Mind your subconscious is the podcast that provides you with techniques and knowledge about your subconscious mind the part of your brain that lets you control your ego and create an extraordinary reality with your thoughts. We invite meditation hypnosis NLP EFT and other experts to help you master the most powerful part of your brain. Your host is Jennifer Schlueter who quit her job as managing editor of 22 newspapers to try Ravel the world and work online just after one hypnosis session and Nomad ever since 2016 Jennifer is now a certified hypnotist and helps people transform their dreams into reality. Hello and welcome to this week's episode of mind your subconscious this week. We actually have a very interesting guest. He is a IT guy or programmer doing a day and a fetish apprenticed at night or in his free time. So, what does that have to do with your subconscious as well sex has a lot to do with it. It's very mental. So this episode we'll show you how you can spice up your life. Life and your sex life with hypnosis and with accessing your subconscious mind. Actually. Are you curious? I bet you are. So let's get started. Hey guys, I'm Jenny. You know me and today I'm with Ninja Ninja. Hello. I am ninja yeah me and ninja we met last year actually in Amsterdam at a hypnosis Meetup. Can you tell us how that has developed her that is going for you. Yeah, so actually when we met that was my first time at that specific meet up as well, but the organizer of the meet up and I got along very well and I've been helping her with that's a meet-up as it has been going on because it's twice every month. I think. Okay, great. And then now can you introduce yourself? What kind of hypnosis are you doing and how you get into it? All right. So I'm Ninja. I have a website where you can find a lot of different forms of recreational hypnosis ranging from relaxing and helping with study and focus on to erotic and even into BDSM things like obedience and humiliation or degradation. They can also find me through my YouTube channel. Of course. My YouTube channel has less explicit content than the website. I think a lot of people actually find me through the YouTube channel rather than through. To the site directly. Okay. Great. And how did you get into erotic fetish videos? I'm hypnosis. How did that happen? So the history of that is actually very simple and at the same time very complicated. I have been into BDSM things and hypnosis sort of in parallel. So when I started doing more intimate things with others I discovered that I was dominant and that I was into BDSM things at the same time my Interests in Psychology, and how the mind works led me into hypnosis and how that worked. So those two things kind of developed in parallel and at some point it sort of clicks like wait, I can use the same skills and you can use them there and in different ways and I've always been someone who's been very curious about what is possible in like all the things that I do and with that hypnosis has been a very like interesting Journey. In finding out the different ways. It can be used. Okay, and can you tell us what is possible or what you have found to be possible some things that our listeners may not know. Well, so it starts out with that a lot of things are in the mines. So things like excitement and arousal and desire they're all mental processes so they can be directed or even instigated through hypnosis. Especially if they're a bond of trust between like the subject and the hypnotist and you have established like limits and things you can work. Chris you can experiment very deeply into even things like orgasms on command with just a snap of a finger or feeling completely submissive with just to look things that like dominant doing BDSM even just through conditioning with hypnosis. The limit is really your imagination and the level of trust that you build up between you and subjects. Okay, and why? Do people come to you one of the reasons apparently said I have a really nice voice. I guess I sort of agree the what I found is that when I started out before I was making files I was looking at what was out there and I was kind of annoyed that first of all most of the erotic hypnotist at the time were female because female voices attract a lot of male audience tend to have more money for some reason. And I felt like there was something missing in the field of hypnosis. So I felt that I could add to this. So I started recording some simple files that I put on YouTube and I put on a my own sites because I've had been having a site for many like many years more and it got an incredibly positive response. So then I started developing it and continuing with it improving the site and the channel itself and improving the the quality of hypnosis. I started out with an incredibly low quality USB mic and now I'm using like a much nicer and professional microphones. It also helps a lot. Oh why they come to me specifically is I think a combination of the style of my files is very personal every file feels like a session with the listener rather than a session for an audience. And the other thing is that I'm very clear on the content and the effects of a file. So on YouTube for example in the descriptions, there's always details of what it will do to you. On the site you can even filter on things you can say, for example, I want to file without any sexual content or I want to file without any BDSM content, which is Trivial to do it is unfortunately it's not as easy on YouTube would be nice. But so yeah, I think it's a combination