I was dating this guy for about four months before he broke it off after a really bad fight that we had. After that, I made it clear to him that I wanted nothing to do with him, and last month, he tried to come back into my life. He was saying things like “I miss you,” and “You’re the only thing I need”. I told him I wanted him to leave me alone, and he respected that for about a week.

Then he comes back saying the same things, and I told him the same thing, but he just kept coming back. So I made an instagram post with the caption “People like me are gone forever when you say goodbye”.

Now him and some of our mutual friends are pissed off at me. I know I could’ve handled it better, but I gave him so many chances and he just completely ignored all of them. When he questioned me about it, i told him the same thing, that he had so many chances to back off and he didn’t listen to any of them.

So, am I the asshole in this situation?