Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : I've been living with my gf for about 5 months now. She works 6:30am - 3pm Sunday only and works from home the rest of the week. She also takes care of her two boys (7 &amp; 4) full time. I (33) work 5 days a week 4pm - 4:30am. 

I come home, shower and sleep till around 11:30am then I do a few things around the house, eat breakfast, drink my coffee, read a book and then go to work again. While she does work from home I get that it is work but it's not like she's not at home and on her own schedule. While she does watch her boys that's a responsibility she took when she had them. I know she doesn't get 24 hours of free time a day but I feel she gets enough free time.

I on the other hand feel like I get no free time. So today on one of my days off I wanted to come home drink beer and watch Dr who. Two things she doesn't care for. She then tells me you're not spending time with me. And the I proceeded to tell her "my days off aren't for you". I will admit I was annoyed because I feel I don't get free time and in the mornings I'm giving her any attention she wants and I'll sometimes be I'm a hurry to work because she wants me to run errands with her.

She goes out with her girls while I'm at work and can't bitch about because according to her "you're at work I'm not taking time from you" she gets her free time.

Am I the asshole for wanting my days off for me?