Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : I've been with my ex for a total of 3 years. The first was everything ok since we were going to the same university and living in the same city. After graduation i moved to another country to continue my masters and try to find a good job for our future. Because if i stayed we could not have a decent life together and we won't be able to get married.

As expected we started to have problems and her family pressured her to leave me. They liked me but the fact that i still need to study and it's not certain to find a job afterwards bothered them. To be honest in my opinion they were right to be concerned. 

Since i was abroad i was alone and i have no friends nor family around and encountered many difficulties in my way. Despite that i kept most of my problems for me and didn't want to bother her or my family for that matter. On the other hand she was constantly complaining about how other couples enjoy themselves and living a good life but we are not and we're suffering.

Couple months in the second year she ignored me for two weeks (calls and messages) and afterwards she said she wanted to end the relationship but then realised that she can't . I gave our relationship a second chance and ignored that event. Afterwards she started not giving too much effort on contacting me and was responding every two days. Obviously i was mad and stated the fact that we need to talk everyday at least 10 minutes and it's absurd how she can't find 10 minutes in her day to talk to me, otherwise we'll going to drift apart. 

She ignored that and told me the reason she doesn't talk to me often because if we talk we will get into a fight. That in mind she kept complaining about how she misses me and kept comparing us with other couples.

When things heated up she said it's better if we don't talk anymore untill i come back home and we discuss our situation and relationship.

At first i told her this will be the end of our relationship because 6 months without talking WILL impact the relationship and then i accepted.

She kept sending me messages time to time and i either ignored her or answered with a cold response. Untill one month before my flight she deleted me from social media and when i asked her about it she told me we were drifting apart and we both wanted this.

Until the point she deleted me i had good intentions of finding a solution and working on the relationship. I was just respecting her wishes of cutting the contact between us. After what happend with a cold heart i told her it's a shame that it ended like this and i wish her the best. For two or three months she kept sending me messages times to times and i just ansewered with only the necessary.

AITA for not calling her when i went back home and didn't try to meet her and try to find a solution or when i acted cold when she contacted me the period where we supposed to stay away.