Me and this person have been "friends" for a while now. She has the hint that my real friends and I don't actually like her. She is extremely toxic, she lies for no reason, puts people down to make herself feel better, only talks about herself, invalidates peoples problems by claiming she had it worse. She tells people others' secrets and spreads false rumors about people who have done nothing to her. She tried to make one of my real friends dislike another one of my real friends by making up a story (it didn't work). She lies for pity and seeks attention. She uses people for her own benefit. I wont clarify what they are, but she's lied about very serious topics before. She makes an effort to humiliate people in public.She'll go on and on for hours about her problems but when you tell her about yours, she'll make excuses to end the conversation or turn it back on her.

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Me and my friends were talking about how much we disliked her and how toxic she was earlier. We even made a nickname and all so we could talk about her in public. The thing is, my friends and I talked about her toxicity for a long time.  (She is toxic to my friends as well)

 When she had a problem and was trying to rant to us (my real friends and I) about it, (to gain pity as usual) all i said was "Aw that sucks" and bland things like that, then I looked at memes and didn't actually comfort her. She doesn't say hi to me or my real friends in the hallway anymore because we didn't make an effort to comfort her when she was going through something.

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TLDR: My friends and i dissed a toxic and manipulative person behind her back, and didn't comfort her when she was looking for sympathy.

AITA?

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