So welcome to the higher self activation podcast. My name is Alisha and I'm here to help you find trust let go of control and see more online results with less hustle. We will bring the cousins and noted a national Consciousness into the here and now we can energy tangible in easy-to-understand now, let's get started with today's episode. I am here with Natasha who is an amazing expander for women in their journey of healing in their spiritual growth and a dear friend. So I'm so happy and so excited to share this episode with you guys. So sister welcome. Thank you for coming here today. Yes. Thank you so much Leah for having me. I'm so excited to have this conversation. With you and to also share it have other people to listen in on our conversation. Yes, so we are here to share one of my favorite things to talk about and the very core of higher self Activation. So this space is all about Ascension and grounding. So how you can deep clean your Awakening work on yourself and to your spiritual path while I'll be in here as a human. So how we can meditate go to cacao ceremony is something we love to do together. By the way this Spirit carry crystals in your bra, you know other things and also have a wine after a work day because it's all about the balance. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. I think it's so important to have the balance and you know, most people now they tend to forget like they think that We just need to have one thing or the other when you can have the Bose, you know, we're here on Earth as a human being and we need to learn the lessons of a human being. It's great that if someone gets into the spirituality and you know to meditating Kundalini energy and all of these things, but at the same time, don't forget you are a human, you know, we are human I like I love Listening to Hindu mantras, but at the same time I have days or right after I can go ahead and listen to my list of hip hop songs and and I love it, you know. Yes, and that's something I see a lot and and that I experienced firsthand myself when we open this door and it kind of find this deeper connection with the universe with source and all this practice has a feels so good. And so aligned that you really go to the opposite extreme of things and you can be a bit too much there that you forget that you're here and you forget to enjoy your human experience and to connect with people and I guess that's why when you know, especially in the beginning of our spiritual awakening people have that phase where it's just months in your bubble in your house and meditating and taking time from hands and going now to figure that out now. Yeah. Yeah, and I understand that completely. I've had those moments where I would just like you said meditating in my room like really really on that Journey like I want to make sure that I did everything right and like I was afraid that oh if I take a drink with my friend, I would suddenly lose focus kind of thing and like all that spiritual work that I have been. Doing suddenly went down the drain and that's fear and I think a lot of people have that fear as well. You know, they're like, I don't want to hang out with my friends anymore who drinks line because I'm afraid that I would get caught in that and that I can understand especially in the beginning of the journey when you feel like you're not strong enough to you know, make a choice like make a decision. Okay. I know how to balance myself like telling yourself. I know when to stop kind of thing, you know what I mean? Hmm. So how did you navigate that shift when you know when things start to not resonate anymore and then you're just you suddenly realize oh this group this place all these things that I used to love now. It just doesn't feel better line. It doesn't fulfill. Yes much. How did you navigate that? That is their period? Yeah. So first of all, I think that's why this one the spiritual work comes in right first you need to work on yourself work on that inner self like really get to know yourself so that you know later on this feels a line and this doesn't feel like how do you know when you are not when something doesn't feel aligned to you if you don't know yourself, right? Mmm, and that's why you need to know yourself do that spiritual work like if you want to take like some months off take a month. They go to retreat or whatever. But at the same time when you come back, it's important to come back and and it's like how are you going to share your message that that you have received from this special role from the other dimensions to other people here on Earth. If you stay too far up kind of thing, you know what I mean? Right like when you can connect with other beings that are here actually exactly like When you're seeking to other other people, let's say and they haven't really started this spiritual journey. They they might not understand the words that you're using, you know, so you need to be able to speak in their language. Like when you say like divine feminine Divine masculine all sounds really great, but people are like, what is that to speak in their language? For them to understand and yeah, so to go back to your question