Firstly I'm on mobile so sorry for the format and secondly they will probably be some spelling errors sorry.

Every year I get around 5-6 night outs a year so I tend use them sparingly. 
Last night 3 of my friends (we'll call them F, K and JD) were hosting a party half way across the country from me so traveling was already a long process especially with British trains. 
I get there and it's going well till one of my friends  ( J) messages me, a few weeks ago her and another friend (E) had broken up but still lived together and E had taken Js sleeping bag that morning so she wouldnt come, bit of a dick move but ok we have spare blankets. 

Then they arrive and all night E was glaring at J, she couldn't sit next to someone without an issue. The mood was ruined completely around 10 when E just stared verbally ripping into J making her run into a different room. 

E explained her reason for it ( mainly it had been 3 weeks since they broke up, how dare J be 'cuddling' others in front of her, J wasn't of meant to come that night anyway, and Js aplogise for growing apart wasn't good enough) it was pretty tense and that's when someone from the other room (kat) came to get J a drink. And E forbid it! Saying J should only have coke becasue E didn't want her drinking. 

I left the room and headed to the other, stressed as hell. I explain to K and F that E won't let Kat bring J some rum, J gets mad and tries to go sort it out. We stop her and then Kat comes in and passes just the coke then goes to get E some crisp  BUT then J butts in to say E shouldnt be eatting if she's upset. 

It was a shit show. Everyone was done

Later Kat threw up, K and JD had to clean it up. F was staring off into space. E was still going on about J and J was staying away. 
We got Kat home and tried to calm everyone down. At around 3 I left K and F to sleep and headed for the couch where I found E, JD and JDs girlfriend still going on about the drama. I had to be up at 10 for a train. JD and her girlfriend have their own room. Only E is sleeping in the living room with me. I told them calmly I need to sleep, I had a train but they just kept going on and on.

At least use the hall way. JD went to bed at 4am, now pissed off because her girlfriend was more interested in E than helping her get J on the floor so she could get into her bed. J slept on the floor. 

JDs girlfriend finally went to bed at 5am and I was livid. I turned off the light went to sleep and.... was woken up every hour by E sleep talking/crying. 

Morning comes and I go to get dressed but the room my bags in is locked because K had a lecture. Ok. He'll be back in an hour to open the door I can just catch the next train I think. 

F wakes up and opens it instead and the guy looks like hell. He didn't sleep well thanks to the stress.
I get dressed and decide I'll get the 1:41 train.. that doesn't happen 

F gets dressed, K gets home. JD wakes up and E has been walking around for an hour. 

Me, F, and K clean while E does jack shit. J gets up and also doesnt help. I need to leave now to catch my train but neither K or F can help me get to the train station till everyone is ready to go and time is ticking on. 

I say at least 10 times that I need to leave. K and F also say the same but apparently YouTube is more important. 

Finally F decides I should get a taxi to the station and say my good byes. Still pretty pissed off I bring up that I would of preferred no drama and a good amount of sleep and E and J go " dont look at use like that." In pure defence like I'm the one in the wrong so I tell them again that I very rarely have the time to go out which really upsets them and the others. I didn't say it in a cruel way all i said was "I came here to relax and hang out not deal with more unneeded stress. I also really need to leave"

I got on the train at almost 4. I won't get home till 7. My mother is end stage COPD and needs me there. I promised id get home early. They all know this. 

I rang someone who couldn't make it to the party and told them why i angry and they said I should look at it from Es point of view more. 
When I told them it looked like it could of turned violent and I was worried for Js safety  I was told I shouldn't say that and I sound like a dick. 

And then on the train I messaged K and asked if anyone was upset with what I said, he told me yes and 
"I think everyone was annoyed and just doesn't really want to talk about it maybe?"  

Now i feel like the asshole for being upset over everything. 

Maybe I really should of took E perspective into account more? Maybe I shouldn't be so angry I'm getting home so late? Am I the asshole for speaking my mind in this case? 
