Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : I have been meeting girls from tinder for the past few months and I been having some luck when it comes to landind a first date. There’s provably a better way for me to ask the following questions, 1. “ Do you have kids?” And 2. “ Do you have herpes?”  

What I do is that when we are on a date, let’s say a pub and we chat, within an hour I say “I’m having a good time but I got to ask you something” and then I drop them the “Do you have kids?” And “Do you have herpes?” questions. Half the girls laugh about it and say no, but other girls call me an asshole for asking that. 

Children and Herpes are my deal breakers, I am in my late 20s and I’m not interested in single mothers. I’m also not interested in contracting herpes, HSV1 nor HSV2. I have been having protected sex since I started being sexually active, and I get tested very often so I know that I don’t carry the virus. Even though some STDs test don’t test for herpes, I still get a herpes test done on top of it. I know lots of people have it, but I don’t want to have it, orally nor genital. Unprotected sex is something I look forward in a long term relationship. 

So, AITA for being straightforward and asking that during a first date? And is there a better way for me to ask those questions?