Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : I have a friend who ever since middle school I have been taking care of them. If they wanted a late night phone call, I picked up. If they were hungry, I bought or made them food. I drove them all over the place, spent more time with them than anyone else (mainly because they would throw a fit if I hung out with others without them even though we hung out alone more than anyone). I spent a lot of time an energy on this person but never seemed to have it reciprocated. They would constantly bring up my past mistakes and hold them against me, criticize my thoughts or opinions, and never as far as I can remember pay me back or say thank you for the transportation or food... but I never held it against them. 

2 years ago I was moving out of the country but was on not so great terms with my parents. the move was pretty unexpected and my parents were not equipped to see me leave. I was sharing and paying for a storage unit with them up until then but they said I could either take my stuff or throw it out. They were intending moving it all to another smaller unit. I ended up throwing a lot out (and giving a lot to said friend). A few choice items that were too important to throw out but would be way too expensive to ship, I was able to leave at the house of above mentioned friends parents. I was really thankful for this and told them if they wanted to use any of the stuff they were more than welcome, I just wanted it back when I either found the money to move it or found the room to store it. They chose to use some but leave most at their parents house.
Fast forward a year or so later, I'm on way better terms with my parents now. I visit them a few times a year and always try to make time to visit my friends. My parents knew I had some stuff stored at friends parents house, and told me they would be happy to store it for me so it's easier to grab whenever I need it.

 I tried to contact my friend to ask when would be a good time for them and their parents for us to go and get it and  me to move it to my parents place, but they left me on read. This was really concerning since they had mentioned their parents were planning on moving and I didnt want to burden them with the extra stuff. This was 6 months ago. They replied to a different message about a trip we were planning, where they wanted to cancel, and never acknowledged the message. By that time I was gone so I couldn't take care of it anyway, and let it slide.

Recently I've discovered that a lot of my old friends will not reply to me. Especially this one individual, they will either leave me on read for days or outright refuse to reply. I've reached out multiple times through social media or postcards, with no or if I'm lucky a long awaited reply. It's really gotten to me. The only friend I have left who isnt ignoring me happened to be their roommate, who I fully intend to try and maintain a friendship with. 

Because of the lack of communication, and constantly being taken advantage of or emotionally manipulated throughout our entire friendship, I fully intend to cut this individual out of my life. I really tried to keep them in my life, but it feels like I'm trying to hold on too much to the friendship and its hurting me a lot. After I get my stuff back. But it's gotten to the point where I feel like I need to tell them I'm going on X day at X time to get my stuff and if they want to come they can but I need it back sooner than later (if ever at all). This upcoming trip is my last chance where I will have the free time and resources to move the items. I'm not asking for their help in moving the items, I just want to be able to take them to my parents unit, especially if her parents are still planning on moving. 

WIBTA if I took my stuff back (with or without them there) and cut them out of my life?