Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : So for the past 6 years I have been best friends with this girl. We were extremely close and touchy but always platonic. I was attracted to her to an extent but valued our friendship way too much to try anything. She began dating this guy long distance and around 4 months later we started hooking up. Basically every time we did we both were drunk after a party. We never talked about it and we never told anyone. Until one time I left her neck covered in hikeys(idk how you spell that) .  Keep in mind I have never given a hikey before and had no idea how I did. She was forced to tell one of our close friends and it got weird.  But the weirdest part was that she still would pretend like it never happened. Now it’s been 2 years and she has told her bf who she is still dating and we are still very close but I can tell we are continuing to drift. She seems to think that this is my fault and I should respect her choice to pretend it never happened and never speak on it again. I want to talk about so we can finally get over it as I feel like it’s still there,hindering our friendship. Am I the asshole in this situation? 