(M 18) I was in a group chat with a bunch of friends and we were talking about the upcoming lacrosse season. All of a sudden out of nowhere my friend goes, “Why do you sound like such a bitch?”. I thought he was just messing around and I said “Why don’t you hit up the gym and get your weight up?” Because he’s short and skinny. He responded with, “That’s why I’m gonna fuck your 400 pound fatass girlfriend”. 

My jaw hit the floor, my girlfriend has been going through chemo since December and is currently swollen and bloated because her kidneys aren’t working properly. Her lupus was so bad that she was a day away from dying. (Her swelling made her go from 108-170 btw)

I told him that he went way too far and he just said, “Don’t talk shit then”. He’s obviously has no remorse for what he says and I don’t know what to do or say. 

I know it might be a shitty thing to do but I’m not trying to escalate things in front of my other friends, they dont really know what to do and they haven’t taken any side yet. 

We all help this kid hide shit from his parents all the time. I know it might not be the most moral thing to do but he’s making my blood boil and it’s either that or I say something about his real dad leaving him. 