Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : So I’ve been playing coed indoor soccer on Thursdays for the last 5 years on and off.  I started dating my boyfriend in 2017 and the first year together I became flakey when playing.  Well now that we live together and I’m used to his company I’ve gone back to playing every Thursday.  I’ve been playing with these same mates for years and we like to have a couple pitchers and food after our games and shoot the shit.  My boyfriend suddenly got Thursdays off and has been coming to my games.  Yet when I score a goal or look at him at any point he isn’t paying attention usually on his phone or drawing.  Then we go out afterward and he will make comments such as “do we have to go” and “ok but we need to leave by ___” and while we are there he will seem very bored which distracts me from having a good time.  Am I wrong for wanting to ask him to sit out for these games and outings?  I feel like it is my me time and only time out without him.  If I felt he was there for support I think it would be different but I sometimes feel like he wants to babysit me when out with my team.  