Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : I dont want this to blow up. Maybe some sortbynew hero can help. &gt;10 upvotes I will delete it because hes a redditor aswell.

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This happened a year ago and it came up again because I used this situation in a joke.

A very good friend of mine, some other friends and I wanted to go partying and decided to go into a special club. We made up a time I pick the person this is about up, because his house is on the way to the nearest train station to the club. It was already 12 am and I tried to call him multiple times and wrote messages. No answer. I didnt ring because by that time he was living with his parents and grandma. It was about 12 am. I waited about 5 min and the last train was about to come so I thought there was a reason he's not coming. I went partying with the other friends and we had fun. While partying I got a message that he overslept and that it was already too late to join. I thought that its fine.

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Now today I made a joke about him being not easy to party with because he always oversleeps. He didnt find it funny and mentioned that it was my bad for not ringing at his door. I didnt know if he was joking or not so I laughed. He said that this is his serious opinion. We are living together and I want to know if i am the a in this case and maybe someone can understand what his point is.