Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : This topic is somehow occurring in a group Snapchat that has been going on for a few years now, consisting of some of my closest friends. When it comes to kinks, I'm pretty vanilla but I make sure to not judge others so long as nobody is being taken advantage of or being hurt. 

Everyone is going around doing the very high school, gossip-y thing of sharing their kinks, and one of the women in the chat nonchalantly says that she's a furry. 

I chuckle to myself because I personally think it is a little bit odd, somewhat of an outlier as far as the group went. I didn't say anything of course, because as far as I know, it's pretty harmless and has a somewhat self-contained community. However, she follows this up by saying "In a perfect world, I'd just love to have a dog fuck me."

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I was immediately disgusted, and said so. She got defensive, so I asked if she meant like a human who turned into a dog, but she was adamant that it was just a regular dog. I told her this was bestiality, and that she was crazy for wishing for that. She left the group chat, and shortly after her closest friend private messaged me telling me that I needed to back off, and that I was an asshole for kink shaming her, especially when we were all sharing. 

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I'm starting to walk back what I said in my own mind, and I'm thinking maybe all she meant was that she would never do it, but if all the consequences were removed (dog can't give consent, illegal, moral issues, etc.) she'd find it hot. Even then, I find myself somewhat repulsed at the thought of it. But, I can't shake the feeling that her wording implied that she would never do it in real life. 

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Am I the asshole? Should I apologize, or was I right to kink shame her?