Okay, so I live with my mum and two younger sisters and this weekend, Mum took a girly weekend holiday to Dublin. The house was kind of a mess when she left, so she told us to split to chores between us.

My middle sister was working both afternoons and evenings, leaving my youngest sister and I to pull part of her weight, so we decided to split it half way between us. 

She did her half first and then cane to tell me what was left to do. I got around to it and completed it in my own time Friday evening and then I went back to my room to chill.

On Saturday, I began work at 7pm and I came home at 4am this morning. (I’m a bar tender, nights like that are normal)

She leaves it to 6pm Saturday evening to tell me I did a shit job and that I should start over. I told her that even if I wanted to do that, I have no time as I had to get ready and leave for work in the space if 40 min and she was PISSED. She was swearing, slamming doors, just throwing a huge childish tantrum (she’s 14).

So I go to work, I come home exhausted and she wakes me up 6 hours later to tell me that Grandad has come to visit. I look like I just been stood behind a plane taking off, I can barely understand what he was saying because I was just that tired.

After he leaves, my sister is like “So are you going to help me now?” I told her not right now, I’m exhausted, I got home at 4am this morning, I’ve slept 6 hours after a painfully long and exhausting bar shift, the last thing I want to do is pack the dishwasher. So she throws another tantrum, complaining about how lazy I was yesterday, that she has to do everything in the house and just all round that life is unfair.


AITA and how can I convince her otherwise if I’m not.