To keep this story short here is a little back story.

 I've had a falling out with my mom 6 years ago and we haven't spoken much.  This is due to actions on both sides.

Over the past year we have been working on getting back in each others lives and have both stated we want to make things better and recognized that we need to get over our issues.

She asked ro FaceTime on her portal to my 2 year ols son for his birthday.   I was like absolutely and as this is something we do often.  She hasn't met him in person.  She knows my door is always open but she still hasn't came to see him.  We live 20 hours apart.   So we are on FaceTime and she is talking with my son/ watching him laugh and play.  Overall it was a great reaction.

The problem I have is that in the background on her side is my step Dad who basically raised me.  The entire time he doesn't once come over to say hi or happy birthday or even acknowledge my son.  It was impossible for him not to hear or see what was going on, but not once did he look up or come to the screen.  The kid is 2 and is giggling playing pikaboo saying thier dogs name etc and no emotions.


After we hung up it just really stuck with me and brought up a lot of animosity. So I sent my mom a text stating how I felt and that my son never did anything to him and to have him.sitting in the background being cold as fuck really brought up a lot of animosity for me and that I didn't need the bs or drama in my life.   Struggling as it has kept me up all night that he would do that.