Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : A little back story. 

Me and my girlfriend are in a long distance relationship. It’s also on the down low so only the very important people know of our relationship. 

Now, he friend she recently reconnected with invited her over for dinner at her house. She told me her friend will be bringing her other friend over for dinner as well and my SO said she doesn’t know if she was a guy or girl. After the dinner I ask how it went and she said good and told me about it and that’s was that. Fast forward to today when we called, she was telling me something and she mentioned the a guy was there and her friend was trying to get her with him (they think she’s single because we aren’t public with our relationship). I got upset she didn’t tell me and she said she didn’t think it was important and he hardly even spoke the whole night. I trust my girlfriend and her ability to handle situations. I wasn’t upset about her being around a guy, but upset at the fact she didn’t mention it when she had several chances to mention it. Her defence is that this seems like I’m not trusting her and she feels like she has to step on eggshells. That she has to go through a checklist when she goes out and that in parenting her. She was pretty mad at me. I just want to know if she’s with guys. She’s allowed to be with them, but for safety and general courtesy I want to know. So, AITA? 