Welcome to my life because it is supplied episode 285. We are in the beginning of the month of kislev and this week. We'll be test Kozlov. Coming Shabbos, which is both the birthday and the yard sides of the mitla debit. It's also Shabbos pastors v8c. So as is our custom following the guidelines of the debit that I'm paying to live with the times to open up with discussing these significant dates and period in time and of course all in the spirit of the supplied applying it to our lives to our personal lives. So we'll start the start with test Kiss Live being that the the second Chabad Ribbit the middle of rubber the son of the alter rebbe as a as that are bane of said that there are beim are all structured around this fetus with the Baal Shem Tov and the maggot being casted attic and Erik all today. But hakama the Midler abena somewhat static - and that we heard the rumor a said that and then the later IBM said that the red mirages and that's our that ever Russia by the physical abuse in the Levant be Malthus. There are three wide skips classes Gerty Farish. I never saw a direct source, but it could be the reason is because I conduct business as well. The Nets are hey, you said it says in places and cities is the implementation of the practical application of the three meters of Hazzard Guru Tavares. So naturally, this is more connected to bring Too pale. So perhaps that's why it's not counted instead. It's not so crazy. Say if anyone has any sources about that, please share it and I will share it with the public. So Midler Deb is being there. Being of course is identified as anyone who's learned a little citizen knows how to cover expansion. so of costume is than the Cuda is a point is the conception just a mere concentrated point being is the expansion and comprehension of that and development of that spark Sabina the middle area, but we see that exactly that that it took the kudus relatively they were compared to before the altar lab especially before petalburg City before you test Kiss Live they were really short but even relatively affluent The words that the middle of ebba one page of the middle of the alter rebbe could be ten Pages by the middle of the herb both in the her knockers that he wrote that he heard from the altar debe are more expanded still based. Of course on the Altar debe and when you compare it to other Anarchist other people who wrote down with altered ever said and definitely the damn it let himself is on my modern are literally as I said expansive Davis are not so since explains the difference between a Mayan and are not a mine is a spring the Springs of water that are usually under the ground. They are what we call mindcrime there live water. So on one hand, they're very intense, but they'll come out very very concentrated form drop drop tipping tipping us as is brought in halacha and exodus drop drop behaviors are not on the other hand the river which is not a source a Rivers already has a source of water that's running into the river that's feeding the river but the river expands that those drops into becoming a very I'd and a more expansive flow. So that's what being a Dustin Hoffman. It takes the cart the concentrated that point and expands it in a way that we can fully understand it in simple English. There's the concept of stone conceiving of an idea. There are people who know how to develop that idea to the point that you can execute it. You can bring it into implementation execution. Because as long as it remains just a spark. It's very difficult has to be fleshed out. So you really need both and that's where the expression is used today. They in the lamest passion Hoffman be not like two friends that cannot be separated. They both need each other. Come of course is a spark which feeds been and being as the development that takes the the codes that spark and that concentrated point and develops it in a way that we can use it because understand we could integrate it and internalize that's what you see in the Lit up his classes. And in addition to that you see the middle it ever was actually a publisher even though the ultra ever published Tanya but besides the answer for another customer Theta but besides that the rest of the my mother will not publish in the time they'll deliver the Deborah the middle of them another hand actually composed books. I can mention I mentioned most many of them are mentioned. Of course, we know Traders crime, you know, the seed that him doc. We gathered all the alternative is my modern on siddur Beauty has their did the same thing out of his mouth more a man's a an organized way. We have swollen like Sharee era which is a Hanukkah chartreux. Bashara Moonshiner Munna, which is on pesach. We have Sade Sade you could which is Anastasia stylist share his Palace. Countryside special session see and many others that is that a crime. That's a Nevada truth Xiao. Nian Kippur is bad kadish which is which is a letter that he wrote to the Czar the time there's a Terrace race, which is about Russia's on Yom, Kippur so books. These books were all published by the middle of their but with a title with an introduction you can say publishing is a form of beaner and interesting many of them are called shot. What shot a gate by hug me you say lawmen business. It was Karma the 32 Paths of Hoffman and the sea was more of a narrow path. But you say by be know, what do you say commission Xiao de banana 50 Gates of understanding because the gate is a much wider Corridor a gate into something. So it's all consistent with the myth the rebels contribution. And we see as the devil says a number of systems that track of the middle of the best times are fossa the spreading and the dissemination of cities expanded far far more than it was before that. Obviously. It's all relative and levels because just like being is an expansion of hokhmah. So to see this was expanded by the middle debit not just income was not just in quantity, but also in quality in reaching like a river reaches like a gate reaches far far more audiences. Quantitatively and qualitatively this also connects it to Viator in the city until she remembered Zion connected to the McClure debited ever says by Yeats a was very 878 a Yakima British Eva base Eva is the Chevron seven meters of a silicon, whereby yellow Carano by Yeats a the it's easier from one higher level to a lower level begins with the in Syria from Kaufman to Ben. Very fascinating footnotes and that's it creates a tough. Sometimes. I wear it connects the two so yes. Mr. Karan is more from isil has to be our to some the Divine unified world of vision of a Tillis in to be really serious error, which is really the beginnings of creation and the conclusion of creation. Whereas we're in that still everything begins in a subtle level and higher levels. Where's that that Journey Begins it begins with very HCI Kiev you think of yeah, you heard of karma. Into Bina and from being a then it goes into me this and for me this it goes further down. So Hoffmans have been is also a form of I ate say now. Why do you need to buy eight? Say why not just stay so-called in your urine your own entity in your own domain because the going out is actually expands and it enriches and deepens the experience. So being in riches and deepens the experience of hot at the same time. It needs to always be connected to her. And so the lesson is very clear to all of us, which is in learning. First of all, very basically when you learn something to learn it, not just points and highlights and bullet points and just the Russia proc him. This is a short summary but actually to learn it in reverse on our with expansion of being obviously everybody in there in the right time with the time allowed to them, but there's a certain dish moccasin pleasure and joy that you have when your rooms us learn it quickly, but Actually expand on it and you read it in all detail. And so on members are Barkin you Shivan 770 Friday night, which was the winter nights in New York are short on Shabbos begins release you have many hours until you can make Kiddush in general is for bottling. It was all night. And I remember one of the most being telling us the most cash marketing do is take a minor from the middle a debit Terrace Haim Parts evaluates a or before that tailed us and learn it because you have the time and it's like an expanse of my Marine you just immerse yourself in a See in a river I should say in a river of cities as known with the dammit 11 General that from influx. It has its Mr. Sadýk his son-in-law and