Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : For a little backstory(hold on, it's a looong one), I was friends for a very long time (15 years or so) with two twin girls. We grew up together basically but I always felt like i didn't belong with them. I used to be and still am a really calm person, it's hard to get on my nerves, while they were and still are (as far as i know) really vulcanic, always confrontational, always entitled to everything, they were never in the wrong,  everyone else were in debt to them because they were such amazing people.  And I must confess, at times they were the best people you could be around, they are funny af, have a bubbly personality when in  a goid mood,  but then they would remind you every time you piss them off of that time when they helped you, which in my book is the most asshole move you can go for. For example, when I had my first boyfriend, he was arrested with drug charges (yeah, he was a drug dealer) abd sentenced for 5 years in prison. Now i can't say i LOVED the guy but i thought i did at the time (i was 19) and at least i was attached to him since we were together for two years. He used to do drugs, i didn't, just wasn't my thing and i did try to make him stop using and selling (thought i'd be the one to tame the bad boy lol u know the basic story) but anyway he was busted, put in jail, i was sad, can't say devastated because i obviously wasn't that much in love but i was sad so these two girls were all supportive and shit, they would invite me to spend time with them and their boyfriends (which whom i was in pretty good relations) just so i can hear one of the girls (let's call them V&amp;D) yelling at me(when they were arguing about some random thing) that 

V: "She said she's sick and tired of you because she and her bf can't have intimacy and she has to drag you everywhere with her!" 

They had this habit of throwing the other one under the bus when they were mad at eachother (don't have me started on the insults they would throw at eachother... whew!) And D didn't even try to counter that lol. I felt like a piece of shit but anyway i let that slip since i imagined that D probably wanted to have more alone time with her bf and i was there all the time (even tho they invided me).

So you get the main picture. Fast forward a year later. I found my dream man,  obviously cut ties with the drug dealer as i realised i wasn't even in love with him.  Still friends with  V&amp;D. My boyfriend worked as a mechanic, but paid poorly for the amount of work he was putting there so when he got a raise we were so happy, and I told another friend of mine(not V&amp;D but they knew eachother) that i was so proud of my bf and we were so happy.  Only to later have V tell me that she knows I talked to my other friend and told her about my bf's raise and that she and D thought that sounded like I'm a gold digger. I wasn't working at the time. I was going to courses to become a nail tech(which i am today and it's really hard to make a clientelle and make good money out of it but now i'm making almost double the normal salary) and when we went out, he wouldn't let me pay though i almost always had money from my parents. But the twins bfs were not working or having even lower paying jobs so my bf sometimes even paid for all of them (the girls weren't working either and used to give their bfs shit for not finding better jobs and having more money so idk who's a gold digger here, even though their parents are LOADED they were just stingy anyway saying they don't have money or that they had to give the money they had back to their parents lol ). 

After she told me that gold digger thing, i was stunned, i felt like i never even knew them or as if they never even met me. I cut all contact with them, didn't answer my phone, they called like crazy the first few days then stopped after seeing i will not answer anyway.  

3 years passed and i got married to my now husband, the mechanic, who is the most amazing man i've ever met, and i still hold that feeling to this day. After our wedding i received a message on facebook from D but since i unfriended them both it got in as a request and me, seeing it was from her i didn't even open it. This year we had a wedding where we were the godparents (in Romania it's costumary that when you get married you have a couple, already married themselves to be considered "spiritual parents" and since the couple getting married were good friends of my husband, we were more than glad to accept,  as i liked them too) before Bride's bachelorette party-the planning of- , it wasn't a surprise for me to find one of the twins - D - being there, to help the bride with her planning (they are keeping contact because the groom's brother is her bf) and honestly i didn't even say hi to her, but to the others there,  and she just burried her eyes in her phone. Anyway D mentioned we should wear t-shirts to the party, you know the funny ones with "Bride's bitches" and tjings like that. And the others weren't really involved in this discussion so i say it's not a bad idea but someone should do this and order them online for the tshirts to  be from the same place. To my shock, D says the two of us should handle this on fb. Ofc i wasn't going to say no, I didn't want to be an a-hole so we did. That meant i had to go to her messenger and only then i read her message she sent for my wedding saying something along the lines of "Even if we're not talking anymore, i want you to know you looked beautiful" and things like that. Tbh, i wasn't touched. I knew their M.O. I just lied and said  that i did not know she sent me a message,  because i though she blocked me or i blocked her (idk) and then she started going on about how i hurt her and how she didn't understand why i cut all ties with them, how we used to be sisters, and asked if i missed them. To which in my head i was like "Hell no, satan!" But i just responded saying that it was better that way for all of us, not saying i missed them or anything (because i didn't) and she was saying how i could have had a conversation with them and tell them what went wrong between us, so they could change, and  i did feel like an asshole at that point since everybody knows me as the one who will talk everything through,  have a conversation as long as necessary to get things on the right path as much as possible, but i did not get THEM the chance.

 But considering all the things I mentioned, and trust me, there are more i can talk about(like how they always made jokes about me being fat even though i was at a normal weight(60 kg) while they were overweight(80 kg), and i was s bit taller than them, and i became self conscious but i never even touched the subject of weight not even jokingly because they would freak tf out. Or how they used to be late ALL THE TIME and made me wait 1hr, they would fond excuses, but when I was late, they would freak out start swearing at me), AITA for not trying to talk through the issues I had with them because i though it was pointless? Because i sometimes feel like i should have, then i remember how stressed i used to feel almost every time in their presence and how my life and self confidence improved A LOT after ignoring them. They told people (friends we had in common-some of them stopped talking to them as well because of how they behaved-)  that I was a bitch and i just used them for money(even though they never gave me money) and that I'm ungrateful for all they had helped me and God knows what more they said.

Sorry for the long story but it's so much to get out after years of such a "friendship". And i was probably their only one friend that could stand their crap since i am calm, but i ended it abruptly. 

AITA for not wanting to even hear them out? 