around 2 years agoi think october 2017, my friend (i will call X) met a girl(i'll call Y). they met on discord in the server of X's favorite game, so they both got along quickly cause they played the same game. 

all i know is that every night X and Y would be video chatting (we were all the same age) and X would always tell stories about their gameplay at school. X would sometimes stay up late just to play with her (cause time zones). i played with them sometimes, Y was a very fun girl to be with, it was easy to get along with her.

one day in school, X told me he liked her and she was his first love. i wasn't really surprised, he talked about her like she was the only good thing in his life. but around march 2018 Y was gone. she unfriended and blocked him and all of their mutual friends on basically all platforms.

X was devastated, of course i was upset but i didn't feel the grief to his level (me and Y were not that close) 2017 was a very rough year for X and i know that, he would sometimes say that Y was the reason why he didn't give up that time, he's tried many times to get into contact with her, but nothing. i've also tried to and it was to no avail.  


it's 2019, X is still upset and has never been the same. last night, we were calling on discord and he once again mentioned Y. i kinda got frustrated and snapped, i told him it's already been a year and he should "move on cause i'm sure she already did." he stayed quiet and just ended the call.

i feel really guilty for saying that but i knew he had to move on.. if am an a-hole, please tell me how i can help him, thanks  


  
this is my first reddit post, i've been watching a bunch of reddit youtubers (fresh, comment awards, etc)  for awhile. apologies if this doesn't seem so reddit-y