Welcome to my life because of the supply episode 276. This program is dedicated in honor of the first deal outside of Hindi Hindi. Cantor Fogle and loving her memory of hindle a Abbas Menachem Mendel like Babylon era. Her lamp does not go out at night make this program and we all are learning together and the help it does for so many people all over the world. Standing her Merit as we are honoring this program in her name. So we are now the beginnings of the month of elul Montebello, of course is the month of the conclusion of the past year Takashi haneda preparation for the new year as we've been discussing over the past weeks. So this coming Shabbos is going to be partially key States or in the week of cassettes a as well, as this week has two special days in the Chabad counter. The 11th of L is the wedding anniversary of the Rebel rishabh into fresh Lambert. Hey, And the 13th of L is the wedding anniversary of the lab Afridi kadapa into freshman Zion special. My modern was said and toughest hombre de Mirage said Haslam Ahmad Ahmad Rashad Deb's the connected to the brush ABS marriage and to flourish New Zion. Of course, we have them Shake him the hook Hassan and Summertime Summertime fresh new design. So there's much material there understanding the deeper meaning of a wedding and a marriage. It's interesting that I obey him start with they made an effort that marriage. What happened? The month of sulla is the muzzle of this month? The month of L is a special month of appropriate for weddings or the month of kislev in the Deborah's wedding was you doubted kiss live. So let's begin with that since that's the closest US a marriage as we know especially interior in general and especially in cities is about the union of Two Souls. So from the cave a borrower is some God created male and female then he separated them. and essentially a marriage is the reuniting of two halves of a so blog cloud gufa and hence the great simcha not just for the individuals, but for the entire Jewish people for the entire world and indeed for the entire State additional service for the entire Cosmic order because when two souls who were separate separated come back together, it creates a Unity that ripples through all of the cosmos through all of the levels and that is indeed a tremendous Force because Purpose of creation is to take a fragmented world that that is separated and split and sometimes even divisive and turn it into Unity Harmony within diversity. And where else is that best captured than in a marriage? And that's why a sham blesses and God blesses this couple with Fruit of the Loom. Melissa is the blessing of Korea in safe as the my modern that Russia has honored the memory of the discourses that talk about marriage the blessing of being able to create life and not just one life many lives and for generations to come long after even the the couple that bear children Outlast them and it's essentially a Perpetual fruit. Which is okay thanks of the given to the Mortal human being to create something Immortal the power of God himself all because of that unification that connection of male-female the two energies are masculine and feminine that come together that selam aleykum is only complete when you have them both. This is discussed in many of them are more accidents including the my mom. I just referred to and others as well and also the great simple syncopated together that expression actually originates in the - um, The summer said at the rebel shop said that the physical Amber's wedding but a simpler Peters gather mean Joy Pierce's all boundaries bricks all boundaries when you enjoy your in your joyous and you're happy. You don't go by the regular limitations. You just have a certain unbridled force of unbridled passion and energy to just Pierce through everything breakthrough every boundary possible. That's what Joy does to a person to the the human Spirit. He says it in that moment because again the joy of what the joy of this two souls coming together in the language of Sid has oh and malkos. You could zoom Zoe refers to the soccer the masculine and the cable for first. The malkos is the new clip. You could coach a British Clinton is another expression used for it. Where did it all originated? The MCAS is Emma and Taylor by Matt and Tara was the original marriage between Cabrera and screen and classes law between God and the Jewish people. That's the marriage. We're now in a period in the month of L were preparing for the ultimate marriage. Why because the marriage took place initial steps of it took place and Schwarz, but then because they built the golden calf and they never received the first tablets, which was the tsuba the Stark super the marriage contract. So make sure went back up on the mountain to beg for forgiveness to be CGI and finally prevails. When I am Kippur when the second look is so um car cynicism until the mission and tiniest refers to is Yom Kippur. So this is now period that we prepare for marriage which is only accentuates and explains why Elders so much connected to marriage. So when we're celebrating that a marriage of Alabama in addition to the simcha that every couple has we're also talking about Nasim leaders of a generation shama clawless Collective Soul so you can imagine how much more so that simply is it's not just there is it Collective Joy of all of us in the celebration and the power it gives for us to do our yahudim each and our own little fragmented lives to bring together forces and unite them toward the divine. And create that Harmony within diversity and when that's done, so a tremendous Joy tremendous Simcoe. We talked about Mel of basada. The king is in the field. Also, you can allowed that to marriage as well marriage hoop is done outside in the field. I've never seen that but I just came to me as we're speaking now and other references in L that all can accentuate this point. So the lesson and the rest it has applied of it is pretty clear. And with that let us go now to kiss 8C And he said say actually a few questions came in that are talking about some very seemingly puzzling that bizarre laws in this Parsha. So thus it has supplied will do through those through those two laws that are seemed under which is about how do you explain the laws of your Fast Tire and been say dura mater in this week's passion. I'll read the full question Dear Abby Jacobs and thank you for your weekly class. Listening for a few years, but this is my first question as I started on bomb once again recently and I'm going through the Mitzvahs two questions came up that I've always bothered me. This is connected to pressures could say say number one. Why by the midst of your first Tire do we say the concept of debilitated connected yet Sahara? Why not be any other Mitzvah challenge a Jew may have so let me explain the midst of your fast are talking about the laws of your first date. I should say the beginner key. You say it so we know the partial begins can say it's a little coma, Oliveira. Vanessa Torres and welcome. You'll go out to war upon your enemies. And God will give them to you meaning you will win the Shiva Shiva and you will take captive and then it continues it says that if you see some someone season has a desire for Asia's you fast had a woman who's beautiful one of the captives. So the Theta gives a whole bunch of guidelines what you can do. Tell relationship with her. But right there is a freshman what kind of behavior is that? Since when does the trade allows us? Because you want a war. So the has all say and Raschi sites debilitated connected the eight Sahara the tarot speaks. So to speak to the eighth Sahara since the theater knows and recognizes that person will have a V8 Sahara especially in this state. So the tailor said, you know what let's give him a little leniency instead of him doing a Prohibition be giving giving a loud alarm to do it and hopefully come to a point as the The continues that if you'll find it, I will find it abhorrent and find her repulsive and the tail gives guidelines how that can be led. So the question that's asked is a very obvious question. What kind of potato suddenly speaking and so-called placating the HR harder if that's the case the whole Taylor should be doing that and different missions were supposed to hear and even here in one place. What kind of what kind of statement is that that suddenly weirdest we're recognizing the weakness of a person we have many weaknesses, especially in this area. Yeah, that's question. Number one. Then. The Taylor continues is another Dean about been sedated and made it. This is a child who Rebels mutineers against his parents. Why Ben said I made of the second question. Do we say kill him? So yamazaki volume was cave. So the good morning. Sanhedrin is a homosexual whole pay the kin-san hadn't called men seldom Ada based on the verses in this week's chapter that says that he's to be put to death based on obviously a bunch of conditions. And