So I’m out eating with my mom and her boyfriend. In a therapy session about a month ago, i confided that I harbor resentment towards my mom for having me because of how depressed I constantly am. I told her about this in a safe and private environment.

Over lunch, the topic of gift giving comes up casually. I mention that I give hints about things I like and jokingly say she doesn’t always pick up on them. Then she says “just another failure after giving birth to you, right?” Before sipping on her drink. I immediately whisper to her that she has “no goddamn right” to bring up my vulnerable thoughts so casually, to which she tells me that I said something “equally” mean. Then I’m forced to “leave the table,” with her saying she doesn’t care where I go “so long as you don’t cause more drama.”

AITA for losing my temper over that? 