So before anything crazy is said I love my parents they have given me a great life.
With that said my parents have zero boundaries when it comes to my life. I'm very socially awkward , anxious and insecure about myself and body due to a girl I really liked and thought we were going somewhere ended up playing me and destroying my self confidence. To add more I also dropped out of college last year, I'm 18 and I have zero clue what I'm doing.
Basically my parents have been constantly berating me about why I don't hang out with friends or have a great despite me being open about not having many friends and only one girl who is a really good friend, yet they seem fixated on that which doesn't help when I'm constantly being told that I should hit the gym, I weight 70 with a small sort of belly kinda not really but it still makes me insecure
I guess TL;DR would be that my parents criticize everything I do and constantly try to control and manipulate me despite putting my flaws and fears on the table
Am I the asshole?