Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : In my company we have an inofficial teamleader who really, really has anger problems. She did go to a therapists about that multiple times in her life. While we were used to her being unfair and bitchy, about 1,5years ago she started to just make up lies and literally SCREAM us down over them... while they were straight up never true in the first place..

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About half a year into this, we got a new coworker. She was a good friend of the owner and was originally only intended to jump in for an oversized project, but now she decided to stay. This new coworker asked us about if the teamleader would always go mad like that. We had a few discussions over that..

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Now about 3 months have passed already, noone really knew what to do. Then i had a project with said teamleader. She would literally ask me to things that were physically IMPOSSIBLE and when i said "i'm sorry,i'm confused. i can either do this, or that-but both won't work.." she would curse at me all the time, screaming at me to "just freaking do it" and run off without ever giving me an answer as to what the hell she meant. e.g.: She wanted me to insert a Picture onto a page, without cutting or deforming it, but wanted it to be heights x and width z - but these just didn't match the proportions of the picture. 

Now: New coworker and eldest designer (remember!!: she's the teamleaders bestie) and settled on ED talking to her about it since she was her friend. But she always kept pushing the talk farer and farer away, the project i did wasn't going anywhere, but i was being screamed at for not bending time and space multiple times a day.. At one point even so i again had been told ED would talk to the teamleader next week, i just couldn't take it any longer and kind of exploded and sent Screenshots of a) when i used her heights without cutting or stretching so width didn match, and b) the other way around. i signed the short email off with "and if we could be discussing things like these in a normal tone of voice, i would be really glad about that. sincerely .." i know i was supposed to hold myself down but i kind of snapped and sent that mail faster than i could realise what. i. had. just. done. ....

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Now long story a bit shorter: Coworkers to this day are pissed at me cause ED was supposed to talk to her and i had NO RIGHT to say something like that. i was yelled at and called "naughty" (WHAT THE FUCK?!?!?!!) by ED at first. and since then, everyone is kind of shutting me out. i have never been good with people, but i really feel shitty and dude i know i should have been silent but were you taking all of this?! and yes okay sorry i tried to defend myself and yes the "and if we could be discussing things like these in a normal tone of voice, i would be really glad about that. sincerely .." was pretty f\*cking obvious but what the heck was i supposed to do about the project failing?!...