I was treated as an adult, even though I'm past my prime.   Sometimes doctors have brushed me aside and/or ignored my questions.  Once recently (at a different facility than Aurora) I was interrupted while asking a question, the doctor telling me to get scheduled for the surgery as he was leaving the room and finished what he was saying in the hall, his voice receding as he left my presence.  Then I left to choose a different provider.
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