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 There is a Jon Bellion concert coming next year and the tickets just became available.
We both love his work and would like to go but I make it clear that I'm there for her. Not entirely for the concert (I'm not big on live stage performances unless its Hamilton or Bo Burnham)
So we have two options. $40 General admissions or $50

I tell her money is not an issue. And we're buying our own tickets. So no one is buying the other anything.

She wants the $50 one and I agree.

She then says "are you sure?" And I tell her

"Money isn't an issue, other wise it's up to you"


So it ends up becoming this weird back and forth where. I kept getting asked if I'm sure I dont want the cheaper one. The I drop the line.
"I am not responsible with what you want. You choose how you want to enjoy this"

And I ask her if shes sure she wants to go.
She says "yeah but we dont have to of you dont want to"

And I'm like...
First of all.
No one makes decisions for both of us.
If she wants to go. That's fine. I can come with her and enjoy it.
But dont make it my responsibility if you dont go.
Like I'm not gonna choose for her.
Am I the asshole?