Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : I have, for a short while, been semi-friends with a person on Discord. He consistently reiterates that he is attracted to me, despite the fact that I have told him I am in a committed relationship with a wonderful person. He constantly tells me to play Runescape with him, and when I try to tell him that I don't want to play it for any more of the day, he mentions his epilepsy making him have seizures. (Which I'm starting to think he's using to fish for sympathy- he smokes, and refuses to do rehab because he doesn't have money, and he refuses to save up money to do so.) And he pulls this really subtle thing I hate where he thinks apologizing will make me do stuff with him, so he does it incessantly and just makes me feel guilty. I have received unsolicited lewds from him and I think he's trying to guilt me into spending time with him, in an attempt to sabotage my existing romance. Am I the asshole for being blunt with him about what I think about the situation?