I love my wife. She is a wonderful mother and great partner. But lately she has been convinced she has undiagnosed ADHD. She has been going to counseling for a few months now to resolve some personal past issues. When she brought ADHD to her Dr. and the counselor they both told her they don't see it, but she could go to X specific Dr. For a formal diagnosis. 
I feel like I've been more than reasonable with all of this, and I'm even okay with her going to X Dr. But I feel like she is using this possibility as an excuse for some really bad habits she has developed other the years and as a cover for some deep-seated emotional scarring from her child hood. She asked me today I think she has ADHD, and thankfully I skirted the question with a child emergency. But I can feel it coming again. So AITA?