Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : My wife and I are both fairly young, in our late twenties. We have a one year old child. She stays at home to take care of the child and I work about 50 hours a week as an aerospace engineer.

I make quite a lot of money, and I think this is relevant. I'm not rich by any means but I make way more money than we need to support our family. My wife comes from an even wealthier family, and her parents spoiled her with clothes and expensive gifts. (I'm going to mess up some brands but you get my point) When she was in school her every day wear was often super expensive lulu lemon leggings that were  $100-150 per pair. She wore shoes that were easily $300+. She'd have 50 or 60 shirts, the same number of pants etc...

I would be able to afford to give her these same luxuries, but it would put a huge dent in our bank account. I see no need for $100+ items of clothing. To me it is wasteful and unnecessary. That being said I understand that these clothes make her happy, so I have no issues getting her them for special occasions (birthdays, christmas etc..). She isn't super happy about this and wants me to let her buy this type of stuff all the time. She says I'm being greedy and selfish by not allowing her to buy these clothes all the time. AITA? 