A couple weeks ago I (20M) got into an argument with my current girlfriend (23F), I’ll call her Jen, about my ex girlfriend (22F), Megan, because she wouldn’t stop talking about her. Megan and I used to date for a couple of months. She became friends with one of my roommates, and goes out with her to the bars every once in a while. Coincidentally, she knew my other roommate from high school, so she had two friends at my apartment. 

We ended things and I got a new girlfriend, but I still tried to stay friends with Megan so we’d talk often. Jen didn’t like this. We actually all three met up one night and had an adult discussion about it but Jen wouldn’t say to her face that she was upset with Megan texting or snapchatting me every day (because she always initiated the conversation with me), instead she just said it behind her back. I realized it wasn’t worth the time/effort so after at least a dozen arguments I blocked her from Snapchat after she took back her DVD player from my house so I’d have a “reason to” and that was pretty immature of me, which upset Megan. 

Megan would come over more often after this to “hang out” with my roommates and wouldn’t care if me and Jen were home. This bothered Jen a lot, and I had to continue listening to her complain about Megan even though I wasn’t talking or engaging with her in anyway, even if she was over. 

She would say things like, I can’t get away from this bitch, at school (they have classes together at university), where she’s always wearing the stupid Burberry scarf you bought her in front of me, and now in your apartment? Why don’t you go out and tell her this is not okay? Tell her to leave. She’s not welcome here. I don’t like her. So this is where I might have messed up because I said, “why do YOU care so much about this girl? You sound really insecure and I already blocked her. I feel like this is all the talk about and I’m getting tired of it. Why don’t you leave instead?”

Honestly, I was just really done hearing about Megan and I couldn’t stand it anymore. She was a daily conversation that I didn’t want to have anymore. So Jen starts crying and tells me that I don’t care about her, I don’t love her and makes a big scene when she leaves in front of my ex and roommates. I feel like a dick, but I wanted to ask reddit, AITA?