Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : My family and I were really close growing up but when I moved out of the house when I was 18 to go to college, my parents dropped me off and my stuff and then just left they didn't help me find my dorm they didn't even really say goodbye they just said goodbye and then left.        

Later on when I got married at age 24 my parents hated my girlfriend now wife with a passion. When she came over for family gatherings theyd talk about how she looked in a negative way, and when I came alone they'd try to talk me into breaking up with her, yeah she wasn't perfect but in no way did she deserve this kind of disrespect.

Ever since then me and my wife trying to avoid my family at all cost we don't go to gatherings and we ignore their calls.