Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : So, apologies, first reddit post. Something happened today and I really need to get some closure. For background, my friend A. and I have been friends for years, we’re both girls and juniors in high school now, and she’s the kind of person I know I can trust with anything. So, for years, we’ve had a close relationship, but then last year she got a boyfriend. She talks to him much more now, and sometimes I do feel a bit ignored, but let me make it clear that I’m not the kind to express all my feelings or act on jealousy. Anyways, since A. has had a boyfriend, the three of us often talk at lunch. I grew up in a very noisy home, so getting a chance to speak is a gift. Today, as usual, we were talking and everything seemed fine. Then, when I got home, I saw a somewhat passive aggressive text from A. asking me to try not to talk over her boyfriend when they are having a conversation and said that he was upset about it. The thing is, when I spoke, they weren’t even talking, not to mention I didn’t think I said all that much. Then again, I do know that in the past I was a pretty blabby person, but once again I kind of owe that to my home life. But even if I do talk too much, which I’ll admit to, am I the asshole in this situation? The text A. sent me has had me really wrecked emotionally for the past hour or so, and while I’ve sent many sincere apology texts, I feel like she’s still kind of upset with me. I can see why, if I were actually talking all that much, but like I said I feel like I wasn’t. Sorry if this is just silly and kind of immature, but it really does have me messed up. 