Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : My policy on spiders (at least the non poisonous ones) is: if it doesn’t step on me, I don’t step on it. I also don’t like killing things, and I don’t like cleaning that stuff up.

Because they tend to be found basically everywhere, whenever I find one I capture it in a cup and just put it outside and don’t give it a second thought. I also tend to find the amount of other random bugs and pests in my place to be much less if I just leave a spider in its corner every now and than. 

My girlfriend hates spiders. She found one in the hallway outside her apartment, and insisted that I kill it. I wasn’t so fond of that idea and did the cup-transport method and put it outside. The rest of the evening was thrown off because she was mad that I didn’t kill it. 

When I talked to her about it, it seems that the issue is that she doesn’t like spiders in her place, but for some reason me putting them outside doesn’t  satisfy that, she demands that I kill them. Which sort of puts us back at square one. 

AITA?