Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : Last night my friend Sarah stayed over since the roads were too bad for her to go home. Her phone ended up getting some water in it, and my roommate was the only one who had rice and a plastic container to fit the phone. It was late and my roommate was already asleep, so I just put Sarah’s phone into the rice before we went to bed. When I woke up I explained the situation to her and she was upset that I used the rice without asking, even though I was already planning on buying her more rice. Then, when Sarah went home, she took the container with her since her phone still wasn’t dry. After she left my roommate yelled at me because it was a nice dish and she needed to take it back to her mom in a week. I assured her I would get it back from Sarah as soon as I could, but she just left and slammed the door. 

I feel angry because I feel like it isn’t that big of a deal since I was going to replace the rice and get the container back tonight, but I also didn’t ask for her permission so I can kind of understand why she would be mad. Am I the asshole?