Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : So this is more of a question of if we are the assholes, since there are multiple people on my side. If we sound like dumb college kids with a shit sense of humor, it's because we totally are. No reason to deny it.

We have a small group that goes to trivia at a local bar every week, and we like to change our team name around just to keep it interesting. So one of our teammates and I decided that we should pick out something stupid and "punny", like one of those names that Bart makes Moe call out to the bar, since whatever we pick has to be read aloud from our sign up sheet. For context, I know the people who own the bar and I knew that the person reading it out would think it was hilarious.

We came up with a ton of extremely stupid names, mostly middle school level jokes like "Iva Biggun" and "Seymour Buttz", but one person in our group seemed genuinely upset about it, despite the rest of us loving the idea and laughing like idiots over every name. She basically said she refused to play with us if we picked anything even a little bit inappropriate because she didn't want to be associated with it, as though anyone in a bar is going to care past the initial laugh of having "Ivana Tinkle" read out loud. The owner of the bar was totally in on it too, he offered up "cordon blue balls", which the girl also got upset about, but the rest of us loved. Seriously regret not taking that name.

I felt bad about making her uncomfortable, but I think that she needs to loosen up a little. It's just a stupid name for a trivia team that would probably end up changed next week anyway. I don't want to call her TA, because she's genuinely a very sweet person, she's just super uptight about anything related to nsfw topics, while me and the others are really loose about it. We just wanted to have fun and get a laugh out of the other teams.

So are my other teammates and I assholes for trying to push for a name she wouldn't like?

Tldr; Everyone on trivia team wants an inappropriate pun for our team name except one person, who threatens not to play if we go with one.