Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : My brother and I grew up in an abusive home. If it hasn’t my dad being the physically abusive alcoholic he was and still is towards us it was my mother being emotionally abusive and neglectful towards us. I left as soon as I can at the age of 23 when I could scape together enough savings for an apartment, and took my brother with me when he turned 18. 

My brother has his issues. It was fine when he moved in with me and my girlfriend for a few months, but that quickly went down the gutter. He doesn’t contribute to the rent we agreed with, recently lost his job at Best Buy, and trashed my place. When I got back one night volunteering at my local soup kitchen he had about 10 people over, smoking pot, drinking, and destroying my apartment. They broke my toilet somehow, there’s urine all over my carpet, and vomit in my bed. When I woke up the next day there was someone passed out still in the bathtub from the night before that missed my radar. 

I kicked my brother out, and he refuses to move back in with my parents, he’s mostly bouncing around couches at friends places. I feel terrible for doing this, because he is my brother and I love him. But I still feel guilty for leaving him without a home. 

Am I the asshole?