Hi Reddit, I’m hoping to get some genuine, unbiased feedback. Also I’m on mobile so my apologies. 

To make a loooong story short my parents divorced when I was a few months old. I was extremely lucky however and my family (both sides) stayed really close. I grew up spending a ton of time with my dad’s side of the family and we love each other immensely. Over the years life has happened. Nothing bad but people have moved (uncle and grandma live in a city about 8 hours away, aunt started a business etc). We were still close but busy. The past few years though have changed significantly. I used to see my aunt and her husband (and my adult cousin) about 2 times a month. As of this writing it’s been two YEARS since I’ve seen them. Just recently I saw my uncle and his partner were in town visiting my aunt. I have not seen them in 7 years. Since my wedding. 

To say I’m hurt would be an understatement. So we’re clear, to my knowledge nothing has happed. I can think of no reason they would be mad at me. I’ve invited them to my house on a number of occasions and for whatever reason they haven’t made it. They adore my husband. I honestly don’t know but I’m hurt. 

I’ve been considering confronting them about it (not aggressively, just asking) but I’m worried that I’m being an asshole. Maybe I’m being too needy or I’m overlooking something. I’m not on drugs, I don’t lead a chaotic life. I’ve obviously grown up since being a kid but I don’t know why the sudden change. WIBTA if I asked them what was up? Or am I over-stepping my bounds? 

Thanks guys. Any advice is appreciated. 