Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : Hi! 

First off, since *loud* is very subjective, I took a reading on a decibel meter app sitting at my desk right in front of my speakers. ITT, *loud* means approximately 70db. Not eardrum shattering, tinnitus inducing kind of loud, but loud enough to get a good groove on.

It's 4 pm, I had some cleaning to do in my apartment, so I thought "Nice, let's put on some Tool and do the chores with a smile on my face!". I put my music on, and my upstairs neighbor starts banging **hard** on the floor. When I say hard, I mean cups shaking in the pantry kind of loud. 

I know it's a dumb situation, but it pisses me off. She just keeps banging everything upstairs and it's fucking annoying.

Now, the things that are important to know are: 

1- I've been living here for 2 years, and she's always been an extremely loud upstairs neighbor. No music or partys, she just walks like a freaking tank, and her kids do, too. I never really complain about that because well, it's an apartment complex, I have neighbors, that's just reality.

2- Me listening to music loud is not a regular occurrence. Maybe once every two or three weeks. 

3- I don't party, I've been sober for a little over two years, so at night, my apartment is pretty damn quiet.

So, almighty, all-knowing Reddit, AITA? Should I lower the volume even though it's Friday and it's not crazy loud?