Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST :      My wife (nurse) of 18 years with two teens has always put the needs of others before her own family and I have patiently dealt with it over our entire marriage.      
     Recently my wife asked me to sell an item she left for me in a brown paper bag on my desk - nothing else was said.  When I opened the bag it was a mens wrist watch.  
     Upon questioning my wife as to the watches origin, she responded it was her girlfriend’s item.  My wife’s girlfriend is having financial and marital problems.  
     Upon further questioning, my wife admitted it was her girlfriend’s husband’s wrist watch (a former policeman and sort of friend of mine as well).  I flipped out since it became obvios they were covertly selling the pricey watch to cash out.
      I questioned my wife’s loyalty and willingness to throw me under the bus so to help her girlfriend since I had no clue of the scheme and would never take part in such.
      I responded by asking my wife to return the item to its owner immediately or I would do it myself.  
     This situation occurred 12 months ago and I have not slept in the same room with my wife since and I am contemplating divorce.