My brother is 7 years younger than me. He's 22. I'm 29. He didn't go to University, he works as a waiter right now. I went to University, I went to Law School, I work in Private Equity. I have offered to pay for my brother's University but he declined, he's a "mature student" so schools would not take his high school into consideration he would just have to do like a semester of general courses and would get in if his grades were high enough from that semester. He isn't doing anything to better himself he's overweight, he's not taking care of himself. I just don't see him as someone I should be wasting time and energy thinking about or caring about because he doesn't want it and doesn't do anything to improve his life. He hasn't done any bad to me our relationship is fine he's just a complete failure and quite frankly i'm embarrassed about how little he's done with his life. 