Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : I say are "We the Assholes" because it was me, my brother and my mother.

Im feel sort of bad but not at the same time, Probably because the hospital called us to ask if we were going to go back to look after him.

Well earlier in the day, We had information that my Father was on his last legs and cancer was sure to defeat him. We didnt rush there, took us 3 hours for what was an hour journey, we went to the park for a bit.

A bit of information, Me and my brother are in our 20s and my mother is in her late 40s.
We came up with a plan when he was dying in hospital to get him to confess to the worst things that had happened to us in our lives.

My mother obviously grew up with him and couldnt tear herself away from him, Until today.

Well we see him in bed in a deteriated state and headed inside to condemn of the nasty shit he done. I actually laughed at him as soon as we entered when he asked for us to come closer.

I wont make this seem like an endless story so ill get to the point, Me , my brother and my Mother have all been beaten by him.
I was once beaten to the point where the hospital had to put me into a critical state, and my mother broke many bones. My brother had the worst of it since he was raped by him and beaten all the time for "bad behaviour" and "being a Devil worshipper" - FYI we have many Relegious friends who are amazing, But my father was a fanatic.

We explained to him all he had done to us, the consequences, My brothers mental health is in ruins and got into heavy drugs, since recovering and has work. My mother is emotionally destroyed over everything and even said his death had finally lifted the veil. And I explained how it led to me have violent flashback, PTSD and among other things. All in front of the hospital staff , we wanted them to bear witness.

And after he said nothing, we left him to die alone.

All we wanted was maybe some sort of apology, or something? But nothing.

I feel guilty because the other people in our family and friends have said what we did was heartless, even though they dont know the full story. 

My mother sort of came up with the idea and my brother and I followed suit. Now I dont know if what we did was right or wrong.

