So, this happened a couple years ago. 

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I began dating this guy. Things were magical at the beginning, but slowly things turned sour. Whenever he argued he'd threaten to kill himself if I left, told me I was a horrible partner, etc... There were about 5 instances where he physically harmed me but I stayed (not my best decision I will admit, but i've learned). Well he proposed to me after about 3 1/2 years and I said yes. He gives me a ring that he tells me is from the antique store (also tells me the price, $10). He also let me have a jacket of his (from our high school), a wig (we both cosplay, he got it on ebay for $20 if i'm right), and another sweater that was from some company his father used to work for (I think). Well after one night of him driving to me and my families home, drunk and banging on the door a bit to demand to see me (we had an argument because he cheated), I decided that I was done with this. I told him that we were done and I thought that was that. Well after a couple of weeks I start getting text messages from him. They're civil, just asking for the ring back and the wig. I had thrown the ring away before this and I had no intention of being near him ever again. I don't reply. A few more days pass, he texts me again. Still civil. He never gets out of line, just a little desperate  like "Please, I seriously need the ring." I end up blocking his number and forgetting about him. 

Honestly, I feel he shouldn't get it back. He hurt me and he's an asshole, and I don't think $30-$40 worth of stuff he got at secondhand stores and ebay isn't worth the emotional/physical harm he put me though. Am I the asshole for not giving any of the stuff back? 