My friend, 20ish, got divorced 2 years ago and has a child. Unfortunately, her ex did not share any responsibility with her so she takes care of her child by herself. (we're in a 3rd world lawless asian country). She makes a living by working minimum wage job. Lately, she had a relationship with a douche with whom she got pregnant. However, upon the news, this asshat just ran away, so my girl friend decided to just give birth alone, as she feel ashamed and doesn't want to annoy her family. She just delivered the baby today and I want to tell her family about that so they can support her at this critical moment. Her first child is living with the grandparents. AITA for wanting to step in and get her the support she needs right now, or i should just keep silence as explicitly told so? 