I was seeing that this method was freaking magic not magic to the point where like, okay, like you had a goal and now you achieved it but magic like unexplainable shit started to happen. Welcome to the business of a podcast. My name is Lorna Liz love and I am a success expert transformation strategist business mentor and the owner of a million dollar online Empire. I am obsessed with helping women receive it all in life. Life and in business, if you are a woman dedicated to Growing her self leveling up achieving big goals and being the best version of you then you're in the right place my goal in the business Bay podcast is to show you step-by-step how to transform and create that version of you that you have always wanted to be and how to be do and have it all financially physically and internally think of this podcast As One Stop Shop for your daily dose of personal development. Growth Next Level learning all the things we will cover topics like personal development business strategy spiritual practice to elevate expand and align into your next level. I'll show you step-by-step the tools the strategies and the teachings to create the life that you desire because success and freedom are your Birthright. Thanks so much for listening. Here we go before we dive into this podcast episode. I wanted to take a minute to talk to you guys about transforming your life. Listen. I know it is Fresh Out the Gate of 2020 and a lot of us have these really big goals and dreams and plans and you might be feeling really amped up and excited or you might be feeling like the goals that you have for yourself feel hard. Unattainable far away. Well regardless of what side of the fence you're on I wanted to give you guys an opportunity to transform. Or life with my 5 day free series called transformation boot camp. I have goals you have goals. We deserve to manifest all of those things with ease with effortless action to be in that place where we know exactly what we want and to have what we want easily come into our reality inside of transformation boot camp. I am going to be teaching you guys the exact strategy for how I hit my goals over and over and over again and how to uncover and remove the blocks that keep you stuck. So if you've ever been in a position where you've wanted something for yourself and you have not yet achieved it transformation boot camp is going to teach you how to transform yourself so that you can be do and have everything that you've desired now. This is a secret excerpt inside of my beautiful six-week course called Success and just this week. I am giving you guys an opportunity to grab that boot camp for free. So whether or not you come in to the transform success program at the end of January, you can get access to this free five day video series just by signing up with the link in the show notes of this episode. So to join us on this journey. All you have to do is go to badass business babe.com boot camp and just to give you guys a taste. This is the strategy that I have used in my life to manifest things like 60 pounds of weight loss finally overcoming my alcohol and food addiction being able to heal my depression and anxiety. Naturally. I manifested my soul mate. I've had $80,000 cash months in my business and it was all with this very clear transform roadmap and I get to share that with you guys this week as you sign up so super pumped so to join us in transformation boot camp simply go to badass. Business babe.com boot camp you can also take your finger and just swipe up on the show notes the details in the links are below in this five day series. You're going to learn how to let go of that past reprogramming. So if you've ever been in a place where maybe you know, you've had the same obstacles or the same upper limits come up over and over and over again for things like your business your clients your financial goals your health goals your relationship goals. I'm going to teach you how to break that pattern. Pattern of self-sabotage an upper limit so that you can achieve the dream life that you desire. I'm also going to share with you in this five day free series how to create a custom action plan for the next 12 months. So whatever goal you have regardless of whether it's a personal goal or a relationship goal or a health goal. You can transform into that woman who has that Crystal Clear action plan who knows exactly what she wants and manifest her desires with ease. I'm also going to teach you how to master your subconscious mind because As we know 95% of what we create in our reality is from our subconscious mind and we need to do the work around correcting those old stories. Those old limits those old blocks those old patterns. So we're going to dive into that too. And then we're also going to teach you how to get crystal clear on being fully supported so that you don't force the achievement and this is how we manifest opportunity in our life. This is how we go from having a goal that feels really hard to shifting into a Place where feels really effortless and easy the transformation boot camp Series starts on January 20th and every day for five straight days. I'm going to be giving you a full training with homework assignment and challenges. So if you are ready to transform if you're like how yes, Lauren, I want this experience of 2022 be better than any of the other years. I've had combined. I want you to go check it out. You can go to badass business babe.com boot camp to save. It's and as a bonus, you are going to get my manifesting your souls Vision meditation. You're also going to get a bonus live Q&A session with me and the exclusive transform boot camp Series. So congratulations on joining. I've already decided you'll be there with us and I look forward to watching you guys grow and I will see you inside of this this beautiful magical business babe podcast episode. Okay, gorgeous humans. Are you ready for an epic? Episode on how to transform into a successful person. I was thinking about the title of this episode, you know a big theme right now in my content and what I'm talking about is transformation because we have our transform success signature life coaching program coming out in just a matter of days. I am so freaking excited about this course and so everything that is coming through me for Content has been centered around two concepts number one. How do I Successful and number two, how do I transform and I in my journey of life and development and reaching goals and evolving into the Lauren and Liz love that. You see today I had to do a lot of work around these two concepts of learning