So, typically on Friday nights me and my friend (well call him J) will meet up at our friends house (well call him H) and find something to get into. Last Friday, around 1pm, we get the expected “you guys coming over?” text from H. J and I respond saying we will around 8pm when H gets off work. 

Around 6pm, another friend tells us he has a bunch of free tickets to a local show. Naturally J and I say we wanna go. So we text H and tell him about the show, thinking he’d wanna go. H replies, saying he doesn’t want to. After some discussion, J and I decide we’re going anyway. So we text H that we’re going, and obviously he is more than welcome to come. The show didn’t start until after he got off at 8, so we could still meet up and go to the show. 

To our surprise, H starts blowing up our phones with some pretty shitty messages. I’ll spare the more intense parts, but he essentially said he doesn’t wanna hangout with us again. We apologized, and went on with our night. He hasn’t spoken to us since.


I feel it’s important to note that there have been several occasions when H wanted to do something, and J and I bit the bullet and did whatever H wanted to do, because yaknow that’s just kinda what friends do. 

So AITA? 

