Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Long story short:

I broke up with my ex a few months ago due to how she treated me. I still had feelings for her but I couldn't put up with it anymore. We kept in contact, lots of fighting but we also talk about our relationship a lot.

Since then she started therapy and over the past few months has made radical steps to be a better person. She's noticeably nicer and is treating me extremely well.

I have made it very clear I still have feelings and considering her change would like to try again.

The problem:

She's openly said she no longer has feelings for me but keeps making it very confusing with things like "I want to spend my life with you", "I never want to lose you", and generally acting in all ways but sexual like we are back together.

I don't think she's leading me on, I just think she is very confused about how she feels.

Ok AITA:

I told her that if she wants to be with me I would like to try again but if she doesn't want to try again I can't be friends considering I still have feelings and that it would be too complicated and hurt me too much. I gave her a few days to think about it.

I told my house mate about this and he said I was being an arsehole and claimed I was "forcing her to get back with me" by using ending our friendship as a threat.

That wasn't my intention, but now I'm worried it looks like it.