Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : This happened less than an hour ago. My dad is currently on a hunting trip for the week. His girlfriend (I'll call her LG for leech girlfriend) and her son (FA for fat a**) are home. I live in a different house on the same property (basically in my dad's backyard). 

LG called me to do some shopping for her. She broke her hip 7 months ago and refuses to do the physical therapy and rehab to be mobile again. I walk into the house to get her list and money and was horrified. The kitchen was disgusting. Food and trash all over the floor, sink overflowing with dishes, good and open food containers covering every inch of counter space. There was dog urine on the floor all over the house. Flies are taking over. The smell was nauseating. He's only been gone for 5 days and won't return for another 4 days. My dad keeps a very clean house without the help of LG or FA while he works a full time job.

I took pictures while LG was in her bedroom (she never actually leaves the bedroom tbh). When I left to go to the store, I called my dad. I told him I didn't mean to stress him out while he's on vacation and I'm not trying to get anyone in trouble, but LG and FA are destroying the house. I just didn't want him to be blind sided when he got home or wondering why his house is suddenly becoming infested with flies and roaches. He curtly said I did stress him out and let me go.

I feel horrible now because I feel like I ruined his vacation. If it was me, I'd want to know what's going on while I'm not home. Even if they clean it before he gets home, which I seriously s doubt, that won't take care of the smell and the bugs. I don't know if he's mad at me for telling him while he's away our mad at them for what they did. He was clearly mad either way. Am I the as whole?