Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : An unfortunate pattern seems to be firmly rooted in my relationship with my wife, and I’m not sure whether I’m handling it correctly, or whether I’m just making it worse.

I’ll just leave an example of one of these conversations to avoid biasing this post (as much as possible)

W: I am angry at you

Me: 😮?

W: Guess what happen

Me: What happened?

W: Have you check your Canada account, to remove some of your Canada payment or Swatch to US payment

Me: ?

W: We get charge on Amazon.ca prime member to 2020, you said you have cancel, but it charge
We get charge by freedom mobile in February
You said we son’
you said we don’t have to cancel
But we need to
I will check on it
This weekend
Have you ever read your Wall Street Journal? It charge you 600 USD every year
And you paying with the Cananda card

Me: I will pay you back if I made a mistake
please don’t turn this into a fight

W: I try to say it politely 1 month ago, ask you to check you Canada account

Me: I will pay you back if I made a mistake

W: you say yes, you will deal with it

Me: please don’t turn this into a fight

W: But you didn’t

Me: I will pay you back if I made a mistake
        please don’t turn this into a fight

W: How can I not be angry

Me: Because I will take responsibility for my mistake
Please end it here
I have a lot of work to do

W: I pay for you, and you can not afford to pay me back
I don’t want to be your sugar mom

M: I’m muting you now. You aren’t respecting my boundaries or being reasonable.

W: Send it to eveyone
Post on Facebook
to see who are not respect
I am not worry that to public our converstation
Let other people decide


So, I’m obviously not going to post this on facebook, but it did get me thinking that I might need a reality check. Am I the asshole?