So my boyfriend and I were discussing why we’re friends with certain people. At one point we were on the subject of female friends and he mentioned that all of his female friends are attracted to him (he is VERY good looking, though). He then said a few minutes later that he only wants to be friends with attractive people for aesthetic reasons. 

I got bullied a lot as a kid for being ugly...ostracized by other girls in middle school, rumors spread about me in high school, the whole nine yards. So I was hurt by that. I told him I can’t understand the way he thinks and that his philosophy on friendships is really sad and shallow. 

The conversation went from casual to disastrous in an instant. He got very mad at me, called me a judgmental bitch, and said he doesn’t want to see me on his birthday.  

Thoughts? I feel I overreacted and shouldn’t have been so judge but I do think it’s shallow to choose only attractive people to be friends with..