especially the gemara uses then be killed in Emeritus way because all he did write this point is he indulged and gluttonously in wine and meat and so on. But let me put now to death so he should not be put to death when she goes and reaches greater sense again, what kind of question what does that say? Yes, what about shuva maybe could do chuva or may be when he grows up. He will Shape Up. The real question rights. We know that the good mother also says that have been said and made a may never have happened after the gemara says it never happened and never will happen in the future. But if Taylor's telling us about this myth, so I'm sure there's something we can learn from it. I don't know if you have discussed in the past. If you ask can you please let me know where I can find answers. Thank you very much for all your time and all you do for us. Okay, so let's take one at a time. And actually they are connected because as has all say in Russia also brings it that as a result of taking the issues here fast Taya. Then the next Su can talk about the law of taking two wives in one you dislike that that's a result of that and then the birth of a been said and made as a result of of indulging in that tyva even though the data speaks connect the HR and allows it but there are real negative consequences and been say that it made it is one of them as Al D'Amato says and so on. So there's a connection but let's begin with the first question the most obvious question about the apostate what means debilitating connectivity is so hard. So indeed the question of course is not been as the first time here the many commentaries talk about it, but let's begin with the ideas on himself. He's Fair these are and I'm now reading from the quantitative that is our passion. He sets a and this week's passion and time we are mixed with some that result as well as Shanghai Mitzvahs from that is all written by the primatologist of the not right is on Taylor. That's exactly this question and I'll read it the lady potato the connector the it's a harder. So this says that as all say that there's a Hooter the Taylor gave her permission for the person to have a relation with this if I stay here with his Beauty this beautiful woman, well it because the light table to tell Ellen candidates at hotter so they asked that is allows Behemoth Naysha you collect mistress is say because you can't control and Conquer your your negative integers evil inclination yet here. I know it should be permitted. In Kenya, so can become my mistress. That's the case of should be with all the mistress wherever a person cannot control themselves that they too should give him some leniency some license. And this is the result asks I said in the several different places. What is his answer? His answer is interesting lie that we told him welcome Jesus. This is talk about Muhammad sus meaning a war that was not an obligatory work. He says he'll Muhammad Ali versus not obligatory War because that had very different rules and the rules in this posture do not apply to that. Mahama Sue says that is all with Sadiq Imodium or involved only those that were completely righteous people who are not capable of having A desire for any woman. That was not their wife. So they desire that means because they saw the spark the holy spark that's there and that's why the Tater permitted and what means debilitated connected a chakra is talking the taters talking candidates are and not to satisfy the a soda, but this is the war with the 8 so harder for all of us who may have such a challenge. That is it doesn't say that explicitly but the shallow and this chapter and I've been a buck. I do say that explicitly interestingly that ever has a note in when he read made footnotes in the my minute option tests. So there's a footnote from the debe, but then there's an addition to that footnote which is now printed in look at this. It has volume 19 page five or six. We talks about your fast tayyar and sites this case for a diesel and of course the explanation of in Exodus, which Talk about in a moment and says exactly that you're talking about that. It's addicting modem and therefore since they crave for something it means because there's a spark we shall be so she via in that captive a spark that strapped that's relevant to this person who's Desiring it and that's why he takes her in order to be able to elevate that spark. So God forbid that the tail is giving into somebody's date Sahara here. There's no units are involved. We still need to understand what means the pathetic negation of the literal interpretation. I'll get to that in a moment. Then the number continues and speaks that there are two types of Sparks their Sparks that are allowed and permitted places parks that are not permitted places. The difference between a builder Stan our regular refinement or separation and elevation and a bit of an assumption of a test with is involved. Sacona and therefore their you need mysterious nefesh and the devil says that comes from the course of as essence of the Soul. She says now you're faster. You have to say it's a spark that fell in an inappropriate place and short clips that Miss even though it's not exact test that ever says because the Taylor's permitting it. Nevertheless, it's a Nevada through for Coshocton through a desire through a very strong passionate desire that which is refers to a Nevada at Miss A. Nevada is coming from the deepest part of the soul and mrs. Nefesh and even a second you put yourself even in danger, but I is as that I because from this came as Bird born in the settlement said animator, but because the spark was so important to elevate these siddiqa Maureen went for that. And that's where the tail is allowing to elevate it. Now what is he saying? Look what the Tater briefly he talks about you faster in Asia faster that you fast tired is the neshamah as it is in its source and issues. If a state is how the summer comes down the mountain the Schomburg of And the point is that we want to reveal the core of the soul in the soul as it is down here in the body. See if a state according to the according to the altar Deborah is referring to kedusha. But initials that came in a spark a spark of Holiness that came in the wrong place. That's the new code that he says he's besides of Zohar leave us the Coon Isaiah that says that when you go to war And Cutler have you destroyed the car with the notch, which is the spiritual serpent the negative forces? You're giving a gift of butter the Malco part of the Mela the daughter of the king the king. And that's how he explains you fast are some results since they went to war. What was the war the war is as we said it's a war against negative forces negative 8 Sahara. Even though these addiction don't have the answer but the eighth Sahara in general they went to war against negative Force against Citra and they win the war. And yet they're still Sparks that con their Sparks to be redeemed through the war and through the Shiva through the captives. So when they redeem those Parks, that's the fast are they Redeeming the holy Sparks the Divine forces that are embedded in that were taken captive by the enemy. That's how it's explained our big cities in shot. Yep, and the brothers are continues before you get the shot. He continues the actually see this brings us as well. It continues and says How This Bitter happens Out the Devil the quantitative could say this is the second moment. He say it's a look at the tailor talks also about the different steps. We talks about that what you have to do and afterwards is clean clean her garments the nails they hear all this is the Vado boxa Olivia says Let Her Cry for a father and he says that is for a month that A month of L. So it's all connected to this month. It's all preparing that where the Sparks fell into place is negative places. Here is the tightest telling us how we redeem them. That's how it's explained in Premier sauteed in Ziggler Yutaka have a challenge why the tail is suddenly allowing and giving permission here. And that is a question. The thing you could say is why here because it could be during war. This is I haven't seen in the commentaries, but I'm almost I'm almost sure it does say it. There can be an arousal of more passions are hormones and so on. So the tailor recognizing human nature instead of putting a person touch from indigenous Ian during war creates a little loophole. But with intention that a person should not necessarily grab it and not and because it says there in if you don't desire her what you have to do and then do things that actually come to a point where you don't want to have her. But I'm pretty excited telling me that Barry's billion in the first era comes into a whole city becomes a whole subject matter of how he elevates parks. So that's the point regarding your fast tail. Yeah, now let's move to been stated and made then say to the made which is completely bizarre if you go to the