Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : My GF and I are both in our mid-twenties, and we've been dating for almost two years. We've had our ups and downs as with all relationships, but it's been mostly up, and we really enjoy the time we spend together. As our two year anniversary approaches, the topic of us moving in together has come up. We are both excited about the prospect, but there is one major sticking point. She wants us to have separate bedrooms.

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She says she needs as much space as possible to sprawl out in order to get a good night's sleep. To be fair to her, I know this to be the case. Sleepovers have been rare in our relationship, and the next morning she always makes some off-hand comment along the lines of "\[yawn\], oh, Im just so tired today" or "I really did not sleep well last night." It's never the best night sleep for me either, but right now, both of us have full-sized beds. I have offered to buy us a king-size mattress if we move in together, but she still insists that won't be enough space, and we should have separate bedrooms. 

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The other day, the topic came up again, and I told her it was non-negotiable for me that we sleep in the same bed if we move in together. I've always looked forward to the day I move in with a significant other cause I love the idea of waking up next to a beautiful girl everyday. Maybe that makes me old-fashioned, but it's something I really want at some point in my life. I told her I'd be willing to buy a pull-out sofa for the living room where I could sleep on nights where getting a good night's rest was really important for her.

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But she kinda snapped and asked me "why is it such a big deal to me?" and told me I was being selfish and not compromising enough. This kinda hurt me because I feel I do a lot of compromising in the relationship, which I told her. She said I was asking her to compromise on something vitally important to her mental health, and I was being an asshole. We patched things up later that night but the bed issue remains unresolved...

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To be frank, I think she's being a little dramatic about it, and a king size bed will be more than enough space for us to both get a comfortable night's sleep. If I really felt it would be detrimental to her, I would be fine with separate bedrooms, but most couples sleep in the same bed, and it works out so I'm sure she would adjust. 

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So tell me jury of my peers, am I the asshole in this situation?