Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : My gf since June just “came out” to me as aesexual.   I knew the term and honestly never thought about how their lives are.  I guess I just figured they lived alone.  


My gf however just told me that she was aesexual.  I asked her about our sex and she said she had been faking it.  That she didn’t want to lose me. 

I feel so gross.  We have had sex a lot.   If she didn’t enjoy that, it’s just idk wrong.  

She cried when I said I don’t think I can have a relationship without sex.   Like sobbed.   She said that’s why she never told me. 

I asked her how she saw our relationship progressing.  She was really adamant that we could make it work.  That we could even have kids.   But as far as sex I could just get sex toys. 

A relationship with her on her terms really just sounds like friends with a kid.   I already have friends.   I don’t want to have a kid with them.   

She’s super emotional right now, I don’t know how to deal with it honestly.  Her friendship relationship doesn’t work for me. 