Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : Background: One of the extracurriculars I'm in has a party at the end of the year where the underclassmen prepare a theme and plan everything for the seniors, since they're leaving. However, the theme is very top-secret hush hush. As an underclassman, I know it but I'm not supposed to tell anyone.

Which brings us to today, when one of the seniors kept asking me what it was in front of everyone. I continually told her no, but since the classroom was small it's not like I could just walk away from it. Eventually I decide I've had enough and I go up to her and tell her I'll whisper it in her ear.

(At this point I find it relevant to mention that I'm also a girl, since I don't think this would be appropriate for a guy to do to a girl or vice versa since it's a bit of a personal space thing IG??)


Instead, I blow lightly in her ear. She shrieks and freaks TF out, which is normal, but then she yelled that I spit in her ear and that it's wet. However, I'm pretty damn sure I didn't spit, and that it was just the cold that made her think that.

Either way, a bunch of kids in my class were like "ew, why would you spit in her ear" even though I didn't.

I feel bad that I might've spit. Even though I don't think I did I at least acknowledge that possibility, but I don't think she needed to shriek and make such a big deal out of it like I harassed her or something, especially when she was the one harassing me about the theme in the first place.

So, AITA for possibly spitting in her ear?

Or is she possibly TA for harassing me and making a big deal out of the ear blowing thing?