Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : My mom had head surgery and one of our family friends called her and said they were going to be in town (for another event) and wanted to drop by after. 

When she said she just had surgery.. “we want to see how you’re doing”. 

My mom is kind of a pushover, especially when it comes to saying no to people so I sent them this message.

“She just had surgery and is resting. Any movement of the jaw like laughing, talking, etc isn’t good for her and might cause the stitches to open so I’m just worried. If you guys do come over tomorrow, try not to get her active/excited. Again, socializing/talking too much etc might cause her stitches to open.

I know it’s convenient for your mom and family to come over because they’re going to be in town. But her stitches are still fresh and you know she’s going to laugh/talk when she sees everyone. You’re literally family and you know ily so I’m just being super blunt”

Family friends are upset and talking crap about me.
Am I the asshole? 