Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : I’ve been with my girlfriend now for about a year and we recently moved in together. She’s incredible and has made me a much better person in the short time we’ve been together.

We do have some disagreements every now and then. We are from very different backgrounds and don’t always see eye to eye. The other week we got into a pretty serious argument and she was obviously very upset. 

I love this woman and intend to marry her, and was very afraid of losing her so I wanted to show her my appreciation. I then went out and got her a new car. She moved away from her home to come live with me and she’s hasn’t had a vehicle here. It just seemed like a suitable thing.

When I surprised her with it she called me an asshole and said that I had to get over my spoiled upbringing and learn to deal with things like an adult. That I couldn’t “buy her love” with an expensive car. She ended up taking it back to the dealership and I got the refund on my bank account.

So am I an asshole for buying her a car?