of my style but also my Morality In how I want people to be able to enjoy the safely and responsibly. One of the other things I did is before I started making some of the more extreme files which go into the fantasies of enslavement or being forced. I made sure that there were reset files that allow someone to undo suggestions and I just felt it was really important to have those out there before I made anything that would need and doing right? Okay. So what is something that you say there's no way I will do this actually. Have a very simple rule for this. I will not do anything that will have lasting damage to someone. So for example feeding is a fetish that makes people overweight and while I'm very familiar with the fetish it is not something that I will make a file for because the damage it would do to the body is like more than I would like on my conscience. The other thing I will not do is any form of hatred. So race or Gender hatred or preference like women are better than men or men are better than women anything like that. I will not do so. I'm okay with making a file that would make someone attracted to women regardless of their own gender, but I would never make a file that would make them hate men or anything like that. Okay, and can you tell us some requests? Like what do people come to you with? Is it okay to talk about that? Yeah, actually I keep a lot of the requests because there Inspiration for a new things to do I currently have about like 250 or more suggestion still open, like even after all the stuff that I've already done it ranges wildly. So not too long ago. I made a very complex fantasy file about a dragon and a mountain and it was a whole story and this was based on an initial email of someone about one and a half year ago said, can you make a file with the dragon and we started having being a conversation like yeah, but what kind of file what kind of fantasy would you like to have? Like, do you want to be the dragon? Do you want to like meet the dragon and together? We sort of like thought of a story and I stored this and then much much later. I recorded it and it can range from that to incredibly specific things as well. I had a person request a file to become aroused by putting on white. Knee-high socks. Okay, that's very specific. That is that was incredibly so I made that one a little bit less specific to allow people who like the idea to enjoy that too. But maybe they won't rainbow socks because they happen to love the the 60s. Yeah. It's the suggestions very incredibly. It can be anything from can you make something that helps me study, or can you Help me deal with loss because someone dies or actually one of the most common ones that I haven't done yet is can you help me get over my ex is very common. It is a very common request and at the same time. I'm not sure if I want to do exactly that because getting over emotions is something that is important to emotional development. So for example, the dealing with loss file doesn't say you're not It anymore because that wouldn't help anyone. It's more it helps people except that it happened and celebrates the moments before it's also actually one other thing. I am very hesitant with is anything therapy related. So I have a few files that are close to it like regarding to self-harm or confidence and the files that I recorded for that I wanted. Do a lot of research for because I'm not a therapist. So I want to make sure that if I do anything like that, I would want to make sure that I can do this that I can that I don't make the problem worse. Okay. Let's see. I see. Okay. So what is something that you really enjoy about hypnosis that you really love about it, especially in your niche in with your style. It depends a bit on what I'm doing at the time. So it's very hard to give one answer because I do so many different things. So many different people with the last meet up that Iran which was to hypnosis Amsterdam meet up. There was a girl there who have difficulty going into trance and I talked with her a little bit to find out what's her problem and she thinks very analytically and analytical people respond to better two different inductions and different techniques than like more fantasy people or more down-to-earth people. So I talked a little bit about out like things with her to find out what would work really well for her and then I surprised her with something called an overload induction after a handshake induction, which worked incredibly well for her and afterwards really made her smile like oh my God, this was amazing and like that that makes me feel good to just the fact that I was able to give her that and to give her that simple experience, which was no more than just going into trans and just feeling empty for a moment and Waking up again. Yeah. Okay. Go ahead. Yeah. So that's a very simple example a more extreme example in the style that I do is for is playing with dominance and submission or with control over orgasms because orgasms are also very mental a lot of people underestimate how important the mental status for sex but through hypnosis and through a lot of like practices and experience. You can direct this so So you could for example prevent an orgasm from happening or make someone overly sensitive and that is a really like fun tool to play with and to make someone incredibly frustrated or feel incredibly good and the the power rush I get from that is it's of course Harry. It's okay. Okay. So when you say overly sensitive, what do you mean in exactly also fast or what was it? It