Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : I'm posting this with my secondary acct because my main one gives me away by the username. 

I'm a college student and made friends with a girl in our club. We have the same interests and I like talking to her. She moved to a different state, but she now calls me...a lot. In the past two weeks she has called me/video chatted me every single day. And now it feels like it's getting to the point where I don't really want to answer the phone to talk, because I'm tired or I'm in a public setting or I'm at a meeting. (I do because of my anxiety saying, "but what if something happened.")  The video chats are late at night and instead of being excited when I see them I'm just like "eh", because she video chats me every time she gets off of work to walk across the parking lot to her car, and it last until she gets home to her apartment. 

She's very sweet and I love hanging out with her and having girl talk with her. I value her friendship a shit ton. But I don't know how to tell her I need some space without sounding like an asshole.

