Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : My brother is 19 going on 20 and is not employed, enrolled in any schools/training. Through out highschool all he did was smoke weed and bring stress to our family, he’s never shown ambition to do anything great. After highschool he tried to go to community college, and went for one semester before dropping out. Our parents are great and have done everything for us, they’ve provided a great foundation for us to succeed but he constantly sets himself up for failure. In highschool all he did was slack off, he was one of the “stoner kids” he didn’t get into any real trouble tho, but he never made any real friends. He always thought everyone at our school was just assholes and everyone was against him.  It’s been a year now since he dropped out of college, and the only attempt he made at getting a job failed miserably after realizing working at a coffee shop was too hard for him. He has no sense of etiquette at the dinner table and has zero social skills. He doesn’t understand the concept of showering and shaving everyday, all he does is sit around, play runescape and eat food. He’s out on a solid 40 pounds since the summer. He constantly takes things from me and bursts into my room asking me to play games with him, even though he knows I’ve actually got important stuff going on and I can’t just spend all my time playing xbox. And what’s worse is that he and my parents act like I owe him my time and that I need to spend time with him because he “has trouble being social.” Why should I have to spend time with the loud, slob of my brother that is only ever in it for himself? 

Am I the asshole wanting my brother out of my life? 