Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : In a small (We're talking 4 people) Discord Friend Group server I'm in, me and the owner often argue over small things where she'll get upset at something I do or say, and whenever I respond to her she'll continue to get more and more angry while the other two try to calm us down (I personally am calm and civilized throughout the whole process while she yells, swears at me, etc.). This particular time, I had officially quit taking her shit and refused to stop arguing when she yelled at me to drop the argument and forget it (which is her way of just shutting me up, in my eyes). After I refused, she called me an asshole and one of the two yelled a lot at both of us to STFU and stop arguing, which I denied and as a result got blocked by the owner and the other guy kept swearing at me for a good bit. This was all yesterday, and as of today whenever she mentions the argue on another server of ours and I reply, everyone yells at me to drop it and shut up.
TL:DR, do you guys think I'm the asshole for replying to the girl being upset instead of just shutting up, doing as I'm told, and letting her do whatever?