My boyfriend (26M) is really sweet, and comes from a less advantaged background than I do.  But, that being said- we’re both in the same graduate school program, so we’re both very capable individuals.  I am really type A, and actively try to figure things out myself.  My boyfriend constantly asks me questions about easily google-able questions, or for the answers to things that I had to figure out myself- i.e. by reading the directions.  Two examples:  

1) He needed his school transcripts for something, so he asked me where and how to get them- I told him the website that our school uses (and its intuitive; login in, select student information, select transcripts - &gt; print), and he literally asked me every single page on the website what to click next, rather than just click around himself. It’s a waste of my time, especially because I already took the time to learn how to use the system.  The same time he could take- but he knows I’ll tel him.  

2) We are in a class together, and there was a homework assignment- and he asked me to explain the assignment to him (which was posted online with directions), and tell him how long it took me to complete.  Telling him how long the assignment took wasn’t a big deal, but read the damn directions! 

These kind of incidences happen daily.  He just never puts in the work to figure anything out- he always asks me.  I’m not a super genius, I just read the directions and investigate!  It’s annoying to feel like I’m always babying someone.  Sometimes I find myself really annoyed about it, and he thinks I’m a jerk for not wanting to help him.  

AITA for not wanting my boyfriend to at least TRY to figure out how to do things himself before asking me?   