Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : I have a 5 year old who does not live with me, me and his mom are not married, and I see my child every Friday (every other weekend stays the entire weekend with me) I am on decent terms with mom but we never talk unless it’s about said child.

I am currently dating a woman who lives in Brazil and I am in the U.S. I want to go learn Portuguese in Brazil so I can actually communicate with her family. I want to move there for at least a month and at most a year so I can learn, enjoy the new culture, and spend time with the woman I love. I know I have a responsibility to my child, so am I the asshole for wanting to take that time away?