I love my gaming group. We get rowdy, make inappropriate jokes and have fun. My issue is that when we go out to the bars in our small town, one of the  guys, lets call him Josh, gets really weird around girls.Now Josh is in decent shape and smart but when he opens his mouth to talk to women they get this look on their face like they are about to vomit. This has happened 6+ times. In his defense one of our other friends told  me a story about how the first girl he took home made fun of his micro-penis and he hasn't been with one since.

Let's call the next one Emily. She's a bigger girl, whose Bi.Whatever.Tons of fun. When she talks to new people it goes "HiMyNameIsEmily.I'm bi. I like boys and girls. I have a bf hes cool with it can I get your number," all in one breath. In her defense shes better than Josh. 

So  Josh, Emily and I are at the bar. We just getting drunk keeping ourselves until the third bar and I run into this Hottie I have been talking to for a bit. I go over to say Hi how are ya, shes laughing everything's kosher. Emily and Josh slide over. Josh says "You know this guy he's fucking asshole, total a piece of shit." 

Hotties like "uhh what?!!"

Me- "This is Josh hes my friend hes just joking."

Emily-"Hi my name is Emily.I'm bi.That means I like boys and girls. I have a bf hes cool with it.Do you want to play pool with us?" Hottie-"Sure that sounds fun." Emily -"We should hang out more whats your number..Did you hear me, whats your number."

She gives her number like okay lets get this over with. And its almost okay until Josh starts making jokes about raping dead babies that fall flat. He doesn't know what to do, so he doubles down. Doesn't work. So I just lean over and  I'm whisper "dude chill just try to be normal," so only he can hear. And he shouts "Fuckman, I'm just being the scumbag so you look better by comparison and  can fuck this girl, you'll see, it will work." She and her friends hear, total cringefest. She turns around and just completely ignores us, to talk to random dudes that swaggered up, like sharks that smell blood. Then Emily says to me "Well, you really mess that up, I'll talk to her tomorrow see if she wants to hang out with us." At this point I  am in awe. If I didn't know these people I'd say they were fucking with me.

I go to  the bathroom Emily and Josh pull an Irish exit. Hottie instantly walks away from sharkies back over to me says I don't know how I am getting home, I have to move my car do you want to come with? Sure love too. She backs to happy and giddy. We get to her car and  shes says "I texted my friend to come pick me up. (Cucked.) but I had  fun." No worries

Now  it's not the first time that Josh and Emily have made me feel awkward around women. So reddit AITA for not wanting to go out in public with my gamer friends and suggest we keep our relationship at the gaming table?

2 many words. Lesser cringe stuff cut.