Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : I dated a girl "F" for 2 years. We had gotten close and my family really took a liking to her. My mom, specifically, got along well with her and they frequently texted and chatted on facebook.

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Flash forward toward the end of our relationship. We weren't too attracted to each other anymore and the nail in the coffin was when I found out she had been seeing someone for a few weeks. She lied multiple times over the whole thing. First that it was just casual flirting, then kissing, and I finally found out they had sex. Whatever, we broke up, I blocked her, and moved on.

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This is where I start getting frustrated. My mom and F remained good friends in the past year we haven't dated. I know, my mom's an adult and she can make her own decisions but it really bothered me. I've never been terribly close with my family since I moved away but I found out F and my mom had been talking about me (my mom overshares everything) as well over this past year and it feels like a huge breach of trust since she's told her what I've been up to, who I'm dating, etc. Worst of all she told me how F's current BF looks just like me and sent me a fucking picture.

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Like, really? I asked my mom multiple times over this past year to not talk to F out of respect but this crossed a line for me and I refused to come out for xmas holidays. She's been really upset since holidays mean a lot to her and I feel awful cause my sister mentioned how hurt my mom was but I feel like my feelings have been disregarded too. These wounds are constantly being re-opened despite my feelings on the matter.

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I guess it's just a touchy subject and it feels like my pleas are on deaf ears as she just shrugs it off when I bring up how that bothers me.