I’m currently a university student studying in (x) town and my ex is an ex-student who now works in the same town. I’m most likely moving to another town to pursue a masters degree at a more competitive university. 

So my now ex-girlfriend broke up with me a couple of weeks ago citing the main reason(and only reason then described) as wanting to end the relationship now, rather than later so it would be easier when I leave after the summer break. I was completely fine with this, and I didn’t want to ask anymore questions, as she was extremely emotional and since I still did(and to a certain extent still do) care for her I chose to not pursue the subject. 

A couple of weeks later, I message her asking how things are and that I’m sorry and disappointed in how the relationship ended, and that I was wondering if there was any possibility of considering maybe a long-distance relationship. However, she did a complete 180 in terms of both personality and reason-wise, pretty unemotionally telling me that she ‘liked’ me a lot, but that the main reason was actually due to a personality clash which hadn’t been apparent during the relationship (at least, in my eyes. I’d asked her numerous times during the relationship about this issue and she consistently replied that there was nothing wrong). 

This didn’t really set well with me as for the two weeks after the breakup I was beating myself up for not having made a bigger effort to try to talk her out of it, as well as believing that she still wanted to be in a relationship with me but purely believed that long distance would not work. I’ve also heard gossip from others who see her fairly often of her and another guy getting fairly close which honestly bums me out a bit, seeing as I couldn’t even fathom settling down with another woman for a while. I understand that everyone moves on at different paces, but seeing as we’re in a relatively close-knit friend group it seems a little insensitive. 

So AITA for feeling annoyed/a little betrayed by her actions? 