Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : For context: my wife and I just got married in January and moved into together once week got back from our honeymoon. This is my first time living in an apartment building. Previously in college I lived in various dorms so it's not like I have no experience with loud neighbors.

So, about three weeks ago, a family of five moved in above us (four children, a dog, and a single mother). Obviously the day they moved in it was understandable the noise being created but as the weeks have gone on it has never really gotten quieter. They live above us so we hear their running, stomping, and yelling all the time. Sometimes it sound alike someone is walking through my apartment and not the upstairs one. The kids play in the stairwell and the sound bleeds into my livingroom. It is honestly driving me crazy.

The loudest thing I do in my apartment is play electric guitar and bass. I know for a fact that our downstairs neighbor barely knows we are there half of the time. I don't want to be a dick and give this single mom a hard time, especially since I don't know what it's like having four children but I'm at a loss.

So reddit, will I be the asshole?