Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : In 2016, I moved with my family to England from America, not only because my Dad got a job there but so I can possibly get free college since my Dad is actually a UK citizen and I can get citizenship really easy; except for one small detail. My Dad forgot to bring my birth certificate which is required for me to go through the citizenship process. My Dad tells me not to worry about it and he will take care of everything so I can go to school. So I trust him.  


Fast forward to 2019 January. I want to visit my first ever girlfriend of 3 months who lives in Belgium, who has already visited me in England twice already. I talk this over with my parents first and they are worried about my safety saying that I shouldn't go and tell me that I might have trouble getting back. I don't worry about their first concern, but I question the second one asking why I might have trouble getting back. They said they don't know and I should listen to them.  


Knowing my parents I assumed it's just an attempt to stop me from going, so I do my own research to see if there really might be any problems with my travelling. I didn't find out anything wrong. After ordering the tickets they get even friskier and they once again said that I might have trouble getting back and I asked why again; they said they didn't know and said I should just "listen &amp; respect your parents". After that, they just said "Well he's an adult now, let him learn".  


Then I had a great week in Belgium and experienced everything I wanted, couldn't possibly have any regrets until I met with border patrol when I was going back home and told me I was not allowed back into the country.

I was thinking "Umm...what? Let me call my Dad..."

My Dad told me not to worry and just ask for a tourist visa. Surprise surprise, I was not allowed to.

"Oh shit, am I homeless? What am I going to do??"  


I call my Dad again tell him my situation and both my parents are super angry with me and tell me it's all my fault and I should I have listened to them. If I knew about my 6 month visa and how not having my birth certificate is why my Dad hasn't taken care of my citizenship yet, then I totally would have flown back to America a long time ago to get it and do things properly; I had the money for it from my freelancing work. However, once I tell them all this, they get even angrier with me yelling louder and how they always have to fix my mess. I really need them in this situation and didn't want to fight, so I just apologize and accept everything they say.  


I'm currently in a situation where I have flown back to America to get my birth certificate and going through my citizenship process with my parent's financial support (which there really isn't much of and I'm crashing from house to house trying to make everything last).  


So AITA for going to Belgium, or are they for putting me in a situation like that in the first place?