Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : I have known my friend for around 6 years and I really love her. She's smart, sassy and funny. However, she can sometimes be more of a taker than a giver when it comes to support. In February, I was kicked out by a friend/landlord out of the blue. We'd had a fairly insignificant argument - as far I was concerned - but he saw red and threw me and my dog out. I had nowhere to go at first, as my parents have two dogs of their own and mine is a rescue that hasn't really been socialised. I was absolutely heartbroken, as I thought I was going to have to give him up. I was texting my friend, telling her exactly what my ex landlord was saying when she replied "You're going to need to tell someone else, I can't cope with your shit right now."

I was taken aback and, honestly, pretty hurt. But, I took the hint and stopped trying to talk to her about this traumatic period of time. Last week, we met for coffee and she was really quiet. I waited for her to say whatever it was that she wanted to get off her chest and it turns out she'd been mad at me for weeks about me trying to talk to her about my housing situation. She still felt I was in the wrong, because I should have known she wasn't feeling OK (she'd never mentioned it at the time, despite me always checking in and asking her how she was).

Fast forward to today. I was supposed to go to her house tonight for a bridal party sleepover (she's getting married in September and I'm the Maid of Honour) as we're having hair and make-up trials in the morning. Around 3 hours ago, I text her and said I couldn't make tonight, but would still be there at 9am for the hair and make-up. I have multiple sclerosis and I'm having a bad day (pain and fatigue). If I'm being honest with myself, I could probably push through, and part of me feels like I should. I just really didn't want to be around her while I'm not feeling great.

So, AITA?
