Now, before you guys say I’m controlling my boyfriend is very attractive and gets DMs from girls almost every day. He doesn’t meet up with them but he sucks at rejecting them and often he’ll barely hold a conversation with them, but they’ll take that sliver and run with it, trying to ask him out, or even heckling him to come see them. Even when he flat out rejects them he ends up getting thought piece like messages about their feelings and what not and I hate hearing him complain about them not respecting him enough to leave him alone.

The other day he got a dm from a girl
Who has the same name as me. She basically was like hey we went to school together which he acknowledged and they had a brief conversation. 

Afterwards she DM’d him asking if he wanted to hang. Me and him were looking for something to do so I told him to say yes. 

She invited him and only him to the fair with her and her son. And while I know he wouldn’t go (because he doesn’t like kids) i didn’t want him to send her an asshole message or read it and not reply. 

So I went to his followers (on his account) and removed her as a follower. Once I did that I unfollowed her from his account and then blocked her. 

I did this without his permission and because he’s the type to looking for messages I went and sent him several DMs, cleared those notifications, and then un-sent them so that when he checks his phone it’ll look like she unsent the message(s) vs, me deleting them. 


