Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : I got accepted into my dream school in another state. But my family was too poor to afford residence, and I was totally okay with going to a school in my city. But, my mom has a family friend who agreed to let me stay with her, RENT-FREE.

She's been kind of like a "motherly" figure to me in a way, while I'm away from my actual mom. She's 31, but looks way younger. I am grateful to stay with her rent free, and grateful to stay with her period. She's that bitch.

I don't have a specified "curfew" but honestly I hav no business being out in NYC at 2am in the morning. It stresses us both out if I'm out too late, so I always come home around midnightish. She told me that she'd prefer if I was home by then, and I respected that. But it wasn't like a "rule". 

I told her that I was going to the library overnight to study for midterms. But I was actually going to a club for St paddy's, and I just got a fake. I didn't want her to know because I didn't want to deal with her lecturing me, and it's honestly not her business what I do on weekends. I don't even drink. I just wanted to have fun with some friends. Midterms are stressful and I miss my family so bad. 

Long story short, I ended up bumping into her at the same club. She was beyond pissed off at me for being there and lying to her about. I would have understood her being upset that I lied (it's not very mature), but then she lit into me about being 18 in a new state and how I was being "dumb". Then she told ME WE WERE GOING HOME. But I wasn't shitfaced or anything. I didn't hookup with anybody. I was totally sober and taking care of my drunk ass friends.

I told her that she wasn't my mom and she couldn't tell me what to do. She told me that I was lucky that she didn't call my mom.  I was over it, and took a separate uber home and told her to stay. 

She says that I'm still her "responsibility" and that if I'm living under her roof, rent free, I need to respect her "rules". But why is she upset that I'm going out to a club? Lots of 18 year olds go out clubbing? Some of my friends were still 17 at the start of the semester and they were clubbing. I just feel like, because I am an adult. She should treat me like one. Calling my mom on me? That's childish. 

**BUT THE GAG IS**

I have a sister who's 25 and visited NYC last year. THEY WENT CLUBBING TOGETHER. So she can club with my older sister and get fucked up. But I can't? The only thing that's her saving grace is that it isn't legal yet for me to go clubbing and drink. 