Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : First off, I'm a married man in the military(2 yrs). We've been married two years, but have been together for 4. We just celebrated the birth of our son slightly under 2 months ago after moving thousands of miles away from our original home. I don't have a "sterotypical" military job (its office work), but i still have to do military things like mandatory meetings after hours, and working out any designated time between 730 am to 430 pm, mon-fri. (Its a sweet gig, not complaining) 

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I'm also studying for the next rank which involves a test of my job and a test of my branch's military history. I usually work and come home for lunch and study for an hr or so when i get off work. My wife never makes my breakfast or lunch and very seldom makes my dinner. 

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We only have 1 income, I don't make a lot but i try to have food in the fridge that can be cooked. A lot of times my wife will casually ask, "can I put the dishes away" or "take dog out" or "change diaper". When it comes to our child, I'm not really complaining about doing anything. But my baby is a baby that sleeps a lot. Yes, baby wakes up through night and has to be fed, and my wife takes care of that, but baby still sleeps afterwards and throughout the day.

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Am i wrong for not wanting to do chores? I do trash and shovel snow. But for the inside of the house. I can get she is sleep deprived, tired, and did have a whole human come out of her. But I really feel like if I'm working at a job and trying to study for this test, I almost shouldn't have to do anything. I don't like making my own breakfast, lunch or dinner. But i will since I did that as a bachelor. I'm not trying to be misogynistic, but I kind of want a more traditional role. 

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I have brought this up with her, we have gone to counseling, although it has been a month since last session. but for the casual requests, part of me is just like "it's just loading the dishwasher, not a big deal". I ultimately feel, Im paying all the bills, and giving her an allowance for her to raise our kid, sometimes clean, and binge watch streaming services while I also help around the house and "fend" for myself. 

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What do you all think? 