Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : My mom is going on a trip tomorrow.

She had a row with my stepfather just last night.

Stepfather is kind of a control freak and because they aren’t speaking, he tells me to weasel out information about my mother’s trip including the name and contact of her friends, the tour guide, where she is staying etc. 

He didn’t say it out loud but his tone clearly screams ‘Do this using any means necessary’ 

I think he wants me to break into my mom’s phone.

I know that him having this information will make my mom feel unhappy and betrayed.

I just think it’s an invasion of privacy and unfair for him to use me like this. I feel dirty.