First I wanna say I’m not a cocky person. If I sound arrogant, I’m not trying to be at all. In fact I have too many insecurities to count. I like having friends but I also like having time on my own.

I can’t seem to become friends with guys that don’t end up liking me. Some of them are good at hiding it but other aren’t. Two of them (who would hide it really well) ended up getting really drunk and admitted they had feelings for me. I still talk to one of them often as he didn’t make things awkward at all and we’re really close.

Other ones are just showing signs and it’s bothering me. I can’t help but feel that they’re only good friends because they secretly wanna get in my pants! 

I recently started studying with this other guy. And ever since then he wants to do everything together.
One day he wanted to study in a small room at the library when it was already late and the library was almost empty. He hesitated so much and said a room was better but I really didn’t want to be alone with him there.
He invited me to go to a club meeting but I told him I was going to another one and he showed up to that one even though I said I’d meet him later. I am starting to feel stalked and really uncomfortable.


The only thing I feel I can do and just become distant so they get the hint. Because idk if being blunt is a good idea.