Welcome to my life. It has applied episode 280 firstly. I hope everybody had a very powerful and safety ated and saturated month of tishrei, which that's why it's called kadish V the seventh month. She also comes from the word sated like the sobota the Heart of A Sort and not just satisfied but filled up to the brim because it's a month. It's filled with holiday.Is which is why we don't say talking until the end of the month and we're now the conclusion of the month and will have a very good Givenchy our hope you didn't miss me too much. I did miss you last two weeks, of course was Yom Tov, but the amount of obviously is much more powerful than any program itself feeds us and satisfies us and nourishes us and nurtures us with citizens self living cities of sin cos Theta and XI mean Etc Simon for that. I shine it up and sookie's which of course all internalizes. In Kippur Rosh Hashanah and entire powerful month of tishri. 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So with that that's what we'll Begin by speaking about, which is where right now in the last final days of this powerful month of tishri date option pay beginning of a new decade five. Seven eight. Oh and we talked about this during the month before Rosh Hashanah as well as the last program, which we did was right before Yom Kippur. So the most obvious thing to addresses the end of tishrei this lat. Is the post holiday season the month of husband which were entering we just blessed yesterday Shabbos voracious. And of course pastures New York, which we will re reading this coming Shabbos. And this is the week of precious know. Yeah, all of it converges together as being we'll call it one word a bridge a bridge. It's a bridge between the powerful holiday energy and all levels whether it is this whether it's the renewal of Rosh Hashanah the sanctity of Yom, Kippur the joy of sulcus. The exuberance of some Christina all being channeled like a good interface in a bridge into we'll call it the regular year. Now. Remember everything regular is not really regular but it appears regular it's the regular routines the regular patterns and the goal of course is is to take the energy the new energy that we received in this month this holiday month and Infuse it and energize our regular that are regular should be irregular and the good way. Ordinary should become extraordinary the to seeing the ordinary extraordinary in the ordinary and that's what this powerful month of tishrei is about. So there's writing on the wings of tishri. And then this carrying it over. So this period were in is a bridge. The year the river had the heart attack social amethyst, which would be the equivalent of 1977 which million Sarah's night and the rabbit the not far bring as he usually did the coming days the for our coffers and some cluster then Shabbos voracious because of the a heart attack, but he spoke to us from his room the night of the simplest or ended after the holiday entity spoke with a microphone and then the customers every material Shabbos after that every Saturday night after the shop. well, if the shop is that able to speak from his room and this went on until the river came out of his room finally came one back homeless create exclusive which we celebrate and then the first troubling you test Crystal when the rabbit came back to 77 in the regular fabric, but the interesting thing that took place then sighs many other things that I noticed and this is one of my early years and working in the scissors and helping and beginning to get involved in a more serious level because the rebbe edited he asked to Those talks including the one that I delivered right a day after the heart attack, which I assume coz Theta so we have them edited today. They're all published in the end of additions to volume 20 and liquid decisions both the my myrrh and the sick of all those weeks but the interesting thing one among many was the way the Rebus spoke about the transition. So there's a custom on The Bob as was the custom as the river sites. There are many other places that might show a simple stated. They would announce by Jakob. Hello. Kodaka. And yaakov went on his way. It's a verse in the end of passes by eight say that Jakob went on his way. And this is referring to there. Now. We're going from the high holiday season on our way back home back to our routines back to our regular lives. So it's a nice expression. But if you think about it, it has a lot more to it. It has a lot more to it than just a nice line. It's about carrying over in our journey to wherever we're going that which we experience. So in this case interestingly in the vehicle had a key is actually going from hot. Back to Israel and here you could almost say we're going from Israel and the conceptual context of tissue as being a holy month going into the weekdays, but the point is still the same. It's carrying over that experience. You can say Karan where I could've built his family, which is Natasha Schlemmer complete family all the SWAT them except Benjamin were born by Lovin in her on outside of Israel. So there's a power to that and he carries that over but without going into the details of that the specific main point here is that we need to have a transition and that's the key to the biggest question of all how do you maintain that high that energy that inspiration that passion which is really a question all year round. Whenever you're passionate you get inspired you get excited we all know is easily dissipate and here's the question a question of the web address is so many every year literally including that year 1977. How do you carry it over and the way to carry it over is we don't fake it. We're not going to make believe that tissue. Is a husband and a kiss live in Tavis because the rest of the year is not too sure. It doesn't have a restriction on Yom, Kippur and asuka-san - minute says and some Costel. However, you create a bridge you realize that you carry the expression of the free they could ever that. I beside it often that we feel ourselves up. We pack our bags in this hole in this saturated month and then we unpack Fernanda pack and the pecola we unpack the baggage the luggage that we gathered into the weekdays and for that we need a Edition a bridge and interface and that year specially in 1977 social I'm christelle a bespoke by the interface not once but almost every week. So the first interface begins says in we khakhra right after Yom Kippur As we go into suitcase is already a journey from the days of all yamuna time into the days of Joy. Then there is the transition at the simonet says simply State the clitter that absorbs and contains and channels it further. Then there's the V alcohol kodaka in Shabbos Bodacious or Israel given the day after young then Shabbos Bodacious could be relations is still the end of the month of tishri, but it's Bodacious is the beginning of the year and the beginning of creation. It's a bridge between The end of the Taylor when we finished our simplest data and the beginning which we read immediately beginning a new cycle of learning of reading and learning. And then there's the bridge be continued as I encouragement. I'm sorry. Rich guy just catch me because you're still in the month of tishri. So you still under the aura of that powerful month, which is where we are. Now, then the next one is I attachment which is when we begin to say geshem because we do not want we want to make sure that the last Jews arrived in the how process in the days of the temple Euphrates River was the last Jews arrived there by Zion Catherine the ones that made allele that Rego that made the pilgrimage to Israel to Jerusalem. So all these are transitions you can say which one is it? The answer is true transitions are many looking technology whenever you see an interface is no one interface. How many interfaces are there when you put on a switch and electricity runs into your appliances. There's many many switches that are taking place the same thing in the human body because the true healthy interface is one that allows for a balanced and harmonious integration of the past. Well, Of one entity to another if the surge is too strong if the flow goes through strong it'll create a power surge that will damage the circuits if it's too slow you won't have enough energy. So you need the proper channels and and interfaces and that's really a principal and citizen General talks about say there's also has the Stepping Stones think of it like a teacher has to exactly spoon-feeding the proper way to the student as the student grows you give more and more. So as we move from a very powerful month spiritually powerful Zen Jedec month into a the mundane. Let's call it. That way. You need many transitions that helped helped pave help Pace ourselves so we can truly absorb and properly integrate the experiences and that's the key. If you try to do too fast too much. It won't work too