Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Much needed context : as an older teen and young adult my dad's late best friend touched m inappropriately, but innocently enough to always make me question it. I was also physically abused by a boyfriend and it amkes me jumpy around angry men.

Today, my boyfriend agreed to meet me at 12 at my work and apartment where we are moving. My dad was here with me and his friend, who is helping us with our move turned up (unannounced, but it's helpful).  My dad had an appointment to get to, but knows I'm uncomfortable alone with his friend as he has angry outbursts and tells stories that make me uncomfortable.

The reason my boyfriend was meeting me was because I have been doing the whole renovation myself and he was meant to help.

I said it was ok for my dad to leave as my boyfriend would only be 10 mins away.

Well lo and behold, my boyfriend is an hour late with no warning and I'm terrified.

I was so angry and scared, aita for being mad he wasn't on time?