I was waiting in one of the parking spots right in front of the ATM inside my car because it was cold and I dont want to invade the privacy of the person using the ATM. Then later this lady's car rolled up and stood outside. She saw me sitting in the car in front of the machine, not on my phone, staring at the person whos on the ATM. I told her I was waiting before her and she said I was in my car so it doesnt matter but I took the spot first anyway. I never had this issue with other times so I thought this was the system/norm. Was I the asshole?