Today I was at a party and my friend was eating a donut really aggressively, I'm talking about half the donut was gone in one bite. So I jokingly tell her slow down it's not going anywhere cause I've seen people choke like that. I didn't think anything of it and continued on with my day. About 2 hours later after I'm leaving the gym my other friend text me stating that I hurt her feelings by saying this and I should watch how I say stuff next time. At this point I'm a little annoyed because the friend I told to slow down has said stuff way worse than "slow down" to us guys in the group. I'm talking about saying Little dick, Twink and bunch of other stuff. We have thick skin and just brush it off but as soon as we retaliate she always says she's a sensitive person so we shouldn't be mean. What I'm mad about is how tf does me saying slow down when scoffing down a donut offend you?I have screenshots if you guys would like to see this absurdity.I wanna know what you guys think and want to know if I'm missing something here?

Tldr; told my friend to slow down when eating,e friend text me saying I hurt her feelings even though she's say way more hurtful shit