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I am a person with a rather high sex drive - i need sex often and feel real bad when I am deprived of orgasms. What I mean is daily to feel happy and every other day to function without missing it.

 I've been with my husband for over 6 years, we went through different times - moved in together, I got pregnant, had our child, bought and are currently paying for our home together, etc. I knew I needed a sexually active partner as this is one of the reasons why my previous relationship ended - my ex and I got to a point where we were intimate once a week or even once in 10 days. We had other issues as well of course. 

Anyway, so my husband and I were frank in the start or our relations and he knew how important intimacy would be for me. 
About a year and a half after our child was born we had our bedroom finally to ourselves and surprisingly started having less sex than ever. He was always tired or not in the mood or had a headache, etc. This lead to an incredible tension in our relationship and made me feel alone and unattractive. I realised I needed to take care of my own needs instead or relying on the person who supposedly wanted and loved me. 

Fast forward one year, he confessed that he has been masturbating almost daily. He did need to relieve his needs but did not feel like getting intimate with me because it takes more time and efforts. 
He says I have been putting too much pressure on him to be intimate and this way have been pushing him away. I do get very nervous when sex deprived and become a naggy evil version of myself. 
I have always believed that when in a relationship the greatest part of one's sexual activity would be involving your partner so was extremely dissapointed that he preferred his own company to mine. 
Just to add as it may be relevant - my physical appearance has been affected by the pregnancy but not too significantly - I am not a supermodel but still good looking in my humble opinion and when we do have sex it has and still is great for both of us. I have also been open to new ideas and practices and only refused one of his ideas as I was physically incapable of assuming the position 😁

So is it too much to ask when you are in a committed relationship with a person with a similar sex drive for them to come to you when the mood strikes, instead of taking care of themselves only?

TLDR AITA for expecting my husband to have sex with me when feeling horny instead of masturbating and keeping me away? 