How do you get what you're wishing for? I was having a conversation with one of my long-term clients that I worked with for many years and he reminded me of a really great line from the movie Evan Almighty. That's been a while since I watched this so forgive me if I butcher it however paraphrasing it goes something along the lines of if you wish for love. God will not give you love he will give you an opportunity. Una T to love if you wish to be successful, you won't be given success. You will be given an opportunity to succeed and this is extremely powerful. This is something that most of us we just don't understand that wishing for something doesn't mean that you're going to get the exact thing that you're wishing for. You're not supposed to just click your fingers and everything you want comes to you because That was truly possible life would be boring for a little while. It would be fun because you would get everything that you want and he'd be all excited but after a while you become miserable because there's no contrast. There's nothing to measure against you just get anything you want whenever you want it and of course you become deeply unhappy now look at people that do get high levels of success that have an earned it. They're usually deeply unhappy or if they didn't work that hard for it they tend to Wash themselves back down to where they came from or they even crash and burn worse than where they started from. So consider that perhaps you're not supposed to just click your fingers and get everything that you want. Maybe it's better just maybe to look for the opportunity to go in the compost the goal to look at what opportunities what chance do I really have to go out there and do what I want to do. What roads are open to me? Who are the people that I know of that might be able to help me and support me go achieved that thing and instead of wishing now, we start to set goals instead of hoping for something. We start taking action and deliberate steps towards the thing that we want. Now this is a much better strategy because although you might wish for something and it magically comes true once or twice. Yes. In the long run. This is not a sustainable strategy. And what I really want for you is to keep getting what you want in life. What I want for you is to consistently get what you wish for in the way of earning it ernet work for it. Do what you're supposed to do and instead of wishing for it. Ask yourself the question of what would I have to do to achieve X Y & Z. So if you're wishing for love, why don't you ask yourself what it would take for you to? Tracked love into your life if you're wishing for more success or more wealth or more money that's really easy. You get rewarded and direct proportion to your service. So serve more people serve more profoundly serve in a more meaningful way that people value and you'll be compensated highly. It's simple life is simple. There are universal laws that we can all use there are just these strategies that are Timeless that are worth for thousands of years and we'll continue to work for thousands of years you reap what you sow and so what are you sewing? That's the question if you plant A seed that's supposed to grow up and be an apple tree. Then that seed is probably grow in up to be an apple tree right kind of make sense, you know you plant an apple tree C then the grows up and it becomes an apple tree. But if you planted that seed then you said I want oranges. Sorry, like what are you expecting? And I know this sounds silly. But so many people are doing that every day. So they're saying I want love then they go isolate themselves and sit on the computer all day and just check social media flood their brain with dopamine and then go watch TV shows and just get lost in that and in the fantasy of it. I mean, what are you really sewing there? There's no seed at all and if there is if anything you're probably getting Thorpe's You don't want Thorns, you won't love and if you want love you go out and you plant love you get to know new people. You meet new people. You expand your social network. You start being deliberate you start taking action towards it wishing can be good. It's healthy, but then follow up with action. Make it a real goal. Write it down. Put it on your wall. I do that with everything that I want in my life, and I keep taking it off every month. Every time I keep hitting my goal, it's not some magic formula. I've write down what I want. I've write down how I go get it and then I get it and then I'm My Own Genie. I want you to become your own GD. Oh, I've got three wishes know I've got unlimited wishes for me. So whatever I want. I know I can go out there and get it and this builds confidence and momentum and you become a happy person and now you feel alive and excited and start small with you don't believe that you can do the crazy big stuff. Small what's one little thing that you want now was an action step you can take to get that. You don't have to get crazy. You don't have to get everything you want right away. But step by step. You can make all your wishes come true. If you just start walking and putting one foot in front of the other in front of the other and for that you just keep slowly creating that little momentum before you know, it your confidence and taking on the world. And that's exactly what happened with me. I mean I used to wish that I would lose weight and I was about ninety five kilograms. You can convert that if you use Different measuring unit. I'm in Norway. So kilograms ninety five kilograms, and I now weigh 58 that's a pretty significant drop. That's a lot. It's about 37 kilograms. I didn't get it by not working by not doing anything by just sitting there and waiting and hoping and wishing I got it through changing my mindset. I got it through changing the way that I looked at food. I got it through not eating emotionally anymore. And it was step-by-step. It was one little walk and then a little less calories and then step by step by step. Whatever you're wishing for find a way to go get it. Stop hoping stop just sitting there and letting this feeling of maybe one day ruin your life. How happy would you be if you finally took a step you feel excited you'd feel alive. You'd say. Wow. I can really I think I can do this. That's all it takes. That's all I did. I started making one video and another one and another one and another one and before you know, it this all snowballs very quickly. Are you with me? It all starts to add up pretty fast it. Doesn't take a long time whatever it is that you're after that might seem. So this than Out Of Reach I was looking for love. I went to another country. I can find that I can find that I can find all of a sudden I started thinking carrying myself a little differently and it shows up into your life. It just shows up. But you do have to take action. You can't sit there and wait do something earn it deserve it be your own Genie. And then you can have whatever it is that you wish for your life can be exactly what you want.
How you can get anything you wish for! Become your own genie. Imagine, if you could get anything you want. Without any effort, without any delay. Whatever you desire you can have. What would you wish for? It would be awesome to have that kind of ability, right? Not so much. Look at people that get high-levels of success and haven’t earned it. They are deeply unhappy. They crash and burn even worse. Why? Because there is no contrast in their life. It gets boring and miserable very quickly. So consider that not getting what you want right away, is not a bad thing. Maybe it’s what makes our lives meaningful. Whatever you wish for; love, happiness, health, money, you can earn it all. Look for what roads are open to you. Look for the steps you have to take to get there. How happy would you be if you just took one step? You would feel excited and filled with life. You can feel that now. And start small if you don’t think you can get the big stuff. What’s one little thing you want? Now, what’s one action step you can take to get there? It doesn’t have to complicated. That is what happened to me. I made one video then another and another and it snowballed into a six-figure business. I was looking for love, couldn’t find it. Then I started carrying myself differently and it showed up into my life. Don’t just sit there and wait. 