Is EVERYBODY wrong in the post ? POST : I am going to try and keep this short as possible. I'm a long haired male and have been for many years. When I first started growing out my hair, I found that not using any products in my hair kept it looking good and healthy. I take showers as normal, but simply massage my scalp without using any form of shampoos/etc. So, before you may think this is gross, it really is not. I have not had any issues in the real world. My hair looks healthy and grows very full. You would not recognize it as being un-shampooed hair. 

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Anyways, my mother knows that I don't shampoo my hair. When I first started it, she would throw fits until I would shampoo my hair. If I refused, she would go on and on for hours about how bad it is, etc. It was an absolute nightmare. She is a very toxic person in the first place, but this is one of her many triggers. So, over the years after much defense on my end, she has become less explosive about the subject. However, she still manages to be annoying anytime we are together in person. If I'm going to take a shower, she will continually ask why I don't use shampoo. She will put shampoo in there and keep telling me to use it. You get the point.

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Today, we were talking on the phone. I live in a different state. So, this is how we communicate. She is very toxic, but I still care about her and try to keep in touch. We were talking about all sorts of things. When she brings up how I need to start washing my hair. I kind of exploded and said, "if you ever say this to me again, I'm not coming home anymore." I told her how annoying it was and that she's probably said it about 1 million times. Obviously, her opinion is fine, but I already know her opinion. She is not going to change my mind. 

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Anyways, AITA?