I'm a college student and live with four other housemates. I moved in with friends and they come from difficult backgrounds. I'm conflicted because they're actually good, ambitious, hardworking people and care about me, but I want to be around people who are, I guess in my terms, better. I'm uncomfortable with how the guys talk about women. One always complains about how he never gets dates, that people don't want to hang out often enough, that people work too much, and complains about the girls who have rejected him but he still crushes on them. I've been realistic with him on what he can do to change his situation, but he doesn't try clubs, change how he looks to be more attractive, etc. Another comments on how attractive other girls who are at least 6 years younger than him are even though he has a girlfriend. He actually hit on me before when I had a boyfriend, which I thought was trashy. The other brags about stuff like how he used to date a girl who was a D-cup.  One girl jokes about how her dad cheated on her mom and she doesn't expect her own relationship to last. That's not them as a totality, but I just don't like that these are the type of people I decided to live with and I like myself less because of it. I don't want myself to get used to this being the norm and this isn't helping the bias against guys I have from growing up seeing the men in my family cheat. I even recently found out a cousin broke up a marriage in a messed up way and I'm sick of feeling like I can't run away from this pattern. My main reason is that I just don't want to think this is what I should expect from people and I expect better. They seem to have just accepted their life and what they saw growing up, but I want to surround myself with people I can be proud of. I'm not perfect either and I don't want to sound like I'm better than them, but I'm just really disappointed right now. 