Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Ok context: my ex wife and I are really close still because of our son. She is in alot of ways my best freind. 
Well recently the guy she was dating got out of jail (meth related charges) and the entire time he was in she kept saying that when he got out she was obliged to make sure he got on his feet blah blah blah but she didn't want to be with him again...yeah you see where this is going. 

I mean I'm not the only one who has told her that getting back to get her with him is a bad idea and she did it anyway. Now I feel stuck because she knows how everyone feels and he living with her and my son.

The bad thing is that I like the guy she was dating after the one went to jail. 

So am the asshole for trying to point out her mistake?