*sorry for any Grammer or spelling mistakes English isn't my native language*

So this is my first post on reddit and the reason why I even made an account I will try to keep this post unbiased and not bring my opinion in to this post because I'm very curios if I maybe have a wrong view point.

So today I had dispute with my brother ( I'm M 16 and he's M 18) he was cooking something when I entered the kitchen. I came and wanted to take my cup of tee out of the kitchen and then he took a wet kitchen cloth twisted it up and hit my leg with it (I was just in my underwears so it hurt pretty bad). He has been doing this for some years now and I always told him that he shouldn't do it cause I really hate it and I just lost it when he did it this time.

I told him dude why the do you always do this and I kicked his leg and proceeded to grapple the towel out of his hand. When I had it I told him you wouldn't also like it when I would hit you with this. He then got angry and told me with a serious face that I should get out of the kitchen and I said why I want to talk about this now it has been bugging me fore years. He tried to push me out of the kitchen (I was very close to the door at that moment) I pushed back but I didn't wanted to use violence after like 2 to 3 trys he pushed me past the kitchen door and I stretched my arm out with the intend of stopping the door but he slammed it and it crashed throug my arm. At that moment our parents came and stopped the "fight".

My arm had luckily only some small cuts on it and and no one got seriously injured.
So what I'm asking now is am I the asshole for not leaving the kitchen and wanting to talk it out
or is my brother the asshole for acting like this.

My mother told me that I had also should take for a part of the blame because I wasn't taking in to account that something like this could happen and I was trying to stand my ground and sometime this isn't the best idea.

