Do you know where is it setting? Hello. Hey, okay. Okay. It's been crazy shit right here. wait Yeah, Cody a all right. What how do you cut it the cardioid? No, yeah should be good. Alright, alright, so right let's get looking starting. Oh, yeah, so we're welcome to welcome to life to the show. Thanks for having me man. Yeah. Yeah you're in my room. Thanks. Thanks for taking the time to come to your room. Definitely man. Anytime you anytime you need me in my room. I'll be here sweet. Three always dreamed about this. Well, how do we start man? That's a good question. Yeah. There's many good questions out there. Yeah. What is life another what when should I do it the Rideau and quite sure to do some local cops. Next very true. Yeah. Okay. Well that is always awkward to start a podcast right now. Yeah, you should talk about your start with a joke with the joke. Yeah, you know one hmm. No, I was hoping you had an amazing you okay the old we are. Ready? Fuck you also, but also start fucking over. Okay, let's fuck. Why are we here? Like not not not generally suppose like why are we both here? What are we doing? So we are two strangers that you know each other over the internet, right? Yes grinder specific right grinder, not over Kanye. And anyways, you know, you have these sweet little nipple things right on. Yeah, it's crosses and I was like, yeah, that's tap. That know. How did we meet you? Each Other Well, I signed up for this jump cut thing like two or three two and a half years ago and I was put in a in a book I decided to do with this boot camp that they were testing out. I think it was the first time they ever did that they don't even know what jump cut is Jump because basically a oh a company that teaches you how to create viral content for yeah, for example, yeah exactly. It's made by these Simple Pickup guys who I'm like a huge fan of because they make all these Street interviews that are kind of probably want to do eventually. So yeah, they have like a boot camp, which is like every week there was a challenge to make YouTube videos and I'm was really instill I'm really into making YouTube videos and so are you because that we met there we were put in the same group along with like 10 other random people. Yeah, one of which now is like 600 K. So that is so insane. That is so insane. Yeah. He made it we fucking mayor made it. Yeah, fuck that guy right there not know so bro. We love you. We love you if you're listening over. How should I still have my cell phone on that is very unprofessional. What's his name again? Lingua liquidizer link Eliezer. Yep, check them out on YouTube and give him give him a like following, you know to tell them that you came from. Yes. Definitely. Yeah, no nice, but that is fucking prove that this shit works that there's a there's a concept for virality and this guy got it and Yeah, it's really like not to talk as content down but it's really like nothing too crazy know like what he does is essentially like, you know, you'd taken a cent one sentence and translating that into different languages using Google translator. Yeah, that's not going that is not the wildest thing. You know this that is something that everybody does on a regular basis, but he got to use the right context to make it viral. What do you think made the whole thing viral man? This that guy yeah, that's a good question because I know that he I've seen this guy since he has six subscribers. Like I saw him to create his channel and then he was he had like 10 subscribers. Yeah, and I was like subscriber number 11. Yeah, and I was seeing his videos and he was making like playlist videos and I was like, this guy's not gonna fucking like what is this? What the hell who watches this and you know little did I know two months later. He had like two point two million views and world, but I think what He was smart about it because he was just testing out stuff and he figured out that you know some stuff hits. He he had a he made a video called polyglot says I hate you in 10 different languages or something like that or Hi, how are you know, and the people were like, don't call it polyglot because people don't know what the heck that means call it how to say this in 10 different languages and the second he'd changed that title. Yeah. Yeah, he went from like to pay views to like 200k. Yeah, that is so insane. That is so insane. And also I feel like a lot of people have this perfectionism bottle and they're like, okay. No, I want to have make sophisticated content. This is why I am going to put polyglot off in my description right my title but you know having I think having no ego attached to that and not trying to make something super fancy, but just making something that works and doubling down on the things that works the work. I think that might be the recipe. Right. Yeah. Yeah exactly you figure out something something you're posting a bunch of content something suddenly gets like more views. It's something that means something if there's just certain things that hit better than other things. Yeah, and you just got to be scientific about that like a slap in the face. Yeah. Yes. Exactly. Nice. You wanna fucking kill. It's a slap in the face. I can let's just look at the damn bro. Ouch. Fuck out that her. Let me amend that ring. So we decided to meet each other because we really really enjoyed that like you were super funny guy. Oh, they were super funny guy. Really when I when I watch your Instagram stories. I'm I'm you know, I'm loving my fucking ass off and you have like a very intelligent kind of humor humor and yeah definitely like this. So, I love to see you, you know succeed. Just recently. You went viral? Yeah with how many how many views it has like 820 Kano 820,000 views on Tick-Tock. Yeah, that is that is insane. And that's not the first video that that you went viral with right? I mean you already had a decent amount of you know projects where you get, you know over 101 over 200 even 500,000 views on. Yeah, and you Did this over the past few years like consistently, right? Not not that like every video hits but you you were able to hit the spot hit the spot, but you were able to do that consistently consistent basis. And so I think you definitely onto something there and you I think you're on your way to cracking that, you know to cracking that code. Yes, you did it with different like many different things. Yeah, so I'm really really interested in how that turns out. Yeah, I definitely don't have like anything like I don't have most of my stuff figured out. I'm still like in the testing phase of most of anything that I'm doing right now, but I feel like in the past like since February or March of this year April around that time. I've been like kind of getting more into the zone and like I understand a little bit more of what is funny and and I can fill my video and be like, that's probably not going to be good and then like re it re-film it. It and I have more of a feeling now. Yeah, I don't