Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Some context: I'm (M20) she's (F20), have been dating for 6 years, we go to separate colleges about an hour away. She doesn't go party too often, maybe 1 time a week or every other week.  I don't mind or care that she does party because  I do the same. The only thing that bothers me is that she wants to wear provocative/showy clothing. I don't want other guys looking at her boobs or ass.. She says that she does it for herself, not for others. At the same time she has clothes that she still looks hot in but it isn't showy (which I don't care) I don't care when she looks hot I just don't want her tits out. She also says that she's all mine, but yet she's showing herself off like that for other guys to stare. If I were truly hers why would she do that?   She's never worn clothes like that until college either. I don't mind when she wears clothes like that when we go out together because she says she does it for me.  AITA for not wanting her to wear provocative clothing when she goes to parties? 