Hello all and welcome to my post. I recently been called an asshole and I really don't see how I would be considered an asshole. 

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Firstly let me say, me and my ex were long distance for about 8 months(according to her even though it was maybe a 30 min drive) and she broke up with me because she didn't want the distance and told me that she still wanted to be friends and when she did move down closer, which she planned on doing, we could try to date again. 

But after about 3 days past of us being split i noticed her posting more about a new "friend" and them hanging out all the time. I didn't think much of it at first, until she messaged me saying that she still wants to be close friends(she empathized the close) and we may get back together if her situation doesn't change. I asked her if she planned for a change she said maybe and that she is talking to someone currently and i found out from her friend that she was talking to him while we were dating.

 For the past 2 days she has been posting how depressed she is and how guys are jerks and how no one will ever love her. I decided not to say anything about it because i feel like it is not my place for that anymore and i truly do not care for her problems anymore after everything and basically being the "back up". She has been calling me a lair and a asshole for not being there for her and ignoring her. 