I’m a 17(m) and I dated this on and off for years when I was 15 to 16. We ended the relationship in the end because of some personal problems that were happening to me and it affected her in the end which I felt awful about. Because of the personal problems I faced I moved in with my uncle to another state to deal with them. Now after 6 months of being up there and 18 months of not even talking to me, she starts spreading stuff and saying stuff about me behind my back when I came down to visit for the summer. After summer ended I went back home kinda hating her even though I didn’t want to. So now present day I recently I texted to kinda talk it out and she still bears that grudge. Aith in this situation???