Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : I have a friend. We were once very close, but the past 8 months or so we’ve been butting heads and fighting. About a month ago I told him I don’t think we should be friends. This bothered him. He agreed to work harder on our friendship. So far so good. I am still upset and just tired of everything. I noticed myself getting annoyed and frustrated with him quickly. I didn’t like the fact this was happening. I sent him a text saying I think I need some time and distance from him. I told him I don’t want to feel like that towards him, but just do right now. He went bonkers. Saying he’s tired of me flip flopping back and forth. I make a big deal out of everything, and his personal favorite “there’s something wrong with you”. Long story short he loves to point out what he feels are my shortcomings as a person. Fast forward. My dumbass who never learns, made the mistake of calling him. Trying to understand y he’s so mad. He proceeds to go ape shit on me. Never lets me speak. Hangs up the phone in my face. Blocks me. Furious, I decided to go over his house. I was able to restrain myself and stayed calmer than I thought I would. I tried talking to him. He just kept harping on how asking for space was such an insult to him. That he’s been trying etc. Again, I never said he wasn’t trying. All I said was things still bother me, I need some space. The funny thing is I was trying to do right. I was trying to take time and get to a point where I don’t get annoyed/frustrated with him. I care about him. I thought the right thing to do was tell him I need space. Instead he told me I should have never said anything and just ignored him. He even called me selfish for not doing so. Keep in mind we see each other literally 5/7 days a week. Am the asshole for asking for some space? Was that such an unfair request? Keep in mind I never accused him of any wrong doing. 