Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : So I've known my roommate (Male, who shall be known as RM) for over a year now, and I'd say we are pretty good friends. The college I goto has frats that rarely throw parties allowing guys in, so these parties are kinda a big deal for me and my friends. However, the caveat is that you need a good ratio of girls in your group to get in.

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Me and my best friend (Male, known forward as BFF) are planning to go along with our female friends. My RM also wishes to go, but BFF says that this would throw the ratio off, and would probably squander our chances of getting in. BFF says that I should tell RM to take a separate uber there with his own group if he wants to go. 

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But I know that RM doesn't have a lot of girl friends of his own, and probably is too shy to go into a party by himself. I agreed with BFF about this plan but I feel guilty as though it is kinda shitty to my RM. Even though my RM isn't my first choice for a party animal buddy, I still see him as a good friend and he would probably be a bit disappointed I'm not letting him go in with my group. 

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But then again my BFF is right that frats parties at my college keep a strict ratio and even adding in one more guy can risk our chances of getting in. AITA for picking a party over my RM's feelings by making him uber separately with his own friends?

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