Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : I have a good friend with three kids, two of which are the same age as mine. When we had our first babies, we did everything together and were great support for each other.

Her third child is still having naps during the day so sometimes it's best for us to hang out at her house. Which I dread.

Her house is filthy. Not just 'I have three kids and haven't tidied up' kind of mess - way worse than that. Her couch is always sticky with some food stuffs and has crusted milk on the arms from gosh knows when. The floor is a mixture of sticky and crusty with crumbs, sand, food etc. 

They can't eat at the dining table because it's a mountain of washing and so the kids eat on the floor in the lounge room, making even more mess. Instead of cleaning the mess off the floor, she lets the dogs in to lick it all up. Which creates more mess because the dog hair is everywhere. One time I came around, her one year old looked like he had a beard from the amount of hair that was on his face. I cleaned it off and she just laughed, saying he always has a beard.

The kids each have a separate room but their doors can't be fully opened because there is stuff everywhere. They have to stand on top of mountains of toys and clothes to get to their beds. The kitchen bin is always overflowing and the youngest is often found playing with overflowing rubbish that has fallen out the top. 

She has a supportive husband so she doesn't need to go to work, plus has a nanny come in two days a week to help out. Her parents also come around a couple of times a week to fold laundry and clear her dining table. She's in good mental health and is a wonderful mother, but I don't know whether she sees how bad her house is getting.

I really don't want to go around to her house and have started keeping track of her baby's nap times so I can suggest activities outside of the house. I like spending time with her and our kids get along great, but the filth just gets to me. I'm almost at the point of telling her I don't want to go over there any more. AITA? 