Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : So I am going back to my home country (third world) for a holiday soon and I’ve already told my parents and grandparents how much money I plan on spending whilst there. 

My mum and nan seemed to be okay with the amount but as soon as I’d told my dad and grandad (living back home), they told me that it might not be sufficient because I wouldn’t have enough money to spend for fun and leisure and I think they are under the impression that I would be giving each and every one of my extended relatives some sort of amount. 

I, for one, didn’t plan on giving EVERYONE any since I’ve got quite a few from both sides. It’s only just me going there as well, and I wanted to go there to unwind and enjoy myself. I might give some of my close relatives a little bit but that would soon add up. 

When my dad told both my mum and I that it wouldn’t be enough, I told him “well it’s not my responsibility to give them money.” He just looked at me sternly after that but didn’t say a word. 