Throwaway bc some people in my dorm know my main acct. Formatting may be weird bc I'm on mobile.


For some background, I live in a fairly large dorm room. However, our actual shower/toilet area is very small. So, my roommate and I decided to get one of those extendable rod things to place in the door way of our sink area to create a kind of makeshift dressing room so we don't have to struggle to put on our underwear in our tiny bathroom. Oh, and we're both female.

My roommate recently started dating this guy, and he's in our dorm pretty much 24/7. I'm rarely in my dorm during the day so I don't care too much. He sometimes sleeps over in her bed, and again, I don't really care either way.

The only thing I ask of my roommate is that if Im showering, I prefer him to not be in our room, just because Im a fairly private person and don't feel comfortable being naked with what's basically a stranger in my room. 

To her credit, she followed this for a few days, but after a while, I would come out the shower and I would notice that he had entered the room while I was showering. I approached her about it and reminded her of how I felt, and she kind of blew up at me, saying that he wasn't some perv and wasn't trying to see me naked. 

I was taken aback, since me and my roommate have never really argued over anything, and I didn't think that what I asked was that unreasonable.

So, AITA for not wanting a guy that I don't really know be in the room as I shower?