Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Story time guys. I've been friends with *Megan* for 8 years. Even though I moved 500 miles away, we managed to maintain our friendship. She got married for dubious reasons last summer. In the beginning, I was going to be maid of honor. Then, I was demoted to bridesmaid. Finally, I was simply invited as a guest. At this point, she was messaging me infrequently and seemed ambivalent in regards to my attendance. I understand that distance plays a role, but this is the kicker. It would have cost me ~2 grand to attend the wedding, and I'm a damn broke college student who pays my own bills. She has coasted by on her wealthy parents and now husband. I facetimed her tonight and after a normal conversation, she starts quilting me about not attending the wedding. I explained the financial burden it would have placed on me...and she still believes I should have attended. So reddit...am I the asshole? 