Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : As of today, my roommate's girlfriend has been staying at our place for two weeks.  That's two weeks straight - with no trips home to her place.  She eats here, sleeps here, showers here, does her laundry here, works remotely on her laptop here, and leaves her dog here 24/7.  I've always operated under the idea that anything more than a few days visit should be run by your roommate.  Like if I was going to have anyone - girlfriend or not - stay for more than a few days, I would run it by him first.  But he hasn't said shit to me, and I'm thinking he thinks he doesn't have to because I haven't spoken up about it (yet).  

I'm getting kind of tired of her being here.  We all get along okay, but she's loud, and her dog barks, and she's not pitching in for bills, much less rent, despite living here the past two weeks.  

I was planning to talk to my roommate about it, but when I mentioned this to a couple people at work, they seemed surprised that I'd be upset about it.  They acted like this was just normal girlfriend/boyfriend behavior, and that I was being unreasonable.  So am I being the asshole?  Cause I think this is bordering on flat out rude, if not asshole behavior myself.