Some back story, were both 20 an have recently started being friends again. We used to be best friends but he started dating this terrible girl with a ton of issues who caused nothing but drama so I decided I didn’t want to be around then any more. But I’m the only one in our friend group who ever gets anyone together, so since I didn’t hang out with him anymore he started to say that I was exiling him and making him depressed. I simply just didn’t want to be around him, he could have hung out with our friend without me right?

Anyways, around February friend and his girlfriend break up, she messages me that I’m a fat piece of shit and I’m at fault for my friends depression, she then messages my girlfriend that she wanted to curb stomp her head in. 

Around last month said friend and I start hanging out again, I figured since his girlfriend was out of the picture things would be different, or back to the way they were, before he was with her, and they were. He soon asked if he could have a birthday party at my house later in the month, which was a little weird but not a huge deal because my mom is the only one who’s cool with that stuff. Things were going well, he even got a job at the same place as me. 

Day of party, I wake up, not really into the mood to party, on top of that my 3 year old niece was over which added to me not wanting to party, but I made a commitment to my friend and I was going to keep it. So I start cleaning up and going to pick up some friends. The friend who the party is for calls me and says he’s getting some snacks and says “oh by the way it’s cool if your girlfriend comes” and I was like ya I know it’s cool it’s my house, then he says “ also my girlfriend (the one who he was supposedly broken up with) might show up” and I told him I wasn’t ok with that because of the things she said and the threats she made, he then starts telling me I’m a bitch and immature for not wanting her there. Then he says “fuck you I’ll have it at her house” I said good you probably should have had there in the first place. BUT everyone was already on the way to my house, they arrived and I explained the situations and even said I’d drive them to her house if they wanted, but no one did. Friend then says I’m a piece of shit for splitting up the party and taking his friends away. Everyone else in our friend group just dosent want to be a part of it, am I in the wrong? 
