Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : My girlfriend is not obese, but she has put on a lot of weight since we first met. Currently does not exercise during the week. She told me one day that she wanted to lose that weight. So, As a big fitness person myself, I started actively trying to get her to go running with me and work out at our complex’s fitness center (the gym I normally go to is too intimidating for her. has much nicer equipment so I am partially compromising my workout for us to workout together at the local place).

She is getting very angry that I ask her to join me on these activities. I want to clarify that I ask her in this kind of tone - “Do you wanna go for a run?” Or “Hey I’m about to go workout if you wanna come with”. It’s not a direct order. I’m trying to persuade her into becoming more fit and healthy after she said that’s one of her goals.

Reddit, Am I the Asshole?

Reddit, Am I the Asshole? 