Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : I’m a 23F and my boyfriend is a 24M we have been together for 4 years, recently it has been very difficult to spend one on one time with him. He prioritizes his friends or anyone before me and I never get any couple time with him. Anytime I bring up the topic and let him knows it upsets me he just blows me off. For example today he just came home from being out of town for a week, we have barely spoken and he has spent all day with his best friend only really speaking to me when he wanted to initiate sex, I haven’t mentioned anything about being upset but I feel like this isn’t normal in a relationship. So basically am I the asshole for asking for alone time with my boyfriend? 