Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : So some background, me and my mother cared for my father for two years in hospice after he was diagnosed with intestinal cancer and his chemo treatment had failed and as he fought for those two years and passed away mid 2018 from it.

well fast forward about a month and half later and my aunt's marriage is falling apart from reasons i don't know, but she ends up moving in with my mom. 

well a few months later around October - November she has a boyfriend.....i think "ok, already moved on from a marriage rather quickly but cool.... i guess", but not my business. 

Now to where my thoughts on maybe im the asshole start to come in. 

my mom hates gunfire and always spent it with my father as he was always the protector of the family and made her feel safe and she barley got pasted Thanksgiving and Christmas without him for her first time. 

so when my mom asked my aunt to spend new years with her at the casino to get away from the gunfire and eat at the buffet which i thought was best as my mom needs company and companionship as me and my brothers all have our own lives and can't be there all the time for her especially with our own families now.

so my aunt i guess that it would be a great idea to invite her to me rather new boyfriend who she invited to Thanksgiving even though nobody ever met the guy to the outing with my mom.

well i obviously didn't think it was anywhere near a smart idea to make my mom her third wheel when she just lost my dad after 40+ years together.

and now my mom and aunt are fighting about this and my aunt may have to move out. 

so Am I The Asshole for thinking my aunt was an asshole for bringing her boyfriend along with her when my mom planned it for just them so sisters could have fun?

my wife thinks what my aunt does is her business but i think if it effects my mom then its my business to. 