Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : My roommate and I have been living together for a couple months and has never wanted to get drunk with me or anyone for that matter. Last year when we were not living together he would always have me over for football and beers. Last year he was always down to get drunk and go to a party or the bar. This year it seems as though he never wants to. Whenever I ask him he always says he’s too tired or doesn’t feel like it. If I ask him days prior he says he is down but always back out when the day comes. I’ve tried asking if something has changed or if he is okay but he convinces me he is fine. All he seems to do is sit around and watch Netflix so I feel bad for him and want him to meet people. Am I the asshole?