Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : My girlfriend and I recently got into a huge argument about paying for dates. She thinks that because I make more money I should pay for all of our dates and I think that because we do things that are usually free or cheap, like under $20 per person, that we should split the bill.

She thinks this is stupid and called me cheap. She said that if I loved her than I should pay for everything since I make five times more than her.

When there is a special event that we both would like to go to but she can't afford it, I have zero problem with paying for. But I think for everyday stuff like dinners, movies, drinks etc we can both pay our own bill.

Am I totally out of line? Should I pay for everything all the time?