Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : My SO went out last night and specifically told me she wasn't going to drink. She came home way later than she ballparked before leaving, I'm understanding of that.  Turns out she got hammered and now is having a very rough morning and wants me to leave work to come home. A little back story is she lost her job recently because she took klonopin and whiskey before work and couldn't finish her shift so never went back. This causes me to have to work every weekend until she finds something else. I haven't had a day off in 3 months. When she asked me to come home I told her I couldn't leave right now. I'm wondering if I'm the asshole for not being willing to help her since my view is this is her problem not mine. She knows I don't like when she drinks especially since she willingly stopped taking her bipolar medicine and got mad when I was " in her business" about her medication. 