Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Okay, I apologize in advance because this is the first post I’ve ever made. Woohoo to me.
My boyfriend (17)  and I (18) have been together for almost a year and a half. One of the things that drew me to him in the first place was his kindness and manners. 
That being said, I didn’t mind when he was kind to other girls. Unfortunately I am the jealous type due to past relationships going astray, but I trust him to be honest and loyal to me. I only began to have a problem with it when it got excessive. 
It began with him texting me about how our female friend was cute and could sit in one of his legs. I got jealous that he was letting another girl sit on his lap, but after a conversation I realized he had no ill intentions and was just being super friendly.
Then it got worse when he told me he was considering giving a girl $300 because she was “going through it with her boyfriend,” like that’s his responsibility.
He also told me he hugs other girls when he misses me? I don’t fucking know.
Am I an asshole for wishing he wasn’t so close and nice to everyone? 