Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Me and my girlfriend live together. She works more than I do and that is what's keeping me from saying anything to her.

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She has a bad habit of just throwing her clothes wherever and leaving dishes in the sink and just generally making the house a mess and not cleaning it up until it's effecting her. Whenever it's gotten bad enough to where I spend a whole day cleaning she tells me "well, i was gonna clean tomorrow when I had time" but the thing is "tomorrow" never comes. 

the only time she ever mentions cleaning is when I am pissy and am cleaning up because the house is a mess. I know she works more than me so I bite my tounge and just say "i know, but i want it done now, it's gonna give me anxiety seeing the place a mess like this all day" because I don't want her to work more than me AND have to clean all the time.

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But I am very sick of her saying she was GONNA do something. I don't know if this is even worth bringing up and if i'd be an asshole to do so. 