how to identify success and call it into my reality and then learning how to transform myself and I'm going to be sharing that with you guys in today's episode of the business babe podcast. I'm going to be talking to you guys a little bit about I'm of these principles that have really become the pillars in the foundations of what I teach and I'm going to share with you guys. You know, how step by step I recommend walking through this process for you. So if you have a goal in 2020 that in some way shape or form relates to the word success or transformation and guys, this could be a business goal. This could be a health goal. It could be a relationship goal. It does not matter this episode is for you. So I want to talk before we dive in a little bit about How transformation has shown up in my life? I think that word when I when I look at my entire life Journey like from being a little kid to now the word transformation is always been really really connected to me and we all have you know for some of us it's inspiration or creativity or love or passion or you know, some people say they're like, I'm really outgoing right some of us have these words that we just really truly identify with and for me the word as always been transformation success has always been something I've wanted but for a long time it felt like it was really hard for me. It felt Out Of Reach unattainable much like many of you might feel as you go on your business Journeys. I wanted to be successful but that wasn't really my identity. My identity was somebody who struggled who had a hard time achieving what it was that she actually wanted and when I started to really incorporate these elements and principles of transformation that I'm going to Share with you guys today success became inevitable. It was easy and it wasn't even a question. It just started to show up. And so first and foremost, let me just mention to you guys that 6s is a byproduct success is a byproduct. What does that mean? Well, if you show up every day and you're like I need to be successful. I need to be successful. I need to be successful and you're focused on that and maybe for you that definition is, you know certain number in the bank account or a certain size in your jeans or a certain type of soulmate you want to call in and you only obsess on getting that thing that one thing. Well, here's what happens the identity of yourself the version of you that you are she does not have that thing. She does not have that thing. So she's going to show up every day trying to achieve that desired outcome, but she's not that woman who has that thing and therefore that thing is harder to You perceive so when I was trying to lose 60 pounds and I for any of you guys who have health and wellness goals. I have spent so much of my life in this up and down and ebb and flow and gain and lose process. I didn't identify as somebody who was healthy and fit identified as somebody who struggled with her weight. So, you know, what did I do? Every time I got dressed as like I don't look so good. I would say things to myself in the mirror like, oh man. I wish you were thinner. I would choose food for Comfort because that was what a non healthy person did so it no matter how much I obsessed about the you nobody that I wanted or the size of my jeans or the the goal that I had for myself. I was not a woman who was healthy and identify as that woman and so in order to achieve my goal and this is actually what happened for me. I started to identify as a high performer who was really actually very healthy and I became that identity guys. This is like the Royal secret when I became that identity the action that I took was so much better and so much more driven towards my outcome than any action I had ever taken when I was just obsessed with my goal and being in the identity of the old me. So I needed to transform I needed to change I needed to evolve into the woman who had the desired outcome that I really was. Chasing and it time and time again this method of transforming yourself to get the success transforming your identity to get the outcome that you desire time and time again, this has worked for me. And so I went on this journey of my life to master these principles. These are principles. I have been using way back when all the way not even going to lie it since I was like a kid, I'm going to share that story with you guys, but I went on to use these principles for my career for my Health for my relationships for my business and ultimately transformed my life. And then I was like, you know what maybe I should teach this to people like maybe there's a method here. Maybe there's actually something secret here that I didn't even know I had and so I sat down this was about 12 months ago. I sat down and I started to map out this process and I'm like, okay, I've reached you know, I've gotten sober after 10 years of struggling with this method. I lost 60 pounds after 10 years of struggling. With my weight I manifested thousands of dollars and hit income month goal after income goal because of these methods so can I teach this and so I started to evaluate my process in my method and then I started to share that method with my one-on-one clients and pretty soon. I was seeing that this method was freaking magic not magic to the point where like, okay like you had a goal and now you achieved it but magic like unexplainable shit started to Happen like I had clients who told me that they've been trying to get pregnant for seven years and then finally walking them through this process one-on-one. They now have beautiful children big families insane. It's insane what we can create by ourselves and the first step the most important step to all of this as we dive in and you're thinking okay great Lauren like infertility, like wow, you know magic magician over here the first most important thing that we must identify as that. Hey we are Are the creators of our reality like if you're listening to this and you're saying okay? Yeah, but I have a low metabolism so I can't receive those goals or yeah, I want business goals and in financial achievement, but I only have X amount of Instagram followers or yeah, I want that baby. But doctors told me X y&z, I don't care what the goal is in order to create it. You must believe that you can create it plain and simple, you know, we think the world is this way or that way because we Have been conditioned to believe that it is this way or that way but none of that is really true. And at the end of the day if we are thinking that other people have the control over our Destiny or