Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : I have an 8-week-old daughter who is the best thing that’s ever happened to me. Overall my wife and I have adjusted really well to our lives as new parents. 

The one issue is diaper changing. I have an embarrassingly week stomach. I told my wife before we even started trying for a baby that I can’t do diapers. I think she didn’t take me seriously or thought I would feel differently with my own kid. But I do not feel differently. Obviously I will change her if I am the only one around (which hasn’t really been the case yet because my wife hasn’t really spent any time away from the baby yet, which I get). It’s just not something I want to be a primary responsibility for me. 

For context, my wife is an RN but she isn’t working right now. I work full time, so my wife takes on more of the household labor but I pitch in a lot too, especially because the baby has us both tired. I will do feedings and baths and all of that and I don’t mind any of it. And I love spending time with my daughter, of course. 

My wife hasn’t made a huge fuss about it but she does make some passive aggressive remarks and “jokes” about the fact that I don’t change her. I don’t want this to become a point of resentment. But I also don’t think it’s that serious if this one task is delegated (almost) solely to her? 

Alright, judge away, I guess. 
