u/FederalPoet 's post nude painting reminded me of this, which I guess I haven't finished processing! 

To tell the short version of the backstory, my BF had made out with another girl while I was in the other room doing dishes. (And the night before at the club we were at and had cuddled with her the whole night also while I was in the same room but I digress.) Cut to about 2-6 months later, I actually don't remember, we were still together but I was still working on my feelings about it and still experiencing a lot of jealousy. 

I get home one night, and he is super excited to show me some art he had done! I look, and it's a bunch of figure drawings of a naked woman. His office was having a week where they were providing a variety of useful art etc. classes to employees, and this was one of them. I tried to be "chill" about it, but it just sparked up a lot more jealousy again. 

We got into a fight about it that I don't think we ever really resolved. He said he had showed me because he was hoping to get some support from me re: his art which is also his career (he works in film). I expressed that it really shocked me to suddenly see all of these drawings of a naked woman he had done. He was firm that it was a professional setting and there wasn't anything to be jealous about - it was a professional model and he was surrounded by coworkers, it's not like it was a sexual experience. I said that I wished he had warned me about it, even before he had opted in to take the class; that I would have been fine with it under other circumstances because I understand the artistic value, but because of our recent history I was particularly sensitive and really really needed the warning. 

I am willing to admit I am a prude and therefore the asshole but let me know! X)