This happened a while back but I just found this subreddit and I'm interested to hear your thoughts.

There was a post on r/tinder where a black girl messaged a guy saying " how dark is your humour " and he replied "it picks cotton" now obviously this is a very racist joke but I thought it was completely okay to say in this situation because the girl asked for dark humour and if you ask for dark humour you should expect all kinds of dark humour and not cherry pick the ones that offend you and say the rest are fine but those aren't and so this was a fine joke to say in this situation, AITA ? 