Hello and welcome to the positivity and prosperity podcast. If you're ready for a dose of inspiration and insight, then you've come to the right place. My name is Victoria moskal and I'm a psychotherapist mindset coach and positivity practitioner. I help women just like you to have their own Cinderella stories and transform their mindsets to make their dreams a reality. So if you're a coach and entrepreneur or just looking to uplevel your life then this is the podcast for you. I'm going to be talking all things money mindset manifesting your dream life and how to use your subconscious to achieve anything. You set your mind to. I'm going to be filling these podcast episodes with stories and inspiration for you things to make you smile feel supported and get ready to crush your goals and manifest your dreams. There is no such thing as a coincidence in life. So just by listening to this podcast, you are one step closer to making your dream life business mindset a reality. So if you're ready to today's dose of positivity and prosperity then left. Let's Dive In. Hi, everyone. Oh, I'm so so pleased to be back on the podcast. It's been a little while hasn't it? So, you know if you're listening to this, I hope you're having a wonderful day whether you're at the gym you're in the car you're listening to this in your house wherever you are listening to it from. I hope you're all having a fantastic day, and I love it when you send me messages on Instagram to screenshot and say where you're listening to this from. So, please please please. Keep doing that. I absolutely love it. Now this week. I am going to be doing a series of money mindset shorts. Now. If you've been following this podcast for sometime or maybe you've been following me probably know that when I go on to a topic that I'm really interested in I can just talk and talk and talk and talk. So I'm honestly going to do my best to try and keep these into little bite-sized chunks that you can just dive into little Snippets of information. Around money mindset, and I hope you're going to love these short episodes. But as it's January and it's New Year. I wanted to do a money mindset series because I honestly get so many questions about this topic. I get so many questions about manifesting money and what my best tips are for changing the way money shows up in your life. So that is why I've created this miniseries and I really really hope you're going to love it. Now before we get into the really really good stuff. I wanted to let you know something. Really really exciting. Now you might have seen this before you might have seen this on my Instagram already. But if you are looking to take your money mindset to the next level then listen up because this is definitely for you. If you feel like you're ready to make 2019 the year that money shows up differently in your life. If you've been saying to your friends 2019 is my year. I'm going to change things this year if you're determined to make This the year that you actually take some serious action to let go of limiting beliefs your thoughts your negativity around money and to stop telling yourself those stories about money being hard to make that you're not good with money that it's for other people that it takes hours and hours and hours to earn a good living then I have the perfect opportunity for you. So if you are a coach or an entrepreneur who is just looking to bring more clients into their life. Is looking to bring more wealth into her life this year. Then you need to get your hands on the money mindset upgrade. Well, okay. So the money mindset upgrade is my brand new course where you get all of my knowledge all of my tools on how to transform your money mindset. This is literally transformational. 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Now if you've got any questions by now, you know the drill send me an email and that's at Victoria at Victoria maskull.com or hop over to my Instagram, which is victoria dot mask. Mm. Send me a DM ask away. There are loads of theirs. Lots of information on my Instagram about the course as well. So send me a DM and I will answer any of your questions, right? So let's dive into today's topic. So we're talking about money mindset today and we are talking about limiting beliefs now before I dive into this and I know I said I was going to make this a short sharp episode, but I just have to share this with you. I have been seeing so many synchronicities in my life at the moment so many things and for me synchronicity These are not coincidences. I don't believe in coincidences. I believe that my thoughts are bringing things into my life, you know, you know, I love manifesting, you know, I love the Law of Attraction and I just wanted to share a couple of the things that have happened. So one of them seems really silly. But to me, this is just a synchronicity that everything in the world around me is aligning so I can reach my goals. So I was just I was getting dressed. I got the radio on and I was just like faffing around with my top and I caught my hand on something in my top and it one of those little sticky labels now, I think their quality control labels, but you've probably seen them in your clothes, you know, they're the ones that just have a number on them. And I think that is the number of the person who checked the clothing or something like that anyway, so I caught my hand on this and just listening to the radio pulled it out. And as I looked at it it said the number 49 on it and literally as I read that the advert on the radio said number 49 I was like what that's so crazy and then I was sitting at my desk. I was just doing some work today and I thought to myself. Oh, yeah, I really need to email person X and I think when I do my session with person X we're going to talk about these three things and I literally put my pen down after making the note to contact this person and my email pinged and it was that exact person said talking about the confirming the the session we were going to have have and suggesting the exact three things that I had just written down to go over in