I'm going to make this as concise as possible. 

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Basically, a friend of mine had been bugging me to come and visit him in another city, about an hour away by plane. I kind of wanted to visit, not just to see him but it's also a city in a country I've never visited, after a lot of back and forth I decided on this weekend (Fri-Mon). I started arranging it about 3 weeks ago. I couldn't stay with him because of his housemate so I had accommodation anyway. He also told me he would take the weekend off work to see me. A couple of days ago he drops that he won't be able to see me on Saturday, and I felt a little annoyed but let it go. He now says this morning that he won't be back until 8pm on Sunday, I ask him why and he says he went back to his dad's hometown (the kicker is it's my hometown too!) because he was sick. 

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I'm actually really annoyed. I know it's not his fault, and I do absolutely think his family comes before me. But it's super annoying because he went back to my hometown and I don't know anyone here. If I'd known, I would've cancelled the trip or at least tried to find someone to come with me. 

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Just to be clear, I'm not going to tell him off or anything. When he told me I just asked if his dad was okay. I just want to know if I'm an asshole for feeling pissed off about it? 