Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : My ten year old son has a good friend named "Stevie" who lives with his grandfather.  A couple of weeks ago, my son asked if he could invite Stevie over and I said "sure."  About an hour later, when Stevie arrived, my son came into my bedroom and told me that his grandfather wanted to talk to me.  When I walked into the entrance of my home, Stevie's grandfather was already inside (a big "no no" for my kids.  They are never to allow strangers into our home but since this was his friend's grandpa, I understand why he didn't hesitate to let him in.

Stevie's grandpa was a nice, older man.  He started talking to me about his life and started inquiring about mine.  I felt a little uneasy but I didn't want to be rude so I engaged for a bit.  I didn't think that this conversation was going to last for nearly an hour.  It got to the point that I had to use my body language to usher him out of the door.  Even then, he didn't really respond to my cues until I finally walked to my door, opened it and told him that it was nice to meet him and that his grandson would be in good hands with me.  I didn't pick up any negative (or perverted) vibes from him.  From the looks of it, he just seems to be a lonely older man who wants to be able to talk to people.   

This past Sunday, my son invited Stevie over as we were having a Super Bowl party for close friends and family members.  When the doorbell rang, I saw Stevie and immediately allowed him to come in and told grandpa that the party should wrap up at about 9:00 pm or so.  I then saw that he had three little girls with him (his granddaughters) and he said, "Well, we're here for the party too!"  I'm sure he saw the look of confusion on my face but of course, I was NOT going to be rude and led them to the outdoor kitchen where we were having the party.

I introduced him to everyone.....well, I asked him to introduce himself because I had forgotten what his name was, to be honest.  I offered him a seat at the bar and he gladly took it.  He then started barking orders at the guys who were grilling (my husband and his friends).  He was demanding beer, plates of food, refills, etc.

The next day, my husband was incensed.  He asked, "why did you invite a COMPLETE stranger into our home for a private party???"  I assured him that I had NOT invited him but even then, WHAT WAS I SUPPOSED TO DO?  There is no way in hell that I was going to ask this man to leave.  That would have been cruel on my part.  Then my husband asked, "so now, where is it going to end?  He feels comfortable just coming over because YOU engage with him."  He told me that I was naive and saw the world through rose colored glasses.

I don't know what to think.  Basically, AITA for allowing this to happen?  I think I would've been the AH if I had asked him to leave.  Thoughts?

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