When I met him I told him I was deathly allergic to cats. Hence why I never went to his house, he always visited me. Eventually he wanted to move in together and I told him his cats couldn’t live in the house. He was mad. I have no issue personally with cats and his were very sweet but I have never found an allergy medicine that overpowers my allergy. I literally will end up in the hospital if a cat gets up in my face. My eyes and throat swell. I tried helping him find a new home for them. He kept guilting me saying I was giving him an unfair ultimatum. I never said he HAD to move in with me. He decided to keep the 2 cats but outside. They ended up getting hit by a car. I felt terrible and he constantly guilted me about it. Even now, I found out he’s been running around telling people how horrible I am for making him give up his precious cats that kept away his depression and all this without telling people I was deathly allergic. Am I the asshole for letting him leave his cats outside? He makes it seem like I’m a terrible person. I absolutely love animals but I simply can’t be around cats and he wanted to live together. 