Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Of course, long story. I will work to keep it brief. Using a throwaway. 

I (26M) am with the woman I want to be with for the rest of my life (26F). We’ve been together for a year now, we just moved in together. It’s been great, I absolutely love and adore her. 

That being said, she’s definitely more sexually experienced and wanting it more than I am. I feel like I’m rejecting her subtly and fairly often (maybe 2-3 times a week) while maybe having sex maybe 1-4 times a week. It has nothing to do with her, I think she’s the most beautiful and sexy person I’ve ever met - and I always tell her that. That it’s nothing she does, I just truly feel like I’m out of the phase in my life where I want to bang all the time. I feel bad, because I’ve been in her position, but that relationship was abusive towards me and has left me definitely different. I want to be everything for her, and want to be the man of her dreams, which I think I am. Just in this one section of life, I just can’t match her libido. 

That being said, I can feel she’s bummed about it - and she still tries to approach me fairly often but she’s never pressuring me or rude in anyway. She understands (sorta) but I just feel so bad. 

AITA for being in my 20’s and having a lower libido than my SO? Whatever judgement it maybe - any advice to work with it. I try to do things that pleases her elsewhere, just sometimes I’m tired or just not into it. Where otherwise, when I’m into it, im fucking into it. It’s like I have no grey zone, just either turned on as fuck or turned completely off. Ugh. 