Me and my boyfriend have known each other for 6-ish years, and have been together in a long-distance relationship for about 6 months. The problem is that recently he's started to put a lot less effort in, never texting me first, never replying to my texts with more than a couple of words, etc. I've obviously been extremely worried, trying to ask if there was anything I could do, or say, or if he just wanted to be left alone for a while, and happily went with whatever he told me. I've tried directing him towards getting some kind of help, but he's so far refused to. This has been going on for weeks. 

When I finally told him that this was making me feel kind of unwanted while I saw him interacting perfectly normally with his other girlfriend ~~(we all know about each other- this was not an initial issue whatsoever!)~~ on social media, he finally decided to tell me that she had just gotten a diagnosis of something and that he's just having an emotional time right now. He immediately says that he 'likes dramatically withdrawing into a depression spiral', and suggests that I give him some time, which I'm perfectly happy to do. He can have all the time he needs, no problem! 

However, I also told him that it had been really frustrating to not fully know what was going on and watching him refuse any and all kinds of help. It felt like I was meant to sit there knowing nothing and expecting nothing from him while watching them live out their life from instagram, to which he replied that the world doesn't revolve around me. We haven't spoken since.

Reading it back, it looks like we're both kind of mean. Maybe AITA?