I(26m) decided that I was going to go on one more spring break vacation with my boys and that was during the last spring break I went on, which was in 2018. The vacation was set to be a full week which I told her about since the beginning of our relationship. So it has been set in stone for awhile. Me and my SO have been together since November of 2018 which is not that long but long enough for us to be getting pretty serious. We don’t live together but she comes over often. I would say on average 4 times a week. 

Before I left I would tell her to come over to my house every day, instead of the usual of other day or so, but  I  get off a  late from work a lot and most of the time we would get together by 9ish at night and I would be going to sleep pretty soon after that because I wake up at 6am, and the longer day wipes me out. Even then I would stay up with her until about 1030 to 11ish, because I wanted to spend more time with her before I left. 

I left on Saturday and on Friday we were hanging out from the time I got out of work until about 1030 that night. This is when one of my best friends, pretty much my brother, wanted to come over because he wasn’t going to going to go on the  trip with me and my other best friend. All of us are basically family. 

Now this is were it went bad because I hung out with them all night and we got drunk. I ended up drinking something bad or my stomach just wasn’t feeling right and I got sick and felt like throwing up in the middle of us having sex. She didn’t seem to be mad at me about this and was trying to be consulting about it but I felt like a POS after that happened. Then I woke up late the next morning because of the drinking. She wanted me to have sex with her again to make up for what I had done the night before  but I had to leave to get to where me and my fiend were going for spring break which was about an 8hr drive so I told her that all I could really do was have a quickie and she made it seem like by saying that she was just some side chick or something like that. 

I never really thought that it was that big a deal when I said it but I do see her point. In my mind I just wanted to get to where me and my friend had to go and spend one more night with my brother before I left for the week because I rarely get to see him now, maybe once a month, because he is with a girl that is really controlling of him. I feel like I do see her point but also that I really didn’t do a thing wrong because I’ll be coming hack relatively soon. 