Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : Hey guys! So a little backstory....our small family owned restaurant was chosen for a shoot for a food show. Awesome right? I will not be naming names but if/when it airs it will put our business in front of viewers nationwide. We found out maybe 48hrs in advance. After some communication back and forth we were asked to bring the "family" for a family photo shoot early in the day. This includes 4 small kids (3 toddlers) and 4 female family members. A big deal was made about being on time etc. Of course we want to do whatever we can to support..

Well, the morning comes and not only is the shoot cast as men-only, excluding both the kitchen matriarch and manager sister...but when we arrive at the time they requested they treat all of the women and kids like a huge inconvenience. We ended up standing outside in the parking lot for about 2 hours in the sun, then eating outside waiting for "the word". Every few minutes a crew member comes up to tell us only guests who are "supposed to be there" can be there and we have to reexplain ourselves... more than once to the same person.

Now if you've had family photos done with kids you know what a stressful time it can be. Keeping them clean and entertained and quiet to respect the filming process until the shoot begins. By the end of hour 3 I'm like kicking myself for bringing them out. They are losing their goddamn minds. A crew member comes over with some rubber logo bracelets and thanks us for "keeping them so quiet" and just turn around and walks away...then literally everyone pours out and starts to leave... it was over and they wrapped up. No photo. No release forms. No explanation at all. I pulled my son out of school on science fair day.😑

Now... of course my hubby the chef is 100% over the moon... as am I! We stayed up late whispering about how excited we were the night before. We talked about all the changes we'll need to make and upgrades we could do at the restaurant... basically the culmination of a lot of hard work. 

He clearly thinks ITA for being upset that he and the crew didn't communicate with us at all and left all 8 of us outside in a literal parking lot in hot weather. I feel like he's TA for not bothering to bring up the fact that his kids were waiting outside on the gravel to the producer.  He wants no responsibility in the matter and just blames the contract he signed. AITA for taking issue with what went down today and expecting him to speak up? 