Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : When I was younger (about 12 years old), I would stay up until 3AM on my laptop, mostly just playing video games. I had this friend who could usually take me to midnight, but she was a bit of a jerk. The main reason I still talked with her was for a video game buddy. 
Anyways, it was summer when this takes place. It was around 11:30, and I was on a discord chat with her (we had eachother’s phone numbers, but we thought it was cooler to Discord). We were playing a game that was basically the same as Minecraft, but still in the makings. We had been building a house that already looked like crap, and she wanted curtains. I’ll spare you the details from here, since they’re not at all important. 
Basically, she gave me a few options, I chose one she hated that went nicely with the house, and refused to back down. She was basically throwing a tantrum at this point, since it was past midnight, and she wasn’t used to being up late. There was also a third friend. I texted him about what was happening, along my intentions in this squabble. He hated her as much as I did, so this worked well. I told him exactly what to say in the group chat between the three of us, right before I sent my own message in there, giving him a choice between all of the curtains. I didn’t care about the curtains AT ALL. 
Was I the asshole?