Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : So to start off, we are a gay couple of almost 2 years. We are both Mexican-American. I have been so blessed to have a family who not only accepts me for who I am, but also welcomes him with open arms. He isn’t so fortunate.

In hispanic culture, homosexuality is not the most popular thing, and his parents are also very involved with the church. Thankfully his family ignores that he’s gay and he is still close with them. They have no idea about me aside from a couple siblings. I completely understand and have no intentions of being a part of their lives if I’m going to be a problem just by existing. 

I’m going to be graduating the same weekend that Mexicans celebrate Mother’s Day, and he told me he’s planning on going to visit. I know his family will want to know why he won’t visit if I have him stay, and a boyfriend is just an unacceptable excuse. I don’t want to cause tension in his family, but I’m also very excited to graduate and I would like him there. I also don’t want to guilt him into feeling like he’s choosing me over them. 

I don’t want this thread to bash them for being homophobic, though I know it’s ridiculous. They believe their views are correct and I have no intent on swaying them. It’s a shitty situation but I will feel like a huge asshole if I ask him to skip it for my graduation knowing it may cause a bunch of other issues. But if he misses my graduation I know I will be hurt. 

WIBTA?