Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : My best bud had been dating this girl for a little under a year. After the first time his gf cheated, he was devastated. He was crying a shit ton. She, who felt really bad, begged for him to give her another shot. He did and within a month she cheated again. This time he fully broke up with her. She felt super bad and begged again. He had more resilience this time, but was on the verge to giving in (they would be hooking up occasionally and still talking, but not officially back together). While she was still trying to win him back, she slept with another dude. Now, my best bud finally got some sense and cut her out completely and blocked her on everything. So what does she do? She comes to me, knowing I’m the best friend and I’m the only way she can get to him.

Now I gotta give a little background. Her family is kinda messed up. Her mom went through a divorce, started dating another guy, and after living with this new dude for a few years, cheated on her boyfriend and the boyfriend found out and kicked her and her daughter (my buddy’s ex) out. The mom didn’t have a job, so now her and her mother live in a crap apartment in a bad part of town and are struggling significantly. They don’t have a steady income, and now the ex works full time on top of college to help pay for living expenses.

Now back to when she texted me. She said how she’s depressed and has no motive to do anything at all, she can’t find reason to get out of bed in the morning, all that Jazz. Now I don’t know if she’s actually suicidal but her friends (some of her friends are people I’m friends with) say that she has been seeing someone for her mental health and are fairly confident she is suicidal. Upon knowing this information, and receiving a text from her to help her out, I respond back to her something along the lines of she deserves to be miserable, and if she doesn’t clean up her act soon she’s going to be in the exact same place as her mother because of what she does.

Typing it out now, I kinda feel like the asshole. But then I remember what she put my buddy through and how she literally had plenty of opportunities and ruined them all. AITA?

Sorry if this is poorly written, I did it kinda fast.