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So my wife (25) and I (29) have been Married for two years. I'm currently in the military and my wife as the title says, is unemployed. We have no kids, unless you count our cats, and have no plans on getting any. My wife also has really bad anxiety but thanks to military benefits we've been getting her medication to help with that. Anyways, while she's not working, she is working on her art. She said that she wanted to make a game of some sort, such as an RPG or something of the like. And to her credit, her artwork has become more and more amazing. 



But her artwork has been reflecting more of our DnD characters and other DnD games she's in. And frankly I haven't seen any kind of new concept art for her "game." The house will fall into disarray and she rarely cooks anymore. Plus she's been smoking a lot of pot as of late. Anywhere between 30 to 50 bucks a week. She says that it's to help her eat (self diagnosis) and to help her with art. But she's also been smoking pot before her DnD sessions as well. 



Also to add more to the pile, this morning I was looking for my keys. And I checked my wife's jacket since she had the car last. And what do I find? A pack of cigarettes. We both quit back in June, and granted to this day we both get cravings. So I know for a fact she's using my money to buy cigarettes now. 



So basically, all morning I've been wondering if I should confront her about this. And basically demand that she needs to either make one room in the house spotless, or show proof of a job application. She's told me that she's put in a few applications already. But now that I saw the cigarettes, it honestly makes me wonder if she's lying about anything else.



Sorry if it sounds like I'm rambling. But I'm at my waits end. AITA? Also any advice would be much appreciated.