Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : Mass is what we call going to church here.. I just didn't really know how to word it.

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Okay, so I'm 21, I'm not religious, I'm between agnostic and atheist.. in one way I just don't know and in another I don't think I would want to get into heaven on gods terms.. (supposing there was a heaven and a hell)

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My parents wanted me to go to my mothers parents remembrance mass.

It's basically church and at one point they do an offertory, which is usually done by family members and the priest says 'we remember .... on this day'

Other than that it's just church as usual, but the priest is an ass who'll talk to the family afterwards and mention about their lack of attendance or how 'since you know where we are I guess we'll be seeing you same time next week!'

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My family is not religious, we had our communion and confirmation because that was the done thing in school.

So technically religious but so is everyone else in Ireland.

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My parents wanted me to go because it would be nice for my mother.. it would but at the same time it's an excuse to hold a mass.

I never met my grandparents (one died a year before I was born and the other died when my mother was little), but I still love them the same regardless.. 

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So TL:DR - I'm not religious, my family isn't either, but my parents wanted me to go to church for a remembrance for my grandparents, that's just an excuse for a mass, there's no real time dedicated to the remembrance..

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Am I The Asshole?