Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : I’ve been a massive fan of a certain rock group and especially thier lead singer since I was in middle school (I’m 23 now). My ex boyfriend is working as a tour manager and got me a literal behind the scenes tour of backstage when they stopped in our city. 

I didn’t get to meet the band but literally saw everything else, sound checks, food spread, and on and on. Ex asked if I’d like to see the tour bus and of course I said yes. He let me into the “bedroom” of the lead singer and there was like a Tupperware thing full of underwear (instead of a dresser) and when my ex wasn’t looking I grabbed a pair and hid them. 

I’m pretty embarrassed because that is not in my personality but I’m also like in the grand scheme of things this was sort of harmless but I still stole. I waver between this is what anyone would have done to this was just being a silly fan girl to I am a complete asshole. 

So I’m asking here; am I the asshole?