Is EVERYBODY wrong in the post ? POST : This happened awhile ago but I still feel guilty about it. However I'm not sure I was an asshole or not.

 The situation was that my online boyfriend who lived in another country next to me, went on a family trip to my country. Obviously with the intention of meeting each other, we were very in love. I was 16 and he 18. This was the first time I'd met him, and I was very nervous. What happened was that he wanted me to have breakfast with him and his mom at his hotel, and I refused to. I told him I couldn't do it and that I was too anxious. This started an argument because he felt I was being a bad guest because his mom and him had traveled to my country and I didn't even sit down and properly meet her. His mom also apparently started viewing me as shady because I didn't come. I told him I was too scared to meet her basically. I should add that I really was, pretty terrified. 

He met my dad and my sister however, my dad grilled him with questions and I felt pretty bad. I did meet his brother and mom and introduced myself and shook hands. 

Was I the asshole for not agreeing to meet his mom?



