Context: I got out of a long-distance relationship about six or so months ago. Ex was *extremely* abusive, and left me really mentally scarred, to the point where I have flashback semi-regularly. Fast forward to yesterday, talking to a girl who I’d met online as well and known for a couple weeks, and she says she wants to date me. I don’t really know why, it’s likely because I’m a massive people-pleaser doormat, but I say yes, because I like her as a person and she’s kinda cute. Really soon after, I start having *extreme* flashbacks. This goes on for about twelve hours before I tell her I’m not able to keep on with the relationship. She says okay, but keeps on flirting with me into today, when I tell her that in all honesty, I just need to stop talking to her for a bit so I can sort myself out. AITA?