This happened a little over a week ago. I've been seeing a woman I met on tinder for casual sex. This has been going on and off, for five months. She is not my girlfriend, and she knows that. I am not her boyfriend. I see other women besides her.

Early on, she kept trying to lead us into a relationship by asking me to attend dinners or visit her recital or come to a friends art show. None of this interests me, I explain that to her. She is very competent at sex, and in addition to having a great body she is also very submissive which I enjoy since I am dominant.

However, despite me laying down these ground rules, she introduced me as her boyfriend when I arrived to pick her up at a friends house. Not wanting to embarrass her and ruin the sex later on I don't protest, but then I confront her after the fact. She said she didn't know what to call me.

I let it go, but I start seeing her less and less frequently, and she texts me that shes misses me. I ignore it.

Three weeks ago I started to officially date my bosses daughter. She is motivated, classy, attractive, and it doesn't hurt to have an in with your boss. I announce this on my facebook which she ((the tinder girl) sees.

She texts me asking why I told her a few weeks before that I wasn't interested in a relationship, and why I'm ignoring her. I tell her honestly that she has made me upset with her clinginess, and that she is not a "girlfriend" type to me. I then told her not to contact me again, and that I would contact her if I wanted to get back in touch.

She said ok, but that I was being very mean to her and that I'm being abusive. Why would you want to fuck me if im abusive? Why call me if im abusive? She says to please call her as she misses me.

For now I'm cutting her off.

Am I the asshole.