Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : So my girlfriend and i have been dating for over a year 1/2 and we haven't had any major problems in our relationship. Until recently, we have been getting into small tiffs over minuscule issues that i don't see have any real impact over anything. I'm not going to lie on here but i tend to be the jealous type, but i don't let it affect my actions or anything i say to my girlfriend. But even since high school she has been friends with this guy that lived near her neighborhood, this all occurred way before i even met her. They still keep in touch even after having a history together while in high school, but i have met the guy a couple times, he plays basketball at our rival college. He doesn't seem like a bad person but he acts strange around her when i was there. I never say anything about it because it isn't my place to confront her about her friend, so i just bottle it up and seal it away. This morning my girlfriend is at work, and i hear a ring at our doorbell so i get out of bed to see that he had delivered her an edible arrangement, saying "I'm sorry he didn't send you one last year, hope this makes up for it, love ya xxx Happy Valentines Day". This really upset me so when she got home i confronted her and she was adamant defending him saying how they're just friends and how he doesn't have those feeling for me. This just isn't setting right in my head, can you all please help out! Thank you for reading. 