Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : My girlfriend was never one for video games. Still isn't, really. My hobbies were always about computers and video games, and she never really understood it. The only video games she ever played were on the PlayStation 2 and Nintendo Wii systems. However, now she has gained interest ever since I finished building my computer.

It's not that I'm upset with her playing games. I think it's cool she has gained interest, what annoys me is that she will start playing a game that I've already started and will mess up to some regard in game and lose my progress because she doesn't how the game works; and, I'm sorry to say, I don't have much patients to teach people. 

I've started her on new games and created new accounts for her, but she insists on playing on my accounts because I have "more things to do". I offered to build her a cheaper computer or give her my Xbox, but she refuses... stating that she doesn't like the shooting games and fighting games that I play. 

She has most recently gotten into stardew valley and house flipper. Fun games IMO. Cool. Wonderful. So I walked her through the tutorial phases of those games, and basically let her have her fun. But the annoying part is having her ask every 30 seconds what she has to do next. "How do I install this sink? How do I paint this wall? How do I tile this floor? Oops I didn't want this, do i have to start over? (All things she's asked from playing the first hour of House Flipper). 

Or in stardew she will complain cause she wanted both of us to play the game like we did on consol, but now that I've built my pc idk that I can play 2 player without her having a computer. So I offered to start back on my Xbox, but she doesn't want to. And then she got upset that I started a new game with another friend and we have gotten rather far, and she is mad because it was supposed to he "our game". 

I love that she wants to get into what I'm into, but she doesn't really have anything of her own... I love being with her, but I wish she could take time to just enjoy something by herself. Learn something new by herself without asking me every 30 seconds how to do something. She is incredibly book smart. She does well in school, but she just doesn't grasp basic concepts in these games. 

(Something that transpired while I was writing this: "Babe I can't paint the corner of the room! The bed is in the way." 

Jump onto the bed - hit space bar.

*hits space bar and jumps where she is standing* "It doesn't work".

Move forward and press spacebar.
*leans over and presses W and Spacebar*

"Oh... well it didn't work before." 

You didn't try it before.

*laughs* "Yeah you're right."

...this girl is nearly 20 years old. Come on.)

I know I need to learn patience, and I love her to death. But I just get annoyed easily when it's something that seems like such a simple concept becomes such a major issue for someone. 

AITA for becoming upset at this? I've lost the ability to just play a game by myself basically. I just wish she was contempt with finding a hobby of her own, or at least letting me help her with getting an updated game consol or computer for her to play on. We've talked about getting a switch because it's a simpler format with games she would more enjoy. 