Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : Let me start off by saying that most of my friends are my coworkers and I have learned why that can be toxic. But recently, my group of friends and I went out bowling. Now, there is this one "friend" that I decided to stop talking to after explaining to her that I don't care for the way she treats me. I explained it once and she apologized but continued to do it. Then, I stopped communication with her. We're both adults, I'm not going to beg for your respect and you shouldn't have to be told how to treat people. Now when we were bowling, she and my other friend were acting kinda shitty. They are those "can't handle at my worst, don't deserve me at my best." But one of them is actually tolerable. And after they were acting shitty and making people uncomfortable, I went up to her and explained how she made me feel and that it made me not want to talk to her anymore. She explained that she could tell that she was playing up her personality and apologized and has since toned it down. But the other girl started talking about me and how I always bring up drama and can never just let things go. Personally, I feel if you have a problem with someone, you should privately discuss it and then see where the situation goes from there. There's nothing wrong with stating your feelings. Am I starting drama a lot and just not seeing it?