Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : So let's start with a backstory that goes 4 years back. My friend and me were on a vacation at the seaside where we met a guy (let's call him Dave). He was a cool guy overall so we kept contact for about 1-2 years.

Fast forward 3 years my UNI made a picnic party. The day arrived and when I came there Dave was there and he brought a girl with him (let's call her Anna). So she was cute but a bit messy. With her dark hair, dark eyeliners and overall small figure not to mention extremly shy, she caught my eye. So we sat down at the same table, talked, drank etc. like every picnic party goes. Then it was time for chestnuts, so we gathered around the fire.

We were all just chilling there having small talk when suddenly I feel someone squeezing to me. I looked and it was Anna. A bit drunk but still not too badly, so I decided sure we can cuddle andd put my arm around her. Then the chestnuts were ready so we sat back down and ate them. Shortly after we decided to go home, so we packed a bit of booze for the walk home.

Anna then wanted us to walk together and so we did. We escorted a 4th guy. Next up was Dave, and so we went towards his flat and when we arrived there he didn't want to go to sleep yet so we sat on a nearby bench and spent some time there.

Then Anna drew out weed and said let's smoke it and so she started. I felt so bad because I had quit smoking weed for quite some time and this gril that was so promising was smoking it.

A little backstory for weed as well I suppose. I also have a 4 years older brother and there was a scandal involving weed that I don't want to get into details which made me quit.

Anyways so she passed it to Dave and he passed it to me. We drank our leftovers and then Dave decided to go to sleep. So now only Anna was left to escort. We walked slowly to her appartment and we were flirting all the way. When we arrived she was glowing of happiness and it made me feel special as well. So we stood there a while and made out when she invited me in. That's when it hit me.

I've felt shivers go down my spine and I started to do whatever I could just to not get there with her, since I knew we would both regret it after. After a while I actually managed to say good night even tho I saw her sad. I then walked to my dorm which was like 40 mins from there so i had time to think everything through and decided to sleep over it.


The next day however I felt so much guilt cause I had broken my only rule that I ever made: to never smoke weed again. Anna tho was very excited in the morning to see me again. I shocked from my actions was trying to avoid any further contact with her, so after a few days of avoiding with lies I spit out the biggest lie of all: there's another girl and I never heard from her again. I did saw her some times at UNI after that and I still do (now she has a boyfriend) but she's ignoring me like I was air. AITA?