Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : I have a four-year-old persian cat and am currently four months pregnant with my first child. Since I found out I am pregnant my cat has started peeing on the bed (usually while we are sleeping on it!)

So I have often had to wake up in the middle of the night and change the sheets. It is gross and (I fear) pretty unhealthy. (He doesn't have a UTI or other medical condition by the way), and it leaves me absolutely exhausted which in turn makes my morning sickness worse.

I love the cat and he is a sweet boy, but he has always been pretty anxious and high-maintenance, and I'm pretty worried that once the baby comes and I am already sleep-deprived, cleaning up cat pee will be the last thing I want to do, and I won't want to sacrifice my sleep any further by having to change the sheets in the night. And what if he pees in the baby bassinet and harms my child?

We tried getting a pet gate but he bangs on the gate to get in at night, and sometimes sneaks in to the bedroom anyway.

Anyway, the pet groomer the other day mentioned that she LOVES the cat and spontaneously said "if you ever need to find a new home for him, I'd love to take him."

I am tempted to let her take him... it's pretty heartbreaking to think about letting my cat be re-homed, but I genuinely think the cat would be happier in a new home at this stage, and I have to be realistic that I will go crazy if we are constantly cleaning up after my cat as well as my baby.

TL;DR: AITA if I re-home my cat (to a loving home) because I'm pregnant and he pees on the bed?