Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : So my friend and I both have various issues and we had a conversation, now she is blanking my messages because she is upset.

**Her:** If you need a break from me just let me know, I feel like I'me annoying you. **(She has said this many times this week)**

**Me:** I don't need a break from you.

**Her:** I just sometimes get the impression you don't want to speak to me. I feel so special when you put so much effort and say lovely stuff to me but sometimes I don't feel that way.

**Me:** (Shortened) I can't always put all my effort into saying lovely stuff to you when I am struggling with my own problems.

**Her:** I just sometimes feel unwanted.

**Me:** Well, I can't help when you feel unwanted. It's really on you a lot of the time, as you have said you overthink stuff, I can't stop you overthinking, I'm not in your head.

**Her:** Oh.

**Me:** What do you mean "oh"?

**Her:** I don't know, I'm not thinking straight. I just wish you can help motivate me sometimes.

**Me:** Look, you're my friend so yeah of course when I can motivate you, I will. You rely on other people to help you rather than you help yourself, I've told you to go to a doctor but you don't, you just say you want someone to motivate you and you'll be alright for however long but there will be times when people will be busy and unavailable to help you.