Okay, right off the bat; I'm the asshole in the context of this, but I'm looking for forgiveness from her and I'm wondering if *that* would be an asshole move.

So about a year ago I broke up with my first serious girlfriend (we were together a year and a half). It was most definitely not a clean breakup, and it all went down in flames. In one of our last arguments (over text), she told me that while we were talking about getting back together she had already hooked up with this one other guy. After that, she gave my number to him and he started trolling my social media and insulting me, my family, and my friends while alluding that my ex told him a bunch of secrets I told her when we were together, and started rattling off on some sensitive things.

This pissed me off, and in retaliation I told him he should stop wasting his time talking to me and go fuck my ex, because she's "easy" and immediately sent him a bunch of explicit images of her she had sent me. They weren't nudes, as she was fully clothed, but they were provocative pictures of her in her underwear and making semi-sexual poses. This is something I know would immensely embarrass her and they both blocked me after that.

Months later, I have a new SO and my ex tries to get in touch with her. She says that she's been going to therapy and her therapist supposedly told her to get in touch with me or someone close to me in order to get closure, but she then does this by bad-mouthing me. My current SO tells her to fuck off and then tells me about it. I felt pissed for a while, but then I started feeling sorry for her and that I genuinely do want to give closure, not just for her but for myself too.

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WIBTA if I tried to? I feel as though I was the asshole already, but would it be wrong to try and fulfill her wish of getting closure? 

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