Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : This happened a few years ago with my then girlfriend, but this story to me always stuck out and I've wanted some perspective on this.  


My girlfriend was driving from Boston to New York to visit her family for the weekend. It's about a 5 hour drive, depending on the traffic.  


About 1-2 hours away, in the middle of Connecticut she gets into a car accident on the highway. Thankfully nobody is hurt but her car is destroyed beyond repair. Naturally I get a phone call from her shortly after this happens, and she tells me the situation. I immediately tell her that I'll be on my way right now to come pick her up from being stranded, but she says to not worry about it because her father is already doing that.  


After her family visit she comes back home and we hang out shortly after. That night she asks if she can use my car to driving to/from work and any social/networking gatherings she needs to attend to. I respond that I don't feel comfortable with that because it's under my name, and god forbid anything happens to her in the car, I'm legally liable for her actions. I tell her while I'm okay with driving her around to places when I'm able to, that I'm uncomfortable with her driving my car and can't do it currently. She immediately gets upset and tells me that I'm not a supportive boyfriend and have been unhelpful from this whole experience. I took offense to that because when she got in the accident, I was ready to drop everything I was doing to drive 3-4 hours to come help. In her eyes, that action doesn't count because she didn't need help from me "in that way." She reaffirms her stance that I'm being shitty because I should let her use my car given her circumstance, despite how I feel in regards to law.  


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