Welcome to My Life sitting supplied episode 284 We are. Coming to the conclusion of the month of husband. We just blessed yesterday the month of kislev. So this week will be restrained this Crystal of coming Thursday. And it's also the week of Shabbos pastors tildes Shabbos will be tells but that's a week of parser tailed this. So as always we begin with something related to the time in which we are in and in the city supplied Spirit applying it to our lives using the most oft-repeated dick. Mission from the revenues from bringing Terror Malaysian hair at all Taylor comes from the word directive guidance instruction. Taylor being the blueprint for life life's Operators manual so it gives instructions instructions and guidance and directives of how to live our lives just like if you come home with a machine new piece of technology or any type of Appliance, you have an operator's manual that the engineers and the manufactures of that machine prepared to know how to use that machine to know what to do with it. And no one had to do with it how to keep it up in its finest standard highest. The same thing with life how to live life with what wait to live life in the best possible way and to avoid the negative that can be harmful and destructive or then they are dangerous. We have the Toyota and the tailor is loshon Hara all year round 24/7, but the specific times in the year when we are celebrating or recognizing our particular event. It was clear as Crystal of or the parsers are Cheveux the chapter in the week. We live with the times and we derived from Um that directives that are applied to our lives and hence the name applied to this just like the general organization meaningful life sent a meaningful life a life of meaning of perv of purpose of Direction based on the mission, which we each of us was charged with unique individually as well as our Collective charge our Collective calling of the entire human race just as means of introduction. So let's start with this crate exclusive since it comes first. so the state is like Rosh Hashanah the words race always means it's not just the beginning of the month at the head of the month means it encompasses in it is like the central nervous system that encompasses all the days of the month, which of course include the end of the month the holiday of Hanukkah holiday of Lights Illuminating the darkness and before that the citizen holidays going backwards you test Kissel of the gulaka gold on Rosh Hashanah, of course, it has a goal of the alter rebbe that became marked Rosh Hashanah the beginning Of a new phase in history of spreading the Wellsprings the inner wisdom of Toyota Hoots, ah to the outskirts to the farthest outskirts of the world before that. We have youth Kiss Live and for that test Kiss Live I should mention you download Kissel, which is the represent of versary the rabbit the rabbit since anniversary before that you would kiss live in task is live respectively the Cog oula of the Midler Rubber and the birthday and your site of the middle Arab and of course every day of the year month. as always special significance, but these are some of the highlights let's all encompassed in this Traders Crystal describe this case the four cities have banned in the day - we took on a special meaning in the year 1978 1978 right after the heart attack that the rubber hatch mean you had said, it's 1977 Thompson Lambert says so his haters kissel's when the rabbit went home and how logically and many other ways that's a significant date because it's like going out of the danger that he was in due to the heart attack and coming back to his full strength and not just full strength. We know after that that ever doubled and tripled his activities in his output. So this guy just kiss it was become since then a hog oula Hakeem simcha James Gula that didn't get together make for brains the rebel recognized it every year and we celebrated in that sense. What is this personal lesson? Taught us, of course many lessons, but it means that even when we go through a setback, whatever. Maybe there was always some some mystery Like You Lie, every concealment is in order to bring a greater Revelation. So describe this case of signifies getting out of a difficult situation and recognizing that it's all comes to bring even greater light and greater strength and more commitment. Each one of us has our own unique challenges and each one of us release of teaches us that lesson now, that's true. You can say about any holiday chronic included and after Darkness abroad light pesach after the bondage after slavery brought the Redemption but there's greatest concern because it's personal connection to the to our generation and personal connection to the web as the debit then said as he wrote to one of the siddha me wrote that to look into Zoey out and hug them of Isaiah and you see their interesting take because the custard wrote To The River Why do we have to go through this aggravation of the devil getting into such situation frightening us all and finally coming out of it and the rebels said to look there in the introduction to zero. Going into details talks about it up here who was up went up to heaven and they saw how he's revealing premium cetera and they said he belongs here. It doesn't belong on Earth and there was a request as be in a special request that should give him more time on this world to finish his job. Whatever refers to that Draya so you can say that option Lamas has that heart attack was in the way whenever there's something great being revealed. There's always a challenge or there's always a so-called catering sometimes Like the huge task is love itself out that was revealing see this. Why would that bother anyone but when you bring in big the stakes are high and you're bringing a new revelation that can change the world and bring the Shia. There's always going to be the forces that come and challenge it so in the weight of genomics has raised Christopher us is a challenge to the whole presentation the entire vision and Mission that the rabbit set his mind to which was beginning from Tufts renewed which is now 70 years when the lab assumed leadership. That's the data should be the seventh generation like moisture abandoned the Seventh Generation from avraham avinu to bring the skin below and bring the Gula the last generation of goal is the first generation of the goal and the stakes were high. the year tough shamans and a year before the heart attack that ever then began publishing the Hampshire cream base considered to be the ultimate ultimate magnum opus the ultimate revelation of Citizen our time and the rebbe said is connected to us Arcana to Danger so though we never heard directly from the ribbon but system connected it that perhaps this move Revelations the new way of approach of reaching Jews and non-jews all over the world right before tough shamim, which would be the 30th year of the Leadership came a certain concealment but that was overcome and it only taught us that we have the now double and triple our efforts and everything that we have today began with the outgrowth of the Great Eastern Airmen. Rho the great light that came out of that dark moment. So the state is Crystal captures more than just at the running out of a difficult situation and growing through it. But also specifically in the spreading of this and the level of the Seventh Generation level. Spreading of cities two ways that were unprecedented and reaching a little worried every corner of the world. So you consider this Crystal of actually gives us the power to actually do that because it was a Vindication. It was like an endorsement from Heaven that yes, there was the concealment for a while but now the doors are open the floodgates are open. Now, of course gimel Thomas has come since 25 years ago again a concealment and yet the lesson or is it system does not get erased God forbid on the contrary it gives us Hope and the strength and the fortitude that now to this can last concealment is in order to bring the ultimate Revelation which is mushiya which will be a permanent transformation of the world. And we're at the threshold as the debit tells us the rich guy just kiss live carries within it all this weight and all the significance and potency for us to tap into a day that that should give us strength and inspiration to achieve each one in our own way something beyond that we've done till now not just enough to do. As we've done but something Beyond just like the debit after refrigerators conserve and the years afterwards began to expand quantitatively and qualitatively his work. We by extension braid should was a good for us. Lll go for Buster - as I should say the body follows the reddish the head we to follow that instruction. So whenever there is somewhat of a setback or at least on a reveal distensible level seem, so it's order to only