Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : I'll preface this by saying my S.O (25f) and I (25m) had an excellent start to Valentine's day. We both got home from work around the same time. I had a bouquet of flowers and a bottle of wine waiting for her. I cleaned up the kitchen/dining room very nicely and I picked up the ingredients for one of her favorite meals (chicken tacos) and cooked dinner for her. She also surprised me with a beautiful box full of all my fav snacks, and a pair of boxers with her face printed all over them (LOL a gag gift, they're my "going out to the bar with the boys" boxers). It was adorable. We had an excellent dinner and got a nice wine buzz. Next we cancelled drinking plans with some friends of ours and decided to just watch movies in bed all night together and spend some "quality time" together if you know what I mean (perfect night).

 SO while were choosing a movie I suggest a few and she suggests a few and we haven't come to a compromise yet. At this point she turns over, pouting, and calls me an "asshole" for not wanting to watch a Romantic comedy because its valentines day. I hate rom coms and she knows that and at this point I'm thinking were going to bounce movie ideas off each other until we agree on something like we always do. Then she turns over and refuses to speak to me, I suggest a few more movies, make a few lighthearted jokes, try to brush her hair affectionately, no response. At this point I say "Okay then, I'll choose" so I put on the cheesiest action film I can find in hopes to arouse her sense of humor. She then leaves the room and proceeds to text me saying we should break up because I "make all the rules" and "dont care about her feelings" etc. 

Its now the following day and she's still talking about breaking up and I'm completely taken aback. I care about/love this girl A LOT and I go out of my way to be a sensitive/understanding and responsive boyfriend to her and breaking up is never a thought that has crossed my mind. I'm extremely confused right now and i need outside advice. AM I THE ASSHOLE HERE? If so i am absolutely willing to do anything i can to fix this problem, but I'm going crazy over here. Please help.