Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : First comes the context. Our sales team was assigned to change the number to the new formate (For ex: 0123xxxxx -&gt; 083xxxxx). Everyone needs to do it. To make my work easier, I created some formulas for my own usage and done with my works. Seeing others was troubling, I decided to share it and instructed them on how to use it. Because I don't know how to write macros, my sheets contain a table and each column is a calculation step so it's not so simple. Also, there are also some extra steps to check if the formula works as intended (is there a hidden apostrophe? Is there a double slash between numbers?). So you can't just put it in and get the results.

So today, I've modified the table to make it easier to use and inform the girl I'm working with that there's a change. To make sure if she doesn't any important steps, I asked her with a serious tone: "Do you still remember the steps that I've shown you?". She got annoyed and said: "It only applying the formulas to the table like always, right? It's easy? There's no need to teach me again". I got quite irritated and say, "Okay, then go ahead?". 5 minutes later, she turned to me and asked that "There's something wrong with the formulas".

Me: What's wrong?

Her: The number doesn't change.

Me: Did you use "text to column"?

Her: But you didn't tell me about that!

Me: Yes I did. After I shown you the steps to put the formulas, I also reminded you at the end of our talk that you should use "text to column" first to make sure everything works correctly.

Her: I don't remember it.

Then I had a serious talk (angry voice) with her about when someone help her by giving instruction, don't act displeased or not willing to listen. She then said:

Her: It's just because of the way you asked me. You sounded like a teacher who tried to ask if the student still remember what he was taught.

She then made comments about how people working in the same environment should be supportive, not being bossy or hard to others etc...

Am I the asshole in this case?
