So I’m an 18 year old girl who goes to college and I have this little group of friends. this one girl (lets call her T) so we aren’t putting peoples names out there, asks my friend L “ where do you think all of her money goes?” 

Mind you this girl doesn’t pay bills and she doesn’t work so she has no idea what it’s like to be a full time college student and be working too because she doesn’t have a job 

Then she made a comment to L the other day about how I shouldn’t be spending my money on getting my nails done and this and that.  And how she doesn’t know how I can afford all these things because I say I’m “broke”. 

I’m not broke to the point where I don’t have any money I just have to watch what I’m spending. 

L just told me this today because she’s didn’t want to start drama but T basically pushed her to her limits and snapped so L decided to tell me 

I don’t really have a relationship with T but the fact that she is going and talking crap about my financial situations to other people isn’t really any of her business.  She also doesn’t know as much about my back ground as L does, and L is basically her only friend on campus. Her boyfriend is in the military so she really doesn’t have anyone. 

T is the type of person to try to instigate a situation. For an example I texted L one day while she was still in class and T looked over to her and asked her, are you not texting her back because you don’t like her or something? And L just said no I’m just paying attention to the notes. These are the type of people that make me mad because I thought we would be done with the petty bs in high school, guess not 

I really tried not to get pissed  off  by this but T isn’t really close to me and she doesn’t have any business asking other people about MY money that I earned in my opinion. 

I told L that I wanted to text her and tell her how I felt but L doesn’t want me too because she wants me to confront her in person which is also a good idea. 

Am I am ass hole for just wanting to put her in her place and to tell her she was wrong?

