Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : So long story short. I hired a mutual friend for a job at a place that I worked. She was a mutual friend of my sister in law. So six of us would hang out (me, my SO, my SO brother, his wife , friend A and her husband (friend B)

I hired friend A for a job where I worked as the manager. After I quit I still did some side accounting work for the company. I starting seeing that Friend A was giving out things like free rent when it benefited her.  I brought this up to the owner and he had a talk with her. She deleted the free rent so we let it go as a mistake. A few weeks later I notice the free rent back on the account. I then asked her personally about it and she blamed the other girl that worked there, even though the other girl didn’t work on the days this was done.

Fast forward a few months and my brother gets hired. She started telling people my brother was selling drugs (completely not true) and when the owner heard this he called a meeting and no one backed her claim of this. So the owner fired her.

So now the Sister in law has a grudge against me because her friend got fired. The problem is my SO and his brothers household live so close to each other where everyone walks to each others house through our backyards

At family gatherings sister in law treats me like shit by getting mad when people sit next to me, won’t
Let her husband text me back even if it’s family related blah blah.


So today mother in law and father In law are In town. Brother and sister In law, friend A and husband walk over to mine and my SO house.  I ask brother in law “why are you guys fucking here when none of you like me?” He says we are only saying hi and then we are leaving. I say “ say your hellos and go”. Then my SO tells everyone to go. No one really listens and they keep talking. So he gets upset and starts yelling. Friend B walks into my garage after my SO and I tell him “you said your hellos and now you all need to leave”

AITA for even starting all of this? Should I have let these people just come to my house even when it’s been clear we aren’t on good terms and they’ve sided with friend A and her bullshit lies? I mean when friend A got fired her husband even came to the work and yelled in my face.  Should I have just let it go and allowed them to say their hellos and not had a problem with it?