Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : My gf has a broken ankle.  


Because of this, I drive her into work everyday before I drive to my work, park the car on a busy city street, and help her out of the care so she can use her knee scooter/crutches. (as well as generally doing all sorts of other things for her as we live together- which I view as my responsibility and happily so)  


Usually, I drop her off on a flat area on the side of a street. Before I turn the corner to get to that point though, there is a big set of lights as you come down a hill. They last a really long time. Today, because we were running late and I needed to get to work, I said before we get to those lights, "if we get the red light here you are going to need to get out, I really need to get to work". We did hit the red light.  


She says that the slope is dangerous and that she doesn't want to get let out there, but when I park the car, take out her mobility item, and then turn to face her to help her out of the car, she never waits for me to assist her. As I said, these lights take a very long time, so if she chilled and waited for me, I could easily assist her much more safely than the way she is doing it. I do not think that this method is dangerous.  


There is a significant time saving by doing this (if we catch the red light) because we don't have to wait for the light \*and\* the transfer of her to the street, we get them both done at once.  


For reference, I was late to work today even with this change, I would have been significantly later without it. So, AITA?  


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