Am I the asshole for asking my mother in law to apologize to me for barging in our bedroom middle of the night and pushing me off to bed during our little argument with my wife?

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Little back story: My wife got cold Thursday night and she did not go to work on Friday to relax at home. She had nail appointment on Friday at 6PM so she got up and went to nail appointment to get her nails done. Same night my friend asked me to if I would go to PA with him (we live in Long Island NY) to check out a motorcycle and help him buy/load/strap etc....Since I had no plans with wife and she is not really sick anymore for me to stay home and take care of her since she has energy to get to nails, I said ok to my friend and we left 8 AM came back 3 PM Saturday. 

Meanwhile she had hair appointment for cut and color in Brooklyn NY. It takes 1 hr one way to get to Brooklyn from our house. She she drove in traffic to hair appointment in Brooklyn spent 3 hours and drove another hour and a half in traffic to come home and complain that I did not stay with her she was sick and I choose to do fun things with my friend. I said you are not sick because you did your nails and hair for hours or else you would stay home and relax.

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Well, we argued a bit but nothing major, then we went to pick up mother in law to bring her over to our house for Saturday night to Sunday night. She comes over every weekend. We got home, dinner, tea, etc...then went to bed around 11:30PM. She was upset from our previous arguments, disagreement  and wanted to talk at 1130pm and I was really tired and told her that I dont want to talk now that we can talk later. I want to sleep now. She said no she wants to talk now because I should since I went out and had fun all day that I did not get tired etc...I ignored her and asked her to turn her back to spooning so we can just go to bed. She insisted talk but I really did not have energy. She said fine turned her back, picked up her phone and started watching netflix with sound on, no ear phones and screen is bright. I asked her to turn it off or take it to leaving room or kitchen to watch it. She told me dont tell her what to do. i got upset and since she does this to me all the time I tried to grabbed her phone to put it on my side so we can fall asleep. While this was happening she started telling and started to cry.

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Here is the story. My mother in law heard her and she barged in the bedroom without knocking on the door, turned on the light and asking what's happening. I told her there is nothing important that we are just arguing and she should not get involved and she should leave. She pushed me to bed and I remember telling my wife that if she could stop crying and talk to her mother because she is being disrespectful by barging in our bedroom getting involved with our business and pushing me. She did not say anything continued to cry and this point I got up, put on my clothes and left the house at 11:45 PM to send the rest of the night at hotel.

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When I got back home Sunday evening mother in law was gone, she was ignoring me and not saying anything. I asked her if we can have a word. She said sure talk while she was combing, drying her hair putting up lotion on her face. 

I asked her if mom to come back to this house she owes me an apology. She started laughing and long story short she thinks I should be the one who should apologize.

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Am I the asshole for asking my mother in law to apologize to me for barging in our bedroom middle of the night and pushing me off to bed during our little argument with my wife?