Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : Some backstory. My best friend (let us call her Harley) and I met on our first year of highschool and we were very close, basically like sisters, ever since. In our class was this one guy (we'll call him Batman) that I had a huge crush on, but nothing ever happened since he was already dating someone back then, so the 3 of us were nothing more than really close friends.

A year ago he broke up with his girlfriend, but I never could really figure out when it would be a good time to confess. However, Harley also had a crush on him as well, but at some point told me she got over it and doesn't like him that way anymore. Now it is 5 years after we met. We all celebrated new years together, as we always do, but since I was out of country for Christmas, I was only coming back on December 31st, and Harley &amp; Batman along with our other mutual friend went to do shopping for new year, like food and drinks we are gonna need. Apparently that is when things between them started happening. On new years Batman gave Harley a confession letter in which he asks if they could try to be together and see how it works out. She promptly took a picture of it and sent it to me telling me how she said yes. I was so hurt and broken. I told them both how much this hurt me and how I am gonna keep my distance away from them for a while until it settles a bit. Batman was understanding, but Harley kept asking me to come hang out with them like it was all fine and I started ghosting her. It has been 2 months now, and it still hurts. I can't open any social media without them popping up everywhere.

Don't get me wrong, I am happy for them, but what hurts is that my, basically sister, knowing I liked him, agreed to date him. If the tables were turned I could never do this to her knowing it would hurt her as much as it hurts me. My mentality is that I go by the "bro code" and if she really liked a guy I could never have anything even remotely flirty with him. She doesn't get that and keeps acting like things are all fine and the way they used to be before. She is very confused as to why I am upset with her and keeps pestering our other mutual friends to ask me why I am upset with her. And it pisses me off more that she keeps dragging in all our mutual friends into something that is supposed to be just between us.

I am also starting to think she never loved me for me for ME. I feel she only loved the things I was providing her with, like my love and attention, my care for her and support I constantly gave her. And now that she is dating with him, she doesn't need me anymore. I could literally disappear and they would still be happy and not effected in any way. Am I in the wrong for feeling betrayed? Or is it my view on it that is wrong.