when jeff came home i accidentally turned the light off as i was leaving and he was entering the room. i noticed and came back and turned it on but he was already annoyed about it i apologized he seemed a bit annoyed but as he said later "let it slide". as he came in he started making a pizza to eat tonight i asked him if he had any forks in his room to which he replied i have a couple in my room. i asked if he knew where any others would be we ran out of forks earlier and theres now only five in the drawer ( we should have at least 20 forks). he said no and i dont like that your accusing me of "stealing" forks. he didn't seem to want to continue the conversation but i really didn't want to run out of forks again ( i was eating pasta with a spoon earlier) so i asked him if i could get the ones from his room. he said fine and walked with me to show me the dishes in his room. he had 5 bowls 3 plates 5 forks and a mug. when i started grabbing them i picked up 2 plates and a mug and he told me to stop so i stopped picking up more and he got mad at me for not stopping. ( he says i grabbed a mug he said stop then i grabbed the two plates.) this caused a pretty significant fight between us in which i said well if you can just keep the forks in your room then i should be able to keep some in mine and grabbed the five remaining forks to bring to my room. he said thats ridiculous after a couple seconds i returned the silverware to the drawer and he said if he was "digging through his room i would lose my mind" i stupidly replied i wouldn't if i brought you in there and pointed to the dishes and only said stopped once you picked them up, and you are loosing your mind. he replied if anything i am loosing my mind yelling and slamming drawers open ( when he said that he slammed the fork drawer open to reenact that). well when he did that i moved my hand to shut it and i put to much weight on it and bent the drawer down. he lost his shit at me for it and at this point i was just exhausted and i said look can we just go do something else for a couple minutes alone and he said no i just want you to go away. i said i cant just go away i have to fix this i would meet in the middle and both leave if that works and he said no you can just fix it later. i ended up laying down in the cupboard to fix it for a while and when i looked out he was just staring at me fixing it. i asked if he can leave its awkward fixing this while he is there and he said no i'm waiting for my pizza. i replied ok and just focused on fixing it. once i fixed it he was still staring and i was still upset so i said this needs to stop its been like 9 days of constantly fighting when you get home on the smallest things i do you call me a dick. and he said well look at it on my side every night i come home and your a dick. So AITA here?