I wanted to go to the gym during the party because I actually think I'm the least social person in my family . I am also 17 years old and no one close to my age is coming , and even if there was I still wouldn't wanna stay to socialize. I'm with 2 nieces, 1 nephew, 2 much older brothers and their wives, sister , aunt , and grandma. I don't fit in neither of these groups and I'm just in the living room with the kids, while I browse Reddit . They seem to be enjoying themselves in the dining room , and the kids are fine , so I think I should be fine to go to the gym, but when I proposed this idea with one of my Bros and mom, they both said it was disrespectful . AITA? Oh and the family party was to celebrate both my Bros', and sister's birthday . I also see most of the ppl here on almost a weekly basis . 