little than you won't have the power. So that's what we have here. And that's the period we are in I'm going to be going into this. Wish I was a bit anxious. We'll be going into the end of tissue in a few days has urban and so on. The rebel continued even after the poshest voracious. He said but atius is still the creation the real way Acapulco Doc is partially area because that's outside of creation. That's when the mob will takes place this already. We see the hostility the difficulties the challenges the corruption of the world and then lock lock has yet another vehicle halkidiki Yahoo! That will call is a very marvelous Journey. So we'll be talking about it, but it's a very fascinating way of looking how we carry over. So the key thing is to not forget what has happened. but to take all the experiences and the special Inspirations that we gain gathered and gained and gleaned and now channel it in through this interface called the vehicle halkidiki the journey into our journey to wherever it is that we're going both physically spiritually psychologically emotionally and that's essentially the significance of the period in which we are right now, of course Cashman, is that ebb explains in some beautiful ways that has been goes to the Other Extreme if dish rates filled with Today's the next month has no holidays. Because that's the true test I have we really appreciate that. We really learned because as long as you're riding on the high and the holidays, we don't yet know where you are at here. We have no holidays. And now we see the real litmus test of how much we really experience it is when there's no holidays to ride on and you're bringing those holidays in and of course passionate as I just mentioned is unfortunately tragically is the destruction of the world because of The sins mullet audit shock as the world was filled with the with corruption and crime but that only to prepare the world for Noah and his family to rebuild it. Eylem how there's a new world. So it begins another vehicle halkidiki dealing with that challenges. So we're not ignoring the difficulties as long as you talking about creation of the world Embraces. They are talking about a world God created and every day is Tafe. They've made it's a good creation and a beautiful creation then of course. Of the fall when Adam and Eve eat from the Tree of knowledge, but since the month of the the Passover atius is still especially the beginning of it is about God's creation. It's an area where we see the consequences of the negative and tragic consequences of human behavior that and then we still have the hope to rebuild and recover and grow. So all this is part of the transition as we move from tissue into the regular year. The lessons are many personal lessons Collective lessons of Hope of renewal and Knowing that it's not just when you're inspired, but you can carry inspiration. If you do it properly. You can carry it throughout the whole year like exactly that unpack the the the pecola unpack the blockage the baggage that you gathered The Goods the resources that we gathered during this month of tishrei and then unpack it each in its place. So you carry that into all the months of the year because tissue as we know is the letters are atius. They she's means like a racial head like Russia Hashanah like Bodacious all the same. Ahead is not just the beginning of the year is the central nervous system is the control center of the year. So what happens in tissue, they really can influence the rest of the year, but you know, we can't live in the head the head has to carry forth into the rest of the body. The rest of the body in time is the days of the year the months and days of the year then days the hours the minutes the seconds that it all is infused and directed by the central control center by the control center of the mind of tishrei and as see this explains in the number of my Modern from the outside lab and other labs am cited the idea that from Rosh Hashanah. We get Kabbalah sale idea of accepting and embracing a cause greater than ourselves something greater than ourselves that from Russia. Hashanah is a rush for the whole year. We learned from that the head from that we derive that type of sense of purpose higher purpose for Rosh Hashanah and Yom, Kippur receive caduceus sanctity. And Holiness into the entire year and from circus we gain simple. Joy for the entire year and now is the time that transition to make sure that each of these is unpacked properly integrated internalized in our personal lives and our communities or ever we return to both physically and emotionally and conceptually, okay. Some episodes where I've spoken about this in previous years are 38 39, I'm sorry 85 135 180 for and 230 want to just mention one or two also announcements some housekeeping. Some people have pointed out to me that they listen to this not they don't view it. They listened on podcast whether they're running or exercising or driving or traveling somewhere and it's very annoying when they hear that I start referring to other episodes because the middle of exercise our middle of a journey very, The go click on those episodes. So I decided I'll start announcing the episodes at the end of the discussion, but on the other hand there is cross references because the fact is some of these topics were spoken about and I'd like to be complete and I can't I'm not going to repeat everything that I've said about this topic or other topics. So I will mention it but hopefully in a way that's not it's not intrusive or in any way this distracting with doesn't allow you to the flow of this program additionally. Lee I want to also point out that as we move along there's of course the topics that we've addressed sometimes almost completely addressed and I have no choice but I could just refer there so there will be times where I do that and I apologize if it's an inconvenience, but I think it's much more logical to do so and finally I want to say is that there's been many of you have asked and even clamored that I create that we create something in writing a text or sample type of Encyclopedia almost of Hasidic. 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If you have any other suggestions or ideas, please don't hesitate to share them and we consider everything and I consider it a privilege to hear from you feedback critique comments and suggestions and anything else that goes into that. Category so thank you for that. So since it's a post Holiday Program essentially, so I'm going to cover mostly toppings that came that came in questions that came in throughout the holiday season and afterwards and much more than usual. So I will try to cover as many as we can and then we'll of course return the following weeks into the regular flow of questions that have come in some are backed up. So please bear with me I will address them all. And I'm do so as we move forward. You can do it all in one shot. So that's that's it. So don't but don't in any way give up on me and give up on the program. Your questions will be addressed. So don't hesitate to write. Divine forgiveness versus human forgiveness. So this is a question two parts. How can we be sure that other people have forgiven us as God forgives us and the second part of the question is during the high holidays. Why is there more focus on our relationship with God then our relationship with each other? So let me read it in full. Okay, the rabbi Jacobsen during Yom Kippur this year. I was struck by the following realization. We spend so much time worrying whether or not a sham will forgive us. We say extra tehilim during L. We say Slickers we fast we clap our cut the technically is the confession by video when we clap our set and Yom Kippur and we take it all very seriously, but honestly, what are we so what are we so worried about we're assured That is m is kannan on marble Slayer. That means he's kind and he's filled marvelous left abandoned Lee forgiving and has 13 attributes of mercy, and we are actually certain he will forgive our sins the all three episodes in the get us. Okay. There's that if we were not certain of this would be a broccoli vetala. So I get us a trouve actually meaning a broker wasted Brock when we say Hannah marvelous layer. So we're sure that God will certainly God will forgive us. I think we can safely say that I shall not forgive our sins and give us another chance, but we cannot say that Same about uman beings. Human beings are very sensitive and their feelings can be heard pretty easily it can now it can be very difficult to forgive. So on if they have done something seriously wrong against you nevertheless. We are told not to be exordium which means not to be cruel. But rather to forgive we are told to emulate Hashem God and we Ram Mohan compassionate and kind as well. But if we weren't instructed to do so would we really forgive it certainly can be difficult. So my question is