Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : When I was in high school, my mother started hanging out with people much younger than her and started doing drugs pretty heavily. I don't know what all she did but I know for a fact that she did molly often and smoked a lot of weed (not a big deal). It got so bad that it caused me to move out and she didn't talk to me for a couple years. That guy she was hanging out with went to prison shortly after for 5 years and is about to get out in July. She is planning on moving in with him when he gets out. We had just recently reconnected and after she told me that, I decided that if that was going to be the case, I didn't want her in my life. I just got engaged and didn't tell her because of this situation and she is guilt tripping me because she found out from Facebook. She says I am ruining my life and I am treating her like shit for no reason. Am I the asshole?