Welcome to my life is to the supplied episode 272. We are literally the conclusion of this Tisha b'av Natasha. Today's the 10th of all that the end of the day because Toshiba was on Shabbos. The fast was pushed off until this Sunday. Michelle has not yet come even though he still can come before the end of the day today is his birthday in the throes of the Abyss as the flame.The rising to their highest as the base emitter has remodeled slum was burned down by the Romans. Fruit the second base Amazed by the Romans 2400 1938 years ago and forms at 90 years earlier by the Babylonians the first base some English 2428 years ago. Michelle was born as the mothers tells us and that's why we say knock him in Minnesota octaves above but because it was Shabbos the fast was pushed off until now. Now generally, I probably would not have done a program but I will never forget 27 years ago. The same committee is the same schedule to shabaab has on Shabbos death of the fast was on the 10th of of and that I became down 8:35 p.m. Around a half hour before the fast ended and set a sister. gave out dollars and then they dive in might have the only time they're ever did that so following the rebels footsteps and Direction and that was the last tissue above that the red would speak to us trish-kabob Nika Because next year comes I know there was a very distraught Contraption base. So following that lead meaning that the need to take the darkest day of the year the loneliest day of the year the saddest day and turn it into something positive. That's why I'm doing the program. Standing on the shoulders of the debit the levels of course edited and was my gear that's it was printed and say for a secret option and Olive together with the talk that the rebels are gave the next day and you dollop of and it's all printed there. We reviewed this actually last year, which was again the same quiz. This is the same as last year was also a tissue above Nitra so as the sun sets On this Saturday. We also remember as I said that the birth of our Salvation the birth of the Redemption happens as well because in Judaism there is no such thing as Darkness as an end in itself. And as the mother says and ate her Abba that there was travels they were traveling the northern Israel and they met a farmer an Arab farmer who seem to have understood the language of cows and he had a cow and he heard the cow moan groan. She told The Travelers sad news. Your dumb your temple was just destroyed a moment passed and the cow groaned again, and he told them good news. Naled machine show you sit all the Savior mushiya was born Magda made a fool of Makkah that in the darkest of moments. The temple was not destroyed as an end in itself. It was an order to build even a greater Temple but this time a permanent one and that's only possible through our efforts and through our work and that's the emphasis especially as we come to the conclusion of Tisha b'av in this year tissue above need the number explains in the top chinon. Of seeker of 27 years ago as well as in many other places that the Panini is the inner power of Tisha b'av is as the passage says you have caramel sauce the made them to the sauce. No simple the made him David these days would be transformed to Celebration and the mother says will be the Mode. God will be the ultimate holiday when Messiah comes because the story is not over what we see and we experience and we have to follow the local some laws in Godless is the sadness of the destruction. However, the destruction meant lead to a greater construction greater construct as the talmud tells us in the end of Marcus the famous story that be a Kiva and his colleagues were want looking at the hobbies and this is not long after the destruction of the second temple. And they were looking at the Temple Mount and they saw how Barren it was like a Wilderness and they stash all him fax coming out from where once was the holy of all these were the Korean guard with going once a year the holiest place on Earth and the holiest day of the year the holiest person on Earth connecting to the holiest dimensions of the Divine. They saw a fox running out from there telling you how it's so desolate and this colleagues are rebbi Akiva began to cry. Arabic even began to laugh and when he asked them why you crying they said look the Fulfillment of this tragic prophecy. And why are you laughing says because if you read the end of the prophecy is this is a sign that one day soon. They'll be the hula and then machines based on me - actually she and that will be far greater than what we have now, and I'd be a Kiva perhaps because what he went through in his life a difficult life a life that didn't begin with Terror until age 40. I keep her from the word heel. A curve like yaakov. Akiva was a son of converts or Comfort himself. He recognized that in the darkest in the black hole is the deepest light of all today's also a hundred years from a powerful letter that the physical ever wrote to the debits and Hai mushkil. They did you have full the South the sustenance simcha tough stuff. They shy in test is printed today in the eagle skaters from the physical web of Volume 15 page 17. So long letter in Yiddish translated side by side in Hebrew where he talks about the history of tissue, but written in a very personal way and very unique way worthwhile reading and he describes the events that they says these two days is that somebody starts to let its Faith take trade save edited these two worlds Tisha b'av carrying. He describes in this in his graphic way all the pain and the grief and the sadness and the blood. And the mourning and grieving over the years that we have grieved over the destruction of the temples, but he begins even earlier and he says three thousand three hundred and twenty years ago 3230 years ago was that now is 3330 because it's a hundred years later was when Tisha b'av began with the miraculin came back with a terrible reporter better at this law and that became the big deal of datas the crying that night that was the first issue, but he said and the physical explains that was a result of the Egyptian. Effect on the engine and weakening their spirit and today to we have that and yet what is this really says is strong. He concludes the letter after a long description of the events for the Moraga than the destruction of the temples that the strength of the Jews is strong in the flame continues to burn and as long as we are not affected by those around us we will prevail. Worthwhile mentioning, especially since it's a centennial to Century since that letter was written. So the lesson of course my friends is very very very relevant and very obvious and as we are right now not just talking about it, but actually experiencing the final curtain coming down on Tisha b'av tough to his revolver soluble of meaning the dish above Nitsa the year top Shania and test enough is enough how many years? It's been 9 1938. I should mention the letter there from his calculation for the clever that writes 1951. years ago so there because they're different husband is not here to go into it, but it's something worthwhile looking into yeah. And he writes about the actual he writes about the first base on mikdash. That's 2004 341 years ago. Not with me 2441 now that it's a hundred years later. So it's interesting these discrepancies that can be looked into I wanted to just mention that the reason I mentioned the year nineteen that 1938 because that's the regular husband that is often cited that ever brings it as well. So we have to figure out how to reconcile and how this discrepancy is resolved just as an aside. So it's almost 2,000 years 2000 years sitting shiva for a big stomach - not just for a building but foreshadow shamim a gate to heaven an interface a place where Heaven meets Earth with God Divine met existence that has been closed and concealed but not disappeared and it's our work today when we sense the guy Graham the yearning and we sense the desire and the passion. To reconnect and reintroduce reconnect and realign the fusion of the Divine and existence and we do so through our actions that each actually do is not just a material act but it's aligned to way God wants us to behave whether it's learning Taylor or in Kima Mitzvahs on filler or Mills. Kassadin each specific thing. We do we are real I we make that connection we Unite the Two Worlds that were disconnected and separated the home base. I made