Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : Some backstory for this. A few months ago I had just started high school. My birthday always falls around a week after school starts so I invite my friends to my pool party. I also invite this girl. Let’s call her Junebug. I invite her because in my words to my friends, “Why the hell not?” 

She, along with my friends, show up and the party goes well. It ends and we go out separate ways. 

Fast forward about a week and a friend that I usually walk home with tells me, “Ayy yo, I heard that Junebug has the hots for you.” 

I’m between girlfriends at that time so I think ‘cool might as well shoot my shot if I know it’ll hit.’ 

I text her and say ‘hey [friend] told me that you liked me.’ She goes off on me spewing about how she’s taken and that I like her and that she’s been seeing it for a while now. 

To me there are some girls who are legitimate love interests and there are girls who help pass the time. She was not the former, and being the asshole that I am, I let her know this. She got really hurt and was in the middle of a tirade when I just put my phone down for 5 minutes, picked it up and left her on read.

I don’t do well with confrontation, which is why I was happy when she seemed to speak to me regularly when she would stay at a friend’s place which was in our neighborhood. I would never be the one to initiate, seeing as most afternoons I’m more focused on getting home so I can sleep/do my homework.

About a week or two has passed since the last time we spoke, in the neighborhood or otherwise, and today I pass by her on the way to the buses and she says, “I guess BlackJesusKun don’t talk anymore.” To which I replied, “Guess I don’t.” 

She looked really hurt and said in a really angry way , “Okay.” Now that I think back on it she was probably just trying to get me to talk to her, but that just isn’t the way you approach me. Not to mention that me and my current gf are going through some stuff and I’m low on patience for girls at this point. 

I spoke to the boys about it, but I need an unbiased opinion on this. AITA?


TLDR: Girl I was formerly friends with made snarky comment towards me. I snapped back and apparently hurt her feelings. Not the first time this has happened.