Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : First of all, any mistakes in English - sorry, not my primary language.

So I'm dating a guy for 4 months now, we went to his friend birthday party (pub, table reserved). For the fking whole party, he was talking to his friends (doesn't seen them at all through 2 months, studies, work, etc.). They met me twice, they like me I guess. But they have their own topics to discuss, so there were little groups on this party, everyone was enjoying it. Not me, I felt badly alone. But it's ok, I hope my bf enjoys it. There is one guy, I know him, he is very sweet, very lovely if I can say so? You know, type of guy that avoid fights, arguments. He got drunk. Everyone likes him, let's call him Crush.

There was a couple, I don't even know them but I know that they are studying together with my boyfriends friends group. Let's call the male aggressor. So Crush, drunk, sits next to friends talking about sth. Then suddenly, aggressor gets up, approached Crush and punch in the face! I became alerted, felt very very uncomfortable. Blood on the floor, blood on his shirt. I ran to bartender for ice, quickly ran into Crush gave him the ice, tried to take care of him. AFAIK, aggressors girlfriend told him, that Crush touched her thigh while talking to her. In my country, it's a common thing, you just touch somebody sometimes, especially when you are drunk, and it is quite ok, and while Crush is doing it, you just know that he is trying to be nice, and that's all. Everyone knows that Crush is just being very nice and talkative. So all the drama started. I went out for a cigarette, then heard aggressors talk with friends, like: "She said he touched her! It was like this, wasn't it honey?" The girl was just sitting, with her hood on, face hidden in jacket and said nothing. I was standing there, tried to listen to some drama (mind you, I like dramas), and then other girl approached aggressor and told him: "Oh, you know. I would not blame Crush. It's the guy in colored t-shirt who is an idiot, he told someone that your girl is a whore and destroyed a party because of this." So aggressor takes away and try to get another fight. Then I reacted. With serious threat, that if he is going to touch anyone, I am going to make his life a lovely nightmare. Then went to my boyfriend, and told him about all of this. He said: Why, why did you ever react? I mean, no one cares about it, this just sometimes happen and that's all? Don't try to involve yourself into this, they are friends.

I thought, ok these are not actually my friends. But I felt really, really uncomfortable and badly, I really don't like situations like this, I just said: 

\- Do you really thing it is normal?

\- Yeah, shit happens. Why you even care? I mean, look: no one cares about it, stop overreacting. 

And that was enough. Seriously people? You are all like 24-26 yo and behave like.. this?

\- Well because I'm here with you.. Baby, I wanna go home, I am not angry at you (these are his friends, not mine, so feel free to spend time with them, but don't make me stay here), if you want to, you can stay, but I'm leaving right now. I don't feel well, I don't feel uncomfortable, I don't feel good in mental way, I don't like those kind of situations on parties.

\- Yeah go on, do whatever you want. Just go home, it's ok. (said that with mean tone)

I got Uber, and went back home. Come to think of it, maybe I should not involve myself in this, threatening to aggressor, but I just could not resist of seeing an aggressor, talking shits without even asking Crush if that situation had happened and why etc. , and trying to get into another fight. And it was the first time I have ever witnessed this kind of situation - my friends prefers, cafe, restaurants and quiet places with no alcohol..

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Backstory: Me and my boyfriend are both gays, so don't laugh at me threatening aggressor. Ppl usually get scared. :D