Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : Alright, I got another one that'll make me seem like a gold digging poo but hear me out.

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My girlfriend of 4 years and I moved in together 9 months ago. Initially, we went grocery shopping together but for my own selfish (personal) reasons (that she understands but it still bothers me that I do this), I started only taking her to the stores, waiting for her in the car. She's been paying for all our groceries constantly, save for anything a little outside our price range, then I'm more than happy to contribute.

This hit me pretty hard our last grocery trip, and I sent her $100 to help cover as she continues to vaguely bring up the fact she shops alone, and before that last trip, she mentioned how she has to pay for all the groceries. I do my best to ask as much as possible if she needs help financially with anything, and I'm more than willing to contribute as much as I can. I have a few more bills than her so I'm not always rolling in money, but I won't hesitate to give her what I can. Often she'll refuse and tell me not to worry about it.

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I offer to shop for us whenever I'm out, and if she says yes she offers to send me money, which I decline ***obviously,*** but when I *do* shop alone, it has to be very late at night, or sometimes in the middle of the night because I can't handle the crowds. I always end up getting the wrong thing or forgetting something no matter how detailed a list she gives me, which is why I prefer *her* to do the shopping.

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