My girlfriend and I had been going strong a while now and it’s all been fine till recently.  Recently though she and I got into an argument about this, and now I’m just not sure if I did the right thing. 

I was knackered after a night out so I do what I usually do after a night out. Lay in my bed and scroll through reddit till i realise I should sleep. So I’m scrolling and I’m not sure if this is just me, but when I see a porn post or an NSFW post in general I click it. So I just see a gonewild post and think “oh cool” and click on it. Still reeling from £1 night at the club I didn’t immediately notice it was my girlfriend, but something was familiar about the post. The bed looked familiar, so did the overall room, but then I saw her body realised “wait that’s my girlfriend”. I was mostly in shock and just started looking through her history and what I saw confirmed that it was 100% her.  Just filled with a mixed ball of emotion I decided I should sleep, but I couldn’t. 

So I waited till the morning my mind going mad. Eventually I texted her confronting her about it. I got a bit aggy saying how I felt like she was cheating on me and she was saying to me that since it was the internet it wasn’t cheating. In all honesty I said some nasty things and I could tell she wasn’t having a good time either. Said to her that I would like her to stop posting, and if she doesn’t then I didn’t really want to continue things with her. She started saying loads of stuff even suggesting I join her for couple posts? In the end I realised she didn’t want to stop so I ended things then and there. Haven’t messaged her since and my mates are aggy at me asking what was going on. I’m not going to expose her, but this is a bit much for me right now. 

AITA