So a few days back me and a girl I know had a sleepover or whatever you call it. My parents were out of town, and she came over, we watched sports and went out for wings and whatever. We didn't have sex, but we shared a bed, sleeping together, holding hands and I did get to touch her breasts. More that she kind of put my hand up there, and I was too tired to really care. She seemed really into me all of the time, and made hints that she wanted a relationship.

Anyway, I'm not interested in really doing anything further, at least not before thinking it thru, and prolly not even then. I've heard bad things about her from my friends. But I don't want to hurt her, especially not since this is my 3rd or 4th close call with her, but I don't want to date her, even though she, according to everyone who knows me and her, is really, really in love, like not just up for sex, or crushing, but a year long thing. 

Am I the asshole for letting things go this way, for inviting her to stay the night, and for letting it happen before, even if I'm not gonna date her?