Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : So, I'm in college and my spring break is coming up. I had been making plans with some out of town friends, but my dad found out his father's kidney disease might be in its final stages. My dad is from Costa Rica, and most of his family, father included, live there. My dad planned to go visit him at the end of the month, and asked me if I wanted to go with him. 

The problem is, I don't have much of a connection with my dad's family. The distance and language barrier has kept me from really being able to do much, and when I was in middle school my parents divorced and the court said that I couldn't leave the state with my dad (rough divorce where my mom pulled a lot of shit against him to make it worse on his side).   
After thinking over the decision for a couple days, and talking about it with my therapist, I decided I didn't want to go. When I told my dad why I didn't want to, he was upset (which makes sense) and ultimately, I told him I would go since I didn't want him to get more upset, and now we're having to stress over figuring out the logistics of staying in the country for a week without staying at his parents' house (one of his brothers lives next door and the two don't get along, so my dad doesn't want to see his brother more than he has to.)  
We're leaving on the 29th and coming back April 5th. I'm not really looking forward to the trip, but I haven't said anything to my dad. So, I think I'm probably the asshole here, but, AITA?