So a bit of backstory, my friend and I have been best friends since Kindergarten. We’re freshmen in college now. Over 14 and a half years of being best friends. He moved away to a town half an hour away after 2nd grade, and went to Arizona for college before dropping out one semester in. Needless to say, we’re best friends and we’ve been through a lot. 

My birthday was today, February 18th. I turned 19. He didn’t text me or reach out to me at all today. He was asking me on Sunday if I was indeed going out with my girlfriend today, which I was. So he definitely remembered about it then, but didn’t reach out at all to me today. It’s 10:30, so there’s still some time but I think he might not. I’m pretty upset over it to be honest. I don’t expect anyone to remember my birthday, but even after viewing my snapchat story which made it clear that it was my birthday, he said nothing to me. Am I the asshole for being upset over this? 