Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : My wife and I went to Barbados last year and there was a guy who was **extremely** red. I honestly wasn’t trying to be a dick or anything but as we were both at the bar I mentioned that he was red and should put on some lotion. I told my wife I mentioned it to him and she said it was none of my business and she’d be pissed if I had said that to her. Really I had no ill intentions but I can see it being an asshole move in a different light, so am I?