nephew said about the middle idea that if you cut him wouldn't be glad that would come out of his veins would be Exodus. Few other stories Justin's talking about test case live, which is both the birthday and the yard site of the mid-level. The only rabbit with the birthday and the outside come out the same day. Like my should I buy a new which the model talks about slain was a complete them amounts and they say Ami Ami a meaning. That's a dick him even though not by many most but there are those where you have complete year meaning the conclusion of their life in this world concludes the same day when it began little herb is one of them. So just a few more things. Midland Avenue as you drive through this road so quickly and he was so immersed in it that when he came to the bottom line of the pages of the bacons is writing with quill and ink someone had to move the next page because he would read on to the front of the desk and I actually saw this with my own eyes working. The rub is Library years ago. When I worked in said for the Quantum of some exotic we were instructed by the rabbit to compare the some Exotics my mom that would then they were then arriving in the library from Warsaw. Original manuscript, so we're comparing some comparing. I looked at some of the middle adapt as writing and you can sexually see you can see the bottom of the pages. I like half lines. And they say it was still wet. The top of the page was still wet. When he got to the bottom. That was his flow that opened in a vsi, making the flow of intelligence the flow of intellect in his writing the never once said to devolve to shake off some olives. One of the only time that I've actually used his hands that we could see and it's a bit is a video of it that ever said that each of them had his invaded the alpha debit Hawkman. She said I'll to their be his despite. This was very revealed. You could see it in a very palpable way and I'm a little out there but sometimes say my man would do this' greates greatest Pilots his excitement. He was sometimes roll on the floor to the point that I pinches raises one of the writers the money from crazy money him would go down in the floor to hear them. I'll tell them and we have actually my mother will you see that that that because he didn't hear every word the middle of on the other hand you did not see that his spouse and he David and he stood in one place. He didn't see movement. the rebel similar However, the episode those that notice closely than ever said that the different type of couple strands that were warned. There was a flat shtreimel yarmulke that was flat on top of this time on there was a spit sucker meaning with a point. Sometimes it seems it's some exotic images. You can see a point like the cup with the yarmulke on top of this time Liz pointed upward so that ever said the middle ever had appointed one and there are made like this with his hands appointed one. And if you look closely when he died, I haven't you could see in the Rubbermaid like this that the You see powder, which men Vapor steam out of his great Passion, but it was more internal would come out to the point you so steam come out there ever made like this spillover from the point of the triangle that he was wearing. So spineless more Panini's doesn't mean less passion. It just means a different form just a few nice anecdotes that relate of course to this concept. I've always wondered why Hoffman would be These Pilots golly more revealed Huffman would seem to be more concentrated and more concealed and being a should be more spice more expanded. So it's a question. I've always had I don't have an answer to it. If anybody would like to weigh in on that love to hear what you have to say, but regardless we know this from the table a name these facts and many many more about them. So test kits are being the birthday in your outside. We honor and we celebrate all that I'll beim are actually won one more word. But each one has their one luminary. But but as the never said actually on the Shabbos passers-by, ait's a test or youth case live tough Chanute the first year that that's why doesn't say shall shallow some oil on the sharp lot on the cover page of this volume of the lab image social Soviet there. We said I was asked why Charles shows that I've been Myron Moyer there a luminary their source of life. Not just a light not just are not just a reflection of the source episode because in nam oil and stalkerish Alice in a mire. There's no Hierarchy, there's no chain there because all that I've been bad. Some are one more but the Earth each one gives off a rock may have been docile. So really this all one but each one has their unique style and approach that we can learn from and the first lesson is I searched along see this with Ben and to looks it is Bischoff in the middle. A rabbit said he wished upon himself that's considered him was standing on the corner and be talking about that Salient and asked our hoodie lawyer who d'etat different versions. So fulfill the birthday yards have the mid-level. What better way is to have a V8 say going out of our own Comfort zones going out of our own Inner Space and going into spreading and speaking of cities with friends with others making it a common discussion. Not just a unique novelty but something that is so common. That is something that's unlike that we are comes regular language and part of our daily routines not necessary that in a negative way in a positive way that it's so poor. Part of us like the blood of the mid-level that was considers that this shoe should be some natural tested oxidants when you meet someone share a thought of citizens initiative our talks. This is a story of sedition Egan but something that's it is living with see this in that way that the be enough cities of the middle 11/8. See there are obviously many other lessons, which our cross reference to episodes 44 91, 4189 235 these our previous episodes for those that not real familiar. Of this long stands ready six years over six years that we're doing. My life is supplied were an episode 285 and we have actually created a special because of the demand and the popularity. We created a special website called City supply.com where you can find this this episode every live episode. 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What is the source that says when yaakov been painted lines on cattle. He was also accomplishing drawing down the same spiritual energy that can be done by putting on tefillin if someone finds themselves in a place and doesn't have to fill and can he paint lines on Capitol instead? I'm always taken by the questions the creative original original thinking here. So first of all, let me just correct. I read the question as it was written magic of didn't paint lines on Capitol. The posix says in this week's chapter when yaakov begins building his family and he's working for Love on. So he tended to his flocks dish to sheep his livestock to his goats and Cetera when yaakov was asked by Alvin, how do you want me to pay you? This is pay me with a sheep. I will and it's all got a whole elaborate discussion. I yaakov says I will breathe the sheep and certain sheep the speckled ones and the brown ones will be go to me and the rest will go to you and they've come to that agreement and its elaborate Lafayette has relatively its elaborate story of yaakov tending to the sheep and then comes it's like strange episode narrative that yaakov goes and he says he takes rods moist rods. And he says that what of almond and and different forms of rods and he strips them that you see the white of the rods and he placed them in the in the gutters of the trolls with sheep and the livestock drink from and that caused them when they bred that they would shape that based on what they saw. That's how it's usually explained that it affected. What type of sheep what type of the whether it be spotted or Chuckles or striped such a could dim the could improve them is the expression or sometimes till I three different types of sheep three different types of flax. And so when you read it ostensibly like why why is it relevant to us to know comes as they are? So he didn't paint lines, we cause that it caused the cattle to actually breathe differently and look differently. So the comes Isaiah. This is where volume 1 162 a also 161 but especially Sicily Tater which refers to the film and reads and explains that length the the meaning the spiritual meaning behind all this activities that the act of did among the things that he