Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : This is more about my mother than me. So about a month or 2 ago my sister broke up with her boyfriend, she has a 2 year old daughter (hes not the father but that doesn't really matter at this point) my mother has a full time 5 day a week job like most people, she is currently VERY stressed with work because she is basically in charge of a group of 50 year old children, being undermined by her boss who has recently been off sick for months, she comes home every day with a new story about how someone is refusing to do work for a very petty reason or her boss has done something to completely undermine her such as getting a new fork lift no one is trained to use then just pissing off when she asks him why he done that when he knows no one is trained on it.

Now that my sister is single she leans on my mother for pretty much all the babysitting duties, she has only recently got a child minder for when she works during the week, weekends how ever she always seems to work no matter how many times my mother explains she works 5 days a week and doesn't want to essentially work 7 days a week, she isn't getting to do granny stuff with my niece, she's essentially a part time baby sitter for my sister every week and isn't getting paid for it, my mother gave my sister the VERY expensive car seat she got for herself (btw why are they so expensive anyway) so cant take her anywhere to do any fun shit, they are stuck in the house all weekend until my sister gets back from work.

At this point you may be wondering why cant my mother buy a new car seat or buggy/stroller and do some fun shit with my niece so they can both enjoy their time together, well my sister owes her over £5000, recently my mother had to pay £750 to get my sisters car fixed then she ended up needing to get a new fucking car anyway. most of my sister debt to my mother comes from when she had just found out she was pregnant and decided to move into her own flat, then my sister seemed to think that as a soon to be single parent she needed EVERYTHING in the flat to be brand fucking new and of course she couldn't afford that so she convinced my mother to get most of the furniture in the place.

So basically my single parent sister is stressing my mother to the max with insisting she babysits on the weekends and owes her over £5000 and has yet to pay a penny of that back all while my other works a very stressful job 5 days a week, when ever my mother talks to her co workers that she is friendly about this they all think my sister is a piss taker and is basically a selfish bastard, when ever my mother mentions that one day she wont be able to babysit my sister gets all pissy and falls out with my mother which makes her feel incredibly guilty when she is just trying to do what is right for her self especially when my sister can change her days she works and can easily get a different job in her field, she is currently a care worker and claims she cant find another job, yet when ever me or my mother go on indeed and simply look up care home/care worker we find dozens upon dozens of jobs. Basically i think my sister is being very selfish and is just refusing to find a new job so she can dump baby sitting duties on my mother but you all tell me what you think, is my mother being an asshole or are me and her co workers right when we say she should not feel guilty because it seems like my sis is using and making my mother feel guilty just so she can get a free baby sitter.