So, I've only known this guy for a few days and we found each other through an app. We talk on Snapchat a bunch but haven't met yet. Problem is, I've never met anyone in person through these apps before and I'm a very anxious person.

He'd mentioned that he lost his duvet at a relatives and won't ever be getting it back (they lost it too apparently). His living situation isn't great, he sleeps on an airbed that deflated and caused him to get no sleep last night and has a single blanket (to be fair it's a cute blanket).

So I thought I'd be nice and offer to buy him a duvet set, but first (and in hindsight I realise this must've been weird) I asked for a verification pic because all others I'd seen looked pretty much the same. 

He tells me he is not going to do that nor should he and after telling him its because i wanted to get him a new duvet he proceeds to tell me the usual "I don't accept things from guys I hardly know" "I can make it on my own" stuff which is understandable. 

So, am I the asshole for wanting a verification pic and wanting to get a guy I hardly know yet a duvet? Also we were talking about meeting up sometime soon just to chill. Now though, I think I just killed what was going to be a good friendship.

Am I the asshole? Are either of us even the asshole?

Tldr: Guy I've known for a few days through Snapchat sleeps on an airbed with a blanket because duvet was lost. I ask for verification pic to settle my own anxiety and offer to buy him a duvet. He declines. 