Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : I have become fairly good friends with a girl that lives in my apartment complex. We have the same taste in music, video games, alcohol, we both are very into sports (watching), we have the same sense of humor, ect. you get the point. But she is also very unattractive, overweight, does not take good hygienic care of herself, and is pretty damn lazy. She virtually never leaves the house and is perfectly content with her shitty dead end job. So as fun as she can be to hang out with there is absolutely NOTHING there romantically for me.

So this past week as been pretty brutal for me. Me and my girlfriend had a pretty nasty fight/break up. I have been forced to work crazy long hours and have had to take some pretty gut wrenching kill a bottle just to try and forget type calls (I'm a cop). 

So as you might imagine I have been on edge. So last night she texts me invites me over so I do. So we are hanging out, drinking scotch listening to music and just have a needed good time.

Then she asks me out. I tell that I am sorry but I am not interested in dating anyone (probably should have been more direct for the first answer and just said no, lesson learned). She says she understands because me and my ex broke up and asks after my "mourning"period if we can date. I tell her I am not interested in her like that, that she is only a friend to me. She keeps pushing it and asking why over and over. So I snap and shout at her, "Because you are a fat fucking slob that is going absolutely nowhere in life! That is fucking why!"

This obviously caused her to start crying and telling me to GTFO. Obviously a very uncool thing to tell someone. But given that I was trying to be polite but she just kept pushing and not letting it go and all the shit I was dealing in my own life this past week am I still an asshole for snapping at her?