But there's another way to avoid the discomfort. And it's exactly the opposite: we turn up the volume on the things we didn't expect to hear, such as "I spoke nicely to him," "I asked him to take me home," "I asked him to finish quickly," and we turn down the volume on the things we did expect to hear: the gun in the glove compartment, the isolation.
Pero hay otro camino para deshacernos de la incomodidad, y que es exactamente el inverso: le subimos el volumen a las cosas que no esperábamos escuchar, como: "Yo le hablé bien", "Le pedí que me lleve a mi casa", "Le pedí que acabara rápido", y se lo bajamos a las cosas que sí esperábamos escuchar, el revólver en la guantera, el aislamiento.