Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : I’m in HS and take all honors and an AP class. My friend “A” that I’ve known for about three years now also takes the same class. I have an A and he has a C in the AP class. Last night he came to me for notes and said “Cmon man it’ll be the first and last time”. I’m all for helping my friends but I don’t like giving out notes in fear of my teacher catching on. Our teacher always reads the notes and sometimes asks us about them. The notes about the chapter were due yesterday.After a little back n forth I just tell him No. 
Today, I saw him in the morning and said hi. He just walked past me. I asked my other friend “J” , who has the same hour as him, what’s wrong with him. 

“Oh he’s upset he got put back down to a D in the class”.

I feel a little guilty but just go on to my first hour and forget about it. Later at second hour, I get a text from him.
“I got a D now in history”

I text back, “Damn, that sucks”

“Why didn’t you just let me get the notes?”

“I’m sorry but I know how tough the teacher is about copying”

“Still i could’ve just worded it differently, it’s YOUR fault I went down. Why can’t you be like “J” SHE helps me. Now my parents are pissed”

I don’t text him back. 

I am the asshole for not “helping” him?