Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Alright so I go to a very small college that doesn't allow for off campus loving unless you've been a resident of the area for at least a year. But because of that the school offers campus apartments right across that street that's the only option besides the dorms. My current roommate and 2 other friends want me try and get on with them(it's a lottery and you have to apply) and I've said I would. However, this morning my roommate from last year told me that he wants me to join him and our other 2 friends. I know that I've already said I would go with my current roommate, but I know that I would have a better experience with the other group because I'm honestly closer with them. So would  I be the asshole if I told my current roommate and friends  that I would rather live with my other group of friends?