So my SO in our heading towards 5 month relationship has recently kind of bugged me. A week or two ago I was at hers hanging out and she got a call from her friend who asked if she was doing anything today, to which she said no, and if she wanted to come out, which she said she’d ask. Taking in mind no mention of me to her friend and no offer of invitation so I felt like wtf and asked her if she wanted to go see them (when I had travelled over 2 hours to see her and we had a fun thing planned (at her house)). And she said ‘yeah kinda’ so I was like wtf and got my stuff and left with trying to act okay and not mad because I felt so shocked.
Anyway that still kind of bugged me and then just now I messaged her this long sad message which I wanted emotional support on and then sent her a message a few minutes later because on this group chat she got added to with my friends who she’s just met and spoken to once she was @tted I made a joking comment about it. Anyway I check back and no reply to me but there was an instant reply to my friend who she barely knows and she never uses discord, that’s the only chat she has on it so not like she clicked on it for convenience so idk why she chose to reply some person she barely knows over me first, especially when I was wanting support but I’m just hurt and got annoyed at her. Is that wrong of me?