Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : Just to clarify, I have no problem with people smoking. I used to smoke, most of my friends and family smoke, I don’t care.

The problem with my mom is that she is so fucking hypocritical about it. First of all, she says that she isn’t a smoker even tho every single time she sees family (1-3 times a week) she repeatedly asks to bum a few off of them while nervous-laughing and saying she *never* smokes, she also gives my husband endless shit for the fact that he vapes (nicotine free) a few times a month. She also got pissed when my brother started vaping because ‘it’s so unhealthy’.

But the thing that pisses me off the most is that she has health issues that involve her lungs and she actually has to use an inhaler and does breathing treatments. I also have health issues and she loses her goddamn mind if I do anything she thinks is bad for me (she’s an antivaxxer who thinks essential oils can cure cancer....I’m only slightly exaggerating) which includes taking my prescription medications, but god forbid I even hint that smoking isn’t a good idea for her. It’s her life and her choice but when she does it right in front of me and then wants my approval it pisses me off. 

So, AITA for getting pissed every time she wants me to smile and tell her it’s ok for her to keep smoking?

