Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : Recently I got a new gf, first one in a while.  We've been together just over a week now. With her asking to be my girlfriend after the second date.

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On the second date I got her to orgasm with fingers, but she didn't want to have full sex just cuddle. Second time she stopped me using my hand before she orgasmed because she wanted to sleep and just cuddle.

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Third time I rushed to full sex because it seemed like there was a pattern with her losing interest the longer activity went on, we had 5 minutes of bad sex, after she didn't want to do anything else but cuddle. 

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Fourth time when we were cuddling, she complained when I caressed her . Fifth time we were in bed,  after having to spend an hour and a half watching some bad TV show, she kisses me deeply, but when I go for sex she says "I don't want sex", I ask her for clarification and she says "I don't like sex, just cuddling". I got so annoyed that I just walked out and found a bar to have a drink for a few hours. I came back to the house, the door woke her up and she just said "Oh you went out", and within 30 seconds she was back to sleeping. No question, no concern. 

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So at the moment I'm wondering when I should be bringing up this whole "I don't like sex" thing with her.

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Why I don't think I'm an asshole: Sex should be a standard part of any relationship, she's getting what she wants (a bf, cuddling, taken out for dinner) I'm not really getting what I want it should be a two way street. We're a new couple, we should be all over each other, it's only downhill from here. She goes on a business trip to another country next week for 2 months and since we're a new relationship, shouldn't she be making every effort to make sure we can survive the time apart, including making effort sexually? She spoke very sexually when we first met, she said she wanted to have sex on the first date but had work in the morning and then the next day she came round for sex. I feel almost like she lured me into a no sex relationship by being overly sexual at the start.

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Why I may be the asshole: She is incredibly loving and affectionate in every other place but the bedroom, she does make an effort in other areas of the relationship like paying for some things. She wants to spend a lot of time with me. It's not like she doesn't want to be close to me, she likes everything EXCEPT sexual touching. I posted this on some relationship subs and basically got called an asshole for not just wanting to cuddle and spend time with my gf with no sex.

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