Okay I know the title makes me sound like the biggest A-hole already,,, but there’s more to it. So, for some background- I’ve only known this guy for around a year and a half. He has a massive crush on me (not being like that, he’s expressed it to me multiple times verbally) and kinda... well, fake. 

Anyway, I feel he should be excluded for many reasons, but the main reason is because of his transphobia and (kinda) homophobia. He’s constantly starting arguments about how being trans is ‘weird’, ‘wrong’, and how he ‘doesn’t understand it’. He’s also constantly calling me and some others a faggot. By the way, I’m pansexual and try to be as active I can in the LGBTQ+ community and HE KNOWS THAT. I’ve talked to him about it multiple times and every single time I do, the only thing he gives me is a sorry.  And it’s definitely not genuine. Another reason is about his crush on me. He’s asked me out over and over, each time me saying ‘No’ as politely possible. He won’t stop! He’s even resorted to calling me ‘babe’ and telling other’s I an his girlfriend. It’s slightly scary, especially since I’ve rejected his moves multiple times. The last reason I’ll cover is that ‘he’s fake’ statement. This’ll be brief cause my phone’s dying. For an example, one day he flat out ignored me and our other friend. Yeah we we’re a little upset cause we were tryna hang out with him. But we talked it out and he FLIPPED out- saying how we were being over dramatic and it’s a stupid reason to get upset over. Mind you, a couple month ago I had lost my phone and he got mad at me for a couple days because I wasn’t responding to him. 

So, people of this subreddit, Am I the asshole?