Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : I recently switched my phone to vibrate only, so that texts do not show up on my screen, mainly because I leave my phone on my desk at work and didn’t want personal/private stuff popping up. I didn’t tell my significant other as it’s my phone and my preferences (it’s still unlocked and at any point they could use it, go through it,fine with me).  Well they completely lost it, saying I’m not being open and not taking their feelings into consideration and that I’m so weird and sketchy.  
Am I the asshole for not changing it back? I heard her feeling I just think it’s a massive over reaction and completely disagree.