create and thrust us forward with even more unprecedented. In the foot so many subtle who taught and hopefully we can all do so in this year of tation ask for us to pay and produce and other acronyms that we hear about but no way that should finally break down all the boundaries and all the barriers and we should have the Gula all the pedestal for name which is paid it's from the pay and that for NASA to all the barriers should be broken down through the spreading of this and we should all take on new initiatives and new efforts each one. Of us is Ashley are in order to do so partial tell this is of course the Pasha of the birth of yaakov, invasive wooden bipasha the twin brothers that is these two forces these two voices the voice of each time you Shall Behold Him The Scholar the Torah and the voice of Ishmael, He decided the warrior within us. We all have the warrior within us. We all have the scholar within us. We all have this sincerity and innocent and simplicity. A beauty that comes from each Tom years of all we also have another side. That's the more Sly and shrewd Warrior that needs to survive in this world and they come they go to war with each other. That's the ancient Aviator as the two Souls altered ever talks about entangling the animal sound Divine soul. But both are Divine created both are children of you can Rifka let's not forget that and they're both these elements that are given equal powers and the goal is for them to ultimately find peace with each other not just one beats the other because Need both, but call of of rubbish nasara / have to such a miracle of you got a bottle of vodka with all your heart with the hardest two parts the left side of the heart. The rights are inhibition a etcetera both sides. And that is two words to this comes to teach us how even the never shall bomb is the animal Soul should enjoy Divine ideas Divine concept Divine perspectives and divine actions as well as well as feelings and that's oxidants explains it in a way that even the The animal Soul can enjoy it and appreciate it. And when that finally done then we have the ultimate Fusion of the two of you a cavernous of the story of the tail. The sacrifice of tails is of until this year. So these are the children of it's called and you took our shame means to laughs laughter goes on the floor after of the future. I'll Jamal the straight pin a because it will be the ultimate laughter the ultimate the ultimate joy and celebration when both dimensions the acrimonious of our transactions are joined. By its are being transformed which represents the transformation of all the material things in this world everything in this hostile warlike battle like world and they are all influenced by an inspired by the yaakov. That's within us and that ultimately brings as well as we into chapters from now that when iacovone s of meat and yeah, kinase obsessed yaakov, come join me. Let's live side by side when they reconcile. Jakob says not yet because that's their ever bring some see this from Tennessee territory this crime that yaakov thought it was already refined but then he realized he wasn't and he rather as if he wasn't he said this not only eat you go ahead. I will come slowly and Raschi asks, what is he lying again? No, because ultimately in the goal of rehearsal asham look as the end of the tale of a value that we say in that week's chapter that week Shabbos tells us the high. / I'm Luca that they will ultimately join. They will ultimately be peace between the Divine and existence between the Jewish. People in the nations of the world where everybody will be subsumed by Kamala is there is a sham come on Muhammad Hassan a world filled with Divine knowledge as the waters cover the sea and we are now the Threshold at the end of that process as we've been told and promised and made clear. So we have to do our part and finishing up the work of tilda's. Yeah. It's called a governess of and all nourish razors krislov spirit. So this is one among many lessons that we can learn applying them to our personal lives. And I want to also refer you to episodes 89 139 188 189 and 234. I know it can be a little Annoying all these cross-references, but I'm doing it for the record because it's important that they complement each other. Hopefully at some point we will be able to join them all together. We have all the pieces of my life of all these two hundred eighty four episodes in organized way. But meanwhile, there's cross-referencing is vital and that sense where you can have more information more. On these topics with that said let me make reference of course to some housekeeping which is that my life's it has applied this episode and all the episodes are stored in archive. That means to consider supply.com and new unique and exclusive website dedicated to Hasidic resources, but most importantly making them come alive and applying them in a relevant way to our personal emotional and psychological lives as well as the essays that have been written thousands of essays that have been written over the years. By people from all over the world and all walks of life in Appliance to this to a contemporary challenge as well as other archives and resources. They're on different Hasidic discourses. You'll also can submit which is of course the heart and soul of this entire program questions Anonymous totally anonymous questions, which thank you and thank God continue to come in trying to keep up but they're always ahead of me because more common than I can until then I can answer in one week, but they will I'll be addressed and we keep making strides in that direction. So don't don't please don't be perturbed. If your question was not yet answered. It will be answered in the order. It was received or when I organize them in a particular structure of themes. So with that let us continue on to one more Phi must make one announcement comic and Taylor the whole these programs are supported by Community Support, which is Your sponsorships your donations, so please be generous and make a nice done a generous donation at this. It has supplied sponsorship. You can sponsor one or many programs in the honor or memory of a loved one. Please use that opportunity besides honoring that person and also helps us continue and expand these programs. Okay being that also today's the kinases look started on shop is that everyone always say by the fabric started the construction of shrimp a looking from all over the World come together literally from every corner of the world. Which of course is the your foot sir - owl Hoots. I was referring to that literally as the debit rishab had predicted back in 1901 when he said this famous secret color yet summa cum is based off with some who stated that year. He spoke about that. There's the Shiva is going to produce students soldiers trained. To fight the battleground of assimilation to bring spiritual and Torah and Jewish assist inspiration to every corner of the world and there will be these Tommy them all over the world. And that's exactly what the king says solution represents that victory that fulfillment of the goals and the vision of the Rebel rishabh, of course the free the crab and the lever who expanded it in a completely new level. So this is the slow him who represent the tato sack spreading of terasaki this to every corner. The world preparing it for coming of Messiah who will come when your foot so many subtle hoods. So worthwhile making mention of it that the skin is taking place as we speak. And with that. Let me just add their two questions that came in that are related. So I'll address it. I've talked about Slickers many many times. It's a Cornerstone of the represent iron CSL leadership, of course boo built on the concept of Slickers starting from the first letters of all the slices that are shame sent. Every Soul to this Earth on a mission life is mission-based. Its Mission Centric driven by a purpose of calling a mission that we are each charged with the general mission that all of us is to make a deliberate attempt to take this material world and transform it into a beautiful and elegant home for the Divine. But each of us have our unique way of fulfilling that mission that mission actually begins at the lab explains in the sickest connected to kinder Sasha. Welcome back in Topsham involvement members Ian begins when the a burst of first a taints of that So called Osmos that emanated from Artemis I should say is the first layer click the outer Deborah says in the quantitative anything outside of octopus is already asleep because actually it means something that's being sent outside of the original source. So the concept are stickers is really all encompassing everything in existence has a Slickers has a mission as a purpose. But it's embodied them personified by the stream of the river. Who actually take their bodies and souls and 24/7 designated their