Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : Just found out that my ex (M,23) has been cheating on me (F,19) for the past year. Mostly he has been hooking up with these girls via tinder. I found all this out because he left his laptop and being that I had many suspicions, I went through his messages and real very vulgar texts. It was several several girls and it would be within the same day we would be together. Anyways, he has left a lot of items at my house like electronics and clothing. I’ve thought about a million things to do to get revenge but am I the asshole for wanting revenge? (Also asking for revenge tips and such). 