Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : I put dating in quotes because I am not in a relationship with either girl. But not sure if friends with benefits is a proper label either. (Fake names) I’ve been seeing Jen for a year and a half. Jen comes over 1 or 2 times a week and sometimes we go out to eat or drink also. We’ve gone on a few weekend getaways together within a few hour radius also. We’ve agreed that we both don’t want a relationship with each other and not to be exclusive, but there’s clearly some feelings on her side. However she insists on continuing on. She also knows of  the other girl I’m seeing. 

Now the other girl Sam. We’ve been seeing each other about 6 months. She sleeps over about once a week. Sometimes we go to dinner. There’s a good chance we’d be together if she wasn’t leaving for law school in a few months. We both like each other a lot but agreed to not be bf/gf or exclusive (although this happened months ago and hasn’t been brought up again). So through an outsiders lens AITA for seeing Jen and Sam simultaneously?