I was asked to be a bridesmaid about 6 months ago by my work bestie.  I've known her about a year and we haven't hung out much outside of work.  Original date was fine but a new date was announced today due to her "unexpected" pregnancy. She had mentioned the date before and I told her that was my birthday.  This is also an out of town wedding that will require time off from work and travel expenses. I really don't want to do it anymore and tbh I'm pissed she picked to pick that date after I already let her know recently that is my birthday.  