Throwaway account because my main account username is my real name. 

This is more of a ‘Are we the assholes’ case than just myself. 

Preface: The annoying flatmate recently broke up with her boyfriend of nearly 2 years and was already quite an eccentric and unstable person to begin with, so it doesn’t help that she was pretty shaken by the sudden breakup. That being said, they had been broken up for two months by this point probably should have calmed down a bit by now.

Anyways, on with the story:
My friends and I are all university students and we had planned to get baked at their flat and watch tv and listen to music etc. 

We ended up getting super high and pretty vegetative for most of the evening, so when their flatmate came through and wanted to talk uninvited, we weren’t overly excited by the prospect. That sounds bad, but it has to be noted that she’s really, really annoying. She only ever wants to talk about herself and vent about her day, quickly changing the subject back to herself if someone mentions something else.

She can also be rude as shit and be completely unapologetic about it. Previously she had mentioned that only one of our group looks like he actually goes to the gym, and whilst she’s not entirely wrong, it’s still a mean thing to say, and she didn’t even think she’d been rude when confronted about it. 

So none of us were really interested in talking, so we suggested watching The Big Lez Show (Which she hates) to get her to leave. She responds by sitting at the computer and playing her own music. We’re all quite open to new music, but this was really not good and she refused to change it, so now we’re stuck with no Big Lez and some pretty shit tunes. 

At this point, we’re too high to deal with this, so we all kind of just started moaning at her to change the song and let us watch something. She keeps laughing as we keep asking her to change the music and let us watch Big Lez, and even keeps laughing and trying to talk as we straight up tell her to fuck off. It wasn’t until we brought out a nerf gun and threatened to shoot her with a dart that she finally left. Whilst one of held the nerf gun and lazily pointed it in her general direction, the rest of us all screamed “SHOOT HER” repeatedly until she left in a strop. We weren’t entirely serious and were quite surprised that it actually worked. I don’t think we were in the wrong since it’s not her room and she was unbelievably annoying, but I think we might have just destroyed her spirit. Are we the assholes?