Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : The title alone makes me sound like an asshole but here I go anyway;

Some prior knowledge to the  situation:
My bf have been dating for roughly 1 1/2 years and have known each other for 4 total (all long distance), but have met before. When we first started dating, I had recently moved and lost contact with my friends so I was pretty lonely. Since I didn't have any friends, my schedule was pretty open ended so we spent a majority of our time Skyping and talking. We are generally able to talk out our issues.

Fast forward to now. I'm in college and I have a great friend group. My schedule is now full of classes, work, and friends. Doesn't sound like a lot but it's pretty time consuming. After this move he has had a really hard time adjusting to my busier schedule and has become increasingly clingy. This behavior has pushed me away because besides being clingy he has started to be controlling in minor ways; check-in texts (where he sometimes spams if I don't respond), gets mad when I come home later than 10:30pm (given I get out of classes around 6 most days), acts upset overcall but won't tell me why or even hints, wanting me to conform more to his schedule (despite time difference), etc. I've tried talking to him about it. In out conversation he seems to understand but is reluctant about it and continues the behavior a few days later. This kind of makes me feel like shit and I've been pushing away and staying out later and later some nights to not deal with the mention I feel talking.

For more insite the most recent incident which truly lead me to question our relationship is when I broke my jaw two days before Christmas break started. I had just come home around 11:30pm and called him on Skype. He was upset and so I talked with him and we moved on (luckily we're both good at bouncing back our moods for the most part). Eventually we go to sleep; we keep the Skype call running on our phones and essentially sleep together. I wasn't tired and wanted to spend time with my friends before break started and we all split. So I left my phone on my bed (call still running) and went out boarding with my friends intending to return later and sleep. It was all going well until I took a hill too steep for me and ate shit direction on to my chin breaking my jaw. Of course i had to go to the hospital around 2am and since I had left my phone on my bed, I couldn't contact him. I ended up needing surgery to wire my jaw shut which would happen the next day. In the early morning my friends were able to bring me my stuff (phone, clothes, etc.) And at this point I still haven't gone through surgery so my face was still all fucked, and it was kinda difficult to talk. I call my bf on Skype around 11:00am.

This is a paraphrasing of the conversation that insued (two of my friend we're in the room with me able to hear both sides):

Me:"Hey hun.."
Him:"Hey why didn't you answer this morning?"
Me:"I'm in the hospital"
Him:"Oh my God why?"
Me:"I broke my jaw last night"
Him:"How? Wtf? Where were you"
Me:"I was out skating with friends, I'm safe though"
Him:"I..I'm so mad. I'm so angry wtf. Why were you with them?! I thought we were sleeping!"
Me:"I wasn't tired.. I'm sorry"
Him:"I'm so fucking angry right now."
Me:"I'm sorry"

Rince and repeat those last two lines for about 10 minutes until my friends leave the room for a smoke break. We get into an argument and then I start to cry and just hang up and refused to message him because he just keep yelling and arguing. I got very overwhelmed and angry. My friends came back in a told me that "I shouldn't ever let someone speak to me like that." He didn't once ask me if I was ok or even seemed to care except for the fact that I had a snuck out without him knowing at first which really poured some lemon juice on to my cuts. He kind of apologized later but it felt more defensive than genuine. We've since "moved on" from that situation but I can't really say I have. I really hurts to think about and he still continues to be this this way sometimes and I don't know what to do. 

TL;DR I feel like I'm stuck chosing between my long distance boyfriend, my friends, and my own personal time. I've explained this and we've talked about it but he hasn't really done anything on his side to work towards the improvement of our relationship. I've been pushing away and staying out later since then.

Am I the asshole?
