I was born and raised in San Diego and moved to NE in my teens. I’m a huge Chargers fan but also have grown to love the Pats in the 20+ years I’ve lived here. 

I’ve been to a dozen Patriot games including the AFC Championship in 08 against the Chargers. 

Anyway, I wanted to go to tomorrow’s game with my wife but my normal ticket hook up could not come through this time and I won’t pay over face value for the tix. Whatever, I have a busy weekend anyway I’ll watch it on tv like I usually do. 

1030 last night my sister calls me and asks where I’m watching the game. I tell her at home because I had plans to renovate my bathroom this weekend. She then asks if I want to go to the game and I immediately said yes. She bought me and my father each a ticket as a birthday present, mine is next week. 

I am immediately pumped and can’t wait, thank my sis a million times. I get off the phone and my wife says “your going to the game?” I told her yes excitedly and she immediately gives me shit. She says “wtf, your such a fucking asshole. We were supposed to do the bathroom”. I explained that they were birthday presents and that she should be happy for me. She then accused me of setting it up so she couldn’t go. The honest truth is I wanted to go with her and I was bummed out I couldn’t secure tickets for us to go but wtf. 

She then told me she had a chance to go with her uncle but didn’t because she knew I wanted to go. I see right through this, she’s trying to manipulate me. 
I told her that all the hypothetical situations she’s throwing at me are irrelevant and as much as I would have liked her and I to go I have no control over what just happened. 

I refuse to let her guilt me and I’m going to the game although this argument is draining and has taken away from the experience of the game, almost to the point I say fuck it it’s not worth it. Am I wrong?  AITA??
