Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : My boyfriend and I have been together a few years and live together. He has a traumatic brain injury which makes him very forgetful. He completely forgets conversations we have, trips we've taken, friends he's met, etc. For the course of our relationship this has just been a funny/cute thing to me, I remind him of things and with enough prompting he usually remembers.

We have had some really deep, difficult conversation about important sex stuff (I want him to instigate more, I'm feeling unwanted because he chooses to masterbate immediately when he is horny instead of coming to me, and then is tired/not horny at the end of the day when we have time together), and he apologizes and promises to do better, which he does for about a week but then things fall off again. I've had to have these really hurtful conversations with him 5 times now ("I'm feeling very unloved and unwanted, I don't care if I am asleep or in the middle of something, please, come to me when you're horny!) 

We had another one of these conversations this week and since then he's been extra nice, doing more chores around the house, taking me out to dinner, but still hasn't instigated sex. I feel like he feels like he's in trouble and I'm irritable so he's doing everything EXCEPT the thing I asked, probably because he forgot that part of the conversation. 

AITA for thinking of breaking up my boyfriend because he can't remember my enthusiastic consent of being bothered by sexual advances? 