A few years ago my good friend (36 F) who is married emailed me some pictures that showed some slight bruising where her husband laid hands on her.  She asked me to save the digital files so she could build a case against him so she could keep her and her kids safe.  Three years later and she is still with the guy. I know that he yells and screams at her a lot of the time but it was the last I heard about physical violence.  I didn't want the pictures any more so I deleted them without telling her. The evidence is gone.  Now she is telling me that our friendship is broken. She thought she could trust me. She is afraid that she will lose her kids if they get divorced. Basically she is saying that I ruined her life. 

I am not the emotionally abusive husband, nor did I ever lay hands on her. Am I the Asshole?