Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : We have been together for about 5 or 6 years. About 4 years ago she got super sick, fibromyalgia, and some other nervous system disorder that eludes me atm. She also suffers from chronic asthma and now depression due to her sickness.

I pay the rent and utilities and food, and some of her medical bills. To be blunt she is bleeding me dry. I work 6 days a week, generally 50-60 hours in order to pay for everything. We cant stay in a cheaper apartment because she "needs" to live on the first floor (she lived on second story apartments for years, just doesnt want to deal with stairs). We sleep on a full twin adjustable bed that she complains about all the time, she wants me to spend 3k on an adjustable queen size. She "needs" the air kept at 72 degrees (in florida) for her asthma and it jacks up our utilities (not to mention she leaves fans, lights, TVs, and computers on all day). 

Everytime I complain about how much crap and craft supplies she hordes and leaves everywhere she cries and plays the mental illness card. It's getting real old, shes home all day and we constantly look like we just moved in. Top it all off with an almost completely dead bedroom and you can see why I am unhappy.

But then I think about how just about all of it is caused by her chronic illness. How it is very little that she can control and how little choice she has in her circumstances. 

I don't want to break up but my happiness is almost non existant since I have to work all the time and spend very little time in the apartment I pay out the nose for. But if I broke up with her, WIBTA? I dont want to get to the point that she can claim common law marriage.

