Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : So my girlfriend who I’ve been dating for 3 years constantly cancels our plans and makes up excuses or changes them to go and hang out with other people. I try to make plans and she will confirm them but on the day that they’re set for, she cancels them and goes and hangs out with some other girls or a group. 

At first, I didn’t have a problem with it because everyone needs time to be with other people instead of their significant other and she would still see me about twice a week. I’ve gotten upset before because no one likes having their plans cancelled on them but she just got mad at me saying that she doesn’t see why it’s such a bad thing and that I was being controlling. I don’t think I’m being controlling because I didn’t get upset until she cancelled them 2-3 times a week and went out with other people.

As of now, it’s worse than ever before. I see her *MAYBE* once a week for a few hours and even when I see her she’s on her phone and just seems disinterested. When she’s interested she’s the most lovely and fun person to be around and our personalities just click incredibly well. I’ve told her before that she shouldn’t tell me “yes, we can absolutely hang out” if she just intends on cancelling our plans, if she wants to hang out with other people just tell me. 

This has caused a lot of recent fights between us and I’m upset that she does this and she’s upset that I’m controlling her or making her decisions for her and she doesn’t think it’s a big deal to cancel. 

AITA?