Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : My girlfriend and I have been living together for 4 months now. We’ve been together for 3 years, and I’ve loved every minute of it and we absolutely adore each other.

When we first got together I gave up a lot of my free time for dates and other couple things like that. 

We would spend the night together sometimes. But when we would go home alone, to our respective houses. I would use that time to get my game time in.

Now flash forward, we live together and are obviously spending more time together. 

It all started a few weeks ago after work, when my buddy messaged me and asked me to get on and play Apex Legends, I say yeah, and tell my girlfriend I’m gonna play some games if she doesn’t mind. Up until that point we only used my Xbox as an entertainment system ( think Hulu, YouTube and Netflix.) 

I had previously taken a pretty long break from games and I didn’t expect this to be her reaction.

She said, it’s not fair for me to play games because she has nothing else to do while we play. I said, well you can watch me play jokingly, I thought she was kidding at first, but then she continued and said if I wanna make plans then to let her know so she can be busy while I’m busy. She also said she missed me. I told her we could have time for just us when I was done playing, and that it wasn’t a “plan.” I’m not going anywhere, I’ll be right here. I even told her we could talk while I played. But she didn’t want to have any of it. She just went to her sisters house for a few hours, and I proceeded to get some dubs.

Then, it became an argument we had 2-3 times. I even gave her advanced notice on an occasion or two but If she failed to make her plan she blamed it on me. So I told her ‘she didn’t need to go out every time, I’m busy. Just relax and chill on your phone or use my laptop.’ 

She’s the kinda girl who wants constant attention and I am fine with that, but I also want to chill with my friends online and play. 

AITA?

Tl;dr Girlfriend wants me to preplan my gaming time so she can make plans to go out. I said she doesn’t need to go out just because I wanna play games.