Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Go ahead, call me an asshole or a cold bastard. But I've contemplated this many times. In fact, I'm afraid to have sex and lose my virginity solely because of that one accident it takes, even with protection, to get a girl pregnant. I'm legitimately considering getting a vasectomy a few years after I graduate college and get my own healthcare and whatnot as a safeguard. I know I'd probably be ostracized by my family but oh well.

And don't get me wrong, I love my baby nephew. He is so adorable and curious and he always lifts everyone's spirits when he's around. Some of my fondest memories thus far have been of when he would stay at my house and my parents and I would have to babysit him while my brother and his fiance were having some free time away from him for once. I'd go into the bedroom and see him just starting to wake up from a nap and watch his face light up. 

But then I quickly come back down to earth and realize how little patience I have for the crying and whining.