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About a year ago I met a girl in a Kpop Facebook group. We had been talking for quite a while but realized we lived about 30 minutes away from each other, so we decided to start hanging out in real life. At first, I was happy to have someone outside of the internet that had the same taste in music as myself but the more I got to know her, I started noticing things. 

To start off about 98% of her friends were online friends. She literally had me and someone else who she actually hung out with in real life and I understood since I’m not exactly a pro at making friends but then it would get ridiculous. We would be having dinner together and these internet friends of hers would be blowing up her phone and she would stop talking to me to message them. In general, she never took her eyes off her screen and if she saw a notification from a group or person she liked she would drop everything and check her phone. To top it all off, because she was basically glued to her Facebook, she would post constantly about EVERYTHING. If her coffee was cold she’d post about it, if she had a headache she’d post, literally everything. One thing she would constantly do would be making these long posts about how much she loves her friends except I noticed she never mentioned me which normally wouldn’t bother me but since she claimed I was one of her closest friends and she was always posting about other friends I was a bit confused.

After talking to her family and listening to things she’d share, I found out she had some mental difficulties, I’m talking ADHD, anxiety, depression, panic attacks, and many many phobias so I tried to give her a pass, but things just got worse. On top of basically feeling like a babysitter, I then began having to remind her to take her meds and to make sure she ate, showered and did other things. It got to the point where I even offered for her stay at my place for a week over Christmas because apparently, she had issues with the family that was going to be at her place. That was a week I would never get back. I ended sleeping on an air mattress with her in my basement (with a night light and a pile of stuffed animals) since my single bed was too small for her and she was too afraid of the dark to sleep alone in the basement. She barely wanted to do anything with me and spent the week on her phone with these online friends even though I had a million things planned for us to do together.

We went to a concert together and we spent two hours before the concert walking around the city looking for these people she had talked to in a group chat because “she wanted to talk to other fans of the group we were seeing” even though I was right there and loved that group and as much as I wanted to leave, I had no idea where I was in the city and was too terrified to get lost by myself. 

After the concert she told me she would pay me back for the ticket I had bought her since I wanted to make sure we were near each other and we agreed on a deadline for her to pay me back. Fast forward to now, I have received no money and she has been spending money on gifts (waaaaay above the amount she owes me) for these online friends of hers and on other concerts. Basically, I realized that even though I had been there for her in real life and had done so much for her, these online friends of hers would always come first and clearly there is no room in her heart for me.

I told her I didn’t want to be her friend anymore and now I’m being bombarded with messages by all these people including her about how I’m being selfish and that she needs me and that I can’t just abandon someone in her situation.

TL;DR -&gt; AITA for leaving someone who has been depending on me even though I clearly am not that important to them.