Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : Okay, so I'm in a university program that is largely project based. There are no tests, but throughout the semester the 'finals' for all but 1 of the classes has been a group project of some form or another. We have had to write an academic report, make a filmed interview, a visual/video essay and the main project for the course, a magazine. 

 For the magazine project, I took on a huge role. I wrote 4 of the 12 articles, edited all of the other 8, worked really closely with the art director and made sure that it all got done in time. I'm not saying that the other people in the group didn't work hard on it as well because they did. I just took on the largest role and spent the most time on the project. 

Now, I should note is that this is a really international program. I am the only native English speaker- not only in the project group, but the class. It is an English program, everyone else speaks English but for most, it is a second or third language.  This is mostly why I was given the job of editor but I also really enjoyed the role. I made sure I didn't phone it in and invested a lot of time and effort into the project.

The problem came when we started working on the video project for another class. I was with a girl who was also in the magazine group with me. We'll call her A. A was probably the person who struggled the most with English. Throughout the semester she was constantly asking me to look at her work. I didn't mind because she was really nice about it and she would always say thank you. She was never rude if I couldn't get around to it right away and she understood that going through her work was my last priority when I was doing other things.

 A is really good at video editing and production. That is definitely not my strong suit so instead, I ran the interview portion with our subjects, and mapped out a script. It definitely did not take nearly as much time or work as A put into the video editing and I knew that. I thought it would even out because we got a really good grade on our magazine. That grade was the same for everyone in our group, which of course included A. 

Apparently, A did not feel the same way. She sent me a really long text telling me how hurt she was that I didn't help her more with the video. She said she didn't want to work with me in the next term and that she would be letting our Visual communications prof know about how little work I had done. 

To make matters worse, we have a 'peer review' sheet where we have to give each other a grade for the work we did. It's a grade out of 5. We're supposed to rate each other and we see the grade that the other person gives. It's weird that it's not anonymous but I guess it is a good evaluation tool. She gave me a 1 in every category- including the interview. Which, I know I didn't do a lot but I feel like I should get credit for the part that I did do. I felt so bad that I gave her 4's and 5's in every category to try and make up for it and because she really did do a good job on the video.  I'm pretty upset and I don't want to have to retake the class because of this. Am I in the wrong here? Am I the asshole?

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