Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Me and my dad have always been close and had a decent father-daughter relationship. I'm 31 (f) and recently married with no kids. My dad is very set in his ways about doctors and how "useless" they are. He hadn't been to one in a very long time, save the last two weeks. In my adult life my dad has had all sorts of "bathroom issues" having to pee very frequently and urgently. In the past few weeks it has gotten so bad and painful that he actually broke down and went to urgent care and asked for some antibiotics that have done nothing. I'm thinking the issue is probably more prostate involved and me and my mom have been tip-toeing around the subject with him and trying to convince him he NEEDS to see a doctor. He gets upset when either me or my mom bring it up now. Me and my husband want to wait another 5 years or so before we have kids but it would be so devastating if he wasn't around to meet them and be in their lives. 

WIBTA if I told him "Dad you need to go to a doctor or else you won't be around to meet your grandkids?" I know this is a sensitive subject but I'm hoping something like this might motivate him to seek help.