Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : Me and my girlfriend had been having some trouble lately. We had been together for over a year and a half, and it felt like the last six months we would fight, and get back together just to fight again. We had a bad one recently that I thought was her fault but three days of no talking and I was at the store buying her three dozen roses. Now in a previous fight she had told me to not express my problems with our relationship when she is expressing hers. She was at my apartment doing homework and remembered last time she used the last of my printer paper. She asked me to go to the store to pick her up some. This was late at night and the Target was like a 8 minute drive away. I told her she always asks for favors from me but the other night when my boss threw a 12 hour overnight shift on me last minute, and I asked you to bring me food, you told me you didn't want to drive there just to give me food and leave. Of course she got defensive and started bagging on me for not acting like I was serious and yadda yadda. I have a strong fight reaction so I kinda retorted back and was a jerk admittedly. Anyways I went and got the paper for her and went to bed without talking. In the morning I told her to have a good day at school and she told me she wouldn't. I tried to comfort her but she told me all about how I don't care about her. After some arguing she told me that I make her so upset she wants to kill herself. She has struggled with depression, self harm, and suicide before. At this point our relationship was the last thing on my mind, and talking her off the ledge was. Somehow through it all I told her she was better off without me and that I hurt her too much. I ended up breaking up with her because of this, it was kinda outta the blue, I hadn't planed it. She of course started calling me pathetic and getting really mad. I saw her in person when we did the dreaded exchange of stuff. I really don't want to split with her and I didn't want to break up with her, I just felt I had to because I was making her so sad and upset. I am really bad at making people feel better since high school cause I lost most of my ability to feel apathy and empathy so I can understand that. I just don't know if it was wrong to try to protect her from me. I felt like the abuser in an abusive relationship and no matter how bad it got she wouldn't break up with me. Am I the asshole?

TLDR: I broke up with my girlfriend because I made her depressed and suicidal whenever we fight, which was a lot. I felt it was better for her but she got really upset about it. Not sure if it was the right thing to do.