details, so we're talking about a boy says the been a child a son son a daughter a son and it has to be all kinds of conditions that are written in pay to ship exam and even more intelligible pair that arrived and learning it out of the versus. So first of all, let's talk about this the whole band say that I made is only possible three months from the time. That he becomes is all becoming an adolescent until three months later after that. No matter how he behaves all these laws don't apply before that. They also don't apply because he's not going to admit service is a cotton. So these three months in these three months itself. The behavior has to be so important. Well, I wouldn't say so important but it's almost impossible. When you look at the conditions the wind he has to drink the media's deed the father and mother both have to agree that this is a problem. Then it goes on further and says the father mother even after be the similar voice they have to be alike. And here's where the good motto says the famous statement that what does it mean to be a like it's not natural to the husband and wife are not alike in so many ways. So says, this is like Disturbia Huda that holds the taste after that's been said animated to use the Russian is the gemara. This is good medicine had earned a final of the morale of the mishnah that says I've been saving made a Loya never happened velocity is a never will happen. Then I'll be honest is says that he actually was by a gravy sat on a grave. So whole discussion of what that means of a been said in America, but commentaries ultimately say even that is not really a contradiction because that actual been said and made before their medrash and huzzah also site of Solomon's being an example of Shah aalam because David lamellar was with like a your fast tired. Therefore came up and said animator came off solemn came out of that and he rebelled against over the melek and ended up being a killer and a murderer and causing a lot of trouble. But the consensus is that that's not necessarily a complete been stated made. Its I'll dedicate been saving me. So this makes it even more strange besides the fact that the conditions can be met. Think about it says Buffet to should never happen never will happen. So then why is it Tater busy with such a thing altogether? What is it coming to tell us? So the guima dancers me says it was a wasn't a the says so says boy Bruce Lee Campbell Scott to study in order to receive reward for studying Taylor. There's many ways that a deal could have added stated for us to study Teta the fact that it tells us all these details. It has to be more to the story and though the commentaries talked about this as well. So let's talk about one of the lessons from and say that I made it. And finally, I should say before you get to the lessons. Let me just say this what I mentioned earlier that the Komodo later says that that that's the question what just because he drank wine was gluttonous didn't do any crime like murder yet or any of that nature so you so you go and kill him. So then what it says, you're not killing it for now you killing him for the future. I lost them what's going to happen later. The trade is predicting that a person like that a child like that will later become rebellious against parents and then become a thief and Ultimately a murderer. So you killing him now which again begs so many questions that what happens if he does chuva do we judge people on the future and so on so clearly there's more going on here. So in the Messiah and the gemara and the clearer your car on the verse they both talked about. This is a lesson. He know that the tail is coming to teach us the importance of educating our children not to allow them to come to a place that can get worse and that ever has a beautiful. Beautiful lessons. I thought I looked around access to this. I could not find anything. I've been saying to me that see this found in Kabbalah. There is that is out in the same passion keysight's I mentioned before but in a Seedling parsis case of a tough shell Ahmad chemo the rebels speaks about it. And he says the following he says what do we learn from? The better than Satan made it because parents could argue. You know, what do I have to now put so much emphasis on educating my child at this young age. Wait till the child gets older. Meanwhile, you can spoil the child and so on that's what the Bible says. So we learn from this been said to me that I know that's not the case education has to begin right away because you don't know what can happen and the meaning they even though the devil does decide to come on in son Hayden, but he's basically learning a lesson. I'll say my ocid what this coming to teach us that you have to think about the future you don't think about right now. So now you have to do everything possible not just for the physical well-being of a child but also for the spiritual well-being of a child. And that wait till later because every child needs discipline needs education. And that's what ETA is that's where the tailored of The Illuminating Tate illuminates for us through been say to the made of that importance. Because if you don't do something now later will become worse and ultimately defy and rebel and who knows what can happen. God forbid. So the rebel continues but the parents can say of some o'clock fade. They create a model parents cubed of em is a great Mitzvah, but you know what? I'm all for going it I'm allowed to forgive. Debbie says nothing. The been said to me is not just going to attack his short parents. You want to forgive you forgive that's also not appropriate but it's ultimately going to attack others. He's ultimately become much worse than affect others. Then the lever continues and says there's long name that come in argue that the submissive animatedly. However, they needed at the expression. Like however less us Italy is that it never happened. So then what are we worried about? Why are we worried about sediment and never happened? So that was says you don't need that. I you from Tanaka receiver pale, but because God forbid what happens to children when you give them your spoil them you see what problems that can come out of it. Now again, the rib, everything is big deal. This sounds like he's also alluding to The Dazzle of Unison that says that I did see a been said in a made in other words, even though taka in reality. There's no such thing that will happen but the conceptual possibility and here he saw something or something similar to that tells us how much we have to be careful in Reno. And that has to begin immediately. If you pour the points, I want to add this interesting thing when looking into the whole thing that ever then continued in this stickers bit later printed. The rest of it is edited. It's printed in Volume 14 page 262 and 263. We talks very strongly when it came out that summer about him nor education of children. The people in the Yankee is Saturdays from the mouths of babes. You found or used Toyota has because Ava mr. Narkom to eliminate every enemy and an Later, when the Kippur War broke out that year in keeping after that summer that Evan the sukkah sequence after the war broke out said neither of Allah Adam and Eve and himself prophesized and did not know what he was prophesizing something pushed me that episode to talk about the killing of children. In order to prevent enemies and upfront attacks. So the Seeker was very much connected to that. So here you have a lesson been said in a made it in our lives and you can understand why the Taylor says the Rays of a compass car. You learned it and Compass Card not just got for learning but also learning the lesson that parents learn out of this as the mushroom declare Yorkers say I want to add one very fascinating Zayed as well on this topic Zane embolic that could say things Ian. I'm a days 197 be tells us a very interesting story about the say that would make sure heard from Neighbors to saying been said in a made of the denim of this rebellious child. So just I'll just give you the brief of it. I'm gonna bother the Malaysia said he was very surprised. He says today buster. God Almighty, is it possible that there's a father that will behave this way with his child with the son? Because moisture so with his wisdom, there's a says that this is referring to that beneath Acadia slow the children of Hashem. How they would behave and how I would happen later to them. God forbid all the punishments. They would receive that they were through their Rebellion. Shame response to leave this alone Shem system Asia. I see what you're saying. But you write this and receive reward for writing it just like your yes, you're trying to find a merit in them. But you receiving reward for writing it even when there's no merit because what will happen as the commentary zones are explained to make the smella as well as the Atacama. Since you know, but I know more than you know. What