Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : I met a cute guy on grindr and decided we should meet up. He is 20 and I'm 17 (and he knew that). Any way I say we should meet up the saturday at 14:00 he said sure but he would give a time nearer to saturday. D-day comes and he still hasn't sent a time and isn't reading my messages. He finally responds at night telling me he was sorry and that his parents dragged him along to another city so we wouldn't be able to meet up. 

I keep my composure and say it's fine and give him a second chance (telling him it's his last). Fast forward 1 week and even though we have a time (14:00) at 23:00 the previous night I got a message. I was asleep so I got it in the morning. The message was sent by a friend on his number telling me he was in the hospital for some sort of low bloodsugar. Along with it I got a pretty fake looking picture. Needless to say I asked if he would be able to meet. He says no and I ask what now? Then I said that I don't care and he sends a message along the lines of: "If you're mad at a guy in the hospital, then lose my number." So I block him on grindr and WhatsApp and delete his number.

Now I keep thinking I should not have snapped and I'm the asshole. Am I the asshole?