The difference between a child psychologist and a child psychiatrist is important to understand. Child psychologists are doctors trained to diagnose mental and behavioral disorders, and can provide therapy and counseling.
Not all lectins are bad, but some are (or at least, can be). A subset of lectins that can be found in large concentrations in the seeds of grasses (i.e. grains) and the legume family do have some properties that can make them very problematic for human health, namely that:
Lectins are drawn right to that lining, and your immune system retaliates. Lectins are found in all foods, but in some more than others. All seeds of the grass family - wheat, rye, rice, spelt, etc. - are high in lectins. You also find lectins in beans, dairy and in the nightshades (tomatoes, potatoes, eggplant). According to a 1991 study, dairy may be potentially more harmful in pasteurized, processed milk because of the reduction of SIgA, an immunoglobulin that binds dangerous lectins.