the session and I was like, oh my God now if more of Attraction isn't your thing you might be saying yet, but Victoria that's a coincidence. She could have emailed you at any time or yeah. Any number could have come up on the radio. But for me that is just proof that we create our own realities synchronicities are just examples of things aligning in your world. And as you can see that I wonder if Who that email was? I'm so sorry that has just pinged on my phone, but I just wanted to share that with you. If you are experiencing any crazy synchronicities, then let me know. In fact this happened with another amazing coach. I was literally as you're scrolling through Instagram and I saw one of her posts and I was just about to message her and say how and what an amazing post it was and she sent me a message on Instagram literally so many synchronicities. So yeah, if you're experiencing any of these things Let me know send me a message. I absolutely love it. When you share your synchronous teeth. Anyway, right side tracking over. Let's focus we're diving into money mindset now and we're talking about limiting beliefs. Okay. Let's just start with this small But Mighty, excuse me statement thoughts become things what you focus on what you think about what goes through your mind expands in your world? So right now right here right now ask yourself. What have I been thinking about today? What has been going through my mind. Have I been thinking? Oh my goodness. I'm so busy. I don't have any time to do anything. I've got so many tasks and no time or have you been thinking? Oh my goodness that client hasn't signed up with me or I haven't had enough signups to my program this month. Oh my goodness. When's that bill going to come out or I'm dreading checking my bank account like what has been going through your mind because the way you think About money the way you think about your deserving nurse how easy it is to make how good it is for you is going to totally affect the way it shows up in your life. So whenever you're thinking about wanting to change your money mindset the place you have to start you actually have to start with is your beliefs and that's why I wanted to make this episode 1 of this series. So when you're thinking about money mindset, I really want you to start. Rising your thoughts and to do it before you switch off and think yes, I've heard all of this before Victoria, you know, I've done all the journaling I've done the work let me just ask you are you where you want to be financially right now? If you're really honest with yourself, are you where you want to be if you're saying yes, then I am so proud of you. I am literally sending you your gold star. You can go to the top of the class. You've done the inner work. You've taken the action amazing. I'm so so proud of you. But if you're really honest with yourself and you're not actually where you want to be with money, maybe you had some initial goals and you've achieve those but you want to take things to The Next Step. Maybe this could be your starting your new business and you haven't signed your first client maybe business is going well, but it's just not where you wanted it to be at this stage. Maybe you're in a 95 and you're earning a really good way. You've got a good salary a good job, but it's just It I'm actually what you want is great. Maybe maybe you have moved forward massively. Maybe you know, you've been doing the journaling you've been doing the inner work. Maybe you've even used some of the tools that I do with my clients like hypnotherapy and be wrt, but maybe you just want to take it to the next level then if that's you if you are not exactly where you want to be with money. You need to do the inner work. I promise you this is the place that you need to start. So let's talk some questions. Then I'm going to share with you. One of the main reasons why people don't get the wealth. They desire they that you know the wealth they deserve the one that aiming for the one that's on their vision board. So if you're listening to this somewhere where you can actually write things down what I want you to do at this point is I want you to grab your journal or notebook or just even the notes section of your phone. And obviously if you're driving don't do this don't write it down, but you can still do it in your head. You can get the same benefits and then you can obviously come back to this episode now. I want you to do here is I want you to think from your subconscious. So I want you to go with whatever comes into your head first, you know, when we talk about like a gut response. That is the thing. I want you to go with and I want you to write down so you're turning off your conscious and you're just focusing on your instinct that first idea that flashes in your mind. And what I'm going to do is I'm going to ask you some questions and I just want you to go with I want you to write down the first Just answer the first response that literally pops into your head now just as a side note. I want to say that I heard a great great great podcaster called Katie Pasternak. I hope I pronounced that right do this with her listeners, and I've adapted it for you guys, but I just wanted to give her a shout out because I'm all about cooperation not competition if you want to go and check her out. She has some Fab Fab Fab stuff on her podcast. Okay. So if you've got your notebook if you've got your pen and if it's completely safe for you to do so. I would like you to do now and again do not do this when you're driving. I just want you to close your eyes for a second and I want you to just close your eyes and I just want you to take a deep breath in through your nose. And then as you exhale, I just want you to imagine your body and your mind relaxing. Just releasing all the tensions in your body. Releasing all the tensions in your mind. And then on the next inhale. I just want you to imagine breathing in calm nurse and peace. And then as you exhale, just noticing your body relaxing my even notice your shoulders dropping all the muscles in your face. Just relaxing and becoming