Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : So I've never had that great of a relationship with my mother.  Ha! Reason being she is just a mean and unpleasant person when it comes to organizing and attending special events.  She got pissed and left my paternal grandfathers funeral because my brother didn't bring the boots for his kids that she had bought them.  She's pety.

Every holiday is the same.  My brother, his family, and my dad all have a pretty good time until she starts off.  It never fails that every year she gets mad about something trivial and goes off either yelling or ignoring everyone.  This year was no different.  The stuffing wasnt quite ready but we decided to just start eating anyway and this inferiorated her.  She sat in silence at the table and would get snippy and condescending if anyone tried to talk to her or cheer her up.  She ended up eating and going to sit by herself in the living room.  I tried to ask what was wrong and she just ignored me.  So I left.  I made it clear that it was her actions which made me leave.  My brother and dad tried calling me and when they couldn't reach me she drove to my house, knocked on my door, asked if I was sleeping and I said yes and then she just left...  I was expecting an apology but I guess she's to scared or whatever to admit she does this all the time and its finally accrued consequences for her.

Yesterday she texts me to see if I'd like to go out to breakfast with her and I ignored it.

I also don't plan on going to our family Christmas.  I'm just sick of how she screams and yells or ignores everyone in a grumpy fit and makes everyone uncomfortable when we are just trying to have a good time.  She's never brought it up and when I try she just ignores me...  I don't know what to do other than just not go and save myself the stress.

AITA for ignoring her and not wanting attend to holiday dinners anymore? 