Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : So - had to sell car. Adult family member (FAM), in a different state, needed car, agreed to take over payments. Everything still in my name, as they can't get loans, etc. 
Payment were made on time, car just got paid off. Haven't signed title over yet.

6 months ago, started getting toll bills. Passed them along, FAM said they would be taken care of. Didn't happen. I've reminded them monthly, sent copies of bills. Eventually part of the bill went to court - got a small judgment against me. They won't tell me what they are doing to take care of it, just "trying". But nothing has changed - no payments, no info that they called, etc. 

FAM recently, maybe 2 months ago, had a huge shake up with living situation and apperently isn't doing great mentally. I haven't inquired into exact situation, but I'm sure it's very rough going. 

Told FAM that if significant movement wasn't made on the matter early next week, I would be coming to get car and selling it for the toll and court costs. I explained that i can't have more hits to my credit and court decisions against me and I wasn't letting this hang anymore. 

FAM and family are flipping out on me. Saying I'm screwing her over, not taking her status in to consideration. 
I'm scared that I'm going to have things on my record that are going to haunt me forever. 

Aita?

(throwaway for reasons...)