Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : Hey guys ao this is bothering me for some time now. My gf and I are together for 2 years now, through that time I always cared for her, after she had surgery I did pretty much everything for a good 2-3 weeks.   
Now since I am in a bad mental place and unable to go to work (in therapy and all) and try to care more for myself she is starting to call me abscent, not there for her and all that stuff. Sometimes she will ask for something while I am on the pc playing games or setting up stuff for my stream which would be my dream job to pursue, after I tell her I will do it in 5 minutes or so she starts to get angry and calling me all sorts pf things.  
I really want to care for her but I just can‘t spend every second she‘s here with her, which is 4-5 days a week but since my therapist and most people said that I need to care for myself too but that takes time.  
I am genuinely confused if I am the asshole for taking time for myself?
