A little background here. My S/O and I have just moved in together he moved from Florida to be with me in New England. 

My S/O has not been paying his half of the 1300 dollar rent bill for 3 months stating he is unable to afford it. I’m the primary lease holder so if I’m late on rent or something I’ll get screwed over. He texted me the other day that be bought a brand new motorcycle and is having it customized. 

He left some paperwork on the table and I saw the final bill is 27k and monthly payments of 300+. When he got home that day from work I completely flipped out on him. 

He called me some choice names because I raised the matter that I haven’t been able to eat a proper meal in 3 months because of him not being able to rent. 

He is on the lease as a roommate so it won’t affect him like it would affect me if I’m late on rent. 

Am I the asshole for raising hell about him buying a new bike and not paying rent while I’m going without? 