why? Is this a little focus on fixing up the been on them the kaveri and so much focus on the Benedum than welcome, but I'm not a very means between person and person and so much focus on between person and God. Yes, organization structures to ask our acquaintances for forgiveness, but there's no official ritual to carry this out and there's little focus on it in relation to the whole vibe of Yom, Kippur even though a locker makes it pretty clear that all the true been fasting in the world will not help an issue of being out in the Cavalry exactly, right? So I'm not sure why you're saying is not a focus. It says that specifically because God can only forgive them sins that God that we did against God but not one that we do against each other. I saw a post on social media lament lamenting the fact that supposedly from people are obsessed with God on Yom Kippur and do not ensure that they are acting in a polite honest and just Manner and just manner with their fellow people. This is a travesty I think of their original such as Michele Bachmann has on Purim where we send gifts where people actually have to send a Goodwill To those that have wronged it might be it might help the situation is somewhat but seriously, what can we do to help raise awareness of been other? Mahavira to in person in person it is so crucially important and I believe it should become the new focus on Yom, Kippur. Anyway, I'd be interested to hear your take on this matter many. Thanks. Okay, let me address that very directly. So first of all, absolutely that we begin everything with us being Mortals and flawed and that's exactly why it says the whole octopus Rocco follow and go God's ways because we're learning to improve we're looking seeking to improve ourselves and I live up to a higher standard if we were just to succumb to our mortal and limited flawed human human nature, they'd be a lot of us. That would be very unpleasant. So the whole point and especially of the holiday season is as we Embrace God, we means not just embracing and being good with God as being good with we're emulating God's ways. And that is absolutely an integral component for anyone to separate and say there's between you and God between you and others. Yes, technically it comes down to that. But if you're looking Tanya chapter 32 pay the glove pay the glove of the alter, rebbe and Tanya. What does he say that Hillel said the entire Torah is about love his love. He said it in the negative don't do unto others that which you dislike being done to you. That's the whole Toyota said and everything else is commentary. So he asked the question that Must have been other men. Well, it's implied. The question doesn't ask. It's explicitly that applies to all mixes that are between person and person. What about the things that Shabbos and kosher and Cabanas and prayer and offerings was that have to do with another person was that have to do with not doing to others that you don't want done to yourself. She says because I have the basis of our love is Transcendence is going outside of yourself. So all of the tale is about the Nationals now Shake A Leg of a table that you're nefesh your spirit should be primary and your material body and your material needs should be secondary and that's all the mistress including Shabbos and casters and even been on the the mock-ups own truth is they're really integrally bound basically put it bluntly there. Someone loves God and is good with God as not good with other people. They don't love God and God is not happy. If you love me love what I love which is my creatures. So that's a series of Packer see in a serious dissonance to focus on now why people do that that To their own cultural easy way sometimes as nothing to do with godliness as to do with your own selfishness. You can have religious selfishness to that's why I said this makes a point that everything needs are very the don't just fall back on your routines and habits even religious habits. The key to everything is being a more sensitive human being so if you see someone who Yom, Kippur is very holy in every possible way, but it's not polite to other people. I don't you know, I'm not taking away from what they are, but it's not complete. Let's be honest and maybe you can question what their relationship with God is as well in that context. I want to hurt another person in the name of service because I'm getting closer to God. Come on. The whole reason of Rama V new turned away from God and we learned from that to greet the guests, which he thought was just Arabs traveling in the desert not didn't know they were angels we learned from that big De La Cruz has our him greeting guests is greater than reading the screen. As I've discussed a number of times. How did I from know that because you know and fundamentally in his Essence he knew he didn't have to think about that to ignore a stranger to ignore a person is ignoring God. So to stay with God that came to visit him and ignore them. It's an essentially an affront to God not just an affront to that. So goes hand-in-hand both of the num lock available on the market as far as forgiveness goes. Yes, it's difficult. Of course, it's not hard for God to forgive which caviar shall we say? It's hard because Moshe had to pray for it 80 days until the Hashem finally said God finally said selecting converter Co because car vehicle so to speak like we say caution could clearly see I'm stuff. Why Chris I'm supporting the sea is Kasia difficult for God but based on the laws of nature that God created it. So to speak difficult because he does not want to suspend his own laws. So for him to see that we betrayed him whether it was the building of the golden calf or in any other way forgiveness does not come easy. That's why it takes the work of true but we yes we can be assured that God will certainly forgive us as you point out. Now. We as humans have the now emulate that it may be difficult. Someone that may have really hurt you. But that's exactly why we have the whole Simmons. She'll Hinata Hilda said of Yom, Kippur him that speaks about forgiveness to obligation to to ask for forgiveness and the obligation to forgive. So I'm not sure why you say it's not a ritual. It's more than a ritual so Mitzvah. Yes, Michelle kimonos putting is a specific thing you send gifts, but here we're talking about the beginning of the year. So it's much more than just sending gifts. It's actually introspection. And accountability and the remorse that you described in the humility that you show when you approach someone who you've hurt and that is a Mitzvah that them it's lvm Kippur and that is absolutely necessary to experience a full Yom Kippur. So both things that the both parts of your question very good question. However, the fact that people don't live up to this is that their weakness, but the Taylor expects from us to become Divine forgiveness is divine. It's transcending your feelings is Yes of did that even though his brothers sold him into slavery and almost killed him instead of showing revenge and even bat an ill feelings. He told him is that you as God that led me here. He was able to transcend. So the how do you get that you get a power you get that power from being created in the Divine image and acting Divine and that's what's expected not expected little things from us were expected to rise to the occasion and the and the greatest possible way. Okay. I hope that covers it. I will refer to episodes 3684 and 279. We're more I discussed forgiveness and they're also referred to many other forgiveness is a topic we've talked about number of times here because it's all essential interested us applied forgiveness. Such a pain the powerful principle in Torah and Judaism, especially Yom Kippur and this month this past month and of course throughout the year in our relationships between each other now next question the Sleep blessing because cry on him which we did a number of times through the season the young Tavor the interior Hashanah Yom Kippur circus, of course sober his kingdom so this so the question is what exactly is happening. When the Callahan and give the Priestly blessing. And why is it that we are not allowed to look at them while they do it. They cover themselves in the talus and we're not supposed to look. So the answer briefly is through your day from kadish when they make the Priestly blessing and they hold their fingers a certain way, which is the way that Hashem gave the power kosovar who has been a slowly told Moshe to tell Alan and his children. This is how you shall bless them. This means both the words of Russian Jewish Morocco and the rest of the words. And also what how to hold their hands that was because the Shekinah flows through the hands. So what's happening is the kind of mush looking look at the Ramona. There's still some of God is actually two opinions. When we said the end. The book is kind of on the Avada theme