Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : Hey reddit! Today I had a pretty big argument with my boyfriend, and it has left me wondering if it's even worth it to try and save this. I debated posting on r/relationship_advice, but he's been throwing the word "asshole" in my face so much that I figured it would be more fitting to come here for support.

I am an avid supporter of daily sunscreen wear. Seeing pictures of how well people age due to regular wear, and hearing about it from my friends and family has inspired me to take care of my face and prevent unnecessary skin damage. My boyfriend and I have been together for several months, and I feel like he is husband material. Because of this, I plan on looking at his face for a very long time, and I want him to benefit from sunscreen in the same way I feel I am. I have asked him on multiple occasions to consider using sunscreen, but he refuses. He doesn't like the smell, and feels that my request is only something I can/should be asking as a wife, not a girlfriend. He then went on to say that he will gladly wear sunscreen for me when and if we do get married. 

This comment on sunscreen being a "husbandy request" has really thrown me for a loop, and I fear deeper misogynist issues could be at play. That being said, AITA for pushing my boyfriend to use sunscreen so he will look good for years to come? 