actually sort of sorry forgot to answer that question. Yeah, so to ground myself, it's I mean have conversations with the people that you love who maybe they haven't started their spiritual journey yet. And yeah, it's just really feel them. Remember that. They are also a part of you and like with Husband he really helps to ground me to like make me remember that I am here on Earth that you know, all of the work in this spiritual spiritual world can be worth it can be worth it. If we remember or know how to balance it, you know, and again that comes from that comes from if you when you know yourself when you work with yourself in enough and that's another thing I have to say that you have to accept your shadows as in like except what what things that like your flaws kind of thing. You know what I mean? Mmm Yeah, you have to understand like okay. I accepted my past. I accept that. I'm not perfect and all of these things they Graham you there because yeah, you're not just like He's all like I just I don't know send you all my light kind of thing work was just a light. I mean in order for like to come there needs to be Darkness as well balanced, you know, and I love how you say it that actually accepting the not sexy part. So getting brace in your shadows as a way to ground yourself because it's true that we can get so caught up in the light work and especially if you are a light worker yourself. That we are this these in ascended beings and we are an expression of source and actually embracing the not sexy part helps you ground yourself in okay, but I'm also here and I have this and that's okay. Hmm. Exactly. Exactly. You said something really important also that, you know Finding what really feels a line comes from you taking time work on yourself and connecting. So that weird period of okay some things just don't resonate anymore. And you feel like you're outgrowing old patterns or even relationships and all these things. But I feel like it's really important to come from a place of what is Real Alignment. And what is coming from judgment exactly. Don't know what the real Allah and feels you easy to come from judgment because they party The drugs and I don't because I'm here in my spiritual journey, you know? Yeah exactly you mentioned such an important thing. I'm so glad you brought that up. I think yeah. It's so important not to judge just because you meditate a lot makes the other person like miss you like better than the other kind of thing, you know, and I see a lot also people in the spiritual World. They think like oh, Yeah, I don't want to like they're there I still like they're talking about the other people like a bad like bad people. You know what I mean? Yeah grounded peasants. You're not awake. Yeah, exactly like you do that other bad like such bad energies kind of thing and it's like we just have to remember everyone is experience just having different kind of experiences. We are all having different experiences and it is fun. Fantastic that you anyone that is listening to this if you are already on your spiritual journey, like it is fantastic that you are doing your work. But remember for some people there they may be younger Souls. So it might take them longer time to recognize the work to do the work. So they might need to go through certain lessons for them before they jump into this deep inner work. So much sense and it's you know something that I said myself but when you start connecting with all this and then you go oh this place has a lower vibration, you know our this is this person is really lowering my vibration here and it is coming from ego from a from a good intention because I'm working on myself and now I'm seeing these things. So you start just suddenly see the vibration the feelings, you know in interactions and Lisa. That before you didn't so if you could so exciting that you're like, ah, but this this is not high Vibe and it's really important to come back to the core in a what's behind that exactly exactly. What are you avoiding? Yes, right. Yeah. Did you experience judgment and guilt yourself? So did you feel guilt ever from doing things that are quote unquote not spiritual. Yes. Yes, I've had it in the past. So I'm like I you know doing something and I'll be like oh gosh, but you know, I feel like I'm not being clean like I'm not pure even though maybe it's just like thinking that one drink like I'm breaking my sabbatical or something and yeah, it would feel bad, but you know, I've learned I learned and after that it's just A lot of giving myself permission like that's okay. If I want to take my cup of wine if I want to eat cheese, you know, it's okay to have our pizza. It's more than okay to have our pizza. Yeah to watch this area to have our pizza right into our show like some some days where I would be like this so tired and I just want to watch something stupid like something that's not that doesn't necessarily. Really have meaning or I'm not learning anything. Just something stupid on Netflix. And yeah, I really need one of those moments sometimes you know, and it's so important that we give ourselves the permission to do that because when that happens then you are when you begin