Here's some background. I'm currently in highschool and have been looking for job. I just recently landed a job but I haven't begun to work yet and will be starting next week.

So here we go...

So my brother and I bought tickets to an event a month ago and the event is the weekend I will be starting my work. So I was like...

I should text my boss before he sends the schedule that I wont be able to come into work on Saturday right?

But my mom's like, no, don't do that, you'll get fired

At this point I'm like why? Isn't it better to let my boss know as early as possible??

My mom explained to me and my brother that because I haven't started to work yet, asking for a day off before even working will leave a bad impression and will get me fired.

I thought of it was somewhat reasonable??? This is my first real job BTW

My brother then explained that it's better to let my boss know before he sends the schedule so that my boss can work it out with that in mind.

My mom reasoned that because I haven't even worked yet, it wasn't okay. But if I were to already have been working there for a bit it would be acceptable. And then she goes on about that she personally would tell my boss and just drop the event for work.

My mom and my brother would argue a bit and I would be sitting there listening and texting my friends about the situation. They tell me that it should be totally fine to text my boss, so I thought about it and decided to send the text without my mom knowing.

I asked my mom again why couldn't just text my boss and she reasoned to me, slowly raising her voice. And while I was trying to reason with her, I told her I sent the text anyways so there isn't much you can do about it.

Everything goes downhill from here

My mom goes pretty much nuts. She goes on about why the hell I didn't listen to her and that I don't prioritize my studies and work and always play instead. I tell her that I finish all my work at school, that's why she doesn't see me working a lot at home. She goes on again that she would drop the event to work and emphasizes that I don't work enough. 

I told my mom this
I got straight A's last semester, I have 2 AP's and I've been working on work at school. Which may not seem like a lot to some people, which includes my mom.

She says that I have so much free time, why don't I take up another AP?

So I had a 3rd AP previously and I dropped it because I couldn't keep up with the HW load and was 3 assignments behind only a month into the semester so I dropped it.

But anyways, the conversation goes on about my grades, my responsibilities, my priorities and etc.

I asked why she was getting so worked up about it. It isn't her job, it's mine so therefore it is my responsibility and if I do end up fired, that's my problem not hers.

So at this point my mom threatens me by taking out all the money from my checking account and telling my brother that he will not be taking me out on Saturday.

So I don't rly remember when my dad got into this but he always takes my mom's side when we argue. He was saying that I don't listen to them but previously I was seriously taking everything into consideration before texting my boss.

I get a text from my boss saying that it's totally okay and third schedule's are very flexible, meaning that u have Saturday off to go to the event right?

But my mom was like, whether you have Saturday off or not, I will not let you go to the event. And then she told me to cancel the plans I had for the next day and proceeded to take all my money from my banking account.

So yeah, that happened. I tried making it simple without going too off track like the argument did about my grades and shit.

Td:lr I had plans on a weekend do I wanted to tell my boss at a new job that I could work on that one day, but my mom said not to do it cus I will get fired. I try to reason with her and ended up sending the text anyways and she gets mad at me, taking all my money out of my checking account and cancels the plans I had for the week.

Also here are some questions I think will be asked

My brother paid for both out tickets and my mom said she will be paying for them

I can't drive

My boss is chill