Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : My boyfriend and I have a disabled cat, Menow is her name. Menow has a degenerative mouth disease in which her brain thinks her plaque is attacking her gums, so she’s constantly in pain. 

My boyfriend and I were going to his parents in Ohio for New Years and asked my mom if she could watch our cat. She agreed to watch her and when we dropped her of three days ago on the 30th we gave her all the supplies and food for the cat, and just asked that she update us on how things are going over text. At this point my mother told me nothing about any possible plans to go 2 hours away. 

In messaging my 17 year old sister yesterday, I found out my mother had dumped all the cat stuff into her room and had driven 2 hours away on an impromptu trip the night before. In all 4 updates I got from the moment we left to the moment my mother left on her trip, there was no  mention of her leaving my cat with my sister or of her trip at all. 

My mother then allowed my sister to have a party at the house my cat was staying at with 3 friends I don’t know, and another kid, who in the one time I’ve met him, threatened to rip the claws out of one of our kittens with pliers if she scratched him again. 

I don’t expect at all to control who comes in and out of another person’s house. That’s not my MO. But it bothered me that my mom just uppin left my cat with my sister without telling us at all. Not to mention that my sister, being under 18, wouldn’t have been able to get her vet care if something had happened. 

AITA? 