is the broth going in the Bronx on the cranium or the I Will Bless The in that ever has in the Brokers that he gave him Kipper various years after milk and also to the bottom discussion and these two opinions, but either way is the screener that brings the blessing obviously but the kohanim have that their dish liquid dish look in the messengers that God shows he chose. Bahar it shows Aaron the high priest among the Levites themselves to be clear on him to serve and one of their serving is to be channels of the blessing in Kabbalah talks about how the five hands. I'm sorry. The five fingers on both hands is ten fingers attend Spears and when you split them in the in the traditional way that occurring dozen both hands is that I'm Shaka of three and two in both hands and that's how the screen. Rests and dwells among the Jewish people through this cannon when the screen arrest you don't look at it. There's a certain sanctity to it. It's like razors Kardashian you close your eyes like we close our eyes when we say Shema you close your eyes when something very sacred is happening because it's not about it's not it's not it's not a tourist attraction. It's not about sightseeing. It's about awe and respect and whenever you stand on respect there's a certain humility and part of that is not looking at with the skin arrests now. Because the God forbid there's anything wrong with looking anything wrong with that but it's a place where our eyes should close and not look at as that screen presents itself and flows to us channels to us through the clay hunt through the high priests through the priests. So that's the brief answer for this and there's my motives three different kinds from the top of each page Zion. I'm of the goal after you base time is one of them was in that Pacific and other modern that this this idea is discussed. You can look it up in different places in errors in error in the entry and burgers Cranium and kohanim in several Akutan from some exotic and other places. I also spoke about briefly is the blessing and in episodes 191 193. There was more why we connected to dreams which is what the congregation Community says when the and as the Quantum of blessing us at the end of the Blessed. Okay. Next question. Also following up the holidays. The rebbe is safer Tater. Why do we his the Rebus averted after waiting in line for a long time the kids that are precipitated talking about a 770 so that ever would dance some crostata with a small separate are wrapped in a white shawl. So so now the customers even then was the custom during the day after the after the simplest are after that confers a now specially today that the civitate has held by someone and people go by to kiss it so the saying after waiting in line for a long time because that is a potato please can you give Insight into it and it's background. Thanks. So briefly, let's just begin with water because I say 48 in general when we take the 7 Tera from The Arc to the reading table and Shabbos or weekdays by Monday and Thursday or Yom, Tov. You see anyone when people go over to kiss it or passes by you kiss it the reason you kiss is because you're kissing kedusha its Holiness something you love you kiss just like we danced with it and super-state we danced with it. Why do we danced with the safer data? It's not just a book for us. It's a way of life is to date has high Innovative. He may know our life and our substance. Titus crime so we kiss it like we would kiss a child that because the life specially tailored as big have been a witness to all the greatest things and has traveled with us throughout history. So in every circumstances, we called it. We hold it there in an arc. We cover it up I said before we don't look at it except when we read it. It's protected like in the Ark in the temple. So what comes our way the world in which we live we so our priorities instead of kissing things that are inappropriate altogether or even neutral things. What we kiss what we Embrace what we love what we danced with what we celebrate with is a safer tail. They say it's only a tight. It's only a scroll it's parchment, but that parchment has been Sanctified and that's why I say the potato that's possible. You don't just throw it out. God forbid. It's a whole process. You have to bury it. Why because it has condition it once the Hebrew and the holy letters were written on the parchment. It's become a safer Teta it's holy forever. So it's not just when it was written for its entire life and forever. Could you show these awesome Caterham kedusha always remains especially in a thing like a safer Tater. This is also where we stand up for it out of respect not because of the parchment was it it's carrying to us. It's caring for us the words that go the vine and godly words of the tour of the words of God. Now when it comes to the deficit for Theta which means the tailor that the Leba danced with and we know that whatever it touches even as Furniture even as cheers as table as the physical therapy tells a powerful story in the first moment race. Is going my moloch to flourish pay which is exactly 100 years ago business and time after the Libera Shabbos nostalgic. She tells that that exactly that like it says in Exodus about 80s and Kim that's it was crucial is awesome came, even if there is not visible. It still is retained by the containers tells the story as a child. He saw his father going to the room that up my - dressed up with a goblin a cup with a very moving you can really do yourself and he saw him Whispering as if he spoke to him when it was In his lifetime he says because the table the chairs the physical room are all saturated with Lucia. So I save the tailor that a rabbit dance without ever danced with especially on this most special day of the year simply State the rebels day. If you go over there is business units are associated with the physical lab should be sympathetic with the rabbit and the rabbit dance with it and the sweat and tears and joy and celebration it carries with it. Who knows how much power so we kiss it is some way to connect. It it's not just a ritualistic thing and the more obviously you think about it. The more power you can get you can actually derive power but this is let's not make this into anything magical anything mumbo-jumbo. It's simply understanding and valuing something that carries so much power in it, and we respect it and that way some kissing. It is a form of adoration and adulation and of course respect and trying to live up to what it says in the Torah, of course throughout the year. Like I said, we unpack it. It's not just a kiss it. But to bring that kiss and that connection back to entire lives that we live with a love for Thor and not just follow the rules with duty but we do it with passion and with love and with excitement than with vibrancy, okay? Next moving along we covered some in Kippur things that we covered the because km. Now we cover this is a simpler state of post simcha state of question, which also gives me the opportunity to address it from many angles. And this is already going to be a little more. Let's put it this way a little more lively perhaps and I'm show elicit all kinds of different comments, which I look forward to and that is the issue of drinking. Drinking what is what do you think has caused the unhealthy obsession with alcohol and some who stated? That's the brief brief the question and the second part of the question, which we'll talk about is how should we address drinking problems in communities and Killers clubs in sure. So you get what I'm saying? So let me read it out. I'm taking three of I don't know. I've probably over 50 60 Questions that have come in over the years on this topic. I'm taking out three because they reflect a lot of what others have written and we've also talked about it but not in this direct contacts, but it's a good thing to talk about something. Of course, we have directors straight from the ribbon has the rabbi Jacobsen. What do you think is caused unhealthy obsession with alcohol on some Crusade? I don't know. I just don't get it if we are. Actually celebrating the Toyota then why do so many people think they're getting drunk is the correct way to celebrate some cos Theta when the tailor expressly forbids getting drunk in a debased manner. It just doesn't make sense. Honestly, it seems people spend more time clutching whiskey and vodka bottles than holding a safer Tater or any other safer for that matter they ridicule you if you don't make Kiddush on mosca, it's an alcohol on and they have turned the mask into some sort of Health social to do. Shh. An object of holy object. It's ridiculous and obscene. A local menu where I live organized an initiative or everybody donates a bottle of mashka to the show to be consumed during some cos Theta imagine if they would have denoted donate its for him. That's holy books instead of alcohol. Yes actual Tire. Or