Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : I’m a young guy doing fairly well for myself and everytime I start going on dates with a girl I end it before I catch feelings too hard. Recently a girl threw my backpack out of her house leaving me with crumpled paperwork. I told her I couldn’t go on because I cannot fall in love then she said she knew she shouldn’t have started talking to me. The fact is that things either last forever or there’s going to be a heart break, divorce or even a split family. That kind of pressure is so hard. I want to love but it’s hard to argue with statistics. Every married man I know has ended up having to pay child support eventually or stay with their wife hating their life without balls to breakup. I’ve been called self centered, selfish, and an asshole about seven times now. I never gave her or any girls any signs of even hinting of ever becoming official but when I end things I usually get called an ass who’s scared of love. Which the second part is true, I am scared of love... but am I the asshole? Things never even end on bad terms on my part as far as trying to come off condescending. Plus I let this girl and every other girl know exactly why I can’t talk to them anymore. 


P.S I always let her know in the beginning that there’s no promises and most likely nothing serious will come out of this.