Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : Ok so I’m gonna lay some ground work, so even before my parents got divorced I was always the kid who ended up helping clean the kitchen after dinner the most but since my parents have been separated since September 2017 my dad sorta treats me like a housewife and not a newly 14 year old girl. For background, I live with 4 other people, my dad my 2 sisters (18, and 20) and my younger brother (12) and no one cleans up after themselves and I will admit I can be guilty of that as well sometimes but even though I have 3 perfectly capable siblings he only ever asks me to clean the kitchen, or cook dinner and the weirdest one, put my brother to bed, and he is basically the worst and won’t go to bed unless someone is there making him, like he will just sit on his phone (duh) if no one is there letting him talk himself to sleep and obviously my dad doesn’t want to do that but he needs my brother up at 6:30 so he asks me for some reason, and then with dinner either I help him make it or I just have to make it by myself (like my mom would do) and then after dinner I have to clean up or sometimes if I say something to him about how I don’t like being the only one who cleans he will sorta ask my sister but then she’ll say something about homework and she’ll get out of it. So basically no matter what I always end up having to clean the entire kitchen by myself so about an hour ago I went off on my dad a bit, I had a lot of pent up emotion about this and I just let it all out in a very angry way in all honesty and now I hear him sadly doing dishes and he hasn’t spoken to me and I feel bad and I don’t know if an asshole for it. Maybe he was just doesn’t know what to do now that my moms gone but Idk 