Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : My boyfriend and I moved out of his brothers basement suite (finally) and got our own house to rent last year. Our buddy and coworker (I work with my boyfriend, family business) was going through a tough time and recently broke up with his fiancee, so we figured, hey this could probably work out! He was renting a room elsewhere and was crashing on our couch more often than not, so when we got the place he moved in with us. The only rule was that we listen to loud music, and that won't change, and he needed to be okay with that. He heard how loud our music was before he moved in so he said it wouldn't be a problem. My boyfriend and I put our names on the lease and he rented a room and we split the rent in half with him, but we pay for the utilities.

Everything was alright for the first 4 months, he would kind of clean up after himself, he'd interact with people that came over, and be really appreciative when I cleaned the house and when my boyfriend would cook us dinner. 

Then he got comfortable. He stopped cleaning up after himself completely, he stopped offering to make dinner, and eventually started expecting that dinner would be made for him all the time. (We would go over to a friend's, have dinner with them, and come home at 830pm and he'd ask "did you guys already eat? Oh, I guess I'll make something for myself") Our music didn't change, but his whining about the volume increased. It's almost as if he felt entitled to everything we do for him.

Fast forward to last night. Our roomie hurt his knee, so he stayed home all day by himself. We came home around 530 and we started cooking and cleaning. My boyfriend just finished cooking an amazing meal, and I was uncharacteristically drunk.  I was eating while reading my book and rocking out to my favourite band. Roomie comes down taps my google home and shuts off the music, without asking to turn it down beforehand, and said "I'm sorry but I'm irritated, I'm getting really sick of all this music." And then goes upstairs. I'm irrational in my drunken state and I looked at my boyfriend and told him to deal with it, since I felt like I couldn't without blowing up. 

My bf goes up and talks to him and reminded him that this was the deal. We wanted loud music when we had our own place and that's what was happening. We would have been respectful if he asked about turning down the music, which he never did, he'd just complain about it. "I don't remember you guys telling me anything like that." Which we did. Literally our only rule. And he goes on to say "well maybe you guys would be better off on your own." Bf: "fine then, move out." Roomie: "GOOD."

While I have been growing increasingly exasperated with him, this isn't what I wanted to happen. If anything we were going to wait to talk to him until we renewed the lease. I know that my frustrations were starting to come out in full force, i haven't been a saint in the situation, and I was even planning on having a talk with him about his cleanliness so that it would make the rest of the year run out smoothly. Then this happened. 



TL;DR: Roomie has been increasingly growing too comfortable in our home, having meals made for him and being cleaned up after. We had one rule, that we wanted to listen to loud music, he said it was fine. Last night he turned off our music without asking to turn it down first and the discussion that followed resulted in him getting kicked out. 

AITA for getting my roommate kicked out?