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My Grandma is 84 has Meniere's disease, depression, and high blood pressure. I live with her and my uncle lives on the property in a trailer (20-acre property, we don't see him much). I go to all the doctor's appts and take notes because my Grandma "doesn't remember" what they said, until I show her the note then it's an "I didn't want to remember what they said". Needless to say, she isn't big on doctors.

The doctors out here aren't big on me either. I've pointed out every time we go to her GP that blood pressure has to be taken after 10 min of sitting down with feet flat on the floor (and not needing to go pee, not having eaten in the last 1/2 hr, and so on). Every time we go in they assure me that they take it twice and take the average. I point out that when one number is WAY OFF the average will also be off. They get mad, I get mad, Grandma gets mad. Rinse and repeat. At home **and** after 10 min of rest at the doctor's office her BP is consistently 120/60. Two weeks ago they called and said that 4 months ago (I was away and asked my uncle to take my Grandma to the doctor) they asked that Grandma come in twice a month for BP monitoring, my uncle wasn't in the room and my Grandma "forgot". I'm on her HIPA and make all her appts so I made an appt for later that week and not an hour later we got a callback, the office refused to talk to me. Grandma still refuses to wear her hearing aids and just said "yes" and asked me to call back to figure out what it was about. I called back, found out that the doctor doesn't want me at ANY of her appts, and pointed out that every single appt that she has gone to the last 2 years has been made by me, and pointed out that before me my Grandma was notorious for canceling or not showing up to any doctor appts. They agree, but her doctor doesn't like me. I pointed out that because I was on her HIPA that it is my right. Again, they agree, but her doctor thinks I'm bossy.

The doctor thinks I'm bossy not just because of the BP, but also the Meniere's disease. I told her about the ENT's diagnoses, and that my Grandma HAS TO wear her hearing aid and glasses. Her GP said, "your granddaughter is just being controlling, don't listen to her". 2 months later Grandma fell and the EMT's agreed that is was the Meniere's disease. I called her GP and explained that she fell for the 4th time that year and she owes me an apology and should update her records to include the ENT diagnoses. I did later have the ENT fax over her records to her GP, but the office really should have done that already. I filed a complaint that time but when my Grandma found out SHE was PISSED and said I had no right.

AITA for filing another complaint against her doctor despite how Grandma feels?