Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : This happened a while ago and me and this is actually my ex boyfriend but i think about this incedent a lot and can't get an unbiased opinion from any of my friends or family. 

About 2 years ago when we were both 20 he wanted to go to a party with some of his friends on the campus of the college they went too. I wasn't a huge fan of the idea for multiple reasons but the main one being he was underage and it was a dry campus. I knew there was going to be alcohol there and I tried to tell him that of they get roudy in a dorm room the campus police will be called and it would be potentially bad. I didn't have an issue with him drinking but I suggested they come over to our apartment instead where I felt it was safer. He didn't listen and went anyway. 

Well surprise surprise they got too loud and campus police showed up and I had to go pick him up after he was given a citation for underage drinking and I was pretty pissed. While on our way home he wouldn't say sorry too me but called his mother sobbing to tell her and say he was sorry. He was super drunk and I thought it was a pretty funny reaction given everything else. He woke up the next day and I made him tell me what happened and it included a story of his friend throwing up all over a police officer which he laughed about and told everyone we talked to, even joked about the incident to her face. I thought that was a sign that the embarrassing stuff they did that night was worth joking about and when his best friend asked me what happened after I picked him up I told her about how my bf called his mom. 

My bf was furious at me for "emasculating" him and embarrassing him in front of his friends and yelled at me about it then and everytime is was brought up after that until the end of our relationship. I know I probably shouldn't have said anything but if you're going to make fun of a girl to her face about puking on a cop on the same night I guess I thought he should be able to take a little himself? I was upset with him and I won't pretend that's part of the reason I wanted to tell that story so I feel like that mabe makes me TA but I really don't know so I'll just leave it up to Ya'll to judge. 