AITA for being afraid of my HoH landlady?
I know that sounds bad, but let me explain. I'm renting part of the house from a family friend, who has always been a loud, brash person. Her manner of speaking makes it sound like she's always angry and yelling.
After living here for a month or so it became clear that my landlady suffers from fairly significant hearing loss. I asked a co-tenant about it, who had observed it as well, but when she tried to broach the subject with our landlady in the past, she denied having any hearing problems.
Obviously that's within her rights; but the problem is, even though I know why she's loud, and I know intellectually that I'm not being yelled at, past trauma makes it so every time she speaks my fight or flight response activates, and I go out of my way to avoid speaking to her. I'm even considering moving out.
Am I the asshole? (note: I don't think she's an asshole in this situation) 