I had a hard time wording this, so I'll explain better here. Her and I have been talking for months now. She's been a close friend of mine for a very long time, but she was in a relationship for a couple of years and I kept a respectable distance because her boyfriend was crazy. She would reach out to me once in a blue moon to tell me she hated him and felt "stuck" within her situation. She would go on to do this until she finally broke up with him. 

Fast forward to when she told me they had broke up, we started hanging out again.  I knew that she liked me but also knew she needed space because she was freshly out of the relationship. I let her make the "cues" first before I made any moves. It started with her cuddling me, then we moved on to kissing, and it got to us touching each other mildly sexually. This was, so far, the limit. She doesn't want sex, any form of it. Of course this is fine with me, although it has been going on for about a month now, and she'll initiate some sexual teasing, which will arouse me, but then she will just stop and refuse sex with me. I'm a man who respects sexual boundaries but it kinda drives me nuts (no pun intended.)  Well after seeing her all this time, I realized it is I who has mostly hit her up to hang out together. I have received some good morning texts from her, and she'll usually text me back when I message her, so I feel like I'm overreacting. But, I hung out with her two days ago and she was really tired from work, so I told her I would leave so she could get some rest. After that, I decided I would wait for her to text me, because I have texted her first for the past week or two. She hasn't messaged me and it just feels like she isn't as enthused as she was at first?  I feel like an asshole just having these feelings and I think it's because she is having problems coping with her last relationship, but I'm just rattled about it and I don't know if giving up is a fair option. 

I just can't tell if she really likes me or if she's using me to fill a personal void from her past relationship. Please give it to me straight Reddit, and feel free to AMA. 