lives wherever they may be this becomes their full-time practice acupuncture in that's their home and they built great beautiful community. So it's important to honor that but also take a lesson for each of us because each of us is Ashley ox and ass look on our own, right? So two questions that came in that why did the lab essential from all over the world is their job to provide for all Jews physically and spiritually so the answer to both questions. so the answer both questions in one that I've essential exactly as I said the ebus descents look him in the beginning he put man in Adam and Eve human being on this Earth lot of the lissandra to transform the world all their children their progeny that come from them continue this Mission till the day Michelle comes when the Fulfillment of the mission by the entire Collective human race, so you can say everybody's honest Littles why the lab essential him is because he's extending that type of slices to our generation which has Africa needs first of all the high rate of assimilation Jews being everywhere in the world many that knowing what it means to be Jewish simply lack of Education or other factors. So that's number one. Simply. We are responsible for each other. Number two is preparing the world for the Google that by reaching everyone Unity. Every person. We can reach number three is not just for Jews is also non Jews to reach every non-jew possible that have been made that very clear that I'm bomb to spread. The laws of nature had laws the laws of civilization. That is the foundation of the Cornerstone of any civilized unit and World Anew civilized community and Society. So is their job to provide for ol Drew's physically spiritually absolutely in every possible way. And as I said it even extends Beyond Jews it's to bring godliness to this world like of Rama V new broad godliness to everybody. And there's physical ways of doing it by helping people physically, whether it's with food whether it's through shelter, whether it's with other ways, and there's of course the spiritual needs which are equally if not even more important. So the answer is yes, and it is the final frontier even though as I mentioned Slickers exist when the beginning of time, but now it's in its broadest possible sense really across the globe. The Rebus us Leah plus 10 10 is the 10 faculties that obviously accuses actualize has his potential through the 10 faculty socially awkward 10 equals what mushiya? Shin dong Joon has landed with the man 10 ads makes it into mushy are socially or plus 10 equals. Mushiya because Ashley who fulfills the Divine directives and by using his faculties, that's what defines mushiya resulted a peasant Tanya that room has a Nova with the say no through our work and our efforts and our exertion our work on our labor in this world by transforming it. That's how we bring. The goal of Google is a direct outgrowth outgrowth or Aloof officially on the olive integral turns it into Gula Gala without a Fizz Gola like shell-shocked with A10 is mushiya more episodes where I discuss this topic are 139 and 141 89 and 234 among many many others, but those were designated dedicated to the issue to addressing the kidney specialist and kenosis recommended of explains kinwa socialism is bringing them all together into one Kinross and to one Unity One Gathering. And that demonstrates that through the harmony within diversity that the different cities and countries all represented, but they all come together under one a good actress even though the diversity but all comes together under one Mission under one Banner of the rubbish him. And on the one Banner of God's looking which is all connected and fulfilling the artists that needs to be achieved through bringing together every aspect of code, like a ferocity of a came up with some kind of an egg with east west north and south Same thing with method is similar Kano shamash Maestro some of the Kenosha market equities one has seven heavens and earth and a lot of the Dolls rookies Yama became it's a friend over nakba east west north and south all encompassed in that Oneness. Okay, and of course inspiration and applied forces of this is that we each in our own way have to reconnect and renew our contract and renew our obligations and doing our slices each and our particular corner of the world. Okay. Now, let's go to some questions. Why does some overdo it and add extreme titles to the rib? Every time so here's someone writes my hand versus yeah, every time I see a publication of the rubber surface and it's riddled with Muhammad and Selita. It irritates me in frustrates me. I get the feeling that it's way overdone. We all believe the rebels machine, but why the need to write mahom 10 times in one single publication? It also frustrates me. When I CZ are too many times in a publication, please. Can you enlighten me on this matter is the Yazoo City organelle in which the sentence? Just past that sadly was passed on. Well, I've talked about this in episodes to 18 and in 46 and 274. I'll say the following. I agree with you. I don't think titles have to be constantly be here again and again and again, you know, I use the word rabbit that might happen my dad but he was my dad because my dad but I don't like the word titles in their title one way or the other they tend to be confusing they tend to misleading even and they tend to create false false narratives. I'm not sure why everybody's so married to these titles. I can't explain it the rebel you see how he refers to the physical up and finally wrote what he wrote. But the type of obsession I don't understand that all to me the rebel lives on through each one of us through our work through his teachings and so on if that's correct. He's living on a you have to make a title and make a statement that he's doing that show be a living example is no better way to show that ebb is living example by you living up and being the arms and legs and mouthpiece and the extension of what the devil wants you to be in this world. So titles tend to become very much linked external things like primaries. Where they make bumper stickers and other stuff like that and I just I come you know, I don't know if I would say I'm very irritated. I'm just immune to it but frankly, I don't see the need for it. But some people seem to have a need a crutch for these things. I'm not going to justify because I don't see the need. I also don't see the basis for it. Like where do we get this from Taylor? No say, sometimes it says most should I be no stomp sometimes as motion. I've been all of our Shalom from of, you know, we don't always emphasize it that goes to show that doesn't mean it's it could say that times. But it's up session with it and the same thing the other way around to give titles as far as the number being mushy are since you mentioned already. We have a lock as I've said this many times. This is not based on whims and based on our own instincts additional education. This is how long has that determine? Who's Michelle? Who's not mushy are what stage of Michelle Angola now's not the place to go into it. I've talked about it many times. So it since the question has come up as many others do college. I addressed it even though I have addressed in the past, okay. question Not particular order just happens to come to the next and the next one order of questions. What happens to people after they die after they pass away. So the very broad question can mean many different things. I'm just going to just say few general principles. I will refer you to episode 176 where I explain. How do you explain to Children the concept of death, but if you really want to read about this more in detail in English in toward a meaningful life actually translated into 14 languages, but the original Toward a meaningful life. There's a chapter on death and grieving which sums up and encapsulate the deputies view on the matter. It's a very powerful chapter and a lot of people who going through unfortunately the loss or sitting shiva there but that chapter is very inspiring briefly. The key thing to remember here. The word death is a very frightening word and a very almost misleading word the soul never dies. The concept of death and mortality relates to the material world where everything a Rhodes deteriorates and perishes. But even in the material world, nothing really disappears. We know today you can make anything disappear you burn a piece of wood in the fireplace. It turns into energy and gas that doesn't disappear. It just dissipates perhaps and can be quite the identified and found somewhere, but the basic investment of the best examples very simple example, you take water a cup of water. You put it in a freezer it Nice heated it turns into gas and you can reverse the process many times. So you see the gas. You see the liquid you see the frozen ice. Which one is it today? We