So I'm 18 in a couple of weeks. I'm in college full time, I have a Saturday job and I also do driving lessons. My grades are good, my job is fine and driving is going well, I'm pretty responsible with all of them.
However, I grew up as an only child with a dad who is kinda control freaky. He always does the dishes and cooks, and is pretty weird about other people doing it because *standards*. Anyway today we had a silly argument and he threw it all in my face, going mad that I don't lift a finger. He got very personal and said some things that no kid wants to here from their parent. 
So AITA for not really contributing with chores and stuff, or is he the asshole for being spiteful? 