Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : Sorry for grammar mistakes im on mobile and English isnt my first language

So my Friend is 13 years old he wapes and smokes and wont go to school 

So basically i try to explain to my Friend that he has to go to school and actualy come to classes 
or else he wont be able to get a good carrier
But he always just say no and that im an asshole
Am i the asshole ???