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So, I'll start this out by saying that my boss is an asshole. This is not up for debate, it is a statement, a fact, which not even Jesus Horatio Christ can deny. You will come to know him in all his shit covered splendor in a few moments.

For the better part of 2 years I have watched him turn my department into a revolving door of people who can’t stand to be around him. He once made a new hire, an 18 year old kid, quit his first job, on the first day, by screaming at him for what seemed like forever, but was probably only a couple of minutes. I’m talking spit flying, jabbing him in the chest with his fingers, like if Gordon Ramsay looked like Guy Fieri, and acted like Leona Helmsley. 

He once got on a fork lift and in a fit of rage rammed into a pallet at speed, sending its contents flying, then demanded that my coworker clean it up, alone, because he “shouldn’t have left this lift there.” It wasn’t his lift, and he’s not even a lift operator. 

He’s temperamental, rude, angry, selfish, and a bully. He’s a bad boss, and a terrible person. He demanded to be added to our work’s group chat, and then started flooding it with messages bragging about all the “super young pussy” he gets. Someone once made the mistake of telling him that none of us believed him. So instead he started sending us nude pictures of the girls that he takes home. Most of the time the girls in question are clearly sleeping in the photos, meaning they probably have no idea these pictures have been taken. Furthermore, I’m 29 and I would go nowhere near these girls. If they’re 20 years old I’d be surprised. Did I mention that he’s a 50 something year old married man. Now I’ve never met his wife, but you can bet she doesn’t deserve this shit.

I have, after almost 2 years, decided to leave my job. Now when you leave my job you are asked to do 2 exit interviews, one with the company’s HR, and the other with your union rep, and the union president for our location. I have decided to go scorched earth in these exit interviews. I have saved every shitty vulgar text message he has ever sent me, and after about a year working there I started keeping a journal of all the times he flipped out. I plan on handing these both over to HR and the union, and making damn sure they know that he’s the reason I’m leaving. This, I don’t feel bad about, I honestly doubt anything will happen to him in terms of losing his job or being disciplined.

I have also thought about sending a collection of his text messages to his wife. This is what I’m iffy about. I told a close friend my plan and he called me an ass hole. He said it’s not my business, and for all I know that’s their arrangement. Let me be very clear, I’m not planning on doing this because I feel sympathy for his wife. This would be solely because I hate my boss, and because he drove me away from a job that I actually really liked. So AITA?