Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : AITA for considering breaking up with my girlfriend over lack of sex? Been with this girl for a year, at first things were great. We were affectionate, both confessed our love for each other, had sex all the time. During this time though she would always say that she wasn't an affectionate person and that she had never been this affectionate with any previous partners. Ended up moving out of my flat to stay at her parents house while a flat she bought at auction was getting work done on it, and the plan is to move in there after. Still had sex often but not as much as when I lived alone (understandable living with parents) but we did still have sex. 

Fast forward to now. No sex for 3 months. we argue every time I bring it up. She's told me she thinks its the contraceptive pill she's been on, but its the same one she's always taken and Ive researched this and its highly unlikely to be the case. Now she says she's just too tired all the time. but hasn't gone to the doctors (she says she has been too busy with work and the flat).  She is not affectionate anymore. When i've brought this up and said I don't feel loved anymore she's adamant that she loves me. 

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After two months of no sex I suggested blow/hand jobs if she wasn't in the mood because I was just horny all the time. I was called selfish and the idea got thrown out pretty quick and more arguing ensued. I trust her fully and 100% don't think she's cheating, she has some of the best morales I've ever seen in a person which is one of the reasons I love her. If I knew it was due to a health issue/problem I would 100% stand by her and try get through it together. But having no explanation, and cant talk with her calmly about it without arguing because she gets so defensive is making me really unhappy in the relationship. There has been no intimacy in 3 months and its killing me, taken all the fun from the relationship, and its like she doesn't care anymore.

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So was thinking this weekend to meet up, go out and at the end of the night try it on. If i get the usual reply, give her a sort of ultimatum... something like "I love you, but the lack of sex is ruining our relationship, I don't feel as close to you, I don't feel loved, and I don't feel like you care about whats going on. I don't know how long i can stick around feeling like this."  

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