Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : I haven’t made any decisions yet because I really just don’t know what to do, but I’m considering not going to my best friend of 13 years wedding. 
She just recently moved a few states away from me, a couple weeks ago she calls me and says her and her boyfriend decided they are going to get married in one month. I told her this is such short notice and I might have a hard time being able to afford the plane ticket. She said she would help me out by buying a plane ticket for me since she got a very nice tax return and can afford it right now, but that she expects me to pay her back the majority of it once I get there. I told her that would work but now I have spent the last two weeks telling her that she needs to hurry up and buy these tickets because every time I look online the price keeps going up and up to the point where I’m going to have a hard time paying her back. She keeps saying she knows someone who she thinks can help get her a deal, but now with only two weeks until the wedding she still hasn’t bought them and I still have no idea how much I’m going to owe her! But on top of this she’s telling me that I’m not allowed to bring my boyfriend because her fiancé and my ex-boyfriend are best friends and he wants him to be there. He’s afraid he won’t come if he finds out I’ll be there with my new boyfriend. Even though we broke up two years ago he’s still not over it. The worst part is that it’s going to be a very small wedding with just me, my ex, and a few other people at the wedding and we will all be spending the whole weekend together at her house. I’m having a hard time telling my boyfriend that he’s not allowed to come because of my ex and that I’ll be spending the whole weekend in a house house with him in another state. I obviously want to be there for my best friend when she gets married but I’ve been extremely stressed out about these things. Would I be the biggest asshole if I told her I would rather just not come? I know she will be very upset but I just don’t know what to do!