Is EVERYBODY wrong in the post ? POST : I'll give a bit of a backstory (can skip) I currently go to a non mainstream school, where people like my self have either been bullied or expelled from their old schools, etc. our school aims to give them another chance and help them get on track. In my case, I was bullied. So I can understand how it feels to be attacked for things out of my control. Which is one of the reasons I feel so bad about this and decided to post. 

I walked out of my classroom to get a drink, if anything it was more of an excuse to get out of history. I noticed my friend ( Tyson ) sitting on a couch outside, next to who I will refer to as Amy, Amy from what I have observed was often unreasonably rude to everyone around her, but one thing I noticed awhile back was that she had cuts on her wrists. Which is why I usually wouldn't react to her rude remarks towards me. 

Okay, backstory done.

Me to Tyson: hey what are you doing out here?

Amy butts in: what are you doing out here, fucking go back inside

I was taken aback by her rude and angry  remark, and got irritated and snapped back

Me: oh fuck off

Amy: you fuck off

Me: why are you so rude?

Amy: why are you still alive?

( Stupid response I know, but it was enough to push me over the edge )

Me: says the one with cut wrists

She never responded and I walked on to get my drink, I past her on the way back and she looked extremely upset. I know that what both of us said wasn't right, but was I an asshole for responding? Surely if you are going to to constantly insult people you have to expect someone to snap back.

After this I sat back in my seat and reflected on what I said, and have been stewing in it ever since. Am I the asshole?