Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : Am I the asshole for faking orgasms with my wife?

When I was very young I have two major issues that damaged my penis and my ability to feel sexual pleasure. I was born with a deviation in my penis head that had to be corrected with surgery and when I was eight I was sexually assaulted by a neighbor who burned my penis with fire. Both of these incidents left me with a lot of scarring around the head of my penis that prevents a good amount of sexual feeling.

There are days where I just will not have an orgasm no matter what and I have explained this to her many times. I’ve told her that it’s no an issue with her it’s a problem with me that I can’t change. She gets so upset and takes it so personally when I don’t orgasm that I eventually started faking them when I wasn’t going to have them. She seems to be stuck in this mindset that she’s less of a woman if she can’t make her man cum every time, and it depresses her for days. 

Even sense I started doing this she’s been much happier and frankly so have I because shes not depressed all the time, but in the back of my mind I feel bad for lying to her. 