Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : I am 20F and my sister is 23F. She has been using hard drugs since she was 14, and got pregnant when she was 17 as a high school dropout. When I was in high school, I watched my niece whenever my sister went to work (30 hours/week + whenever she went out) for $20 a week. This worked out to $0.50-$1/hour for infant care. Fast forward a year into this arrangement and I was completely burnt out. When I brought up that I either A) wanted more than $20 for the babysitting a week or B) wasn’t going to do it anymore, my entire family freaked out at me that I was being selfish and greedy. My mom (who I did not live with) ended up blocking my phone and social media as a result of this and wouldn’t speak with me for months.

At this point my sister decided to move out, leaving her daughter with my dad and I. This meant I was now watching my niece from when I got home from school to when I would go to school again the next day. My sister was very absent during this time. 

When I was a senior in high school, she started to get more involved in our lives again. Unfortunately, she was still dealing with her addiction. Long story short, she took my niece and put her in an incredibly dangerous situation that ended up putting her into the CPS system. My niece has since been fostered and now adopted by a different and much better family, so none of us has any visitation rights anymore.

After losing her daughter, my sister spiraled even more out of control. 3 wrecked cars, countless charges for possession, stealing, child endangerment, etc. At one point before I moved for college she had punched me in the face for refusing to give her a ride when I had gotten fed up with her. Anytime she called me in the past 3 years (from graduating high school to a current university student) was to beg me for money. When I stopped doing this, she would curse me out and I would get the cold shoulder from my mom who supports/enables her. My mom even paid the bill for her to go to a Rehab facility for 4 months, which of course didn’t change anything. She got right back into her bad habits straight away when she returned.

Now fast forward to today. She is in jail now (for the 4th time) and has been trying to call me every couple of days. This time no one is going to post her bail. My mom and other siblings are rallying together saying that this is our chance to “bring her back into the family fold” and that we should all write her letters and call. I have not answered any of her calls or written anything as I honestly feel a lot of resentment. Looking back, I feel that I had been manipulated and taken advantage of for years by her, yet my mother and other siblings defend her no matter what she does. I’m conflicted because she’s family, though. 

AITA for ignoring her calls and wanting to cut her out of my life?