Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Backstory:

So, this story is from this summer and I'm mostly just confused.  I feel like I didn't handle the situation wrongly, but she acted like I did.  Anyways,  back in band about my Sophomore year of high school I met this senior girl who I really liked, and it happened she just had broken up with her boyfriend.  She had just moved back from this other school nearby, and she was into gaming and what not, so I figured "hey, why not give it a shot?".  Well homecoming was coming up so 3 weeks out I asked her and got ecstatic when she said yes.  Than the problem came.

Me- Oh jeez thats awesome! I'm glad you said yes!

Girl- But  not if you  have a crush on me.

Me- (I secretly had a crush) Oh, no no no no no... never.

A week later at a football game which was on the anniversary of my Great Ma's death I felt very depressed, so I sat alone on the bench and did my own thing and she came up and got mad I wasn't sitting and talking with her or discussing homecoming.  I asked her to be alone cause I wasn't feeling well, and about my Great Grandma, but she said nevermind on homecoming if your gonna be depressed.  

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This Summer:  

Right back into this summer after not talking for a couple years I decide to text her and apologize for being anyway or whatever I had done to upset her and offered her friendship.  This arose when I was going through a spell of me feeling awful constantly, so I tried to tie up loose ends to see if I was feeling guilt or something else from past experiences. 

   

After explaining how I felt depressed she sorta got mad.

Me-  I just  have felt depressed all the time and I want to go back and see if talking to people who I might have upset or screwed over would help if I tried making things ok again.

Girl-  I have a doctor for depression if you want she helps with clinical depression and when I suffered it helped me a lot.  

Me-  Oh no, I doubt I have the disease I'm just saying I've felt very depressed over the last couple months.  

Girl-  You shouldn't use depressed willy nilly like that.  People have serious medical conditions about depression and I find it infuriating that you would ever use it that way!

Me-  No, I meant it as a feeling not as a self diagnosis,  people use it as an adjective,  and noun constantly.  I was just describing how I felt and  it's how I felt, maybe not to a disease point but, I've felt upset.

Girl-  I had to deal with rape, death, and abuse from all kinds of people and I actually had depression.  NO.  You are a complete asshole for ever using that word with your situation.  Apologize or I won't talk to you again.  

\*She blocked me so I couldn't say anything past this.

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Well.  Yeah, am I the asshole here for using depressed to describe how I felt over the past couple months? 