Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : I know the title seems heartless but let me explain. 

I have 2 friends who I’ve know for 1-2 years, R and D. They’re good friends and we like to joke around a lot but recently they’re behaviors have been getting more and more on my nerves. 

Let’s start with R. R has no respect for my personal boundaries and constantly touches me in places which are triggers for me. For the past year I’ve continually asked him to stop touching me but he never listens. I think it’s worth mentioning that I’m trans (ftm) and he’s threatened me by saying he’ll call me by my deadname if I didn’t do something for him. This is a big trigger for my dysphoria and he knows this. When I call him out he paints himself like the victim and says I took whatever he did the wrong way, wether it be him belittling my mental health and making it seem like not a big deal or touching me when I tell him not to, and he rarely apologizes. How hard is it to just apologize and move on, seriously? He does tale it to the extreme sometimes and even went as far as to one time tell me that he should just “stop talking” and I told him how ridiculous he was acting but he didn’t listen. 

D is childish and annoying. It’s like he still stuck in elementary school (we’re in high school) and he acts very immature. I’ve only ever told him once to “grow up” bluntly but that was only because he was getting on my nerves. When I do hint that I want him to act maturely he takes it to the extreme and acts like a stereotypical asshole. He also has a habit of running in really stunted steps (basically he barley brings his foot up and drags it along the ground as he runs) and it really annoys me. 

I have another friend who’s just a whole other story. He’s all around mentally unstable and ill probably write another post on him some other time. 

So yeah, AITA for hating my friends because of their behavior?