Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : So the happened during the summer it was close to school time and I was hanging out with a couple people We will call them Lenny and John (not real names) So Lenny and John had been my friends for close to three years and we met in mid school. So we went to the park which was fine up until I heard someone else was going to be there we will call him Tim. I didn’t know Tim very well but we had been friends for a couple months. So me not being told I went into freaking out mode I have bad anxiety this is why I always carry my vape with me. So my friends and I get to the park and start hanging out with Tim. Little did I know that Tim had a crush on me and John had a crush on him. Tim asked to lay on me and I didn’t care. By that point you could see John didn’t like this but I had already said yes and with my anxiety I didn’t want to kick Tim off of my leg so we continue. Tim admits while Lenny and John are off on the swings that he’s liked me for a while. I didn’t know John had a crush on him so I said “that’s cool.” (We has been sharing my vape at this point) I was giving the puffs to Tim and Tim attempted to kiss me. Of course I moved away and he ended up kissing my cheek this angered John and Lenny causing them to leave the park without me. Later I had to go get my charger from Johns home and after a while they told me to leave back to my aunts. After that a huge fight broke out between all of us and they ended up kicking me out of the group because a straight guy didn’t like John. 

Am I the asshole for not understanding Johns crush on Tim? 