Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Boyfriend and I have been dating for a couple years. His hair has gotten thinner over the years but absolutely nowhere near bald. Since the start of the relationship he has not stopped worrying about his hair. It \*\*absolutely\*\* consumes him. I fully respect this as an insecurity of his and have bought him Viviscal, I do his hair on nights out to look thicker, suggested shampoos and researched thinning treatments, I tell him that I don't care if he goes bald and that I'll love him whatever happens (obviously it's not exactly about what I think, moreso that he is just upset at his hair thinning). 

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I kept up the sympathy for years until recently, so lately we'll have a heated discussion about how I can't keep up with the persistent questions about his hair that I have answered a million times before. "Does it look thin?", "Does it look thinner than last week?". I feel like an asshole for being annoyed at it but it feels like 1.) I'm trying to help and it's not going anywhere and 2.) It sucks that his hair is thinning but I have a "fuck it" philosophy. If it's not something you can control then there's no point worrying about it. Not that he can just decide to think the same way that I do but I truly believe that's probably the healthiest way to deal with it. In all honesty, I'm just upset that it bothers him so much. 

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So am I right in thinking I'm being a bit of an asshole? Do I just put up with it and hide my annoyance? 