Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : Long story short my cousins are from Italy and the whole family flew over here to Australia for my wedding last year. 

Now the cousins wedding is in July and I am expected to go.

 Honestly I don’t want to go overseas just because of the wedding and especially that I’ll have to take time off work which means I won’t be paid for certain period. I can probably get the money to go but honestly I just don’t want to go. 

I’ve been getting told by my wife that I’m being selfish. What do you guys think? 
