Right off the title it sounds like I’m an asshole lol. But hear me out, also this is my first post and on mobile so hope nothing formats weird 

Anyways, I’m a 20 year old male going to college in a big college town. I’ve been in the same apartment complex for a year or year and a half. It’s a 2 bedroom townhouse style because my little brother lives with our mom like 3ish hours away and sometimes likes to come visit. 

Like most college towns, there’s a pretty high amount of low income people in the area, my area included. As I’ve lived here, one of my neighbors, a single mom with 2 kids maybe 8 and 6 (I’m really bad at figuring out ages) have become pretty good friends. I walk to the local grocery store a lot and if the kids ever see me they ask if they can come, of course I say yes and they come and we talk about whatever is going on in their lives sometimes it’s pretty sad hearing about, I usually buy them a snack or treat or whatever, and they and their mom are really appreciative, usually once or twice a month they come with me. They’re super sweet kids and the mom is great, they got me a pack of cookies and a homemade card they made in school for Christmas and she always asks me over to dinner 

Now my mom is a single mother and I come from a pretty low income family myself. Now I have a great internship and a really nice job lined up and am making enough to be self sufficient. I’m curious if I would be an asshole or if it would be weird asking if her kids want to come over sometimes so she can have some time to herself. The older kid talks about not being able to play video games because they can’t afford to get all the stuff, and I have the things he wants to play and all that. I don’t want to act like “oh I’m better than you” and all that or be creepy asking them to come over. I just want to lend a helping hand because I know what that mom is going through