Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : I’ve been with my girlfriend for almost a year and I love her to death from earth the the endless sky above, but while talking with her on the phone she mentioned her manager, at the restaurants she works at, she said her manager showed her what Ecstasy looks like, it was her first time seeing what it looks like and her manager said she was gonna go home and try it with her boyfriend and let her know if she should try it. My girlfriend is sweet and innocent and jokes around a lot but she seemed serious to me about highly considering taking this if her manager told her too, she is overly nice which isn’t always bad but she tends to be easily influenced  by people she trust or have known for a while. She was even persuaded to eat a weed cupcake by one of our friends, when months before we said we would never eat anything with weed in it or smoke weed at all. It’s happened before where people have taken advantage of her kindness and it’s happen to me as well so I don’t wanna see anything bad happen to her at all, while on the phone I said in our convo;

Me: I’m sorry but I can’t stay if you decide to take drugs, I won’t come back either cause that’s not something that’s good for either of us at all

Her: it’ll be fine as long as I’m in a controlled environment and with people I trust, like you.

Me: Nope, can’t do it, im sorry I love you and all but I can’t stay and won’t come back if you decide to use drugs I just can’t, that’s not something I want for us

After that she went silent for a bit but only until her mom came to pick her up from work, I didn’t really think much about my response until she texted me before going to bed, which made me feel like an ass

“Hey, don't threaten to leave me again. That hurts. I understand if you don't want me to do something but don't threaten to leave an never come back. Please.”

I don’t know if me text response was any good either cause I decided to say this

“Sorry....I just don't want anything to do with drugs at all, no weed or anything like that, I'm sorry but I'm serious, if your on drugs like that I'm not gonna be able to trust it, I just want you far away from it cause that kind of shit can kill people, I don't want you to die just cause your manager said try it, I know it's an asshole thing to say but I can't stay if you gonna let people influence you that easily....I love you to death and I don't wanna have to break up with you over drugs cause that's just dumb, and that's why I didn't eat the weed brownie or muffin or whatever either, cause it can cause addiction just as easy as one time, I don't want that for you either, that's also why when I vape I keep you away from the smoke and try not to hit your face and say to move to the other side of me, I don't want to hurt you with that or see you get hurt all because you were just told to take a drug because it would feel good....I'm sorry but I'm being hurtfully real, if you take drugs I'm not staying”

Did I say the right things or am I just being a dick?

