AITA for not wanting to stay in bed all night with my boyfriend? This didn't use to be an issue when we both worked seconds, however, he switched to first- waking up at 4:30, when I used to ideally go to bed. I have always been a night owl, sleeping at night always leaves me feeling tired no matter how much I sleep, AND lethargic ALL day until night time. I got up early everyday for 3 months. I have tried to exhaust myself with 2 hours of sleep so I can fall asleep with him. But no matter how tired I am, once darkness hits I just feel very "up" all of a sudden. I have tried for months now, but it just isn't working.

He tells me that if he feels me not beside him, it causes him to have nightmares of me cheating on him, which he wakes up mad at me for. Side note: No, I've never even so much as gave him reason to think I'd cheat. He freaks out on me if I have to get up for the bathroom, or if I get up for water. I can't even go to the bathroom now for more than 15 minutes with out him pounding on the door harassing me angrily about "Really?! Why is it impossible for you to just stay in bed!!". (I am **extremely** quiet as I hate dealing with this bs and he is still snoring after I've gotten up). I HATE just laying in bed bored for 6 hours, but he has a fit when I tell him I want to be able to stay up. He tells me I'm not trying hard enough to get on the same sleep schedule and am just being selfish. I think this is a ridiculous thing to get screamed at for, and genuinely feel suffocated that I can't do anything at night without reprimand. So, AITA?

Final side note: I have asked my doctor about my sleep patterns. He told me that it is probably a genetic factor, as I can fall asleep and feel rested within reason- my sleep rhythm just doesn't work on the same schedule as others.