Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : So I’ve been called an asshole for a lot of things. I’m 16 now and have left my moms home for various reasons. I’m staying with my moms parents and obviously they want me to fix things and talk to her. There’s alittle drugs involved and a lot of toxicity (imo at least) in why I left. My moms always been unfair with me and my 3 siblings, my little brother is the baby and gets away with everything, I’m not even joking. I’ve been sent to the hostpital a few times because she thinks I have a mental illness and the last time she tried to admit me I left. The doctor told her they couldn’t admit me because the last time it was obvious that I didn’t have a mental disorder that there was problems with me and mom and possible drug problem, don’t flip out Its just weed, and that I had to go home with her. I told her right when we walked out that I’m not going to her house and if she made me that I’d make sure in every way this would happen again. She agreed to let me stay at my grandparents. 

I got caught smoking and was found in passed out in the car high as hell, this is when she tried to admit me into the hostpital the second time. She took all my belongings and refuse to give them back.
My brother got caught at school selling weed and they took his phone for a week. As I said it’s unfair 

I’ve said many times I don’t want to talk to her that’s she’s basically dead to me and that’s that. Am I an asshole for not wanting to fix things? Like I understand my grandparents that what I’m doing is a shitty thing but justified, so I see how its hard for them to defend me, or maybe the drugs but they don’t know I’m still smoking.

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TD:LR come from a toxic Homelife and refuse to have contact with my mother, am I the asshole ?