Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : I was on discord just a few hours ago, on a server with me and a bunch of friends. I was the only on online until some random guy got on. This is a private server btw so invites only. I knew it had to be someone that one of my friends knew, so I treated them as I friend, like I would with anyone. They urgently asked if my friend was ok (using their discord name not their real life name) because my friend hadn't been active on that guy's server for a long time. I was muted at the time on the server so I had to dm the guy. I told him that he was fine and he replied saying that he thought he was dead. I said we are taking care of him and that he's fine. Then right after that, the guy got removed from the server and my friend dm'd me. He asked if I invited that guy and I said no. It was true, neither me nor him knew who invited him. He asked what I said and I told him what I just told you. (I never said my friends real name at all during this entire thing) He then got really serious and mad saying that it was super important. I asked why and he didn't respond. Then he started talking about how he does not trust me anymore because I gave out "personal" information to random people on the internet. He then banned me from his server. (a little side note in that I also told the random guy that my friend had just come out, which is a joke that runs in our friend group, but that doesn't seem like a big deal cuz it's a joke and it's a lie so if it was some random person then it wouldn't really matter. But I didn't tell my friend that because he said he was super serious and I dont think it's a big problem.) Am I the asshole for talking to this random guy about general stuff?