Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : So a little backstory. I’ve been dating this girl for about 5 months now. Everything was going well until about a week ago. Last week we had a date and everything seemed perfect until I arrived home from the date. That night she said that she was tired of me being “helpless and indecisive” and that she needed time to consider our relationship, but in my defense I’m currently living in a foreign country and am still relatively new to the country. I agree that it would be best for her to think the relationship over and give her time to think. A few days go by and we end up speaking again and get back together.

One thing to add about my girlfriend is that she wants regular updates — at one point she got angry because I hadn’t updated her to let her know that I was busy.

Just yesterday we say ‘good morning’ to each other, something that we do regularly, and I ask her how her day was going. It wouldn’t have bothered me had she explained that she were busy, but she left me on seen for 10 hours, until she finally responded with a single-word response.  I am normally a level-headed guy, but this got me a bit annoyed. I asked her why she couldn’t give me an update after she had gotten angry at me for the same exact reason, but this only got her angry, saying that she was busy and couldn’t respond. Also to note, I had seen that she was active on/off messenger throughout the day. I was just asking for some reciprocity, just a simple update. I would have understood completely if she were busy, I just wanted as little as a, “Sorry, busy rn.” 

The relationship is even more strained after what happened and might end in breakup. I feel a little guilty because maybe she was just stressed out and I only added to her stress and possibly at a time where she might have needed my support. So AITA for wanting reciprocity in the relationship?