Ok so I know it sounds bad at first, but my wife suddenly lost her job in her chosen profession last summer. Fortunately, a friend of ours Mom runs a small business and was willing to hire my wife at the same pay she was making before, albeit only 6 hour shifts, five days a week. My wife and I looked at this as a stopgap until she could find other, closer work.

We learned very quickly going in that the business was in some legal trouble with the previous owners trying to cause issues. We figured it was fine as it was a temporary job and she would be long gone before anything bad happened.

Time passed and I would ask her occasionally if she had applied to jobs or worked on her resume and I was always answered with her telling me she was working on her resume, or that she saw a job she was going to apply for. I didn't really push her on it as I didn't want to nag, and was busy with my own new career. I would sometimes suggest pottential jobs for her as I saw them come up. 

The months ran on, and still no new job, still the same answers. Finally I realized it had been 8 months, so I about three weeks ago started to look for jobs for her and send her links, I started to ask her what jobs had she applied for, and how much more work was needed on her resume. Still she didn't apply.

Today her boss lost the court case and her and all off of her co-workers are out of their jobs with no notice.

I'm pretty angry because we need her income to not be close to broke every month. Our rent is almost an entire paycheck for me.

I told her I'm angry that she wasted the last 8 months, now she's mad at me because I'm not being supportive.