Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : This is a long story, so please bare with it 

So me and my family have just moved, but ever since day one I’ve been constantly pushing me to get a job, to which I’ve already been doing,  handing out CV’s and doing interviews and shit in the retail sector... even though after the Christmas rush not many need us, they want to get rid of us, she’s making jokes about the lack of job me at this point for it, all about how I don’t have a job and I’m an unemployed bum, but our family does have banter sometimes,  but it doesn’t feel like a joke this time is all

That... is not even the start 

On top of that I’ve been more interested in politics as I’ve freshly turned 18 as of July, so voting and shaping my country (Aussie Aussie) is important, so I try to understand my parents ideologies and opinions and see their takes... my dad pretty liberal only explaining it as a “it’s just how we did it as a family, plus I kind of just donkey vote” ... but my says that if I’m not voting for the greens I’m basically choosing for greedy politicians, I brung up that I personally think that the greens are to small of a party and that I want to vote labor being kind of lesser of two evils from some research I’ve been doing, it devolved to policies and shit,  going to equality, I say that the first world is pretty equal at the moment, is more third world countries that suffer,  that really it’s almost women that have the upper hand,  I basically get yelled at how I’m a bigoted sexist pig and how im a privlaged white boy who needs to give to charity cause I’m in the top one percent of earners... as a jobless want to be retail worker, (tbh I would give to charity I just want to actually have a job that pays more than 25 g a year, my lifetime goal is to be financially independent and do charity work at schools and shit) 

Another problem is veganism and my mum, she forces me and my two brothers to eat vegan like her,  says when we go out it’s a choice to eat meat... yet glares and demeans is when we do,  I attempt to protect my brothers only to be shouted at,  saying that I should understand meat kills people and animals,  that they are her kids so they need to understand... she also uses essential oils as like scents for her eco friendly bench cleaners and linen spray,  don’t know is she diluted them at all or what she uses. Hell even our damned cleaning stuff is made from this soap berry, it doesn’t clean well and leave pots tasting like the last meal in them,  I pre rinse, use twice the amount she says to use scrub for ages and she still complains that I’m doing a shit job and I should do better,  and hat pre-rinsing them is just a waste.

Other life things like clothes, going out for dinner, chores. For clothes I pay for all my clothes, even though my savings is skyrocketing downwards, says that I’m not grateful for all the things she buys for me (aside from food,  Internet, water,  electricity it’s nothing) going out I pay all or half the bill based on my mother mood,  says that I need to pay her back for all she’s done for me. Chores, the boys get paid their age, only doing 3 chores a day every week, I do the rest like cleaning the bathrooms, vacuuming,  mopping dishes ect, says that it’s free cause “I live under her house”

My own money is in her bank because I was basically homestuck for 4 years in a fuck middle of nowhere town, only public transport was to the school, but I couldn’t use my money to use busses because “I need to save it so I can invest it” even if I want to spend my money on a treat like a new game or food at work it would be a fucking battle for it, hell my lizard cost me a whole year of whining as she calls it for it

I’m the end it makes me so... unloved, and in return I... I hate to say it but Ihate her,  I don’t make it apparent... but I don’t love her anymore and it really hurts me, I Want to love her

Is she just being over protective, am I just too.. spoilt? She’s framing it all to make my life better in the future, and it’s not like we’re poor,  she has 2 jobs, six digits for both (also my dads really cool, like he’s the boomer who plays doom and is super chill with his kids, I Litterally remember him playing wow,  me on his lap help him,  back when he was divorced with my mum but having custody of me, about 7 years before it was with my mum,  I just don’t want you thinking I don’t love either of them)