Opposites attract, right? Well I'm as free going as it gets, my wonderful girlfriend isn't as much. When I have an off day, I'm slightly reclusive and try not to interact. Not an douche, as she says "there is just something off". When I finally shake it off after 1-2 days everything is okay for a few and then comes another couple days of her wondering if everything is okay in the relationship, if there is anything that she did to cause this, what could have gone differently on her end...... the whole time she questions motives and actions. I've tried multiple responses. Ive answered her questions immediately, Ive tried to let her know her actions are not a healthy *reaction* to what is going in my life. I've blatantly asked her if I have to respond a certain way when things like that are happening, maybe a scenario where in her head she is out of control and she needs me to be there for support. Everytime either I'm distant or im over reacting. I literally am the one trying to lighten the spirits in conversation, in daily life. My favorite saying is "you cant take life to seriously, you'll never make it out alive!" I'd rather not bring up things to possibly erode somebody's happy mood for the day. She wants to talk about what was bothering us for days, when it was something stupid like I couldn't land my bottle flip last night or something. When is enough enough?