So my girlfriend is pissed at me over a holiday she wants to go on.  
   
 

She has lived in many places throughout her life and one of those places she’d like to visit again. She has ties and friends there and knows the place well. I’m not all that keen on going to this place, it’s not somewhere I’ve ever wanted to visit and it’s really far away (way further than I’ve ever been before) and expensive to get to. We’re talking thousands of £/$  
 She has offered to cover the costs, which I still declined. I don’t like feeling like I owe anyone and I don’t want her to put up a load of money for somewhere I don’t want to be / may not enjoy.  
 She is upset that I have refused the offer and still do not want to go. She said she has offered me the opportunity for a great holiday at no cost and I don’t care enough to go. 

I said to her that just because you have offered to pay for a trip for someone to go somewhere they don’t want to doesn’t mean they should accept it.  
 My position is that if I really want to go somewhere and she doesn’t then I would not be upset or think twice about it, I would go alone or with a friend and then go somewhere with my girlfriend that we both wanted to go, both would enjoy and both paid for. We both have to accept and respect each other’s likes and dislikes.

So AITA? She thinks so but I don’t really think I am…  