Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : I live with my sister and her boyfriend (our names are on the lease). My boyfriend and I have broken up at least ten times throughout the course of our relationship so he’s been in and out for about a year. Today was the final straw though. He’s always been mentally, verbally and physically abusive - but only when he drinks excessively - and I’ve taken him back numerous times with empty promises of “changing” and “never drinking liquor again”. He’s honestly the devil when he drinks and I’m literally terrified of him. He told me today, in a fit of anger, that he hated me, wanted me to die, would send a hit man to kill me and my family and also threatened my car (amongst other kind of useless things in comparison). It’s about -20 right now, we’re in Canada, his phone is dead and he has nowhere to go. I feel horrible cause he’s paid his share of rent and technically has every right to be here but I double checked all the locks, locked my own room and am just here crying silently in the dark on my bed thinking about everything. I know this was the right thing to do and this might be labelled a shit post but I have a crazy big heart and I feel like a total asshole right now. 

Side note: I did go running after him and poured my heart out and all he did was shout at me, vehemently deny what he said/did and didn’t even chase after me when I walked away from him (my place was less than a block away). 

Wtf am I supposed to do and can someone please tell me I made the right decision cause I’m all sorts of conflicted right now and I would never call the cops on him cause he has a criminal record and he’s on probation but I really love him, his family, and know liquor for some reason just turns him into a person he really isn’t... he’s completely amazing otherwise though and we never fight if he doesn’t drink but gahhhh I just feel so lost and alone and I can’t really talk to my family about it cause we broke up on Christmas for a very similar reason and they all hated on me when I took him back last time. 