Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Growing up my father worked 60+ hours a week at a position making good money, so we lived in the upper middle class kind of life. I got everything I wanted as a kid and it showed in my attitude. my mom being a stay at home mom got the worst of it because she was around all the time. 

Growing older and older however I started to ask for less and less. Because I wanted to feeling of achieving and getting something all by myself. I stopped asking for things at Christmas, my birthday, and holidays. Even though they would still get me things. My mom actually started to complain because she didn't know what I wanted because I never asked for anything. 

Also growing up I realized I was an introvert. So being in school all day wore me out. By the time I got home I was all socialed out and wanted to be held up in my room and in that presepctive I kept to myself. 

My mom's attitude towards me changed as I became more and more Independent. Some of her words because harsher and harsher. Then I started to think about how my mom would act during evening.

She would constantly be on her computer. I'd try to talk to.her she wouldn't listen because she was playing a game on her computer. Even eating dinner.... Computer. She ignored us after we became teenagers, and then became angry at us when we would interrupt her wanting to tell her about out day. 

She started putting me in stress filled situations like putting me in between my dad and her in an argument and having me be the mediator. After a while of this obvious I acted out and eventually asked to go to a therapist.... She told me therapy is for weak people and then repeated it.

Now I'm in my twenties moved out she live at least an hour away. And is still managing to upset me from that distance. Whenever we are in person it's a guilt trip about how she doesn't see me enough. I tried to explain to her what an introvert was and she threw it back in my face. This post would be a book if I wrote everything. Very rarely will she do something nice but then it gets held over my head or twisted.

I've met the love of my life and the only one not happy for me is her.  When I talked to people that know the situation significant other excluded they give me a foul response like I'm the bad guy. 

So.....I decided to ask an internet full of strangers 
Am I an asshole if I just cut all ties with her every though everything she has done for me?