Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : Some context: My family runs a mattress business, and I am a minor. I have two paid siblings, and four unpaid siblings within the business.

This business keeps a roof over my head, food in my mouth, and clothes on my back. For this, I am grateful. My mother and father are co-owners, and I have been working unpaid for them my entire life, but again, food and shelter, so I feel that that is payment enough.

However, something that has bothered me ever since I've reached my late teens is that we have absolutely no schedule organization. When one of my siblings or I are called in, we must drop whatever we're doing and come in to help, as long as it isn't sports or public school-related. (Online doesn't count, you might understand what kind of effect that has on my grades...)

I obviously oppose this, and have asked, on multiple occasions, if we could get some sort of schedule. I am not against working in the business as long as I can structure my schedule around it. I have to balance online school, sports, and a social life on top of the business, so I favor being able to plan out my days.

This being said, I recently was called in to dump the garbage. I was grossly cramming schoolwork at the time, but picking up the garbage isn't that time-consuming, so I drove up and collected the garbage to drive to a second location. Halfway there, I get a call from my (paid) sister to come back, because she wants an extra set of hands. I tell her I really don't have the time to spare, but I'll come do it anyways. I drive back, park, and come in, to find out she needs an entire floor-to-ceiling mattress stack done. We get through three of the mattresses when I look at the clock and panic, because I really, really do not have the time. I let my sister know that I have to go, and she calls our mother to try and force me to stay. I tell her to go fuck herself, and that I can't keep dropping study time for the business, and leave.

I feel like this all could have been solved with a weekly schedule for the whole family, and not just the paid siblings. I have no idea at what time each day I will have for studying or relaxation, and my grades are already falling behind because of it. However, I was needlesslesy mean to my sister, who probably really did need help. AITA?