A little backstory, I'm a senior in High School and currently working between 25-30 hours every week to pay for a college education and to have money on the side. My family is far from lower class but my parents have repeatedly threatened to not pay for my college education as soon as I do something they don't agree with. Just to give you some examples, so you don't think I'm a snot nosed brat whining about how my mommy won't let me play video games 24/7, the things I did which pissed them off include: coming out as gay, having left leaning views, and hanging out with \*gasp\* people who aren't white. I solved this problem by getting a job and having a reliable back-up plan if they ever decide to totally cut me off. I work in fast food and as much stigma as the job gets for being a "dumb persons job" it really is a lot of work and moving around especially if you work 6,7,or 8+ hours at a time.

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Anyways, I'm constantly getting shit from my family for not being home as much, grades dropping from 95's to 89's and 90's (ikr), etc. Today, I do so much as open my mouth about how tired I am. I immediately hear from my sister "well your the one who chose to get a job". Um excuse me, wtf? I point out that regardless of whether I chose to get a job or not, work is still work and definitely not fun and that I don't appreciate being put down for choosing to be slightly more independent. She responds with "I'm not putting you down, just reminding you that you chose to get this job that you don't need so you can't complain." This spiraled into a 30 minute argument over whether or not she was putting me down/if I have the right to complain. Honestly, I wouldn't even be asking this subreddit or questioning being right here if my ENTIRE family hadn't agreed with my sister. So, AITA?