I’ve been dating this guy for a while and we were out last night and he kept on texting his ex gf late at night when we were both drunk. I am aware that they speak to each other occasionally but he doesn’t usually do it in front of me and for so long. He texted her while we waited for our uber, in the uber, and back at my house. They were sending messages back and forth and she was sending him massive paragraphs. When I told him about it at home he said that nothing is going on and that she just ‘wanted to clarify one thing’ and that they talk but it’s never inappropriate. But I saw him messaging her for ages and they always add and remove each other in fb and apparently it’s because she keeps on blocking him when he’s seeing me to get his attention. We are in an ldr and he lives six hours away so we see each other around once a month if that matters. I cried and then we had sex and then I cried again and then we kinda just went to sleep. He also said that he would block her if I wanted him to and I said no and it’s fine. At some point idk why but I said ‘If it were reversed then I’d just expect you to trust me’ (I was drunk tbf) and he did this patronizing face and said yeahhhhh. The next morning when I apologized for possibly overreacting he just said ‘yeah was a bit odd’ and he didn’t apologize and we didn’t talk about what they talked about or what’s going on. I still had a bitter taste in my mouth about the whole thing and tried to tell him that I need him to be sensitive to my emotions because then I’ll just keep on getting hurt and he said ‘yeah I know that’s why I’m not mad’ which stung in itself. So ultimately, am I overreacting? Should I just leave it alone? I kinda regret saying anything and feel crazy and jealous 
