My boyfriend and I usually have to schedule sex into our schedules. We don’t live together and work quite a bit. Lately he’s been giving me a day as to when we can have sex and then come that day he will tell me no and say he’s tired and wants to sleep. I get he works a lot but this has been the third day in a row he’s done this to me and I’m starting to take it personal. I know it’s dumb but I feel like shit. Am I the asshole for telling him how I feel and how this is frustrating me?