First of all, I'm reasonably confident IATA here, but it would be nice to get confirmation. I dated this girl for a while, and she was great. You know, enjoyable to be around, fun to talk to, gave a shit about things. The reason we broke up actually stemmed from the fact that our personalities didn't really gel (I was/am a pretty sad person and she wanted someone who paid more attention). Anyway, she had been on medication for depression and it has caused her to gain some weight over the past year and a half or so. One day she kind of up and out of the blue asked me if I wished she was skinnier.  I didn't think that there was any other option, and so obviously I said no. The thing is, I kinda did. I'd never tell her that, as its her body and she can do whatever she wants, but that didn't mean that it wasn't how I felt. AITA for thinking this super shallow thing and not putting enough emphasis on the other parts about her that I liked and were unarguably more important? I think so, but I want to know your opinion. 