Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : Okay this is a tad lengthy..

Backround: 

Myself (29f) and a friend (25f) of mine at the time were pretty inseparable. We did almost everything together and even though I have a 9 year old and a husband I always made time for her. Hell she was really good friends with my husband too! Not just to go out but every late night call crying about how lonely she is, talk her through her relationship issues, literally any time we had a conversation it always revolved around her. And I was always okay with it because she genuinely had issues and I didn't. I did notice though, after we "broke up" that any time I did try and talk about one of my issues it somehow still circled back to her. She was always the first one to say how she's a selfish, rich bitch. She almost wore it as a badge of pride, but she was always such a great friend that none of it bothered me. 

The argument:

One night we're out drinking with some guys, there's one in particular that was flirting heavily with her and knowing he's married she heavily reciprocated the flirting. Now I understand it is not her cheating it's him however she has always turned guys down if they were married and hitting on her and always said how she respects marriage too much to entertain. Somehow tonight was different. As we're both wasted I tell her she needs to calm it down with the guy. In the middle of everyone she starts calling me out for being mean, fat and jealous of her. 

We stood there, again-wasted, argueing, crying, just being hot messes. She then tells me the friendship is over and I leave. 

In 8 months we haven't texted, talked, radio silence on both of our ends. 


Was I the asshole for saying something in the first place, or for not apologizing afterwards? 