Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : About 6 month ago I had gotten into a relationship with a girl and it lasted for about 2 months. It was both our first relationship. We mutually broke up because exams were coming for college and we were both going to different ones. I believe that both of us we really sad about it but we both promised that this relationship was more ‘experimental’ than an actual long-lasting relationship and it should not affect our future relationships. 

The summer before college a friend (for 4 years) from the same high school wanted to ask me out right after I had broken up with my previous relationship. He was gay and I believed that I was bisexual (but I guess I am actually asexual). My response was that I wasn’t really looking for a relationship but I would think about it,

2 weeks later both my ex and him text me around midnight calling me and asshole for not giving him a proper response. My ex says that my poor communication skills is the reason we broke up (but I had called her for 2 hours each day, but not relevant here). We were all angry and I especially was surprised at my ex showing up to this conversation. I ended up blocking the guy but not my ex because I wanted to talk to her about it but she kept saying that we should just stop talking. 

Are my communication skills bad?

Later today or this week I am going to have a serious conversation with the guy who asked me out to work things out.