idk why i'm a private person and i've never been close with my family. they don't know much about me and I see them once every couple years. it had been 3 years since I saw my sister and we had dinner with her boyfriend and my parents. I guess I gave off the impression that I had "money" (I don't) because i had veneers and was "well groomed' (bfs words). So anyway he asked what I do for a living and I just joked I sell cocaine and he said no seriously and kept prying then I joked some more and said I do occult seminars $5k for 6 weeks idk i was trying to be funny and he got pretty angry and said why am I being such an ass. It's not really a secret I work in finance lol but I just didn't want to get into it