Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Obvious throwaway account.

For starters, my mother does some rude shit sometimes.

I try to be nice to her, but she becomes a snippy asshole so much that she causes me to snap back, leading me to be the one that's pinned as an asshole.

I've gotten to the point where I don't talk to her, and now she's become very pushy and rude, even getting mad at me for not talking to her (even though she's rude)

I've been hitting my breaking point. I don't want to talk to her, yet she pins me as an asshole. So, AITA for completely ignoring and hating her?