Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : Here’s what I did:
I’ve been ignoring my gg’s calls for over two years. I blocked her number. My estranged aunt is now calling and messaging me, asking me to come visit gg because she is losing her memory and asks about me all the time.

Here’s why I’m doing it:
For this to make sense, you need to know a few things. My dad is dead, never met him, and was a child sexual predator that spent most of my life in jail. My Grandma would harass my mother and do shady things to convince the court that I as a child needed to see my father - things like asking the elementary school for my personal file, or during an unmonitored visit having me write a letter to my dad when I was five and telling me a bunch of manipulative lies. GG always stuck up for her and my dad, but never talked to me about any of that.

The breaking point was this - I changed my last name when I was a teenager. Grandma, who I hadn’t seen in years, came to my grad party with GG. Gave me a card that said terrible things, that my dad is a part of me and I can never escape that, not by changing my name.
I sent her a thank you letter with my last name drawn in all caps and underlined. Hee hee
Went out with GG to lunch a few months after that. She said I should apologize to Grandma because my letter hurt her feelings.
After years of weirdness, that moment made me say fuck it and I haven’t spoken to any of them since.
I will say this - GG is not a nasty, terrible woman like Grandma. Growing up, I saw GG once every few months and never enjoyed the visits. She only once initiated conversation about my dad - Right after he died, she said, “Your dad was a wonderful man, do you want to talk about him?” And I said no.

So, AITA? 