Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : I have a friend who I never particularly liked.  I am female he is male.  He used to be super possessive over me and I had to talk to him about it. Once he even tried to kiss me while I was wasted knowing I do not feel the same about him.  I have had plenty of conversation about my feeling towards him.  I have since moved away from him and continued a phone friendship as it was harmless but now he keeps making comments on how he loves me. (He has a girlfriend and I have a boyfriend). On the phone all the does it talk about how he cheats on his girlfriend and how he wants to “fuck”.   I honestly just don’t care anymore.  I recently got a job and I am in school full time and this year I have had a lot of projects. Well a month ago was the last time we talked. I told him I’d get back to him when I can. He didn’t last three days before calling me again.  He knows I hate talking on the phone in the first place and refuses to text me.  I will admit I became super angry when he didn’t even let me have a few days before calling me again.  So I didn’t answer.  Since then he has called me almost every day since and I grow increasingly angry at him. I know I should tell him how i feel but does one not get the fucking hint?  We are in our late 20s-early 30s. Why does a friend really need to talk to someone that much?  Am I wrong for ignoring him even though he’s possessive and creepy towards me?  