I have found a love. Follow me. But did you really hmm? Humans on planet Earth welcome back to the gal English. Oh and this is your host gal. It's February. So it's the month of love, you know, Valentine's is coming up. I personally believe that love should be expressed shared and enjoyed all year long every single minute, but you know, I do believe that it's nice to celebrate it. Like the whole world is celebrating it on the same day in the same month. So I get it and for that I wanted to dedicate this month to love. I don't know if you heard of Jay Shetty, but he is a really wise man who shares his wisdom with the rest of the world on his YouTube channel. And on his website, I'm sure he has a lot of social media platforms, but that's where I watch him on YouTube. Anyway, this guy made a video and he called it how you know when you found the one I found it to be super interesting and I thought it would be suitable for this month of love. And now let's see what Jay has to say about finding the one. number one They all support and mutually respect your dreams. Now, that doesn't mean that they're going to do your dreams for you. It doesn't mean that they're always going to be there cheering you on but it means that they respect your priority about your dreams. They value what you're chasing they believe in it as much as you do and they want to see you get there. They're not trying to hold you back. They're not trying to stop you from getting there. They're not trying to restrict you and trap you in any way. They want to see you grow. Genuinely. Number two, they will really be present with you in the moment. I love being around people who helped me forget to look at the phone. That's the kind of person you want to be with someone who's not distracted by their phone by their messages by their friends by anything else when they're with you there with you if they keep forgetting what you're saying chances are they're not the right. one number three. The person is self-aware and knows their self-worth. They're independent. They're able to grow on their own. They have their own set of friends their own set of values. They have their own set of priorities some of them may match with yours, but some of them may be different but they're their own person. They're not looking. For you to complete them. They're not looking for you to finish them. They're looking for you to enhance them and help them grow their growing with you and they're going to help you grow, too. Number four is the tough one. It's called trust probably one of the hardest rarest thing in the world now. I'm talking about without checking. This one's a tough one because sometimes you find out the hard way and some of us have been there. So my take is that trust should be earned. It's not something that should be given up front, but it's something that is earned. Usually we have this belief that I either trust someone or I don't trust them at all. My idea is that there are actually layers of trust. You have no trust at the bottom, but then there's step one step two step three step four Etc, which lead to unconditional trust. The challenge is we put our expectations when we are with someone that we can unconditionally trust them and actually their trust level is down here that the Gap is exactly how much pain you end up feeling. Remember trust is something that's earned. Don't give it straight away. Let that person through their actions through their thoughts and their words earn your trust. Number five you don't always need someone or something else to keep the chemistry the entertainment and make things fresh when you always feel like you need an external form of thrill or excitement to keep everything special between you two. It's a sign that you may not actually be connecting with each other but connecting with that other thing like with tea. e number 6 you can spend time apart, but you can't wait to be back. So you're comfortable traveling in different parts of the world for work studying in different areas of the world may be in the same country maybe in a different one, but you can't wait to be together and the challenge is that we usually get frustrated when you're apart from someone that you love or I want to be with you start getting frustrated and you take it out on them, which I see weakens the relationship, you know, when you found the one because you realize that you don't let that frustration affect your relationship with them you find other ways of releasing sharing that but you're making sure that you're not ruining your own. Ation ship because of the frustration of not being together in the first place. Number 7 You can disagree. This is the tough one people think that you found the one when you agree on everything when you like the same stuff when everything matches that's not true at all. You can actually disagree with that person. You can have different ideas and you still learn to work together. It's pretty difficult to find. Anyone in the world who agrees with you on absolutely everything so they expect to find the one who has that. That's pretty unlikely. Number 8 you don't have to like each other's friends. I think there's so much pressure to be liked by the other person's friends for them to like your friends for your friends to like them chances are that you're putting in way too many tick boxes. They're going to be quite difficult to manage. Now if your friends think that they're totally crazy or they think your friends are crazy. Definitely take a look. That but the truth is that it's important that you guys get along even if they're friends with a whole different circle of people and your friends with a whole different circle of people that doesn't mean that you can't be great together. Number nine you can be your real self. Not your LinkedIn profile, not your Facebook profile, not your Instagram profile. Not your Twitter profile. You can let go of all of those identities and just be yourself. Number 10 you argue not to get one up on each other not to beat the other person not to defeat the other person. But so that you can come to a healthy conclusion together. It's more of a discussion rather than an argument or a debate because it's not about who's right, but it's about making sure that you come to the right conclusion together. Don't forget you have a list of vocabulary words and their definitions in the description box below. So read them. And for now, let's listen to the correct pronunciation of some of these words. Probably probably definitely definitely tongues. Knowingly, no Wing Lee unknowingly on no Wing Lee no doubt. 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I hope you enjoyed today's episode Love is in the air and I wish you all a long life filled with happiness. Joy inner peace mutual respect and genuine love till next time.
