Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : I hate being tested, a trait developed because of my mother, and shared by my siblings. Being tested on my character cuts directly into me and hurts a lot, usually leaving me angry and bitter.

Last week, my girlfriend's best friend decided I needed to be tested. The plan was for my girlfriend to avoid me for two days, under the guise of "being busy with homework". At first, I took things at face value and accepted them, having no bitter feelings or problems with the situation. However, my girlfriend's friend begin to goad me a little bit, dropping hints and implying I did something wrong. This is where I realized I was being tested. However, I didn't go confront my girlfriend on it, I just let things happen. I acted closed off and avoided my girlfriend. When she questioned me on it, I told her that I was upset about being tested, and I had told her about that in the past. She was very apologetic and I knew she genuinely felt bad.

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A couple days after the fact, my girlfriend and I were in my dorm room at 11:30 pm, as she was helping me with homework. She gets a call from the same friend, who asks us to come to her room. When we get there, she asks us to stay there, because she needed to study for her test, but she really wanted to make out with her boyfriend, who was also in the room.

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I was annoyed with this childish behavior, and suggested perhaps it was her turn to be tested, to see how she could do away from her boyfriend. She got very insulted by this and insisted I leave. AITA?