Background: I was around 16-17 when I stopped talking to my mum verbally. I forgot why, but I guess something inside me just went off. I live with her and have for a while.

I have two younger sisters and a father. A few months before I stopped talking to my mum, she kicked out my sisters without any notice, just as they got home from school. My parents divorced and had a messy marriage. My dad was physically abusive and narcissistic, but I still do see him and even talk to him, especially when I'm studying with him. Both sisters live with him.

During the divorce, my mum was awarded both the 7-bedroom house and his investment property. And from what I was told, she nearly got his current flat, but I won't get too much into how she didn't get it, as legality may be a bit confusing.

Now, my mum is clearly not taking it well. Sometimes I feel sorry and bad for her, sometimes I just feel extremely annoyed and not empathetic. I suspect that a year before I stopped talking to my mum, she prevented me from seeing my dad, but she denies this. I had proof, but that phone broke, and now I have to depend on my memory, and I've been made to believe that I remembered things wrong.

Every time I look at her, I just feel mildly angry. Her state consists of noticeable liposuctions and cosmetic surgeries. To me, she is a daily reminder of where all the money that she claimed to not have for me to shower daily and have heating, went. From what I know, she never worked a full-time job in her life. There's always an excuse.

Then again, she does take care of me and buy me clothes. Even though I cook my own meals and take care of myself, she has and still does her part. Am I crazy and the asshole here?