Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : So i have known this friend for a few months now, completely casual relationship outside of a few text here and there, until it turned into something more. We ended up hanging out, sleeping together, which turned into a 3 day weekend thing and we discussed being together. The problem arose with the fact she was in a semi on again off again fuck buddy relationship with her ex of 3 years who she texted telling him she could not talk to him anymore because she found someone else(I.E me), he ended up flipping out, had an emotional breakdown and even used her mom against her. Her mom Happens to be very protective, so when she was gone for 3 days barely telling her where she was outside of the usual with friends response and found out she had spent all that time with me, she was livid when her ex told her the details and where she was.  


Her mom ended up convincing/forcing her to come back home on the 3rd day to talk to her and her ex about everything, i was a little worried but not too much but our previous "relationship" which seemed to be forming was left in chaos, since then it's been 3 weeks with no word from her on what happened or what she decided on doing about her ex. I have texted, called or tried to call(she has me blocked now) and leaves me on read on the group me. Finally i had enough, i hit her up with a nice and well written message saying i hope she feels better, but i can't keep waiting without any information and i understand the problems she is facing but i don't like being outright ignored especially when we discussed beforehand i'm not that invested where hearing she wants to be with her ex will ruin me, but just tell me what's going on so i can process it all. Instead after waiting a day, i ended up getting frustrated and hit her up on our groupmes main casual chat asking her to check her pms. She responds "Leave me alone" and... i kind of lose it, i recently lost my brother(he's actually a long time family friend) and emotionally i'm not in a great mindset but i chose not to air dirty laundry in the chat. Instead i tried to hit her up one last time in a PM and through one of my google voice numbers( I have 3 google voice numbers, mostly for getting discounts or making new account info for certain sites) she never responded but instead blocked me again.   


I know at this point i read the wall, obviously she doesn't want to talk to me, just move on etc i get that and normally if i was in my right mind i would've but i'm stuck in the city for his candle light vigil and honestly i just couldn't focus on other stuff. So i said screw it and decided to get back at her, i noticed our group me allows people to remove members regardless of any type of admin privilege so i removed her from both groups and said "Your wish is my command" right before i kicked her out of the chat. Am i the asshole or should i feel right to have these annoyed feelings?