Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : I would like to start out by saying that this is all happening in a friend group I've known in high school, so we would be alumni. About a year and a half ago I've started becoming with them since they were doing some (messed up) film project and needed actors so I was down to help. Then we all started hanging out more often. One thing we all notice is that the director guy, Bob, who has been in a relationship with Alice for two years at the time, get in to some pretty toxic arguments. By consensus we all agree that it's not good for them and they need a break from each other at times. However, they seem normal half of the time so it's like "oh, okay I guess they're civil now.". Contrary to this, these arguments, most particularly started by Bob, still continue.

One night, the couple, a bunch of friends and I are at Dan's house and we all had a lot of alcohol to drink. I definitely had a lot to drink if I busted my shit on a treadmill that was hardly running, so I just proceed to lay down on this single chair couch thing. Suddenly, the lights go out and I'm confused as to what's happening. Apparently some people had to go home leaving my very drunk self passed out on couch and Alice, who is probably equally drunk. I wake up briefly remembering her walking over to me and I'm saying "oh no, no no no no no" because I know what was about to happen. She sits on me and I'm trying to get comfy but it's not working. I felt my arms getting grabbed and dragged to her body and that's the last thing I remember. I wake up to her sitting on me, with lipstick smeared on my face as  I checked the mirrir in restroom, looked at my watch - 5am. Holy fuck whatever happened, happened throughout the whole night and I don't remember it not was I asking for it. She's a cheater! This relationship just seems like it's in shambles and I sense that they should be apart. Clearly this bimbo has no interest in Bob. I didn't know what to think at the time, Alice says don't tell anyone because she regrets that, so I didn't, until I got confronted about it with Bob. 

I used all my power to explain what realistically happened from my perspective because it seems that Dan saw what happened that night, but added his own exaggerated twist on it and I'm facing heavy backlash from friends. I'm sitting here, like what the fuck, confused as to why I'm the one getting the blame here, after all I explicitly didn't provoke that and I don't even remember 80% of that night. I've never been in relationships so I wouldn't know what, but I could have told him, but I'm under the impression that I'd get beat up, the last thing I'd want. That ended their relationship, temporarily, and I realized and I guess that contributes to me being an ass as a given.

Long story short, both Alice and Bob had it going on-and-off which caused a lot of unwanted drama within group, until eventually everyone all hates me for what happened and Alice and Bob split afterwards.

Was I just being fucked with, or am I an ass?
 