Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : This is long, TL;DR at the bottom.

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Throwaway because he uses reddit occasionally.

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So my boyfriend hasn't been feeling well the past week, I finally got him to go to the hospital a little over 2 days ago. That's also the last time I heard from him, his last message being "I'm at the hospital now." So I got a little worried about not hearing from him, we talk/hang out a whole lot. His best friend who I've also grown to become good friends with messaged me today and asked if I heard from him, and I told him no I haven't and I was gonna ask him the same thing soon. I told him about him being in the hospital, he was in my area so he asked to come over and smoke a cig on my porch and we'd call the hospital and see if he was still there.

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His best friend arrives at my house, he calls the hospital, and he is still there. He connects to his room and they talk for a bit and hang up. I get the idea to give him a surprise visit because hospitals suck and are lonely and I thought he'd like being cheered up by his best friend and girlfriend. We walked a few miles from my house to the WRONG HOSPITAL and found out he was actually a different hospital with the same name a few cities away. Not wanting to walk there, I called one of my friends and asked if they'd take me to see him at the other hospital, they did, we showed up.

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First thing that he says is "Why are you two together?" And we explain the situation, how we weren't just casually hanging out and met up because he was near my street and we were both worried about him and wanted to visit him. Note his friend has a long term pregnant gf of 5+ years and they have other kids together as well. Nor do I cheat, OR have we ever been interested in each other like that. No need to get jealous but he was I guess because the next thing he said was "So while I'm in the hospital, you're out hanging with MY friends?" I kinda awkwardly laughed it off and said "We just wanted to check on you." His friend starts talking to him and catching up and telling him about his kids recent birthday and stuff about his girlfriend, and my boyfriend is clearly not listening, so he asks him if he's okay, and he says "Dude I'm gonna be honest with you I just don't fucking care right now" And his friend looked sad and looked down kind of, and after an awkward pause he said "Thats why I love you man you're always straightforward and honest." 

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Then my boyfriend asks how we got there and how we're getting back and when and being kind of pushy about it, note at this point we've been there maybe 10 minutes at most, and I said "I'll figure it out I'll be able to find a way back easy." Because I didn't think that far ahead yet and thought I'd just play it by ear. But he just snaps suddenly and starts yelling and ranting saying things like "Dude honestly just leave both of you just fucking leave this is ridiculous I would've fucking texted you both when I was out and you just fucking show up without warning just fucking go seriously go right now like fuck this is annoying get out now." I started tearing up a bit at this point, (because he's been really consistently snappy with me the past week anyway and this was just kinda the last push to make me cry) and apologizing profusely and gathering my bag and heading towards the door, and his friend stays back. He goes "AND TAKE HIM WITH YOU." After that, and his friend says hang on he wants to talk to him one on one a bit. 

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So I walk out crying and heading towards the exit, and not long after (and some more muffled loudness from the room,) his friend catches up to me and tells me he talked to him and said not to be so harsh on me and that we were just worried and care about him and he just said "See ya bro." And motioned for him to leave. After that I talked to him a few hours later over text and asked if we could talk or see each other when he got home today if he was feeling up to it because I was there when the doctor said they were getting ready to discharge him soon, and all he said was "I'm not going home today." I said "Oh why not the doctor said you were.. Are you being discharged tomorrow then?" And all he said was "idk" and haven't heard from him since.. 

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AITA for dropping in unexpectedly? I talked to my parents about it and my dad thinks HITA and that I'm an idiot for apologizing over and over to him over it but my mom thinks IATA for "bothering him while he's not feeling well and to give him space and leave him alone." But he seemed to be feeling way better when I saw him today and even said he was feeling a lot better.

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TL;DR boyfriend went MIA for two days after telling me hes in the hospital causing me and his best friend to worry because he's usually pretty good at keeping in contact, we decided to go cheer him up as a surprise, he yelled at us and threw us out. 