Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : So I am 27 and I am a male and my girlfriend is 24. We been together for about 3 months and in a program together. Well we got into a fight and she broke up with me. Fast forward before christmas break we decided to meet up and talk about it. She said she was just confused on getting back and will use the christmas break to figure out if she wanted to get back. 

3 weeks goes by and we didn't talk to each other or anything during that break no looking at each other social medias. Before school started I decided to just unfriend her on all of my social media and move on. Well she got really pissed about it and told my roomie who told me. Keep in mind we still see each other in class and kind of giving each other the cold shoulder. From her perspective I am being immature and she thought things were going well before hand, but to me it she was playing with me making me wait to figure it out. 

Waiting 3 weeks is basically a soft rejection and to me it was basically me taking control and removing myself from that situation. She always wanted to be friends and I said I can't be friends. Then a part of me is if I would have waited on the facebook friends thing and then unfriend her depending on how things turn out. 