Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Hi folks! I’m in a D&amp;D group with a couple of folks. Our current campaign has been going for over 2 years now. I really enjoy playing and it something I look forward to. My fiance and I, host the sessions and I’ve gotten us quite a bit of things to make sure the game is engaging and fun. Miniatures, dice, trays, props, snacks, etc. Over the course of the campaign, we’ve lost folks as as real life has caused changes where people couldn’t commit to coming(work, moving, familial/relationship issues). It happens. We’ve always wished them well, kept their player around in the world we’ve built and kept doing it and occasionally picking up a new player. That said, our DM and my fiance have been playing consistently since the beginning. 

Now to the problem. While I love the game and I enjoy playing with my friends, we’ve never really been able to have a consistent schedule. The plan had been to meet up for regular sessions every other Saturday. But, due to other people’s schedules and last minute situations we’ve never been able to really keep to that schedule. I’ve never liked it. I feel it ruins the immersion of the story for me because of the poor pacing. I also hate that the thing I really enjoy doing can’t be done with any consistency because others don’t have the same commitment level as I do. But most of all, I dislike the obligation it puts on me as the host. Our friends either have roommates or live with their parents, so there isn’t really another person’s place we can go to play. I feel like it puts me in the position to either put up with the inconsistency so I can do the this one thing I enjoy, or schedule myself to hang out with other people and do other things and never get to play.  

I have voiced how I feel to the group several times over the length of the campaign but it always comes as though its not really a big deal and that I should be more patient with everyone and so far I’ve tried to. However, I’ve recently gotten an invite to another friend’s (Mike) game. Mike invited me and stated that they play with their group every week consistently. I turned down their invite this past weekend because my group was supposedly meeting only for it to get cancelled at the last minute. 

I’m going to join Mike and that group this weekend and see how it goes. If I have fun and mesh with the group there I think I’d like to join them permanently. WIBTA if after this weekend I talk to my current group and ask them to commit to a consistent schedule otherwise I wouldn’t be available to keep playing with them?