So I [22m] and my boyfriend [24m] have been living together for some time now. It used to be I would go to the gym on my own, prepare my own meals, and enjoy my time at the gym. However, after being in a relationship problems have arisen. 

My boyfriend always wants to go to the gym with me. It’s so annoying. If I don’t go to the gym with him, he gets pissed off. I’m more into intense bodybuilding regime through PPL, he’s like cardio and doesn’t know what he’s doing. I’m not a trainer, I can’t be that to him. 

Secondly, on days where I don’t go to the gym, I remind him that my budget is tight (college) and I can’t be working out everyday like I used to because I’m not going to get enough calories or macronutrients anyway. I tell him this because his diet is just as bad and there’s no way he’s getting any benefit from working out if he’s not eating right. 

I finally got fed up with him and told him that if he wants to go to the gym he can go by himself.  He said that I should cook my own meals and buy my own food. I said whatever. 

Am I the asshole for not wanting to train my boyfriend and go workout with him?