Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : So I'd started seeing this guy semi-seriously. And then this happened. I'm trying to figure out if I'm the asshole here for ending this relationship based on his reaction to 2 things

1. I happened to mention that me and my roommates had needed to go to a food bank this month because we had some unexpected expenses and were left a little short.  His reaction was "I'm worried about your ability to financially take care of yourself, it sounds like I need to take control of your finances to make sure you're being safe" 

2. I had a flare up of an existing mental health issue. I told him I may have to go to the hospital. Instead of responding with support I was told "oh you just need a pacifier. The pharmacy can give you an emergency dose of Ativan you'll be fine". 

It just felt like I couldn't trust him to be there for me when I needed him. But am I the asshole? 