Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : I literally have no idea why my daughter is with that guy. He's abusive and controlling. She claims they have a sub/dom relationship and its a part of that. But I think he's a predator. They started dating last year and it has been hell for our family. I and my wife tried to talk to her but she won't listen. He's so controlling. He decides what she gets to wear, how she looks, what she eats etc. I don't know how this is a healthy relationship and I think he's too old for her. But they claim they love each other.

My elder daughter is getting married. Everyone from our family is invited but no one wants him there. But we're afraid that my daughter wont attend if I dont invite that guy over. WIBTA?

