Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : The title explains most of it already but i'm a little torn. 

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Alright so this happened in November of 2018, at the time we were in a relationship for about 2 months (doesn't seem like a lot but i have severe abandonment issues and get clingy fast (tryna fix that one) ) at this time i haven't seen her for about two weeks because she was too busy with school (we're both in college) meanwhile she would get increasingly annoyed if i suggested that we do anything together. So I started bracing for impact which evidentally a couple days before december I got the message over discord: "wanna drop it" she wanted to put our relationship on hold until july when our summer break starts. Now for a quick look into myself, i have already had a similar experience to this which drove me to a very unstable state therefore I said i couldnt. She started sending me links to articles on why it sometimes is better for a relationship to go on hold, me getting increasingly frustrated said that "putting a relationship on hold is beating around the bush for a breakup" she didn't take kind to that

A minor fight happened but it ended in breaking up. 

I feel like i could've been more understanding but i still stand by the decision i have made.

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now my question is: Am i the asshole?

TL;DR: my then girlfriend had a rough time with her studies and didn't have time for a relationship during this and wanted to go 'on hold' for about half a year i said that i emotianally can't do that and that's where we agreed to break up