Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Just to get things straight my girlfriend (24) and I (25) have been together for 4 years and have lived together for about 2 years already. Relationship has mostly been great up till this year when things started to take a dip. The sex life diminished, not much romance between the two of us and we were kind of in cruise control. Of course when its like that things start to pile up and we get more frustrated at each other easily causing us to bicker more and be easily annoyed at the other. It's not all bad but more negative than positive.

So to the problem... We went on vacation for about 2 months together exploring Europe, trying to bring back some excitement and spend time together but that failed and I just got more annoyed at her easily and even if we were spending time together 24/7 the romance and sex never came back. I did talk to her about this once in passing and once as a serious conversation before Europe, while also bringing it up during the trip. She always seems to have some reason wether it be mental, family or what not and I tried understanding that for as long as we've together. She also said some of it was me so I tried to change during the trip as well. But enough is enough. As the cruise control went on we had a discussion on NYE again and we went into 2019 annoyed at each other but neither of us wanted to ruin it so we kept face.

At that point I thought if this is what the start of the new year is like we don't have much of a chance, and thought it be best to break up. Even though its super close to a 2 month trip which so many good memories were made, AITA for breaking up with her?