Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : My ex and I have been broken since July of 2018 and it ended quite poorly, she’s not allowed to talk to me because her boyfriend (she’s now dating the guy she was dating before me again) doesn’t allowed her to talk to me unless she wants to yell at me. We had no closure and that bothered me quite badly but with time I realized that it’s not on me, I tried but she refused to. Her and I had been together for three years and I moved to Germany to be with her and in that time her family became very good friends of mine, therefor I would go to church on Sundays, the same church her mom goes to and we’d talk for a few minutes afterwards. Nothing more than that. I recently returned to the little German town on Thursday and went to go pick up a box of stuff that she found that was mine. During that time I asked her if I would be seeing her at church that Sunday and she said yes. So, Sunday comes around and I go to church and she shows up a bit late with her dog, everything goes as normal and afterwards her and I start talking a bit, she’s not doing well because of her depression and she has a lot of worries so I asked if she’d like to talk about them, she said yes so we started walking back to her place (about 5 minutes from the church) and she told me what’s going on. Then, my ex comes out and walks right past me without saying a word. I thought it was a bit rude but I understood that she didn’t want to see or talk to me. I went home and she proceeded to text me that I’m not allowed to go to church there anymore because it’s “weird to be doing anything with my mother, you need to move on.” I really don’t want to stop going there, it’s small, I like the sense of community it has and as I’m not very religious, if I didn’t go there I most likely wouldn’t go at all. But it always felt special there. She threatened to bring her ex/new boyfriend with her to church if I continued to go there and they’d harass me, neither of them go to church regularly / at all. I decided it’s most likely not worth it because her mother isn’t doing well and doesn’t need that stress in her life and neither do I. Am I the asshole for wanting to still go to this church and be able to talk to her mother for 5-10 minutes a week?

TL;DR: I go to the same church as my ex girlfriends mother and talk to her for 5-10 minutes after the service. My ex then told me she’d bring her (ex before me)new boyfriend and make me stop going. Am I the asshole for wanting to still go to this church and be able to talk to her mother for 5-10 minutes a week?