Happened back un August, but its relevant now. I was training for a new job, and my schedule monday to friday looked like this, and i had the kids on sat/sun:

Wake up 2:30a, shower

3:30a get kids up take wife to work

4:30a get home attempt to put newborn back down, 33% success rate

6:00a get up for work if i got my nap

7:15a take kids to babysitters 20mi out of the way

9-5 work

6:00p pick kids up from sitter

7:00p get home, eat

8:30p Bedtime, but young baby so broken sleep

I was 2 weeks out of 4 into the schedule and that week my MIL had surgery, which added a extra day of hell and lots of extra things to do.

This particular week i didnt have time or desire to call my mother or sister, so i had time on friday and called to invite them to come up for a few days.

I got 3 words in over all the yelling and bitching and finally told them 3 times i called for 1 reason, im tired, and im not going to listen to meaningless bitching because ive been too busy to call.

They hung up and basically didnt respond to messages for a couple of months, wouldnt even take the kids calls.

Im the asshole 99% of the time, am i for this too?
