Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : Three friends and I will be going to Nepal and doing the Everest Basecamp Trek this spring (a grueling 15 day hike). One of the friends recently asked if we’d be open to one more joining and then admitted this new person is a guy she’s been dating for a month, and she’s apparently already invited him prior to checking with us. As of right now the trip is farther away than the amount of time they’ve even been dating so I think this is just a bad idea in general. Additionally, I don’t have a lot of faith in this friend’s dating choices and haven’t liked a lot of her previous partners. I’ll be traveling up until the time we go to Nepal so I won’t get to meet him beforehand, and I fear I’m going to get stuck with a total douchebag on my once in a lifetime trip. Also, even if he’s a cool guy, there’s just a lot that could go wrong between them being so early in a relationship that I don’t want to get pulled into on the mountain. Is it okay for me to tell her she’s needs to uninvite him?