Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Last night my bf and I were playing a game and calling each other (we don’t live together). We had been playing for an hour and a half when he’s like “I don’t want to play anymore” and left the game. He told me we could still call and talk but he just didn’t want to play. At first I was like why not and tried to get him to play again, but he told me he was tired and planning on sleeping soon. I respected that so I stopped playing and asked if we could FaceTime for a few min before he went to sleep. I just wanted to see him because I barely saw him all day as we both had a pretty busy day. He declined and again told me he was tired and cut me off by saying good night. I tried to reason with him and brought up how minutes ago he literally told me we could talk. Without replying to what I just said, he hung up. 

This really ticked me off. It’s pretty rude to just hang up on someone without saying anything to what they just said unless both people make it clear that they’re done conversing (e.g. both people say bye and hang up). So I text him and tell him that it was kind of rude of him to just hang up on me like that and again bring up how he was the one who said we could talk because he didn’t reply when I said it the first time. He texts back saying he said good night and “drifted off” which doesn’t make sense because he’s very awake texting me back less than a minute after he hung up. He then tells me that I’m not respecting him and how tired he is because he had a long day (totally ignoring that I also had a long day) and asks if he really said we could talk as if I just made it up or something. We continue to argue about it for a while and he calls me clingy and problematic which is totally uncalled for. He also claims that we never FaceTime for a few minutes which is false because we’ve literally done it before. 

I don’t feel like I’m asked for a lot here, just a few minutes on FaceTime is all. I know he was tired but I feel like he could spare 5 minutes calling me especially if he could spare 30 minutes arguing. AITA for wanting to call him even though he was tired??