But how do you reconcile this idea of it being bad to think of someone as a "loser," with the idea that a lot of people like, of seizing control of your life, and that a society that encourages that, perhaps has to have some winners and losers?
¿Cómo reconcilias la idea de que es malo pensar de alguien como un perdedor con la idea que a muchos gusta, de tomar el control de tu vida y que una sociedad que favorece eso quizás tenga que tener algunos ganadores y perdedores?