Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : My slightly older gay brother is an asshole. He was the first openly gay kid in our High School. He moved away but is still Facebook friends with the whole town. He is alot of people's token gay. Anyway he is a shit bag of a person. Generally mean, narcissistic, virtue signalling, hypocritical, arrogant, and a snob. So dealing with him is a nightmare. When ever I express this to my friends and family they accuse me of being a homophobe. Why can't I have negative feelings towards my gay brother? 