Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : We've been living together for a little over a month now and jesus was it a mistake.  She doesn't work and I'm fine with covering the bills as I have a decent paying job.  I did expect her to keep the place in order though.  Shouldn't be that hard as I'm a neat person myself.  My place has become a disaster though.  Like ridiculously messy.

Not just that she's not keeping my place clean, but she also isn't keeping herself clean now.  I've never noticed a smell from her before she moved it, but since then it's obvious that she isn't showering.  She has BO and it's bad.  Like overwhelming.  

I really don't know how to talk to her about this besides being blunt and telling her she stinks.  I don't know wtf happened from her living with her parents and taking care of herself to living with me and now showering is apparently optional.   