Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : So my 21st birthday is in a month, and it happens during spring break. It's my last year in college, so I wanted to do something to celebrate. I've been with my boyfriend for a little under 2 years now, and we were planning on going on our first road trip during this time. Our original plan was to go to Zion national park in Utah, but then we changed it up and decided to go Pheonix/Sedona/Flagstaff (AZ) then Vegas (NV). 

Not too long ago, my bf found out that he was no longer eligible for his student loan and isn't receiving it anymore. No money = no road trip. I'm definitely not mad at him even though his situation sucks and puts me in a suckish position. When I told my mom (who I'm super close with), she said she would be down to go on a road trip with me instead, preferably to Vegas. She is usually the person I go to for advice on my personal conflicts, but she suggested it so now I don't know what to think.

Would I be the asshole if I went to Vegas with my mom, even though I was planing on going with my bf until circumstances changed? 

I just want to play Top Golf. *\*sigh\**