Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : He tells me we’re arguing  semantics after this whole thing started and says I’m blowing it out of proportion. Last night we were talking about going to his grandmas house for Christmas which is 7 hours away. At first he invited me and I said yes I’d come, then we were talking about making a pit stop to see my family which is on the way, and he said he will ride with his brothers (to avoid going to see my family And I planned driving separately), then all of a sudden he says it would be one less thing to worry about if I don’t come because he has to plan sleeping arrangements and such. So I told him I felt uncomfortable coming and that I was a burden and he is trying to tell me I’m bent out of shape about it and deliberately misinterpreting what he said. Why would he say that if he wanted me to spend Christmas with him and his family? Yes, I’ve met them and spent Christmas with them last year.

