I (31F)  have had to find some interesting ways to let out my bad emotions without hurting anyone's feelings.  I have started just typing out statuses on Facebook,  and deleting them.. Never posting them.  Well,  yesterday I accidentally posted it.  While I know now,  that I totally need to just use the notepad when doing that,  it has caused QUITE the issue for my marriage.  My husband (36M)  isn't a "talker",  and anytime I've brought up any issues I feel WE as a couple need to work in,  his response has ALWAYS been the same " If you feel that way we don't need to be together" I chalked that up to immaturity he would grow out of.  

Now as for the post.  Nobody sae it BUT my husband,  and he's not happy.  It was basically a long the lines of "I wait all day, with nobody to talk to,  excited for my husband to walk in the door only to be shot down and made to feel like I annoy him" 
Personally,  I don't think it's bad,  and yes,  it should've never been in a social media platform.. But again it was an ACCIDENT  (and no that doesn't excuse the fact that I should have typed my feelings out on notepad and I fully understand that now)  
Here is the issue for me: instead of addressing the issue,  he skipped past that to tell at me about how whenever I have an issue I run to Facebook.  Which I do,  I have found it's the only effective way to get his attention,  even if it's negative.. Another fault of mine I need to work on.  Anyways,  so he's yelling at me about that and some minor inconvenience happens and now he is full on screaming in my fave about how I complain about my life (I don't,  and I thank him daily for everything he does and gives me he was just mad at me) 

I'm a domestic abuse survivor so the most important part of this is that the man I love was screaming in my face. 

Am I the ass hole?  I mean do I deserve this screaming at?  I just want to make sure I'm not out of line with being upset. 

Also,  I know we need to work on communication and other problems.  I've suggested couples therapy,  and he laughed in my face.

(Sorry if this is all over the place my mind is a bit scrambled at the moment) 