Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Me and my girlfriend of 3 years (she's 21, I'm 20) decided to go on a break 1 month ago. I won't go into detail but we both agreed that it would be for the best to take a break. We decided to let things cool off for some time and then give it another try. We went no contact for the first 2 weeks and after that we messaged occasionally. I moved back in with my parents as I wanted to give both her and myself space.

Yesterday we went out for dinner together and we saw each other for the first time since our break. We both felt comfortable and it was going pretty good. When I asked her if she had seen anybody since we decided to split, she looked very confused and said: "No, of course not. Why? Did you?"

Well, last weekend I went to a party, and a girl that (apparently) has a thing for me started blatantly hitting on me. I ended up going to her place and she blew me and I went down on her. After that I went home. I wanted to be honest and I told her this, and she was upset to say the least. Every bit of progress we made that night was erased and she called me a selfish asshole. I told her that I thought it would be okay since we were on a break, and I didn't know that it wasn't okay to hook up with other people. She said that I should have known better and repeated what she said earlier.

I didn't go out looking for sex, but it happened. I wasn't satisfied afterwards and I regret it, but I thought that it was okay. This morning I apologized to her through text and she said she needs to think and wants to meet up this weekend, but that it was still a dick move. 

Am I really the asshole here? 

