We have a new baby and are flat broke. Private student loans are going into repayment. $1,100 per month minimum. A few months ago he quit his job (insurance benefits and everything - with a baby at home) to look for something more "fulfilling". And yes, I was pissed. But pissed doesn't fix the problem or pay bills. 

I am going back to work full time but he wants to use his degree and become a youth pastor again. Wonderful for him but he wants me to wait to find permanent work until he knows where that job is gonna be. 

Today I was offered a great teaching job with childcare benefits that would require us to move 45 minutes to a bigger city and about 5 miles from all my family (huge plus support-wise). His mom doesn't want me to take it because he wants a pastor job. 

AITA for telling him to suck it up and work somewhere else because we have a baby and bills and we need to make some money ASAP? If he finds a church job where I was offered a position that's wonderful! But it might not happen RIGHT NOW. 