Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : A few months ago, my coworker was talking to me about her children. I naturally asked to see photos as I love seeing baby pictures! I love kids! She showed me a photo of two black girls. They were super adorable, and I asked if her kids were adopted. She said "No, I popped them out of my vagina." I apologized and that was that. 

Fast forward to present day, on Facebook she wrote a post about how she encountered a rude person at the mall who asked if her kids were adopted infront of the girls. Her post went on to vent about how people are so ignorant. Many comments followed along, stating how people are rude and they have no business in knowing how their kids came to be. 

I also remembered that she shared what I said to our coworkers over lunch. We were talking about stupid things we can personally say, and I added to the conversation that I say inappropriate things at inappropriate times. That coworker said, "Yeah, like the time you asked me if my kids were adopted." Many of her close friends were at that lunch table and looked horrified and gave me a very dirty look. 

Am I the asshole for asking if her kids were adopted?

In my defence, her kids are very, very dark and did not look like they were mixed.. It happened a few months ago, and I don't know whether to apologize again or not. I apologized immediately when it happened... but seems like she's keeping a list of all the people that have said similar things to her as her Facebook is flooded with posts explaining these encounters... 