Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : So me a my girlfriend got into a big fight last weekend. It ended with her dumping me and storming out. The next morning I go to the gym and this INSANELY hot girl that I have become friends with is there as well. She can tell I am a bit depressed and asks what happened. So we are talking and she eventually gives the, "oh you poor baby, you shouldn't be alone tonight" speech.

This was pretty exciting for me since she is so unfairly hot. I always knew she had a minor thing for me but never acted on it since I was in a relationship.

Well shortly after my work out, my ex calls me. I can already guess what it was about so I ignore the call. She calls a couple more times then leaves a text apologizing and asking to talk. 

I texted her back saying that I would call her tomorrow. I wanted to get back to with her (which we have) but only after I went over the girl at the gyms house.

So I didn't cheat because we were broken up, but am I still the asshole?