Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : so basically what happened was i heard that one of my close friends (lets just call her Charlotte) was anti vax so i asked her about it and when she confirmed i got extremely concerned since she had just recently gotten the flu. now before i tell you the rest of this i need to say i wasn't in the best mood since i was only running on 6 hours of sleep and had a rough day at school so when all of this happened i was very aggressive. what ended up happening was after a bit of arguing and telling her she should get vaccinated for her and everyone else's safety she called me a dick, and looking back on the matter now i should have just stopped arguing right then and there but oh no little stubborn me kept trying to convince her that they are good for you and don't do any harm. this is where she actually starts to get a little pissed and sends a couple gifs/pictures regarding vaccines and how they are "bad" for you. this pissed me off as well because of how stupid all of her so called evidence is but i somehow remained calm as possible and didn't act like an ass. she then tells me she doesn't want to hang out anymore and also says that to my friend Sammy (not her real name) and this confuses me since Sammy has been trying to stop the argument but i didn't look too deep into it at this point since i was very stressed out in the moment and couldn't think correctly. fast forward to the next day at school (today) during gym i try to apologize to her since i feel like I've done something bad and i'm in the wrong. i decided i would try to make the interaction humorous so there wouldn't be a ton of tension, and after i had said sorry for about the 6th time or so she kept ignoring me until she told me to go away and slightly pushed me. me being the sensitive idiot i am walked away and tried not to cry. oh and one last thing Charlotte ended up forgiving Sammy and she didn't even have to apologize but when i tried to apologize she just ignored me then pushed me away isn't that just so funny? so anyways i just want to know what you all i think, am i the asshole??