Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Throwaway for personal reasons.

My boyfriend [25M] and I [24F] have been together for a few months. It's been going well, but one thing I absolutely can't stand is his taste in music. He really likes bands that are loud and annoying as shit and every time we're in his car I offer to take the aux cable but he declines. He always has "another band to show me that I might like" which I think is unfair luckily in my car he is less controlling about what we can listen to so I get to use my phone. When he does this I go along with it or say the music is fine or good because it's his car and I don't want to hurt his feelings but it really gets me frustrated internally. 

I can usually deal with it for the drives but recently he found out that my family and I are going on a trip and got me a gift which was nice. We haven't been a "gift" couple but I was pleasantly surprised that he thought to get one. When I opened it it was a bunch of his old CD's with songs highlighted with a note explaining why the songs were highlighted and to listen to them and *why* along with a portable cd player I guess for the flight?

I appreciate the note and it was a really nice note about how the songs made him think of me but I really just want to tell him that I'm not interested in the music he likes. This has gone too far and I think it's a red flag that he doesn't realize that this is bothering me.

Am I the asshole?