First rheumatologist in 21 years to be kind to me during an initial visit and listen to me. She started by listening, then ordering labs, and explained once labs come back, we'll go from there. She also gave me reassureance that if it wasn't lupus, we'd figure out what was going on. Most importantly, she seemed to believe me, was calm, and patient. I didn't feel rushed. I also didn't feel the need to tell 21 years worth of health issues; she simplified the initial visit and that kept me from feeling overwhelmed. Her team was also very nice, including front office. This is the first time in my life I didn't leave a rheumatology appointment crying in frustration and despair. 
OSW Rheumatology