Backstory: I've had and been open to threesome's with a few people in the past. They were flings. Nothing serious and just having fun. My husband and I have been together for 4 years married for 8 months. We recently separated a few months ago and are living in seperated homes. We're working on it, been going to marriage counseling. He brings up, plus has mentioned it in the past that he feels like previous men in my life have had better sexual experiences (threesomes) with me and I've given them "more" than I give him. I explain to him that under certain circumstances I would be comfortable with random person, one night stand situation. Not anybody we know personally. I really love him and just wouldn't feel comfortable doing that with him! I don't really want to share my husband with anybody... I feel like we're committed to each other and that's something I did with less committed individuals. I'm not entirely shutting it down either, I just haven't encountered a situation that I would be down with. Apparently this really bothers him. AITA? Is he the asshole? 