Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : Okay so I [23F] was supposed to go on a date with a guy [28M] tonight. I hadn't heard from him all day yesterday or today so I texted him to ask if we were still on to which he says he has to go take care of his dad who was in an accident. 

Now normally I would feel really guilty for making it about me but I don't think he is telling the truth and here's why:

- this is the second time something has come up when we are supposed to go on a date 
- when I confirmed our date a few days ago he said "plan on it for now". For now? Makes it seem like he was planning on bailing.
- we had hardly talked in the past several days
- it sounds like something a catfish would say (note: we met online and have yet to meet in person)

So AITA? Am I being paranoid?