Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : I met this woman Sarah on a dating app a month ago.  On my profile I specifically state that I don't want to date anyone with kids.  On Sarah's profile there is no reference to her having any children.  Sarah and I have gone out 4 times and had our 5th date a few nights ago.  Things were great.  We have a lot in common.  She's funny, charming, and attractive.  I thought I'd hit the dating jackpot.  At no point during any of these dates did Sarah mention having a child.

Well during our most recent date we went out for drinks and a few minutes after we sat down Sarah came clean.  She admitted she has a daughter from her previous marriage, and that she was afraid to tell me because she knew I'd turn her down if I had known ahead of time.  I asked her if that was why she had no reference to her daughter on her profile and she told me she'd been turned down so many times because of her daughter that she had to make a new profile.  She said she figured that if I got to know her better she thought I could overlook this "no kids rule" that I have and be happy with her.

I told her that I couldn't just overlook this.  I paid for our drinks and left.  She sat there quietly staring into her drink as I left.  I didn't hear from her until this morning when she texted me asking if we could talk.  I told her there wasn't much to talk about, but that I recommend she be more honest in the future to avoid hurt feelings.  She told me I was being a selfish asshole and that my hatred of kids was a very ugly trait.  I blocked her.

Was I an asshole?  Was I too cold and not understanding enough of her problems here?  Is this an understandable lie given how hard it can be for single parents to date?  I feel justified in ending things, but maybe I was too harsh in the way I did it?