Some context before I start, my mother has been divorced from my father for over 4 years and I heavily encouraged her to get a boyfriend but since I am introverted I did ask her beforehand not to have him over in the house all the time. Her current boyfriend is here 7 days a week for over 5 hours a day. It's almost like he lives here. I paid for the apartment and  I pay half the rent, I asked her to at least not have him here 2 days out of the 7. She throws a fit but I eventually convince her after reminding her that before they started dating I didn't want him here all the time. Now her boyfriend doesn't want to come over at all and it's pretty much turned in to a "should you move out or should I move out?" situation. Which is what I think he wants, he still lives with his wife and kids though they haven't actually been in a relationship for a while. (she cheated on him) and she knows about my mom. But I still think its sketchy that he basically wants to hop from one family to another. He refuses to live alone, I don't know if it's because of expenses or he can't function as an adult by himself but after knowing my mother for only 6 months he is heavily pushing for them to move in together.

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I don't talk to him at all but I know that he is respectful to my mother and me, and he was really helpful with us moving. But I don't appreciate that he is pushing so hard to move in with my mother because he doesn't want to be living with his soon to be wife, yet doesn't want to live alone. I don't like him being in my house 24/7 and I don't think I was being unreasonable for asking my mom for him not to be here at least 2 out of the 7 days a week. AITA for standing my ground and thinking his being to pushy? I don't want my mother to be unhappy and shes basing her happiness heavily on her relationship with him and right now I'm pretty much the biggest source of stress in their relationship because I don't want him moving in and don't want him around all the time. But I think the biggest problem here is that his to afraid to live alone and still hasn't divorced his cheating ex wife.