Before me and my GF moved in together I told her I hate cleaning, I despise it and I won't do it, I will give a hand from time to time but that's it! It wasn't meant just so I can afford being lazy, but when we were living each in our own apartments she would clean every 2 days because she likes it clean and I don't really care much, I would give the house a serious clean like once every 3 months (I know, but meh) and maybe sweep every few weeks IDK.

But like I said, I made sure to make it clear to her before we moved in together that I don't wanna clean much because that's what I'm used to, and if she feels the need to keep the house clean to her standards that's fine but don't ask me to do it because I don't care. I made it clear because that's the last thing I wanted us to fight about when we moved in together.

We moved in, things were going along fine, I agreed to do the dishes (which I do every single day), I also sweep the house from time to time on my own accord, and do random cleaning stuff for her sake (cause I couldn't care less, screw cleaning).

Lately I had a lot of time off from college and work, so I've been home a lot, and ever since she enters the house after she's done with her work or w/e and she's clearly pissed because I didn't clean. I didn't say much and tried to clean a bit more for her sake, but today it was like the 10th time she had that fucking sour face on because I didn't sweep the house. I told her she didn't even ask me to, and that we've talked about this before we moved in, but she says that because I live in the house I can't afford not to clean and that she can't believe I couldn't take some time off studies (was studying for a test tomorrow) to sweep the house.

So obviously I got super upset, I feel like I shouldn't have to do that, I think I'm trying enough for her sake and doing stuff around the house much more frequently than when I was living on my own, and I got super fed up with her sour face cause I didn't clean. We had a big fight and honestly wanted to ask, AITA here? 