Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : BF got kicked out of his place.  I wasn’t ready to move in but didn’t want him living out of his truck (he’s in debt and living paycheck to paycheck).   So I signed a lease with him with me paying the entire rent of 1700/month so he had a place to stay.  I currently live with my family which is convenient for me because it’s 10 min from my work (vs 45 min commute if I moved into the apartment).  I also am still concerned about moving in with him because we fight every week and I’m worried he will prevent me from seeing my family and friends (he gets upset if I, for example, go on a week vacation with my family without him).

I’ve told him this and said that I’d like for us to be stable before taking the next big step.  The issue is he gets upset when I have to leave to go home “too early” (I usually hang out with him in the afternoons and wknds and cook him dinner then head home at around 530-6 to help my parents with dinner as well).  

He says that all I care about is having a “texting relationship” with him and is upset that I won’t move in.  

AITA for wanting to take things slow for now?  I feel bad that I’m not meeting his needs but am terrified I’m going to be miserable living with him if he doesn’t address the concerns I have.