you see I have the responsibility to actually perform. So the races are cost of learned is positive and forget about its deeper meaning than the zero continues that the Malik comes you feel sad at 8 and tells me should have been you that from this verse we derive as that Hashem is the is the parent and the child is hidden and he goes on to say what will happen then is that the parent will not be able to be harsh with the child. So bring them to Zeke night you two. Which is also goes on God and the end of the day because the parents are subjective. They can't pass judgment on the child. So God will have to pass judgment. And then what will happen is says verilog more they will Stone him that's where the success he refers to ignore Sera says referring to the goyim thus Aeneas throw some you think I'm dumb who would kill you instead of the Jews throughout the generations by through Stone. They would Stone them. They build walls. They do all kinds of things to punish. The Jews But Here Comes the end. This is the end stand as a happy ending and nevertheless. They will not be able to overcome and destroy the Jewish people. When moisture heard that that can destroy the Jewish people that's when he began to write this passion. That's desire in the commentaries and Zion interestingly the smell of brings that the Malik told me. She robbed a new that is that the pasta is not talking about the Eden ultimately will be should shift who I must say I let's involve on him. Stable stable releases wrath on the base on big dish that is talk about the destruction of the based on meters. Anyway, it's a lot of details on this. I just wanted to bring it because I thought it was very interesting and very happy to sight in this whole context. I think that covers it and of course we have the lessons now in education and we have the lesson the first lesson you fast here. So this went longer than usual but it is a topic that is a very controversial topic. That's why I decided I'll talk about it some more then than usual okay with that. Let us move now to continue. Questions for this week's. So here we go. What method should be used to discipline young students that was not even planned but it seems to go very slow from where we are. Hi, Roberta Jacobson. I'm on my G Economist Fifth and sometimes I need to use some Vora which is some good it means strength or authority or to discipline Baccarin students that misbehave sometimes however, I have a hard time to fit in figuring out the exact method. I should be using giving money cannot see meaning giving money punishments. They should pay does help. Does help temporary but sometimes when I feel bad taking money from students that don't have an addition to it causing them resentment making them. Learn Tanya. Our mission is by heart just causes them to start disliking those topics. What would you suggest using? Thanks so much for all your effort. I really gained from your weekly classes. So first I spoke about this in episodes two and three and fifty two. So if you go to the city supply.com, you can find references to all the previous episodes as well as the archives as well as there. You can submit your question completely anonymously briefly. We have directives about this from the web and from all the debate. But especially from the Deb in general speaking the Illuminator. Do you mean by cadavers or smell data you use the strong arm to bring clothes and even if you have to discipline has to be with the weaker arm discipline is never an end in itself the shaft or a David silhouetted you judge the nation in order to preserve that so it's necessary because it's part of the process of this. The plan an education we learned talked before about education but never as an end in itself. So the first thing we need to do is psychologically the mindset has to be you're not coming to punish you coming to educate you coming to inspire your coming to empower people not demoralize them. It's a keyword not demoralize them. So sometimes you need to work. Now how do you do that? You can do it through grounding. You can do it through there whether there's a reward for other students a trip there ways to make them send the message home that a person did something of course everything everything commensurate to what they did. I not here to come up with ideas how to discipline. I'm not talking about more the attitude to it the never once mentioned more than once mentioned that today. We don't use a stick. Even though it says shave it is that the shave with Moosa meaning that if you if you withhold the rod you're actually hating your child. So that ever says today is showing the rod showing them is enough enough prevent the prevent so we don't use aggressive means like that today. It's not the time to get into the discussion. Why and how was it? Why was it different in the past? Whether it was actually different that cetera. So the point is discipline should never be in a way that is demoralizing. You're actually Actually, right there's resentment and there is there stop liking what they're doing. Now, obviously every punishment every type of discipline is going to be some resentment but there has to come always with love and there's ways to do that when you communicate that we're going to because of what happened. Here's here's a privately and not know humiliating way. Here's what we're going to have to do. This is the consequences to teach the lesson, but you should know it's coming from a loving place. It's not coming from a vindictive place. It's not coming from anger and that's the responsibility of the teacher or the parents. Make sure that shouldn't be any tinge of anger. It's not personal. You're not getting even it's not about you. It's about what's best for the child. And sometimes you need to have a strong way to make that send that message across. Okay, let's go to the next question. Displaying photos of women is the titled. So here's a short question. What is the obligation of a kibbutz? I'm sorry. Is it appropriate to publish pictures of women in our Publications and websites? Okay. So this is a topic. Of course that has come up quite a few times a rabbi Jacobsen. Can we get this clarify once and for all why is this so much reticence and discouragement of displaying photos photos of women and habad Publications websites and a karate Publications in general. Of course, we are not talking about photos that are knots need to know her husband Shawn God forbid, but why is there an issue with displaying photos of from position snow? They can women modest women who are sluggish Robinson's and Cassidy's Are we trying to say that no matter how hard a woman tries to dress but sneers modestly we she will always be considered distasteful and loot so much so that she cannot appear in a material Market at the front position families. I just don't get it. This sends a terrible message to young girls and boys that also bothers me that certain media promoted towards Young from children feature. No grown women how exactly are they supposed to have from female role models of they can't even look at that. I don't understand how this unfortunate phenomenon lines aligns with siddim. Worldwide proudly displaying photos of the habad Robertson's in their homes. Also, I recall that in the late 80s early 90s that ever sanctioned for two books to be published featuring the photos of all the families of the Slocum around the world the faces of the shlokas the proud wives and mothers who live with mysterious nefesh every day were displayed prominently and never edited out. God forbid. Why don't we apply that standard today? Why have we become so cruel by denying the incredible Notions that can use righteous woman a platform to Simply acknowledge that they exist as equal partners. And she goes why have we fallen so low and what can we do to fix this problem as soon as possible many thanks for your level-headed commentary on so many important issues called Truth. Okay, so firstly as you know, this is not a platform for halacha decisions. And only thing I'm going to say here is with a great qualification that this should be asked to your local role of the number one the laws of modesty and sneeze in general besides obviously things that are Universal and Is that a very clear-cut sometimes is relative to a community what their standards are and so on. So this is included if for example in a community for some reason this is the standard there's no photos made no photos published. So most I drove in that Community our the whoever those people are the target audiences will probably uphold that. And that's not because there's something wrong with the women talking about how lock of it the Tater has called for the tail of you on it because that's the standard. This is based on a modern Sanhedrin that talks about the picture of a woman. However, there are communities where the standard is not quite that stringent. In addition to the fact. Yes, like you just