THEM: i would like the balls and the hats?  YOU: i cant accept that. how about i get the balls and book and you can have the hats?  THEM: well i cannot accept that, how about i ger the balls and one hat and you get one hat and a book.  YOU: cant accept that. no deal.  THEM: well i will keep the balls and you get the rest then. that will have to do.  YOU: ok deal.  THEM: ok thanks.