Im a Sophomore in college and I met a really nice girl the first week of school and started hooking up with her and took her virginity. Nothing formal just a FWB type situation. We had casual sex for about 5 months (i know its a ridiculously long time for not being in a relationship.) We both talked to other people during this time period but neither one of us hooked up with anyone else (she went on dates though). So a couple weeks ago she told me that she didnt want to keep hooking up because she was in love with me and knew I didnt feel the same way so we decided to stop hooking up but remain friends. This was surprising news to me because I didnt know she caught feelings. A week after this happened I went to a nearby frat party and she happened to be there. She sat with me we had a couple drinks and she initiated physical contact and started making out with me. One thing lead to another and she told me to come back to her place so we went and hooked up again. Now her roommate and her friends thinks Im an asshole for hooking up with her and accused me of leading her on. Am I really the asshole in this situation or are we responsible for what happened?