Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : I posted this before with details, but got removed because I guess it was too detailed. So basically what the title asks. 

I’m a caring and supportive person by nature. My last two relationships have had a lot of difficult moments. Not because of our connection or relationship issues, but because of my SO issues which I end up getting heavily involved in. I’m just tired after two three year relationships that brought the same stress. 

I ask this because I just went on my first date since my last breakup and she was awesome. After the date she added me on Facebook and her page is all of the “toomeirl” type posts and self deprecating stuff that gets the “me” or “this”  caption. [example ](https://imgur.com/a/CC4p2WT)

I’m a healthy guy both mentally and physically. I’m surprised the mental toll of the last 6 years hasn’t effected that. I see positivity in everything. My entire young adult life has been dictated by others problems though and I don’t think I would ever want to have that situation again in a relationship. 

I don’t plan on going on a second date she wants to go on. I’m not going to say why, but am I being an asshole behind closed doors?