Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Something me and my boyfriend established a long long time ago was that we would be overly open with each other and as such, both have access to each other's Facebook's, Instagram's, Discord's ect. 

Sometimes when I'm bored I'll peek in on what he's been doing and talking about (I've told him about this and he wasn't upset by it, also should note it's not any sort of jealousy or trust issue thing, it's pure boredom and curiosity). Sometimes I come across conversions that upset me one way or another, and bring them up with him, which we talk about and resolve

I'm wondering if this is a toxic thing to be doing?? I'm always worried that I'm a toxic person as I can get very easily angered and have a tendency to lash out or snap at people. I don't want to be an asshole or abusive in anyway, so I just need opinions. Thanks