So I did a little research and I came across something, just to make sure this wasn't all on my mind, called the competence/likability dilemma, where women, unlike men, are rarely perceived to be both competent and likable.
Entonces, investigué un poco y me enteré de algo, solo para asegurarme de que no lo había inventado, llamado el dilema de la simpatía, donde las mujeres, diferente a hombres, se perciben raramente como competentes y simpáticas.