Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : No, not on the regular. I'll explain the situation.

My BF has a family friend that is practically his Grandfather. "Granpa" describes my SO as an "adopted son/grandson." Granpa has invited me to stay the night on the couch tonight since the heat at our place will be wonky until the 28th and it's supposed to be especially cold tonight. I didn't ask or hint, he offered as we were getting ready to leave. I accepted, it was admittedly a relief. BF normally stays when I stay but he works third shift and had to work tonight.

The only toilet is in Granpa's en suite. His tub/shower is in the other end of the house with access from the kitchen. About an hour after BF left for work,
 I had to pee, so I went to the toilet (like normal) in the en suite bathroom. When I got out of the bathroom, Granpa had followed be back there and was naked, laying on his bed, stroking his dick and asked if I wanted to "lend a hand" as I *very briskly* left the room.

I had to pee again. I'm not peeing outside, there are neighbors here. I am **not** going back in that room, even though I know logically he's probably done by now. *shudder* I know all the "harm" that can be done has already happened...

Yeah, I peed in the tub/shower. Just sat on the edge and peed there. I rinsed and bleachy wiped it after, though. Obviously, I think this is an occasion where an exception to the rule can be made, but I can also understand my way of handling this may be the outrageous choice to an outsider. Especially since I would never ever want to have to tell anyone I know that I did that. I try to live by "if you don't do shit you're ashamed of, you won't have to lie" and this feels like a violation of that, so I'm having a small moral crisis on this.