Basically title, I have family that lives about 50min away I see them on a weekly basis and do enjoy seeing them. However my girlfriend and I have conflicting schedules and she’s going to go see family in another state while I dog-sit for her, because of this we agreed to make the trip and have an “early Christmas” to see my family and celebrate the holiday. 

Christmas Day I was planning on hanging with her dogs and getting drunk alone on holiday wine while playing Smash, my family caught wind of this and now are guilting me into coming and making an additional trip because it’s Christmas claiming “it’s not about me.” 