Backstory:Me and my Fiance have been dating since we first started college, we both came from 2 different sides of Ohio (state/province of USA) and met because she knew my roommate. We got engaged during the summer of 2k18.

I study accounting and business at OSU and I have a paid internship where I have been saving money and was going to be employed after the now accountant was planned to retire this year and my salary was going to start near 65,000. 2 weeks ago we found out she was pregnant after 9 months of trying. She just told me that she wants to move to a suburb of Cincinnati to live close to her parents to help take care of the baby while I want to stay near where we are and she can find a job nearby and together we could both work and she could start her career after the baby was old enough to go to daycare or have a babysitter. Also if we do move down to Cincinatti I would make about 20 grand a year less making her parents cost us about 20,000 just to have a free babysitter when they are only an hour and a half drive away so they could visit whenever and therefore making us centrally located for my Mom/step dad and my brother only living a 15 minute drive away if we ever needed anything