Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : My GF is really popular among the guys and I’ve just caught wind of plans to jump me because they don’t like the way I speak to her or something like that.

I just told her to tell them that if they hurt me, she’s done associating with them. She’s really passive and I don’t know how she’ll react, but I feel as though I shouldn’t even have to ask this of her.

I’m not particularly scared of any of them, but I’d rather avoid fighting because there’s no reason we can’t just talk this out. This would be easier if I knew any of them but I only know 3, two of them I just met this morning. One was hostile and the other wasn’t. The hostile one seems to already hate me, despite never speaking a word to me.

Am I the asshole if I break it off with her if she doesn’t give them an ultimatum? Not that they wouldn’t still fight me, but it’s kind of a matter of principle.