I'm super mad at my dad.
My aunt's husband died of a degenerative disease 2 days ago and I received an email from his son (not my cousin) telling the whole family (big family) about it with the date of the ceremony etc. Which I think is fine.

Then I told my sister because she doesn't check her inbox often, who directly phoned my dad to let him know (he doesn't check his inbox often either).
Turns out my dad knew since the day before but didn't told us because he was invited for dinner when he heard about it (shitty excuse IMO).

In the end he didn't call me but sent a text message saying "Did you hear that aunt's husband is dead?".

Am I the asshole for being mad at him for doing it this way?

Sorry for poor english