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To start it off I was in the army and stationed in Germany when I met my now Ex-Wife. We got married when I got orders back stateside. Fast forward a couple months her 19 year old brother wants to come live with us. I was a little hesitant at first but the wife was persistent so I finally caved and said he could but he had to pay 1 bill and 50$ every two weeks for groceries. 

 So he arrived around mid August with around 2100$. I told him he wouldn’t he wouldn’t have to pay for the month of August as he had just arrived. He had no car so I allowed him to use mine when he would go to school and look for a job because I had a motorcycle I could ride.  By mid September he had spent all of his money on clothes and going out. I had to pay for nearly everything as my Ex worked at a gas station barely able to afford her car payment. (It was her house to buy the car)

This caused conflict in the marriage because I would constantly come home to her brother just playing video games and nothing else. Well I ended up keeping track of everything he owed me according the agreement intially made when  he moved in. It ended up being roughly 2600$ all in all.

We ended up getting divorced in April of the next year. When she was moving out to her apartment she ended up getting rear ended and a stop light. The entire rear of the car was completely totaled. I paid for her insurance as her and her brother were on my plan. 

Around two weeks after the accident we signed the divorce and I thought that was it. Two weeks later I get a call from the insurance company asking about where to send the GAP Paycheck too. So I had them send it to my house. It was about 1600$ 

She called me a couple days later crying saying I stole from her and she wants that money as it was supposed to be her rent money. I told her to shove off and consider it payment for her brothers expenses. She threatened me by saying she would get her friends to come collect because I stole it. Which i didn’t because the GAP insurance pays to the insurance holder and the car was in my name as well. 


*TL DR Paid about 2500$ for Ex wife’s brother to stay with us. Ended up wrecking car after divorce. Kept the GAP insurance check as payment for her brother.

