My husband and I are trying to keep active by regularly going to the gym. I am a stay-at-home wife (with no children) so my schedule is very flexible. I prefer to work out in the afternoons and my husband prefers to work out when he gets home from work at night. Neither of us want to work out in the morning before he goes to work. The issue is that my husband will usually not go to the gym unless I go too. He says it motivates him for me to go with him. However, I don’t like working out at night and prefer my afternoon workout sessions. I notice that I tend to have less energy at night (yes, I’m sure he has less than I do after a full day at work!) and working out at night messes with my sleep. 

I finally told my husband this after months of going with him and while he said he probably will stop going, he understands my point. I really want to motivate him by accompanying him but that means I have to sacrifice what I want to do for him. I do enjoy going with him but I'm not meeting my goals if I do. Unfortunately, a home gym is not an option at this point.

AITA?
