Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : My best friend's birthday is 2-3 weeks before mine. For her birthday, I was planning a big out of state trip, was going to spend hundreds of dollars for this party, but it ended up falling through because her (not yet) boyfriend planned another party without telling me (that's a different story but whatever). However, for the other party, he did nothing to plan it. I ended up buying $100+ on alcohol and about $100 on food and drinks. I even bought her a pretty nice gift, made her homemade cupcakes, and bought her balloons. Which I did with no problem, because she is my best friend and wanted her party to be great.

However, for my birthday this past weekend, I asked her if I could visit at her university (a hour and a half drive from me). I went, and she gave me alcohol that I bought her, there was a lot of people in her apartment (that I didn't know) so she was being a hostess most of the time. She bought me a pizza at the end of the night, that I ended up paying her back for. She texted me on my birthday the following Monday a "sorry I can't be there to celebrate with you." But yesterday she came down to visit her boyfriend with no problem and didn't bother coming to see me or text me to hang out.

I'd like to just say that I didn't expect her to spend hundreds on me like I did for her. But if she says I'm her best friend, shouldn't I expect her to at least visit me? Get me a card? Celebrate with me somehow? Not sure if I'm just being dramatic and pissy for no reason, or if I have at least some right to be.