So I (F22) I'm on vacation with my parents, their friends, my brother(M20) and my boyfriend (M25) in a developing country.

Today we went on an excursion with a private guide (M40s, previously lived in Europe and 20 years experience as a guide). We are in a group of 11 people, and when we got out of the bus our group got separated while officers were asking for passports. Half of the group entered first with the guide and the other half was left behind (me included). We felt really uncomfortable and unsafe, since we felt that it's part of the guide's work to keep the group together. My parents and their friends are non confrontational people, but I felt that I should say something to the guy.

Here comes the situation: I went to talk to him (its important to include that we are southern European and I was speaking with him in Spanish, whish isn't my first language nor the guide's). I don't know if I came off as rude but I basically told him that he should have waited for the whole group, because people felt unsafe and it was really non professional. I didn't insult him or anything, I know we southern European tend to be very passionate and when we are mad people can tell, but I didn't insult him or yelled like he did, I just explained to him why I didn't liked what he did.

Then he started yelling at me, saying things like how he had to go purchase tickets or else we wouldn't get on time in the boat (he didn't warned beforehand) and then starts saying rude stuff like how I am the "youngest in the group" and stuff like that. He didn't apologized, what infuriated me the most was that he went to talk to my boyfriend (as if he needed to apologize to him lol). If he had explained rather than yell, I would be okay with that and everything would have been fine. 

The thing that is making me question if AITA or not is that everyone in my group turned against me and defended him (including my family and boyfriend, which didn't even heard what I said to the guy before, they weren't there, only heard him yelling), not even my parents stepped in (I know that I am an adult, but I feel if I was in their position I wouldn't let anyone scream to my kids that way). Needless to say that this ruined the trip for me and I just cried alone in the boat since I was so sad and so alone. I felt disrespected as a woman and a costumer. And like I am the "bad sheep". I know that this can be attributed to cultural differences, but the guy lives in Europe 8 months each year and is a guide for 20 years! He should have known better. I can't even write this without crying reddit...

So AITA reddit?

(English is not my first language either, sorry if there is any spelling mistakes) 