Title is partially self explanatory, but I’ll add some extra info here. 

My boyfriend John(24m) got a gift card to a nice Brazilian steakhouse from his sister Erin(28f) this Christmas, and he is eager to use it. Erin got it as a gift for the both of us really, but John was the one who opened it. 

When he opened it, Erin happened to mention that we (John and I) would be able to go to the steakhouse. John happened to make a few comments such as “do you want to go with us? I know you want to go too.” When I(21f) was sitting there also, thinking to myself, well... so much for a date. 

I love his sister to pieces... but this happens all the time. Sure, we’ll go on food dates every so often, but I feel like it’s usually John, Erin and I when we go get food. 

I’ve never piped up about it, because I don’t want to step on toes. Like I said, I love his sister and her company... but AITA if I speak up about dates or do I not have say because it’s his sister?

Thanks!