Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : I lost my dad at a very young age and have been raised by my mother my whole life pretty much. Went through tons of hardships along the way to get into a stable environment we live in now and I’m very grateful. She met a guy 3 years ago and he recently proposed which is cool because it makes my mom happy and whatever. However, he constantly gets upset that I don’t tell him I love him back or go to any of his family gatherings/wanna hangout with him. I’ve been without a father my whole life and at this point don’t need one or want to have one. My mom is very upset with me and I don’t understand why, am I being irrational?