Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : Okay so this is actually kind of a done deal, already a thing of the past at this point. My mind just like to drudge up the past when I'm bored so here I am dwelling on some random insignificant thing from my past lol

Now onto the actual thing that happened...

I was playing an online game and kind of bouncing around between different groups of people from day to day. I would typically play the game for about 8-12 hours out of the day unless I had something else going on that day, in which case I would cut my playtime short in order to take care of things IRL. In this particular case I had met this girl on the game and I was playing with her for (literally the second time ever so we didn't know each other well at all), along with 2 other people that I also didn't really know that well. So basically it was just a group of complete strangers playing with each other.

The confusing bit (for me) came when I had been on the game for about 3 hours and then I had to get off the game to take care of other things IRL. I told her and my 2 other friends that I had to get offline to take care of some things. Didn't think anything of it and nobody seemed to have any issues or anything which seemed normal to me.

Next day (or maybe a couple days later, can't remember for sure) I am getting on the game and I have an open spot in my lobby and I see her online. I send her a message asking if she's interested in joining and I got a reply something like "No, I'm busy right now. Even if I wasn't busy I would still tell you no though."

I was really shocked and confused by her response. It sounded very clearly to me like I had upset her and I had no clue why, so I asked. She told me that I abandoned her with a bunch of complete strangers. I apologized to her at the time but I couldn't help feeling that *she* was an absolute stranger to me and vice versa. We weren't in the middle of a match when I left or anything either. She would have literally had to accept another invite from them and then hit a "ready" button to continue playing with them because the game didn't carry over your party after each match.

So my question here is, would you feel like you got ditched after playing with an online acquaintance for 3 hours before they had to get offline? AITA?