Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : So around the beginning of last year my best friend started a relationship with a girl we went to school with, I liked her from around the same time, but I really didn't want to compete with him and let him try to start something with her. To my knowledge he only went on a few dates with her, and they were only really a couple for a few weeks, and I eventually learned from my now girlfriend that she never really felt a connection to him, it seems like he put a lot of value in that relationship that wasn't shared, she doesn't even consider it a romantic relationship. He did some stuff he shouldn't have that wasn't respectful to her and they split up. 

I never really moved on from her but also never really made any moves with her until she started talking to me over the summer, eventually we hooked up, and have been together for close to 8 months now. 

I told most of my other friends before the one who had been with my gf, and I never planned on keeping it a secret from him I just wanted to tell him when I felt it was right, but was forced into doing it when he was transfering back to our school, he said he was okay with it then, but I later found out he really wasn't. He's really uncomfortable around her, and me being in a relationship with her has put a lot of stress on our friendship, I didn't want to lose him as a friend, but I'm not willing to break up with my gf either, I love her.

From what he says, he thinks it's scummy that I started something with her after he had something. I think he considers her as an ex girlfriend, but it seems my gf was clear with him while they were dating that they weren't there yet, he feels that makes her off limits now, at least to his friends.

For me I feel like what they had was so minor it couldn't be considered a relationship, especially since she feels the same way. I feel like he feels something that wasn't there, and they broke up because he asked her for nudes after a week, then made a diss track on her after she said no, and stopped talking to him. 

