Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : This is the exchange I (43 m) find on an old cell phone of my girl (46f).

Dude: (3:51pm) Hey “OP’s G” I need to send something today if there’s any chance I can swing by and grab a bag of that be some awesome I think.  

OP’s G: (4:08pm) How soon can you be here? 

Dude: (4:09pm) twenty min 

OPs G:  (4:10pm) Cool. I’m going to leave all doors unlocked I may be in shower but come in and I’ll leave the machine out.   

My girl lived alone in a studio apartment in Los Angeles that has room for a bed and a chair and that’s about all the room.  The dude in question was a business associate of my girlfriend’s, the businesses being the distribution of mathematics study aids and roofing materials.  He did not end up coming through on the day in question but we argue about it all the time.  She says nothing happened and I say intent matters.  To me, she clearly was sending a signal that she was down to fuck this dude.  The old shower trick has been in rotation since that British nurse seduced the American Werewolf in the 80s.  She says I’m crazy and nobody else would interpret those texts like I did.  Is she right?a