In August last year, I ended m relationship with my ex because of the distance and the fact that neither of us were putting in the effort to make it work. Since then, we have remained friends, but rarely talk to each other. One thing we used to do regularly, when we were dating, was call each online, and talk throughout the night, until either of us went to bed.

Recently, I texted her to ask about an picture she had posted on her story about a dog. From there, we started talking again, during our conversation, she randomly brought up the app we used to talk online, discord. I took this as her wanting to talk, which I thought would be fun, so I said that we should chat sometime. So we both got online and talked for about 3-4 hours, until I went to bed. The whole chat reminded me of the way she had been when we were dating, and the way I felt when we were dating. So, I wanted to know if she still had feelings for me. So I texted her a day later asking:

"This might seem like an odd question, but do you still have feelings for me?"

She opened it, and has not responded for the past week. I even sent a follow up question that she hasn't even opened. 

Am I the Asshole? 