Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : I broke up with my gf of nearly 3 years last month and I'm still struggling with feelings of guilt and sadness for hurting her. We're both in our early 30s and she was an amazing partner. We made plenty of good memories and rarely had any disagreements, but I felt my attraction to her slowly fade (she wasn't my type from the beginning but I liked her well enough and we grew on each other).  

I keep telling myself that I made the right decision by just ending it rather than dragging it out, but she was really blindsided and when we spoke the other day she said that she's still struggling to process things. I've never felt this bad about a breakup, even when I was the one getting dumped. Every time we talk I feel worse and worse, but I don't have the heart to tell her that we should give each other more space. 

Am I the asshole for breaking up with her? 