Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : trying to not make this long. I've known him since I was 9. Never liked him. Didn't like his jokes, had obvious favorites when it came to me and my siblings, always contradicted my mom (she would say no, and he would say yes, blatantly playing "good cop"), never grounded my brother for anything wrong he did and as a result my brother's a bitch, and I guess in part I resented my mom for seemingly needing a man by her side. in my mind, if she wasn't with my dad, then she shouldn't be with anyone (selfish of me, ik). I sort of got over it. I tolerated him. But then (2016) he came and tried to "lecture" me for fighting with my brother, saying how he's much bigger than me and he could kill me (exaggerating). This pissed me off and I told him why wasn't he telling him anything. What made me mad was that he was just telling me instead of both. You know, I like fairness. I didn't think it was fair. So I stopped talking to him completely. To this day I still don't acknowledge his presence. What kills me is that I'm truly sorry, but I don't know how. I already tried in the past but he ignored me (maybe bc I tried playing it off like nothing happened and just out of nowhere one day said good morning). I didn't know apologizing was such a difficult thing to do. He has done a lot for us, like taking us in, and trying not so much to be a father figure but a friend at the very least. So I rlly feel like an ungrateful bitch. Not so much but I know I am. It's a fact. I'm moving out soon and I plan to try my best to say sorry and thanking him for everything. So AITA? I already know the answer and it's yes. This was mostly to vent.