1 You might need to grind a couple of resource picks to restore full durability to the target.  Shears, hoes, flint and steels and fishing rods (excluding Luke of the Sea and Lure until the new release) can always be repaired by using a new set of unenchanted resources (full durability).
Passive-aggressive behavior is the indirect expression of hostility, such as through procrastination, stubbornness, sullenness, or deliberate or repeated failure to accomplish requested tasks for which one is (often explicitly) responsible.
Truth is -- it doesn't. Passive aggression, when applied to everyday situations, is a red herring. You have a request from one person to another. Deciding the person asking has the high road and the person refusing is passive aggressive is just ignorant. Pop psychology of the worst sort.