Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : So I live with my mother for financial reasons and for the holidays she decided to invite her brother and his family over. 

For some context, my uncle is in his 70s, his kids are about 15-20 years older than me and their kids are all like half my age or younger (I’m 30). 

Now we normally host during the holidays because we have one of the bigger homes. I buy and cook all the food (my mom doesn’t cook) and do 90% of the house cleaning/prep (my mom is older and can’t really do heavy house work) I am 100% okay with this arrangement because our family is usually only about 6 people max during a gathering and it takes a lot of stress off my mom during an already stressful time of year.

This gathering is going to be 13 people (7 of which are virtual strangers to me) because my cousins are so much older than me, I have 0 memories of them, and have only met half the kids and those I did meet were only once. 

My mother has said she will take care of the food and I only have to worry about myself (I’m a vegetarian). She is going to buy a precooked ham for everyone. No mention of any other food, sides or desserts. The thing is, I’m not the only vegetarian coming. I know that there are 2 other vegetarians and mom mentioned that several others don’t like to eat meat. So now it’s looking like half the group are vegetarians so I won’t be cooking for just me. 

This is also happening 2 days after our normal Christmas gathering that I’m having to cook/prep for. 

My mother also mentioned that because my cousins’ kids are all coming (I think 4 in total) that I will be expected to set up my playstion for them. This I absolutely put my food down on and said no way. I don’t care if these kids are family. They are not going to be playing around in my room while I’m not there to supervise. And even if I was, I should be able to expect my privacy in my own room and not be expected to babysit a bunch of kids. 

I know these people are family but honestly I’m pretty pissed that I’m going to have to play host to virtual strangers. My mom says she will handle it, but she’s not a young woman and if I don’t step in, she’s going to over work herself just trying to prep the house and won’t be able to cook or anything. So I’ll end up having to play host and entertain these people. 

AITA? 