Connection pool exhaustion for lazy entity association (acquisition timeout)
### Describe the bug

Hi guys!
I've noticed that some async processing in our project exhausts a database connection pool, and it never recovers.
The problem can be fixed by adding @Transactional annotation to @Incoming event handler, but 
1) I am not changing anything in the database during this process, using only "findById" method and getting some info from an entity
2) for some methods, performance is the case, so I would rather not add transactional processing there

Please check the reproducer.
There are two related entities and two tests: 
1) GreetingResourceTest: we are calling the HTTP endpoint repeatedly 50 times, and everything is ok. The connection pool works fine and gives us all entities to process
2) GreetingKafkaTest: we are sending an event to the topic and waiting for it to be processed. After the 4th repeat, it starts to fail because the connection pool max-size is set to 5

Please notice that when you set EAGER association between two entities, everything works fine for both tests.
I believe something is wrong with releasing DB connection during async execution.

### Expected behavior

LAZY association between entities works the same as EAGER one for non-transactional processing: connections are reused in the pool

### Actual behavior

"Unable to acquire JDBC Connection" after some calls (max pool size)
Caused by: java.sql.SQLException: Sorry, acquisition timeout!

### How to Reproduce?

[cp-reproducer.zip](https://github.com/quarkusio/quarkus/files/9275380/cp-reproducer.zip)


### Output of `uname -a` or `ver`

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### Output of `java -version`

java version "11.0.12" 2021-07-20 LTS Java(TM) SE Runtime Environment 18.9 (build 11.0.12+8-LTS-237) Java HotSpot(TM) 64-Bit Server VM 18.9 (build 11.0.12+8-LTS-237, mixed mode)

### GraalVM version (if different from Java)

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### Quarkus version or git rev

2.11.2 and smaller

### Build tool (ie. output of `mvnw --version` or `gradlew --version`)

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### Additional information

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diff --git a/extensions/smallrye-reactive-messaging/runtime/src/main/java/io/quarkus/smallrye/reactivemessaging/runtime/SmallRyeReactiveMessagingLifecycle.java b/extensions/smallrye-reactive-messaging/runtime/src/main/java/io/quarkus/smallrye/reactivemessaging/runtime/SmallRyeReactiveMessagingLifecycle.java
index b42cd10fda0..8ad0e75d8dc 100644
--- a/extensions/smallrye-reactive-messaging/runtime/src/main/java/io/quarkus/smallrye/reactivemessaging/runtime/SmallRyeReactiveMessagingLifecycle.java
+++ b/extensions/smallrye-reactive-messaging/runtime/src/main/java/io/quarkus/smallrye/reactivemessaging/runtime/SmallRyeReactiveMessagingLifecycle.java
@@ -10,6 +10,9 @@
 import javax.inject.Inject;
 import javax.interceptor.Interceptor;
 
+import io.quarkus.arc.Arc;
+import io.quarkus.arc.InjectableContext;
+import io.quarkus.arc.ManagedContext;
 import io.quarkus.runtime.StartupEvent;
 import io.smallrye.reactive.messaging.EmitterConfiguration;
 import io.smallrye.reactive.messaging.providers.extension.ChannelConfiguration;
@@ -37,6 +40,14 @@ void onStaticInit(@Observes @Initialized(ApplicationScoped.class) Object event,
     }
 
     void onApplicationStart(@Observes @Priority(Interceptor.Priority.LIBRARY_BEFORE) StartupEvent event) {
+        // We do not want a request scope during the wiring, or it will be propagated and never terminated.
+        ManagedContext requestContext = Arc.container().requestContext();
+        boolean isRequestScopeActive = requestContext.isActive();
+        InjectableContext.ContextState state = null;
+        if (isRequestScopeActive) {
+            state = requestContext.getState();
+            requestContext.deactivate();
+        }
         try {
             mediatorManager.start();
         } catch (Exception e) {
@@ -44,6 +55,10 @@ void onApplicationStart(@Observes @Priority(Interceptor.Priority.LIBRARY_BEFORE)
                 throw e;
             }
             throw new DeploymentException(e);
+        } finally {
+            if (state != null) {
+                requestContext.activate(state);
+            }
         }
     }
 