this with the destruction of the temple. So now as we come to the end of Tisha b'av what more what better time and what more relevance is there is to make that final push that each one of us does whatever we can to connect our lives to what they are Chemin a barista wants of us and that comes down to specific details and how we behave How we speak and how we think sovereignty but in mice aligned with the way the Taylor expects of us and especially in the biggest midst of War which was the cause of the destruction of the temple was divisiveness cinema screen and baseless hatred the counter power to that is Unity talk about Unity the unity between us all together brings the unity with the Divine and therefore creates the container for the base Amelia. She to re-entered Earth's stratosphere our world and our Distance and made it all happen before the end of this 9/10 of of especially that it was nitta-san. It means it was pushed off that would be should pushed off the negative parts of it forever and from here on only holidays and only simple you have caramel sauce and sprinkle the maiden table and the lesson personally is equally relevant because we each have our tissue Bob as it manifests in our own personal lives because these events that happen are not just the collective ones. For the entire Jewish people they have also the microcosm because Tisha b'av is that energy the energy of symptom of concealment of covering of a split of a Schism. So whatever Schism was blood we experience in our lives Tisha b'av reflect that and the correction is defined that Unity with our own personal lives and realize that there's even a deeper power in this dark hole in these darkest moments of the end of Tisha b'av lies the greatest strength to transform it which will Revealed in just a few days from now in the 15th of of which is also this coming and this end of this week and we'll be talking about that shortly. So as always I begin by doing some cross referencing to previous years that we've spoken about dish above nitta to fulfill the whole picture. So episodes 127 and 222, which was last year. And of course episode 77 173 we spoke about tissue above in general and this is a segue into the rest of the day's what happens next. Okay, the tenth of of comes to a close we hope the googler comes then comes the 11th of of the 12th or 13th 14th, and then comes how many shows above the end of the sector time is set. The time is sort of course dedicated to fasting it concludes the same way doesn't conclude the fastest concludes actually with her Misha's above the story of the film. in the valve, which is the counter Force to fasting that just six days after Tisha b'av five days after the tenth of of the mishna says, well, you know, um Tatum is real commissions, but Ava Kiki & Maki put it pretty interesting equation Yom Kippur. Okay, hold these day of the year the day of forgiveness that they have. Hope written in the Taylor her mistress above is not hinted to anywhere until the ship except and yet the mission and compares the two and they come out elaborates. Why? It gives a whole bunch of reasons of things that happen the rebel explains that all the reasons are connected. They're all about us about Unity. To the to the extent that is equated with Yom, Kippur. see this as touches upon this my money man dead dead and other places and in a detainer knock that all the explanations that the modest still don't explain the power that it should be equated to him keep it and they explain based on that is ah, That tuba love is a kind of syllabus. Columbus's the full moon. Full moon is always a good sign. The Moon is in his full power. Malthus is in full power of the new moon is mouth Jesus as being born but the full moon is it's in full power full intensity complete with see this Kabbalah says you could soon you could zoom alcazar's the sun moon is Malthus. So you have the complete Unity the sun this the moon completely reflecting the Sun to Earth. Okay, but that's every 15th of the month. But this 15th of the month says that is because it follows the idiot that some of the tremendous the awesome descent and Pur gum and wound of the Moon of Colossus Israel that happened on Tisha b'av. So you did say that Ali has to commensurate to The Descent is the asset. Since no other month in the year has such a deep Dark Descent in malkos, like Tisha b'av, so none of them compared to the 15th when the moon becomes full. It's a completely different dimension. Yes, technically. It's the same for Moon. But spiritually it's a whole different story and that's why somebody says love is such a great jump to pesach. Sookie's poor him even are all the 15th 14th 15th of the month, but they don't follow a tremendous descent and and to her mistress above does to connect the deeper TM Kipper. What did when is Yom Kippur Yom. Kippur will be exactly 40 days from the start of the show when moisture goes up on the mountain the third time now, he's on the mountain the second time and he's not successful yet, but I'll come down and stretch and she'll go back and describe yourself. From the pin is the first they destroy the second day the last day of over the first day of elul and 40 days later will be M Keepers. Jim. KIPP work is a is a birth and Rush's son. NL all from the schedule which comes straight from of Says the shallah that are really the muzzle of the month of of the muzzle of this month rea. The Leo is four letters. Aleph re-issued. Hey, Richard Davis acronym LL Rosh Hashanah Yom, Kippur him occupied him keeper. I shine it up all born from a DA the Leo as the alcott's many says that the month of the lion came the lion the book and that's it and destroyed align the base timing. Ominous and condition that the lion will come this time. It's a shame in the month of the line of and rebuild Arielle the base. I'm in distress is called ideal area. So the birth of L and Rosh Hashanah and Yom, Kippur hoshanna rabba 116 Messiah the haysom the CMAs of the of the Civic exhibit a viz in Russia's Channel. When it's written, it's inscribed and Yom, Kippur sealed and Yom Kippur and the final seal is an ascended above all that is born from the month of just like Michelle is Born the darkest moment of Tisha b'av. So there you have the connection tube of is The Great Gilly the great Revelation that comes after the ninth evolved after The Descent of Malthus and Yom Kippur is the Hope and the Forgiveness that came out for the breaking of the tablets on the 17th of tammuz, which was the beginning of the three weeks that concluded with Dish above which was broken because of the golden calf. CM keeper concludes the circle as does tube of so it all comes together. Which also Explains why tube of We Begin some custom to start already wishing each other Civic simit Ava some say it's the commodity of commission has evolved because it's not just you. Remember you just a nice gesture that were remembering where the company is preparing for us on the but it's all intertwined. We you see the powerful Jewish calendar reflects the energies of Life the Cycles the journey that every decent is in order to bring an ascent and it's all a flow and our lives as well to see it through never think that any dark moment is the end of the story see it through the narrative is not over the choreography. The hidden choreography is at work. We need to just make sure to keep that strength going and then for how many shots but we go right into shop is not Moon next Shabbos, which is what Namo namaha me double marshmallow again, not one Nakamoto similar to what a beekeeper said when he gave when he smiled laughed when seeing the even though he saw the desolate people Mount so the other his colleague said that given the company I keep in the company double Akiva, you have consoled us akivi of consoled us not Ramona Ramona me a double cancellation because one is not enough one would not justify The Descent you need to have something greater that the darkness brings even a greater light a double nakama and double here is not just in Combos and quantity, but also in quality, so it all comes together a story of pain but also a story of joy A story of loss but also story of growth and that even when something is broken, it can be fixed and become greater than ever before there's no such thing as impossible. So even if in a relationship in a marriage in personal relationships situations where you may think things have been broken was shattered remember there's always room for reconciliation and forgiveness and rebuilding even after destruction. That's the in a nutshell the story of this time. That we're right now in a tissue above concludes tissue Bob needs I should mention the pushed off dish above understand above. Some cross-referencing for this as well is episodes 3077 128 173 222. All these archives can be found and meaning at them. Sorry at City supply.com a new website that we created exclusively for this related and applications. Of course Center Around the Corner Stone that this program might laughs. It has applied all the previous 271 episodes plus a forum where you can submit anonymously SLI any question you like? Nothing is off-limits. Nothing is taboo. 