It's it's always bothered me just at a basic level, because it seems to imply that masculinity is inherently toxic as opposed to what you said, which is there's a there's a brand or a flavor of masculinity that can be toxic.
Siempre me ha molestado esta frase profundamente, porque parece implicar que la masculinidad es intrínsecamente tóxica al contrario de lo que Ud. ha dicho, que es que hay un tipo de masculinidad que puede ser tóxica.