says there is Is the film that there's a form of being mom shocked film. Obviously, it's not physical film but the rods he compares to finish up but Josh some say it's like the parchment the gutters in which he put the rods are like the but a bottom the boxes up in which in which the processor was laid, then it's connected to the truest the straps. So the xia connects it to the film. That's the source. It's explained in a number of places in Taylor 80 mentions it in this week's chapter 23 C. But in a detainer to a page is 757 and on explains that more at length and explains actually this difference that what's the difference in film by the way Yakov did it and the way their office in general perform Mitzvahs then the way it's done after Matt and Tara. Six planes that the way they're always did it in a component that film of the Marcus is not in the physical object and change anything. He was mom. She had the power because he was a merkava was connected to God. He had the power of the governor had the power to draw down the energies that are similar to the film and the mock lives are like a symbolic way of doing so my they'd achieved the actually Infuse the physical world and this case parchment and the boxes and the straps as it is with every other physical thing that the physical objects actually became quite a show in addition to drawing down the energy spiritually and actually permeated and was became manifest in the physical reality of film and that's why the makalah's don't have any condition it and fill in those have Holiness in it. So you can read in pasture to a so know if a person does not have feeling he cannot take rods and do what Yakov did absolutely no connection to it. If perhaps if someone on the level of yaakov, even then I would say after Martin Taylor yaakov would be putting on physical film like that are being detected. Make sure I painted it like everyone does if you could draw down in other ways this and that's a discussion in general whether you could draw down the spiritual energies without doing the mitzvot physically the way the Taylor says it one could argue. No once the mat and tater was conveying. Designated that this is the way to draw down. Let's say the dollars Makin the four levels of intellect, which is gonna be in a dozen that splits into Heston wouldn't into two parts. Then you can do it. Any other way Shabbos is through shops before Martin Taylor because the physical world was yet, not yet Kaylee container for these spiritual energies. There are other ways that the others did it spiritually as we say except bris and the few exceptions over they actually did it in a physical way in the physical flesh. I will also add there's a mime of Iuka Michael vehicle Mark of a ukulele marker you Carlo Markel, which is the posture compulsive. Eh, there's a moment of creation has from the lab rishabh and hopefully static test from the physical lab, which is based on the top fraction class. It's interesting the topics I Testament concludes big part of the my mother which continues in IRS is not the inside a test. I was wondering whether it was a deliberate or maybe something missing. I'll just say it's deliberate because it does conclude the minor but then I attest it's longer there. It does not bring Fillin. He generally brings him. He brings some desire inside says he says that there's a is might elaborates on this story with the sheep and with the rods and the gutters and so on and he says there that the could of the zayat is that he took that when he took the rods through elements in the rods. He took moisturize with moist, which is hasn't then he took Arroz with different colors, which is good. And then the third dimension was to fetes Yakov is the fattest drawing down from the highest levels to the lowest levels of transforming this world. She doesn't mention fill in there, but it does mention and discuss that so it's an interesting moment to learn its unique mind and I did not have the chance to see that I'm Irish as a mime and there's two and some exotic does that my modern irritated and partially by I'd say that is same as the basis of some of those points, but those men Some elaborate on it. One more thing. I would add something. I may have discussed in other episodes. Maybe not that there's also elaborate discussion Kabbalah and thus in my mom and sisters on the add some onion of the the mayor the core tending to the flocks and it's connection to Yahoo. The beautiful Syria in Helix has evolved about saying why sheep and inhale a relic of the climate. Hey, we're talks about academic freedom. Including the eights. Heim says that says all this came to you from Love and explains that love and are living alien, which is colorless is the core color is the levels the highest levels of Kester. They were the highest levels of Ilocos events of drawdown I could dim the could have lived in which of course are the three General worlds of breathe the closet. So you see that the Clovis and I see the end and it's either the Clovis aniseed the close the macrocosmic world that cover all of a sudden Styles, but that's the song. Of an aside was just completing the picture here that a lot of this is discussed in a time. This is a shot. I could them in the beginning and see the sights it and that's it. Hello climate. Hey explains it that that this is all connected to the spiritual evader of what Yakko were doing south of the sheep and the flocks and the the rods and the and the gutters all end up being really cold language for higher spiritual things that all of us are capable of doing each and our own way, of course because we have the power that we get from yaakov to achieve exactly the same things. So with that let us move now to the next question also on this week's chat Parsha Why didn't yaakov Why didn't Jacob free bill on zilpah? Why didn't I can fill in the why does the Tara continue to refer to them as servants throughout one day holy people who modeled for of the SWAT team the tribes shouldn't they have received more respect a similar question. You can say about of ROM if I promise such a kind person. Why did he have slaves? It seems that it wasn't scared to take a position against the world of he felt it was the right thing. How could he have possibly believe that slavery was? Okay, especially if his having slaves was later used as a defense to enslave people. The same could be asked about the terra's endorsement of slavery. Okay. The passion was spotted and other places, but so first of all, let me refer you to episode 246. Two key points have to be made slavery as we understand it today the abhorrent for fashion of subjugating like the Egyptians did to the Jews and even the slavery of the black people in this country the United States or other forms of slavery is completely not related to the slavery that you find in homage. Did the expression first of all shift is a maidservant. If you have a cleaning lady today, we have someone helping you in the kitchen. So yes today many people do not live in this but if they live in and you pay them a salary you take care of their needs instead of a salary. So that's the exchange that's that's labor and work in this responsibilities that the person who's paying this servant has in how this person has to be was as to be respected and cared for and so on giving them food before you give yourself food. So I think there's a major stereotype and the myth of comparing slavery in the tailored to that the Taylor believes every human beings created the Divine image that everybody is so even though there was a time and the second point there was a time in history that there were people who did that was more common today. It's less common. So but today you still find people who are doorman chauffeurs people who work in homes and help. And it's not necessarily considered to be a inferior position. Okay abuse is never acceptable not today. Not then so I think it's important to establish that when you act of married Leia so lay ahead with her maidservant an assistant if you wish an executive assistant, if you called it that, you know, probably a different attitude her name was below and then Raquel came with zilpah. So the fact of the matter is and not only that they became wives of yaakov. So you see even more than that and that makes it even more like Almeria. There's no variable format and Tara. What's even more responsible? They became the mothers as you point out of the tribes. Where do you find any way? If you found a positive grid says that Jakob mistreated them, then