Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : Everytime I bring up the wedding she seems troubled and does not seem nearly as happy with planning everything (I am helping where I can but also I know when to shut up and agree woman and weddings am I right) the wedding is 8 months away and I have had to borrow money from my mother for it which kills me being raised in a house so poor I knew from being a child to never ask my mum and dad for a thing. 

Context shes been depressed for nearly a year and dew to that and health issues she quit work. I can live with her not wanting to work until she feels she can. Her health is getting a lot better but she is still depressed and won't get help I understand this as I have been their.

I feel the wedding is a burden for her.

Also I have not talked to her about this all yet. 