feel like I'm absolutely lost. Okay. So for a lot of people that is really hard to understand because it like one beginner thing one beginner mistake for Content creators, especially when they when they create a video they have long as videos every YouTuber starts with, you know, at least 10 minutes a video where this video could have been like two or one middle or even even shorter than that people have such a sort of short attention span and Like that is really key to making good content. And so what did you figure out our how did you figure it out yourself? How did you did you you know get the taste for what is funny and what is not? Mmm, well I've been doing this Snapchat for like three years and more for years and I get I receive feedback from from everyone like it started with my friends. I made Snapchats just for my own. My contact is glitching out right now just for my friends and they were like damn this is fun. Sometimes they were like damn this is funny keep on doing what you're doing and sometimes I would get like no response. Yeah. So off of that I would kind of like A/B test and I'd be like, okay they said this Funny maybe this is funny plus this and then and then I would see what I want my feedback was and now I don't even care about the feedback. I just see it and if I find it funny, I'm know that it like people find it funny and a lot of people actually are just not even replying they just watch it and then suddenly like in three months I get a long-ass message. Like, hey, man, I've been watching you for the past six months and you're like the most amazing person that I've ever seen in my entire lifetime and I hold it like this. Super humbling, but also like I understand more now. So yeah, I test a lot. I think the answer is just test. Yeah. Yeah, I just yeah, I was hoping for you just giving one sentence answer but oh shit. I'm just kidding now. I mean that is okay then absolutely makes sense. But I think and that is just something crucial there. You took some advice and some feedback that people gave you and you're like, okay, let's double down on that lets, you know do more of this. Yeah, right and a lot of people they don't do that because They want to experiment which is also great. But then you also said okay now you don't even get feedback anymore in like after a few months people are going to be like hey, I love your content. I love what you do here. Most amazing person I've ever seen blah blah and so it's really hard to distinguish. I feel like when you doing something right and something wrong because some sometimes you doing everything wrong and you don't get rich you don't get a response. Yeah, it's true. And even if you ask people for their opinion on something sometimes their opinion sucks. Yeah, right and they have really nice people are wrong. Yeah. Yeah, and that as well as well, sometimes people are like hey, this is amazing and this is not but you like okay, I'm watching this and I'm re watching this and I definitely I love this right now. I feel this and how do you go over this because to you if you find something particularly funny? Yeah, and even when you didn't, you know acquire the taste good things to do that you have now or that intuition. Did you did you say, you know, what fuck this I enjoy that so I'm still going to That missing something that you carried on to your to your content creation right now up until if yeah, I feel like yeah, I do a lot a lot recently because right now I gained a little more experience and I know that if I want to be myself and people like it when you're yourself, so I've decided to just like if I find a funny and I find something like hilarious. People are just gonna like the fact that I'm being myself. So just like don't just care about like whether it will hit or not or something like that. Just like if it's really truly hilarious to you. Sometimes I would just like record a random snap and I'm literally sitting there laughing at the snap that I just recorded for like five minutes. Yeah. Yeah. It's like a five-second snap and I'm just like sitting there laughing that is so funny. That is so fun. I get you something that is yeah dude, like Instagram stories and you know, That tries to do this daily now just because I want to get too into the routine of creating content regularly on a daily basis and it's super easy tool to do that in writing, you know, Snap Snap Chat. I haven't used that one. But you know making stories is really easy to because the various hello, you don't have to do a lot of editing you just you know, it's just amazing for a lot of creators to get something out there before without having to sit hours and hours and and in front of a laptop and a boring that wound. It's Gary Vee. Nope. Oh no. No. No, I but you know his yeah and Order definitely. Yeah, you should watch them. Yeah, I don't know man. He's too much like this. This wannabe gangster type of guy. He's like over-the-top like he's not I can feel him sometimes right but it's he's not he's not like my type of concrete. I can he's hyping people up a lot of yeah, it's a lot of motivational stuff. Your motivation is very is very dicey because you can I mean everyone that's why it's Popular because everyone likes to be motivated for those three hours and then you lose it after but sometimes he says some really fundamental truth that just like are really true. Yeah, and that's why I follow him. Do you do you know what I don't follow him this much. I mean sometimes as you continue like yeah, okay. He does the content is great. You know speech is great as the engagement, you know, everything clicks and is nice but since he does so many videos like this. Hmm. You can fall into the Trap of you know, I wanna yeah, I'm gonna watch this video today and one more video. Yeah. Yes so much content that you you want to watch the whole. Oh, yeah, you're not going to do anything. You cannot go to do jack shit. Just sitting on your couch watching a bunch of motivational stuff and jacking off to the idea of you yourself being, you know, yeah, you know, whatever forward in life. I don't understand that. Yeah, but I mean, yeah, he's he's probably a great guy and you know, it's very successful in what he does. So yeah, business-wise and suffered he's Surrounds himself with Like Rappers and you know, I saw this really with the game and yeah, so yeah, I don't know not my cup of tea or going on right now. But yeah, definitely give her a great guy. People that I follow I don't know if we should get into that but I mean you also follow Tim Ferriss, right? Yeah and what I like about this guy is he's very straight to the points. He has very condensed information. That's what I love, you know, he's very structured and if you listen to a podcast or if you consume information about the various, he doesn't have a lot of fluff in it. Hmm and he goes, yeah exactly. It's not about the motivation at all, right? He's not you know, but information, yeah, he's definitely want information