Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : He \[23M\] has an intense banking job and he needs to pickup a gift for office secret santa. He complained about his lack of time last night and said "I might need you to pickup the gift for me" then changed topics. 

This morning, he said "I need you to pick up a gift for me". I told him it was rude to delegate tasks to me like that, maybe he could ask nicely if he wanted - I'd be glad to help. He then grumbled that he didn't have time to argue and to forget about it and stormed off to work. 

He's been stressed but I don't want to be taken for granted. 

Am I an oversensitive asshole?