Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : So I just moved to a new city for my 3rd and 4th years of college and I've been trying to meet some new friends. I never really had many but now I REALLY didn't have any besides my girlfriend of 3 years that came along with me to go to the same college. It's been about 2 months now and I finally met a new friend. She approached me and we started talking as normal people do when they first meet. After a few days of still talking I let my girlfriend know that I was talking to this person (in a friendly way) and she kinda flipped about it, saying how I need to only have guy friends or something like that. I told her that I'm with her and I have no plans on leaving for another woman, even if they were interested in me. I even made it clear to the new friend that I am in a relationship with me, asking her if her intentions were to find a partner (They were, but that's cleared out of the way now, obviously). Her and I are hanging out tomorrow to do laser tag with one of her friends that just flew in and I told my girlfriend and she did not like it. I basically told her that if I wanted to be with someone else I would just leave her rather than cheat and that she should stop being so paranoid. Am I missing something or is there a set-in-stone "hidden" rule to follow to where this type of relationship can't happen?