Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : My friend from high school graduated with a BA in English 7 years ago. She hasn't had a job yet but I've heard her complain on facebook about how no one will hire her since she lacks experience.

I've tried to help her out. I sent her resume to my office, connected her to friends who do copywriting and grading papers, talked to her about her situation and barriers. She always has excuses.

She refuses to do an internship because it's paying to work. She won't do a job at a grocery store/waitressing, it's a waste of time. But she can't afford a car/ transportation. She was offered a job but she turned it down (and was proud of herself) since it wasn't enough pay or in the field she wanted.

The most recent incident that has me wondering AITA. She posted again that she can't get a job from lack of experience. I suggested that she volunteers so she has something recent on her resume. She said she doesn't have a car and can't afford to Uber every day. I looked up her bus prices, $1.30, and suggested she takes the bus. She said she would still have to walk. I asked her what her plan was for travel to a job. She said she'll Uber to an interview and then can afford travel after she's hired. I said it sounds like she's just waiting for her big break and doesn't want to boost her resume with volunteer/internship, which was me trying to wrap up. She said she was surprised I would insult her by saying she's waiting for a big break. I said it's the same thing as saying waiting for a chance. She disagreed.

I said either way, she's where she is and seems defensive about it (she about snapped her own mother's neck for saying something about the job market being different 10 years ago). She said of course she's mad because I insulted her. I apologized for overstepping. She thanked me for apologizing. I thought that was a bitchy response, so I said "you're welcome." To return the favor.

Later, her friend commented sarcastically how nice it must be for me to live in a city where the bus is only $1.30 and how stupid that is. I said I had looked up the price for her area. Then I was fed up and said how surprised I was that my friend became so bitter and was just pushing everyone away. I reminded her how I've been trying to help her for years, yet she never asks about me or my life and obviously doesn't care. I decided to remove her from my friends' list.

I could have ended it better. Still, how can she complain so much, not do anything to improve it, and then accuse me of insulting her and being a terrible person for trying to help? Is it just that I'm the asshole? My other friend thinks so because I missed her cues telling me she wasn't interested in improvement.