For example, if you are annoyed by your mate’s untidiness, you can respectfully say, ‘ When you come home from work and leave your clothes on the floor [the when and what of the problem], I feel that my efforts to care for the home are not appreciated [explains exactly how you feel]. ’
[ इससे आपके पति को साफ - साफ पता चलेगा कि आप कैसा महसूस करती हैं] । ’