we can talk about it and that would have been inappropriate just like in mistreating any human being so the fact that their role was a servant or what you call a shift car. It is very different than what most of us think of it today as a slave. I wouldn't even use that word. Now even that we know imposter mishpatim is a whole issue of a person cells themselves into slavery ourselves into servitude because they are made a either did a crime or they can't afford and there's rules even that God doesn't want because you should be a servant to God and not a servant to servants but nevertheless it's not as Draconian and not even at all Draconian that data is very clear guidelines. Now whether they freed them, it's not a question. They were not subjugated. They were not punished. They were not held on the in bars. They wouldn't they can move a lot about they moved about with yaakov. They moved about with avram. They were part of that taraj. So I'm not sure whether the word free is the right word. And even though yes, there are levels of ownership because a person committed themselves. Let's say to someone who says I'll be with you seven years. I'll be with you whatever amount of years there's a commitment but it's all illegal and it's all moral and ethical and their guidelines. Others of their obligations they have to each other. So that's the short answer to this question. Okay, fine next since last week was the king of socialism and we talked about in last week's episode 24. So there's some follow-up that came from that and I will just read the follow-up and address the issues. a few comments Inspired by the kid knows how can a businessman be more involved in Slickers? They can assess welcome is a very inspiring event the Consortium just for the record is international annual conference of emissaries and ambassadors of the River from all over the world that come together here in New York and Crown Heights and celebrate and have workshops and for bring together through the days usually from Wednesday Thursday through Sunday or Monday. So saying this is a very inspiring event. It almost makes me feel like I should participate you have any practical suggestions about how a working professional And or business person can be more involved in slickest even if they don't do it full time. Another person wrote the very similar question may be the same person, but I'll just read it. How can Ordinary People do Still The King has inspired many of us to really think about what we're doing to make the world a better place. Can you provide a few practices just about how Ordinary People can just releases even if it's not full time that's even says the same person. I wrote it fine two different versions of the same question. Absolutely the answer to that comes straight from the debit that ever made it very clear every neshama every soul that comes to Earth is Ashley. God's doesn't come here by accident. It's Ambassador an emissary sent on a mission to fulfill a unique mission that only you and you and only you can accomplish. So whether you're in business or your equal ordinary is no such thing as ordinary. Everybody has this looks then there are those that merited that 24/7 they became their whole job. Their whole work is being on a mission building a organization of school your Shiva spreading cities wherever they may be this is not Popularity contest I'm not comparing but everyone can learn lessons from this that each of us is actually of The Inspirations to lead us that wherever you go back to your workplace find ways to influence to inspire. Tim power to educate invite people to come to your home co-workers, even if you go to a doctor's office, even if you're going to a business meeting your job is not just to do the business but also deeper reason to bring light to bring spiritual inspiration Jewish person to Judaism and non-jewish person to the seven noahide laws. This as laws of civilization, we're all obligated to live up to what God expects and wants of us and each of us is a Have to do that. So all of us can do that the truth is it's full time, but it could take the form of person is also doing work. They can while they're working they can be doing that exactly, but it doesn't mean they can't be working it in and everybody in their own particular way using your talents and skills. You just have to feel and be compelled by that sense of urgency and sense of mission a mission Centric life. I would refer you to also episodes 88 143 and 208 where I discuss this more at length. Another question came up, which I always hesitate reading these questions because there's somewhat distasteful in a way but I promised and I committed not to censor anything unless something that's so offensive that just don't is not appropriate which hasn't happened very often just for the record, but even then I'll couch it or somewhat modify the the question but here I'll just read it because it's a reality and I know some people are going to complain to say why do you even have to bring this up? But I'm going to bring it up and please wait till I answer don't just listen to what the the questions. To kinnison. Thank you very much for all your classes. I really enjoy listening to them. I noticed that there's a Kinder such looking banquet in 770. I might say Shabbos at the same time as the regular kinases going on. I looked into it to see what it's about and realized. Because this is a letter from a past thing that the real bottom of Crown Heights have all participated in this canoes. As well as the rubber secretary and B Simpson all of us all can you please elaborate on the background of this kinis another person writes? Hello Robert Jacobson. I'm not a cross it. I'm curious to know why there are two different Slocum conferences. Thank you Rabbi. Well, I am not going to condone the two conferences. The lever is advocated. One thing at once think primarily out of this officer Sherman out of the session obviously saw under this law which especially applies to the Slocum. What the living example Slauson Slauson Khmer say what that out of this is, so to me the mere fact that there's two separate things that are competing but one is not completely aligned with other is not necessarily healthy and aligned with what the rebel would want people have different opinions. Absolutely Slocum can have different opinions. I mean you have thousands of she'll come come you think everyone is of the same thought but they offer bring together. So to me I would do everything possible to bring them together and find a way there should be one. Why you ask why there's two because unfortunately some people feel that they take their differences and they just can't seem to combine can join and reconcile themselves with others not pointing fingers. I'm not going to say who what but that's what I want to say. I'm not condoning it. I think it's part of not a proper thing. It should be all United and that's that on that topic. Okay. next question completely different unrelated Well, you know, everything is always related. Is there a point in learning something? I don't understand. I've been told some to so many times about the proper learning process of Hoffman Jena Das. So that one's learning is actually internalize and has the desired effect and I try to implement implement it when possible many times. I'll come across ideas of cities that seem totally Beyond me. My question is is it even within a person's research to understand such lofty Godly Concepts. Is there a point in learning something? I don't understand. Learning it's not really understanding that contradict with the whole idea of Chabad way of learning. How should I approach this from they come across very difficult topics in my more room or the like thank you in advance. Very good question. I once heard that the rubber someone before the Nazis before the rebels leadership for tough. She knew that is someone brought an individual to the debit and he has the lead but what should you begin learning activity so that episode Tania while back a while later. He came back to the debit. And then I said, how's it going see says he's learning if he doesn't understand anything. This is how I heard the rub and she says smiled. He says the first step is good because the mere fact that you don't understand is already a progress and the second thing that I ever said in this trust and Zayn Malik life and not understanding were all equal because this is the terrorism himself. So compared to the infinite different finite levels are all equally