Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : My wife and I have a son who was born a few months ago. Lately she has been unhappy with me, saying she feels like a "single mom" and that I'm just a "live-in child support paycheck". This hurts because I honestly think I am doing as much as I can.

She's a stay at home mom. I work 10-12 hour days, 5 days a week at a factory. I stand on my feet all day doing the same monotonous thing over and over apart from a 30 minute lunch break. I wake up at 3pm, get to work by 4 and then I'm home between 2-4am depending on the workload. I make good money doing this so even though it sucks, I keep it going. Once I get home I like to watch TV until about 7 and then I go to sleep, but in that time I feed the baby when he wakes up (he still isn't sleeping through the night, he gets up every couple hours to be fed and changed and goes right back to sleep). 

She is upset because I don't want to wake up early to watch him so she can get a couple hour nap in. She isn't lazy by any means, don't get me wrong, but I feel like her responsibilities are way easier than mine. The baby is usually up by 6-7 so she takes him out of our room (he doesn't have a nursery) in order to let me sleep better without interruption, which I really appreciate. She spends the day with him, he fights sleep but will usually nap for an hour or two at a time. I tell her she should sleep during these periods but SHE CHOOSES most of his nap times to get things done around the house or fuck around on the internet or watch a show. Even though she knows once he is up, he's up and wants constant entertainment and doesn't wanna be put down for longer than 20 mins at a time. 6:30-7pm is bath time, she feeds him and then he is down for the night by 9-10pm. She complains that she is exhausted because he wakes up every 1-2 hours but by my calculations, even with that, she gets a good 6-8 hours of sleep a night. Yet she still wants me to wake up some days and watch him so she can nap for a couple hours, because she is "worn out". 

So, am I an asshole for telling her no? Because she has the easier job out of both of us? 