Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : My boyfriend is balding, **bad**. 
 
 
Its like how thin [this guy’s hair](https://goo.gl/images/hqsPW6) is on the top tuft but following [this pattern](https://goo.gl/images/PYasQ1).
 

He started balding in his 20s and has fully accepted that he going bald. He knows his “best” look is shaving it all off.  
 
The thing is he’s lazy. I try to remind him to shave, or offer to do it for him, but he puts it off. He lets his hair grow out until it looks awful. Like an inch or two all around. Usually takes about 2 weeks. 
 
 When hair is grown out he goes from a rustic handsome man to a crazy scientist.   
 
While I find him a little less attractive when his hair is grown out, my main concern is how professional he is seen.
 
His job doesn’t “require” him to look professional, but it’s a job he needed to get a degree to work in. (I don’t want to be too specific). He has also been involving himself more in the company so the higher ups are taking notice of him.  
 

 
I don’t get frustrated or nag when his hair gets bad. I might bring shaving up twice a week and I wait until we’re at the house doing nothing before I say something. 
 
That being said, he has the right to keep his hair however he wants it. 
 
 He doesn’t pressure me to shave (legs, armpits, pubic area, etc). He has even said he wouldn’t care if I stopped shaving all together. 
 
 I don’t want to make a double standard here. It’s just that head hair is so much more present that my body hair. How a persons head hair looks is seen as a representation of how professional they are. (Wether it’s an accurate representation or not) 
 
I’m not sure if him not shaving his head would be akin to me not shaving my legs, or like me not brushing my hair. 
 
If it’s more like no brushing my hair WIBTA for asking him to shave more?