Ok so, I'm pretty sure I'm \[24f\] the asshole here. This just happened, and I am really trying to calm down and get my head straight. Please rip me a new one here if I deserve it. 

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I came back to the house this morning with trash overflowing in the garbage can and a bad smell. I took out the trash and this isn't the first time this happened. My roommate \[27m\] is somewhat of a slob. Granted I'm not the most organized person ever, but I am sanitary. I don't mind mess, but garbage and stink...nope.

I got kind of petty and asked him to do the dishes, which were a lot but nothing gross. Mostly just dirty water cups and such. He was being an asshole and got mad at me for even asking, and I told him he didn't have to do it, but I did take care of his garbage. I went to go pee and noticed piss in the toilet, and I got annoyed. He never flushes his pee. One time at 4 am, I accidentally peed on top of his and it fucking splashed up onto my vagina and the thought of doing that again really makes me want to vomit. YUCK. I can't stand his habits, but other than that we are pretty good friends when things are good. However, to give myself a laugh, my friend prank called him saying to take out his garbage and he literally went off, saying he'd find my friend and beat his ass. He proceeds to blare screamo and pout for a good 3 hours. 

I was on the phone with my bf when I hear "dog got out" and apparently he accidentally let my giant 110 pound great dane/pit/lab out. I asked him to help me retrieve my dog and he just says "no". This is a big deal because people are very afraid of my dog (which I get. He's friendly but very scary looking. He's black with yellow eyes, giant looking pit) and I need someone stronger than me to grab him sometimes. Thank god some kind strangers came to my aid.  I come back and his friend was like "there's the bad boy!" jokingly. I didn't find it funny and was like "no, this is \[my roommate's\] fault, lazy ass didn't even help me".

I come in and notice that there's trash ALL OVER the basement steps. covered the walls and was stinking up. I fucking lost it. I yelled at him to clean it RIGHT THE FUCK NOW. He said no, started plugging his PS4 in and I unplug it, telling him to clean. We are pushing each other around like fucking children. He refuses. So I said if he doesn't, I'd throw the trash in his room. And that's what I did. I apologized to his friend that is just watching this all unfold. He started cleaning stuff up and gagging because of how gross it was. 

I am now back to my room, fuming and trying to cool off. I might have a problem. 