So, my girlfriend and I began as friends 3 years ago evolving to bestfriends and now we have been dating for almost 6 months. We have a friend in common which is my GF's bestfriend and she bought a trip for my girlfriend and her which is my girlfriend's dream destiny. When my girlfriend found out I acted all surprised and happy for her, but in reality I'm a little bit pissed off at our friend because I was planning on doing the same trip when we did 1 year, I even already started saving money and all... Also I'm quite upset because our friend only informed me when she had paid for everything and booked the travel for valentines, meaning I won't be able to spend valentines with the woman I love...

Now, my girlfriend has been called for a surgery she's been waiting for 3 years   and the surgery is going to be at the end of January. I'm ashamed to say this, but I'm kind of hoping the doctors won't allow my girlfriend to travel, because I think our friend should have told me about the plan previously, especially since they are going to travel on valentines. I don't want to say anything to my girlfriend because I don't want her to go mad or sad in her dream trip, and I can't really say anything to our friend because she'll just tell my girlfriend...

So reddit, AITA?