Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Hi everyone,  I have (I feel) a rather unique situation. 

For starters: me [26F], Socially excluded girl (SE) [early 20s], EG friends [20-24 all F] and Excluder girl (EG) [early 20s]

So I've been in this group of all female friends for 2 years. SE came into the picture a year ago and she seemed to fit in fine, or so I thought. Recently, EG stopped talking to SE for an unknown reason and SE has been asking EG for months about why she's being ignored. 

Because SE wasn't getting any answers from EG, SE started talking to mutual friends and requesting them to ask EG why she was ignoring SE. From SE's perspective it appears she feels like she's being cast aside since all mutual friends have told her to leave EG alone. SE says she just wants to apologize for whatever she's done and move on.

Now, from the screenshots of the conversations I was sent from SE:
-SE had been trying to talk to EG for months but got no reply.
-SE used mutual friends to get an answer from EG about why she was being ignored. 
-Friends of EG tell SE to leave EG alone and SE said EG was being a bitch for not telling SE what her problem with SE was.
-EG sends a long message that essentially calls SE out for being a bad friend for talking shit behind her back. Also said she can choose who to be friends with and doesn't want to be friends with SE due to a personality clash.

I'm torn in this situation because although I don't condone how EG and friends have basically excluded SE, part of me feels like SE made a mountain out of a mole hill. SE is very upset and feels hurt because several of her friends chose EG over SE. I would normally be empathetic with someone who is being bullied, but part of me also feels like SE brought this on herself by dragging mutual friends into the drama and making them choose sides.

SE doesn't want me to ask EG or mutual friends for their side because she feels like EG would hate her more for it.

Reddit, I know how terrible SE must be feeling as we're the only friend group she really hangs out with. I don't want to choose a side though because I feel both parties contributed to the drama.

I would like to know what reddit's opinion is.