Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : So the story is we were supposed to go see a movie (special theater, old run, so not normal movie schedule) earlier in the week but our schedules conflicted so we moved it back to Saturday. 

Friday night we are on the phone to finalize meeting up and I say are we going to the movie tomorrow. She responds oh I forgot to tell you that I want to take this dance class (she a dancer so it's like training) tomorrow movie is now a no go. I'm like ok that's fine. She then asked if I would on Sunday and I said I wanted to watch football cause playoffs and why an I forced to miss what I want now. She was like ok cool. 

Today, I even force her out of bed today to go to said class when she was trying to snooze alarm too many times. She calls me to say class was cut short and now is mad for going at all but again brings up me changing my plans and doing some stuff I'd do tomorrow, like grocery shopping, so we can go. She does this in a super condescending way and says I'm being too into routine for having the grocery day and calls me inflexible. I say that's fine but at least acknowledge how inconsiderate this is in that you want me to change all my plans because you made choices. 

Also, I was willing to go by the end because she actually told me the wrong tikes initially and I found I could make it work with playoffs timing but we got into an argument over her approach thus her being like fuck it I'll go by myself.

Am I the asshole? Should I just have been like ok whatever?