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学会谈论感受，并总是指出你的规则和决定的原因，同时考虑到孩子的感受和你所要求的积极的一面。
Learn to talk about the feelings, and always point out the reasons for your rules and decisions, taking into account the child's feelings and the positive side of what you're asking of them.