Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : So we've been married for just shy of 3 years now and my husband is really getting on my case to have a baby. To give you readers a sense of "getting on my case" I mean like asking for a deadline on when to start trying and questinioning me on going back to school because that means that babies might be delayed.

I've stated that I do want to have kids but not right this second. My main concern is that there is A LOT in instability and uncertainty in our lives right now. His job has taken us to live in Europe for 3 years and in a year we will be moving again, but we don't know where to yet. I want to wait until there's a little more certainty in life and to know that I'm going to have a good support system in place because he travels for work for long periods of time. His response to all of that is "I don't want to wait anymore" and "people do this all the time" and "it's not fair to him" 

Now I understand that there is no perfect time to have babies however I'm a firm believer that if your gut is telling you that it's not a good time, then it's not a good time

So am I the asshole?