I recently got laid off and I am just so anxious because of it. Yesterday, after not spending part of the weekend together my (24f) bf (29m) asked me to see his friends band play at a local venue. I agreed but in the back of my mind I was like “ehhhh”.

I’ve also been on my period. My birth control makes it extra heavy. All day I’ve been at the library. I did put make up on to go to one interview, then afterwards I went to one of my girl friends house to debrief with wine.

I realized I was more comfortable with my friend (She is lending me sweats and spotting me on pizza). I called him and said I didn’t want to go to the show but I would come to his house after at around 10-11pm.

He seemed to calm down when I mentioned coming by later, but then he had to end the conversation with “i just think your acting like a bitch I’m offering to pay”.

Like yes I am broke thank you for offering to pay, But I also just don’t have the energy or want to go! 

I called my mom and she said She could understand why he was mad if he was excited to see his friends play whilst hanging with his girlfriend. He is very introverted, so i know going to shows alone makes him shy. But thats so much pressure to be expected to go to every show. 