Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : For full transparency this happened in November but I cant seem to shake the feeling I was out of line.

Brief back story, was together with my ex for 7 years, condo, dogs, the whole 9 yards. Seemingly out of the blue the ex decided she needed space to find herself. While crushed I understood that we had not been very happy together. 

I told her I would move out into my friends while I shopped around for an apartment. Most of our belongings are mine, TV bed, furniture, cookware, etc.  I told her I would be back to collect them once I had a new place.  Another reason I decided to leave is that we were informally renting the home from her sister.

While staying at my friends I was able to confirm my suspicions that she had been unfaithful. (I can go into detail on the investigation but would rather not relieve that). I also found that she had linked her Venmo account to our joint savings several weeks back and had been purchasing about $180/week of Cocaine form our drug dealer. Total about $600.

Between the stealing and the infidelity I was livid. So I waited until she was at work and with the help of my friend went back and moved all of my things out.

She was blowing up my phone and I have been called every name in the book. I do feel bad essentially leaving her with an empty home but my reasoning is two fold. I was not sure who my ex was anymore and didn't want to lose my things since I never signed a lease or anything. Secondly I didn't think I could look her in the face without erupting in anger. I do feel bad and that brings me here, so let me have your judgment. Am I the Asshole?

