Just to start off I'm on my mobile phone as my computer is down so I apologize for the formatting. But me and my mom go into an argument about what happened a day ago about what I said. We was in a store looking around and I saw some items I wanted that were a little pricey. I figured I have the money I could go ahead and get it. Well my mom makes the comment "why are you getting that" and I was going to reply back with " it's my money but I appreciate the concern though" but I only was able to get out "it's my money" because as soon as those three words came out she goes "well excuse the hell out of me". Then she got upset, now mind you there are times when she is what seems to me trying to tell me what I should and shouldn't buy. So we get into this argument over why I shouldn't of bought what I bought and she goes "well when I'm dead and gone you will wish you listened to me more." This isn't the first time she has pulled the "if I was dead" card and this isn't the first time her and I have bumped heads. My question is, am I the asshole for saying what I said or is she overreacting?