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Now being that recently they've been talking about negative things some negative news about mass shootings in different cities and Dayton in El Paso and Gilroy, California. Unfortunately others that have happened earlier in the year some of them in Jewish locations. So the question is somebody presented his has the lab ever made public statements about mass shootings why they happen and what can be done to prevent them. And indeed I've spoken about this a few times. Unfortunately previous tragedies in episodes 202 and 203 258 and 259. That was the recent Poway shooting on the last day of pesach this this past Basa. So yes, there are sisters that I will refer to and specifically your out of Neeson and you'd based almost option memo Olive and voltage range hood best time is to option mentality option download mom and her fourth option member of among others. I named my specifically we'll just shortly repeat some of what the letter said you'd based on Mustafa Kemal there ever was speaking then in general not just bump. It wasn't talking specifically about mass shooting but about students hitting teachers in schools in the URL Phoenician of that year the rebel spoke about the shooting of Ronald Reagan President Reagan and the main emphasis that ever spoke about was the tragedy of cutting out God from the school's when the single most important thing in education is not a knowledge and not information and not the Sciences now the physical social and political sciences but to shape a character and the key to keeping your characters to be accountable and to be moral and to be an ethical human being that gives more than a takes and that is infused and inculcated in children through teaching them that there's a enter a of isn't Shema that is the eye that sees in the ear that hears. There's a God that is with us all the time and watches us and by taking God forbid and cutting God out from the schools were taking away from the children the single most important foundational element in shaping healthy children. And by the depth that was the root issue, obviously you deal with the symptoms anything you can short term is so on but if you want to get to the root and to how to preempt and prevent going forward, we have to educate our children that life is sacred. And the way you behave is your accountable you can just do whatever you like. We live in a society where basically everyone does whatever they like. Yes, there's certain rules red lights green lights to co-exist but violence is sometimes even worshipped and celebrated in games and sports in the media and television and film and so on. So that of course has to be addressed as well. But at least equally if not more not if definitely more to teach people about the sanctity of Life the responsibility we have to each other now within automatically prevent. There's of course people who have always murdered even when that was taught but if you want a collective and a mass influence on people that's what you do on children who will become adults by teaching them this and of course teaching adults as well and the more we teach it More we emphasize that sanctity of life and the sanctity and the tragedy of taking a life the more power that we we Empower and we fortify. Our children and our adults in Behaving the way one should behave that's the gist of the Debbie sisters that I just cited. And maybe not know of any more such tragedies and hopefully do our part to make sure that we bring up healthy sensitive giving moral ethical children. Become moral ethical and giving sensitive adults. Okay. Somewhat connected perhaps is the issue of the talking something. We've talked about a number of times. But the question that was posed this way those real but talking include believing that everything I sham sends our way will be revealed good. Hi, Rabbi love your program. Thank you for everything. You do in spreading Torah and the teachings of our obtain question those having real but talking include believing that everything I've shown will send my way will be a revealed good is it not enough to feel comfort in the fact and believe that Hashem is only good and that ultimately whatever comes to me. In fact good and I just may not experience it that way on the surface. Good question. So in other words, is it enough just to believe God is good and there is good somewhere. Even if it's concealed or to feel that God will definitely be reveal good have I need of an eagle in the way that we ourselves will experienced. So firstly let me refer some cross-referencing this a topic that is not a small topic talked about many times in this program and just to give you one eleven 113 194 231 and 249 in additionally related with as well on 125 166 187 and 190. So this is a classic scene from The Devil's printed today in the courtesy of risque Luke Lambert valve. Of of lemon out of the Alum involves moist the first see her but track would vagina good and brings what exactly is but often brings from the of course sharbat talking from the heavy salvaged from the equally mm from the bribe a debauch. I am from others. What be talking truly is there but talking is not just a Munna it's not just Faith but talking is actual trust that God will not just can but will redeem us from every give you situation even though it may not seem naturally possible because we completely trust that God has that capacity and there it's clear that the cover not just that there be concealed but it actually be in a good way. So track Good Vibes. I'm good finger and it will be good in a way that we can relate to it. so why then does some places of Citizen and Tonya and other places that speak about her said sudden to stardom hidden cresset that are hidden sometimes in in in Affliction and you shouldn't the answer is if it doesn't work out that we see it. That still does not mean there isn't good because everything God does is for the good that comes with the Teva are called the over-the-counter taken over their cars barkal the top of it and the different levels as that up explains different places. So even then even when it doesn't appear to us this still at Hidden deeper good in it, but but talking is deeper that that deeper good will actually be revealed in our eyes in our lifetime. Now if you say Well, it happens happens if it didn't work out I did think good and Didn't happen. That's God's because Venus but toxin is RN to do whatever we can to have that couple total confidence and that and that itself does create an open up new channels. And again God is then the day is the boss and he chooses for some reason not to reveal it yet. It still doesn't mean it's not there. It means it's not revealed and that's why we depend on the deeper are other explanation that within it lies even a deeper good that is yet not is not yet revealed, but we'll be Revealed ultimately which is also part of the betokened that it will be revealed and hopefully to us as soon as possible. Okay. I Rely more on the episodes. I already referred you. Let's go now to another question this question already. I can't find a Segway. This is just another question now, many of these questions were asked several months ago just to tell you we have a backup, but we have to go in order sometimes I consolidate some of the questions, but generally speaking. I'm going order so you don't get your answer me, please. Don't be perturbed and please don't lose hope. We will address it just in a later program. Okay. So here's a question which actually something that happened a while back but still relevant. So I decided to speak about it. It's in the order of as it was received. What should our reaction be when we