Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : I’m in a local community theatre play. I am Caucasian. My cast member is also Caucasian. On the night of our first dress rehearsal that involved makeup, my cast member came up to me and said, “I think my makeup is too dark for my skin tone” or “I think I put on too much makeup”, something like that. And I said, “No, you look like a beautiful mixed baby.”

It was meant to be sort of funny but mostly just a compliment to say that she looked fine and also acknowledge that it was darker than her normal skin tone, but she said it was a racist remark. I do not want to make the same mistake twice so...

Am I an asshole? 