Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : Okay so I’m an adult now (25). I have certain immune system issues. I have horrible allergies and asthma. These issues developed when I went away to college and lived in the city for the first time. I had surgery a few months ago on my sinuses to remove polyps so I could breathe but they’re already starting to re-grow. 

Anyway, my mom didn’t breastfeed me. Based on what she says she had no real reason not to. She just didn’t wanna do it. (She’s weird and I think she honestly has body issues and doesn’t like to be touched, which made for an interesting childhood experience). 

I just feel like her decision was super selfish. I’m well-aware that there’s no way to know whether that would have prevented my immune system issues. So I’m not arguing that at all. But I can’t help but feel resentment that there was some chance that breastfeeding could have helped somehow. Maybe built me up more. (I don’t know; as you can probably tell I have 0 medical training and am just speaking based on my own amateur research). 

I’ve actually talked to my mom about this and she’s super dismissive, which is normal for her. Am I justified in feeling this way or AITA for holding animosity over something like this? (And I promise this isn’t some kind of pro-breast milk campaign. Again, I have no medical or scientific training and I would be happy to accept that my thinking is way off base). 