Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : Ok, this happens once a week or so. Either he wants something out of my back pack (we're world travelers and live out of our bags) or I'm asking a favor of him to get something that I can't get to right now (like just a few minutes ago I asked him to bring me the wet wipes because I forgot them but was already in the bathroom and couldn't get up) sorry, tmi. If he can't find the thing within 10 seconds, or if the thing isn't exactly in the place I thought it was, he'll start dumping everything out onto the closest surface, be it the countertop, bed, or floor. He rarely asks where it is, doesn't double check himself, just dumps all the shit wherever he can, sometimes even tossing it. Oh, and he never apologizes for making a mess of my things, and he never cleans it up because he "didn't want to touch anything else because [I'll] just get more mad". (Yes, I actually mean "never". He doesn't apologize unless it's something HUGE, like big big deal.) Yes, it's my fault for not knowing where my stuff is, but AITA for getting angry with him when he dumps my stuff out? 