Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : Gf has a history of getting UTI’s. Has one currently. She Came back from school with some pain. 
I told her to call a nurse and ask if she should go in and seek treatment. 
She did, the nurse said yes go in ASAP. (Suspected it has developed into a bladder/and or kidney infection) It’s 9pm where we live, in a major city so ER is not far away.
 I said I don’t want to go because last time we went in we were there for 10 hours, mostly due to wait time, causing me to miss most our sleep time. We got home at 5am, and that made going to work almost impossible for the day.
I feel like it’s not that significant of an issue to warrant me being there that long, as I have to work tomorrow.
So she went alone, I feel bad about not being there for her in a time of need, but this situation is not out of the ordinary at this point, and I know she can handle it. 
Obviously I know she wanted me to come for emotional support/help kill time/second opinion and what not... it’s not like we can’t text...

TLDR: didn’t go with my gf to the ER because it’s late and the issue is not that severe and I have to work.

Sorry for format and typos on cell.

Am I the asshole?