Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : A couple of months ago I left my girlfriend of 2 years because she was starting to become controlling.


Here’s some back story: we met in highschool but didn’t start dating until a few years after (I’m currently 25), we started dating when I was about 23. For the first year and a half things were going good, we went on dates often, our colleges were pretty close to each other, no one was cheating, everything was fine. 

About 6-8 months ago, she started to get angry if I wouldn’t call/FaceTime her for hours each day. Even on nights before I had exams, she’d text me or call me until I answered which would sometimes be past 1 in the morning. she’d be passive aggressive about how I looked(even tho I had dressed nicely), I know that can be sort of normal but she would do it every time I saw her. If I was going out with friends she would get angry and aggressive if I didn’t ask her first(we didn’t live together). Which lead to me going out behind her back and trying to make sure she never found out, but the times she did my phone would blow up with calls and text messages  from her pissed off beyond belief. One day when she was at my apartment, she started getting pissed off because earlier that day I went over to a friends without telling her.I don’t know what it was about that time but I guess I had just had enough. I yelled back at her and it escalated until I told her to “get the fuck out and never come back” I kicked her out and slammed the door behind her. I never really herd from her again after that besides a few texts an hour or so after it happened that we’re basically a longer way of saying fuck you. 

Even though it’s been 2 months I still think about it, I feel like an asshole because I did it out of anger. but i also feel like I had to do it somehow, I know the ends don’t justify the means but i felt and still feel like if I hadn’t done it things would have turned out much worse. 