Me and the wife want to have kids soon. The problem is dyslexia runs in my family. Every single boy in my family and a few girls have dyslexia. We also have a lot of people with ADHD as well. For this reason I think we should start educating are kid as early as possible which my wife agrees to. The problem is she really hates the idea of homeschool or specialized private school. I can kind of understand with the homeschool. But her reason for being against the private school is because she doesn't want are kid to grow up to be a "snobby brat". This may seem very extreme but I don't want kids if I have to send them to public school if he / she has dyslexia. But I also don't want to disappoint my wife. We discussed this she's agreed to do research in the morning.

AITA?