Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : This was all happening through chat.

So, I was chatting with a girl, let's call her Anne. Just a friend. She mentions another girl, let's call her Brenda, asking if I was interested in Brenda. I said no, but that I was interested in someone else, tho she wasn't as pretty as Brenda. (I felt the need to say this bec the last time I talked about another girl I was interested in with her, she immediately went and told me that the girl wasn't pretty). She then asks me if I think she's prettier, to which I answered honestly, saying no. 

Then she loses it. She tells me she hates me and that she didn't need that "other girls are prettier than you" bullshit. Especially from me.  I keep telling her that it wasn't my intention to push the idea that other girls were prettier, I was just answering her question. She continues being condescending by saying things like "You of all people have the guts to tell me that?" I tell her I never would have if she didn't ask.

She tells me she felt attacked. She felt objectified. (By my simple response to her question asking to be objectified in comparison to another woman) 

She tells me to try not to be an asshole about those things and so I apologize because I felt that yeah it really offended her big time. She tells me not to push my luck and that I'm the only one she knows that would prolly tell that to a girl upfront.  

"Would you rather that I lied? Or was that a question not meant to be answered?" I asked.

"I can't get over it."

"I dont tell anyone that "other girls are prettier" but you asked a very specific question abt my preference"

"It still translates as that, to me."

"Well you read it wrong and that was not the intention at all."

She then says it was still an asshole move and it didn't matter what my intention was but how she perceived it. 

"Doesn't the misreading count as a fault on your part?" I say.

 "Are you hearing yourself? Now we're counting faults?"

"No, nvm." I say. 

She responds to my previous message asking if she preferred that I lied or ignored the question completely. 

"What do you think?"

To which I no longer responded bec I've had enough at this point. 

Am I the asshole? 

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