Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : Let me explain:  Air travel sucks in general. You’re on a tube with 300 people packed together like sardines. This feeling sucks even more when you’re stuck in the middle seat. The only thing you’ve got to alleviate the misery are the arm rests. 

So, here I am stuck in the middle when the window seat passenger boards. I already had the arm rests down and was claiming my elbow space. This passenger was spilling into the middle seat and asked for the arm rest to be raised. I said, “No.”  The armrest then had to rest on the passengers side rather than be fully down. Am I the asshole?  