Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : So my GF and I have been together for a about a year or so now, we're both in high school - I'm about to graduate and she has another year to go.  


My GF's best friend is a fuller gay gentleman (we'll call them Norman) who is the same grade as her, they've been friends since grade school, and she was his main support structure when he came out in late middle school.

Now Norman is Very open about his gayness, to the point it gets annoying sometimes - but, I get it because he's excited to be out, so we just let him do his things with the hopes he reels back a little with time.  
\*Note: I'm not the only one who feels this way, the whole friends circle (which includes other gay guys and girls) agree as well.  


Anyway, so here's the deal: Norman gets very grabby with some of the people in the group, especially the girls...  
He will often "jokingly" grope the girls in the group and make comments about their breast size, texture, and if they're getting turned on by it. He will also often want to wrestle with them (sometimes by surprise), which; because of his larger stature, ends up with him on top of them and touching them inappropriately (breasts as well as crotch) and saying sexually suggestive things  - He does this to my GF the most.

  
What kind of annoys me is that most people will just play it off and say it's ok for him to do it because he's gay. IDK, it just really sounds Unkosher to me, especially because this is at school and he's been doing it more since I told my GF I wasn't very comfortable with him doing that stuff - at least to her right in front of me.   


It now looks like he will purposefully go out of his way to touch her inappropriately right in-front of me, I really feel this way because he will intensely glare at me while doing it.  


Idk, I talked to another friend about it and she said that I needed to put my homophobic feelings away and let him be this way.... I really don't feel like this is right....  AITA?

  
