Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : So this actually happened today. Last week I( m21) told my gf (22) I was gonna spend the friday with my bois, and that we were going to have a lan party. She really doesn't like me gaming or having a lan party, but I guess that is because she doesn't like gaming overall. So everything was fine and all that, the lan party was fun as always, but today when I came back home to my gf, she was upset because she had  been alone the whole day (I came home at 5pm), and she was going to leave to visit her parents. She was clearly upset at me for not coming home earlier but am I in the wrong here? Am I not allowed to hangout with my friends just because she had nothing to do at home? I mean, she also has friends and I've never been upset at her for hanging out with her friends. This has also happened before. 