This is our third go around. I told him he needs to make up for the lost trust. 

I asked him if we could talk during lunch today so I could tell him that I was feeling as though he wasn’t putting in as much effort to our relationship as I’d hoped for. 

He agrees, lunch rolls around and he is nowhere to be seen.

I’m freaking the fuck out because this isn’t the first time he’s ran away from our issues, despite his promises to talk things out.

After lunch I text him to say that we’re over. He gives a half ass apology and then I just start exploding on him, telling him I’m not a doormat and that he can’t just take me and leave me when he wanted to. I’m super fucking angry at this point. Saying some borderline mean things to him and just going on a tangent.

He responds that he doesn’t have the energy to argue.

About an hour later I apologize for blowing up on him and say if he wants to talk it out when it’s convenient for both of us I’d be willing. He hasn’t replied. 

So, AITA for freaking out, and was this an overreaction? 