So with two kids (7 and 9) in sports and a full time IT job I barely have any time. I started reading about how some successful people get up early and go to the gym or the office to get ahead or even just stay on top of stuff. So I started setting my alarm at 5 on vibrate and doing the same. So far it works well for me - I go to the gym, put in a full day, and then have time at night for the family. This was happening for about three weeks. I was always very careful to be quiet so as not to wake the kids, and would sneak out.
Then my wife one morning had a meltdown, started yelling at stuff about how she couldn't do this, it's too early, etc. She also works full time in IT. I wasn't turning on the lights or making noise, but just the vibration of the alarm is too much and then she claims she can't go back to sleep.
Am I being unreasonable here? 