My ex (M22) and I (F20) recently got back together 2 weeks ago. Everything has been great... until last night. He has rarely had problems at home, his parents are very loving, understanding, and accept him for who he is. My parents however are very controlling and critical and it takes a large toll on me. My parents often threaten to kick me out because I don’t often conform to their rules (since they have always been controlling, I sometimes rebel against them when I feel like they’re being unfair) so my anxiety is through the roof at that point. (side note: I hadn’t brought up any problems with my parents since we got back together).  My ex and I had plans to see each other but before we meet up I tell him what had just happened between my parents and I. He picks me up and he seems a little distant (not looking at me, straight faced, not talking or smiling), it may have been my anxiety but I start feeling like he doesn’t want to be around me because of my negative situation. So I tell him how I felt in that moment “I feel like you’re being distant because you don’t want to deal with my problems right now.” I probably could have worded it better but he immediately started getting defensive and said “It’s just like the same shit as before”. He starts yelling at me saying that I don’t appreciate anything he does, that just because i’m going through stuff at home doesn’t mean I should take it out on him, that i’m this way because of my parents. I’m sobbing at this point and I tell him he took what I said the wrong way, that I’m just upset about my home life, and apologize, but he’s angry now. I start having a panic attack because I feel like everyone I love is going against me/ doesn’t accept me. He says he blew off all his other plans to “be there for me” so i tell him to take me home. He lets me leave as i’m crying without saying anything. I hated going back to my home environment now with another added problem. Was I in the wrong?  