My mom got separated in July, and last night she told me she’s been seeing a guy since early August. He is, according to her, very nice. She’d known him for years. I’ve met him a few times. Our dog is one of his dogs puppies. This guy has been seeing my mom for months, maybe even longer, and none of us have known. I feel extremely uncomfortable about this, and it seems kind of hypocritical, as she claims dating and seeing people isn’t good for people like her, who are independent and focus on themselves. However, my sister and mom and I have been looking for a house and she’s applying for a new (very great, would make double the money we make now) job as a CEO. There is so much going on right now and I’m uncomfortable knowing that she’s with this guy all the time rather than looking for a house for us or spending time building onto her resume for the new job, or spending times with us. My sister is seven, her parents JUST got divorced, and she can’t understand that mom has moved on (far too quickly in my opinion). Would I be an asshole to ask her to stop seeing him? Am I an asshole for thinking this already??