Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : My mom tried to choke me last May, in my grandparents house. I don't remember the exact reason, probably because I was disrespecting her or was on my electronics too much. Regardless, I don't think that there's any reason to choke your own son, unless they're trying to choke you. Here's some messages I sent to friends the day this happened:  


"My grandparents literally saw me on the floor (side note, clutching my laptop because I like having access to communicate with literally anyone) and told me to apologise to my mother. They didn't try to defend me, rather her actions, saying shit like "She's your mother, you can't disrespect her no matter what she does."

  
I did not try to choke her back, although I may have hurt her while trying to get away, possibly with my nails considering how long they used to be. I personally don't think hurting someone with my nails is as bad as choking someone.

  
I bring up the fact she tried to choke me often when she gets pissed at me and starts shouting at me, whenever she says "because she cares", I tell her that someone who cared about me wouldn't try to choke me, and she proceeds to tell me how I'm trying to guilt her by repeatedly bringing up that point, and how it's in the past, and that she won't fall for being guilted by that.

Another thing I bring up is the fact I have a video of her verbally berating me for 20 minutes straight, because I was shouting at my dad who was pissed at me for disrespecting my uncle. My disrespecting my uncle, he means "talking back", because my uncle said we left the lights on downstairs for 30 minutes when it wasn't even 10 minutes, and I told him that. This happened less than a month after my grandpas death, so my dad tried to guilt me saying that I don't care about how hard it is on him and my uncle that their father died, while he disregarded that their father is my grandpa, and I care just as much about his death. My mom took over from my dad and started berating me. I, for the most part, didn't reply, rather just recorded this for around 20ish minutes.  


ATIA for bringing this up multiple times? 

  
Side note: I live in Saudi and my family are muslims, so not much I can do about leaving to some other house.