Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : **Background:**

I met my husband John in 2011, we dated for 3 years met each others friends and family. We fell in love early on. I’m a programmer that doesn’t easily trust people, he’s a big tough exec with a big personality but is soft and loving to me. (Full discloser he’s as old as my dad.) This wasn’t my plan but damn he’s hot and we were so happy together I don’t want kids, so we got married in 2015. Everyone was happy.

John had a few long term friends who were former clients. I feel it’s kind of important to point out that his clients are extremely wealthy and no one really says no to them, no one including my husband. I noticed that his friends Tim and Jen didn’t acknowledge me as John true wife, probably because of my age. When we are sitting together they’d invite John to events knowing I would come, they didn’t thank me for house warming gives, they thanked John. Or if something went wrong they would apologize to him but not me. These aren’t a big deal so I didn’t care but I did mention to John they didn't think of me as equal.

**Information Key:**  
John = my husband  
Tracy = me  
Tim and Jen = husband's longtime friends  
Mr. Dunn = Jen's ex-husband

More recently they started negating or contradicting any point I tried to make. It was like was obsolete or something. I told John that I didn’t think Tim and Jen liked me and I wanted to bow out of the upcoming trip to Italy but he should go with them. John insisted I come because he loves me and wants me by his side. “Just be yourself” he told me, because "I love you".

So I went. Tim and Jen picked at me the whole time. By the 4th day in Italy I pointed out that they were picking at me constantly. Tim turned to me and said “You’re being really sensitive right now … Do you have many friends?” he went on being really condescending… Telling me he has a hard time relating to me that he wanted me to be different, warmer, funnier, like one of his friends. I was kind of shocked at the questions and comments but went on unfazed. They instantly adjusted their attitude for the rest of the trip and I played nice. It was fine, we landed in the states and I never saw them again.

Now John has seen first hand that they were being really rude to me. Once in a while we would joke to each other “You’re being really sensitive… Do you have many friends?!” LOL Tim and Jen texted and called but John was unresponsive. Then 2 months later on Dec 4th, John fires off an email basically telling them ‘when you hurt my wife, you hurt me.’ Then John stops responding.

[Tim responds angrily with in hours](https://imgur.com/XJcbqe9) on Dec 4th

[Then Time responds again the next day with some ‘retrospect’](https://imgur.com/Jbxhg4r) on Dec 5th

Then [Jen texts John](https://imgur.com/ZmOllYH) on Dec 8th

It really seems like in no uncertain terms they never liked me, were always only friends with John, and are now coyly suggesting John divorce me and be friends with them again?! WTF I never did anything to them. I was always giving, polite and nice.

The thing is John and I really love each other and have no intention of splitting. We have a lot of fun, really understand each other, our love life is great, and we’re happy.

AITA?