circumstances have the control over our destiny. Then we are letting Our Lives be run by something that we have no control over and when we do that we cannot create what we desire. So first and foremost, please take control of your destiny decide that you have the power to create at all. All you have the power to create it all it doesn't matter if it's a money goal a home. You want to buy a vacation you want to take a lifestyle you want to live a business goal. You want to achieve a health goal you want to achieve at the end of the day you have the ability to create that Destiny and it starts by transforming yourself and learning about the success principles and I'm going to share with you guys now, you know in the beginning of this episode. I mentioned the transform bootcamp transformation boot camp. I highly suggest you guys. All go and jump in on that that is going to be a five day free series as a gift to you guys just for showing up and listening to this episode for five straight days. I'm going to coach you on transformation and it's free. So badass business babe.com boot camp. You can jump right into that series it is going to be so epic and it is just a little sneak peek of the principles and concepts of transform success, which is that signature group coaching program that opens at the end of the month. So, okay. So where did this? Start transformation and success. Well, a lot of us are born as these like little kids and then we'll all of us right where born is little kids and then we're put into these environments of life, you know, one person grows up in India in one religion. Another person grows up in you know, Upstate New York with Roman Catholic parents two, very different environments to very, you know, different ways of living two different representations of the world that we live in very very different and as we Row what ends up happening? We're very divine right we were put on this planet, you know as in our wholeness I was watching, you know, this is just an example of little kids and the power of that we have when we were little I was watching this show Billy on the Street which is like a funny, you know comedy show and he does the screaming competition with girls where he has all these little kids. There's like five little girls and he says whoever screams the best is going to win an American Girl doll and will Well is one of the girls which makes it really funny. So it's like all these like seven-year-old kids and then Will Ferrell and they're in the screaming competition to win an American Girl doll. And before they do the challenge before they scream Billy goes up to each and every one of them and he asked them a question. He says why do you deserve to win this American Girl doll and I'm thinking like I'm watching this and I'm like, you know, what if I was answering this, what would I say? Well, I'm a good kid. I eat my vegetables, you know, I do. Make my bed every day. My mom says I'm the best like why do I deserve this American Girl doll and it was so funny. Every freaking one of these kids. The answer was when they were asked. Why do you deserve an American Girl doll? The answer was well because I don't have one. And I thought this was incredible little kids. They think they're so entitled to receive whatever it is that what they want. And I love that. I think we all need to be that way. We all need to be able to say, you know, I want this that's why I deserve it. Right like I want this I don't have it. I want it and that's why I'm deserving of it. But when we're kids were some things happen a couple of things happen. Number one. We are stripped of our divine. So we are taught by parents all you shouldn't want that. That selfish or that's greedy or hey, that's not actually what you should be prioritizing where stripped of that intuitive calling to do and want certain things. So when I was a little girl and I was like, you know what Mommy I really want to go to the nail salon, and I want to be pampered and I want to get my nails done on my moms. Like no that's a waste of money. I learned that hey what I want is actually wrong sometimes and this happens over and over and over again is where kids when we're like, hey, I want to major in this or I want to go to this school. Or I want to you know, do this craft in our parents teach us that hey maybe the desires we have for ourselves aren't actually the right desires that we should have and we start to question our intuitive download. Another thing that starts to happen is that we start to think we're not capable of creating what we want. So maybe we have a moment where we fail or a moment where we get embarrassed or a moment where we set a goal and we self-sabotage or a moment where somebody tells us that we are not capable of doing something and then we start to Remove all of that divine power all of that ability to channel and create and we get back to this place where we feel like we are less than and then we become adults and then we become adults and our souls are screaming at us. They're saying things like hey, I want that dream vacation home. Hey, I want to take a lavish trip with my husband. Hey, I want to pay off all of my bills rent an RV and travel the world and then in your head you hear that old voice of of reason and logic and Science and boring stuff and it says hey wait, that's not practical. Hey, wait that actually can't happen. Hey, wait, like so-and-so might not agree with that decision. You might be judged. How is that going to happen? Yeah, right good for her but not for you. And this is what starts to happen is like that pattern of childhood starts to come up. So one of the really powerful things we're going to be talking about in transform success it this is an element of the program. Is my unblocking method so a lot of us have been in that place where over and over again, you know, we have been taught and conditioned his children that the world is a certain way. It's hard goals are hard to attain. You have to work real how many how many of us have heard of to work really hard to make money. You have to work really hard Blood Sweat and Tears to be successful. We need to unblock that and so my unblocking method which is one of the weeks of transform success that's signature group coaching program actually. He walks you through a rinse and repeat process for this a very unique method that can remove and unshackle all of that for you. No matter what goal you have in your life. My unblocking method is something I go back to time and time again just to revisit to tap open every time I set a new goal for myself. So I'm blocking