Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : I used to pay for all my dates but I realized that was a quick and not so fun way to spend all my money. For a while now, I've been going 50/50 with my dates and everything was going swell. Recently, this gal I've been seeing suggested/demanded I pay a higher percentage of the bill (even though we get similarly priced foods) because I earn more. I basically was like nah I'm good. I do admit that I make more money than her, but that's only because I work more hours than her (we get paid the same per hour). Also, she chooses the place to eat almost every time so it's not like I'm picking places she can't afford. She said that was really unfair of me and pretty rude. AITA?