Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Yesterday morning, some of my friends asked me to be their designated driver (for a party that happened later that night). They get drunk about once every other week, sometimes more. Anyway, I’m a pretty busy guy. I’m a premed major and I don’t drink at all. They usually have a designated driver (lets call him Jake). Jake is a chill guy, but he’s easily pushed around imo. He always drives for them, even at times when he doesn’t want to. Jake could not do it yesterday because he hasn’t been feeling good all week. Anyway, I declined as I didn’t want to do it, and we are all underage (all 19 or 20). Call me a loser or whatever, I don’t care. It’s still illegal. I told them that I am not their babysitter and that they are all adults. They can call an Uber or something. So one of them (we’ll call him Seth) gets extremely annoyed at me. He asked me what had to do yesterday night (obviously in terms of later that night). I told him the truth.  I said that I would be studying for finals next week and playing video games. He proceeds to call me a loser and says that I would rather play games than make sure they’re safe. He says that Jake “is always there for them”. I told him that I’m not spineless like Jake. The others chimed in and said that I had nothing better to do (they weren’t angry at all tho). I told them that I don’t owe them my time. So they went and got drunk. Seth ignored all my texts today. I told another group of friends and half said I should’ve just drove for them. The other half said that it was my choice. However, they all said that I was being uptight about the drinking age, and that other countries had much lower drinking ages. I replied with “well we don’t live in those countries so I do not care”. So AITA for not wanting to be a designated driver?