Recently some friends/coworkers and I have instituted a weekly game night. We rotate who hosts each week and this week is my turn to host. Tonight I was informed that another coworker, Sarah, was invited to come along. I wasn’t being asked if it was ok, the invite had already been extended.

My problem is that this person is kind of a lot as she’s fairly socially awkward. She’s nice enough but exhausting as she talks constantly, interrupts you to talk about her own stuff, asks the same questions over and over, etc. In addition, while we used to have a friendlier rapport, in recent years she has distanced herself to the point that we no longer converse unless it is work related. 

I’m irritated that I wasn’t consulted on whether she could be invited, especially because it’s being held at my house. Am I an asshole for not wanting this admittedly harmless, albeit frustrating girl at my house?