So for context my mom is a yoga teacher and my dad is a photographer. 
They left today to work with a campaign of ONU that involves both victims and former members of the guerillas, in an area that is still dangerous and that has issues with armed groups. 

Before leaving and as I was saying good bye to her, my mom even reminded me that anything could happen and gave me the name of the funeral service they have and some directions regarding a project she has next week, just in case. 

So a little time after they left my grandma and I are having lunch and she keeps talking about people that have been kidnapped, about some journalists that were killed in the frontier, about how the “clan of x” was fighting with the “clan of y” , etc etc. 

After a while I couldn’t take it anymore and asked her to please change the subject to something lighter because I was feeling uncomfortable and more anxious.   I already have an overly active imagination and I didn’t need the extra ‘worry material’ 

My comment didn’t sit well with her and she proceeded to tell me that she never knew how to speak to me because I would always scold her.  

Then she then brought up other situations, some from  2 years ago, that pretty much boiled down to the fact that she asked me to do a favor (a time consuming favor) and I, in her words, “just ignored her”. 
Most of the times I didn’t get to do those things because I was busy with Uni or because I genuinely forgot. 

She then said that I always made her feel worthless and because of that she didn’t know how to speak to me and she even told me that I should consider going to a therapist because she didn’t think it was ok for me to always speak up my mind when something was bothering me.  

I understand that she might be feeling bad because sometimes we don’t have a lot of things in common. 

When I try to talk with her about things that I do she doesn’t pay attention or makes an off handed remark and when she talks about the things that she likes I am interested in some of them, but others I just don’t care about but try listen to her and then excuse myself to do something else. 

All in all I feel that she ended up painting me like some sort of bully and I would really like to have a second opinion. AITA? 
