I and my husband have been married for 3 years. We have a 1yo daughter. 

She pretty much sleeps the entire time but my husband feels shy and gross having sex when she's there. I'm sure that she wont understand anything anyway. I'm always busy with the baby and he's always busy with work and I want to make the most out of the time we have. I think he's acting childish but he thinks its gross. 

Am I mad? AITA?