Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : A few years back i met a really wonderful woman who quickly became a good friend. From the beginning i could tell she was into me but i was dating someone else at the time, and even though we were in an open relationship i wasnt really interested in anyone else so I made it clear i wanted to be friends. My ex broke up with me in september and it was really hard on me, and the woman i mentioned before was there for me in a really great way. She never pushed an agenda on me and was just very kind the whole time. 

So that brings us to to the present. Ive been feeling better recently and have been going on dates/sleeping around. This woman made it clear that she was interested in me recently, and we went on a dinner date, drank a couple glasses of wine and eventually ended up going back to my place and making love. I really enjoyed the date and do love this woman, and could see myself dating her. But the problem was I wasnt attracted to her body(she has a pretty face, i should mention). I know i could get over it, and have a lot of guilt around feeling like this amazing woman who loves me from a sincere place is only non compatible because of her appearance. 

So i havent said anything to her yet, but i feel like if she wants to come to the gym with me and learn a few excersises and work out a couple few times a week i would be much more attracted to her body. AITA for feeling this way? 

Thanks for reading ❤