Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : I am in second year at my uni, and I don’t know what it is called in English but every year there is a team of older students who welcomes the new freshman and does a bunch of social activities with them (parties, trips and other stuff). I am one these “guides” and because of that I also signed a contract saying that I won’t be intimate with the freshmen until a certain date.

But anyways, the first day we met the freshmen it was obvious that this one girl was very interested in me. I recently broke up with my ex-girlfriend so this attention was pretty nice and I flirted back. She flirted a lot, laughed at my jokes and pretty much just followed me around which I had no problem with, she was nice, pretty and we had great chemistry.As I wasn’t allowed to do anything with her, I held back and dodged her kisses and attempts when she was drunk.

But then after a month or so it was officially okay for me get intimate with her and we started kissing at social events and stuff. We were kind of a lowkey unofficial “thing” and we also had sex twice. The last time we had sex she talked about how much she liked me and how I was the nicest person she knew, which made me feel a bit uncomfortable. She didn’t say she had feeling for me, but I felt that what she said was pretty much the same thing.

I felt like it was moving towards a relationship and I kinda panicked because I knew that I wasn’t interested in her as much as she was in me.

I kissed some other girls at some parties where she was also present which I later felt was kind of a dick move, but at least she found out that I wasn’t falling for her. I then decided that I would stop doing anything with her because I felt that was the nicest thing to do if I didn’t want her to get feelings for me.

We still saw each other at social stuff and we still had a great time, but I stopped flirting and we didn’t do anything for about a month.

Until this weekend where I got drunk and had sex with her and also made out with her the next day at another party.

My friend thinks IATA because I am playing with her feelings and leading her on.

I don’t how these things work, if I know I don’t want anything serious am I then being selfish if I think she may have feelings for me?

I’m 22 btw and she is 23.

Sorry if my English is shitty.