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There’s a bit to unpack here, but the details are important. There will be a TL;DR at the end. 

I’m currently a college freshman. In April I began dating a girl I went to high school with. I knew this girl and I would go separate ways after graduation but I underestimated how much the distance would affect the relationship. 

The universities that we moved off to are ~6 hours apart. Our college experiences so far could not be more different. I have made all new friends and I’m pretty involved. I have pretty much separated myself from my high school life. However, she hasn’t made any new friends other than her roommate. I feel bad for her, but that’s just how it is. I might be at a party and not checking my phone much, while she’s waiting for me to text her back. Keep in mind, she always knows if I’m at a party or with friends. I didn’t hide anything from her. 

I began to feel kind of lame around my new friends because of this high school relationship. I’d talk about her but then have to explain that they don’t know her because she goes to a university 6 hours away. I didn’t like being they guy at a function texting his high school girlfriend that nobody knew. 

Halfway through the semester I started to realize how much I HATED having a relationship through a phone. I didn’t see the point. There were still feelings, but the entire sense of companionship was lost, and that messed up the emotional connection. I expressed this to her.

Early November I started developing a crush on a girl that went to my university. I brushed it aside, as she probably didn’t like me, and I had a girlfriend. Around Thanksgiving, the feelings became harder and harder to ignore. She started flirting with me at parties. 

I broke up with the girl when the semester ended. I told her I couldn’t do a relationship where I only saw her a few times a year for 4-5 years and that the distance wasn’t working out for me. Which was true, but I didn’t tell her about the crush I had on another girl, because I didn’t see the point in completely destroying her self-esteem. 

I’ve started talking more to the girl at my university. It’s very obvious that we like each other a lot. 

Old girlfriend just texted me and told me she’s thinking about transferring to my university, claiming she’s depressed at her current one and mine is closer to home. However, she also says that I play a role in her decision because she wants to be with me. 

AITA for not wanting to get back with her even if she moves here?

**TL;DR:** Girlfriend and I moved to different universities. Distance sucks. I start liking another girl. I break up with girlfriend and claim it’s because of distance, which is true, but I didn’t tell her about the other girl I liked. Now she’s considering transferring to my university and I don’t wanna get back with her. AITA for not wanting to get back with her even if she moves here?