Context: I have an Ok call center job, I had a degree (2:2 / GPA ~3) been looking for jobs in my field of geology and being turned down or not hearing back from anything so I feel super lost. I am paying rent to my parents (~£200) and I get a full mother's experience from that (although I'm trying to get her to teach me on how to use stuff / iron e.c.t.) and food + bills

So today I woke up and my family went to go pick my sister up from university. So I woke up, hung the washing up on the line and decided to play some videogames (CSGO to be specific). When my mum comes home with my sister and dad I don't immediately wish her a happy birthday because I was planning to say it when I gave her the presents I bought for her (with my sister) and I was in the middle of a competitive game which was almost finished...


Apparently I did a shit job of hanging the washing on the line, I missed a package (and I didn't even know it was arriving and didn't hear the doorbell), the parents kept threatening to turn the internet off to "hurry" me up, I was "supposed to be at the gym" or have come back from the gym. Also the fact that I didn't immediately come off the computer to "fix" these issues is what lead to mum blowing up at me even though if she waited ~10 minutes I would have done them as soon as I came off. She then said that I'm in a dead end job and this made something snap. I blew up and I know I did act like a bit of an arse said that I was fed up with what was a kind of controlling relationship, dad came in stood up for mum and then I stormed out of the house to cool off.


So first question is AMTA? Will also cross post to r/advice.