Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Last year my friend, who I had known for 3 years prior, was forced to move to Africa by his parents. His parents were missionaries and they dragged him along with them. He had been depressed before moving but it has gotten so much worse after. He found out he wouldnt be coming back until at least 2021, This led to me(16) and a few of my friends(all 16) to talk to him in a groupchat everyday for almost 4 months. We saw him slowly spiral down and down until the point where he stopped caring if he lived or not. 

But recently it's become a burden for me to keep talking about the same three topics of why he is depressed, and all it does is lead to me being sad, and him getting a moment of bliss. I've done this for nearly a year and 3 months now and I find it extremely hard to find the will to message him everyday knowing it will lead to me being sad and nothing changing within him. I've slowly started pulling away and been only on to talk every 3 or 4 days. If you have any questions you can ask. I may not answer right away but I will.