Today is an *anniversary* of when my boyfriend and I first started dating.  I have some extra money so I decided to send my boyfriend a pizza today. He told me he was just getting back from lunch but I figured that if he didn't want it now he could hold onto it in his company fridge and bring it home, since we wanted to spend the evening together. 

Lately all we ever get is frozen supreme pizzas, so I ordered him a large Supreme with Handtossed Crust and some things called cinnamon twists. I texted him and told him I was having a present delivered and he would need to sign for it.


So I tell the pizza place that he specifically needs to sign for it, and I'm excited, waiting at my desk for the text saying he got his food, because I figured even if he didn't want it right now, he'd have stuff to snack on later. 


The delivery time comes and passes and I end up telling him his present was pizza, and I needed to know if he got it or not, and he says, "oh the supreme? I didn't get any." 
So I'm immediately upset because I think someone else signed for it and ate the food I bought for him. 


I ask him if he signed for it and he just says "why would you send it to a place where a bunch of old dudes work and expect them not to eat it all?" 


So I call the business, thinking someone else had signed my receipt, effectively stealing the product I purchased for my boyfriend, because he didn't specify that he signed for it, and he didn't get a single slice of the pizza or a single cinnamon twist. 


I got his boss on the line when I called in, and I asked if they knew who signed for the pizza, because I was told that he didn't get any. She said he did sign for it, and he told her, "She should know me well enough to know that I don't like supreme pizza," and refused to eat it. His boss said "I tried to get him to at least eat a cinnamon twist, but he didn't want to." 


So I text him to ask why he gave it away, and he wouldn't answer, and the conversation ended up devolving into him practically yelling at me through text saying that sending him the pizza was dumb, he signs for things every day, how was he supposed to know the pizza was for him, that I shouldn't have called his work because he would get into a lot of trouble if the BIG BOSS had answered the phone. 


I am now terribly upset because I'm out $30, and I didn't want to feed his coworkers, I wanted the pizza to be for him. I was under the impression the pizza was stolen, but it wasn't, he'd just given it away. And on this day that is supposed to be at least somewhat special, the one nice thing I was able to do for him was not even slightly appreciated, and he's furious at me for calling his company to see who signed for it, when I asked him directly several times. I had no idea what kind of tip was left, and I was upset that he hadn't eaten, and had no idea who charged the tip to my card. 


And then being told that he doesn't even like supreme pizzas, when thats all he eats at home when we get frozen pizzas. I don't pick that style, he does. 


At this point he's texted me saying "BIG BOSS found out, bosslady told him. All I heard was "Why does that involve you!?" So thanks. I could get in big trouble for this."


So am I the asshole? Did I overreact? 

The big issue seems to be me calling in. I just wanted to make sure someone else didn't sign off and claim the pizza. 
I was just trying to do something nice and now I'm super upset. It might be an overreaction but the way he was talking to me through text and how angry he seemed to get over a PIZZA of all things had me so upset I started crying and had to step away from the office. 


*not specifying the length of relationship because that shouldn't matter in this context.

