Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : Sorry for any mistakes, I'm on my phone and not a native English speaker. Also sorry if some information is irrelevant.

The case is, I have high-functioning autism. However, it's on the border of not being autism, so nobody except my really close family and girlfriend notice. 

My mother really wishes to help me, and I've been to various forms of counsel, but this is a couple of years back.

I've always wanted to join the military, but the Danish Armed Forces won't allow people with autism. Therefore I've asked my doctor to do a reevaluation, as I've changed quite a lot during recent years.

Bringing all this back to AITA, my mother blames all the things I do differently than her on my autism, and she used to always mention it to strangers, but I got her to stop.

Today my girlfriend and I had a fight, because I thought she was being hypocritical. I was visibly upset, and I discovered my mom and girlfriend discussing my autism, especially relating to our fight. I just can't help but feel like a test subject, where everything I do is autistic. However, I totally understand my girlfriend's desire to know more about my case, and I'm grateful for it. I just really hate my diagnosis, because it's in the way for all of my dreams, so I'd just like it buried and hopefully gone after the reevaluation.

So, AITA for feeling like my GF and mom overstepped a boundary?

