Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST :   About a month and some change ago, I met a girl here on reddit. For the first week or so we were friends, and she was really flirty with me. We played Overwatch and other games all night, and went to bed at the same time we basically spent every waking moment together over the internet. It was great, we clicked and we were having an amazing time. She asked me if I was interested in just being friends or something far more about three days in. I said I would definitely like a relationship with her because we clicked so well and it felt right to be with her but I'd like to be friends for a little while first of course.

  Now here's where it gets tricky, about a week in she dropped that she was married on me, but she told me that he didn't mind and that she went out and slept with people. In fact she told me that her husband would tell her to do this. She told me that she was done with that, and that she wanted a monogamous style relationship. So I said if your husband doesn't really care then I don't see anything wrong with us being in a relationship. I make plans to fly out to see her, and her husband catches wind of this and it turns out he is not okay with this. At this point I've already emotionally invested and I went, we had a wonderful five days together. I realized that I really feel a lot for this girl.

  Shortly after I went back home she had a surgery, and both me and her husband agreed to be loving towards her and give her the support she needs to recover from surgery. On the condition that I act as a friend and nothing more. I spend time playing Minecraft and watching movies with her, just relaxing really, and when she said she was well enough, we masturbated together over video chat. The thing is he's been yelling at her over the smallest things, like she has to eat less so she ordered toddler utensils because it helps with that. He yelled at her for wasting money. She was sitting down at the computer with some open protein shakes and jello, basically the only things she can eat and he yells that shes making a mess. His excuse is that I only hear him yelling because hes angry shes talking to me, but I don't think that's true. He wants us to stop talking entirely, but I'm not going to leave this girl I care about to try and get through surgery recovery with just someone that yells at her for support.