Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : My GF and I have been together 9 years we mine as well be married. At the beginning of our relationship we were both into voyeurism type stuff mostly just fucking in front of other people. We live in NYC and there are some pretty cool clubs that we joined where you can do this stuff it's kind of like Eyes Wide Shut except you pay tens of thousands a year for membership lol. I used to be into it but i'm not so much anymore it feels like a chore and really kind of a waste of time and money we usually stay for like 2 or 3 hours. My gf is still very much into it and it feels bad to not really enjoy it anymore AITA? 