Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Been with him 9 months, no issues in our relationship, he's wonderful. The only thing that slightly bothers me is that he doesn't really groom himself at all other than shaving his face. Tbh he's Indian and he's got dark hair literally all over and he's just super hairy everywhere which to an extent is completely fine with me, it's not like I want a hairless guy or for him to shave completely AT ALL and he does shave his junk a little bit which I appreciate, but he is an extremely hairy guy. and I love his body and am obviously sexually attracted to him but I just think to an extent it makes him look a little unkempt. Maybe tmi, but what bothers me the most is he has a really hairy ass and ass crack and back and it's not like I'm completely disgusted by it but I do wish he would shave it at least a little bit because it does turn me off slightly. He's not unhygienic or anything and definitely takes care of himself, but I feel like that has to affect hygiene a little bit. 

And also, maybe kind of shallow to bring this up, but some acquaintances mocked him for being hairy and especially his back when we went on a beach trip with some people, which is completely shitty on their part and I confronted them about it and like told them to fuck off obviously, but still. Yeah, it does bother me a little but idk if it would be shitty to tell him to shave a little bit. He's never told me to shave down there or my legs or anything, even though 99% of the time I do out of preference so idk if it would be asshole-ish of me to tell him to.

TLDR; My bf's an extremely hairy guy. His back and ass being super hairy kind of turns me off a little. WIBTA if I asked him to shave/manscape a little and maintain his body hair a little? 