The last 1 and a half years my best friend got increasingly more depressed. As someone who knows that feeling all to well unfortunately we nearly meet or talk everyday so I can comfort him.

But as he stated multiple times it's mainly due to his ex girlfriend who HE cheated on. She left and they had an on/off relationship then since about 3 months ago.

Yesterday he wrote me again that he feels so lonely and is really upset right now.

At the moment I am going through a rough time in life myself (lost my job failed my exams and had to move out whilst having very little income (as he knows)) and I prefer being for myself then.

I told him that I would rather stay home and focus on myself. He got really upset about it and wasn't accepting that I would rather be alone and concentrate on myself as I told him multiple times... and he came over to my place to talk about HIS problems.

At this point I lost it and told him that he is crying over something that happened in 2017 while his life in every other aspect is seemingly perfect. He should 'man up' stop bitching and annoying me with that shit, whilst I am facing my own very recent problems.

We argued for a little while until he drove off.

Now he is trying to make me feel guilty via Text massages.

Soo AItA?

P. S sorry for grammar and spelling mistakes I am not a native speaker. 