Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : I’m asking for help because I’m obviously feeling bad. 

Is there just an overarching premise to life that there’s never a good time to break up with someone? 

Do you need details to answer this question? 

What if it’s coming out of the blue? What if it’s not and you “break up” every other week? What if it’s for a good reason? What if there’s a straw that broke the camels back? What if now he doesn’t want to go to his family’s thanksgiving because there will be questions? What if he’s fine with it?

Can being an asshole be excusable or justified? 