On mobile, throwaway account, but English is my first language.

So I woke up this morning and grabbed my phone to stall away time on my day off. After about 10 minutes I notice that my Note 5 is connected to the internet but is telling me "internet may not be available." Meaning I may as well not be connected to the internet.

I don't usually get this error so I look it up, hoping to see if there is a simple solution. Fortunately I'm in luck and the general consensus is to restart the router. So I get dressed and find Mom is already awake and watching TV. So I let her know what's wrong and ask if I can reset the router.

She said dad was asleep so not to be loud. (I talk loudly so i quieted down) She also tell me to turn off my phone and turn it back on and see if that would work. I let her know what I've looked up online but she wouldn't budge, so I said fine and went back to my room to reset my phone. That way if it worked I could just continue on. Lo and behold after a couple of minutes it didnt work. So I come back out and tell her so.

She asks for my phone saying she's gonna try a couple more things, (note, she's not the most tech literate person) and I comply. I mention the router solution again and ask what's she's doing. Turns out she's turning off my phone, and turning it back on. At this point we are both having attitude with each other. (we are both stubborn so it happens whenever we disagree) I again bring up resetting the router and she told me no.

I ask why and she says because I said so. What a wonderful reason. At this point I realise she has no idea how to fix the problem and wont bother listening to me. So search the router for the reset button and find it's one of those hidden ones you need a paperclip for. That way at least one of us is going to get something done. It's not like she's using it. Thinking at least All the while she's threatening me not to or she will keep the router off. (A pretty empty threat because for me it already is) 

I find a pencil that will reach the button and she finally gives me a good reason not to. Because she is watching a show on the android box we use instead of cable. Finally I reason. I ask if she can pause it, and note the time. and she says it's live and can't be paused. I never bothered looking at the show so I just took her word for it.

I stepped away from the router and sat down. She suggested I make myself breakfast on coffee while I wait for her to fix my phone (forgot she still had it, doing God knows what)

As i was making my coffee I let her know that after the show ends I would reset the router. She gave the the steriotypical say that again. We had a short back and forth before dad woke up. Both of us tried explaining what happened. Fortunately she was the first to give him attitude so he took my side.

Mom went to the bathroom, so I explained the situation in full to Dad. We both agreed to reset the router after Mom's show was over. After she came back Dad informed her and we all waited for the show to end. 

Dad reset it as I was eating breakfast. As soon as it went back up my internet started working again. I let them know and finished up my meal. I took my coffee into my room to finish it, but as I got to the hall, Mom spoke up.

"Where is my thank you?"

... I was stunned...

I told her "All you did was reset my phone a couple of times and I looked up the answer. Dad and I were the only ones to do anything here, so... I'm sorry."

She was shocked and was about to chew me out, but Dad stopped her by saying she walked into, and deserved it. With that I went into my room and finished up my coffee. I finished it and went to the kitchen to put it into the sink. They were talking about the incident. Regretfully I rubbed it in a bit on my way back, then queue 5 to 10 minutes of standing there listening as they tell me everything wrong about asking why.

Long story short they said I'm an immature baby (not an exaguration, Dad said that 5 or 6 times... I'm 20 years old) compared to them and as a result I have no say and should do what they say with no question because I'm in the shit end of a dictatorship and I couldn't possibly help them.

All I ask for is a good reason and that "because I said so" isn't a good reason, and if I was told from the beginning that she's using the internet I would have hapily waited (which I did do after the bullshit)

They just kept saying I don't get a reason because "We don't give a shit" and i dont deserve a reason. Because I'm an immature baby, Dad gave the example of taking milk away from a baby so it doesn't overeat and vomit. And how you can't explain to the baby what's going on.

Am I the asshole here? 