ME: 23, no sexual encounters to date, something like 90% sure I'm a lesbian, because all instances of sexual desire have to date been for... well, women. Not out to most of my family. Very sheltered very conservative-Christian upbringing, moving around the world a lot, bit weird, probably autistic, very naive but aware of it. Heavy repression and self-loathing issues around my orientation, but I'm mostly over that and doing great now. I'm in college now and learning most of the social getting-by hacks, but the intimate-relationship ones still elude me.

Other cast members are my friend Jeff, and my not-really-girlfriend Meg.

JEFF: 57, adjunct instructor at my college but in a different faculty. Definitely autistic. We're collaborating on a project, because I am good at what I do and he gives me space to get on and do it. We get along very well; I consider him my best friend, and I know I take up more of his downtime than pretty much anyone else. He's made comments in the past about being 'addicted' to me, and has said that this will never be 'more than friends' unless I want it to. I love him to bits in a platonic kinda way; he's a fantastic guy, very gentlemanly and kind and just good people. If I slip control even a little I know for certain that I could very easily fall head-over-heels in love with him, romantically at any rate. Jeff has been single for a few years now but has at least three exes, all of whom are exes because of personality clashes.

MEG: 18, we met when I lived in her country six years ago, kept in touch online. She's been kicked out of her parents' place because she came out to them as bi. Meg has DID. At least one of her personalities is very gay and very into the idea of us as a couple, talks about moving out here to be with me. I would love that. Meg is amazing, gorgeous, and talented in all the ways I'm not and I admire the hell out of her. She was abused as a kid and is not into the idea of having sex, ever, which I'm cool with, because it's not that big a deal for me and I like her, not her parts. At least six more of her personalities are not into me in that way for various reasons. I treat Meg-as-a-whole as a close friend or sister, and take my cues from whatever personality is in charge at any given time. Anything sexual with Meg is off the table because it would damage her, and I would cut off my own arm to avoid hurting her; I love this girl.

I'm pretty sure if I went to Jeff and said 'hey, fuck me, I wanna know what it's like', he'd check to make sure that was what I wanted, and then yes, he would. I've been lowkey curious for quite a while about hetero sex; everyone seems to enjoy it a lot and I want to know what I'm missing, even though I find the idea slightly repulsive. Same with oysters; they sound gross but everyone likes them and they're not that bad in real life.

TL;DR: WIBTA if I had sex with a guy who would definitely be into it, just out of curiosity on my part?