Earlier tonight my wife went to bed and I shortly followed her. I started to feel her up to get things in motion but she denied me nonverbally. I kept going a couple more times before she said she isn't feeling good and to lay off. So I stopped.

Not even five minutes later she asks me for a kiss goodnight and I do so, immediately she shoves her tongue down my throat and grabs my junk. I grabbed her hand away from me and told her if she wasn't feeling good, I didn't want to get worked up knowing there'd be no payoff.

She got offended and I decided to sleep downstairs on the couch. She said she wasn't in the mood when I came up but got in the mood despite her unwellness. I told her I wasn't comfortable anymore and she went to leave me downstairs.

AITA?