Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Last semester, I was in a group project with a friend and another classmate. Classmate has a learning disability, which is very common and has a lot of online tools to help. I’m a transfer student, who has a double workload to catch up to my own year. I also have social anxiety, but due to recent improvement, this is something I haven’t shared with my class yet. The only one, who knows is my friend. The subject we are studying is hard and we all have difficulties. Classmate tends to bring us her homework and forcefully try to make us do it for her. I’m terribly behind in this class and have tried explaining this to classmate on multiple occasions without much change.

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  Beginning our final project, classmate has a talk to friend and I about being so close and how this makes classmate feel like the third wheel. She reminds us that she needs extra help and time on projects. I suggest we each do homework on the project to speed up the process and ensure I can read the necessary texts. Everyone agrees and I spend the next three days hitting the books. I read about four months’ worth of literature in three days and do the planned homework. As it turns out, I’m the only one that remembered to do the homework and I present it on a projector to kickstart the project. I have explicit reasoning on every single suggestion in an effort to help classmate understand my POV.  Classmate is silent the entire presentation and the following work. 

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  You need to be blind at this point not to get there is a problem. Classmate again says that we aren't helping and I frustrated with her ask: "Is it best for you to do the exam with us then?"  Classmate gets pissed and leave. I feel bad and write her a nice apology, realizing that I did indeed sound like an arsehole. 

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  We meet again a few days later. Classmate come late and we work peacefully for about an hour. Then classmate explodes. She tells us that we are getting our wish and she won't be joining us for the exam. Then she goes into a long spiel about how I never hold eye-contact with her and just hates her guts, while friend is a saint and helping her so much. Friend ask her what she is planning to do now, and classmate explain our professor has asked her to finish this project with us and then do the exam alone. However, she has by then called me every name in the book and I'm fed up. I leave the table trying to hide how much I'm shaking with anxiety and refused to do the project in same room as her.

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  I realized afterwards that I've felt anxious with classmate for awhile and I therefore believe I might actually have avoided looking her in the eyes, but I don't want to share this personal piece of info with a stranger to clear this up. 

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  Classmate transferred class to avoid me.