I'm currently 8 months pregnant with our first kid. I don't want anyone at the hospital until the baby is born and we've had a little time to hang out with the baby alone &amp; get situated. We've agreed that we won't have any visitors in OUR room until the baby is out. But my husband wants to have his parents stop by the waiting room so he can see them (before the pushing starts). I know the day will be stressful enough, so I don't want to feel like people are there waiting on me to give birth. I don't even want my own mom at the hospital until the baby is out. I told him that labor can take a full day or even longer and he's like yeah, they could just swing by for a little and come back later. He said that it's a big life event for him and he wants their support. But I'm the one going through a medical procedure, so I feel that I should be the one to say who's around, even if he thinks it's silly or doesn't affect me.

This is our first kid &amp; I don't know how I'm going to be feeling that day, so I just want to try to keep it as low stress as possible &amp; don't want him leaving me to go hang out with them (and I definitely don't want them in our room). Not sure if he was joking, but he even said something to them about how I wouldn't need to know they're there and he could just text them after the baby is out and tell them to come up in twenty minutes.

AITA for trying to dictate who's in a room I can't even see &amp; trying to prevent him from seeing his parents during an emotional day? Or is he the asshole for not respecting my wishes on how I want my own labor to go?