This happens a lot, but it's a very specific example... She will start a conversation with the phrase "should we" when what she actually mean is "can you". Examples: "Should we order pizza soon?" "Should we talk to the children about their bad habits?" And I know she's asking me to do it myself but I always answer something like "Yeah I don't have a problem if you want to do that." And then nobody does the thing because neither of us actually requested or offered. I'm asking because I know I get a little frustrated whenever she does this and I can't really tell if I'm being righteous or just petty.