Givens docket are worthy cause charity to a worthy cause them promote alcohol consumption the name of this guy seriously, this seamstress mashka business has gotten out of hand and it needs to stop some quasi talmudic quotes to encapsulate this. Sorry State of Affairs system is simple Compass instead of a true covertly. She caught him. Okay, he's basically it's a play of Words, which says you should celebrate the simplest data and give honour to tell you that he's saying what they're doing is giving honor to drunks call me sell a stock of the simplest a delayed awesome. Come here move. That's a PlayOn expression that anyone who did not see the dancing of Simcoe spacer. Sheiva through circus. They're not see joy in their lifetime. She says called miscellaneous tarkas someone who do not get drunk and simply stated did not see join their days. This is all obviously puns that he's trying to the A to this question. Hi, Vin asleep. Summer be sympathetic hardly Audubon Kiddush Hashem the hill lashem tragic that is a play on words important. It says that a person is responsible to get drunk to the point. They can't recognize the difference between blessing of Mordecai in the course of Hama. She says here the blessing is a person is responsible to get drunk on sympathetic to the point. They don't know the difference being a kid assassin sanctifying God's name and kailash EM. That's a grating consonant. God forbid. So the truth is this is not my taste. Called those but this is part of the note. I get the point is angry and upset and legitimately so to some extent so let me continue this note. One thing that struck me as I was pondering. This is that the whole reason the women were separated from the men in the base. I'm English during simply based on Shaver was to prevent frivolous behavior in a holy place during a holy time. Well, it seems that this that that was a massive failure because men are acting in words that frivolous fashion and our shows on some Crusader by imbibing with alcohol. And educating our children to think that some coasters actually about alcohol and not dead. So why don't we put a stop to it? Just as the time didn't the base of me? There's the combat the princes and Halos of their time. The frivolous behavior and their time if we don't then why is this Behavior accepted but women dancing with the third immodestly is not part of the problem is the idea that there must be if I bring him before a compass is this seriously necessary to people actually have more qivana or simcha while dancing after the mumbling. And if not, then what is the point it just prolongs the day night and shows that eating and drinking a more important than actual dancing Basilica. Enjoy it with joy if they would just do a cuff is first then everyone could participate in those Mustafa bring lady could do so without inconveniencing anyone. It would also help those men with families be finished at showed earlier to tend to their wives and children assuming they still care about them. Okay to be sure I have no issues with saying the hymen a moderate fashion are some who stated but sadly it has turned into an obsession. The tail is meant to be the kicker the primary thing but has become the tuffle the secondary second fiddle to Vices and Gullett Vice white like vodka white drink and girl is yellow which is like Scotch. I do not think it's a coincidence that I swing. It says we say the kind volume of us. Like I'm too light but not to death. Okay, nice touch anyway enough of my rant, which is probably cost me the popular vote apologies were being a party pooper, but I believe this issue must be addressed many. Thanks for your inspiring program a good year. I read it exactly as it is and and I'm happy that a person is so blunt. And I think this is a good platform for it. So let me just comment then I'll talk about the next two questions in the same family a lot of what you're right. I totally agree with mashka even in the Holy Time was taken by the greatest system. It was always a tough. It was never any once it becomes something that more primary. Obviously, it's completely unacceptable. There's also the social element has become a social thing, which is for sure. Not a tater approach. The little Moscow we take is meant to be to be a tester because it does loosen the heart. So to speak and open a person up and weakens. The Never shabam is it says in the circus? But when moderation now, this is even before the debit came into the picture then the Rubbermaid Xavier, which he didn't say once but he said numerous times that no one should drink more than four little cups. The river was repulsed when he heard that people make Kiddush on a full cup of Moscow. And that has a letter about it. And this exactly is the focus because become an end in itself. And especially we live in a world today where alcohol is becoming a problem Wilson talk about that and then other the other comments on this issue. So I agree with you in general and I also agree however that you have we also agree. I also want to make a more important comment. The reason is if I bring him before a compass is not our own creation deliver Furbling before it causes but if it's done in a rubbish away meaning in a holy way. The sacred way in a humble way. So what you writing is, yes, it's become an epidemic in many ways and it's caused a lot of problems. You don't even mention the alcoholism that it's cause people to become addicted to alcoholics with their for sure has nothing to do with Holiness. Then it becomes something just a dependency like any like any alcohol or any addictive substance? But when you have exerted from the never, I don't even know what there's more to talk about. We're talking to the stadium isn't what the rabbit says the most important thing. I'm not sure where this leniency around this. I understand some constraint is a little lighter attitude and so on but nobody comments and it's become something that is I totally agree now what to do about it. I don't think what is the right way to go with very strict discipline. I think we have to educate people first. We what Taylor says what simple instead is really all about what mashka means what that ever said about it. The more educated people are and this is one of the reasons for this program. I think that alone will have a strong impact so we have to share with If you know someone that you feel is gone over the line, why don't you share with them a few secrets of the web instead of yelling at them? It's not the way then it becomes a debate them comes Egos and pride and so on point them out Point them to Seekers. I spoke about this a number of times episodes 134 135 and one 247 and I believe I cited some of the rebels talks, but if not, I'm happy to provide talks of the debit. I would just use this as an opportunity to educate our children and of course adults as well. So that's what I want to say about this. Let's take the other two and then I'll come and some more question number two in this regard was educating consider. Shh parents and teens of the seriousness of alcohol abuse. Hi Rabbit Jacobson. I want to thank you for the important work you are doing I truly find your practical and sensible approach in answering questions. Recently, I think he wants to add a word probably recently. I witnessed a disturbing event at my grandchild's wedding my 16 year old grandson got drunk and passed out. It was very scary and upsetting I don't want to go into more details. My question is how do you convince father of child of seriousness of the harm caused by this? How do we educate Teaneck cilicia father's of seriousness of alcohol abuse in order to prevent this from happening. Again. Thank you for all your help in dealing with confusing issues of this generation. And finally for now one more drinking problems in communities and kids clubs and show their High Rapid Jacobs. My community has a drinking problem. I'm a member of a Nash Community and I am disturbed by the widespread acceptance and even encouragement of drinking. I'm referring to being as well as a shovel. I'm referring to be in as well as a shul sanctioned Kiddush club during the time of aftera where members of Shield both older and younger men go. I have a sponsored Kiddush with a devout Tara presenting the whole event as a legitimate Endeavor. This Behavior bothers me is I feel that example it sets for the bottom who witnesses Behavior as the kids club is not performed in a discreet manner. In addition. It concerns me is to the impact. This has on the families of the community which children think it is normal behavior. And that truly is a place for drinking and my opinion this comes from a drinking culture that is created a for stirred within the Chivas which then evolved into this Behavior. Am I wrong? Is this kosher quote-unquote cultural form of kids club appropriate if it helps bring people together for Advantage and positive bonding. If