Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : This happened over a month ago. So my mom was born with problems and this caused her parents to spoil her and so she is pretty lazy as an adult. As an adult, she lives a normal life except she wears diapers because of her bladder.

We were out for the day and we stopped to eat. Big mistake because we never know how her stomach will react to new things.It started acting up and instead of just using the bathroom at the restaurant she begged me to drive home instead. I did and she went in the car. So I told her she needs to clean it up and she got mad at me but still did it.

Flash forward to later that night and I go to take a shower. Her clothes that she messed up in are in the tub. I ask her to do something with them and she goes off on me. Says I don’t understand what she goes through because I’m normal. So we start screaming because I’m tired of her using that and an excuse for why she can’t ever pick up after herself. 

Was I wrong here? Should I have been more understanding? Or is it reasonable to expect her to not be a slob? My family thinks I was right, but my mom still won’t talk to me. 