Long distance relationship, like Europe to U.S. long 30/m and 45/f. She's visiting me for 5 weeks. She has less then a week left. I have made EVERY day since she was in town available to her except my Friday nights. Those have been my D&amp;D nights for the past 6 years. She knew this when we were still just talking. Her previous two trips its been the same way. I have given up 5 weeks of pokemon hunting/raiding on my own free will coming home to see her each night. Skipping out on community days and hanging out with my friends except the Friday nights. 

With the snow storms hitting lately we were snowed in for 5 days and I did my best to give her a good time watching movies and spending time together. The last two nights Ive come home to her being in a grumpy attitude. I try to talk to her and get one or two word answers. I give her space and let her play on my computer while I sit on the bed with a switch ready to suspend it if she talks to me. Wednesday night she said nothing all night then gets upset at bedtime because "the day didn't go as planned". Last night similar thing but I was able to talk to her for a few minutes. All week Ive offered to drive us to the beach for the weekend if she wants to go and Ive offered to talk time off work next week to spend with her. She doesn't see that. She just sees that the one night a week for my friends is in her way. Yes I hardly see her. No she doesn't have anyone else to spend time with while Im at my friends for 4-5 hours on Friday nights. Yes I offer to invite her.

Is it wrong to want 1 night a week to myself/friends even if she is visiting? We got invited to a friends party this weekend and Ive left it up to her if we go but her main resistance is that a friend (younger then her, older then me) who is recently separated/divorced will be there and things the friend is inviting me to hit on me even though I am not interested in her like that. Im still taking off 3 days next week before she flies out to do what ever she wants but she doesn't have an answer for that.
