Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : Happened several years ago. The cousins range in age from late 30s to early 20s. At the time, I was probably 30, my wife is 6 years younger. Because the cousins are all adults, the family decided to only buy gifts for the youngest kids, all of which are less than 10 years old. So far, no problems. 
Family Christmas night, and my aunt bought my mom a present. And my mom bought my aunt a present. And my aunt bought my sister and BIL a present. And my mom bought my older cousin a present. And long story short, every single person present, including my wife, was gifted something, everyone except me. Afterward I brought it up to my wife, and she told me I was acting selfish and being ridiculous, but I disagree. This never went any further than me complaining to my wife, but I've clearly never forgotten. I don't care that I didn't get a gift since it normally consists of a somewhat fake smile and fake enthusiasm. No, I didn't care about no gift, I got pissed that the family agreed no gifts, and then every single person received a gift except me. Since I haven't gotten over it, am I the asshole?