Just recently (about a month ago) my gf of 3 years and fiancé ended our relationship abruptly. One night she said she thought we should break up, she was out of state the next day. 

The issue is though, that we had recently purchased a car together. It was her first car, my second. Pretty cheap but nice. We bought it knowing that it was for both of us. Either could use it at any time. She paid the majority, or rather was making payments. Its also in her name. Its undoubtely HER car. But ill be damned if i didnt give her a grand for a car i thought id be able to use as well. Idk i wasnt going to be the jerk to demand my money back, as she was still trying to get on her feet where shes living now but am i the asshole for wishing i had my money back?