Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : AITA for not allowing my ex-husbands girlfriend babysit my 5 year old daughter when he works weekend shifts during his parenting weekend?

For additional context, in our parenting plan he asked for every other weekend and alternate holidays (and to not have to pay child support, that's it). The girlfriend is the woman he left me for (moved out of my house and into hers). We've been divorced for a year. But in that time all is not smooth sailing with his girlfriend. He's been kicked out of her house several times, one time left him homeless for about 6 weeks. In the last 6 months I've been informed that all is well and he's never been more in love. 

He works in a warehouse as a temp (it's his 5th job since we've divorced), and often "has" to work weekends. To hear him tell it, he goes 21 days or more without a day off and no choice in the matter. He wants me to leave my daughter with his girlfriend while he is working (5am-whenever he gets off). I refuse to do so, instead I keep my daughter and then drop her off at his house once he's home. Then at bedtime, I pick her up (since he's working Sundays too).  I then deliver her back to his house Sunday once he's off work and pick her up from him at bedtime.  Every now and again (maybe once every 6 weeks) he'll have Sunday off and keep our daughter overnight (in which case she sleeps on the couch, because the other bedroom belongs to his girlfriends sons). I typically don't know until the day of, when he'll be off work and if I need to pack her a bag for the night.  

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I asked him for 48 hours notice of his work schedule if it impacts his parenting time so that I can plan our weekends and be prepared. He told me that he can't do that, and since I'm unreasonable about not letting his girlfriend babysit, that my plans are my problem. So AITA?