Last year I attended a NYE party at my friends house, and this year he invited me and my new girlfriend. I accepted and asked my girlfriend if she'd like to come. She said no, and then questioned why I didn't spend NYE with her instead. She's Filipino and they have a lot of family NYE traditions. Now she's saying stuff like "it's good that you're spending the new years with people who make you happy," because I didn't cancel on my friends. I understand that when I first accepted (and knew the answer would likely be 'no') I didn't really take into consideration of what she'd like to do. So AITA?