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I rarely  post on Reddit , let alone on this particular subreddit but this massive argument i just had is making me question myself since most of the house is in unision about me being otp.

So i get into bed at around 1:30 am and struggle to get into sleep since my skin condition decided to really flare up tonight and coupled with my extreme tiredness made me very agitated. At around 2:45 am 3 of my housemates come down for a chat , and about 15min in it turns into a shouting contest and considering my room is literally opposite the living room it made it impossible to get some rest. I told them kindly to keep their voices down or just continue the convo upstairs . They essentially just ignored the messages i sent on the group chat for a solid 40 mins and so in a groggy , painful state i went out of my room and confronted them. One of the housemates who seems to think everything is 'banter' decided to mockingly say 'oh go to back to your room' and i just exploded into a rage of anger and insults. I had to be held back from my own desire to smash his face in, in retrospect resorting to violence wasn't ideal and i'm never aggressive but the combo of tiredness , frustration and the fact they seemed to think it wasn't a big deal pissed me off.

Once i had calmed down , we had a long argument about me 'overreacting' and that's not a big deal. So my issue with this logic isn't even the fact they were super loud , it's the complete lack of respect in seeing my msgs as some sort of joke. Another point they made is that in the past i have been loud in the early hours of the morning , however this was months ago and they never pointed out i was being loud until the next day , as opposed to msging me if i were being too loud.

I'm pretty certain my only fault in this whole debacle is my violent reaction , i should have been more calm but i don't see how preventing someone from sleeping because you can't be bothered to chat upstairs at like 3 fking am on a sunday is 'banter'. Not to mention it's like a weekly thing and since sleep is hard for me to come by , it's incredibly irritating.

PS: Apologies if this is formatted/worded incorrectly , i'm still seething tbh.