Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : My neighbor travels quite often, usually every other month for two to three weeks at a time. While she’s gone, she asks me to get her mail, mow her (small) lawn, water her plants, etc. I do it, begrudgingly, even though when I go out of town, I pay a petsitter to get my mail and water my plants, and I don’t need my grass mowed since I’m never out of town longer than a week. 

I never ask favors of her but she will often mow my grass before she goes out of town or do other things that I don’t ask of her. She’s one of those people that will tell you she did something for you instead of simply doing it and not expecting recognition. Most of the things she does, I don’t notice. She recently power washed “my” sidewalk but I didn’t even notice as it’s not my property or responsibility. She also told me she pulled a couple weeds from my yard, even though they weren’t close to her property line. They were “bugging” her. Basically, I don’t need her help but she relies on me when she goes out of town.

She just informed me that she’s going on vacation for quite a while and asked me to do the things mentioned above. She was very specific this time about how I should handle her mail: she wants me to get rid of all the catalogs and other junk mail before I give it back to her. She’s asked this of me before, I did it once, and quit doing it because why should I take my time to sort through her mail when she could do it herself? I lied and told her that I didn’t feel comfortable doing it because I might get rid of something she wanted. She told me not to worry about it and that she didn’t want to come home to a month’s worth of mail. I’ve suggested before to her that USPS will hold your mail but she tried it and said it was a huge hassle to pick it up.

AITA for not wanting to take a couple minutes to get rid of her junk mail, which will make things easier on her when she gets back into town?
