Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : I called a "friend" in the morning to plan a small gathering with our own daughters. She would pick us up at my daughter's school and buy something to go to eat it at my place.

This friend knows where I live and she even knows one of my neighbors, an old lady who dislikes me profoundly and with whom I've had several problems about parking distribution and littering the street with her lawn cuts. Fortunately, this neighbor recently put her house for rent and we have new neighbors with whom I'm respectful and try to avoid any problem similar to those that I had with the house owner.

And here's the problem: we got to my house after buying food and I asked my friend to park her car in a different place than where she intended. I asked her twice, very politely and mentioning the problems I had in the past with the bitch neighbor I mentioned earlier, to park her car in front of my house so I could avoid any possible situation with the tenants. Well, she said she would ask another neighbor (one that had nothing to do with the parking space). I asked her for a third time to not do it and park in front of my house. She minimized my request and parked not only in the tenants' parking space, but also invading the space of a third neighbor.

I kept silent while she walked to my house and before entering my home I asked her politely to move her car. She said she had asked the third neighbor about using that parking space and the neighbor said that he'd call me if they were using the space or needed her to move the car. I asked her if she was not moving her car and she said: NO. That was my fifth attempt and I was about to explode, so I decided to do the opposite, I kept completely silent.

We sat down and ate but I kept the conversation to an absolute minimum. Only thanked and asked for food and that was it. She noticed my glacial silence and tried to speak only with the kids but when she tried to share an anecdote and she asked me something, I said nothing. Apparently she understood and hurried up their meal, put their plates in the sink and left saying a brief goodbye.

After they left, I apologized to my daughter because she wanted to play with this friend's daughter, but I explained her that this is not the first time she has dissed me and my house rules. She answered that she also dislikes some of her attitudes toward her friend and her. I asked her to try to keep things separate and don't let my own struggles contaminate her relations and friendships.

Now, I'm at my home, wondering if this issue of someone disrespecting my house rules is too much and I was the asshole in this situation. What's your opinion?