Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : So with the new year incoming I wanted to organise a lil’ meeting to my apartment, with 3/4 friends, we would just leave our stuff in the apartment, maybe drink a few beers and then go out in the city and come back to sleep (my friends live not in the same city), 

so I asked to my roommate what planes did she have for the new year, to which she replied: why are you asking? 

I then explained the whole story and she said that she would have been out town and to be careful because she wouldn’t allow anyone to sleep in her bed, touch her stuff, and if I or my friends would break something or not clean the apartment I would have been directly responsabile, and if someone touched or ruined her book collection we “could have troubles”

I the. Replied that I understand her doubts but we would just practically spend most time outside and not to overreact

She then got a bit pissed and then said that we had nothing more to talk about 