Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : o backstory here, I live in a 2 bedroom house with one other housemate. We have known each other for about 3 years are pretty decent friends. We used to live in a house with 3 other guys and this year we moved into a new place. It’s a really rad house with a cool yard. The only downside is the rooms are adjoining so it’s really eSy to heAr between the rooms or into the living room. Also, since I make a lot money than my friend and didn’t want to live with a random, I agreed to pay about 60% more rent than him for a similar room. While this bothers me some times, I still liked it better than sharing a small space with another person I don’t know.

More backstory: about the time we moved in my buddy had recently broke up with his girlfriend. I’m single too so naturally we have been living like savages and going out, getting hammered and generally having a good time.

Fast forward to about two months ago. I left for the weekend and on that Saturday my friend called me to tell me he had hooked up with a chick. He had been slumping after breaking up with how girlfriend so I was happy for him. I come back that Sunday to find his new girl was there, and she has been there pretty much every moment my roommate has been home since. If I come home before my Roommate, his girlfriend is usually already there Starting to make dinner. They bang a lot and it makes me feel awkward since it’s so easy to hear between the rooms. I know my friend has the right to have a girlfriend and I don’t want to stop him from doing that, but the issue is that she is literally always there, and they don’t ever really spend time at her house. Most nights I’m home I feel like I’m awkwardly intruding on their dinner date, since most every night they cook dinner and watch a movie I and never go out.

Am I the asshole here for being annoyed by this? I feel like my house that I pay a lot of money for isn’t really my house anymore. Obviously I’d want my friend to be ok with it if I had a girlfriend, but I feel like what they do is excessive since they’re at the house all day everyday and I never get to enjoy the house without having people over.