Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : A close relative is near to death due to a chronic and severe health issue (staying vague, because Reddit). I don't feel as though I'm mentally or emotionally strong enough to sit in the hospital room watching said relative slowly die. For context they are comatose, breathing very slow and shallow, and on multiple medications to manage pain.

I have other close relatives who have chosen to be in the hospital room on a near continuous basis over the last week, waiting for the end. They're sleeping 2-3 hours per night on crappy hospital furniture (think pull out couches, etc.). IMHO they're wearing themselves out, doing absolutely no good for the near-death relative, etc. Although they haven't said anything, I think I'm viewed as cruel and heartless because I choose to honor the person in a different way, and choose to not stay there all the time.

AITA?