I'm in a rut. I've made this abundantly clear (by saying that I'm in a rut, not through passive aggressive bullshit) but my boyfriend keeps acting like everything I say is offending him. He says it's because of the tone of my voice. I just worked a ten hour shift feeling like nothing matters, I might be a little monotone. I'm also just trying to stay quiet because I know how I can put a negative spin on anything without knowing it. Just moments ago, I tried to make a joke. My boyfriend thought I was making a jab. I said "honey I was just kidding, I didn't mean anything by it." And he kinda blew up about it. Now he's got headphones in and is drawing stuff. Am I the asshole here? I really feel like I gave every indication that I wasn't trying to offend, but I'm also in a shit mood. I could easily see either side.