Alright so first if I feel myself like I didn’t do anything wrong but from my friend’s attitude I’m starting to wonder if maybe I actually did??

Anyways Im (19/F) at my last uni year and so far I’d never managed to make any real friends at my school (I tend to be more friendly w my sports buddies) but this year I met a girl (22) who was really nice and had the same interests as me. We started hanging out, watching movies together, talking etc...

So one day we go out with our classmates to a pub and I don’t drink much but she gets completely drunk. Since she lives really far away and there’s no bus at that time of night, I offer her to come to my place and sleep it off. She does come and I do my best to be a decent host, making her a bacon and egg midnight snack and getting her room ready.

Three weeks after that we go out again, this time to another student’s place and then to a club and, this time, we planned for me to come back to her place. Since that night she has been avoiding me so I must have fucked up in some way, I just can’t figure out how. Here’s what I did :

- I hit on a guy and left her w one of her friends for about one hour but we met again at the club and I left the guy behind, she didn’t seem bothered by that since she was w other people we knew.

- I got really (REALLY) drunk during the night and ended up being sick on the way home. I’m not an annoying drunk, I’m the "super honest and affectionate" kind but I was really fucking plastered and she wasn’t.

- I can’t remember maybe 20-30mn of that night so I might have done something then? I just know that I added the guy I mentioned before on Facebook but idk what else I did. She hasn’t mentioned anything when I asked.

Anyways she hasn’t been talking to me since then unless I try to contact her and usually her answers are pretty dismissive when, before that night, we were really friendly. Was I an asshole for getting drunk like that? Since she did the same when she came to my place I assumed this would be fine but, obviously, I did something wrong. She never mentioned not wanting me to drink before coming to her place either.

It’s been about ten days since that night and I still have no idea of what I did that caused this.