Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : It feels like we argue over this situation every other month. I'm 23 and he's 28, I've had a lot of financial support from my father to achieve the things I have (paid for my training, drivers licence, and car) whereas he's never had any support from his family. I've been bugging him almost our entire relationship to get his shit together. He says he can't afford it which is fair enough but I'm tired of waiting and it feels like an excuse. He has a plan but he says he needs a car to get his license and once he has his license he'll get a real job. 

I've just finished my degree and am ready to get out into the field and earn money and move out but I'm not sure I want him with me when he hasn't achieved any of these things... whereas he thinks me thinking this way means I'm not serious about the relationship and I'm not willing to work on our problems. Am being impatient? Am I the asshole? 