My fiancée and I are in university. She graduates this semester. I still have three left. We are the same age, she was just a little more focused than I was. Being that she is graduating and I still have almost two years left, she could move to my city where my university is. It would save us a fair chunk of money and help us plan our wedding. Instead, she chose to go full time with her current job to further her career. She's a human resources major, so she can get a job anywhere. I stressed to her how much I wanted her to move to me, but she made her decision. Our relationship is the most important thing to me and I would do anything for her. I was quite hurt by her decision as it feels like our relationship takes a backseat to her career. Now she thinks I'm an asshole for voicing my displeasure with her choice. Am I being an asshole?