Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : Hoping for some feedback on this. Sorry if it gets a bit rambling or long.

Basically, I have a very close friend who I’ve known for 12 years, let’s call her Pam. Pam and I, up until a couple of months ago, would talk over Discord/Facebook for hours on end, maybe about 4/5 days a week. We would share videos, play games together, and generally just hang out. We live about 3 hours away from each other so we don’t get to see each other in person all that often.

A couple of months ago, Pam finally got herself a smartphone and subsequently downloaded Pokémon Go, and she’s in love with the game. Since she’s had the new phone, we’ve been having fewer and fewer sessions where we talk and play games together. It’s still great when we do get to talk, it’s just a lot less frequent. Often when we text, Pam will say “let’s talk tomorrow and play a game”, then tomorrow comes and it comes to the point where she’s finishing work, I message her because I know she’ll be free to talk, and I get left on read for 2 or 3 hours. Then when she finally replies, she tells me she’s been out playing Pokémon Go and that she’s too tired to talk. I’m trying really hard not to feel upset because I feel like she’d rather play the game than talk to me and it’s a real change from what things were like. I don’t want to tell her what to do nor do I want to force her to talk to me if she’d rather be doing something else. I just feel it’s a little rude to tell me that we’ll talk and then I get ignored because she’s found something better to do. I’m also disabled (autism and physical disabilities) and not able to work right now so talking to her and playing a game or two is a real highlight of my day because I really don’t have a lot to do and we always have so much fun.

I know it isn’t her responsibility to keep me occupied and I don’t expect her to be at my beck and call 24/7, I just want things to go back to how they were or at least for her to give me a clearer idea of when we’ll get to hang out because I hate waiting around only to be disappointed. It’s so silly because of course it’s great that Pam’s getting out more and is feeling fitter, some of my feelings may be based in jealousy because I wish I could go and walk for hours on end, but I feel like I’m being left behind and it’s difficult with us being geographically so far apart. We see each other once a year, on average.

Apart from this, we’re super close and want to move in together in the not too distant future, I just don’t know what to do, or if I should do anything at all? AITA?