Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : We both have a super important exam coming up. We used to meet almost everyday until last Sunday when I told her that we would no longer meet because we were spending almost 3 hours walking/chatting/making out everyday, and a super important test is only a couple weeks away.

She was upset, but understood. Today, she learned that I was passing by close to where she stays, so she asked me to come hang out with her for a while. I refused. Firmly. She was upset, and promised that she'd not stay for longer than 10 minutes. I refused again, and told her that it is super important for me to respect resolutions.

She then gave me some bullshit about how one should bend rules for someone they love, and I got a little pissed. This is how the text conversation went, I am copy-pasting so this is an exact:

HER:

What makes us special is when we take out time to do something we know we shouldn't.

ME: 

That sounds like something a 16 year old who spends too much time on Instagram would say. When I say something I mean it, and so should you. This is important for my career, and yours too.

HER: 

Life isn't just career. You'll lose everything and be left with nothing but a career.

ME: *laugh emoji*

HER: 

Keep laughing. Laugh as much as you want. You're too good at that.

Go study. That's all you should be doing.

Don't waste your time texting me either.

ME: 

Please try to understand my POV instead of getting annoyed at an emoji.

HER: 

Don't want to drag this any further. I have no time to make you understand anything. It wastes my time too.

ME: 

You're like a child. 

You get angry when you're told to study for an upcoming exam.

*laugh emoji*

HER: 

No, you're just too old. Too old to be in a relationship. Too old to break rules. Too old to understand that life can't be measured. I'm deleting [the messenger app], don't waste your time anymore.

ME: 

Now you're doing something totally unnecessary.

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That was it. No response. We spoke later in the evening, and she told me that she is upset at the 16 year Instagram comment, and the laugh emojis. She took it further, saying that she isn't happy in the relationship, and needs to re-consider it. This is an overreaction IMO. I just want the best for the both of us. Why won't she understand?