Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Sorry for vague title, I'll try to explain. 

I argued back to my dad about a rule he has that I don't like. I didn't yell at him or anything but he definitely didn't appreciate me arguing back. I'm wondering if his rule is actually pretty reasonable and I was being a lil bitch by arguing back, or not...

I'm a 19 year old girl and my dad has always had the rule that whenever I see a friend outside of home I have to give him the friends name and telephone number, or I can't go out. I guess this is pretty normal. But I'm 19 now, technically an adult, and I feel really uncomfortable asking my friends if I can give their phone number to my dad... The reason I ask is because it has happened that he calls them, if I'm not picking up. (I almost always pick up my phone, except for the rare occasion when I didn't hear) My friends are 19-22 years old and find it weird if my dad calls them to ask about me or even just feel uncomfortable if my dad has their number. These are people from my new school that I hang out with but they're not THAT close to me yet. 

I guess it's a safety thing. But I hate this rule and I wish I could see friends without giving him their number. I tried to tell him the reason I didn't want to do it but he said that I couldn't go out unless I did it and that it was absolutely necessary. 

I know he cares but ughhh, I think he's behaving ridiculously tbh. 

(Oh also, I've never been drunk or to a party or done anything "wild" to make him distrust me!)