Throwaway, because my friend knows my other account. I’ll try to give as much context as I can and excuse the formatting, I’m on mobile. 

So my best friend[19] met this man [35] fresh out of high school when she was still 17 and he was 33 at the time. She told me about him, how he was sweet and caring, but I wasn’t so fond of him considering the huge age gap and I also wondered what would a man like him want to do with a 17 year-old? She also told me he has a kid with an ex-gf, but he didn’t get  custody of his kid, I asked her why, but she never really explained to me what exactly went on besides saying that his ex-gf was pretty crazy, which I thought was weird. Fast forward, she moved in with him last year and she recently just found out she’s pregnant. I was honestly devastated. She’s my best friend and I do wish her the best and I’m trying to be really supportive, but I didn’t think she’d want to have a kid so soon. I told her I never thought she’d want to have a baby so soon, but she said she’s “changed” which I get people have different life goals, if this is hers then cool. (Btw it wasn’t a planned pregnancy) Anyway, eventually I’m gonna have to meet him because she plans to throw a gender reveal party, but ever since she’s told me about him I have this eerie feeling about him. I just can’t seem to like him even though I haven’t met him and I don’t know why. I just can’t brush aside the huge age gap difference I think it’s extremely weird, but she says he makes her happy so there’s that. Does it make me an asshole for not wanting to lowkey meet him because I find him creepy for seeking a girl fresh out of high school and the fact that he doesn’t make an effort to visit his kid. 

It’s just so weird because he’s old enough to be our dad if he were to have had a kid at age 16. 
