Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : Throwaway account because he knows my username and I don't want to bring it up unless I'm sure I'm not being unreasonable.

My boyfriend and I don't live together, but I spend two to four nights a week at his place. We're polyamorous, so on weekends where his other partner and I both stay over, we take it in turns to sleep in the bed with him or alone in the spare room every other night. I secretly enjoy this setup because I'm not a very tactile person but he really is, and the idea of cuddling and sleeping next to anyone more than two nights in a row is not enjoyable, even him.

We have plans to move in together in the near future so I want to figure out if I should just suck it up, or if it's reasonable for me to broach the idea of maybe getting separate beds.

Now I love my boyfriend and I'm very happy in our relationship. That's not the problem, before anyone gets the wrong idea. I just don't like being in close proximity for a long time and the idea of sleeping in the same bed as someone all night every night is really uncomfortable for me. I don't even like sitting on the same sofa for a long period of time.

Help me out here, Reddit. I don't want to hurt his feelings but I also don't want to be uncomfortable for the rest of our relationship.