Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : I'm 28. I just got married this year. I've lived outside of my parents home for years now. My mom wants me and my sisters to come over every Christmas morning and do Christmas like we always do. But I am tired. All the time. And I have my husband and his family to think about too.

Christmas Eve is spent with my family and my mom's side of the family. Christmas morning I get up, do quick present exchange with my husband and then we have to split up so he can go to his families house and I can go to mine. Then after my mom tries to pressure me into drinking Mimosas with her while we open gifts I try to leave to meet up with my inlaws but feel huge guilt. And they live 30minutes away and they are all waiting on me to do gifts. 

Am I an asshole for wanting to ask my mom to move some of our Christmas stuff to the night before when we are already doing things and not coming over Christmas morning?