Met a guy at a hotel bar that I stay at on a regular basis. He’s a construction worker and only there for a period of time. He thought I was cute and I thought he was cute. We hooked up. Then I went back to my own country. Next time I come out we hook up a lot. He took care of me, took me out for my birthday. We knew it was only hooking up and I was cool with that. Left a note with a friend to give this guy (note was in a sealed envelope and it basically said my number and something about my ass that we’d been talking about). I get a message on my phone saying hi etc, I don’t have his number but I checked it was his area code etc and it made reference to the comment about my ass. So I thought it was him. It got a bit heated and I sent a couple of pics. Turns out, he opened the note in the bar, shared it with his work crew and it was them that texted me. To say I’m mortified is an understatement. They have a pic of my boobs... AITA for even doing that note to him since it was only a hook up?