Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : So basically I am agnostic, not Christian. When I moved here I had no friends and was very lonely. I go to a church to do volunteering and also to make friends. We hang out for dinner and talk in group chats. All of them know I am not Christian and none of them pushed it on me. They are all nice people. 


Notice they have told me in their beliefs you can drink but you just shouldn’t get like drunk I guess? 

For my birthday I really wanted to go to this bar. It’s a novelty bar so it’s not really somewhere I would go normally. I really wanted to go cause it was so cool and so I invited them. This place also serves food and non alcoholic so you don’t have to drink if you don’t want to. It’s also not a place you would find people like drunk off their faces (or least you wouldn’t expect to) all these girls also know I have wanted to check out this place. 

I asked them if they wanted to come and all of them said stuff like “I don’t drink”  which ya know fair enough and I understand that. But some just said “I don’t like that venue” or just straight up “I don’t wanna go there” one of them even said “I don’t wanna go there cause I don’t think God is in those places” 

I felt it was a bit rude because like morally I am vegan but yet when my friend wanted to go to a steakhouse I went because it wasn’t my day to decide what to do. 

I said “well to be honest I picked that place because I rarely have money to go out anywhere, have been waiting to check it out, usually I would change it to accommodate everyone but I don’t think so this time so I’m just going to go with my boyfriend instead but thanks guys” 


Now I’m thinking I may of been selfish and rude? Was I? From what they told me I was under the impression they would be fine with a bar as long as they didn’t have to get drunk themselves. 

