Do you know what the biggest reason is that people don't do what they really really want to do. It's because of some other person other people other people judging us other people telling us what's right and wrong and that are people criticizing us for doing what we want to do. But here's the thing if for a moment you could drop the opinion of other people if you could just focus on what you really really want to do what really matters to you what lights you up chances are you won't really care much about what they say. Cuz here's the magic of doing what you love and doing what your heart is calling you to do. You actually just become so consumed and in love, you know, with the process that everything else almost becomes irrelevant criticism judgment the feedback of other people almost kind of Fades out over time when I started my channel when I started talking about self-improvement for that was about 19 years old everybody criticizes. Everybody said who are you to speak and you shouldn't say this, but you shouldn't do that and you don't have the authority and you should go to school and get educated myself educated. You know, I got great coaching from powerful people the top in the industry. I made my channel. I worked on myself. I built my character my speaking ability and in the beginning I was heavily impacted by what people were saying, but over time as I got deeper and deeper into my zone as I got more and more focused all that faded out all of a sudden. It was just me and my passion and all the people that supported it because when you're really really pursuing your dream when you commit to it a hundred percent, you just sort of have to let go of all the baggage and that might sound bad and maybe that someone that you care about but it doesn't mean you have to get rid of them completely. Maybe just a little less time with judgmental uncle and a little more time with supportive friends or someone else in the industry that's ahead of you that you are learning from a mentor. Coach when you make these little choices they add up when you lean into your passion it pays off but it takes time and initially it's uncomfortable and that's why people get trapped. That's why they get stuck. So here's my number one piece of advice for you. Be comfortable being uncomfortable be comfortable being vulnerable be comfortable sharing and people criticizing that be comfortable going for what you want and failing a few times and really when you're failing you're just learning you're growing you're improving let that happen give time give space to the process. Stop trying to get it all at once. Stop trying to prove everyone wrong because that's the reason you're not fully successful or getting You want your still with that little chip on your shoulder, you know trying to show everybody that they were wrong the moment. I drop that my business exploded my career took off all of a sudden 30 million people were listening to my motivational speeches and I had clients more than I could ever handle. I want you to have success, but that will only happen when you let go of everything that doesn't serve you that will only really happen when you're pursuing what you want out of inspiration rather than this. Desperation see before I was trying to show everyone but then when I switched to doing this because this is what I love and I let go of all that in fact, I welcome it. The became easy became effortless wasn't a strain anymore. It wasn't me. Like come on go to make this video gotta push myself today. It was more like it. Yeah, let's hit record. And let's go. Yeah, let's go down to the beach. Let's shoot a little bit. Let's have some fun not come on. Let's go. You gotta do it drop that. That's what's draining you that's what's making it so difficult reason you don't succeed the reason you can't Really have what you want is because you keep listening and worrying and interpreting and trying to think about what other people are thinking about you micromanaging Impressions is the number one way to kill an entrepreneur some of that aspires to a great dream. So let that go no matter what your dream is focus on that focus on the thing that really brings you joy and passion in your heart. If you don't know what that is make a list of things that make you happy and rate them from 1 to 10 and pick the one that's the highest rating or the to that our highest-rated simple life is simple success is simple not easy but simple so keep it simple don't overcomplicate it. It's not all these crazy steps that you have to take. It's always always simple. I know for me. I have a few steps that I take and make content. I build a brand. I grow my audience. I work with clients, you know, I collaborate with other influencers. Are you go simple that grows and grows and grows figure out. What are the five steps for you and stop listening to all the negativity Uncle Jimmy? That's so critical of you. Right Let It Go focus on you focus on what you love focus on your passion. Let it really take over. Let it really become what you obsess about what you think about all the time. The only thing you really focus on everything else is a bonus have a nice life. Take care of yourself. But give this a real shot give your passions a chance because it's so easy to quit before you even really got started.
How can you follow your passion? STOP thinking logically and start putting into action the life that you truly want to live. Should you follow your passions to wherever they may take you? Should you live a life only of what you love...or learn to love what you do? How can you identify which path to you need to take? How about which paths to avoid when going after your passion? S U B S C R I B E : https://www.youtube.com/user/RafaelEliassen?sub_confirmation=1  Coaching with Rafael: https://www.rafaeleliassen.com/coaching   #MotivationalSpeech #MotivationalSpeaker #Motivational #InspiringSpeech #InspiringSpeaker #Inspiring #InspirationalSpeech #InspirationalSpeaker #Inspirational #Passion #Passionate #PassionProject #FollowPassion #FollowYourPassion #FollowingYourPassion #Dreams #FollowDreams #FollowYourDreams #FollowingYourDreams #DreamBig #SelfImprovement #PersonalDevelopment #Motivation #SelfHelp  #Happy #LiveHappy #Joyful #JoyfulLife #LiveJoyful #Motivational #MotivationalSpeaker #MotivationalSpeech  Stop with logical thinking. For a second, stop with all the what’s supposed to make you happy. Feeling lost is a “feeling” and we should try to solve it that way. Logic won’t help you because; people who logically have everything right in their life, feel lost too. I want you to observe whatever comes up, as you read along. There is one way to get out of this emotional abyss. Move closer to the things you enjoy. Not what’s logically right. Not a college, a job, or even friends. The things you low-key want to try but are scared they won’t make you happy and you will be sad. That’s what you are afraid of, right? Trying something and the sadness that will come if it didn’t work. You are sad anyway. You might as well try it and take a leap of faith. It could be trying out a new sport or traveling or starting to write, starting a side business, asking someone out, cutting off toxic friends. Whatever you feel like doing, make a list. Do the least scary one first. You will feel a little bit lighter and alive, you will automatically want to try the next one. It’s going to be scary. You will have thoughts ( logic), stopping you from doing this. But stick through. Because you owe that to yourself. Your life will only get better if you take some different action. No amount of thinking will save you. Different action towards your feeble yet authentic desires. 