Hey all! Just wanted to know if I am the asshole. I’ve been dating this girl for around 4 months so far. Things have been great to be perfectly honest, but she is beyond pissed and says I’m an asshole because I am going to my family’s Christmas. A little backstory: my brother is going through a turbulent time in his marriage and my aunt passed a few months ago. I feel like I should be there for my family in this time, especially Christmas. The GF says I’m an asshole for not thinking of her. So what’s the verdict?