Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : I am finishing up my last year of medical school, and got accepted into a 2 year residency program across the country, with a 3 hour time difference. 

She recently got accepted into a really good job, which has a lot of potential for growth. The city that I’m moving to doesn’t have great job prospects in her field. She has all of her family here. She has all of her friends here. Asking her to move would be asking her to give up a lot, as I’m tied into this move and don’t have a choice. 

We are very in love, and we have talked about us getting married and having kids, and talk about it all the time. I feel extremely upset about this, and that we are forced to do long distance. 

I already asked her once, if she would move, but she cited the above reasons for why she can’t, and she was crying that I would even ask. 

But still, I want to ask again, and really have a serious conversation about it. AITA???
