Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Key is that my daughter (8) threw up a bit around 11 pm last night and this morning said she was nauseous and her tummy hurt.  So she stayed home. 

Now my wife says my daughter said she’s better and is playing with her toys but wants to stay home and not go to my parents house. 

These classes are a bit expensive and we were planning to go 4-5 times a week but so far for last two months we could only go about twice a week because of something always coming up.  Work, friends, School etc. 

If we don’t go today we will only be able to go Friday this week. 

So I told my wife that if she’s (daughter) not sick anymore we can take her to my parents and  my mom (she’s a cardiologist) can stay with her for a few hours. She can watch tv there and has some toys too. 

My wife says she (daughter) doesn’t want to go and that she was sick yesterday and I need to be more understanding. 

So it seems like we are missing today’s class because she doesn’t want to go to my parents house. 

I don’t deny that she was sick yesterday. But I’ve caught my daughter claiming to be sick before to avoid doing some things and going to school and then miraculously was fine later to do fun things.  So I was always of the mentality: no fever - no stay home. (Do a degree obviously) 

When I was a kid my mom didn’t ask me if I “wanted” to go somewhere when she had to go she just told me and we went. 

So this I’m visibly irritated and now my wife is pissed that I’m irritated by this...