Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : This past Thanksgiving we went to visit her family.  Once we arrive at her family's house, the food is ready and we all make our own plates and sit down and eat dinner.  I don't expect my wife to make my plate, because she tends to put way too much food on my plate and I feel bad when I throw away the food that I can't finish. 

Some time passes and we are all finished eating.  Her friend stops by the house and after he says hello to everyone, my wife asks if he is hungry. He says he is and asks where the plates are so he could make himself something to eat. We were still in the dining room and the food was still on the table. My wife jumps up and proceeds to make him a plate.  I make the comment, "Wow, y'all must be really good friends, because she has never made me a plate, ever." I admit that I said it very sarcastically, but it is a very true statement.   

At the end of the night my wife tells me that I embarrassed her in front of her family, that I was acting like a caveman who expected his woman to wait on him hand and foot.  I told her that I have no such expectations; I reminded her that when we visit my family, I'm the one who makes her plate before I make myself something to eat.  

AITA?

