Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : I am traveling to Nashville for business with some co-workers. I’ve never been there and I’m a huge bluegrass fan. There is a major lineup at the Grand Ole Opry the first night in town and I really want to go. I extended an invitation mostly to be polite as I know that kind of music doesn’t appeal to everyone. The group leader responded by saying that a big wig from the organization has decided to come along (unexpectedly) and wants to go to dinner. This isn’t my boss as it’s a professional organization and not my employer. Am I the asshole for opting for a unique experience?