Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : So I've already broken up with this girlfriend. It's been a while and I'm still kind of conflicted on one of our issues. For context, I'm 17 and she was 18. While we were dating she had a job at a local retirement home as a waitress making $12/hr, and she worked full time. Since she lived with her parents, she didn't have any bills to pay and as a result she had a lot of disposable income.

I, on the other hand, had no job and didn't really want one. I liked having my free time. My mom, who I live with, was struggling with money at the time and didn't have a lot of spare income. 

My ex was always bored when we hung out at her place. Normally we would just watch movies and such, but she got bored of this eventually and soon wanted to go out and do things. We went out to eat sometimes, and other times we would go play laser tag or, on one occasion, go to a local golf field which was fairly expensive. Every time we went out, I always made sure with her that she was okay with paying for me. I didn't like asking my mom for money, so I always made sure my ex was okay with paying before I asked her. 

Right before we broke up, we got into an argument over text where she blew up on me for not having a job and she was really getting annoyed with paying for me. She asked me why I never asked my mom, and I told her that I never asked my mom because she was always okay with paying for things and she never showed any signs of annoyance with it.

Here's the part I'm worried about: She asked me why I never asked my mom and I replied by saying that I preferred to ask my ex to pay for things because she has a lot of disposable income while my mom was tight on money most of the time. She just replied with "Wow" and then stopped responding to my texts.

Was I being an asshole by not asking my mom for money and instead relying on her to pay for things? I told her that if she wasn't okay with paying for me then there's loads of other things that we could do that's fun and free, but she just said that those were boring and she liked going out. 

Thanks for the advice.

