Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : This story starts a few months ago. Basically a good friend of mine was going down to Parris Island, South Carolina for Marine Corps boot camp. I was talking to a mutual friend who said she was going down in 3 months for the graduation. I have wanted to be a Marine since I was 6, and was very close to joining before I was medically disqualified. So, she knew how much I loved the Marine Corps and invited me to come along. A few days ago, she told me that they probably aren't going anymore because her mother is in the hospital and her car wouldn't fit everyone. So basically, she made it sound like the trip was off. She was apologizing, saying how she knew it meant a lot to me, but she just didn't feel right leaving her mom right now. I was more than understanding, was telling her she didn't need to apologize, just making sure she knew it wasn't her fault. When I was getting out of class today, I checked snapchat and on her story, she was in the car with the rest of the people who were going and was saying "Roadtrip crew!" 

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I've been friends with the person graduating from bootcamp since 1st grade, while the others have only known her for about 3/4 years. I'm really considering just cutting those who went out of my life because not just did they lie about something they knew meant the world to me, they don't consider me important enough to bring with them. Am I an asshole for not wanting to have anything to do with them anymore? 