distant. The difference is in what we know some no little more something a little less. So let's start with that. I'd recommend it to me that it'll have a mini on the Toyota is a means of so a person could argue. What's the point? I'm never going to reach the Pinnacle anyway, so what's the point of learning a second question their people greater sages than me in my time before my time back to 10. I'm a mother and I'm never going to reach their level. They ready works hard and exerted themselves understand something. So what is the what's the point? The answer is this is really lies the heart of the whole Taylor McLeod and our relationship with God. Let's broaden the question. How could we even have a relationship with God God is a Creator Beyond infinite beyond the find Immortal Eternal every possible way antithetical to human being whose mortal. temporary we are fallible were vulnerable were needy everything possible. We're different. It's not just gold unbelievable finite and infinite. It's completely two different entities and yet God created the world and created us in the Divine image human being and gave us a tailor mistress assess my tailor made suits and when you do it, you do the 10-year learning my tailor, you're connecting to my mind you're connecting through my mistress has shaken the shuttle from its face of it Savannah. I've sanctify you through this Mitzvahs. So clearly we mortals can suddenly have a connection to something. That's beyond that itself is the power that God gave us so someone will say walk I could never connect. Anyway even moisture. I been he said I want to see God's face a then inoculate their co-religionists production. Show me your honor your glory and no man can live and see my face. So I'm going to see the God's face even back answer is yes, everybody in their own way created in the Divine image has a piece of God in them. Godliness, I should say and as a result, they have an ability to connect when we say inch ma but have to Sashay molecular Hall of of her butthole natural homemade era. So becau love of God with all your heart. You have to your heart may not be the same as someone else's heart. Another person's work their entire lives there. They're passionate heartfelt connection to God may be deeper than yours. But this isn't a popularity contest as I mentioned earlier. This isn't a race the whole nabhi chakra with your nephew. And then behold my dacha, that's the interesting one made that remains with all of your might. But all of you all now, you're my age color meaning beyond your regular capabilities is different than someone or someone else you going Beyond yourself for another person is not really going Beyond they have to go beyond themselves and next to the says it ha you go beyond yourself out of your comfort zone and then you receive a more Ada meaty the true weight that infinite mode because you did an act that is a kale. Lee for Infinity by going Beyond yourself explains in tiny of chapter 15 going out of your comfort zone out of your routine. So the point the matter is that the same God that is completely Beyond also manifested himself in things that we can relate to and when we relate to it, we're actually getting the part of godliness even the part that's beyond us. Even the part that we don't understand could add some I should take this mixture set the tables, but cool there when you get the core of something even you get a piece of You get all of it. You may not understand it may not be completely in your containers. But whatever you do you have within it the whole Essence the whole Essence now a lot more can be said about this is the whole beer mug siddhis, but coming back to the question here that when you learn one poster container and that's on your level. You understand it. Even if you don't understand all its depth and even if there's more to understand and maybe you'll never understand at all in that. Is concentrated the entire crew must have it has changed our college but a hole right there a complicated machine the potato everyone who sits and cater for Shannon potato reads and studies Tater because one who cater for Shana connect day. I'll call ye shavasana. So God comes everyone doesn't say only those that learn it the deepest way everyone commensurate can mime upon Him upon Him meaning they're like a flat face reflected in water. So to the heart is reflected another heart. So you make your effort and God responds. So to start measuring this is not a as I said a contest where you measure how far it was there to go you make your effort and habala time Italian a say you do a little about Melissa McCarthy shot smile Amato, even my at person sanctifies even a bit. They give them a lot more from above. So it says will soon talk about quid pro quo. There's a midi connected leader and it's the acos is the quality of your effort that matters more than the Commerce of how much you do because a person who doesn't make an effort. Because it's easy for them because they know it already in a way does not get the same response as someone who does less but they did it with their effort you guys Tim. It's RC cough Chalet your effort and it's a vital component because it's not about saying since I won't get there. Anyway, the end was the point of even begin that's not correct because by getting whatever you're able to get then you receive something from above and also in that which you doing you receive the whole picture and the only way to reach the levels as the city says the highest levels of the connecting to the Divine is by first connecting the things you're able to connect and then more comes in like we count the 49 days of the Omer and then the 50th day. We don't count that emerges after you count 49 so many other examples to this obtrusive little Tata brings us rooster de Laila and Awakening From Below initiates and generates Awakening from above then comes another Awakening from above that comes follows that and then comes even a higher one that you can't directly access, but it will emerge once you do. Work so interestingly you can do everything you work you get commensurate to that you receive a response, but then you receive even something greater because you created the environment you created a platform. Once the platform is there much more can happen think of the mishkan for us to make this research. Can t be safe from such lamella. Sir, my name is Ramesh manly how the heavens and the heavens of Heavens cannot contain you Africa bias as a this small structured is building can continue and God says yes, read it now not a question reads has been the who says an answer that even though the heavens and heaven and Heaven of Heavens cannot contain me. This small house can contain me because I am in placing myself. I'm inserting myself into this microcosm called the Michigan and each one of us is a microcosm of the Michigan in In the basement - and the Michigan which was a limited to find place you have the divine presence and that's the story of Our Lives make a deal of autonomy in your corner of the world. It's your small corner. It's not the 7 have 7.7 other billion people and there are everyone has different work. But in your corner you do what you have to do that Divine Finds Its place there. You create a home for it and you have all of the Divine now, obviously the more you do the more revealed it is but The Core Essence of it is there with you regardless and finally the conclude. I remember that everything is story out of pesach we go to those that are praying the first born here as she assumed in order to be able to eat because not because creative The Jews were saved. So personally essentially I probably array peasant comes with this little baby son to hear a see him because he was abhorrent son was apart. So one of the people there was more of scholarly says than what do you bring him? Does he understand in Russian and he says and you do understand in other words, you start talking about Taylor, even the biggest people understand the relative to what he could understand is all of us are equal. That's why simply stated we all dance together. Belts and children the terror is wrapped up because the essence of Terror everybody equalized but I'm speaking even in the learning you also get something and everyone according commensurate to what they'd done. Okay, but next question. I want to also refer you to episodes 2 or 2 to 15 and 246 somewhat that talk a bit more about this topic. Okay. Next question is I wanted to say so is it within reach to understand lot got