to give yourself permission, you are allowing yourself to finally experiencing life and There is a quote that side Guru says he says that live your life not life. You are materialistic life as if you will die today and live your spiritual life like you are Eternal and I love that and I think we can't forget to to live, you know. Yes, that's beautiful and it takes me too. Let's talk about the guilty pleasures. You were saying that it's okay to binge watch a shitty show every once in a while, you know, and that doesn't makes us less spiritual or less enlightened because you know the way I see it there is this beautiful thing called Indulgence. We are we chose to be here and we have our five senses and the things that Exist in this Physical Realm to be experience to the senses. So, you know we chose to come here to experience contrast and to have pleasure and taste and sound and all these amazing thing is such a rich experience that we're here to feel it, you know, and I it's such a rich world that it's sad to negate that also and be just up here in the higher Realms and higher levels of consciousness. Not leaving. Yeah. Yeah. Exactly. Yeah, that is that is our work here actually as a spiritual being in a physical body, right? This is our work. We are the yin and yang the masculine feminine lighten dark all of these contrasts. Look we're talking let's we're in Barcelona to anyone that's listening to this. And recently there was that big strike here the big protest and there were people who were violent and there are people who are also peaceful. You know, this is again that lighten dark and as about Sevilla kind of thing. Yeah for us working on ourselves and from a spiritual approach that can be Having an out-of-body experiences and shamanic work and then watch The Bachelor because because it's available. Yeah, and that's when when we need to have our awareness, you know, as long as you are conscious like I'm gonna do my meditation my breath work and after you know what I'm gonna watch The Bachelor like what you just said, yeah. You know, you are conscious of your actions, you're not, you know, making unconscious decision. That's when it becomes a problem unconscious decision when people like, you know take drugs just to avoid what they're really feeling doesn't unconscious decision. All right. Now you just hit the nail on the head if that's exactly it. It's not the action itself is you coming from and own conscience and conscious pattern here just Going about your life because that's you know, the way you do it and you're not aware or are you tuned in and allowing yourself to go above and go below? It should do an in and then experience the outer World also. Yes. Hmm, and I don't know if you felt this but I felt for a long time and I still do I mean I'm finding my community here and in spaces like this with your higher-self activation being that bridge that we can be spiritual. But we can be here but for a long time I felt like I didn't fully fit anywhere because I don't belong anymore with old friends people that are not into the spiritual stuff. Yeah, but I'm also not part of this group and I don't belong with the spiritual people who seem to be too much for it. Yeah more enlightened or just leaving a hundred percent 24/7 for the Inner work and I found myself in this limbo of an extremely connected to energy, but I love to be a human. So where do I fit? Hmm? Yeah. Oh my gosh, and I think that's why I'm so thankful that we met. Yeah, I felt the same way. I've been feeling the same way, honestly. Yeah and like in we were talking about judgment before, you know, I have those two different groups of friends like very I like two different polarities, right and when I hang out with each of their group, I feel that judgment but from others as well and I and at that moment. I'm like wait, they're getting throwing a lot of judgment toward the other types of group and I'm they're sitting like, okay then I shouldn't judge them as well because I'm like, I'm like you just be neutral because Because I'm also not trying to judge them before judging other people. You know what I mean? Right right. It's a very weird place to be hmm. Yeah and why it's so important to have this conversation because I'm sure that a lot of women listening right now are going yes, that's how I feel. So you're not alone. Yeah. Yeah, and I think that's why it's so important. This just came in like this is so important. Burnt that we open up this conversation. So to any of you that are listening to this right now, like open up this conversation to any of your friend because they might be feeling the same way because I realized also when you're hanging in a standard group of spiritual people and you know, you think that okay, you gotta keep up the conversation only about spirituality stuff and don't talk about the fact that you want to drink wine or less. the hip-hop, you know, and I'm sure there's they're feeling like, you know, when you are hanging out in a group but spiritual people you feel like you have to stay within the topic like you're afraid to mention about wine or what you actually you know, what you do what you yeah how you want to Like how