So I went to my ex boyfriends college for an event and my friend and I stayed over at his place that was on campus.

This ex was my first love from high school. Lost my virginity to him and vice versa, and he was a big part of my life.  It took me a long time to get over him and I still have a lot of different feelings towards him.

He doesn’t talk to me much and we do talk every once in a while but rarely.  

A couple days after the trip to his school, he texts me asking if my friend has a boyfriend. I freak out (I have sever anxiety) and start to have a panic attack. I tell him no and that I’m super uncomfortable by it and it makes me upset. 

He kept taking about it, asking questions about her even though I asked him to stop. He didn’t understand why I was freaking out or why it mattered. 

My anxiety doesn’t always make sense but is this not a valid reason to get upset? Or am I overreacting and should just let him talk to her?

AITA for not letting my ex boyfriend talk to my friend? 