Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : My SO and I are ready to make our 5 year relationship official.


A bit of background, we met online and were long distance for 3 years before spending 2 years together travelling back and forth. We are planning a K1 visa and are ready to start the 90 days this year for a September wedding.


His BIL was in the Marines 8 years ago and always wears his uniform to special occasions. I straight up said I would not allow this as this Wedding is a celebration of love and committment and not a "oh you fought for the country." I would prefer if we kept any type of war, fighting, negativity away from our day. 


His BIL is causing a fuss, and as you can tell im not from the US but my husband to be has my back on this. This day of ours, we want it to be about love and us. Even his wife is rolling her eyes.


AITA for not understanding his BIL's uniform? 


