Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : Hey so I'll try and give much detail as possible. So back in October I had been single for about a month after leaving a relationship of one year. It was a fairly mutual breakup and we stayed on good terms. This was about the time I met R, i met her at a Halloween party and we hit it off fairly well. For the next couple of months we hung out a few times and went on a couple of dates however we both decided we didn't want to be in a relationship but be exclusive. This is when my ex gets back into the picture. We started talking again and the subject came up about potentially getting back together as we still had feelings for each other. I decided this is what I wanted so I sat R down and explained the situation. She was understandably upset and wanted to remain friends. I was cool with this as I thought she was a decent person and a laugh. Since then I've seen her a couple of times as part of a group and once for coffee and it was ok. She would make little jabs at me about my relationship and people going back to their ex, which I ignored. She expressed how she felt I was in the wrong for choosing my gf over her. Again I ignored it. It reached the point where every time I spoke to her she was moody and was passive aggressive so I didn't make as much effort to stay in contact and whenever she did message me I could be quite blunt and to the point. Here comes the asshole part. My friend who is neighbours with R asked if I wanted to come round and I said yes and asked if my gf could come with. No reply. No Biggie, I let it go. A couple days later I get a text message from R about how disrespectful I am being by inviting my gf near her home and how I'm a bad friend and need to learn to respect other people. She made a point about how it's difficult for her to get over me and that seeing me with someone else would be difficult, I've known her for 4 months. She said that I only go to people when I need something, which according to other people in my life when I asked them, isn't true. She ended our friendship. Honestly I was relieved as she wasn't fun to be around or make plans with anymore. Am I the asshole?