Recently my wife and I went over to a neighbors house to play Cards Against Humanity. They have a son that is around the same age as our boys. The boys do enjoy playing together and get along well. Their son is an only child and does enjoy playing with our boys. The boys went and played in the playroom while the adults sat at the table and played cards and had some adult beverages. Every once in awhile one kid would come over complaining “so and so isn’t sharing” or some other problem. It was getting late for the kids and they started to fight more than play so we ended up leaving in the middle of the game. Now, I love my children and I do enjoy spending time with them, but sometimes I wouldn’t mind just having some adult time and playing cards and not have to stop every few minutes to deal with some issue. I have brought it up to my wife that we should just go over and play cards without the kids and leave them with her mom for a bit or maybe go after they are asleep and that way grandma doesn’t have to watch them but is there if they wake up. I always seem to get some pushback on this idea. She will say, “well we had them they’re our responsibility”, and she acts like I just want to pawn them off every chance I get. Which makes me kinda feel like an asshole. I just would like to have some “adult” time. She never seems to think that’s a good idea and just kinda scoffs at my suggestion. So am I the asshole because I want to play cards and not bring the kids over even if they have a kid to play with them?