Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Let me preface this by saying it happened almost 3 years ago. 

I was spending some time around a guy a little older than me, I had been cuddled up with him for a while when he started getting handsy. I was told in no uncertain terms that I might as well like it because he would not stop, even after being told to knock it off. I was fine with him kissing me, when he started putting his hand down my pants. I didn’t say no, because I didn’t believe he would accept it like he had failed to do earlier in the day, or that I even could. I didn’t walk away, I didn’t fight it very much, I didn’t say no at that moment. Much later on, I did do similar things with a very clear agreement. I was also dating a guy at the time that wouldn’t let me talk to him to break up with him. When I told this story later on to some friends, some went as far as to call him a rapist. Am I the asshole for painting this guy in such a negative way when I didn’t do much to counter it?