Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : Terms may not be the correct word but in my mind it fits the situation. Slight backstory in that we became friends 5 years ago but stopped talking, then for just over the last year we began talking again.

When I say terms on the friendship it’s because it seems very one-sided, any time I ask if they want to go see a movie, get food, or hangout in general it’s always met with different excuses. 

We talk on snapchat and WhatsApp but at times they seem to just disappear for a day, maybe 2 and sometimes as much as a week before either replying or starting a new conversation.

Anyway, onto the asshole part, around Christmas I decided ‘if they want to be friends they’ll make the effort’ and it worked because I got a message about a month after I stopped putting in my effort asking ‘did you die?’

For a while it changed and now it’s back to the same but this time I think it’s about to be at the stage where I metaphorically die and just stop trying to be friends with someone who only wants to meet up when it suits them, they don’t want to be alone, or have nobody else to talk to 