We are both girls and my friend who I’ll call L can never really hangout and I don’t blame her. When we do it’s fun and what not. But two weeks ago she was telling me her mom wanted her out of the house the whole day two weeks from now on Wednesday. So we make a group chat with other friends and we all are excited to go. My best friend is like the glue really. She is friendlier with the other friends going. She even picked the place we were going. So Tuesday night comes and she texts that she might not be able to go. And then nothing. It’s Wednesday morning and she still hasn’t replied. We all decide to wait more and then stop by her house. We wait an hour and she texts not to get her and that she can’t go. I’m upset because now I don’t want to go and I’m afraid of it being awkward and. 

My mom says she’s TA for forcing us to go out and canceling 
I think I’d be TA if I told her something bc I know it’s not her fault (her mom said no) 
Is she TA for bailing? 
