Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : My (18M) girlfriend (18F) of almost three years, and I got into a heated argument today. I’ve been planning on studying abroad for a semester next year for some time. Today when I brought it up, she got upset with me. She said I’m insensitive for wanting to leave her for approximately 5 months. She said that if I valued our relationship I’d be debating this decision more than I am. I feel like studying abroad is an important opportunity to take advantage of in my current circumstances and was surprised she was against it. Am I the asshole for being excited for and wanting to studying abroad even though I’m in fairly long term relationship? 