Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : So I broke up with my ex a couple of days ago, I did so because I was interested in seeing her cousin. And I didn't want to be a cheater so I decide to break up instead. Anyways I don't have the cousins number or any way to contact her. So I did the only thing I could think of and asked my ex for her cousins phone number. She called me an asshole for this, I think she's still not over the break up. But it got me thinking. Am I really an asshole for being a human?