Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : My boyfriend was on vacation for three weeks and his flight gets in at 11:15pm.  It’s international so he’d have to go through customs and wait for his luggage (big city airport).   He planned to take me out after my work the next day.

Well, my commute is 1:45-2 hours one way if we go to his apt after I pick him up.  I’d need to get up at 6:30 to make it to work on time at 9:30.  So I’ll be on say 4 hours of sleep and my job is complex.

So I said that I didn’t really want to pick him up at jfk at midnight for those reasons.  Now he’s mad and cancelled the date.

AITA for not making a midnight airport run to jfk on a work night ? 