Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : I keep my computer, on which I play video games, in my bedroom. When playing games, I will sometimes talk to my friends over Discord, and some nights I will talk to my girlfriend. On weeknights I always make sure to hang up by 8:30 pm, because I need to get to bed for work in the morning. On Friday and Saturday nights sometimes I'm up till about midnight, but when it's later I try to keep myself to a whisper. Nevertheless I will often fail, especially when a particularly good joke is made (my laugh is quite loud).

My sister, whose bedroom is next to mine, has in the past made complaints about the noise I make keeping her up, often using the term "paper-thin walls." She has only asked me to stop playing games with my friends and girlfriend, offering no solutions that compromise. I don't think it's fair to ask that of me, since not being allowed to interact with the people I care about would leave me miserable (some of my friends and my gf, still in college, are only available at nighttime).

This morning, I was complaining to my dad that I seem to wake up at exactly 4:45 am very often. It feels like a natural wake-up, but waking up at that time leaves me groggy and tired all day long, so it's annoying. My sister, who overheard, interjected that she has an alarm at 4:45 some mornings, which could explain my problem. On its own - not a rude thing to say, just a chance for us to resolve the issue. But the tone she used was very smug, like she was proud of waking me up, and she followed with "well, you keep me up playing games all the time, so fair's fair." Then she walked away, leaving my request to try and work towards a solution hanging, ignored, in the air.

I'm thinking about just moving my computer to the basement, assuming I can find the space somewhere. It would be a fair bit of work to move my entire computer setup, and I would have to clean out the basement and find a way to access both power and Ethernet in the same place down there (more difficult than it sounds). When I talked about it with my dad, he seemed worried that I might get too cold if I went to the basement.

But in the end, I would get to play, and she would hopefully not have to hear me anymore. AITA if I don't move? If I do choose to move, is it reasonable to expect her to work with me on the issue of her alarm waking me up?

(Please feel free to ask for INFO if you need more - I wrote a lot more than what's in this post.)