Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Me and my fiancee are just barely scraping by, she cleans houses and I do landscaping part time, we're barely scraping by but we're making it. So I offer her a 20 out of my wallet, she refuses to take it. I keep a 20 (not the 20 I tried to give her) for myself to buy some pot and she's pissed at me. She doesn't smoke or drink none of it. I just smoke so no drinking for me(it doesn't sit well with my meds) am I the asshole because I'm keeping a 20 for pot? I mean we're broke either way so I'd rather be stoned and broke than sober and broke. I buy weed once every two weeks if I'm lucky. She's constantly on my case about pot. If we get into a fight guess what's being brought up. My pot and how I'm basically worthless/ not making enough money/need a real job. I just figured I'd ask the people of reddit if I'm the asshole.