Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : To start, I'm not exactly sure what I want with this post. Maybe I just want to vent, I probably want advice.

I have been a squatter for the last 3 or 4 years. I'm from the Netherlands so it might be a bit more common here, I don't know. Anyhoo, last november we heard that we (me and my roommate) have to leave our house. Nothing much I can do about that, that is just how it is with squatting. You win some you lose some. All this time I was under the impression that if it was ever needed, I could stay with my mom, because she has said so.

I own two lovely cats, and for me it was implied that if I was to stay with my mom temporarily, I would take my cats with me. We are a package deal. However, since my moving out date has been closing in and so far I have no other options, she has been backtracking. She's been saying that she enjoys her house how it is, without pets. How clean it is now, and how little she has to do in terms of cleaning. I understand that, I love not having to clean.

So today I had a conversation with her, how it is very unlikely that I will find new housing within 4 weeks, and that my only option is to go stay with her with my cats until I find something else. That is when she said she doesn't want me to stay there if I bring my cats. My mother is not fond on animals in general (which I don't understand at all but whatever, you do you) and I can understand her not wanting animals in the house but for fucks sake, I am her daughter and I will be homeless in 4 weeks. I feel so rejected and I am so hurt and pissed, because to me it seems like she doesn't understand how much my cats mean to me. She straight up said that I would be welcome, if I dumped my cats somewhere else.

Of course this turned into a huge fight, and I'm wondering if I have been unreasonable... to me, me and my cats are a package deal, they are family. I feel rejected because she is my mother and I have always felt like I could count on her no matter what, and it now feels like she wants to help me only under certain conditions. I haven't spoken to her since because I know I shouldn't say things out of anger or sadness, and that's why I am coming to you Reddit. AITA?