Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Ok so here is some background. Sorry for the horrible description, this is my first post on AITA. 

I am a 18M who is currently in their final semester in their senior year. I plan on attending college, but staying at home rather than living on campus. My dad is a very controlling and doesn't really let me do much. I pretty much go to school, home, work. I rarely get to hang out with friends, go on a drive, or just go get fast food. I feel like if I move away he will still try to control me. He doesn't think that I could live on my own or have the confidence to do things without reassurance, but that's totally false. 

My cousin, who is also going to be attending college and staying at home, has offered multiple times (too many to count) that I could live with him and his family. We're all very close and we've dreamed of being roommates since the 6th grade. I feel it would be beneficial to be able to experience more things and be able to choose what I can and can't do, even of there could be possible consequences.

The school year ends in May, and I really want to get a whole headstart and talk to my Dad about this before it's right around the corner. My aunt and uncle, second family of you will, are totally on board with it. I just haven't told my dad about it. So, would I be the asshole if I wanted to live with my aunt and uncle rather than my dad and stepmom? 
