He says that he doesn’t care about NYE, or any holiday, or even his bday. Cool. No problem. I do though. We live 11 hours and an ocean apart right now, and have been doing the long distance dance around the world for two years. Different culture, but still in love?

I called him for New Years, he experienced it first, not because he asked me to (he didn’t even elude to the need) but because I wanted to be with him then. He was spending it low key at home by choice. He actually made me cry over Skype, prodding me about something else - he was clearly drunk - and then just left... the call. So, 11ish hours pass, and I’m next on the New Years countdown. He didn’t text me much all day, because he was asleep but even when awake, I sent him some snaps of my dinner (NYE is a big fam tradition in my culture) and he just curtly responded with pleasantries. Clock struck 12.... he wasn’t even around to say congrats, with a half hour delay to every whatsapp I sent. I am ignoring him today, because I’m so angry, but also over it, but mostly angry and not over it at all. So, am I the asshole for thinking the least he could do was give me a ring? It’s now the second of Jan, and we still haven’t talked, he’s sent two texts that I’ve ignored.