So I live with my family, we get along great, I help with works around the house daily, and i help with our bigger cleaning that we do every weekend.

i’m 17, I have a job and also go to art school so I have a lot of homeworks and very little free time. I have a boyfriend and a group of friends.

I usually spend my fridays at the bf and then go home.

My mom seems to have a problem with this, she always says how I’m a bad daughter because I’d rather be with my friends/bf than with her.

When I stay home and say that we should go somewhere we always end up only cleaning the house anyways - and then her crying because I can’t choose a place where i want to go with her. 

the thing is i don’t really want to go somewhere with her when i can be with people that i have more fun with. 

for example today, when i wanted to stay one more night with my bf, because my sunday shift was cancelled, she texted me that no, i need to go home and we’ll go somewhere as family. 
So i got home, she told me to do the dishes and now I’m sitting at my computer for an hour, and when i ask her if we’re going anywhere she just say that “why should we go when u don’t wanna go anyways” 

it just makes  me mad and i feel like i’m wasting my time when i could have been elsewhere. 