Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : So, here's the thing, my mom has always made my birthdays in some way about her. She'll take me to bars with her peer group because she normally does this even though I don't know any of them. So this year I specifically asked if I could just do something with family, like have dinner or something. It seems like she got the memo this year up until about 30 minutes ago when she got on the phone with her friends who I barely know and who are now invited. They're also now planning on going out to a bar again after. I voiced my annoyance in that I've specifically asked for a while now that this not happen. Now she's saying I'm an asshole and insane for being upset about the changes because she's taking me to dinner with family.... and her friends, then a bar. She is still taking me to dinner, which is nice, so do I have the right to be upset?

AITA?