hear about women claiming the right to set up a fill-in stand for women just as Chabad has four men. So this person writing says a headline that was as I said several months ago. They're robbing you encouraged us to write our minds and we are eternally grateful for your responses to all questions. Coming from last week and just reading in the news today. This is of course several months ago. This goes back to shabbat. It's actually five months ago. So I'm reading the news. I cannot stop but wonder what this means for us as the bond matures, what would the rebels say about this? What's our healthy approach to this in all honesty. Can you share with us? What goes through your mind when you see this and the writer writes sends me a link of women up for the wall with Of the wall as the way they've been coined who are not just trying to assist to be able to put on film by the wall, but also they want to open up a they started children stand and to put Phil now women. Just as Chabad they claim is doing ferment. So what so the question is, what do I think about this? What what should we think? Thanks a lot looking forward to your response. So first I spoke about the topic of women of the wall in episode 98. I'll speak very bluntly my reaction. My reaction is I feel sad. Don't feel angry. I don't feel we have to boycott or become a vindictive. And anyway, I feel sad I feel sad that we've not done a good enough job to educate men and women of Our Generation. What a Mitzvahs. What film is what men are what women are it's not a discrimination against women that they don't put on film. It's as much discrimination against women then Shabbos. We also don't put on Film It film is such a great thing. Why don't we put on film now Shabbos is binds the mind and heart to God. So the gemara says because you need two Aces you need to signs on Shabbos Shabbos itself is a sign. You don't need film women are compared to Chavez Shabbos Marcus's so I was Queen So being that there was like Shabbos all week long. They don't need that from they themselves are like a walking film. They're walking bound mind and heart to God. Yes, there was mokuba's all the daughter of Raschi who put on film just like you say about Rosh Hashanah. They don't blow Shaffer and she was just kind of falls on our Shoppers because Shabbos itself does but lucious on it. I in the Basin is it did blow Schaefer because this I love the I'm sure that's even higher but that's an exception. Nobody puts on feel nausea, but you're not allowed to Did I feel sad this is not taught to people today to men and women young boys and girls to understand. What means a Mitzvah Mitzvahs binding yourself to God. Each of us are bound to God. There's no such thing as second class citizens. God created male and female equally they're both in the Divine image. As a matter of fact, they need each other the complement each other. And the distortions that come out of not educating properly become that people then everyone files they find their way that they think is the way to compensate for what they think is an injustice or a lack or grievance something they're lacking. That's my feeling on the matter. So our job is to educate and Inspire not the boycott not the big strikes not to get angry and not to yell and scream. That's not the delicate area. It's the way to educate and it's not just about films that about it's about other things as well. The different roles we have today gender identity is in crisis today and many many many levels and it's all due to a very messed up education about who we are who you are as a human being as a Divine image and then who you are on gender-wise male or female. And we all have our roles even within males and within females all this is today confused. So it's not a surprise that it manifests this way. So this is the only solution I see is education inspiration information teaching explaining. And not doing an aggressive way and not doing it in a crusade like way or in a condescending way, but simply informing inspiring like we do with everything else. We live in a generation Tanika shaneeshwar people who are unaware simply born in captivity. Most did not get it normal Jewish Education when I say normal the basics, especially the spiritual Basics which are so vital to really appreciate the picture of Judas. That's my reaction. Next question can not related but a legitimate question is interesting question. Are we properly educating newlyweds in the difference between healthy and unhealthy intimacy? So this letter is a little explicit so viewer discretion advised. I'm going to read it some what I am going to add us a sensor, but I'm going to modify it a bit because it's very explicit. And again, this does not mean you shouldn't send me letters that are direct but simply for the public. I don't think everything has to be read exactly the way it is without mincing words. I will talk because the content I'm not going to compromise but just as a way of being more subtle and more modest in our conversation as well. in preparation for marriage this person writes Women are taught to comply to what their husband wants an intimate setting are they ever taught to trust themselves first and to identify this is something they are comfortable with our they taught about consent that they can say, no or I'm not comfortable with that or I'm not ready for that now and not be considered a terrible wife. I know for myself. I was taught a lot of how local clause and that the most important thing for all the Broncos in the world is Shalom bias, but we weren't taught some very basic. Is about intimacy that I believe all couples getting married need to learn. We also warned told where to go with questions once married. It's like teaching a kid how to swim outside the water and then dropping them in the deep end and leaving them there to see if they can make it and we wonder why marriage is some marriages aren't working out. I don't know what goes on a custom classes which means four Grooms are young men getting married men who have been perhaps abused without receiving help or treatment are they taught about consent about sensitivity about healthy intimacy that are there being intimate with their wives with a wife with their with their way if one is being intimate with his wife and she says stop and they continue that this may be considered a crime are they taught about asking? And being sensitive to their spouses needs. Are these are the ideas in line with taro? The writer sends me a link about the discussion on this topic. I believe that this is especially important when as much as we might be in denial about it most boys have education. about intimacy long before hustling classes And unfortunately that education is not coming from healthy places which promotes objectification of women and aggressive culture. And on the other hand women are brought up with this idea of being a good wife and solemn bias. If you ask me it's a recipe for disaster for our health for unhealthy and dysfunctional marriages, and if nothing is done about it than another generation that will grow up and be even worse off. Suggestions cousin and color classes that teach a bit more than halacha. Teach about intimacy and healthy intimacy. Not just the technical matters of Jewish law from trained professionals who all couples can have access to seeking help once they're married something accessible and available. Maybe a hotline for intimacy related issues right after marriage that can provide guidance and refer couples. It further help is needed. I know we are taught to have a much beer. I'm questioning of the must be my must be as are adequately trained and equipped with these kind of things and there. Be more help made available. What is the total view on consent in marriage? Thanks, okay. So firstly I spoke about related topics in these episodes 559 151 and 152 212 through 214, but healthy intimacy and educating people in that direction. Now it's important to preface a let me say this. In a healthy home, and we hope to believe that Jewish homes were healthy over the centuries certain things were taken for granted that when you see a home where a father and mother treat each other with constant respect 24/7. That that rubs off by osmosis on the children and they recognize it when they see how they speak to each other obviously intimacy is not witnessed, but nevertheless the environment the mood so these things have an effect