Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : My friend turns 29 this week and she’s the human equivalent of the energiser bunny, doesn’t sleep, works 60 hours a week while always having a side hustle. 

My dad passed away last year and she’s been a major help to myself and my mum sorting stuff out, so we’d bend over backwards to return the favour. 

For her birthday she wants to go to the theatre in a city 100 miles from her (about 120/130 for me) and we agreed to go at the weekend. Suddenly last night we got a text saying they couldn’t get tickets and she wants to go this Wednesday instead. 

Both of us declined as the show doesn’t end till gone 10 pm and then it’ll be 2 - 3 hour drive back, before starting work at 6am next day. Both of us are also working stupid hours trying to sort out my dads stuff and keep full time jobs. 

Am I the asshole? 

