Background: I bought a ticket to a dance before I decided I would be going with someone. This person had an extra ticket and said I was welcome to have it, so my other friend said she would buy my ticket from me. We virtually “exchanged” tickets (we didn’t have physical copies of the tickets, so we just let the person collecting the money know that my ticket should go to her), and my friend didn’t have cash on her so I told her not to worry about paying me back this instant. 

The next day, I Venmo requested her the cost of the ticket even though I had no intention of having her pay it back right then and there, it was just one more thing to check off my to-do list. She accepted it and paid me but we didn’t really speak about in person. I have a tendency to overthink even the most minute things, so I asked my boyfriend about it and he said I should’ve given her more time to pay me and I might’ve come off as a little greedy/untrusting (especially since my friend is the most kindhearted person I know). 

It’s been several weeks now, but I can’t stop thinking about how she might’ve perceived it. We’re good friends but if I stepped out of line by requesting the money she would never let me know, so here I am. 

AITA for requesting the money so soon and so abruptly? 

TL;DR: I requested money from a friend only a day after she said she would pay me back and am worried I came off as greedy. 