Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : It all started in September of 2018. My roommate and I have been friends since high school and are now in our second year of college together. We’ve got a group of friends up at our school and we were all pretty cool with one another until September. 

So my roommate, I’ll use A to identify her from here on out, had been on again off again seeing this guy for the better part of our freshman year. He was an absolute creep that made everyone uncomfortable, yet A always brought him around even when we told her we didn’t like him.  He strung her along for many, many months, despite the friend group urging her to cut him loose as he was causing her substantial amounts of anxiety. 

Then in October of the same year she held a party at our apartment, without asking if I was okay with it. To be honest I’d be fine with her hosting one, but I found out that she’d told one of my friends that I’d said it was okay to host one when I didn’t even know that it was a plan in motion??? That kind of pissed me off but I didn’t make a fuss about it. 

There’s also a girl in our group, C, that is the nicest and most caring person I’ve met in a while. But A only talks to her whenever she needs a ride somewhere and in that time she verbally berates C and the rest of the friend group for not inviting her to things. But for hanging out it’s an open door policy, we show up at C’s apartment and chill and do homework, none of that’s planned so I’m not sure why she gets angry at that. 

Slowly since then she’s been isolating herself from the group, and then a few days ago she went on a twitter rant. She said that it was the friend group’s fault that she was depressed and that we should’ve reached out to her and seen if she was okay and that we should just assume that she was alright. But the thing is, I don’t think anyone wanted to help her because of how awful she’s been treating us for the past few months. Whenever someone went to her to confide in she’d just brush it off and not want to help them so I’m not too sure what treatment she was expecting.  

We’ve tried to tell her about this but she’s such a hardheaded and stubborn person she can’t see that she’s done anything wrong either, she just assumed that we all are maliciously trying to get rid of her when in reality we want to help her but she won’t let us. I’m starting to think she wants to be miserable?

All of this has led me to believe that moving her out of the friend group would be a stress reliever for the handful of us that have been dealing with her shenanigans for the past six months, AITA for thinking this and leaving her?