Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : Hubby and I have been married for 8 years. For the past 2 years, he has been gone for 1.5 of it for work, but he has input in selecting the missions that keep him away. When I express frustration for him leaving AGAIN, it is, "well, it was best for the team." Last year, he got a really cushy gig, and the power went to his head. He shut down, ignored me and kiddo (he had pool parties to throw, of course), partied, and did all sorts of stuff I won't post on here. When he came home he texted his friends he was "dead inside" because there was "nothing here to return to." That really burned my biscuits. He keeps chosing this country, saying he has no choice. He's been better this year, but after last year with Emilie (seriously, fuck you both, hubby and Emilie), I'm just done. I've withheld this info from his family. AITA for keeping the peace and then ending it when he gets home next month?