I have a secret Santa party coming up, and the person I got paired with posted a link to exactly the things they wanted. I thought this was supposed to be a holiday where you surprise them based on the interests they present you or the type of item they tell you, not the exact item. 

So I don’t plan on getting this person what they asked for. I’ll get them the same type of item, but not the color or brand they specifically requested. Am I the asshole for doing this?