My aunt fostered a kid a few years ago and just recently adopted him. As part of his adoption she gave him a new middle and last name, both of which I already have. 

So I, John Jacob Jingleheimer was named after my dad and Grandpa, John and Jacob. 

My first name is my dad's middle name and my middle name is my grandpa's first name. 

Dad: Jim John Jingleheimer
Grandpa: Jacob Jingleheimer


I take pride in having their names and want to continue the tradition when I have kids. My aunt did not ask me if she could make her foster kid after my grandpa and I got pissed that she named him my exact name when I already bore my family's namesake. 

AITA for not wanting to have another member of the family, who isn't a blood relative, to have the same name as me? I get that he is her legal son now and she can name him whatever she wants, but she never even consulted me about it. 
