Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : I went on a date today with this girl I met on OKC. Truthfully she and I had nothing in common but I think she just had a fetish for Koreans - she kept mentioning how she watched K-dramas and liked K-pop (I don't really consume either). She texted me last night asking if I was around and I figured I had nothing else to do so we decided to go on a date.

It wasn't horrible, just awkward. She seemed super nervous and guarded. We went and got some Korean food, and she said she could take the spiciness but I could see she was kind of dying. I tried to ask her questions and draw her out more but she just... never said anything substantial? Turns out she had moved from another country when she was younger so she was held back a year, so she was still in high school at 19, which is fine but I think there was a bigger gap in maturity than I expected (I'm 22). I tried asking if she worked, if she did things for fun, etc but she seemed not to want to answer any of my questions. We just had a lot of problems communicating even though I speak a little bit of her native language and she speaks fluent English. 

After lunch we went to a thrift store and she was wide-eyed, she'd never been in one. It was fun watching her zip around the store but I got the sense that she grew up sheltered and I felt almost like her dad. I felt like it'd be sketchy of me to keep dating someone who's still relatively immature.

When it was time for us to part ways I decided to be straightforward with her. I thought she also felt that we weren't going to work out so "I had a lot of fun today with you but I don't think we're compatible. You'll find someone who's right for you, and I will too. If you want to get more Korean food as friends let me know." And we hugged and left. 

On my way home I just wanted to make sure she was OK so I texted her that there's nothing wrong with her, she just needs to keep dating and meet the right person. Well she texted back saying "thank you but I think I need a break from dating". I asked her why and she started saying it makes her feel disposable, and that everyone is drawn to her appearance but leaves after seeing her personality, and that she should never have started dating... We exchanged a dozen texts, with me explaining it's not her fault and there are other people, and her being devastated and saying horrible things about herself. At this point I feel like I just kicked a puppy and left it roadside. 

I've been ghosted before and I've been rejected over text before, and neither felt very good. But I feel just so guilty now. AITA for breaking it to her like I did? AITA for even going on this date??