Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : So I am currently getting a masters in a two year program. Right in my first semester, only 14 months ago, I got engaged. We decided to wait 2 years to do the wedding, so I’ll be getting married soon. We did a lot of the planning very quickly, so most of my new friends from grad school didn’t make the guest list since I had only just met them at the time. At a later time when save the dates we’re going out, I decided to invite 2 very close friends from school but no one else. Now, a friend that is recently beginning to engage more so we’ve gotten to know each other, keeps asking about the date, “can’t wait to see the save the date, oh send me your wedding website,” etc. While I do consider her a better friend now, it’s clear she expects an invite, and I know she’ll be very sad and hurt when she finds out I didn’t invite her but I did invite the other two girls. Not even jealous or mad, just sad and I don’t want to hurt her feelings but also the budget is tight and specific and it would have to be her and her husband and it’s just a lot. AITA for not inviting her or do I still do it?