So here’s the thing, her family can be a rowdy bunch, specifically her mom. I have witnessed her mom having absolutely no respect for employees elsewhere so I’m afraid that it will be the same at our dinner, and I don’t want anyone being rude to the staff as I work in food, and have dealt with customers like that, and it really isn’t pleasant. Her mom is a very nice person when you know her but I think she sometimes lacks empathy. So I told my girlfriend this and she got mad at me for bashing her mom and all that. AITA?