My boyfriend and I are both seniors and have been together for almost 2 years. We both got rejected from a state school because we barely made the top 6% requirement for auto admission and beyond that its really hard to get into. They let you appeal but there is a slim chance it'll get turned around. 

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I appealed in time because it was quick to write and my boyfriend wanted to submit one too. He's not that great of a writer or I was unsure if he could write it well/professionally I said I would help him. Side note: we had two months to appeal before the deadline. However, I'm a super busy person or forget things often. In those months, I was also trying to write scholarship essays, get into programs, etc. He reminded a few times before but it was way before the deadline so I thought I had time.

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Two weeks before the appeal roll around and I remember it but was still really overwhelmed with everything to worry about to graduate. I thought I would just do it when he would remind me, however he never did and so we never did it. **Two weeks after** the deadline he remembered about the appeal after his friends bugged him about whether or not he is attending it and asked me if I ever did it. 

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He was top 6.5% but the school only accepted 6.1% and so he thought if he appealed he would have a  good chance. He accepted that it's also partly his fault because he didn't remind me or remember himself but I can tell he's mad because I said I would help but I didn't. I see his point but although I'm trying to resolve it, I feel like he's always going to resent me. I just felt like if it was so important he would have remembered too. I honestly don't know how to fix it or talk to him so that he doesn't resent me so if you have advice on that that would be nice too.

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We both got into another good state school, not the best, but I can tell when his friend's nudge him about the school he was going to appeal to he feels bad. He always expected to go there and his friends always talking about going there hurts cause it makes him seem lesser. He is so smart and I love him so much but I am scared it'll drive a wedge and resentment in our relationship and it'll go downhill from there. He's not super expressive and keeps it all inside so I never know if he's truthful and even if he admits he is resentful how am I supposed to fix it?

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AITA for forgetting?