Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : I met up with a guy I went to high school with, he was always decent looking, not blow you away sexy, but kind of cute I guess. I heard from a mutual friend that he moved to my city and was looking to meet up with some people.  I’m 31 and he’s 33. 

So we went on a coffee date and I honestly didn’t recognize him - he doesn’t have Facebook or Instagram so I couldn’t check him out beforehand. My friend told me he gained a “little” weight so I thought ok whatever, what’s a few pounds. He must have gained at least 100 lbs. 

I honesty didn’t know him that well in high school, more acquaintances I guess. He’s a nice guy but I just couldn’t get over the fact that I was disgusted with his appearance. He was fat, like very fat and I can honestly say I was extremely turned off. 

He wants to meet up again and I haven’t responded to him yet. The mutual friend who told me he moved nearby thinks I’m an asshole but I can’t help how I feel. 

AITA for not wanting to see him again because of how he looks?

