Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : Warning ⚠️ long post 

Okay so this was sometime last year but I still see him at school and can’t help but feel bad/annoyed. My friend has recently started speaking to him and I don’t know if I’m making a big deal out of nothing. 

We’d been speaking quite a bit and I wanted to make new friends after starting a school not knowing anyone. He’d mentioned wanting to watch a film together so I was like yeah sure I’ll come to yours one day after school and that was that. 

Walking to his house he started talking shit about people that we were friends with and that made me paranoid about what he said about me but I let it go because I hadn’t known them as long as he had. Arriving at his house he let me know his parents wouldn’t be back a while and I was like sure whatever. 

This guy takes me to his room to dump my stuff and goes into his bathroom to get changed whilst I sit on the bed. I sit there waiting and can see nails (as in toe and finger nails) on the floor which makes me feel a bit ill because it’s unhygienic or whatever. 

So he comes back in and let’s me choose a film which I think is really nice and am happy to choose. He gets on the bed and tries to get me to lay down with him but I refuse and he tried to pressure me some more but gives up when he realises I’m not going to. Everything is fine whilst we watch the film and I’m like okay maybe I was overreacting. 

The film finishes and he wants to go downstairs for food, he offers to make me something and I decline as I’m not hungry and feel it would be rude not to eat something if he made it. He’s pretty upset but let’s it go. Next he puts on a song that I recommended to him and asks me if I’m not going to dance. He wanted me to dance for him?! It might just be me but I found this incredibly weird. 

I decided to leave early and was waiting for my lift. When I let him know he out on his ‘sad music’ playlist and starts talking about how sad he is and then just sits with his back to me until I leave. 

I message him about how he made me feel like shit and he only said that he’d done nothing wrong. He’d been treated like shit before and he hasn’t treated me that way.

I thought he was really manipulative but I still think I could’ve handled things differently. So, am I the asshole? 
