Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : Hi everyone, first post so I'm sorry if I violate any rules.

This past weekend, my girlfriend and I planned to spend the weekend together at my mom's house in NJ until Sunday when we would both go back to Brooklyn, NY together. I'm on vacation from my job so I came to NJ earlier on in the week to get some errands out of the way, i.e. change car brakes, clean up and organize my mom's house, spend time with a friend I don't see often since we live in different states. I even had my gf pack some bags, and I loaded them into my car so she wouldn't have to carry them here herself. She still had work through out the week and the plan was for her to take the train from NY to NJ where I would pick her up from the train station. All the sudden, we had a pretty bad snow storm on the Thursday before and that made a mess of the roads as well as public transportation in NY. She decided not to take the train to NJ because after a long week of work, she was tired and didn't want to deal with the mess that was the trains. I said okay, although I was upset and figured I can leave early Sunday morning and head back to NY to spend some time with her and come back to NJ later on in the week. What the issue is, is that she got angry that since she couldn't take the train, I didn't offer to drive back and forth to NY to pick her up and bring her to NJ either Friday night or Saturday morning, and then of course, drive her back to NY sometime Sunday since she still has work before Thanksgiving. I'm still on vacation and had to come back to NJ at some point after I took her back. I told her she jumped the gun, because although she did take off from her job on Saturday to come to NJ, I was planning to come back early Sunday to be with her and spend a few nights together. She understands that but still insists that I am not a true gentleman because I think it's a bit out of the way to drive back and forth, 2x in a weekend, to pick her up, bring her to NJ and then take her back to NY. She claims I am the only man she has ever known that thinks that's a bit much when compared to my alternative of just heading back to NY early to be with her. AITA here?