Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : My previous girlfriend and I met in college.  We were together for a little over a year and a half.

I ended up landing a career job that I really enjoyed; I worked in the city, she lived in the suburbs (my actual home was about an hour drive away).  We agreed that I'd stay at her apartment a night during the week and spend a day together on the weekends.  Even with this, she felt we weren't spending enough time together and seemed to still be used to how it was in college: we saw each other 3-4 times a week.  I started hanging around more on the weekends for us to do things but after a while I started to feel like I had no time for myself to unwind or hang out with my other friends.  Every night was a request to facetime/talk on the phone, which I was fine with most of the time but certain nights I just wanted to unwind and focus on Netflix, a game, or something else.  

Then my dad got extremely sick.  He's been battling cancer for 11 years, but around the beginning of August he was the sickest he has ever been - to the point that my mother and I needed to have conversations that I hoped we never would've had to.  He could no longer work and honestly could barely move without a walker, so I started doing a lot more around the house to help my mom as well as just wanting to spend more time with my family because I didn't know how much time he had left.  I told my ex-girlfriend I'd only be able to see her on weekends because of the above.  

I was incredibly drained.  So one night she comes over and tells me that she thinks it best for us to split up because I "could not satisfy her emotional needs as well as take care of my own" and I "clearly needed to be with my family more".  I was really caught off guard and agreed that we go our separate ways and maybe re-assess when my father's health improves.

I spent the next couple weeks really thinking about this and ultimately decided that I didn't want to be with someone that couldn't sacrifice the slightest to be with me in honestly the most difficult stretch of my young life so far (even told her at one point that I didn't know when I could see her next because there's a chance in a week my dad was no longer going to be alive)

Fast forward 4 months.  My dad was in and out of the hospital for most of September-November, I posted updates regularly on Facebook for our family and close friends to stay in the loop - not one text message, nothing.

Anyway,  I started seeing someone new and we really hit it off and I feel like we will likely end up entering into a relationship very soon, and I have no intention of sharing this information with my ex-girlfriend.  We effectively did split up, but some mutual friends seemed to think that I "could've done more" during the stretch where I was caught between my family and her.