Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : For context I’m a 22 year old female and I would consider myself decently attractive-ish? As a result I regularly have guys come up to me in all kinds of bars and clubs offering me drinks, which I’m totally okay with as long as I watch the bartender make it and it goes straight to me to avoid any tampering.

Well I recently let it slip to my mom and she got upset with me, saying that I was taking advantage of them. I never thought of it that way because:

a) I’m not going out of my way to demand drinks from them.

b) I am always aware that there is a risk of them slipping something into the drink- it isn’t an ‘innocent’ gift!

c) I am already being grabbed by them &amp; propositioned, so might as well get something for my troubles aha.

So am I really an ass like my mom says for accepting drinks from guys and not giving them my number/sexual favours etc.?