depends on what you want to achieve. It's a party trick. For example to make someone's hand as sensitive as like the most sensitive part of their body or to make a stroke of a finger feel almost orgasmic already so you can make someone like extremely sensitive and extremely likely to orgasm or you can do the opposite. You can also make someone Edge for a very long time. What is also interesting is that hypnosis by itself is just one of the tools you can use for this. Combining them with physical conditioning and we're training and like learning dominant language and behavior. You can make it more powerful because like this interviews focused on the part hypnosis, but it is important to note that hypnosis is just one element you can use it in this kind of play and it's a very powerful element which is why I enjoy it. Okay, great. And when you said it's a party trick, have you done this at a normal party or like at other parties I have To be careful with this because I want to make sure that the person I do this to would enjoy it. I am not a stage hypnotist on purpose because I don't like the idea of humiliating a person for the enjoyment of others if that person isn't into it, like humiliation is can be a fetish but in the end the experience should be enjoyable for everyone involved and ideally it should be most enjoyable for this. Subjects like that. The audience gets a nice show is nice, but the subject should go home and be like, oh my God. Absolutely. Oh, so have I have done that where I made their hand a sensitive surface China for example, and just by circling on the palm of their hands made them almost orgasm and inevitably gets an incredibly like surprised and overwhelmed response, which is lots of fun. I'm sure yeah. Okay. So tell us about your day job. Well, so during the day I'm a programmer I Look for a big Dutch websites and I currently work in the more Erp Direction, which is enterprise resource planning. And yeah there I do a lot of development and Analysis because I work with other people as well. Yeah. I'm a certified nerd. So why is it that you're not doing hypnosis full-time just part-time but rather you have still you. Have you have a daytime job full-time? Because keeping it I spent a lot of time on it, but keeping it as a hobby means that there's almost no pressure on it. It's good. It allows you to remain incredibly enjoyable because I don't have to do it. I'm doing it because I want to its I don't need it for my income. I get a fair bit of income from donations and patreon, but I don't need it like it. I don't need it to survive. I don't need it to pay off my My mortgage it is extra and that extra allows me to feel different about it. It's no longer an obligation. It's something I want to do. And for the foreseeable future. I'm also planning to keep it that way because it keeps the dynamic of how I deal with it gnosis differently. I see. Okay. Okay, and then what is something that people assume about you that is completely wrong. Probably many things the one that comes to mind is that because of my files. I make a lot of different files and a lot of people don't know which files are my own desires and my own interests and which files I've made for others, even though most of the files are things that I enjoyed making the thing that they assume the most that I know is wrong is that they think that I am a 24/7 always Dominant all the time and I there are people who enjoy this but I don't I like gaming a like just relaxing and even with people who I am dominance with I also enjoy just doing normal things like watching a movie together or just like having a normal walk in a conversation. Not every moment has to be like mr. Ninja sir dominating the submissive. Okay? Okay, so and what is something that you struggle? Cool with something that you are the problems that you face in your in your with hypnosis. And yeah, just with hypnosis. I with hypnosis itself. I don't feel like I struggle with a lot. Maybe there's some elements that I would like to practice more but I don't feel that I'm struggling with them terribly the struggles I have on more social in nature, for example, so I run a the hypnosis Amsterdam meet up and I just about that real quick because we talked only about one but you have to actually so yeah. Well the other one is not mine technically, but I'm like Co helping but the difference is that the other person is organizing its with the hypnosis Amsterdam meet up. It is a meet up every two months specifically about erotic and kinky hypnosis, which is organized through FetLife, which is a fetish social network site and I and another hypnotist and hopefully in the future more hypnotist give workshops there. Well, I'm perfectly comfortable giving Workshops. The thing that is still something I'm struggling with is being an organizer and at the same time letting someone else give a workshop. So I need to basically shut up and let them do it. You need not to be dominant for a second. Well, it's also I think really quickly and I want to answer quickly because I'm enthusiastic but it's really important to let someone else just take their time. Let them finish their words let them like give answers to people and also to let them make mistakes if they are making mistakes that like are Irrelevant for the audience. I can always tell them later. There's no need to Correct them in the moment itself. Like I can even write it down. If I don't want to forget and I have done that with one of with one of the workshops where like I just took a piece of paper and they started