Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for a considerable period and we intend it to be for the long term and are quite committed to each other. I have generally been a reserved person and am not that verbally expressive perhaps. I got over this a few years back when I started being close to people romantically. That included not only emotional expression but expressing sexual desire and wants as well and involved some sexting. Due to a draining relationship in my past where I felt almost objectified with the incessant sexual undertones being taken in every other conversation, I sort of grew weary and tired of it and I stopped. Over time, I've again become uncomfortable with talking about sexual scenarios explicitly. This is just about sexting and not my actual behaviour and level of desire which is quite high. I don't mind such conversations and in fact I love to listen, however I feel unable to contribute too much as I feel as if there is a block and hence I invariably change the topic many times. My boyfriend knows my past experience, and that I feel uncomfortable. But he thinks my behaviour makes him self doubt. He loves the experience of sexting and he feels quite bad about not being able to share it with someone he loves and also he feels as if there's a part of me that he missed out on and others experienced. The lack of equal reciprocation bothers him. He doesn't blame me but he just gets upset and this has happened too many times. He tries to make conversation about something sexual, asks me questions and wants me to react, talk about what I like etc, I do like it but I somehow don't continue with it and then he feels off. It's not like I am reserved in any other way except this sort of expression. I share everything else. So am I the asshole for just being how I am? Is there something wrong with me?