My girlfriend and I recently moved in together.  It’s been a learning experience as this is my first live in girlfriend.  

She works part time and I’m full time as well as crunching some overtime.  At the beginning of the week I asked her if she could do some of my laundry sometime in the week. There’s two machines on our floor and when I went to throw my stuff in both were in use.  

She got annoyed and told me she’s not my mother, to just wait until the machines were empty.  I was dead tired, but stayed up and did exactly that.  

Today is my day off and I woke up to a note asking me to pick up some stuff from the store and pick up her laptop from her cousin’s place.  

She set the term that it’s acceptable to deny favors and I would rather not do these.  