I’ve been dating my girlfriend for about 5 and a half years, and I love her very much. We don’t have sex as often as we used to because we both work a lot and are exhausted late, and that’s fine. When she isn’t feeling up to having sex, which is way more often than it is for me to have those feelings, I usually don’t say anything. Also, I understand if she’s not comfortable if we don’t do anything on her period, but I feel like if we are together for like 5 days in a row and we don’t have sex, it doesn’t make me an asshole to ask for a blowjob or handjob. I have asked in the past and she usually just kind of gets flustered and brushes it off as a joke, or she has said if she’s on her period it’s not fair. I asked this past week in a joking way, and she got angry with me. Just also wanted to note I don’t bring it up or make jokes like that often. I’ll back off and stop asking, but AITA for asking in the first place?