Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : I (F23) come cross to other people as very straight forward in the way i communicate. . I tend to be dominant in my relationships, and when i need to make a point i do no hesitate to express myself. That does not mean im 'allowed' to be  rude to other people, im just direct and objective.

Now, every time i get into an argument with my gf (F22)  for any kind of topic (big or little) she does not EVER take the blame for a mistake or ill mannered attitude. When i clearly point that the action/words/carelessness of her affected me , in a logical point of view, she gets annoyed and tell me that "i'm just exaggerating' or simply that im crazy for taking everything so serious. This makes little problems very BIG problems, because i get so distressed and angry when she tries to invalidate everything i say by telling me that i'm crazy, and become a self fulfilling prophecy. At this point she says: 'see? you are exaggerating, you are all spiked up, i won't talk to you if you are angry'

This annoys me to incredible levels, and i feel like she does this on purpose to avoid taking responsibility for any mistake. I try to explain why that action/word made me sad/angry/uncomfortable in a objective, calmly way, and she just 'belittle' my claims. 

For example, (and this just happened 15 minutes ago):

She let the door open and our dog destroyed the trash bin, eating everything he could. Evidently i call on her and tell her that this is not the first time and she needs to stop putting a skateboard and a plastic lid as a "fort" to not allow the dog to be outside, instead of closing the door. This was probably the 3rd time this happened. She started using that damn condescending tone to me, and everything went to shit. I'm currently in my bedroom with no intentions of talking to her.

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Am i being petty? do i have anger management issues? Am i exaggerating? 

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