He likes me, I like him, we both know it. 
We were hanging out at a friends house and we’re left alone, everything was good until I started dropping hints that I wanted to kiss him, he got the hits very quickly and kissed me and I kissed him back. We stayed the rest of the day together, we gave each other a little kiss from time to time. 
When we both left and went home, I thought about things and having an actual relationship with him... turns out I’m not really ready for one, my mental health is not good; so I text him a paragraph saying how sorry I was and that I can’t have a relationship at the moment, that I can’t take it and I explained to him why, he said he understood and was willing to wait for me to be ready but he tends to bottle up his emotions so idk if I hurt him or not.
Was I the asshole for telling him on the very same day we kissed? 
