Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : Background- We have been friends for 8 years and we have had our ups and downs of course she's a bit younger then I am let's call her Lani for now. 

-THIS IS SUPER LONG IM SORRY!

So she's always been a lil hard to be around because she was raised different, which is understandable. She was raised as an only child who was quite spoiled. Im a middle child and it was either money being spent on my big sisters shopping habits or my lil brothers toys. Which I'm not complaining I love my siblings to death. Anyways me and Lani had certain disagreements, mostly when it came to her phases. As kids and teens it's normal to go through phases but it was just too much with Lani. First it was her "gay" phase (I'm bisexual so I'm not saying gay in a mean way) I have no problem with being proud but she was extravagant. The "if you aren't gay I don't like you" type. It was the only thing about her at the time her personality: Gay, Hobbies: Being Gay ect. It was just her default nothing about her stood out anymore and I told her "The reason I don't hang out with you anymore is because I don't want to sit around and talk about how gay you are." I know a little harsh but shit it was sad to watch a creative being become a literal label. She did end up agreeing with me sooner or later. (She's pansexual now she says and I don't mind because she also has more to say then that ha) then she thought she was a boy (sensitive topic I know but they claim they are female now/ also I'm not transphobic my boyfriend of a 2 years is trans) but the thing is she never had dysphoria or had ever brought up wanting to be a boy and she told me everything. She decided to come out as trans and in a weeks time "I want to change me name" "when can I get on T?" "Ugh I want my boobs gone ewww" "my mom won't buy me boy clothes what a bitch!" This time I was like oh bloody hell. I told her "do what you will but please think before you make drastic changes" in a month "I'm not trans I'm just changing lol" ugh if another phase happens I'm gonna just stop trying I said to myself. And behold the latest trending phase Lani has presented. 

She claims she has DID which is a personality disorder. At first I was like okay this kind of makes sense so I didn't think she was bullshitting so I just made sure she got properly diagnosed. It's been 5 months now she owns a ig page fairly popular and has over 30 alters or personalities. I have I hard time talking to her because she just blames anything she says on her other personalities. She went to a therapist and they said she doesn't gave it but she continues to say she does. Am I the asshole for telling her she's lying to herself and she's in denial? 