Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : So my ex-gf and I broke up a few months ago, but on relatively good terms. We continued to hook up on occasion after the break up, but we both said explicitly that there was no going back to being in a relationship. The sex was pretty much always initiated by her. Eventually she asks me why I never initiate anything, and I said it was because I think my time is better spent looking elsewhere, for someone who I could maybe actually have a future with, instead of falling back into an old relationship that's going nowhere.

Apparently she took this really personally and has been telling lots of people that I was an asshole. I can understand how feelings got hurt, but am I an asshole?