Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : First of all, this is absolutely really juvenile/high school level stuff.

So I’ve known this girl practically as long as I’ve been alive. Went to all the same schools, families did stuff together, etc. Six or so years ago, we were briefly “together” but I at least was too young to understand what that really meant so it ended. We’ve generally remained friends since, but it sort of goes in phases: we’ll really hit it off, we’ll hang out in person a bunch, and then for whatever reason we won’t talk for months. Well, we had stayed talking for pretty much all of 2018, which I was happy about. Whenever we were both back from college we’d get lunch or go for a walk or whatever, and I always had a good time. 

Towards the end of December, after we had seen each other multiple times, she asked me when I was free. I responded with dates and times. After 24 hours, she had said nothing. So I figured, okay, maybe I said something rude, or she was unhappy I wasn’t making plans. So I apologized if I had said anything wrong, said that I really wanted to see her again, and asked her to a specific time and place. And I never heard from her.

Fast forward to yesterday. Out of the blue she sends me a picture of my best friend’s tinder profile and asks if that’s him. Conversation goes like this:

Her: Is this John like John Smith?

Me(8 hours later): yes

Her(1 hour later): Hmm. I see

Her(half an hour later): Awkward

Her(15 minutes later): Sorry

Her: I feel like I did something wrong, are you just busy

Me: Busy right now sorry (which was 100% true, although I also really did not want to talk)

Me(15 minutes later): Hey, so what’s up? John does look a lot different with that haircut haha

Her(half an hour later): Sorry I thought you were pissed off or something

Me: I mean I’m definitely surprised to hear from you after a month but no worries

And that was all I've heard from her since yesterday. Am I the asshole here?