Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : My first post so excuse any mistakes please but am I the asshole for wanting my mom to stop humming and singing in public locations and in the car? She sings and hums alot and it gets very annoying. 

I’ll say here that her humming and singing is very loud and she seems to try and command attention. She is always loud and when I have a headache she will act like a saint telling everyone to be quiet but two seconds later she starts talking in her loud voice. I can let that go because she is a teacher but when told to stop she might for a few minutes at most and then she’ll do it again. 

The whole family has asked her to stop a lot and she will say “I cant help it!” We (my brother and I) prevent ourselves from saying, doing, and starting things all the time why can’t she? So tell me, am I the asshole?