Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : I've been with my boyfriend for two years. He floats between the houses of different family members and is looking for a job after some health issues. I had to move for a job which he supported and I offered to pay for him to come with me but he has refused.

Recently I grew frustrated with him saying "one day" to moving here, to kids, to marriage. Then often sounding like he only said "one day" to avoid losing me. He won't move until he gets a job, gets fit, etc. But life won't ever be perfect.  

At the advice of my therapist (who said to give him one month then it's over) I applied pressure. I told him to give me a date by which he would ready to move here because there needs to be one. He accused me of giving an ultimatum, said it reflected poorly on me, and has been teetering between avoidant of talking about it and outright nasty. When I lean towards breaking up he gives me what I want (like the date I asked for, but no real substance to it) so I stay, but after the last few weeks I'm not sure if I want to be with him - the relationship feels like it's moving backwards. I'm tired of being called a bitch over this. 

AITA for putting pressure on my unemployed boyfriend of 2 years to commit to a time to move in after growing tired of hearing "one day"? Is he an asshole for saying he will do it one day but only after [excuse] (which is an ever changing and growing list)? 