know it could be the same thing just different forms the same thing when we talk about life and death life takes on One shape when the soul is inside a body and then the Soul would this called patient sudha it removes its garment called the body and it takes on another shape, but the journey continues so it's critical to emphasize that death does not mean the end of something. It means this end of the cessation of one stage as moves on to another state and this is fundamental in Jewish thought especially considering that we know that the end of there will be tears. Hi Mason Resurrection, which today is also can be explained based on the model by the lava. God can create something from nothing for sure can create something from something something that was alive. Can we brought alive again today DNA and other examples show demonstrate as possible, but the point being is not so much to make it rational. But the point is that it's very Very understandable that things really don't die and yet there's pain because there's a disconnect because even if the soul moves to another dimension, it's not the dimension where in that's why we grieve and that's soul to does not have the opportunity to do Mitzvah set as it once did inside of a body so briefly where souls go to weird. What happens to people after they die the soul just as where they were before they were born. Where were they the soul returns and goes on his journey based, of course on a lot on what you did in this world. A soul can also return we're ready. Now the end of the process of souls no longer old return mushy it was going to come but through the history Souls return more than once because they didn't finish the job. So basically the souls on a journey and Life as We Know It biological life is one dimension of it and there many many other dimensions. That's the key thing to remember. I always give this analogy somewhat the humerus analogy, but it works were often at lack of loss of words when people say where did this all go to of my father my mother? You sitting with a shovel called Lele know and someone asked that question and after a while I came up with this analogy just seems to work think of a refrigerator imaginary dialogue between a refrigerator and electricity and the refrigerator says to the electricity. Where do you go to once they pulled the plug and what does that look true? Say restore electricity respond incredulously kind of what spurred you have. You asked me where I go. Where were you where you come from? You think you're the center of the universe you ask me where I go? You're a little box. They just invented a hundred 200 years ago. You figured out how to bottle me the energy energize the refrigerator and refrigerate food. I go back to my rational place that's not closed and not trapped in the parameters of your box. Beyond time and space as you know it I mean you think about exactly right? When we asked the question, where does this all go to? That's a suggesting we are at the center of the universe where we are where it's at with so go to maybe we're not where it's at. Maybe we're one little speck of a higher reality that precedes us and we'll also follow us after our stage and journey this leg of the journey in this world and that's what that's what the idea of death has to help us understand and think about the bigger picture in that sense more to be said on this I've talked about as I said, Pisode 176 but in other places as well because the same time we do grieve as I mentioned and but suffice it for now. Okay, next question again unrelated what defines a proper Aveda increase Christmas kilometer bedside smart that we say before we go to sleep. So here so you've heard many times Christian Muslim. It is a time to make a fresh banana fish has been said like an accountability end of the day you're countable to whom to the one they give you life. So just like if you're working for someone in business. You're accountable accountable can be daily. It could be weekly. It could be monthly annually, but daily as well. Give a report. What did you accomplish? What did you not accomplish what could be done better? So Christmas Lomita, which is before with the bedside smart, which means the prayer we say before bedtime is a beautiful time you finish the day's work, whatever it may have been and your now State giving it giving taking stock. You're auditing yourself and you're saying here's what happened in this day. So the prayer that The Mink of one of that prayer is the conclusion obviously in order to prepare for the next day and make even make it an even better day as I'm guessing prepara would say as the Morgans was enchanted with the high that tomorrow should be nicer than today but it begins with accountability accountability is one of the most powerful beautiful and Noble things a human being can have Even between people relationships as I mentioned many times. Our relationship trust is not built on Perfection. Nobody's Perfect. It's built on what an accountability. So you may make a mistake made of a setback you made a deliberate mistake, but you're accountable one of the worst things a lack of accountability because that's worse than the crime a crime is a crime a mistake is a mistake a transgression is a transgression, but then your account for it and you correct it. But if you deny it you lie about it then begins to grow think of it like a small infection begins to fester and it can become very destructive. So relationships are built on accountability and relationship with God has built an accountability and Was relationship with yourself when you're accountable to yourself. Have you betrayed yourself? Are you living up to your destiny to your calling? These are all part of the husband that a person makes the qivana of Christian Muslim it now, obviously there are many more details you person can the Plan customize it and tailor it to their own particular way of doing things and if you learn citizens will talk many different components that you have in the end of after might've true Messiah - and then comes Christmas Lomita. Some people say things hot sauce. At that time a period as well, but in general it's prepare. It's concluding the day and ditional point. It's also Bianca African rookie, but this ack LMS in your hands. I trust. My spirit like we say my Daniel Inferno comello cravaack. I'm shocked. That depends mostly become the rambabu. Nosaka in the morning. We say thank you for giving me my soul at the end of the day. We say I entrust but you're trying your hand. I trust my spirit and that's another is bananas does the end of sh'ma perform up hill where we when we say that in order to be able to acknowledge that we are soul is not ours. It's God's gift to us. It is the central force and the focal point of everything we do and think we're going to our restful sleep when we know that we don't go to sleep with a newspaper knows or doing some other things we go to sleep with that type of spiritual cognizance and awareness and we will come up with it. So this becomes Christmas stomach that becomes an integral component of a healthy life of an accountable life of a Sanctified life. of a directed and purposeful life and much more can be said but these are some of the thoughts I would also refer you to episode 18 through 22 58 and the episodes reference there where I talk in general about prayer as part of an ongoing prayer such a fundamental principle and element of cities. So I've talked about it many many times and I always will go back to it because we all can use more in understanding what some may call The Lost Art of Prayer of a molding of a - I believe so it filler is Vegetable of the work the service of the heart emotional intelligence is prayer. With that let us go to another series of questions, which I believe I've never addressed before. So this is in the new category and this actually has to do with something first I hesitated but then I decided to do something a little novel and these are questions about pregnancy and labor which of course men like myself do not go through even though we may have witnessed it but here the hear the questions are too in short. The questions are then I'll read them out of it. Are there specific methods to help ease labor pains another question why does pregnancy bringing a new life into this world need to be so difficult? Okay, see I'm going to read out the questions a little more detailed labor. Hi Rabbit Jacobson. Is there anything to this about how to have a common easy labor? I don't mean goalless. I mean hug him school this are I guess I'll go for the right word for school. It's like different acts you do that are say magical potions or something of that nature. I mean, I that person is not mean does not mean that I mean specific techniques along the lines of the modern day approaches. For example, amaz, Hypno birthing Etc. I