Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : When sister 1 got married it was kind of a all hands on deck situation.  She was pregnant and neither her or her boyfriend had very much money.  My mom paid to rent out the fire hall and for the kegs of beer.  I paid for and cooked all the food.  My other two sisters set up the tables and chairs as well as the decorations.  

The food was pretty expensive and both sister 1 and her boyfriend kept adding requests, literally up until a couple hours before the wedding itself.  It was a lot of work and I really didn’t enjoy doing it.  

What kind of sealed the deal as far as not ever wanting to do this again was during the toasts sister 1’s boyfriend thanked my mother and sisters for all that they did.  I know it’s petty to be so miffed about not being thanked, but it did really rub me the wrong way to be the only one overlooked after I just dropped so much money and work for them. 

Sister 2 is getting married now.  It’s not really the same situation.   Her fiancé has an ok job as far as I know they can afford to have it catered.  While she was talking about it came out that she assumed that I would cater hers since I did sister 1’s.  It’s not a ridiculous assumption or anything, but I corrected her that I really didn’t want to do that kind of thing ever again. 

She didn’t say anything at the time, but I guess she’s angry at me about it.  Both my other sister and mother have texted me about it now.  I can see how it would look a little shitty to do it for sister 1 and refuse to do it for her, but I really don’t want to drudge up years long shit from the previous wedding to explain.  Besides it was out of necessity for sister 1’s wedding.  Sister 2’s situation is different.