Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : My (22f) SIL (30f) claims that she’s from NYC. She reps NYC *really* hard. Way harder than the people I know who are actually from NYC. She’s not from there. She’s from a small town in the south, as am I. Some of our family is from New York but me and my brother are not, and she doesn’t have any relatives from there. Her and my brother moved to NYC when they first got together, about nine years ago. They lived there for like four years then moved back.

I don’t constantly pick on her, just every once in a while when the opportunity arises. Like a jab or two every 3rd or 4th time I see her. I just think it’s so funny and easy to pick on her about it. She’s *so* asking for it.

She has in her instagram bio something about “just a couple New Yorkers trying to make it in suburbia” or something like that. She often posts on social media about missing home with a pic of NYC. She even picked up a slight accent. We recently went to our cousins wedding in NYC, she posted a selfie on instagram with me and the bride and was like “you know you’re from new york when you’re the only white girl at a dominican wedding” (my family is dominican, she is white but there were a lot of other white people there so idk what that was about...plus she’s not from NYC anyways).

She said something and her “accent” got really thick for a second so I responded in the worst, over exaggerated NY accent that I could and then laughed about it. She got mad at me and stormed out of my moms house last night. My brother told me to stop and that I needed to apologize. I told him I would stop now that I know that it bothers her that much, but I’m not going to apologize. I told my brother, first of all she’s asking for it. Second of all if she wasn’t my his wife my brother would be making fun of her just as hard. Plus she made fun of me when I got really obsessive over the keto diet, I didn’t get all butthurt about that, I knew I deserved it.

I feel like dumb stuff like pretending you’re from new york is fair game to get picked on about.

AITA?