Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : I and my husband have been married for 17 years (42f &amp;40m). We have two kids(16f &amp; 12f). 

We decided that my husband would take care of the kids since I have a higher paying job and childcare is way too expensive here. He has been doing so since the birth of our first daughter.

But now, the kids are old enough and they no longer need someone to babysit them. We could really use some extra money and I asked my husband to find a job. But he insists that the kids need him and it was unfair of me to ask him to work after almost 16 years after staying jobless.

All he does is work out, play videogames, and watch Netflix. I think he's just being lazy. He thinks that I don't appreciate what he does and thinks I'm being unfair. AITA??