Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Hi Reddit. 

So here's a little background into my family.

I moved to America with my two siblings and mom when I was 4 and my dad stayed in Asia because he had a business there. 

He provided money for our family up until I turned 16, when his business started doing poorly which forced my mother to stop being a full-time mom and she began to work full time.

Before, he would fly and visit us every half a year, but as he became more financially unstable, he would visit less frequently, and the last time he's come and visit us was about three years ago.

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So four years ago, my dad asked me to loan him $5,000 which I lent him and I've never seen the money again. And then about a month ago, he asked me to loan him $2,000 again, and he told me he would return it back to me two weeks which I once again said yes to and have not seen the money again.

Then two days ago he asked me for another $1,000 and I really don't want to give him any more money.

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I'm a 22 year old full time musician, I make enough money for myself but I am quite frugal because I'd like to save up so I can buy a house in the future. My dad is now in his 60's and I really want to help him, but I don't want to give him anymore money. 

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AITA for not wanting to give him money? What can I do to help him?

TLDR: my dad keeps asking me to loan him money, and I do not want to loan him anymore.

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Thanks.

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