Alright, saw this Reddit in a Youtube video by Cuestar.

 
My good friend from awhile ago, let's call him Austin, and I were in 8th grade when this happened, so any "relationship" probably isn't going last through the summer unless you live in the same town, and even then it is difficult. 

Austin was known as a "No I won't tell anybody, I swear..." kinda person if you know what I mean. I knew who he'd had a crush on for awhile, and he'd always wondered about who I wanted to be with.
 
I think Austin realized who it was when I let her go in front of me as we were getting off the bus, at least this is the moment I believe he figured it out. It was also quite blatant that I was allowing her to go in front of me on purpose because I had cut off other people but let her go.
 
Anyways he kept asking and asking but i kept denying and denying it. But after awhile he would find me between classes just to ask and it started to get annoying. So I finally just told him, thinking it would just get him off my back.
 
Well...no, it did not. He spread it like a wildfire, and somehow (I am STILL confused to this day how) Emily(not her real name but my crushes "name") didn't hear. I think it was that it was so big her friends just assumed she heard it somewhere and had not told her.
 
I was so angry and upset that I told everyone who he liked, and boy did everyone think I was the biggest "asshole" for even doing that. No one believed me though because his crush (let's say Jada, although not important to the story really) and I have hated each other since kindergarten. So everyone thought I was lying just to embarrass her.
 
About 3 weeks pass and Austin comes up to me in my seat on the bus and sits next to me. I try to persuade him otherwise by moving my legs and bags in his way. He asked me if he could sit and I said, "Sorry not enough room." but I looked around the bus and saw the bus had no other open seats, so I caved. He sat down and he mumbled something almost like he wanted me to ask what he'd said. I ignored him.
 
As we were stepping off the bus, he'd tapped me on the shoulder and said, "I forgive you for telling everyone." I was like, "Huh?" He started it, and he was forgiving me?? I was so angry for the rest of the year that no "sorries" were said to one another.
 
Eventually we both moved on but we were never as good friends again. Barely even spoke to each other. 

TL;DR My friend told everyone about my crush and I respond by revealing his and everyone hated me. He "forgave" me like i started it, and never said sorry for what he did. I never said sorry either.
So wise Redditors Am I The Asshole?