Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : Friend recently had a bachelorette party in Vegas, about 15 guests, everyone had to travel. The guests were a mixture of grad (including me), undergrad, and a few high school friends.

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Sister is MOH, but nobody really took charge organizing. There were a few things the bride-to-be wanted to do, including a open bar Ferris Wheel and a Drag Brunch, but they were about 2-3h of the entire weekend.

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Grad friends and I tried to research things to do and take advantage of our time, but the undergrad friends were impossible to move. In response to any suggestion, they would hem and haw and reject all ideas by wasting time without ever suggesting anything. We asked the bride many times what she would prefer, but she just always said she was fine with whatever.

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Grad friends were interested in going to a Vegas nightclub. The first night, we got dinner nearby then went to some regular bars next to our casino. Fun, but basically not any different than we could have done locally. The next day we brought the idea up again, but the undergrad friends expressed doubt about lines, cost, the dress code, and some worried they would be charged a cover if the bouncer didn’t find them attractive enough.

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Later we went to a Thunder Down Under show based on the recommendation of the high school friends, and afterwards we spent at least 20 minutes standing outside while people debated what to do next. Nobody else had an idea.

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Undergrad friends were hungry, so grad friends and I suggested they (and bride who was also hungry) eat while check out the club before it opened. If it seemed like a douchey place then we could come back, if not they would come meet us. We did that and we tried to call them and tell them we got on the guest list, but they only told us they were “lost” and seemed incoherent.

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Ended up going to the club anyways instead of spending the night with the bride, and we stayed there for several hours. It was very fun, and it was by far the cheapest thing we did the entire weekend. Got our cover waived because we dressed appropriately and got there early to avoid lines, got free drink tickets, and after a while our promoter came in and made his own drinks that he also gave us for free.

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Later found out that the rest of the group spent the next hour and a half going between different fast food places and went to bed by 11:30. Which makes it hard to regret ditching them. It was very expensive to go on this trip, and I feel like it would have been a total waste if we hadn’t done some Vegas-specific things. But I do feel badly that we didn’t spend the night with the bachelorette. She hasn't expressed any dissatisfaction with the weekend, but I still feel guilty.

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tl;dr: A group of us ditched the main bachelorette party to go to a club in Vegas instead of spending our time with the Bride-to-Be wandering between fast food joints.