Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Background: Growing up, my mother and my father weren't the best couple; it was always off and on. I never truly liked my father, but some times were enjoyable. He has never really done anything to support my younger brother, me and my older sister. (i.e. one time he bought us a GameCube for Christmas and took it back the next day (never got it back) so my mother bought us one to make us feel better). Anyways, things like that my siblings and I got from his side of the family thought our childhood. 

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Fast-forward to me when I was 15-16 years old. I witnessed my father drive drunk with my baby step-sister in a blizzard. I was eventually subpoenaed to testify what I had witnessed. The baby's mother took him to court over custody. There I was, 15-16 years old testifying that I saw my "father" drive drunk with my baby sister. 

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During this whole thing, my father's side of the family basically disowned me, including my grandmother. They told me I would never make it anywhere without them, made me feel like shit, and haven't really talked to me since.

 Since then, I moved away (3hours) to college, I am currently in the final semester of a Masters program. I am currently 25 years old and very happy with life, I have a house that I own, and a small family (SO and dog). 

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A few weeks ago, my grandmother got really sick and ended up in ICU at a hospital one hour away. No one from the family contacted me to let me know what was going on or anything - I found out from Facebook. 

AITA for not visiting? I feel like I should, but I do not really know any of that side of my "family" anymore. I would feel awkward visiting and talking with them after what they had done. 

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TLDR: Fathers side of family basically disowned me at 16yrs old for something out of my control. Now 25 and grandmother is dying. No one has ever reached out in since disownment (?). 