Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Last night i was showering with my boyfriend, and he starts getting close to me and stroking himself. I try to signal i am not in the mood by pulling away, not touching him, not kissing etc. He proceeds to turn me around to masturbate over my back so i tell him i don't want to. He then says he just needs to come and we do not need to have sex, i tell him still not in the mood, he accepts that.

I still felt kind of bad that he just started getting off on me like that without checking i was in the mood, so i told him this later. Personally i feel it is kind of degrading and uncomfortable to be masturbated on like that.

He thought i was overrreacting, which made me mad. This led to a whole talk on consent in relationships. He also thinks im crazy and completely out of line by for example saying that you need consent if you want to fuck your partner while they are asleep. According to him this was a very odd standpoint. 

So am i the (overreacting) asshole or not? Because i really don't know if i'm just that rigid or if i'm right to feel that way

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TLDR; Boyfriend jerked off on me without me being turned on, i thought this was uncomfortable and degrading and told him so