Ok so background: my dad has a seasonal job and doesn’t work during the winter time. During this time he collects unemployment checks in which he needs to either call or fill out an online form answering pretty basic questions (i.e. have you worked a temporary job? Gotten paid for work?) which basically just try to filter out whether or not you have a job during this time. My dad’s first language isn’t english so he doesn’t feel super comfortable answering automated questions on the phone, and he isn’t good with computers. I’ve done this for him in the past, gladly, because I’m usually at work or home when I do it and it’s not a very big deal. The thing is, is that you’re required to fill out this form on a specific day and between a few hours, otherwise you miss out on that biweekly paycheck. I’m going out of the country in the middle of January and my dad insists that I can call or go online to do this. I ask him why he can’t do it while I’m away (or ask his coworkers, which he has done in the past), and he asks “why can’t you just do it on the computer”. I tell him I’m not taking my laptop abroad, which then he says that my phone is a computer and I should be able to do it on there. 

AITA for getting annoyed at this? I’ll be out of the country celebrating a friend’s wedding. I can’t access certain government websites while abroad anyway, which I remind him of after we had this conversation. He seemed a bit sad that I got annoyed during the initial conversation. So AITA for not being overly excited to do this while I’m away? I’d only be away for a week and would be fine to do it before and after my trip. My dad getting super sad over this makes me feel like an awful child (I’m 26 btw) and that I’m not doing enough for them for just saying no (for one week!!)