Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST :  Am I the asshole for expecting my wife to stick to her word?  For years I have asked my wife to keep me abreast of her plans, but she never seems to be able to do so. There is always some deviation, something different or in addition to what she says is going on.

 I'm constantly blindsided as it seems like she never does what she says she's going to do. Our latest point of contention is due to her poor time management.   I ask her what time she's going to be home from work. She gives me a time, then shows up an hour later than she said she would be home, with an excuse of things at work not going according to plan. I've come to a point where I no longer care what the reason she's late is. 

 I'm no longer trying to be understanding. I've tried suggesting a later hour than she states, but then she just gets home later than the hour I suggested.   She says I'm micromanaging but I'm just asking her to be dependable.  I feel like she is completely unreliable, and it frustrates me that she never does what she says she's going to do.   I just want to know, am I asking too much of her? Am I the asshole here? 

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Tldr; My wife always gets home later than she says she will be. Am I the asshole for no longer caring about her excuses? 