Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : For context I see him (max of) twice per week at church related events and talk for only a few minutes every time.


So he shares that he needs peace and quiet. I remark (as a joke but very straight faced/stoic) that peace and quiet to him is like fire and water given how sociable he normally is.


He blows up and demands an apology and swears he won’t talk to me again. The two people around me thought what I said wasn’t all that bad. I concede that it was probably not funny but don’t apologize.


AITA for what I said and not apologizing?