Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : My birthday occurred a few months ago and my girlfriend planned a birthday surprise for me. She led me up the candle lined stairway to a room she filled with balloons and had romantic music playing and a bed setup with a TV with a slide show of all of our pictures. In Addition she had a USB with a bunch of movies she thought I would like and she bought me some clothes to go along with it. Unfortunately i was really sick that day so i couldn't enjoy it much which bummed her out but that's not really why I was unsatisfied. 

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Now throughout our 6 year relationship I have never been the mushy feely type of person and I am not that affectionate of a person and i understand that and so does she. I know I am already sounding like the asshole and will accept any judgement passed down but AITA for feeling like this gift was kinda for her as much as it was for me? She is the one who enjoys all the romantic stuff and I am more than happy to do that sort of thing for her on anniversaries and other occasions but on my birthday I kinda want to do things i enjoy.(i.e video games, hiking, exploring, etc) It just felt like the doesn't know exactly what sort of things I am into and planned something she would like such as a romantic evening. The year before this she took me to a fancy restaurant where we had to get all dressed up which i also don't really like doing either. I appreciate the effort but AITA for expecting something more catered to me?