For the last few years I've spent Christmas and new year with my girlfriend at her parent's place both because I want to be with her and she wants to be with her parent, but also because I don't want to choose between either of mine who are divorced. 

My parents split about ten years ago and are on speaking terms but aren't friends, additionally while they wont admit it they seem to take offence if I spend any extended time with the other. So I made a conscious decision to not spend with time with either of them to avoid hurting the other one, but this year I've gotten strong hints from both of them and their respective side of the family that I should want to spend the holidays with them. 

I love being with my girlfriend, her family are all very kind and it makes the end of the year a lot easier and stress free for me. But I don't know, AITA for choosing to spend Christmas with my girlfriend's parents instead of my own?