Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : So I (32m) started dating a new girl (26f) after a disgusting horrible divorce from my wife who I’ve been with for like 15 years.. 

So I was super patent and deliberate in choosing a girl to date, turning down lots of others over the last year or so of separation... Then I met this girl and she is like EVERYTHING I want in a woman, and I could really see myself having a long-term relationship with her. 

We took things slow and waited about a month to have sex, just fooling around and doing other stuff. Then when the time came she stopped me right before and told me she had been living with herpes since the age of 19.. She was very mature and responsible and understanding and said she’d give me time to think about it, but...TBH I’m fucking freaking out. I’m terrified that this could affect me and my life forever if I end up being with her.

I basically told her all of this, and broke up with her. I said that I couldn’t risk my health or well being and that I’ve been through too much to not give myself every chance at happiness. She says I’m being immature and I’m an asshole and insists that it’s really no big deal.

So, am I being an asshole?? I sure feel like one... But at this point in my life and with a daughter who I basically raise alone I need to be selfish with my time and my life. Has anyone been in a similar situation? What are my options? Help me out Reddit, I’m feeling pretty f’ed up over this...