Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : Backstory, Im a 29 Y/O residential, new construction builder and practicing general contractor. I recently entered into a general partnership (I know dumb) with my father (was I dumb?) with the scope of remodeling a house that was purchased for a reasonable price... that could be sold for a reasonable price. Prior to me become a builder, I worked as a carpenter for some 5 odd years; while I went to Uni for business.

From the design phase of this project I knew I was in for a journey when my ideas seemed to be completely disregard, Keep in mind I’m just as equally invested as my father. These unilateral decision made on his part began to fail and overhead costs began to skyrocket in the process...then the ideas that I initially proposed where implemented at extra cost and time...we all know what time is. 

My father has always had a short fuse so I have became numb to his brash out lashes. The straw that broke the camels back and ultimately has driven me into disrespecting  (am I the asshole?) my father is when I bring up building code requirements that aren’t met that he blatantly disregards and flies off the handle when I grill him for these requirements.I could write a fucking book about this ordeal but I’m going to spare you the details.  Am I the asshole for having a deep feeling of resentment, frustration and lack of respect for my pops, possibly always hold this against him,. Or am I just a whiny bitch?

