My nephew is almost 2 and is the first child to a 24M and a 20F. They don’t live together but visit each other often enough. The father spends all of his free time gaming and if he isn’t gaming he is working. The mother lives with a roommate and has many visitors due to the roommate inviting men over about ever other week. The mother also lets me know that her roommate allows different men that she has barely met in and around the house when no one Is there. She also mentions that she isn’t well off and struggles to get certain necessities sometimes. 

My problem is that I’m inputting my opinion in certain situations where it  seems appropriate and then the father usually gets really upset when i do. My nephew isn’t super sick but he has allergies that make him constantly have a runny nose and a cough. Today while the mother was visting the father was playing his games again ( I forgot to mention that when the father has to watch the son he asks me to watch him  so that he can play his games) and my nephew seemed like he wanted to be picked up so I just said “ hey why don’t you pick him up” not in a mean or rude way just like hey why not try that? And the father went off and said that I’m always inputting opinions.

He brought up a recent incident where I had commented on a photo where my nephew didn’t have gloves on but was playing and building a snowman in the snow. I wouldn’t have payed any attention too it but the child has bronchitis currently and it’s about the 3rd or 4th time of him having it. He is on medication for it but also has to take 2-3 everyday just for allergies. The father has money has time to be able to buy gloves but will not and I wanted to input that hey maybe he should have a pair of gloves on. I’ve also commented on incidents where they were not wiping when changing him when he peed and just when he’s whiny or hungry. I usually just casually say like “ aww he’s probably hungry or awww he wants to be picked up.”

AITA: for inputting information to new parents about their child. 
