Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : My wife and I got in a disagreement last night about the topic of her friend had both her bio dad and step dad walk her down the isle.  In this situation, the step dad was the better man, and more involved with her throughout her life.  I explained to my wife that it would offend me if my daughter asked this of me as the bio dad.  Especially if I was truly a good father figure in her life.  

To me it is an escape goat of not trying to hurt ones feelings, the end of the day one dad was probably better then the other.  And whomever is walking her down on the right side is the one truly giving her away at the alter/ceremony. You will be offending one of the dads regardless in this situation, and if the bio dad is truly a great dad, he deserves the honor. 

I could see how if both dads were truly great and awesome dads, that this would be a pickle (and I think majority of us truly would want that for our daughters, if a divorce sadly happened) but the end of the day the bio dad wins out, because blood is thicker then water.  Have you ever came across this situation at a wedding, and the real question is WIBA if my daughter asked me to walk her down the isle on the left side and I took great offense, and made an issue of it (again assuming that I'm a good dad).  

FYI, this is a hypothetical situation for me, as I'm married to my wife obviously and my girls are both under four years old.  They better not be getting married anytime soon. But my wife thought I was an AH for thinking this situation was goofy/silly/odd.  I really think you should just keep it to one person walking the bride down the isle.    