Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : To elaborate, I am 17 years old but am turning 18 this month and I’ve already graduated high school so my mother decided since I’m about to be 18 and my girlfriend and I already have a house she’d let me move.

 The original plan was for me to get a job right away and so that’s what I did. The problem is the restaurant  I applied for (and others) needs proof of a vaccine that I haven’t received yet in order for them to start me. I also didn’t have an ID prior to applying  so I knew I would have to get one after. 

I would also like to make it clear that I’ve contributed over $500 from my savings since I’ve moved so it’s not like I’m not helping out financially. 

My mother lives 2 hours away from us and I can’t drive because nobody ever had time to teach me or take me to the DMV while I was in school. I needed to get my birth certificate from my mother to get my ID. After a nearly a week of my mother saying she was looking we finally decided she’d lost it and we asked my grandfather if he had it. Luckily he did so we picked it up and went to get my ID later that day. The courthouse said they needed proof of residence such as a piece of mail before they could print the ID so I went and opened a bank account and got a piece of mail from the bank (which took around 4-5 days because the mail didn’t run on weekends). After I finally got the mail and got my ID printed the last step was to get my shot records. At this point my future employer said they’re tired of waiting so they’ll give me until the end of the week and if I can’t get it then they won’t hire me. So I went and called several pediatricians that I went to as a baby to see if I’ve gotten the shot and all of them had said I haven’t yet. I tried to schedule an appointment at the health department and rite-aid but they both said that I would have to have a parent or guardian present in order for them to give me the shot so I’m probably better off waiting until I’m 18 or driving to go to a doctor where my mother can be there. My mother is busy all the time plus we can’t afford to keep driving back and forth all the time so we decided it’s best that I try to get a job somewhere else or wait until I’m 18 (which is only a little over a week away). 

Now my girlfriends mother is complaining that I haven’t got a job yet and is talking shit to her about me and saying I need to do more chores if I’m not working (even though I definitely do my share, and my girlfriend sees all that I do)

Her mother lives with us and is also incredibly rude with both of us sometimes and smokes in the house despite us telling her not to. 

TLDR; am I the asshole for not starting work yet because the work needs proof of a shot that I can’t get. 