Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : I am a (22 M) living with my (21 F) in an apartment. I am a registered nurse that works full time and my gf is a nursing student who works part-time on the weekends. When we moved into the apartment the deal was she would maintain the apartment and I would pay for everything (rent, groceries, utilities, ect.). It's been a few months and things have been alright for the most part. I work 4 days a week with 2 shifts from 3PM - 3 AM and 2 shifts from 3PM - 11PM. Today, I was on my third work day of the week which meant I just worked back to back 12's. I woke up 2 hours before work and needed time to decompress, which meant I did not touch the pile of dishes that were in the sink. My gf got home from class as I was heading to work and she didn't say anything to me at the time. Tonight, I got home around midnight and I saw that the kitchen was still a mess and my gf had left some cheese on the counter. So, I popped into our bedroom and said "hey please don't leave food out" to which she replied "well how about you do the fucking dishes" and then went back to sleep. Now, I do help out around the apartment and clean the entire place on my weekends off while she goes to work, but I am in the middle of my work week right now and kinda expect her to keep the place clean while i'm not home.  I understand that she is really stressed because nursing school is awful (been there done that), but I am letting her live with me 100% free so that she did not have to commute to school. I just want to know AITA for not doing the dishes before going into work today?