mentioned this is this a flash leases with the rebel now is sanction was the one that encouraged and pushed and there's pictures with our families men women and their children. We also have the pictures of that evidence. And then I've actually has a letter to one of the Bonham who wrote to the Deb. How could you print that picture of the debits the good models the gemara that I just cited that night. You're not supposed to look at a woman even in a published form and that I've actually reduces that whole good mother and says all the details of the gemara don't apply when it's talking about that. It could be mated you to shamim and bring you to some I am and so on not going to go through all the details. I believe I may have spoken about it. Once if not, if anybody wants that answer it's available actually delivers handwriting on this row of squares. I can speak also from personal experience when my father after that Ambersons passing in table based vat of cement has published the Robertsons pictures in the newspaper. So there's allgemeinen not necessarily applicable only for creating this was paper, but he published it. There are people who have tightness and they have actually thank my father for doing it. I'm not saying that's proof that nay in a journal or something that's going after the from only from Eden has to be done, but it's just interesting to point out. Now you'll see annotated Journal they don't print pictures all together, but not a Tojo almost like they would not print the picture of women. So there are different standards. You have to know who you're dealing with who's the target audience? What's the standard of the community? And there is no real black and white answer. It could be explained. Remember the laws of modesty are not always the one that we make sense to us, even though it makes sense. It's not about in any way God forbid belittling or in any way demoralizing women. That's not the goal even those that would stand by and say better not print the picture but the bottom line is that there's different standards and that's how it has to be addressed. So I have Nothing. I'm going to give one ruling because no drove in the world can give one ruling for every situation. That is the general answer to this question. Okay, but I want to again emphasize most importantly that in any situation. There are unfortunately people who youths Aeneas in a negative way who use it as a stick and abuse people in the name of it. And yes do demoralize and do you Millie eight others that was never the laws the laws of sneeze about dignity could the bus smell of ponemah the Dignity of a woman is internal and that's why woman does not have a public role and so on in the most prominent way they have their public role in the right proper setting. And other laws that applies dignity. It's not about shame or shaming that's critical to know and indeed based on the standards that regarding the actual publishing are not publishing of women's pictures in different magazines or Publications or online. But clearly it's not a black-and-white know that a black and white. Yes, that's the main point here. Okay, I want to go back to one thing. I just neglected even though I spoke at length about Ben Ben say that Armada interesting in my goal is saying this is from LeBron. Magali Sunday Gomorrah in some Heaven. He brings several things about what means something is deranged Cabos card means learning the Cobble Scott it even though the actual television it's not let's add the hot water itself nevertheless. He says clearly from several sources including the shallow and others than safe exceeding that there are lessons real lessons to be learned. It's not just about Only more Teta so that just reinforces the point that there's lessons to be learned from this actual passion, but also bring something interesting from the safer a kind. This is by the brother of the morale. Hey Li ke Kula be sure safe pay the cake. He says that when I mentioned before from Isaiah that children are called Israel is called he's been a slow Accord bunim. Welcome children havisham. So when the gemara says lay, uh sadly as they won't be a been saved in the future because Satan and may that was only possible for three months three months as we said from the gemara only three months from the time we brings two sides to here's until a certain stage. She says the three months out from the three months and it's easements and to Matt and Tara. So that's where only then would apply it. Just thought it was an interesting thought. Okay. Let's go back now to the next question. next question my friends What does that plication of Ichabod school to the children in their area and an extension of that question is when the combat school is full of we have no other valuable up viable option. Can we lower our standards of conduct by sending our children to another day school? What? Okay, what does obligation of a kabocha say that the children their area where our parents opposed to send their children that are in kindergarten plus the school only fader and the only from school in the surrounding areas full quote unquote. Is it acceptable to lower our standards are hidden by saying two different types of day schools if we have no other viable option just rewarding it based on the way the right array so firstly I have episode 69 223 and 258 are vital. Because I discussed it in more link then. Okay, it's very clear from the devil that a Bocephus what he says very sharply that the school is not the parents of the children are not made to fill up a school. The school is made to serve children. There were talks about this haole more tuition and other issues at Hader especially ahead habad the ruach spirit of the Rebellion is there to serve every child in the area and if you need to expand the school you expand the school and you need to raise more money you raise more money. That's the bottom line. Obviously, there are there are there has to be some rational planning but nevertheless that has to be the commitment. Unfortunately, and I'm as not criticizing anyone individually, there are schools that have become run more like a business and based all vote on the financial side. And also who we take in and so on. So therefore the problems in that area each case has to be addressed properly by that abandonment that community and if you have an issue in your community with a school that is your opinion not and again has to be remember your opinion may also not be correct. But it let's say you do have an opinion you go to the right way not an argumentative way and not in a argument of way and not endemic Lakers way. God forbid but in a peaceful way to two people leaders in the community or abundant and see what is going on in the school the Cool indeed is claiming this not taking people in for whatever reason. If there really is no other option for whatever reason let's say the schools even incorrect you have to do what you have to do to get your children an education so I wouldn't look at it that has got a couple has real culprit is if it has to be in that area then maybe you have to go to a different school. I wouldn't call it a necessary compromising because you can complement it with tutoring or with your influences of parents at home. There are many solutions. There's also online learning and there's also at some point sending children to another Community I know parents load. In that but there's a lot of options when you look at something. So then the death parents you're responsible for the education of your children. If the school is not doing what they should be doing then try your best to deal with that. But if you but if you can't do anything they still have to deal with your children. Now as far as the school's go those that have influence in the schools. We have to know what our responsibility is as I spelled out. That's a general response to this next question. How does one find balance between all the expectations Cadence to this has of us and being at peace and happy with oneself spelled out there Rabbi? How can one balance between all of the expectations Tater specifically tailor succeed? This has of us expectations that ever has of each one of us to always do more with this perspective. I always feel that I'm lacking that I'm not doing my best. There's always something more I can do always something I can fix. Meanwhile Taylor also tells Us to constantly be happy. To have simple joy with life with knowing that all is but Hashem. All is God who is the ultimate good the ultimate Justice the ultimate love how does one balance constantly being happy with the Spurs with this perspective and simultaneously knowing that I'm not that I'm not perfect feeling that feeling that because of my laziness at times my overindulgence at times. My anger at times my jealousy at times I prevent the world from being a better place. How am I expected to remain happy, please share your wisdom. I'd love Find the