and I In time I learned how to Value information over motivation definitely definitely because I want to learn I don't want to be motivated, you know, sometimes yes, you need that motivation cushions. Yeah, but yeah info is just yeah info is King but but dude Tim first has so much information. It's like sometimes it's overwhelming for me because I bought his book tools of Titans. Yeah, and there's like all these things and it's like, how do I keep? How do how does he live because he has He's done everything he has like all these like stretches and this is like this morning routine and then there's other morning routine and then there's this and I'm like overwhelmed like I don't know what to do in the morning everyone. Yeah, dude that thing. Okay. Let me tell you about about the to our morning routine before God. I swear to God I love I love to try out different kind of hex, you know, I love to improve my routine and something like that. So and I do consume Tim Ferriss content. And one thing about this guy, I mean, yeah, he is able to do a/b testing and he says, you know one week I'm going to do this when we can go to that and blah etc. Etc. And he he writes down all this information and he has it saved but I don't have the fucking time to go through all of this. You know, I don't have some time to you know, say oh that's drink a cup of milk or glass of milk in the morning and then do that for two or three weeks and then see if there was any results in weight gain, whatever, you know, I don't have time for that. That's why I People taking the time and in first does this on a consistent level but the two key to our morning routine? Oh my God. So do you do that? I you have done it. I have done it. Ok, I have done I have done. Okay. So what I tried I experiment with with meditation, so I woke up in the morning. This is my routine. Right? So I woke up in the morning. First thing. I did was motivate only like 15 minutes of meditation and After that, I went straight into writing down my dreams. Okay, it's like a troll yo, right so and sometimes you know the streams these dreams are so confused that you like. Okay. I have to you know, sometimes it takes you 30 minutes or even 45 minutes. Sometimes it's the green just really strange, you know, and you want to write down beautifully, you know, it takes its time. So it's like one hour ready for you know meditation and then writing down that yeah, then next up would be you know. Journaling, what do I want to do for you know this day, okay writing down your to-do list and that kind of that kind of stuff. Then you want to have you know, you're moaning shaky great breakfast and you've got to go shower with and you're gonna do this. I've also our uncle Chavo definitely. Yeah, like for a couple of seconds, you know always called her. Yes. Yes, I do that the right now I it's a different routine. I try to use the Wim Hof method or a couple It's sort of like yeah. Yeah. Yeah, but this this takes me way too long. When I do the breathing exercise. Yes. It takes me fucking 20 min half an hour. Yeah or this is either 30 breathe. Yeah 30 and then you hold you hold your breath with exhale exactly. So yeah, the the Wim Hof method is basically this is the guy that he Iceman. Yeah Iseman. He climbed he climbed the Mount Everest in his short shorts. That's insane and he's able to to manipulate his What his his body temperature and a lot of other things by controlling his breathing so oxygen is essential part of this whole thing and like his exercise is because he says it makes your body all calloc and or alkaline and yes also gives you gives you various health benefits and stuff like that. So you do 30 brep you've breathe in like really deep breaths and then if they're half out exhale half and do this like 30 times, then you exhale completely hold. Don't hold your breath. For as long as you can what was how many how many seconds or how many minutes can you brought? I love that exercise. Yeah, like I love the breathing. I don't know. Why in the cold showers. Yeah. Oh my God. The problem is like I haven't done it for like two weeks because I've been trying to focus that energy of habit into some other habits that I want to train. Yeah, but when I do it I could it depends because I grow like I started off at 2 minutes or one and a half minutes. If you're talking about how much I could hold exhale. Yeah the third time. Because it's always best at certain time. Right? Sometimes I do the fourth time and then I could get to 4 minutes 4 minutes while this is insane, but that's if I do it the fourth time and then like I don't go like full axilla. Yeah, but I go like flick self and like not on to my lungs are absolutely then. Okay, then I could go four minutes that is that is so insane with an exercise. So, you know, it doesn't take a lot of practice for me the first time when I tried this was also like to Minute or two and a half years, which is already good. It's insane that is insane two and a half minutes without air. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah, then I'll be raising. Yeah, so yeah, but to not get too much into that. That is he crazy. There's a crazy thing. I neglected that because it takes too much time and I have other morning routines that this interferes with so what I do now is fuck what I do. Now. Let's talk about this morning routine that I that I did back in the day. So what happened what happened up happening. I was like two hours at least into the day. Day before I start could actually to actually gets to shit and get things. Oh, yeah, exactly. So you wake up and you already like stressed the holy shit I have to do do have all man this routine and takes me fucking hours and and you're already stressed exactly. Right and while meditating you already thinking about okay, but I have to the stranger on this so you I think you have to take things easy and simple and not overwhelm yourself with things because if the routines of Help you and if you overdo that it really yeah, it's it's that's not the point. Yeah, then you end up just stressing yourself. You haven't even started the day and you're already thinking my God. Okay, it's meditation right after that. I have the this and I have that and yeah, I know exactly that cause I also I really like morning routines and my morning routine used to be wake up breathing exercise because I used to follow. I don't know if you know Jim quick know this guy's all about the brain so it's like And wake up breathing exercise light exercise like actual physical exercise cold shower Shake, then we're also meditation bro. I used to do I used to do like literally like I would wake up and I did like one hour straight of meditation, which I really like I've done this for one week. Yeah total. Yeah, but because my brain goes out 1,000 miles per second. Yeah, but my then it's like 1 p.m. And I lost my whole morning because I'm doing all these routines. Yeah, so I would have to wake up at like 6:00 to be able to be done