Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : Kontext: the last weekend I was on a trip with my girlfriend for 5 days with the last of the 3 staying at her parents home and getting to know them (we are in a long distance relationship). Days before the trip I asked her if it was okay if I worked on some stuff for my Dungeons and Dragons games during the trip as it was an overall 14 hours of train riding and she said okay. Now the weekend was good besides that I got very ill on the third day. I had some tummy ache for a few days already and It got really bad one day, I threw up a lot too. I didn't want to cancel the trip however and pulled through, going to both dinner with her parents and her friends. I felt pretty miserable the last few days but I wouldn't be visiting her home town soon again so I didn't want to waste the trip.






Now I actually hadn't done any work yet because the first 7 hours on the train we just talked a lot so I had no reason to. Same goes for the 7 hours back except for the last hour before she had to get off. We had nothing to talk about for the last 20 minutes or so already so I figured I could get some work in now else I get bored when I got nothing to do. My gf then started listening to music. Of course I closed my laptop in the last 10 minutes before approaching her station so we had some last time to smooch and cuddle before saying goodbye. So much about that. A few days later I went to the doctor to get my stomach checked. He did not find anything super worrying or irregular but took some probes and would get back to me with it on Monday. Now I told my gf basically everything he said in short Form and said she could ask me for more details in 2 days when we would videochat as I know she is noisy. Thing is I have some big anxiety problems and am an extreme introvert. Spending time with my gf is always exhausting for me because I am so close to another person 24/7 and I told her that's the case. So naturally 5 days without ever an hour to recharge my social batteries alone but instead meeting lots of new people that are important to my gf in a place that I do not know is extremely mentally exhausting for me. So I really needed some alone time after this which is why I didn't want to talk on the phone about my doctor's visit until our video chat.




Now I got a text from her and she is really pissed at me for pulling out my laptop to work in that last hour saying it felt super insulting and hurtful. 
Same goes for telling her we will talk about the details of my doctors visit during our video chat, she says it's super rude to not know what happened during your friend's doctor's visit until 2 days after, even though I really told her all the important stuff that happened. 
She says she always thought we had different understandings of kindness and not being rude and looks away often enough but this was to much for her. 
AITA?