Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : So, my girlfriend works at a small restaurant. There are 3 employees there, plus two owner/managers. 

One of the two employees is a friend of mine, he actually got my girlfriend the job there. We'll call him Travis, because his name is Travis. The other employee, we'll call Todd, because his name is not Todd.

For as long as Travis has worked there, Todd has been a dick to him. As a matter of fact, Todd has been a dick to all of their (male) employees since Travis has worked there, going on 2 years now. Todd doesn't do dishes, Todd doesn't scrub floors, Todd doesn't help new people, and Todd talks back to managers. Todd has been there for six years and is related to the owners, so Todd is allowed to do pretty much whatever he wants. Todd, however, is kind to female employees. All of the things he doesn't do, he offers to do so that female employees don't have to.

Todd is extremely kind to my girlfriend, chatty even, but has nothing for anyone that has a penis. There have been a few times where I've been a few minutes early to pick her up from work, gone inside, only for him to tell me that I'm not allowed to sit there and wait for her to get off work.

Where she works, the parking lot is very small. Besides employee parking, there are only two parking spots for customers. There would be only one spot in my girlfriend drove her own vehicle. This is mostly a delivery business, but sometimes people eat in. I digress, the last three nights I've gone to pick her up, Todd has been parked diagonally across two parking spaces. The past two nights, she said that he was probably just in a rush to get inside the store as they had been busy. Tonight, Todd had apparently pulled into the parking lot not long before me because I witnessed him deliberately (at least it looked deliberate, he definitely kept turning to be more outside of the lines) park poorly. I rolled my window down and told him to fix his parking. He flipped me off as he was walking in the store. I revved my engine.

Tonight I complained to my girlfriend about having to park in the middle of the parking lot because he was parked poorly. Her response was "We're you revving your engine in the parking lot? You're going to get me in trouble."

She sees him as a nice coworker, she doesn't see him as anything but kind at helpful. She says that he is "reserved" with males. It's been an argument or an "I'm not doing this right now" conversation every time he comes up.

I'm sure I'm being insecure, but Reddit, AITA?