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The character limit is killing me :D

My girlfriend (19f) and I (21m) have been in a really good relationship for over 1 and a half years. Currently I am on an exchange semester, I will stay here from the beginning of february to the end of June. We will not see each other apart from video calls during this time.

One month in, we were texting. In the transcript I’ll label her as GF and myself as I:

GF: By the way, if you are feeling anything like me, you can make out with any girl, as long as you come back to me

I: What? Are you completely out of your mind?

GF: I am fully on withdrawal from you. No, I’m serious, it does not matter to me, as long as you come back to me in the end

I: Do you need to confess something to me?...

GF: No

I: Then stop with this bullshit

GF: Trust me, I’m being faithful, I even have my own Cockblocker (good friend)

I: I hope so

GF: I am happy with you, I do not need anyone else but I miss being close to you, the only person I’ve kissed since you are gone was (female friend of us)

I: What kind of logic is that then?

GF: My logic, I want you to feel good and that your missing nothing

And then you aren’t all alone anymore

I: If you think I’ll give you a free pass just because you offered me one, you are in the wrong, If I wanted to make out with anyone else, I’d be single and would not be mentioning you in any conversation I have

GF: just so you know, I talk about you all the time too and even if you gave me a free pass like that, I would not do it because I’m feeling really happy in our relationship but I don’t want to force you to do anything that makes you feel bad when I’m not around 

I: Do you really think, just because we are separated for 4 or 5 months that I jump on everything that moves? Do you really think our relationship means that little to me?

GF: no, but everyone has their needs, atleast I have our friends here, I’m not that alone here, I know that our relationship means a lot to you, that’s why I tell you you can do whatever you want, because I know that you will come back to me

I: Yes I’m “alone” here, without my friends, family and you, but does that make you think I do that kinda shit?

GF: I just wanted to give you the chance, I know that you love me and I love you, I never wanted to say anything that hurts you, I know you wouldn’t do something like that, but if it would help you get through those months, I just wanted to say that its OK for me

I: So wrong in place

GF: OK, I take it back, I’m sorry I just had it in my head and just wanted to say it, I’m really sorry and I love you

I: Can’t take something like that back, said is said and now I’m in doubt

GF: I don’t doubt you

I: But I doubt you now

GF: Are you serious? I do not do stuff like that

I: Yes, I am fucking serious

That was yesterday and since then we haven’t talked to each other. I kind of lost some trust in her now and I’ve been thinking a lot about what the future will bring

So AITA for being mad at her?