To first five some background, my gf who was also my finance at the time broke up with me right before Christmas.  We've lived together for the past 5 years and are still living together since it's only been about 3 weeks since the breakup. About a week after she broke up with me she posted on Facebook that she was single and had a number of guys comment and reach out to her. She met up with one of those guys who was an old friend and has started seeing him and they've already slept together. I don't really have feelings of jealousy at this point. I understand the relationship is over and we weren't right for each other. In other words, I'm not hoping for a reconciliation or that she will take me back. I just want to move on. What has been bothering me is that we still live together and she is currently unable to move out because she doesn't have any money and she really doesn't have anywhere else to go. I pay the rent and the apartment is in my name. She helps out with the bills. Ok, that's fine, I'm not some monster whose going to tell her to pack up and leave the next day in the middle of Winter. I've given her some time to get her financial situation straightened out and move out. But I'm human, even though I said I'm not jealous, it still bothers me that she posted this on FB and started sleeping with this guy while we are still living together, and she is unable to support herself. I still have to be in the same house as her while she is texting him or while she's getting ready to go see him. I do have to say, she's been really sweet to me through all this and we are on pretty good terms. She'll even try to come over and cuddle me at night. Sometimes I'm ok with this, other times I tell her to go away, because I don't want her touching me, because it just messes with my head. But the thing is, I'm just walking around all agitated and little things that she does have been bothering me even more lately. This morning, I told her how I felt, and I wasn't very nice about it. I basically said that I felt disrespected that she started sleeping with another guy a week after breaking up with me, knowing that she is still living in MY HOUSE, and is unable to leave for the moment. She started crying about how I was making things harder for her and that's she's been sweet to me, which is true, and that I'm being an asshole for reminding her that it's my house and that I don't want her there anymore. Jeez, reading this back, I feel like it should be in reddit/r/niceguys or something. But then part of me is thinking I'm being an asshole for being an asshole to her about this since I did give her time to move out and I have reminded her more than once that I don't want her in my house any longer. I just feel like my life is on hold. She can just go to this new guy's house and sleep with him, but I have to wait until she moves out to start my life. 