Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Here's some backstory, I'm a 21 yo male, appearance is irrelevant, but I occasionally say some mildly (give or take) racist things without thinking (I have ADHD/ADD if it helps with context) and my 20 yo girlfriend doesn't appreciate it but understands that I have filter issues and am trying to work on it.

 Recently we had an argument about whether it was okay for her to say that other guys are cute, and I said only as long as I could call other girls cute Understandable, right? She said that she would stop calling guys cute from then on. No issues, no problems, today however she was talking with her sister (we've been trying to get her sister a boyfriend for a while, and she calls one of the boys she sees on her sister account hot, and so I bring up the conversation we had previously about calling people cute and that she agreed that she wouldn't, her response was that I never said she couldn't call people hot.

 I, understandably upset stated that it is essentially the same thing, her response was that, I could also call girls hot, as long as she
I understand that she will be uncomfortable with it, and then says that, since I say racist shit without her bitching at me, then she should be allowed to call guys hot. I told her that those had no correlation to each other and that calling people cute also includes calling guys hot, she says I should have been more specific about it.