Back into 2006 when Xbox 360 was brand new I bought one for my nephews.  Months later both of them stopped going to school , one high school and one college devoting 90% of their lives to it and ignoring all responsibilities, household chores , hygiene, working my sister fed up warned them about smashing it to pieces several times , and they ignored her so she cut up the power supply cables and smashed the controllers , but they managed to hide console from her so she wouldn't smash it to ground.  About that time they started acting real disrespectful to me, and I warned them I would be taking xbox away if they kept being that way.  They told me to fuck off.  Being I spent over $500 in consoles , tax and carrying it over in flight to get it to them day one on release date I guy I knew that was closing down a restaurant had some premium furniture worth like $2k he was ordered to destroy because owners did-int pay up , I offered him a  new xbox for trade and he accepted and I got the deal of the century.   My nephews have hated me ever since.  I don't think I was being an Indian giver , they let themselves go , and they had multiple warnings and they were school dropouts because of it.
Am I The Asshole?.
All these years I thought I was on the right.  Also these kids grew without a dad and I filled out that role.  Discipline, taking them out to movies , toys , pay for their school when mom was broke.  