Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : We’ve been together for 5 years now and in that time she (F22) has been down on me (M23) probably 10 times - 3 times just a BJ and not foreplay to anything else.

On the other hand I go down on her before PiV sex every single time until she orgasms. We will be making out and she’ll turn on to her back to wait for me to make the first move. On top of this I give her daily back massages as she has a sore back. 

I asked her to initiate once in a while and maybe go down on me and she got defensive and says she does. She says “we talked about this like 4 times already” to which I say that there in lies the issue as it’s been discuss 4 times with no result.

She says she likes it and can’t tell me why she doesn’t do it which confuses me so much. I’d be happy to drop the subject if it was to do with a past experience or trauma but this doesn’t seem to be the case.

Am I the asshole for just wanting my girlfriend to go down on me? 



