Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : My husband and I have been mrried for 10 years and have 3 kiddos.
During this time my MIL has posted major personal info about me on FB. Did not deny that she chooses her daughter and oldest granddaughter over her son (my husband). Not asked permission to share photos of our kids. (We don't allow photos to be shared to try and keep them safer.) Has purposely fed our oldest kid items that we asked her not to due to a possible allergy or threw away food that I made for my daughters breakfast bc she said I was forcing my daughter to eat and going to make her fat. (Pot meet kettle) When confronted over these matters, she cries, throws a fit and proceeds to tell us that it's her house and her grandkids so she can do what she wants. If we don't like to get out, so we left the house. When FIL asked us to come back we agreed and I was given the silent treatment  for our remaining time there and the night before we left to come overseas MIL hugged and said be safe to everyone. I got a pat on the head like dog.

Now we're going back stateside and will be 3 hrs from the in laws and am dreading it all. She seems to think nothing is wrong, grandkids will be spending nights with them and they will have free access to our life and kids. Husband and I have talked and agreed that this will NOT be happening nor will the kids be spending any time alone with her.
AITA for not wanting her to have much of time with our family?