I 22M have opted to just walk away from 20F after a month of “talking” to see how things would go and to see if dating would be an option. 

For context I have depression, insomnia and despise everything about myself and am in my final year of uni, she has a lot of stress due to getting a new job and medical issues currently which she may need surgery for later in the year.

Yesterday we were talking as usual and then she sent me a paragraph which when paraphrased said this “we both have a lot of our own issues to deal with currently, as much as she has tried she can’t seem to like me to make things work and she can’t ignore that it won’t work and she’s been trying to and doesn’t seem to be getting there. It’s also just happening at the wrong time too as with everything going on with her is zapping everything up so she doesn’t feel ready for dating or anything like that right now so she doesn’t feel she can cope and that she’s sure that somewhere down the line that if she’s past her issues and that we’re both single then she’d love to try again” am I the asshole for just walking away as I wanted a relationship and wouldn’t be happy as just friends?

TLDR: Got friendzoned am I the asshole for just walking away despite her saying she might try again in future when things are better?
