My mom suggested instead of Christmas presents we donate it all to charities, specifically helping the fire victims here in CA. I budgeted my holiday spending anticipating clothes and cooking supplies from them, and I would rather get the tax deduction than them if/when I donate to help. My siblings are already on board and said it's something we all should do given what we have but I disagree. It doesn't help that I'm the only Democrat and me feeling like a hypocrite for not wanting this. 