Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : We've been only texting because I've been away for training for a while. A lot of long day, not much time for calls. Military stuff. I've posted here once before. 

Anyways, she has been taking small misunderstanding on my part, and just starting and arguement like I was personally attacking her. We'd clear the air and everytime and everytime, it could have been solved by simply asking her to ask me to reword, reread, or clarify a simple statement. She hasn't done that. I told her she needs to start being more rational about misunderstanding and not so emotional to avoid pointless arguements that's dont need to happen in the first place. She told me she has been struggling a lot with things in her daily life but hasn't told me what. I told her that didnt mean she couldn't vent about her day and problems, just to not take small misunderstandings as a personal attack. She still hasn't told me what it was. Am I an asshole? Have I done anything wrong? I'm really frustrated with her because she seems to be making this more difficult than it needs go be.