Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Most times my partner goes and works out, she comes home and instead of taking a shower, she just sits on the couch or lays in our bed. If she feels she didn't work out hard enough, then she won't shower before going to sleep either. AITA for asking her to take a shower before she sits/lays on stuff, so that they don't smell afterwards Even after her lightest workouts where she may not have sweat much. 