My sister and I don’t have the same dad.  Her dad was brain dead for an extended period of time.  He’s in a coma and they decided to take him off life support. 

I sent her a text to try to show my support.  I told her it’s for the best.   I mean he was brain dead.  He’s in a coma.  I was just trying to make her feel better.  

My mom informed me that my sister is furious with me for saying that.   I really didn’t mean anything by it.  I suck at comforting.   I was just trying to be nice to her. 