I had been having a gut feeling something was up with one friend I had. Our partners use to work together, but due to my partner being made redundant it was harder to hang out. 

After we tried to organise a few times to hang out, and both parties were caught up, I put it down to a busy time of year (school holidays, I worked more to cover us, her husband worked more to cover my partner's ex-job, etc). I should add as it has been a point that they have two kids whom I always have fun hanging with when we see each other, and they are always excited to see me, I also have the same personality as her husband, which is my partner's best mate, go figure.

So I asked the doomed question "I'm just concerned, have I done anything annoying or to make you dislike me?"

She followed this up saying no, and was also letting things pan out after my partner lost his job. That was it, I responded with glad to hear (essentially), and how I value our friendship. Fast forward to two days later and I get this message at work: 
"I'm just not the kind of person to do catch ups all the time I just enjoy the company of my family and just being by myself so definitely dont take it personally. We can still catch up every so often but most weekends (husband) and I like to spend it with the kids and ourselves"

I was shocked. This was not how our relationship worked before, and was news to me. There is not much room for a friendship amongst this, as she has two kids who go to school, and her partners job is full on. So I felt devastated. I must state I have doubts as this being the true reason, but I reacted according to her words. 

I responded: "I had to mull this over, but I don't honestly see how our friendship will work. You're not interested in weekend hanging out, and I know (partner) is dead tired during the week. Also having to pick up both kids after school. Our friendship is not your priority. Personally I can't not take offence, I'm actually devastated. Those I have in my life, I make time for when possible, it's not on a roster, I respect you want to be alone, but I'm not disposable nor a means for passing the week by. I wish you all the best (her), sorry that I can't see eye to eye on this. I'm worth more."

So, AITA in this, what are your thoughts? I know it's hard to judge when a relationship is made up of a lot more. I have done a lot to help her out with her kids, her partner even wanted to make is godparents, but I'm sure she shot that down. She is a very self centred person, but I am still hurt. 