Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : I live with three other guys. One Turkish, One Spanish and one Czech.

I was talking to Turkey this morning. And I told him we should go out for a couple beers and chill tonight. Not heavy drinking or partying but just some beers and conversations. He gives me a bunch of excuses. And he ALWAYS does this. And it's usually unrelated stuff.

Now it is perfectly fine to not do things you don't wanna do. But you need to be honest and just say "no I do not want to do that". And I will accept it and make other plans with other people. But he doesn't do that. He just gives me a bunch of excuses and maybe's and makes me wait all day and i can't make any other plans and in the last second he says it's too late now and cancels it.

But today was the last straw for me. I asked him and he gives me the usual bullshit excuses. I debunk all the excuses while trying to not be too pushy. And he just gives me another excuse. So I tell him like I always do "dude if you don't wanna do it just tell me no. It's totally ok if you say no and I won't get offended or anything." He gives me another excuse... So after civilly arguing about this for like 2 hours he says "ok we'll go and I'll invite some people"

After that I went to my bedroom. And I fell asleep. I woke up at around 6 pm. We have plenty of time. I go to the living room and he was chilling on the couch with Spain. I asked him "are we going?" No answer. I don't wanna be pushy but I need to start getting ready if we're going out so a couple minutes later I ask again "did you invite the people" he says nothing. Didn't make a sound like I was some ghost. So I turned to Spain and said "you wanna go out for a couple beers with us?" He said he's gonna go to the gym so he can't go and I dropped it right there. Turkey still not saying anything. Then I went for a cigarette on the balcony and Turkey followed me. We were smoking and I said "dude you have to make a decision because I know that in about an hour you're gonna be like 'Oh I would like to go but it's too late now'"

Meanwhile we were done smoking so we went back inside and kept talking and after a while sure enough he says "it's too late now" i said "ok so we won't go but next time tell me earlier so I can make other plans" but then suddenly Spain says "alright dude i'll skip gym tonight let's go" Turkey is already in his room getting ready to go out. 

I don't say anything. I pretend to get ready with them. And once everyone's all ready with their coats on about to leave, I go back to my room without saying anything. When they notice I'm not with them first Spain knocks on my door and says "aren't you coming?" I say no politely and then Turkey knocks on my door and says "come on dude we're leaving" I tell him to Fuck off aggressively. He thinks it's a joke and asks again laughing and i get more and more aggressive everytime he asks and then he leaves silently probably heart broken because I've never talked to him like that before.