Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Recently broke up with the ex bf who held this belief, but trying to be open minded and see if I really am in the wrong here.

If we were arguing about something, he would always quite aggressively ask me questions that were worded to at the same time support his side and be impossible to answer in any other way. Imagine this hypothetical scenario:


*i am paying bills on my phone. We are 8 months into a rocky relationship, have discussed the housing market in general and what kind of loans we each could get, in general terms, but have never broached thd subject of living together. He sits down beside me and sees what I do.*
- Can I see what savings you have?
- No? That's private information. 
- So... What do you think I'd do with that information? Do you not trust me??


*I am excitedly talking abour where we are going. I am notorious for getting lost often, but rarely know exactly where I go wrong. Me not finding my way somewhere is a running joke among friends and family.*

- look bf, that's the church! On the map it says the place is north of tbe church but left of the fountain! Look, there is the fountain! So, let's go that way? :D

*gets us lost. He is angry that my instructions got us lost. I say if he objected to my instructions their whole derivation was laid out and open for correction if he felt I was wrong. He claims I sounded like I knew where I was going and I shouldn't sound like that unless I am sure. I  claim that he should know me well enough after 2 yrs to know that when I am excited I speak in exclamation marks.
- Oh, so you are saying I should never be able to trust you??

I am not claiming to be the angel here or being right or wrong in each scenario. I simply think such questions, forcing me to either say something I don't really stand for, or forcing me to agree with his side, are not helpful in a relationship. They make me feel cornered and manipulated and makes me feel like he does not care for my opinions only that he "wins".  He claims such questions are very logical (being yes/no) and therefore being very helpful in resolving a disagreement.

Am i the asshole for not agreeing?

Tl;dr; Are exaggerated questions like "So you don't think i should be able to trust you??", "So you want me to ignore my feelings and only care about yours??" and "So you think I should never look at another woman's chest again??" helpful to resolving conflict? 