Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST :  Hi, I (28M) have been with my SO (28F) for 3 years and we have a great solid relationship. At the moment it's long distance (relevant) but we'll be reunited soon. However, as with all relationships, we have our disagreements.

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There is one thing, however, that causes more discontent than I think it should.

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I generally shave my beard (if you can call it that anyway) as it's better for work and I generally prefer to be clean shaven.

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But sometimes 1) I like to have it grow a little bit and see it how looks, etc.; 2) I just can't care to shave and so it grows a little bit. Having said that, I'm almost always clean shaven.

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So the thing is, my SO doesn't like me when I don't shave. She is VERY VERY VERY vocal about not liking that. I would understand if she were her next to me and she didn't like the feeling of the beard (which is why I never let it grow when we were in the same city) but now that we're long distance she doesn't even have to deal with that!!! It's been growing for a week and she's been complaining non-stop multiple times a day and certainly every time I try to send her a nice picture.

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It annoys me to no end because I don't really like being told what to do with my body (maybe immature? whatever), especially if it's within reason - I'm not getting a full body dragoon tattoo!!! The beard can be shaven in 5 mins and it's gone!!!

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So every time she tells me that I should shave because I'm ugly with my beard and she says it's like as if I was overweight or other offensive things, I cut contact with her for a while. I think it's the only way to let her really understand that I don't like or accept this behavior. AITA?