Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : Background: I am a law student and work. My wife works two days a week, takes online community college classes, and stays home with our baby the rest of the time. 

So I have a lot of my plate. Generally, Monday-Thursday I leave at 6AM and get home between 8-9PM. When I get home I usually need to do dishes so I can make dinner and then I pretty much go straight to bed. I watch the baby on Friday while wife works and I use that time to get all of the weeks grocery shopping done. 

My complaint is, when I get home at night there are dishes piled up, the laundry hasn't been done, and it basically doesn't look like she does any house work during the day. She says that watching the baby and homework keeps her SOOOOO busy but I can't see how that takes up every day.... I have been watching the baby by myself this weekend and I got the shopping done, did my reading, vacuumed, did all the laundry, and meal prepped for the week. What am I missing?