Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : Today was the day of my aunt's memorial service. I'm not saying that to garner any pity, just for context of where my head was at today. It was very emotional especially for myself, my sisters, my dad, and our cousins. We all grew up next to each other so it was like losing my other mom. 

I've been very good about hiding my grief throughout the process from my boyfriend of 4 years but I made it clear that I was probably going to be emotional today. He was very sweet and doting to me throughout the day which I appreciated. We go over my cousins after the service to hang out and he leaves with the boys while I stay and hang out with my girl cousins and sisters. Fast forward until midnight when they show up and most of them were drunk but my boyfriend was beyond plastered. He can be so hard to handle when hes drunk (loud, obnoxious, stumbling) so I was a little irritated I would have to essentially take care of him on the way home. This isnt an unusual occurrence, and I was glad he had fun - but today was not the day for me. 

It got worse on the way home when he kept making weird comments about his dnd character and my sisters dnd character to the point where we all thought he was insinuating their characters get together. I know he didnt mean it like that but he kept repeating the same things trying to explain it better which made it worse. He wouldnt listen to me when I told him to dial it back and he usually doesnt listen when hes drunk. 

By the time we got home I was throughly embarrassed and pissed off at him. I gave him some food and water before he stumbled up to bed but he also kept asking for sex and why I was mad at him. Whenever he can tell I'm irritated with him he'll say things like "im just gonna go cry then" or just generally try and make me feel bad for being mad at him. He can never be the bad guy in the situation or own up to anything and it pisses me off. I love him so much, just not when hes so intoxicated. 

AITA??