balance. So let me refer you firstly to episodes 1 28 to 27 and 230 where similar subjects were addressed. It's an excellent question. And I think it's vital to begin with something very important in general General introduction and that is Very often many questions that we have including this one. Sometimes they are based on a premise that needs to be corrected. The premise is that we go by the standards that we apply to each other human standards, you know, you're not lived up to my expectations parents sometimes send that message to children. We send that message to each other and sometimes gets Petty and sometimes it's based on pure floors of human beings and our own insecurities. When Taylor expects things of us as this expects things almost ended up paying it's coming from a healthy place. It's not coming from any psychological phobia or because I need to shine. So I need you to make me look good. It's none of that. It's not coming from guilt. And any unhealthy Neurosis a Neurosis or phobias. It's coming from a place that God created the human being and saying I created with tremendous resources. You're creating a Divine image. You have the ability to achieve things far beyond. Dreams and I'm giving you now the tools the resources and the directives not only is obligations as a gift to live up to your greatest potential. It's all coming from a beautiful vote of confidence and love not to create expectations and later say oh, you know, we can do it or God getting even a cc and proving to you that you're weak. God forbid. There's a famous expression from the method where a sump system is a number vodka shall laugh occasionally moisture says - mm. How could you expect? This from that how could they do it? So God says a number vodka schluufy Cathy. I never asked commensurate to my power. I'm not asking on my terms my I'm asking you any vodka shall defeat Kasey Kahne. I'm only asking them as and asking them to achieve what they can do with their power as they're ever mentions often different times. He says would be as odious would be cruel to give someone a job knowing he can't accompany your she can accomplish it. So it's a gift when you go with that attitude. Good, then, you know it's a gift and you do your best expectations are not met them demoralized your mate make you feel guilty or make you feel down that's actually made to make you feel happy that look of God himself vote of confidence in you and every morning renews that that vote of confidence renews your contract. Now you do your best you do your best possible and your hope and pray that that which I couldn't do you ask God, please help me more so because water can easily and that's the attitude when you take that attitude that's holding this whole approach which is so far. So unhealthy called fear and guilt driven education teaching people how bad you are look how little you accomplished you're lazy. You're not accomplishing. That's not the language that should be spoken to a person you want to motivate and say you look how much potential you have and look how sad is you're not feeling living up to your potential. So that comes with joy and their motivation as out there besides in tiny anything that demoralizes come from the eight Sahara. Even if it's dressed up in garments that you're worthless because look you haven't accomplished anything. It has to come from an empowering Place believing in us and that's how you create this balance knowing that okay next question. Can we understand the dilemmas we have in life as part of man's need to toil in this world. The writer writes the words of the Prosecco them lomell your wallet Man was created. The human being was created to toil Amo is this referred only to hard physical work with a body and hands Etc or as well with the nefesh with a spirit. If you find yourself in a situation of dilemma of a mental health issue, for example, are you supposed to look at it and say it is what it is comes from a feminist part of You're need to deal with it as part of other Milan millivolt. So firstly let me refer you to episodes for and 178 again overlapping themes and the answer is firstly the good motto says Elmo will type of ammo so it's almost a locker the toil of actual work and labor. There's the toilet labor of almost see her speaking which is Dominique prayer and there's almost hated the aghia the effort we put in learning Teta she see right away. It's not just purely physical hard labor. Is the strength of the strenuous work in the and investment the rigorous work of both in prayer and and learning tail? That's number one as far as the statement that challenges in life. Let's say mental health. Is it coming for us to be able to fulfill the struggle? I would not say that the case if anything when there's dilemmas in life, you can say it's an order to bring out deeper strength you have and the only way to bring them out and by giving you this dilemma. But not there's no end in itself of them low me of Allah is not normal is not an end in itself. It's a important thing for us to contribute for us to evade the bouquet of hats May our effort. Our initiate are initiating our effort and our investment are being proactive effort initiating is necessary in Nevada. But it's not just to make a person work hard even though yes, when we work hard we produce we become creators. So the way I would word is not that the challenges in life or there's mental health issues or others is in order to fulfill our part of struggling. It's in order to bring out the best in us and that comes with a struggle just to mention that ever is a beautiful Vartan the Isaiah says and moist. I'll tell Robin Ted are brings it the same inaudible Venom that their Ministry made the Jews work hard labor became a bricks-and-mortar says there's a harbor a medical Bahama will Venom delivered Kramer comes to the Culver Hamer cover Hamer is a way of a method of learning Ted. Do you take from a more lenient case? You learn on a more severe case College payment and lowly the Venom, which is mortar. Lovin is from the word liberal herself. Crystallizing halacha asked a very simple question. It was just time I play of words. Ramela Venom is bricks and mortar just because it's famous sounds like cover Kramer and here's sounds like the Venom Liberty. Elsa never says no every person has to toil in their lives. We have a choice. Is it going to be hard labor like physical bricks and mortar or you going to choose the strain and their strenuous work and learning Teta exertion and Tara Gigi about Tara in David Heyman and live in his office. Okay, and that accomplishes much and tough salamat base in this year that ever turn 70 in the city of your dolphin listen later printing a helices waffle. Aha Vol 15 look at the circus and the letter of you lawlessness in that year of the top salamat base 1972 tremendous lesson about Aveda the work of a person of the moment. You vote to become a Creator. That's the point God wants us to not just be takers but to be givers not just to receive but to initiate and create, okay. With that we have follow-up. So let's do the follow-up. Few follow-ups. First of all regarding the debit and Gifts in the car. We spoke about the Deb and gifts last week about the story with the number rejected the new car that was given to him. So someone who is their witness eyewitness says, I remember the incident with the car the ballroom knew about the new car the students the bottom. You see even some suddenly knew about the new car and there was a crowd outside watching how the devil would react the first time he saw it. I think there are two issues this person writes and one but one there was a big crowd watching number two. It was a personal gift for the represents all of the gifts. For example, the painting the paintings that have received went to the library. It wasn't for the lepers personally use continuing that's lucky enough answer some of you on the specifics imitator. Okay, all the best very good points and thank you for that to fill in more details on that chapter another person writes the rabbit Jacobs and I really appreciate in value your weekly class. I was surprised that when discussing the rubber band It's you did not mention the story of the silver Hanukkah menorah the represented back or refuse to do to being it being too ostentatious. And I've also mentioned something to the effect that he has since been struggling financially and he's going to light a big silver mineta when I just when I saw the story of the car, I figured it was in the same vein if they're ever had a set of wheels that work. Why should he get a new car? Especially when you have so many excited in that struggle as cetera. Thank you again. Okay, good. Thank you for those comments. And this is exactly what I love so much about this program is the interaction anybody has additional comments or anything that we missed something you'd like to add. Please send it and we will share it. Another follow-up