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Throwaway because my GF knows my main reddit

I've been with my GF for almost 2 years, and I really love this girl. I can seriously imagine myself proposing soon if it weren't for her ADHD..

I moved in with my GF 6 months ago and honestly she's been getting on my fucking nerves the entire time. Everything is fine the sex is great (kind of), we communicate well, we like the same things. But she just gets distracted so much, I'm reconsidering if she's capable of being a wife or the mother of my future children. Here are some examples: 

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*  She takes way too long to clean the apartment when it's her turn to clean up. The apartment we have is pretty small and it can take up to 2-4 hours for her to clean up, because she constantly gets distracted. While it only takes me up to an hour and a half. Even then she misses things, for example she forgets to turn on the dishwasher at night, or she forgets to scrub down the counter. It wouldn't bother me so much if this were a once or twice scenario, but this happens every time.
* She spaces out when I'm talking to her, and forgets to do things I ask her a lot. Like a few nights ago I called her from work and mentioned if she could put a few of my beers in the fridge so by the time I come home they were cold. When I come home, guess what? No beer in the fridge.
* She talks to much, and about nothing. Everytime when we both come home from work she somehow is able to babble about her day for an hour straight, even if her day was pretty boring. She still for some reason thinks I want to know all the details about it.

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And the list goes on, this is just a few of the things she does. I usually never point it out but I got tired of it after her most recent "mistake" and told her: "Look I understand that you have issues with concentration and memory but you really need to learn how to get some more self-control". She told me that she's trying to get her ADHD under control, but it's been dificult for her. Honestly it really bothered me how she used her ADHD as an excuse, and I told her that and she seemed really upset and hasn't talked to me much recently. I feel bad but at the same time I don't think its fair that she gets to blame her ADHD when they're are so many successful people in the world with ADHD. My brother has ADHD and he has a sucessful career, and I never had issues with him when he was my roomate. 

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TLDR: My GF uses her ADHD as an excuse for being clumsy with her chores and being annoying, I told her this and she's upset. AITA?

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