Simplify your life. It's actually way easier than you think you see there's so much clutter in our heads most of the time there are all these contradicting idea. So all these different philosophies all these shirts and shouldn'ts all of these expectations that we are carrying from other people from society from what we think we should be and it's really easy to cut through all of it. In fact, most people are so burdened by that. That they end up in something like depression or doing something. They're not really fulfilled by are happy with they pick a partner where they settle instead of actually being in love, but we don't have to experience any of that because like I just said it's really easy. You just have to ask yourself one. Simple question. What do I really want? What do I really want? Let me say that again. What do I really want? And I repeat that after me. And say it with me one time just one time. What do I really want? What is it that you really want? You know, let's take all these opinions all these expectations like steak the shoulds and the students and all of the Judgment out of it. And just ask that because that's when you see the truth. If you really know what you want, then you know what you should do as well. See most people get that confused and that's where all the tension starts develop because I should do that. But I want this and then I'm not happy because there's this big gap in the middle and I have to do this and I'm forced to work a job that I don't like really I want to follow my passion and now I don't understand why I'm so frustrated. Well, of course you are what else would you expect? What else would you be feeling what else would you be experiencing? If you're not pursuing what you want. The only thing to do in your life, the only thing that's ever worthwhile is to go after what you truly want. What's your desire? What is it that you really burn for? Because if you're not pursuing that you're going to be half that you're walking around your zombie you're walking around. You're really on autopilot. There's nothing to engage you. There's nothing. To capture you you're not going to be intense passionate emotional. You're not going to want to give it your all pour it on. You're not gonna want to evolve and grow and expand and become better and improve and then you're sitting there feeling bad that you're not really giving it everything you got. Well, of course not because you're not doing what you really want. Simplify your life by asking that question not what does my family want from me? Not what does my spouse want from me? Not what do my friends want from me? What do I want from? Me? And another question to follow that up with just to make sure you're on the right track is sometimes the answer can be well, I really just want to go gamble away all my money. How could I make myself proud? What would make me proud of myself not make somebody else proud see That's the difference. See we're so caught up in making somebody else proud. I gotta make my my mom proud or my dad proud. I got to make my my kids proud. I got to make you know, everybody around me. I gotta make them proud of me. But what about making yourself? Proud? What do you want from you? What do you see as your own Highest Potential declutter remove all the noise shut your ears put some plugs in there and then grab a pen grab some paper sit down and write a list view thinks what do I really want? What do I really want to? Putting your attention put your attention over there. Not what I should this is tone of should list. You see that? It's not a what you should do. It's what you really want to do. I can't stress this enough. This is one of the major reasons. You wouldn't be happy if not the major reason because you're just floating and then we come to another point right here. This is where you might feel some resistance. Well, maybe you're one of those people who say I don't know what I want. Right and that's just a convenient way to disguise your desires and go with the social Norm or follow the beaten path because you do want something and maybe it's something that is quite ordinary. Or maybe it's something that's not that crazy what you want something. There's something that you want. So don't lie to yourself and please skip this you know, one thing is to dilute other people and try to trick them into thinking that you don't know what you really want. But you know what you really want there's You don't just start with what you like start with what you enjoy start with something that's good in your life start with something that you'd like to have in your life. It doesn't have to be more complicated than that. I'm telling you that before I sat down and really figured out what I wanted. I was miserable. How is overweight? I had social anxiety. intense depression frustration self-pity really self-hate Why sit there and carry all that bad energy why sit there and not be fulfilled when you know this see I didn't know this. I didn't know that had sit down and do this all of a sudden the crack for me because he went so deep down into the darkest pit that I realized. Okay, I I can't live like this anymore. And that's what made me go. Okay, I gotta change something here. I gotta do something different. I gotta figure out what I really want because right now I'm getting none of it and that's why I'm a happy write clearly and for you. If you're not happy if you're not fulfilled if you're not where you want to be right now, ask yourself. What do you really want? What really matters to you?
I share with you how you can simplify your life for the better! S U B S C R I B E : https://www.youtube.com/user/RafaelEliassen?sub_confirmation=1  Coaching with Rafael: https://www.rafaeleliassen.com/coaching  #MakeLifeEasier #SimpleLife #SimplifyYourLife #SimplifyingYourLife #BetterLife #MakingYourLifeEasier #LiveBetter #LiveHappy #LiveFulfilled #LivingBetter #LivingHappier #LivingFulfilled #PersonalDevelopment #SelfImprovement #SelfHelp #Motivation #Motivational #MotivationalSpeech #MotivationalSpeaker  Life Advice: How can I make my life simpler? Stop with all the should's, the expectations. Stop with all the self-help advice. Stop listening to anyone. Let’s stop with all the things you should be doing and declutter for a minute. It’s actually way easier than you think. How? Just ask yourself one simple question, What do I really want? Make a list. Let’s take all the opinions, all the should's, all the judgment out of it. Repeat after me, What do I really want? Not what my family wants from me? Not what do my friends want from me? What do I want from me? The only thing that’s ever worthwhile is to go after what you truly want. If you are not pursuing that you are gonna be half-dead. No self-help advice can help you because you are not doing what you really want. The quickest way to simplify your life is to know what you want. 