Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : So my friends and I have a chat group of 5 people where two of them live in another city. Those two messaged us on Wednesday saying hey we’re coming to your town on Friday to sunday. Does anyone have any place to sleep for us? I responded "yeah ofcourse, and we’ll have to make sure we go out for drinks while you’re down here". They sort out a place to sleep with another guy in the group and that’s that. So Friday comes, I don’t text them, they don’t text me, without telling me they go and have a dinner with the remaining two people in the snapchat group and some other people that I know at one of the friends in the groups place, who lives right by me, and then message me after the dinner if I wanna go out, thing is, the clock is now 23.30, and I say screw that it's too late, I haven’t pre drinked or anything so I don’t go. I feel pretty left out that they didn’t invite me for dinner/pre drinks. That being said I didn't ask them on friday what they were up to.

We’re supposed to meet today to eat and chill, but no one wants to go out tonight like me because they’re hungover.  I just wanna ask them why they didn’t invite me for pre drinks. Option two is to say fuck it and say I can’t go tonight and do something else without them which is what I really feel like.

Am I the asshole for reacting this way? I had the chance to text them if I wanted to on Friday but I didn’t.