Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : My sister has been dating this guy for less than three months.  My personal feelings are that he’s an idiot.  I mean he’s young (either late teens or early twenties, idk) so it’s understandable.  I was an idiot back then too.  My problem with him is that he’s made some dangerous choices with my sister involved.  He wrecked his truck with her in it driving drunk.  He also took my sister around this ex felon that everyone in town knows is scary dude just so he could buy some “pot” if it was really pot.  The guy sells a lot more than pot.  He’s definitely not someone I want knowing or getting close with my sister.  

Despite that, it’s her choice who she dates so I’ve kept my opinions to myself until now.  I think he mistook politeness for friendship or something.  He’s shown up at my apartment to hang out.  When I visit my mom’s and he’s there he will basically attache himself to my hip.  Most annoying of all he started calling me brother and fam.  I know those aren’t always specifically referring to actual family, but it’s just what it’s felt like.  

It really got under my skin quickly.  The last time he did it I told him, “You’re not my family.  You’re the guy my sister is dating for now.”   He just said “alright” and I walked away. 

He’s just trying to be friendly and get close with his girlfriend’s family, I understand that.  It felt like it was time for a reality check on our relationship though.  I probably pissed my sister off in the process, I haven’t heard from her since it happened.  


