Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : When I was 15(f) so about last year I got really sick of my hair and wanted to shave it all off instead of just a trim. It took my mother weeks to agree to it but after I did it I thought it looked amazing even my grandmother liked it.
 But random strangers would always give me dirty looks or comments about me being “sick”  but one old man who lives me would give me especially dirty looks and once asked me while waiting in line at the grocery store if I was “sick or just stupid” for shaving off my “beautiful hair “ (which it wasn’t it was fried from my dying it every month) and I told him basically that I can do whatever I want with my head because it’s mine and I don’t care what he thinks. 
This man decides to tell me “girls only look good with long hair. You should think about getting a wig to cover it” and I told him fuck off and went back home

Am I the asshole? He was just giving his opinion but it was a very rude way to do it. Especially to a child who he was no idea about my life and I very well could have been sick. 