So every time my fiance wants to go somewhere to eat or do something, and I say "I'm good", he decides he no longer wants to go or no longer wants to eat. 

I then feel bad for not just going along anyways as that wasn't my intent. It typically turns into a fight as I then feel bad for not being crappy, I just don't want to take part. 

I don't mean to snap but at some point the sad pup routine over something seemingly so inconsequential (I go out places without him and I don't make him feel bad) just gets my temper.

Am I the asshole??
