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Alright this is a pretty long story so be prepared. I was friends with a girl (who we'll name Kara) and a guy (who we'll call Ben). I've known Kara for about 7 months and Ben for 4 years.

Kara was a super annoying girl near the end of me and her friendship. She would always obsess over Ben, who at the time she was crushing over, and she would almost never really pay much attention to me. She was super needy about having me bike with her, begging her to tell her if there's anything horrible with her, and heck, she tried to get me to 'unfriend' Ben at one point, for lack of a better word.

So one day, me and Ben were on the bus going home, and I forget how we brought it up but we ended up talking about how she was super obsessive and needy and was talking about dating even though we were only in grade eight and stuff. 

And it almost out of nowhere occured to me that, wow, I don't have fun hanging out with her. There wasn't one exact reason why, but just a bunch of small reasons, like she would call me slow, or she always crushed on my best friend, or how she would always call me at like 11:00 on a school night and get mad when I don't pick up.


So I called Ben about this, and it turns out that he also realized the same kinda thing. So we stayed on the phone for around a half an hour, just venting about her and talking about wether we should tell her or not, and we come to the agreement that I should text her and tell her that i don't wanna be her best friend anymore because she was a being a pest.

I texted her for about 2 or 3 hours, and the whole time she was being super guilty trippy and super mean, telling me that I'm (a bunch of swears and slurs and stuff), while telling me that she thinks I'm 'genuinely perfect', while being super self deprecating, saying she sucks and stuff. And from there, she blocked me. I felt incredibly relieved that I was officially not her friend anymore, yet that was about to change at school.

The next day, rumors went around that I bullied her, made fun of her, insulted her, and said that I had feelings for her. Not. True. My friends instantly realize this, and tell everyone about what was going on. Later that day, me and Ben went to our lockers while our other friend, let's call him Dave, was behind tying his shoe. As we're walking to our locker, we can hear Kara faintly whisper to Dave "see!? They left you!!" Which could only mean that Kara was trying to get my friends to turn on me. We go over and ask her what was going on, and she started buzzing on and on about us and how much of  an asshole we were

This went on for about a month, she would occasionally kick me and Ben, or throw apple seeds at us, and other dumb stuff. and no, my friends luckily didn't turn on me. Thankfully the water has settled, and nothing really happens anymore.
 
but ever since then, I've always kept the question. Am I The Asshole here?? She treated me like garbage and all, but I still don't know if im the Jerkwad here or what.