So this was this new year, and some context, I’m Male and 16, and she’s the same age, now, we were both at a mutual friend house, and we used to know each other but hadn’t seen each other in 3 years or so.

So we’re both there with her younger brother, and our friend and her younger brother, so later into the night we get drunk, and end up making out, but then at about 5 in the morning we end up spooning and I won’t go in to detail, but I fingered her (sorry for the crude language) now, I want to make it clear now, that while we were both a bit drunk she was clearly consenting, and was keeping my hand down there if I tried to pull away. So this happens, we go to sleep.

Next morning, everything’s good, we kiss a little bit more, but then that afternoon once I’m on the car in the way home, I try and text her and she reads it and doesn’t respond, so I leave it and try again later.

Eventually I get a message back saying that she was fine in the morning, but then as she remembered more she felt more embarrassed, and then said she didn’t want to talk to me anymore, so I left her alone 

Am I the asshole? I feel terrible about it still, and don’t know if I did something wrong 