Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : Alright so first let me preface this with two things:
•I am white and very aware I undountedly have inherent biases, and do my damnedest to fight them and better myself
•I hold firm to the belief that Nazis deserve to be decked in the throat. repeatedly.
•because of the nature of this question, I would prefer if nonwhite people responded to this

I work in a coffeeshop in a mall (not a Starbucks), and have been there for coming up on three years this May. Naturally, I get some shitty customers, as well as plenty of fantastic customers. The problem is that I've noticed a pattern in what groups have been the biggest pains in my ass to deal with, at least as customers. And unfortunately that manages to settle into two specific groups: Hispanic families and east Asians. Hispanic families being the groups of at least three people at once, usually with at least one kid. First, there tends to be a language barrier that's difficult to get past, but I've learned to deal with that. *However*, these groups also tend to end up being picky on top of not knowing what they actually want (ordering one thing and then realizing they ordered wrong when I've finished the drink, even when I clarified what they meant when they ordered the drinks), showing up less that 30 minutes before close, not using normal manners like "please" and "thank you," either tipping less than 50 cents or not tipping at all, giving me a $50 or $100 bill for an order under $10, and making an awful mess and either not cleaning up after themselves at all or half-assing their "attempt" to clean up. I realize that outside of a retail scenario these people are probably perfectly reasonable, but at work I'm starting to build a preemptive internal feeling of frustration when these demographics of people just walk into the store, before they've even approached the counter.

Am I just being awful and racist, or am I just noticing an unfortunate pattern? There are also plenty of fantastic PoC customers and godawful white customers (for example, my favorite customers are black people because I literally almost never have any problems with any black customers), so I'm not sure if this is a bias or just a really awful coincidence.