Girlfriend is currently finishing up placement for school. Her shift starts at 6pm. She texts me whenever she arrives at work/placement everyday without fail. Today, she did not. I received no contact from her after 5:20 pm, didn’t text back, didn’t answer phone calls etc. 

Around 9pm, after three and a half hours of no contact and ignored texts and calls I decided I would call the clinic she had her placement at to make sure she had arrived safely. So I called, they said she was there, and that was that. Moments later I start receiving texts from her saying how the secretary at the clinic thought I was controlling and how embarrassed she was. Now I feel like a bag of crap but I’m having a hard time because my intentions, I felt at least, were good. I’m a little upset that the secretary immediately jumped to conclusions as well. 

AITA?