Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : For context, we’ve been in a relationship for 6 months now. I’m a guy and she’s (obviously) a girl.

I was on the phone with my girlfriend, and we were going to play a game of D&amp;D soon. We were waiting for the DM to finish some homework so it was just me and her. She started talking dirty to me and as a result I got hard and was horny. About halfway through this the DM texted us and said he was ready. After I told her that I got hard, she erupts into laughter. I asked her why and she explains how she’s laughing at me for how easy it is for her to turn me on and she had no intention to turn me on for her benefit. And I was really hurt by that. It felt as if, I described to her, she fondled me and then laughed right in my face when I naturally got erect. She apologized and told me she was sorry and would never do it again.

We left the call together so that we could get into a group call with the DM to play. I was about 20 seconds late because I was trying to clear my mind and stop being upset. So I got in and they’re both laughing but immediately shut up. I hear my girlfriend say “oh, nevermind.” And the laughter stops. I ask what they’re laughing at and the DM informs me that they were laughing at me behind my back because she blue balled me. And this hurt me in a multitude of ways. A minute ago she told me she would never do something like that again and now she’s laughing at me with my friend behind my back? And I’m not particularly comfortable with her telling people that we dirty talk over the phone either, but that was minor.

So while the DM was getting ready she could tell I was upset and we had a text conversation that went like this:

Her: are you and I okay?
Me: I’m sorry, It’s just you said you wouldn’t do it again and then you went and laughed at me behind my back immediately with (the DM) and I don’t want to start a fight but I’m just hurt
Her: how is that doing it again?
Me: i dont care about the blue balling i just dont like being laughed at by my own girlfriend
Her: I wasnt laughing at you??
Me: "we were laughing at you behind your back" -(the DM) and you said "oh nevermind" the moment i came into vc
Her: (the DM) says stupid shit, I was just telling him about the blue balling and didnt think you wanted to hear about it. I’m sorry. Eggshells (saying she has to “walk on eggshells around me”)
Me: so you were laughing at me behind my back. It’s whatever. Just let it go.
Her: I wasnt laughing at you behind your back.

Anyways, this just frustrated me further because it’s as if she’s totally lacking any self awareness? How is that not laughing at me behind my back? I felt totally disrespected and I never thought she would do something to me like this.

That’s as much detail as I can provide.