Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : I hate weddings. First off i would like to say i enjoy socialising and going for days/weekends away...but i just can't stand weddings. I love my girlfriend to bits but i have had to stop her spending so much money on hen partys, clothes for weddings ect. So far this year we have 3 weddings to attend but so far we have had to fork out  £1300 and we haven't  even got to the first wedding yet. If i hadn't of opened my mouth and stopped her we would of spent thousands on weddings come the end of the year. She seems to think IATA for not being happy for someone's big day but.....honestly i couldn't give a shit , even more so when the bride insists on having a hen party abroad and then one at home with a £200 cost for a hotel. Why the hell do i feel like an asshole for not wanting to spend money we dont have on a special day for somone who i have spoke to about twice.