Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Last night was my extendeds family last night in town. So, my mom and I took them out to dinner at this nice restaurant downtown. I offered to my mom that I would pay for dinner because she has already done so much for us this break. Btw, my mom and I are the only ones who live here. It's an East coastal town that rhymes with harleston. My mom said no that it was fine she would take care of it. Fast forward to dinner, I order fish and two glasses of champagne. Everyone's dish was around $25-30. I was the only one who got two glasses. I even offered that I would pay for the drinks, and still got told no. So, on the way to take my grandmother and sister to the airport they both said I was so wrong for ordering the "most expensive" dish and TWO glasses of champagne. I was being extremely inconsiderate to my mother and didn't think of anyone but myself. I defended myself by saying I offered to pay. It didn't matter to them. My whole thing is, I wanted to get what I wanted to eat, I offered to pay and got turned down. So my thing is, do I not get what I wanted to eat and drink because someone else is paying? My mom would of been insulted as well if I didn't let her pay too. 