We perhaps are overestimating how much our self-interest is driving our decisions, and perhaps we don't realize how much our self-view as a good person is affecting our behavior, that in fact, we're working so hard to protect that good person identity, to keep out of that red zone, that we're not actually giving ourselves space to learn from our mistakes and actually be better people.
Tal vez sobreestimamos hasta qué punto el egoísmo maneja nuestras decisiones, y tal vez no notamos cuánto nuestra visión de lo que es una buena persona afecta nuestro comportamiento, que, de hecho, nos esforzamos tanto en proteger esa identidad buena para alejarnos de esa zona roja que en realidad no nos damos espacio para aprender de nuestros errores y ser mejores personas.