This one's a bit confusing, but I'll try my best to explain it all.

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There's this guy who we'll call T. T and I have been really good friends for around 3 years now. Over those years we've had some complications, but we got over those and remained good friends. Here's where it gets slightly complicated - I was apparently his first 'really good friend', and that's fine by me. However, because of this he would get incredibly jealous of everyone I talked to. He wouldn't make it noticeable, but after I was done talking with that person he would pull me aside and tell me how he would appreciate it if I didn't. 

This went on for a bit, until it got worse by me meeting a nice girl and going out with her a few times. T completely lost his shit. I got back from a nice date to find nothing but angry texts blowing up my phone. That should have been a major red flag for me, but I just saw it as him looking out for me. 

Fast forward a few months, things didn't work out between me and the girl, and T and I are back to normal. Now comes more drama. I have the audacity to talk to a girl again, and T completely loses it once more. I try to explain to him that that girl is also one of my good friends, but he's not having it. The whole night my phone is blowing up again, and I decide to ignore him. The next day, I just act as if everything is normal, because I didn't want to put up with his shit. 

That was around a year ago. Since then, it has gotten much worse. Just about everything I do results in me being yelled at by this guy, and he starts to enforce more and more rules, because apparently I broke his trust by talking to someone of the opposite sex. That all goes 'well' for a bit, until I manage to find love a second time under T's domain. This erupts into a full-blown rift. His crony friends are all taking his side, and everyone with common sense is taking mine. Somehow his friends win, and I'm left single and broken. 

Stockholm syndrome gets to me, and I decide to give him one last chance. Fast forward to yesterday; we both were doing some volunteer work at the local zoo, and decided to talk a bit during the break. He began to get on the offense and bash me about talking to another friend of mine. I was completely fed up and cussed him out about how stupid his rules were, and how he shouldn't be such an untrustworthy little bitch. I then proceeded to get on my bike and immediately go home.

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Just a bit of extra background; I'm not trying to karma farm by asking if I'm an ass by putting another ass in their place. T was mostly a very nice guy, and we did have a lot of fun together. It was just those fights and rules that really set me off. Another thing, T was quite insecure and mentally unstable at times, and I'm questioning whether my cussing him out might have affected any of that.

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So, AITA?