healthy Attitudes by parents parental influences that are healthy will create healthy children. That's a given now, of course, there are challenges that can always distort things today. We live in a world. Well number one is many Parents are not that healthy and then there's the big open world with so much to seen online and in places that are not appropriate. So there's even more need to make emphasis on these matters. Why am I saying this because for those people who know what healthy intimacy and healthy marriage life and healthy Shoreland biases. And again, it's not just about intimacy. It's a general attitude of respect which spills over also in Intimate setting sometimes take for granted and say you're off to talk about these things. Things because they have it healthy is like a healthy person doesn't need to talk about unhealthy situations, but we have to know there are situations that are not functional. So just because we few people breathe. Well, some of us have a very healthy breathing. There are people who are struggling to breathe there are toxins out there. So we have to know how to address that also in a discreet way. Not in a in a way that adds fuel to the fire. So I totally agree that there needs to be a relook and I know that rabbis and must be men must be is a rabbit since people teaching hustling and color classes are becoming more and more sensitive and more acutely aware of these issues. There's a lot more work to be done. And that's what I'm speaking about it. Yes, we have to make this a primary primary discussion because marriage is based on Stolen bias and show them bias is based on a husband a wife. Having a good relationship with each other. And sexuality has never been objectified as an end in itself. Yes, Judaism believes in healthy intimacy and loving and a sacred intimacy and all the halacha is involved but it also understands and recognizes part of that sacred intimacy is a mental kite. It's not just about one person getting his needs or her needs met. Is immense look like you're constantly aware and cognizant of another person. They're not just there to pleasure you. So those is the element of pleasuring and so on but all done with a certain love and a certain warmth and nurturing even in the most intimate setting. And it is all comprehensive what I mean by that is it spills over people's lives even how they eat dinner together how they talk to each other even in seemingly trivial matters is all part of that relationship. This needs to be taught those that are blessed to grow up in healthy homes who seen it and it's by osmosis. They picked it up great. Even there. I would say it's good to be taught and spoken about because we all get jaded and we all get toxified then we all get contaminated a bit by what we see around us. So it's good to be reinforced. What a healthy intimacy and what unhealthy intimacy's but especially because there are many not growing up and unfortunately in homes that provide that or provided completely and they learning it from the wrong places. So yes, this is a critical element. I would save in a crisis that needs to be addressed and preempted not wait till there's a problem to be taught and spoken about in a healthy way because unfortunately yes intimacy is being divorced. The the ACT is being divorced of the Sacred intimacy and warmth and connection that it's meant to be more than just an act more than just pleasure more than it's about building a relationship and then the relationship with each other spouses and through that relationship with God and through that relationship with your home and family and with the world around you and bringing intimacy the sanctity of intimacy into the sanctity of all of our lives. So as far as consent, of course, what's the question good intimacy is people are not just consenting they want it's all kinds of how losses have of not being intimate. If one of the two are not really interested or whatever reason. Or Saturday each other or not prepared whatever it may be so of course, but that goes with a I should I was going to say it goes without saying it doesn't go without saying it has to be said but that's part of the mental kind that's part of the relationship that there is a sensitivity. It's not just about I have needs and that's it. And we just communication and there's a real and there's a recognition of each other respect for each other's space. Everything gets more enhanced as the rebels famous expression chat quoting chapter and intimacy and Torah meaningful life that when your clothes when you should be distant, you'll be distant when you should be closed. Okay, let's go to the next topic. What is the next topic? Doubts about the rib. Okay. This question didn't have to phrase it somewhat sensitively. How are we to react to stories that seem to compromise that ever? This one also I'm not going to read it all out loud because something out of respect for our debit. There's things you say things you don't say in public or even in private. Hi, Roberta Jacobson. No need to tell you that solace in the fusses you're doing every week. My question is as follows. I was listening to a Radio Show podcast which I know you have been on before this past week this goes while back so it's not this past week. It's the past week when this note was written they had on a rabbi who told a story about Alabama. She wants to have hook Nur About the river having a safer during his classes at the sorbonne Ruffner also studied there and he said something which was not respectful about the debe. Now this Rabbi or told the story didn't mean in a bad way and explained why he said the story. He even said that if it's true story is true. The navi serve Hunter was also not doing something, right? What has really been bothering me as a horse's I can can I believe such a story? It makes no sense. I think I heard the rabbit wore a wig is that true? I cannot believe this. It has shaken my core. I do not like it. Please clarify. Thanks. So firstly let me refer you to episodes where I've spoken about a rabbit and a Deb is perfection and so on see episodes 107 121 198 199 255. So not sure where to begin. Let me begin with this. First of all, there's how long after that says Ames Ray and I'm Mel of Kasumi stop it. It's one should not look at a king when he's taking a haircut one should not look at a king when he's doing other personal private matters. Now. Why not? We know that the king took a haircut you could see if it was before the haircut then after they are cut by the Deb. We know they hit the barber would go on to the rebels room. We knew before we knew there was a haircut. Why not because we're human beings and there has to be a hazardous Mella. There has to be a respect and offer a king and being human we often affected when we see things that look a little more. You know, what's a haircut? Yes. There's an element of a certain respect and distance that you have to be hanging around with the king in his private chamber even a haircut. That's why you have stories that the mass given the different secretaries of the debate team. Often told that are but they don't want to be a secretary because then they see that Eben a perfect personal setting and could take for granted and they'll lose sometimes this caches that embera shop said they stood up Kanya morozov Connemara. Jesus said this the rebel Richard, why doesn't he has delivered a shop said he wants him to help him with certain personal matters. She says going to affect these caches. He was hoping that the river a shot with you. Let him go or say give my broke. It shouldn't affect. So the Deborah shop said yeah in Agronomy of a puzzle dicta in economy meaning so yes, it's true, but may affect. Will affect what should I do? I need that help later when they asked upon you know, he said that affect he said affected but it was worth it to hear such a Christmas sulamita. Someone will kind of effect it had but nevertheless suddenly it affected. So that's the first thing when we speak about it ever. The questions we should be even sharing stories like this. And this is even if a story may be true let alone who says is true. This individual you quoting that mentioning the name again is known to have certain jealousies about the rebel and had all kinds of issues with it ever. Even though one handy called himself a friend. So what's it who knows what he thought what he saw was he right? Was he not right? Did he make it