Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : Yes, I am a senior in high school and yes the obvious decision is forget them when you graduate in a few months, but I see them everyday and I've known them for almost a decade so this a huge deal for me.

So now that that's out of the way...this year, I've been reconsidering my friend group I've known since 5th grade. I heard the quote, "If 9 of your friends are broke, you will be the 10th" or "You are who are your friends are." That quote made me think about who my friends are and consider if I want to be known for who they are. I realized that I am the only one of my friends with a job, a license and car, and I have more than $1000 in my bank account unlike them.

One friend has OCD and is sad that everyone around her is in a relationship except her and her parents won't let her see a therapist. When I first met my boyfriend, she made it all about herself and was sad that she's not in the same position. And now another friend of ours went on her first date and is experiencing the same thing I did, but no one listened to me the first time I said anything. But not everyone likes to hear about relationships so I just don't talk about my boyfriend with her because I have other friends who like to hear about that stuff. On top of that, all she ever talks about is sex and the ironic part is that she's a virgin. She is obsessed with feeding over-weight, submissive men who eventually get nauseous and likes to reminisce about rubbing stomachs. And everyone finds it hilarious! I'm all for supporting the fact that people have the right to express their sexual feelings, but does she have to be so open about it? It's kinda creepy. (also she had a random mental breakdown in the middle of lunch with no explanation. she started bawling out of no where and none of our friends consoled her because they said "i don't know what to do" "i'm not good at that kinda stuff" "it's not my thing"

And the girl I mentioned earlier who went on her first date, her dad died when we were in middle school. Her mom lets her smoke weed, but her mom doesn't know she socially drinks at parties. And I have a theory that she was sexually abused as a child because she told me she has PTSD and she showed me a song that she said really described her. One of the lyrics was, "I was molested at 8" so maybe, but not for certain. She has a dominant personality and is the one I fear the most will come after me if I suddenly just decide to leave.

And the other guy is gay in a strict catholic home and his sister died when we were in middle school so that's just a huge mess. I don't have any personal problems with him because we're not really that close.

Some might say that it's harsh for me to just leave my friends when they're in a time of need, but they do not know how to support each other when the other is going through a rough episode. Anytime something good happens to me, like the fact that it was my 1 year anniversary with my boyfriend on Valentine's Day, makes me feel like I'm bragging and being selfish because they are not living their best lives right now. When someone in a friend group is sharing something good that's happened to them, the rest should put aside their personal problems and give the other person a moment to shine. And a good friend group lets everyone experience this and they don't do that. I'm not asking for the spotlight to be on me because the same thing happened to the girl who went on her first date. They all want to be on the same playing field. If one is suffering, someone like me where life is going great, shouldn't really talk too much about how good their life is going because people like the girl with OCD could be hurt.