Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Alright so I have an intense phobia or cockroaches. I grew up in Mexico and lived with them during my youth but once we moved to the states i basically stopped seeing them. Ever since I moved to the states and visited Mexico though I would have an intense repulsion to roaches, I was disgusted by them and afraid of even being in the same room as them. My whole family knows this. As a matter of fact my mom also shares this hatred of them. That being said though, my whole family took a vacation to Hawaii and stayed at an Airbnb. You can probably guess, but there were roaches in the Airbnb. And I don't mean small ones, I'm talking full on 2 inch long tropical flying cockroaches. I was fucking shook. On day one, my step dad kills one with Raid, picks it up with a napkin and brings it into my room to scare me with it. I freak out and everyone hears my reaction. The next couple of days my family leaves a lobster bobblehead fridge magnet to spook me, outside my room door. It got old and i got upset so I just broke it. Yesterday, my cousin caught a live roach and put it in a Pringles can. She offered me some Pringles and much to my delight there was a huge roach at the bottom of the can. I had a drink in my hand, and out of disgust and anger I threw it at her and her fiance who was happily playing along with the joke. Everyone in my family said I needed to apologize and that I was overreacting. I didn't apologize. Am I the asshole?