Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : A little background: I work for my mother and father-in-law. I live with them 700 miles away from my wife(married 3 years) while I finish college (I stopped going for a while and finally decided to finish). They run their own business and therefore it needs to be open almost all business days except major holidays. During this last school year I worked in the office Monday, Wednesday, Friday full day and Tuesday/Thursday afternoon. They average maybe 18 hours in office each during the school year because they know I’ll cover the office. They could have visited my wife any given weekend for 4 days max. Now that school is in break they decided to go visit her (understandable) and ask me to cover the office until they get back (cool, I visited during Christmas and they’d stay an extra week). What aggravated me was when I had already been back they then called me and said they were thinking of staying another 6 days and I should be able to handle the office. I can handle the office but now is the only time I’ll have until spring break to visit her. I tell them this and they say they’re going out of town on my spring break for vacation so I’ll need to cover the office then too. Now I’m beyond pissed and I tell them they’re cutting into my time with my wife because they want to use me for their own extended vacation. My wife hears about it from my mother in law and gets mad at me and says I just have 5 more months of this until I graduate. That shouldn’t be the point and I told her she never just sides with me.

Am I the asshole?