at eight nine. So yeah, it gets it gets complex man. You know what I can do, you know what I mean? Yeah. No, definitely definitely I can I can I feel you there. I'm either and I think you should definitely cut down like if your routine takes you two hours in the morning if you cool that. All right, but if you're not cool that maybe try to cut it down. Yeah, like I take my I take my time in the morning. So what I'm doing right now is I start with high intensity interval training or using an app called the NX Cruz area. He's like awesome calisthenics dude, and the app is free. And it really really this changed a lot for me. So what I do is to not get too much into the details, but like 20 to 21 minutes to 22 minutes, whatever. Of exercise. Yeah, right after getting out of that comes the annex then I drink as much as I can like watering. Yeah. What? Yeah, what if she won't know just getting wolf? No. No, that would be maybe a little bit too early morning. But and if it was something you whiskey or tequila, okay, not vodka killer no nothing, but no don't like what's go. What go. What go what go maybe in Bloody Mary? I would like to try and that Bloody Marys. Yeah. Like little bit Yeah. So after this, you know waking up training drinking. Yes and then having my first smoothie a green smoothie and then breakfast showering and that's basically it and that really, you know, that that green smoothie getting the vitamins in and getting you know exercise in the morning that really changed the game for me a long-- my energy levels are not I can't even compare them to when it didn't do this. Yeah, exactly. I did it all because of the energy also because my I need more like I'm a I could go continue to sleep until I 1 p.m. Even if I want to sleep at 11:00 the night before so that's why I forced myself to go to sleep early wake-up call this exercise to get the energy I want I will go running like 7K every morning. I'd like insane times. Yeah still yeah. Well, I stopped. I stopped the past two weeks cause now I go to the gym instead because I'm a thin stick what I wake up at like 6:00 and go for like i7k run. Wow. Yeah, and I would love doing it in the cold for some reason because I read this book called can't hurt me by David Gardens. Yeah, and he's like Iran in Seal training with broken legs, and he literally had like like microfractures in his legs and he taped his legs and just ran and so I read that book and I was like, holy crap why I am. Like I gotta do more so I would and I was already running back then but then I was I started running faster and more I would do four laps around the block which is like 6K and then suddenly I started doing like 10 and I do like ten laps around the block and like winter with likes know what I'm like nothing can stop me then they would go against can run with broken legs and I'm here like in my room or being comfortable. So yeah, I would do that. But now I realize that I'm like Thin as a little stick so I want I want to gain more mass. So I'm getting more when I get that muscle. You know, I get that muscle interesting interesting. Oh, yeah. Good luck with that man. Thanks man. Ouch. No nothing is nothing is whatever whatever goals. You said yourself. Yeah, definitely. Yeah go for it. Maybe don't run like a fucking Maniac because that yeah, that doesn't help but to be honest I oh yeah also, So try to to gain some muscle like a lot of times during my you doing man small little fear of life. Okay, so sometimes it works sometimes it didn't but right now my focus is really not on, you know gaining muscle at all. It's really I really want to get into the best shape of my life. Okay yet and I do this by by this having this morning routine, right? Yeah. This helps me a lot and this has given me the best results so far, and I'm really not To I want to get fits. You know, when I want to have my I want to help my brain. Mainly there's this is that is that is my first and foremost goal to help my brain help my buddy. Help my help. You know, I have these energy levels right to do the things that are really what I want to do in love which I think might bring us to the next topic which is the things that we love to do. Yes. Yes. Yes, so exciting. So your comedian. Yeah, right. I'm the funny one. Yeah, you create a video. Yes. I make the little one the little bit deal they include a and we talked about this today then okay so far there's some people having a fun time open the back shut the fuck up. Yes. Oh, yes. Oh we talked about this already that we have millions and trillions of things up in our heads. Yeah, and we want to they want to do. Accomplished accomplished. Yeah a couple of success. So so physics so formal, yeah accomplished. I would like to accomplish here. Let's accomplish this a few months ago. We should talk about the all these the the when we went to the center. The interaction. Yeah. Oh, yeah or not. I mean whatever. Okay, no. Okay. Let's let's let's do that. So so I'm pretty huge on self-improvement saying and this is like we met through a community that had this Vibe. Yeah had this Vibe and so we talked about some of your like everybody has their personal limitations and restrictions and then I'm someone I used to teach people to get out of the car. Zone and then do many other things right? And so there was this one thing we talked about these interviews that you wanted to do, you know with people and I couldn't believe when you told me that social interaction is not you know, you main Forte because yeah, you such a such a fucking amazing Persona and you know, what a virtue videos I like. Holy shit. I want to be friends with that guy. Yeah. I mean I am but I mean, holy shit. That's this. This is amazing hilarious human being or thanks, man, and I thought okay. This there's there's just he must be attractive to everybody around him and you like magnet and you know people just form naturally, you know around you but then you told me surprisingly that this is not the case that you like expect situation. Well, I mean, you know, if I I've always been like a like a more introvert. I feel like right now I'm like a one of the few cases of being an ambivert, which I recently realized this a thing. Where you're like the introvert and extrovert I can be both. Yeah, so if I'm in a party I can easily just go crazy and not care and Lego but I also can just be very shy and very quick very quick is ambivert like the you know ambivalent introvert/extrovert. Yeah, make some of these three. Yeah, exactly. Okay interesting. No, so am be so the word am be means comes from ambles like from Latin of both. Okay, so it's just means like both introverted and extroverted this is because it doesn't mean that what you say you one of these things in the core. Or core introverts that or extrovert. Yeah. No, I'm both. Really? Yeah. That is so weird. Yeah, like I've never ever had someone answered that question to me like this or a they they either going to be like, okay. I'm in the core. I'm an