Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Yesterday I had a headache all day and by the end of the night, I was feverish with no other symptoms than headache and fatigue. Because I don't want to get him sick, I didn't ask my boyfriend to come take care of me or anything. I only asked him to drop off my phone charger that I had left in his apartment (he lives 2 blocks away).

He showed up with my charger, which I'm grateful for, but he didn't even enter the apartment and when I stepped closer to him to give him a light hug, he stepped back as if he is disgusted, then he made excuses to rush back to his apartment. I called out this manner of treatment, and he wrapped it up as a joke, yet still made it clear that he has no intention of being near me while I'm sick and contagious.

All I wanted was a light hug or gestures that he cares and worries about me, but he still feels it is reasonable to avoid contact whatsoever because of the tiny chance that he might get sick from a 2 second hug. Am I the asshole here for getting upset and hurt?

UPDATE: The same weekend, he got sick from his roommate, who also was sick, and decided to blame it on me, because apparently the new years eve party that I brought them to got us sick, then got him sick. He then started to go on about how he's going to fail this busy season (he's an auditor) because of getting sick and from the stress that I put him through on the first day of busy season by getting sick and upset. I guess I was the asshole :/