My wife is the bread winner in our relationship.  I have medical issues that prevent me working full time at my current job.  I have another job lined up, a full-time job starting next month.  It's an office job, not a physically active one so I should be okay.  

Back on track, it's one of her 2 days off today and one of the days I work.  It's been a rough couple of days for my medical conditions so I took off a little early from work.  I got home and my wife was deep into her T.V. show.  Instead of bugging her, I went to take a nap, later got a snack, watched youtube videos for a while.  Eventually I mentioned to her that I wanted to talk about my new position.  She responds:

"Can we do it *later*, I'm watching .y shows."

I reply: "Excuse me for wanting to have a conversation with my wife about something."

She says: "You know I never get time like this, I'm watching my shows!"

I respond: "Did I not fuck off for hours so you could have some time watching your T.V. shit?  Sorry for wanting to have a 15 min conversation with my fucking wife."

She rolled her eyes and we've been sitting in silence since.  Am I the Asshole?  Should I just accept that when these days come up, I'm basically nonexistent?