Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : She did not invite me yet since they just started planning but when her sister got engaged she was like “im gonna invite you to my sister weddings she just got engaged!!!!” 


You guys might say “it’s her sister’s wedding! Not hers! Not a big deal”.


In my culture it is a big deal honestly. They usually throw huge weddings here and if one of your siblings gets married you get a certain amount of cards to invite your own friends.  If people decide not to attend a wedding they HAVE TO tell the family that they are not attend so they can give the card to someone else since only a certain amount of people are invited because of the number of chairs chairs and the space. 

This girl is my only best friend so we’re really close i just personally dont feel like attending her sister’s wedding. I don’t know anyone there and my friend will be busy with her relatives, friends and making sure everything goes well so she’ll be running the whole time.

I hate wedding honestly and i feel miserable there. 

I usually go out of politeness when relatives invite me. But this time i just dont want to. Thinking about it gives me anxiety and im not exaggerating.

Im thinking of making up a lie and telling her that I’m traveling. It would be very very odd and rude if i told her that i dont want to. She’ll tell her family and they’ll all go “wtf?”  