Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : I work in a coffeeshop and there's this guy that comes in on weekend mornings. I'm the only person of color that works there, the rest are white girls. On several different occasions, this dude has asked me where I'm from, which he never asks anyone else and I get the feeling he wants me to say a village in India or something and is disappointed when I say Alabama. Then again, it might all be in my head and maybe isn't relevant to this story. 

Anyway, today I was cutting bread while my two other coworkers were making drinks. He comes up to the counter and asks me what type of bread it is. I tell him, and he makes a comment about wanting to try it next time. I am NOT good at cutting bread and cut a slice too thin (it was too thin to sell but still decently sized.) I decide to tell him, "hey, I accidentally cut this piece a bit too small, do you want to have it?" And he looked at me and then at the ground, with this weird facial expression like I'd offended him, and shakes his head no. I said "no?" since I was surprised, and my coworker saved the situation by smiling and insisting on putting it in a bag for him, which he took. 

So here's the thing: I feel like it might've been an asshole move on my part to act like I was giving him charity or trying to make him benefit from my screw up. I might also be assuming that he just didn't like that I'm Indian and that I tried to hand him free stuff and that might've offended him, because he took it from my coworker. I might've just lacked social grace and should've said it was a sample instead of making it sound like I was only giving it to him because I messed up.  Am I being an asshole by assuming he's prejudiced or just rude or am I in the wrong here? 