We don't fight a lot, just your normal arguments here and there. Once in a while it gets to the point where we don't speak to each other after our arguments because I want to be left alone. I take this time to calm down and usually I'm ok the next day.

We had an argument last night because she got home after work and started getting mad and upset with me because I didn't take out the trash. I told her I was sorry because I didn't see it when I got home. I told her she shouldn't come home and start having an argument over the smallest things. I stopped talking to her and went to sleep. she tried to talk to me and I ignored her.

Today she came home after work and said that we shouldn't go to sleep upset with each other. she said I can have 5 hours to chill and then talk to her about the argument we had. 

so tell me, am I the asshole here because I don't want to talk and resolve the issue right away? 