not, how can this be addressed? What place does alcohol have within the confines of an ash and provide a medium of bonding? Okay, well. Look this may be going uphill battle. And yes, man. Everyone's going to like these points, but let's go back to what I said from the web. To answer any question. What is right and what is wrong? We all can stay at our opinions. We may be repulsed by something and find out that's a Mitzvah to do it. You just have to learn what it's about. But that's not the case that ever made it very clear and that's all that's relevant to us. We're not the middle of the presidium when I've altered Upstream of the devastation. It doesn't mean we're not consider them of them, but they never added something and he made Xavier. I said a decree. He called it to the point. He didn't let people go on a talaga. He says one of my in yanam. You want to be connected to me? I have to follow what I suggest. He didn't like people go America Slickers and other things people why because they never made it very clear. So let's start with that because that doesn't matter what there's an explanation or explanation even if we don't understand the rebbe and we can absolutely by the way, which I'm going to talk about in a moment. That's the type of statement and that's it. So, where's this room for this new license to just drink frivolously, even if it's not frivolous that everything everything say that if you're learning You know you for bringing you can drink as many cups as you want didn't say that. So if I bring and I'm giving power that you can do it with a little mask few little cups that obviously cannot cause cause intoxication. Now there were times that ever took of the Xavier. That's the dep has a cries. That's not ours. We don't have that power to do it. So based on that all these new customers whether it's a bain Friday evening people coming to shul smelling from alcohol or is this kid is clubs with all the good intentions. Just ask yourself. What do you think that ever would say if you asked him should we do this in our shal or we're doing this inertial? You tell me what you think that I would say in middle of dominance. If a person wants to do whatever they want to do that's their personal thing but to make it also to sanctify it as it was part of that building as part of the Holy proach. You don't want to come to show God forbid your business but to turn to that as also as you said an example two children completely move not even a question. Now I said that approach to take this should be a grew their personal yell at people. I've been to shows with his accusers Club. I don't yell at people. I don't participate but you know we talked about it again. I think it's education think people are crossing the line because they're justifying again. It's it the biggest sin of all sins. I'm not going to say that either so I think people are giving themselves a license a little freedom to be loose. It's a little social and so on but in the day is that with the rebel wants of us is that acceptable now, this is even if there's no Alcohol problem, unfortunately and tragically we have seen this has caused real alcoholic problems Shalom bias issues between parents and children between husband and wife is cause breakups. I personally am aware of them. So now we're talking much more than just. Okay, like some people say analysis should get him. I'd rather have a citizen again and then again besides the shogunate so means I drinking so it's all go to get him because I did but was at least acts Edition, but here we're talking about it. ready illness Addiction Mama's helper hotel that you're addicted to an object that has substance controls you. But that is the concept of cities you control everything. You should be in control of yourself and your body and everything. And all the other problems that come from alcoholic abuse alcohol abuse and substance abuse not to mention out spills over into many other problems with alcohol is today in society, which is of course what the devil was also alluding to I'll call today is not alcohol sitting in this little shtetl above average or in vitebsk or somewhere else in the cinema for bringing. So the point are all well taken a my goal is to make people aware to bring it to the surface of the table. I'm happy to hear comments. So one has a different perspective by all means. I'm not sure how you're going to work around the lives of saidan. However, now the explanations I just gave this plenty ways to explain it. But even if that explanation we have directive is not a matter that was left up to us the rebbe gave instruction and probably offers and I probably for sure for saw all the scenarios again. Would I choose this to be the Battle of our time unnecessarily? It's an issue. And since we're adjusting this is just an issue, but still the two wrongs don't make a right just because it's not the biggest issue doesn't mean we shouldn't Talk about they could be much bigger issues. And I know very exclusive people and find people that drink sometimes drink too much and it's in good spirits and they not even carry it that still doesn't mean we can bring that up is because Ada and still doesn't mean that other people will learn from it in the wrong way. So that's what I do. That's I think enough to speak about this topic and if there are I'm sure there's going to be a follow-up on this. So please feel free to Right and comment at city supply.com. You'll see there. You can submit your comments and question by the way, you wrote that you're putting yourself on the line. You're not because there's no name and I didn't really name and I don't even have a name so may cost you the popular vote, but nobody can know who the popular who you are. So there's no loss of anything if anybody's on the line, it's me, which is perfectly fine firstly. I'm reading people's comments. Secondly. I'm presenting it as best as I understand it from the Devas point of view again. Love to hear other perspectives and other And we'll talk about it some more. I'm sure and that's that. Okay next boring holidays. So this is two final questions that are post holiday Blues issues. Holidays have become very boring and monotonous. What can I do to make them more meaningful and another question which relates to it as well in combat. The hilum is said very often it has that says home is still in town yet Cheval criminal Etc. It can often get very boring and doesn't feel very meaningful. Do you have any suggestions? So what is about holidays? I want specifically more about the hilum. So I've talked about this many times how you that's the whole point of consider this whole point of my life because it has supplied. How do you invigorate and energize and Revitalize ritualistic Behavior mechanical Judaism robotic Judaism because that's what it can become if Russia Hashanah Yom. Kippur circus is done robotically meaning just to be ait's it is quite boring and quite monotonous comes in a small seed that I said the soul of tape that what is the sole do to a body a body can be a corpse God forbid without a soul a soul is meant to energize it to give it life. So you can have a person for example has a soul but they walk around like a zombie. Come on. Let's lat God forbid a soul is that they're vibrant there alive? There's a sparkle. There's an energy. So the key is to learn Exodus and understand the neshamah of Rosh Hashanah Yom Kippur circus and I've talked about this many times to choose the right few prayers. You say it all but a few of them, were you really put your energy into it and prepare for it and look at it as an exciting experiment if you wish an exciting Venture Journey. Of taking these ideas taking these customs and rituals and understanding is deeper meaning and its spiritual relevance as psychological application and then it starts coming alive. You take the dalit minute. So we know we do not know him. We blessed every morning with a new image shaken all directions, but why? So when you hear that the four million for example correspond to 4 types of personalities, and we're joining them together in a good actress and one Union and we spread in all directions. So then it's about celebrating Unity. Same thing with Sookie just giving examples same thing with Schaefer, um, Kippur some of the stata personalize it understand the siddha. Shh, the shaman decommissioning. That's how you make things that are from boring to exciting and the same thing as an education of children. That's how you make it exciting. You make it relevant. Little and Alive exciting the same thing with tell them tell them yes tell him is hard to understand the parish. I'm Alice, but you could use it to him. If you're an English speaking person with the translation and maybe focus on a few prayer a few of them little see this and you see the explanation of the some exotic until him another my modern and the comes alive. He suddenly realized