This is a weird situation that I’m not quite sure how to handle.  I’ve never dealt with anything quite like it.  

My gf isn’t as much of a sexual person as I am.  Sometimes it’s frustrating, but I always respect it when she’s not feeling it.  She’s come up with the weirdest solution though.   She got a calendar and marked off days that we would have sex throughout the month.   

I can appreciate that she’s trying, but this just makes me feel kinda gross.  Sex should be spontaneous and something we both want.  Not something planned on a calendar.  What if when that day comes around and she doesn’t really feel it?   If I followed the calendar that would always be in the back of my mind.  Does she really want to or is this just because it’s on the schedule?   