And so to avoid idealizing, you have to balance them out by remembering their frown, not just their smile, how bad they made you feel, the fact that after the lovemaking, you got lost coming down the mountain, argued like crazy and didn't speak for two days.
Para evitar la idealización, debemos lograr un equilibrio recordando su ceño fruncido, —no solo su sonrisa— lo mal que nos hizo sentir, el hecho de que nos perdimos en la montaña después de hacer el amor, discutimos acaloradamente y no nos hablamos por dos días.