Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : This year for Valentine’s Day I (19 M) had plans to go to dinner with my girlfriend (19 F), then spend the following day with her. However, I had to cancel with her due to having to unexpectedly travel with some family for a few days, which of course overlaps with our plans. We talked it over and everything seemed fine, but I could tell she was pretty bummed about it. A tiny bit ago she texted me asking how I would feel if she went to dinner with someone while I was gone. I know she has a lot of friends who are guys, most of which I know personally and am completely comfortable with. Had she asked about them, I would’ve been perfectly fine. However, she asked if she could go with someone she was friends with from work, who happens to have a massive crush on her. In addition to this, he gets visibly annoyed when I am brought up in any conversation and often insinuates that he could do better. I politely told her that I wasn’t comfortable with this, and asked if she would be willing to go with other friends of hers. She said they were all busy, and told me she just didn’t want to be alone then. I feel justified in my decision, but I really don’t want to be over-bearing. Am I the asshole for asking that she doesn’t go to dinner with this guy on Valentine’s Day? 