So.. long story short, I live in my mom’s house while studying and it’s not going that well.

This time, she came to me while I was doing something and just shouted and cursed me angrily that I shouldn’t take the basket I took from the laundry room (about a month after I took it). So I got angry back and said that she doesn’t actually need it because she has another basket right there, I simply swapped the baskets because one was full and one was empty and I wanted the black one for my room, no other reason beside that it compliments my room, so begins a shouting frenzy where I tell her to admit that she only paid attention to it because she searched for something to get angry about, and she keeps saying she doesn’t owe me any explanation. I shout at her that I want an explanation and she says that I’m supposed to ask her before I swap them.

Now, I ask every single time I know it matters, if I want to throw something, if the dishes are supposed to be here or there (Jewish very religious meat milk thing(I think it’s a bunch of bull crap)) and whenever she tells me not to touch something I simply don’t, but she says I had to ask her if I can swap between an empty orange basket and a full black basket and ask if I can move them, she didn’t even notice for a month, and I didn’t know it was even important.
So, I keep shouting at her (sometimes calling her an idiot and stupid and a bitch) and she keeps saying that I’m:
1.think too highly of myself and that’s why she tries to tell me I’m stupid all the time (but when I admit I’m wrong it’s to show of even more {when she couldn’t say I never say I’m wrong she switched to “it doesn’t matter you only do it when it’s convenient to you and only to make your ego even higher”}).
2.don’t have respect for her things even though I ask her about the dishes and ask if I can throw stuff and don’t touch what she tells me not to touch.
3.that I have problems and I need to address them, even though I’m completely healthy IMO.
4.that I disrespect her and belittle her when she keeps doing that to me, and when even if I’m with her she keeps thinking I’m against her.

Now she tells me I can’t live with her which is totally fine I mean it’s still her house but I really do think I’m not the asshole... am I? I did shout but she did too, I did curse (a lot more then her) but she did too, she also cried and I just said that it’s stupid because she has nothing to cry about.