Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : So I recently began dating someone I have had feelings for for a very long time. We've both liked each other since highschool but it has always been the wrong place or the wrong time. The problem is her brother is a very close friend and he doesn't seem to be okay with it. He hasn't come out and said it but he barely even acknowledges my existence anymore. The two of them have been arguing a lot lately too and while he won't say it I feel like it is because he feels betrayed. To add some context I met this girl first and then him through her. It's always been obvious we liked each other. Her parents even reacted with "Well it's about time." I know he knew and it never bothered him until we actually started dating a few weeks ago. Am I the asshole here or does he need to get over it?