Cast:

Me, H (my husband), K (kid), OH (old hag)

Had a family movie day my H and our son, to see Spiderman: Into the Spiderverse this past weekend. There was only \~10 people total in the theater, a family at the front, 3 of us on the left middle, K with her friend on the right middle (our row, but we are on either end), a couple in the middle a few rows up from us and OH in the very top row, middle. About halfway through the movie, I hear someone from behind me talking loudly, but it was also during a loud scene, so I turned to hear what was actually being said. It was OH, standing up and leaning over the row in front of her, almost shouting (because of the loud scene) GET OFF YOUR CELLPHONE!  I was a little confused since I hadn't heard a cell phone, and there wasn't the telltale bright glow you see. I watched OH for a few seconds and figured out she was talking to K in the same row as us. I watched K for another few seconds, and I saw that she did have her phone out, but it looked like it was seriously dimmed. Whatever, I go back to paying attention to the movie.

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About 35-40 minutes later, I notice movement out of the corner of my eye. OH is standing right behind K and is in her ear, YET I CAN HEAR HER, so she was almost yelling in this poor kids ear, GET OFF THE CELLPHONE! You aren't supposed to be on your PHONE! Do you want me to get the worker to kick you OUT!? Then she waddled her way back to her throne to continue watching over her theater kingdom for further infractions. There was no more outbursts, but afterwards when I was talking to H he thought I was crazy for thinking that OH was the true disturbance and that K with the cell was easily ignore-able. H thinks that if OH was annoyed by K, she was within her rights to say something. I feel like if OH was really that annoyed, after the first warning, go get someone to deal with it.

So, who is the asshole here?