Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Throwaway for obvious reasons, also not sure about the formatting issues, but I am on mobile. 

Title kind of says it all.

So I am very early into a pregnancy that I am miscarrying. I was recently starting to suspect I was pregnant, and going to discuss it with my husband. Later in the day, the bleeding began. I have had successful pregnancies with bleeding and miscarriages before, the bleeding is different for me.
Two days after the bleeding started, I had my annual GYN exam. I told the doctor my concerns, after a few minor tests, he confirmed that I was miscarrying a baby.

Now comes the part that makes me question if I am an asshole, I really don't want to tell my husband.

My reasons for this are mostly that he will shut down emotionally and not want to talk about it anyway, which hurts me far more than just dealing with it alone, and that we have a lot of other things going on in our lives at the moment. This seems like something unnecessary to pile on him.

I feel so guilty and like I am being very selfish and have a lot of mixed feelings about telling him.

Am I the asshole?
