I broke up with my partner a little over a month ago, at the beginning of December. The break-up wasn't mutual, but it was civil. We vaguely talked about wanting to stay friends, but wanting to see how we progressed apart. And we did hang out as "friends" not long after, cause we'd bought tickets to my favorite band quite a while before the break-up and didn't really wanna mess with that. When we met up, we both delivered the Christmas presents we'd already bought for each other. Fast forward to after Christmas, they tell me that their parents had also gotten me gifts for Christmas, and my ex wanted to meet up to deliver them. 

Now I don't mind seeing them again. I don't really think my ex will continue to be a big part of my life moving forwards, but I don't mind seeing them every now and then. But my ex lives 2 hours away, and I only have one day I could go visit them. So I really don't wanna spend my one day off and drive 4 hours round trip just to hang out with my ex. But I told em I'd try, but have come up with excuses at the last minute two weeks in a row. Now they're starting to get angry that I continue to push them away and put them off, but.... we broke up. They're not a real high priority for me right now. And I can think of a lot better things to do than go drive 4 hours to see someone I intentionally cut out of my life. 

Am I really off base here? Am I the Asshole?