    I received a text from my boss at about midnight that a coworker of mine won’t be coming into her shift because her aunt passed away. I’m a lifeguard and this specific coworker relieves me when my shift is over. At the end of my boss’ text to me it said “can you help her in her time of need”. My boss is known for undermining most of the lifeguards and kind of putting us down. 
    AITA because I don’t want to take this shift because I feel like my boss is guilting me into taking the shift. I feel like if I say no that I’ll be looked at as a lesser person. Obviously I’m sympathetic towards my coworker in her time of morning, but I have to get up early to go to school, then go straight to work after and I really don’t want to have to stay at work until 9 because it’s been a long tiring day?