Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : I have a friend who is a 16 year old girl who goes to church with me. One day she excitingly texted me about how she bought a "really cute sundress" with sunflowers on it. 

Flash forward to this past Sunday, when she wore that dress. It was a very flattering dress on her, but it wasn't overly sexual. It covered up everything that needed to be covered up and it went down to her knees. She told me that her dad made some really rude remarks about how short the dress was before they went to church. Saying that it showed too much up top and down low.

After church she texted me extremely upset because apparently someone complained to her parents that her dress was too short. Her father went as far to say that some of the comments he heard made him feel “embarrassed." She said that basically the entire way home, they scolded her for how short her dress was.

I told her it was bullshit. That she could wear whatever she wanted to. That she shouldn’t be shamed for what she wore and that her parents were wrong for getting embarrassed about those "comments" and that whoever complained to them was a "f\*cking idiot" so on and so forth. I even went as far as calling her parents inappropriate names. I used a lot of words I really should not have said, but these comments really upset me. I have a sister and know that if someone ever commented negatively on her outfit, it would really trouble her.

Last night, I got a text from said friend reading "well this is discouraging” and then a long text basically saying "She is 16 and can not wear whatever she feels like if it is revealing. Modesty and purity are extremely important to us and and I am extremely disappointed in this whole conversation." Her mother took her phone, read our messages, and texted me on her phone.

I was taken back, and didn't want to cause anymore drama so I just told her that I was sorry and was trying to stand up for her.

She responded with another long text saying how she wants to protect her from "pervs and anyone else that would want to take advantage of someone so pretty and awesome" and then said that her and I would speak more later.

I've been struggling with this all day because I've had friends tell me IWTA because I overstepped my bounds by telling her that she could wear whatever she wanted and that people were idiotic to complain about it. I know I used language I shouldn't but I was just infuriated at the whole situation.