we dated for s couple months last year and then I ended things with him because I wasn’t ready for a relationship and it was all too overwhelming. Now we’re friends again and talk, he always asks about my day and me and is genuinely a nice guy. I know he still has feelings for me, he took me out on Valentine’s Day and spent a lot of money on me an also takes me out to the movies and dinner often, granted I pay for some of the times as well so I’m not using him to get anything. I am wondering if I am the asshole for not telling him I most likely am not interested but I’m not even sure because I don’t know what I want. We’re only 21. When we first started talking again I felt like it could work out and I told him that but I didn’t tell
Him that I now feel differently. I don’t want a relationship and do not like him like that or even as a friend anymore but feel awful to hurt his feelings so I still invite him to hang out with me and my friends and still hang ok with him (not very often anymore). 