I’ve been a single parent for a while.  I have one child at home living with me and he still behaves like a self entitled ahole.  You can’t ask him to do anything around the home without him blowing up.  I have him take out the trash and I tied the bag closed and he tossed in the back of his truck and drove around with it then accused me of not knowing how to tie a bag because it came undone.    His room is disgusting as is his bathroom.  I’ve bought him a truck, pay his phone bill, insurance, I added him to my credit cards so he could build credit, bought trips for him to go to NY (he models) and he works and buys his food because he works out 5 hrs a day and adheres to a strict diet.  

The last straw happened when I suddenly started seeing his texts messages on my phone.  I knew this happened because he was logged into iTunes with my account .  I told him to get his own account, send me his email address and I’d send him his playlists but I don’t want our messages getting mixed up.  Well this started a war.  He basically told me he wasn’t speaking to me anymore and that I was a shitty parent.  I told him if he felt that way he needed to work more hours at his job (he is a manager of a vape shop) he currently works only enough to buy his food, pay his truck insurance, gas and gym membership.  Spends most of his day working out.  

I’m so tired of lighting with him because of how he speaks to me.  I’ve done nothing but support this kid.  My support has know turned into enabling and I’m ready for him to work more hours and move.  