Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Bf and I allow full access to each other’s phones.  I saw his ex in his contacts and asked him why she was still in there.   He said he just hadn’t bothered to remove her yet, but had no intention of contacting her again.  So I deleted her.   He was surprised and asked me why I did that.  I just said if you’re not going to contact her why have her in there.   I can tell he’s bothered, but am I wrong?