Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : So, bit of background. I (F24) had a pregnancy scare about a week ago. Forgot some of my birth control pills and had unprotected sex, not very smart of me. The shops were not open yet, so we couldn't get a pregancy test yest. But we started discussing what we should do. Currently I am in a state in my life where I definitely do not want to have kids, so I said to my bf (M26) that I probably would get an abortion if I turned out to be pregnant. He said that we should talk this through if I turn out to be pregnant before we make any decisions. I said sure, we definitely need to talk about it, but when it comes down to it, i'ts my body so my decision. He got really really angry for saying that.   


I tried to explain to him that of course we will make it a mutual decision, and we will talk, explore our options and objectively try to weigh all those options, but in the end it is my body and if we really don't agree on it it is my call. He called me selfish and said that say I want to keep the baby, and he wants me to get it aborted, I would still get the last call and ruin his whole life by giving him a baby that he doesn't want. I said well, it is a difficult one, but you cannot force a women to abort a baby if she doesnt want it as it is her body. In that moment it is my decision, and if I decide to have it while knowing very well that the baby is not wanted by the father and I am hurting you by this and ruining your life and very likely our relation, it is still my decision. He thought I was crazy for thinking like this and we just couldn't agree with each other.   


Luckily, I'm not pregnant (yay) so we don't have to think about this. But I am still wondering, AITA for thinking like this?