Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : I dated a girl all throughout college. It was great, we were totally in love. But we were too young to get married at 22, and so we had a painful break up and she ended up marrying the guy she dated right after me.

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Ten years later, their marriage is ending (no kids, mercifully), and she calls me the day she moves out of their house. For me, she's the one who got away, so I was totally happy to be her rebound. I'm still very much in love with her. But now it's been two months of serious dating and it feels like we might once again have a real thing. Obviously, I'm taking it very slow and trying not to put pressure on her. But I can't help the natural love and excitement I feel.

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I was in no way responsible for their break-up, at least that I'm aware of. We were barely even friends during the time they were together, mostly because it was too painful for me. But I'm not one to sabotage a 10-year marriage. The husband is by all accounts a stand-up guy. We might have even been friends in another life. Do I have a responsibility here to give them more space or can I let my love flag fly?

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Related question, marital ethics aside: How long is it going to be before I know whether our reconnection was a rebound for her or if it's the foundation for Part 2 of our relationship? I'm mid-30s, never been married, ready for that whole stage of life; but I feel like it may be years before she's back at that point. AITA for wanting to expedite this process?

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