My ex-boyfriend and I met on a dating app, and we really liked each other. He and I had amazing sexual chemistry, and he was frankly the best partner I ever had. He’s really smart (going to Yale Law School next year) and seemed to be really into me. We saw each other for around 2 months, but I was already sort of planning our futures together. 

Anyway, I’m not fat, but I don’t have any real muscular definition nor am I slim. He, on the other hand, went to the gym everyday. He wasn’t muscular, but he has a six pack and a very lithe, toned body. (It may be important to note that I’m gay, and gay men tend to be pretty fit.) 

Around a month ago (a month into the relationship), he said that he really liked me, but he thought it wasn’t fair that I didn’t put as much effort into looking good as he did. That he had assumed I had a good body because I was in the navy, so that’s why he met me off Tinder without seeing a body photo. I promised that I would try to get healthier, but I’m honestly so tired after work that I never really bothered going to the gym and didn’t think he was so dissatisfied with my body. I didn’t bring this up to him, but I was the one who paid for all our meals, so I assumed that he would take that into account into his dissatisfaction. 

This morning, he texted me that I didn’t take him seriously when he brought up my body, so I should never talk to him again. I think he blocked me on iMessage because my messages won’t deliever. While I would kill to turn back time and have gotten a trainer when he signaled his dissatisfaction, I’d just like to know whether AITA? 