Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : This is going to sound dumb, but I was best friends with a girl I met online for a long time (and yes, we have met in-person before). We both had feelings for each other but knew that distance was the biggest obstacle, so we stayed silent on the topic and just remained friends. 

5 months ago, she called me one night and vented to me on how she’s had a crush on me for so long, going as far as saying that she’s in love with me and that I’m the only guy she has feelings for. However, I was suspicious as I had seen photos of her with another guy she was hanging out with. I asked about him, just so I could make sure that I wasn’t getting in the way between them if they were seeing each other. She told me that they weren’t romantically involved and that he was gay. 

She pretty much ghosted me that night for the next 2-3 months, and I could barely could get a hold of her. Whenever I did, she acted very passive towards me and sounded like she didn’t want to talk to me at all. I could say “I love you” at the end of a phone call and she would just hang up on me without saying it back, but she insisted that we were still best friends. 

I was on Twitter, and stumbled across her “gay” friend. Apparently, he wasn’t gay at all and they had been together (or at least FWB) from some very revealing tweets he posted about their relationship. Out of shock, I impulsively screen-shotted the evidence and sent it to her asking if she was lying to me this whole time about him. She only responded, “I’m sorry I can’t do this” and blocked me on everything. 

I ended up apologizing for being nosy and she apologized for lying to me, and I suggested that we stopped talking to each other. She said that she didn’t want to, and wanted me to give her another chance. I asked if we could talk this whole situation out on the phone, and she told me to give her 10 minutes. She ended up never picking up, and ghosted me again for the next month. 

I was obviously fed up and just said “goodbye” anyways since I knew she was going to keep ghosting me. I’m over it now but I just wanted to know, AITA for being too nosy? Or did I do the right thing by confronting her about it?

tl;dr - best friend from LD confesses her feelings for me, but lies to me about not seeing another guy at the time by telling me he’s gay. i find evidence that he’s not gay and that they were seeing each other, and she blocks me on everything 

