Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : I'm afraid he is a bit of an Entitled Child. His GF has a good job and I think she carries him to some degree. I've already given them $1000 towards the trip and he just asked for another $1500. I'm thinking I'll just "apologize" for putting a financial burden on him, tell him to cancel, use the $1000 to cover any cancellation fees and send me back the rest, and just not attend.  I'll find another "best man." I mean really? Am I really supposed to cover $2500 of a $3200 trip? Probably time he paid his own cell phone bill too. . .