Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : I know a lot of people will probably read the title and immediately think that I'm the asshole for making an obviously NTA post, but hear me out.

My family has an arrangement for the holidays that me and my siblings don't give gifts to one another and instead just buy presents for the kids. We don't have a money limit, but usually I'd say we spend around $50 on each kid. I bought their presents back in November, spending the amount that I usually do and I thought that was that. Then me and my boyfriend of 5 years broke up last week and while I was really depressed I ended up buying more presents for them (spending about $150 on each kid). 

I've always loved Christmas, it's my favorite holiday, and I love giving gifts. I love watching them open their gifts all excited and then playing with them so I figured it would make me somewhat happy.

When I told my friend about this they suggested that I donate some of the toys to avoid making their parents and my other siblings feel bad. Their reasoning is that they probably don't have as much to spend on them and they would feel bad.

I don't think any of siblings are hurting financially, but I know I'm more well off than them since I don't have any kids and I've got a really well paying job. I was also planning on buying a house in the spring with my ex so I'm sitting on a pile of money there (not that I'm planning on spending it all).

AITA here and should I donate some of the gifts?
