Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : Went to play volleyball with some college friends. I didn’t know one of them, and the entire game he’s playing as if he’s the only one on the team, even though it’s 6 on 6. He’s chasing the ball no matter where it goes, even if he’s nowhere near it. Rushing in front of everyone to hit the ball first, not watching where he’s going, etc. 

Eventually, the lack of fun is visibly obvious from my team. Teammates are just moving out of the way now so he doesn’t run them over. I’m annoyed at the guys lack of consideration and call him out, trying to do it nicely saying, “Stick to your lane, man”. 

His friend on the other team heard this, and starts calling me out for being an asshole. I defend my position, but no one else on my team is vouching for me. I’m just saying, it’s not fun for the rest of us when we’re too worried about getting run into cause you’re not sticking to your position, even when other people call the ball, you still try to go for it.