Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : So this could get long, but background: I’m 15f, as are my friends. Hope we don’t seem too ridiculous. 

Basically, our school has a big dance every year at this time. Last year I went, had no friends there with me (that is important), and it was an overall incredibly depressing experience. The reason it’s important my friends didn’t go is because I asked them to go. For weeks. I bought a ticket, and my family ended up making me go anyway. Afterwards, my friends didn’t apologize until i explained and prompted them, and then they said I should have really forced them to buy tickets and reminded them more. 

Back in current time, it has come around yet again and one of my friends has really been rallying us to go. I wasn’t too interested in going in the first place, but I did say I would go because she seemed really excited. To prepare, I asked the guy I really liked to go as my date. Long story short for that, there was a massive misunderstanding and he has a girlfriend and I canceled it due to my intention of it being a legitimate date. However, that left me quite sad and dateless. 

I really made my mind up that there is no way in hell I’m going, and once I told my friends, they got quite angry about it. 

It is definitely my fault for not telling them earlier or warning them. I also said it in a way that came off really aggressive and bitchy, and I’ve apologized for both of those things at this point.  One of them got really guilt trippy over the whole thing because she doesn’t have a date and will probably be lonely (she’s very quiet and introverted). Even after knowing I won’t be attending, she has bought a ticket and continues to be a bit touchy about it. 

AITA for changing my mind, for the ways I’ve tried to handle the situation, or for not wanting to go? 

 