Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Alright first! My grammar is crap if I mess up please excuse it. Second this was a long time ago and now a days I wouldn't do this and honestly I wouldn't give a crap about the situation as a hole. 

Alright to start i used to babysit for my dad's girlfriend she had three kids I'm only going to focus on one at the moment Kathy is what I'll call be calling her. It started with me essentially doing the usual I would wait for them to come home from school feed them and let them do whatever. (keeping them from trying to kill each other) at som point we were outside in the back yard she had applied gotten a lot of cards from someone at her school, about 20 or so Yu-Gi-Oh cards.

 She was showing them off to her brothers simply enough I didn't mind or care about it that much until she pulled out a lighter and started burning the damn things. If anyone here collects card like I did I'm sure you may have the same pain I did. I asked Kathy. 

Me:"Kathy! What are you doing? Didn't you say[guys name I can't remember] gave them to you?" 

Kathy:"yah" *is picking up another and is  burning the corners*

Me:"then why are you burning it?"

Kathy: "it's mine I can do what I want with it" 

I don't stop her after that, she burns the corners of some and burning a couple completely. Then picks up and goes back inside her brothers in toe. 

(Also if your going to yell at me for letting her play with a lighter she was twelve and had a screaming temper tantrum when I tried to stop her from taking her blankets and sheets outside after it had rained outside at one point, her mom didn't give one, and I didn't feel like fighting with her that day) 

Anyways I go back in and continued through the day mostly forgetting about it. A few days later she was in the kitchen table and had the Yu-Gi-Oh cards and some other random playing cards out playing out again to put it simple she was flinging them around the kitchen playing some game, I asked her to clean up her stuff so I could sweep and mop. She hardly torches a thing and runs off. *Sigh*

Anyways I cleaned up the kitchen and have all the cards that were all over the kitchen in a stack on the table. Im frustrated with the lack of care with Kathy not giving a crap about something that was given to her. I'm ashamed to say I pocketed them. It's as simple as that. In my head at the time she didn't deserve them she wanted to destroy and ruin something that was a "gift"(started thinking maybe she stole them) What i think was the saddest part is that she never asked about them after...like at all. I expected her to ask if anyone had seen them but no, nothing it was as if they never existed after I took them. Am I the asshole?
