My bf (23m) and I (21f) have been together for 2.5 yrs and love each other very much. We could have a viable future together, but lately, I have not been feeling it. I have met a new friend at work, lets call him Jim. Jim just seems to be better in every way compared to my bf. He is smarter, nicer, more fun, and really more attractive. Would I be an asshole to pursue Jim because he is better? My friends think that Jim would be a good catch. We seem to have a lot in common, and almost made out too. 