Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : My friend plays basketball the local rec center. Me and my friends and sometimes my girlfriend go to every game to support him. I had just got home from the gym and needed to shower and get ready and head right over, and in my haste, forgot to pick up my girlfriend on the way.

I let her know as I'm heading to the rec center that I forgot to pick her up but, she's still welcome to come. keep in mind, I'm always the one that drives us places in our relationship. She says she doesn't feel like driving so she doesn't go, and that she's a little irritated with me. I say "Why? Am I expected to pick you up?"

She told me that she snapchatted me saying "come pick me up" about a half hour before this all went down, and I never opened it until later that night. 

I apologized to try avoiding a fight, to which she replied "not much to do about it now".


Here's how I see it.

1. I always drive. I was coming home from the gym, showering, rushing to get out the door and I forgot about picking her up.
2. She's perfectly capable of driving herself to the gym. She didn't want to drive, who says I did?
3. I tried to take the high road and instead of fighting, apologize for forgetting her to which she replied, "not much to do about it now"

Am I the asshole?
