And you can withdraw up to $10,000 ($20,000 for couples) from an IRA for a first home purchase without penalty. Another option to get your money out of an IRA early is to set up a series of annuity payments.
To show some appreciation and thanks for the dedication, tolerance, and love given to you from your parents, the following thank you quotes will help to place things into perspective.
Let your ring bearers and flower girls have their moment while walking down the aisle, but then have them sit down with their respective parents. Their behavior will be best if they sit with Mom or Dad. In addition, you may want to think about giving each kid a gift (perhaps a toy that's handheld and very quiet) to keep them occupied during the ceremony. Not only will their parents appreciate it immensely, but it will ease your nerves as well.