Background: I have been friends with this guy Aaron for a few months. I'd say we are more than friends because it's very flirty, we go on what I would consider "dates," we sleep in the same bed after going out and on and on. In fact in light of what just happened, I'd say he led me on big time.

So just had a conversation at 3am after binge watching one of my favorite Netflix series that I thought it was time we take the relationship to the next level. He told me that he was happy just being friends. I said I wasn't and wanted more. He said that he just wasn't into a relationship with me. I said he had to to better than that. He said he hated to hurt my feelings and that he's just not attracted to girls who don't work out. I asked him if he meant because I'm fat. He said yes. I told him he was the biggest piece of shit I'd ever met and to leave. Since he left I've been spamming him and his Facebook with memes from my favorite bloggers like "if you can't handle my size, maybe you don't have the tools for the job." 

He finally clocked me but before doing that he said I was a huge asshole for making him feel like shit for his "natural desires." I told him he sucked but I guess he didn't see it. I sort of half feel bad but I also feel like I said what needed do he said. Am I the asshole here? 