Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : Long, complicated story.  Buckle up:

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While on a working holiday a few months ago, I broke my ankle.  I moved from my guesthouse into a hostel upon the recommendation of a friend, because they had crutches and a wheelchair available for guests (much, MUCH cheaper than renting those items from the local hospital).  

At the hostel I met several long term guests who were working/studying on the island, including another American who was very helpful when I couldn't walk at all.  She was there for weird missionary purposes, but was still pretty young and cool and only made me slightly uncomfortable by talking about Jesus every once in a while.  I genuinely liked her.  She picked stuff up for me from the convenience store next door and accompanied me to the hospital during one of my visits, as well as to the airport.

I had made my travel plans before the accident and I was supposed to be taking a trip to another country in Asia.  I decided that I would go there to get my surgery since it was MUCH cheaper there than the place I was staying.  I already had a plane ticket leaving from another city.  But I could no longer take a long bus or train ride in my condition.  To make things worse I couldn't purchase a plane ticket to that city because I forgot my mastercard securecode (I STILL have to figure that out, because my bank was no help at all and every time I try to call mastercard through skype it's a shitshow.  Thanks mastercard!)

ANYWAY this girl was very nice &amp; purchased the $60 ticket for me and I sent her $100 on paypal because I knew there might be another problem.  Sure enough there was another problem though.  When she accompanied me to the hospital (I needed to get blood thinners to board a flight to avoid getting a blood clot in my leg) it turned out to be more expensive than the hospital had told me over the phone (because they'd only told me the cost of the shot- not the cost of the obligatory 2 minute "consultation" with their fancy bone doctor).  So I gave her the cash I had on me and she paid for the rest with her card (about $30 or $40).

So at this point I'd sent her $100 and she'd paid around $100 for me.

Anyway this whole time we were at the hostel she told me she knew some people who had helped her a great deal when she was staying in the country I was travelling to.  They were locals who could help me get around, translate for me and get things for me for small fees.

I always sort of rebuffed her though as I had already done a great deal of research and was pretty sure I could handle initial things on my own &amp; could likely find paid helpers if I needed to through expat grounds on fb.

She contacted them on her own and gave them my fb, told them to meet me at the airport.

She asked me if this was ok and I just said "ok" despite major misgivings, because I was tired and thought the worst that could happen would be an overpriced taxi from the airport.  I'd like to add that I genuinely think she thought she was helping.

Anyway, I want to make this short: these guys were awful.  They tried to make me stay in a hotel with a lot of stairs and I was like "no I can't fucking walk, what the hell?" and then they were like "there aren't any guesthouses without stairs" so I got out the research I'd done and told them 2 and went to 1 and sure enough got a ground floor room.  They told me they were accompanying me to one hospital I'd researched, but actually brought me to another much worse one that they said would be much cheaper (it wasn't.  They just knew people who'd worked there).  I was stupid and felt unsure and unsafe and went along with things, but after the surgery the nurses kept telling me I was going to get robbed and/or raped if I stayed there without anyone accompanying me overnight so I ended up getting a random couchsurfer to come over (seriously he was a saint, what a nice guy).

Anyway the 2 guys who accompanied me everywhere started hassling me for cash and I ended up having to give them $50 each.  To be fair, they had helped me somewhat, but only with situations they had put me in.  For example, the terrible hospital had no elavator and the orthopedic surgeon was on the 4th floor.  So with a bunch of doctors they carried me in the wheelchair up the damn stairs.  But like...I was only in that situation because of them.

Anyway months later the girl asked me to send her more money, because she apparently forgot I gave her cash at the hospital to cover the shot (but not the doctor's consultation).  I gladly gave it to her anyway.  \*She\* genuinely helped me.  But the guys she knew here did NOT.  AT ALL.  They never got things I requested, gave me false information and always made me feel scared for my safety (and I mean I'm a solo female traveller who has lived &amp; travelled all over Europe, the Middle East &amp; Asia...I'm pretty good at gauging my safety in different situations).

When I tried to bring this to her attention while it was happening, she would always say something about "Jesus putting us through trials" or "Everything will work out in the end thanks to Jesus."  I strongly disagree and want to block her.  But do I still owe her anything?  Should I stay connected to her on social media in case I can potentially help her one day?  Do I owe her an explanation?  Thanks for reading all of this.