Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : It's always bugged me that she goes on her phone when we're in bed whether its after we've had sex or when we're just cuddling or spending time together. Watching TV or a movie is a different story but when we're in bed I want her to be focusing on me. 

I've asked her to stop many times because it makes me feel like she doesnt care about me or that she'd rather be on her phone than spend time with me. I've told her this and she tries her best but then sometimes she'll get a notification, look at it, and then get distracted with snapchat and start talking to her friends.

I understand if it's time sensitive or important but I dont appreciate her just talking to other people. 

Today she jokingly said "I'm going to go on my phone for 2 minutes and theres nothing you can do about it" so I left and she got upset.

Did I overreact? Is it too much to ask that she never goes on her phone when we're in bed? Maybe we should compromise in a way that I haven't thought of yet? Do most people go on their phones when they're in bed together and I'm just being weird?

Any help is greatly appreciated thanks in advanced.