loose. And now that you've just taken this time to relax to calm. I'm going to ask you these questions and all I want you to do is just notice the first answer that comes into your mind just allow the first answer that comes into your awareness that you notice and just write that down or if you're doing this and you're not writing it down just take a mental note of the first thing that comes into your mind. So I'm going to say the first part of the question and when I pause I just want you to fill in whatever comes into your mind. So the question that comes first is money is So you just fill in the blank there? When you hear me say money is what's the first thing that comes into your mind? Okay, and then question 2 money makes me feel. You just fill in the blank. So that was money makes me feel. and then question 3 rich people are just fill in the blank. and then the final one number 4 in order to get more money I would have to Okay, so you just fill in the blank there? So just recapping those if you're not writing them down right now that's totally fine. You can come back to this bit in the podcast question. One is money. Is you fill in the blank question 2 money makes me feel fill in the blank question 3 rich people are And then question for in order to make more money, I would have to so you can open your eyes at this point, you know, you can jump down your answers if you haven't already and you can actually adapt these questions. If you want to you can adapt this process to ask yourself anything around money and it's really really good to take that just couple of moments like we did relaxing yourself closing your eyes taking a few deep breaths because then you can go You got response because what we want here is not your conscious response because often our conscious responses are many is amazing man. He's incredible money will change my world but on a subconscious level we can be self-sabotaging because if we're saying money is greedy rich people are horrible money is dangerous money is hard to make then actually that is going to be so powerful and that is going to be blocking us from achieving our money girls because you know if you listen Into my podcast a lot. I talk about the power of the subconscious mind and how it runs about 90% of your brain power. So if you imagine you've got your subconscious mind with the foot on the brake saying money's bad money is greedy money is hard to make the 10% of your conscious awareness. That saying money is great. I want to make more money. It's just not going to do anything. Is it so what I want you to do is I just wanted you to reflect on your answers and I want you to reflect on what this is revealed about the way that you see money. Have you decided that money is amazing or that it's scary. Although it's hard or it's dangerous in some way because remember your subconscious mind is going to be trying to protect you at all times. So if you've got negative beliefs around money, if you've got beliefs that are telling you that money is scary. It's dangerous. It puts you in a difficult position. Then your subconscious mind is not going to be on board with your money goals. That's basically what this boils down to just reflecting on those questions again, you know, did you See people as who are rich as greedy. Did you see them as unobtainable? Is it something like you're putting money and wealth on this pedestal that it's only for a certain group of people and you don't feel worthy of it. Or you know, what do you think you have to do to get more money? Do you feel like you have to work 24/7 and maybe you don't feel like you want to work 24/7. Maybe you've got a family. Maybe you've got Hobbies. Maybe you just like having time to sit and And you feel like to make more money. You have to sacrifice those things because you know, what? Here's the thing you are literally creating your reality based on how you see money. So these questions are so so influential and based on your answers to these questions. You are creating beliefs around money because a belief is just a thought that you have repeated, you know, so thoughts become things because the more you think something the more you strengthen it in your neural network and that becomes a belief and then a belief is basically a habit that you keep repeating. So I want you to ask yourself. What am I repeatedly thinking about money? And then once you've got that ask yourself is that aligned with the goals? I want to achieve so you're thinking what am I repeatedly saying to myself about money making money rich people Etc and then see if that is aligned with so is the same as is kind of onboard with your physical money goes So for example, if you want to have a six-figure income this year, but you have this belief that money is hard work. Do you actually want to work hard? Do you really want that promotion at work? If you think actually having that promotion means working even harder and even more hours than you do right now now it doesn't actually matter if the promotion or earning more money in your business actually makes more hard work for you. It doesn't matter what the real reality is because what matters Is what you believe because what you believe actually ends up translating into your reality. Now I said I'd give you one of the main reasons why people don't achieve the wealth they desire and I said I would talk about why they don't achieve the money they deserve and here it is secondary games. Okay, second regains are so so important when it comes to limiting beliefs and removing and changing your thoughts around money. So if your brain is getting a reward for something, so whatever this is whether this is eating chocolate going to the gym thinking of thought if your brain gets a reward it wants to repeat that thing when we have a positive consequence of doing something what happens is we get this flood of dopamine and this flood of dopamine activates the reward systems in our brains. Now, this is the same way that a drug addict actually craves more of their drug the drug their brain is craving it all human beings want to stay in