Background info, I'm a sophomore in high school and I moved to the district the beginning of my freshman year. I didn't have any friends and I met a two chicks that were into me and I dated one and became bestfriends with the other. I've known them both for an equal amount of time and I'm super close with both of them, but neither of then like each other and don't have a good reason for it. They've both helped me get out of my depression and I honestly love both of them.

I understand everyone in this situation is young and dumb, so I'm asking y'all, am I the asshole? J feel like whenever I'm out with the both of them they hate each other and I have to be a barrier. 

Both of them have come up to me and told me I deserve a better bestfriend/girlfriend than them. Am I the asshole for not sideing with my friend or not sideing with my girlfriend? 

Tldr: Me (m) has a gf and bestfriend (f) who hate each other and I make them do stuff together with me because I love them both aita?