Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : So for the last two years I'd ask this girl if she wanted to meet up and go out. In fact, a couple of times she'd ask me herself to let her know when I'm free. Every time there was an "excuse" like "I'm looking for a job at the moment, not the best timing."  


Basically, her excuses always depended on something external, i.e. that I am not the reason she doesn't want to meet. I always assumed she did want to meet. So I asked her, like every 4 - 6 months for a period of 2 years.   


Then I'll admit I lost my temper a little bit and asked what's your issue lady, if you don't want to meet up with me just tell me, what's all this "not right now" nonsense.   


And her answer was something like "/u/promoso I am very busy these days and I have other friends I'd like to meet up with and I have to make time for them, I don't have time for you"  


And I said "THAT'S FUCKING FINE! Why didn't you just say that!"  


And she's upset that I got so upset over it. Not talking to her anymore.   


So yeah... AITA