Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : My boyfriend gets defensive when I tell him he has a drinking problem. He tells me he “doesn’t qualify” because he doesn’t drink everyday. This is true, but when he does drink he thinks he needs to be hammered. The night will eventually lead to him throwing up and passing out around 6am. He turns into a completely different person when he’s drunk and I usually spend the night cooped up in our bedroom because I don’t want to deal with his antics. 

The thing is, his mom is DEFINITELY an alcoholic. She drinks all of the time and just got out of a DUI (luckily) because I answered my phone for the cops at 2am and came to get her. I know alcoholism runs in families and I don’t want him to end up in the same boat as his mom. 

So AITA for telling my boyfriend he is an alcoholic and needs help? I love him dearly and just want him to be safe. Also, if I am the asshole, how to I go about fixing this? 