Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : To start things off, let me just say- I've moved out and couldn't be happier to be in a better situation. As I reflect, I generally just want some insight as to what other people have to say about the people involved in my previous living situation.

Some background on the people involved: Person A is a 31 year old "on-the-fence trans"/lesbian woman whose parents originate from Iran but I am not convinced she actually spent much time living in Iran, mostly just in her early childhood. Person B is a 31 year old singer/actor who performs in plays. She's hardly home and brings home a good amount of new men. Person C is a 31 year old straight male bartender/massage therapist. I am a 26 year old gay man who works as an Engineer. Person A and C are both on the lease, person B is subletting a room in the apartment (as was I).

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So, last year May 2018 I move into a four person apartment in San Francisco with the people aforementioned. My initial relationship was with C, and I had to have a roommate interview with A, B, and C together in the living room. A was very hyper-critical/standoffish to me, but I was able to navigate the social situation enough to land myself a room as I was in desperate need of a place to live. Fast forward a few weeks and it comes to my attention that I left a few stray hairs from my beard in one of the two sinks in the bathroom. "A" has a big pet peeve, and she spoke to me about it. Supposedly, despite my attention to cleaning up after myself, it happened again. This time, she needed to sit down with me and talk about the issue when I legitimately didn't see a reason to, as I made sure to clean up after myself and had a feeling she was being a bit hypercritical about one or two stray hairs that got away (which is natural, and I believed was something that should be overlooked to a certain degree when living with others). So, we were off to a rocky start but I tried to soften her up and just get along with her as best I could. As time went on, I ended up in a very meaningful relationship with my boyfriend, and he started spending the night very frequently. We were always in my room, and it was pretty normal that all of the people I lived with kept to themselves in their rooms with the occasional casual interaction in the common spaces. 

Some random day, I get a text from person A that she's got to speak with me about something. I ask her what the problem was as I was travelling soon and wouldn't have time for another sit-down when she explained that she felt my boyfriend was spending too many nights over. Mind you, I didn't think she had a right to say when I could or couldn't have my boyfriend over as he never consumed our resources in the apartment (food, water, etc..) and we always kept out of her space. I felt as if she got to a point where she really needed to just find something to complain about as she didn't like me. Who knows. A few days later I asked her what exactly she had a problem with about him staying over in my room, and she stated that my boyfriend once "startled her" and she was bothered by the fact that we cooked "all day Saturday" in the kitchen (I made a homemade soup that took maybe an hour or two). We fought a bit, I told her I felt that she just wanted to start problems because she was the one in the apartment that was always raising issues over small things and it was stressful for everyone. She got mad and started to order that I move out of the apartment. I left for England in December and haven't returned yet. I gave little less than a 30 days notice to the person C (the other master tenant) and haven't returned to San Francisco. My friends moved my belongings out of my room for me and are storing them until I am able to move back.

Person A told me that she would file a restraining order against me, and she got Person B to lie and say that she "saw me attack (Person A) the first house meeting" (we had it because Person A had problems with me after I didn't care to waste time discussing the hair shavings in the sink).  Person A sent me harassing text messages because I initially told her I would not move out until I was willing and able to. 

Am I the asshole for having my boyfriend over most nights when we stay to ourselves and not putting up with the harassment?