Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : I have (or better, had) a friend who had depression and anxiety. When our relationship began, she was actually nice and I helped her cope with her suffering. However, time passed and she started to be meaner and meaner and lash out at me whenever her mood was bad, and I started to feel like I was developing some sort of psychological disease because of it. I snapped at her one day and since then I feel like she's going down and down and that she has fallen in a way she can't get better. She goes to school, cries and goes home, and doesn't pay attention in class. Am I the asshole ?