Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Okay so this happened while I was in school, and in one of my classes we were just having a work day and I pull out my phone and ya know doing whatever, minding my own business. My friend is sitting next to me and doing the same. Then they begin to film a video, and smack my face. They were doing it as a joke and found it to be very funny but I didn't find that to be funny at all. It wasn't that hard of a smack but it wasn't a light tap either. Anyways, my first thought was to hit them back but I chose not to because I knew that would just escalate things and I just decided to move away just ignored them, like didn't acknowledge their existed which seemed petty to them instead of giving them what I believed they deserved. They said I took it personally and too far and that it was a joke. That made me a little more upset because I think that I was allowed to react how I did, feel how I felt. I will react however I feel is appropriate for a situation w/ conflict. I don't know, it's hard to not feel like an asshole for them saying that but whether I was an asshole or not, I think my choice was certainly better than engaging in conflict w/ them. What are your opinions?