Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : My boyfriend and his mom don't get along to well, and for exclusivity sake, we'll just say there was some neglect, misuse of funds, and verbal abuse. 

They don't talk because he refuses to, and at least I think, for good reason. Whenever she visits, he hides away, clearly displaying his discomfort and mild hatred for her.

However, after his sister birthday, he was asked if he would go with his mother and sister to the mall. Originally he said he was going to decline, but then said that he was going to go so he could have her buy e-liquid.

This is where I get angry, because I used to do the same thing with my mom after she did some things, but quickly realized my mistake as I matured. Anyway, I told him that it was wrong to use his mother like that, taking into consideration that they never talk, by his choice, and when they do, he wants to get something out of it. I can't support something that I feel is wrong, or incompromiseable. After I confronted him about it, our usually lengthy phone call was cut short, which made me feel like an asshole. 

Anyway, am I the asshole for doing this?

