Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : My best friend made a BBQ for his birthday. I found out the day before that he had invited a girl who he didn't know (only knew her by Discord). He knew her and I had gone on a date, kissed, and that then proceeded to ghost me, which affected me very negatively. When I told him (before the BBQ) that her presence bothered me, he told me that he invited her out of politeness.

So Saturday comes, and I go to the event around 22, this girl arrives around 23.30 and I began feeling really bad; even my other friends told me I suddenly felt disconnected. So around 1am, I decide to leave. I told my best friend that I didn't feel well around her, to what he responded that it made him sad that I was leaving and that he didn't feel it would affect me that much.

I feel like an a-hole, and couldn't sleep properly for the last days. Was I an asshole for leaving early?