First time poster, here! 

OK. I met this kid on a psychiatric ward last year. I’m bipolar (it’s not a big deal anymore, been in and out of hospital for years) and he was in with ADHD and drug-induced psychosis. In hospital all ages and backgrounds socialise and bond so it’s quite normal to find yourself hanging out with people you’d never know IRL.

We’d been out of hospital a while and he caught me on Fb messenger. He told me he’s now dating the hot healthcare assistant who worked on the ward and that she begs for his cock night and day. She’s about 26, and stunningly attractive so I figured improbable, illegal (there must be a law against staff hooking up with patients, surely?) and basically wishful thinking.

He started telling me about his new job in construction. We always enjoyed making shit dirty puns when we were in hospital so, when he started boasting about his “mighty piledriver”, I chuckled and asked him if he had a decent helmet.

I’m not a sexy lady. I’m naive and enthusiastic, like a Labrador. But I can do innuendo very happily- I always loved the Carry On movies.

We talked about handling tools, filling holes, releasing heavy equipment, filler, some lower quality stuff about cable ties and webbing, erections... you get the idea. Periodically he said “don’t stop” and “this is so hot” but i just thought it was part of the fun.

I am so immature.

Imagine my shock when he sent me a pic of him finishing himself off, followed by “that’ll be our dirty little secret then”

A teenager. Ugh. I was so grossed out I actually cried.

But now his girlfriend has messaged me. Implausibly, he really is with the nurse. She has seen the convo. She called me a sad, fat, old slag and a perv. She said I was abusing a young and vulnerable mentally ill person and that I deserved to go to hell for it. She had a go at me for inciting her boyfriend to cheat and said their relationship was true love and I tried to tear them apart. She’s blocked me from his account and threatened to post screenshots to my insta. She says I am an asshole.

Of course she’s quite a bit older than him and has abused her position of power, and I had no idea the little perv was fiddling with himself.

And I do have a major mental health problem that is being exacerbated by the stress and humiliation.

Anyways... AITA?