a lofty Godly Concepts answer is absolutely because God allowed us to to do its first of all we have a soul that itself is Godly. So we already have inherent within us the ability and the sensitivity to Divine Concepts. And secondly, we were given the power to achieve it and that's why we're capable to do though everyone according to their level as I explained. And the more you refine yourself just like a child five years old will say hey, Don't understand at five years old. You understand what you understand that 10 more and you build upon it knowledge is accumulated by the time your age 4830 whatever the ages you can come to a point of understanding and reaching even what your teacher. Like who initiated the David Robinson in 40 years with a 40-year being 40 years old or 40 years from when you heard the idea from your teacher, that means your Kaylee might become so refined your mind that now you can contain a lot more. So it's always a process of growth okay with that. Let me move to the next question about three versus one program of rambam. Is it better to Davin quote unquote three program of rambam. This is according to the rubber established in 1984 the law. Rambam three chapters a day or learn in one chapter. Well, the second option was to learn one chapter 1 chapter which would take three years till you finish an album or three chapters, which takes one year to finish or third option was saved from its surface, which correspond to the lockers are number the rabbi Jacobsen is a better to do one per gram and per day and learn it well or do three procurement day, but just quickly read it through it and not really learn it. Thank you for your wonderful and insightful program. I looked around and asked around. I've not found anything. Is it but I would say that because it's not by mysterious about that. It's not about home is just reading it even by Yoda Michael on my which means even if you don't know what it says and that ever gave explicitly options. Why would he give options? It wasn't just with you have time to quickly read three because if the Kiwanis to learn which I would lean to say to learn to understand if you have the time and the ability to learn three chapters a day properly choose that if you don't at least learn one properly, so I would say that Sir is better to do one chapter. This is my opinion. I don't have a black-and-white source better to do one pedak one chapter a day and More in be even more understandable than to do three chapters that you just read quickly because the both are Tucanos of the Rebus. So one is not fulfilling the rubber more than the other and the fact the rebel gave those options what other reason is there for those options if not that because it was about just reading three chapters without understanding reading one chapter without understanding. You could argue that the case and maybe some people do it but I would argue that would be more to understand so therefore whatever you understand more which of course brings the question about pitas so who Mission telling you can say instead of ship excessive commission the Micra and therefore reading alone is enough even though it's always good to understand but what about Tanya so again, I think I remember seeing something that Tanya because it's tells about pair but is that Airship example consider this so some of the people just read it. Is that better than nothing? I assume it is I mean, we don't tiny ball. / we don't always learn it with understanding it but it makes more sense that you should want to try to understand at least on a superficial level at least like like you learned not Lyon but at least in the gives her to understand the ideas and Tiny if anyone knows more information on these topics, please share for the benefit of the public, okay? Let's continue. Next question. Everyone has purpose the rabbi Jacobsen. Thank you for your weekly classes and for Meaningful for the meaningful Life Center. I really enjoy them. I have a question that may seem like it's coming from a judgmental place, but I'm trying to get an answer that disproves my question. I just don't have the answer yet. Basically if someone is not Froome and goes on a downward spiral, is there any purpose in being alive to being alive because of the says positive because of the man because I was To serve my Creator and University The shamash Cheney or on Elena Velez. CL - ah mrs. King. I was created to serve my Creator. It seems like if someone is not serving God then why would they put on Earth? So the question is short is is a life. If not used properly considered a waste. God forbid. I would really appreciate your answer. Thank you in one sentence. This means is it is if someone is not serving God, is there any purpose to their being alive since the entire purpose is to serve my creator. So I think it's pretty obvious the answer, but let me spell it out since the question seems to be bothering you and I'm probably others. Are the tension of all creation years was to serve God 24/7, but we were given Free Will and therefore we can choose God forbid not to do so, or at least not always to do so to serve God now that does not mean that you you you forfeit your right to life. It means you can every moment do chuva every moment. You can begin serving God and you have choice. So if you can you can say that a person who's wasting their time and it's not doing anything for a higher purpose than their own needs is not living up to the purpose of their existence, but none of us have the right to make a statement that that person does not deserve to be alive. God gives a person life and it's always hopes that a person will be wise enough and will give them more chance of more chance. So I don't think we should. It should be a so-called contingent on but it's a good question because there's a very big difference of a person should be alive or whether they're fulfilling their purpose of their lives. Now. We have the concept of a Russia a wicked person even in their lifetime. They considered that they're not there physically biological I've why they considered that because they're not living up to their purpose their people go around feel they say, I'm like a zombie. I'm alive physically biologically, but you're not living up to your purpose. So I think that in many ways were God forbid then life ending which I don't even want to put on say Express with my mouth. But since the question came up, why because you're living a life and you're not living you're not living but not living you're alive. Your heart is is beating your breathing your mind is working but not living up to your purpose and that's very sad, but the good news is there's always that spark in you that motivates and hopefully knowing this knowing that you have a mission. Mission a lot of people tell me they never even heard they had a mission you tell me have a mission. They're like turn a question is were they then something starts stimulating inside of them arousing them to one of the live up to that calling? That would be the approach. So if you see someone that's doing that living a purposeless life or at least in some aspects and we all are in some ways wasting time is to say not to say hey look you don't deserve to be alive because you're not fulfilling your purpose the other way around. God Is So compassionate he's giving you a life that means you have something so beautiful to contribute, isn't it sad that you're not living up to your great potential that would be the tone and the way I would describe express it. Okay next question. What can I do about my parents speaking negatively about my spouse? The rabbi Jacobsen it's recently come to light that my parents have a speaking a lot of loss and her about my wife to her face. They have always been pleasant, but they have been saying extremely harsh and untrue things. About her two friends and family members. My parents have some major emotional health issues. And as a result, we have put up necessary boundaries that limit our involvement in each other's lives. But at this point my wife doesn't feel that there's any point in her continuing to have even a limited fake relationship with them and I'm starting to feel the same way. Is there how logically acceptable way to come from them about this? Thank you so much for your input. Okay complicated question and I have addressed it and I will give you the references after I spawned what I meant to say now. Because I want hand we have the midst of cubed of a honoring our parents. It doesn't say loving your