As for women you feel are averse, talk to them suasively; then leave them alone in bed (without molesting them) and go to bed with them (when they are willing).
Kuma waɗanda kuke tsõron bijirewarsu, to, ku yi musu gargaɗi, kuma ku ƙaurace musu a cikin wurãren kwanciya, kuma ku dõke su.