So back when I was dating my ex we both got back into Old School Runescape, she had an account, and I had two accounts. Her account got banned for botting, so I decided to let her use my other account as her main. 

I broke up with her about half a year ago, and around the time we broke up I had recovered my other account back that she was using. 

Seems like a dickhead move right? - I can understand that. Keep in mind though, I took this girl on a business-class trip, full expense paid Vacation to Europe, I bought her food all the time since she wasn’t working and always claimed to have “no money” (she gave her dude friend $20 to hit on an older lady at the bar, obviously she ain’t as tight on money as she says) and she was a very dependable person in the sense she can almost never be alone, so I had little to no free-time of my own and she lived an hour away while she was going to school. I wasn’t a dick to her besides the occasional arguing and yelling, I definitely made some mistakes but that’s not really the point of all this.

I had quit OSRS before we broke up, and at one point I had given her absolutely all of my items worth value. I messaged her one day asking her if I can have some of my stuff back, to which she says no because she sold most of it and is actively playing so she needs the money. I said alrighty then. It was at this point I recovered the account. The account hasn’t been used for months, and was not a member. This made me pretty pissed off, she was that spiteful as to lie over something as so stupid as virtual items, so in my head I just said “Fuck you, I’m keeping this account. If you can spend $20 on something as stupid as a joke you can buy yourself a fucking OLD SCHOOL RUNESCAPE ACCOUNT.”

1. If she had simply helped me out I gladly would’ve just let her have the account and we can just live our lives.

2. Once she figured out I recovered the account, she started blowing me the fuck up, I’ll provide a blurred screenshot of all the things she said. But even when trying to talk about it rationally she just swore me and condemned me, telling me to commit suicide, etc. you get the gist.


I pretty much said go fuck yourself at that point.


Few months later, 

I had a bit of a personal and very emotional event happen to me, and in the anguish I decided to text her because I just needed help in the moment. We established some sort of middle ground again, and it was actually kind of nice. I was reflecting on the previous events, and I knew she put some work into that account (graceful outfit) so I asked her if she wanted it back. She said she would appreciate it, so I changed the password and told her she can change the email to her own. 

This is how the convo unfolded:

Her:“You took my fucking stuff?”

Me: “Yeah, it’s been months and this is my account. Aren’t you glad you’re even getting it back at all?”

“You’re a piece of shit give it back to me now”

“I mean I can give you some gold...I’m literally giving you an entire account to be yours and you’re really talking to me like this?”

“Lmao fuck off”


End of conversation. 
I sent her a final goodbye message and I’m never letting her back in again, and I’m not even as spiteful as to recover the account again a second time, I care nothing for it. This bitch didn’t even wish my father a Merry Christmas when he provided her with a job to pay off her car. Even after informing her that my dad was sad she never told her Merry Christmas, to which she replied “I will” she never fucking did. I think I have a little more reason to be upset than she does over a stupid fucking video game.

Sorry for the very long post, I just don’t have very many friends anymore and I need some insight as this to me is literally the most childish thing I’ve ever heard of, but let me know your thoughts. I tried to hold back as much bias as I could... but hopefully you can see why there might be some. 

Am I the Asshole? 


