Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : I am having a wedding soon. Due to both of us being international it was difficult to find a good date for the entire family.

Now we have found a date that really suits us and is something we'd like to always have as an anniversary - were very happy with the date and both our families are able to come over - except my sibling.

They're currently way out of the country on the other side of the world and are upset that we didn't wait one more month until they're back home and closer - however waiting one more month would have meant my fiancees family would not be able to come over and my fiancee would be neck-deep in her thesis.

Now I've proposed to my sibling for them to join us via video-calling but "it's not the same" (it isnt, but better than nothing?) and it's not good enough.

Mind you if my sibling truly wanted to, they could come over - due to the super long flight they don't want to.

AITA for not waiting one extra month to make it possible for my sibling to attend easier?