Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : Currently living in a pet-friendly, three bedroom apartment for a little under a year now. They were supportive of me bringing along my male cat, approximately 4 years old. One roommate had always wanted a cat and the other is willing to live in his own filth so he didn't care much (invalidates his opinion a little bit.) Everything has been going great however the roommate who had always wanted a cat now wants to adopt her own, a female of unknown age. When we moved in I told them the likelihood of me being supportive of getting another cat or dog would be very slim. It's twice the work, twice the dander, twice the feeding, twice of everything. I'm under a lot of stress about to start school again working 40 hours a week, school 30, while also trying to maintain a relationship and I don't think I could handle another animal in my home life. I feel like I'm being selfish but I don't know how to express my feelings on this matter.