Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : I started dating this girl a couple months ago. Things are going well, but she definitely has some major baggage from her past relationships. Her ex-partner and her talk sometimes, but she acknowledges that they are bad for her, and very abusive towards her.  She's a good person, and cares about the person because they are suicidal, etc. 

Can I theoretically ask her to cut this person off? I would never ask her to cut off a friend, but I feel like talking to your abusive ex-partner crosses a line. 