So me and this girl "Kris", met at summer camp many years ago. We're both 22, and have been together since we were 17. Anyhow, I'm a really introverted guy. I can have fun with friends just fine, especially after a few drinks, but other than that I don't really like talking to people, at all. It's not that I dislike people, I just hate talking to them. This has been an issue between the 2 of us since the beginning, and Kris always complained that I wouldn't let her in, since I'm not much for talking.

I'm a guy that likes to solve his own problems, and to me talking about feelings and shit is more trouble than it's really worth. She's been upset about this though, and was telling her friends that she thought I was uninterested in her, since I never talked to her, or texted her. I was interested, of course, but I don't like talking, and her complaining about me not talking just got really annoying and naggy tbh.

When I found out she talked to her friends about this I blew up, and started telling her that she shouldve respected MY DECISION, and that if she's gonna go behind my back like that, talking shit about me, I have no reason to stay with her, especially since she has pushed me about the communication thing for years now. I calmly told her to get out of my apartment, slammed the door shut, and promptly blocked her on everything.

Her sister, and her best friend have both texted me saying that this breakup is destroying her, and that I was irrational to get so worked up about her issues with me, but I feel that our business was OURS, and that she should have taken the hint and just accepted that i dont like talking years ago. I told both of them that there was no way I was gonna "fix" this, and that's about the end of it for now. (It happened friday night for those wondering). So... Am I the asshole??

TLDR, longterm Gf, after pushing and nagging me to talk to her more apparently started complaining to her friends that she thought i was uninterested in her, I blew up, and told her to get out. I blocked her, and have since yesterday been bombarded with messages from her sister and best friend about how "this breakup is killing her", but I'm not gonna fix this, she pushed me too far. AITA?