Hello reddit!
Recently (4 months ago) for the first time in my life a girl actually likes me!
She striked the conversation first too!
So its been time, we havent ever actually met but being my first time in some kind of a relationship i am attached and i need help, we got into a fight for what seems to me is very immature from her side, i dont know what to do!
It has been 2 days (instagram says 1, maybe because it hasnt been full 48 hours) since the last time i talked to her and im sad and absolutely becoming put down.

Now the catch is that i have to go to the capital where she lives on a car show and i plan on telling her so she can come and we can meet up, but my friend says its a bad idea and i should just send a selfie to her when im there and tell her "guess who is in your hometown"
But if i do that she might not be able to come because of her things she has to do, so i plan on messaging her in friday and telling her about the trip to her town so she can prepare for us to meet
We are fresh in this argument and we havent spoken since monday
I feel terrible, am i the asshole? what could i possibly do to not look desperate or not to ruin anything ?
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