Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : For the majority of my life I have always been the person that was "too nice" and people would vent to me and I would always by default find something to sympathize about with their situation and immediately take.their side. Sometime over the past few years, I somehow stopped being the person. Probably a part of my growing up process. Now. Some of my friends when they vent to me, I tend to get the response "well, that's just pessimistic" 

Here's an example, messaging back and forth with a friend: 

HER: I don't even like the club (the place where our SO's work) anymore.
Me: The club always sucked. Some people are just crumby and there will always be crumby people at other clubs and restaurants.
HER: I used to like it. Always felt welcomed, Everybody was nice...now it just stresses me out, can't even drive there anymore. 
ME: Yeah, eventually a lot of places end up growing into something else. But even if there aren't other female distractions, there's always some kind of unnecessary drama associated with work. They'll always be shitty chefs, immature/entitled coworkers, and sensitive mentalities. And our SO's come home and they're stressed from work or they spend what little time they have with their coworkers at the bar. It's a perpetual cycle. 
HER: (INSERTS GIF of" "THAT NEWS IS VERY DEPRESSING")
ME: (INSERTS GIF of a shrug) ...sure is
HER: Pessimistic much?
ME: Nah. I accept it for what it is. I make my choices accordingly.
HER: Well, I'm refusing to accept it. Ignorance is bliss lol.
ME: To each their own.

TLDR: Am I the asshole for because it diesn't make me sad, I just see the reality for what it is? Or am I unnecessarily pessimistic about a topic that I should, I guess, try to be ignorantly positive about? 