So my husband is currently unemployed, but is going to school full-time. He does 2 classes online and one in person once per week. I work 40 hrs a week sometimes 60 because we are understaffed. I also work mostly 12 hour shifts so I am exhausted when I get home. We have no children, just a nearly 2yo dog. I've asked my husband once before to do more around the house than what he currently does. It caused a pretty big argument because he thought I was insinuating that he did nothing. He doesn't really cook real meals, and he only pretty much does the basic chores like the dishes (but doesn't put them away, he leaves them in the dishwasher), sometimes does the laundry, dog care, trash, and will vacuum every once in a while. Lately with me working so much I've been wanting him to do more around the house. He never dusts, mops, sweeps, wipes down countertops or anything else besides what I mentioned up there. He probably plays video games for at least 6 hours a day as well. Some more background: when I first moved in with him, I did most of the cleaning and some cooking and un/underemployed at the time. Am I the asshole for wanting him to do more around the house? Am I expecting to much from him? I've been going back and forth about talking about it with him because I'm afraid I'll upset him again.