Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : Long story short, my fiance just walked out on me. She waited til I went to work and packed her shit, took half of my rent money, our shared car and moved back in with her abusive ex-husband. No indication there was anything wrong. Everything seemed to be getting better. For over a year and a half I have spent a lot of emotion and energy on helping her raise her kids. Her 14 year old son especially. She is no doubt lying to him, and I don't care about that. I guess I just want to say goodbye, Merry Christmas, and that I love him. Which I do ..very deeply. We had a great bond and I never got to say goodbye. Her daughter is only eight so I can't get closure there...But the son is 14, doesn't live with her, and has a cellphone...So I guess I am just seeking guidance.i love those kids, and hate to walk away without ANY closure...just writing this has me sobbing :-( 
Tl;Dr- Fiance cheated and left me while I was at work. Gave me no closure and just ripped my heart apart by taking her kids away without so much as a goodbye. WIBTA for simply texting him, saying Merry Christmas, and some sort of a goodbye?

Thanks! Merry Christmas and a Happy New year to all of you