Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : First off, he's six. So, I'm absolutely certain he understands nothing I say to him. 

Second off, I despise his mom but I didn't say it to directly her hurt feelings. It just came out. 

I'm living with them because I'm still in college and we're orphans. So, there's nobody else. We're moving closer to my college and I had to clean out the garage. My nephew was also in there because he's nosy. He hates killing insects and my brother told me to let them outside. I think that's stupid and I'm not carrying a frantic, fat black widow outside. That's suicide and I hate spiders. I came across many in there and I squashed them all. One thing led to another and he started sobbing. They also have a dog so he was hugging the dog and he kissed it so, I made a joke to myself saying that its pretty gay. He started arguing with me and saying it isn't. He defiantly just said it isn't to throw a tantrum. I guarantee it. 

After a while of him screaming. His mom comes and yells at me for everything he told her. She said I was bullying him and that what I did was traumatizing. I found that funny and said I know where he gets it from. She said what does that mean. I called her a little bitch. I didn't mean to say that. I was amused and in my head. I respect her for letting me near her family and living with them. I apologized. My brother is still upset. I know I reacted wrong. But, I don't think I'm an asshole for it or anything. It sounds childish and I wanted to know what other people think about it.