was about older singles after hearing this week's broadcast meeting last week two 2 episode 2 75. I felt compelled to add a comment. There was a question from an older single person who felt that he was treated as worthless. He or she by the Jewish Community worthless by the Jewish Community my husband and I both were both considered older singles quote on quote when we married in our 30s, so I thought that perhaps I may be able to offer Device to this person number one, please consider moving to a different Community. If you feel that the majority of people in your community have such a callous attitude towards you it does not have to be that way. I lived in several different communities while single with very different added with attitudes toward me and one Community. I was more or less ignored by married ladies except for the occasional invitation for a meal and could only be friends with a few other single women in the community and another Community. I was accepted and embraced by many married families and many Matt had many married. Friends and was actively involved in the community part of it. I think is certainly due to the mid this of the people meaning their personality or characteristics in each community and part of it is likely due to the fact that in a smaller Community such as the second one. Everyone is needed. Number two make a point of note be known for your unique talents and contributions to the community. If people only see you as an older single try to take pains to show who you are as a person and how you can contribute to the community. I taught a class in the girls high school on my day off from work volunteer in the cover. Kadisha learned humans were so new needed help with Hebrew and generally try to help out my neighbors as much as I could and number three don't give the impression that you are waiting for your life to start. Build a life based on what you have. Now, what on what you have now, but as recession with God's help you'll soon be married and you and your spouse will need to figure out how to combine your lives. But that's part of marrying at a somewhat older age and really nothing to be afraid of thank you very much. Very credible coming from someone who's been through it. I will just say I mean that vices move out of community not everyone obviously can do that. So there has to be taken Case by case, but the points are all well taken and I just want to add that. Marrying anybody at any age is always going to be a work not just older age just be aware of that one file footnotes as a follow-up someone wrote to me. I told the story of the rebbetzin and the chocolate with revelation of tell all of our solemn. I heard the shaft in podcast. That was last week 275 the story about the rebels in the truck. Then you said about rabbit devil and I always thought it was with a kirari who's traveling to South Africa. So the story can be confirmed with Rob a winner who's related and further. I think it's in a gem. I don't think the story happened twice. I heard it from a by tell himself all of our solemn before he passed away. I think just a few months before he passed away. He told it to me in detail. So I heard it firsthand if it happened with someone else by all means but that can be checked. I usually don't read names but because the names here irrelevant, I don't think it's anything confidential if someone does have more information on this please share. Okay. Let's now go to the city's question. 10 hidden spheres SSV this hug musics is an expression. What are the 10 hidden spheres that SS feeders Hagan Uzis? Where are they located in the scheme of things in the cosmic picture and what is their function and application to our lives or in our lives? Okay. And their relevance to our lives. Okay, let's begin with their Funk what it is and its function and then we'll talk about the levels. So it's a big soggy. We know there's s is fearless. This is fearless. I actually spoke about in episode 79 What is the purpose of this fetus is God did not need anything to create existence. Poofy could say I want the world to be here and that's it. But he wanted to be as a therapist says that some exotic sights to be a piece a cold as he created a circle as we know it should be logical not just logic purposes, but also for us to understand it so we can have a relationship with God we can understand what God did and we can relate them become partners with God in creation and doing our work. So to do so you have a whole say the distortions say the Stars was literally means an order a cosmic order. Sometimes it's called a stylist actually is a series of evolution of steps. He still shows like from the workshops Alice a chain a chain of events. Cosmic event spiritual that lead from the highest levels of ain't safe of the Divine Infinite Energy itself all the way to existence as we know it how does such a leap take place from alter infinite to the finite. So these are will call them stepping stones in stepping stones are all the levels and the world within each of these worlds. There's a thing called spheeris sphere is comes from the word counting's support, Miss Pearl. Comes from the word sip or telling a story and also considered sappy Evan supper like the sapphire stone that illuminates also from the world safer that's of the repechage talks about it at length in I'm bass volume 1 taken from my modern of the altered a bit some exotic Beauty has a high sudden other places, okay. So sphere this serve as we'll call them Divine attributes now guys, we know love even if this little claw, he's Beyond any medicine any personality any characteristics and yet he chose to manifest in particular attributes and they're called 10 attributes from Hama through Marcus. These are called the SS fields from that will be honest also will evolve lower levels of these attributes. Until they finally becoming they evolved into the 10th faculties of the human being should install Salama Hannah's Delta B says and Tonya that evolved from the 10 Divine attributes, but like the famous Mark lake is between the rambam and the morale that I mom says warm a dewy they will you do it. He is the knowledge and he's the nor and he's the know you know that Says the morale but he's Beyond knowledge is beyond any form of attribute Exodus answers out that Evan are gone. Tiny painting Bays. And pay the chemo and painting base and other places that in later and Tanya and pedicure the mems and also schaeffler group a leak tests pavement has in Lakota modem that what that according to according to the Kabbalah Saudis are it's even miss after the symptom neighbors to manifest. In these attributes, so that's the tenth spheres. So tense fears think of it this way, but in a simple language, the title says that we should emulate God's ways are locked up in the rough. Follow his ways. Ma who can own a father can just like God is compassionate. We should be compassionate just like he's kind we should be kind Moroccan avatara. But God's compassion are compassionate completely God is the creator with the creation. That's the Spheres that when we can relate to the concept of compassion that we take our compassion and we align it to the compassion of our Shem the Spheres then are serving their purpose of being an interface and interface both and how the world is and how our compassion Created but also how we emulate compassion going back Nevada and aligning this existence to the 10 spheres which are really saw how cool they are. Basically Gods tools and God's channels. There's opinions in Kampala what distance fears whether they were there. It is Shruti - Mercy on him whether they have shape and form whether they're just God's attributes whether the judge God's tools or they actually attributes his not the place to go into it, even though it's related, but then there's the 10 hidden spheres the 10 hidden spheres is coming to add another dimension because you can say then that you're connecting to the Spheres, but you're not connecting to the Divine Essence. So says no these fears are rooted in the highest place. Where were there we can only refer to them as hidden spheres why they hidden because they're not revealed yet. They don't have substance yet. They're different explanations, which will speak about in a moment and what they are but it's the main bottom line is that the point of this is a mousse is to create the relationship between our Hesed not just the custard about Silas roosters called SS from the 10th spheres that are revealed not just our Hoffman when we learn Taylor to God's Kaufman in that Silas, but also to the 10 hidden Meaning more even higher than the Divine structure of our Tillis. So we connecting to that Which is higher than that cells. So that's their role and that's their function. It's showing us that we are relating not just to the even a chooses a great high level Delta debit trembled when he even said the word I syllabus but it goes even deeper and