Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Last night I went on a date with a guy I met on an app who also had a few mutual friends. We got along great and ordered beers at the local bar. During the date itself, we got along great. We had similar college experiences and had good rapport. We told a lot of funny stories about school and life and we had a really good time talking in general. 

We go back to his place nearby and watch my favorite show. I cuddle with him a bit and it was fine, but I noticed he didn't have the best breath. He then makes a move on me and I try to go with it. See, his face was attractive so it wasn't as bad for me, but I'm not super tolerant to bad breath so it was hard to get through anyways. 

I had not had sex in months so I decided why not, and we do. The first time was with his shirt on, the second time he took it off. He was more overweight that I thought. Before, in clothes, he looked like the type that was just stocky but in the athlete way. I went along with it and I enjoyed the sensations, but struggled having chemistry with HIM. I felt bad. He also had to take breaks during since he did not have good enough cardio to continue for that long. 

I'm a former athlete and my job still requires me to be in pinnacle shape. I have a hard time relating to someone who lets themselves go and have a hard time being turned on by non-athletic bodies for some reason. I've tried to override it and pay attention to personality, ambition, protectiveness, etc. a lot more, like other women do. But I could never get over physical attraction as a necessity. I feel bad about it because if I were a man I'd be labeled a shallow douchebag. 

He complimented me a lot and said how he was glad I came over to spend more time with him. And on one hand I was happy to end my dry spell, but on the other hand, I regretted it. 

He asked for a second round and I said no, I was tired. That was true, since I've worked out for 3 hours that day, but I didn't say that I wasn't feeling it. He said "please" and I shut it down again and grabbed my things and left. 

Today he asked if I wanted to hang out again, and I said no. I mentioned it was weird he said "please" after I said I was too tired. But I didn't know how I should have went about this situation - not being attracted to someone. 

AITA for rejecting someone because he wasn't as in shape as I expected him to be? AITA for valuing physical attraction and sex this much in a relationship? 