Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Backstory: I go to my grandmas quite often and when I subconsciously keep the room tidy, but I have noticed when I am at home I dont give a shit about my room and it gets messy very quickly.

So today I was doing some homework and my mum comes in and asks 'why do you not want to help us?' I responded with 'what do you mean'. This goes on until I told her that I just dont like the room and that might be why I subconsciously leave it messy. She slowly starts to break into tears and say that me and your dad have tried our hardest to make this room as good as possible. And walked out the room in tears. 

Now I am here wondering what to do, am I in the wrong?