Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Ok, my parents are at the very end of their divorce. My dad has always been an ass but he's my dad so I just tried to ignore things.

When my mom left my dad about a year and a half ago, she moved in with me and my husband and actually acted as nanny for my first child who was born about 3 weeks after she moved in.

Things got difficult with my dad because he said I enabled my mom to leave him because I let her move in with me. Once my daughter reached a year old, we put her into a daycare/school so that she could continue to grow socially and get education (my mom is not a teacher or anything). This also allowed my mom to go "back to work" and get a job (she was working full time for us and we did pay her). My dad has made it very clear that he thinks this wasn't a real job and that she should have gotten a job making more money.

At Christmas, I tried to reach out to my dad to see him and exchange gifts, let him see is granddaughter, etc... He lives about 4 hours away and has barely spent any time with my daughter since she was born (he refuses to be anywhere my mom is... We have made trips up to see him without my mom and he came down to see us once). 

Anyways, he refused to return my text messages regarding Christmas so I basically said that I tried and it was on him if he wanted to see his granddaughter. 

We we're actually in town and went to pick up my sister for our Christmas trip (she was carpooling with us to Colorado). She lives with my dad whenever not in school so I figured I could give him his gifts when we went to pick her up. 

He refused to accept my gifts and ended up throwing them at my head as I walked back down the driveway. I have not spoken to him since. He has also made no attempt to reach out to me. I am now pregnant with my second child and don't feel as though I need to include him in any way. I haven't even told him I was pregnant. Either my sister told him or he found out in family court (they are still working on finalizing the divorce). 

Either way, it's been a week since the court date and he has still not reached out. I am ok with this as I feel like he shouldn't get to be a part of my life or more importantly, my kids lives. I had to deal with so much emotional garbage from growing up with him that I don't think it is a loss for my children to not have to put up with it.

AITA for depriving my kids of their grandfather?