want to have a natural non-medicated birth as I feel that it is important and I feel that some of the techniques used in these methods might be similar to his bonus. You're interested. This is one of his contemplation. But obviously would need to be specific for going through labor pains birthing children's practically the Cornerstone Foundation of our community Society Lifestyle the origin of everything. So how could this not be addressed looks its how could this is not have any support for its women giving birth. It would almost be like a banding women to face this most crucial essential Challenge on their own or using secular techniques. So excellent question and I am going to give a few pointers the answer then I'm going to be another question that's related to this and then I'll share with you what I did in order to get more clarity on the topic. So just briefly this is from a man's perspective. We'll hear soon from a woman's perspective as I'll miss share with so this does talk about it. The birthing of every child is actually compared to or the other way around the birthing of the Jewish people as they came out of MIT slime. The book of your testicle actually talks about the birth pangs talks about even the blood that comes from it took some very explicit terms the pain of birthing and all that comes through Labor and explains. See this does explain the concept of Labor goalless is compared to Eber to pregnancy and Google the to birth and the goal is difficult so much of Exodus is dedicated to this theme. It may not talk about it in the individual terms, but you can easily extrapolate it. It that whatever it says in the collective sense that whenever you need a birthing it always will be preceded by some type of challenge beforehand because you need something new to be birthed will soon talk about why there has to be that pain but the fact of the matter is that that is not very much work. So this talks about sources does address it but like always you have to know how to apply it to the personal as far as methods and techniques. I'll leave that few minutes for the before I get to that. Let me go to the second question. Nauseam pregnancy Through The Eyes Of course. It has the rabbi Jacobsen. Thank you for your wonderful and meaningful broadcasts. I look forward to tuning in each week. I have a question regarding pregnancy when he with many women experience sickness and nausea and their first trimester. I have a condition called hyper hyper emesis. Not sure if I'm pronouncing it correctly but hyperemesis which means that experiences throughout the nine months of pregnancy in an extreme way including sometimes having to go to the hospital. Ashley for the first few months due to dehydration and insufficient nourishment. Although I know pregnancy is a huge blessing and I'm very thankful to Hashem. I have heart I have a hard time both physically and emotionally dealing with feeling so sick. I feel bad for my other children who do not get my best care and I also and also have trouble dealing with the physical discomfort. My question is twofold. Is there anything that says about feeling nauseous during pregnancy? Is there a deeper significance? Could it be a good thing my second question? Is even those women who do not have such extreme morning sickness many nonetheless. Do not feel very good. Especially during their first trimester. Why would I send make it make it the time during which we are supposed to keep our pregnancies a secret be the time when we are feeling the most ill it makes it all the harder to feel so awful and not be able to confide another's how sick I am feeling in accordance with habad minhum. Is there any room to tell others about pregnancy earlier on thank you very much for your wonderful insights. So I'll tell you what I did to be very honest as a man as much as I can look into this and find answers that have his letters and so on and I will share what I do find I thought especially something so personal I should ask some women. So actually asked a few women in our team to respond to this and they did so I'm going to read a few responses and it has I think a much more heartfelt and much more credible Dimension to it and in truth, even though I don't always say this at the program any question that comes up that's outside of my own personal experience. I don't like just referring to books and academic level though that couldn't be helpful, but there's nothing like also including in it the dimension of personal experience, especially we talk It has supplied so it's really combining knowledge and information with experience when it comes to matters like this. I really felt more acutely that was necessary. So I'm just reading a few few comments see how much I can read here with the time limit the time we have. We are. Okay. Hi Rabbit, Jacobson. Just a few thoughts on the labor question. It is our custom that a husband is not so involved in the actual birthing process in a physical way, but necessarily but yes in a spiritual way saying to him etcetera from this I think we can conclude with what is missing if it is not ours husband who's physically involved in our labor. Then we need to find someone else to be so far. My births have been unmedicated and I found the technique of a do load to be amazing. If you were if you want to bring in the Rebus constant message of obvious. Yes, we want to bring in the numbers constant message of obviously so you can even call it the lava sea salt technique. I bring in an amazing lavash woman mother and experience the hula and it has been a wonderful experience for me by knowing that I have to rely on and lean on any anxiety is meeting is immediately abated and I have the confidence to face labor. I also want to add that I think it is. Okay if labor is not calm and peace. Peaceful. I see my husband that he has to he has to live with the curse perhaps you can call a challenge of Adam making a living and having the responsibility to provide for our family. He has to balance with the dominating and learning and many other responsibilities and it is not easy. But also see how it makes him a better person and a very strong person. So perhaps it is a curse, but I think good comes out of it so labor. I think it is. Alright, if it is if it is not peaceful in common. Perfect. We are given this by Cava and it may be called a This but I think we can call it a challenge and even opportunity and I would actually say this is my addition. The word curses very distorting will not use curses cause and effect which I'll talk about perhaps shortly we can use the opportunity to tap deep into ourselves and find our hidden strengths. The rabbit teaches us about crushing The Olive in order to get the oil and have a flame without the crushing there can be no flame. So the experience of Labor can be empowering and although it is not necessary the not necessarily easier calm it can bring out. Strings that we never knew existed and I think this is an amazing way to start out meeting and parenting a child. We have tackled the labor now we can move on and tackle the even more difficulty of raising and rearing of this precious Soul. I'm not sure if this is helpful, but these are just some of my thoughts all the best another woman writes in response to my presenting them this questions. I have not seen learn anything specific like instructions and text perhaps once part of Torah shebar, / but learning students over the years has undoubtedly, Transform my pregnancy birth experiences. Maybe we need a course on this share my own personal experience perspective. Obviously growing a human being is making a Space inside of yourself the kind of symptom. It directs expression of being created that selam aleykum in the Divine image. We are emulating God in this act. It is uncomfortable to be pregnant because in giving life nourishment to another being our physical physicality diminishes, but our capacity to love expands. In this process we limited physical beings transcend nature. The body resists on some level here, but are Limitless giving soul is expressed. The body becomes a holy vessel a Giver of Life the more we are able to get out of the way quote unquote mostly and let go of resistance to physical discomfort even welcoming as a part of the process the less of the suffering less and the less the suffering around it. There is a sensitive balance between being attuned and responsive to own your own inner process Cravings emotions physical needs and making space for the human being inside. Again. The Paradox is Godlike during birth surrender and letting go of control is essential getting out of the way trusting the body trust in God a kind of softness or psycho emotional level and I'm gonna kind of softness on psycho-emotional level. It's no longer an idea. Of trust or thinking about it. It's a visceral experience of trust. During most painful