Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : So my mom pierced my ears when I was about 5 or 6 months old. For the first 7 years of my life she made me wear studs in my ears non-stop. As soon as I had the choice I stopped wearing earrings because I wasn't much of a "girly girl" and I couldn't care less about putting little gems in my ear holes (I was a kid!).

 I haven't worn earrings in 5 years and the holes are still there. I've been told that because I had them in for so long as a child that they will never close over. They're always itchy, red or inflamed. Recently I came to the realization that my mom made this permanent body changing desicion without my consent. The idea of that really bothered me because she's always presented herself as a massive feminist and is very vocal about it. When I confronted her she made a whole list of excuses; "I guess I vaccinated you without you consent too, huh?" And "I just wanted you to look cute in all your baby photos" and "I wanted to save you from the pain in the future". Honestly at this point it was so far in the past that I don't have a right to be pissed. But I am! AITA?

