So I have a first date in a few hours. We have been chatting via text for a few days but have not met in person.  I texted her today  to confirm our date details, we are going to a cool little bar/restaurant that just so happens to be dog friendly. That’s when she drops the, “I know it’s dog friendly but FYI I’m allergic to dogs.” I ask her how allergic and she says she gets asthma from them. She said she plans to visit an allergist and get an inhaler so that she can be amongst the dogs. So I obviously have a dog and live in an apartment. I train my dog really well because I don’t believe in kennels. So he is really well behaved, but they has free reign of the apartment. We also cuddle together every night in my bed. One of my favorite things to do after work during the week is go to the dog park. 

So, I plan on still going on the date with her just because I don’t wanna just cancel and flake on her. But, I don’t think I am going to pursue a relationship any further. Does that make me an asshole? 

Bonus question: Should I not even go on the first date with her if I already know that I’m probably not going to go on a second? I just don’t want to cancel on her a few hours before the date. 