up? I'm not going to say made it up, but maybe didn't understand the correctly. Maybe didn't see right. Now I know you could say as a Cobalt nickel or gonna say that so I'm saying two things. First of all, not every story necessarily true. Secondly, even if you have 1/8 is that says something who says that we have to park assist as a crossroad in these matters. I never said Eva and that dependent on whether it looks good to me or doesn't look good to me. There were those that had issues with a debit our shop the story that I've been - I went to Freud so began the explanation that I've spoken about in previous episodes. I'd ever go to the fridge my business. You got the Freud he knows what he's doing and I rely on him. He's a Debbie said up. And if you have a problem with the debit in one matter that may be of a problem in all matters at ever does not have to live up to our criteria Miriam and Aaron spoke about miss Robin. The Jew spoke about Mason have been and there was not good stuff at episode that business was chosen by God. so even if I have questions Who says you have to ask you a questions? This doesn't mean we put our head in the sand and we ignore it. And end of the day we know in Godless even are these are said outfit that time medium asked how could they say octet? Are these oval shaped these sins? So they give two answers one. Is he set up for the generations to the doctors as not to be slowly had in himself, but that was like the story of the middle Arab. So if you see something it could be but that was some type of subtle thing, but it's not our job to start measuring and say oh well, that's the case. What else does it tell us? About the rebbe. She have to know the cake be kept be open-minded fine, but in and how did him after that? I have supposed to have a certain respect now, you'll say if you never is that you arrived yet and you're skeptical in the first place. So fine do your due diligence, but once it's your rubber like a small monkey set it all today, but Monoshock, if you are there be nothing will happen to you they rescue and if you're not you deserve what he said you deserve because you took away guillem House of the pleasure of Allah. Mom has it from so many Sydenham so many Jews. Saurabh is far more than the few things. We see of course. There's going to be question. There are questions people have questions. That's the approach I would take to this matter and as soon as shake you to the core because they represent Lebanon matter what and if this is shaken to the core of the questions. What do you how do you see your relationship with it up? Look gimel Thomas is another one that ever said clearly the goal is going to come and have Cocina sin and many many citizens said I thought and the good that did not come and instead. We got hoes. I know demand gimel Thomas. A big a big question that ever said so the answer is like the rubber said many times hotter cash. That goof is the cash that ever rode this Interruption you would when he was asked to be rabid. They said was her designs are abusive husbands. I about Grace of their best aggressive as a campus animations. There are bigger things. I don't know what will be we have a big rep. He'll take care of it. This doesn't mean you can't have a question. But the question should not shake you that everyone said about a moon of Faith a question doesn't weaken Faith an answer doesn't strengthen it that still doesn't mean we shouldn't have NASA and nourishment, of course. Chabad it stops The Sensational and try the best understand things but not in a way that the questions the fundamental truth of it. What that means is yes, you can question the truth and you can discuss it and so on but the end of the day the unwavering truth remains true whether we understand it or not. And especially when it comes to more compromising or controversial things, so either we don't know what the facts as I said or it's not in our domain. Maybe we shouldn't be crawling this not our business. And we should be focusing on what we should be focused on the things. We do have understanding of and control of and the things that we can do to bring the gold. Now if somebody has questions that fundamentally shake their fundamental beliefs in the river and see this in the lab a you should have someone to speak to and discuss it but I don't think it's about one matter. It's going to be probably other matters as well and I'm not here to convince somebody to accept that truth that the web is Ms. If you have that question, you should definitely go speak with them. Ashby has been to someone discreetly someone you trust and work it through. Okay, let's do some follow-ups. So if they were follow-ups is one follow-up about Perry and the parental alienation from episodes to 69 to 70. And actually to 69 and and to and last week. Here's another follow-up on that day Rabbi Jacobsen. Thank you so much for beginning to discuss the topic of divorce and parental alienation. What so if you want to know more information on the actual topic, please go back to last week and three weeks ago meaning to 69 and 271. Yeah, while I don't have Solutions, I do want to address the issue further and lay out some of the challenges. Unfortunately, I speak from personal experience just as quick background both my ex-wife and I are ffb lava choose from BT families F of B is from from birth till beverages from Petrova families. We were both educated in the Bible School System. We went actually occurs and divorced why lunch we had one daughter together after our divorce. My ex-wife did not remain from While we were in the process of divorce my ex-wife tried to extort a lot of money out of me and my parents she tried to Blackmail me by saying they didn't give her the money requested. She would tell the court all about my intimacy problems. Of course, I responded I didn't have any such problems to hide and I will not be blackmailed prior to our court date. I sent the mutual friend to talk with her and see if we could come to some arrangement. She said to him that I my parents have a lot of money and she knows how much I love my daughter the only way she can explore the money from Me is through using our daughter as a bargaining chip interestingly enough. She comes from a wealthy background as well. And it sure didn't need my parents money. We want we went to court and she told the court that she feared I was asexual danger to my to our daughter. This is despite the fact that I was the primary caregiver for the majority of my daughters young life and just days before she had asked me as always to bathe her dresser Etc. The challenge that won the challenge is that once the court has the mandate to protect the From the child's parent is very difficult to reverse that situation. Every social worker covers his or her own back and it's rare to find one will stand up for the truth nevertheless. I was lucky to have professionals who tested testify to my cashews as a parent ultimately after years of fighting and giving her a hundred and fifty K. I got joint custody. This didn't prevent them from going again it going from again going to the courts with further false allegations of me being danger and eating to go through the process again until the office of child services shut and still the case saying unequivocally that the change that the charge was made up. As life has it. She moved away from me. And my daughter has been raised not from and my daughter and I have very little contact. I haven't seen her in five years all this to say that we need some sort of pre-emptive solution to these situations one idea of had is a prenuptial agreement that agrees honor of Basden that the couple legally agrees to go to in case of divorce with a legally binding agreement not to go to secular courts. The legality of such an arrangement would need to be per state country, but I think it could possibly prevent. Abused my daughter and I went through of course, I bring all this up so that we can discuss ideas and sure but if Yates which means salvation through many different opinions through Consulting with many people thank you so much for dressing this issue. I apologize for being so direct but this is the way the letter was written and person wrote it. So that's how I read it. Regarding prenuptial agreements we've spoken about this. I don't have the exact episode here because that needs to be looked at a lockley what you could do what you can do but it