchar por volver a lo de antes, o fingir que las cosas difíciles no lo son.