Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : I spent a week about four hours away from our home city with a friend. We’ll call her Sara. We took her car and she drove. We spent an amazing week together.

But the last two nights she forced me to go to clubs while I was tired and all I wanted to do was going back to the hotel to sleep. Since we only had one key and she was being so insistant, i finally agreed to go with her. But because of it we only slept about 2-3 hours each night for the last two nights, which resulted in me being really tired especially the last day (I’ll add that she is used to not sleeping a lot when I always sleep at least 8 hours). As it was the last day of our holiday we had to go away from our hotel and go home.

But when we got to the car, Sara gave me her car keys and said “You drive this time because I have a cold”. I told her that I didn’t want to drive because I didn’t sleep enough and I was really tired and didn’t want to put ourselves in danger. She started to yell at me that I was being really selfish and didn’t make any effort to understand her, that I was lying and just being lazy.

I answered that I would never lie to her because she is my friend and I was afraid to fall asleep while driving and didn’t want to put us (and the other cars) in danger. I offered two options: we stay in the car, sleep 2-3 hours, have a coffee and then I’ll drive home or she starts driving for 2 hours while I sleep then she stops and I drive the last two hours. But she was still mad and yelled at me to get in the car and that she was driving home but it was the last time we would see each other.

Since she had decided to finally drive and I was so tired, I fell asleep during about one and a half hours. When I woke up I offered to stop so I could take her place and drive until we got home but she didn’t ever answer. When we arrived in our city she dropped me at my house and I said goodbye but she didn’t answer. It’s been two weeks and we have indeed not seen each other since.

I feel like she was really unfair towards me when all I was thinking about was our safety. But do you think that I was the asshole for refusing to drive and that Sara is right to be mad at me and say that I have been selfish?

Ps: This is obviously a throwaway account