breaks my heart when I hear stories like this how parents can sometimes and this is of course one side of the story. Maybe there's another side. I always say that but it breaks my heart because the end of the day children suffer, sometimes her parents flaws who either are being vindictive or they are distorted or they just don't see clearly You Can Be Our Own Worst Enemy that's my biggest comment on that and yes we have to do everything possible it goes back to proper education proper way of entering into marriages and when there is a situation I would implore an appeal and begged any father and mother do what's right for the children don't do it's only right what you think is right and what else can one say then the day people have free will to do good things and sometimes destructive things. We should only hear good news. We also have more on the vaccine controversy, but I'm not going to read more of that because of time limits. I think I covered most of the questions there's still some more but I think almost the tires Spectrum has been covered just want to say one thing is I read the letters again. We have a Teta we have a locker. We have a rabbit who gave Direction a methodology. This isn't meant that one letter that ever writes the somebody in 1950s about the Salk vaccine is a Zeta sarcos of a rule for every situation. Yeah, but there's a logic that ever uses about listening to doctors about Alta freshman at Cyber to follow what most are doing going to rub on my stream. There's a methodology. So to go to upset that whole thing, which is the Tate approach to dealing with all the issues including medical issues is not right simply put this again does not mean that every letter that ever says this exactly what we have to do and every given situation every vaccine has to be looked at for its own Merit what kind of research was done who's doing it? That ever writes their Laboratories, but this type of approach where individuals are coming and making their own case and they're trying to build and find rabbis and doctors who will support them and they're a big minority. Is could be somewhat self-serving and destructive as with all the good intentions and I think I've said this already I'm not going to say it again. That doesn't mean there aren't two sides to the story that all sides be discussed review it but go with an open mind that with a closed case story, especially if you're not a doctor and you're not at all of and I think if we put our heads together, we can find good Solutions. If something comes up that is a new vaccine or something which has been proven to be problematic, etc. Etc. Okay concerning all of his role in last episode. So I spoke about how this saw the impact that has on a Munna I'm Faith. So someone wrote I wrote the rubber asking the dividual if I had to keep all this Robert Hadlock of gave me the rubbers answer was the following. the officer the tomte mess that which is forbidden, but optimism a reversal of the Compton dolls or blacks up the mind and the Heart. It's weird that I ever wrote but how do you explain to me that call a Commision issue? So this is the web is answer to this question to this individual. There are many many such other answers. So thank you for that. And I think I referred to with but but hearing is split a specific answer is always good. Okay. Now let us do to the question is question of the week. Okay, let me make sure I covered everything. This is question of the week is about the ballad. Mrs. Basden. Dolby space does them which is skilless late for having a panic. Which we of course is in the halacha and the mission and the commodity and we even saying I had that the end of marketing people. So the question is like this. Hi Rabbi here is a follow-up question answer to your episode to episode 270. I appreciate it very much your answer to the school who asked about the many wives of some of our great you explain Tatum in that bed is billion and we're going to measures but octane the Taylor speaks about things above spiritual and hints to elude the things below. I always wondered how a sham who is merciful kind and loving can have the fourth death for death penalties. Which are pretty graphic and severe. If you go into the details, would you say that Tatum in Tibet is volume applies here as well. Meaning that these are all spiritual matters that when it comes down in this world comes into the death penalty. Can you please set some light on this matter? Thanks a lot. Okay. So yes, this is challenging question because when you read the tale of describing these for mrs. That quite gruesome. But first of all, you have to know that the Theta always looked the death penalty was always frowned upon its really happened and the best dentists in heaven that put somebody to death was considered a couple honest even once in 70 years. They were they were marked branded as murderers tala because murder is selfish of delayed of accelerator. You judge the nation to preserve them to save them not to hurt them. That's the coven of us and hadn't and that's why if you look at the laws It's almost impossible to find the death penalty on someone because of all the different exceptions and the evidence and even and unanimous and edit if everybody votes guilty. He's acquitted because there's something wrong with us on head and that couldn't find one of them wood screws one Merit. That's number one. Number two when it says death penalty in the capital punishment that Taylor is because that's the best tested for this person. If indeed comes to that. Either because the neshama has become so toxic that this is the only way it can be saved the Kuwaiti be healed or because it's a danger to other people. And other reasons given for this and finally the deaths themselves were actually the most painless type possible even though some of them were painful more than others as the Casal talked about yet. This was sometimes that time being with that which was optional member. They did not have what we have today lethal and which also people say may not be so or electric chair and so on so then for those times that was considered if capital punishment was used Those were the acceptable methods but above all exactly as you said correctly because all this still is the titanium you have to say their spiritual source for at all and then manifest in the physical that's where you can find more ways to explain it. So I looked around where's this discussed? It's not discussed a lot. Thanks to this one place. Yes synthetic. I'm shout out to prove it from the middle of rubber. So it's discussed there. in we give you the source. Okay chapters 14 and 15 and on I think 17 and 18 continues as well. Especially chapters 14 and 15 and Derek. I'm shot at chuva. I also want to refer you to sha Allah the Shalom pastor's kid say and a secret passage Pinterest tough shinmin dallied with a debit flee the rebel speaks and says the dowel. Mrs. Belson is the little mother the negative of the arbor should see from the Hades when they're saved. Richard Davis Kind, which is Kayla you sued him yam and meatball for things is supposed to make mirrors again when you save so Loomis says the for mrs. The for mrs. In Kabbalah correspond to the four letters of Youth Cave of Kate the gum the gum means like a wound or blemish of you'd Cave of K through a sin if I Mitzvahs a connection as soon as it is a disconnection Aveda from the word moving away this alignment this alignment from what from the youth cave. Okay, which vivifies all of existence and also the human being so that's why we say in the video. We increased Michelle meter at night that began that I didn't you then in the hay and evolve and the K and the final. Hey, which corresponds to the for mrs. Besant as he explains in Vedic. I'm and what does he say? It's killer. We go from the worst that down there was Killa is a began in the letter you would this is what the free terrible the Midler ever says. Is the bit love? Krishma which is a Consortium itself. That's the bit that the Bittle of a neshama to the Divine Essence of the iron of ends of that's higher than say. Hello. That's the hood particular cell type of mutiny against the essence of the Divine of a deserter. That's killer. So Shabbos also goes in that category and other sins that touch on the core. This is the wound of the hood and the only way. to heal from that is something Skiller which is by Evan bayh Iraq and Evan and Hebrews Olive