Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : First time poster, fairly new to Redit and I’m on my phone. I apologize in advance for any formatting mistakes or lack of things most posts include. 
I had my son 11 years ago. I continued that pregnancy knowing I would be a single mom from the start. It has been the most difficult, rewarding thing I’ve ever done. Ive always wanted another child but wanted to do it the “right way”. I told myself I’d never do that again without a partner to experience pregnancy and our child with. 
I waited till I became a wife then the hubby and I spent a year and 10 months trying to conceive before we finally did.  We were both over the moon excited to be creating this new life together. 
Perhaps, at almost 8.5 months pregnant now, I am over reacting. Perhaps I expect too much from my hard working husband. I’m coming here to get some outside perspectives. 
My husband seems very uninterested in our growing child. I expected him to talk to the baby belly and touch it somewhat often. To get excited to feel baby move and be patient enough to experience that. Sometimes you have to hold your hand there for a while to get a good feel of what’s going on inside my baby making factory, but he often removes his hand and goes back to whatever he was doing, watching tv, playing with dog or on his phone before he really gets a good feel.  He rarely puts his hand there without me placing it there for him. 
Today, I had a cup on my bump, hubby was on the couch opposite of me, playing games on his phone. I giggled to him to look at the cup, baby was making it dance around like crazy!! He hardly glanced at it for a 2 second count before going back to his phone as he makes a “huh” comment with a laugh back at me. I asked him if he actually seen it, he said without looking up, “not really”. 
Typing it out makes me feel a little silly but it’s upsetting to me. It’s as if he cares not to experience whats going on with our baby in my belly. I feel just as alone, if not more so during this pregnancy then I did 11 years ago when I actually WAS alone sharing those moments with just myself.
Anyway, after he stayed glued to his phone, I snapped at him. I said something along the lines of “I wish you cared to actually take the time to experience this with me, it will be over very soon and you’ll no longer have the chance”. He was clearly upset by my remark but said nothing. After snapping at him I got up off the couch to go lay in bed, frustrated. Now I’m here. 
So, Redit, lay it on me.... Am I the asshole for feeling like he should want to be more involved and for getting pissed off that he’s not?? 