Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : When I was like 15 (now 19M) I had a small crush on a girl from the other class. Kind of nerdy and shy, but didn't get to know her then. Fast forward 2 years and we end up in the same class. Im usually shy too, but after a garbage fire of a year I kind of stopped caring so I thought i should get to know her at some point. Turns out she is a bit shy and nerdy, and also very good w/ art which I'm really a fan of, as being able to draw has always been something i wanted to get into. Started chatting to her often, for the delight of teasing friends.

As I got to know her throughout the year though, I started noticing I didn't click much w/ her apart from those mutual interests. I was getting the impression she was very shallow, always judging people for the littlest of things and not giving a damn about what they might think. In my mind it just screamed brattiness. When we were talking she'd almost always go on about how \*random male actor\* was handsome and she wanted to marry him, or talking about superheroes or Supernatural (how come that never ends??)

We started hanging out and it became obvious to me that I lost interest. It was always the same fangirling and listening about her husbands getting married. Later I heard from a classmate that she wanted to hook up w/ me. I really wouldnt know since we'd never talk about anything that'd suggest it. I guess she was waiting on a move from me but dammit it'd feel like forcing myself.

 More than once I got in a crossfire w/ her. She once was sure a mutual friend of ours was a psycho for loving guns (despite "loving guns" being true, even with some political disagreements we have he never disrespected me, hell he once told me Im one of the only commies he respects) and was pissed when I disagreed. One other time she was arguing with a friend because he was objectifying his (girl)classmates for saying some of them were hot and I find this particularly stupid because nothing in the texts indicated he was demeaning the girls for being hot.

To the point now. I volunteered to help her in a uni project in which she'd show me characters she made in The Sims and ask what I thought of them, what career they were in etc. I could tell it was something to do w/ prejudice, turns out it was body and sexualization. Earlier, a girl friend of mine posted on her status a pic of a cat with his hands up saying "her ass was like this big" and i thought it'd be a nice break from the seriousness of the theme, maybe start a banter even. After I send it, she replies saying "Wow thats awful. Why do u keep that pic around?" At that point I got mad red, but only said "I got it from a fml friend, i thought it was cute and fit the situation", and after that I havent had any incentive to talk to her again. Shes been sending "how are you" texts and I mostly say Im good and tell a pun or smth, but today she said "its hard talking to me". Ive yet to respond but honestly, I cant give one fuck. AITA?