Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : I was invited to the wedding of a girl I was friends with in high school. We've drifted apart in the last few years and we only talk occasionally. I've never met her fiancé. I was flattered she decided to invite me.

However, in her wedding invite was a flyer that said, "Instead of gifts, please donate to one of these charities."

The thing is, almost all the charities are very political organizations, like planned parenthood, charities for homosexual people, blm associated stuff etc. To me this seemed like virtue signaling, since she's white, super rich, and straight. On top of that, it doesn't leave a lot of wiggle room for people who don't support these organizations, and makes people look bad if they choose not to donate on that basis.

I pointed it out to some mutual friends who were also invited but they basically told me to shut up and just not go if I don't want to donate. It's not a me thing though, its the principle of it. AITA