Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : A little bit of backstory: We're both 17, I'm a male and she's a female. I'm fairly considerate, as in I often give my friends stuff (for example cakes my mother makes), and so does she. A couple of times i asked her if she wanted me to bring her cake or whatever to school, and she always declined. One time i talked to her about it, and it concluded with her saying "i don't want anything from you" (as in material stuff i hope, anyways it's an awful thing to say). So, i kind of got mad because she never accepted my stuff but i always accepted her's. Also i confessed her love a month ago, which didn't end well because she was flirting with the other guy at the moment, but everything was pretty normal in our relationship since then, not even uncomfortable.

Today we had a fight about it. She brought me a chocolate bar i like, i declined, she kind of begged me to take it (begged is obviously too hard of a word). I didn't accept it in the end, and because she didn't want it back i just left it laying on a table (she saw that). After that she was mad about me not accepting her "attention", and saying, and i quote, "i'll stop with acts of kindness/attention, so you won't have anything to decline, it will be easier on you, do what you want. I don't want to lose any more nerves on you, just know, ever again". I shrugged at that statement, saying that i have no problem with her decision and that i didn't want to hurt her or anything. Also that i too feel bad about her not recieving my "attention". She was just really mad that she had to beg me to take her "kindness", because she thinks i humiliated her. I was pretty calm entire time, i told her that i really appriciate her kindness apart from not taking my favorite candy. She didn't really accept that, and is angry.

I hope i didn't give out too one-sided perspective, and i feel bad and dumb about this situation. Didn't really want a fight, and i literally had 0 problems with her, ever. But i really don't want to say sorry. How right am i?

**TL;DR** i got mad at my best friend for saying "i don't want anything from you", so i declined her next casual gift. She thinks i humiliated her because i so stubbornly declined, and is now angry at me.