So my best mate recently started seeing this girl.


For context, both me and my friend have been making music since we could walk and it's something she is really interested in getting into. Knowing this, my buddy had the bright idea of having a little production session at my place yesterday where we would make a track together.


The previous evening they told me they were coming around to my place at noon. Noon rolls around and I ask my buddy where he is, to which I get no reply (as is quite common for him). So I think "fuck it" I can probably just lay down some drums and a bass and by the time they get here we will have something to work with. 


About an hour later I get a response from my friend saying "we're visiting people, we'll probably be there after 5:00". I'm a pretty easy going guy, so I'm like "yeah no worries, just get here when you get here".


5:00pm rolls around and I send my buddy another message to which he replies at about 6:00 with "I'll message you when we're going to your place". At this point I'd basically written half the song out of boredom and I'm no time freak but this was starting to tick me off a bit. At some point I also invited one of my other mates over to my place with the intention of all of us going out later. 


They end up arriving at 9:30pm after more cryptic vague messages.


My buddy's lass doesn't have any music production experience, but because she was drunk she was bombastically telling me what I should be doing and how the track should sound. I'm totally fine with working with someone that doesn't know what they're talking about but I just got the sense she was being a little rude about it.


Remember the other friend from earlier. He rocks up and my best friends lass starts talking to him. Now, he's a chef, and she's a vegan, you can probably see where this is going...


Long story short they got into a slightly heated discussion about veganism which my other buddy was trying his best to back out of, but I was a little pissed off at the attitude of someone I've never met coming into my house, drinking my beer and telling me how to use my music stuff AND shoving her beliefs down our throats. 


She said "if you want to eat meat you should have to kill the animal every single time" to which I responded with "so I guess that means you should have to harvest every plant that you consume as well", to which she responded with "no that's not the same thing".


I politely debated with this girl for a bit before she stormed off in a huff and locked herself in my own bathroom. I ended up leaving for the clubs with my other friend and that was that.


I messaged my friend today asking if his lass was ok, he said "she's fine, she thought you were a decent dude but you were a bit insensitive and now she doesn't trust you".


Am I the asshole here guys?




