So i met this girl abroad 5 months ago, we instantly hit it off and fell in love, we stuck together until 2 weeks ago when i had to return to my home country. We both want her to move to me and live here after we have sorted out her visa and i have gotten confirmation about my next job assignment. We agreed that frequent facetime calls was a good idea to keep our relationship alive and have good communication, we also text a fair bit. 3 days ago she didnt call me before bed like usual, no problem for me, i understand that people want their own time or are tired sometimes, i am aswell. The second day she said her roomate is sleeping so she dont want to call (wich has never been a problem, even talked loud and laughed before many times wich was no problem for the roomate becasue she sleeps really deep) i was feeling like this was an excuse for something, but i shrugged it off and went to bed. The third day she told me she was going out with her friends to party, i said alright have fun and please text me when you are home safe, she promised to do so so we could have a quick chat. I woke up in the middle of the night with no text from her so i try to contact her (way past bar closing times) but to no success wich made me worried something had happened. she then woke up later (around 6) and said ''sorry just passed out when i got home'', i texted ''what happened?'' wich she saw but didnt answer and went back to sleep i guess. Then at lunch the day after i get a little salty and tell her that its not okay to just blow off promises and that it made me worry like hell (not really a city known for peace &amp; love) and that i didnt ask for much, just a text. Then today she told me she was getting off the night shift early so she could get some good sleep, and i said ''Alright good, call me before bed so we can atleast see each other for a minute'' to wich she replied ''no im going straight to sleep im tired''. 

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I feel like she doesnt care for the calls anymore and that its just excuses, its really not a hard thing to do, its usually very short calls but they do so much and its one of the only things that keeps the distance from feeling shorter for us. I feel like everyone has a minute to call their significant other, its just a minute..

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AITA for feeling irritated at this?