Hiya. I've been in a long distance relationship for a little over a year now. He lives on the West Coast and I live on the East Coast. We both applied to grad schools, and I was lucky enough to get a few acceptances. He, unfortunately, got none. After some discussion (though we have yet to have the big Here's What We're Doing one until I hear back from two other grad schools), we decided that the general plan is for us both to move to NYC in August/September, ending long distance. 

Recently, that has seemed less likely. He has since heard back from one of his schools, offering an alternate degree. . Now he's thinking of moving somewhere else on the West Coast instead, prolonging long distance for another 2 years minimum, though likely far longer.

Something about it just made me wilt. I could handle the thought just a few months ago, but now I really don't think I could do it. I love him, but the thought of this going on indefinitely makes me so tired. I can kind of feel this mentality affect my feelings for him, as though I'm already drawing away. 

I haven't told him this for fear of manipulating his decision. I want him to do what's best for him and don't want to make him do something just for me, but honestly, if he ends up staying on the west coast I'm thinking of calling it quits, or at least going on a break. 

WIBTA if I told him that? AITA for not?