So I've been seeing this girl for a couple months, let's call her Zan, and things are going pretty well. She wants to take it further but the only problem is her dog. The dog is a pit mix, super sweet female, and loves attention. Whenever I'm over at Zan's house, her dog is always up in our faces begging for attention and to cuddle. Zan is doing a horrible job at disciplining her so the commands to stop are pretty much ignored. Whenever we're in bed the dog wants to be right there laying between us and Zan just encourages it by saying "my sweet baby, my sweet girl" etc. If Zan and I are doing anything like talking, watching tv, etc, and the dog comes around her attention shifts 100% to the dog. I know that people love their pets but I don't want to be involved with someone when there's a literal wedge between us all the time and I'm never a priority. I don't think that's selfish, right?