Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : “Ryan” is 15 and came out to our homophobic parents about four months ago. They promptly kicked him out of the house and he had to come live with me. I’ve also lost contact with my parents because of this. 

For the most part living with him has been fine. He picks up after himself (mostly) and still goes to school and works to help me out with bills. 

One thing however, is that lately he has been seeing this boy and bringing him over to the apartment to have sex (I have a spare bedroom). 

I don’t care if he’s having sex or who it’s with, and I mean I really could not care less I can’t emphasize that enough, but it is making me so uncomfortable in my own place. I can hear them at night, and when I get home. I’m losing sleep because it makes me so awkward and uncomfortable. I feel like I’m losing my mind. 

This kid is also hanging out at my place a lot more than I would like. I suspect he doesn’t have a very good home life. 

I really want to tell Ryan to maybe cool it down because after all it is my place but I also get that maybe they don’t have anywhere else “safe” to go beside my house. I don’t want to make him uncomfortable and I don’t want to seem like a huge asshole if I ask him not to do it at my place anymore because he does help with some of the bills. But again, it’s kind of making me go crazy always having this kid over and hearing them. 

So,  WIBTA for asking him not to bring guys over anymore? 