Facts:

We are both female. 

Right now we live 2000 miles apart. 

We are coming up on one year together. 

This marks the 4th cold sore I’ve ever gotten in my life. 

This morning I sent a pic of my lip to my gf. She flipped out. 

I thought she was messing with me when she said “I asked you in the beginning if you were clean” 

I was floored and then my chest started to burn. 

She kept reiterating that I have herpes. 

I did not disclose that I get cold sores because while I do know they are a strain of herpes it is not the same as hsv2 AND I have had so few in my life it doesn’t even ping my radar until I get one. 

 I would never kiss her or perform oral if I had an active cold sore. 

I feel completely humiliated. 

Am I the asshole here? Are cold sores something I need to add to my statement when we discuss STD’s? 

tldr: I get cold sores. I didn’t disclose before today and my gf freaked out on me. 