Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Hello Reddit! I'm new to making posts and English is not my first language, so I'd like to apologize beforehand if I make mistakes or things are hard to follow.

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Anyway, I'm a 20 year old female and I'm a full time student  so I don't have much money, but I'm fortunate enough to live in my own apartment. We have been in a long-distance relationship for about 7 months give or take. There's 6000 miles between us so the distance is pretty rough for a student. Because of this my boyfriend is the one who visited me and is currently living with me.

  
Here is little background.  I'm from a small and relatively poor country and I'm used to helping around the house because I was raised by a single parent who had to work full time to support me and my siblings. Even though my childhood wasn't the easiest, since I didn't have an adult around due to my mom being at work all the time, I'm still grateful that I learned how to take care of myself from a young age. But my boyfriend on the other hand is from a rich family and hasn't really had to worry about anything in his life. His parents pay for his bills, education, insurance, etc. Before coming to live with me he used to still live under his parents roof although he is already 23 years old. That's all fine with me I'm happy that he had an easier time in that regards than me, but what irritates me is that he can't do any basic household chores and expects me to do everything because I do them better. "Well I don't know if I should cook because it's never going to be as good as your cooking", "oh I don't know, you should probably clean because I can't read the labels and you do it more thorough". 

  
He also has lied to me about things that weren't a dealbreaker to me but still really shitty thing to do especially for someone who says that they hate lies more than everything and could never be with a liar. He lied about his age and liking cleaning and cooking. But that's not where it ends. He visited me first once before he came here to live. Between those we broke up for a brief period of time because he wouldn't take a no as an answer so things happened that ended up violating me. Due to that I ended our relationship after he went back to home. He didn't take it well and started guilt tripping me and insulting me like crazy because he knows that I have hard time to standing up for myself. But this time I didn't give up and said that the relationship was over. I ended up having to block him because he would not leave me alone even though I asked many times, so I had no other choice. He still made a new account on a messaging app and started bombarding me with messages telling me that that his parents are kicking out, because they got tired of him not doing anything (he wasn't working/studying at the time he'd just sit in his room all day playing games and  watching anime, so he was a NEET pretty much) and now he needed to find his own place within a week. And he told me this a day after the break up. I still stood my ground and said that the break up is final. I still kept talking to him to make sure he is fine, but TWO days later he already made up with his parents and wasn't going to get kicked out anymore. They even promised to pay for his tuition, although just TWO days ago they were ready to cut all ties with him and absolutely would not pay for his school or even help him find a job. At this point I was getting suspicious of everything he has told me about his parents (who I haven't ever met or even talked to) is true. He would always tell me how his parents are horrible people, but nothing he ever told really made any sense considering he talks to them daily and they are really generous are to him. 

  
I didn't want to take him back but he insisted that he wants to come back just to talk things through and since he is going back to school he won't be staying. I didn't really agree to it but he still came and I end up taking him back. Whenever I would ask when he is going back he wouldn't give me a straight answer, but one day he told me that he is doing online classes so he wants to stay here with me I was so mad. Never did he ever say that he was even planning to stay here. He even said many times before coming that he is for sure going back due to school. I was livid but still just accepted it knowing he can't stay here for long because he only had a travel visa so he could stay for 3 months. 

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He had bought me a ring and propose to me. Initially I said yes because despite all I do love him and things were going great for us. He made promises that he is going to help me more and make my life easier. I thought he was still settling in but nothing changed. He still keeps being childish, picky and doesn't want to help me unless I snap. And he keeps complaining almost daily that it's too dusty because of my cat, although I vacuum almost daily at least every two days. And he keeps telling me that I should have a pet with no fur instead. He keeps pushing my cat away and won't let him sleep on the bed. I would be fine with not letting my cat sleep on the bed, but he is a senior cat that I've had over 10 years and always has slept next to me. I feel especially hurt when he does that because my cat is my baby and I love him more than anything.

  
I let him meet my family, but my mom doesn't speak English, only my siblings do. Even with having a language barrier my mom didn't really like him although I tried to make him seem really nice and loving. He acted childish and picky around her and even threw a fit at a grocery store when my mom was offering to buy us fish. He said that he will absolutely not eat anything with the skin still on. I just brushed it off and told him that I will eat it then and he can figure out something for himself. This was not the first time he acted childish and picky in public embarrassing me. He has way too expensive taste that I can't afford and I'm saying I can't afford it because he doesn't help paying for anything except food every once in a while. I pay for the rent, electricity, water, internet and food. I have my own bills to pay and I need to get books for school almost every month and he doesn't even help me pay for birth control. I'm getting really tired of taking care of him and I want to focus on school and myself instead.

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I still love him and I enjoy spending time with him. He has made me laugh more than anyone else and I never get bored when we're doing something, but I don't know if I still should stay with him. By no means am I perfect either I have hard time being open with people so I can't communicate until I've had enough and I have bad anxiety and depression so I might see things differently than he does. I've still tried to tell him how I feel but there hasn't been any changes. So am I the asshole for wanting to break up and take time for myself?