My girlfriend has put on some weight over the winter.  I’d say at least 30lbs.  Probably more. She’s always mentioning it and talks about how she needs to join a gym.  So on her birthday I got her a year at Gold’s gym. 

It didn’t go over well.  She said that it’s an insult.  That she know she’s gained weight and doesn’t need me to tell her about it.  I have been EXTREMELY careful not to mention her weight gain.  I wasn’t trying to tell her she’s fat, I got it for her because she’s said multiple times that she really needs to join a gym.  