Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : I work in construction management and I am the only female in our jobsite office. I use coarse language but only when I'm frustrated or stressed. My voice is small and my general demeanor is kind of dainty so it often comes as a shock to some people. Well there's a new guy in the office and he absolutely hates it. Says it's not lady like (mind you, he's never complained about the guys who curse up a storm). I used to ignore him but his constant crusades about morality are ruining my otherwise very fun work environment so as an act of pure pettiness, I curse even more around him. But that's not the reason why I'm asking AITA.

He's an older guy who is a few years from retirement. When he got hired he claimed he was OK with computers but that's clearly a lie. He's no good with any of our software; he couldn't even handle a switch from outlook to gsuite and is in constant confusion. I've tried helping him out, even creating written outlines of how to use certain software but he ends up pushing everything back on me to just do for him (note: he never asks any of the guys). He laughs it off and says, oh you can't teach old dogs new tricks.

So after 2 months of being his unwilling personal assistant and IT support, he decided to have an info session on a new application the company started implementing. Honestly, it's an intuitive app and the training wasn't really necessary; nevertheless, he made it mandatory for the whole team. Midway through, I got fed up and started complaining at how useless it was to have a training on something we all know how to use. He shushed me and literally said "I'm trying to teach you something young lady." This honestly irked me more than it should have and I went on an expletive filled speech about how I've been trying to teach him how to do his job for months and how he uses his lack of computer skills to dump all his work onto the younger staff members. He went speechless for a minute and then said that my foul language made him feel uncomfortable and I was a manner less girl and he'd be going to HR about my inability to behave appropriately. Like really? Of all the things I said to him, he was upset the most my my cursing? I'll admit that my words were harsh but that's not even what he took offense to! Some of my coworkers thought it was hilarious but my PM thought I went too far which is why I'm asking, AITA?

