Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : I’ve been married for a year. My husband has had this damn doll since before we even met. For those that aren’t aware, there are lifelike dolls made for purchase. It is freakishly similar to a real woman. It was very hard for me to even lift the thing on my own to take it to the dump, but I did manage!

I generally try my best not to kink shame anyone because everyone has preferences. But my husband’s...interactions...with this thing have always gotten under my skin. I almost feel like he’s having an affair, as stupid as that may sound. 

He said there was a time when he was having sex with it almost daily. When we began dating/being intimate he cut it down to once or twice a week (or so he claims).

I have tried to talk to him about how this makes me feel. He always brings it back to the fact that I have dildos and vibrators, so what’s the difference? Well, they don’t have FACES for one!

This week I guess I just snapped. While my husband was still at work I hauled the thing to my town dump. He was pissed when he got home, obviously. I don’t know he exact cost, but I think he said before that he paid a few thousand dollars for it. Despite that, I can’t lie and say I feel guilty. I actually feel a huge sense of relief. (Maybe that in itself makes me the asshole but it is what it is). 

My husband actually went to the dump to try to get the doll back, but I guess it was too late. After that he was even more furious and threatened to throw my designer clothes/bags in the trash too. So we had a big fight. Maybe the biggest in our marriage. But if I had to look at that thing one more minute, I think I’d have left him anyway. 

Sorry if this post is a bit too weird for people. I can’t really share this story with anyone else for obvious reasons and my husband is still too mad to have a normal conversation with me. So it’s nice to finally get it out and hopefully hear some neutral perspectives. 