A few months ago, I started my first semester of college. Naturally, I wanted to meet new people and branch out of my high school circle. So for extra help in my quest to find new friends, I downloaded Tinder and matched with a girl who just so happened to live on the same dormitory hall as me. We hit it off nicely, however, her romantic intentions became excruciatingly more noticeable within days of meeting her. I guess that was to be expected of Tinder, but she specifically said if "we could be friends lol?", so this had me off guard. 

She flirted, I flirted back. I guess I got a bit touchy and close, but I never thought anyone would have thought anything more. After all, it was way too early to even tell if I liked her or not; I had barely met her a few days before and she was already talking about relationship and sending me explicit photos. I didn't even have enough time to make a decision whether or not I really liked this girl. By the time I figured out she might have caught the wrong ideas, I go and talk to her. I tell her I'm not ready for a committed relationship and I want to properly survive college before I can even think about dating. I think where I fucked up was when I ended up on fondling her because I said I'd be down to hookup. We didn't smash, at least. But I think it gave her some misguided hope.

So the next day, she sends me a huge three paragraph, times new roman, MLA-cited essay about how she feels about me and hold sex for if we ever get together. That's when I cut it off, I told her that she was way too attached to me. I had only met her the week before and she was already obsessive, thinking about relationships. I had a gut-wrenching instinct about this encroaching attachment that I just got frustrated and broke it off briskly. I told her that my school work is more important than this juvenile relationship drama. I didn't want to be friends at all. I believed I wasn't being true to myself if I continued being friends with her.

so tl;dr: I met a girl, diddled with her, and then broke it off a week later because she was way too attached.