Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : This is probably going to sound weird to a lot of you, but here goes. 

My boyfriend (31M) and I (23F) have been together for 4 years and living together for more than 2. I've been finishing up school, while he has a very well-paying job and also substantial family money. He pays most of our day to day expenses, though certain things I have always paid, like some food, clothing, my own phone, car, and tuition. Our condo is owned by his family business.

We regularly attend events associated with his work or go out ourselves to clubs in the city. We like to get dressed up - for ourselves and for each other - and I spent a lot on clothes, shoes etc. as does he. We're open when it comes to communication, and he has certain expectations for my own appearance at these events, especially work-related ones. I'm sure some of you are scoffing at me as a trophy wife (or gf) or something, but it's more to do with his reputation and also making connections in his industry, and it's something we both enjoy. Anyway, a short dress and some nice heels are frequent themes.

Since I have student debt and a limited income, I feel it would be reasonable for him to pay for my expenses when we're going to an event that is related to his work. While he may gift me clothes or accessories, he says I should still be paying for my own clothing on a day-to-day basis. He'll buy me drinks, but I sometimes have to pay cover at a club. In a way, we split things as if we have equal means, but we don't at all.

This issue arose again when I decided to get breast implants. It's something both he and I have wanted for a while, but I expected that he would pay the cost for it himself. Instead, he thinks we should share the cost, because I'm going to benefit from it in the instagram modeling that I do. He's probably right, but given our finances I was just expecting that he would pay for it. He then said that if he was going to pay for it all, then he'd want input on it and some terms. That doesn't bother me - I want his input anyway - but I'm sure his terms will be to wear certain outfits as I know that's a turn on for him. 

Anyway, it seems to me that he has the means to pay for essentially all of these expenses - food, clothing, car etc. - without so much as a dent in his own finances. I could pay off my student debt and we'd be on our way. While I've hinted in this direction, I haven't asked directly yet. Before I do so, I thought I'd ask if this makes me the asshole for expecting this or thinking it is reasonable.

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