Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : I love my wife. She is fun, caring, and does a lot more for me than I do for her. That being said, she is currently enrolled in an online graduate program. The course work is not too difficult for me, who in general has an easier time in school than her. My wife uses that fact to say things like “if you would just do the assignment it would take you ten minutes, for me it would take an hour! So please just do it.” When I respond with things like “would love to help you if you’d try but you are putting no effort into it and I feel like you are taking advantage of me.” She will respond that she often does things that are not just her responsibility like go grocery shopping cooking etc. and that it doesn’t matter whose responsibility it technically is. I have very long days and my own graduate program I am doing. I leave at 630am and get home at 730pm which just shows how annoying extra work would be but also shows how she is dealing with our son much more than I am. Should I just do the work for her even if I think she’s perfectly capable and just taking advantage of me? Am I the asshole for not doing something that is easier for me than her?
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