Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Wait, before you make a decision, please hear me out. It is not as bad as it sounds, or at least I do not mean it to seem so.

S- Sister of my boyfriend.
B- Boyfriend
PA- Parents of the boyfriend and sister
We have been together for nearly 3 years

My boyfriend’s sister (S) recently got married, and moved away to another state. It’s only a 4-6 hour drive from where my boyfriend’s parents (PA) currently lives, but they take almost every other weekend to go visit the married couple. I understand that family is important, but I find this a bit excessive. The first few times, S had asked for them to come up. She had not found a job yet and was lonely, as her husband was busy most of the days. So the PA obliged them, and went up with my boyfriend (B).

This repeated many times, even after S had found a job. The most recent visit, I decided to ask B about the frequency of the visits, and if it was S asking them to come up, or if it was the PA. The last few times it was the PA’s decision, and B really seems to enjoy the city that S and her husband live in. It seems very nice, but I have never gone, I am only going off of what he has shared with me.

I was beginning to get mad, as our dates had been postponed for a few weeks (life was getting in the way, college, personal affairs, and the frequent trips), so I asked about it, which I believe offended him. He gets defensive pretty easily, so I tip-toe around certain subjects. I don’t get to spend time with him very often, as we are living separately.

Me: They got married, and moved away. How come you guys keep visiting them?
B:  [Insert City] Is a really nice place, so I take every chance I can to go.
Me: Well, if I ever got married, I would want to have some form of privacy, y’know? Plus, we haven’t had a date in so long...
B: Excuse me for thinking Family is important.
(This took place a few weeks ago. The family has decided not go back until next weekend)

I didn’t say anything after the spat, and have since just kept it to myself. I hope this made some form of sense, I’ve just been really hesitant about this.

TLDR; AITA for wanting to see my boyfriend a bit more often than I already do/as much as he visits his family?