Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : my (25m) gf (23f) got doagnosed with ptsd 2 yrs ago, we’ve been together a month under that. we used to be best friends and soo close and now she’s like a different person. I know what she went thru and it doesn’t seem that bad??? she had a couple abusive bfs and her mom used to hit her, but ive had abusive gfs and my gpa (I was raised by him, rents not in the picture) popped me on the jaw a couple times when I was in hs and im fine. its really weird too bc she’ll seem fine for a few days and then just have a meltdown over nothing and then we have a fight about it bc there’s no reason for her to be freaking out lol (it happens around friends sometimes and it’s really embarrassing) and then shes fine and happy for a couple days and it happens all over again. sometimes later she admits that she wasn’t actually upset about what she said she was upset about and it was something “ptsd related” and then I get madder and we fight again bc she’s lying to me about what’s actually wrong and that’s pretty manipulative imho, and she gets more upset and starts yelling about brain changes and other stuff that doesn’t make sense and how im not listening and then cries for like hours. I try not to give in to her attention grabbing bc she needs to grow up but fuck. she does kinda shitty things sometimes and told me she tries to keep her actions in check but doesn’t “have a lot of control over her perception of reality” right now or something. seems to me like just an excuse to be immature and throw temper tantrums over basic shit and get away with it. i love her and all but its honestly driving me away, seems like there’s always something wrong with her and its soo frustrating lol. I wish she’d just talk openly with me and actually be honest bc there IS something wrong with her that she needs to get fixed but it always ends up being confusion and fighting and im sick of her games. she just refuses to get over her shit and chooses to stew and bitch. I keep telling her to chill and stop thinking about it and watch some fuckin tv or something and she’ll try that then have yet another meltdown and makes all these excuses about how taking her mind off it somehow makes it worse lol? she couldn’t get therapy for a bit after diagnosis bc she was waiting for work benefits to kick in but she’s starting soon, and that also kinda seems suspicious? as soon as shes diagnosed with this very convenient thing where people let you do whatever you want without consequences she has to stop the thing thatll get her fixed?? she says all thats rly expensive but all she had to do was ask me for help and she didnt

AITA for thinking either ptsd isn’t that fucking bad or my gfs just a brat? maybe both? I miss my girl but I feel like she just faked the beautiful, hilarious person she was when we started going out. im very hurt by all this.