Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : BACKSTORY: My brother (20yrs) and his baby mama (20yrs) have a very toxic relationship. I don't wanna get too deep into it but basically there has been cases where domestic violence was definitely involved. As toxic relationships goes, they just cant let each there go and they always get back together eventually despite all the shit they've done to each other. (Side note: they live in the Philippines, in the much poorer areas.)

Anyways, they finally did the one thing that really ties them to each other forever and that's having a baby. A beautiful baby girl. So innocent, so unaware of the problems that revolve around her young parents. I thought the baby would somehow magically clear up the toxicity (HOW NAIVE I WAS) and mature them because now they have a baby to take care of but nope. Literally they have fought every single day. 

My parents and I live in the US (we're all filipino), and we live a decent life (we're low middle class). My brother had always been a wildcard and cant stay in one place. He comes back to the US every couple of months and then goes back to the Philippines for another couple of months. He likes to live independently and works once in a while. The baby mama doesn't work at all, dropped out of college and has my brother (technically my parents since it's their money) provide her the basic necessities.

BACK TO MY MAIN QUESTION: 
My mother is flying over to the Philippines soon and she wants to convince the baby mama to let our family take care of the baby, at least for a awhile. Reason being that they're situation in the Philippines isnt great because (A) They live in the really ghetto and dirty parts of the city, the baby has gotten mutiple fevers but luckily have all subsided. (B) We don't want that child growing up with the toxicity of their parents. (C) We believe the baby will have a better future in the US. (D) The baby mama can focus on going back to school while we take care of the baby. 

My brother will also be coming back to the US to search for work and save up, which leaves only the baby mama left in the Philippines, but it's the best option for the baby. And the baby mama said she would do anything to give her baby a good life and so convincing her to take the baby to the US shouldn't be a bad idea. Of course, there would be daily facetiming, so the baby doesnt forget her mother. The baby mama seems to be semi-convinced but she's still a bit hesitant. So AITA for really getting her on board with this idea?