Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : Hypothetically speaking: I met a guy on Bumble. We had a few sexy flirts by text and his pics look really great in his profile. We set up a coffee meet and greet this Thursday afternoon, with the understanding that I’m looking for an FWB. I found out his name so I did a little social media investigation. Looking through his insta I saw links to the crossfit studio where he works out. And his studio has a group picture of some of the members and trainers. That’s where I saw him standing in a group, not as tall as I thought from his Bumble pics.

So if I tell a little lie to get us out of this date so we don’t waste each other’s time, is it really that bad? I’ll probably say something like “hey I actually met someone really cool and he wants to try being exclusive. I’m sure you are awesome and the next girl that snatches you up will be so lucky!”

Pro: lets him off the hook with dignity, spares his feelings, no waste of time

Con: a lie

Counter-con: sometimes you have to lie a little to spare people’s feelings