Since the start of my relationship I told her I did not want to be with a girl who likes to go clubbing/partying. Yesterday all of a sudden she started arguing while we were parked in my car that ‘I don’t trust her’ and ‘I’m being too controlling’ and even pointed out a scenario where her roommate who is in a relationship was talking to a guy at the club and he went for a kiss which she denied. This just further proved my point, why would I want my girlfriend getting dressed up without me to go out where guys are going to approach you and try to hook up with you, even if she doesn’t cheat. I don’t think I’m being unfair, idc if she goes out to a club if I’m there, she can hang out anytime she wants with her friends, she can even go to a bar if she wants to drink but clubs are a no go for me and I let her know that in the beginning of the relationship. And before anybody calls me controlling, she can go if she wants to be single, I’m not her dad, but I have the right to choose who I will date too. 

She left the parked car angrily last night and said I can follow her if I wanted to back up to her place, and I just turned on the car and went back home. This morning she texted me apologizing and saying that I was right, I let her know this in the beginning of the relationship, and it’s not worth losing me. I got what I wanted but I feel like a real asshole for some reason. AITA?