Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : So this was several years ago, and she and I are broken up. However this was a major factor in the breakup, and something that I still think of.

Ive taken a week off work every year for the past 5 years to volunteer at a local charity around the holidays. It benefits low income children. It's well supported but I'm the only one whose less than 50 years old and in relatively good physical shape. They really appreciate my efforts and I love to be there. I get there around 10 and I'm usually out by 5.

My gf at the time would message me every day on my days off and hint that she wanted me to come by her school with lunch or to volunteer in her classroom. She only ever brought this up when I've already committed my time. Never did she ever suggest I do this at a different time of year, or ask. I usually couldnt come by, but I did bring lunch by 2 of the 5 days. I would go by her house on my way home from work almost every day by 5-530. And when I was volunteering it'd be about the same. She evantually got upset with me on this after I told her I'd be there around 545, and told me I was spending to much time volunteering instead of committing my days off to her. 

I couldn't believe she would get upset over me volunteering at an organization that benefits children of the area vs spending time with her. I spent on average 6/7 days of the week there at her house, from after work to 10-11pm. I felt like we were on the same page except for this holiday time. 

Thoughts? What other info can I provide? 