moments letting go of resistance to pain as something bad or wrong. This would be like accepting God's will without trying to wrap their mind around it when able to accept all parts of pregnancy and birth as a whole a feeling of trust and surrender. There is an expansiveness that happens inside a feeling of living life in the fullest way of being big enough quote-unquote to accept life in all its colors. It's also a feeling of great connection and empathy for all of life and Is the feeling of the Soul expressed in the body? So another woman in our team responded to that says wow, I envy your pregnancies and births. I am so not on that spiritual level. Maybe it's time to have a female guest speaker on this topic. I'm with the questioners wondering why we are still suffering for Carver's mistake and why God couldn't figure out a smoother cleaner less painful approach to birth and why mothers aren't celebrated more. They more after they give birth. There should be some kind of ritual to celebrate the mom other than the usual late night parties of feeding and rocking the baby all in all I think it's more along the lines of many of the greatest blessings in our life. They come through Work in pain and selflessness and commitment the process continues with raising our children Etc is the greatest gift but often the hardest moments and I think many women struggle with pregnancies when they have other kids because they feel guilty that they are on their best selves for the rest of the family. I think for that. The response would be that living by example on doing what's right and showing your family to sacrifice your giving in order to bring another Jewish life into this world is in fact giving your family exactly what it needs as for. Keeping it a secret. I said I sincerely don't believe that the rubber meant that it needs to be top secret. Hush-hush. FBI material the way I always saw it was meant that way in a way that we don't blast the news make baby announcements and parties Etc until the baby is fully viable to protect us the moms to give us some privacy with our closest inner-circle with this special moment and to make sure all this is all is well before announcing it to the world if a person needs wants to tell a confident Unfriend by all means if it helps them emotionally or physically I have friends who are on bed rest from early on and everyone just understands the reason but again, no need to discuss and yenta and blast the news everyone quietly just supports and helps out. I think that was the point that's a selection of some of the responses. I really really would invite them would like to hear from other women and mothers what they would feel on these topics because as I said is our full different kind of credibility that we all can learn from people gone through it. I would just add one more thing to to the point. I made earlier. This is from consider. This is not from personal experience obviously, but personal experience perhaps in other ways. It's exactly what it says with one of the women wrote here pregnancy is painful because the beginning of creating something new the question is, why does something new have to be painful that have not eaten from the Tree of knowledge and Autumn not treating from the Tree of knowledge. We would not Of birth pains will not have pregnancy discomfort and when would not have to toil at the sweat of his brow. So the question is what is hates that that's have to do with these pains. What is this some punishment? You can't say that because God doesn't just punish randomly its cause and effect you have to understand the eating of the tree from the Tree of knowledge was not a small matter. It wasn't just a test. The tree think of the name of the tree the tree of knowledge of Good and Evil to know good and evil. God said to Adam and Eve. I'm putting you into a world with his potential good and evil, but it's up to you to always choose good know. There's evil me knowing your mind but don't taste it. Don't access it little children can be taught this things that are no good, but it's in their mind. They never tasted it one of the reasons that many people they They think you know what since I know it's not so good. Let me taste it. What's the big thing? Once you taste it, you lose your innocence. You're no longer the same person eights Hadassah. It's not it's a hormone that it Sabina Hulk mabini. Our cerebral harm is a concept being his understanding that is an intimate connection. You've now tasted it you've crossed the line. So I shan't was saying to Adam and Eve. I am giving you viscerally everything you need to do the job in this world the of the last summer to serve and to protect turn the entire world into a guard live up to the Garden of Eden. What's the magana critical with nany the ghani the guney? Like see Bella ghani like the beginning of bustling ghani has the ecos skin of autonomous the place where the main screen is. I'm with you you have in your gut you sense the Divine that's why they were naked and they didn't sense it like newborn children innocent sexuality is part of the Divine divine plan. But Divine Design considered to be actually the most Divine thing in existence. That's why gives birth. But once they taste it from the Tree of knowledge through the Curiosity do their Temptation the story of the serpent. I'm going to go through all the details. They now lost touch they became a duality. I'm I have my agenda and God has his agenda and the rest of life is trying to align the to the seamlessness would have been there. That's why Adam wouldn't have to work. Physical labor God would provide because the world would be aligned since you're aligned with my purpose the world will prepare will give you the pronoun. So you need I'll make sure that you have everything all the food and all the all the nourishment and sustenance you need the same thing with a woman you will not have to struggle give birth because you're all aligned to the Divine. But once you don't get a line birth is a Divine gift in a world that's not aligned to the Divine it cannot come easy. It comes with pain. So the pain is an outgrowth of The Duality of a separate Consciousness that was born in the psyche of the human being the moment. They eat from the Tree of knowledge. That's why of Shem later says God says to Adam and he hides in Grenada nyukka. Where are you? What he didn't know where he was says the alter rebbe explains to the minister when he was in prison now that I've explained yet has Eternal question to each one of us. I don't recognize you. You can sit there. So and say where are you you see their body. They're spaced out. Their spirit is not aligned with you. I don't feel you're with me. Your Divine image that I created you in is now concealed which is one of the explanations why animals will never attack a human being it says because they're respect the Divine image. So why do we see an animal can attack the human because they don't see the Divine image that meal in the den of lions then was divine so the lines left them alone. So another personality has emerged your own personal your own ego. That's why they covered themselves which was sensitive, but it's now an A world that has to align itself. So the pains are pregnancy and birth think which are the greatest gift in life do not come easy. Just like the Pains of the birthing of the goal that do not come easy. The birthing of its estimates time comes with the pain of Goldsmith's lamps serious pain, The pain of the goal of the Aguila the birth of the ghoul immediate rush limit comes after the pain of Godless. And the rest I leave to the experience that have spoken about their experience and I hope some of you will weigh in as well. Okay, let's move to the next question. Why is the height of semen the rebel rishabh revealed that the alternative is an air at me means an essential core energy meaning not by not defined by expression and by any Revelations. Therefore he did not show Miracles Miracles is a sign of expression are asked me is we as his real because he's real doesn't have to show Miracles. So then is it misguided as the rubber for Barajas for the first pan us Etc. Thanks, mate. Now that's me means as the rabbits in and out the debits and told one of the cinema said where the Miracles he hears only added Emirates yourself as Miracles are so common the rolling around under the bench and nobody bothers to pick them up. That doesn't mean they can't be Miracle means we don't Miracles Gilliam Miracles could say Nia's can God do a miracle. Of course, you can do a miracle can decide if we want to do a miracle, but that's not the leadership of a real ask me and ask me is msc's our divine expression of the Divine in this world of the Divine approval of couse a Godly person. That doesn't mean he can do it means he's not defined by doing it and we're not impressed because he