Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : So I'm at the gym lifting the other day when this awkward situation happened. I finish up doing barbel rows and I see this girl. She's easily the hottest girl in the gym, blond hair, cute face, skinny waist and thiqq ass. She clearly doesn't skip leg day. That's all totally irrelevant though because the problem is that she's doing bulgarian single leg squats on the only bench press in the gym. To me this is like curling in the squat rack. There's like a million other places you can put your foot. And today is bench press day. So I go up to her when she finishes her set and I'm like "Hey can I switch benches with you?" and she says something like "Oh ha I guess so.. but I just don't like the other benches they're too tall" and she clearly is annoyed at me so I just say nevermind don't worry about it and find something else to do instead of bench press. Am I an asshole for asking? I know it's a bit rude at the gym, but it's also crowded and if there's only one thing I can do my exercise on and 5 that someone else can, should I be a dick anyways and ask?