I have long brown hair that I love and my bf for months has asked me to dye it red. I finally went and got it done and I hate it. It looks nothing like the pictures I showed the lady and I now have bright red highlights all throughout my hair. I hate this look so much. It looks like a cheap wig. I told my boyfriend I hate it, I’ve been crying all day. I’m partially blaming him for this because he asked me so many times and I would have never done it unless he asked me so many times. I came to him today crying and he says, oh it looks better than it did. I loved my hair before, I don’t want to hear that it looks better than my beautiful hair before. Tell me it looks good or nice, not better. 
I feel very uncomfortable now I’m my own skin, and now something that use to bring my joy is making me so sad. I’ve never colored my hair before.

Am I the asshole for telling him “you asked me enough times to do it” when he asked if I’m blaming him for this situation?
