So a couple of months ago I met a girl at a club and went home with her. At the time I thought it was just going to be a one night stand, but we’ve stayed in touch. We message each other a few times a week. She’s stayed at my house a couple of times and we spent New Years together. 

It’s very casual, We’re not in a relationship, and we haven’t agreed to be exclusive or anything like that (although we both have been exclusive since meeting, because i think we’re both just like that) 

The thing is, since before I met her I’ve been planing on going overseas for a couple of months at the end of January. I’ve already quit my job in anticipation of this. I can tell she really likes me, and I feel like she’s going to be a little hurt if I leave. We’ve talked about traveling, as it’s a common interest, and I have brought it up, but I think it sort of came across more as something I want to do (rather than something I was 100% going to do)


AITA for just up and leaving?