Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : So some context of the situation: The rules in question are "1. No inappropriate or violent images/phrases are allowed. Also, please avoid risky subjects here (politics, religion, etc). Keep it calm. Don't be gross or edgy. 2. Please avoid insulting others or inciting aggression towards users here. Be kind. This server is for everyone, no matter their gender, religion, background, or race."

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I am a regular member of this server, that being a revival of a game that didn't receive any support from the developer. The staff members of the server were picked rather haphazardly, as they were usually just picked from how well they were known in the original game, not how good they would be as a staff member.

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The people in this server constantly call each other the n-word and f-word in a seemingly joking way, including some of the staff members. From here forward, I will be calling some staff members relevant to the story as S1, S2, CM (Community Manager) and O (owner).  

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I go to S1 in DMs moderately concerned about the other members constant usage of slurs, and while I'm not specifically offended by it, I am worried it would give the community a generally "toxic" reputation. S1 tells me that most people generally ignore the rules. S1 is one of the few staff members who would most likely be considered a "good" staff member, and they say if other people of the same rank permit it, he is fine with it.

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Later, I go to O in DMs expressing similar concern, who has already been aware of the issue and has told people to stop doing it, yet these have fallen on deaf ears a few days after their announcement. I talk to CM about the issue and present what O said, and CM says that they agree with my viewpoint, yet that they would "come off as pissy" if they started to truly enforce it. I advise CM to talk to the other staff about the issue, which I presume they follow suit.

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S2 is a staff member that was given their position because of their haphazard decisions. S2 was responsible for \~13% of all usage of the N-word in the entire server, S2, after hearing the discussion that CM introduced to the staff room, decides to *post in announcements* about who sent these concerns, that being me, and basically publicly ridicule my concerns. 

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I should mention that previously I have been in a fair share of controversy regarding this server, and although most people ignored them after a while, S2 has been basically the only person who has clinged on to the drama. S2 has never liked me, and has been the catalyst for lots of this controversy (digging up events from the past to make decisions meant to give me some sort of disadvantage in game.) 

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So, am I the asshole for telling staff members of a server to enforce their rules more strictly?