I have not spoken to my mother in 2.5 years. Other members of the family have approached me stating she wants to have a relationship with me but this is not possible because she has not ever apologized to me for her wrongdoings. She treats me like I'm her therapist, always venting about things that have happened in the past. When I disagree with her, she claims I'm incorrect or invalidates my feelings.

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Backstory:

Mother is doing drugs

Mother leaves me in the hospital to continue drugs

I don't know at which point she tried to regain custody but according to my grandmother, she didn't know where I was until I was 8. 

Mother does not know who father is and lied to me about this. 

Mother belittles me, calls me names

Mother consistently complained to me about childhood. These are legitimate complaints but I am not equipped to address them because I am not a licensed mental health counselor. 

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I'm not convinced she's ignorant of what she's doing but rather is doing so out of malice. She has been this way ever since I met her (\~age 12?). If I write and send this letter, it would point out all of the above in great detail and informing her never to speak to me again. She has not contacted me since July 2016. 