My 95 yr old mom was refusing to go to ER.  She fell after being dizzy.  She was so mad at me for taking her in.  After a while, the more staff came in, the more relaxed she became. She said how good she was being treated.  She looked at me at one point and said I may thank you later for taking me in!  From my standpoint, she got excellent care from everyone and was definitely given the respect she deserved.  Despite her age, she is sharp and questions were asked of her first.  My sister and I  helped fill in a few blanks where necessary.   
AWAMC ED