Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : I know how this sounds. I need some insight here, so work your magic please.

The general situation is we don't live together. He has his own flat and I live in a dormitory. So most of the time I will just stay at his place, dates will be at his place, most of our life as couple plays there.

Here is the thing: it's HIS appartment. So if he decides to rudely kick me out, I will (saltily) accept that. He needs a fair amount of alone time, which is okay. If he is feeling down or sick or just wants me there, I will haul my pretty ass over there. I basically come and go as he likes it. It's his appartment and my opinion on any matter regarding that is just that, just my opinion (which doesn't feel nice, considering I spend so much time there).

So the past few days were challenging for me, to say the least. Save to say I haven't slept much either, but I still managed to be there for him, which he was grateful for (and I felt greatly appreciated, to be fair). Fast forward to today I had the most stressful day but I managed to get the thing done, so no more stress for just today.

When I got home I just felt so TIRED. Yesterday and this morning my BF and I had talked about spending this evening together. So he has been looking forward to that. But beeing right next to my comfortable, warm bed, just waiting for me, the commute to his place didn't seem all that enticing. (And if I got there, i would have fallen asleep immediatly just the same.)

I called him and told him that. He didn't seem to pleased, which was to be expected, so I said something along the lines of: "I always roll with it when you need alone time, too!" and he accused me of guild tripping me then and there in the middle of my sentence.

I know guilt tripping is manipulative and I read up on it and that is apparently exacly what I did. I acted victimised and I said that (in the "heat" of the moment) to create emotional debt.

I was and am quite offended at the accusation though, as I hate manipulative people and I couldn't stand to be like that.

Give me your opinion! AITA?