Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Throwaway account for obvious reasons.

As a birthday present to myself, my wife has made an erotic photoshoot, professionally done, as she knew that I would like to have some such photos for myself. This was a very hard thing for her to do, as she is a very private person in this regard, but the photos are amazing and my wife is absolutely gorgeous on them.

Yesterday night, as we were looking through the photos, she mentioned that the photographer asked her again whether she could add some of those photos to her portfolio (my wife has initially asked the photographer to not use her photos for portfolio).

I have suggested that perhaps, she could allow the photographer to use some of the faceless photos, where her head and face are not visible. In some of those faceless photos, she is only wearing panties and is topless.

My wife became very angry with me, and still is, and said that if I am prepared to share photos of her body all over the interned, I do not deserve to have such photos at all. I however see things differently. Firstly the photos are anonymous and they would be in a portfolio of a photographer, and with the abundance of erotic and porn on the interned, I very much doubt that these photos would be used for much else, than to be viewed by prospective clients, and again with them being completely anonymous I would no be too phased (despite being quite a jealous person normally).

Is my way of thinking wring and am I the asshole?