Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : My cousin wasted his life on drugs and booze, barely graduated HS, never went to college, never did much of anything beyond high school. His parents divorced when he was young, but neither died, and he is middle-class. I worked my ass off straight through HS, graduated in the 97th percentile, got a half-full-ride, took out some loans, now I'm working my ass off in college and I'll hopefully be graduating eventually. My and my sister's mother died when we were young, and we were raised middle-class by a single father. My cousin recently had a baby with his GF, they have zero financial resources to raise this kid, yet the family lavishes praise on him, and I can't remember the last time my family even half-thanked me for what I've done. If anything, they point out my flaws wherever they see them. They've accused me of being gay (I'm not, but they'd see that as a problem), of being a disappointment to my father, of being lazy of all things, etc. Look, I'm not angry at the baby, of course. It just sucks when I spend my nights bent over a computer screen working, foregoing parties, alcohol, whatever else, getting about 5 hours sleep per night, holding down grades, current job, clubs, the job search, student debt, etc. only to see it apparently go unappreciated while he's showered with praise. I feel like I'm the bad guy in that Bible story, the prodigal son. So, Reddit, AITA for being jealous of my cousin?