I have really low expectations for friends but they never seem to meet them. All I want in a friend is for someone to be caring enough to ask me how i'm doing every once in a while, stick up for me even if I'm not around, and ask me to hangout. Almost all the time in the one putting in the effort to talk to them, and hangout with them. Me and some of my friends stopped talking after I got out of a weird break up with my ex boyfriend a few months ago, because at the time everything revolved around him. I reconnected with them, because they finally remembered that I exist. I had plans with one of them for New year's, but she never texted me again about it until New year's Eve. I assumed she didn't want to see me anymore so I made other plans and I guess "cancelled on her". After winter break seems like none of them talk to me, won't even give me a smile when I see them in public. Last time one of them talked to me was to ask me to hangout but I have work almost every day, and they aren't the type of people to make plans in advance. They talk shit cause they think I'm weird and don't give a shit but they won't even check up on me? Am I the asshole for not continuing to ask them to hangout even though it feels like I get rejected every time?