Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : My boyfriend (25M) and I (24F) got into a disagreement about whether a specific behavior is inconsiderate. Often when I say something to him, or ask a question, he won’t respond or say anything even when we’re the only two people in the room. 

I think this is kind of rude, and it makes me feel alone and ignored. He says he just doesn’t hear me because he lost in thought about something else, and I shouldn’t be so sensitive and instead try harder to get his attention. 

AITA for starting fights about this? Should I work on how I respond rather than focusing on what he’s doing?