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this is a really long story. to start, i (FTM 17) was in an abusive friendship for around 4 years, we'll call him P (M17). P was awful. he touched me, sexually harassed and at one point grabbed my ass, would stalk me and control me, and lots of other things. i stopped being his friend and had the confidence to get out of the friendship when i started dating my current boyfriend who we'll call S (M17). when i stopped being P's friend he got extremely upset (he also harassed us and tried to manipulate us into sex). 

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onto the next person, i'm sorry i'm not sure how to word this whole situation. there are two parts. my friend A (19M) was my online friend for about 6 years or so. when i started dating S i did start to fall out of contact with him, not just because of my relationship but because i was trying to become more social with people irl. A and i got in a big fight starting when i was drunk and mentioned i was thinking about killing myself. he contacted P asking for my mom's info to let my mom know what was happening, and instead of being mad at A i was mad at P for giving away my information. A knew all the things that P has done, but decided to stop being friends with me and go to P's side. i'm not sure if P manipulated him into becoming his friend, but that doesn't matter. A is known for using hard drugs. my boyfriend threatened to turn him into the police (even after i said not to) due to this because of all the times he has upset me. when i mentioned that i was trying to stop him to do that A got mad at me because i wasn't trying "hard enough" to protect him. long story short, i was told i'm a manipulative snake who cares about no one but myself for deciding to no longer be friends with A (i sent him a message telling him we should break off the friendship, to which he responded saying how i'm manipulative)

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i'm honestly really confused with this situation and how i'm being called the manipulative asshole and a snake. P is saying i was worse than he ever was and that i'm awful and i'm honestly really confused??? i'll update and try and get more info

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tl;dr: stopped being someone's friend and ex friend left me for abusive ex friend. idk how to summarize this 