these words are very cryptic very brief, but they carry tremendous potency and tremendous messages and tremendous music even poetry and Melody. That's the way you do it but that's not going to come automatically. If you want something not boring. You have to invest if the vest energy I refer you to episodes 84 and episode 268 for more on this topic. Let's do two follow-ups. Now we'll do this is this question and the three essays follow-up to follow ups. We talked in the last two episodes 278 and 279 about are piercing and the letter from the debit. on the topic that says why we justify it, even though a person as opposed to mutilate or in any way hurt themselves because of the the temporary and short brief pain our ways. Is overshadowed by the pleasure of a person feeling dressed up properly and feeling special feeling dignified? So the question arises in reference to earrings what difference does it make of the pain is worth it. What if I say the pain of tattoos is worth also is also worth it. I don't really understand how this is an answer. Thanks so much. So two things few things. First of all tattoos is specifically forbidden in the Tater. We're not talking about a sticker by the way tattoos in the skin Edge to the skin. through specifically forbid There's nowhere forbidden to make it to have an earring. It's a matter of fact that ever brings. We know that the boys are made sharks were wore jewelry. And you have the concept of piercing a near by nevitt not for positive reasons, but still the concept is their tattoos are absolutely forbidden. So regardless whether we understand why even if a person has pledged the Torah says no because it's my circuit nanny is Pagan Behavior, but addition it's also mutilating and and forever changing your body. Your body is sacred the Divine in creating the Divine image an earring that does not create alteration that fundamentally changes a person's skin. It's a very small purse whole as I said there's a beauty part of it is beautified. So there are things you can do you're allowed to put on a crown on you you're allowed to do certain things to your body to beautify it here the issue. Is there a lot to mutilate and pain. So the number says that overshadows it so it's not just whether it you're worth it. So besides I like pain and have no problem tattooing my whole body besides the fact that the traitor tells us what it Where pain is allowed where pain is not allowed. There's also the element of complete. facing and altering a human body Now question about plastic surgery is another topic not for now and we'll talk about that. Another question came in another follow-up to last 289 to episode 279 why it was about why is the status of that? I'm not a sense of aesthetic for the most part ignored nor does not learn this much as others. There are be Jacobson regarding the learning of the more Uncommon car vehicle parts of cities. So I addressed it in that episode. I'm just following up here. Some will say that the Exodus of the middle of a board some exciting show. I'd be learned by bottom or even a nice because it is too abstract Etc. Even if someone is seen learning the momentum of the red mustache and he may be scolded and told to go learn something simpler while there are my mother I'm of other more commonly learned to obey him that are much more hard or deep. I mean, I don't understand that at all frankly because first of all that a better shot was quite deep in the physical debit. So I don't know if it's the depth I explain this that there's no excuse for not learning it just we have to prioritize and also some things were printed later. This could be the writer continues the rebel cocked in the red my ration that someone said extended very often even if it may be deeper and requires more patience and time. It should be emphasized. There's a major cock in the Deep Exodus of the Lebanon shop. Why not on my mom the Midler Deborah did some exotic there's no reason that Buckner. Be harassed by others for learning more obscure cases. So let's begin with this harassed scolded ridiculous. Someone's learning see this Taylor. Now in the Sada Shiva choices were made that IBM gave directors what to begin with my modern whether Taylor look at the time you take a look at the Toyota. There are some so Circle so we have directives. This doesn't mean that the rest of Exodus God forbid is not important. It's just you can't learn or for example shots. We don't learn all the sectors such as in you Shiva. There's certain six seven myself is that I learned now, I think it's a few less. That doesn't mean the rest of the shots is not to be done. Let's call it Theta Theta cos the same Godly Divine Theta so And harassing is ridiculous. I don't know where that comes from and yet must be manned with the guidance of the Rebellion gave us by modern that the repechage my mom certain of them are very fundamental allows entry into understanding cities. This doesn't mean that someone said it was not that it matters. Not just their style may be different as well as that they were not as accessible. They were all manuscript where the others were more spread out than the Babbage and then later Coming to America and Israel and so on. So thank you for your comments. Here's see this question. How does so let me just conclude that point. So therefore we have to learn all of us to this as I said in the last episode however prioritizing and that you should talk to my spear your love. I must be who can help guide and prioritize what you should learn what's earlier about later and so on but like anything but most commercially behalf. It's since I have learned that my lashes and it's Emmett says I can tell you the picture is only complete when you know, what all that IBM said. Some exotic style is yes more dense because especially the shipments of the summit said they're going to a lot of sources in a lot more explanation. Whereas the Deborah shop and even the remedies for that matter how much more expansive and explaining an idea but that's each lever has this style the middle of them of course is the cave assign or of Bina expansive as it gets very profound very deep in the bin and others form of the labor of the mental 11, but all that I'll beim are part of one big picture like it is with And shots Mission and Gomorrah. That's the bottom line. There's no justification. I'm going to go explain why we don't learn something. It's only technical reasons or it was not available or prioritizing. Okay. Thus it is questions like this. How does this explain the great flood? So that's the theme of this week's chapter the marble. Why did they love live so long before the flood and then the years then their years were shortened 220 as we read in this coming passion. And other elements of the flood so let's put it this way. We mentioned before the beginning of the program is partial begins mall are the chakras. It says ill until the sneha mayor Chris addict in are Tommy strategy and so on. Tom and Tom Empire in Mathematica, the end of last patch already says I know how much a chamber in the action but the rest of the world was Molly other chakras there was full of corruption and crime and I Shams or necessary to cleanse that's works. It is calls it a Mikvah 40 days. Is like the 40 cubits of Amiga 40 days and 40 nights that the rain fell but it gave them plenty ample opportunity to do chuva. So really the whole my marbles are cleansing process. The question really is God knew it's going to happen and the end the last week's chapter. It says that he regrets what he did so rash even addressed it says there was a time when he was happening. There's a time when it's at see this explains because God created the world in a way. We recreated A Beautiful World It will tell us us mind always be bottom till this Molly create a world a perfect world, but then he gave the world under the trust of the human being God's partner to make the world a did Abbott octane. a home for the divine and ultimately bring Michelle Angola and the skin should be in Canadian in the whole world. But as we learn the beginning of bustle Agony what happened was with the sin of Exodus and then the following subsequent Generations unfortunately due to free will we have that choice? Because that's what text a name is that we have choices not we're not puppets. And unfortunately, they chose the other path and the Divine became more concealed first from the Earth to the first heaven to the second Heaven till the seventh heaven. It was of Rama VIII no 10 Generations after Nia that would reverse the process but the ten generations to know your destroyed the world as the mishna says. So God understood that the world has potential to be destroyed and then it happened but it's not a dead end. First of all, you are near his family preserve because God was not interested in destroying existence. He was interested that it be done the right way. So the rabbit has a