Posting on a throwaway, for obvious reasons, on behalf of a friend.

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Said friend has been happily married for 40+ years with 4 kids. They make lunch for their spouse overnight, since the spouse works and my friend is a stay at home parent. They have their typical quibbles and bickering in their marriage. My friend told me that throughout their marriage, when SO has annoyed them, they'll spit in the sandwich when they make it and give it to their SO as a form of petty revenge to make them feel better. SO found out and is made, my friend said they've kissed and it's really no different than that. Reddit, what do you think?