Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : I am 24 and have a 1 year old. I'm tired of being disappointed by them. They'll make plans to come over and never show. I made lunch plans on a tuesday and they rescheduled twice finally for a dinner they were going to bring something or we were all going out once my husband got home. Thirty minutes before they were going to show they called and said they werent coming . Because from where they were traffic was bad .[ traffic was also bad going home ] they were 20 minutes away at an appointment . It's an endless cycle of not showing up and guilt trips from my mother over everything. She was guilt tripping me when i was in labor over not wanting them to stay i just wanted my husband in the room. My dad took our wedding pictures over two years ago. Still haven't seen them. They don't follow through they dont show up. I don't want to have to explain to my crying daughter in the next year or so and for the rest of her life why my parents don't bother coming around or say they will and want to take her places and don't come. I hate going to their house. It reeks of cigarettes and weed from them smoking in the house when i get home after being at their house i need to shower give my daughter a bath and wash anything that goes in their house.


I'm tired of guilt trips and being angry and sad when they can't be bothered to show up. 