       Just so y’all know, I am INCREDIBLY sad about this. My grandmother is one of the most special people in my life and she has gotten me through some of the most difficult parts of my life (which I’d rather not talk about) and my and her connect on a deep level. 
       
       However a) I am not nor have ever been the “crying type” &amp;  b) while I am sad I find it best not to constantly think about it because it doesn’t help anything and I just get sad and kinda depressed. My mother seems to get the impression that I don’t care/ am not sad about it. AITA for this? 