Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : I made a thread about it a couple days ago:

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/ae2mrt/found_out_my_29f_husband_29m_is_looking_at_some/?st=JQQSPEM4&amp;sh=f23dbb20

I know I’m the asshole for snooping. But I’m just  wondering if it’s any of my business, and if I’m being too sensitive?

To sum it up, I’ve known that he likes rape, bondage, hentai, and foot fetish fantasies. I don’t really care about that, a fantasy is a fantasy. What DOES bother me, is I found out my husband paid $150 for 3D porn of a child actress’ character being tied up and put in sexual situations. She’s supposedly “an adult” in the pictures, according to the person who made it. I feel shocked and disgusted and confused. I don’t know what this means.

He also is requesting to pay a lot of money for fake nudes of a girl he knows. I am so hurt and disgusted and creeped out by this. 

He’s also looking at gay porn and has a fetlife account??

I also found out he pays a lot of money for porn, which whatever, do what you want with your money, but I’m afraid he has an addiction. 

I should mention we’ve barely had sex in the past year. This is kind of my fault, but he also doesn’t really initiate much. He does complain that we don’t have sex enough, but we haven’t seriously talked about it.

Would I be the asshole for bringing this up to him? I know porn is highly personal and a fantasy and can be a deep rabbit hole, and I feel like such an asshole for snooping but a lot of this is concerning.