Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : So about 4 months ago, I was dating this girl for about 10 to 11 months. Me and her were getting along fine, but it seemed a little weird that she always wanted to come to my house but never me go to hers. I soon found out that she had a son from a previous relationship that she had been hiding from me for nearly a year. I thought about it over night and decided to break up with her because my thinking was if she was hiding this from me what else could she be hiding. Am I the asshole?