Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Recently I opened up a bank account for personal spending, I had saved up ~280$ of entirely my own money from working, gifts, etc... and I was waiting for my next paycheck because I wanted to buy a Nintendo switch which I have been saving up for. I have an arrangement where I put 1/2 of any paychecks I get into savings account for college because I’m not out of high-school yet. I have also decided to start saving up for a car so instead of putting 1/2 my newest paycheck into savings I decided I’m going to be putting 3/4 of all future paychecks into it. So I got paid 80$, I kept 20 to buy the switch and left the other 60 to put into my savings, and all was turning out well. Until I mentioned to my mom that a package was coming, (before I continue, my mother owes me about ~180 and was going to pay me back it slowly) she asked what was in the package and I told her that I bought a switch, she went ballistic about how I should have told her before I bought it (in hindsight this would have been a good idea to do first, I’ll admit that) and that it was a huge waste of money, even though I told her that she could put the 60 I put aside + the 180 she owes me into the savings account. She then said about how she’s not paying me back anymore because quote “you just spent your money.” She doesn’t want to talk anymore and is pissed. I don’t believe I’m in the wrong because it was my personal money that I saved and I could freely spend how I wanted, and that I left more than enough (60 + the 180 she owed me) to put into savings for a car and college. Am I the asshole?