Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : I’ve been with my GF for 7 years, we started dating in High school grade 12. Along the road since we come from conservative cultures her parents found out that she was texting me late at night when we were 17 and her parents basically told her to dump and never talk to me again. But we continued to do so in secret.  Ever since, our relationship has been on the down low and not in the public.

Fast forward to now, my GF and I meet every week and we’re pretty happy together and relationship is still on the DL. We figured we’d tell our parents that we want to get married when we’re well established in Our lives; finish school, have a job, etc.

 Now the issue at hand, I’ve always wanted to go somewhere for the day and spend a day or two outside the city. But recently me and her had a fight because I kept telling her that I wanted to do something with her and take a trip somewhere, and she basically said that she’s not comfortable with going anywhere with me and that we don’t need to make memories by going anywhere, and that all that matters in the end is that I have her by my side.  She further stated that, asking her to go somewhere with me shows that I value “making memories and sharing adventures” more than I value her.. and that if I want to go with her somewhere I should wait until we’re married which could be another 4-5 years..

TL;DR: Am I the asshole for wanting to go somewhere with my GF because I want to spend time, share an adventure, and make memories with her? 

Sorry for the grammar, typing this on my phone. 
