He told me today he wanted all my passwords to social media “just to take a look” which I felt like was a huge invasion of privacy. I told him I have no problem showing you if for some reason you want to see something but giving all my passwords was too much. Yes, we are in a relationship and don’t/shouldn’t have secrets, but am I not entitled to that small amount of privacy, even if I’m not hiding anything? 

He’s done many questionable things in our past to break my trust but moving forward in our relationship i basically let it all go once I felt comfortable. I figured I wanted to be with this person so all I could do was trust he wouldn’t make the same mistakes and move on. Now, I know his passwords. Not because I asked for them, though. For 1) he uses practically the same password for lots of things and 2) he has asked me to log into —— to find something or do something. I don’t snoop. I made it a point not to because I feel like that’s unhealthy. I don’t want to become obsessed with know what he’s doing or who he’s talking to, etc. I give him his privacy. 

After explaining it was an invasion of my privacy, he managed to turn it around and call me “sketchy”, not understanding at all where I am coming from. I’m so incredibly hurt by this &amp; we’ve gotten into a huge argument over it. He is pushing his insecurities into me &amp; I feel like it’s not fair to me since I am so trusting to him despite his lies in the past but that trust is not being reciprocated.

Please, AITA? Am I playing victim or taking it too far??