reward. We want to stay Would stay in safety and stay in Comfort that's like our natural resting state our natural state of being so if you have a limiting belief around money, let's say that you know, you think wanting money makes you greedy you could be holding onto this because actually this belief on a subconscious level is rewarding for you now, okay on the so on the surface on the surface on the surface on a conscious level you can see that it's keeping you stuck. Right, but think about it deeper. What reward do you think that you are getting from thinking this way? So on a conscious level thinking that money is greedy as you know, that's not helping you but if you haven't overcome this belief yet or if you're struggling with these limiting beliefs, what you need to do is you need to identify the secondary games and sometimes this is just powerful on its own once you realize that you're benefiting in some way once you've brought that to conscious awareness. It can be So powerful and so transformational. So if we stick with this example of thinking that money makes you greedy what benefit are you getting every single day that you choose to think that wanting money makes you greedy because I know I've said this before but our thoughts are a choice. It might not seem easy at first to choose new thoughts, but we can we literally have the power to choose new thoughts now when a thought has become a habit when it's become something in Grained in US. It does take a bit of time and it takes effort but this is the reason why so many people fail when it comes to money mindset or doing any form of inner work. They don't take the time to do it. And what happens is they leave these secondary gains. So they leave these bizarre benefits that they're actually getting from it. So let's say that you think greedy people are bad. Well, if you think Greenie people are bad, you don't want to be a bad person because if you're a bad person then you might lose Friends, you might lose your family which is dangerous because we all want to be supported. We all want to be seen as part of the group. So actually when we're analyzing the secondary gain actually not wanting and and kind of not having money. So you're actually benefiting because you're staying as a good person because you have the belief that money makes you greedy. So by keeping away from money, you're not greedy. And because you're not greedy you don't know. Stand to lose your friends and your family and your support network. All of this just tells your brain that you're safe. And then your subconscious mind is happy and it can just go about its day being a subconscious mind. Okay that got bit weird. Sorry. So can you see how this works? So if you really want to change your limiting beliefs around money if you really want to upscale whether that's in your business, whether that's your salary looking for a job promotion, then you need to look into the secondary games and you need to Challenge these beliefs to and this is why people so often just touch the surface when it comes to the inner work and it's one of the reasons why I created the money mindset upgrade because I just wanted to show people I wanted to show people who are serious about doing this work about making serious changes how to take their money mindset to the next level and how to achieve their goals and their dreams around money because this stuff works. This is what I've used myself. This is what I use with my clients. Clients, it's based on Neuroscience. It's based on hypnotherapy. It's based on the brain. I feel like I'm going into another Spiral about it. I love this course. Okay, and I just wanted to share that with you. Well, okay, so that was my supposedly mini episode. I can see that we're around the 25-minute mark, but that's quite many for me. So I will be back with another episode in the money mindset Mini upgrade course system. Not really sure what I'm saying now, but I will be back with another money mindset episode really really Now if you loved this episode then please tag me tag me on Instagram. Let me know when you're listening to it from send me a message if there is anything particular you want me to talk about when it comes to money mindset because I would love to create episodes that are exactly what you want me to talk about exactly the things that you want some help with. Okay, so I have super super super enjoyed this episode love talking about money mindset as you can tell and I've tried to keep it to 25 minutes. I nearly managed. Aged, okay, I will see you all in the next episode have a fantastic day everybody and speak to you soon. Thank you so much for listening. If you like this content, I would so love it. If you could leave me an iTunes review, you would totally make my day and you helped this podcast over each other listeners just right and if you know someone who this content will help and please share it with them. I love share the positivity. I hope people have a wonderful and prosperous day and I will see you next time.
Latest episode of The Positivity & Prosperity Podcast | Mindset | Entrepreneurship | Law of attraction | Manifesting | Hi everyone! I am back with a mini Money Mindset series for you. I'm going to be talking you through how to make serious changes to the way money shows up in your life. Whether you are an entrepreneur, wanting to start your own side hustle or in a 9-5 these tools and techniques apply to you! If you want to join the Money Mindset Academy and take these results to the NEXT level - more clients, more income, breaking your old money patterns and self-sabotage then this is THE course for you. Click here to find out more: https://the-money-mindset-upgrade.teachable.com/p/money-mindset-upgrade  As a BONUS for being one of my wonderful podcast listeners I would love to gift you a free 30 minute 1:1 session with me if you sign up to the Money Mindset Academy by the end of January 2019. As ever if you have any questions you want me to answer about all things Mindset then hop over to my IG or email me at victoria@victoriamaskell.com - I love hearing from you! 