is a really important part of this process. But when we're adults we start to feel the desire to do be in have a lot more than what we currently have in our reality and we look at where we are and we say, yeah, you know, this is cool. I love this and I have things I'm grateful for but I want more I want more I want to be do and have more than I have right now. I want to live to a higher potential. I want to raise my standard. I want to be more successful than I am today. And then we look at our current reality and we go and maybe not maybe not so transformation started for me when I was really really young. I was bullied as a kid. I've talked openly about this, you know on the Podcast and blog posts badass business babe.com. I didn't really have friends. I had some and then we'd get in fights. And then I'd be alone. I remember there was this one time at the cafeteria table where I went home from a day of school. I came back the next day sat at the lunch table where I was sitting with all of these girls who were popular and beautiful and I felt so grateful and they all had each written meal a note privately that said they couldn't Friends with me anymore. So I went home that day with no friends and five letters. And so I very much felt like I didn't belong and I remember there was one summer. I was getting my braces off and I was bullied by Boys a lot because I didn't feel I didn't feel beautiful and I you know was awkward and I looked you know, like I was going through that awkward stage and then summer came and I remember the movie Legally Blond had just came out and if you've seen in Legally Blond, there's like this whole opening scene where she's getting ready. She's shaving her legs and she's brushing her hair and she has this, you know, beautiful pink room and she's listening to music and painting her nails and wearing her Tiffany necklace. And so I watched this and I was like, wow this woman who's really popular who has tons of friends who manifested her soulmate, you know how and she says this beautiful successful career at the end good for her good for you Legally Blond, right? Did she do everyday that allowed her to be that woman who had it all and I looked at that opening scene and I was like, oh, okay. She shaved her legs. She painted her nails. She wore Tiffany neck Tiffany necklace, right like and these are all like really superficial things. But for me, this was the evidence of where I needed to start it was the habits and the activities and the practices that allowed her to be do and have Everything that she wanted and so I that summer got a Tiffany necklace. I went to Walmart got the same razor and skintimate shave gel that. She had and I started to prepare myself for my transformation and I remember going back to school and being like, yeah, like my hair is blonde now. I got ya. I got highlights right Little Italian girl over here got highlights because I wanted to be really just like Elle Woods as close as possible and I went back to school and I changed and I transformed and like nothing really happened. No, beautiful man showed up at my doorstep. No group of friends was suddenly like hey, I want to be your friend. I had done all of the action but my life and my reality didn't change because I didn't do the inner identity work that I now do regularly anytime I transform or any time. I have one of my clients transform. I was in grade school. I didn't know what the hell I was doing, right, but it was a good step in the right direction the Actions of a successful person are really really important in order to create the success that you desire. So step number one for you. And for anybody else is to identify what the vision is and then step two is to really take that action. If you're listening to this episode and you're ready to take Massive Action to transform your life and your business listen up guys transformation boot camp is now open for enrollment and it's free. This is a five days. Series where I am going to show up to teach you some of the most powerful success and transformation principles that have allowed me to do things like manifest my soulmate hit half a million dollars of Revenue in a year hidden eighty thousand dollar cash month and more. I have walked my one-on-one clients through this process and now I am taking some of the principles from the transform success live group coaching program and sharing them in this free five day series with you. So if you're ready to take Massive Action for your business and your life, you're ready to set bigger goals. If you're ready to effortlessly attract the things that you desire and if you're ready to unblock the ways in which you've been holding yourself back from achieving those things to date this transformation boot camp will be for you the five freed a video series and to sign up. All you have to do is go to badass business babe.com boot camp. Or you can take your finger swipe up to see those show notes and the link is below. I'm so excited to see you guys come in. And in addition if you go check out that sales page, there are some incredible epic bonuses inside of this five day free series. So you don't want to miss this one again. That's badass business babe.com boot camp. Okay, let's get back to the episode and between step one and step two step one. Is that vision and then step two is the actual In that's where we get stuck and sometimes many of us won't take the right action because we don't have the right action or we're not taking the right action from an aligned space and then we wonder hey, I'm showing up at the gym every day, but nothing's happening. Why are you showing up at the gym saying? Hey, this sucks. I hate this this isn't working. I'm so out of shape or are you at the gym going? Yeah. I love this is feels awesome. I'm so aligned right your thoughts create your reality. Your thoughts are literally an internal representation of what you're creating every single day. And so for many of us that action when we're not in that space of it will work. It will it will be successful. I'm going to get this result for many of us that action is an entire waste of time. And then for a lot of other people they don't even take that action because they're in the old identity of it not working. Why even bother why even try why even go after this, I remember when I first started to incorporate The transform success principles into my life. I overnight became somebody who was successful. I went from making eight thousand dollars in a year to making multiple six figures to then going to half a million and every goal I set for myself it