Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : I snap pretty easy. Not an every day snap, but maybe once or twice a month sort of snap.

Something will set me off and literally can't help but yell, scream, slam doors, punch walls. Call it an adult tantrum - but, and it scares me to admit, I lose control.

The thing that normally sets it off is if we are having a disagreement or I know he's annoyed or mad at me, I can't just drop it. He will just walk away, yelling at me to leave him alone.

This will set me off - every single time. I panic. I freak out. I worry he's never going to come back so I go into self sabotage mode and follow him, hiding his keys, yelling at him, slamming doors.

I know, 100%, that my behaviour is completely unacceptable. But I have asked my fiancè that when this happens he simply says "I need space right now, but I will be back".

That last sentence is so crucial - the little child in me freaks out that I'm being abandoned.

Am I the arsehole to ask him to do this for me, even though I behave that way?