Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : Long story short: I was trying get with a coworker who would flirt with me at work but start avoiding, ghosting, etc. when I actually ask to hang out so I decided whatever there’s plenty of fish and got with a different girl instead and stoped talking to the coworker. Now the coworker thinks I’m an asshole and a womanizer/fuckboy/whatever because of that. Is that even fair? Like what am I supposed to do? Keep chasing after a girl who doesn’t really like me? I think I made the adult decision to stop wasting my own time. It would be another thing if I started being mean to her or something for rejecting me, but I’m not. I just don’t talk to her anymore because we clearly don’t want the same thing.