Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : So almost two years ago, I moved in with my girlfriend and thought, “She’s the love of my life. This is it.” I still think that could be true. She’s the kindest, sweetest, and most thoughtful person. We agree on all the essentials (finances, kids, politics, life goals) but still have enough differences to have fun debates and deep conversations. She’s always been supportive and encouraging, and without question, she’s the best friend I’ve ever had.

When we started dating, I knew she had anxiety and medical problems, but things quickly took a sharp downturn when she stopped hormones about three months into the relationship (she’s a transgirl). Her anxiety is now so bad that she can’t stay home alone. She was recently let go (partially because of her medical issues and anxiety) so now she carpools with me to work so she can look for jobs in the bottom floor of my office building. She’s also anxious about elevators and driving in traffic which makes her job searching even more difficult because she’ll have to take the bus/uber. With her medical issues, she can help with some of the housework but struggles with bringing groceries into the house, walking uphill, and anything that agitates her heart. I grew up with cats and she’s allergic, so even after two years of washing my clothing she’s still worried about cat dander in my clothes and puts blankets on the couch wherever I sit down. Additionally, while I’m very supportive of her gender identity, my attraction to her really changed when she stopped hormones and I really struggle with introducing her to friends and family.

I love her, but after living with her for two years and the constant anxiety and stress from medical issues, I’m extremely tired and burnt out. I’ve been dealing with depression for the past year and even relapsed into cutting recently. I have an appointment with a counselor but it’s still weeks away.

I’m debating moving out for a few months so I can take a break from all the issues and just have some room to breathe and deal with my mental health. But with me moving out, she’s going to have to rely on our roommate’s schedule to be able to stay in the house and it will make her life a lot more difficult with housework and other things. I’d still come by the house a few times a week to help but she’s still going to struggle, mostly with anxiety. But I feel like I desperately need the space.

TL,DR: My girlfriend has really bad anxiety and medical problems, and I've become extremely burnout and depressed/self-harming. I want to get my own apartment but it would mean she would struggle to keep up the house by herself. AITA?

What do you guys think? Advice would be appreciated too.