Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : So my SO is a student while I work a 9-5 job and I often go to the gym before and/or after work as well. I'm also often the one to plan, buy and cook dinner in the evenings mostly because I'm a better cook and get hungry first. My SO is also very busy with projects and studies outside of university hours and is often at university \~10-4 most days.

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But once we are both home she regularly asks me to do things simply because she can't be arsed, regardless of whether I'm busy and she's not, we're both busy, or both doing nothing. They're relatively simple things like walking the dog, going to the shops or going upstairs for something. And I feel guilty saying no but I really can't see why she couldn't just do it herself; especially when I'm busy cooking her dinner and she then asks me to go downstairs and get her something even though she's just laying on the sofa watching tv.

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Am I the asshole?