Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : So my brother is having a baby and my fiance and I were having a conversation about going into labor. I mentioned that it is our day and nobody else's. She got super upset saying that it isn't our day, that it was HER day. I was like nah it's not just your day it's both of ours. Then she goes on this rant about how the men don't do anything and how woman can give birth without men and all men are used for is sperm. Then she calls me anti feminist. Wtf? I not once said the man does more in a pregnancy than a woman. I not once said the woman has it easier or anything remotely that makes it sound like the man has equal burden of taking care of the baby into labor. She just went off on me and kept yelling at me about how I don't understand. All I wanted to say that going into labor is a shared experience. I also didn't say going into labor was 50/50 either.. ofc she gotta do more while she's in labor than any male could. Jesus tell me IATA so I can go apologize.