 So I always take the bus to college and usually there's the same exact people on the bus. It was back in November that this happened but I keep remembering about it. 

 That day was pretty chilly and I had a coat on, but still felt cold. I got on the bus and got out my laptop to do my usual studies on the one hour long trip. About 10 minutes in a middle aged woman with thick clothing comes on, sits in the back ( across and two seats behind me) and opens her window. Now I don't know if this is the case for all buses or just specific to this company's bus line, but the breeze was really hitting me hard. I was cold and with almost an hour until my destination (I REALLY did not want to get sick at this point in the semester), after a bit of contemplating I got up and asked her if it's okay to close the window since it's cold. 


 She at first didn't understand (or pretended not to understand) as she was an immigrant but after repeating the question she said "no no, it's hot". For some reason, either due to finals stress or just being cranky, I said "It's hot you take off scarf and coat, window close" and I just closed the window and went back to my seat. Again I'm not sure why but I just got extremely irritated at her. If you're hot take off your fucking clothes, don't open the window in the middle of november! She started trying to open the window but was struggling so I went back to my seat. After a bit she managed to open it but an older guy sitting in front of her (window extended 2 seats) closed it without saying a word. Either he was sympathetic to me or was also cold but just didn't say anything. The woman didn't open the window again.



 I just keep oscillating between "c'mon man, she was an older woman, probably just wanted fresh air" and also "she had clothes on, she could've taken them off, and she was rude when I asked her to close it, couldn't been nice to me like I was to her when I asked to close it" 


 So reddit, was I the asshole? 