So my fiance Joe and I have a pretty good relationship. This story has a few parts to understand where it's coming from.

Tldr- I sometimes in good fun wack my fiance and he went awhal 

Joe and I were messing around, I was wacking him with a sock and he was wacking me with a knitted hat. We were laughing, joking, having fun. He goes to walk away and as he does I hit him with a pair of underwear on his leg, he then went awhal and screamed at me about hitting him and how hes told me to stop.....which stems from 2 other times....

We were in the car and I was getting business done for him on the phone. They needed his ID number so I let him know preumptively. When I got to an agent and they asked the number I was miming to him to indicate for the ID number while saying something on the phone about getting the number. He didnt respond so I started tapping his shoulder (I didnt think it was hard, he did) and he eventually understood.

A few days later we were driving and his hand was in my lap, I warned him of the upcoming school zone and when we got there he sped up to like 23 in a 20 as a "joke" and my anxiety went through the roof so I started wacking his hand telling him to *slow down* 

I also regularly slap his ass and sometimes I miss and hit a bit too high which I know can hurt, but so does he. 

I also slap his face with my boobs often which he is receptive to and encourages, but I know that can hurt?

I also will lightly slap his man boob as a joke because he likes to do the same to mine

When we later fought because he screamed at me he said he was sick of me hitting him and refused to discuss the issue past that, despite the fact he was joking *with* me and showed no social cues of being bothered by the sock fest. He then said discussing it made him uncomfortable and wanted to just drop it.

I have already agreed I would not mess with him except in certain ways anymore, but I'd like to know if I'm truly wrong or if he overreacted
