Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST :  I've been studying at my current school for 6 years now, and though I had a rocky relationship with everyone at first, I made friends with 4 other girls who I consider best friends: A, B, C and E. A and B are probably the most intelligent students in our class and the ones I'm closest to, and C and E are not exactly horrible students, they're just bad.  


Now, I'm in no position to call them dumb, nor is it my wish to do so. I'm no genius either, but I'm an average student with mostly 8s and 9s grades (out of 10). They're my friends and I'd never consider them dumb, but there's one thing that pisses me off:  


Whenever a year starts, C and E decide they'll study hard and try their best and not go to rec on any subject. First three months pass by, and they start not going to school, missing classes, not paying attention and speaking in class. I call them out for it, reminding them of last year, and they shut me off completely. A and B turn away and C and E group up on me saying that I'm rude and nosy and shouldn't be saying those things.  


First week of exams comes by, and they get low grades. I see that they feel sad and encourage that they can do better next exams and try to support them. Then, next trimester comes and the exact same thing happens. Until we get to the end of the year, and they simply give up. "Oh, I don't know this subject. I won't study it, since I know I won't be passing anyway"  


I call them out on it, say it's irresponsible and that they should try exactly because they don't understand it. I offer help and once again they say I'm a pain in the ass and that I'm wrong and that I should leave them alone. Again, it's me against the two of them and I just get so frustrated. End of year comes, and they are crying that they didn't pass in 5 subjects and how they'll try, and how they should've looked for help and I just can't help but cringe.  


I know I probably should leave them alone, but knowing they'll end up sad and in a bad position at school I just can't bring myself to do it. I know they could do wonders if they stopped missing classes and started paying attention to them instead. I tell myself I insist because I want to see them happy, but they've told me so many times I'm wrong that I just feel like I'm the asshole in the story. Am I? 