Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : I sat them down and just told them that I want to talk to them about what's bugging me about them so just that they can acknowledge it in the future.

Apparently I made them feel like a bad person and that I could've done it another way.  I didn't mean for them to feel like a bad person because of it and that confronting them made them feel that way because I pictured myself in their situation and I would've definitely just acknowledged it for the future.

We got into this huge argument and never finished it cause they had to leave and now I feel terrible and sad.  I don't want to lose them as a friend and I'm really scared that our friendship is gonna change for the worse because of what I did/how I did it. 