Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : Hey guys soo, I've been pretty good with ending most relationships. I typically will let those emotions flow through me instead of holding onto them. 

So I(25M) ended up jumping into this relationship with this girl(20F). We both worked for the same company but we dont work directly together. It was one of those surreal moments when I realized I wanted to be with the person. 

So the girl and I started dating mid summer and things were great and lively, sex was plenty, company was amazing and it just felt like I could lower my guard around her. Maybe 3 months in I noticed some minor issues and had asked if we can talk in person because these were somethings I wanted to address. After her freaking out and overreacting almost to the point of tears, we both let out the things that were bothering us. My past was a little on the wild side(in terms of past sexual encounters), who I was friends with, why I was friends with them, and she made sure to remind me of every step of the way. I understood and agreeded with our talk.

Now fast forward to the start of the month and she has been constantly been saying that I'm being 'distant' and how shes consistently busy with work/school/volunteering. I try to be more vocal with what I'm doing or how I'm feeling that day or in that situation, it seemed to work for a short while. So on the 21st I was going to make us dinner and I'd meal prep for the two of us, we hadn't had time with each other in 2 weeks and I just wanted sometime with my girlfriend, and a family emergency comes up...so I call her and explain what's going on and shes completely understanding, so shes telling me she feels guilty for leaving her cat for the night..then 30seconds later shes excited to leave for work because she gets to work with these two people she likes, but she feels guilty to leave her cat for the night.

So on the 23rd she texts me saying she isnt sure if she wants to keep the relationship going because when she graduates(1.5years away) she wants to move and she knows I wouldnt want to move where she does...I explained to her how that isnt really a good reason to stop dating. I asked her if she needed a break from this, and she didnt say yes or no. I had decided to put the relationship on hold and asked her if she could give me 2 days to think over, she kept asking and asking and asking and kept pestering me to tell her, that on Sunday I wanted to grab a coffee and talk...she keeps pestering me and I just blurted it out! I told her why were breaking up, the consistent repetition of how we didnt have anything in common, the age gap and everything that I had mentioned above .

So now I've been feeling like shit because I broke up with a girl who I felt I had some real feelings for, I know that I cant salvage the relationship.

So AITA for breaking up with the (now) (ex)girlfriend.