you're spending your Sunday night. Let's say when you're watching Netflix, you know and eating physical Cravings exactly. And sometimes we feel ashame, you know to mention these things when you are in a group of your friends that are into spirituality. So that's why it is so important that we open up this conversation and don't be afraid of rejection from other people. Because and if they reject you if you're suddenly Mansion, yeah, I listen to hip-hop and drink wine and they reject you then perhaps they're not your group of people, you know, yes nurturing this spirit. This is what I'm thinking as you're saying nurturing the spirit doesn't negate your physical self. Why is it that if we're hanging out and spiritual ceremony and doing the spiritual work and we feel ashamed that I'm kind of craving a burger after this? We're probably thinking the same thing thinking the same freaking thing that you're thinking like. Okay. No, no just have to talk about the line and beautiful beings. Yes. Remember when we went to the beach here in Barcelona. To meditate so we took our cards we were pulling title cards and and reading so I'm doing a card reading at the beach and meditating together and then we say, okay cool. Let's go up to the bar and then you get a drink and it was fantastic. It's a perfect day. Yes. Yes. We need to be authentic like You know forget about what people if people want to judge you then let them judge you but stay true to yourself. If you like both of the of these things, you know, hip-hop and meditation then go ahead go ahead just show that embrace it and you will attract more of your tribe like how we attracted each other because we were so true to ourselves that it's like well if you don't like To me for drinking wine and that's okay. I'm still gonna order my wine. Anyway, you know, yeah. Yeah and he comes back to what you said in the beginning bracing you entirely in bracing yourself. So the light in the shadow, but also the soul and the physical why can't I embrace my spiritual side my soul, but in also my physical body and food and pleasuring things from the Circle realm yes. I love that. I know somebody had this conversation and I'm sure that I'm curious to know from you guys listening your thoughts. If you're listening to this thinking finally my saying this I don't feel guilty because you just such an important conversation to you. No chance out there for people in the Ascension process. All of us on Earth right now is just really important to have this. Channel and know that you're not alone. Yes, exactly pleased remember guys to not punish yourself. Do not punish yourself if you want to reach out for that cookie because I have seen like people when they travel to a whole new country and they miss out on eating some of the like the really great traditional dish because they're like, well, I can't eat that cake that I indicate that well, I understand. I lower my vibration exactly. I understand if you have an allergy or something like this or if you have an illness, but if you're just you know, limiting yourself, then you're missing out on life. Yeah, it's staying true to what resonates something from that place of knowing what alignment feels like and not just embracing, you know, taking a rules for yourself because you feel like you should yeah, that's Adelines get a bit blurry right now. Yeah, and remember like the only person you're trying to impress yourself like everyone else is honestly they just minding their own things. So don't try to impress anyone else just because you know, you meditate it for like six hours. Yeah. Yes. I love this sister. Thank you so much. You're welcome was my pleasure. Thank you so much for sharing. Sharing and guys head over to I'm Gonna Leave Here in a patches links, so you can find her online, you know where to find a higher self activation Facebook group. So head over there as well and let us know your thoughts. Yes, you can screenshot. If you're listening to this post your insta stories and let us know what you think. If is resonates, and we are here to be part of your tribe. 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CALLING IN ALL WOMEN IN THEIR JOURNEY OF ASCENSION ✨✨✨ Healers, leaders, light workers and expanders deepening their own awakening and raising the vibration of the collective… while being here. As a human that eats pizza. For the longest time I felt like I didn't belong with the "normal crowd" because I was too busy burning sage; nor with the spiritual community because I watched The Bachelorette. I found myself in this limbo of… I am too weird here, but I'm too grounded there. Where do I fit? My biggest truth and mission is out now as an episode of the Higher Self Activation podcast. A powerful message I got to share with my soul sister Nathasya to all women exploring what it is like to tend to your spiritual path, carry out a Higher mission AND twerk to a hip hop song. Nathasya O.M. is a Holistic Trauma & Spiritual Coach. She specialises in teaching women to recover from past trauma naturally and come back to their body so they can have healthy relationships + career. Sisters, we ascend together. And we talk it out with a glass of wine. 