Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Pardon the length of this post, but it requires a bit of context...

I’m at a university with fraternities that have recently been forced to allow females to reside within their frat houses. I’m friends with a lot of the fraternity brothers at a certain house, but not actually a member, although they keep asking me to pledge. Anyway, just before mid-winter break (the week before President’s Day), I met one of the three ladies that actually live in the frat house. We hit it off instantly and spent the rest of the week together, getting to know each other and having absolutely ridiculous mind blowing (protected) sex. She’s smart, funny, interesting, and likes the same nerdy shit that I’m into, and I was really thinking of asking her to go with me exclusively. Shit - she even said “I think I love you” post coitus, and it made my head swim like I’d never felt before...

Fast forward to this last Monday, when I passed a brother in the common room who casually says “Hey bud, you owe us a keg!” - I laugh and say “Yeah man I’ll throw in on the next one, no problem.” And he replies “No, no - you already threw it in (this girl) - now you have to buy us a keg- house rules!”. After a brief moment I realized the implication of what he was saying but only managed a meek muttering of “yeah sure”, and left immediately.

After a few targeted conversations I come to find that my new lady friend gets around - a lot... like 20 dudes is my current count, and she’s only a sophomore (I’m a freshman, btw). I’m no saint myself - but, 20 dicks... Twenty dicks - that’s a lot of dicks, right? And there’s certainly more that I haven’t discovered yet.

Anyhow the next day I’m back at the frat to visit the girl, and I see the same brother coming at me. He jokingly asks “So where’s our keg, bud?!” And I reply with a curt “Fuck off!” And left the house without seeing anyone else. Turns out I’m now “blackballed” from the fraternity house, and not allowed in or even on their lawn. My “friends” in the frat say the guy’s an asshole, but he’s a senior asshole, and apparently if I just fold and buy the keg, I’m back in his good graces. They all think I’m being a hardass and should just buy the keg and be done with it...

So, AITA for refusing to buy this damn keg?

Bonus question - WIBTA if I actually tried to date my new lady friend? I feel like I’d be a g-damn laughingstock and people would look at me/us with distain... But damn though... 20 dicks?

20 + X = too many dicks, right? Or AITA for thinking that? Please help Reddit, you’re my only hope.

P.S. I haven’t spoken to her face to face since Monday and really don’t know how to address it at all.

