been lurking for a while/first post/on mobile/the usual 


I (f23) am in my last year of undergrad. Through random social circumstances, I reconnected with a guy that I went to high school with who also attends my university. We started a FWB situation pretty much straight away after that, and have been seeing each a few times a month since the beginning of fall semester.

Jump to about 3 weeks ago. I was scrolling on the Instagram explore page and see a picture of my fwb and a girl. I click on her profile and wow. From the looks of her post history, they’ve been seeing each other since at least November. Vacation photos, holiday photos, everything. I decide not to say anything about it to anyone, and didn’t hear from my fwb until...

Fast forward to this past weekend, and I get a message from him asking me to come over. I’m thinking okay, maybe they ended things. Nope. I go back to her profile again and there’s a new post from the night before! 

I debated what I should for a few minutes and decided to...go to his apartment. My (maybe flawed) reasoning was that it’s not my relationship, and if I wasn’t snooping through instagram I never would have known about the other side of this.

So after all this my question is, am I the asshole in this situation for continuing to sleep with him? 