❤The one: A special or compatible person الشخص المميز أو الملائم ❤Probably:  very likely محتمل ❤Not to forget:  Not to mention/Oh and another important thing من الجدير بالذكر أن ❤Definitely: For sure قطعا/بالتأكيد ❤Tons: A lot كثيرا ❤Knowingly: in a way that shows you know about something بدراية ❤unknowingly: in a way that shows you do not know about something بعدم دراية ❤No doubt: used to show the speaker's strong belief that something is true بلا شك ❤Massive: Very big كبير ❤Impact: A strong effect تأثير ❤Looks like: To appear in a similar way يبدو ❤Release: to make available to the public يعرض ❤Vegan: A person who does not eat or use animal products نباتي ❤Cuddle: Hold close in one's arms to show love يعانق لإظهار المحبة ❤Beard: A growth of hair on the chin and lower cheeks of a man's face لحية ❤Stroke: to move one's hand with gentle pressure over,usually repeatedly يمسّد شيئًا، يمرّر يده على شيء ❤Pretty weird: Somewhat strange على نحو غريب ❤Expose to: Introduce someone to (a subject or area of knowledge) يعرّف شخصًا على شيء ❤Consume: to use up (a resource)يستهلك ❤Imprint: A lasting effect أثر طويل الأمد ❤Dress:  To put on one’s clothes يُلبس ❤Form: to create يُشَكِّل ❤Scene: a part of a play, series or film مشهد ❤Suave:(especially of a man) charming, confident, and elegant رجل مهذّب جذّاب أنيق ❤Gangster: is a criminal who is a member of a gang عضو في عصابة ❤Mentor:  Advise or train (someone, especially a younger person) يوجّه، يرشد، يعلّم، ينصح شخص في الأغلب أصغر سنا ❤Seat: A sitting place مقعد ❤Lean over: to bend over ينحني/يميل ❤Mutually: in a shared manner بصورة متبادلة ❤Cheer on: When you you shout loudly in order to encourage them يشجع /يهتف ❤Value: To see something or someone as important يُقَدِّر ❤Chase: To follow quickly in order to catch يلاحق ❤Believe in: to be sure that something is effective and right يؤمن بشيء، يؤيّد ❤Get there: to achieve/ to succeed أن تحقق المراد ❤Tryna : trying to  تحاول ❤Restrict : to put a limit on/ to keep under control (with rules, laws) يحدّ، يقيّد ❤Trap: To stop someone from escaping or getting free يَحْبِس ❤Genuinely: In a truthful way بصدق، بأمانة ❤Present: Existing or happening now حاضر ❤Chances are: Most likely  على الأرجح ❤Self-aware: Aware of oneself, including one's traits, feelings, and behaviors واعٍ ذاتيًا، مُدرك ذاتيًا ❤Self-worth: Self-respect (to know your worth) احترام الذات/أن تعرف قيمة ذاتك ❤Independent: Free from outside control مستقل ❤on their own: alone بمفردهم ❤a set of: a number of (things) that belong together as a group مجموعة ❤enhance: to increase, or further improve the quality يحسّن/يكبّر ❤tough: difficult صعب ❤trust: a strong belief in the honesty, goodness and reliability الثقة ❤Rare: It doesn’t happen a lot ❤Unusually good نادر ❤My take: My understanding of its meaning فهمي ❤Have been there: Have experienced that/ Have gone through that يمر بشيء ❤Earn: to gain deservedly in return for one's behavior or achievements  يحصل على شيء بجدارة❤Upfront: in advance مقدّمًا، سلفًا ❤Layers: depth, levels طبقات❤Lead to: result in يؤدي إلى ❤Unconditional: Not having any conditions غير مشروط ❤Expectations: A strong belief that something will happen توقُّع ❤Down here: Low منخفض ❤Gap: A space فجوة ❤End up: to finally be in a particular place or situation ينتهي به ❤straight away: immediately فورا ❤to keep the chemistry: to keep the mutual feelings/connection between two people أن يحافظ على الإنسجام ❤external: The outer part خارجي ❤apart: away from each other بعيدًا عن بعض ❤frustrated: That negative feeling you get when you can’t change or achieve something محبط لعدم التمكن من تغيير أو الحصول على شئ ❤Take it out on somebody: to treat someone badly because you are upset or angry, even if they have done nothing wrong معاملة شخص بشكل سيئ لأنك تشعر بالغضب ❤Weaken : to make weaker in power أن يُضعِف من القوة ❤Affect: to have an effectأن يؤثر ❤Ruin: to cause damage or harm يدمر، يخرب ❤Expect: To believe that something will happen يتوقّع discussion-debate 