 So for the past year and a half I've lived with 2 other roommates with generally little to no issue. Roommate A is somewhat controlling and a neat freak which has been fine, I have no issues with cleaning a bit more than I might on my own. There is also a "place" for everything that is largely decided by roommate A.  This is all fine. I don't complain about anything and consider myself pretty easy to get along with.    


  
The issues started arising a month ago. Roommate A expresses that my partner is over too much and she doesnt like it. (for an example, my partner is generally over 2 nights, and sometimes 3. Usually one weekday night and Friday night- Saturday night.)  Her complaint was that my partner was in the house when I wasn't. This is only when I need to leave for work and it's about an hour of my partner sleeping in my bed before they need to leave. My partner doesn't shower at my place or take up more than a couple minutes in the common areas. We cook meals together and maybe spend 30 minutes eating it in the living room. We always clean and do any dishes in the kitchen.    


  
Anyways, despite me thinking it was ridiculous, I asked my partner to get up at the same time as me and leave around the same time.  fast forward to yesterday, my roommate texts me that "we need to talk about X being here so often" which I reply that I apologize and understand that it's annoying when someone has their gf/bf over all the time. I can try and be less intrusive/wake up earlier so that you don't see us in the morning. (other than that we are generally confined to my room)  she replies that it's unacceptable and that partners are to be over no more than 2 nights a week and that she's "done being nice about it".    


Mind you, she also had her parents living on our couch for 2 weeks during the holidays. My common areas were all but unusable during this time.  I have no problem chipping in extra for utilities ect. I have no problem establishing quiet hours or morning routines that are less intrusive. I don't know how we could possibly be less intrusive on the weekends as we are either just cooking, out of the house, or in my room, things I would be doing myself anyway. We're also moving out to our own place in less than 4 months.  

  


All of these things were met with hard no's and it ended up with me blowing up a bit. I essentially told her we pay the same rent and she's not the arbiter of how I get to spend my time. She half assedly threatened that the next couple months would be sucky for both of us. I said the conversation wasn't going anywhere and to lodge any complaints with the landlord.    


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