Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : My girlfriend(f 33)has had her dog for 10 years and he predates our relationship. She loves this dog very much and it helped her through some tough times. He needs a very expensive surgery that she can’t afford. She lives with her mom in an apartment and is $65,000 in debt from school. I(M 27) on the other hand live for free in a house my dad owns and since my parents payed for my school I graduated with no debt. She’s asked to move in so that her dog has a large yard to play in but when I asked my dad he told me he doesn’t want her on his property. 

She works at a supermarket and I work at my family’s company making close to will eventually make 6 figures. I make a substantial amount more than her and have almost no expenses aside from groceries and utilities and could easily pay for the surgery. The only problem is that I’ve been saving money for a new car and I trip to Europe I’m planning to take with friends from school. My girlfriend has become very depressed the past couple of weeks because her dog might be dying. My dad could give me the money but I hate asking him for things. Am I the asshole for not prioritizing this dog’s life?