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So I started working in a warehouse with over 100 employees about a month ago. I pretty much talk and chitchat with everyone. This one girl was seemed more shy and reserved compared to other people. When I tried to smile at her or nod, I could never get any eye contact. I didn’t think much of it, until my co worker told me she was transgender. I thought it was a bit weird that she randomly just said that to me, but I thought it explained maybe why she was shy or quite. So next time I saw her, I wanted to try and talk to her, so I told her that I liked her pink hair (which a do). She was SO happy and her face lite up so much and she just started talking to me non stop about her hair. I was happy that I was able to “break the ice”. 
Last week my husband came and got me at work, and in the parking lot I was talking to her with my husband. When she left, my husband looked at me and asked: what the heck was that? 
I was confused and asked him what I did....? And he told me that he NEVER saw me talk like that to another girl. The “omg I looovvveeeeeeee your outfit ! Where in the world did you get it ?! You look so cute and adorable!!!” 
I felt really bad when he told me that, cause in that moment I realized that never do I talk to other people like that. Or talk about purses and makeup and super girly stuff and that I kinda change my voice when I talk to her. I didnt even realize I did that around her or why I do it. I don’t want to seem like an a hypocrite or something. Aita?
