Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : I just started dating my girlfriend for a month, meeting in December. We both live in different countries, but flights are cheap and we plan to get her to move to my country to study in September and plan a trip to Asia in the summer, sounds like it will be great. I went to visit her in January and she got pregnant . I told my family who haven't met her yet and they were furious, how I fucked up etc. while her family supports her no matter what. My family thinks it's all a big visa scam, that the kid probably isn't mine.  

Neither of us are ready and she was planning to visit this week, I booked a nice airbnb and a trip around my country since she has never been. She has depression and many issues, I don't care but it affects her decisions, saying that I could leave and die but she would still have our kid. I was so anxious for days and I sat her down in a bar and explained I cannot support her in my country with a kid, it will be a challenge as it is. I have an internship and my freelance work barely let's me afford anything, and I live with my parents. I said I can send money to her and visit but I physically have no way to support her and a kid in my country but I wouldn't abandon her. I explained my travel surprise and bought her a nice dinner to cheer her up, she explained to her family that I am in no position and watching me so worried and anxious made her choose.  

I feel awful for telling her she can't have it, she was so happy for one and I feel I am dashing her dreams. I said to her I can support one when I have a stable job etc. but now my parents don't like her and I want them to meet her as my girlfriend before even considering kids.  

TL;DR I explained to my girlfriend I cannot support a child now and would have to send her money to her home country until I' stable. 