Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : Let’s start by saying I don’t have a lot of friends. I organized a birthday dinner and invited my best friend and her girlfriend (who is also a close friend). I asked them weeks before the date and then confirmed a few days before hand both times they said they were definitely coming. Keep in mind it was my best friends birthday a few weeks before mine, and I made sure I attended a gaming night she hosted in celebration, and bought her a thoughtful gift. 

I made a reservation at my favorite restaurant, arrived 15 minutes early on the night to make sure I was there when they arrived. Half an hour passed and I thought it was strange they weren’t there/I hadn’t heard from them. They were both active on Facebook so I messaged them asking when they were coming. They both read my messages and did not respond. I sat at my favorite restaurant eating my favorite food alone on my birthday. I did not hear from them at all regarding the dinner (not to mention they did not even wish me a happy birthday) and then in the following weeks they invite me to a Christmas dinner they’re hosting for a group of friends. Of course after what’s happened I decline the invite and instantly get a message asking why I’m not coming. 

I am furious. I am somebody that forgives people for literally everything, and I feel like that’s the reason they’re shocked I haven’t just got over it. As well as anger I can’t help but feel incredibly guilty for declining their invite. Am I being an asshole if I just cut these people off?
