Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : Here’s the deal: My family is very close to our neighbors, they’re pretty much an extension of our family and I personally respect and adore them. 
In 2015 I joined them for thanksgiving (my whole family out of town, I stayed cuz I had too much hw from college so no issues there) and their 26 year old nephew from NYC joined us. From the moment he walked in he gave me a weird vibe. 

Anyways, at the time my phone had a corner “popping out” if that makes any sense, like I needed to take it somewhere to fix it so the screen would be even. I made a comment about it to me neighbor and this guy went “I can fix that!” Takes my phone and presses on it HARD, aaand my screen shattered (and mind you Im a broken college student living at home) he just gave it back to me “I tried” I was LIVID. His aunt was completely horrified. At this point Im like “leave it, dont make a scene at their house, we’ll have to deal with it later”. We sat at the table and his aunt goes “you know you have a job and should help her pay for the screen you shattered” he looked straight at me and went “yea, maybe in her dreams” WTF? WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU? I didnt even ask for help! At the end I just left after dinner and was able to save some money and fix it myself. My family wasnt happy about it but we’re thankful I wasn’t rude to anybody. They simply asked me to be friendly to the guy for our neighbors.

Ever since, he messages me on fb or instagram at least once every couple of months. For the last 4 YEARS, he tries to get me to come to NYC, or his “art shows” in miami, etc. I never reply and he is always trying to play nice “hey I just wanna know how you’re doing” My neighbor is always saying he does that cuz they know he is attracted to me and feels guilty about what happened... and is not used to girls avoiding him. 

My friend thinks I should be civil and need to move on from what happened. But I just dont want to talk to him? I wont even go to my neighbor’s if he’s there. And my family dont want me to block him to avoid issues with his family. I told him years ago I probably would never attend one of his art shows, not interested but he is still messaging me. (Some people want to tell me he is just being friendly or that Im being childish for not going to their house when he is there but I dont see it that way)

AITA for ignoring him and not move on from the 2015 incident? Last month I got 3 messages from him and audio begging to talk to me and catch up, but honeslty I just dont want anything to do with him. 