Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : English is not my native language bear with me guys please. First off, In my country simply moving out of parent's house is a big deal (unless you get married or something) and it's mostly considered disrespectful to parents. I am 23 and still live with my mom and her husband (a very good person) but me and my mom fight like 90% of the time. About everything, and by everything I mean EVERY small thing. We both get mad easily and can fight forever and it has been like that for years. Basically we are the source of each other's anxiety. Today I've had enough and said I wanted to move out. She started crying and lowkey called me ungrateful. The thing is I am very grateful, she raised me alone and is paying for my education, but I just can't stand the constant yelling at home anymore. I don't wanna hurt her, but by staying at home we hurt each other. So, am I an asshole for saying that knowing she'd get very upset?