Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST :  what happened was me and my ex girlfriend hand been living together for 3 months dating off and on for 9 months 

over the months of us living together I slowly began to fall out of love with her.

honestly by February I was done but I gave it another shot anyways because I didn't want to be the bad lady that didn't give her another chance. 

just to clarify my ex girlfriend according to my family is very unstable. she had a obsession with knives and as I write this is texting me about how she's " surprised I am ready for another relationship"

towards the end me and my ex did not get along at all. any joke I made she thought I was mad at her anything she said felt like nails on a broken record.

my ex only had 3 things she talked about, her middle school friends (she's in her 20's), her family, and games. everything after that I felt like I was talking at her instead of with her.

we broke up Monday I believe and I immediately felt a sense of relief. the entire Idea that I could have a real conversation made me so happy I went online and had a full blown discuss on Kik with a dude about how cool quatum physics is.


I wasn't planning on making her move out at first but things kept getting more and more awkward. she would just linger in the door way or she would find excuses to touch me and talk to me, all that. all I wanted was my space. eventually the decision was made to send her back to Wich she moved from which took a massive talking to about how I didn't see us getting back together.

day comes to take her to the bus station and suddenly it turns out one of the members of house hold she is moving back into has been hospitalized with serious injuries and they where the only person who could drive. 

we sent her back there instead of to a homeless shelter so she could get help learning how to drive and support her until she could support herself. sadly in her eyes they will no longer be able to do that I tried to tell her that they really needed her now there so that as soon as she learned to drive she would be able to help out 

I basically had to beg her to go. she consider Ed staying but given that my family had paid for her ticket back and that it was non refundable and she couldn't pay my family back for it she had to go. 


now she is half way there on the bus asking if we made the right decision 


I feel like it is a ploy to get back together

opinions? 

options am I a dick for sending her away ?? please help!!