Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Context: Discussing NFSW on discord with my favorite small twitch streamer and mutual fans of said twitch streamer (when I say small I mean like 10 views per live stream).

We were talking about NFSW stuff and we all asked him about his kink or fetish because he asked to for recommendations. I honestly don't have a clue as to how and why we were even talking about NFSW. Anyways I was one of the people who asked him (just for fun and as a joke)  and he messaged me on snapchat (I'm a new fan of his so I don't know much and I can't say that we're close) about his fetish.

At first, I thought it was a joke and asked if I could expose him to a mutual fan who I compete against for the "love" of our favorite streamer. 

He obviously said no. That's when I realized that he was seriously letting it go like a waterfall, exposing a soft and strange side to the streamer that I've watched for a few months. To say in the least... I was weirded out. 

Then he kept on asking for recommendations and how he really couldn't get it up for normal porn.... I have no idea honestly. I told him that he was a weirdo for telling me this and that he was sharing stuff that he should with someone he didn't really know... 

And that he should be asking his guy friends as I'm a girl who has no idea about this stuff and only talked about it in chat just for the jokes and memes. Like what....

But at the same time I have a difficulty with identifying who is friends with me and who I am friends with... You see?  I might not see him as a friend but he might see me as one... 

He also said that he was scared to share this with his guy friends and male audience (99.9%). He told me to not expose him or else he would never share his worries (wrong word I suppose) with me ever again.

But at the same time..... Haha.... He kind of gives me the jitters. Like a radical incel would or a closet SJW or a tweaker who's slowly getting addicted or a 40 year old dad who hasn't done it in ten months looking for a snack. 

All in all, he kind of got offended, I believe. As he stopped replying less and less and eventually left me on read...

Am I the asshole?

