So to give you some backstory. I have suffered from depression since summer 2017 when I was rejected from army service bc of a diagnose (which symptoms grew away with age). This was a major trauma in my life.

I have also ended up in unemployment and I have no drivers license which makes my life very difficult rn.

My parents were raised in a very conservative way. To them depression simply doesn't exist and they think the cure for depression is "To get up and get a grip of your life". They're also very career minded and money is a top priority.

This obviously leads to tensions. They ask me almost every day about job searching and drivers license. These two topics are very important, I get that, but they make me feel like a total loser when talking about them and I often get very sad and self-loathing when they're brought up.

My brother (16 y/o) also thinks it's hilarious to push me to talk about said subjects (usually through asking multiple times until I answer just to make him shut up) and it often ends with me being super angry of crying. He always get away scot-free. 

After one such incident I texted my mom and told her how I feel. I also asked her polietly to talk with my dad and brother about avoiding these subjects in future coversations. She them answered that she can't force somebody to not speak.

I never said I wanted them to never speak but to just avoid two out of a million things to talk about. She didn't answer.

From then on I just ask as polite as I can if we can change the subject whenever they're brought up. My brother always yell out "FREEDOM OF SPEECH" while my parents tell me to be more tolerant.

So to end this wall of text, Am I the asshole? 