handicapped bully: jamie
friend: zoe
crying friend: anna

let me set the stage; Anna and Zoe were sitting near me in class and suddenly Zoe brought up how I got bullied by Jamie in grade school. I started thinking about how difficult her life was as someone who is in a wheelchair, so we began the conversation about various things that we had experienced with her and how she bullied me. Zoe brought up how she would wear warm up pants to practice but couldn’t really warm up her legs. i laughed, pretty hard. Anna started getting upset but i just assumed it was about something that had occurred the period before hand. I asked her what was wrong and if she was OK and she said yeah. about five minutes later after Zoe and I have been joking around about Jamie and how she would roll over peoples feet, anna yells at us saying how we’re being assholes and that she has hearing problems and she’s self-conscious about it.
we get silent and stop talking about it but she begins to cry. Zoe and I feel bad but I feel as if she’s making this into a bigger deal than it has to be. 
so reddit am i the asshole for making Anna cry?