If your children know that you will lecture them before they are even finished talking or will get angry when you learn how they really feel, then they may keep their feelings to themselves.
लेकिन यदि वे जानते हैं कि आप सचमुच सुनेंगे, तो इसकी संभावना कहीं अधिक है कि वे आपसे खुलकर बात करेंगे । — नीतिवचन २०: ५ से तुलना कीजिए ।