We were driving. I took out my phone and she objected to me being on it while driving (And rightly so) so I put the phone down and asked her to read the message to me. She was reading wrong, (read my messages as if they were from the other person and read their messages as if they were from me) and it confused me so I told her to give me the phone back (I was going to just put it in my pocket where it belongs) and she refused due to her assumption that I was going to try to read the messages while driving. I repeated my request to give me my phone back and she held it away from me so I reach over and grabbed it and put it away. She was pissy about it and I told her if she had just listened to me i wouldn't have had to grab it from her. I told her she made a mistake by assuming the worst of me instead of giving me the benefit of the doubt. She swears up and down that she made no mistake and that she is completely innocent of any mistakes. She said I set her up to misinterpret the situation. My point is that even if did mistakenly set her up to think I would read my phone while driving, wouldn't that have no affect on weather or not she made a mistake assuming I would. Isn't that still a mistake? It's petty. It's the most petty. I still want her to admit that she made a mistake. I admit that I made a mistake by not clarifying for her but now she is still adamant that she made no mistake. She never admits fault. Not for anything. Not until after a huge fight and tears and storming off, which she is currently in the middle of, and finally calming down to realize she was mistaken. How do I get her to step back in the moment and see what's going on instead of waiting until after a huge blow up?