Throwaway obviously.

I love my husband to death but he suffers from a condition that keeps him confined to a wheelchair most hours of the day. Recently we've been talking about having children and the non-zero probability that he will pass this condition on to our kids. I told him that I have been worried about this for a while and that, if we found out that our baby would carry the condition, that I would want to get a abortion.

My husband got very angry at me, asking me what would have happened if his mother made that decision. He accused me of being insensitive to his condition and said that I was incredibly hurtful. I honestly can't understand this. He tells me all the time how he feels left out of things because he's stuck in the chair or how he was made fun of as a child for being unable to play sports. How could he want that for our child?

I told him that I love him for who he is and that I would love our child all the same if it were born with the condition, but I still want to avoid our child's lifetime of pain if I can terminate the pregnancy. He's now very upset at me and has been sleeping in the living room. I can't understand his anger; if he feels like this condition has held him back, why would he want that for our kids?

AITA?