Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : I have lived with my partner for a year, we’ve been together for over three. We have a small, one bed room in NJ that we would not be able to afford independently of each other. 

My partner works a job that she has slowly grown to hate, and is in the process of applying elsewhere. Recently, a company she loves reached out to her and offered her a new position, seemingly tailor made to her qualifications. She has now had two phone interviews with a senior manager that went really well. 

Problem is, it requires relocation to Philadelphia within a month or so of accepting the position. It’s a job for better pay and benefits, in a field she’s interested in. 

I’m a special ed teacher. My contract runs until the end of June, our lease is up in August. My partner seems to think that she can commute to Philly until our lease is up and then relocate permanently. 

I have no interest in leaving my job, my family, the state that I grew up in, that is my home. AITA for not being excited for her/pointing out realistic obstacles to her accepting this job?