Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : I have a close friend who I've known for two and a half years now. Her (21F) and I (20M) worked together for a while, but recently both changed jobs. We still work across the street from each other and live in neighbouring towns, so we see each other often.

She's engaged to a man (23M) from Texas (we're from Canada). He came up to visit her for Christmas, and went home last night (Dec 25th). She messaged me today telling me that she's scared for him because he got arrested for bringing marijuana (edibles) on the plane with him into Texas.

I honestly had no words. I threw some bullshit "he has no priors, there will be a trial, it could work out just stay positive!" crap at her over messenger, but while texting her I was just rolling my eyes.

I love her fiance. He's a bit of an oddball, but he loves her and they're an amazing couple. I know these thoughts aren't influenced by any personal feelings against him, but I... I just .. how can somebody be so fucking stupid??? Weed is legal in Canada, but possession is still prison time in Texas!! How the hell did he think he could sneak an illegal drug past American airport security???

I feel awful for thinking about how stupid he is over being concerned for him, which makes me feel like AITA. But I think some of it might be because of how much his dumb choice is hurting my friend, because I'm very protective of her, so then I feel like I'm NTA.

I'm really torn about this, and I'm especially upset because now I'm having to read my friend's messages about how "he'll never survive prison" and how "our future together is ruined" from my friend, and having to try and be sympathetic, when all I want to do is tell her that he's a goddamn moron and if he's thrown behind bars then it's nobody's fault but his own (not to mention HERS for letting him bring her weed on a goddamn airplane!!)

So, Reddit, AITA?