I've been in a ton of classes with a girl for 3 semesters now and I really like her and I help her with work a lot because I like her company. Well I asked her out. She wasn't down. I want some time alone to move on from this because it was a pretty major crush. She says I'm an asshole for not helping her just because she turned me down. But it's not that I don't want to help her out of spite, it's out of needing to move on from something that isn't going to happen. If she wanted to come in when I'm tutoring (I'm a tutor at the school as well) then I'd help, but I'm just not willing to spend my own free time with someone that I'm trying to emotionally move on from. Does that make me an asshole? 