Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : I fucked up and forgot to mention one part. 

My boyfriends grandmother died in December. I bought tickets in January to go to a concert in July (which is also my little sisters 18th birthday). The other day I mentioned how excited I was about my July concert/Little sister birthday. 


My boyfriend tells me they are having a wake/funeral for his grandmother , in Michigan, on that weekend and I'm expected to go.

1. We live in Texas 2. I bought these tickets BEFORE he told me we have to go to this funeral 3. Who waits 8 months to have a funeral?

I showed him my previous post and he informed me that the reason they are having the funeral in July is so they can throw her ashes into the ocean / have a bbq swim party. 

Could I go to the concert on Saturday, miss the funeral and show up sunday for the bbq swim party and not be an asshole?

