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Background: 17F, kind of a pushover (just want to please people), friends were respectful of the house at first, but no longer clean the way they are supposed to.


My friends have been coming over to my house to drink for a while now. It’s usually under ten people, and it’s always super chill. They stay the night, and then clean the house the morning after and leave.

Lately they have been doing less and less cleaning wise. It was originally just a small bit of missed wrappers or whatever. Now, it’s bottles left everywhere, ash all over my table and floor, and more. 

My mom got on my ass about this and told me “that things needed to change or they won’t be allowed over here ever again.” 

So the meat: I sent a detailed message to the group chat neatly listing each and every point and new rule my mom made. 

Now, I will admit this was not the nicest text because I was fuming at my mom for yelling at me. However, it was quite professional only with four total cuss words that my mom directly used for emphasis on her important rules.

I was suddenly flooded with rude and snippy comments. Being told to “stfu” and that “I honestly don’t care if I come to your house ever again.” 

Was I the asshole for telling them the new rules my mom had laid out for me?