did a miracle. The fact that we go to our ever for Brokers for the force of first of all out there, but actually initially said, why coming to me for gosh, please come to me for a rookies, but at the end of the day I'd ever he could knowledge and accepted and that IBM did except Brokers for gosh means including sometimes we ask that they did that they helped us with the miracle, but that's not because they're defined by it. That's because they have the power and why not for personal God forbids the hospital one of those lines you can have a Reb intervene and pray. And actually for needs a miracle, that would be a miracle if it could be done naturally even better. So I'm not sure what the contradiction is though. It could be an air. That's me. You still go to this are rats me to help you out in life. Whatever is possible, even though you're not defined by the miracle. And even if the miracle doesn't happen as the famous story was Reb shmuel karate the miracle was I remained the cost of even though it didn't work out the way I wanted. Okay. Now let's do a few follow-ups. And then this question and we'll follow up. The first follow-up was about impeachment. Well a bunch of can't tell you how many comments came in about that became very political. I might attempt was to be non-political at all just to learn how to talk about these lessons. So I'll just read a few select based again on the limited time. All I can say is wow, right one, right one person while many politicians in this country are involved in Corrupt Practices on both sides of the aisle that evidence The president has done and he's done many things that ought to get him booted from office, but I'm specifically referring to the current impeachment charges is overwhelming. I don't like Pelosi. I did not vote for Hillary, but I believe it is objectively clear to any honest person that Trump has violated the Constitution and should be removed from office for that reason in the future Rabbi Jacobsen. Robbie Jacobson. It should be who've you not to discuss politics. You say you're not picking sides, but then you do rather disingenuous if you ask me. Another person cop responded to that and said, um you say in the future ever Jacobson if you ask me. I would suggest you don't discuss politics. Another person says, well, he didn't ask you. Okay, appreciate that. Another person comes completely from the other perspective. Mr. All I can say is wow. What are you worrying about against the president? Like Trump has been more pro-jewish than any other president in American history. I wonder where your when Hillary erased hundreds of emails and was corrupt as could be it was Biden who is who had his son take bribes and it was the Democrats who gave a hundred and fifty billion dollars tiran looking the other way as they built nukes to kill six million Israeli Jews in nine months nine minutes, you're either a troll or self-hating Jew. With your comments a Jew votes against Trump is not a Jew. Okay. I read that even though I don't agree with that harshness. How did he violate the constitution you'd be drinking? You've been drinking the shift Kool-Aid my friend named one thing he did to violate the constitution aside from garbage made up by shift and another person writes. Wow, indeed. Your comments is exactly what we are also turned off by your disdain and contempt of trumped so blind you objectivity that anyone who doesn't feel like you is labeled political and pro-trump if you would only listen to The rabbit Jacobson's coherent and balanced approach without any preconceived notions. You would learn much. Anyway, others continue to write the reason I read it which is really against my character. I did not want to get into politics is exactly the point. It's lessons lessons to be learned from something but this is exactly what I spoke about was why do we have to get down to the mud to take sides here? What I do learn another lesson, I would learn from this impeachment is this that what hatred can do it can completely blind you and this can be applied to many areas in life. You get to the point you completely convinced of something because you don't like something you're convinced that you're right. It's another lesson we can learn from these impeachment hearings addition. I would say one more thing that someone actually did write another lesson impeachment the concept of impeachment the Constitution regardless, whether who's right or wrong is a concept that of checks and balances. There's no one with absolute power. Everybody is accountable. This is not necessary applying what they want is guilty or not. But the idea is checks and balances when done right with the good intentions so enough on this topic fine next topic follow up. These are all follow-ups. Well, we spoke about making a blessing on the king whether the president has the Lord in of a king as always. I don't come here to Pastor Silas. I just quoted some sources. So someone wrote when Obama motorcade came through Crown Heights. This question came up and everyone's whether he would make blessing should be made. They said no asked Allah can bring her son and regarding a king. I thought it was an interesting question actually. Another person writes there are other opinions about this matter now, I did called Rebecca's body asaph and some say there are other opinions that hold it you should make it. So let me just say this as I said, I'm not coming here to pass. Can I call it sources and everybody should follow up so I cover real love. If you have a source, please share it I have not seen the stores besides up Avengers, which I think is but not with not with shame and mouthfuls for the reasons. I should last program, but if somebody has a source by all And please share it with me. I remember if a president does have it in milk means all presidents not just Trump then would be Obama and every one of the forty five presidents because they all have the same position of power whether you like them. You don't like them just like a real mellor where everyone agrees you make a broker. Even if Rosa Rosa you made the Blessed. Another thing to point out is also the mr. Tilley straddle to make an effort to find such a person. So if someone is actually did melatonin just wait we have to find that person and we did not see the red but do that. The president's and then of his lifetime that ever did not go and pursue to find them to make a block or to see them Additionally the fleet incredible saw President Hoover when he was here in the United States in 1930. I believe it was you dollar Thomas when he went to see Hoover in Washington now, it doesn't say whether he made her he didn't make but if he had made probably would have been written but again not saying it doesn't mean saw just mentioning that so again, this is not a conclusive how long could show This is bring the topics to the table. It's relevant because there are people who will see Trump should an effort be made to go see a president any president. That would be across the board and we don't see their you smell really did that does that mean it's bound within the mitzvot making a blessing. It seems somewhat connected if he's a didn't Alex and then you have two things to make an effort to see him and and make a blessing. Maybe some hold that if you see me make a blessing not shame ox, and I'm sure there's really opinions but I think the consensus is not to do it. This is not taking away from the power of the president does not take way of honoring him, but it's about understanding what really the dinners regarding what a melek really actually is okay. There's more follow-up, but I'm going to skip the other follow-up. I'll do that next program because of time limitations. So let me jump straight to the see this question. It's actually a question about a minor of very powerful beautiful Miami that Delta Debbie said connection to partial evaluator has really two weeks ago. I was going to do a last week but time ran out. So I'll do it. Now. It's a beautiful name is called the Isha. Aha since they have Theta of passers-by era yesterday. We were at high started. So instead of last week's Shabbos and the story is About a woman from banana veeam. You shaka's he socks me in the shaping of him Sokka elodie, she came to Alicia crying that her husband died and debtors are coming to collect. They want to take away the two children as servants and the story continues. What are these should that tells her to do so, I'll turn it has a very powerful minor. Which I believe is printed. Yes. It's pretty my mother Admiral zahrk Mac sodium page 136. It was printed a mesh out in one version of it, which is a safe that's around for a while and look at this. It has Volume 5 page 334 the double-sided and explained it and then there's a minor from Tufts remember of that now Moog actually edited by the river called the chakras was half