Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : I’m going to try to keep this short. I’m living with my ex, it’s a new situation, and we’re still working out what this means. 

He has a pretty serious injury that keeps him from skateboarding even though he loves it. When we were dating I was never on board (lol) with him buying a new board and it was a bit of a running joke, but those in his family he is close to are really against him skateboarding ever again.

I just got home and noticed some packages were delivered from a skateboarding company, meaning he is moving forward on skateboarding again, I think. I know if I say something to him he’s going to be stubborn and annoyed and it won’t do anything. I also considered telling his family but that would make me feel shitty.

He’s going to do something stupid and land in the hospital and where we are at right now I will be the only one around to help him. Also, he’s 30. I know this sounds like a teenager. I have always supported his interests 100%, unless they are dangerous. He’s really stubborn and I don’t think he’s thought through this.

I know I’m not responsible for him but also I don’t think he has a plan for if he ends up immobile. I would be the only one around who could do anything for him and I’m not the kind of person to leave someone helpless.