Is EVERYBODY wrong in the post ? POST : This may seem trivial for some folks but this is so out of the ordinary for me and my girlfriend that I had to ask. I (23M) am in an intense graduate school program while my girlfriend (21F) is finishing her last year of college, and for 2 years we have been happily together and I do not see that changing anytime soon. Today, we had a conversation over text that was very strange for us as we are both very mature, we don't normally get angry with each other, and if we do its very brief and we tend work out our issues very well. Today I decided to tell her that I was going to be able to visit her during one of the weekends I have off, and this text convo ensued:

Me: I think I am coming up on the 22nd of February, and leaving that Sunday afternoon

GF: Really! Yay!

Me: Have to leave early that afternoon though bc thats the weekend before my one final

GF: Uhh then why don't you come the other weekend we talked about?

Me: I might

GF: I think you should.

Me: I am still figuring it out, just saying what seems more logical to me

GF: You're not going to be any fun if you come before a final

Me: Forget that then

\*Here I am in class, being called on for a question, and I feel my phone blow up for about 30 seconds

GF: You're going to be in total panic mode and should study

GF: Babe honestly thats more important

GF: And I don't want you to fail bc you should've studied more

GF: Whatever ignore me thats fine thats the proper way to have a talk about things

Me: I am in class ffs

GF: Whatever you were responsive 5 mins ago

Me: I got f\*\*\*\*\*\* called on

GF: Okay

Me: We can talk about it later. I don't know what I will do yet. Yes my final is important but I am looking more broadly at my schedule. It is also presidents day the week before which may work but idk yet.

GF: Okay I was trying to think about you.

Me: I know, thank you

GF: really bc it doesn't sound like it. I get it (grad program) is hard but you snapped at me

Me: You spammed me in class what did you expect! You gave me no time to respond before saying "fine ignore me, you're a child"

GF: Well last I knew you were responsive

Me: It shouldn't matter

GF: I didn't call you a child

Me: You insinuated as much

GF: No I didn't

Me: Well what else would you call that!

GF: Maybe take it literally

Me: Just being aggressive then?

.... and that's it. She followed with "have a nice day" and we haven't talked since early this morning. This seems so petty but I feel like she overreacted. Please judge me with fire and fury. If you made it this far thanks for reading.