introvert that then you know, I have trained myself to be an extrovert and I would consider myself being an introvert like very much you yeah, okay that people have definitions of about this they say if you get your energy from being alone versus getting your energy from being with A run of the Braille. Yeah, then you were an introverted hard. So and that would say this is true for most of the time for you. Yeah for me. I can be both I have spent four or five days inside my room having the time of my life like not leaving my room just like thinking about video ideas filming videos editing looking at movies. Just having a blast without any social interaction and then I've gone to parties and like I've gone to social Gatherings or whatever you call these things like barbecues. I don't know anyways use who does fun. I mean, I don't know sounds nice, but I've never been to a barbecue. Oh, really? Yeah. Well in Panama we have like barbecues. I guess you should fucking invited me. Yeah, but yeah, you should come to Panama man. Come to Panama. Yeah, seriously, but anyways, yeah, if I go to one of these events and like I just I can just like talk to people and I don't really care and like eventually I saw don't somehow find myself just like as a Just like guiding the conversation which I wouldn't do before but like I have that in me. So just like talk and be myself and make this the mood funny and like just make people laugh so I can be both I can get energy from interacting with people and then I at the end of the night. I feel like like holy crap. I can't go to sleep. I have all this energy. Yeah, and I also can be like, oh my God people I guess fuck. I don't want this. So yeah. Oh man, so you kind of like both sides of the Yeah, yeah. Yeah, so I can be the middleman and communicate both of them. But but yeah, but the bitch maker yes, but I've always wanted to I've never been fully happy with how social I like. I have all this potential socially I feel like but I haven't like fully, you know conquered it. Yeah, so I feel like I can be very quick and be like say funny things especially These interviews such videos things. Hmm But I don't feel like I have ever done that. So yeah, so yeah, that's why we decided to go to the center and like a No-No. That's how we that's what we have in common. I guess what that we both kind of our into the whole getting out of our comfort zone and definitely being ourselves definitely. But yeah, I mean there are things that some you know, everybody has its is strength and his weaknesses and I know for certain that I can you know, if I'm physically there especially that I can you know, maybe show someone the slopes of the ropes that I use to fast-track my progression into, you know, being a more confident person more confident man and you know dealing with those high social pressure situations and say right and so yeah when I noticed That you there there's some weird little things going on everybody's you know in people's minds when they confronted with talking to strangers especially right? They had this preconceived notions of all K. They're going to think this and that of me and you know, it's all about breaking these patterns up, right? Yeah. So this is why we decided to go. Yeah to the city centre in. Where are we know we went there? That's not disclose. Yes. This is a secret location secret location somewhere in Europe in Europe. Yes or Russia. Oh, that's not a continent or ancient Europe and Europe or Russia? Yes. This is these are the two options. Yeah choose whichever one you want. So yeah, and we went to the city centre and we had a blast and yeah, we did some challenges. Yeah. I've never been pushed like this before socially because I like I have gone up to random strangers. We're always in a party situation, you know, never in our fully like sober not that I'm Not unlike a drink or anything. But but like, you know what I mean, you know what I mean? So yeah, this was like a really I've one point I just felt like like no man. I don't want to do this anymore, you know, but but I dig inside my head and I'm like no you want this for yourself. So just like do it because you want to do this eventually, so I feel like Yeah, I learned I learned some stuff nice a lot. Yeah, this the very first interaction that you had and this is one of the most crucial interactions and there's a lot of things to be learned in this very first step. What went through your head. Okay. So basically this this one you told me we were at a bus stop right in front of where I live and you were like go to ask go high-five that lady somehow and it Like a lady that like not like, you know middle. I don't know how much yeah middle-aged. Yeah when she was like 30 really is just carrying things. She was the had like a long day probably. So in my head, I was coming up with all this crap. I was like, she's not gonna like that. Who is she she's into some other crap, you know, the regular the regular stuff when you're told to get out of your comfort zone. So at first I was like no man why now, you know excuses. Let's do this later. Let's wait till the center. And in the center is where everything happens, you know delaying it so through my mind you rushed a bunch of excuses, but then you kept on telling me like no man. It's happening. It's going to happen. So then eventually I started caving I was like fuck. I mean, I guess if it's going to happen, then it's got to happen. If so, I just like slowly walk. They're all like, oh no and And I just ask your like to diffuse my tension because I if I would have gone up and be like can I get a high-five that would've been so I feel like that would be so weird. Mmm. I would have been really awkward. So to the fields might for my own purposes. I was like, hey is this bus going to the center which I've taken this bus hundreds of times. I know exactly where this was is going and how what time is coming and how many stops where I'm like, hey is this bus going to a center and she said yeah and I'm like, okay. Can I have a high five and she's like Like okay and then she gave me like the most enthusiastic high-five that I've ever had with a stranger in my life. So it's like what the hell? Yeah, this is amazing. So yeah, that was a relief immediately. Yeah. It's so crazy. It's a so what happens in this situation is so first of all, you realize like when you see the other person smiling. Yeah proposed to them something for you extremely alien and strange like hey, could you random stranger? Give me another one. Ranger Hi Five and out of nothingness and like that is fucking weird. But the important thing is to not think about this and just thought yeah, exactly. So and you see them starting to smile and being enthusiastic about it instead of you know saying okay dude fuck off because there was probably what you thought would happen. Yeah. I had a fucking long day, man. So yeah, so get out of my way. Yeah. Yeah get out of my face. Yeah instead of that. What happened is she was