With my bf.

Disclosure, we haven't been together all that long in the grand scheme, but if soulmates existed he'd be mine. We both have our issues of course, and he's juggling things I can't ever fully appreciate.

He's an amazing guy, but I can't help wanting him to get on with his hang-ups. They're mostly financial and I've offered to help, but he's an honorable, strong- willed man and refuses to accept.

To be clear, even though his hang-ups are financial, they only affect me emotionally. He pulls his weight in every regard. I just can't get passed the way it ties him to parts of his life I wish were more in the background. 

Granted, without many details it's probably hard to determine. But is less than a year enough time to wait for things I feel like he should've at least started to deal with before we got together? Or am I just being an impatient, self-centered asshole?