Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Ok so at first glance of course I wouldn't be but just read on, please.

1) the topic of rape came up in my mind an I asked her if she has done martial arts before, she said no

2) I tell her that I want to teach her how to defend herself (i am a martial arts instructor) and she says no.

3) I continue to push that idea and then suggest she at least let me teach her some break always just in case (a way to break a persons grip, even one much stronger than you) she tells me no again. Once again I push


So yea. A few things to note about her is that she does not like to be protected, has had an extreamly rough childhood (horrible parenting on her moms part), she doesn't like to plan for the future or to worry about things she doesn't feel are worth it.


Please fully consider the possibility that I am an asshole, i want brutality honest answers here. Ik that this is the internet and you rarely get what you want from it but in this case i want part of what the internet is known for.