Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : Yesterday it was the day before payday and I had to gather up loose change to get a decent dinner for the family.  Generic steakumms on hotdog buns was on the menu, but my tax refund deposited just as I was leaving the market, so I decided to order some Chinese food and sushi as a treat since we’ve been kinda broke lately.  

I inadvertently ordered the sushi stacked on rice for my wife, instead of the sushi rolls that I normally buy for her.  I wanted sashimi because I can’t eat rice.  Food arrives And I note my mistake, and offer some of my sashimi, despite her wanting fish/rice in a roll form.  To me, they are the same thing  just in different form, but whatever I give her some of my salmon and tuna leaving me with  mostly eel, crab sticks, and the weird white fish that’s kinda rubbery.  Not what I like the most but Whatever,I want her to be happy with her food and it seems that she’s ok with this at first but I see she is pouting a little bit, so I ordered what she likes and told her its on the way.  

Well this made her mad for some reason, and even though she got what she likes, a little later than the rest of us, and she had food to eat in the meantime, and she didn’t have to eat processed freezer beef paper, she’s still unhappy with me because I didn’t want to give her all of my tuna and salmon, and just suck it up and eat the rice. I should note that I cannot eat rice or I will have digestive issues.   

She didn’t eat any of it and hasn’t spoke to me today.  She insisted I was being a dick about it by ordering what she likes.  I think she should just be happy that she didn’t have to eat steakumms because they’re nasty.   I ended up spending $85 bucks on dinner which is enough for 2-3 days of food for the family.  

Am I the asshole here?  My wife always seems to find something wrong with everything I do, this is just one example. 