Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : My girl and I have been together for 10 years. I'm 32 and she's 28. We have two children together,  ages 3 and 1. I realize it's hard to get a moment's peace let alone some action, but I miss it so. I bring it up from time to time and that only gets me "pity sex". The come on make it quick. I honestly liked it at first, but now it's just sad. In all honesty I'd rather just masterbate as it's the same amount of gratification. When I try and open up about it she gets defensive and the "ok let's get this over with" vibe. I know she loves me, she always wants to sit on my lap, give me kisses, snuggle, long hugs,  ect. Ect. I love that, but I want more to our physical relationship. 

So now when I crave it I just keep it inside. For days at a time, I'm not angry, or passive, just... silent. She believes I'm in deep thought. Though I know of I bring it up, it'll just be more of the same reaction. 

TL;DR I hide the fact I'm disappointed in the lack of sex with my gf of 10 years, it's hard to make time, but dammit I want the time! If brought up she gives in with the "just take it" attitude. AITA for just being silent eventhough she knows something is wrong?