First of all, I will admit we’ve used the pull out method 3 times which isn’t the safest form of birth control (if at all) but we have our reasons and I will be going on birth control soon. We’ve discussed what I would wish to do if I fell pregnant. We used condoms for a while until the last 3 times we saw each other. I had an aversion to birth control because I couldn’t use my parents health insurance to get it and I wasn’t sure the unprotected sex would be regular (we’ve both been tested)

The story is pretty straight forward. The person I’ve been seeing (mostly casually but still monogamous) for about 6/7 months and I have sex about once a month because we’re both busy and struggle to find time to meet. Of the times we’ve had sex. 

The first two times I was scared I might be pregnant but decided I would wait until my period was x days late to tell him I was scared. I know it’s a stressful feeling, however, I’m aware that I didn’t have sex alone and I don’t feel I should be the only one stressing. I just don’t want to come across as attention seeking or whatever. I could wait until there is something to actually be scared about (i.e. my period is really late) and I don’t usually stress over nothing (I’ll start stressing the first day it’s late). 