She was 21 I was 22. The girl was going to break up with me anyway. She left her Facebook logged on to my computer and I never closed the browser so it stayed open. She was being incredibly distant over summer, not really wanting to talk or meet up whilst we were away from university.
I looked through the messages to find she had been meeting up with several people from Tinder (which she stated she used to make "friends"). Anyway, we ended up breaking up and I accused her of cheating on me with tinder guys, she stated she never met anybody from Tinder so I explained that I knew she was lying because I saw the messages on her FB account. Next thing she accuses me of being the asshole and threatens to get a restraining order against me.
I was loyal for the entire relationship (2 years long) and although I acknowledge that reading her messages wasn't the most trusting or honest thing to do, it at least helped me to see her for what she was.
Am I the asshole?