Hi everyone! Let me start with my fiancée is an amazing woman and we get along really well. She’s typically very thoughtful and kind, but this event has us at complete opposites. 

A little background. My fiancée, for sake of the convo will be called Jill, isn’t very good at budgeting her time. We tend to be late or I get stressed when we cut it close to meeting times. I find it rude or disrespectful to tell people you’ll be somewhere at a certain time and show up late. Anyway, we had a wedding to attend about 30 min from our house that started at 4:30. At around 1:30 our convo went like this:

Me: I’m going to throw in some laundry, do you need anything thrown in?
Jill: I’ll throw my clothes for the wedding in, Will they be dry by then?
Me: Probably but up to you. Also as a heads up, we have to leave at 3:45 at the absolute latest to make it on time. If you need two hours, start now. 
Jill: I’ll be fine. 

We have this convo a lot. Anyway, 3:45 hits, she’s still naked, her clothes are slightly damp, and she’s not ready. I get a little upset because this always happens and I don’t want to walk in as they are walking down the aisle. To my wrongdoing, I did raise my voice in frustration. I waited until 4:00 and said, “I can’t wait any longer. I’ll meet you there.” And I left. 

She’s mad because I am “impatient”, told her the clothes would be dry, and was mean by yelling at her. I think she’s being defensive because she knows she’s in the wrong. 

What do you all think? AITA for leaving my fiancée?