Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : My parents and friends are telling me M23 and my girlfriend F22, that money has no merit when deciding to have a kid. I told them this was not true and that I want to plan having a kid once I'm finicially stable so I can provide the child, my girlfriend agrees. We then discussed how much more expensive it is for the costs of living, and that having a child when you cant support them finicially ot can cause long lasting issues with the child. Am I the asshole for thinking the statement "money has nothing to do with raising a kid" is bullshit?