I find it really irritating when people leave their mic open in games. Somehow it’s always someone who thinks their music is good enough to be blared over their Tin can mic or somebody with a crying baby in the background. 

Now I never report them without first asking them to turn it off or to use push to talk, and I always help them set that up if they don’t know how, I’m not going to go all shitting pigeon on someone who doesn’t know their mic is open, or someone who switches when asked. I’m not trying to get someone banned or suspended because they irritate me. But when I ask nicely and they tell me to fuck off or “it’s a good song dude just enjoy it” then I report them, and always for something like communication abuse and never for cheating. 

I told a friend this and they told me I’m being a dick, but I’m not sure if I’m really being an asshole? ( I also only do this in games where there is no option to mute the individual player) 