became easier and easier and easier because I knew in my heart that I was destined for that outcome. And this is something that can be cultivated over time. This is something that we can all do together through the on blocking process through the magnetic manifestation process all of which are inside of that program transform success. So first and foremost number one, what is your Clear Vision? Do you have a Clear Vision when you say hey I want to transform and hey, I want to be successful. Are you picking a number to quantify that and that's it or are you picking the emotions attached to it? Sometimes I do this thing called forecasting and I recommend this activity for anybody. Trying to achieve a goal. I pick my desired outcome and then I sit down every morning and I write a couple of sentences in my journal about how it feels to have that goal as if I have already have it. So just as an example, I have a very clear Financial goal for January and so every day I'm sitting in my meditation room and that's it spot with my journal and I'm writing down. I am so happy and so grateful now that I've hit this goal and it's not just that it's not just I'm so happy and so grateful it is Hey, this is what I get to do every day because I hit my goal. This is what my husband says to me because I hit my goal. This is what my vacation looks like that I get to take because I hit my goal. This is how I feel because I hit my goal. This is what's happening in my personal life because I hit my goal and I paint the picture guys paint the picture it's not enough to know the specific numerical outcome of where you're going you need to emotionally invest in it. You need to tap into that. Energy. And so when we talk about having that Clear Vision, there is an element of transform success that group coaching program where I walk you through my desire roadmaps and I teach you how to really create that clear formed concrete path where there are no loopholes or gaps or holes in the process of creating the vision you want to be such a Clear Channel that you know exactly what you want. You know exactly what the outcome is, you know exactly how It's going to make you feel and you know how to move towards it. So number one. It's that Clear Vision and then number two. It's the right strategy and for strategy many of us are just implementing what we think we need to do and we're not actually listening to our intuition. I'll give you an example when I was starting to lose weight some 160 pounds. That was my goal. 60 pounds 60 pounds 60 pounds. I looked at everybody else and I was like, okay. Well, she's doing it this way. I guess that works. So I need It that way too and that way was Quito. Okay, if you guys know the keto diet Quito I didn't love eating meat every day. It didn't feel exciting to me to cut out fruit. I love fruit, right? So for me, I'm watching this process in this method of what somebody else is doing and I'm thinking okay. Well, I have to sacrifice a lot of my desires to reach this goal. I got to give up things that I love. I don't know if I want to do that and I I started to try to implement something that deep down. I actually really didn't like to do and this was because I shut off my intuition and I was looking at what other people were telling me was going to work and when we come up with strategy that is effective the most important part of an effective strategy is that it feels aligned to you. Not that it feels easy. Right? Like there are things you're going to have to do to transform and be successful that are hard and uncomfortable anytime you stretch into New paradigm or a new way of living or a new dimension. It feels uncomfortable. Right? It's growth feels hard. There's no way around it because your subconscious and your ego or saying hey, this is unfamiliar. Let's stay here where it is familiar. I'm afraid of that and that's where that hard energy comes in. Right? It's that resistance because we don't know what life will look like on the other side. I can't tell you how many women have blocks around success and Financial Freedom because they're actually afraid of what that response. Ability looks like you know, what does it look like to have Be A Millionaire every single year make a million dollars, you know how to spend and save that money properly. Do you know how to allocate funds, you know how to invest, you know how to pay staff or like all of that stuff feels really uncomfortable for people and so they push away the desire they actually want because they don't feel like it's safe to be at that level, you know for health and wellness, especially this comes up women who have experienced trauma women who have been victims of abuse women who have In unhealthy relationships before women who have had unhealthy patterns with their parents or with older adults, they start to protect themselves with wait and they put on this big Shield right this literally like a bubble of weight and then they try to be towards those goals. They try to work towards their health and wellness desires, but they're not doing the inner work on like why they're heavy or overweight or protected in the first place. And this is all the unblocking right? This is the unblocking and Side of transform success and guys if you're listening to this and you're like, yes, I want the manifestation the magnetic metaphysician process. I want the desired roadmap. I want the unblocking practice. I want the identity work all of that. You can I'm going to put a link in the show notes to transform success. You can get on the wait list for that program if you're interested and for now, I'd recommend going into that five-day boot camp transformation boot camp, which will get you activated and start to kick things off for you. So we need to look at the unblocking of all of these patterns. We need to look at not just why we want what we want and how beautiful it is. But also what did we do? And what did we experience in our past that made us this way when you want to let go of something right? If you want to let go of somebody in your life who's not serving you or you want to let go of a habit that's not serving you or you want to let go of an identity. That's Serving you being broke financially struggling, you know, I had this identity for a while that no matter how much I made it was never enough and I was so determined to break that pattern this year that literally within a week. I was able to correct that story through these practices and I'm sharing with you where I literally went one minute from you know, my husband freaking out being like how we gonna pay our