Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : First time posting and on mobile.

My friend asked a friend group on facebook messenger if we wanted to go skiing next winter. I said "nope, I'd rather go sledding". I was then called a 5 year old and other insults. So in return I said he was trying to show how manly he was since his ego was hurt. He then said I should be willing to try new things, but I told him I already said no. I then said he could take other friends in the group who wanted to go, or make some new ones. Another friend said I was being too defensive. While the first friend said why am I getting mad. I then said that friend kept trying to call me out, when I already said no to the trip, because everytime the friend replied, he specifically was tagging me and asking why I don't want to go or why I should try new things.

Our chat consists of 10+ people, only one has said he would try it, and I said I wasn't going to. Insults are pretty normal in our group, but the constant questioning was getting annoying.

Am I the asshole for saying I won't go or try it?

