**Some info before hand.**   
My friend group enjoys insulting each other for fun, most are actual insults which would normally piss people off, but to us it doesn't really bother any of us. We treat them as over the internet "play punches". We have one friend who is one of my Closer friends in the group, who has gone through a tough life, and is the kinda the center of this story. Lets call him **T**  


**The incident**  
It was a normal discord call between us all, with everything going normally. We were joking around and the conversation drifted to school, and things about it. **T** Dropped out of high school at a young age and because of that, and the fact he lives in Florida, he ended up being mentioned in the conversation. I didn't talk or pay attention during this time (i was playing *Warframe* and blasting music) but What transpired is one playful insult dug way to deep at that moment. I cant quote it but the insult really hurt my friend. Afterword we completely stopped with the insults about real life, with us realizing our insults about the real life dug way to deep in a good amount of the Group.  


**Aftermath (And where the issue happened)**  
We mostly stopped with the insults, at times we will still throw some joking ones but not at the same level as before, i think all of us feel extremely guilty about the entire situation. But there is still a good friend to us all who will still throw the normal insults. I guess i was feeling pissed off or rubbed the wrong way but this one joke set me off. All of us recently saw a meme about sending people a box of Gummy D\*\*ks (gummy bears style but shaped like D\*\*ks). He thought it would be Glorious to send one of those to my work. with my name on it. I lost it, "what if that causes me to get fired" and all the lot, it was honestly when i look back at it a real massive overreaction. I straight up told him "no one does those joke any more why do you think its F\*\*king ok to do those jokes still!" and honestly ripped into him. he ended up leaving the server in the end stating "i cant be here if im only hurting peoples feelings".   


**AITA** for snapping? we never told people outright in the group to stop doing those more realistic jokes / insults.