Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : Broke up with my girlfriend of 3 years about 9 or 10 months ago. She started dating one of my friends 3 months ago. I figured if either of them gave a shit about how I felt they wouldn't do that so I told my former friend I'm done with him and didn't wanna see him again. (Keep in mind he and the rest of my friends were well aware I wanted nothing to do with my ex after the breakup.) Fast forward a few weeks and I decide I wanted to hang out with my other friends so I hit em up and asked if anyone was busy that night. The two I was closest with told me "I have work tomorrow morning, I can't" and "idk I dont think so" so I figured whatever, it's near the holidays and they're probably busy. The next day I go on Instagram and see that they were all together the previous night, with my ex and the kid I no longer want to associate with. Not only did they post pics of all of them together, they posted an old pic of us and tagged me in it as well, despite telling me we weren't going to do anything. The kid who posted it (who up to that point had been my best friend) had explained to me that it was my ex friend and gf's idea to go do something with everyone and they had mentioned it before I said anything. However, they still lied to me about getting together and then tagged me in their group pic on Instagram. After that I decided to just wait and see if anyone would ever actually hit me up to do anything since I had always been the one planning shit for us but lo and behold, I got nothing but snap streaks with blurry pics or half faced morning selfies. I decided to cut all contact with them and hang out with some of my other friends who I hadn't been as close with but still got along with. 

Now comes new years eve. I found out the next day that they all had plans together (big surprise) so I just did shit with family and other friends. I dont entirely remember what happened since I was way off my ass, but iirc I snap texted my old best friend "fuck you" and he responded but I didn't open it before he blocked me on everything and it was deleted. 

TL;DR - gf of 3 years and I break up, few months goes by and shes now dating one of my friends who I decided wasn't worth my time. Other friends lie to me about being unavailable, hang out with ex gf and friend, then tag me in their group pic on Instagram. I ghosted them all and am now spending more time with other friends who I wasnt as close with previously.