Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : I (M23) live at home at the moment after returning from university. I pay rent every month which goes to helping out with food and bills etc. My little brother (M21) also lives at home and does the same.

After returning from university I noticed that my dad and brother are the laziest people I know when it comes to general house tidiness. They leave shoes and amazon packaging everywhere, pubes on the bathroom floor and sink for over a week (I know it's one of them because of the hair colour), dishes beside the dishwasher, never put the bin out, piss on the toilet seat and never tidy up any spilled food.

In contrast, maybe somewhat unbelievably, I lived for 4 years at university with various flatmates and our uni flats were by far tidier than at home. Everyone cleaned up after themselves and done their own dishes etc. I'm embarrassed when my girlfriend comes over too because her house is always so tidy and her and her parents are just tidy people.

I've noticed that it is just me and my mum who always seem to be the only ones doing any household chores. My mum, at one point told us all when I was 16 that she needed more help around the house and I feel I'm the only one trying.

I've tried before to tell them to put stuff away and tidy up after themselves but I get "It's my house! I can leave things wherever I want" and constantly get shouted down. I'm at the point where I'm getting more and more stressed to the point I'm going to explode soon.

I'm moving out soon and I worry for my mum that when I do she's going to return from work every day and be burdened with all of this more than I know she already is but at the same time she also needs to speak up and make her voice heard. 

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AITA for being pissed off at them? 

Any advice on how to proceed too would also be appreciated.