Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : So me and this girl started talking quite a while back and I liked her a lot and she seemed to like me back, so eventually I asked her to a school dance, we went, she said she was interested in me, and so we dated a bit.  However after several successful dates I asked if she wanted to make things official but she said no, she has had bad experiences with some of her exes and she wanted to get to know me better first.  Seemed reasonable to me so we carried on as we were for a while in this weird limbo between dating and not, and eventually I asked her again if she wanted to make things official.  This time her answer was a lot more ambiguous, something like "I don't know, I'm not sure if I want a relationship rn."

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Now this put me in a weird place bc I wasnt sure whether to continue investing in us or not, so naturally I struggled over this for a while.  Anyway fast forward about two weeks and she says yes she would like to make things official (It's worth noting that it had been about 2 months at this point).  So of course I was happy to finally be official but then she said that she doesn't want to kiss.  She said she doesnt want to kiss bc she is afraid she will lose control and it will escalate into sex, which she is not ready for yet (I dont mind this, if she isnt ready for sex she isnt ready, whatever), and partly because she has bad experiences with some bad exes.  

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Now I just cant help but feel so fucking frustrated, that Ive waited so long for a girl I really like just to have her say we cant go farther than a hug.  AITA for wanting to kiss her?  It seems like such a simple, minor, thing to me, but what do I know.