TLDR. We have a bill coming out tomorrow and I stopped by my wife's place of work to pick up her paycheck from her. Now she is mad.

Background. My wife doesn't have direct deposit set up on her paychecks. Even though she wants to set it up, she hasn't yet and still gets pay checks directly from her employer.

I made a mistake on over paying a bill that we don't have enough money in our account. Luckily the money doesn't come out until tomorrow and we still haven't deposited her paycheck. I asked her to please drop it off before work or on her break so that its in the account before the bill comes out. She did not and isn't off until after our bank closes. I had just got off work and texted her that I would be stopping by to pickup the paycheck. When I arrive she is clearly hurt that I stopped by her work "asking for money." Am I the asshole? I feel bad because she is hurt but I don't see where I made a mistake.