Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Alright so I’ll try to keep this short. I already know I’m kind of the asshole here but need some advice. 

I met someone online about a month ago and we’ve been on 3 dates so far. He’s gone all out for me every time and I think he’s an all round lovely person - super sweet, good upbringing, good job, very smart and very caring. 

I haven’t been actively looking for other people but someone else reached out to me on that dating app and holy Jesus, I have mad chemistry with them.  Like that sinking feeling in your tummy when you think of them and the giddiness when I see him name pop on my screen. 

So I’m torn right now. I haven’t met the new guy but he wants to meet me next week. I feel like an asshole because I like the first guy but I don’t have that crazy feeling about him. 

So my question is WIBTA if I met guy no. 2 next week, and it goes well?   

I’m really confused because the guy I’m seeing has really been so amazing towards me and I don’t want to ruin it over someone I haven’t even met yet but falling for the other guy kinda made me realise I probably don’t feel strongly enough about guy no. 1.  Or maybe that it’s too soon to commit. 