Okay so my wife is overweight and I tried to get her to do something about it. She said she wanted to go swimming and do laps so I agreed happily even stating "I'll do whatever you want I dont care I just want to help". Well I didnt think she meant at 9 15 to 10pm ! And its 20 mins away o yeah n I have to be up at 5 am for work. I feel bad because I did say I would do anything. I understand she doesn't like the early morning(4:45-5ish) swim because she is embarrassed with the people around. That being said she doesnt work and can sleep all day. I feel bad for saying such a blanket statement but I was hoping for her to consider things a little more, now she is "not gonna ask you for help ever and fuck you I dont know why I talk to you " etc..... So is it me?