Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : My sister in law is a known a-hole in her family. Everyone excuses it as it's just her personality. So today my husband and I went to her house for dinner.  I didn't want to go. 
  She made a few comments this summer about me being white, not good enough for her brother, and about us being too comfortable. I haven't talked to her since. 
  So today I could tell she was waiting for me to say something just so she could cause a fight. A comment was made about the food being normal american thanksgiving style and not asian food. I said it was different than last year and not all of us were together. She flew into a rage. 
 She said I wasn't trained correctly and and maybe my husband needs to beat on me until I learn. I told her to rot in hell. Called her a few choice names and walked out. Without my husband. 
  So AITA for walking out without my husband and letting him deal with it, since I have no interest in fixing anything
  #tdlr; sister in law is a horrible person, and my husband has never beat me. 