Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : Just the day after I (19yo m) came back home from a trip abroad, me and two housemates decided to go out that night. One of my housemates had already invited two of her friends (f) (they had dinner with us) and me and my other housemate invited some of ours too (they arrived around 10pm).

Anyways, we drank a lot and played a few drinking games. Around 11:45pm I had to go to the toilet, but so did one of my housemates friends. We kinda stayed on the hallway of our dorm and we kept talking. I liked talking to her, I've always been a guy who loves a good conversation and this was one of them. We also discovered that our birthdays were on the same date, which was quite surprising.

Anyways, my housemate had told me that the girl I was in a conversation with has been in an relationship for two years, but that she was waiting for the right moment to end it. 

We talked for 1,5h. After that we went out. Once we were settled in a nice club we started drinking some more and after some shots we started kissing. I ended up taking her back to my home, which isn't that far because i live right in the city centre, and we had sex. After that we just went back to the club to our mates.

Anyways, since I'm quite a sensitive guy, i kinda started feeling guilty, "should i have done it", "was it the right thing to do". I kinda do blame myself, eventhough I've asked several people, and they all say that it was hers. 

Just to illustrate, I am quite sensitive and really unconfident, shy and careful when I approach girls. "Fixing" girls in a club has never been my thing, it only worked out because we had talked a lot. I also dont identify myself with the term "f*ckboy", I am not trying to "fix" as many girls as possible.

Ps. She ended the relationship the day after it happened, even though she planned to wait two more weeks.

Feel free to ask for more information, I'm trying to be brief, but if you wanna know details I'll be more than happy to provide them. If it seems like a chaos: welcome in my  head, I'm still trying to grasp what happened, I'll be happy to clarify. All I wanna know if i really should be blaming myself like I'm doing now.