secrets that the first Generations live along because it was a gift from above. It was like giving your children to give but they're not they have an earned it so they got a gift and they have a over almost a thousand years people lived people have hundreds and hundreds of years. But since they didn't earn it, there was an internalized it could also corrupt it. That's how it is whenever you give a gift. The marble created a balance think of it like sphere decide Kalin Cesar ominous live - A shattering in order to rebuild but now it's been rebuilt in a harmonious way now that we went through that first period and in general the first twenty six generations to Matt and Tara are in that category in general the zoo number has a shocker it's casted of God. It's not through earned except the obvious. But and when you don't learn something you can easily take it for granted. And abuse it which is what happened. So the model came to cleanse and restart, press the restart button. So in New York came out with his family was to rebuild the world and now you're going to get a hundred and twenty years because you don't deserve a thousand years. That's a gift now. It has to come from your efforts. This is based on secrets in the Lebanon area and local and local contractors Volume 15 or 30 seconds. So that's how it seemed. and so basically what we want to have is a gift from above but then we want to internalize it through a very the bouquet. That's me the work from below and then combined together. That's how we transform the world and prepared for the goal. Okay, let's now do the continue with essays from 2019. So we're now in the top 70 80 essays probably. These are essays they came in right before pesach and we were you worried there were Awards and then we're now reviewing all these essays as an order that they were marked the order of the list of their marks and many of them are very close. So at the excellent essay is continued to be great as the first one is how you a magician chakra alligator shame. Which means the day after divorce sad topic liras nakamise age 41 Miss melted Israel. A dependent presenter sheet has a tan not even show that is must be some approach some psychological approach sheet of a ton. It's called and that's what this is about. So the writer writes about this issue that there's no rules it said. And one thing is for sure. There's no way to return once a person has done it. Goes on to say this, essay is going to address. a different way of looking at divorce and how to look at the most difficult moments as being actually the ones that can actually bring a couple back together again, obviously giving you a case against divorce. So not feeling that our relationship has to end. And explains a sheet of ethanol here actually eight times. What's 8 times the footnote here? Let me just look it up. Szilagyi who this per set aside a room. Okay. It's a Jewish psychological approach presented by a hundred ruse Abraham. Who runs a mockery Nathan and I guess in Israel. It's based on Tanya. And using that give tools and resources of how to deal with the most difficult elements of a relationship. So it's very original essay in the sense that it deals with a really painful issue. And brings students applied to using the tiny Exodus how to look at the greatest challenges in life. Of course. One of them is the most is when a marriage is falling apart. God forbid. Brings of ROM has said it's kagura and their children ages of the smallness of how they distorted casting Buddha. And continues on to how that it can be applied to make many marriages work better. And ultimately how to Divorce Yourself actually from negative things. That's a surprising twist here. Okay, it's a pretty long essay was a lot of additions very very recommended especially if you're dealing with any topics that are related to this. And I want to thank you for that this essay. I enjoyed it and found very valuable, especially in the work I do and I will definitely use points and some of the sources cited in this essay. The next sa Kate said Mega shrimp a La Pierre bonnard ROTC lamotte's a potato success. how do you bridge the Schism between The desired and actual that was what you want and where you are. According to Exodus Menachem Mendel are above age 29 in lot Israel slea in the inner city of Eilat the southern city of a Latin Israel. So this essay deals exactly with that how to bridge the two the things we aspire to and with the actual reality of where we are. And use this to this to do this by understanding the nature of the spirit of the Soul. Why does it that we dream? And then how do we bring that dream into reality using the principles of symptom and say their stylist and then or the world that were created another very good essay using real acidic concepts of the whole Cosmic order to explain this concept with practical applications and finally other than polygamy video Gua the inner and peaceful man the act of three Cola h44 Batali lead Israel. teacher and Thomas Theta of City by on in beta, okay So this essay is begins. One of the difficult challenges of Our Generation. I'm translated from the Hebrew. So just bear with me. Is the busyness and the pressures that we all have today technology has only increased that even though it's made things easier, but it's also put a lot of pressure and very intense. So question is how do you find inner peace in a turbulent turbulent times? She brings interesting stories and from Taylor Sheldon where the 3D with the whole story with the Debra shop. About how when they booked him saying quickly instead of being a Pity me and being there entirely idea of multitasking in a negative way where you're constantly running to do something else and based on that develops a whole principle of how we deal and find that inner peace very nice sa lot of interesting points and topics and I thank you for that as well. So there we have it the three essays which was also a way of honoring all the work that people have put in an invested in creating these essays. So my friends with this we conclude My Life episode 200. My life said the supplied episode 280. Everyone should have a good good bench to your vehicle. Polka dot k the journey should go peacefully should be an integrated one should be one that brings all the power and energy and inspiration into our daily routines and our lives and they should not be more boring or Manhattan's but they should be alive and dynamic. We understand the purpose for which we are here and we wake up every morning excited. To fulfill the purpose the mission for which we were created. We're here every Sunday now now the holidays are over every Sunday 8:00 to 9:00 p.m. Everyone have a very blessed week. I blessed her dish husband carrying tissue a into module B. Well
Addressing the Personal and Emotional Needs of Our Community and Answering the Most Pressing Questions of Our Lives -- from the Perspective of Chassidic Thought. TOPICS: • Chassidus Applied to End of Tishrei, post holidays, Cheshvan and Noach 3:30 • How can we be sure that other people have forgiven us, as G-d forgives us? 18:58 • During the High Holidays why is there more focus on our relationship with G-d than on our relationship with each other? 19:05 • What exactly is happening when the kohanim give the priestly blessing? Why are we not allowed to look at them blessing us? 28:16   • Why do we kiss the Rebbe’s Sefer Torah? 31:37 • What do you think has caused the unhealthy obsession with alcohol on Simchas Torah? 36:48 • How should we address drinking problems in communities and “Kiddish Clubs” in Shul? 36:57 • How to energize the holidays so that they not be boring? 52:51 • Can we make Tehilim and Chitas meaningful? 53:01 • Follow up (episodes 278-279):       o Ear piercing 56:15      o Chassidus of the Rebbe Maharash and the Tzemach Tzedek 58:30 • Chassidus question: How does Chassidus explain the great flood? 01:01:59 • My Life 2019 essays:      o היום הראשון שאחרי הגירושים, Liraz Nachmias, 41, Mismeret, Israel 01:06:45     o כיצד מגשרים על הפער בין הרצוי למצוי על פי תורת החסידות, Menachem Mendel Arabov, 29, Eilat, Israel;  01:09:49     o אדם פנימי ורגוע, Yaakov Tzvi Kola, 44, Beitar Illit, Israel 01:10:51  Submit your question now at http://www.meaningfullife.com/mylife or email: Mylife@meaningfullife.com. https://www.meaningfullife.com/shop/  EMAIL US: wisdomreb@meaningfullife.com  MyLife: Chassidus Applied is a series of video webcasts answering questions from the public, with the objective of demonstrating how Chassidus provides us with a comprehensive blueprint of the human psyche as a microcosm of the cosmos, and offers us all the guidance we need to live the healthiest possible life and build nurturing homes and families, bringing up the healthiest possible children, emotionally, psychologically and spiritually. MyLife is brought to you by the Meaningful Life Center as a public service, free of charge. 