Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : First of all a little bit of background: I'm a 22 years old male, my GF is 21. Since we live considerably far from one another (65 km) and mainly because she's the only one having a car, since I'm disabled and cannot afford a car with the changes it would need, considering the things I would need it for, and she already had one, we see each other only during weekends. We are almost all weekends at my home, since her house is too small for me to sleep there, she shares her room with her little sister and there's no room for me, we've tried it a few times but it didn't work out. When she comes, either at my mom's house, or my dad's house (they're divorced) which I go to from time to time, she comes here Saturday morning around 11:30 A.M and leaves on Sunday in the afternoon. During the week we see each other only when we attend courses at uni, which is from the end of September to the end of December, and from the end of February to the end of May: we go to courses together, we have lunch and study together, but of course we don't do any of the proper "couple's stuff" in that time, like going for walks, on dates or so on. Due to this situation, and considering that we have built a strong bond as a couple even though we haven't been dating for that long (in March we'll celebrate our second anniversary), I am particularly attached to our weekends together, also because a nice group formed with my friends and their partners, on top of it all. Now, it has to be said that she has been raised in a pretty oppressive family, that has never given her much space or freedom growing up, keeping her tied to some "rituals" forcefully, independently from their objective importance. She is with her family all day, her father has a job which allows him to be home every weekend and to be home every evening by 07:00 P.M, not including all of the holidays and days off work. Her mother is a housewife, and her sister is much younger than her, so they live together. Despite this, it happens that we skip weekends for reasons that I consider to be stupid, like the fact the she had to take her sister to see the high school she would have attended (my GF is the only one to drive in her family, her parents haven't driven in years despite having the driving license), staying at home for minor religious celebration (her family is profoundly Catholic), and birthdays that could be celebrated during the weekdays, since all of her family members that would attend them live very very close to each other, less than a kilometer apart, and stuff like this. She doesn't think I'm wrong about this whole situation, but won't actively oppose to it. As an added motivation to keep this trend, she said that doing so she has the chance to see friends that live in her area that she doesn't see much more often, despite the fact that she can meet them during the weekdays, and that this year only she has already planned three vacations (for a total of 15 days) exclusively with her friends, without involving me. I protested regarding this last thing as well, but my position hasn't been considered, because she said that none of her friends are going to bring their BFs. Am I the asshole for have asked her to at least try to not skip the weekends that we do skip for the reasons I listed previously? Am I being unreasonable in doing this request?