Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : My last attempt at making a post because I've spent an hour at this.


Background: I grew up in a house with five people. My parents were only ever at home for lunch and to sleep, and my sister was always at her friend's. I grew up mostly with my grandmother. My parents didn't let me go outside and got me hooked on the PC because that's safer(no internet in my country back then)


1. I've never had many friends until high school. We're a tightly knit group of 20~ friends and we still talk almost two years since we finished HS. After HS ended my results were really good and my mother and sister refused to let me go to the University I planned to go to. They forced me to go to a country very far away. I still talked to my friends while studying at the Uni. 


2. Uni life was terrible there. I lost all will to study, and I'm someone who loves studying. I'd hear about my friend's life at their Uni and that was depressing. 


3. I became a hermit. I never left my room for about two weeks until I felt comfortable to do so, and in this time I lost around 15-25 kg of weight, and now I'm severely underweight.


4. My extended family, seeing how bad in shape I am immediately started judging me. I was always introverted and was told I spent too much time on my phone/laptop. I'm slowly learning to get rid of my hermit ways.


5. My mother came back soon from a trip and I was judged very harshly for too much screen time. She forced me to socialise and I really didn't like it. I ended up with spending more time on my phone to help me deal with it, and she judged me even more. Positive feedback happened and I became more of a hermit again and got more lectures etc.


AITA for just not liking being forced to socialise? Did I not try hard enough at the Uni they wanted me to go to? 