Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : I'm (28F), he's (28M). He has three  kiddos, my step children, and we are about 4 weeks from bringing home twins of our own. We have been married a year and a half. 

Our relationship is normally very loving, he is my best friend. I had some mental health issues before we got married, (depression, anxiety) but I am now pretty damn solid on that front after almost three years of therapy. However, we have an issue I don't know how to resolve. 

If I get upset about something, angry or sad, he tunes me out until I get over it. Like, I handle that shit on my own. Sometimes this means I'm crying my eyes out or fuming and he's in bed, or in the next room, ignoring me. I've told him multiple times that I feel really lonely and uncared for in these times. I am an emotional person, but not irrational, ie; I don't pick fights or cry for attention. 

He usually has a reason he isn't talking to me. "I thought you could use the space," "it's too late at night, I don't feel like talking," "as far as I'm concerned the issue is resolved, why do we have to keep discussing it?." If I was sad before, now I'm pissed. That's how I rank? It's too late in the evening to patch up after a fight? I'm talking and he's on Reddit or watching TV--no eye contact, no verbalization. 

Its frustrating because it's the same 3-4 things that hurt my feelings/make me mad and he refuses to work on them with me. I feel like if I was as important as he says I am, he wouldn't be able to watch The Office instead of trying to make me feel better....

Is that ridiculous? Is being lonely just a part of this? Am I being an asshole for expecting him to prioritize my happiness?

Tldr: husband basically shuts off when I have "unpleasant" emotions. I feel incredibly lonely.