Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : Throwaway because my reddit name is a bit similar to my chat name. Tldr in the end.

When my husband and me started dating, we spent some time as LDR. I'm an introvert and just started living alone again and sometimes would go a few days without seeing another humans face. So I started to go into a video chat room, which had a loose purpose for dating. A little bit, but not really. It's more like a big friends group and dating doesn't really happen (which they make fun of themselves). Most of them have been in this room for  years and even met each other IRL, send each other birthday presents and such. It's really just a bunch of  introverts hanging out. Also, dating was never my intention. It was just really nice to have the window open while I'm at home doing my stuff and have some human interaction.

I told my husband about it and he came online. Yeah, of course that's when only men were online (it's actually pretty much 50/50 M/F), including one or the other who tend to make dirty jokes. And yes, some people don't wear shirts. And my husband is a bit on the jealous side and thought I'm there to get guys attention, or at the very least, guys trying to flirt me (which never happened and I clearly and often state my relationship status). Also he had a problem with me camming up and showing my face. I told him girls are there, I'm not the only one and that he should come there again another time. He did, but he said the people there, no matter the gender, look like losers to him and I shouldn't hang out with people like that, who stay home all day. 

I told him my reasons to go there, but it made him feel bad, because it gave him the impression that he's not enough for me and that he can't properly care for my emotions, especially when he's gone and far away. He blamed himself for not calling me enough. I couldn't make him understand that it's not about calling him several times a day, but that I like to have the feeling of being part of a group, hang out, listen to peoples stories or whatever and basically just not be alone at home 24/7, which makes me really anxious and feeds my depression.

After a bit back and forth, we agreed that it's fine to go there, though I compromised to not camming up. The whole issue was so dragging and dramatic that I simply stopped going there.

Now I started missing those people actually because there were some girls I really got along with. So I started going back and also cammed up. I didn't tell my husband.

I thought I just go there a bit and leave again but yeah... I'm hooked. I really like it, okay? So I want to tell my husband because that dragging feeling of anxiousness if he ever finds out is killing me.

I know ITA for not telling him, but AITA for going there in the first place?

TL;DR: I'm secretly going to a chat room with strangers from all over the world, but husband doesn't like it. I'm doing it anyways.