Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : I spent a lot of time thinking about what to get him for Christmas (I wanted it to be both useful and something he'd actually like) and ended up getting him a book relevant to one of his hobbies. He was incredibly happy with it and has almost read it already. He told me he'd been thinking about what to get me, and now, a couple of days later, he texts me "Is it okay if I take you out to eat as a Christmas present?" I know it's so ungrateful, but I just can't help feeling disappointed and unappreciated that he can't even be bothered to spend a little bit of time thinking about what I might like. I don't give a damn about monetary value, either, I was just hoping he'd put it the tiniest amount of effort to show that he appreciates me, like I did for him :(