Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : My parents divorced back when I was 14. My mom told me she was cheated on by my dad and it was a final straw, so they ended it. I wasn't too affected by this at first. I just remember being hurt about the lack of time he spent with us. He would rarely see us once every two months, and the one time he had Christmas with us he only stayed for a few hours and then left.

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My mother eventually took him to court. She was fully supporting a household of four, and one of us (my older brother) was going through college.  She wanted more child support, so she fought for it.  We were winning by a landslide until she let him win. Apparently he was a blabbering fool, crying about how much he loved his kids but how he doesn't have the money to support us. Feeling bad, he gave him the case and he was able to pay less child support than before.

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From then on he was required to see us more. Though, that didn't stop him from canceling once every two months, maybe more. We (my sister and I) were now required to spend every other weekend with him, doing whatever he wanted. It kinda hurt that he only started seeing us after the court case, but whatever. It didn't matter. He would scream and yell, then text us how much he loves us the next day. Now I'm heading to university soon.  We have him paying half of everything my mom is paying. Recently, however, my mom was asked to sign off this asset that was said to be split 50/50 between them. When she asked for half of whatever he was getting from it, he sent her a nasty voicemail threatening to take away my florida prepaid college. (for those who don't know, florida prepaid is a system that allows parents to start paying off their child's college early. So, once they hit college, a good amount of their fees are paid off. According to our estimates, it would've cut my expenses by half, maybe even more. This excludes all scholarships as well.)

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It was basically hearing my own father say, "I would rather get this extra 5000 than see my daughter go to college". I'm not a super smart girl. I'm not getting a free ride. I NEED that prepaid. To top it all off, my mother was in a phone call with him and he admitted to LYING in court and ACTING like he was crying in order to get to pay less child support. He was laughing, saying he just played her the whole time. My mother is a fucking saint.  She hates her boss, yet she works as many hours as she can just to give us the life we have, and to hear that my dad, who didn't even TRY to see us before the court old him to, faked cried just to fool my mother into giving in... well, I'm completely done with him. When graduation happens, I want to cut ties. I don't want this man in my life anymore. Maybe I'm overdramatic. As much as I said, he HAS been a good father in other ways. Idk. I know a HS graduation is a lot for some parents - it's a one time thing. But, I don't know if I can invite him anymore.