I present to you one of the strangest interactions I have ever had on this site. Over at r/banned, someone recounts a story of being banned from r/aww for making an offensive joke. The joke was mildly funny, at best. Another user comes along and basically accuses the joke-poster of being a bully. I pointed out that the fact that your actions might not be appreciated doesn't *necessarily* make them malicious, and that in this case, no harm was done. User replies that I'm defending abuse and that offensive jokes always cause harm, and asks why am I saying that it's okay to hurt people. And on, and on, and now the user is calling *me* an abuser because I might occasionally swear in my mother's company even though she would prefer that I didn't.

https://www.reddit.com/r/banned/comments/a096g3/raww_i_couldnt_miss_the_opportunity_to_comment/eag5knb/

Am I the abuser? lol.