I'm transgender and all I have ever wanted is for my family to call me by my name once. But they say it's too difficult for them and that I'm too girly to really be transgender. We aren't allowed to even acknowledge it around my sister's kids because her husband doesn't want me to "corrupt" them. They won't allow me to stand up to my extended family who have been treating me like crap since I came out, my mom has even yelled at me to "not rock the boat" anymore. 