Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Bf and I live together.   Early 20’s both of us.  We just barely make it.  Like after our bills are paid we have enough to go out maybe twice a week. 

We had been using condoms since I have had a bad reaction to birth control and we fucked up one time about it and had sex without a condom.  Lol it only takes the one time and now I’m pregnant. 

I told the bf and he was surprisingly happy about it.  I just don’t get his mindset, we have like no money.   We can’t afford to support a baby.  I’m a big believer in my body, my choice.  I told him that I didn’t want to have it and he didn’t take it well.  

We have talked about marriage and kids.   I do think he’s the man I’m gonna be with for the rest of my life and want to have kids with him, just not now.  He thinks he should have a say in it and told me that abortion is a line he’s never wanted to cross.   He won’t be crossing anything though.  This is my choice, my line.  

I really don’t think he will break up with me over this, but if it did come down to it I probably would have the baby.  I love him so much.  I just don’t think this is the right choice for us.   

I want to go and have it done and just tell him after the fact.  