Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST :  I haven’t seen my best friends in a little over a month. I asked them if they wanted to stay in our go out bar hopping to meet up with people. Like typical girls they say “up to you” and I said Idc just tell me. Overall they say no. We watch a movie and they pass out while I’m still awake and bored. Initially I wanted to go out to the bar. They wake up out of mid sleep and I ask them if it’s okay if people come over to hangout. This is  1:30 am. They said yeah sure idc. I said are you sure you don’t mind ? They said sure we’ll just go in the bedroom. My friends are sleepy so they both go in my bedroom and don’t sleep at all. Awake and not saying hi to anyone, being secluded from everyone else. I asked if they wanted to come hangout since they can’t sleep and they say no. We were being loud In the living room and smoking. (They are against smoking) After maybe 30 min they decide to leave my apt. I tried to keep the party going between two friend groups but it didn’t work out. I feel really bad because the people that came over were loud. They couldn’t rest and they didn’t want to hangout and drink. Am I the asshole for allowing more people to come over ? I didn’t intend for it to happen like this but I feel bad and idk if I should apologize or not. When they left they didn’t seem upset they were obviously uncomfortable. What should I do? 