Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : I love my sister. I’m very proud of her. She went from doing poorly in high school to getting into college and eventually doing well in her classes. However, she is very needy and relies a lot on family members for help. I took the role as her emotional rock when I lived with her and helped to mediate her many fights with my parents. I helped her stay upright when she was having mental health issues, cooking for her when she wouldn’t feed herself and encouraging her to clean and go out, basically being there for her whenever she needed me. Despite our closeness I was pretty relieved when she left for college. I felt as though a weight had been lifted off my shoulders, the responsibility of another persons life was taken from me and given back to them. I continued to do well in school and recently got accepted into my college of choice. The thought of being my own person and moving away from my family, who I had my own problems with, was very exciting to me. However, when I visited the college as an accepted student, my sister decided she wanted to transfer there. I haven’t said anything to her to make her think this was a bad idea, as I don’t want to be selfish. I love my sister very much but the idea of having any facet of my life being my own sounds so new and liberating. This was supposed to be my thing, the beginning of me being my own person. Anyone with a slightly older sibling will understand what I’m talking about here, everything you’ve accomplished so far has been recently done by them, making your achievements not as memorable or important. Now even my drop off at the start of the first semester will mean little as my sister will be there too, doing the same thing in the same place. I just want one part of my life to be new, my own. (Ever since we were children I was forced to do whatever she did, sports, classes, hand me down clothes, etc) Am I being selfish? It is a good school and I want her to do well, just, somewhere else.

TL;DR: AITA for not wanting my emotionally needy sister to transfer to the college I’m attending?