Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : About five years ago I met this amazing woman on World of Warcraft. I want to be clear that I do not now, nor have I ever had romantic feelings for her.  She was just a really cool person I had a lot in common with. This led to us being "internet besties" which led to "actual besties". I've traveled six states away to visit her and her husband in California several times when I had vacation time.  We would play games together, watch Netflix together by syncing our streams, voice and video chat all the time. She was just the best.

Cut to about a year ago, and she starts suddenly bailing on me. We had a standing vague friend date that every Friday we would hang out and play games or whatever. Seven o'clock Friday night rolls around and I'm waiting for her to Skype me and then I get a text saying that she and her husband had made plans a week ago to have a date night. Okay, no big deal. This started happening more frequently, and with increasingly inane reasons for ditching me last minute. If I had to cancel on her for a good reason she would get upset and try to guilt trip me. Then she started doing petty things like refusing to play video games unless we played what she wanted or refusing to watch the Netflix shows I wanted to watch. It always had to be her choice. The list of shitty behaviors is a mile long. Every time I tried to talk to her about her behavior, she would explain it away as being on her period or she had a bad week.

Now cut to about three and a half weeks ago when I told her we needed to talk. I told her I wanted to talk to her about some stuff I felt hurt about so we could move past it and it wouldn't fester inside me until I wanted nothing to do with her. I was holding out hope things could return to some semblance of normalcy. She promised me she would be available Friday night at our usual time. When the day came, we hadn't been connected on a video call more than twenty minutes when she said, "Oh &lt;FRIEND&gt; is here. I have to go. I'll call you back later." She never did. I later found out that she had made plans with this person after telling me she would be available. Something snapped in me, and that was the last straw. So I stopped answering texts and calls. It's been two weeks since.

Yesterday her boyfriend, her husband, and a bunch of our mutual online friends that we accumulated over five years started bombarding me and saying that I wasn't giving her a fair shake. I'm being a dick for ghosting her. She's been crying over me all week. She's so sorry for taking me for granted. I should let her explain herself. You get the idea. They all know the whole story. They're still insisting that I'm a dick, and I'm starting to wonder. I know I need to cut her out, but AITA for ghosting her instead of giving her another chance to explain?