Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : Am I the asshole if she has told me that she’s felt like she wasn’t enough for me in the past but now she wants to see other people? She says her intentions are purely for friendship and non-sexual whatsoever but I can’t help but feel like she just doesn’t know what she wants even though she says she wants to stay completely monogamous... I feel like it’s just to keep me faithful till she finds someone she wants to have sex with... and if it matters I’m opener to an open relationship and even maybe polyamory, just don’t understand the sudden shift in thinking