Over two years ago in Sept 2016 I basically confessed my love for this girl that I met at Uni that I was friends with and I felt like she liked me back because I bought her like 1k worth of gifts and she took them an we always flirted. When I revealed to her that I really liked her she said she always thought of me as a friend and had started seeing a guy even though she never gave any indication of that to me. It was bad and some classic "niceguy" neckbeard shit I'll admit I'm pretty sure I even cried in front of her LOL. We basically didn't talk too much since then and she was a year older than me so she graduated and started working. In that time I started seeing a different girl for a year and that ended but I wasn't that sad anymore I graduated this past June and got an amazing job and my parents sold a lot of property overseas and gave me a really large trust fund. I started buying nice shit, bought a Benz a nice condo downtown a few nice watches took my boys on a few vacations. And I guess was posting more on IG and the girl who turned me down saw all the flashy shit I'd post sometimes. 

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This past October she messages me and wants to talk and catch up, we text for a few days and she says she'll be in the city on the weekend as she lives with her parents out in the suburbs and asked if I wanted to meet  up. I said sure and we agreed on dinner, I was confused on whether it was a date or not. Dinner went well and she wanted to go back to my place and see my condo and one thing led to another and we ended up having sex, honestly it was amazing I've wanted to get with her for years and it finally happened. Over the next few months she'd come down to the city and we'd hookup and honestly I was in love all over again and we were kinda basically seeing each other but not official or anything. Fast forward to last week and I let my friend know who basically consoled me when this girl rejected me 2 years ago that I was kinda seeing her now and she's like she doesn't like you she only is seeing now that you're doing well and is a gold digger. That made me kinda realize that wow am I being played again? Nothing has changed about me since she rejected me about 2  years ago other than that I have some money now and I'm a tad more flashy with it I guess. It's true that I have bought her stuff in the past and during our about 2.5 months of seeing each other now I spent a lot on dinners where ever she wanted and bought her a few small gifts maybe totaling like 2.5k. Having my friend basically lay all of this out for me made me feel like shit and I realized jesus she only see's me as a meal ticket and it made me feel like trash.

This was in the beginning of December and after meeting with my friend and her laying it all out for me and making me realize all this I stopped messaging the girl I was seeing and kinda started ghosting her and not wanting to hangout or meetup. I blamed it on it being a busy time at work and I needed to really pull my weight since I was still the new guy and it was my first real job. This led to me at first responding slow, not wanting to meet up to last week and now not responding at all and leaving her on read. This girls friend messages me on IG and calls me a huge dick and asshole and says that it was so shitty to just fuck her for a few months and just ghost her now. I didn't respond to that DM and blocked her cousin. I just didn't know what to do, and felt that I needed time to figure shit out and didn't want to tell her in case it wasn't true that she saw me as a meal ticket. So I guess I thought ghosting was the best thing to do for some reason. 

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So AITA??