Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : WIBTA? 
Background: So I have a bit of a messy mental state around sex. I have a history of just giving partners whatever they want sexually so they won't be sad and some of them have definitely taken advantage of that fact. But I'm working on it and I need an outside perspective on this one. 

Anyway I have been trying to explain to my current boyfriend that when he's upset and wants sex (to feel better about something unrelated, he isn't upset he's not getting sex) it makes me feel a lot of pressure to do it. We've talked about how it makes me worried that I shouldn't say no and that I'd like him to masturbate if he thinks he needs sexual release when I'm feeling depressed.

Well tonight he refused to masturbate. He refused to talk out the issues he was having, I really tried to help but he was having an anxiety filled day so wouldn't listen. I said we could have sex, we did, I just lay there but he just wanted to get off and I am fine with that sometimes. But after I just felt upset. He rolled off me and said he felt guilty because it felt like he 'used me' and I just didn't want to deny it. I said 'I mean you did, what does it matter anyway'. Then he said 'I can't believe you're doing this to me' and we had a fight about it, I got angry he cried and I just felt pressured to say sorry (I haven't yet). 

 I don't care that I wasn't into the sex. I only care that I felt pressured again to make him feel better through sex. He didn't stamp his feet at me, but he was freaking out and not talking to me and I know sex fixes it. He knows that messes with my head but I don't think it's on purpose? When he does that I panic... But now I'm wondering is this just my problem? (I genuinely want constructive criticism here, not just to hear I'm right, I've tried to be as honest so possible in writing this) 