Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : I'm sorry this is long. I'm on mobile and it doesn't tell me how many characters I've used.&gt;!!&lt;
He has over $15,000 in credit card debt. I moved in with him so I could help pay bills and he'd have some extra money to help pay off his debt. I gave up a nice, affordable duplex that accepts pets, which is very hard to find in our area. I also gave up a 7 minute commute to work and 10 minute commute to my 24hr gym and grocery store. I feel this is significant because I work nights and keep my night hours on my days off so these 24hr amenities were very convenient for me. I now have a 30 minute drive to work, live in a completely different town, different county, where everything is closed by 9pm. Without telling me, he'd been setting aside money, instead of applying it to his debt, and used that money to buy a new gun. After purchasing all the accessories he'd spent over $1600. He already has five other guns that he rarely, occasionally uses for hunting or just target practice. I feel I've sacrificed a lot so that he can work on his debt. I pay for half the bills and most of the groceries to try to help him. I understand it's his money and I can't tell him what to do with it. But... Am I the asshole for thinking this is a purchase that could've waited till he actually has disposable income?