Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : I struggle with showing and understanding emotions so I can come across as pretty cold. I’m friends with a girl who thinks of me as her best friend. We talk almost everyday despite me moving away, and still meet up. She knows how I am and supposedly knows how I feel even if I don’t show it. She’s a really kind person and I’d do anything for her, so now I’m wondering if I should make more effort to show affection. I say this because she’s really cuddly. Like she’ll come sit on my lap or link my arm while we’re walking, that kind of stuff, and I just kinda stand there like an idiot trying to figure out what to do, which she finds hilarious. So considering how much she means to me am I an asshole for not being 'affectionate'?