Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : I come from a very broken home. I had a best friend (I'll call K) who I had been close to since Jr. High and had been friends with since pre-school. When things were getting bad, I would go to her house. I started going there every weekend, and even stayed during week days. I felt part of the family, I even saw K's mom as my own mom.

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K and I had a falling out when we were in college, and when we did eventually make up, it was around that time that I wasn't able to pay for my own cell phone plan. I told her, call or text my boyfriend (now husband) to reach me, or she could try Facebook, but I wouldn't be as responsive as I was working my ass off trying to get thru my last year of college.

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The few times we talked that year, I felt like I couldn't get a real conversation out of her. I asked 'hey, what's new?' and she would say nothing much, she had to get a new car as she got into a wreck. I freaked out, asked what happened, if she was OK, but she didn't make a big deal out of it and acted like she didn't really want to talk. She didn't talk about who she was dating, how the family was or anything, so I figured I should just concentrate on my projects so I can get the job of my dreams, which was a guarantee to get as long as I completed my projects.

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Months pass, and I decide to take a break and check Facebook. I see pictures of K in a wedding dress, and she is apparently getting married. I checked my boyfriend's phone, I checked my Facebook messages, and there wasn't any communication. It was too late to drive or get a plane ticket, so it was impossible for me to attend even if I had been invited. I immediately became heartbroken, we had always talked about being each other's maid of honor, would always be there for each other but I saw this kin to being abandoned or forgotten.

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A few days pass, and I Facebook message her mom, and I tell her, Congratulations on the wedding, not sure why I wasn't invited but it really hurt to not be. I then explained that I would be cutting off all contact and I wished them all the best, and I appreciated her being there for me and how much the family meant to me.

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Another few days pass, and I see K complaining on Facebook about how I didn't reach out to her anymore and how it took 2 to make things work. This was always her go to saying, stating that both parties needed to communicate to make the relationship work. Several other people I was once friends with also complained that I stopped talking to them as well, and they didn't know why.

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I didn't say anything then, and I haven't said anything for almost ten years (more than 5 but less than 10), until this post.

The only other conversation I had was to get in touch with a mutual friend of K's who knew my estranged sibling to tell them our father passed. No one reached out to me to tell me they were sorry for my loss or for any information.

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So, long story short, AITA here, or justified?