enthusiastic about it and you actually made her day because yeah, maybe She had a long crappy day, but then there was chain super you know, some Pathak guy came up to her probably shivering and look weird or whatever. No, but I mean you just went up to her and crying what crying peeing his pants. He's dropping it. Yeah tears just running down his cheeks and actually giving giving wow. Yes. I said that and it was a moment of silence for that joke. I I was joking my own Survival. And so yeah, I mean she was you made her you made her fucking night and don't know that wasn't the only only occasion and what this what this also teaches you is this is why I said, you know, okay start with a high five it teaches you that you can instead of thinking that you would bother other people what happens to a lot of a lot of people think that if they do something like this they bother someone else. Well, it's the complete polar opposite you are Making their day and there's someone tells it if I call from him. That's what I want to happen. Yeah, I mean that can happen. So we'll just the worst thing. I mean you haven't you stopped if they say that you you know, the one you know, you know pushing them over the of the yummy iceberg is just like this is you are saying pushing pushing the iceberg over the ice breaker of the iceberg. Oh, I have no, I don't think so pushing him over the line. I hope yeah, yeah, exactly. Yeah. Okay. I hope everybody got what I tried to say there, but over the iceberg guys, just take notes, too. So the iceberg so yeah, that would have been you know, the the one tiny thing that made them go Angry. No definitely not so but on the other hand, you have the power to you know, give someone a smile but doing something silly and mean next thing that happened. We went into the bus, you know drove to the city and we sit down next to a girl and and I thought I really I from the from the bottom of my heart. I thought okay. She looks really kind of not in the mood for anything but Vite Vite us write our faces offers definitely and stab Us and something but because I trained myself to not really think about people that way and you know, because I wanted to have a great time with you and enjoy this is the situation. Yeah, I decided to okay, you know what, let's bring that fun vibe that we have to her and you were he invite her into our world and then you can she can still decide if she wants that are not in right we are not dependent on what would she do? You know sends off since August. Yeah, and what happened is she was smiling all the time. She was really yeah, we also made her day. Exactly and not only her we went to the city and we played rock paper scissors with some the random people on the spot. Yeah, and they were really they were confused. Yeah, but then they were like, okay. Yes. Okay. Okay. Okay. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah, you could tell that immediate like At first there's always that brief moment of like what that crap is. Is going on let me be but then eventually they're like, yeah, yeah this one and then they realize that you're not a complete psychopath the with you give them like a smile or something and not in a creepy way and and then and then it just diffuses itself. And then you suddenly are having a conversation. Yeah, that's the same. So if you if you would like going back to the first conversation or the first interaction with that woman on the bus stop the thoughts that went through your head. All these excuses and whatever. I mean what's next time that you want to would like to do this, you know by yourself if I was there, what would you tell yourself differently this time? If it was yeah, if you were to talk to someone and then do that same kind of approach or why would I tell myself to stop the excuses? Yeah. Well what would happen? I mean, how would you go over this like differently like instead of you know, and not doing this at all, which has happened past? Yeah. How would you go over doing that and what is your mindset now to you know, stop yourself from stopping that right that makes sense to stop myself from from all this garage of crap to get myself to do things. Mmm. I actually realized it's an interesting thought that the same feeling that I got when I convinced myself that it's going to happen is a feeling that I get when I when I turn the shower to the coldest setting and I'm like I got to get in Like it's just going to happen. Like I stand there outside waiting as if somehow the situation is going to use implode and nothing happens and then time stops and I don't go in the shower, but that's not going to happen. Eventually. I have to jump into the damn shower. So it was for some reason the same thing. Maybe that's why people do that. I don't know because it was the same feeling like well, I guess it's happening and then I just like walk to the over there. So so that Association is something that I would definitely bring up next time just be like well just like in the shower just like start walking there and figure it out as you get there and nice but you have to stop all the thoughts because I'm an over-thinker. I'm just naturally going to always think a lot about everything and plan carefully planned my every move but eventually I just let go and I was like just walk there and whatever happens happens and that mindset. I feel like really changed. Of course, it's not it's not like hammer. To my head and I am I completely free person of everything but it definitely is one step towards the towards. Yeah, it's good to have the right direction. Yeah, it's good to have the experience like like if you you know bite into a chili first time you look at a chilly you like. Okay, what is this? And when you bite into that, you know, you have the experience of oh shit. That's hot. Yeah. I don't know that. That's the right analogy. But I mean the very first time that you do that you learn right? Yeah, it doesn't mean that you are you know, a connoisseur of you know, very hot hot things items items right the right there on the spot, but you know, at least that things are hot and yeah, you know from that interaction only that things can go definitely definitely definitely differently wolf who what Eminem out here, but I can also be posted and definitely less people but breaks. We're out here in the we're out here in the room freestyling weather Beats. I don't get the feet. Whoo. Let's Go. Whoo! Let's go freestyle. Look at that, but that don't want the top others. Don't let's go to Rome and eat some rap somewhat simple. Ramon belonging is some bologna bologna. Yeah. Thanks everyone. Thank you. Yeah, please go and sit comedy if there's such a thing as ballon. Oh baloney baloney. It was nice brofist on that. That was really good the creative creative people. Would you would you consider yourself being a Later a Creator creator of what what's not even perfect job title. My perfect doctor. Yeah, Bobo Bobo was hobo. Hobo know em, like right currently or