writing down. So I didn't interrupt the person who's giving the workshop because in the moment itself, I don't think about it, but afterwards I'm like oh oh, oh The worst the worst offense that I did the last time was where I literally asked like do you want me to answer that question as I said it I would like oh, no that was just the fact that I needed to ask that meant that I shouldn't have. Okay. Do you remember like, what was your first job no secession. I actually do remember the first how many years ago was that sorry. I was 15 years old and yet so I Interesting hypnosis like very long ago, but it was very difficult finding good material and it at the time the local library had practically nothing. So I read what I could and with my sort of girlfriend at the time. I attempted an induction it went pretty terrible but some form of transfer still achieved and it was very interesting in education. So I still got interested in it, but I I sort of got stuck with the lack of material so it took about two three years before there was much more material and stuff online for me to connect with so I didn't really pick it back up until I was 18 and after that it's just been like I'm a very learned eager person. I really enjoy learning new things. So I'm also the kind of person who watches like scientific YouTube channel and Things like that just for fun to learn new things. And so as soon as I got more material about hypnosis, I found out where to find more and then I learned more and then I met more people online who were injured and I met like other certified hypnotist. They were willing to try to help me in to train me and to work with me and that was really fun. Okay, so you never went to like a school or like a education kind of thing know when I started when I started out The only training in the Netherlands and Belgium was not what I wanted to learn because it was specifically for therapy and I purposefully avoided this. There's always like I am not a therapist and I'm not pretending to be a therapist either. I'm very clear on this. I frequently get questions during live streams that I do about like therapy issues and I politely tell the people to find a professional That can help them with this. So no, I don't. I haven't done any like official study for this. Okay. And so if people want to do what you do say, for example, then what should they do? If they also you know, if they don't find a program that suits them or that they want to do but what well so now lead them to good resources well nowadays. It's a lot easier to find good resources. I'm still Looking for some Solutions on some resource problems that with this but the Reddit for hypnosis, so the subreddit for of noses, which would be ready.com slash are slash hypnosis has a lot of material listed there. There's a sticky to the top with book lists and with information and with a like the valuable discussions of other hypnotists, so it's a very very good resource. For I would have to look this one up. There's one other resource, which is really nice. I have all this linked on my site as well. By the way, there's hypnosis and suggestions that org which is a more clinical hypnosis research sites, but it's a very good one. I actually had some email conversations with the owner of the sites because they don't mention recreational. At all and actively avoid mentioning it and I felt that it was like I talked with him about the why of this and I understand it but because recreational hypnosis has grown so much and is now an like a serious application of hypnosis. They will probably look in the coming year reconsider this oppa. Hopefully, can you just clarify for The Listener who does not know how to differentiate between what what falls under recreational hypnosis? US versus everything else or clinical or whatever. So the easy differentiation is that clinical hypnosis is what a psychologist or therapist will do with you it is or like a dentist. I know that Elmen was very fond of dentists. It is the type of hypnosis that a medical professional will do with you which is why it's called clinical hypnosis recreational hypnosis is any hypnosis outside of this so guided meditation is an example of recreational hypnosis and study tapes and things like that as well. Okay, great. Thank you for that. And so does your family know what you're up to? And what do they think of that well to degree? They are aware of My Success because I don't make a secrets of my YouTube channel. And the name that I use online is a name on which I view I've been making like writing and art and stories and music for a very long time over 10 years at least so they are aware of my work. I think that most of them don't look too deeply into it so that they are proud of that. I have achieved so much but they have no particular interests to like dive into the more. Two bits of my work which is completely understandable. It is absolutely it is. Okay. So tell me something that is true on which nobody agrees with you. Maybe something about him else's nobody agrees. I don't know about that nobody but maybe most yeah. So one of the biggest challenges within the hypnosis scene is the definition of hypnosis itself. The definition that I've adopted is generally considered to be okay, but a lot of people feel that it doesn't explain enough and that's because I split the definition of hypnosis between hypnosis and Trends where trans is where the like clinical definition of hypnosis comes more into play and hypnosis is a guided Trends. And the reason why that is important is because