Context, this was about a week ago I'm an overweight woman and aware of it, I'm also on the mild side of the autism spectrum and I try my hardest to be appropriate at times but usually with loud noises it would be harder for me to keep composure as the father side of the family like to harrass me about it

I was eating chicken on the weekends with my cousin in the dining room as eating anywhere else was not allowed, I was already having a bad day with my order being wrong and some friend issues back in shool, until my uncle thoughf it would be funny to make chicken noises, I paid no mind at first but he got louder and I asked him to stop but he got even louder to the point where it was unbearable and painful for me to handle and a slightly raised my voice to tell him to please be quiet.

The everyone in the room laughed as my uncle kept on making me feel super uncomfortable and became louder in volume and I covered my ears as it was too much for me to handle, my cousin and grandma laughed at me being in pain and my grandma gave me a hug a moved away for a bit because I didn't want to be touched as I was now a bit sensitive and didn't want to be touched and I was biting my tongue as I tried my hardest to keep my cool, my grandmother was yelling at me in spanish that I didn't even understand and I tried to calm her down and apologize.

As soon as I tried to apologize my Cousin turned to me to and I quote to "shut the fuck up, stay quiet and eat my damn food", by then my brother comes in as his room was next to the dining room and he started scolding me on how I should be more respectful and whenever I tried to talk and explain he yells at me that I should "shut the fuck up" and he kept on explaining how I shouldn't argue becaude my grandmother has a heart problem and how my uncle was very old and also had a poor heart and I should stay quiet and respect them, by then I tried to hold in my tears because I didn't like being yelled at and how all I did was tell my uncle to quiet down as the calmest I can be.

I was texting my friend on twitter once I finished eating and he was equally upset but took my side and tried to calm me down because at that point I was sobbing.

A day passed and I was on my way with packing to go to new york and see my mom when my dad decided to call me and started yelling at me that I was being disrespectful and how I shouldn't argue and yell at them to "shut up" (even though I never yell at them to shut up at all suring the falling out) because of the same ol "they're your family and they have poor health because theyre old" sentence over and over and I was having none of it as I hung up on him, this would be the end of it but not really.

I've been feeling emotionally exhausted since then and always wondered if I was ever in the wrong or not

AITA??

TLDR: My uncle mocked me loudly and I told him to quiet down because I was in pain but all hell breaks loose.