Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : I (26f) currently live in a 3/2 house with 1 roommate (23m). I own the house and my roommate approached me through a mutual friend asking to live with me. I’m currently in school and figured I could use the extra money. I wasn’t looking for a roommate but really just did a favor since his previous roommates sucked. Seemed to be a good fit. Before he moved in we had a conversation about overnight guests. He said he has some friends who live out of state that may come visit him a couple times a year and they may stay for weekends. I told him that was fine. Had him sign a month-to-month lease agreement. While there are no explicit terms in the agreement, this conversation about guests seemed very straightforward. Now it’s been almost a year with very minimal issues. However, his friend who lives 4 hours away started coming over frequently. At first it was on days my roommate wasn’t working. Now the past 2 months his friend has been here at least 45 out of the 60 days. He is here while my roommate goes to work. This didn’t bother me at first, but now it really does. He showers here. (There’s a slight difference in the bill). Uses some of my things in the common spaces. Slows down the WIFI. Leaves the door unlocked when he goes out for a little. (this scares me because 90% of the valuables in the house are mine.) neither of them have ever cleaned anything in the common spaces besides the dishes they use, even though they do track in a lot of dirt. He stays in my roommates’ room all day long while my roommate is at work and sleeps on his floor. This is why I’m not sure if I’m being dramatic about this occurrence because the guest isn’t severely limiting the use of common spaces. I wouldn’t be as bothered if I rented this home instead of owned it. When I allowed him to move in I thought I had signed up for 1 roommate. Not 2. I honestly find it odd that 2 straight men just sit around all day in a bedroom doing nothing. What makes a 4 hour drive appealing at that point? I barely know this man who has pretty much moved into my home. I’ve politely expressed my concern to my roommate and my concern was completely disregarded. So, wibta if I limited his overnight guests staying? Would you be bothered by a man you barely know in your home being there while you and your roommate are out for the day? How would you bring it up again, if you think I’m being fair? 