Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : This happened this last weekend and I have been told I need to apologize for the situation, but I honestly don't want to and need some perspective. 

My grandparents told me how they were leaving most of their assets to my uncle and my female cousins and then proceeded to ask me for how I felt about it. For once, instead of lying and saying that was a great plan, I respectfully and calmly told them how I felt. Upon me giving my actually opinion when asked, I was lambasted by my uncle and my parents who told me it was inappropriate for me to voice dissent for the decision that was made. Instead of making a scene or arguing I simply left. 

The fact of the matter is that I have been doing nearly everything for my grandparents for the last seven years including their asset and wealth management. I never got paid a single cent, never received a single gift, or as much as a single thank you, meanwhile my cousin sisters got their college tuitions paid off, vacations, and extravangent gifts year after year. Furthermore I am the only one out the four grandchildren that even visits them more then once a year (I used to meet with them weekly). This is not to say I deserve anything by helping my grandparents but I find it ridiculous that I should have to say I am happy that all portfolio work I have been doing will be given away to people that have not helped in the slightest. 

 Given the circumstances of this conversation with my grandparents I notified them that I would no longer be managing any of their assets and would find someone suitable that would be able to manage everything for them at a fee. This has turned everyone in my family against me, with everyone calling me greedy and selfish for not fulfilling my "familial responsibility". I think I did the right thing by walking away from this situation, but at the same time I feel terrible for doing so simply due to my grandparents decision on how they wanted to will their assets. AITA? 