Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : I got another one for ya

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So for the 4+ years my lady companion and I have been together, we've had an underlying issue. Or rather, *I've* had an underlying issue as I've only brought it up very few times. 

I **feel** like she goes out of her way to interact with other dudes (she has a type, and I'm not that *type* anymore, though she still loves me to pieces because that's just how it is) just to get me jealous. That might not be the case, but hear me out.

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We work at the same place, but in different.... departments I guess. Another guy that works in another department has been interacting with her for a while. Their first interaction was her showing him a meme or something even though they've never spoken before that, to my knowledge. He makes jewelry and sells it online, so he agreed to make her a necklace. I hate that necklace because I'm a jealous dick, but obviously, I don't express my jealousy of them two to her, because she might just be trying to make friends, I dunno.

He didn't know we were together for the first couple months they've been talking. So he messaged her one day while her and I were watching TV and asked if he can come "chill", and I believe she responded with something about "I'm with with my boyfriend" and I'm not sure where the convo went from there.

A couple days, maybe a week ago she told me he's making her a **ring**. A little background as to why this bothers me; I bought her a ring that says "Zelda" years ago and I've worn one that says "Link" for just as long. We've had to get replacements, but that's besides the point. She stopped wearing her ring maybe a year or two ago because she wasn't too into rings ***apparently.*** 

So he's making her a moonstone ring and I know she'll wear it everywhere she goes as she does the necklace. OH! I also bought her a moonstone necklace, that she only wore for two days after I bought it. I get that, I'm not a necklace person myself but you get the point. 

She talks super highly of him because of his skills, but doesn't even show a shred of interest in my hobbies or things I'm extremely passionate about. I'm not just saying that to make her sound rude or anything, I've genuinely tried showing her songs I've written or mastered and she just acts very uninterested with "mm-hm"'s and "neat". It breaks me but doesn't get to me too badly. 

She talks about him and what he does to her parents, my parents, or anybody that'll listen. She's not like "he's so hot, he's so funny", she just talks about his skills and how talented he is.

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Wow this is worded horribly, but bear with me.

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TL;DR— **Am I the asshole for being salty about my girlfriend taking an interest in some other guys hobbies more than mine? Am I the asshole for not being okay with how they interact?**