Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : My fiancé and I have been together over five years. Our wedding is planned for later this year and things are getting close. Over the past year or so, the relationship has grown stagnant and we are both unhappy. We also both love each other...but hope is nearly gone.

We've done couples counseling before to various levels of benefit, but one of us in the relationship feels like we both need to improve and the other feels like only the other person needs to improve.

We're financially connected at this juncture and don't live near family or any real support system. Should we call off the engagement and go our separate ways? Am I the asshole for giving up?