Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : So I have/had this friend that I got along pretty well with and she just so happens to sorta be my type and I developed a decent sized crush on her. Only problem is that she had a boyfriend while we were friends, which was fine, I was ok with being friends. Anyway I had some people round about 3-4 months ago for predrinks before town, and she came and met some of my friends and we all got drunk and had a good time. She gave me lifts a couple of times, just me and her, and I helped her pick up her car because her bfs car was broken down. Anyway about a month and a half after predrinks she won't reply to my messages I just sense something is up, but don't confront her. So I find out a few weeks later that she told my other friend that one of my mates told her I was trying to get in her pants (I wasn't), I simply told them I was attracted to her etc. Anyway that was why she wasn't talking to me and she said she'd be angry if I tried to talk to her about it. A few days ago I noticed she deleted me off FB and o just got really mad (kinda unreasonably) when I didn't really care when we stopped being friends cause it was getting hard liking a girl that had a bf. Anyway I rang my friend and I said I was gonna confront her cause I was really mad and she said not to cause she just broke up with her bf. I was oddly sympathetic, but couldn't hold back the urge to message her so I just sent something short and nice explaining myself and she didn't respond. I never found out which one of my mates told her what she claimed they did.

Did I do something wrong here? I'm still kinda angry about the whole situation, I just wish she'd at least explain herself or say she's not interested in me like that. We got along quite well TBH, and our mutual friend even told me she thought that this other girl would hook up with me, and another mutual friend has made comments too.

Am I the asshole?