Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : So my S.O. (I don't know what else to call someone I'm in a flirtationship with) is a very sweet guy. He asked me out and I said yes but I'm not allowed to date and all. I broke up with him a few days into our relationship because I felt overwhelmed and all and we sort of stopped talking for a while and then we got back together. The problem is, he says he loves me but is also attracted to another girl.

So we're in a flirtationship, as we call it that ourselves.

So a few days ago he and I meet up. It's an almost date. We're fine and having fun the entire time and we also were fine after that too. He acted super happy that he got to see me and all. He said stuff like "I love you" and "I wanna take you to my favorite places it's gonna be so romantic" (I'm paraphrasing) before the date and all.

And then he suddenly stops talking to me. He doesn't even reply to my goodnight text and he ALWAYS replies to it. I'm like no not again please no what did I do because this has happened before. He acts so nice and then suddenly acts like he doesn't want anything to do with me. He won't text or anything even while being online. And it was going the same way.

So I was like "hey we need to talk about something important" (this is all through text by the way). And he said "what's up". And I replied in a very calm, collected and grown up way. I asked him to give me a small heads up if he won't be active for a few days on end and all. I told him that he's not just a friend I can greet with a "haha how were the 3 days you didn't talk to me lmao but it's fine". We're almost dating! I deserve a small heads up when he's not texting me. 

And he replies with "oh, sorry"

I tell him that it's not me trying to be controlling or annoying, I just wish communication would be a priority in our relationship.

And it seems as if things are back to normal. But I don't want to be the crazy bitch in a relationship. I  don't think he's cheating on me or anything like that everytime he's not replying to my texts. I just feel hurt and disrespected when he does this closer-then-ignore act.


AITA for asking my SO to give me a heads up when it comes to these things?