parent says honoring them at least on obviously they deserve it. Also love they gave us life. They pay they paid prices they sacrifice themselves and all the other reasons that 4 cubed over aim. At the same time parents are human beings and they could do things that hurt us. And I'm assuming that you're saying is correct because usually I like to hear both sides if you wish. What I mean by that is that there are whole picture because it's always more complicated than just hearing statement not in any way throwing any aspirations or questions on what you're saying. I'm just saying to get the Fuller picture, but I'm assuming now this that there are that human beings parents are human beings and yet God still say honor them Honor doesn't mean they have to be in your house Honor doesn't mean that you have to have them they're sitting and criticizing you and hurting you or your spouse or your children Etc. There's ways to honor from a distance as many ways to honor so it's not a contradiction. But what about the part that they are now doing things that are damaging or hurtful. So if you've tried directly as their child to defend your spouse and say it's not nice so on and didn't help and a kind compassionate way one way to go to have you tried with other people who may know your parents. Maybe they could speak to them at least speak to them to just knots not always have to be negative and always be critical. That's one if all that is not worked then yes, you may need to avoid them to some extent and keep the relationship more superficial especially if it's hurting somebody but you know what there are certain things. We do even want to call fake it at least superficially so I'm not saying you have to renew the hope that you're going to reconnect with them. But I would tell your spouse I'm with you come hundred percent your Mary were married together. I love you. You love me. My parents will not get in between us. I paying by it as much as your paint. Now let's just find ways hanukkah's coming on the holidays are coming find ways to just keep it bare minimum. And if anything starts being something very hurtful. We have our boundaries as you put it. So in answering is there how loss expect me to confront them about this. I would not confront an aggressive way because besides being parents, I wouldn't confront even if we're strangers because he usually doesn't work. I would try suddenly and sure you've tried I would try with others and then the day maybe it's not a bad idea to confront even in a kind way. It's you have to find the boundaries and maybe have to look at their your parents mother and father your parents that are critical. They usually not the same see who which of them is a little softer. Maybe you can talk to one of them the one that's easier to talk to now divide and conquer if you want to put it that way unlike the word conquer but you know that get the idea and that's the approach I would take to it be very practical and Case-by-case and try to have a wise dependent individual that's objective that you trust them must be it to help guide you along now. Clearly. There's a history here. So there's a lot of bad blood. I'm sure but nevertheless sure they are ways to make things better and at least to keep it to certain way. I would also add one more thing. Keep it at Bay. I should say regarding your spouse your wife. I hope that you've shared with her that you're with her, but you have to also help her because she's hurt and when you're hurt you usually react in kind either you Withdraw or your more aggressive or you're angry and to help her see it that listen, let's be let's rise above it. Let's not allow it to poison and toxify us and our family. Okay. Okay. See the follow-up we're not going to have time to do so I'm going to do right now is one more question and then the answer this question quid pro quo. I've heard you're speaking about impeachment then pratik impeachment proceedings or inquiries going on and lessons we can learn from it. I thought in that vein, perhaps we could also talk about quid pro quo with all the talk out their regards to quid pro quo. What would the bus shelters? Say we learn from this? Is there a concept of this Exodus? Another person writes is quid pro quo an acceptable principle in Judaism. Well quid pro quos basic Latin for repaying something favor for a favor. You do this. I'll do this in return. So this is a common common and the completely legitimate when I would not getting down to it illegal things. We're talking about legitimate is called me the connections made now see this is the funny. Mr. Sudden, even if you do a table for someone even if you don't get anything in return Shalom and hostile Kabul place, I'm not Shalala couple press not in order. But there is the concept of doing something. I do a favor for you. You do a favor for me and doesn't have to be subliminal. It can be very direct you haven't in business and other things people do this. It's a type of exchange and if it's above board doesn't have any Insidious in any malicious intentions. Neither connected me that I mentioned it before but media showed the made it but made them lay person the way you measure the way you give the way you receive now God we ask for master him. Look hashimites donkey should give us even more but the concept of come I'm oponopono which means as a face is reflected in a phrase is reflected in water. So to a heart has reflected another Heart is also an element of reciprocity. Now this is not necessarily connected to the given issues. Another issue is whether whether a quid pro quo is a legitimate thing if one nation wants something from another Nation says, you know what so trade you do this for us. This is a trade talks and we'll do this for you. So the mere concept is nothing wrong about it. If anyone says there's something wrong it would be I'm not and I'm not judging the city's current situation with the president and Congress and so on and they're all their issues, but rather there's wrong with be if I Asking you something. I'm blackmailing you. So blackmail is not appropriate to say you know, what if you want this for me, I want this from you if it's a black was so where's the thin line or not in line with the board of the boundary between blackmail and just a regular favor for a favor? So that's not always easy to determine I would say you can see it an intention. You can see what a person does if they don't get what they want. They may not give you exactly what you want. But they're not going to in any way hurt you and there's many ways to describe even in contractual agreements. What's a favor for a favor and it's not because Extortion or blackmail but that's a really outside of the scope of this and maybe we'll talk about it another time. Okay, the follow-up I was going to do the follow-up and I really wanted to because I've been pushing it off. But you know what follow-up is Cano has been moved to next week and we'll do that soon this question. So again, the customers here to always have a conclude with a question on citizen. Then with the three essays from this leg roast recent essay contest as we stand at the threshold of gokula always at a stage where the gorgeous rise above the southern. So, let's spell it out. Here the title of this Rider virtually must be and saves her. Advocacy that time lapse women. I didn't have to read it. But I just find it amusing. So I share it. So it's good to have a light moment in the mine were printed in this week's veromarcos entitled. This means last week's a little Egypt has been a drama from Haley the streets cock it's from basic gist of table sugar half a mile from the lab partial tells, I'm sorry Shabbos Pastor told us basically select option called Fay I'd be probably 1964 because right the debit States quote. Among others the tiny as explained by the some exotic that is a specifically because of the room. That's the refinements in this Godless that there's a need for sudden for kindness and specifically through the southern can the governor has be proper and through the sudden which alleviate and also sweetened and refine and harness the Glorious sutras the more the severe energy. So has it is a giving energy quota is more of an intense energy or severe energy. So when this building you need to have the test sudden, To properly harness the voters. However after the beroun when the balloon will be finished which means when goddess will be finished the Glorious will be entirely higher than the sudden because the root of the governor has come