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We're going to be talking about how to get someone to fall madly in love with you and why it's not nearly as hard as you've probably been making it out to be but first you subscribe to this channel, if you haven't already hit the Bell icon, if you'd like to be notified of when new videos are released also I am available for one-on-one coaching. If you'd like to do a session with me Veronica Isles.com. Okay so back. Back to the video having someone fall madly in love with you. Maybe this is an ex that you're trying to track it back. Maybe this is a specific person across you've never been in a relationship with maybe it's someone who you've just gone out on one date with all of these scenarios will work could be friends with benefits long-distance relationship any of these situations work your energy is super powerful and the feelings and the thoughts that you are giving out. Are you going to place the foundation of exactly how this? Sin is going to respond to you react to you and whether or not they're going to want to be with you. So if you want this person to be madly in love with you not just in love with you but madly in love with you. Then you absolutely can have it you can attract it doesn't have to take a year doesn't have to take two years. It could take 20 minutes. It could take no time at all to start getting into this feeling of deserving love and being able to receive it. So one of the first things you're going to want. Want to do is get out of this desperate energy that you're probably currently in ever. We noticed an area of lack. We tend to fixate on it and thus create more lack you're trying to create abundance in this situation. You want this person to add or you become obsessed with you want to know what you're up to be with you and you can have that but it's stepping out of this energy of lack and creating a sense of abundance. So, how do we do that? Well number one we stop So hard, you don't want to create a frenzied or anxious energy. If you keep trying trying trying the what you're saying is I don't have what I'm seeking. It's constantly remaining out of my reach. I'm trying to grab it. I'm trying to grab it and I just can't get it instead. You wanted to freely come to you sort of like a be going to Honey or a magnet just attracting to the other one. This person cannot be attracted to you in that way. What you really need to do is start becoming mindful of what you're thinking what you're feeling and what you're focusing on when you imagine this person. So I want you to take a few moments right now to really honestly ask yourself when this person comes to mind. What is the very first thing that I think of I'm going to give you a few examples when you think of them the very first thing you may think of after imagining them is why haven't they caught? Why don't they want to be with me? I bet they're off with some other girl doing this amazing thing and she's so much better looking than I am. Now these are all really negative statements. Now whenever we think of someone we usually have a go-to first statement that we think of usually it's lack especially if we're trying to attract something. So what you're going to want to do is change your reflex statement. That is the statement that you immediately think of when you think of this person and you're going to want to change it. Let me give you some more empowering and better examples. So when this person comes to mind You're going to reframe that and you're going to say maybe they're thinking of me right now. The reason why I framed it as a maybe it's because if you say they're thinking about me right now, then I feel like a lie, especially if your go-to statement has been they're ignoring me they don't care. So if you suddenly change it to a bold statement like suddenly that they do care from they don't care. It's going to feel like a lie. You don't want to have a statement that feels like a lie. You want to have a statement? Isn't that feels approachable that feels possible? So I'm a real big fan of the maybe or the what if or wouldn't it be lovely or possibly your just something that piques your interest something that gets you out of that usual go-to statement that you've been existing in you might have been existing in this go to statement for a really long time. Sometimes even years if you've been trying at this for a long time you want to break this trend you want to They go to a go-to statement. That's much more empowering much more in line with what you want to receive because your tomorrows are going to be based on whatever the foundation is that you're giving out right now. You give out energy by thinking thoughts that making judgments by making statements on life and what you think is possible. What you think is possible for them to do what you think is possible in your own life. So, of course this person is going to come to mind. I don't suggest to try to forget about this person because that's kind of going to create resistance and going to create anxiety because you're going to all the time be trying to forget them and that doesn't work you're gonna think of them because they're important to you. But when you think of them first statement the first idea the first imagining after that has to be something empowered. It has to be something strong. It has at least suggest the possibility at something strong. So even if we Just kind of ditched the usual go-to statement that you've been having and like I said, usually when people are struggling to attract a specific person to be in love with them. They usually thinking- go-to statements. Like why haven't they called I bet they're off doing something amazing and I'm not there or this idea of if they're happy right now. They don't need me. So we're going to try to change those statements. So what I want you to do is I want you to start being aware of your thoughts. I'm not asking you to control your thoughts and that asking you to micromanage of thoughts. I'm asking you to just create simple awareness simple mindfulness. Once you become mindful of then you can better reshape your feelings and your thoughts and your energy to support more of what you want. So your reflex statements, for example, maybe you send them a text message and they don't respond. You don't want the first thing to come to mind to be a well. They don't care. They're ignoring me there with this other person. They're off doing something wonderful and they're excluding me instead try to change it to something like well, maybe they just haven't seen the message yet. And when they do they're gonna respond right away. Or maybe they are pausing for a moment to say just the right thing to me. Maybe they're constructing their response. Something that's just a little bit more empowering and like I said, you don't have to reach to these bold huge statements instead reach to something. That's just a little bit more accessible towards the goal that you really want because you want this person to be in love with you you want this person to be addicted to you obsessed with you. If you their heart everything you can absolutely have that remember the energy that you are giving out is what is going to shape your tomorrows. So you're going to want to try to choose carefully try to choose. Why is Lee tried to choose bravely? And it's definitely going to pay off for you this works. Now. I hope that this technique could help. I am Veronica. Feel free to email me at Veronica aisles at gmail.com my website where you can get one on one coaching is Veronica Isles.com. 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