Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : There is a big party in a city about an hour's drive away from where I live. My friends also live near me. It's a girls birthday party, and she only invited a few of my friend group. I didn't think it was overly fair and only 2 people confirmed they were going. So I told the girl who's party it was that I couldn't attend and now, 2 days after me telling her, I found out that the girl invited the others and they all accepted without telling me. I got mad because I didn't go mostly due to the fact they weren't going/invited. AITH?