deep. The question is then is where are these SS Phyllis? How can Jesus where are they located exactly? So the my modern talk about this in a number of places. I'll just give you quickly the Miami Camus and maybe a blue part 2 next week and elaborate more on the details of it. So briefly. Is discussed that in some places I'm going from the bottom up. Sometimes it's some some my modern. It's called the ten spheres of attic or attic and that's a beard and we're also big dick a dish in a deterrence. It's Ava Paige 1622 Another my modem of the altar debit, the my murder of Edgar Taylor. I'm sorry interior area. He says it's a tense fears of our could him and there he says in where's this broad? This is the beard of Oldham high on me. I'm sorry for all of high energy. And that is my sister her 182 a and mine but I've been from the let my - tough Islamic base tough Islam involve. I'm sorry chapter 64 sites exactly. The development server says that according to that is a land just brought. It's either attic and added or academe and he says a combo proven they're all consistent because bottom line they're higher than that Zyliss because that's the whole point of the tenant is fears to say that the sphere is are rooted not just in a syllabus but even Are in this place which is called an soft compared Titleist. You find this also in the dirt in my model of the some exotic. I'm just giving you a few sources are Italian yawning page 140 that he says I heard from the alte debe at times that is the 10 spheres of attic erotic and at times of I could they're also page 27 page 330. This is the Drew scheme of shit as the famous dish of GMOs sheets. and edit a Turkish military command my opponent upon Him Charlotte the end of page 43 says 10 spheres of our could him which in the lotion of Paths of the game is called the 10 hidden spheres like he says and Taylor are that I just mentioned In Somerville of he says attic or a condom and I am bass Volume 2 page 968 the my member five tough flash Ina Hector ack Adam kadmon erotic. But then we also have that it's also an alien stuff. We know ssds and Muses most people their knee jerk reaction. Say one second all this is after the symptom. What about the ten hit in the series before the truth? So this will leave that part to I want to talk about that next week and go into the details of this because of time limits so wait, so I look forward to part two on this topic of the 10 hidden spheres. Let's go now to the essays. So we do three essays every week of this contest of 2019. We're now in the 50 60 top essays as we move along. So SN number one in Hebrew benneteau slim. Who's To the mistake and the essence Zushi. Kraszewski 816 car habad Israel student attempted million above it a lot. So he begins with a famous story of the cost and the time that I marash used to dress like a like a corset and then and by working with changes garmin's any decided that it's being a hypocrite so they decided to go the other way around and remember - asked him. Why are you dressing regular garments on Shabbos? Like week they got no water carpet and so on. This is Claire want to be a hypocrite and that's who I really am. The examiner said I really I always thought the real you is the one you dress here, and that's not the real you. She goes on to speak me. Oniy. Who is the real you who's the real us and quoting secular different psychological perspectives on this and then talking about the tuna Fosters the two souls in a person. And how we come to really understand these two forces and ultimately have the choice to determine who the real you will be and then how to implement it in action. I like this S8. Very good essay can be found at City supply.com. As well as if you subscribe to our weekly newsletters, we will send them to you as they come as they're posted as we publish them essay. Number two is considered mindfulness a purposeful Tranquility van leeuwen age 45 Dallas, Texas job the Mayan hi Foundation, the rabbi Hasidic mindfulness mindfulness is a very popular fashionable term today. And this is a Hasidic version. I found this essay to be a tremendous contribution to this topic. And I want to talk to the judges why this essay didn't get a higher Mark but I never overrule but I found this essay to be extremely important for our times these days the struggle to arouse motivation and concentration is compounded by constant distractions at every turn. We have electrical electronic enticements paradoxically along with enhanced quality of life and technological advances people unknowingly add to their stress levels by absorbing huge amounts of information from the outside world and take on more and more commitments. So mindfulness practices have come to deal with this. He says this essay is going to deal with the Pacific mindfulness Tranquility within creation finding Tranquility even amidst the rich at rush hour of Creation with practical steps. And what's in this actually ask ads to other techniques maximizing the moment very very well done. It's very solid essay and great contribution to this topic anyone involved in mindfulness. Well worth reading. Well, very important essay to read in that context and finally essay number three. Give me children or I shall die quote unquote specific approaches to confronting the grief of infertility. Sasha Belle of ski age 30, Philadelphia, Pennsylvania The job is speech language pathologist Upper Darby School District, very courageous to take on such a topic another important important essay. One of the greatest joys in life is to hold your child in your arms it what do we do when God with holes that Joy from us? Those aren't the talk about the the the how to deal with this great grief and pain the gift of pain coming in terms with God's love for us. What do I do with myself fighting powerlessness with Mitzvahs using different ideas from siddhis. What do I have left to give discovering your influence and expertise extremely important essay as well. Very very good essay. And there we go, three essays for this week my life because it has supplied episode 276 where every Sunday from 8 to 9:00 p.m. And everyone should have a very blessed Creator shell as we count down and prepare for the great new year of tough shinpei. There's month of L. And as I said, we're here every Sunday 8:00 to 9:00 p.m. Everyone be blessed and thank you so much.
Addressing the Personal and Emotional Needs of Our Community and Answering the Most Pressing Questions of Our Lives -- from the Perspective of Chassidic Thought. TOPICS: • Chassidus Applied to 13 Elul and Ki Teitzei 0:55 • How do you explain the laws of yefas to’ar and ben sorer u’moreh in this week’s parsha? 06:52 • What methods should be used to discipline young students? 30:55 • Is it appropriate to publish pictures of women in our publications and websites? 34:33 • What is the obligation of a Chabad school to the children in their area? 41:49 • When the Chabad school is full or if we have no other viable option, can we lower our standards of chinuch by sending our children to another day school? 41:49 • How does one find balance between all the expectations Torah and Chassidus has of us and being at peace and happy with oneself? 45:02 • Can we understand the dilemmas we have in life as part of man’s need to toil in this world? 49:40 • Follow up (episode 275):       o The Rebbe and gifts 53:42     o Older singles 55:16 • Chassidus question: What are the ten hidden sefirot, where are they located, and what is their function and application in our lives? 58:25 • My Life 2019 essays:     o בין הטעות למהות, Zushi Krichevski, 16, Kfar Chabad, Israel 01:07:18     o Chassidic Mindfulness: A Purposeful Tranquility, Dan Lewin, 45, Dallas, TX 01:08:44     o “Give Me Children, or I Shall Die”: Chassidic Approaches to Confronting the Grief of Infertility, Sasha Balofsky, 30, Philadelphia, PA  01:10:12  Submit your question now at  https://www.chassidusapplied.com/ask-rabbi-jacobson/ or email: info@chassidusapplied.com. WEBSITE: https://www.chassidusapplied.com/ EMAIL US: info@chassidusapplied.com SPONSOR A MYLIFE: CHASSIDUS APPLIED EPISODE, OR EXPLORE OTHER GIVING OPPORTUNITIES: https://www.meaningfullife.com/sponsorships  MyLife: Chassidus Applied is a weekly video webcast candidly answering questions from the public about all life matters and challenges, covering the entire spectrum of the human experience. The objective of the program is to provide people with inspired guidance and direction, empowering them to deal with any issue they may face. MyLife demonstrates how Chassidus provides us with a comprehensive blueprint of the human psyche as a microcosm of the cosmos, and offers us all the guidance we need to live the healthiest possible life and build nurturing homes and families, bringing up the healthiest possible children, emotionally, psychologically and spiritually. MyLife is brought to you by the Meaningful Life Center as a public service, free of charge. 