Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : My in laws are very religious and legalistic. They’ve disliked me ever since my wife and I moved out of state several years ago, and we started going to a less conservative church (still Protestant, but it had drums and a guitar, so they didn’t like it). They told us many times that we should go to a real church, and continually questioned our choices on everything. 


Fast forward to about 5 years ago, and we moved back to my wife’s hometown in Texas. We started going to another church when we moved back (again, less conservative than they would like), and it’s been a point of contention for 5 years because they want their grand daughters to grow up in a “better church.”


They try to brainwash our 2 daughters and tell us that the music we listen to is “satanic”, they belittle us and treat us like children for the church we attend and other decisions that we’ve made (I’m more liberal than they’d like and didn’t vote for Trump, I think my mother in law should divorce my father in law because he’s cheated on her more times than he can count, we won’t allow them to watch our kids overnight, etc.).


My father in law has been verbally, emotional, and physically abusive towards my mother in law (he’s been arrested once), and emotionally and verbally abusive towards my wife. 


Because of the constant manipulation, judgement, and guilt tripping, we’ve decided to move about 2 hours away to a different state near some of our close friends. 


We aren’t cutting off all contact, but we’re being very careful about how much time we allow them to spend with our kids, and are trying to get out of this situation.


AITA?