Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Last night we had a party, some of my work friends, some of my fiancées work friends and my best buddy drove a few cousins and friends out here for the night. 

Last night was a blast. We had video games hooked up to 2 TVs in the living room, a table for card games, and drinking games in the kitchen. Everyone had a great time not an issue, not even much of a mess to clean up. 

Today everyone woke up happy not a issue. We all agree to head to Denny’s to get breakfast before we go to a small Star Wars convention being held in my town. This is where the real story starts. 

My cousin (26F) we will call her Betty, she thought it would be funny to try to pants her boyfriend (31M) in the parking lot of the Denny’s. I was instantly annoyed that I had to even tell my 26 year old cousin not to try to pull down her boyfriends pants in a public parking lot of a restaurant in front of windows where family’s are eating breakfast with their kids. I told her “stop acting like a Jackass! I work in the community and I visit this Denny’s often while working. These people know me so just act like an adult.” She was obviously pissed that I said something to her in front of all our friends. 

We finally get into the restaurant we’re sitting down ordering food. The waitress walks away and we’re all taking having a good time. There are 7 of us at the table. All feeling the pain from the night prior now they we all are over or close to 30. 

My cousin Betty randomly reaches over and pinches her boyfriends nipple. This wasn’t a cute pinch. She grabbed ahold like her index finger and thumb was a alligator feeding on a snack. Her man let out a screech. It was unexpected and uncalled for. Instantly I’m enraged. I already had to ask her to not act like that outside and now she’s abusing her own boyfriend. I instantly started to aggressively talk at her. 

Me “What the fuck is wrong with you! Why can’t you fucking stop! Your 26 and I have to tell you to not pants your 31 year old boyfriend in the parking lot and now you’re doing this stupid shit” 

Betty” Your in your community stop talking to me like this!” 

Me “Yes we are in my community these people know me I visit here all the time and I don’t care any more your acting like a fucking bitch to your own boyfriend! Your tried to embarrass him outside and now you caused him pain to the point he screamed. If you were a man and doing that shit to a woman I would have beaten the fuck out of you! Your being a fucking cunt for no reason!” 

At this point she storms out of the restaurant and doesn’t even eat her food. Everyone else stays and eats their food. We all pay the bill and leave. Betty goes up to my buddy and demands that they dive a hour and a half home right now and miss the convention they all originally came out for. My buddy not wanting to have any more conflict complied. We drive back to my house we all get out of the car and I can’t keep my silence anymore. I yelled.

Me “I can’t believe we’re all the way back here what a fucking waste of time and gas to come back here because my cousin wanted to abuse her boyfriend” 

Betty: “This is your neighborhood don’t yell”

Me: “This is my neighborhood! And I’m disgusted that my cousin treats her own boyfriend like that at 26 and doesn’t see a problem with her fucking actions! Now get your shit out of my fucking house and leave!” 

I walk in with Betty and my fiancée. I go upstairs to use the bathroom while Betty gets her things from the spare bedroom. I hear my front door slam closed and I go back outside. My buddy already left. No one even said good bye. 

So Reddit, AITA for getting mad at my cousin?


TL;DR my cousin was abusing her bf and causing a scene so I said shit to her