My sister who just moved back to the city I live in and hasnt made any effort to come see me (which I have. Invited her to my place multiple times and she refused) called me just now and asked me to come pick her up three hours away. She left last night from my moms which is near my place, and when she did my mom told her she is not going to pick her up, so make sure she can get a ride back because it seems like her friends didn't seem to want to pick her up anyway, so she probably wont have a ride back, and my sister said they definitely would give her one. Well they didn't and she called my mom, who of course said no, so she then called me, asked me, which I told her I didnt want to drive that far because my u joint in my truck is bad, and I really dont want to risk it.  I told her I'd think about it and she said angrily fine, I called her back and said if she can get them to give her a ride half way back I would come get her, she got mad and said that her friend wouldn't do that then hung up, I feel like a dick because my inner big brother says go get her, but my adult says dont risk your vehicle and she was the one who decide to go three hours away instead of spending time with family who has actively tried to spend time with her