Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : Recently I have agreed to take care of a dog that was abandoned by her previous owners for unknown reasons. She's still pretty young, barely above a year old, displaying puppy-like behaviours.

She's very cute looking, she has those eyes like that cat from Shrek - you just can't refuse her anything when she looks at you with them. She makes a fantastic impression on anyone who meets her and usual reaction is "oh, she's so sweet, what a lovely dog".

The only thing is, she's not.

She's a huge attention seeker - whenever you're in the house, she'll keep following you like a lost puppy (maybe cuz she is one) and she constantly wants to be peted. But when you leave the house, she becomes an unstoppable destructive force with one objective - to ruin your entire apartment. 

Okay - when I agreed to take her, no one warned she's like that. But I took into consideration that foster dogs are not a fairy tale and that she might be problematic. I took her 1,5 month ago and since then, she already costed me over 2,5k euro (she destroyed the tv, my clothes, some of the furniture, headphones and some other less valuable of my stuff). I was furious when I found out that she destroyed the TV, but I never vented out on her.

I understand that she's not doing this on purpose and most likely it's separation anxiety, but all those events made simply not like her. When I look at her, I don't see an adorable dog, I see someone who ruined tons of my stuff. I really, really don't like her.

Now don't get me wrong - I'm not abusing her or anything. I still take care of her and I'm giving her attention, although it's forced from my side - I don't want to give her back until she'll find a permanent home. Despite the fact that I'm caring for her as much as I can (I recently taught her how to give paw and how to sit), people still call me an asshole or an idiot when I'm telling them that I don't like her due to the fact that she's not my dog and never will be and that she destroyed lots of my stuff. I'm not forced to like a dog - I still take care of her and make sure that she has everything she needs and I'm doing my best to correct her behaviour, but that doesn't mean I have any positive feelings about her.

Yet people still call me an asshole for that - am I really one for not liking someone who devastated my place? 