been you throw him down from racial or it says he says and stone him which means you taking a love bomb which encompasses the entire being because the began the wound is an entire being so you have to have a mysterious nefesh that is counters that began that happened in the missus nefesh That's essential in the coudé here. So skill is the harshest of the for because you need to completely Under you have to completely uproot this began this wound the next comes and you can look it up the hey, the first a is slaver. This is bit of filler. Someone is didn't David. This is Max of hazardous. It's still in its still the hates Ben. It's much of it. It's not me. This is not a motions and snot actions, but it makes Abba's artists which wound and damage the mind and some ways he who they are who they are. Very thoughts of a very can be worse than the Sinners. He explains. Their the mind is not connected to the Coos. It's now off on its own thinking whatever it wants to think. And that burns and destroys part of the neshamah that part of Bina the hey so the thicken is by burning out this entire thoughts. That's why it's safe the valve corresponds to headache. This is the bit love Citrus Citrus is me this without making this is already a hefty between Macon and Medicine. To in mind and emotions and they think only four cities headache is what is separating. It's a sword separating the head from the heart because that's a punishment for or you could say the tick one punishment always is a ticket is a repair for the separation where your head and emotions are not aligned your mind and emotions are not aligned and finally the last hey, is connect this is one second. I'm sorry the hey the first day I said bit love to Filan. I said filler little of to fill in the first one was Bittle to filler. Trish Max, really Yeah. The final hey is is Thriller Technic is Phil a prayer which is about bringing the heart into action and doubling of inertia believe you're bringing the heart and you make Knock lotta determination resolution to act properly. So the wound is not in any deeper level. It's that you took the life out of your action action should be in vivified by Passion and when a person just does Action technically mechanically taking out the actions. Our passion and that's kind of cool. That's what explains them that are kind briefly how it is a burger fries and from that involves. The Gotham is the curved out mrs. Now the lesson to us, especially coming from tissue above is this anus punishment in Taylor is not a punishment. It's cause an effect when you put your hand in fire God forbid and your fire and your hand gets burned. It's not a punishment. It's the way your hand is reacting to something done wrong and needs to repair when you feel pain. It's not a punishment pain. It is a symptom of something wrong. So all forms of the doubt. Mrs. Basden is about reminding us of something that is wrong and through the anus you can figure out just like Sky Mitzvah Mitzvah from the reward amid, so you can figure out what kind of mitzvahed is like, he says in Tanya scar evade evade from a Nevada and it's punishment. You can see what kind of sin and what kind of gamma did by seeing what effect that has on you you can learn from that what wound it is and then for learned how to repair it. That's a tremendous lesson in applied cities. Now, let's conclude now with the essays. Tisha b'av is about to end and I want to make sure that we conclude the for Tisha b'av concludes. So three essays. SA number which is all from the top 50 top 40 45 the essays of this past Year's contest 2019. They're all available. The newest is as we posed them at meaningful. So the supply that cam you'll see all the essays there. You also can receive them in your inbox. If you subscribe to oxygen supply to my life to meaningful live.com. So the first essay is an English transcending conflict novocaine h23 Morristown, New Jersey students interface. bakura Mario star we all want healthy amicable relationships, but most of but most of them are all relationships end up involving disagreement and conflict deep genuine disagreements can wound relationships and often trying to resolve a disagreement by talking it out often escalate the conflict and wounds the relationship further. An indirect approach to conflict resolution may be the key to healthy relationships. This essay will explain how students can be applied to transcend disagreements and conflict specifically, we will discuss a simple one-step conflict resolution strategy that can be implemented in three different ways. This strategy is based on a my moment of the alter rebbe in Lakota Tara and a member of the Rebel. Yes of the Rebel rishabh. And then goes on to do that. Why can't we get along analyzing disagreements the mainstream approach to conflict resolution. This acidic has approached his colobus interconnectivity. His cow is based on common purpose. Is Carlos based on common values? Is Scholars by means of a mentor? Repetition repetition repetition is key. And without he concludes a conclusion of practical steps on conflict resolution. Excellent essay for a really important topic especially as we come from tishell. Oh, yes the next essay. human doing discover your true Essence a human becoming Yaya here s age 41 Johannesburg South Africa psychologist We live in an increasingly automated world. The machines have taken over the stomach stent to some extent and the new emerging condition of low battery anxiety. For it's more fancy name homophobia. No more fibia refers to the immense stress when users are separated, even from the shortest periods from their devices. This essay first sixth understand the magnitude of this problem. Then look some examples of how consumers provides vital solutions to this crisis. Both on mental and behavioral levels. It also highlights the focus of Citizen the Practical integration between awareness and the mind of the mind and embodies feeling and action with filler having a central role in this and the central concept of personal Exile and Redemption and then briefly explores parallels with recent findings in mindfulness and Neuroscience research and concludes with an example of some of the unique benefits and value of the prospective and practical implementation of cities and goes Chasing the Dream depression addiction and eternal emptiness the power of filled to keep us connected and awake microcosmic exiled the blockage of the throat. Mindfulness and staying free and awake making it real in a practical way. Another excellent essay. Well well worth reading. Thank you. And finally the third essays in Hebrew samata Rahim, which is a Crossroad a fork in the road Hundreds and I don't exaggerate if I would say thousands of time we stand this is also the I forgot the title. That's the tell title Chaya mushka book Beckerman Jerusalem, Israel a 17 student at base safer based Hannah. Kabaddi Rochelle. I'm okay, so we face this all the time many times. We need to make a decision between two things and determine which one is the better one and the one that's more fruitful being better results. Even from youngest age. We have this Crossroad this fork in the road split. The question is how do you make such a decision? And that's why this essay goes on up according to Exodus compared to psychological approaches how to make a decision when you have these two different paths how to get the clarity and how to finally decide. What criteria determine what's better? We are our desire comes from why we want one versus the other. And how our secular intelligence comes into play to do the proper due diligence another excellent essay. Thank you for that. And with that we conclude this special edition Tisha b'av new tradition of my life sitting supplied episode 272 you hopefully young male the sustenance in column A didn't even as this fast comes to an end. We hope for the ghoul even right now tonight not tomorrow gulam. It is vastly my we're here every Sunday. So this will be taught. And after the goal that comes even more so as Delta that explains and Tanya get us a cages similar to evolve especially at the end. So we're here every Sunday 8:00 to 9:00 p.m. This is apply my life since applied everyone have a blessed week a week of nahama week of simplest and a week of transformation of the negative into the greatest positive to the ultimately to the Ghulam. It is Vaseline.
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