My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 months and his best friend has been unsupportive from the very beginning. On multiple occasions he has “told me to eat shit, called me a hoe, accuse me of not caring about my boyfriend, etc” he even texted me on my birthday explaining in full detail how terrible I am, how I make my boyfriends life worse and how he’d be better off without me then proceeded to wish me a happy birthday. My boyfriend has repeatedly told him to stop and told me that what he says isn’t true but I’m tired of the harassment. He seems to care more about his own feelings more than his best friends but he may also be trying to look out for his friend.Am I the asshole if I don’t want my boyfriend to continue being friends with him? 