Hello and welcome to the heal within with Darkness podcast. And in this podcast, I will be talking about why do you keep longing for the narcissist even after being abused by them? You see when you are with a narcissist you or being exposed a lot of pain and occasional intervals of relief which may be in the form of love-bombing. Maybe the promises to change or to treat. You better your mind continuously goes through the confusing cycle of abuse and rare events of relief as a result of which it gets conditioned and addicted to these emotional highs and lows. It starts to see these intervals of relief as a source to escape the hell of constant pain and sadness and when you get away from the abuser The Narcissist, there are no intervals of relief anymore. But just the pain and that is when you start longing. And surprisingly it is not the narcissist that you long for in reality. It is a longing for the perceived leaf that comes with the painful presence of the narcissist.
Why do I long for him even when I know he should be gone? Why do I keep missing him? 😭 - These questions haunt a person as they leave the narcissistic relationship and try to move on. - The pain because of the loss that a survivor experiences is so intense that it feels as if someone is stabbing their chest. - You won't believe me If I say this but let me STILL tell you 👇🏻 - Recently, One of my clients got so emotional because they couldn't believe that FINALLY, the sadness, they had been carrying for 10+ years was released 😌 - When they told me 10 years, I was shocked yet very happy. - The pain after Narcissistic Abuse is so intense that, no matter how much you want it go, it doesn't. No matter how much you want to forget, the shame, the anger, all those memories still keep you stuck and chained. - You keep missing them yet at the same time don't want them back. It is as if you keep fighting with yourself. - Now, If you are someone, who can completely relate to what I am talking about, someone who wants to break free from these chains. Listen 👂🏻 - I am on a mission of helping 1000 survivors to move on, heal and let go of UNHEALTHY ATTACHMENTS and I would like to help you too. - Message me on Instagram (@eternal.motivation) and I will get back to you. I will reply only to first 5 messages. 