Long story but I’ll be brief. 

I’ve been with my girlfriend for 14 months now and she still hasn’t told her parents about us. She’s 25 and works as a doctor so her schedule is pretty hectic and she finds it hard to make time for me. Any free time she has she usually spends it with her family or her flatmate. Sometimes she can have 3 or 4 days off per week and can’t see me because she’s spending time with her family. 

We don’t live far apart (5 miles) and her parents live round the corner from me (which I find even stranger that she hasn’t told them about me as I sometimes pass them a few times a week). 

We still haven’t had sex yet either (she says there’s a reason for this but won’t tell me what it is - I assume it’s something bad based on a couple of things she’s said but I’m not sure). She’s definitely not a virgin though and has had more than one partner before. 

It was my birthday a few months ago and I said that I didn’t want a present but she insisted on getting me one and suggested us going on a holiday and even though she’s had time off, she doesn’t want to talk about planning it but she keeps saying that she’s interested in going with me. 

Whenever I bring this up to her, she says that she’s busy with work and feels that we see each other a decent amount and that her family are very important to her (which I completely get and admire) but I just don’t see why she can’t tell them about me and see them during the day (when she’s off) and then see me in the evening. 

So, am I the asshole here or are some of my feelings justified? 

Thanks for any answers (even if they are blunt and honest). 