Am I?

My room mate after being told not to eat the chocolates that my GF gave me for Vday ate 2 out of each package despite asking him not to. His response was, "well they sucked anyways, I spit it out after I bit into it." 

I also had another instance of trying to make my self whole with his friend who came over and threw out a collectors edition starwars plastic cup from the movie theater when the last jedi came out. His response was "I AINT PAYING $30 FOR A PLASTIC CUP. I FUCKING SHOVELED YOUR DRIVE WAY!" I did not ask him to render this service, nor was I in the know about it. 

Am I the ass hole?