Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : I've been nannying for my niece since she was four months old. Now 16 months. It's in an actual job capacity where i get paid and everything. 

There was an absolutely bad start I will admit where I didn't know what I was doing and I didn't take the job seriously enough. So they had a nanny cam installed. 

I suffer from clinical paranoia and mild psychosis ( i know thats a heavy word but it just means i get easily paranoid  ) so i begged them to always tell me once it was put up ( they would periodically take it down or choose to put it up ) because seeing it or finding out i was being watched without my knowledge can trigger a huge paranoia attack and ill feel like there are cameras all over the house. 

Well it's been months without it and I thought we were doing good but i recently found it plugged in though it was never turned on and it was hidden away which set me off even more. It's since been moved and even has things blocking its lense but its still plugged in. I haven't brought it up because our living situation is kinda volatile especially with the babys father so.

It's not even a case of me over performing when the camera is on and presenting a false image. I still make mistakes when it's on tbh though small ones here and there. I don't mind it being on too much its just, as i said the lack of honesty. 

To clarify non audio nanny cams without the nannys consent are perfectly legal in my state.

Am i the asshole for being upset? 