Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : So today I was supposed to pick up my girlfriend from her mom's and go hang out at her place. I was already iffy about going out since I lost my driver's liscence and would've had to drive out 20 min without one, but against my better judgement i went anyways, because I love this girl and promised her we'd hang out. Anyways, I arrive, and call to tell her i'm here, but she doesn't answer. So I call on another social media, and still no answer... I didn't know exactly which appartment was her mom's, and I have pretty bad anxiety, so instead of knocking on random doors, I just waited in the car.... A few minutes later, still no answer from her, so i wait some more. After 20 missed calls, and 2 and a half hours (no i'm not exaggerating, that's how long I waited outside in the parked car, in the cold), I just said fuck it and left. A few minutes after I arrive home, she calls me crying, telling me she fell asleep (for 2 fucking hours), and that she was sorry and really wanted me to drive back out to go hang with her. Now I'm a pretty patient dude and would bend over backwards for this girl,  but I was kind of pissed off at that point and told her I wouldn't see her tonight. Her mom ended up driving her home, but now she's very sad and is sending me messages implying she's sad and crying, and I'm kind of guilt tripping myself into wondering if it was wrong to refuse to see her now.

AITA for not wanting to visit my girlfriend, after waiting 2 and half hours outside her house and eventually driving back home?