Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : A couple days ago I got a new cat. It’s a black kitty that I found roaming around at night. It’s definitely a stray and not a wild cat because it was very sweet and had no problem brushing up on a stranger. Don’t be alarmed, I’m not planing on keeping it if it’s owner shows up. I’ve posted it on several local missing pet Facebook groups to see if I can find an owner. 

Anyway, this is the second cat I have with my boyfriend along with a pug. This cat is very clean and doesn’t shed at all. Tonight me and my boyfriend got into a fight because he doesn’t wanna sleep in a bed with a cat. This just completely baffles me because we have slept in a bed with the other cat who is more outdoors and is much more unkempt. She sheds and is a little smelly but he has never noted a problem sleeping in a bed with her. We both have allergies to cats but truly I haven’t seen him have a flare up from the cats. 

The argument consisted of him telling me that he can’t sleep with me if the cat is on the bed because it just grosses him out so much that the cat is near the pillows (not touching). He has brought the dog up onto the bed on multiple occasions and I am extremely allergic to dogs. I never complain because it makes him happy. Now once I get a new sweet kitty, it has to be a big deal. At the end of it he told me I had to choose to sleep with him or the cat and after hearing him yell at me and look down at the sweet little kitty I told him he can go sleep alone.  Am I the asshole?