Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : So I'm trans ftm, I just turned 18 and I come out when I was 13, so it's fair to say it's been a while. My parents are pretty good about it now, they use the right name and pronouns and stuff, but my maternal grandmother, whom I used to see several times a month, refuses. Whenever I try to talk to her about it she basically tells me I don't know what I'm talking about and that she loves me, so I guess it shouldn't matter that she doesn't respect me? I've tried time and time again to have civil conversations with her, to explain how she was making me feel, etc etc, and she refuses to even try. My mom has basically told me that she's old and shes family so I should just ignore it, and I did for a while, but I'm so done. I don't care that she's old! She's a person who supposedly loves me, she's capable of learning, and at this point I don't give a shit how old she is. (Also, she's only 60. Not that old. I've met people decades older that support their grand/great grandchildren.) AITA for not wanting to see or talk to her? Every time I'm around her I end up going home and feeling dysphoria so bad it makes me want to kill myself. That's not an exaggeration I end up legitimately suicidal. 