Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : tl;dr - I rent a room at in apartment, but due to a new job on the other side of town I essentially am now living at my SO's place 24/7. My roommate still wants me to chip in on toilet paper and other supplies that I won't use, and pay a cleaning lady to come in to clean common areas that I have not used in months.

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My apartment is a 3 bedroom. I rent one bedroom for 1/3rd of the overall rent/utilities. A couple rents the master bedroom and together they pay 1/3rd of the overall rent/utilities.

The third bedroom is rented by 1 person. It has changed renters multiple times since the lease started in May, but now there is a guy renting it. He pays the final 1/3rd of the rent.

Basically for a few months now I've been living with my SO due to my new job. Commuting from my apartment would take 1.5-2h in each direction. I have a 9h workday. Staying with my SO saves me a significant amount of time and improves my quality of life drastically.

My lease is up at the end of April, so I've left my furniture and some personal items at my apartment. I continue to pay my portion of the rent and utilities.

I only stop by the apartment occasionally to pick up more of my personal items from my room. In the time that I have been away, my female roommate has begun moving my items from the kitchen cupboards into my bedroom. This bothers me because she's doing it without asking me or even telling me she's moving my stuff. I don't need the space so they are free to use it, I just would prefer that they doing move my things without asking me. But that's beside the point.

She has now messaged me saying, "I chose to live with roommates in order to cut down on costs. Even if people are away or on vacation, they need to pay their share of the costs." She wants me to chip in on toilet paper and she wants me to chip in on having a cleaning service come to clean the living room, kitchen and bathroom.

I refuse. I'm not using any toilet paper or other household supplies, so there's no reason to contribute to the cost. If I were using those supplies, then yes I would contribute, but she isn't really saving any money in either instance, because I'm going to use whatever portion I pay for.

As for a cleaning service, it is not my fault they have made a huge mess of the apartment. Whenever I'm around, I clean up after myself. When I was staying there I cleaned up after my messy roommates countless times. I'm not making a mess there, therefore I'm not going to pay for it.

So tell me... Who is the asshole?