diff --git a/independent-projects/arc/runtime/src/main/java/io/quarkus/arc/impl/ActivateRequestContextInterceptor.java b/independent-projects/arc/runtime/src/main/java/io/quarkus/arc/impl/ActivateRequestContextInterceptor.java
index 284de44f354..44bb09bbe00 100644
--- a/independent-projects/arc/runtime/src/main/java/io/quarkus/arc/impl/ActivateRequestContextInterceptor.java
+++ b/independent-projects/arc/runtime/src/main/java/io/quarkus/arc/impl/ActivateRequestContextInterceptor.java
@@ -1,6 +1,7 @@
 package io.quarkus.arc.impl;
 
 import io.quarkus.arc.Arc;
+import io.quarkus.arc.InjectableContext;
 import io.quarkus.arc.ManagedContext;
 import io.smallrye.mutiny.Multi;
 import io.smallrye.mutiny.Uni;
@@ -38,14 +39,16 @@ private CompletionStage<?> invokeStage(InvocationContext ctx) {
         }
 
         return activate(requestContext)
-                .thenCompose(v -> proceedWithStage(ctx))
-                .whenComplete((r, t) -> requestContext.terminate());
+                .thenCompose(state -> proceedWithStage(ctx).whenComplete((r, t) -> {
+                    requestContext.destroy(state);
+                    requestContext.deactivate();
+                }));
     }
 
-    private static CompletionStage<ManagedContext> activate(ManagedContext requestContext) {
+    private static CompletionStage<InjectableContext.ContextState> activate(ManagedContext requestContext) {
         try {
             requestContext.activate();
-            return CompletableFuture.completedStage(requestContext);
+            return CompletableFuture.completedStage(requestContext.getState());
         } catch (Throwable t) {
             return CompletableFuture.failedStage(t);
         }
@@ -68,8 +71,13 @@ private Multi<?> invokeMulti(InvocationContext ctx) {
 
             return Multi.createFrom().deferred(() -> {
                 requestContext.activate();
-                return proceedWithMulti(ctx);
-            }).onTermination().invoke(requestContext::terminate);
+                InjectableContext.ContextState state = requestContext.getState();
+                return proceedWithMulti(ctx)
+                        .onTermination().invoke(() -> {
+                            requestContext.destroy(state);
+                            requestContext.deactivate();
+                        });
+            });
         });
     }
 
@@ -90,8 +98,13 @@ private Uni<?> invokeUni(InvocationContext ctx) {
 
             return Uni.createFrom().deferred(() -> {
                 requestContext.activate();
-                return proceedWithUni(ctx);
-            }).eventually(requestContext::terminate);
+                InjectableContext.ContextState state = requestContext.getState();
+                return proceedWithUni(ctx)
+                        .eventually(() -> {
+                            requestContext.destroy(state);
+                            requestContext.deactivate();
+                        });
+            });
         });
     }
 
diff --git a/independent-projects/arc/tests/src/test/java/io/quarkus/arc/test/contexts/request/propagation/ActivateRequestContextInterceptorTest.java b/independent-projects/arc/tests/src/test/java/io/quarkus/arc/test/contexts/request/propagation/ActivateRequestContextInterceptorTest.java
index bfb2e696b90..29766a92dbf 100644
--- a/independent-projects/arc/tests/src/test/java/io/quarkus/arc/test/contexts/request/propagation/ActivateRequestContextInterceptorTest.java
+++ b/independent-projects/arc/tests/src/test/java/io/quarkus/arc/test/contexts/request/propagation/ActivateRequestContextInterceptorTest.java
@@ -13,6 +13,9 @@
 import io.smallrye.mutiny.Uni;
 import java.util.concurrent.CompletableFuture;
 import java.util.concurrent.CompletionStage;
+import java.util.concurrent.Executor;
+import java.util.concurrent.ExecutorService;
+import java.util.concurrent.Executors;
 import javax.enterprise.context.ApplicationScoped;
 import javax.enterprise.context.RequestScoped;
 import javax.enterprise.context.control.ActivateRequestContext;
@@ -23,6 +26,7 @@
 import org.junit.jupiter.api.AfterEach;
 import org.junit.jupiter.api.Assertions;
 import org.junit.jupiter.api.BeforeEach;
+import org.junit.jupiter.api.Nested;
 import org.junit.jupiter.api.Test;
 import org.junit.jupiter.api.extension.RegisterExtension;
 
@@ -32,74 +36,143 @@
 public class ActivateRequestContextInterceptorTest {
 
     @RegisterExtension
-    public ArcTestContainer container = new ArcTestContainer(FakeSessionProducer.class, SessionClient.class);
+    public ArcTestContainer container = new ArcTestContainer(FakeSessionProducer.class, SessionClient.class,
+            ExecutorProducer.class, SessionClientCompletingOnDifferentThread.class);
 
