so me and a friend decided we wanted to plan a trip somewhere, we decided to pick some places we liked and then sit down and pick the best one. 

I picked paris and Japan. 

she then tells me she wants to travel to Africa, I tell her I would rather not as I'm lesbian and parts of the country want gay people dead, she then brushes it off like it's not a big deal. 

I then tell her that we could choose paris or Japan instead and she gets mad saying that me going to Africa is not a big deal and that she wants to see the African wildlife. 

I told her that she would have to see it without me or find someone else in our friend group as I wont go, and now I'm the asshole. 

aita?

