Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : Title says it, but I'll go into a couple important details: Before our son was conceived, we were talking and she was saying how if she had kids she wanted them to be healthy and eat vegan like her. I was like ehh I mean I guess that's an interesting idea. I never said oh yeah let's do that. We weren't planning to have a kid by the way, this is when we first got together, maybe a couple months after, then we had our son maybe 2-3 years later. I never agreed to this, just humored the idea, ya know, and I'm being serious about this, not twisting the story. When he was born or a little before or after, can't remember, she told me that he was going to be vegan and that if I had a problem with it, I could leave and she could do it on her own. After the baby was born she was living with my mom and I. I obviously told her no, I'm not going to leave, but I think that it's unfair that she makes this huge decision without really saying anything about it, and putting me in this "guilt trip/ultimatum" spot. We argued and fought over it, she threatened to leave and said he can be vegetarian instead. I wasn't going to give up my son for some dumb shit like that, so I said fine. We argue from time to time over it and I was wondering if I have a right to still be pissed off about it and I had a right to be pissed off in the beginning as well. She also pulled the same kind of ultimatum when she proclaimed he was going to be Catholic and go get baptized with her and her family one day. I said wtf no why? I want him to be baptized at a baptist church because that's what I was. We had actually talked about this before. She said she doesn't even have a religion, she was Catholic as a child, but hated it blah blah blah, and that it was fine if I wanted to take him to church and stuff. Like I said she pulled the same ultimatum stuff, but then later gave it up because the appointment or whatever fell through. Thanks guys, sorry for the long post.