Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : A friend of mine had a huge crush on another friend of mine for a solid 6 months. It was pretty obvious. I can only assume it was her first love from what she's told me. I had a rather large crush on her myself at the time (and still do), but it was fine and dandy. She seemed happy and being upset about something dumb like that would definitely have made me the asshole.

So, after those 6 months, I had heard she was taking a trip to Japan, so I asked her if she was excited or not or just stuff about Japan since I'd never been to another country myself. For some reason, we really hit it off and we started talking a little bit too much for our own good. During that, she told me how *something* had happened between her crush and herself that was hard for her, but she never described much about it. I think it was that he wanted to date her right away but her parents didn't allow her too until she was 18 + she just wasn't ready.  


A few more weeks pass, I make a self-deprecating joke about something that had to do with love in some sorta way and my friend decides then is a *great* time to tell me she has feelings for me. I told her that I did too but I wasn't interested in a relationship simply due to the fact that I'm not ready for one. She agreed that she wasn't either and that we should just be friends, and that's why I'm still calling her my friend instead of something different in this post.

I'm certain that she likes me, it's been a year since she's told me that and she does all the things someone with a crush on somebody does. That's not what I'm concerned about.  


Whenever she mentions the boy that was her first love, it seems very vague as to what her relationship is with him. In a different conversation with her mother she got rather defensive about how "she didn't like him that much in the first place" but that isn't true, she did like him a lot and that's okay. When I have asked, the question seems as if it's avoided, which she does sometimes accidentally while continuing a different point and I've just had to nudge her in the right direction, but I'm still confused  


Since I am her friend, and not someone she's in any sort of romantic relationship with, I feel as if I can't press her further about it since we aren't in that kind of relationship ourselves. I feel as if I'm getting overly concerned about something I can not even guarantee in the future. It's fine if she still has feelings for him, I just have no clue if she does and what to think of this whole thing.  


AITA for wondering if a girl who's interested in me is also interested in someone else?