my dream job, you know, like currently like if you what's my job right now. Wow, that's very difficult Daniel. I thought this is going to be like a one-sentence thing man. I have no idea to I'm like right now. I'm in a very gray area of like I start to get my stuff to take off slightly it slightly working but also trying to juggle school. The only thing the only why I started this question was to see say one word. I really didn't really love the word content creator. Oh, oh my God, and I consider yourself being a content creator. I consider consider you being kind of Greater and I consider me being a kind of Greater. Yeah. I think that is such a nice job title. Yeah content creator. I Want to create content for freaking ever? That's just what I like I just like making dude. Sometimes I sit down in my bed and I'm like, I just want to express like I have a thought system. Yeah, I literally just want to express myself and I want I want millions of people to hear it. I'm like, why can't a million people here this that I have to say right now. That is a crazy. By the way. This is very very crazy. Narcissistic thought to be like, I mean a lot of people are like this but imagine, you know, you waking up and you're like, okay I have this thing inside of me. Yeah for bunch of here. Yeah. This is so weird. His narcissistic as heck, but it's like, you know, it's worth it. It's a good deal worth it man your roses. Everybody should fucking listen to you. Yes, subscribe motherfuckers. That's what my brain tells me at least but that is you said something so nice, which is like there's something inside of you. Yeah, you definitely want to get this Artisan. Yeah express yourself. Yeah, whatever that might be that might be. I mean we both have something in common you do this more efficiently than me right now is like music. There's one way to Press yourself. Then. Do you write you write something in terms of in terms of maybe I'd like a diary or sometimes. Do you do you write some like short articles or something like that? Yeah. This is like Mom. I right here. I'm showing you all of my written things. Oh, well I have well, yeah diary, right? Yeah you next to you what I'm showing him right now is basically my book full of ideas with lighting jokes flash Tick-Tock videos / songs such as YouTube jokes that I want to make was interesting. I mean, I would have loved to say something like all your writing Henry. Is impeccable but no no, it's a piece of trash trash. Wow. Is that is that something sacred for you? Like I'm at home. Yeah, I think so. Yes. This book you have in your hands right now is every single idea that pops into my head that I haven't executed on yet. And there's probably some like potential viral. She crapped in the okay. You know what I'm going to rub this against my chest and my nipple and that better work man. Yeah. Yeah, you have some like hot energy. Heart chakra right now over this but yeah, and I got some some of your creativity into my heart that sounds good. And then your creativity into my book. Definitely nice Definitely. That's great. I also have a book like this involving my you know, I also like you millions and trillions of ideas. Yeah, and I don't even think that like the most of them is like viral content. Yeah worthy was just like things that I want to do and I that will be so interesting to see if more people like you like content creators. Creative people have this kind of bucket list book of you know projects and I'm pretty sure a lot of people have. Oh, yeah, probably. Yeah and it's so interesting to see that writing is such an important like even if you don't do this on a regular basis, but just having your ideas go through your arm, not your digital word necessarily but, you know writing something physically down and making this somehow it says it's a recipe basically for reality you writing something down. That is probably going to Become reality later. Yeah, it's just like like like a magic if you say magic you like we Guardiola video. So yeah like that. What a magical spell spell. Yes. I actually write down like a spell and then you only need to execute on it. Yeah, it's so crazy. Yeah, but pretty much all content. Like we're all writers pretty much you do what I realize is that the most important thing about writing is you have to be an observer like everyone. Through things and everyone. I feel I look around me and there's people who are so much funnier than me. Like I have friends who are like, how do you come up with is hilarious things and I'm laughing with them, but they don't like write it down and they don't care about writing it down. But I feel like the people would just learn how to observe and find the funny things around you and find that ideas around you. These are people who like become successful If You observe learn to observe correctly. Hmm. I feel like that's the skill that changes everything to you. Yeah, you saying something? Yeah, I'm so so with you on ya like this analytical side of things is so important. Yeah, I would not consider myself being like a little Analytical in in in that kind of fashion like with social interactions. Maybe I could go into an interaction, you know and within a few seconds dissect every inch of it and say, you know what this relationship between this person the other person without even having met those guys who won but You know being able to sit in a cafe and observe something and some I could I could see the funniest I could experience the funniest ship in the world and that helped me and multiple occasions, but I could not, you know, make this a story worth telling a worth listening like on a cot like on a piece of content. You're generally like we could we could experience the same thing Ben, but I would not be able to observe it in a way that I could you know, also. Express it in the way that's their you know directly, you know, you can tell a story way funnier than I could ever. Do not only because you generally family but because I'm particularly bad at ellicsr. Okay. So yeah this this this observing things and some people tell you about that breakfast. This is okay. We're getting to the core of this is something that bothers me when I first recognized when it was a little kid and the head that you have these things and then middle school or no like First first grade and second grade where you were you little to yeah, but there is the second grade where you we talk about your day and then you know about your breakfast and what you did on the weekends. Yeah, we had that yeah nice. So there was always this. I think I still remember name there was a chubby kid named Sandra and he always had the weirdest stories. Yeah, but sometimes about things that are really not that interesting but everybody was like laughing hilariously really and I wasn't in my head like, okay wait I had this You know, I wanted to talk to him my story and I had like way crazier things on my plate, but when I told them people were like they didn't