Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Right so me and this girl had been talking for a little bit and I always felt there was something off about her but I shrugged it off as I wanted to date again after a long failed relationship. Things were okay but she constantly would text me and wouldnt give me any space so I told her how I felt and it subsided for a bit, but she'd start doing it again after a few days. This would get on my nerves quite a bit as anyone who knows me knows that I always do see messages but I don't drop everything I'm doing to reply so it gets on my nerves when someone spams me when i dont reply especially if im driving. After a while I went through some tough times and me being stubborn I asked for space which she did give me... for one day in which she then blew up my phone once again and I snapped I'd already had been in a bad mood and warned her she continued so I completely ignored her in which she called me and then when that rang through she called again. After a few days I'd cooled off and told her in which she said how she'd just wanted to tell me she got a job. I said I didnt have a problem with that it was the fact she'd sent me 5 messages in the space of a few minutes and the called me minutes later when I asked for space. She left me alone for a while and my birthday was coming up and she had self invited herself down for it when I said I dont celebrate it and then she got mad because she'd brought a ticket to come down already when theres no space in the house for someone to stay over and I'd hadn't even agreed for her to come down. I didnt talk to her much and then a few weeks ago she spams me again telling me I lost a good girl and stuff like that. I was going to reply but before i could i got blocked. I know i could've handled it better, and I feel I am an asshole in this situation. She was very nice but right from the first date she talks about all these mental issues and stuff which I dont have a problem with it was just kinda a lot for a first date.