Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : A really close friend of mine had a friend pass away recently and he took to every social media with the go fund me link to raise money for the persons funeral.

The departed person was an avid recreational drug user, as is my close friend. He admitted to me that the person died of an overdose and my friend asked me to donate. 

I do not use drugs, but I advocate for cannabis whenever I can because I believe in its medicinal properties. But they do hard drugs on a regular basis. I told him I wouldn't donate because when a person uses drugs they know the risks associated with them. I also am not sure if the money would go to the deceased's family like it was intended. He has blocked me out of his life since we spoke. So am I the asshole?