I was supposed to go on a date with a girl. I'm in CT, she's in NYC. I travel 2hrs to get to the city and am staying at my friend's place the night before I'm supposed to go on this date. Have to travel another 30/40 mins to get to her area in the city.  I text her that night just checking in to make sure everything is still good and narrow down when and where. 

I suggest we meet up and get lunch somewhere. She says ok, and asks if I have a place in mind. I say nah, was hoping u did, kinda joking around that it's her turf, figured she would know some spots. I suggest I'd be down to get sushi and pay for her cuz she told me that's her favorite food.

She says never mind, forget about the date. I'm like wtf? She says since I didn't have a place in mind, I wasn't serious about meeting. She says it takes 2 mins to look up a place and I wasn't putting in effort.  I called her conceited and said I traveled my ass to her, was gonna buy her food, and that it was ridiculous reason to cancel. She hits me with I'm being too emotional, and that she is on her period and it's her job to be emotional. Says I have no chivalry, and if I wasnt so feminine maybe I'd get some p****. Also, says I shouldn't be treating her like this on IWD.

I say yea I'm allowed to be emotional, didn't know I needed to bleeding outta my d*** to show it. Also say well since I have so much estrogen I'm practically a woman and she shouldn't be treating me like this on IWD.  I tell her im glad we aren't meeting cuz im not on a quest to stick my d*** in as many holes as possible, have too much chivalry for that. (Honestly if she was dtf I'd have been down, but expectations for the date was just lunch and roam around NYC. But that response sounded clever to me.)

I delete her number and our conversation, then hit her up on SC asking for screenshots cuz I thought of posting it in here. Understandably she said no cuz she didn't trust me. Calls me a stalker and psychopath.

This was supposed to be our first date, ha! Have had great conversation via text and was looking forward to finally meeting her.

I have a tendency to overreact, being drunk definitely didn't help (Not an excuse, just a fact). Hoping I'm not the a**.  Tried to be as honest in this description as possible. It was a fairly long argument and I summed up the most important parts I think. Obviously there is probably a slant to my text in my favor, no one's the bad guy in their own story right? I can honestly say I didn't curse at her or anything like, wether or not y'all believe me is another story.  I told her I was gonna post it on here, not sure if she is in this site tho.



