Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : To cut it short, GF ( who's a bit of a faminist, tbh and it probably explains a lot of this) oversaw me scrolling through my photos and I went past insta photos that I saved. This included hot risque pics of models and gorgeous girls in our home town.

So she asked about them and I figured she (and most women these days) needed a reality check. She's now super pissed with me and won't talk.

So yea, I told her. It's normal, we want to look at other girls. Hot girls. It's evolution. So I should be able to check them out. We weren't even more for monogamy so she should be happy I'm quitting other girls for her

Sometimes my girlfriend can't cut it. I'm a guy. She's okay attractive, but usually I can only get off from her during sex. If I want to jerk off, she's not enough, I need someone hot and gorgeous. I'm not that attractive either, she's more of a personality person. So why can't she accept she may not be there in the physical apartment, I still love her for who she is

I would do anything for her. I love her to death  I dont understand. I'm not physically cheating(and I totally could get with some of them, but I don't) so what is her deal?

Am I actually the asshole?