Backstory: I work at a pizza place as a delivery driver. I've been their the longest but don't hold any power over my coworkers. The job is not hard in any way but there is an amount of work we are each expected to do each day. Mainly prep. Wings,  sauce, pastas, dishes, boxes, etc. 

I work morning shift and there are a total of three drivers in the morning. Me, the one I snapped at, and one that wasn't involved. We split the prep while dealing with school lunches and normal deliveries.

The one I snapped at we will call R. R was having a bad attitude from the start of the day. Not wanting to work, blowing off what people said, and just generally being an asshole. We got most of prep done and we're just working on boxes by late afternoon. We we're chatting about random stuff till the subject of OCD came up and the conversation goes as follows.

Me: ya OCD sucks I hope I never get it.
R: no I'd love to have it my room would be so organized.
Me: I think you're thinking of OCPD not OCD. OCPD is where you like to organize stuff. 
R: same thing
Me: no quite different. OCD is Over Compulsive Disorder. An example would be you have to touch every surface in a room or else something terrible will happen. OCPD is Over Compulsive Personality Disorder. An example of this is needing to straighten things up because it annoys you.
R: *super smarmy* ya same thing

At this point I am quite annoyed by his attitude. The conversation went on about another co-worker we have who likes to straighten the boxes in to perfect stacks. I won't bore you with the details but I finally snapped at him when he started making fun of said coworker for straightening the boxes like a "maniac" 

I snap at him and tell him his attitude needs to stop. He avoided me the rest of the day. I brought it up with his dad who also works there and his dad said that he was happy that I snapped at him.

Am I the asshole? 


