I was in a relationship which was getting extremely toxic, we broke up many times for short periods of times and go back together because it felt right; to be with her - as much is it hurt me with her not showing interest until she needed i thought the positives outweighed the negatives, but unfortunately it was the other way round.

This girl was treating me like absolute trash but I loved her unconditionally, unfortunately she didn’t feel the same towards the end.

She got annoyed for me always wanting to see her, annoyed when I was messaging her, saying I was too obsessive (but what’s bad about that really tho? Surely it’s a good thing knowing they love you and you’re their only interest.) she was talking to other people and going out too, without me even tho she told me she was “busy” she verbally abused me whenever I brought up the fact that she was being unfair so i decided to end it, much to my discuss. 

I had all of her work colleagues and friends messaging abuse at me because of it saying I’m a terrible person and I was lucky to have her, quite frankly that made me feel even worse, but eventually i got over it but I am still hated for doing it. I was told to sit her down and talk about things but like I said, I would just get a bunch of verbal abuse. 

Am I the asshole?