Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Let me backstory this by saying I am legally deaf in my right ear so on normal days his snoring doesn't bother me..

For the last few years I never had an issue moving to the couch (or  bathroom floor better heater) when his snoring hit a high note. I rationalized it cause I was just a server thouse first years and he had a "time sensitive" coding project that any day now will fund our retirement *rolls eyes*.  Three years later a move cross country with a corporate job for him, and a switch to teaching and a return to college for me. 

Now to the meat of our story I promise, this semester I went back on my Dr perscribed Adderall amazing for studying and functioning, awful for a life long insomniac. Now my guy is still working on the side retirement project (40+hrs a week) and his corporate project (40+hrs a week) so he is sleep deprived, for me it is finals I am sleep deprived last night I snapped.

In the past when he has found me on the couch he would basically wine "babe when didn't you have me move it isn't fair that your the one to always move" but I would always say wait for finals than it's your turn. Well finals hit and after 3 hrs of him yelling "Mike stop fucking with my money" and his snoring hitting drastic numbers on the richter scale I start to gather my things to move towards the couch when he let out a sensual moan. " Jennette baby your mouth don't stop." I know you cant control your dreams, but moaning your ex's name doesn't motivate me to volunteer as tribute to sleep on the couch, opposite actually. I finally asked the man I love to sleep on the couch for the first time in three years. I asked him three times  actually and each time he let me down. "Babe I am too cold" "babe I am tired too" "ok babe zzzzzzz" . 

So I guess my question is am I the asshole for not moving to the couch, and I am the asshole for adding additional stress to an already overworked man or am I just really tired and need a nap with my class of ten 1-2yr olds, my mind feels like cotton due to lack of sleep