 

the event i am talking about happend about 3 months ago but i still can't get this off my mind from time to time.

so to give some background the group consisted of me (the DM), my brother, friend 1 which i will call alex, and friend 2 (the person who left) who i will call frank (it was a small group).

my brother and alex are usually very respectful players, but frank didn't, he would often pull out his phone (or even his switch at times) and do literally anything else but D&amp;D. he would often make the excuse of "ohh i only do it when there is downtime" but downtime to him was anytime it wasn't *his*turn in combat meaning i or his friends would often have to recap him almost every 10 min this often lead to him doing the bare minimum. he also had a huge anger problem to the point where if you criticize anything about him he would swear like a sailor and throw a tantrum (was 15).

one day when we were playing and the players had earned a level up to level 14 so i left and when i come back i notice that frank had done nothing so i ask him why and he DEAD ASS SAYS "i forgot how to level up" now keep in mind that up to this point he had played this game for about 21 months and we had leveled up at least over 30 times, when the rest of the party hears this we laugh, all except for frank who just responds with "fuck you guys".

for the start of 2019 my players and i setup a poll where they would vote on who their favorite player characters where that they have ever created and it was all anonymous and online, when no one voted for frank's characters he got mad and said that his characters were great and blamed me for apparently telling them to not vote for his characters.

it is at this point he tells me to come outside,(which when paired with is anger problem was slightly worrying) i come out and my little brother came with him as he was over at his house, frank starts yelling in the street at me saying "fuck you Giraffe\_Man what do you mean i don't do anything" i tell him that " you only roll for attacks and damage, that's it, you don't roleplay, you don't make characters, you don't interact with the other players who are your own dam friends who have gathered at your house for the sole purpose of playing D&amp;D with you, but you only play on your switch and ignore them." to make a long story short we went in a conversational circle for about 15 minutes about \^\^\^ and him trying to say he had good characters with one word personalities such as kinky, bard,or goblin. he ended up storming off and banning me from his house (which was fine i didn't care that much) but not my brother, although he would be leaving frank's house shortly

frank had later said to my brother "fuck Giraffe\_Man and his poor ass" (my parents where going through a rough couple of years financially and my brother wears his heart on his sleeve so this hurt him as he took it as an insult to his family and he hasn't talked to frank since).