Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : okay.so for context i've been friends with this girl for about a year.i know her friend group but i don't hang out with them



so i saw her holding hands with one of her friends,which i thought was strange because i'd never seen that before and she had called him creepy before and told him she didn't have the same feelings as him.

i asked her over dm's if they were dating and she said no.she then asked why when they hold hands he's being "creepy" and "too touchy" but when i try to talk to her and she avoids me and says to go i don't leave.i never did either and it was my friend who said it was creepy,but she insisted that because i didn't stop my friend from being rude,i was still being rude and compliant.i told her that i'm sorry for my friend being rude and told them to apologize,which they did. i explained that i wasn't trying to be intrusive;i was worried because of the avoidance and curious about why they were holding hands even after she told me she didn't have feelings for him.

was i the asshole by asking????? it was a innocent question but i feel like she took it way out of context and brought up things that i hadn't said and done,to make it seem like i had done something wrong.