Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : Background - I'm 26 just have a baby daughter and recently moved back to my home town after 8 years away.

Throughout my teenage life I've played 2nd string to my (younger) sister. I never caused any real issues for my parents, other then the usual being a daft teenage kid stuff. I always got good grades and wanted to make my parents proud.

My sister on the other hand was a giant asshat.  From 14 was always bringing trouble to our house, constant screaming matches with my parents and even other family members during holidays and parties.

During this time I fell by the wayside a little. At the time I never begrudged my parents this, clearly my sister needed more attention than I did. However, I simply got little to none, I was about 15 at the time and had zero parental support, I just could not come to them with my problems. 

I fell in with local white supremacists for a bit (got myself out pretty sharpish, I'm a lover not a hater) which I now realise was my way of releasing my feelings and targeting my anger at others.

I eventually moved for uni and over the course of 8 years was expected to visit home regularly. I think in that time they visited 4 times. By comparison my sister moved away for a year and they visited at least once a month. 

I have a 5 y.o nephew who I and my parents adore. They have both been great grandparents to him, my sister actually moved back in with them when she was pregnant and they did a lot of the work for her, in fact they still do.

My dad told me once that he loves me and my sister differently because she had given him a grandchild and I hadn't. I'd spent my time getting a couple of degrees and trying to become a lawyer.

My daughter is now 6 months old and they have seen her a handful of times, have not spent a full day with her and even had Christmas portraits with my nephew and not her (my partner and I actually saw them getting their photos taken when we took our daughter in.

We recently had a huge blow up (my family are huge racists now, which is ironic) my dad dismissed my opinions because I learnt them all from books and my sister implied that my partner and I were enabling peadophiles because we don't despise all muslims.

Anyway I've stopped trying to involve them at in my or my daughters lives.

I don't think they're particularly bad people, they cared for me, helped me out at times through uni and gave me my first car.

I'm just sick of playing second fiddle just because i tried to not be a huge burden on them as a kid.

TL;DR - parents treat my sister and I (and our kids) very differently, I've finally had enough trying to get them to respect me and I'm thinking of removing them from my life.