Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : I went on a date with a girl I met at a bar. Although I liked her very much she took me back to her apartment and what I saw scared me. There was a huge amount of bondage devices and sex toys. She made a joke about using them on me and I laughed nervously but was quite afraid to be honest. I got the hell out of there as soon as I could and I have not called her back since. I know it is perhaps judgemental but I was worried about how vulnerable I would be if she used any of those devices on me. 