Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : TLDR: I'm upset because I haven't had sex in 3 days and my boyfriend may have been faking a toothache so he didn't have to do it, so we got into an argument.

So, here's the background information, my boyfriend and I are hitting a rough patch with sex. Like, meaning he's refusing to have sex with me. We had an STD scare for about a week so we haven't been able to have sex but he's been teasing me all week. Finally my results came in and I got dressed up in lingerie and cleaned up the room in it, he was working me up and promising me that I'll get it tonight and everything. I was hella excited because my confidence was already riding high from a new hair cut and I dyed it and it looks really good and I crave the intimacy with him badly. Well, he started getting all weird and prolonging it... Saying "I wanna take a shower," and then suddenly he just started (with somewhat overreaction really) screaming in pain that his tooth hurt. He's had problems with this toothache before but atm he's saying he's in unbearable pain in the calmest tone. I almost think he's faking it, or at the very least overplaying it, just to get out of having sex with me. So I got offended and got upset. I practically begged him to have sex with me because I feel kind of insecure that he's not attracted to me anymore and have been feeling this way for a couple months. Anyway, the fight ended with him telling me that I should leave and go hang out with some other dude over and over again after I told him a million times I don't want just the sex aspect of it, I want the intimacy with the man I love. It's more about the emotion and making love aspect than the physical horniness that I want. So, am I in the wrong for being upset that he doesn't want to do anything with me tonight?