So I had a friend, let’s call her Britney. She was in a really bad relationship (not abusive, but constant fighting and yelling). I used to be best friends and she’d always come to me after a fight. I’d comfort her, give her advice, do everything I could. Long story short, no matter what they’d always get back together. No matter how he treated her, the instant he would say sorry she’d instant go back to him. 

So I got sick of giving her advice then her not listening and going straight back, so one day I just basically said, “We can still be friends, but please stop coming to me when stuff happens.” She agreed and basically said that she wouldn’t “because nothing else was going to happen.” 

The next day she called me crying and I told her that I’m not going to help her anymore then she hung up. She texted me “ohhh I see how it is,” and I just explained again what happened. She told her friends that I’m an asshole and didn’t help her, so I just stopped talking to her. I feel really bad that I didn’t help or talk to her but I don’t know whether I was the asshole or not in that situation.