Some background, so I'm Filipino and live in the US and I travel to the Philippines pretty frequently, I usually go 2-3x a year. It's kind of tradition that when someone comes home to the Philippines we bring back presents for our family in the Philippines and also bring back presents when I go back to the US. When I first started to going to the Philippines, I was pretty open with allowing family members to give me a package to take with me to the Philippines since the airline allowance allows me to bring two 50lbs boxes. I usually stuff this full with presents. Every time I've gone back to the Philippines I have a certain uncle that pretty much has taken advantage of this since he always has something to give me to give to someone else in the Philippines and when I go back to the US he would also have a package for him. On my last trip I was given a package for him that included a very expensive ring because he was planning to propose to his GF with it and a Rolex watch. I was very uncomfortable with taking these items home because of the large value of them items and I was worried since the responsibility falls on me if something were to happen. I kept refusing that I didn't want to take it but my aunts ( his sisters ) kept saying it was fine for me to take. So I felt pressured to do so and I did it. I am now going on another trip back to the Philippines and this time I was told he has a package for me that will include a ring and a watch. This was the only thing I was told. What bothers me is that he does not ask me directly that he will be giving me these items, he only informs my dad (his brother) that he is giving me these items. Also, when I am packing my stuff home to go back to the US, I will find out from my aunt that they have items for him and this should be added to my luggage. Mind you on my last trip they told me literally hours before my flight back to the US that I was bringing some things back for him and so I told my aunts since they wanted to add his stuff in it, it is now their responsibility to repack my stuff and seal the boxes. In his defense, he does pick me up from the airport and take me home since the airport is 2 hrs away. I like my uncles and he's a very nice guy but at this point I would rather take the train and the bus home from the airport which extends the trip from the airport to 4hrs. My experience with him is making want to refuse all my family member from asking me to take stuff for them.

TL;DR-At the start I was open with everyone asking me to take packages with me to the Philippines but my uncle has taken advantage of this and I'm now refusing his request. 

PS I've been a long time lurker on Reddit and this is my very first post. Hopefully I did it correctly ! 