When I was about 20 I back to my homeland (we had moved when I was five). I spent quite a while there as I was doing uni there. I met a girl who I bonded with. Sarah and I had a lot in common both being away from our families and main country of residence. We also looked a great deal alike which resulted in a lot of jokes as we pretended that we were fraternal twins and such. After awhile Sarah confided in me that she was pregnant. She did not want an abortion nor did she want to keep the child. She wanted an adoption but could not afford the hospital fees. As this was my country of birth I was a citizen and entitled to everything a citizen has including free health insurance. I then told her we could swap identities for health and she could sign in under my name.

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She used my insurance at the hospital and then things went wrong. For starters, the hospital put my name on the application for the birth certificate so we had to follow through and put my name on the birth certificate. That meant that my name was on the documents when we handed her over for adoption.

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Fast forward about 25 years. Marcy has contacted me on Facebook asking if I am her mom. She gives the details and stats of her birth and the birth certificate details of her mother they are definitely my friend's child. I contacted Sarah and she is adamant that no details are to be given to Marcy. As far as Sarah is concerned she did her duty by taking care of herself and having a child she didn't want. Now Sarah has a beautiful life with 2 kids and a husband and definitely does not want an illegitimate child coming out and making a scene as her family is not tolerant of a love child's or pre-marital sex. 

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WIBTA if I kept quiet and respected Sarah's wishes? I do not know any of her father's details so I can't help there either.