Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : I have this friend, we went to the same high school and happened to attend the same university. She was a few years ahead of me and we became friends again once I got to college. She graduated in 2017 with a fine arts degree and since then we mostly talk on Instagram.

I graduated last month and she saw my graduation pictures and congratulated me. She asked to catch up and we met for lunch. We made small talk and she asked me about my plans after college.

I told her that I was a nurse and had found a job. I thought she would say congrats and that would be it. But no, she complained about how hard it was her to find a job after college.  she went on about how lucky I was to have it so easy, to be able to find a job after graduation.

I didn't like where the conversation was heading and I tried to change the topic, but she wouldn't let it go and she went on about how she only makes like 25k a year. And she has 2 Jobs  (selling her art on Instagram and waitressing). She talked about her financial trouble, I didn't know what she wanted me to say and I felt awkward. The thing that annoyed me was that she kept on talking about how easy my life was.

I snapped and made a snide comment about how easy she had it in college with her fun major. Of course she got offended,  a fight happened and we both left. I reached out to her to try to clear the air, turns out she blocked me. So over 6 years of friendship has been flushed down the drain.

The reason I got so mad was that my college career had not been "easy" at all and she knows that; I'm the first one in my family to have a college degree. I literally paid for every single thing with either scholarship or loans. I worked hard to graduate early and get a job. If anyone had had it easy it was her. Her parents were not rich or anything but her grandparents had a college fund for her. No one forced her to get an art degree and for her to simplify all my hard work to being easy or just lucky really ticked me off.


AITA in this situation 