My friend V, she’s has some really really bad mental problems. Most people in our friend group do but she has it the worst

I care about her, but it’s so exhausting comforting her because she just refuses to ever listen to anything I or anybody says

She also is kind of,, I don’t know, for lack of a better word, selfish maybe? 

My mom is abusive, I was trying to find someone who’s house I could stay at for a bit in our group chat, and she says “oh that sucks.” Then proceeds to talk about her boyfriend for like thirty minutes. (It turned out fine, one of my friends DM’d me and I went to her place.) 

And she’s constantly saying depressing shit in the group chat, now more then ever sense her previously mentioned boyfriend broke up with her because she was being really really overwhelming in their relationship (he’s my best friend of 8 years, as to why I know the reasons of their breakup. He didn’t tell her that but that’s what it was.) And it’s discord so I just pretend I don’t see it

But I feel awful. She’s a person who has mental problems as so many of us do and I’m just ignoring her

There’s a few people in group chat who try and talk and calm her down but she just keeps saying “no, you’re wrong, I’m garbage” and refuses to take any compliments and god it’s so annoying!

I feel bad for feeling this way.

To be honest I’m not even that close with her, I’ve only seen her in person once, and I’d consider us to really only be acquaintances. Mutual friends.

This is all over the place, I apologize 

Please be honest, rip me a new one if you have to