Sorry for posting this again. I accidentally clicked the "Post" button instead of the rules.

So, basically. I was having a discussion with my friend. It was about what if my friend is not a weeb and is a stan, a fan, or whatever. Then, I gave my point that it would be the same as if he is a weeb.

My point is that somebody might be interested in some topic if they actually deeply understand that topic. Like my friend, I think he might be (and he is) a weeb because he knows a lot about anime, like the characters, the series, etc. It is the same if someone is a fan of something. They must have knowledge of someone that they fan of, like their birthday, their real name, their songs, etc. It's because if someone has the interest of a topic, they will have the curiosity to learn the topic further because of how interesting it is. It is simple logic, I suppose.

Unfortunately, my friend is having anger because of it, calling that if I were having a debate with that type of reasoning, then I will be boo'ed. Basically, he calls my point is utterly stupid. I tried to explain as clear as possible, but I think he doesn't understand what am I saying. He got to the point where he left a group chat that we and somebody joined.

I feel bad for this because I seemed forced my point to him. A friendly argument suddenly going nuts because of me. But, I wanted to know if I am actually an asshole or not.