Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : Me and a good friend of mine have been having issues with drugs for a while. Both of us indulge a lot less but we aren’t clean. For the past year she’s been telling how happy she is to be “clean and sober” aside from weed, and honestly it’s bullshit. Sobriety needs to be maintained and we both aren’t there yet.

One day she posts on instagram a video of doing some lean, and that just upset me. Not that she was doing drugs, just that she repeatedly lied to me (and there’s the possibility she was lying to herself as well). I told her pretty meanly that she needs to cut that “sobreity” talk out because her lying is pissing me off. Now, of course we aren’t getting her side of the story; I’ll admit I said it pretty meanly. She tells me she isn’t sure if she wants to associate with me if I’m so negative, that she can do whatever she wants, and that she’s happy for the first time in her life and she doesn’t want me ruining that. I reiterated that it wasn’t the drug use that bothered me, it was the lying. 

She didn’t respond to texts for like a week. I asked her if we were still cool and she said we were but I need to “cut that shit out”. I apologized for upsetting her but not the remark and tried to explain how what she was saying upset me and that I was just upset because I cared. She doubled down on it, said she didn’t want to associate with me, blocked me briefly.

I kind of just gave up, seeing she wasn’t gonna see my side. Just told her that I guess negativity wasn’t gonna help anything and that I was glad she was doing better. In this situation, I don’t think anything I say will change her mind. 

Did I do the right thing here?