I’m 15 male living with my dad and self. We usually get along okay but we can have pretty bad arguments from time to time and it can get out of hand. He called me down to go do the dishes I voiced my reluctance but went down anyways he tells me to make sure to clean the dishes before I put them in start running the hot water to clean the pots and pans. I start loading the forks and knives and he yells at me asking why I’m not running the hot water. I say I’m putting the utensils in first and if he wants to do it his way he can do it himself.  5-10 minutes in he walks in and notices I put in a plate withought cleaning it at all and freaks out saying I did it on purpose to go against him proceeds to take it out and throws aggressively into the sink breaking it. Mind you I put it in dirty completely on accident.  So were arguing over how I’m not doing it the right way and I say you can do it then if you want to do it your way and walk out. I’m wondering if I’m the asshole here by not listening to what he said or if he is by overreacting and making assumptions. 