Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : I (22F) am finishing my senior year of college and have 5 weeks left of school left to enjoy. I'm really involved in school and am president of one of my majors organizations. Keep that in mind. I'm a bridesmaid in a high school friends wedding which is happening at the end of May. Here comes the dilemma.

Her bachelorette weekend is the same weekend as my organizations annual spring bar crawl. A few facts about the party. Her bachelorette weekend is us renting a cabin up in the more rural part of Michigan and just hanging out with a few activities here and there. The kicker is she invited her MOTHER and MOTHER IN LAW so it's going to be a weird weekend for sure as none of the bridal party is close and having her two mothers there is bound to be uncomfortable. She doesn't drink and 2 of the bridesmaids are under 21 so it's not going to be a typical bachelorette weekend. 

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My idea is to miss the Friday of her party and go to my organizations bar crawl and drive up by myself early Saturday. I feel an obligation to go to the bar crawl as I'm president of the organization and it's one of the last major events I have as president. Am I the asshole for even considering that?

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