Okay so I know what the title says, but I would like to clarify that I know that leading someone on is a dick move. I’m more confused as to whether or not what I’m doing can be considered as leading someone on. Basically, I met this guy in a club in December and we made out in the club and exchanged numbers. We’ve been texting since then, but we live in different cities and so we barely see each other. Since then we’ve met up like twice, but we text a lot, like everyday. Anyway, it’s quite obvious to me that he was sort of into me, but because we hardly saw each other and barely knew each other, I figured it was pretty casual. Between seeing him, I’d continue to casually see a few other guys casually. Anyway, a few weeks ago, he got really drunk and drunk called me, but I didn’t answer and he left me a voicemail which was largely unintelligible, but my friends and I managed to distinguish him saying ‘I want to be exclusive with you’. I don’t really know what that means, or at least I don’t want to assume, and when I was texting him the next day he said he didn’t remember anything from the night before. Anyway, I haven’t said anything about it and we are still talking and he’s planning on coming to see me next week, which I’m excited about.

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My friends seem to think I don’t like him, and I’m not sure I do. I definitely like him as a person, and we get on really well, but I’m not a 100% sold on anything more with him. I definitely see the potential, I could see us having something more, but for now I’m just so confused because we’ve hardly spent any time together. While some of my friends have told me to tell him about this, I also don’t want to be too presumptuous about the situation. We never defined the parameters of this relationship/friendship, and I don’t want to assume he wants something more if he doesn’t. I’m just worried that I’m leading him on, and I would never want to hurt him, so, AITA? 