**TL;DR - Pregnant wife and I both sick, I try to be verbally sympathetic, the sympathy is not reciprocated, wife does pregnancy announcement photo with her sister without me and attempted to upload to Facebook tonight, didn't upload upon my request.**

My guess is a loud and resounding "yes," but let me walk through some quick contextual items:

I (32M) am a gigantic pussy when I get sick. It only happens once (MAYBE twice) a year and usually it's a 24-48 hour thing. It is not terribly uncommon for my wife (35F, 14 weeks preganté) to get sick on a somewhat more frequent basis as she works with small children. Impossible to tell "who-gets-sicker" as I think it's like comparing apples and oranges.

What I do know is that I left work early and have been bedridden since 4pm today except for a bath I just took. Usually I have the fan on full blast when I'm in bed and only take luke-warm baths, but today I am achey, congested, and can't get hot enough. 

Sent wife the following text when I got home:

"Afternoon sweetness. Just got home and let dogs out. Feeling substantially sick so I'm going to try and take a nap...I love you forever and always, looking forward to seeing you tonight because seeing your happy face is my favorite medicine."

I fall asleep. She calls my cell 30 minutes later, saying she didn't read my text because she's driving. I said I was feeling much worse since the morning and was trying to take a nap. She says ok, I'll be home in an hour.

Didn't sleep at all. Heard her come in, walk in the bedroom and start going through her closet. I said hi, she said I'm just changing my shirt, I say how was your day, sorry you're feeling sick, that sucks, etc. She says it's fine, closes bedroom door, starts watching TV in the living room (quietly).

After another half hour I can't stand how cold I am, I come out to living room and say I'm going to take a bath, she says ok. As I'm taking a bath, I hear my wife's sister (26F) come in the house. NBD, not out of the usual, wife probably invited her over to hang out. I wrap up my bath, silently curse the entire winter season under my breath, put on pajamas, and walk out into living room.

Wife and wife's sister are doing a baby announcement photoshoot with the dogs. It's something we had talked about on and off this week about but never solidified plans. Wife is spontaneous so it's not completely out of the question, just surprised and a tiny bit hurt that it happened to occur when I'm out of commission. Possibility that my wife could have mistaken my lackadaisical attitude about the announcement earlier in the week as disinterest. I retreat to bed.

Wife comes in bedroom 15 minutes later to show me the announcement photo, asks if she can post it to Facebook. I ask if we could wait until tomorrow if at all possible, she seems taken aback slightly, but says ok. My thinking was that I wanted to share that moment with her and watch the replies live with her. Again, my request may have come off dismissive.

Wife comes in 15 minutes later, asks if I need water or vitamins, I say vitamins would be very nice. She goes into the kitchen, grabs pills (?), brings them to me, I say thank you, she says you're welcome, leaves bedroom.

AITA for feeling upset that at no point during the day did she acknowledge that I was feeling really shitty, like "that sucks," or "I'm sorry," or "is there anything that I can do?" when she is one of the most caring people I know and I know for a fact that there were 3 separate times today that I offered these / similar sentiments? I think between that and the pregnancy announcement I'm just feeling a bit (selfishly) unloved.

Thanks for reading.