Long story short, I lent my friend $50 so she could buy some Spring clothes. Her parents are really poor and she’s been wearing the same clothes for maybe 2 years and I felt really bad for her. I didn’t ask for her to pay me back because I kind of just assumed that’s what a normal person would do. It’s been like a month and still nothing, even after I asked her. Am I the asshole for not telling her to pay me back at first? Or is she the asshole for not paying me back at all?