Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : Using a throwaway of course. I'll try to retell the story as accurately as possible and let me know if you think that there's a part I'm leaving out and I'll let you know.

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So it kind of started because we all played a game together. I was playing with someone, we'll call Joe, who I've been friends with for a long time. After playing this game for a while, I asked if he wanted to play another game something like League of Legends or so. He accepts so of course I start getting on but my discord starts getting buggy. That's pretty much the only platform I kind of use to communicate with my friends because snapchat or facebook. Anyway, I was trying to make discord work again while my League loaded up and when my League loaded up, I realized that he was a full queue with another group. That's fine and all but I was pretty much upset about this since I asked him first to play with me. I mean, it's common courteousy right? Or am I expecting too much? I asked another member of the group, since I know them, if it was full and they told me it was full. I didn't care much really because I mean, if he wanted to have fun then fine by me I guess. I didn't really mind being left out because I didn't want to ruin his fun. I was still sitting in the League cilent when they went into queue and played a game. My other friend, Bob let's call him, told me to play some other game with them so yeah, I got off League cause I wasn't planning to play anyway. Fast forward a few hours and then Bob told me to get on League so we could play. Why not, right? So I get on. When I get on, I get an instant invitation from the other group of friends. I was confused but I guess they were out of the game. However, I was curious why they weren't a penta queue anymore and I was confused who was in the party so I went to check their match history. Turns out that the previous games they played was a quadra queue. There was room for me but no one told me. They had me on discord and snapchat so I mean, I would have expected them to tell me something. Something to note is that during this time, they didn't send a single message to me so of course, I'm upset. They should have let me know that they had space. They should have let me know that especially since I asked Joe first to play but he decided to play with another group of friends without bothering to tell me. All this time, I thought it was full which is why I didn't ask so of course I'm upset. I message him telling him that I don't want to make him feel bad but that simply wasn't cool to do. I was expecting some sort of sorry or some sort of "it's my mistake" but what Joe told me was that he didn't think he was wrong because he assumed that since I went offline on Discord, he assumed I wasn't playing. What I'm stuck at is why didn't he let me know he was going to play with them or even just message me through the league cilent? It was a really harsh debate and it was tough but we made up later along the day. While it's over, there's still a longing for me to know like, was I wrong for getting mad because I was expecting him to wait for me? I didn't want to bottle up my feelings this time. The debate itself was pretty much both of us getting very upset at each other and we both said our fair share of terrible things so yeah I'll admit I was an ahole for that. I try to be nice most of the time but sometimes, it's just really hard to keep everything bottled in which is why I confronted him about it.

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I've been told that no one is an ahole because he was just enjoying himself and in the heat of the moment, of course you're just gonna play some games together. Sometimes you forget what people asked because there's a lot of people in the call and everyone is getting "hyped up." I know for a fact that what he did was not intentional and nothing personal. He's not a bad person and he's very understanding but I guess in the heat of the moment, I basically got extremely upset. I really like him as a person and I really enjoy his company. We been friends for like several several years so it's not like he's a stranger. But just because he forgot, according to the person, doesn't mean that they were wrong. They were just enjoying themselves.

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Others have said that we were both the aholes since it kind of escalated to the point that it was during a call I had. Basically, other people were there and we were sitting there arguing at each other. And when I say that it was heated, I kind of mean yeah it was prettyyyy heated.

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I've been told it's his fault cause he should have at least let me know and not ditch me like how he did.

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And some say it's my fault cause I was trying to force him to do something. I know that I shouldn't force people to do things. I don't like forcing people to change the way they are for me or play games with me. It only hurt because they didn't let me know anything about what was going on. If I knew he wanted to play with them, that would be fine cause why not but since I didn't obtain anything, I get really angry. I think this is one of the few times I've been actually very angry which scares me. I'm not a type of person to do that and I'm ashamed of getting mad but I want to know if I was the ahole for getting extremely mad or not.

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The majority of the time, I would say 99%, we're a very relaxing group to be around so there's not a lot of arguments. I think I broke the silence because I felt like I was lied to but I'm not sure. Maybe I'm overreacting which I was told that I was. I didn't want to start a problem but since it's here, I want to hear your thoughts and maybe get a better understanding as a whole about the situation instead of my own bias thought about it. Thanks