Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : A friend of mine recently lost her mother and when they first announced their death I sent them a message apologising for hearing the news and saying I'm always there for them if they need a talk.

She recently was at a family birthday party for the deceased and I didnt send a message checking up on them and its really been getting to me. I noticed but didnt want to send a message at the time as I thought it might of reminded them of the death rather than the happy times of the birthday party..