Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : My grandma has lived with my family since before I was born. She’s in her eighties now, and she’s gotten progressively worse in manners as she’s aged. She complains about her son- my father- to her friends constantly, despite the fact that he’s been supporting her and caring for her for decades. When we moved into the house we currently live in, she immediately demanded the master suite because she said she needed her privacy. My parents acquiesced. The suite is on the second floor and the kitchen is on the first. My grandmother complained incessantly that she didn’t want to walk up and down the stairs just to get food from the fridge, so my father bought her a fridge for her room- it’s sitting there now, completely unused. She still complains that she doesn’t like walking up and down the stairs. My dad bought her a small oven to keep in her room. It hasn’t been used. The master suite has a bathroom with a shower- she uses the only other bathroom in the house (that the rest of us use) more than anyone else. About a month ago, she complained to my father that she felt unwelcome in our house (I fucking wonder why) and she asked that my father buy her a house- not an apartment or a condo, but a $289K house across the street from ours. Not three days after his application for a loan got approved and his offer on the house got approved, she burst into tears and asked why he was forcing her to move out. He objected, saying that it was her idea, but she said he shouldn’t have let her force him into making the purchase.

I know that the elderly don’t always think rationally and that parents deserve a lot from their kids, but am I an asshole for really, REALLY not liking my grandma?