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AITA for removing my mother from my life? This happened in 2014.

So, some background. I'm bipolar, as is my brother. My brother had an episode and ended up getting into some trouble and getting hospitalized. My mother said to me, "I just don't know anyone who is bipolar!" I was floored. I told at her how I was bipolar, too, and she knew that and I had been diagnosed several times and attempted suicide several times. When she found out about my first suicide attempt she yelled and screamed at me. She offered no advice or comfort.

When we would talk on the phone the conversations were always one-sided. Every time I would try to say something she would interrupt me. It got to the point where I would just stop what I saying and stay silent for most of the conversation.

When I would get to together with my siblings we would complain about her and her antics. She was once staying the weekend at my sister's to babysit her kids and she re-arranged the entire the kitchen just because she didn't like how it was. My sister and her husband her pissed!

In high school I wanted to walk to school instead of her driving me. This led to a fist fight. She was always quick to hitting us when we were growing up.

So I got really sick in 2013 with Rocky Mountain Spotted Fever. I suffered from chronic pain and couldn't do a lot for myself for a few years. She had helped me out a lot during that time, staying with me and caring for me when I needed her to. She was retired so she had the time to do so. It was a really rough time for me - lots of doctors, lots of procedures, lots of medicines - nothing was helping my pain. I could do nothing that was fun anymore.

So in 2014 I had called her about something and said something about being in pain. She screamed at me on the phone "I am so sick and tired of hearing about your pain!" I was so upset. It was the proverbial straw that broke the camel's back. Everything that had happened in our relationship had come back in that instant and I yelled back "You will never have to hear about my fucking pain again!" and hung up on her. I haven't spoke to her since. I blocked her on social media. I blocked her from calling or texting me. She can still email, though. She never apologized to me directly, but I have heard through my siblings that she feels bad about it and she tells them she is sorry. The thing is, she didn't talk to her own mother for 14 years as she was toxic. I feel like turn about is fair play. I have always said that all she needs to do is apologize to me, and all will be fine.

My step-mom brings it up every once in a while if I have talked to her. "She is your mother. You need to talk to her." I just don't feel that way. I feel like she is a toxic person. She brings no joy to me or my life. I don't miss her. I feel like I am better off with her not in my life. So, AITA for removing my toxic mother from my life?

TL;DR: I got sick, mother yelled at me, I cussed her out and haven't spoke to her since 2014. AITA?