Typical story, parents got divorced when I was 12. They both got remarried.

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But when my father got remarried, they "eloped". I found out a few weeks later that they actually had my stepmother's kids present. I have held onto this grudge forever. It has affected my relationship with my father and my step relationships as well.

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I should say my father has apologized many times and and he's begged for forgiveness in the past few years. I just cannot bring myself to let it go. It just made me realize how he viewed me in terms of importance.

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During his second marriage found less and less time for me. Couldn't even take me on vacations he took his stepkids on.

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It's now 16 years later. My father and my awful stepmother are now divorced. He's sad and alone and realizing he's messed up and has been trying to fix things with me. I am just not interested. It's too little too late.

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I am getting married later this year. WIBTA for not inviting my father?