Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : This is my first post, I’m on mobile, sorry if the formatting is bad. I’m a college student about to turn nineteen, and my best friend is also a college student — however, he goes to a different university that’s literally five hours away. We dated when we were 14-15, and then decided we would be better off as friends. He’s honestly my best friend, and even when we were dating, it was just like us being friends.

Anyways, I was texting him recently to catch up, and he told me he had a girlfriend. I was genuinely excited for him, asked him to tell me about her, etc. Then, I volunteered to not visit him, because like, from an outsider perspective, that would seem weird, and I wanted to respect that boundary, you know what I mean? But then my best friend told me that we couldn’t even spend time together when we’re both in our hometown, because that would make his girlfriend uncomfortable. I said “ok” and that was it, we haven’t talked since, even though I have since reached out to ask how he’s doing. 

AITA for being upset he’s willing to not be my friend anymore? Like, on one hand I understand because I am also his ex girlfriend — but also, we dated four/five years ago, before I could even drive, and I don’t even know his girlfriend, and she doesn’t know me. Like I know there’s nothing I can do about this situation, but am AITA for being upset? 