My friend from the third grade just went to jail for hitting his wife, and he wants to talk to me about it. I am totally against a male hitting a female for any reason. He found out that his wife was talking to another male, flipped out on her for talking to him and ended up punching her in the face. She called the cops and he got arrested. Cheating is completely wrong in every way, but hitting a female is just as bad to me. All he had to do was walk away and end the marriage. He has been my friend for over 30 years, and I have no desire to talk to him ever again just for that reason. I do not feel bad for ending our friendship over it. Am I an asshole for not feeling bad?