Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : I've been with my boyfriend for 2 months. But he wasn't always my boyfriend. When we started, *he* was actually *she.*  I knew she was a bit tomboyish and had some dysphoria, but I didn't know it would be so far as to change their name and identity. I'm just not as attracted to this guy anymore. (for the record, I am bi with a large preference towards girls.) 

Anyway. My boyfriend, (let's call him Jack) was always really into me. He was a pretty good partner too. Always sweet and thoughtful and stuff. But as wonderful as he is, I've just not been as happy in the relationship. The transition might've had something to do with it, but I feel it's just mostly me. I'm just not feeling it anymore.

 This especially sucks because I know Jack has been having some serious mental health problems. His mother (also we're teens, forgot to mention that) has been borderline abusive, being completely against his transition and going as far as to slag him off sometimes, and his brother has been doing the same. His father lives elsewhere and has been having drinking/substance problems, and thus Jack's been feeling pretty abandoned. His school life is bad, he's falling back in his classes and some of his former friends have been incredibly toxic towards him. Basically he's pretty mentally unstable. (And he also goes to a therapist every week.) 

I'm worried if I break it off I'll push him over the edge. I know his mental state has apparently been improving thanks to our relationship and I don't want to see him regress, but I'm also just not happy at all. 

So, would I be the asshole if I broke up with my poor, mentally and emotionally unstable, trans boyfriend? 