Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Recently I met a girl on Bumble, who as it happened wanted a casual non-exclusive situation, which was fine with me.

She told me she was still in love with her ex and didn’t want a relationship, but she ends up drunkenly entering a relationship with another Bumble guy that confesses love to her. She initially feels like this is a mistake but starts having a good time

Not long after this an interaction with her ex brings those feelings rushing back, and her new bf starts being a bit of a dick in a series of ways. He openly says he enjoys teasing her and winding her up, he asks for naked photos quite flippantly without really appreciating them or helping her feel secure about what she’s exposed, he jokes about sleeping with other girls and about giving her number away to other guys, telling her they think she’s hot.

Possibly the biggest issue is that this guy doesn’t seem to want to offer physical affection, and literally sets a timer for cuddles. Eventually, she asks him if it’s alright for a guy to stay over. He says yes, And I stay over, but nothing happens, although there are some tender and intimate moments.

Not long after she invites me out to an electronic club with a friend of hers. The night ends and I decide to take her home since she’s pretty drunk, but we get burgers first. It’s at this time that she confesses she has already slept with someone else, and that she wanted to do stuff with me a few nights ago. Additionally she says that if I go home with her she will probably end up doing stuff with me too.

I reason that, she’s already cheating on him with other people, and he is also neglecting her in some really basic ways. From what I can gather she is plucking up the courage to end it but is worried about doing that for a series of reasons. I go home with her, and we have sex multiple times that evening, and the next day.

TLDR: I slept with a girl in an unhappy relationship who is already cheating on her kind of dickish boyfriend.

Am I the asshole for going home with her?