My wife and I had our honeymoon paid for by my parents as a wedding gift. We were supposed to board the ship this Sunday, 4/7. Sadly, the ship was damaged by a crane during repairs yesterday and the cruise line had to cancel our trip. They gave us 100% refund and a 100% face value voucher for another cruise. We rent a home currently and have been trying to save for our own home. I asked my father if we could use the refunded money towards a down payment on a house and use the voucher for the honeymoon cruise. He laughed at me and my wife even said “I can’t believe you asked that” when I hung up. I don’t think it was rude or outrageous. AITA?