Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Obligatory apology for formatting issues should they exist, posted from mobile. TL;DR at the end.

So let me start out by saying that I have already accepted everything about my (20M) girlfriend (19F), including having to deal with her best and only friend (18F). 

So, with that said, let it be known that I hate my girlfriend’s best friend, heretofore known as “H”. I loathe her very existence. Her treatment of my girlfriend, who doesn’t have the opportunity to go out and make new friends due to mental illness, is awful. H will invite my girlfriend, heretofore known as “K”, over to hang out, then proceed to invite her boyfriend, or boy toy, I’m not sure at this point, over and completely ignore K. She relies on K for emotional support though she never returns the support when it’s the other way around. She’s a bad influence on K, bringing her to a party I wasn’t able to attend one time where K knew no one and left her alone the entire night save for one interaction, where H tried to get K to cheat on me.

H cheats on every boyfriend she ever gets and then complains whenever her relationships never work out. When they inevitably fail, she makes K feel guilty for having a good relationship with me while H is single, until she finds the next person to attach to. I’ve given up time with K just so she could go and see H for whatever reason. K and I have changed our plans multiple times just to include our accommodate H. 

Then there’s just her mannerisms towards me. I find her personality to be irritating, she continually tries to press my buttons, such as calling me “Subnautica” after wearing a Nautica brand shirt, which seems like something small, but after the litany of shit I put up with from H, it makes me want to roundhouse kick her into the Sun. Or, there’s the time when she perverts my name into a brand of feminine hygiene products. (Hint: it’s also a brand of coffee)

Just all in all, I’m sick of it. I’ve never said the first bad word towards H, despite the many irritations she’s caused me and the significant trouble she’s caused K because K has troubles with mental illness that keep her from going out and socializing with many new people, depriving her of the chance to make new friends, as well as her having known H for close to 10 years. I know it hurts K because she had this vision of us all being happy friends and such but I just can’t do it. It causes the occasional fight whenever I start to complain about H to K, though they’re never particularly bad and are avoided as long as I keep my mouth shut. 

TL;DR- My girlfriend has troubles with mental illness that ensures that she has only this one friend who happens to be a complete and utter cockbite and I hate her.

So Reddit, am I the asshole for hating my girlfriend’s one and only friend?
