Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Ok.. to be clear I obviously think 9/11 is a horrible horrible event where thousands of innocent people died and I don’t think that’s funny...HOWEVER I am a fan of masochistic humour and I share this with several friends.  So on 9/11 I sent out a shockingly inappropriate message that was clearly a masochistic joke, esspecially if you knew me.  Everyone thought it was funny except for one old friend that in the past has made some very inappropriate jokes as well which is why she was one of the people I sent the joke to.  Needless to say I thought she would find it funny but was very wrong.  It was a reaction as if someone she knew died in one of the towers.. To me it was like she decided she was miss morality, riding high on her high horse.  It was so blatantly a joke that coming down on me the way that she did just made me feel like she was the one being a judgemental over-sensitive self-righteous asshole.  
I’ve known this friend for 10 years and she knows my sense of humour.  Below I’ll post our text convo and let me know what you think-I don’t know how to properly load it so I just copy-pasted word for word.  I’m me(obvs) and friend is ‘A’

Me-Happy 9/11!!! 🎉🎈    ✈️🏢✈️🏢🎉🎈

A-That’s fucked up 
A-No seriously dude. It’s terrible. 

Me-Sorry if I offended you it wasn’t the intent

A- Well did you really think I would laugh at that? It’s not funny. I hope you didn’t send that to anyone else. 

Me- I sent it to my close friends and everyone except for you knows it was just an obviously inappropriate joke and has sent back something either even more inappropriate back, or has laughed.  Do you want me to screen shot the conversations and send them to you?Chill the fuck out.

A-I know that you meant it as an obvious inappropriate joke and No I don’t need to see what other people have sent back. I don’t care. It did make me feel uncomfortable and honesty lose a little respect for you. 
A-Don’t reply. Honestly. I don’t care for you to ‘defend’. It’s inappropriate, horrendous, and nothing you say will make me think otherwise

Me-I wasn’t going to, I’m sorry you feel that way
Have a nice day🙂

AITA??
