Hey guys, there's something that's been plaguing me for a little while now.

Before we start this took place on a discord server I frequent, it's basically a bunch of friends with the closest being labelled "family" or rarely "best friends".
The server is public, we run a Hypixel guild in Minecraft and the server in question is our guild discord.

I am pretty quiet and often mute myself and unless we're playing a game that requires verbal communication I will normally not talk. Also, as most people on the server know, I am autistic. (Do with that as you will)

The person in question was not quite a regular but still was active enough that we know who he is.

The three that took part in this scene was myself, the dude in question and my friend.

The conversation went something like this, keeping in mind this is off by memory and I don't have the patience to scroll through the entire chat to find the story:

Dude: "I'm lonley..."
Me: "Well I'm here lol"
Dude: "ugh I hate life smh, feel like kmsing srsly"
Friend: "may I recommend the ol' toaster in the tub?"
Friend: "or a quick noose around the ceiling fan?"
Dude: "-friend name-, dude I am so in the mood rn."
Dude: "like actually gotta stop myself from doing it..."
Me: "go get some help mate, there are people who can help you..."
Dude: "no"
Me: "I'm trying to help -dude name-."
Dude: "you don't need to, you don't know anything."
Me: "do I need to? If you aren't gonna take my advice stop whining like a little bitch about it on discord."

The subject was changed pretty quickly after by an admin, my words were the last line before she stepped in.
I haven't talked to the dude since, I mean, I've seen him around but I haven't bothered to join vc with him.
My last words stick with me, I got so annoyed he was just ignoring my advice.

Was he venting though? Am I the asshole for telling him to get help? The situation was none of my business and I shouldn't have stepped in. But then again did I do the right thing? Was telling him to get help the right thing to do? 

I want to know if I am the asshole here, I am so ashamed of my actions, even more so when typing them out now.

Good people of Reddit, please respond.
