Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : I have a really good friend. We are both in university now and live quite far away from each other, so we mainly just write messages. The thing is, that they kinda despise everything I'm passionate about. If I mention anything, I'd get either no real reply or just something about how it isn't relevant anyway. Also if I try to open up about myself, I always just get to hear, that I think about things too much. We also never have deep conversations in general. Even though we know each other for almost 3 years, they are still pretty one dimensional to me. 

On the other hand they are really kind and actually make me feel liked. Last year I even got a hand made advent calendar.

A couple of weeks ago, they just jokingly teased me for not writing anything that day and I replied, that I kinda don't know what to write and that I feel like being sort of an entertainer to them, only having meaningless conversations (that I actually really hate...). 

We are kinda in a fight since then and I do feel bad for saying this. On the other hand I really don't like how this friendship is developing and I would like that to change. 