Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : I(m32) have been living and working with my fiancée (f31) in Thailand for the last 5 years, we are renewing our work contracts and committing to another 15 months in the country. We have been engaged for 10 months and together for 7 years and getting married within the next 15 months is a done deal for us. With work and finance restraints it’s very difficult for us to plan and pay for our wedding back home in Europe, as from my side of the family we have no financial support. The problem now arising is that my sister who has a fear of flying flat out refuses to consider or make an attempt to travel to Thailand if we were to get married there. My family are pretty much telling me that I am being selfish and should consider my sisters feelings and that by not doing so I am turning my back on them. They are asking me to wait till our work contract is over and we move back or get married where everyone(my sister) can travel to without complications.