My wife has been having a bad week, and between work and grad school, I haven't been there for her much. Last night I finally had some time, so I went to the store, bought all her favorite foods, had a movie night with her, then drew her a bath with a bath bomb and let her soak.

This was late at night, past the puppy's bedtime. I \*did\* take the dog out according to the usual schedule. She just refused to go. Not a good sign, but she's really good at whimpering in her crate until we wake up if she has to go in the middle of the night, so I put her to bed.

While my wife was in the bath enjoying herself, I went and finished my homework. It was about 1am, and I was falling asleep while typing. Finished, asked wife if she would join me in bed.

She wasn't quite done yet. Normally I hate not going to sleep at the same time but I couldn't physically stay awake. So I told her I was going to lay down, please wake me when she came in so I could give her her official good night kiss.

\*Blackout\* I sleep extremely well. Out instantly and awake with my alarm. That's my memory of last night. But apparently I missed some stuff.

It turns out, while I was asleep, my wife was so happy with me she wanted to do me a favor. So she gave the dog a bath. After the bath though, puppy finally asked to be taken outside. My wife wanted to change into pajamas, so dumped her on the bed and asked me to take her out.

Now, I have a history of sleep talking. Sometimes this means my wife'll have an entire conversation with unconscious me, thinking I'm conscious, that I won't learn about until the next day. Up until last night, this was always humorous. Last night, it got me in trouble.

Asleep me agreed verbally to take the dog out. My wife happily goes off to get dressed. Comes back several minutes later, dog has peed on the bed and is getting ready to take a dump on it. I'm rolled over sound asleep. Wife has to take the dog out, and is furious with me. She goes to sleep on the couch and leaves me there.

Part of me thinks ITA because. . . well I agreed to do something and didn't and it resulted in a disgusting bed and my wife having a horrible night's sleep on the bed fuming at me for fairly justified reasons. But at the same time, she's blaming me for something I did while completely unconscious. I have no memory of any of that happening. Moreover. . . she made me sleep in a pee-soaked bed.

So AITA?