Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : so my wife and i are currently in a heated disagreement over laundry. shes a stay at home mom and I'm active duty military. due to the nature of my job im often at home on stand by. during this time i do almost all of the chores around the house. cooking, cleaning. garbage, laundry, and taking care of the newbord. Today my wife asked if i wanted to go do laundry with her and i said no i wanted to enjoy the day pff as i had worked last night from 6pm until 5 this morning. She got livid with me and said im just using whatver excuse i can to not spend time with her. the last 4 times weve done laundry i did it by myself. AITA for wanting a break?