Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : I'll try to summarize this as much as possible. My fiancee is amazing and I love her to bits. But when she drinks she can't stop. She will eventually drink until she passes out and makes an ass of herself. She also doesn't seem to care about personal boundaries, touching other men's faces and legs and the like. I've told her I hate it and it makes me extremely uncomfortable but she still does it

Well tonight she went to a christmas party for her work while I went to a friends house to play cards. She said she wouldn't drink as she had to drive the 30 minutes back home, ok no big deal. Well at my buddy's house we hear a knock on the door and it's my fiancee. She is clearly drunk already slurring and I go into panic mode. 

Now my friends have never seen her drunk like that and for good reason. Her new meds have really screwed up her drinking even worse so she tried to lay back. Anyway long story short she refused to leave, started doing shots and chugging beers one after the other. 

I left her there because she wouldn't even talk to me (our best friends were both there to watch her). I went home and texted her to call me if she needs a ride. As I wasn't drunk whatsoever. The second she showed up I stopped drinking out of embarrassment. She couldn't read the cards, was touching all over another man there, we were at his house and he spilled beer and she was "helping wipe it up". Well she never texted back but our friend texted me saying she was drinking way too much and they cut her off. She then informed me an hour later my fiancee threw up and fell asleep on the couch.

Her engagement ring was at home because she simply forgets it or won't wear it because her job is hands on. So I found it and hid it in the house. Told her when she respects us as a couple and wants to stop acting like we don't matter. That she can have it back.

She was also saying stuff like, "does he look like the kind of person who wants to marry me?" In front of everyone. And she has drunkenly told me to break up with her several times.

So am I the asshole? Or is it justified. Because I'm so hurt and disappointed idk what to do.