Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Bear with me but just give me a second to explain. 


This goes back to end of October in 2018. I had met my ex-crush (lets call her person A). I had taken her under my care, explaining uni things and updating uni stuff. basically handing her a golden ticket to a first (70% and up) degree. The infatuation with A grew when she let me into her life. Fast-forward to a month ago. I had just come off a holiday to Dubai. Then my family went, hence I was alone and would try to spend as much time as with her, failed hardcore. Impossible. (Just a little tl;dr for context)

Now, It is the 4th week into university and she has not come in for, now coming into, 5 weeks. I still have feelings for her (my heart rate increases every time her name gets mentioned) but I have tried to put this aside. Although, I am done trying to ask her out or try to make her my GF. 

There is a group work that we have to do for uni. And she hasn’t been in for all of it. The other people (persons B and C), they are willing to do the work where as they had chosen me to be their team leader. I had received a call from her (after ghosting me for 5 straight days) asking about uni stuff. I said I will explain to you physically as it’s too much to text and call over. She came in once for a total of 2:30 seconds. She had to leave because of “medical problem” (quote marks explained later). Now, B and C are telling me to kick her out because she is dragging the group down. I kept saying give her a chance, she might come round but as of this week, she said she would “come in 100%, defo Thursday, will defo come in afternoon” (actual quotes) all BS. Now I have a deadline and I have no Idea what to do. If I kick her out, a shitstorm will fly to me like  a hurricane. Same goes with staying in. 

Also, I say medical problems because she seems to have a lot. Her knee is fucked, her mouth is fucked, her health has gone down the drain even though she is the most athletically fit person in the world. Which I have no Idea. To add to that, she was off antibiotics and was “gagging and coughing” whilst being in a 5 star Scandinavian restaurant in central London 2 days ago when she was supposed to be “ill”.  Right now, I have no idea if this is true or if she is lying to me. 

WIBTA if I kicked my ex-crush out of group work in uni?

tl:dr ex-crush who I still have feelings for is not doing the work in uni, other people are telling me to kick her out, I keep protecting her