So me and this girl have been friends since I was 16 (22 now) we fell out due to another mutual friend we had and didn’t speak for about a year and have just got back in touch. Whilst we weren’t talking we have both been speaking to the same guy, all of it casual on every side. She had already slept with him, I have been putting it off since we got back in touch. Me and him have this very strong sexual pull and I wanna act on it but I think that might be crossing a boundary, even though they are only “friends with benefits”. He’s told me he will stop sleeping with her if that changes things but I don’t think it will. Even though it would only be sex I feel like that would be very awkward. God knows. It’s not worth breaking a friendship over sex so I think I’ve probably answered my own question. The tension is just building I guess.