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Would anyone consider this creepy?
u/TheEpicThrowaway865
So around a year ago I asked a girl out, let's call her Max. I was rejected, which sucked but I reacted in a respectful manner and moved on pretty quickly. It was the final day of the school year, so a long time to just forget eachother. Months pass and I find out she has a new boyfriend through her insta. The guy is pretty cool and they seem like a good couple. A few months after that, I'm at the local bowling alley waiting for my dad to finish his last few games. It's getting a bit boring so I walk around the central bar area of the place listening to some of my music. Around my 3rd or 4th time around I think I see someone familiar looking but keep walking. I keep wondering who it was so I look again when I come back to that area and It looks a lot like Max and her boyfriend. Keep in mind I am always walking and don't ever stop directly at this point. I'm a bit scared that she thinks I keep walking over to see her and that I'm trying to be intimidating or something. I sit down and stop walking around to avoid making the situation worse . Later, as my dad and I walk out to leave, he sees a few of his friends and starts to talk with them, leaving me standing alone in the center of the bar area. I think I looked at the silhouette of the girl and I saw her pause and turn around to talk to the guy and her group. It's too dark and I can't actually see if its really them or what exactly is occurring. I try to act as casual as I can and look at my phone and the TV screen in the bar but I don't actually move from where I am. After I left I'm thinking about everything that happened and I'm kinda scared that it actually was Max and now she thinks I'm a total creep/I'm still into her. Is this something that would be seen as a big deal? Do you guys think she would spread this around provided it's her? I'm also worried about my school reputation. AITA?
