Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : I’m crying as I type this. I have a lot of things going on and no one to turn to so I thought I would just ask you guys about this. I asked my mom why my cats dish was in the sink, as he might get thirsty. She said she has to wash his bowl before she put it back for him. Honestly I’m in my mid 20’s I live at home and I don’t help much with cooking and cleaning. So I was holding a sponge and I asked her if this was the correct one to use. And she told me “no use the older one”. I found an older one and it wasn’t correct. I told her that. Then I saw one in the sink and I asked which one. She rolled her eyes and got up to come to the kitchen. I told her she did not need to and I was just trying to help. She then started complaining how she was at work all day, on her feet, and she’s sick. I then went upstairs and started crying (I cry easily). A little while later she calls my name and I answer “what” from upstairs. She then complains about my attitude when I say it and that I should come down when she’s talking to me. She then once again starts complaining about the fact that she was at work, etc, and I made her get up. I told her all I was trying to do was help. She sees me crying and she gets more angry, telling me I ruined her night and my own. I just go upstairs and I hear here talking to her husband and he says pretty much that she did not have to get up. I then see her one more time in her room because I was handing her something she asked for. She asked me if I was happy ruining the night over this. She said if I actually wanted to help I would/should (don’t remember which) help her cook and clean. And basically saying oh you wash one dish and you think you’re helping me?? As if I made a production out of washing one dish. If anyone even reads this I would appreciate an outside opinion.. thanks 