I know you’re probably thinking, “wtf you don’t fuck your girlfriend when the opportunity is right there?!”. My girlfriend and I ~basically~ live together and sleep with eachother everynight except for probably one - three nights apart a month. With school, work, etc. i’m exhausted by the time I get myself in bed

 Sidenote: I do fall asleep fairly early compared to her and most people (around 9pm/10pm) because shes a night owl typically. 

Our sex life is pretty fantastic except for the fact that during most nights when shes all ready to “get busy” in bed after a long day, i’m falling asleep next to her or just don’t have the energy to have sex right then and in that moment. We have sex during the day pretty often, at random, and a lot of quickies before work/class throughtout the week. 

Recently, she’s been getting really upset and mad at me about the fact that I keep falling asleep when she wants to have sex. Then we start fighting while i’m half asleep and she gets all worked up and upset about me falling asleep WHILE WERE FIGHTING that it causes even more issues.

I keep trying to explain that its not her and she hasn’t done anything wrong thats making me not want to have sex with her in bed at night and  that i’m just exhausted after the day but she just keeps saying I don’t give her what she needs and that I’m “like an old-man” 

