Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : I have a child that needed a minor outpatient surgery to correct an issue they've had since birth. My husband and I let our parents and bosses know for practical reasons, but didn't otherwise announce the surgery.

After we were home I posted an update on our private family group page letting everyone know the procedure was done and went well. The page is intended to share information with immediate family so everyone gets the same news at the same time.

One of my siblings posted a passive aggressive comment about not knowing about the surgery beforehand and immediately started texted our parent about how they should have gotten a text telling them ahead of time and they shouldn't have learned about the procedure on social media. They even said "good thing (baby) didn't die."

AITA? I am very low contact with this sibling due to tension that began when I had my first child because sibling oversteps boundaries constantly. Plus we didnt even tell our older child until afterward to avoid causing panic or anxiety.