Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : Holy shit boys do I got a Christmas story for you!

So for about a week and a half I've been talking to this girl I met on Tinder. We went on a date about three days after we matched and we hit it off pretty well. Got ice cream, went to look at lights, went back to my place, watched a movie, made out, good times. We've been talking daily since and we get along! There's a connection, yay!

Yesterday, we're talking and she's telling me about how shitty her Christmas has been, family issues and all the like. I joked that we could have our own Christmas with Disney movies and pizza rolls and shit (I'm a very romantic person) and she surprisingly was really down to come over. So I got ready, and picked her up from her place.

I'll spare you guys most of the fine details, but we had a few drinks, started watching movies, and things got a bit frisky. Things progressed after a while, and we had our first go at things in my living room. Felt each other up, lots of foreplay-like stuff. A lot of it was rough (we are both really kinky) and it went on for a good hour. I eventually fingered her and got her off a couple of times. Good to know I can still find the right places.

We watched another movie and it was starting to get late (like 2am at this point) and I offered for her to stay the night because I was getting pretty tired and didn't want to go back out in the snow. She agreed, and we moved into my room. This is where things got really fucked up.

She obviously wasn't finished and was still really horny. She reached in my pants and admittedly I got really turned on. She gave me a handjob (and eventually a blowie) and we had both stripped down. More foreplay stuff, and I even ate her out. Well, I know that with most times like this, people expect that on the second date and you're sleeping over, you're probably gonna get laid. But I'm just not comfortable with actual sex so soon. This was apparently an issue because she REALLY wanted it at this point, and I was just not cool with it. I was happy to get her off and stuff, but sex wasn't gonna happen. I told her that. She didn't like that answer.

She got really pouty (in a flirtatious way) and I just had to keep telling her I was cool with everything else, but not actual sex. She actually ended up getting really frustrated, saying "Nobody ever tells me no" and "I don't know if you've seen me, but I can get whoever I want" and from there I just knew shit was going to go downhill. We laid there for a sec, and I offered to take her home. It was just uncomfortable at this point. So we both got dressed and I made the most awkward 20 minute drive of my life. We said maybe 10 words to each other.

I feel really terrible about it and I apologized after I got home. She said a few things like "I'm not sure what made you think by getting me going then shutting me down was okay but it wasn't" and "We flirted over text, you started the whole thing and then told me to get out".

I feel like I'm the asshole because I did initiate and I was down to do sexual stuff, just not... sex. I should've known that was her end goal after we started making out and she got going. I should've told her beforehand I wasn't comfortable with it and not right before. I'm just kind of lost in how I should feel about the entire situation.

# tl;dr - Second date with Tinder girl on Christmas day, some drinks were had, things got frisky, I wanted to stop before sex (after getting her off through fingering/oral) but she really wanted to bang. I shut it down right then and there and took her home. Shame is had.