-    InstanceHandle<SessionClient> clientHandler;
+    @Nested
+    class CompletingActivateRequestContext {
 
-    @BeforeEach
-    public void reset() {
-        FakeSession.state = INIT;
-        clientHandler = Arc.container().instance(SessionClient.class);
-    }
+        InstanceHandle<SessionClient> clientHandler;
 
-    @AfterEach
-    public void terminate() {
-        clientHandler.close();
-        clientHandler.destroy();
-    }
+        @BeforeEach
+        void reset() {
+            FakeSession.state = INIT;
+            clientHandler = Arc.container().instance(SessionClient.class);
+        }
 
-    @Test
-    public void testUni() throws Exception {
-        Assertions.assertEquals(INIT, FakeSession.getState());
-        FakeSession.State result = clientHandler.get().openUniSession().await().indefinitely();
+        @AfterEach
+        void terminate() {
+            clientHandler.close();
+            clientHandler.destroy();
+        }
 
-        // Closed in the dispose method
-        Assertions.assertEquals(CLOSED, FakeSession.getState());
-        Assertions.assertEquals(OPENED, result);
-    }
+        @Test
+        public void testUni() throws Exception {
+            Assertions.assertEquals(INIT, FakeSession.getState());
+            FakeSession.State result = clientHandler.get().openUniSession().await().indefinitely();
 
-    @Test
-    public void testMulti() throws Exception {
-        Assertions.assertEquals(INIT, FakeSession.getState());
-        FakeSession.State result = clientHandler.get().openMultiSession()
-                .toUni()
-                .await().indefinitely();
+            // Closed in the dispose method
+            Assertions.assertEquals(CLOSED, FakeSession.getState());
+            Assertions.assertEquals(OPENED, result);
+        }
 
-        // Closed in the dispose method
-        Assertions.assertEquals(CLOSED, FakeSession.getState());
-        Assertions.assertEquals(OPENED, result);
-    }
+        @Test
+        public void testMulti() throws Exception {
+            Assertions.assertEquals(INIT, FakeSession.getState());
+            FakeSession.State result = clientHandler.get().openMultiSession()
+                    .toUni()
+                    .await().indefinitely();
 
-    @Test
-    public void testFuture() throws Exception {
-        Assertions.assertEquals(INIT, FakeSession.getState());
-        FakeSession.State result = clientHandler.get()
-                .openFutureSession().toCompletableFuture().join();
+            // Closed in the dispose method
+            Assertions.assertEquals(CLOSED, FakeSession.getState());
+            Assertions.assertEquals(OPENED, result);
+        }
 
-        // Closed in the dispose method
-        Assertions.assertEquals(CLOSED, FakeSession.getState());
-        Assertions.assertEquals(OPENED, result);
-    }
+        @Test
+        public void testFuture() throws Exception {
+            Assertions.assertEquals(INIT, FakeSession.getState());
+            FakeSession.State result = clientHandler.get()
+                    .openFutureSession().toCompletableFuture().join();
 
-    @Test
-    public void testStage() throws Exception {
-        Assertions.assertEquals(INIT, FakeSession.getState());
-        FakeSession.State result = clientHandler.get().openStageSession()
-                .toCompletableFuture().join();
+            // Closed in the dispose method
+            Assertions.assertEquals(CLOSED, FakeSession.getState());
+            Assertions.assertEquals(OPENED, result);
+        }
+
+        @Test
+        public void testStage() throws Exception {
+            Assertions.assertEquals(INIT, FakeSession.getState());
+            FakeSession.State result = clientHandler.get().openStageSession()
+                    .toCompletableFuture().join();
+
+            // Closed in the dispose method
+            Assertions.assertEquals(CLOSED, FakeSession.getState());
+            Assertions.assertEquals(OPENED, result);
+        }
+
+        @Test
+        public void testNonReactive() throws Exception {
+            Assertions.assertEquals(INIT, FakeSession.getState());
+            FakeSession.State result = clientHandler.get().openSession();
+
+            // Closed in the dispose method
+            Assertions.assertEquals(CLOSED, FakeSession.getState());
+            Assertions.assertEquals(OPENED, result);
+        }
 
