Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : My partner and I are long distance. I live in a few thousand miles away. A few times a year we visit each other for maybe a few weeks.

The flight costs about $500-1,000. He's paid for his flight everyone he comes here, and I pay for mine every time I go there, except once, which we spilt. I work one a week minimum wage and he works 3 days and earns almost double so it's pretty fair.

The problem for me is, when I go there, he wants to game for 5+ hours with his friends every day. I can't join because there is only one computer and his friends don't have consoles. No split screen games or anything. I've said that if that's the case, I should be able to hang out with my friends while he's here, go out for 5+ hours with them. He says it is not the same because he is in the same room, but mentally he is not with me (he won't respond or anything). I've said 1-2 hours a day would be better but he does not agree and does not want any less time.

I'm fine when he goes to work for 8 hours every 3 days, but I also want to spend as much time as possible with him because of only seeing him a few times a year and paying upwards of $500 and flying 5k miles.

Him gaming is never a problem when we are apart because I have many things to do, and I'm not only there seeing him for a limited time. It wouldn't be a problem if I saw him every day either.

AITA for saying if he games for that long, I should be able to go out and hang out with friends for that long while he's here (even though if I could I wouldn't), and also wanting him to spend less time doing that?