Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : My ex and I have been separated/divorced for just over a year now. Our daughter is 6 and our son is 3. We have shared custody (I get the kids from Saturday to Tuesday, they stay with her Tuesday-Saturday) but I have expressed to her that I think she should either take the kids more often or at least spend more time with our daughter. I admit that I didn’t do a lot of the kid stuff before and it’s been hard figuring out how to shop for their clothes and do the school activities. My ex stayed home with the kids since we had our first so she took over most of this stuff while I worked. But now she’s working again and doesn’t want to take the kids an extra day. I completely understand that she has to work sometimes but I think it would be in our daughters best interest if she spent more time with her. I think I can connect well with my son and can usually guess what clothes/toys/games he will like and we have a great time. It’s more challenging with a girl as I don’t have the same experience like with my son and I think it’s resonable for my ex to take over some things like doing stuff together on the weekends and talking to her about girl things. Since she’s getting older it seems like it would benefit her more to spend more time with her mom. When I ask my ex if she would her or both the kids for just an extra day she gets super irritated with me. I don’t want to have a bad relationship with her and of course I love my kids and I’m just trying my best here.