Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : Alright, I confess that I have no idea when it comes to romantic relationships. It's just that so far I have always been comfortable with doing my thing, so it came as a surprise when someone asked me out.

At least, I think someone is asking me out. She asked me if I was free sometime soon, because she was bored and wanted to hang out. I know her fairly well, but besides the casual talking when we pass by each other we were never that close. Maybe I am reading a wrong signal here.

I talked to my friend about it and he said I should just say no if I didn't like her instead of leading her on. But at the same time its not as if I dislike her, I just never held any romantic thoughts about her, or anyone so far as of now. My plan right now is to first go to the date, then tell her if I see it working out or not, although right now I'm not sure if I should pursue a romantic relationship with her. I see myself probably saying no after the date, although I really don't know what will happen. Do you guys think I am being too selfish?