Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : So backstory, I \[32m\] was asked to come along for 3 weeks for my friend's \[34f\] move to \[very cold northern state\] from where we lived. Reason for this being that she needs to do some training that would have involved her leaving her dog at pet hotel if I wasn't here. Since we left, I have been yelled at no less than a dozen times for a range of things including:

Changing the route from one that wasn't even expressed to me as having been fully intended even though it added an extra hour to an already 20 hour drive being done over the course of 2 days.

Missing telling her to turn in certain places when she was too busy yelling at someone on the phone to pay attention to what i was saying.

Mistakenly being honest with the apartment manager about when the packed and shipped possessions were going to be here when i was supposed to say nothing. The latter of which i was not informed about.

Walking 10' away from a shopping cart which in fairness to her had a purse in it. (I did this more than once, I haven't had a SO in several years and had simply forgotten the rules of being in a store with a woman.)

Attempting to explain that she can't do anything about the apartment not being 100% ready to move in upon her arrival and that if she's just patient management will get things done in the course of the next several weeks.

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To give her side of the story she graduated with an MBA recently and since then she had been seeking work in her chosen field. She got an opportunity that agreed to pay approximately half of her moving expenses, which haven't been cheap by any means. She had to break a lease and pay a deposit on a new one, ship the vast majority of her belongings by mover which costed a bundle. She started a period while we were on the road which I'm sure didn't help anything. She's also just under a lot of pressure for this to work out, it took her a long time to do all this and she's already in very deep with all the expenses and if things don't work out she'll have a lot more problems.

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I'm trying so hard to be as accommodating and pleasant as I can possibly be. I understand that she's under a lot of pressure and stressed out about things that have been going on.  I'm big on doing what I say, and I don't want to just leave her high and dry. However, it feels as if there should be a limit to the amount of abuse I'll just take. Am I the asshole for wanting to just walk 