Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : My boyfriend like the title says got a gift from one of his Instagram followers. He often gets gifts from them. Drawings, other art and random things. He posts a lot on Instagram like gayinsta "influencer" type of thing. I don't judge him for it but it's not my thing and dms he gets can it weird and sexual. We have had our fair share of arguments about it but we are relatively respecting of each other. 

Now one of his followers who comments on every picture almost sent him a sex toy, a dildo. Imo that goes a bit far because it's sexual and the other guy is probably getting off of it. I told my bf to send it back because he can buy his own toys that don't involve a third guy. He told me I'm being insecure over nothing and that there's no difference between him spending money or receiving one as a gift. I told him that we should either break up or he gets rid of it. I hate being that guy and he said I'm an arse and controlling over it.

So AITA for telling him to get rid of the dildo?