Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : So I have a small group of friends I hangout with frequently sometimes it’s all 5 of us sometimes it’s just 3 of us sometimes it’s just me and one of my friends. Two weekends in a row now I’ve asked 2 of my friends to hangout and their response has been along the lines of “not tonight I’m tired” or “I’m not feeling well tonight maybe tomorrow though?”. Normally I would be totally fine with those responses because it’s a totally reasonable response/reason. The past two weeks however after they’ve said no I’ve found out that that they were hanging out together without me.

I’m friends with on of my friends on find my friends and he shares his location on snap map. I haven’t been intentionally checking his location to make sure he wasn’t lying when he said he was tired but last weekend I tried to add someone I met through a dating app on Snapchat and accidentally opened snap map and saw he was at my friends’(who I also asked to hangout) condo. Then last night same thing happened I asked to hangout they said no I’m tired/not feeling well whatever. My brother wasn’t answering his phone and my mom was just wondering where he was (we are friends on find my friends) so I check to see where he is and they are both hanging out without me again. 

They have a little bit of a fwb situation going on so I understand them wanting to hangout alone/without me but I’d rather them not lie about it. I have on more than one occasion said that I hate when people lie about why they can’t do something I’d rather them just say “I don’t feel like it tonight” or “we were gonna hangout alone tonight”. It’s not like they keep their fwb situation under wraps or anything they’re very open about it. I just hate being lied to. 

AITA for being pissed not that they’re hanging out without me but that they’re lying to me about it?