Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : Wife constantly giving obvious advice suggestions, either from her own mind or from her super helpful parents, basically to the point of micromanaging our home. 

Rather than getting annoyed and complaining as usual, I am trying to change my ways and be grateful, saying thanks, good advice, Now I am being accused to being passive aggressive.

I am making an effort to just accept her and their advice/micromanagement that I find to be annoying and nagging, but now that is a problem because its passive aggressive and disingenuous.

So basically I'm the asshole either way. 