Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : So, I have three cats. Two of them are 12 years old, the third one is about 8. I got the two oldest ones when I just moved out of the house and I actually don't know why I got the third one...I really enjoyed having them for most of the time. The cats moved houses with me, and experienced the different boyfriends I had throughout the years. They all used to sit with me on the couch and stuff. 

Six years ago I bought a house by myself and moved in with my three cats: single cat lady...More than enough room and the cats could also go outside and enjoy themselves there. I had a full room dedicated to them with everything they needed in the room. At that time I expected to be by myself for a long time...but than I met my now-husband. And I fell pregnant. Suddenly the house that was once big enough for me + 3 cats, was now kind off cramped with the cat-room now being a nursery. 

Long story short: Three cats suddenly feels like a lot. They are always in the way. Sometimes my kid climbs on the couch and suddenly I notice cat hair all over him, even though I vacuumed a few hours ago. The two oldest cats hate my kid and don't go near him. They seem annoyed with me and I am annoyed with them. I can't feel the bond that I had with them anymore at all.  

I went on a week long holiday (my mom took care of the cats at home) and I was overly aware of my enjoyment of not having cat hair in the vacation house, how I could leave all the doors open without cats sitting on everything all the time. I didn't miss the whining over food 24/7...I didn't miss them at all, actually. 

My thought process so far consists of: They are better off with someone that actually wants them there and is welcoming of them instead of annoyed by them. But on the other hand I am totally like: they are going to miss this house they know and love and they will probably also miss me even though we don't connect like we used too. 

AITA for not wanting my cats anymore? The cats I had for almost a third of my life. I am totally behind the: if you don't want to take care of an animal, don't take them. But I think I kind of miscalculated how much my life would change and how they wouldn't fit  in my life anymore once I had a kid.  

I must add that at the moment I am only THINKING about the ‘not wanting’ part, and I am in no way taking any actions towards doing something with that. I obviously do still care of and for them and it is not like I would ever ‘kick them out’ just like that. 
