Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : My parents split up about 3 years ago and shortly after my dad started dating this lady (we’ll call her K). She got pregnant and after the baby was born everyone moved into my childhood home, forcing my mum to move out. I’m f18, my sisters are 16  and 9 and K has two other kids f13 and m10 (plus 1y/o baby). 

The house is a 4 bedroom house sleeping 8 people so me and the 16y/o had to move into the garage so Ks kids could have our rooms. The 3 youngest each have their own room then dad, K and baby share. Since their arrival, almost a year ago, the house has been a disgrace - the front looks like a junk yard, the inside has crap everywhere, etc.

The problem though, is that K is crazy. Like full on went-to-jail-for-assaulting-her-kids’-dad crazy, and is an alcoholic. She and my dad have a very toxic relationship, and my dad has admitted multiple times he’s only staying with her for the baby. Her daughter called the cops on my dad for supposedly kicking her (he didn’t) and my mum has called docs on K for calling me a c*nt. So yeah very toxic but whenever they have an argument she’ll suddenly play happy families so that she can stay (which my dad agrees to because of the baby). 

I honestly kinda hate coming here even though it’s my house and I love my dad. I also absolutely adore this baby and I know that if K leaves my dad will have very limited access to the baby.  But I feel like I can’t be here anymore. I’m in grade 12, I work, and I don’t need this crap bringing me down. 

What brings me to this ultimatum though, is that tonight I went into my room and saw that some postcards I bought during my year abroad had been deliberately ripped up and my sisters frame they were in was destroyed (I say deliberate because these photos were in multiple pieces and the frame was spread across the room). It wasn’t my sisters, me, my dad or the baby leaving only K and her other kids. My dad has said before that he’s going to go to court to remove her from the house, and has said tonight that he will be going tomorrow after finding out they have destroyed my property.

So WIBTA if I told my that unless he actually does get her removed from the house (because he has never gone through with it) I will not be staying here. On one hand, I feel fully justified because I should not have to put up with this crap but then I know it means kicking out my baby sister. Like I said, my dad will have very little access and if she grows up with just her mum this beautiful baby is going to grow up into a spoiled, entitled cow just like all the females in her family so far. My dad even said tonight “sorry I haven’t done it yet but I’m just trying to stay with my baby” which made me feel like crap (not his intention)  but I also feel like he made his bed, he should lie in it. I am genuinely conflicted. WIBTA??
