My coworkers and I are planning a trip to Vegas. For reference, I’m a woman and gay, we’re all in early 20s, and there will be a total of 3 girls and 3 guys on the trip (including myself in this count). Maybe important to note that this is my first time going to Vegas.

I usually don’t dress up and I usually don’t wear very girly clothes, so it was difficult for me to find a good outfit. My coworkers (the ones I’m going on the trip with) went shopping with me to help me pick out some outfits. After trying on a good number of dresses that I didn’t feel suited me, I finally found a lace romper that I thought suited me well. Basically, it was black romper, short, and lace from the midriff up. The lace covers my boob area and the rest is transparent but I’ll be wearing pasties to prevent any possible nipslips.

I sent a picture of me wearing the romper to my gf (she’s not going on the Vegas trip) and she says that it’s too revealing of an outfit. I reassured her that I would be wearing pasties so no one is going to see my boobs or anything, but she is insistent that it’s still too much. We ended up getting into an argument. She said that what I was wearing wasn’t safe. She trusts me not to cheat on her, so that wasn’t the issue here, but she’s afraid guys would try to look or touch. Her reasoning is that it’s a safety issue, but I think it’s a bit overprotective. I told her I’m not going to get blackout drunk (I never have) and I was going to be responsible and I was going to stick with my coworkers and my friend (whom she has met before). To that, she said that even if I were responsible, other people in the club might not be. I ended up telling her to stop policing my body because that’s what I felt like it was. She thought it was ridiculous that I thought she was doing such a thing, so I can’t tell if I was overreacting or not. AITA?
