Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : **TLDR;** My friend is upset that I'm applying for jobs in another country (to move with my boyfriend). She sent me a very petty message, and instead of replying, I blocked her from messaging me on FB.

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**Some background:** My friend has always been very possessive of my time and attention. Generally not an issue since I can also be a very dependent person, but it regularly comes back to bite me in the ass when I hang out with other people over her, or if I'm in a relationship. She actively tries to get me to break up with people and has admitted that she has never been happy to see me or any of her other friends in relationships because it means she'll be alone. There are some pretty severe jealousy issues at play, and we've gotten around most of them by just...not talking about my relationships.

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That being said, she is aware that my boyfriend and I would like to leave the country. Permanently. It's a very slow work-in-progress/pipe-dream, and I adopted it after meeting my boyfriend because honestly...it sounds great. It was very out of character for her, but she was supportive when I told her. I could tell she was being careful not to say anything unkind and genuinely trying to see the good points in this move and I appreciated it with all of my heart. While I hate how possessive she can be, I understand that it's something she's aware of and battling.

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**The situation:** Recently, she referred me to her workplace. She knows it makes me uncomfortable since her office is insanely social, but we talked it out and decided that I needed the money and could handle some social awkwardness for the sake of my rent and bills. I've just been offered the job, and accepted it. I let her know that I was also interviewing and applying at other places that fit my needs a bit better and she seemed chill about it. Understood how pay and commute were important deciding factors for me, yadda yadda. But then I told her I was applying to a job in another country:

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***Me****: I'm gonna apply to this amazing job overseas.*

***Her****: Oh cool! Too bad you're too poor to make that move.*

***Me****: If they sponsor me, I could get help with that. Admittedly, odds are slim.*

***Her****: Yeah. And you shouldn't move until your health is in order.*

***Me****: ??? My health is fine. I'm diagnosed and medicated. Other countries have doctors too.*

***Her****: It'll still take a long time to see someone. It's better to wait to move until you've figured it out.*

***Me****: I don't have weird meds. I can get a couple months filled to hold me over if I need to. Or even go without meds for a minute. I'll be okay.*

***Her****: Okay, good luck!*

***Me****: Thanks, I'm excited!*

***Her****: Who knows. Maybe you'll get it and you'll be able to leave and take your boyfriend with you and give him the life he's always dreamed of. Sounds neat. I'm working so ttyl.*

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I was fuming, so I blocked her from messaging me on FB. I didn't outright block her profile and she can still hit me up over text or other social media. It took her several days to even realize she was blocked and she continued to send me texts without me responding. I finally answered to let her know I needed space and she says something to the tune of "It's okay if you need space, just don't ghost me." That pissed me off even more tbh. We clearly both wanted space, but as soon as she's done wallowing, I'm expected to just be open and available? Grahhh.

  
I can't help but see this all as selfish behavior on her part, and I don't regret blocking her the way I did. But...AITA for that?