Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : This is the most trivial of trivial matters, but one that we've been going around and around on for the past eleven years. I'd like some impartial third-party input.

My husband has occasional acne flareups. I've asked him to go to a dermatologist, but he always puts it off. In the meantime, he's living with me - a compulsive picker. I see a zit, and I just have to pop it. When he gets a bad flareup, I feel a bit like a stalker; I find every excuse to come up behind him when he has his shirt off, and when he's lying on his stomach, I can't help but run my hand up his back and start picking.

Obviously, this behavior annoys him. 

Now, I'm convinced that it's my right to pick on him because he's refusing to see a doctor, and is thus knowingly tempting my obsession. He thinks I need to knock it off, because of course, it's irritating to him. I should mention that he doesn't mind me popping the big ones, and he'll often ask me to, but I just can't help myself. I'm almost always scraping at his back. 

Now that I type it out, I think I know that I'm being the asshole, here. But I'd like you to weigh in. AITA? Or am I completely justified, here? I feel like I'm doing him a favor by cutting down on the acne.