Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : Some background I have gone through a lot of hard times over the past five years with the death of a parent and another with cancer and just general anxiety. 

My gf always seems to get sad or upset most days of the week.  Sometimes it’s small things like issues at work or her friends ignoring her.  I never compare our hardships and I know those things suck.  Her grandfather has also gone downhill health wise but he’s still aware and moving around and it has stayed consistent.

I never have problems dealing with her troubles as they happen so often I have gotten used to it.  But she will many times just say she’s had a horrible day, is upset and sad, will constantly tell me that day but always say “I don’t want to talk about it”.


Recently I have been getting annoyed, being short with her and ending conversations early.  I get stressed out easily and her saying a bunch of things are wrong but not explaining really gives me anxiety.  

Am I not being sensitive to her issues?  