Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : Hi everyone, 

Over the last few days i have tried to organise what I will be doing for new years eve. As it's my GFs birthday on the 1st I left the decision upto her. 

We currently live separately and both live at home with our parents, we are both an hour travel from eachother (not much I know).

This year she wanted to spend new years eve seleratly at home but gaming online with our friends like we do most nights. I know this is important to her to game with them and I know it's what she wants to do.

This issue arises when I spent some time with my family having a few drinks and playing a few games to usher in the new year. She felt that I wasent living upto my end of the deal and helping her celebrate the way she wanted to. I made sure that I split my time to game with her and friends and time with my family all up I believe I spent about 6 hours with her and 2-3 with family. 

Shortly before midnight she got upset and went offline so it wasent until about 12:20 that we exchanged happy new year and I said happy birthday.

So am AITA for trying to keep everyone happy and splitting my time between them? I feel bad that I didn't game like she thought we would but I would have felt bad if I didn't spend time with family either.
