It got a litte bit longer than I thought so td;lr at the bottom.

Little bit of backround: 
I [F 25] moved away from home to a new town and I was looking online for new friends. There I found Kim [F 30] (fake name) and we seemed to have a lot in common. We chattet for some weeks bevore we decided to meet in person.

Even though we chatted online constantly the conversation was really slow when we met up. I  had to keep the conversation going on my own or we would be sitting there in silence. Additional to that most of her responses were only 1-2 word sentences...  It was really awkward and also kinda exhausting for me because I am a litte shy around new people and an introvert. 

After our meeting she wrote me how much fun she had and that she was looking forward to seeing me again. So I figured that she is even more shy than me and that she maybe only had to warm up to me. So we met again several times and while I noticed that she became more talkative, she would never start the conversation on her own and it was still difficult to keep a conversation going. A few months into our friendship I found out from one of her posts on social media that she has social anxiety, so I guess that explains her behaiviour.

But I soon found myself dreading our meetings... At this point we knew each other for about 8 months and we had met like 10 times. I don't know if you would call that a friendship, for me she was more of an acquaintance. Meeting her was really mentally exhausting for me because of her inability to have a ongoing conversation. Meeting friends is supposed to charge my battery but it was the total opposite.

I thought she guessed that our meetings weren't as fun for me as they were for her, because after our last meeting she never wrote me again. And I was relieved because that way I didn't have to end our "friendship" and also never wrote her.

Fast forward to two months later: 
I see online that her husband left her shortly after our last meetup (he already got a new girlfriend) and that she has a depression. I think she didn't write me because of her husband leaving her and now I feel kinda bad. I thought about reaching out I think she could use a friend and I know she doesn't have any in this city but I don't want to honestly....



Td;lr 
Met [F 25] a girl [F 30] online and we met a few times. She is super shy and never contributed to our conversations so I had to keep them going. I found myself not wanting to be her friend and when she didn't write me I never reached out again. Now I found out she has depression because her husband left her and I think she never wrote me because of her situation. Now I feel bad.


So AITA because I don't reach out even though I now know of her depression and divorce?