Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : So my friend and I made plans for me to come to her house this weekend, she lives about 2 hours away from me. For context she is married with a baby, and I, being single, have come to her house to spend the weekend many times before. 

I have always knows that she is not the cleanest person out there, and her house is just kind of... grimey honestly. I don’t judge, and I would never say anything to her about it, but I am used to a cleaner, more hygienic lifestyle. She lives out in the country and doesn’t seem to mind there being bugs, even mice in her house. I usually question whether the sheets on the guest bed I sleep in are clean and fresh when I come here. But this time it’s really bad. 

I arrived at her house earlier today, with the plan being that I would stay here until Sunday. Right now I am laying in bed unable to fall asleep. The sheets on the bed are very obviously dirty. There were crumbs which I brushed off, but they smell like her dog which always smells like he hasn’t had a bath in ages. There is dog hair all over the sheets and blanket, which is causing me to wheeze pretty badly from allergies/asthma. 

The worst thing is that I keep hearing noises in the ceiling that sounds like some kind of animal is in the attic foraging around up there and it’s terrifying. I am scared of falling asleep in case the animal gets into the bedroom somehow. I’m not trying to sound snobby, some people are okay living like this, but I am definitely not. 

So I was texting my sister kind of freaking out and she said I should fake an emergency and use it as an excuse to leave. My friend is already sleeping so I have accepted the fact that I have to sleep here tonight, but I am considering taking my sisters advice and faking something to get out of here in the morning. 

I would really feel bad leaving since she really wanted to go out drinking tomorrow night but I honestly don’t think I can handle tonight here, let alone a second night. 

Soooo WIBTA if I fake some kind of family emergency in order to leave in the morning??