So I’ve got a group of 3 really close friends and two of them are into volleyball. Now, one of them has practice Monday Wednesday Friday and the other has practice Tuesday Thursday Sunday. So the only times we can really hang out as a group is on weekends because we have classes during the week. Now here’s where things get complicated. Pretty much every weekend at least one of them has a tournament which means they are busy the entire weekend. It gets frustrating for me, someone who is never busy and would rather hang out with friends than waste the days away in front of a computer, trying to plan things with my closest friends but can’t seem to get a plan together where all 4 of us would be there because they’re always busy with sports. Summer is an option but me and the other guy are both taking summer school pretty much the entirety of July then August, someone’s gone until there’s 3 days of summer left. So it upsets me when I try to plan things where everyone will be there but they’re busy with sports or will be away. We rarely ever all get to hang out together and I worry that will be the demise of our friendship. So reddit, am I the asshole for getting upset about my close friends always being busy?