Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : My (37m) wife (37f) is due any minute now. Yay! 
Anyways, this is my first child, her 3rd. I am going to be a ball of messy nerves I’m sure once her water breaks. We’ve talked multiple times and neither of us want anyone there when she does go into labor. She doesn’t want people in and out of the room and I won’t be in the mood to play 20 questions every 5 minutes. So we have agreed on no one around until after the baby comes. 
My wife spent most of the last 2 days in the hospital because of blood pressure issues. I only told one person, my uncle, and only because we had plans this morning that I ended up canceling because of the issues. He ended up running into my mom at the grocery and bringing this up to her. So my mom calls me and gives me the 3rd degree and tells me how her granddaughter needs her there during labor etc etc. Then my mom starts calling the hospitals until she finds my wife and does the same to her. IMO that’s borderline insanity and making the birth of OUR child about her. AITA?

TL:DR I think my mom wants to make my child’s birth about her and the wife and I aren’t interested in having people around since it’ll already be stressful enough. 