Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : My (19F) boyfriend (20M) and I have been dating a little over a year, and we are very happy together. We both live with our respective parents on opposite sides of town, and neither of us drive so we rely on public transit/Uber. 

Our days off don't always match up (I have a schedule that changes weekly) so we want to see each other as often as we can. I have seven younger siblings that also live at my house with my parents, so I usually go to his house where his older siblings have all moved out. 

Thing is, it's an hour and a half bus ride one way or a $25 Uber ride. So while I want to hang out with him, I don't always enjoy the journey there and back. It's long, stressful for me, and can get expensive. So today we both had the day off and he asked when I was coming over, and I asked if he could come over today. I know my house can be chaotic and loud due to all the children, but I have my own space we can be in and not be bothered. But every time I bring up him coming to my house he says that his back is bothering him and he's really tired and doesn't feel like taking the bus. 

I'm not trying to demean the fact that he's tired and his back hurts. But I'm also tired and I have feet and wrist pain from my job, but he still expects me to take the hour and a half trip to his house. So it will either end up that I cave in and go to his house or we don't see each other that week. The latter happened today and all day he's been texting me about how much he misses me and wished that I could've gone over, when he could've come over here. 

So AITA for not going to my boyfriend's house?