Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : So a couple months ago I cut ties with one of my friends (we will call her A) because I couldn't deal with how she would treat me.

For context, due to past experiences I tend to be closed and untrusting in person, this has led to me putting on a persona of a cocky joker, to an almost arrogant degree, in order to try and push people away.

Back onto A. We had been friends for about 2-3 years and I was more open than I was with anyone, talking about my problems and feelings, and I was there for her. I remember that within a month of being her friend she invited me to her place which surprised me a bit (she seemed introverted and being alone with her in her room was a bit odd).

But as time went on she seemed to like me less. Saying "LMAO sucks to be you haha" when I talked about my problems. She started complaining about my choice in music and nicknames I gave. While I still talked to her about my issues and she occasionally said things about hers. 

She would often times come over to me, and tell me how "so and so thought I was being especially rude today", or how "such and such said you were very quite when the movie we saw was on." never really talking about how she thought, she would also take anything I said about anyone and directly tell them it without warning, (I once said that I didn't know if someone liked me as a friend, and A went and asked them. I only know because they told me after) 

Every so often I would ask if she hated me or imply though conversation that she would, each time she acted surprised. 

I would try to hide how it hurt me each time something like that happened bc I was so lonely that I wanted someone to be there, she would reply instantly to my texts and that felt nice.

Eventually it got to where I might show her some photo of a garden I took hours getting right, to which she would point out how terrible it was ("you could have at least done -x-, how bad at this can you be?") which again I would hide my hurt.

So after a couple months of this I decided that enough was enough and stopped talking to her, I stopped texting her, I stopped sitting near her, and I would leave when ever she came near. I burned all the bridges I had with her.

After a week or two she texted me asking if I hated her. I said that I didn't but that I didn't want to have anything to do with her anymore. She asked why, to which I tried to explain. The last message she sent was "haha maybe I should just stop talking" I didn't reply.

Since then a number of mutual friends have expressed how they think I did the wrong thing. One claiming that I was a worst friend of his because of it. Another said that she was morally justified because she had a crush on me at one point. A third Claims it is the worst most evil thing I have done.

This shook my boat a bit and I tried to look back to see if there was any hint that number 2 was right, that she did like me, and there was. On one occasion A and I were talking about crushes and decided to play a yes or no game. I narrowed it down to me and one other person and she said no to the other (I was sure she didn't like me at the time). On a different occasion I was joking about how no one liked me to which she said that she would date me (I thought it was a joke so I moved on). And I even found a note I had received in similar handwriting to hers saying that I was pretty good looking.

So now I don't know what to think. It seems that most people think I was the asshole here. But a few others swear I wasn't.

TL;DR

I had this friend called A, she would say things that made me feel bad, I was trying to hide how I felt and didn't really acknowledge the insults. Enough was enough so I stopped talking to her. A few friends said it was a bad choice. I don't really know anymore.

Let me know if you need any more information