Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Hey, first time poster! I’ve just been having this dilemma internally recently. My best friend has an awful track record with guys. She ignores huge red flags and I am the one who is inevitably there for her when she gets hurt. She’s recently started seeing this guy and alarm bells are ringing in my head. On the first night we all hung out as a group he tried to kiss a mutual friend after we had all gone to bed. After grafting on my friend the entire night. She’s chosen to ignore this and all power to her. 

I know she’s going to get hurt again and I don’t think I can honestly be there for her again. It’s exhausting and I don’t have the mental capacity right now personally to cope with this. The only reason I feel like I might be the asshole if I was to tell her to not discuss this relationship with me is that I feel like friends are meant to be there unconditionally to support. 

Sooo, WIBTA? 