Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : I met this girl who asked me out infront of all of our mates who were staring so I said yes even though I didn't really like her in that way. But she was attractive and I thought some people are slow burners so I thought why not. I went on a date and it was fine, but I was still unsure, and she invited me over the next night and I didn't really respond to signals that she wanted to sleep with me (im good at sort of acting oblivious to that stuff and cockblocking myself lol) because I didn't want to lead her on when I was still unsure.

It was a few days later that I decided to text her that I think we would be better friends, I thought this was fine, we went on two dates and I had met her 3 times total.

She called me at 1AM that night and cried for 2 hours to which i responded with sympathy, even though I thought it was strange. 

She then spends the next two weeks emotionally blackmailing me, generally trying to waste my time and excluding me from stuff (our friendship groups were merging at this point), which I never complained about- fair enough some people are more emotional, idc, I still have my friends. But im slowly losing patience and sympathy, It was literally 2 dates, i dont know the girl. Eventually at the end of the second week when she's still trying to manipulate me into dating her when i snap and just tell her to leave me alone and that I can't believe she cares this much about someone she doesnt know.

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Now fuckin everyone and their nan in our group has crawled out of the bloody woodwork to tell me they cant believe im being so cold!! Am i being unreasonable? I tried to give her time but im not going to just be a "nice guy" and be a doormat