Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : Some background info is that my husband (33 M) works A LOT, like well over 100 hours/ week and plays computer/video games about 1-3 times per week for about an hour at a time depending on that week. 

Last night, I, (28 F), was having a particularly difficult day with our children and just life stuff and at about 10 pm I was ready for bed and he said he was going to go play video games and I said that I would like for him to come to bed with me since most nights I go to bed alone and he comes home at around 1 am when I’m already asleep and leaves at around 6-7 am when I’m just waking up. 

So, AITA for asking him to skip his video game and come to bed with me after I had a hard day?  His response was that he thought being with me meant I was okay with him playing games at night, and I am, but when I go to bed almost every night alone and have a tough day I’d like to be able fall asleep next to my spouse if his work permits, which last night it did. Anyway, I feel like I can’t say that to him because he gets defensive and says I am too clingy or that when we got together I told him his games and other things weren’t a problem with me and now it looks like I’m back tracking. 