from a greater place in the southern. But today they need to be harnessed once they're finished and you already did the refinement. So there's no room for you. Nica sockets any meaning for any negative results from intensity from the severity of were the groom will be completely higher that Hassett common concept Not Just In This Moment of many memoriam based on The bowl adulterer Debbie speaks about it. My question is this since the devastated that we have finished of a disability as we know at this are we now, I'm sorry are we now at the status of lost of the future when the grotus are entirely higher than kassadin? Very good question. So let me first explain this testing for the thing. When we talk about testing, what are the ultimate test and voter is what is that symptom concealment because it is like the calves. So everyone would say life is greater than dark. But the why was there at symptom in order? There should be Kalin the should be Macabre myth should be recipient space for another entity received light like a teacher if you just allows light to shine without any filters and regulation it will overwhelm that the student like rain if it rains it pours Without Rain Drops, it'll flood the fields and Destroy them just as much as a drought. So gurus ashram you need to assess it to be dressed up and voila. So the Guevara is the concealment in order to bring Revelation. However, when it's in the state where you don't really understand that the concealment can end up being also a nightmare that ever brings in this famously argued that to b'shvat Lima test and I shine it up and mandalas crying that how much does she owe God conceals himself like a father conceals from a child himself in order to enlisted Ingenuity of the child to find the father what happens with the father himself. So well in the child stops are seeking. Being so suddenly gooda becomes a liability its intention was to bring a better bigger Custer the more it but it was misunderstood. That's why in a time when you're not still in Godless and the time after had said that is when you don't have divine revelation good and needs to be channeled. It needs to be harnessed and needs to be moderated. So that s it has to sort of speak that Reg voter because without that it can be misunderstood and could turn into very severe situation like someone thinking no one's watching. God has concealed has to ask the pointing to the deepest levels of goddess, which I don't even want to spell out how dark you can get. So you need to test it to their regular would sometimes see this associate that with the same thing with soccer in the cave must be amicable the mccampbell really the root of the mccampbell the root of that symptom is higher than the root of air because it is a natural flow from the Divine to conceal for Hashem. It's harder to restrain himself from saying something them from speaking. So since some has a power that comes from restraint that's deeper than Hesed but it needs tested to direct and guide it the same thing with must be amicable. The Kabul is routed much higher than the must be the Kayla my rooted higher than the air but you need there must be another day and age to direct them a couple because it doesn't know on its own the levana the moon needs the Sun. But with us and lovey when everything's going to be refined and they won't be no more unique as a containing. Then the be Delirious amicable Asia Scylla Terrace by law the cave it to save of government and all the Expressions. See this brings our mouths will rise, but Martha's today is less than Bergamot Klum. But because of that it could also be hurt them wounded. pajama models on the other hand once everything is cleared up because it has done its job. Then the My Love Guru the power of gouda tag betas are highest intensity will be revealed. So where do we stand now? The answer is as we get closer to the goal yet voters have become more sweetened. They're not as severe. They've been guided and the Gilly of the My Love Guru will become more and more revealed some say that's the reason that women today are much more prominent roles because it's And closer to the age when I'll be in the cave it to save of governor and you'll see the Myla of them accountable. So I can't say that every voter we see is now in a state of of doesn't need Hesed but you have to say the closer we get to the Gula that voters will become more and more apparent how the quality of it is is that is bottle of Islam navarran. We start seeing the clarity of things. So also the My Love Guru will be revealed this explains a lot of things kodak's mistake and many other mistakes made because they thought that was already like loss of loved it. It's called wanted to but bless a serve as a service gura. Because I thought there was already a time of gold aware of what is already ready for the for his greatness, but you still need to test it the guided until maschiach actually comes that doesn't mean they won't be hesitant. Michelle comes it'll just mean that voter will be able to rise to its prominence and Hazard will play its role at the same time. Okay, it's more to say on this but let me suffice with that. Let me now do three essays. These are essays from this last 2019 contest. The first one is by assayed of shots happen. I will personally it has exceeded the problem of extra time away Electra empty time and how do you solve that according to this? So the title tells it all basically how to time management and filling time when we have so much free time today. See time as elements not as one big flow, but see there's each moment is a life is the key to this essay. And how to use each moment to make the world a better place. This requires a different way of looking at Comforts The Comfort we have in the free time. We have the luxury the Leisure that we have and then comes actual applicable practical ways to do this making a true has been making a true accounting and a true accounting of your own time. What that's in your control. establishing goals and objectives creating a plan a long-term plan. Working with others Partnerships and knowing that Nothing Stops you when you want to do something very beautiful essay, very inspiring about a topic. We all can use how to waste less time and use the time for the right reasons. That's essay. Number one. The next essay is How big could T us a habit of them are in a cartoon. Once again, let me just say who wrote that essay. First. I say that by the time is butter. Sickish sick Vash really aged 39 crack about Israel. You should Rush Maki Market erroneously slow the head of a foundation. That is does Taylor research called a serious role the next essay. Happy Casillas, which is critique. How do we look at it? Critique or accountability accountability and what is the depth that's concealed in it Menachem Mendel. Not on is 21 carry out Malaki Israel and his job is safe for shook. My fear say for sure. Okay, so he talks about this is also in Hebrew and Dealing with challenges and things don't go exactly your way and how do you look at constructive critique versus negative critique? The fact that we're social creatures and we all depend on each other and therefore affected by each others opinions of us the mirror the image of the mirror when you see something what does it require? What does it mean? What does it reflect back to you and a pretty serious and I would say elaborate essay on this topic again well worth reading topic of that. I just addressed. Okay, and finally essay number three in English Exodus from Egypt be our own tasks. Matt Master task Kate in the parentheses. Ariela hertzfeld 842 Morristown, New Jersey an educator. She's an educator. Exodus from Egypt that's a what is the lesson from Nazareth from Egypt for our time in our generation? and based on the concept of cities that we have to in every generation go out of the limitations and constraints of mitzrayim employees that using the yam yam of dawlish lot of how we use that to control our own lives and be a task manager now test is three letter T thoughts application and knowledge Thoughts application of speech and knowledge the four things that our task and again very nice. I say very good applications. And all these essays can be found that me at the citizen applied.com. We post them as we speak every week. We review three more and more three more are posted. You can also receive them in your inboxes and by subscribing to our weekly or bi-weekly different emails that we offer. 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