Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Before you judge the title hear me out, TL;DR at the bottom. My girlfriend (long distance) has a best friend (we’ll call him J), she told me back when we started dating that he was a gay guy that she is friends with and that he takes her to work because it is easier, she spends nights at his house on occasion and posts about him on snapchat a lot. With that being said today while bsing around with her she started talking about how she and J met, they were at a costume party at J’s house that her ride left from early so she stayed at J’s place for the night, she tells me her and J slept on the same couch and yada yada but again I had no problems. She gets to a part in the story about how she and J almost had sex once, I was taken a little off guard by this because I was under the impression that he is gay. When I told her that I was confused and that I thought he was gay she just told me that she thinks he only says he is gay but he is actually straight. I told her it weirded me out that she never thought it would be worth telling me that the guy she spends hours a day and sleeps over with isn’t gay like she told me he was, now she won’t speak to me. Again I have no problem with her having gay or even straight guy friends but her lying to me made me feel off like she is hiding something here, AITA?

TL;DR: Long distance girlfriend tells me her guy friend she spends nights with is gay, I find out she lied and he is actually straight/bi and when I brought it up she shut down and wouldn’t talk to me