Boyfriends parents live nearby, they were out if town for the holidays, they don't speak English and I dont speak their language. I like them and can communicate when my bf translates for us but he's working all day and I'm home. He texted me to let me know that he  invited them over for breakfast because they don't have any food since they've been out of town. I called him and scolded him for inviting them over without asking me first. I said "I'm in my pajamas still, the house is dirty and I cant even talk to them, but I'm supposed to cook breakfast for them? why would you put me on the spot like that?" He said he was trying to be nice because they didnt have anything to eat. I said "they can go to the store and buy groceries,  they're gonna have to eventually" he rushed me off the phone and told me he had to get back to work. Now I feel like such a bitch, he's always doing stuff like that and I always have to point out why the little things like that are awkward for me so I always end up looking like a bitch.

Am I?