Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Im going to get to the point here as i wanna hear an outside perspective. Sorry for skimpin on some details as i dont wanna be found out about

Im 17 and basically i dislike my parents because my mother cheated on my father when i was close to him. My father has lost tons of money because of cons i told him were cons or because he left a wad in public. My siblings arent the brightest one cant even do anything right like simple math and she thinks shes than i am. But at her age i was excelling at everything i dont think its dyscalcula or a similar disorder. My other sibling im okay with except they are overweight and i dont rag on her for being so until she calls me names. (This ones 13 the other is 9) My father thinks i should get a job to support my self because im old enough to? Im seen as lazy because i dont do anything at home at alllllll like ... at all. I have a decent gpa composed of As and Bs and prefer to chill before college where i gotta kms getting this 4.0. I got a summer job that was lax and paid well he complained it wasnt a real one and he didnt let me spend the money earned at all even tho i was gonna save half. So tell me reddit am i the asshole for not liking them?