Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : Title sounds pretty bad but hear me out.  I’ve been dating this girl for about a month now. I like her a lot and the relationship is actually pretty good. We relax together, introduced each other to our respective favourite video games and as such spend a lot of time playing them with each other. Things have been good so far but for the past week or so her behaviour has been very up and down. She has very intense mood swings,  and I mean really intense. One moment everything is fine and then one little thing such as her burger has onions on it sends her crashing down. 

I have depression and anxiety myself, so I get it. Sometimes it’s the straw that broke the camels back, but every little straw breaks the poor camels back here. It’s getting very tough to always be the loving supportive boyfriend when she knows she has these struggles and refuses to try new medication or resume her old cycle of meds because “it’s like chemical castration” according to her. I get that a healthy sex drive is important but when you have depression so bad getting your order at a restaurant wrong ruins your mood for the whole day, sometimes sacrifices have to be made. 

I really like this girl but it’s getting very hard to balance my own mental health with hers. I’m scared to bring these concerns up with her for fear that she’ll just go straight to the worst case scenario and do something drastic. I’m just not sure she’s the right one for me and I’m genuinely wondering if I would be the asshole if I broke up with her or if the way I feel is justified. I’d even take a middle ground solution because I do like her but her refusal to get the help she clearly (and self admittedly,) needs makes me hesitant to continue the relationship well.  So WIBTA? 