Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : As a disclaimer, this did not happen recently but when I was in 8th grade so it’s more of a “Was I the asshole.” I’m just posting this because despite it only being a past memory, I am curious as to what you guys think or would’ve thought if I had discovers this sub four years ago.

So when I was in grade 8 I went to a birthday-sleepover party where all my close friends (of the time) were also. My one friend (who was 14) is not a fan of horror films and the movie we ended up watching was more so a thriller but basically a horror film, my friend doesn’t make a fuss and watched the movie in her sleeping bag like everyone else did. 

We were about half way through the movie, by this point maybe a jump scare or creepy bit happened but I was a little bored so I was doing my own thing on my phone. I’m watching the movie again, but notice my friend isn’t in her sleeping bag, no big deal she probably just went to the bathroom. After a couple more minutes my friend is back in the basement, only she brought the host’s mom with her and she told us how [friend] was scared and that we had to turn the movie off.

I was indifferent about it, albeit agreed with the others in being annoyed with my friend from getting the movie shut down. No one was really mad at her per se, just frustrated that she went straight to the parents without letting any of us know, because as far as we knew she was fine and we thought if she at some point didn’t like what she was watching that she would go I her phone.

Since this happened so long ago and was not a huge deal, I’d be okay with being the asshole. I personally think my friend made it a little about her, but that’s up for discussion.

So, was I the/an asshole?

TL;DR: couple years ago was at a birthday party, friend got scared while watching horror movie, went to the parents without telling anyone, and ultimately got the movie turned off and everyone got pissed at her.

Also probably not the case, but if anyone was wondering the movie was 2009’s “The Uninvited”