Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : I’ve known Mike for about 8 years. During those years we’ve tried to make things work romantically, but things never seemed to go the way we’ve expected them to.

Distance has always been a major factor. Right now we’re on opposite ends of the country. It takes me three days to drive to where he lives. 

He asked me to come visit while I was going to be in his area. While I was visiting, he discovered that his psychotic ex/mother of his son had put her bill into his name illegally. His cable was shut off. Me being the awesome person I am, I offered to put the bill in my name until it got cleared up. The company had to launch an investigation which can take three months. In the meantime he’d have no WiFi. He works from home and needs a secure connection, so he’d lose his job.

Fast forward a few weeks. He talked me into moving closer to him. I sold off most of my belongings. I found a new job and secured an apartment. I dumped everything I own into this.

Then he started ghosting me. No explanation. I sent him one text every few days just to make sure he was alright and eventually he said I was being clingy and annoying. Sketchy. A few days ago I saw him driving with a woman I didn’t recognize. Super sketchy, but I don’t want to jump to conclusions. 

I should also mention that a few days before the ghosting he came to visit me in my hotel. He was acting extremely shady. He didn’t like the fact that there was a bar there that locals hung out at just in case someone recognized him. He played a bunch of games wanting to make sure I was all dressed up 100% for him even though we were planning on going straight to bed. In hindsight he’s a major jerk.

Now I’m stuck on the opposite end of the coast a thousand miles away from my friends and family. I can’t even get WiFi unless I transfer my service. Normally I’d talk it out, but seeing as it looks like we aren’t even on speaking terms I don’t see why I should go out of my way for him.  These past few weeks made me realize I deserve better especially since he’s been pulling BS like this for the entire time I’ve known him. Now I’m angry at myself for not seeing the signs and letting myself get taken advantage of. I feel like I need to do something semi savage to take myself back and cut him out for good.

WIBTA if I quietly get his service taken out of my name? 

