Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : So today i casually sent a friend a concerning post about someone she had "warned" me about assaulting his girlfriend, stealing her car/cards/money and nearly biting her finger off. Her response was "oh well he's friends with Q (let's call her Q) they're both abusive".

Q is a girl my friend used to be friends with. They got into a dispute over 60 dollars (don't feel like going too into detail here), basically Q offered to pay for something from my friend and then changed her mind and my friend had a temper tantrum. I intervened and just purchased the item myself hoping to squash the issue. A month or two passes before my friend decides she's not going to give the other girl a concert ticket that the girl had paid her for a while back. In her mind, since that friend didn't pay her 60 dollars (though I did) she shouldn't get the concert ticket. Several bullshit exchanges occur before Q has enough and makes a Facebook post about the situation (obviously slanted in a way to favor her side) and my friend and a lot of people see it.

I'm not saying that doesn't suck, but I honestly found it very self absorbed she turned a very serious conversation into one focused on something far less serious. She then blocked me accusing me of not caring about the "abuse" she went through. It was awful but I can't say losing 60 dollars and her reputation among people that didn't like her much to begin with is comparable to somebody having their actual life situation threatened. AITA?