Bit of backstory ~ About half a year ago my brother needed 20 dollars to buy our mom a bday gift. I had some money and lent it to him, making it obvious that I wanted it back soon because we don’t get very much money often. 

Anyway we all just got $20, and he refused to pay me back and spent it all so we couldn’t even argue or debate about wether I get the money. When I learned about this I got livid. I yelled at him, making just points like, ‘you owed me that money for half a fucking year, now you’ve got it, what’s the problem here?’ And ‘you owe me 20$, you have $20, why won’t you pay me?’

Anyway that brings us to now. My mom got pretty upset from our arguing and practically threw $20 in my face. I would not feel good accepting this money because it’s not okay. I plan to give it to her soon though, and try to calm the situation. I am livid at my brother right now, and he is livid at me.’

PS I am 14yr old 