Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : I just remembered an interaction I had in a night club last year and I'm really unsure if I was the asshole or if my behaviour was justified. To understand the story you need to know that I'm female and half korean and half german.

A friend and I went to a nightclub one weekend. When we went outside to get some fresh air I noticed a group of five people about 10 meters away looking in our direction and very blatantly talking about us. This did not stop for about five minutes and I was uncomfortable, but I just tried to ignore this. I just wanted to have fun and did not want to have any kind of confrontation with anybody. I could have walked away, this is true. I didn't because while it was awkward, I didn't want to give up my sitting space.

After 5 minutes one guy from this group stood up and walked towards us. Then he said "hey, sorry for bothering you. But me and my friends have been talking about you for the past minutes trying to find out where you're from. Like, you don't look german. So, where are you from?" and I replied "Frankly, it made me umcomfortable that you spent the last five minutes talking about me and looking at me. I'm not a zoo animal." 

He was taken aback and clearly hurt.  Without a word he walked back to his friends. Maybe I'm the asshole, but I didn't enjoy getting "examined" by them. It made me feel alienated and like I'm different, not like them. Tell me what you think. I'm willing to learn from this. 