Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : I have a friend who seems to have no respect for anyone's time. Yesterday, after not hanging out for months he invited me to grill steaks and watch a game at his place. I know he's usually late for everything, so I gave him a little extra time since his set time was an "around" time. I get there and the grill isn't set up, and while his car is in the drive he doesn't answer the door or the phone. I send him a message letting him know I was there and that I'm kinda pissed. I get a call I ignored and a sob story text seven hours after I get home. He passed out, and he'd like to hang out but everybody suddenly needs him and he just wants one day off. The last time we tried to hang out he forgot he'd already agreed to hang out with his girlfriend. He told me that two hours into me waiting for him, then told me if I waited another hour he thought she might not show. I never heard back from him that night, so I guess she did. Dude does this for other shit, too. I'm super grateful he's around to help when I have car trouble, but the guy once told me he'd be there around five to help me and I didn't see his ass until 9:30. He had been texting and calling the whole time about how he was "on his way" but apparently he hadn't gotten out of bed and kept falling back asleep. Other friends have written this guy off and I don't want to do that, but it makes me feel like a huge asshole lecturing him when he pulls this shit.