Do you want to go traveling? Are you fantasizing about disappearing to someplace else? Do you want to experience a new country or do you want to eat some different food, or maybe you want to meet new people that you've never met before being a different environment because you're so tired of your old routines and the old patterns that you've been engaging in for so long. Maybe it just feels like automatic Pilots. Maybe you dream about running your business online. Being successful in such a way that you could be wherever you want whenever you want with whoever you want. Well, that's great. There's nothing wrong with that. That's a fantastic aspiration to have it's a pretty cool desire, but I will tell you one thing if you've ever gone on a vacation before or if you've ever traveled in the past often times, you're very excited you're very very stoked for the experience as it's coming up. But once you're on it, typically your kind of In person you were as before before you went to this incredible place before you got to go and experience the world because wherever you go, there you are and when you realize this it makes traveling still be quite a lot of fun. However, you start to realize that ultimately what's really powerful is finding joy in your current experience right here. Right now so instead of dreaming yourself away to some distant place or thinking that things are going to be better when you get somewhere or when you get something you're just happy right here right now, and then you do enjoy those things but it's from a higher platform. You see most people seek these experiences from a low low Place essentially what they're doing is saying, I don't feel good. I'm not happy where I am. I don't like my environment. And so when I go over there, then I'll be happy. It's the same thing as saying well once I get that nuke, Our then everything will be great and you get the new car in for a while. It's really cool. Maybe even for quite a long time you love it. It's your ideal car. So you drive it every day and you get some sense of Joy from it, but after a while the novelty wears off the new car becomes the old car just like the place you wanted to go becomes the place that you are at and when you're there and you have it and now there's supposed to be no excuse for you not to feel happy and fulfilled somehow you might still not be happy and Fulfilled you thought that getting out of the loop out of the autopilot out of the box was finally going to make you feel happy and joyful and for a bit, maybe it even did but it's not sustainable because the common denominator here is you you your character how you feel about yourself. Your thoughts most importantly are what actually impact your overall subjective experience the most the environment the school and for While it will make a difference when it's new and different it does get you out of your head for a bit, but it will become normal. It will become oh now we're just here and this is it now we're driving this car and this is it and now it just has become the present moment. It's not special anymore. It's not flashy anymores. You can't daydream about it because you're in it so you can't remind to size it and make it seem bigger and greater than it actually is people also do this with their past, you know, go glorifying the good old days same thing. So instead of dreaming they dreaming and thinking about some vacation where you're going to escape and finally get out of your miserable experience and existence instead make a decision to work on you make a decision to take a vacation away from your bad thoughts. That's the best kind of vacation where you stop thinking negatively for a while where you hold yourself to a different. Regiment of thinking a different pattern maybe you start asking yourself in every activity that you do. How can I find the joy in this what's fun about this? What do I love about what we're doing right now what excites me about it? You can always find something see if you're looking for gloom and doom if you're looking for a misery, you will find it if you're looking for happiness and joy, you can find that to anywhere in the world doesn't matter if you're in the great place or in the place where you think you need? To get out of as soon as possible. There are some joy to be found in every situation people have managed to find Joy before you so why can't you hope that you enjoyed the video make sure that you subscribe and turn on your notification Bell so that you don't miss a single upload. And if you'd like to experience a real breakthrough and some massive progress in your life sign up for coaching. It's in the bottom left of your screen right now. If you click on that, you'll go to my website and you can book a free consultation to get us started.
I share with you how you can achieve your dreams of traveling the world! S U B S C R I B E : https://www.youtube.com/user/RafaelEliassen?sub_confirmation=1  Coaching with Rafael: https://www.rafaeleliassen.com/coaching  #ChangeYourLife #ChangingYourLife #TravelingTheWorld #TravelAdvice #TravelDreams #TravelingDreams #AchieveYourDream #DreamLife #LiveYourDreamLife #AchievingYourDreams #PersonalDevelopment #SelfImprovement #PersonalGrowth #SelfImprovement #SelfHelp #Travel #Explore #Motivation #Motivational #MotivationalSpeech #MotivationalSpeaker  What are the most common life mistakes young people make? Here are 7 common mistakes young people are making nowadays. 1. Living for likes: Every moment is wasted away by trying to capture it perfectly for social media. It’s much better to experience the experience than trying to make it look cool. 2. Enough sleep: I am not saying don’t party but make sure your body gets the sleep it needs. 3. Not saving money: Wasting money to look cool or buy unnecessary things they think they need to get approval from others. The best thing young people can do is develop a saving habit. 4. Being fake: Not being their true self and pretending just so their peers will like them. 5. Fretting over mistakes: We all make mistakes nobody is perfect. Learn and move on. 6. Worrying about looks: Looks matter yes but what matters more is how people feel around you. Focus on that. Day-dreaming: Thinking once they do something, once they travel to this new place everything will be fixed. 