Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : She told me she wanted to get it and I told her I’d pay for at least half of it, but she is refusing to let me helpi, saying she ‘doesn’t mind paying for it.’ She then said that if she needs money she’ll go to her dad first. I feel like this is portraying me as using her for sex, which I know isn’t her intention and I tried to talk about how it’s not about the money it’s about the idea and sharing the responsibility, but she is absolutely set on being independent. Not sure what to do about it really because it’s a really big deal for me, even if it isn’t for her