Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : So this happened last night. For starters, I (18 f) have never went on a date. I had pretty strict parents in high school and do to cultural reasons I wasn’t allowed to date until college. So I meet this guy on a dating app who seems super nice. We texted for a while and then he ends up asked me out on a date for valentine’s day. Again, HE made the move to ask me on that specific day. I was super excited and happily said yes. 

We go to the same college so we decided on him coming over to watch a movie. Naturally I assumed that that might progress to other things so my roommate agreed to leave to a friend’s dorm (I’ve done this for many times).  I told him my roommate would be leaving at a certain time, but she leaves about 30 mins earlier. I text him saying he can come over. 30 mins pass, then an hour passes, and he never replies. Finally, I get frustrated and tell him to please let me know if he’s even coming and then he says that he’s so sorry that but he’s got this assignment due that night that he has to submit and he’ll let me know because tonight might not work. I was pissed to say the least. I just feel like he didn’t even think about the time I had to put in. My roommate and I deep cleaned my room, she had to leave, and obviously I had to shave, do my hair, and other things to prepare. He couldn’t have met me know earlier that it might not work?

 My first ever date on Valentine’s day never bothers to tell me he probably is too busy beforehand until I’m literally sitting there waiting for him and texting him. I responded pretty shortly with an “okay” and he texted back that he’s sorry. I don’t think he thinks that he’s in the wrong here and I’m pretty sure that he wants to reschedule. But am I the asshole for not wanting to give him another chance?