Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Hello everyone, I created a new account so that this wouldn't be associated with my regular one.

Three months ago I discovered that my husband was emotionally cheating on me and had plans to meet with her. She messaged me every bit of contact they had ever had when she discovered he was married and made a Facebook post that was viewed by many people in their industry. He did not lose his job, but he's not socially accepted in most circles right now. My sister is tech savvy and gained us access to all of his accounts before these confrontations happened, so I'm reasonably sure that this was the first time he had attempted to step outside of our marriage.

We've been married since we were twenty-two, I was his first. He was not mine. I had one boyfriend before him. He said this was the reason why he had wanted to have sex with another woman, because he did not have the experience like I did. 

After a lot of arguing and crying, I decided to forgive him. Please do not tell me to divorce him because he cheated, I chose to stay. I love him, but please judge the rest of this situation.

One stipulation of my forgiveness was that he had to admit what he had done to our families, including our wonderful son. We sat David down and my husband told him what happened and why we were fighting the previous few weeks, and David nodded, said thanks for telling him, then turned to me and told me he supports and loves me, but his father is dead to him. And he has stuck to his word. At family dinners he basically pretended his father didn't exist and only talked with me. 

This went on for nearly a month before my husband told us that he will not allow a person into his own home that treats him with such disrespect, that it is no one's place to judge him (except for me). David asked me if I was going to accept that, and I said yes, because it's our home and I have chosen to forgive his father. So David walked out and is not allowed back home until he's willing to be respectful to his father, but I do meet him for lunch at least once a week without my husband knowing.

But I miss him. I miss sitting at home with my only son and talking about all the fantastic things going on in his life. Sneaking around to see him doesn't sit right with me, but my husband has a right to feel comfortable in his own home.

So AITA for siding with my husband and agreeing to bar our son from our house? 