Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : I'm 2 days post having a pretty intense facial surgery, excuse any errors. Had a total nose reconstruction. My bf and I are in a LDR with 16 hours of time difference. He works a very strenous job and values his time off and time with friends. We've been working out the kinks with the time difference, and he has told me multiple times that he will change his schedule to accomodate me for this surgery. I know there's not a lot he can do from a distance, but I've been struggling with pain, loneliness, and very slow recovery. I was hoping to watch Netflix together or something but on my surgery day he went and played a softball tournament, and I haven't talked to him much since. He's sent me memes and asked me how I'm feeling, and ordered a pizza to my house ( I appreciate the gesture but I can't chew anything). 

I woke up this morning very sick, puked all over myself, and was considering going to the ER cause of how terrible I felt. I FaceTimed him and he said he'll call me back, but didn't and fell asleep.  It's been 10 hours now and I suspect he's sleeping off a hangover. 

TLDR; had surgery, recovery isn't going as planned, and my LDR boyfriend hasn't been there for me as much as I expected.