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I've been dating this girl for three years.  In the beginning it was cute she had a lot of problems and I was her "savior." I admit I may have made her more reliant on me than was necessary. She hated the school she was going to and complained that her life sucked and "nothing ever works out for her." Me being an eternal optimist decided to take up the challenge and see what I could do. 

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Well, things were good for a while but with each problem that was solved, a new one appeared to surface. Her childhood didn't help either since apparently she was bullied and her dad cheated on her mom. However, other than that she had a financially stable and secure household with her parents providing her whatever she needed - perhaps she was even a bit spoiled.

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I saw a couple warning signs in the beginning which can be summed up to an entitled attitude e.g. if we went on vacation the hotel that I booked was maybe not fancy enough, I attributed these feelings to her well-off upbringing and hoped with time, reality and expectations would converge.

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After college, she couldn't get a job at desired location and was pretty sad about that for a while. She did get in the following year with that hiring cycle. After starting to work, she complained that she is naturally slow (which I admit) and her superiors want her to work faster so hence she would be reprimanded. So from now, not having a job in her desired location she goes from having that not to not liking it since she's yelled at for not being efficient enough.

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Throughout all this, she says she doesn't like her career field and would like to switch, when asked what she wants to do instead she's pretty lost and unsure. Currently, she's working in an Asian country were work is demanding and believes going to the US would make her life easier. As a caveat, I'm American and agree her work environment sucks and would be better in the US (less yelling/demanding) but am afraid after this is solved, some other problem will come up. 

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Three years isn't a short time, the intent was to marry but I feel her consistent depressive attitude may make me very unhappy in the future. 

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TLDR: Eternal optimist dating serial pessimist, AITA for wanting to break-up after three years for failing to "make her happy."