Last night my friends and I met up for a bit of a party. Everyone had a good time and it was going pretty well.

Towards the end of the night one of my friends got up to leave and drive home.

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Now full disclosure during the night we were all smoking some weed. 

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My friend starting saying it was their choice if they wanted to drive and to mind my own business.

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I tried explaining how it's not just his choice and that if I was to let him drive and endanger himself and others I would hold myself responsible too.

My friend then went out to his car and started it. I quickly ran out and stood out in front of the car and told him to go inside the house and just crash for a few hours.

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A huge argument started with me repeatedly saying "You're being stupid" , "Just crash for a few hours" , "stop being an idiot"

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His only real defense was "it's my decision and you should mind your own business"

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I said "You're my friend and I can't let you do this, I'll stand out there all night" to which he replied "we're not friends". He squared up to me and was repeatedly hostile and aggressive.


I've know this guy over 10 years and would consider him one of my closest friends.


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Eventually my friends convinced him to go inside and crash. He left early this morning, I wouldn't put it past him to sneak out and drive out of spite but I honestly don't know what time he left.

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I honestly don't know how to move forward with him. He's one of my closest friends but if he can't understand how endangering himself and others is not ok and that he can't "make his own decisions" then I'm not sure how I can be his friend.


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Should I just let it go? Allow him to do what he wants? Stop being his friend?