Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : Some context: I am currently studying abroad very far from home, going to be back in about 2 weeks. The next 2 weeks also happens to be spring break where my girlfriend and I go to school. I recently was texting a friend from home and he told me how excited he was to be going on a trip to a legal state with my girlfriend and how much they are gonna smoke and bring back home. This obviously caught be my surprise because my girlfriend had made no mention of booking a flight or even spending time away from home for break. We’ve been together for several years and I trust her but I still think that if the tables were turned I would at least run the idea by her before I decided to make such a major decision, especially if it were with another girl other than my GF. My girlfriend said she was sorry and that it “happened so quickly she didn’t think to tell me”. I really don’t know what to do or how to react here so any help would be appreciated.