Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : So a little context to start with me (24M) and my GF (23F) have been together for just under a year. We met on tinder but really hit it off in our first date so started to see each other pretty regularly for a couple of months before deciding to commit to a relationship. At the time we lived pretty close to each other (about a 20 minute drive) so we would meet up 2-3 times a week for dates and then hangout over each others houses on the weekends. 

I’ve had a full time job since I left uni at 21 and when we first met my GF was working part time and thinking about going back to uni for her masters, as of September last year she decided to take the plunge and moved to a city 2 and a half hours away for the year to finally get her masters. So for the past 7 months I’ve been travelling down to see her pretty much every other weekend, we’ve had a couple of bumps along the way like any relationship would doing the whole long distance thing. 

So now down to what happened, last Friday I was driving down to see her after a full day In work, I hit a bunch of traffic (2 and a half hours in to what ended up being a four hour drive) and was tired so I stopped to grab an energy drink. I gave her a call just to let her know I would be a bit later than expected and the conversation was pretty normal until she mentions she wants to go out clubbing and is thinking of trying MDMA. So we’re pretty much the same level when it comes to drug use we’ve only ever smoked weed once or twice, so it struck me as a bit of a surprise and I panicked a bit and probably overreacted saying if she did it I didn’t want to be there because I’m not comfortable being there while she takes pills that we have no idea what’s in them or where they came from. 

She said it was fine she wouldn’t take them and I continued driving and eventually got there but things were really off when I got there and preceded to be for all of Friday night and Saturday morning. I was a bit annoyed because she was barely speaking to me and I could tell something was wrong so I confronted her about how awkward things felt and she flipped out about how she doesn’t think she can go out and have a good time with her friends when I’m there. I was hurt because I only get to see her for 2 days every two weeks and she has all the time in between to spend with her friends. So AITA for not wanting to go out clubbing so she can take MDMA with her friends?

TLDR: I only see my girlfriend every other weekend and she wants to go out clubbing and take MDMA on the weekend I come to spend time with her. 