Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : Alright, I know I already sound like a dick but this requires a full on explanation. 

So for the longest time I was friends with this girl who we'll call Janice. Janice and I got along fairly well. After speaking with her for a while, we started to talk over text. These texts involved a lot of guilt tripping if I didn't respond with some amount of time. I'll keep this brief for her sake, but she had a traumatic childhood and I suppose is used to people abandoning her. I always ended up responding to this stuff.

One night, after hanging out somewhere, she invited me to stay the night at her house. I know I sound like a dick again, but the house was a disaster. It was a trailer home (which I really have no issue with on its own) but it was disgusting. Roaches and dead bugs everywhere. I'm sort of terrified of bugs so I was a bit grossed out but didn't comment on it. We hung out in her room for a while. I did something I know I shouldn't have, but that's my own fault. It ended with me being really sick around 1 or 2 AM. Janice tried her best to help me feel better. 

Following being picked up early in the morning, I never spoke to Janice again. I went out of my way to avoid her in class and online. She constantly would text me trying to guilt me into speaking with her again and I never responded.

Then came the party. My birthday was coming up and therefore I invited a few of my friends to come over and hang out. I asked them to not tell Janice. One of them must've accidentally let it slip. Instead of speaking to me herself, Janice sent her friends to come ask me why I wasn't inviting her. When I just told them that I didn't want to, they called me an asshole. 

Janice and I don't speak anymore and I'm honestly afraid to apologize because I don't want this stupid guilt tripping and manipulating shit to start up again.