So I made a server on ark just for me and friends. My friends said that they wanted PvP to be turned on so we can have an all out war. I turned it on and waited for everyone to get on. Everyone got on and we started having a war. I also started to destroy bases and kill things. But apparently they said i'm an asshole for killing them and destroying their stuff. So I felt bad and let them destroy my base. But they still are calling me an asshole for destroying stuff. So am I one?