My girlfriends friend, I will call her des, and my girlfriend (will call gf) kind of had a falling out recently and my gf kind of keeps bringing up that it is my fault (which it is partially but we will get into that).
Before we get into this I want to discuss a little about des. Des is a student that dropped out of nursing into healthcare aid because she was failing her courses and then proceeded to fail her healthcare aid courses, yet she posts all over social media about how hard the nurse life is and how being a nurse just takes up all her time. Des also happened to be what some refer to as a tinderella where she was almost always talking to 4+ people on tinder and went out on tinder dates 3+ times per week. By time all of this started she had settled down and started dating a guy but just recently started the relationship (also had a string of crazy exes). It also wasn't uncommon for her to break off any and all friendships she had with people for months before turning back and trying to rekindle friendships, her and my gf had readded eachother on Facebook 8 times in the past 3 years. Now, everytime my gf would go to hang out with des she would come home upset and usually spend the first few hours crying because of how horrible des made her feel about things. Des would constantly belittle my gf about being an honours university student and say how she doesn't understand life because she has never worked a real job (note that gf is working while in school). Des also absolutely hates me and has ever since she met me. Now, a couple of months ago des had added me in Facebook and me being me I sometimes post certain controversial things on my Facebook (like posts about how safe injection sites are a good thing, or anything to do with politics, or how I agree with gun regulations. Note I live in Canada and not America). Des was getting super upset and at first requested I don't share these things on Facebook because they were untrue (a "nurse" that disagrees with the benefits of safe injection sites from a healthcare perspective is scary) so me being me, a condescending a-hole I took it further. I posted an article that discussed healthcare cuts made by the previous government that she so openly supported, and I tagged her in it. This went on for about a week, then something happened, someone posted on an anonymous app (called whisper) posing as her asking people to send her dick picks (note that I didn't even have her number let alone whisper). I Immedietly get messages from her, her boyfriend, my girlfriend, and others about posting that. I blow up at her and say I didn't even have her number let alone whisper (which I even offered to let her go through my phone, android, which keeps a history of apps downloaded and everything). She kept calling me an asshole and telling my gf to break up with me for what I did. So in response of this I blew up at her, told her how horrible of a friend she is and more.