Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : I called my husband today while we were both at work. Out of nowhere, less than a minute into the conversation, he asks "Do you hate Sarah?" I thought the question was odd so I ignored it. A few seconds later it dawned on me that he had me on speaker phone and that she was probably listening. She was.  

I don't like this woman and my husband knows it. My husband invited coworkers to our wedding and someone brought her as a date. She was very obnoxious, too intoxicated, and kept lifting her shirt in pictures at our wedding in the photo booth. I was annoyed that our printed photo booth book was ruined because most pages had pictures of a woman I didn't know with only a bra on. I've been polite but mostly ignored her when I've been around her.  

He doesn't understand why I'm angry. I feel like he set me up in front of his friends.  

When we talked about it afterward he said that it was funny and just a joke. I don't feel like that's something you should do to your wife.  

So... AITA for being upset with my husband for putting me on speakerphone and asking me if I hated a woman while she listened?