So a friend of mine is celebrating her birthday in a couple of days. Me and my girlfriend prepared a gift card for her with some money in it.

Now it would be all fine and dandy, but this friend decided that she would prepare nothing for the party; no snacks, no drinks (except water), no special events or something.

Now, AITA if i take the money out of the card and give her nothing or if i buy snacks with the gift money and give her the rest?