Regardless of how successful your own parents were in satisfying your emotional needs, three things can assist you to succeed as a truly helpful parent: (1) Avoid being so absorbed in your own difficulties that you ignore the seemingly small problems of your children; (2) endeavor to have pleasant and meaningful daily communication with them; (3) promote a positive attitude regarding how to solve problems and deal with people.
तब की बात बताने पर जब वह किशोर थी, बरगिट कहती है: “मुझे यह सीखना पड़ा कि आप लोगों को अपनी इच्छानुसार बनने के लिए बदल नहीं सकते हैं ।