Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : I used to think I wanted children, but after we had the first I discovered that setting myself on fire would be the preferred option, if I had the choice. Unfortunately, my wife disagreed. Eventually she persuaded me to have a second child. You do not need to tell me that this is the stupidest thing I have ever done.

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Surprise! I'm not that happy about it. 4 years now of sleep deprivation related brain damage have left me staggering through each day, barely awake some days, dosed up on coffee other days. I'm not delighted.

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Even more surprising - she's not that delighted either. It's hard work being a stay at home mother to two children. But this was not unexpected, since it was hard work with number one as well. The fact that it's hard work was the main reason I didn't want number two, and part of my argument was that I didn't think she would be able to handle it either.

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So now when she complains about how tired she is, how tough it is with two, and how awesome it is for me to be able to go to work and get out of the house, I feel like telling her to fuck right off. I don't do it. Well, maybe once, and not in those exact words.

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AITA for not having much sympathy when the decision was mostly hers, and the things she's complaining about are the reasons I didn't want to do it?