I come from a family that is very much autistic (literally, I'm not trying to offend anyone) I have a sister that has a very severe case of autism cause by the lack of half her brain.

I have lived my whole life with her (I'm 18 she is 22) and I resently moved out with my mum to get away from my dad (different story for a different time) because of my sisters autism she has to move between parents because of 50/50 custody. she isn't able to think for herself. because of her autism she acts very much like a 4 year old that thinks they are the top dog of the house.

back when I was 3y/o my sister bit my shoulder and dislocated it.
when I was about 5-6 she started to scream at me for entering the kitchen if she is in there and screaming if I do anything when I'm already in there which made it hard to have dinner with my family.
when I was about 12 she started to come into my room to grab something that wasn't hers like some chocolate or my ipad. keep in mind it's like a cat going to push something off the table, you tell it not to and then they go to do it again.
when I reached 14 I got my own pc and she would come into my room and turn it off for no reason.

she's a very "brain dead" person, she does things very slowly, she can't talk properly, she can only use her right hand and leg and only down to her knee in the left leg.

she has done multiple things during my life that have directly impacted me and I hate her for it, but none of it was her fault directly. I don't know if IATA for hating her or wether I should just get over it and love her for being my sister.

if there is any more info that is needed just say. thanks