Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : My gf and I have been in a long term relationship (3 years) and have had our ups and downs. Her family pretty vehemently dislikes me due to the fact that 1. we are in a same sex relationship and 2. they feel that I am more "privileged".

  

  

My gf's step father became very ill recently so we both cancelled our vacation to travel to her home in the Northeast and help take care of him. I don't consider myself a "neat freak" but I feel uncomfortable in cluttered and unclean spaces. Her parents rarely ever clean, have random things all over the house, have a cat who eats on their kitchen tables, open litter boxes, etc. They also only have twin beds in the house. I was texting with my father who was asking me how things were going and I messaged him about how uncomfortable I was staying there where I felt unwelcome and unclean. Fast forward to a few hours later, my GF has packed my suitcase and thrown it down the stairs screaming at me to "get the fuck out." She admits that while I was downstairs she unlocked my phone and read through my entire conversation with my father. 

  

  

AITA here for expressing I felt uncomfortable in a private conversation? 

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throwaway. because, yeah