Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : My mom always opens my mail before even telling me that I have any. I don’t live with her anymore. If it was just junk mail I wouldn’t care but she opens things from my college, social security, tax information, etc. I get several checks in the mail every year for financial aid and scholarships so it bothers me that she opens them. I’ve asked her several times not to but she just continues. She actually lost one of my checks and I had to spend the day searching the whole house. It got to the point where it infuriated me and I raised my voice at her. 