 

Hey guys!

Skipping the long intro and jumping straight into it:

Right now, I live with my room mate (Gonna call them X for this story!)

When X and I moved together we had this agreement of how things where gonna be. We were gonna have a shared account for money to the flat (rent, Electricity, Wifi, etc) and we were gonna share cleaning around the house.

It was a good way to both safe money and learn to live away from our parents. The deal was to stay living together until we both finished University.

\- There's a lot of problems with this whole situation but the major problem is cleaning! -

The cleaning deal went something like this:  
Me:

\- Clean bathroom, living room, bedroom.

\- Do laundry

\- Dust

\- Take out trash

\- Help with dishes.

X:

\- Help with dishes.

\- clean X's computer room (I'm literally not in there unless I need one of my books)

\- Vacuum

Already now it's pretty obvious that I do most of the things at home, but this agreement was made when I was home sick with an injury and X was in university.

FAST FORWARD TO NOW:

I'm cleaning EVERYTHING! and I do mean \*EVERYTHING\* !! I'm allergic to dust, so I need to clean the flat weekly or I might get a serious reaction.

6 months ago, I stopped completely cleaning the computer room, because Why would I? I'm never in there and I removed my books from there. 3 months ago X promised to clean the room. Today I looked in to see rotten food paper and old dishes scattered around the floor. (Ever seen a neck beard nest? HOLY SHIT I think I live with one!) We talked about it last night and X told me "Yeah I finally got the weekend off to do it!" but has been spending the whole day just staring at me keeping the rest of the house clean while X played computer.

X's Dad once had the audacity to scream at me that \*I\* was the reason the flat was messy, after being away for a whole weekend, while X had a "Game night" with friends and (NO SHIT) didn't clean after them.

Our lease runs out around December this year, and I don't want to move in with them again because I'M NOT A FUCKING MAID! I'm fuming with so much anger it physically hurt.

TL DR:

Am I the ass for not wanting to find a new flat with my flatmate (even though the original deal was to live together until after University), after realizing they treat the house as a pigstine and me as a personal maid?