Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : So yeah, first time poster, i was wonding if id be the asshole in this situation.

Im 15 and closet trans person (MtF) and very afraid to come out to my  parents and friends

My family is a very religious chistian mexican family who dont believe in the LGBT stuff

Their reasons are:
•God

Thats it, their only point is that the bibble says that its bad to be gay, we had hundreds of discussions about gay peeps, the first time i asked was to see their points on LGBT stuff
"God made Men to be with women and women with men, there is no middle ground in this stuff"
Thats their argument

My mum has a stress problem that is becoming serious by the day, and i cant help but to feel guilt as most of her stress came from me, im bad at school, and my sis recently had a doughter but the dad abandoned them, my dad is in israel for work stuff (miner), im the only male in the household and i still sleep in my mums bedroom (the second floor is being worked on) i dont want to hurt them in anyway or form

I am forced to lie and agree with them as i dont want to get grounded for my opinion, this has me very bummed out and one of my best friend is trying to get me to move with him (He knows im trans) problem is: im in Mexico and he is in Colorado. Im working on how to cross the border legally.

So yeah, will i be the asshole if i leave them?