Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Set the scene. FEBRUARY, 2017. Boyfriend Trevor and I have been together for ten months. We are mostly happy despite some major personal belief differences (for example, he is religious, I am not. He is very anti-sex-before-marriage and I am very pro-sex-before-marriage), but I ultimately dismiss these issues because we are happy and content. I'm a performer so I audition for a show nearby, as one does. Through this audition, I meet David. As it turns out, we're cast as lovers in this show, and for a while into the rehearsal process, everything goes smoothly. I'm able to balance being professionally intimate onstage with David while being personally intimate with Trevor in real life... until I start developing feelings for David. I deny deny deny that my feelings are anything more than just a showmance. I told myself my little crush would go away eventually.

Fast forward to MAY, 2017. I've been with Trevor for a year and a month. My little crush on David has not gone away. In fact, it turns into a big crush, and I discover that my feelings for him are mutual. I panic and realize that I'm in a lose-lose situation. I text my best friend Nicole everything and seek her advice. One day, Trevor comes over to hang out. I excuse myself to the bathroom, and when I come back, he's gone. Cue horrible sinking feeling in my stomach. I find him downstairs sobbing. He'd read my texts between Nicole and I regarding my dilemma in choosing between David and himself. We ultimately decide to take a break.

A few days after, I hang out with David one-on-one. He and I didn't refer to it as a date, but it's definitely a date. I reveal to him that Trevor and I are on a break. Towards the end of the night, we finally let our feelings for each other out in the open. We kiss and we kiss and I see him the next day. We end up getting a bit more intimate with each other, but no sex.

A few days pass. Trevor comes over to my house so we can discuss our relationship as it stands. I meet him there since I am coming from work. I don't tell him anything about my date with David. We end up breaking up. It is very emotional and very bittersweet but we feel it is for the best as there is no turning back. Two weeks later, David and I start dating.

About a month after breaking up, Trevor admits to me he'd read my texts with Nicole a second time. Before I had arrived at my house the morning we broke up, he had knocked on the door to greet my mom. He used the invitation inside to sneak up to my room and read my text messages on my iPad while I wasn't home. He knew all the details from David and I's date as we were breaking up, but pretended he had no clue, and I had also pretended I did no such thing.

Our break-up still haunts me. It's been a blemish on my conscience ever since. He was convinced I cheated on him and expressed no regret for invading my privacy. It horrifies me. I don't consider what I did to be cheating since we were on a break. What do you think, Reddit? AITA?