I'm pretty mad right now, and of course I wouldn't "flip" but I'm really tired of being nice about this. 

The cat box has become an issue between us. We live in a small apartment and it's in a closet off of our living room, so the smell can creep into our living room when not taken care of.  She cleans it once every four days (scoops just the clumps and never replacing the litter entirely or scrubbing the box at all) and honestly our apartment just smells like cat litter and poop. I've had to become complacent because every time I explain to her nicely that I pay the rent just like her and would appreciate if she cleaned it every 1-2 days instead, especially since he's a big cat and lays huge turds. Every time I asked her, she would get kind of defensive and would tell me that I jump all over her every time she makes a mistake, and that she's only human. I get that she is only human, but this happens a lot.

I just got back from a week of spring break. She left the day after me, and is coming home in about two hours. I come inside and it REEKS. I check the cat box room, and lo and behold, it's full of shit. She let shit fester in our house for a week. Took the cat with her, but left the litter.

I don't know how to approach her about this. If anything, I am moving out in May. But I am just so, so livid. Especially after talking to her multiple times and it being known that the cat box is a source of serious contention between us. 


WIBTA if I said something, expressing how angry I am about this? Or do I have to say it calmly, again, that her cat box cleaning habits are fucking disgusting? Or not say anything because I am moving soon?

P.S. Love the cat tho. He's a good boy. 

