Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : Roommate - 19
Me -22
My gf -21 

So recently my room mate broke up with her boyfriend and since then shes kinda been on this downward spiral of bad habits.but shes constantly getting on our case for stupid things that dont even revolve around our roommate agreement like how long dishes can stay in the dishwasher and when we can run our roomba , that we have to have our t.v. as quiet as can be after ten o'clock when that's not even what the room mate agreement says. Now the RMA was my idea since I've had the most roommates and I've delt with my fair share of shitty people but this girl is starting to really tick me off with her entitledness. She doesnt do any chores around the house all she does is complain about shit and she barely helps out with utilities. But she'll text us about the dumb shit stated above. Anyways she has started having guys over yea guys random dudes that we dont meet and showers with them and then they end up "falling asleep and stayying the night on accident" she makes it seem all innocent like oh my friends coming over to watch Netflix or do homework. But I mean come on I'm not fucking stupid. I'm apparently an asshole for even considering telling the dude to get out now that I'm home after working grave hard shifts and such. My room mate lives in the loft above the living room she doesnt exactly have a door or a wall separating the living room but she put up a tapestry and she knew about this before moving in. But she is constantly taking over the living room and getting mad at me and my girlfriend for being up at like noon which is bullshit because our room mate agreement says loud noises can start at 1030 a normal time some one should be up in the morning. 

My issue is if shes going to be acting like this then I should be in total right ti tell her no.more guys unless we meet them.and they need to leave at a time. The living room isn't a place you go to listen to a girl get fingered. 

My girlfriend on the other hand thinks I'm being to much and our room mate who is an adult should be allowed to act like this with boys. And have them over. I just thinks shes missing the part of WE DONT KNOW THESE DUDES. 


AM I the fucking asshole? 

I'm not here at night .like i.said earlier I work grave yards and i just dont feel comfortable with a strange dude in my house when I'm not home. 

Tldr: girlroommate is taking advantage of room mate agreement to have strangers stay the night with her in a nsfw way. I think her boys should leave before I'm home or I should meet them. My girlfriend thinks I'm an asshole for thinking this. 