Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : We both have gotten new jobs recently, me a few weeks before her, and I get paid weekly while she doesn't get paid for the first month. Almost every dollar I have earned the past two months  has gone into our living arrangement, finding a new car after my old one died, paying for groceries, basically taking care of every financial responsibility. She says thank you when I pay for things, but she doesn't really do anything else. I try to do dishes a fair amount, but she still gets on my case if I don't do them enough. I try to pick her up on time from work, but she still gets upset if I'm a few minutes late. It feels like I have given everything I possibly can, including working through the past 2 weekends to earn more, and yet she doesn't do or say anything to show her appreciation of it. I'm almost at the end of my rope here and I really need to know if I need to change, or if we just aren't right for each other, or what? So Reddit... Am I the asshole?