Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : So, for most of my adolescence, I've been really fat, and kind of a creep. I had no idea how to express myself or talk to girls or anything, and they sure as hell wouldn't approach me. Since I turned 18 though, I've really turned my life around. I've lost 20 pounds, and learned to take care of myself and dress nice. The added confidence has made me a lot more flirtatious and successful with girls, and I've kinda taken advantage of that to trade nudes a lot. On one hand, I realize it's totally normal to be sexually active. On the other, though, a lot of them end up crushing on me and it makes me feel bad knowing I only feel for them on a physical level. I worry about this a lot, and I'm really hoping you all can help me figure out where to go from here. (for numbers, I'd say I'm sending with maybe 15 girls currently, and flirt back and forth with upwards of 50.)