taxes. Oh my God, like we're spending too much. This is so bad to the next week having 60 extra thousand dollars show up at our doorstep. It's this process. Once you become somebody who no longer tolerates the standard that you are living at you will raise your standard and your reality will change the world around you is literally dictated by your standard. So if you make these standards for yourself to say, hey, I can invest in myself. I don't have enough money. I'm not worthy of the time because I'm really busy. I can't prioritize my growth. Well, guess what? That is the reality that you are going to create. If you say you know what 20/20 is going to be the year that's different. I'm raising my standards. I'm deciding I'm going to be do and have it all I'm going to raise my vibration. I'm going to break this old pattern that I've been living with for years. Congratulations, you're right. Your reality will change so having the Clear Vision having the strategy on blocking the old stuff looking at all. Those old patterns on veiling all of that resistance that has created the current reality that you're in if you want to let go of it you need to understand it. You need to understand it. I was in the car the other day. I shared this on one of my Facebook lives. I was trying to figure out why whenever I have a And who starts to make more money than me. And this has been happening for years like all the way back in college when friends got better jobs than me. You know, I immediately went into this place. I was like, well, they won't want to be my friend anymore. I don't have any value to give them more for their more successful than me. Why would they want to stick around? I couldn't for the life of me figure out like why is this happening? And here's here's where I just want to share like the power of how your thoughts create your reality when I believe that I can't have friends who are more successful than me. What kind of rooms am I putting myself in rooms that restrict me or rooms that expand me. Hmm. Well if I believe I have a seat at the table and I believe that if there are people around me who are making tens of millions of dollars that I could still be friends with them and I still have something to give and and they still value me as a human. I can then have a seat at the table with the people who were going to show me the way guide me to the next step if you've ever Malik you're not worthy of Sisterhood. You're not worthy of friendship. You're not worthy of that girl that like you are obsessed with and like you want her to be your friend. Right guys. This is this is what I'm talking about. You feel like you're not good enough and for me I couldn't for the life of me understand for probably all of you know, maybe the wind this this winter. I was trying to figure out like well, why is this still a pattern like why is this coming up? So I walked myself through the transform success principles to really identify. Hey, let me unblock this. Let me unpack this like where does this come from and I was doing the hypnosis. I was doing the journal prompts and then I'm in my car and I have the biggest fucking break through. I'm like, oh my God, I know where this comes from. I can unblock this now. So a lot of the unblocking element and transform successes about routing back to those experiences that dictate your reality that you live in and for me, I grew up with my dad who was not very accepted and loved by his father and his brother my dad's brother. Who was very loved and accepted by my dad's father and so my dad and my brother my dad and his brother, you know, we would go to family dinners and we would sit the table my grandpa my hard-ass Italian Grandpa would spend the entire dinner conversation boasting about my Uncle Phillip how great he is. Look at him how successful he is Lauren you need to go into business because look at him. He is achieved all these great things. Right and my dad's just sitting there and I could feel my dad's hurt because I'm an empath I could feel and understand just how neglected he felt as a child. Now. What was really going on at the root of this was that my father has been a closeted gay man for quite his life and my grandfather kind of knew this and didn't accept my dad for this and it created a lot of tension and lack of love in their relationship. But as a kid, I have no freaking clue that this is going on right and so I'm watching this and I'm like, well my uncle is really successful and he has a lot of love and attention and affection from his father. Her and my dad is not as successful and he doesn't have as much attention and love and acceptance is his father. So there's my model of the world when I'm not successful at the top. I will not receive love and so I had this huge incredible breakthrough around this and recognized that it was time to let go of the story so part of the unblocking method in order to transform and be a successful person is to really go back and look at these patterns in these. Terms of like what has been blocking you another story I talked about for me. I grew up always making ends meet. Nobody taught me how to save money. I was racking up credit card debt. I had a really hard time letting money sit in the bank because I had some patterns and experiences of when money was in the bank it would disappear. Right how many of you guys hold on to that thousand dollars because you're like well something might happen right and and the minute that money goes up to ten or seven. Or something that's a little bit outside of your comfort zone. You feel the need to spend it because you don't know if it's always going to be around. This was a pattern. I really wanted to break. You know today. We keep a lot of money in our stock market. We have a beautiful Nest Egg. We're really financially responsible. We save all of our money for our taxes. We don't live on credit cards. I had to break my pattern so through this unblocking I was able to recognize the root of where these experiences came from what it taught. Me why it was a gift and then through the unblocking method inside of transform success. I can literally change that story. And so it's almost like this timeline work of the butterfly effect where you go back and you find the route you correct that old story and you can do this. If even if you're not in the transform success program this round will be open doors. You can simply ask where did this story come from? And is this actually really true because when we can identify the real truth of a story or a pattern we can to love it and let it go and part of the Journey