Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : So I got off work today and drove 6 hours to visit my gf. She knew I was coming and said she'll leave a key under the mat just in case she falls asleep (I'm 1 hour away when she tells me this). I get there the door is locked and no key. I knock like crazy even making one of neighbors come outside. She's a heavy sleeper so I figured f\*\*\* it. I'm not waiting in my car for hours until she wakes up, so I'll just get a cheap hotel for the night.

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Sure enough, she calls me 2 hours after I check in &amp; I can hear she's mad when I tell her I'm at a hotel and not coming there (20 mins away) tonight. I'm in the bed, somewhat unpacked and tired af. I can already sense a fight coming from this like "You stayed at the hotel after I woke up and called you to come".

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I'm not worried about it because my case was she was sleep in the first place and didn't leave the key. This is my first time seeing this sub and just curious to see who you think TA is in this arc of a story.