Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : I'm almost certain he'll find this as our situation is too unique. If he does - I love you, I'm sorry, I needed outsider opinion.

I am a woman, working in a trade for my parents, currently unpaid (for 6 months now) and I work 6-7 days a week depending. Recently I've been getting home more on time, but historically I start early and finish late. I know my parents ATA, but they ain't why we're here. 

My boyfriend is a paid academic. He can work when he chooses.

In the mornings, I love time to myself. Since my boyfriend moved in, that's nonexistent. I like gettinh up early and being ready for the day, but nope my boyfriend wants to talk to me and tell me he loves me. I have expressed that I don't want to socialise in the morning many times. I just wanna get up early and enjoy my solitude. 

He has an alarm set for 7 every day, purely because he enjoys that he can turn it off and sleep as long as he wants. This feels like taunting to me, while I'm rushing to get out the door. 

He gets up at 4am on Sunday, my only day of not having to get up, to watch eSports. Now I love watching pro league, but hate being woken up at 3-4 on a Sunday. 

He also says he only does chores at night, but I often feel even in his lax situation he only does housework if I ask. He will sometimes have the dishes done as a surprise, but washing sits there for days not put away. I cannot relax in an untidy house. 

I understand I'm not my boyfriend's responsibility, but I'm currently working more than full-time hours, battling a tumour (non-cancerous but makes me very tired ) and studying in my spare time. If the situation were reversed I'd want to try and do extra around the house to help my partner. 

TL:dr - my situation is a but shitty right now and I feel taunted by my boyfriend in a much better situation. He isn't the asshole because he's very lucky, but am I?