So some backstory both my \[18\] girlfriend \[19\] and I are part of the same discord server as have the same friends. One guy \[\~20\] in the discord has been having some "financial issues" and has know my girlfriend for about half a year. Around August of LAST YEAR he asked her for money to buy some souvenirs at some PAX convention because he didn't have any money left over from his airfare/hotel. Being the incredibly nice person my girlfriend is, she gave him about $250 for a total. It turns out that within a week he's purchased some new video games. Suspicious, me and a couple friends figured he just used the money she gave him to buy them. He claimed he gets "grants" from his school that average around $2000 or something and he would pay her back yet come September. He then asked her for another $250 to buy a Razer mouse and keyboard that was "on sale" and could get it cheap and that he would pay her back. Again, being the nice person my girlfriend is, she gave him the money. Welllll come September and he says he needs until October. Alright...getting suspicious again, but I try to stay out of it because I hate internet/Discord drama. So he then gets back to her around the end of October/early November and pays her HALF claiming he would "give her the rest plus interest." Unsurprisingly, he asks for another $250 for reasons my girlfriend won't tell me because I've expressed serious anger about it before. He then tells her sometime December that "plans have changed" and he's going to be joining up with the US military, whatever the hell that has to do with anything.

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It's now late February THIS YEAR and he has yet to pay her back. It came up again in a conversation with her and in a blind rage I went on to Discord and messaged him saying stuff like "you're a pathetic adult," "stop leeching off girls you've never met," and "if you need financial help get it in real life not Discord strangers." He replied obviously angry saying stuff like "You're so tough behind a screen" and "You don't know the full story so shut the fuck up."

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Now I don't know the full story and frankly I don't care but if you need help you shouldn't be leeching off of someone you've never met to purchase expensive and unnecessary stuff and claiming to pay them back. Someone like him has no right to ask for MORE MONEY claiming to pay them back after already $500 in debt to them.

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My Girlfriend is now pissed at me because she got angry texts from him saying things like "Keep your boyfriend in check" and "I don't need his shit when he doesn't know anything about it." She is in school and said she doesn't want anymore drama. Should I have just stayed out of it or was I in the right to get involved?

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TLDR; Guy asks for $700 from my girlfriend and says he will pay her back but hasn't in in about 6 months, got pissed off any messaged him on Discord. Girlfriend gets pissed at me for getting involved and stirring up stuff.