Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : I know that the title may seem obvious, but I think it needs some explanation. My girlfriend was on a 7 week work trip. It is essentially a training camp where new recruits get up to speed on their company's products. 7 intense weeks of training and exams while living out of a hotel with 12 other people. Prior to this my mum was having health problems, but nothing that seemed majorly concerning. 3 weeks into my girlfriend's trip I went to visit her but had to come home after 2 days as I was told my mum's health had deteriorated and she only had a few days to live.

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A week after I got home my mum passed away the day after her 60th birthday, this was all in mid-October 2018. Two days later my girlfriend was on a scheduled trip with the friends she'd made prior to me even coming out there. During this I was obviously at a real low point, she was sending me pictures and I was finding myself very angry and resentful. It didn't seem fair that she was having a great time while I suffered, but I struggled to communicate that I needed a lot more words of support. I think, as we were long distance, she thought the contact was enough. She sent me some lovely, heartfelt things but a lot of the time while she was out there I'd just get an update of her day and how great their night was, when what I probably needed was a text just saying, 'We're all out, but thinking of you at this horrible time.' I don't want to paint her in too negative a light, I think anyone would find it difficult in any situation but the distance made it so much harder for her to be there for me and while I found it tough, I didn't communicate how I was feeling at all well.

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What this did mean is that before she made it back from the trip, I was getting a lot of pictures of all these really tight friends she's made. She's constantly texting them and I could tell she was really sad to leave, I'd imagine they've really helped her as it must have been tough to be away while I was going through something horrible. I'm in the UK and they're all from different part of Europe so they're not local.

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For the first weekend of January they're all coming to stay and my girlfriend has offered to host them and to be honest, I want nothing to do with them. She'll have 3 of these friends in our flat for a whole weekend and I don't want to spend a minute with them. I'm found I'm a bit consumed with irrational jealousy and just a dislike of these people, even though I've never met them. My girlfriend is actually understanding of this and even cancelled an opportunity to meet with one of them one on one after I explained how I'm feeling.  I just associate them with such a horrendous and lonely time in my life that I just want to escape the weekend they're here and not be around but I'm not sure if that's sensible for myself or fair on my girlfriend. Seems I may be being an asshole by making this even harder on my girlfriend.