Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : First of all, excuse my poor english. It's not my native language but I hope I can make myself undertood.

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I'm currently working at my family's bussiness. My grandfather founded it almost 40 years ago, and it's been run by the family since then. After he died, my father took control of it, as he was the older of 3 brothers and had been in the bussiness for longer and had more experience. His brothers were still involved and all seemed to be just fine. 

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About 5 years ago, we found out that my uncle was stealing huge amounts of money and that the bussiness was almost broke.   It was really shocking for us, specially for my father, as he 100% trusted his brother. Of course everything went downhill since then. As you can imagine, it was a massive family conflict. They managed to legally exclude my uncle from the bussiness, got him to pay back some of the money, but it was actually a little porcentage compared to how much it was missing. 

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By this time, I was starting the get involved in the bussiness. In part because I needed a job, but mostly because I wanted to help my dad in this rough time. His other brother had a stroke because of the stress and couldn't do much. We took a couple loans, had to let go some employees and restructure the bussiness. After almost 3 years of struggling, we payed the loans we got and reached financial stability. Eventhough I don't really enjoy my job, I decided to continue because the pay was ok, I already knew the bussiness and, to be completely honest, it is hard to find a well payed job in my country.

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I've always enjoyed drawing, and I think I'm fairly good at it. But it's a hobby of mine and I never thought of it as something to do for a living. About a month ago, a friend contacted me with the project leader of the company in which he works. He showed him some of my works and he was very interested. I met him by Skype and a week later he offered me a job. Eventhough is a starting possition, I would make in a month what it would take me almost 6 months in my current job. I would get payed in american dollars, which is not really common in my country. And, on top of that, I get to work from home without a schedule. I said yes without hessitating a second.

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When I told my family I would leave, they got really mad. I told them that I will train someone to fill my place, as I won't have a schedule in my new job, so I would be able to still dedicate some time to that for a couple months. That was not good enough for them. They said it was betrayal, that I have to continue with the family bussiness, just as my father did. None of my siblings are involved in the bussiness btw, so I don't understand why it's my responsability to do it. It is awful, as literally every member of my family is against my decision. Even my uncle's wife is mad, eventhough she's still getting paid for the job my uncle couldn't do anymore because of the stroke. It's really messed up. 

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I will, nevertheless, take the job. You get oportunities like this once in a lifetime. But it feels really bad how my family reacted, even those who are not involved in the bussiness at all.

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So, Am I the asshole here?

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TL;DR: Family bussiness almost went broke, I helped to save it. A couple years later I get offered my dream's job and my family gets really upset because I accepted and left the family bussiness.