Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : So pretty much about over a year and a half ago my now former roommate came into my room and told me that his bank account had been hacked and he didn't have any money to pay rent. As I had already sent my half to him I was forced to pay the entire rent plus my half a second time. He promised me he'd pay me back and as we be friends for 5 years I had no issues with it. 

He started okay paying back a few hundred of what he owed before just stopping altogether. We got into a little argument about it as he tried to scam his way out of over half of it, so we came to the agreement I'd move out if he would pay me. I never forced him to pay me all at once or anything, I don't care if he gives me $20 a month I'd just like my money. 

Now that I'm moved out I saw that he'd gotten engaged to his long time gf that I'd known for a few years as well. When I sent him a text asking him if he'd forgotten about the money, it had been just about a year since I received anything, I got no response. I know his gf is a nice and reasonable woman. Is it okay to text her because I know she'll do  somethinf?