We recently started hooking up and he said he’s done them before. I really want a threesome with 2 guys. This is perfect because he’s not in the same social circles or job so nobody needs to know. 

But I’m scared ITA to not have a threesome with 2 girls. He doesn’t seem super into that but I’m not sure. I don’t like the idea since it’s usually expected that the girls interact, while with two guys they don’t need to. I’m straight and while I’d interact with the girl if I had a gun to my head, it’s low key gross since I’m not attracted to women (duh.)

AITA for bringing this up while expressing disinterest in the other kind of 3 way? 

