Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : Title is a bit misleading, but accurate nontheless.

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Recently me and my best friend, who we'll refer to as J, have been going through some problems. Girls, grades, a bunch of bullshit that would have probably blown over within the next month or so. We are both at college, and we room together on campus.

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As a way to vent my anger healthily without saying anything unintentionally hurtful to him during an argument, I opened up a google doc and wrote down whatever came to mind. A lot of it was hurtful towards him, and even though it was true, I'm probably biased in saying that. I just wrote a lot about how he had hurt me, how his decisions were making my life (at the moment) miserable, and even included one particularly aggressive paragraph at the end where I told him to *"go f\*\*\* himself,"* and that I didn't ever want to speak to him again. Mind you, my computer is password protected, and I didn't mean most of the things I wrote in that document. It just felt good to scream out my problems, even if it was into an empty void where no one could hear me. It was supposed to be private; I never intended on anyone reading it, and would have probably deleted it once the issues with J were resolved. (I use this google doc method often, its one of the ways I cope with problems.)

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I wrote in the doc last Thursday. Today, sends me a cryptic text while I'm in class and asks me to come back to the room to discuss something he referred to as *"urgent importance."* I came back, whereupon he proceeded to yell and scream at me for twenty five minutes for not properly venting my anger to him, and for writing all of those horrible things about him in a google doc.

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Turns out that yesterday, on Tuesday, while I had gone to take a test and left my computer unlocked, J opened up my computer, opened my google drive, and found the document. Most of the things I'd written in that document pertained to *very* personal things J had confided in me about, things only I knew. I'd never intended the doc to be seen by anyone, least of all J himself, and tried explaining that to him, to no avail. He asked me what I had planned to do with the document, I said it was only to get my feelings out and that it was never intended to be seen by anyone besides me. J told me that I had *"violated his trust,"* by writing all of that highly personal and confidential information down, even if it was only meant to be seen by me. He stayed the night with his FWB last night, and intends to do the same tonight. He hasn't made a comment on the future of our friendship, and I have not talked to him since the verbal altercation. AITA?