I recently was contacted with a job offer for a new company, and yesterday after my second interview, I received an official offer to start there April 9th. I accepted the offer happily, eager to start my job.

After some consideration, I decided that rather than give 2 weeks notice and transition into my next job, I would make my last day this Friday. This would allow me to take the week to visit my family who live a plane ride/ full day train ride away, as I wouldn't be able to take a vacation with the new company for many months.

When I brought this all to my managers attention today, she started to flip out. She called me a shitty person, saying she was 'Glad to see my true colours' and how 'Its obvious I didn't give a fuck about this company'. She said that I deserve all the bad things that will come to me from karma because of this. These comments felt really uncalled for, because of how I've worked so hard for them for the year I've worked them. 

I felt that because of how much effort I put into this job, she may understand my situation and have some compassion, yet she was quick to destroy our relationship.


TL;DR I quit my job with 4 days notice, and my manager says I'm a terrible person for doing so.


Am I the asshole here?