Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : I am male (21) and have approximately no real social life. If I had been brave enough I would have undergone gender reassignment years ago but I was too scared then and I am still far too scared now. Almost all of my friends are online only and mostly an ocean away. I've always introduced myself as female, I find it much more comfortable, and when I started talking to people over mic I changed my voice (my voice is particularly masculine so its not hard). 

No ones ever questioned me on it and I tend to be very quiet and private (so no details to trip me up), and to my knowledge no one suspects. Am I an asshole for continuously lying to my friends for my own comfort?