This is a stupid non-issue and I'm embarrassed even asking but my sister's wedding is coming up and I dont want to fuck up her photos or anything... I'm really hairy but really lazy, and some people are really grossed out by seeing a girl with really hairy legs/pits in a culture where it absolutely is not the norm. It garners way more shock than you think it would and now I'm afraid that it's not worth making people uncomfortable (or even grossed out, unfortunately). We are going to a hot beach-y place for my sisters bachelorette party and (it is probably self-centered to think this) I'm worried that it in some way will wreck it for someone or her... but again, you would be amazed at how much shit I get for it. AITA if I don't shave my legs and armpits at least for my sister's wedding/bachelorette party? Is it like a scruffy beard situation where at the very least it should be groomed? 