Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : I'm in a relationship with my husband since I was 19 and he was 23 (now I'm 35 and married for 6 years). We are not from US so proposals are not really done, however engagement rings are a thing. When we were two broke students in our 20s he gifted me an engagement ring. The rock was very small but I loved it because we were very poor and I wore it until our wedding, then I switched to my wedding band. 

Now we are older and I don't wear it anymore. 

My husband made a couple of casual comments about it and I avoided the topic. Truth is: now we are in a better place money-wise and so do our peers and acquaintances, the rock is so small compared to everyone else's rings and I am afraid it would reflect poorly on my husband (who is, truth be told, quite cautious with money). So I put the engagement ring in the box and  wear instead my family rings with bigger stones. 

I don't plan to tell the truth to my husband but I feel like a materialistic bitch nonetheless.

So, AITA for being ashamed of my engagement ring?  


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