Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : AITA for leaving her on read? This is long

Aight so me and this girl have been friends since freshman year, and we’re seniors now. She’s extremely manipulative and gets mad at me for everything I don’t do that she expects me to do. For example, a while ago I was walking down the hall with a friend and me and him were gonna be late for gym. She sees me and I just look at her and smile and she stops and says “wowwww ok”. She expected me to stop and go give her a hug and talk to her for a bit. I don’t get why she gets mad at everything i don’t do that she expects me to always do. And mind you I’m such a push over when it comes to her and I never open my mouth bc she talks to her friends about things. 

Ok so last night she sent me a video of her showing me how wet she was. Mind you the last time she talked to me she was mad at me. 

-she was mad at me bc when they went in the senior trip, and I didn’t, I asked her if it was even fun, and she left me on open and I sent “why are you leaving me on read tho?”. Bc I just asked a simple question. She then responded the next day with “ cuz you’re annoying and only worried about trip over how fun my snaps look”. I just asked if she had fun and she got mad because I didn’t comment on how good she looked. She doesn’t look god and I don’t know why I should bring myself to lie just so she won’t get mad. 


Sorry this is long. 

But after I just opened the video and didn’t find a reason to respond since I was in no way turned on and upset that she only wants to talk bc shes horny. And she got upset and then I proceeded to tell her that I have no obligation to respond to your sexual videos or pictures, just because you send something doesn’t mean I have to send something back or say how hot you look or some shit. I don’t do that fake turned on shit, if I’m not turned on I do not sext, its that simple. I told her she shouldn’t only be texting me when she’s horny that’s not what I’m here for. And she goes to say that I never text her. I told her texting isn’t a one way thing and I didn’t want to text you especially after how you treated me last time we talked. 

So AITA for not responding to her lewd sexual video after her treating me like I’m her personal self confidence booster and a little puppy to her? And also for not wanting to be sexual or sext or anything 