Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : I \[19F\] am currently living with one of my best friends \[19M\]. We're college roommates and get along well, despite being extremely different people. He started dating a girl \[18F\] a few months ago who I don't feel good about. She needs to know where he is all the time--for example, they have a shared Google calendar because "she doesn't do well not knowing where he is." She stages a meltdown anytime she feels she's not getting attention from him. Just the other day, she texted me at two in the morning asking if he was home and asleep, to which I did not respond because it felt creepy and invasive.

These behaviors to me scream manipulation. My roommate even said once that she could be possessive, but when I raised an eyebrow, he said, "No, no, not like that," and immediately backpedaled. I tried to let it go until I couldn't. I told  a few of my friends that I thought he needed to break up with her for his own safety/sanity, which quickly made its way around campus and he confronted me about it.  I admitted that I had been talking about her and that I was worried about him. I asked if he was doing okay, he and he said he was fine--more than that, that my own experience in a toxic relationship had colored my visions of what was happening between them and I needed to mind my own business.

Since then, I've stopped talking about their relationship to others because I realize that's inappropriate. Still, I think he needs to leave her. AITA for wanting him to dump her or should I just let it go?