Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Met a girl through a friend, talked for about a week before we planned to get drinks together, set a date for drinks and she calls me the same night we set the date to get drinks. We had a good time at the bar got along well, flirted alot and she tells me where she works and I should come by for coffee (she works as a barista)

Fast forward a couple days later I'm running errands with my buddy and we decide to get coffee after on the way back to my place because it's a block away and convenient for us. We stop in and shes working, I'm hungover and not in a talkative mood I give her a smile and just chill we grab our coffee and leave, we dont talk for a couple days then I ask her if something's up and she says that I cold shouldered her and that I acted like an asshole and that she realized that she would rather work on her own "things".

So in conclusion after that I kinda guess shes just a child still and doesnt realize that some people have social anxiety and insecurities. I struggle with basic communication and when I told her she shot it all down as excuses, that hurt my feelings because i dont usually open up enough to let people know so i just told her that I'd rather invest my time elsewhere since she cant seem to understand me.

Sorry if my formatting is horrible I'm on my phone and rarely post