Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : I've been friends with Tim for 20 years. We grew up together and have always been best friends. We went to different colleges and during that time he was diagnosed with depression and bipolar. I stuck with him, helped as much as possible. During this time he would have meltdowns and run away from campus, destroy his room, cut himself. It was a dark time and heartbreaking for me and his family. He eventually found medication and therapy that works for him which is great and he's been stable for about three years. 


These days, he rarely speaks to me, and when he does he has a rude comment to say or some condescending opinion about my life.however he always talks about me calling me his BEST friend. We had plans last week, at a set date and time and when I called to confirm he just said "I'm spending tomorrow with my girlfriend sorry". He belittles my own relationship and makes fun of my job even though his is very similar. 


This is all stuff that has annoyed me in the past, but the last straw was yesterday. He has a small YouTube channel and and he posted a video going into great detail about his suicide attempts over the years. In the video he talks about it in a very upbeat tone with happy music in the background. It was honestly very disturbing. I had no idea he had ever attempted this. I've recently lost someone very close to me to a suicide and he knows this. He knows I watch his videos as I always talk to him about them and comment on them. 


I understand using a video as a way to vent out your ideas and experiences and he isn't obligated to share anything with me. But he didn't warn me of the content in the video in any way, knowing I had just lost a family member to suicide and the wound is still very fresh for me. Continuing to be his friend is now effecting my own mental health, as I went into a panic half way through the video and couldn't continue watching.


Whenever I tell someone of the rude things he says or does they say he probably doesn't realize what he's saying is hurtful but I don't believe that. Especially because he is capable of treating his girlfriend perfectly fine. I genuinely believe he may have become more socially awkward as his issues developed, but I also believe he uses his disorders as a crutch to say and do what he wants with out consequence. 


I don't want to be friends with someone that doesn't take me and my feelings into consideration. I realize this may make me an asshole but I just can't do it anymore.


Tl;Dr 

My friend who is bipolar and has depression is rude to me and does things without taking my feelings and experiences into consideration. It's taking a toll on me and I want to cut him out of my life. 