Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Ok a little backstory. So I met this girl on tinder in October, things didn't work and she started dating someone new. Nothing horrible. She texted me around New Years and we started dating.

Now shortly into the relationship she mentioned that when she thinks the relationship is going to end poorly, she'll look at other options. She asssures me she wouldn't do that to me, but I take that with a grain of salt as I do most things.

Well at one point we got into a fight about her exes and dudes that very clearly had a crush on her asking for nudes and her refusing to tell them that she was taken, just simply said no. Shortly after, I saw that she texted her ex, and asked when they were going to meet up. This of course caused another fight about how I shouldn't worry and all this. But then I might've gone a bit far and mentioned that I didn't like any of the dudes blatantly hitting on her and her refusing to acknowledge our relationship outsde of us two and family.

And before I make it sound like I'm an angel, I'll admit I had the same type of things happening where girls I had hooked up with were still my friends. But when she expressed that she didn't like that,  I cut contact with them. But she refuses to do anything like that and defends the guys at the same time. 

So reddit, Am I the Asshole for this?