Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : This is very fresh and something I've been pining all over all day long because I honestly feel like shit how I acted. Thursday night is the big "party" night in our college town so a group of friends (all girls and our gay friend) went out to a club. We managed to secure a table in the back which is awesome because we had a place to sit down between dancing as well as set down our drinks.

We'd been sitting down for about an hour when the most obnoxious group of five or six guys sat down next to us. I can't even describe them because they didn't neatly fit into any one stereotype but they started getting super crude with us the moment they sat down. Some of the "greatest hits" of the night were telling our gay friend "don't stare at my ass or you'll lose teeth," telling me "you'd be fuckable if you smiled" and finally openly groping on of my other friends. Of course this stretched on for about an hour and they spilled several drinks, screamed, fist pumped, wrestled around like children and were just generally obnoxious. When they groped my friend, I went and got the bouncers who also got the police and kicked all of them out. 

As they were leaving one of the guys came over and literally passed me a hand written note. I told him to go fuck himself. He said "please read it" and turned to walk away. I told him again to go fuck himself and threw the note on the floor. He told me that he was sorry for the whole night and turned to leave. I tapped him on the shoulder as the bouncer was behind him and told him once again what shit I thought he was. At that point he left. 

As a joke one of my friends picked up the note and we thought we'd have a big laugh reading it. When we unfolded it, it had two $20 bills also folded on the inside. The handwriting was hard to read but best I can make out it says:

"Hey I'm so sorry for the way my cousin and his friends acted tonight. I am embarrassed beyond words. I am new to town and don't have many friends so I decided to see what the town is like. I will never make this mistake again. Please treat your friends to a couple drinks on me. PS. I think you have a great smile." 

He didn't leave a number or anything so this wasn't some lame attempt to neg or hit on me and I truly think he was just trying to be nice and make up for his "friends." I feel like shit for not only telling him to fuck off but not letting him leave with his dignity intact but also throwing his note on the ground. 

Am I the asshole here or did I just react to what I thought the situation was?