Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Hi, first time poster, long time lurker, sorry beforehand for any mistakes, there's a **TL:DR** included below, also English isn’t my first language either.

I (30M|Agnostic Jew) was introduced to this lady (30F|7th Day Adventist), and we had great chemistry from the start. We went on a lunch date, but she kept pushing the religion topic more and more during lunch, asking many questions, all of which I answered honestly. Despite finding her very charming and gorgeous, I could foresee religion becoming an issue down the line. Later that day, she asked me through text why we didn’t kiss, and I confessed. We talked and agreed that it would be best if we parted ways.

I didn’t contact her after that, and focused on moving on, but after about a week, out of the blue, she texted me saying:

"Hi this is XYZ, remember me? :) How about we start over from scratch? I think we had great chemistry together and should give it a shot despite our last convo, what do you say?"

I was ecstatic, and agreed to see her. A couple of days later, she asked if I was willing to meet her community, to which I said: "Sure!". As we discussed this, it turned out that it wasn't a "Meet&amp;Greet", but a full-blown Bible Camp, to which I had to commit 3 days a week, every week

So, while I thought that she had found a compromise, and was willing to look beyond our differences regarding religion, what she actually meant was " I want to date you, so you should adopt my religion". After she confirmed this, things went sour pretty fast. She said two meanspirited things:

1.	It was my fault for ending things and closing the door on "us", since I was unwilling to give her faith, and therefore our relationship, a shot, while stating I was asking too much of her to "set aside her duty to her Lord and savior" - that last bit was her answer when asked if she could not see herself beside a person who didn't share her religion, but would still support her

2.	Implied I was to blame for our mutual heart break, since I chose to interpret her message the way I saw it best, since she had always been forthcoming in the notion that I would have to adopt her faith, even in that specific text

I'm not concerned about the first thing, because I made it abundantly clear I was not looking to embrace any faith, I merely reciprocated what to me was a beautiful gesture of hers. I am concerned about the second statement though.

**AITA / WITA for interpreting her message in the way I wanted it to, or was it an honest mistake?**

**TL:DR**: I (30's M - Agnostic Jew) met a lady (30's F - Adventist), but due to her beliefs we decided not to move forward with relationship, agreeing it was for the best. A week later, she text’s me out of the blue asking to “start from scratch”, but after a great date, things go sour, with her implying I was to blame for our heart break, because what she meant by “from scratch” is me converting to her beliefs, and not finding common ground through mutual respect and understanding