For John and countless others like him, the situation is summed up by a Yoruba proverb: “Getting married quickly is not a matter to boast about; the cost of food is the difficulty. ”
जब हम किसी वस्तु की लालसा करते हैं जो हमें मिलती नहीं, तब दुःखी होना कितना आसान है ।