Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : I come from a large Catholic family and am regularly degraded by them for my sexuality. I do have 3 other brother who are gay and that's about all I can deal with in my family anymore. At Christmas I was sitting with a couple of my nieces when one of them pushes me and says "that's cause you're gay". I didn't say anything to her parent because I feel like I am categorically mistrusted by her for no good reason. The only time this sibling ever reaches out is to argue. Anyways,  I told my older brother about this and with my permission he told her about it. He sent me screenshots of the conversation where she said she was going to apologize to me. When she calls though she says that she talked to her daughter and that she said she didn't do that(push me) and that because of her Asperger's  she would have told on herself. She then proceeded to say that she was sorry 'if' it happened. (Keep in mind that I never told her a thing, I have no reason to spread a lie like that.) I just really feel that it was a non apology in order to make herself feel better.  So am I the asshole for calling it time to cut off the relationship. 