Throwaway account because he knows my account name. 

Anyway, we weren’t doing anything big for Valentine’s Day. I bought him a box of chocolates and handmade him a paper lantern with scenes from one of his favorite movies.  He bought me a personal size cake made to look like a rose. 

When he opened his chocolates, he offered me some and I ate one piece. When I walked past him an hour later, all of the chocolates were gone. Like 30 chocolates. He has a serious sweet tooth and will literally eat an entire package of sweets in an hour or so if he doesn’t stop himself. Anyway, I ate a little bit of the cake and put the rest away to be eaten later. I like to savor things. 

The next day, I went to make some breakfast and the rest of my cake was gone completely. He even licked the frickin frosting off the container. I wouldn’t have minded if he’d just had a piece but he ate ALL of it. And, this kind of thing happens a lot and he gives me a hard time for “hiding” junk food from him. I don’t hide it, I just try to keep him from eating all of it or I will get none. He thinks I should eat all of my portion right away to make sure I get it. I’m sorry, but a huge package of cookies should last a few days - not be gone in an hour and only eaten by one person. 

It’s unhealthy, rude, and disgusting imo. He shows no remorse for doing it and laughs about it like a little kid. He doesn’t think he’s wrong or that there’s nothing wrong with what he’s doing. 

And, no, he’s not a stoner. He just eats constantly and he’s gained quite a bit in the 3 years we’ve been together. I know this is stupid and trivial but he’s seriously ruining his health. 