Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : This is a Repost as my first post was labeled INFO.

So I'm in a relatively new relationship. We've been dating for about 3 months. A few weeks ago, I was added to her Instagram bio and I was posted to her account. She did this out of her own volition. I didn't ask for this but it made me happy I guess. At least seeing me on her profile would be somewhat of a deterrent for creeps.

However, the other day I find out that the pictures and the bio thing aren't there. I ask her and she says that her mum made her delete it because they don't want people know G were dating. I get a bit mad at this but she 'justifies' her actions by saying that her cousin had her fiance on her Instagram and 2 weeks before the wedding they called it off.

Now hear me out, in my country people take social image as a big thing. Especially in small communities of the same race (families/family friends etc).

So my thing is that I would've been okay if she just let me know in advance instead of letting me find out the way I did. 

AITA? 