Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : I'm fat. Always been fat. Never been athletic. I was a book reading nerd. It happens sometimes. However, I have a good career, my own home, a paid off car, two lovely cats and a fiance of 4 years. He's Mexican. This is important.

I live in Texas and my mom lives in North Carolina. I work in a financial industry and my typical work clothes consist of all black, black slacks, black cardigan or jacket, mostly black blouses and black shoes. Black matches easily, looks professional.

I text my mom daily (I'm an only child and my dad is dead) and she asked to see my outfit that day. I mixed it up with floral print ponte pants, black top, black shoes.

"Colors look so slimming on you! They really hide your problem areas!"

Gee, thanks mom. I told her "How many times have I had to tell you to not make comments about my weight?"

"well you just isn't know how to take a compliment, that's how I meant it, everyone has problem areas! That's how I take it when someone says that, now tell me something else shitty!"

"I've asked you a dozen times not to make comments about my weight and you never ever ever do"

"I hope you show some respect to your new HISPANIC family unlike me"

She's made comments before and was real excited when trump was screaming about a wall, so I know she would prefer a white guy for me. I've had to tell her a few times to shut up with the racist shit. Doesn't get me anywhere. She also loves my fiance and is always saying he's a handsome hardworking man and treats me like a princess. I don't understand the logic. 

So I hit her back with the "Yep, you're a racist old bitch! Leave me alone until you can change your attitude."

Now she's pissy and blowing up my phone for me trying to ruin Christmas, saying it's my fault and I have bad language.

AITA for not just letting her spew her bullshit and telling my mom to fuck off at Christmas? If it was a stranger off the street telling me I had problem areas and making backhanded comments about my "Hispanic family" I'd tell them to fuck off too. Did I ruin Christmas? 