Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : A bit of back story. I met Jane online over a year ago and we saw each other once about 6 weeks after talking online for the first time. It seems like we've been tentatively planning a trip since the last one. As of next Friday, I will have enough $ to pay for the entire trip, so she'll have no more excuses.

We still talk all day everyday. Last night she went to a younger family member's birthday party and she always gets drunk at these things. I asked her to text me goodnight so I know she made it to bed safe and she didn't.

I'm really mad and I still haven't heard from her. I've been sober for over a year and I can't imagine ever getting so drunk that I would forget about her. How is that possible? Either she got so drunk that she forgot I existed. Didn't care enough to tell me goodnight. Or the darker scenarios: she ended up fucking some random guy or something happened to her.

Am I the asshole for being mad? 