We’ve been together for 1.5 years, currently live together.

I (m27) enjoy sitting on the sofa with a bottle of wine watching scary things. Nothing gory like Saw or Chainsaw Massacre, things like AHS and A Quiet Place. Stuff with a bit more plot than just scary for the sake of being scary.

Anyway, since we moved in about 4 ago I haven’t been able to do that as my SO (f22) hates scary things which I get, but she won’t give things a try? I’ve lost count of how many episodes of friends I’ve watched and the countless Meg Ryan chick flicks which I hate, but I do it cos she enjoys it.

We’ve had constant argues about this cos I feel like I’m never gonna be able to enjoy what I used to do again. I don’t really have a social life and my SOs friends prefer being round our house than going out so there’s only like 1 day every few weeks where I’m actually alone for like 2-4 hours.

Am I the asshole for getting annoyed cos she won’t try and enjoy the things I like, like I do for her?