Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Title. I've been single for a little while and have been doing some online dating. I've had matches where, in casual conversation, the number of women the man I've matched with has come up. In one particular case he had told me he'd slept with 80+ women in the space of 9 years. This made me incredibly uncomfortable and I said that I wouldn't like to go any further with this man but that I'd be open to staying friends because we have a lot in common otherwise. He went nuts and was saying my view was unfair and that I shouldn't be judging him based on his past and I was close-minded and an entitled bitch for rejecting him.

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A similar scenario happened more recently. Another match, he'd had a lot of hookups but had "never kept count". This has also made me uncomfortable and unwilling to take it further than a friendship, but I'm now scared of the fallout that could happen if I tell him the reason behind why I don't want to take things further. Am I the asshole for saying no to men who have slept with a lot of women?