Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : I've been dating this guy for about half a year. Although we're not exclusive (yet), we still care about each other deeply. 

A few weeks ago, i brought this guy over for the second time. The first time, I had asked my roommate if she'd approve. She said yes. However, this time, I didn't ask for her permission. I know, I realized that I was at fault for not informing my roommate but I felt like a child having to ask for her parent's permission to have someone over. Anyways, she confronted me about this and told me that hearing a man's voice in the middle of the night terrified her. I admit, I was definitely the arse in this situation, and I apologized to her over and over again and that I'll inform her next time. But then she told me that she prefers him to not stay overnight because it invaded her privacy. 

Now, I haven't seen my guy for about a month now, and want to see him soon. I brought up the discussion again with her and asked if my guy can stay overnight for one night a week. (I would be completely fine staying over at his place, but he lives with his parents). She was really hesitant in answering and suggested that I should consider other options before asking her, such as camping outside, airbnb, and a motel. Her reasons for being uncomfortable with my guy staying at our place overnight constitutes: 

1. **Noise level:** she mentioned that she can hear our conversations, and it felt to her that she was forced to be involved in our relationship, because she knows what we're talking about.
2. **Her privacy**: Having him over = invasion to her privacy. She does not want to run into him in the middle of the night. She wants him to only come during the day. 
3. **My privacy**: This is her main reason. She claims that she's concerned about me and wanting me to progress my relationship with this guy. By booking a hotel room/airbnb to perform FACs,, I can have the most privacy I can possibly get without having to worry about my roommate hear what is going.. 

Is it honestly too much for me to ask of my roommate to allow my guy to stay over for one night a week? He comes around midnight anyways, so we'll only spend at the most 8/9 hours together (11am non)  (half of which will be spent just sleeping). 

Please note that my roommate does not have a car, so she's always going to be home. She has not yet offered to leave the apartment to give me some privacy. She said that if I had told her before that he was coming overnight, she would be more compliant to agree.. Please help! Any would be greatly appreciated. 

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