Let me start of by saying I am black, I still withhold this opinion that only black people can say the N word, and I been told her I don’t like her saying it. It’s not a debate, go on one r/unpopularopinion for that shit Blah Blah!

So she always said N-word too much and I’m pretty sure she knew I felt iffy about it. Until I started making Asian jokes like calling her Fa-Mulan, or this emote “-.-“ just basic petty shit, then she got mad like “yo stop with the asian jokes bro.” Bitch. I asked “how is that you can say the n word 100000times, but when I make a few asian jokes, you wanna get defensive? Make it make sense dawg.” She tells me “Stfu N word” bitch. See i haven’t talked to her since because of that, that was inappropriate. 

And then she said something else in a discord chat like “that was for the racist comments.” Like so you don’t think it’s not racist for you to say the N word. She tells me “it’s just a word.” Bro, like are you trying to fucking fight? So then I simply Called her a “KPOP knock off” and I’m not apologizing. 

So am I the asshole? 