Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : I live in a Christian family that isn’t huge on religion. However, every once and a while my sister will get super religious for some reason and will either blast or sing random gospel and Jesus songs. I have literally memorized certain ones because they are **all I hear.** She won’t use earbuds or headphones. She’ll just set her phone to full volume and sing along. When she doesn’t have her phone she’ll wait her hum the song or full blown opera house sing it. 

These bouts usually happen after she goes to a camp or retreat that involves Christianity. This Friday she left for an ACTS retreat. When she got back today, it was particularly worse. She was doing to usual, walking around, singing, “basking in the glory of god,” as she would call it.

After months of enduring this, I finally snapped.

“Hey, could you use earbuds or turn it down please?”

She looks at me like she’s dumbstruck. Of course, having no ability to win an argument, she decides to take the moral high ground, questioning me on whether I love god and accept him. When I say yes, she asks me why I want her to turn down her beautiful music. I reply that it’s not that I don’t like it, it’s just that it’s really loud. Goody two shoes of course replies that I should not complain and that I should be listening to it too.

I have nothing against this kind of music when it’s played *in an appropriate setting.* Am I the Asshole?

