Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : I am a talkitive person who loves to hear other peoples ideas/opinions and to share my own. My boyfriend is more reserved in the communication department. 

When we watch YouTube/TV together  I often comment on things that are happening in the show - I despise talking over the TV so sometimes I will pause it to ask for his opinion on what we are watching and to share mine...this infuriates him. He gets agitated with me and feels like I am being disruptive like "why the f××× do you keep pausing the show...I just want to relax...you are ruining my night..just shut up!"...and I am always agitated feeling like he is lacking in depth like "I just want us to connect and share our thoughts..sorry for wanting to be heard and have some kind of human interaction"...

If we are in the middle of a really good show ESPESSIALLY if it is during an intense part (like Game of Thrones) I do not talk or pause it to talk.....it is just when we are watching youtube videos or less interesting/intense stuff......his biggest issue seems to be when I pause it ...there have been times he will start talking during a really good intense show about dinner or something unrelated and I will pause it - this also pisses him off ---he just hates it when I pause shows but I cant stand talking over the TV...his solution is to stop talking which I find very difficult. 

As minor and silly as it sounds this is actually creating a problem in our relationship because we watch TV together everynight and  when we are relaxing together I am in a good mood and trying to have a connection with him and he is getting angry with me which is making me feel like we have no connection and making me want to withdraw ...it is leaving him feeling disrespected and annoyed...it is leaving me feeling unheard and irritated ...

AITA? 