Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : Hello Reddit,  It’s me, your old pal throwaway account.

So, last weekend at work I hit a parked car in the parking lot.  I’m borrowing my parents’ car from their vacation home in my city (I’m an adult in my 30’s FWIW - not a teen sneaking a car out), since my back window won’t stay up, I asked if I could borrow theirs and leave mine in the garage until the parts come in to repair it.  They were fine with that arrangement, and they like me to drive the car now and again so the fluids move around and the battery charges.  They drive a big SUV, I drive a mid sized sedan.  The bigger turning radius got me, and when I pulled into a spot at work I hit the car in the spot next to mine.  Shit.

When it happened, I got out of the car, inspected the damage to both cars (minor, just some paint scrapes and a small dent), and promptly left a note apologizing, leaving my phone number, name, and cube # in the office building.  I also left my car parked next to theirs - it was obvious from the circumstantial evidence who hit whom. 

That was Saturday morning.  It’s now Wednesday night, and I am yet to hear from this person.  I keep seeing the car in the parking lot, though.  It moves around in the lot from day to day, so I know they’ve been back and the car hasn’t been stagnant this whole time.

So - WIBTA if at this point I let sleeping dogs lie?  I feel like I did my part and did the right thing to take responsibility, but I don’t feel like I should keep leaving them notes if they choose not to pursue it.  I don’t know what their reason for not contacting me would be, but I feel like they must have their motivation (someone suggested that they just might not want to chance having the cops called, as they could have an outstanding issue like a warrant or a suspended license, but that is pure speculation).

This is a big office building with hundreds of cars, there’s no way I knew the driver or could easily identify them (as in, I can’t just pop into 1-2 rooms and see if someone owns the car- it’d take forever), so a note on their car is really the only practical way I have to contact this individual.  It was a pleasant day outside, minimal breeze and no rain.  I doubt the weather removed the note from under the wiper where I left it.  I doubt a third person removed it either, but I suppose either is possible.

Should I leave another note when I see the car next?   Or did I fulfill my obligation to the person and take no further action?