Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Please tell me if I'm the asshole here, I'm trying to see my boyfriend's perspective. I made a loaf of banana bread a few days ago and today I put the last few slices in a bag so I can take them to work tonight. My work takes me to a remote location where I can't leave until the job is done and live out of my truck while there. Granted tonight if everything goes well I'll only have to be there a few hours, but I like to bring enough food in case I get stuck out there for days. He went to grab a slice and I said "no, I'm bringing those to work tonight" and he started slamming cabinets and the fridge door finding other food. I asked why that pissed him off and he said I'm so selfish with my stuff.. I had made him breakfast this morning which I didn't even eat and reminded him of the leftovers but he was still mad so I told him to just eat a piece of the bread then, but he wouldn't since I already told him no. Then he grabbed the chips I was eating out of my hands and said I couldn't have those because he was "planning on eating them later" (obviously just mocking me) and just yelled at me for being selfish until I was crying then he left. Am I the asshole/being selfish for trying to claim food as "mine"? 