Well, you feel dried up, you can't get wet, your vagina seems to be on fire and, Your partner perceives your discomfort, then you feel bad, then your partner feels guilty, and then you feel as if you have wrecked the whole moment.
Bueno, te sientes seca, no puedes mojarte, tu vagina parece arder y Tu pareja percibe tu malestar, luego tú te sientes mal, luego tu pareja se siente culpable y al final sientes que tú arruinaste todo el momento.