Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : So, from the title alone this would be pointless.
I had one friend in my life, one who actually cares for me, who picked me up from the floor, and helped me get back up. But because of work we didn't really speak for 2 years now, because we didn't have time at all. And roughly around that timespan, I and my girlfriend found each other. We both never really had anyone except the one friend who really shined. Te problem now, she lived in a little town, where her chances in getting work were little to zero. So she moved in with me. We were there for each other, while no one else would. Now I finally got the courage, after thinking "its been too long, he doesn't care about me anymore", to message him. I work on retail, so saturdays off are gods gift. This week is such a case, and this morning I messaged him, after a little smalltalk I asked him if he had time this weekend, so I finally could see him again. But now I needed to tell her, and she got sad, because she looked forward to a weekend with me, without me being away. To make matters worse, she began crying because she doesn't have any friends, and she will be alone saturday and half of sunday, only my father and my little sister are there to keep her company. I feel miserable for going to a friend, reminding her she has none who aren't 4 hours away. Please help...I'm lost
(And sorry for the long text.)