Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Last week was my (M26) girlfriend's (Tara) 21st birthday. My friends and her friends all took a trip to Atlantic City where we all paid general admission to have a good time for a DJ she was dying to see. We pregamed with enough alcohol in the parking lot and even some of my buddies I hadn't seen in a while were there.

Around halfway through the night, she was dancing with her friend (Meg). I saw a bouncer approach Tara and Meg and told them to go with him. I grabbed Tara and told her to come with me, not with him because I could see what was happening. It was loud, so we didn't converse but Tara gave me the "1 Second" finger and slipped past the VIP ropes and onto some guy's table where they handed her and Meg champagne glasses and she "cheers-ed" with them.

Tara came back probably within 5 minutes and Tara didn't drink the champagne but Meg stayed, so that's not my problem. My problem is after she left me to go with the bouncer, one of my buddies (who I hadn't seen a while) Jay, saw this happening and told me "Don't worry bro, she's probably just trying to get a free drink." but for this to happen in front of all of my friends is humiliating and I looked like an idiot in front of all of my friends. If my girlfriend wants a drink, I can happily pay for it; especially on her birthday.

Throughout the night she was taking snapchats with other guys (and girls) and not really paying much attention to the group she came with, but lingering around with other friends she bumped into and then rotating between our group and her other friends.

After this we went back to the car and talked/argued the rest of the night. I told her that her leaving to another guy's table was the cherry on top and she seemed more focused on others rather than how her actions were making me feel, but she says she was thinking about my feelings the entire time and thats why "she came back" after going with the bouncer and accepting the champagne.

Tara says she only went with the bouncer to another guy's table because she initially thought he was going to boot her and she was afraid of being kicked out, but I said then she should have just come with me and we could be kicked out together. (But I figured she wasn't getting kicked out in the first place) My best friend also agrees with me, and based on Jay's comment; I think he does too.