Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : He lives with us after being kicked out from his house after he hurt his back in the army and had to go home. He doesn't pay rent but he has a job, and frequently works overtime, up to 9 or 10 hours. From what I have seen online he has a TAPHOO 80W, and he can not conceal it in his hands because it's about the size of a 8oz coke can. On his days off when me and my brother get home from school the house smells like berry, and he keeps the windows and doors open and turns the heat off, so he doesn't have to go outside. I know for a fact he does it in the bathroom because he takes it with him, and he probably shoots it out the vent. When my parents aren't home he just does it out the window. He has purposefully set off the smoke detector twice by vaping directly into it.

I can tell my parents do not like confronting him, like they don't tell him to put the milk back when he leaves it out, or wash your dish if it's the only thing in the sink, or help take out the trash and recycle on Tuesdays,  they always ask me to tell him. He chipped my mom's treasured blender yesterday and didn't seem to think it was a big deal. He plays Clash Royale with my brother and sister (10F) and it affects my siblings because they are now less respectful and do not do chores or other tasks because it's a live game and they are constantly playing and waiting for new updates. 

This morning my parents told me that I have to be the one to tell him to stop vaping. I have been suffering with severe asthma for more than half my life and my father quit smoking when I was young. We also have a ONE year old in the household. I don't know what he is thinking but he never tries to hide it, maybe he thinks that my immigrant parents are stupid and don't know what it is, and he casually makes comments saying, "haha what if your parents walked in and said 'it smells good in here?'"

**My mom said that if he wants to vape he has to go out further than where our grass ends, about 20 feet, wear a jacket, leave the jacket outside, and wash his hands when he comes in. (The problem is he literally goes out every 5-10 minutes) My dad says that if I don't say anything he will have a talk with him, and my dad has never confronted him about other issues, because I always have to do it.** 

**WIBTA for forcing him to follow these rules or stop vaping?**

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