So. I’m a dude and a photographer (hobby. Not professionally) and I think I do alright and take some good pictures. And a bunch of my friends come to me for advice on pictures (usually girls wanting advice on selfies) which I’m happy to give. It’s usually little tweaks that make everything look better. Sometimes a little editing in photoshop or Lightroom. They get a better pic. I get a little mental exercise in my favorite hobby. Win win. The only thing I ask is that if the photo is a little explicit or lewd or anything. That they ask me permission before the send it for help. Because I have anxiety and random unexpected sexy pics set it off like a match in a gasoline refinery. A vast majority of my friends respect this. But one of my female friends really doesn’t. And she just sends them with no warning or prior conversation most of the time. And asks for help or just to get my opinion. And it makes me really really uncomfortable. Especially if I’m in public. Well this came to a head the other day when she sent six lewd photos rapid fire and asked for help on all of them. And I was just sick of it. I warned her every single time she did this before and explained that it made me uncomfortable but she didn’t care or forgot. I sent her a long paragraph telling her she needs to stop this immediately and she was making me very uncomfortable and making me not want to be her friend and just block her. And she got upset and accused me of being bigoted because she was on the heavier side and I “don’t care when I get photos like this from PRETTY AND THIN girls.” Which is a lie. I get uncomfortable if I’m not asked permission first. Because if I get a warning. I can ready myself and also get my phone to a safe place if I’m in public. But I really feel like a dick now that she’s mad at me. Was I wrong to get upset at her and kinda berate her over text about it? 