Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : Two close friends of mine want to hang out every weekend and some weekdays. And nine times out of ten it's never a quiet evening; it always turns into a long night (2am or later). We have an ongoing FB group chat. Like clockwork, they're messaging every weekend or every day I have off about "so here's the plan tonight." I work for one of their family members and so they know my days off before I even tell them. But it's not about that. I feel fine usually. Maybe very tired because I work full-time... but mostly I'm just... I'm in my late 20s. I think it's time to SLOW DOWN. Am I weird for not wanting to hang out every weekend? I don't like it being always *expected*... and I value my alone/down time. I know they are getting fed up with me and maybe even think I'm purposely trying to lose touch with them. Sometimes they really put on the pressure/guilt ("why are you being that way", "you're always tired", "whatever... you have three days off" etc.) I'm honestly fed up with it. I have a bad habit of pushing people away, being distant, not answering texts promptly, etc... but I don't think this is an example of that. I think they are taking things too far, and should respect my boundaries without taking offense to it. Maybe I'm weird, because other people recharge with companionship, and I recharge with being alone... but I'm not an asshole. Right?