Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : I'll make it quick. Me and this girl met online. We both swapped pictures early on and my initial impressions of her gave me a very different image of what her body looked like. More of less, she has a lot of weight entirely on her stomach. She wore lots of large baggy sweaters and loose flannels and with the rest of her body being oddly slim, she looked like a slim girl with a slight bust.

I was infatuated, and we found ourselves really connecting. Personality wise she almost couldn't be a better match.

...Then I got a few images that were in something a little more tight fitting and suddenly had to reconsider. And I feel awful about it, because suddenly I just can't get as enthusiastic to talk to her romantically and despite how lonely I am the specific way her body carries her weight just has me very not attracted. Basically, she just carries all her weight on her stomach, and she's kind of flat chested. Her torso is just kind of... round. It's unfortunate. We were long distance, so i'd have no way of knowing if this body type would make me feel so turned off in person.

I feel really guilty, because I know this one flaw is the only thing that made me go from complete infatuation to now wanting to just distance myself from things. But also i'm frustrated because her personality really did click in a way few do.

Am I an asshole for letting something so physical, and so singular, kind of ruin the appeal of this girl for me?