Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : So there’s this song that I really love, and in it there’s a line that I’ve been obsessed with since I first heard it. I told myself that I would get it tattooed one day. I just never had the money, until now.

Well a few months ago I met this girl who I quickly formed a friendship with. She was my first friend in this town since I moved here last new years. We’ve got a lot of shared interests and our personalities are compatible. Overall, I don’t think she’s a bad person or anything, I actually really like her. Anyway, when we were first becoming friends, I showed her the song and told her the tattoo idea because I was excited about it. Apparently that was a bad idea. She loved it. So much so that she got it tattooed herself a few weeks later, before I could.

At the time, I thought, “I guess I’ll just get another line from that song tattooed instead.” I was really upset but she had already gotten the tattoo so there wasn’t much I could do about it after that. 

However I now have the funds to get it tattooed. I decided to say fuck it and get the same lyrics tattooed, because it’s what I really wanted and I don’t want to compromise something important to me and permanent like this. 

I told her, and her reaction was “You’re gonna get that tatted???? Same thing as me??? they have like 500 songs isn’t there a different lyric you could get?” Which pissed me off, because it was my idea. She just had the resources to get it tattooed first. I told her that, and she’s being passive aggressive about it. Obviously, I know she can’t tell me what to do and that I can get those lyrics tattooed on me if I want. It’s not even gonna be in the same spot or in the same font.

Am I being the asshole by still getting the tattoo instead of just letting it go or getting another lyric? This is upsetting me and I don’t want to get the tattoo if every time I look at it I just feel like I was an asshole in this situation. 