husband option member of so there are so it's really addressing the fundamental issue because the person is a positive vibe here. Pirates and Pastor by 18 public a demon actually begins an introduction at the websites and look with the scissors that everything in Taylor's head off. So a story like this what's irrelevant us what happened with this woman and what I've Alicia told her that it's about our lives. It's talking about a person on the summit crying out. Due to the fact that it's feeling numb. And that's it's relevant. So the question that was asked to me. There's A Beautiful Mind around the issue occurs that discusses how to deal with spiritual and emotional numbness. I'd love to hear your take on it. So I'll put it in words that I think are very palatable and very practical but it's directly from the moment. So let's first interpret without the devil says briefly. I'm not going to go through the whole idea. Chris Hill has all our dishes on their resources out there that was actually short but the member of the debit elaborates on it and brings from Nob Hill as well. So so again, the story is a woman lost her husband. She comes crying to Alicia her husband died. You know that he was after he was a servant of yours and he feared God and our nature the better. The Creditor I should say the creditor who I have a debt to has come to take my two children from self as slaves a servant Alicia continues. What should I do for you? He said tell me what you have in your house. I'm translating it's because just from the Hebrew. She says your maidservant has nothing at the house except a jug of oil. Association so this hotel's Ribeiro vessels for yourself from outside from all your neighbors. Do not borrow only a few empty vessels. Mean borrow much and you should come close the door about yourself and about your sons and you shall pour upon all these vessels and the full moon you shall carry away. And she did that and all the vessels filled with oil until as much as she needed. That's the gist of it says the altar Deb. The ishak has goes on at a national consensus roll. Some is a singular. Neshama connected Oneness with God. Explains what banana VM is because it comes from that second. Hey the source and so on but I'm lying to Soul powerful Divine Soul comes crying to Alicia Alicia representing an anova vashem Ali Shah Kaylee Shaw. So the asking for how you sure something happened. My husband which refers to the other Veera. In the neshamah has died. I don't feel I feel numb. I don't feel emotional passion and connection to the Divine furthermore. The age of heart of the nefesh Obamas, which is the Creditor. Is coming now and not is vulnerable state and wants to take away the children. That even that which Still Remains with me my thoughts my speech and action he wants to not just he wants to silence it. He wants to take it away for to be his hostages to be used for the nefesh Obamas for the animal Soul. So I'm really desperate. Says Alicia, what do you have? Tell me what you have left? She has nothing. She says there's no Gillian. There's nothing left. But I do have a jug of oil. That's the hawk Michelle been a fish. There's a Divine spark that never burns out no matter what even if you don't have even if you don't feel it, even if you're numb it always remains alive. So Alicia says, that's the case. Here's what you do. Take Calum raking empty. Kala means you don't have any other vir, they're empty. But continue to do Terror mistress, even if they're emptying. They don't feel love and passion. Just do it even mechanically as much as you can. And that jug that spark that Still Remains alive is going to be come alive and fill all your drugs and your mistress with oil with connection to Hashem. So don't give up just because you don't feel anything that ever says there's a second interpretation came to take him out time eating means that Kayla male can contemplate and the fact that you're a clade a confit that you're empty. So though it's not a positive thing. But contemplating will cause you to feel a pain that will elicit deeper strengths. And those deeper strengths will reignite using that us examine that jug of oil that spark and reignite the connection. That's the short of it what the lesson is. We all have times we feel numbness will we feel apathy when we feel that we don't feel alive in the Divine Way. So never give up do actions even behavioral things will ultimately lead actions will lead your mind and heart to file your investment. Will lead other things to come into it, even though you're doing it right now just mechanically the second thing think about your emptiness think how void you are think how much you feel you're missing and that itself can elicit deeper strengths. So I think it's very practical lessons and looks it has applied that each of us can apply each and our own particular level. Of course. It's a tremendous learning from the bus from the alte debe, especially as explained by the rebbe in the my movie chakras talks remember Okay with that, let's go straight to the three essays. So see what number one is rx that hi. I'm Michael determine age 48 Atlanta, Georgia P EMA emergency medicine physician So he writes the following, you know before whom you stand and who awaits you with open arms. Have you not heard? We were not told from the very beginning. It's of course a positive. No, I was not told from the very beginning that I Shem runs the world. I was a bore and the not understand I grew up in the suburbs disconnected from religion and dismissive of religious life my entire life. I has chewed any semblance of a religious lifestyle. I was oblivious to the great Mayan awesome Hashem. It goes on to speak about his personal life as an American physician with a business background and Taro was absent from the Wharton curriculum where I grew up talks about his own and then talks about his journey how he slowly found a chamois found totally found mistress and essentially teaches us how we can learn from his experience. Each of us can also go through and he learned about and goes deeper and even using his medicine the anatomy of a Jewish soul to understand that Anatomy of the Jewish Soul the power of action the power of speech the power of thought among Java really very engaging sa very personal and good powerful conclusions. So thank you for that. Next essay controlling your anger. So it doesn't control your high because it doesn't control you hiya cats. 28 years old st. Paul, Minnesota a teacher Well, like the name implies the title control yourself from overreaching to lives everyday pressures easier said than done. How can you help tame these intense emotions when you have all these pressure discs, it has have practical guidelines for us to maintain control and high-intensity situations Psychology today offers a full range of solutions to help deal with anger management problems. And I'm going to I will contrast the modern approaches with the Hasidic approach. I'll also emphasize oxidants offers a more deep and profound. In a transformation to help deal with this problems, which causes the pet method PT perspective extreme time changing your perspective. With a meditation time to contemplate and the middle one. Skip the middle of the opposite extreme right extreme. Okay yet another very good essay essay with good final conclusions. Thank you for that as well. And finally essay number 3 and Hebrew is kinemacolor my Scimitar Richard Webber practical education according to the tale of the rabbit the with the teachings of the rabbit. And again, the title tells it all and goes on to explain through Hanukkah and through others examples what lessons in educational methodology. working with pleasure working with the inner dimensions of pleasure making it pleasurable making it fun and That education shouldn't just be an obligation to be something that really connects the person to higher levels, even though there are the arse of hard work involved in it and ultimately to put in creates a level Salem are low and independent individual who can stand on his or her own feet. So long essay, but again well worth reading. It looks like coming from an educator and this was written by Aaron Schwartz of cute Malaki Israel. All these essays can be found at City supply.com. They propose them as they As I read them each week. I will Morris is going down the list of the last year's 2019 winning essays all essays and With that we conclude this episode my life's it has applied episode 284. It's always an honor and a pleasure to be a very limited can sympathetic and liquor Illuminating create excuses excuses. We're here every Sunday 8:00 to 9:00 p.m. Everyone be blessed and everyone be well, and it's haters of guba and creators of light. We should be there even before that to the glulam. It is virtually. No. Thank you.
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