Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : I'm a senior, and in my high school we do this thing where we ask people that were somehow meaningful for us during our school years to write a personal or a good luck message in a ribbon. We then give the ribbons to our representatives so that they can attach them to our school diploma. 

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I gave one ribbon to my mother and a few days before I had to turn them in I asked where it was. She replied that I hadn't said or given her anything and 'besides I hadn't even let her read the other ribbons'. 

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I replied that I hadn't and I wouldn't because they were MY ribbons. Although I know that there's not anything compromising or awkward there, I feel like that is something meaningful and that I want to keep for myself. When I said that to my mother my father sided with her. During the event in which we received or school diplomas they again tried to read the ribbons, and I asked them to give me the diploma and kept it with me throughout the event.

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Today I've been drawing and when my mom arrived I had a few sketches folded to later throw in the trash bin. She took them without asking, opened them and started commenting (something that she does a lot - later exhibiting and sharing them, because 'since I threw them out I can't no longer decide what happens to them', most cases I'd be ok if she had just asked). 

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I asked her to put them down, since they are mine and were folded, and she got offended asking why I always do this to her, as she can barely see and just wanted to see them better. She then mentioned that I took the ribbons during the event while she was just trying to understand what was written, and I replied that I had already asked her not to do so, and I have the right to set some boundaries. She then said that she was not a controlling mom, to what I disagreed, as she gets easily offended when I'm not home for more than one day (all previously arranged events usually for 3 days to 2/3 weeks) and don't call her daily to let her know what I did, with or where I was. She did the same to my sister, so when she started doing the same with me 2 years ago, I just text her letting her know that I was well. She would then send emotionless texts (which is not like her). 

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It got to a point where I would dread calling my mom, so I'd just text her and call my sister instead just to give an update every two days or so about how things were going and where I was and how I was feeling, and to know how everyone was - and it is not unusual for my sister to send me a message when I'm out saying that my mom called her and is a pissed out and worried, asking me to call her.

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I'm worried that because I have been mad and hurt with her for a long time, I might not have reacted properly by telling her she was controlling... I have clearly hurt her (she's been passive aggressive with me since. AITA?