Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : So im part of a leadership youth group and we often do meetings at universities at the afternoon, and usually when we finish it's already dark  outside, today we all agreed to meet at a restaurant after the meeting. We were done at 9pm, the university was already closed, no students, almost no lights and our cars were the only ones in the parking lot, my friend Jessica, and me were going to my car, when other member of the group asked us if he could ride with us to the restaurant, we said yes.


He told us he had to do something in the lobby and to meet him there, we get into the car and drived close to the lobby and the gates, everyone else was in their way to the restaurant and we waited 10 minutes for him. I was starting to get anxious because it was really dark, this is a dangerous city and my friend and me are both youg girls in an empty parking lot. 


After those ten minutes he calls and tells my friend he was already on his way to the restaurant! He had asked other membets if he could ride with them, when we had already told him it was ok to ride with us, and were waiting for him by the lobby (as he instructed us).

I'm usually a really laid back and shy person, but that made ne furious, I felt my time and security wasn't respected. When we arrived at the restautant I asked him to meet me outside. I scold him pretty harshly, callying him a "pendejo" wich can translate to "dumb as fck", and told him what he did was pretty iresponsible and disrespectful.  He was really surprise for the scolding and looked really ashamed, he seemed sorry, so i started to calm down.


We went inside as if everything was ok, but he clearly looked like a puppy someone just kicked on the street. I started to feel bad about it, was I an asshole? Did I overreacted?