So I’m a heterosexual male and my girlfriend is a bisexual female. Throughout my life I’ve been asked  if I’m gay several times, at school, at work, to friends. I don’t mind telling people that I’m straight, I guess I give off a vibe that I’m gay, it’s no big deal I don’t mind. Usually nobody questions it. 

So I started dating my girlfriend about about 5 months ago and she got the idea that maybe I’m gay.  When we first started dating I got a little nervous during sex and had trouble climaxing, hasn’t been much of an issue since then. She told one of her friends about it and she gave her the idea that maybe I’m gay. She asked me and I told her that I’m actually straight. Well since then she’s questioned me several times about it. Once she even searched through my porn history to confirm that I’m not watching gay porn. Well it’s been couple months and today she asked me again if I was gay and told me that if I was then she’d want to know. I got pretty annoyed because this is getting old. 

Look it’s 2019, and if I was gay i really feel like id be comfortable with it by now, I understand homosexual people have a lot of challenges coming out, but I feel like I have to defend my sexuality to my girlfriend and it’s frustrating that I’m not taken seriously when I say that I’m straight. I think it’s a little hypocritical that I’m not taken seriously when I tell her that I’m in to women. I understand this has happened to LGBTQ+ people in the past but that seems like something we should be past by now, especially considering my girlfriend is bi. 

So AITA for getting mad at my girlfriend and her friend who doesn’t accept that I’m straight.