Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : Bit of background, my girlfriend and I are both in our late twenties and have been dating exclusively for a couple of months, we’ve known each other for about six months in total. We’re both women and so far things have been going great apart from an incident that happened at the weekend that’s left me feeling a bit weird.

This weekend we went out locally with a group of her friends and some plus 1’s that neither of us have known longer than a month (about six of us in total, all gay women) to have a drink at the local bars. It is important to note that one of the women has feelings for my girlfriend, they went on one date before we got together and my gf told her that she didn’t feel a spark and moved on. The woman, however, has a habit of telling my gf she still likes her when she gets drunk, but that’s a story for another day. Gf usually ignores or reiterates she isn’t interested. We started drinking and all got caught in a transient rainstorm so trooped back to my girlfriends house which was the closest to dry our hair and get warm before we went back out to continue. Everything was going fine, we arrived back and popped the fire on then started taking it in turns to dry our hair using her hairdryer in the living room.

My girlfriend disappeared to her room to change her trousers into dry ones with it being her house, the next thing I know she’s back in the living room wearing a short top and *nothing* on her lower half other than a pair of high cut black underpants. I was confused, she’d just come from her room with plenty of trousers to wear, I asked her why she was half naked and she told me she was drying her trousers on the radiator and was waiting for them to be ready but skirted around why she hadn’t just put some shorts/trackies/anything on in the interim.

She then proceeded to walk around the living room like this for a while, I noticed the other women looking uncomfortable and the woman who is attracted to her also looking awkward. The next day when we were sober and alone I told her I thought it was inappropriate, especially considering she’s aware one of her friends still has feelings for her. She doesn’t agree, her house her dress code apparently. She wasn’t impressed with my view and basically told me I was a dick for even bringing it up. Honestly it felt a little exhibitionist and disrespectful to me.

I left it as I didn’t fancy escalating it into an argument and felt I needed another opinion - perhaps I’m a prude? I don’t know. I just feel at our age we should be past that type of silly behaviour. It’s left me feeling weird about the whole thing and questioning on whether I want to pursue this relationship. So Reddit, AMITA?

