Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : I was taking to my partner about my niece’s wedding and it occurred to me that she probably expects a gift. Now the reason why I don’t really want to give one is because she is having a destination wedding. We have already paid £2.5k to go to the wedding. This is a trip my partner and I wouldn’t have gone on, it’s the most I have ever paid for a trip. I don’t earn a lot as I’m disabled (it took a year for me to paid my half of this trip) and I don’t really want to give more.