AITA: not that long ago I got in a fight with one of my friends (ef). I had posted a picture on Instagram and it was a picture of my best friend (bf) and I on his birthday. Ef texted me later that day. A little background bf had just come out to his family as gay and I am also gay and my family is very homophobic and thinks it a phase (yes this is important later on). Ef text me and says she hates bf, I didn’t know why so I asked her. She said he had screwed her over, now bf and I have been best friends for 5 years while ef and I only really got close this year, by not doing a favor. I didn’t know what this “favor” was and ef wouldn’t tell me. I show up to school the next day and ef instantly start to mention the text, ef goes on to say I’m not really gay, that bf is really gay and that I am just sucking his d***. It doesn’t sound that bad but with bf past and mine it’s just really offensive. I have told ef to stop numerous times by this point and just want her to cut it out. I finally decided to ignore the situation by trying to change the subject but ef didn’t like that idea and said that she would kick my a** if I did anything and now I’m scared to be alone in a room with her do to her past history of violence. AITA?