I’m a teenager who lives with my parents. My hair is really sensitive, and I don’t like anybody touching it. If my friends tried to brush my hair I would ask them not to and I tell them how sensitive it is, and they would stop. 
Growing up, whenever my mom brushed my hair, she would always pull and tug on it which made me not want my hair to be combed by her. But as I’ve grown up I just don’t like other people touching my hair anymore.
So I was doing the dishes and my mom randomly grabs my hair. I flinch away and ask her not to do that because I don’t like my hair being touched. This is when everything began. 
She started bothering me nonstop about “why can’t I touch it?” And she keeps using the argument that ‘I’m your mother, Why can’t I touch it?’ And i told her it wasn’t personal, that I don’t like ANYBODY touching my hair and she said “but I’m not anybody! I’m your mother!” And i Shot back saying “fine, I don’t like when my mother touches my hair.” And she actually got offended. 
I mentioned it to my therapist and we compromised. She just wanted to be able to caress me, so she can do that with my hands or arms, but my hair is off limits. But even STILL she still brings it up and it makes me mad and she has the audacity to still touch my hair. She did it today in the car and i rose my voice saying that it’s pissing me off that she’s touching my hair when I’ve said NOT TO. She called me cruel, and said that she felt like it was personal and how would I like it if i couldn’t give her goodnight kisses anymore, and I said that I wouldn’t kiss her anymore then. And that concept is impossible to her. She said that it hurts her personally and I don’t understand how she could be hurt by this.
AITA for not wanting my mom to touch my hair? 