Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Its 7 PM, my husband is asleep in bed after being upset I did not want to go out...to sit at the bar at a specific restaurant only because we have a gift card. 

Since making New Years Eve plans we decided we were broke and could use a night at home just the two of us for wild sex. 

Well today he says "Why don't we go to Ruth's Chris and sit at the bar?" I rarely drink and am not in the mood to do so. I tell him "I don't feel like getting dressed up and getting a drink." 

He got so upset that he cancelled the babysitter which I then said "Ok, let's go out. I'm sure we will have fun." No, he has barely looked at me all evening and is now in bed asleep.

Am I the asshole here?