Let me preface this by saying me trying to get my girlfriend to hang out with my friends is a long standing battle, and a losing one at that. We’ve been dating almost 6 years and I can legitimately count on two hands, maybe one, the amount of times she has hung out with them. It’s to the point that my friends ask me why they haven’t really seen her since high school and I’m at an absolute loss for words about what to respond to them. 

She also doesn’t really like going to the bar, which is fine and I don’t care too much. I like to, but I can go with my friends and it’s not a huge deal. My good friend invited me out for his birthday, and invited my gf. She said maybe (which I knew meant no already) and after much delaying she just said she’s too tired and doesn’t want to go. 

Well I got really upset about this. I’m at a point where it’s like, why do I go out of my way to spend time with your friends if you happen to go to a pregame with them, why do I go out of my way to walk around and do things that you ask if you don’t reciprocate the few times I want to do something? I told her that it’s unfair and she doesn’t have to drink but we are 22 years old and we can afford a night out on a weekend day without going to sleep at 10 because we’re tired. She said I’m a dick for making her feel guilty about it, but I was just sharing how I really felt. AITA?