of transforming into a successful person is becoming lighter and all of us are carrying these backpacks of rocks. We have these stories that were just holding onto years and years and years of stories and we got to unpack that shit because in order to be successful we need to be lighter. We need to be higher in vibration, right? You know how heavy you feel with those rocks in your backpack and you let them go and then you can rise up and be ahead of the game. And if you've ever seen anybody who's successful, they're always vibrating hi and ahead of the game like a real successful person. Not just somebody who makes a lot of money and is unhappy right? But a person who's really successful who you look at and you go. Yeah. I want to be that right. So transformation at its root is making a thorough dramatic change. And this can come in the form of appearance. This can come in the form of financial reality. This can come in the form of love. But transformation at the root is a dramatic change in form and we all have the ability to do that and success is the accomplishment of an aim or purpose. So can we transform and make that dramatic change to accomplish the goal of Being and doing and having it all and the answer is yes time and time again. The answer is yes, you just have to decide is in our moments of decision making that our destiny is shaped and we have a choice to decide that we can make the dramatic changes that we desire that we can accomplish the aim or the purpose or the dream or the goal. We can be do and have it all but the only thing we need to do first is decide. And then once we make that decision and we go through the process of creating that really Clear Vision, but that desire map we do the identity work. We do the unblocking practices those principles inside of the transform success program that next step is magnetic manifestation and my magnetic manifestation process has been super super fun for me lately. I have been calling in some really cool opportunities. I started mastering this method when I was Really young and I did again. Everything starts when we're young right? I remember I would get my one of my braces off right going back to that Legally Blond year. I really wanted my braces off. And so I went in I remember every single time to the orthodontist. I hope I can get my braces off today. I hope I can get my braces off today. I hope I can get my braces off today and there was one day and I'm not making this up guys. Like I vividly remember how different my emotional state was when I walked in the door. This one day I said today. I'm getting my braces off and the session before he had told me that probably wouldn't happen. But that day I just knew I had such confidence and certainty as if this is happening. This is fucking happening. I'm making it happen magnetic manifestation is about calling in the unexpected magnetic manifestation for me means receiving things without trying so hard. And it is, you know, a really important pillar of my transform success principles and that you're not doing it by yourself. It can feel so challenging to set these big goals for yourself, especially if you don't have family support or you feel like, you know, your siblings or your peers or your loved ones don't really get your goals and like they're questioning you and like what are you doing? Right? Like I hear that all the time from business women. They're like my spouse doesn't get it like my friends are like, what are you doing? You know, it's really be hard to be that magnetic manifestation Channel when you have relationships around you that like aren't being fully supportive. In fact, you know, one of the things that we've added inside of the transform success prop program is this whole entire bonus content that you guys will learn more about on how to fix this. So if you're having a hard time in calling in the support of family members or getting the loved ones to be on board with you that bonus will come out, you know later in a couple weeks and everybody who joins transform. access to that as well, but magnetic manifestation can feel hard when the people around you are saying no and they're chiming in and giving their opinion and feedback about like why your goals are silly or why you can't have this happen and what I like to look at in terms of transforming and being successful is this concept of divine intervention and there have been times where you know, just as an example as I'm recording this we are filling our membership the doors will be closed by the time The time we are this right we're filling Rising Sisterhood. The doors are open. If you want to come join us. It's a high-level Mastermind and I will show up every day to work towards that goal. Like my goal is to fill that I want all of the rising sisters in that program. I want all of our BB members inside of our membership and so I'll show up and I'll work but then I'll reach a point where I'm like, yeah, I'm tired. Right? Like I've I've given my all I've I've worked, you know a little bit more than I should have today. I need to take a break and I'll feel this like well, no, but you Have this goal. Right? Like come on Lauren like you could be working more divine intervention. I will literally say to the universe. Okay Universe I'm signing off. It's your turn almost like we have opposite shifts and I will let the universe come in and bring me the experiences and the transactions and the students that I am craving. So literally I woke up this morning and I had a new student inside of rising Sisterhood. I had another student come join the transform weekend program that live event without About me having to do anything because I've learned how to become a magnetic manifest. ER and the Magnetic manifestation practice is a concept as you go on your journey of creating success of learning how to be that channel and that receiver for other things that are beyond your awareness to have magic come through simple example of this. I was in Costa Rica and I surrendered to the Of ours and I did my magnetic manifestation practice and literally right after I was done I went into my phone and I noticed I had just received an invitation to go to this private event that I have been on the waitlist for for six months. I was so freaking excited. I couldn't wait but immediately I went to this place of well, that's a lot of money. I gotta spend and my husband I just had this really long talk about how we need to save more and be a little bit more frugal. All because we have some really big beautiful Investments that we're making and we need to be saving