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I \[29 F\] have a job that is remote and allows me the flexibility to travel and the company that I hold my job with is very encouraging towards us to travel everywhere - and additionally, the people that work with me are very open to going and have the income to do so.



I was never really given the opportunity to explore the world before I moved in with my now husband and it really has gotten inside of my skin. I travel with 1 or 2 girls each time I go - however, he doesn't have the same ability to get up and go like I do. We don't have any kids, and I am still working while I am going places. 


I recently got married back in 2017 and have gone on plenty trips and vacations with my husband \[34M\], as well as traveling with another girl from work who is one of my closest friends. My husband and I have started to talk about kids and I feel like I haven't gotten the travel out of my system - but I realize it's time for me to start being an adult and stop going around to different states without him. 



My friend and I have decided to plan one more trip to Europe in the coming months, and my husband is livid that he is not able to come - I don't want to invite him as he does not like the girl I am going with as well as he feels he needs to come to "protect" me from the danger that is in Europe. I have been to Europe 4 times and have never felt unsafe but understand I need to be vigilant. He is a different type of traveler than my friend and I - and while I love him - I feel like he will really drag the trip down with his depression, his overprotectiveness and his attitude towards my friend. He believes that I am choosing her over him - and I think in some ways I am choosing her style over his of traveling and company.


I am saving for the trip, will not go into debt, and want to go on one last girl's trip before I start having kids.
