Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : I call my fiance from work today because she told me she was having a very bad day. The people below her at work have been doing the wrong thing for 7 months and she just found out (it's not her fault at all). But now she has to fix it somehow. Later when I leave work I talk to her on the way home and she tells me she has a head ache. I get home she is already working. So we have short cauasel conversation. I play a video game, meditate, clean cat throw up, clean the Roomba and just chill. We have some more short conversation, I think we are on the same page. Then she tells me she isn't really hungry and we should order take out. I agree and then she says she not even hungry. She said it was my fault because I was annoying her while she worked. She tells me to go get food by myself. So I walk out to my car and go attempt to get food. I just sat in parking lot with her screaming at me on the phone on how horrible I make her life( I got a smoothie). I apparently have an attitude and act like an asshole every single day when I come home from work. 

This is where I genuinely understand that some days I am an asshole like my father was an asshole to my family. The most days I genuinely try to act nice and trying to uplift her day cuz I know a day of teaching is worse than my day. I feel as if something may be mentally wrong with me because I don't realize I have a bad attitude.