I don't want to be labeled as a control freak. My girlfriend has confronted me a few times now and asked how I would feel if she began stripping at a nice club. She has a close friend that strips and says that if she were to work at the same club she would only have to be shirtless and there is a no touch policy.

She argued the point that mens and women's nipples are the same thing and, while women's are more sexualized, they're just nipples and it's easy money. I expressed that I would still be pretty upset with the fact that she's getting topless for other mens' pleasure when we're in a relationship. 

So my question is: Am I selfish for saying no? I realize that it's an opportunity for her to make a significantly larger amount of money than she's making right now. And I realize she is an adult and I don't control her. She says she would never cheat and I trust that but the question I ask myself is what borderline stuff would she do if she were to be offered more money? How far would she go? 

Would you be comfortable with your girlfriend being a stripper?
