Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : I'm currently in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend.  He's currently on spring break from college. All of his friends bailed on him except one. He was offered to stay with one of his friend's house in New York. The problem? His friend's a girl. He's never given me any reasons not to trust him. I don't trust females however. He's made statements in the past that some of his female friends call him, "dad" or "daddy" because of his responsible nature. I don't feel good about that. I haven't told him how I feel about the situation because I've been in controlling, abusive relationships before and I don't want to tell him what he can or can't do. I think it's highly inappropriate to sleep at the opposite sexes house if you're in a relationship. AITA for being mad at him or am I just being insecure?