Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Pretty self-explanatory. I read online that asexuality is a dealbreaker for some people, so they feel led on if their date is not upfront with it before the first date. However, previously I had a first date lined up with someone and when I told him I was asexual through text before the date, he ghosted me. I basically just said that I wanted to get it out in the open in case it was a dealbreaker and he never responded. So I’m thinking maybe I sprang it on him to quickly? Should I wait longer for the next guy I potentially go out with?