Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : Throwaway for reasons that might be apparent later on, and some family knows my main.

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So a little background, me and my best friend have known each other for about 4 years now and we met and primarily know each other online as we live on opposite sides of the US.  We bonded at the time over playing a couple mutual games and through knowing a few mutual friends as well and didn't become best friends until \~1 year ago, when we started to bond over our common depression and whatnot, and we are pretty open about our episodes, possibly a bit too open.  They've also been in therapy (I don't know for how long) for it.

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So about a month or two ago, we were talking about a few things, I don't really remember what about, but one of the things was how we act and personalities/ depression stuff, the usual.   I started venting and I talked about how I thought I might've had BPD (still not sure) as many of the regular criteria for BPD I thought I met when I looked it up, although, with the internet, well, being the internet, I wasn't completely sure.  I started thinking for a few minutes about their personality and what they show me and what they talk about and I also started matching it up to the symptoms of BPD as well and found similar matching to the criteria as well, I don't know if it was like 90% of them, but it was certainly enough to bring it up.  They asked to see the criteria and she herself said "Yeah I actually think that fits me pretty well too." And then conversation ends shortly there-after. And I thought we were done with that, with some new things learned here and there

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Then, somewhat recently, like within the past week or so, they told me about how they had a therapist appointment between that conversation and then, and as the title says, my friend told me "I told my therapist about how you said I might have BPD, and they said we shouldn't be friends anymore and that I shouldn't have people like you in my life".  She disagreed with her therapist and said that I was just trying to be helpful and I agreed at the time. Also, since I feel like someone might ask, I don't know if she's talked with her therapist other times, and if she has, what they talked about other than this.

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However, I still can't help but feel at least a little guilty and was unsure whether the therapist might've been in the right and if I was in the wrong here.

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