So, today is my birthday (17, yay). I have spent most of the day at home, celebrating with my friends and family. We had a nice steak dinner, and afterwards, I came downstairs to play video games on my computer with my friends. We agreed that we would have my cake later, and sing and celebrate and whatever.

So I was playing League of legends with my friends, which has games that usually go for 30 to 45 minutes. About 20 minutes into the game, my parents said it's time to eat cake. Cool. I told them I would be up when I finish my game, since I dont want to leave and piss off my friends. About 10 minutes later, my family pulled out the internet, when my game was starting to finish. I got pissed off and yelled at my family, who started calling me an asshole for not coming when I was told to. I was too pissed off, and didnt want to hear them yelling at me, so I left, and just sat around.

Now, they all went to bed, but I found out they ate half of my cake and celebrated my birthday without me. My family all thinks I am an asshole, but my friends think they are. So, am I the asshole?