Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : First I will say that in many ways my girlfriend(39) treats me(37) better than most of my exes have. We met in high school and dated for awhile. I then moved out of state and the long distance thing didn’t work for us. We both moved on and had numerous relationships. I was married for 15 years she had 2 marriages lasting 14 years total. 

About a year ago we ran into each other and things kinda picked up were they left off. Within weeks she moved in with me and things were going good for awhile. Then shit got weird. She lets her dad control almost every aspect of her life. He tells her how and when to do almost everything. 

She has since started distancing herself from her dad. Now that she has been around my family and sees how a normal family acts with each other. 
 
My big issue is her talking to her ex a lot. I have told her it bothers me and she says she understands. But if he calls instead of asking him what he needs she will have a 30-45 minute phone conversation with him. They have no children or property together. She has lied to me about them talking and I have seen her deleting text messages between them before. 

There are never any sexual undertones to their calls or texts. 

She also has a “brother” that lives out of state that calls often 4-7 times a day and then texts constantly. 

She allows her friends to be blatantly disrespectful to me as well without saying anything to them “oh that’s just how she is”

I have a child with my ex and keep any calls or texts child related and never delete anything off my phone. 

And not that any of them have but if any of my friends disrespected her I would have to seriously consider if I want that friendship to last. 

So AITA for considering ending this relationship?