-        // Closed in the dispose method
-        Assertions.assertEquals(CLOSED, FakeSession.getState());
-        Assertions.assertEquals(OPENED, result);
     }
 
-    @Test
-    public void testNonReactive() throws Exception {
-        Assertions.assertEquals(INIT, FakeSession.getState());
-        FakeSession.State result = clientHandler.get().openSession();
+    @Nested
+    class AsyncCompletingActivateRequestContext {
+
+        InstanceHandle<SessionClientCompletingOnDifferentThread> asyncClientHandler;
+
+        @BeforeEach
+        void reset() {
+            FakeSession.state = INIT;
+            asyncClientHandler = Arc.container().instance(SessionClientCompletingOnDifferentThread.class);
+        }
+
+        @AfterEach
+        void terminate() {
+            asyncClientHandler.close();
+            asyncClientHandler.destroy();
+        }
+
+        @Test
+        public void testUni() throws Exception {
+            Assertions.assertEquals(INIT, FakeSession.getState());
+            FakeSession.State result = asyncClientHandler.get().openUniSession().await().indefinitely();
+
+            // Closed in the dispose method
+            Assertions.assertEquals(CLOSED, FakeSession.getState());
+            Assertions.assertEquals(OPENED, result);
+        }
+
+        @Test
+        public void testMulti() throws Exception {
+            Assertions.assertEquals(INIT, FakeSession.getState());
+            FakeSession.State result = asyncClientHandler.get().openMultiSession()
+                    .toUni()
+                    .await().indefinitely();
+
+            // Closed in the dispose method
+            Assertions.assertEquals(CLOSED, FakeSession.getState());
+            Assertions.assertEquals(OPENED, result);
+        }
+
+        @Test
+        public void testFuture() throws Exception {
+            Assertions.assertEquals(INIT, FakeSession.getState());
+            FakeSession.State result = asyncClientHandler.get()
+                    .openFutureSession().toCompletableFuture().join();
+
+            // Closed in the dispose method
+            Assertions.assertEquals(CLOSED, FakeSession.getState());
+            Assertions.assertEquals(OPENED, result);
+        }
+
+        @Test
+        public void testStage() throws Exception {
+            Assertions.assertEquals(INIT, FakeSession.getState());
+            FakeSession.State result = asyncClientHandler.get().openStageSession()
+                    .toCompletableFuture().join();
+
+            // Closed in the dispose method
+            Assertions.assertEquals(CLOSED, FakeSession.getState());
+            Assertions.assertEquals(OPENED, result);
+        }
 
-        // Closed in the dispose method
-        Assertions.assertEquals(CLOSED, FakeSession.getState());
-        Assertions.assertEquals(OPENED, result);
     }
 
     @ApplicationScoped
@@ -139,6 +212,48 @@ public State openSession() {
         }
     }
 
+    @ApplicationScoped
+    static class SessionClientCompletingOnDifferentThread {
+        @Inject
+        FakeSession session;
+
+        @Inject
+        Executor executor;
+
+        @ActivateRequestContext
+        public Uni<State> openUniSession() {
+            return Uni.createFrom()
+                    .item(() -> session)
+                    .map(FakeSession::open)
+                    .emitOn(executor);
+        }
+
+        @ActivateRequestContext
+        public Multi<State> openMultiSession() {
+            return Multi.createFrom()
+                    .item(() -> session)
+                    .map(FakeSession::open)
+                    .emitOn(executor);
+        }
+
+        @ActivateRequestContext
+        public CompletionStage<State> openStageSession() {
+            return CompletableFuture.completedStage(session.open())
+                    .thenApplyAsync(s -> s, executor);
+        }
+
+        @ActivateRequestContext
+        public CompletableFuture<State> openFutureSession() {
+            return CompletableFuture.completedFuture(session.open())
+                    .thenApplyAsync(s -> s, executor);
+        }
+
+        @ActivateRequestContext
+        public State openSession() {
+            return session.open();
+        }
+    }
+
     static class FakeSession {
         enum State {
             INIT,
@@ -177,4 +292,19 @@ void disposeSession(@Disposes FakeSession session) {
         }
     }
 
+    @Singleton
+    static class ExecutorProducer {
+
+        @Produces
+        @ApplicationScoped
+        ExecutorService produceExecutor() {
+            return Executors.newSingleThreadExecutor();
+        }
+
+        void disposeSession(@Disposes ExecutorService executor) {
+            executor.shutdown();
+        }
+
+    }
+
 }
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