Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : My husband wants to watch me have sex with other men. I don't want to have sex with other men.

At first, I was pretty confident that I was in the right in denying him his fantasy. After all, why should I do something sexually that I don't want to do? The more I've thought about it though, the less sure I am. 

We've talked about it. He hasn't been pushy about it at all, but he did make a good point, which is this...

He always does his best to please me, both sexually and in other ways. He does things he wouldn't enjoy doing, except that I like them and he enjoys pleasing me. Why wouldn't that go both ways?

I don't know where he's wrong there? Now I feel kinda bad that pleasing him isn't enough to make me want to fulfill his fantasy. He loves me enough to do everything he can to please me. Do I not love him less? Why don't I want to do this?

Am I being an ass for not wanting to fulfill his fantasy?