Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : So our 3yo son has one afternoon each week where he gets picked up from daycare by my Mum and spends the afternoon with her. They both love their time together each week and she's generally very helpful when we ask her to help out.

Me and my partner know that they sometimes go for ice cream or he has biscuits and things while he's there, which is fine in moderation. We generally don't give him sweets or unhealthy food at home. So when he starts saying to us "Gran gives me lollies in her car" and things like that, we thought we'd just ask.

I went to pick him up from him from her place two days ago and instead of having dinner he was having sweet biscuits. I didn't point that out but I did say, "hey, I've been meaning to ask, but son has been saying that you give him lollies, is that the case?".

She said no, we don't have any lollies, I wouldn't do that etc. No big deal, I said OK that's fine and things were normal after that. Kids say all sorts of things so I put it down to that.

Well fast forward 24 hours and me and my partner receive this essay of a text saying things like, "how could you do this to me, I think you need to put son in daycare full time, I can't believe you have taken away our time together, don't bother asking me to help out if he's sick, you should look at hiring a nanny" etc. Really over the top reaction imo. It actually costs us more for him to finish early one day a week so they can have an afternoon together, but he loves his time there so everyone's happy. 

I seriously didn't think anything of it. As a parent I should be able to ask what my child is eating, I would have asked the same question of any of the other grandparents. He's only just turned 3 and he doesn't need to be eating sweets. My mother has just akways seem to act as they we know nothing and she knows everything about being a parent.

TL;DR I asked my mother if she's been giving my son lollies and she's acting like I've barred her from ever seeing him again. 