Mom: I would never get married if I was a guy your age in today's society. Its nothing but a screwjob. Only reason I would ever want to get married is because I'm a girl and i want the stability of having a guy to lean on.

Me: I think that's a very negative way to look at marriage. I want to be married before starting a family. I sometimes do worry about the financial situation involved because of how much more student loan debt (gf) has than me, but (gf) already said she'd be ok with a prenup that keeps our debt and finances separate.

Mom: Well thats a good idea if she agreed to it.

Me: Especially since (gf) will probably make more money than me in the future. Ideally, the only thing I would be willing to pay for in the event of a future divorce, is child support.

Mom: Well, even if you weren't willing to pay child support, you'd still be forced too by the government.

Me: (Sent an eye-rolling emoji) Me every time you say things like this.

Mom: Like what? That you'd have no choice but to pay child support?"

Me: Well, more like 'marriage is a sham unless you're a woman' and also the completely needless mentioning that i would be forced to pay child support even if i didnt want to because i very clearly said that i would so why even bring that up?

Mom: I feel like everytime we talk i have to walk on eggshells around you because I'm afraid youre going to get annoyed and upset at me because of my beliefs. You do it all the time and it hurts my feelings because I'm afraid i cant say anything without you acting annoyed.

Me: So I'm not allowed to disagree with you about anything?

Mom: I dont care if you disagree. I care that you try to make me feel bad by sending out body language vibes that I'm stupid or wrong about everything.

Me: It hurts my feelings that you think that I actively try to do that. I wish you didn't feel that way. I actually find it offensive that you think that. All i did was send you an emoji to make a joke.

Mom: Why do you always get defensive when i tell you something you did hurt my feelings? You never acknowledge when you've hurt my feelings. Its like you don't even care.

Me: I do care. Im just telling you that what you said also hurt my feelings. I'm also offended that you feel like you have to tip toe around me like I'm some sort of time bomb just because we have different opinions.

Mom: You still arent acknowledging my feelings.

Me: You arent acknowledging mine either! I mean, you're not always the victim in every scenario.

Mom: OMG now you're attacking me! YOU HURT MY FEELINGS AND DON'T CARE! You are treating my like gutter trash instead of owning up to what you did.

Me: I'm not gonna talk to you if you are gonna just keep accusing me of being some kind of horrible person that treats you like trash.

So thats basically the gist of it. AITA?