so today i was sitting a little away from everyone because i wasn’t feeling well and wanted to sit on a comfy chair. my dad offered me a less comfy chair near him and i said i was fine where i was. he then offered again, and i said i was comfortable. then he got really mad and said “i am giving you ONE MORE CHANCE to sit here!!” and i was like ?? didn’t realize it was that serious. so i walked over and sat down and he said (VERY LOUDLY) “AND I NEVER WANT TO SEE YOUR UNDERWEAR SHOWING. NEVER AGAIN. NEVER WEAR THOSE SHORTS AGAIN.” i hadn’t even realized that my shorts had ridden up. he continued to (in public) chew me out for this, even though i hadn’t realized, and i was mortified. then i looked away and he started screaming at me to “GET OUT OF MY SIGHT. IM GOING TO COUNT TO TEN AND YOU NEED TO BE GONEEEE” and continued to scream at me like this, in the middle of a bar, while my sister fumbled to get me the room key. he kept on making vague threats about how if i wasn’t gone in ten seconds i would face consequences, so obvi i left asap. this type of (in my opinion, completely irrational) reaction is common with him, except normally he tells me i’m gaslighting him/being a martyr when i start to cry, but i left quickly so it didn’t show that i was upset. here’s where i’m the asshole in the situation: my family is wealthy. we are currently on vacation (where this is happening) and my parents are paying for my college and they take me and my sister lots of places, so i feel like i can’t really be mad at him?? so reddit, am i ungrateful, and AITA?