Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : So last weekend my boyfriend’s friend was apparently found dead in his car of a self inflicted gunshot wound. No one really knows what happened or why.  My boyfriend was at work when he found out, texted me that he was going home, wanted to be left alone, was going to shut his phone off and then turn it back on the next day.  About a week or so prior to this he himself had made a comment about being Tommen Baratheon done with everything. (For those who have never seen Game Of Thrones, Tommen takes his crown off and then walks out a window). I went to his house on my lunch the next day and he didn’t answer the door. His phone was still turned off. I went back to work but I was still worried about him, so I looked up his previous roommate who is currently deployed on Facebook and sent him a message asking if this was normal behavior.  When he said yeah, that my boyfriend had done this before, I just gave him a thumbs up and said ok thanks. Well.... The roommate called my boyfriend’s supervisor and the supervisor and another coworker drove over to his house. Apparently he hadn’t called in sick or filed for leave or anything and was completely drunk, beer bottles everywhere and house was a giant mess with clothes everywhere and trash on the floor. When I got there the supervisor was shaking his head and telling my boyfriend that he needed to clean up and then chastising him and asking “I’ll see you at work tomorrow, right?!” My boyfriend is pissed at me and blaming me because now he’s in trouble at work and has to go see his first shirt on Monday. I was just concerned about him and I don’t think I did anything wrong. I could have called the police instead I guess, but I honestly didn’t know the roommate was going to call the supervisor. 