Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : My wife and I work odd shifts and sometimes we have to take a nap when we get home from work in the morning. I had just gotten off of a 24 hour shift that morning and was only able to get a couple of hours of sleep afterwords. So, I got up and I met her in the kitchen to say good morning and start the day. About 20 minutes into our conversation and breakfast/lunch she realizes that she has an appointment and has to rush out the door. She usually drives herself to her appointments. She asked me 12 minutes before her appointment time if I would drive her. I was not prepared to do so. She then said never mind and tried to call for an Uber which wasn’t available and then she ended up driving herself. 

Am I the asshole for not just taking her?