This post is gonna grow off of this previous: [AITA Haven't spoken with my mother since Christmas after some fighting](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/agt1rm/aita_havent_spoken_with_my_mother_since_christmas/)

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I'm 17 m and the relationship between me and my mom for the past two months has been really rocky. She has made decisions that I strongly disagree with and all under the guise that she 'is an adult'.

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Recently, my mom was getting food for my brother (14) and he asked if I wanted something. I wasn't sure who was getting the meal, but who would miss out on free food?

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Well, all he did when I responded was give me the phone. It was my mom. She said that I had to give her a hug if she got the food and almost immediately I denied the fact that I wanted anything. I was planning to eat at home anyways. I said, "If you want a hug, I want an apology."

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That pissed her off.

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From there it spiraled into an argument, she denied her guilt in anything and refused to apologize. She started yelling at me over the phone which I responded with yelling back. Saying that "she was the adult" and "I was the kid". "Everything \[was\] my fault" because I didn't have better judgement. If you read the other post, you will find this is at least somewhat wrong.

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I ended the call with "Have a nice life" and hung up. Finally, my question is if I am the asshole for sticking up to my mom like that. It felt wrong and I have had a guilty feeling in my stomach since we fought. AITA?

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TL;DR: Scream-argument with my mom on the phone following [this](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/agt1rm/aita_havent_spoken_with_my_mother_since_christmas/), she refused to admit guilt and I hung up, still not talking to her.

There is a tldr at the bottom of the attached post, too.