Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : So my girlfriend is not the best at replying, and sometimes she'll follow up on missed texts but not always. But mostly she'll ignore when she either forgets or is too busy to respond. It's not like I want to talk every hour of the day, but when I ask a question like when are you free next and the message is read but ignored, to me, I don't see how someone has the time to read a message but not respond. Normally if I don't want to speak or can't talk, I won't read the message until I have time to. I personally just find it rude and dismissive. My girlfriend mainly doesn't do much for a job at the moment and has a lot of time on her hands, she's mainly playing video games or watching TV while job searching. But for me, I don't really know what to think when a message is just read and it bothers me. I asked a question earlier, she read it, I didn't hear anything back for an hour until I just posted a question mark, still read it and then when I messaged later on, she said to chill because she's busy. I mean reply when you can but sometimes she doesn't follow up to the question and just posts something completely off topic, and I find it a bit exhausting. All I'm really asking for is clarification on what's going on. 

AITA for getting annoyed when she does that or do I just need to chill? 