Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : Cindy and I have dated for a few months. I try not to be exclusive as much as I can. I make it absolutely clear with any and all of my partners. I'm a hedonist and enjoy keeping a roster of girls as long as I'm transparent about it. And yes, I'm in it mostly for the sex and intimacy and little else. I also make this absolutely clear.

Cindy texts me past midnight a few days back. She's feeling upset at something and wants to cuddle. I've got a full day and am disinclined to say yes. But I've not had some action for nearly a week. I tell her that I'm okay for a cuddle night as long as we have sex first, or at least a nice long BJ. 

She refuses, calls me a pig and a sexist, and cuts the phone. I think nothing of it till the next morning when my phone is blowing up. Messages and texts telling me how she feels like I used her and that she's regretting knowing me. All over a simple request. 

She then crosses my red line where she threatens to find out my "other girls" and tell them how apparently I kicked her out when she was vulnerable. Note: none of this is true, I never even met her the whole week and we only communicated through texts and phone calls.

I block Cindy for two days to give her time to cool off. She emails me on my personal email that I had shared with her sometime because of movie tickets or something. A long rant about how I emotionally used her and how if she ever finds anyone else I'm seeing, she'll personally let them know what's up.

All over a simple request from my end.

I've cold blocked her even though we "dated" for four+ months. During which it was almost purely NSA casual hanging out a couple of times a week at most. 

I'm not the asshole, am I?