Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : Long story short: We're married. He stopped taking antidepressants 2 weeks ago because he forgot to pick them up.   He's been cheating for 2+ mos. I find out. He says he wants us both &amp; he loves her too. I tell him to chose &amp; he chooses me. He says he's sorry.  I say I don't know if I can trust him (not the first time he's done it). He locks himself in the bedroom and makes a suicide attempt. Ends up in inpatient with constant suicide thoughts. I tell him he needs to seriously consider his actions before he leaves &amp; be able to verbalize what went wrong and how he's going to make it right, or we're over.  Apparently staff think that makes ME manipulative. 
So internet, am I the asshole?