Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : I've been living with my Dad and my Step Mom for the past 6 years. Her and I started off rocky but came to like each other. My Dad recently passed from a hard battle with very fast moving lung cancer.  Her and did our best to help him as much as we could but when we got closer to the end there wasn't much we could do. It's been about 5 months since he passed and she has told me several times that my dad was it for her and that she doesn't think she could love anybody else as much as she loved my dad. They were about to get married before he passed but the paper came to late. Her and my dad frequented online chat rooms and made friends very quickly. After my dad passed she got closer to one of her male online friends. I've overheard her telling him that he needs to make more time for her and stop treating her like she's one of his other friends because she doesn't want to be like one of his other friends. I've overheard that she knows that he loves her and expects something from him for valentines day. I love her like she's my own mother and I know she just wants to be happy and it could be just a hunch that she loves him back but she spends hours on the phone with him and has told him she likes listening to him sleep and video game because it comforts her. Am I the asshole?