Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : So a while back, I was getting pretty serious with a girl late into highschool (who now hates me and I am 100% sure her friends do too over this). The summer of the year before I went to college, I came back from camp, and she was distant. Lost her mind on me when I went to hang out with friends as well. A week later, she went to her churches camp, and dumped me while there. She talked about how we don't communicate, all of these issues she had with me, and how I didn't care. None of this came up before now. She made all of these promises with me how we would talk about this stuff.

A week later, she is dating my best friend, after she said she couldn't date anyone after a decently long relationship. Needless to say, I was in no way shape or form in a good place. And knowing him well, he would want sex from her. I know damn well she would say no. She called me a liar, and talked about how sweet he was, etc.

3 weeks into their relationship, he starts sending her suggestive photos to say the least.

She comes back crying to me, confused as to why he did that. This is my first AITA. I straight up told her, "I told you he would do this, I told you why. *I told you so.*"

Yea. She did not take it well, but came back regardless. And, to my later ire, I accepted. She even reinstituted our 'anniversary' as if that everything that did happen just didn't exist at all.

Fast forward to me moving to college. 6 months later. I arrive at college, and we talked incessantly. (In hindsight, I really should not have taken her back.) She would talk about going to a party *in which the host had a crush on her for years*. I asked her not to go. She went. I asked her how it went later and she denied ever sending the text. She would sometimes dissappear for days on end.

I was getting tired of it, months of it, and I met a girl who made me realize that, not all girls are that way, and, I could get someone who really cared about me and my oppinions. She became my confidant, and I ended up really liking her. Like a lot. BUT I DID NOT ENTER A RELATIONSHIP WITH THIS GIRL OTHER THAN FRIENDSHIP. Hardly ever alone together aside from the occasional lunch together. Mostly hung out in classes and studied together in groups.

(Second judgement time) Two days before the 'anniversary', I sent my GF a text that we were through. I couldnt take it any longer. I also felt that pushing it beyond the anniversary would just make it worse, and make me feel worse.

It took her, IIRC, three days to even respond to that. She called me sobbing, begging pleading, asking what she did wrong, even though I made it known to her.

Winter break she tried to try again, and after repeated begging, I gave her a chance after she promised me it would be better. Three weeks in back at college, I was so busy, I barely texted or called anyone. Got a breakup text from her (after telling her I would be swamped). Didn't much care at that point. I felt it was going to happen anyways.

So, AITA x2?