a friend (gay male) and I (gay female) love Rocky Horror Picture Show, a cult classic movie musical. Every year on Halloween we go watch screenings of it. one thing to note, during screenings, the audience are allowed to scream and make loud vulgar jokes.

We are having a good old time calling the characters sluts and assholes, until we get to  a song called "I Can Make You a Man", where the mad scientist is singing about training his newly born muscle man to be his sex slave. As the character sing the phrase "I can make you a man" the audience may shout "a f\*g, just like your dad", so i did.

friend didn't say anything at the moment but after we left he told me he was uncomfortable about me using the word out loud. I said "why, for whole hour we were slut shaming characters and said other derogatory remarks. we were in a space where we allowed to say it out loud." 

we keep fighting about it , at the end we agreed to disagree.