Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : We were laying on the couch together and he was texting them. Normally I don’t read over his shoulder but I saw that he sent them a meme, so i read it because the ones he sends are usually funny. It was [this](https://me.me/i/marv-cant-man-my-wife-said-no-sorry-bro-6e78642b624b49c6b8e29f1ebd43e1e9) meme. And he followed it by texting “My life even though my wife would deny it.”

Unless we have previous plans, I don’t ever say he can’t do anything. In fact, he doesn’t ask. Hell usually ask “hey do we have plans tonight?” And if I say no, he’ll tell me what he’s going to go do. 

We had a talk about this months ago because when we went to have a few drinks with his friends, one of them said to me “Hey thanks for letting him come out tonight.”

I was taken aback, because he’s his own person and there’s never been any question about that. My husband told me that it’s just how his friend is,  it now I obviously see that he’s telling them stuff that’s not happening. 

I told him it hurt my feelings and he kept saying “well you shouldn’t have read it over my shoulder.” 

So I said “You’re right. I’m sorry for reading over your shoulder but what you said hurt my feelings because we’ve talked about this before and I do my best to never act controlling of you or your time.”

And he kept saying “well it’s just a joke!” But never actually saying anything about my hurt feelings. 

I haven’t brought it up again because I shouldn’t have seen it to begin with but my feelings are still hurt. 

AITA for my feelings being hurt?