trans States happen all the time and with animals with people They're natural mechanism of the minds hypnosis is when we use it on purpose when we're guiding it. And so if regarding it ourselves with meditation or with self hypnosis, it's still hypnosis, and we're putting ourselves in the trends and that definition like it usually generates a lot of discussion, but it is a very convenient this convenient definition for like explaining other things. So during why is that why is it discussion coming up? So the problem is that it doesn't actually Define what transfers or what hypnosis can do and that's because we don't have a clear definition for this. The reason I use it as a definition is because when you're explaining hypnosis to people that the important part for us is the guided Parts, which is what we learn the the inductions and giving suggestions is all the guiding parts. And that's the only part that's relevant for like learning hypnosis because that's what you will be using to learn more about the actual mechanics behind it. You have to look into Trends and like separating them I think is very productive. But a lot of people also don't want to separate them because I like no it conflicts with other definitions. And yeah, like that's the first thing that comes to mind. Okay, so in what's next for you? I have two upcoming International like events one in Wales and one that I can't talk about yet, which I'm sure we will reveal later this year. I have a lot of plans for the sites more than I have time. Probably. I'll be busy until the end of the year at least for my current plans loan. And because I'm a programmer by the time I'm done. I'll have new plans. Oh, actually I'm working on pretty big project. I've been asking my patrons for help with transcribing files because I want to make more of the files available to review without having to listen to Them so in the like it was suggested to me earlier this year and it's something I've been thinking about for a long time, but it's very difficult to do. So. I've been like basically crowdsourcing it's because transcribing 500-something files is not something it's not something I want to do on my own understandable. So a question I came just to just came to my mind is do you hypnotize yourself? And if so when? Yes, and no so not explicitly and I don't give myself suggestions. However, I am a programmer some very familiar with flow States and I'm also Gamers from also familiar Flow State in that sense. And I'm more aware of them. I think than the average person who does this because I'm also familiar with the BOCES. It also means that I can catch myself more easily. If something interrupts me. I've I found this extremely useful at work. Because if I'm interrupting my flow States, I can store it and continue with it later. This is called context switching and it's relatively easy for me. I know a lot of colleagues were context switching can be incredibly interruptive. Can you let us know how to do that? I once for you? Yeah. I don't know if I have a perfect plan for other people as you learn hypnosis and as you learn To experience Trends you learn to be able to recall it. A lot of people use Trends triggers with people who they work with like I will say sleep and snap my fingers and etc. Etc. You can also learn to do this with other states of Mind Sim that are similar to trends like studying or programming or gaming and a lot of people do this unconsciously. So like high-level speed Runners, which is a form of gaming they automatically go into a trance State as soon as they start with speedrun because they've trained themselves to do this, even if they're not fully aware of this now the more aware of this you are the more you can control it. So if you're interrupted with it, if you're aware of how it works then it's easier to go back to it by going back to the same like feeling or the same state. Okay? Okay. Yeah the clearest way I can explain that. SC. Okay, that's fine. So, can you let our audience know where they can find you and what is all on your side what they can do on your side. All right. So on YouTube it is ninja hypnosis this n imja hypnosis and it should be easy to find me there and if it isn't I apparently have been doing something wrong. The website is Hypno dot Ninja.com. And on that you can find interactive scripts which allow you to click through them. So you can do a text hypnosis at your own pace. You can find all the audio files most of which are free a few our patreon supporters. And those are all like clearly labeled and you can find hypnotic visuals which are things you can like do on your phone or your screen that people enjoy for going into Stay start with Spirals and pendulums, but they go into a wildly different directions recently. I even added a hypnotic game, which is a dodging game where you dodging or flights flying through circles, I think but anyway, the idea is that it is a tunnel you fly through and the tunnel users like sort of hypnotic visuals so that the idea of a flows State is achieved by playing the game. I assumed you program that yes. Okay. Yeah, I did all the visuals and all the things the whole site works with technology that I've made because I enjoy doing it. It was it's been like years of work, but it's so much fun to make. Okay. Do you use sounds like binaural beats or any other sounds that you also program ordered or no? So the background music of my files is not binaural and that is because Of binaural beats have a side effect for people who are too aware of them that is unpleasant. So