Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : Background. I've been seeing this girl for a few months now, gone on a few dates and never had an issue with how late she's gotten home. Her parents are pretty strict and don't like me so they gave her a curfew to be home, roughly around 9. Of course I know this because I have strict parents myself but they seem to trust me with her. We went on a date last night because I wanted to try and move forward in our relationship so this was my only plan to. I didn't expect us to spend so much time at the beach until her parents started calling her, we both didn't know we had lost track of time and it was almost 9 already. I felt terrible because I felt like I forced her to go on this date with me and stay longer because of it. And to make matters worse when she got home, her parents told her to stay away from me because they say I'm trouble and that she can't go out anymore and she was just crying. She feels like this is her fault because of her curfew and that she can't go out all the time and she's scared that I'll leave her because of it. I'm in a hole now because I feel like I not only ruined her social life but the entire relationship now.