Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : As the title states, I stopped mid-sex due to something my girlfriend said. Without going into a heap of information I’ll give you guys a little context. We’ve been arguing recently, and the main basis of that is that my girlfriend has a few selfish and entitled tendencies, we’re both women and have been together for eight years now.

A small example of this is when I was working in the office the other day and ended up having to counsel a very good friend of mine through a life crisis that was urgent for about an hour and as a result I didn’t get any work done. Partner enters just after I get off the phone and expresses her annoyance that I’d put time into my friend instead of her, and now was going to have to spend extra time making up for it finishing my work. This is a rarity that I bring work home, I spend a *lot* of time with my partner, it was just a situation that came up. Quite obviously this is bullshit and I told her so. But this is the type of low level crap that I’m having to deal with recently. My friend genuinely needed me, it wasn’t trivial.

So anyway, back to the asshole moment. We’re enjoying a bit of time together (last night) and I’m in the act of giving her oral, I’d been doing it for about fifteen minutes at this point and moved onto kissing her in other places before communicating that I wanted her to change position so I could do something a little different to her. No hurry to orgasm, I just wanted to shake it up a little. Her response?

“Well I was happy with you just playing with me to be honest”

Now this in itself isn’t an issue, and usually I’d be like “no probs” and go to town down there. But it was the tone. The tone was the same one she used in the office, slightly petulant, a little whiny and entitled. I stopped what I was doing and told her I’d lost the horn, which I had. I was also very annoyed and couldn’t quite put my finger on it at the time (no pun intended). 

So now I’m the person who gave her partner blue balls because she had the audacity to tell me she was enjoying something I was doing and wanted it to continue, but with a tone that would make you want to send her to her room because she sounded like a bratty kid.

AMITA?