Been with my fiancee for almost 4 years, (only got engaged xmas day), I practically don't hang out with any of my friends anymore because it's not worth the hassle or headache the next day with her, and now after we've got engaged she seems to have gone the same way with my family, she's great when we're together or with her family but any suggestion about spending time with my family almost always ends in emotional blackmail from her and me ending up cancelling plans with my family. Tonight she kicked off because my mother had offered to pay for a takeaway with us and she just kicked off saying we never get to spend time together just the two of us (even though we literally went out for a meal and drinks last Friday) she phoned for a taxi without my knowledge and went home to her parents earlier and I haven't spoken to her since, the bad thing is it's her birthday tomorrow and I'm supposed to be going for a meal with her and her family in the afternoon but the way I feel right now I don't feel like I can even show up....