TL;DR:
My dad wants to walk me down the aisle and my sister thinks I'm a dick because I don't want to. 

Don't get me wrong. My dad and I have a great friendship. He is kind and generous and sweet. But I don't want to walk down the aisle with anyone but my fiancee. When I told my family this my dad seemed a bit hurt and my sister later told me I was being selfish. 

I didn't want to hurt his feelings and I feel horrible that I did. But I don't want to feel like I'm being "given away". It doesn't sit well with me. And while we have a good relationship now he was out of my life during my childhood and we had a rocky relationship during my teens. 

I just want to walk down the aisle with my fiancee. She's the one I am going to be spending my life with, and this day is about honoring that commitment. I want to start our journey with my best friend by my side. From beginning to end. 

I told him I still want to do the father/daughter dance though! 