Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : I’m an alcoholic. When I drink, I can get handsy, but generally don’t unless someone makes the move first. He doesn’t drink when I do, usually. 
I’ve slept with him sober maybe less than 6 or 7 times. 
My problem is that I wake up w/ marks, or something telling me that I slept with him, but I’m rarely coherent enough the night before to remember it the morning after. 
I know I’m an adult and I am completely responsible for my own decisions, so if I’m regretting sex, it’s because of my own doing. 
I don’t want to put him in a position where he feels he has to make my decisions, but I also don’t want to sleep with him every time I drink. I’ve started feeling wary of him sleeping with me when I’m blackout drunk. 