Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year. We get along great and are living separately although he spends majority of his nights at my place. For the last 6 months I have been laid off and on unemployment, and a full time student. 

I manage to still run my household but I am barely making ends meet. My boyfriend helps with half of my light bill which is a great help and makes things easier. He makes great money and is a little flashy but he does help me some. 

This all leads up to last night, he came over and we spend time together. We started talking about our day and he showed me some things he picked up from the mall etc. and says oh I got something for you. He's like guess and literally made me guess what he got me for at least 5 minutes with his hand around his back. 

I gave up and he showed me his finger. With a nice  silver ring on it. I was very confused and he said he got it for himself so he could think of me. 

Sorry I'm upset not because he didn't buy me anything but I felt stupid because he made me guess and I got really excited. I really thought he bought me something. I guess I am really sensative because I'm so broke and can't really do anything other than pay my bills and eat and he has such a disposable income. I feel bad because I am upset. Its his money he can do what he wants. It just feels bad  Am I the asshole?


