Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : So, sorry if the post will be long, but you need a little backstory. 

Tomorrow me and my girlfriend will celebrate our first anniversary. That means gifts, or at least for us it is that way. Unfortunately I am really picky when it comes to receiving gifts, whereas my girlfriend is more reasonable. For what concerns the giving portion, I am really good at it ( at least for what concerns my presents to her ) while she's quite terrible. This situation never bothered me, since we love each other and our relationship is really strong, but I always joked with her on how bad she is at picking gifts for me. Furthermore, she said multiple times that she wants to improve at this, since she knows that it's not one of her strong points. 

Now, for my birthday in October she gave me a really cool winter jacket. Good and all, but my ex girlfriend gave me an almost identical jacket the year prior. No big deal, I love me some jackets. For Christmas, I specifically asked for a particular book, which I received. I bought her some boots that she wanted. After that, during the holidays I did what every picky asshole like myself would do, which is hinting at possible gifts that I wanted. It was stuff like "wow I really need an Hard Drive" or "jeez I could use some bag for my arcade stick" etc.  On a side note, just two weeks ago I wanted to buy a trench coat, and I asked her for advice, but I ultimately didn't go through with it. 

And now our anniversary. I bought her a really hard to find ticket for a concert held on a beach this summer by her favorite singer. She went ballistic when I gave it to her, and I was super happy. Just an hour ago she told me what she bought me: a trench coat. Not the kinda expensive one I wanted to buy for myself these holidays, just a trench coat. Also, this is just a fresh coat of paint on the birthday gift. Same piece of clothing! She told me that she initially planned on buying me a game that I wanted, but she didn't since she is planning on giving me one when I graduate, and thought that two videogames were too unoriginal (!!!). Then, she wanted to buy me the arcade stick bag, but since she started looking for my gift a few days ago, she was worried that it might not arrive on time. 

Look, I know that I should be grateful that our relationship is going well and that she loves me, and that I should be happy that I received a gift in the first place, but I cannot help but feel extremely disappointed at her lack of effort, in spite of how much she told me that she wanted to get better at picking gifts, and despite knowing me this well. So, judge my materialistic ass. 

Also, sorry if the post is low quality, it's my first here. 

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