Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : When my mom was 18 she hooked up with a guy named Bryan who was 17 and together they had me. Bryan didn’t want to be a father so he left my mother.
Years later my mom met a guy named Ryan and had a kid with her named Ellie.
Then later my mom gets with another guy named Kyle and they have a kid named Laurie.
Ryan, my first step-dad. My mom and him used to switch Ellie and I every week.
Ryan is with a girl named Amy. Amy had a kid named Lyle. They had a kid together named Winston. 
About a year ago I came out and told my second step-dad Kyle that Ryan’s father, Chris, had been sexually harassing me for the past year. To name a few things he did:
-He offered to buy me a dildo. When I laughed and said my parents wouldn’t like that he said I didn’t have to tell them
-I was in a night gown one night and he was making a movement with his hands and when I looked down I realized he was staring at my privates under my night gown
-He would constantly rub my thighs closer to the parts I didn’t want him to touch
-He would groom me by getting me foods
-He shoved his hand down my shirt and tried to grab at my chest. I slapped his hand away 
-When I told him about my online boyfriend he asked me if I had ever orgasmed before. I said “maybe” and he said “you haven’t. If you did you would have known.”
Once I told Kyle he told me I could stay with them. Ryan wanted me to be the one to fix our relationship after everything that happened. I had to get therapy and deal with all the pain and trauma his father caused all on my own. 
Now for the part why I’m truly mad at his side of the family: 
They abandoned me. I tried so hard to try and fix things with Ryan.
I’ve had an incredibly hard time dealing with the pain and trauma of all of this. I break down a lot and sometimes someone just touching me slightly makes me think that Chris is there trying to touch me. 
Ryan’s entire family all think I’m an asshole, even Ellie. Ellie and I used to be so close but now she basically hates me and yells at me whenever she gets the chance. I don’t know what to do. Am I an asshole for reporting Chris? For the past year I’ve struggled with this question and I guess asking a bunch of people on reddit is how I’ll decide.
Note: Please don’t come on the post and comment that Chris didn’t actually harass me sexually or that I’m not really trans because I wore a night gown at one time. None of that will help me figure out if I am the asshole or not. 