come on target. Yeah. Yeah, I wasn't able to you know formulated in a funny way, you know the way and people are able to tell you or there's something I admire and somebody can tell you that they had breakfast and you know, they the marmalade that they had on their toes was from a very very specific and great mountain and Yeah aging where you know where little toddlers, you know, preciously very good if whatever whatever I fucking. Yeah, I mean people can tell your story like this when they can tell you about their moaning toes and it's more interesting. Yeah, and I telling you how I want to do, you know Lanes. Yeah, right. This is some people can do that. Some people just can just tell a good story. It's a some bland thing that happened suddenly turns funny because they learn to observe the little funny thing. In that thing, I'll make it relatable. Actually, you need to remind me of you can definitely if you know how to do this teach me. Yeah, this is yeah, definitely. Yeah, that's like that's why I got that notebook because I would just take mental notes of things that doesn't work. If you want to be a good Observer, you literally just have to always be in the mindset and I think I heard about this from Baldacci. There's this thing called Master Class. Yeah. I don't know if you're not well all these writers. Mmm. Well, there's other people but I just watched the writers they How to tell a story how to everything in all of them. Well that gee Dan Brown any other writer there they always say like have a notebook write down your ideas and if you see any of you start the day and you always have it in the back of your mind, you're like, okay, let me look at this in the way that maybe I can make a video or a funny Tick-Tock or for any snapchatter of it. If you start looking at everything like that then after a week the first few days is going to be a little forced but after a week you're suddenly going to connect the points and you're gonna to finally observe things in a way that you can make them funny. It just happens. If You observe it with through that lens wow that is okay, that is so good advice that is so good. Okay. I'm going to try to I'm going to try to I'm going to try that out yes. Oh, okay. So you're saying just a lie, even the most mundane and boring things observing them and trying to write them down in a way that is hilarious if they so it depends what your goal is if your goal is to beef you want to make a funny piece of content. That is that your goal. I don't know. I'm or you want to tell a funny story or you want to yeah, maybe maybe telling a funny story of maybe telling the telling the details of the story that it that it, you know, make some the people people like they are. Yeah, like they that they can I want them to imagine exactly what happened and I want them to feel the same emotions that I felt when I went through this ml when I experience this then you have to well that comes a bit more with You have to watch other people do the same thing and you have to watch other people kind of the bullet process. And then with that in the back of your head, then you come to a notebook and then you start writing down stuff. So you mean I should I should observe people that are able to tell stories well and then use their ways of Storytelling. Yeah, like there's all these comedians like David your big lie or something. I don't know. What his name is Mike Birbiglia that are just like Storyteller Comedians and they just tell story because some comedians are just I hear bla black joke joke, but there's some people who just show up and say a long story and the whole story is funny. But what I'm saying is so I take the notes because I want to make like a tick tock, you know, and I want to make a funny Tick-Tock or a funny Snapchat and I don't know how to think of things like no one can just sit in the room and then suddenly think of thing but then I see in the are in the world. I see like a guy dropped something or I see a guy This thing and then I see it through the lens of like I want to make a big dog. I see and then I write it down like okay this guy did this it was funny. I will do this in this other room if you know that is so that's what I mean. I understood understood. Wow, that is super super interesting. Thank you for that inside and I would love to maybe we will find time for another podcast to go deeper into the topic of Storytelling. Yeah, because I think that's a huge topic and I would love to learn more. About this and content creation is a lot about storytelling and especially I mean, okay Instagram, they all they call their little thingies that you upload stories. Yeah, and it's exactly that so with every piece of content that you put out there like with every snippet you are telling a story and yeah, if you're able to connect the dots perfectly, you know and tell a good story just successful in terms of people enjoying what you would you do and yeah, that is a huge topic. We love to get into yeah that I'm very very assume that definitely highly definitely catches all on the next episode. Yeah, we I don't have a name for this Pope has yet, maybe some like we created my fingers then pull something cme's yeah, I don't see em fcms creating abbreviations. Yeah. Abbreviations are good. I have no idea if this is kind of an anywhere where you can comment but if it does, please yeah, I can get us a name for the comment down below. I'll be like hey guys, I need advice. I want to know how to cook rice and I need to know how to remove my lice, you know? Okay. Well only combat the right. Wow, and on that note I would say this is going to be a wrap. Thank you for listening. Okay and get a wrap next time a rap because it rhymed rap. Okay, I'm gonna go and kill myself now these guys bye. Love you. I will have the last sound.
The perfect fairytail: Two strangers meet over the internet - love ensues. I met Bonjee in an online community focused on personal development and creating viral content we instantly clicked and after a few years we finally met up. This is this very magical moment and you can be part of our (in my opinion higly interesting) first real life conversation. Bonjee is a creator of finest comedic video content over the past few years his content went viral over and over again, using Snapchat as his main platform and very recently with almost 1 million views on TiKTok he keeps continuously growing his audience and is on his way to creating his very own recipe for virality. We dive into his journey, the fundamentals of becoming viral ,common mistakes as a creator, self improvement, dismissing your fear of talking to strangers, challanging yourself , 2hour long morning routines, how to hold your breath effortlessly for 4 minutes and much much more. Oh and did anybody say random beatbox session? Say no more fam. we got you covered. Get ready for a wild mix of conversational topics and virtually sit down next to us at our little coffee table! You might learn a thing or two. 