for those right being financially responsible. So here I am and I'm like, okay, I just manifested this opportunity like what the hell and I'm feeling all the Goosebumps. I'm having all the Vibes. I'm like, this is Magic this manifestation practice works. I'm so excited to share this with everybody and I have to jump in I have to jump into this program. There's no way around it and I reach out to my husband. I said look, Please trust me. Please have faith. Please surrender to this. I have this figured out and I know it's going to work just have faith and he's like more and I have come on how much Faith do I have to have? I've been having faith all year right like come on, but he knows now, right like in the process of me doing this work. I've been successful and I've reached these Milestones that he can you know, say I love you honey. Like let's do this. Okay, like we'll give it a shot. And so I sign up for this program and Within 24 hours, we received a check of 60 thousand dollars that was totally unexpected and out of the blue out of nowhere. And I mean I could cry thinking about this because when you decide to have faith in your dreams, the universe will give you opportunities to prove that to her and not proof from a space of like it prove it to me, right but the universe will literally show up and give you the Opportunity to take the action that says hey, I believe in this look. Hey, I believe in this look and I've done that, you know on my journey of Entrepreneurship when I've invested in coaches and I've tried to hit, you know new milestones in my business and I did it by myself first and then I would invest in a program I would invest in some teaching I would invest in a training and in my head when I was doing that I was saying see look I believe in my goal. See look, I believe in my goal. I actually I just signed up for a new gym membership and that Was me saying see you look Universe. I believe in my goal and putting money in it. You vote with your dollar and you prove to the universe with every money you spend right? So for me when I put that investment on that that event that I have been waiting for for a long time. I was literally showing the universe see look I surrender to this process see look I Believe In My Dreams see look, I trust you and when you start to do that, you're developing this really deep unseen unspoken. Relationship with Source where she can start to actually work through you and give you the experiences that you have been Desiring for almost all of your life. I did this for health and wellness, right losing 60 pounds getting rid of my addiction to alcohol. I surrendered that through the magnetic manifestation practice and everything got easier my way of life in achieving those goals did not feel hard it became effortless So for anybody who is trying with sure and strategy and step-by-step goal-setting and you come up short this element of magnetic manifestation is a game changer. It is about learning how to have faith in something outside of you. It is about surrendering to something greater than you it is about having faith ultimately and that can be cultivated at any given point and it will continue to be cultivated as you build your relationship with yourself. So overall, how do we transform into a Full person. Well number one we decide we decide that what we want is our destiny. We decide that we're deserving of it. We decide that we're meant for it. Number two, we create that really Clear Vision. We don't just set the financial goal or the numerical goal or the physical attainable thing. We incorporate the elements of feeling and emotion and vision and we tap into all of those things. What does it feel like what does it taste? Like, what does it sound like right when you're at that level we He ate it next we do the identity work. We look at who we are being. How can you achieve success? If you are not being a successful person. What is this successful person even do every day. How does she act? How does she hold herself? Does she roll out of bed and start her day or does she take her time set intention before she gets out of bed brushes her hair puts makeup on what does she do every day? It's different for everybody. But we look at that identity and then we unblock we To go back to the roots and the experiences in the old stories and we look at our patterns and the repetition of activity that we have in our day-to-day life and we say hey where did all of this come from? Am I ready to unblock? Am I ready to let go and then finally we incorporate magnetic manifestation where we surrender to something bigger than ourselves. We decide to take the messy scary unfamiliar action because we are safe and supported on that journey of being and doing doing and having it all and then we rinse and repeat and we continue to show up with those tests with those experiences with the unblocking with the identity work and we go deeper and deeper kind of like a circle right like a spinning Circle you go deeper and deeper and deeper into that true point where you get back to that essence of who you are meant to be and we strip away all the fear we strip away all the old story and we start to become the woman who has it all. So guys here's what I'm going to ask you to do today. Number one go sign up for transformation boot camp. The link is in the bio of the show notes. It is free can't miss a thing. There is no risk badass business babe.com boot camp that is a five day series and then second. I'd encourage you to journal today on what you learned get out your pen and paper take some notes, maybe paint the vision today of where you're going maybe spend some time in the unblocking element of looking at your past take one of these principles and really look at it and explore it in self-reflection. And then finally if you're feeling so called go check out the transform success group coaching program. The details are available on badass business pave.com. Our doors are not open. We have a limited amount of spots. So if you are like a hell, yeah steer transformation and how he has to your growth. I would really encourage you to go sit. With that sales page feel into it paint the vision any questions, you can always reach out on Instagram and I just want to thank you guys so much for listening. So if this episode is spoken to you, please let me know reach out on Instagram. My handle is badass business babe. It is always an honor to support and guide you on this journey of transforming your life and creating success. I'll see you on the next episode.
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