they use resonance to degree and I've made the background music myself, but it's just in a standard so music program, but I don't use any other sounds during the visuals. I allow people to just use whatever they want themselves. Okay, great, and it's actually possible on the site to like selective Visual and then go to an audio file and then like Like what your visual while the audio file is playing? Yeah, we can see that your programmer. Yes. Great. Everything is thought-out and yeah, well thought out everything it looks extremely like clear and clean. It's not the fanciest site in the world, but it's extremely functional. That's what we need. Right? Well, I've done my best to make it user-friendly a lot of programmers do have the problem of making things like do Lots but also be impossible to read any more. I've done my best to avoid it. Well-well see the audience will see if that's right. Okay. So do you have anything else to say that you want to say to the audience to the listeners? Yes, there's one question. You didn't ask which has been asked to me for like why do I mix erotic and non erotic hypnosis on the site? And why do I show it like before someone has to make a choice one of the reasons for this is I Attempt to be sex-positive in the site. So there's no enforcement of you have to do something or you have to see something because it takes one click to take all the erotic content away. But I also wanted to show people that there is more than they might initially think a lot of people have asked me like if I ever would consider making a pop-up when someone enters a side like do you want to see erotic content or not? And I don't think I will incorporate that anytime soon. Because showing that it's just there and it is the most normal thing in the world. I think helps a lot with the acceptance of it. Another thing. Is that while I allow comments on YouTube the site itself besides showing people views of like a file. It doesn't show any like usage of it. It doesn't show comments or feedback or things like that and any feedback given to me through the cytosol anonymous. And I've done this because a lot of people live in countries where sex and BDSM are not accepted and they are seen as like undesirable or unwelcome or even not allowed. So I wanted to make the site purely about the enjoyment of it and not about any social aspect of it. They're still social aspects related to it. Like there's Discord servers and chat rooms, and there's plenty of places where people are into it. Gnosis like converge, but I wanted to cite to be purely about the experiencing of it rather than connecting to new people through it. Okay. So since you mention that I am curious which country do most people come from. Well the English the English countries are definitely the most so US Canada UK and but I have people from all over the world at the last hypnosis Amsterdam meet up. There was a Couple from Singapore who had been listening to my files as well. And they saw that I was like they were in Europe for a holiday and they saw that I was organizing the Meetup they were like, oh, yeah, we're like can we come by? So it was really it's really fun to see interest into my work from like everywhere. That is awesome. Do you like like meeting people who listen to your hypnosis? Oh, yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. I actually meet people relatively frequently even so I've been asked this in the lives as well. People can just ask me like hey, I'm in Amsterdam then and then can we meet up and usually if my schedule allows me because I am atrociously busy at times but I usually say yes, and we just like meet in town and like go walk somewhere a drink somewhere and just have a nice conversation. It varies per person. Some meetups are more naughty than others. But most of them are just social. Okay, great. So, thank you so much. Your time, thank you for answering all the questions and for enlightening us about the scope of hypnosis. And especially your style. It was very interesting to hear. So thank you for everything with pleasure. Love this episode of mind your subconscious subscribe rate and leave a review on whichever platform you listening. It's very much appreciated. Thank you so much. Catch our next episode every Monday.
I don’t know about you, but every IT person I’ve known has a completely different side to them which has nothing to do with IT: fetish hypnosis, photography, music, drawing, etc. Wait – did I write fetish hypnosis? YES, you read that right. But Jenny, didn’t you tell us you use hypnosis to help people find their purpose and go through with it? You may wonder now. Yes, I did tell you that and I do. But other people use hypnosis for other things. And sex is one of them. Orgasms, for example, are very mental. That also means, orgasms have to do a lot with our subconscious, which leaves a lot of room to play for a fetish hypnotist. The python / php / web programmer & hypnotist I’m talking about doesn’t only play with orgasms. He plays with a whole bunch of other stuff when it comes to hypnosis and sex. Among other things, he organizes a fetish hypnosis meetup in Amsterdam. Are you curious now? Then tune into this week’s episode. Here’s what else you’ll learn about: - How you can use hypnosis to spice up your sex life  - Hypnosis and BDSM - The orgasm hypnosis “trick” Nimja once performed at a party - Flow states - Nimja’s very own hypnosis game - What Nimja’s family thinks about what he does  Find Nimja at: https://hypno.nimja.com/ https://www.youtube.com/user/NimjaHypnosis 