Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : My father was given my grandmothers house. My father put my aunt on the house too as he felt bad she was not included in the will. 

Aunt passed away and because her name was half on the house it paid off the mortgage(a very small one for repairs). House then had her 2 daughters named added. 

My dad lived in the house from the day my grandmother passed, my aunt planned on building on the property(100 acres) on retirement which is why she was happy her name was on it too.

My father passed away. My stepmother continued to live in the house. Me and my cousins communicated often regarding the house and my stepmom living there and not taking care of the house or paying taxes. All conversations mentioned the house was all 4 of ours..my 2 cousins and me and my brother.  My dad from the time my aunt passed away repeatedly said the house is between the four of us and the cousins never debated this.

Well, until they sold the house and took the entire profit for themselves ($60,000).  They knew financially I could not fight it in court as in Canada this cannot go to small claims.

The fun part, the house taxes were never paid by my stepmom, so the house went up for tax sale. I informed my cousins as they do not live near by. I called the tax office and they said the house was only in one cousins name. 

At that point the house was sold and the agreement was the profit would be divided. After fees, taxes, travel, moving costs, lawyers, the profit was to be divided. It was casually mentioned by them daily it was the 4 of ours.

I am angry they did not divide it. They feel they are in the right and did nothing wrong, called me money hungry when I asked about my share. We have not spoken in 4 years. I feel that they led me to believe there would be no issue and the house would be divided evenly without question. 

Why this bothers me is I loved my cousins up until then. After that they were so cold about everything and denied it was ever mine.  I guess they knew all along but I didn't,  why talk for years like its ours? 

This week their father passed away. He was sweet and kind, no hard feelings there. Oddly enough they distanced themselves as he stole money from his mom. I want to message them and say sorry for your loss. I am, but I really don't want to speak with them. If they would admit wrong doing maybe...but... I want to forgive them but I just cannot. They both inherited half a million from an aunt, they did not need they extra 30,000. It would have helped me and my family greatly. 

I honestly cannot get rid of my disgust for them. Do I have money issues?  I am kind to everyone I know, I work with people with disabilities, I can look past do much in my field of work. I feel guilty for not being able to look past it. 

Should I forgive and forget? Is family more important than money..yes it is but it feels like stealing. 
