A friend of mine from New England is coming to visit me in Florida in about a week. He’ll be here for 5 days (Friday morning through Tuesday evening), most of which we plan to spend together catching up and hanging out. He’s expressed that I’m the main reason he’s coming to visit, and that he’d like to spend as much time with me as possible while here. A few of the days he’s visiting I’ll have to work, and I set aside about 2 hours every day for a work out. He’s aware of both of these limitations and has told me he’s ok with them. What I’m wondering, though, is whether or not I would be an asshole if I cut into the potential time we could have to hang out in order to go on a date with a guy I’m seeing. We’ve been dating for about 3 months and it’s going pretty well. Lately, though, we haven’t had much of a chance to see one another due to work, sickness, and the holidays. We are planning to get together before my friend visits. However, due to my friend’s visit we won’t be able to see each other for another 2 weeks in between our upcoming date and the next date. I’d like to avoid this, because I really want to get to know this guy I’m seeing better and another 2 week break isn’t exactly great for a budding relationship, but I also don’t want to be an asshole to my friend who is traveling a long way to visit me. To clarify, if I did decide to meet up with the guy I’m seeing, it would likely be in the evening for a few hours, 4 tops. Would I be an asshole if I saw him while my friend is visiting me? 