Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : My wife (28F) and I (31M) were just talking about how nice it would be if we won $10M in lottery. Then naturally we progressed into what we’d do w it. Both of us are super family oriented, so we both agree that we’ll give a decent chunk to our family members. She has a brother. I am an only child. She said she’d give $1M to her parents, my parents, and her brother. 


While I am on really good terms w the BIL, I feel like it’s a bit unfair that $2M is going to her family, while $1M is going to mine. She says “he will give us $1M if he won!” 

Am i the asshole for thinking that whatever money we give away should be split evenly between families? 

Side note: i didnt win any lottery, so i stopped talking about it because its not worth fighting. Just want to know if i am the asshole. 

Side note 2: this isnt about whether giving money to family at all is a good idea. 