Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : I'm 31 (F), and in the past I've had several very serious relationships, a few of them involved people on the spectrum with Aspergers.

To make several very long stories short, none of these relationships worked out. In the beginning they felt like a perfect fitting puzzle piece, only to have it become emotionally parasitic or completely disconnected after a few months to a year. Friendships with people with Aspergers or on the spectrum fell apart as well. There was constantly a lack of communication and understanding of my emotions towards a situation and why I felt a certain way (upset, sad, etc) because of something they did (verbally abusing me, taking advantage, ignoring me or snapping at me, refusing to talk about problems, etc).

As an emotionally vulnerable/sensitive person who needs those lines of communication open and understood to be happy in any kind of relationship (romantic or not), AITA for now refusing to date anyone (and hesitant to even befriend) someone on the spectrum? I realize these handful of people don't act for those on the spectrum as a whole, but I'd like to avoid any future pain or repeats of those awful experiences considering main characteristics of it are things I cannot stand or want to be subjected to.