For context my friends are huge animals lovers. They regularly own 2-3 cats as well as owning several aquiriums. About a yeah ago they adopted a kitten, after a few weeks the kitten fell ill and required 100s of dollars of bills before being giving the ultimatum that they'll have to spend 1000s to save the kittens life, they decided to put the kitten down.

They've adopted another cat they've had for a few months that has just fallen from a tree and now requires 1000s in operations. They've started a gofundme page which I'm reluctant to give to as I think they should have learned and purchased pet insurance this time round.

Am I being a arsehole by not wanting donate and help a cat and a mate out? 