My (23/F) boyfriend (26/m) has been extremely busy with work this week. A few times during the year, his job is really high stress and he usually reacts by being distant in our relationship. I understand why, it’s happened before and we’ve talked about it. However, I always worry about him when this happens and he reassures me everything is fine. I think I get on his nerves by always checking in to make sure everything is OK. (Ugh, I know. I’m a worrier, I can’t help it sometimes.) 

He has plans with his friends this weekend to blow off some steam and chill out with them. So, I was planning on getting some of his favorite booze delivered to his house as a little gift to maybe cheer him up. (We live in a major city, so booze delivery is super easy and I wouldn’t be physically going over there - I’m trying to give him space and let him do his thing.) 

But, I can’t help but think this would be kind of an asshole move. Like I said, he gets distant when he’s in these stressful periods, so I don’t want to encroach on his space and seem like an overbearing girlfriend. 

So, am I overthinking this or WIBTA if I got my boyfriend a surprise booze delivery? 