And if you do change and if your family and friends are still eating meat, you're going to be in the awkward position of at least implicitly suggesting that what they're doing is wrong when you order something differently.
Y si efectivamente cambias y si tu familia y amigos siguen comiendo carne, vas estar en la posición incómoda de sugerir por lo menos implícitamente que está mal lo que hacen cuando pides algo distinto.