So, my wife and I don't get to see each other very much due to the hours we both work, we get about 2 hours together after I get home at night, so I really value my time with her. 

So, tuesday afternoon, she sends me a text saying she'd like to have a date night thursday, which is my day off and conveniently also valentines day. I would cook a nice dinner and we would have some...ahem...private time...

So, today I vacuum, do the dishes, pick up dog toys, etc. I say that because she has said before that having the house clean when she gets home will help her unwind and get in the mood. Dinner is almost ready when she got home, and the second she got in the door, I wrapped my arms around her, grabbed her butt and gave her a deep kiss.

She smiled, looked around and commented on the clean house, then went and put a sweater and pyjama pants on.

This surprised me, but I didn't say anything, since maybe she wanted to relax and eat dinner first. So we watch Lucifer while I finish cooking dinner(homemade chicken parmesan), we eat dinner and then...nothing. An episode ended right after we finished eating and she picked up the remote and hit play for the next episode, then the one after that, which she fell asleep near the end of. So I just helped her to bed.

I'm hurt and disappointed that she put no effort into the date night that was her idea.

AITA?