So at college we’re a small group but people mug me off and throw my hat around (it was black and now it’s faded and dirty because of it). 

I’ve tolerated it and laughed it off most of the time but today I thought enough is enough and stood up for myself and everyone got all pissy at me, next thing you know (let’s call him Charlie) Charlie goes to take my hat again so I give his arm a hard slap and he said ‘watch afterwards’. 

I then got into an argument with everyone and I just left it after while. Am I the asshole here or have these people got a massive case of ‘can give it but can’t take it’? 

Sorry if it doesn’t make sense, I’m bad at explaining stuff lol   