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Throwaway account as you never know who’s reading.

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After my daughter was born she slept in her own room in her crib just fine for the first 2 years. Once she figured out how to climb out of her crib the trouble began. We tried taking her back into her room when she would come to ours. Countless hours of back and forth in the middle of the night. She eventually stopped coming into the bedroom and we would just find her curled up outside our door sleeping in the morning. No matter what we did, she just wouldn’t stay in her room.

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We made the mistake of just letting her sleep in our bed so we could all get sleep at night. I figured she would grow out of it and would eventually sleep in her own bed. While about a month of this was all we could take. She would gravitate to my side of a king size bed and be all over me in the night. I snore, my wife can take that, but it would just wake the kid up and scare her and make her cry. Once again for the sake of everyone getting sleep, I moved to the guest bedroom, once again with the hopes that this to shall pass.

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Fast forward 3 years and well I’m still in the guest bedroom. I feel like my wife and child have developed a codependency on sleeping in the same room and same bed. My wife doesn’t seem to think it’s a priority to get the kid to her own bed and doesn’t want to listen to her cry all night. They naturally have a strong bond between them and that’s great! I don’t begrudge that at all, but it really has affected bedtime. My wife has to go to bed when the kid goes to bed and on the weekends we can’t just send the kid to bed at a normal time and hang out because the kid has to have her mom to go to sleep. Not to mention we have no adult alone time so to speak because, well, we are never alone! I don’t want to rock the boat or cause any bad feelings in the relationship, but I miss my bed and my alone time with my wife!

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WIBTA if I forced the issue and demanded we transition our kid to her own bed, or should I just ride this out to keep the peace? I’m not looking for my wife to be the asshole because she is a wonderful wife and mom.