Ugh. So annoying. I have an F buddy who lives maybe 15 minutes away by car. Whenever we meet up at my place (I prefer my place because it’s clean and tidy), he is always 30min to an hour late no matter the time of the day or the day of the week. 

This afternoon I got super annoyed after waiting an hour, so I called up another guy. I texted my F buddy telling him to forget it, I have other plans. He showed up anyway and saw the other guy (half naked, lowering the shades) in my apartment. 

He kept hammer texting me calling me a slut/whore/you name it. It’s especially weird because we are explicitly non-exclusive and use protection all the time. 

He’s livid I ditched him for another very on-time D. But I feel like I’m not the asshole here especially since he was super late. I’ve just had it with his tardy D. 