Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : We have a graduation party to go to in June that is a few states over for our niece. After making all arrangements, a few days later husband tells me out of the blue that we are carpooling with his dad. I said ok but I didn’t admit am not interested at all!! It’s like an 11 hour trip. And though it would be nice to spend some time in the backseats with the kids, I honestly don’t want to do it for  11 hours both ways. I end up feeling like a child myself. Or a nanny. It’s difficult to even be part of the “adult” conversations up front 😂 Even saying that makes me feel like such a child. But it’s not only that. I don’t want to be on someone else’s schedule. That means we get up and go whenever the hell his dad decides. Then being without our own transportation for the weekend. Not like it’s a big deal to borrow someone’s car, but it’s just another element I don’t like. The entire thing just irks me. I almost want to tell him he can carpool with daddy. I’ll drive down with one of the kids. 