We've been together for about 2 years and we both graduated last june, we're both 22. After she graduated she continued to work part time in her retail job, she has a BA in Sociology. I told her she should try finding a job in her field but she said she just wants to chill for now and work part time. She lives with her parents and just works like 1-2 days a week and like every month she wants to do something different, open up a bakery or become a writer, go to grad school, become a social worker etc. I try supporting her always but if it wasn't for her parents who she lives with and give her a large allowance every month she'd be a bum for real. I'm making about 75k this year and I want her to work full time or go back to school or find a career. I brought this up again last night and she got mad at me and sad I'm an ass hat for thinking I'm better than her and said I'm not better than her.

AITA?