Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : For some background, this girl and I had been best friends for around two years. We had been through everything together, and were always with each other. I even went to her al-anon and eventually NA meetings with her. We went down the addiction path together, eventually, but I did not try to get clean unlike her. I did everything I could to help her, but she just wouldn't try. Not for herself, not for me, nothing. I understood she had a disadvantage, being her mom, dad, and brother were all also addicts, but I still knew if she did not want to get better she couldn't. At this point, she was addicted to pills, and I drank cough syrup daily (codeine). Both are opioids. I was not trying to get clean, but thought I could get her to.

P.S. I know my post history illustrates that I am young and post pretty frequently. Just got Reddit and going through the few things I have been feeling guilty about. But I am a young addict, just lucky to try and turn myself around early.

Anyway, fast forward about a month. She was still having a very difficult time, but I had turned much around. I really still don't know if I was ever addicted being I did not have a very hard time mentally. Physically, however, it was hell. I changed my living situation and could not get drugs anymore anyway, so it was really a forced withdrawal. My best friend also moved. She was living in Michigan, where we were best friends, then she moved to West Virginia. I was just in a different part of Michigan. While in Virginia, she went from pills to crack. I still tried to help her, but she started to get angry with me and would say very hurtful, personally cutting things to me. Making comments about my weight or sexuality. Even my living situation and past abusive problems. She knew how to hurt me and she did. At that point, I was done and stopped helping her. I no longer encouraged her to get clean, and sometimes even partied with her whenever she came to Michigan. I have since forgiven her for the comments, but I feel bad about supplying for her.

Fast forward another couple months. She moved back to Michigan with her mom, and began actually trying to recover to little success. She also still puts herself in bad situations, like dating a girl who was known to cheat on her partners, and made multiple suicide attempts with her and before their relationship. She asked me for help. She asked for my support and forgiveness, but I know whenever I am with her I feel shitty about myself. I wanted to help her, but I cut my ties with her. She has since had hospital visits, psyche ward stays, etc. AITA for not helping her?