Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : For some background info, I live in EU,  I'm 18-year-old athletic guy, I like planing my life financially and in many other ways. I'm saving for university and general costs of living.

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The story wraps around one particular military program, that I have applied for, a training program that helps me to become a peacekeeper. All the training and a deployment takes around 2 years. It normally takes half a year if your going to be a normal infantry. The thought of me becoming a peacekeeper startled my father, he doesn't like that, he wants me to go straight to college or university and finish my army stuff as fast as possible. But my plan has been to serve a little longer.

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My dad is the problem, he has said time to time that you aren't cut for the job, this pisses me off, I shrug it off. I don't want to argue with him. As i usually say: "I have already made my choice", but I still listen to him. I should've listened to my closest friends advice, not tell parents, like his brother. I thought this would be more harmful to family relations, but after seeing the results of telling my parents about this, I can tell that I should've done the same.

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Half a year ago I had final exams to study and forgot about the army thing. The problem started yesterday when I mailed an application where I accepted to partake in the trials, me and my parents were going to a shopping mall, trying to find a mailbox and get some shopping done. As I was stepping out of the car, father said to me to think this through again, hinting that this was a stupid idea. I froze for a second to process what he said, I quickly gathered my inner self and stepped out of the car. After dropping the letter in the mailbox, it ruined my fathers day, he got sad and ruined the day for everyone else, but I didn't let the feelings get to me even though it was hard.

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Later in the evening when I was going for my regular 3 kilometer run. He gave me a note, I read it. It was demands that I start buying and cooking my own food now on, wash all the dished and so on. I could still live in the house and he would still pay the gas for the car because we shared his work car. I just want to add that my father has always done this, a punishment for doing something wrong.

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TL;DR Applied for peacekeeper duties to get money for university, lost some family respect.

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**Hi people of the sub, I had to cut the story dramatically to fit the 3000 word limit, I have the original one which is near 5000 characters long. I can post it, if asked, it goes in to detail about everything. But I hope that this would be enough to make a judgement.** 