Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : My fiancée left me today and i just want to know if I handled our situation well. I made a previous post on this subreddit in regards to my clinical depression and how it's been affecting me and the people around me. The short rundown of it is that I've been feeling guilty about not doing enough for everybody, despite the fact that I've been giving my all for other people. I've been lacking motivation and feel tired consistently, and it's started causing me to sleep all day, despite the fact that i should be at work, and it led me to closing myself off from other people, even though I really just want their approval. Now that we have that established, we can move on to the current situation. 

After my fiancée got off work, I asked her to help me with finding a psychologist that might be able to tell me manage my depression. Instead of being happy that I am trying to better myself, she became upset that I didn't realize how much my depression has been affecting her. She made a few statements that basically boil down to her calling me a deadbeat for missing work some days, because she has to carry more of the financial burden. Naturally, that caught me by surprise, and i don't know if I handled myself properly, so I'll try to be detailed with what happened, and you can determine if I was handling myself well. 
After she called me several very colorful names, she slapped me twice. In the chaos of the situation, i tried to stand my ground and held her wrists so she would stop. She started complaining that i was hurting her, so i let her go, but she threw her purse at my head as soon as she could. I left the apartment after that. She called me several times, but i sent her calls to voicemail. She started leaving messages saying she was sorry and that she overreacted, but when i didn't respond, she waited until I got back to the apartment and left me with an ultimatum, which was that if i didn't act like a grown-up, she was going to leave me. Honestly, I'm not sure if i was acting childish, but i don't think that i was. I'm upset because we was the love of my life, but when i tried to get her help to better myself, she was upset that my depression made her job of being my fiancée harder. The whole situation is making me even more depressed, which I wasn't sure was possible. I'm not sure if I'm upset that we're not together anymore, or if I'm upset that it took me until now to realize it wasn't meant to be. Am I the asshole? For my sanity, i need to know. 


Sorry for the wall of text. There was a lot to unpack.