This is more hypothetical than anything because I’m curious about what y’all think about this. I know a lot of parents that do this and I can’t help but feel it’s potentially developmentally or emotionally damaging to children when they’re asked “Do you love mommy more or daddy more?” or even worse “If we were to separate, who would you wanna stay with?” OR EVEN WORSE (and yes, I have heard this) “If one of us were drowning, who would you save first?”

But WIBTA if I asked my kids if they loved mommy or daddy more?