Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : I am very close with this person and mid October of last year I found cuts on her arm. I talked with her and she promised she wouldn't again.

Later next month I saw even more cuts on her arm and the same thing happened I begged and pleaded with her to stop and she agreed. At this point I still have her the benefit of the doubt and didn't ask for any evidence.

Now the current situation comes into play I saw cuts on her arm about 2 and a half months later (early February) and I could tell they were definitely only a week or so old. This time I I couldn't take her word for it and I asked for pictures of her arm nearly every day and she was ok with that for about a week. 

After that she expressed she didn't like me asking so often so I cut back to every other day. Now she just doesn't want to at all and is completely ignoring me and says I "don't fucking trust her".

So AITA? I would geniunely like to have some constructive feedback about this situation. I know it's not easy to stop something like that but isn't that a good reason to check in?

Sorry for grammar.
 