Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : Hey folks, I’m going to try and tell this as bias free as I can. Important info, we live in BFE so the doctors appointments/PT are at least 45minutes away. It made more sense for them to go to the doctor/physical therapy with me than for me to drive 45 minutes to the appointments, 45 minutes home, and then 45 min to town and then 45 min home. I tried for two days straight to take my fiancé out for Valentine’s Day. I would be paying for the lunch, movie, and gas for the date. The only kicker was that I had physical therapy one day and a doctors appointment at the other so we needed to leave the house before noon both days. Well the first day arrives and fiancé won’t get out of bed and I finally tell them that I guess I’ll just go ahead to physical therapy without them since I would be late and they weren’t even really up yet. I go to the date and come home and we agree that we will go to the movie the next day. Well the next day comes and they get up and are sullen at the doctors appointment because they don’t feel good. They are sullen at lunch because they don’t feel good and I ask if we should cancel are plans.  They pussy foot around it and I explain that if they aren’t going to have a good time I don’t want to go. So we agree to not go and go to Walmart and then home. Am I the asshole for being upset that they couldn’t get it together enough to go on two different dates that they agreed to?