Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : I am supposed to go to my dad's every week, I missed the last 2 weeks because one of us was sick both times. My cousin hit me up and asked if I wanted to hang out, I haven't seen my cousin in 2 months. I decided not to go to my dad's a 3rd week. I haven't seen my cousin in almost 3 times as long, but my dad is my dad. My cousin didn't know about my visits and my dad was super cool with it, but I still don't know, Am I the asshole?