Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : So I’ve had feelings for this girl for about 5 years now, and he knows I’m head over heals for her but I’ve made it into the ‘bro-zone’. I’m okay with that and for the most part I’m ‘over her’, but I still don’t feel okay about any of my friends being with her, which is selfish I know.

Last night he was getting pretty cozy with her so I pulled him aside to ask him if anything would happen, and said that if he really wants to
I guess it’s okay because I don’t want to be the reason why him and this girl (my other best friend) aren’t going to have a good time.

He tells me that he would never because our friendship means too much etc... and then 15 minutes later I found out that she sucked his dick. 

He never talked to me after, is ignoring me now. Being drunk, I really let him have it over text because this is the second time he’s done something like this (he kissed a girl I was also starting to see) 

I don’t know if I’m an asshole for everything I said because I know it’s selfish to try and control that kind of situation when it’s very much not a possibility for me. 