Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : Basically I said it during an argument(ish), my boyfriend and I both overslept for college (uk not us so age 16-18), i always wake him up which is why neither of us were up, slept late enough that given the long journey there was no point coming in. I explained this in a group chat to my friends, they were all like u skived lol, whatever cos it's not like we didn't and it's not like it matters (we missed 3hrs each of lesson time). My mum was cool with it.

This friend doesn't let it go tho, he doesn't leave it at that and says "couldn't u have gotten a taxi", at which point i said (quote) "we don't all get paid £30 a week for doing fuckall". And him and another girl in the chat were not happy about that remark. I'm referring to money he gets for being disabled, a bursary from the college (or money from the govt, or both, i don't remember). He has said exactly this, with that exact wording, himself on numerous past occasions. I pointed this out and apparently "it didn't sound like a quote" and "it's like saying the n word, it's racist when white ppl say it" (this came from the girl, who is white and uses that word herself frequently when referring to black people).

I will point out that he seems to spend a lot of it on stuff not related to his disability, e.g. coffee, presents for people, maccies etc. His medication and treatment is fully covered by the NHS, the only things he spends his money on related to his disability is taxis and ubers cos he has trouble getting around. 

I personally think this is a waste of money, people are living paycheck to paycheck struggling to get by and he's spending their tax money on Starbucks. I obviously don't say that to him cos that would be pretty rude, this is the first time I've ever remarked on his disability pay as far as i recall. 

What do u think? Did i go too far? 

I also don't think the girl is in a position to say that to me, "u can't say that bc it's as inappropriate as this other thing that i myself do all the time". 