Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : I know this was last month but it recently came up in conversation again.

So this is the story ( a little long sorry):

 I (25F) am married (29M) and we have no kids. My husband has nieces and nephews (4 nieces and 1 nephew). We are newly weds but have been together for 7 years now, so I have been around the kids since they were little. Up to last year there was only 3 kids, both siblings just recently had baby girls. His brother now has 3 kids (11 yr old boy, 7 yr old girl and babygirl) and his sister has 2 girls (11yrs and babygirl). Every year we give the kids a Christmas present and of course we give them presents for their birthdays as well. Every year his brother hints at us that we should get his kids something expensive or more than one present each. For example, his son wanted a hover board and told him in front of us "don't worry your uncle can get it for you this Christmas" or in one occasion he said something like "I'll get my kids gifts but then you two can show up with even more gifts for each". It seems like because we have no kids he expects us to spend our money on his. This past Christmas I was texting his wife asking her what she was going to get the other two girls (their sisters daughters) and her response shocked me a bit. She said "I only ever buy gifts for the kids, MY kids". Keep in mind their sister has only had 1 daughter for 11 years until she recently gave birth to the babygirl, so all these years she only had to buy one more present on top of what she gets her kids. Me on the other hand, have had to get 3 kids presents without ever getting anything in return. They have never ever in 7 years given us any kind of presents. Never for our birthdays, Christmas, or even a wedding present. I never noticed this until recently. I am not a materialistic person but I do think that the thought counts. A $10 shirt or some chocolates or cookies anything to let us know that they thought about us and at least had the intention to get us something. But they are not like that, they love to receive but never give. This is not just with us, its in general. They go to birthday parties for the free food, they throw birthday parties for the gifts etc.. 

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Ok so this past Christmas after I asked her and she said she was only getting something for her kids I thought that I should do the same. My husband and I have no kids, so I decided not to get anything for his nieces and nephew. I told my husband this and he said the kids were used to getting something from us every year so they might be confused if we got them nothing. He also said that its not their fault that their parents are cheap and selfish. While I was out Christmas shopping for my mom and sisters, my conscious got at me and I ended up getting all 5 kids a small present each. 

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So you might think how is she an a\*\*hole if she ended up getting them presents? Well after seeing how the kids reacted when we gave them their gifts my husband has decided to not buy them anything from this point forward. They came over to our house and the first thing his niece said was "where is my present?" before even saying Hi or giving us a hug. The 11 yr old boy said that he didn't want clothes for Christmas thats not a real present and the 7 yr old girl asked where are the rests of her gifts and why was there only one. 

So my question is Would We Be A\*\*holes if we stop buying his nieces and nephew Christmas presents from now on??? AITA for putting that thought in my husband in the first place????I know their just children but I do kind of regret buying them presents this time. We don't have kids yet so maybe I don't understand them.

AITA?