So hey y’all I have a story for you! So recently me and my friends in our group chat have had drama of sorts and over all it’s really annoying. I’m really bad at formatting my thoughts so excuse the run on sentences lol. Anyway, so the other day me and my friends started talking about pyromaniacs for some reason and I mentioned how basically Codey (the main guy I’m talking about) described Michael Baye. But he retorted in quote “Um actually that’s a pyrotechnic, you might wanna look that up” which sorry I guess.. this has actually happened before when we talk about other subjects. Whenever me or other people in the chat talk about a game or comic he always says that he is the only TRUE fan of the subject (mind you true fans don’t really exist, like for example you can be a fan of a band and only like one or two of their songs). Like one time we where going to draw our Pokémon teams (because this chat is an art chat even though we never post art lol) and there was a rule for no legendary Pokémon, and then he says “What about Mystic Pokemon?” I say “Well they are technically legendary if they aren’t commonly found, so I would say no.” And after that the man goes on a rant on how they don’t count as legendarys and holy shit it was annoying to read. Luckily my friend Elizabeth (the saint she is) said it was alright just so he could have a challenge because tbh he isn’t the best at art.. So back to the pyromaniac thing after we talked about it a bit he said “True I guess that’s the same thing.” I was kinda ticked of and tired so I typed “I was about to go on a small rant on how much of a narc you can be sometimes but I’ll drop it.” And right after I sent that he said “ Excuse me, narcissistic?? I care about few people in this world, and sometimes I'm not one of those” so him wanting to continue the conversation I said quote “Im just saying you get on your high horse thinking your smarter than everyone else, but then when we retort with you have no comeback (at least one that’s not a curse word) And you also take things to seriously too, like when we talk about some game or some shit you think you know everything and believe me it gets annoying, when I think about it your like a Gray( his gf) 2.0 with less triggers and swearing, Jesus like dude get a life man.” Which thinking back on it it was kinda mean but I said what I wanted to say and even the people in the group (besides Codey) said we should probably just chill out, I said I was signing off and going to bed(and yeah I kinda only said those things because was tired) and when I wake up this is what I’m greeted to from Codey “Hey,let me kick you where it'll fucking hurt, At least I still have parents to love me.” Mind you my parents are dead.. so for me calling him a narc and his girlfriend annoying I have my dead parents brought up to make him look better??? And the people who where in the chat at the time where like “Dude like that was hella unnecessary and a total low blow.” And he just ignored them and kept going on on going saying “Look, I'm not as sorry as I probably should be, but when you decide to pick on someone you know damn well can't help their problems (Gray), then who's being a complete shit bag, she goes to me for shit you guys don’t even help her with. Which man I understand you wanna help and defend your girlfriend but dude like not my fault she has some mental issues that are seriously not being taken cared of properly and sorry I sometimes joke about your untouchable goddess that you yourself think you can save and take care of yourself with no mental medical experience. Look I have know his gf way WAY longer than he has and since they got together I have seen some regression in her, she now has ticks and triggers that she has never had before and I can’t talk to her without triggering her about something like I’m not saying it’s his fault but when two people with problems and issues it can become toxic and I don’t want that for either of them really. So know it feels so awkward talking to either of them because both him and his gf (who even isn’t in he chat btw because of a kinda unrelated story) think I’m an asshole just for stating my opinion on their character, am I though because I feel guilty from what I said.. The other peeps in the chat say I was in the right but could have been handled better, Idk I just what your opinion.