Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : So for a friend’s birthday, another friend decided to post an embarrassing video on social media as part of a “birthday post”. Said video unfortunately includes me making an ass out of myself. This video has been posted online before as a prank, and I made it clear last time to this friend that I did not find it funny. Now I’m really not a confrontational person and I never get angry; this usually means if I do happen to get upset, some people don’t take me seriously. On the previous occasion, I was really not happy, and thought I made it clear- but friend just thought the whole thing was hilarious. This time, I sent a couple of messages to him making it abundantly clear that I do not want it up online. On the other hand, our friendship is generally pretty jokey (we’ve never had an argument), it’s a celebration (?) for someone else’s birthday- should I just learn to take a joke? AITA? 