Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : I'm a blood donator and this discussion is dating about half a year back and is going on from when my gf found out that I donate blood.

She has her own opinion about donating based on anegdotal stories she heard from her family - and is strongly against it.
According to her, some members of her family did not recive blood units that they needed and she didn't try explaining me properly why (my understanding is that they "weren't high priority" or some sort of that) altrough they are all alive, very well being and I saw them myself.
She also believes that colected blood is beeing sold thorugh gov. agencies and that it doesn't reach people that need it.

Ever since she found out about me donating, she's been pressuring me to stop my donations. I say "alright I understand that you don't trust donations help people, but can you please collect some evidence about it and I will gladly discuss it with you and if you have the stronger point I will stop". She says "fine". Time passes and she haven't done any research, didn't talk to mentioned damaged family members and haven't gone to any local colector institution to inform herself about donation.

Don't get me wrong, there is lot of foul things going on in our society and I understand that. It just sounds a little bit ridiculous to me that there is conspiracy aimed at us for milking our blood. Yes I know that system is not working perfect and bad things tend to happen for time to time, but seriously, this?

I believe that percentage of donors is small and that it's the main problem with availability. It makes me happy when I help people, it makes me feel good, it's healthy for me and I want to be the part of the solution not the problem.

The climax happend today when I wanted to go to donation appointment and she says "If you go there today I'm afraid that this will not work out and I have to part ways with you". Which means that she set me an ultimatum, don't donate - or i will brake up with you. "It makes me sad that my grandma and aunt are suffering and they won't give them blood" (which I still don't understand exact cause for, since she didn't bother to explain me, they are well and don't have any health problems as far as I know). I said that I gave her the opportunity to convince me and offered my full cooperation. She tortures me with this for months without giving me any evidence and it really tires me to have arguments based on personal feelings and not facts although I really sympathisize with her relatives situation, but I cannot stop helping people just bc someone's story. She says "forget the facts and evidence, if you loved me you will do it for me". And it bugs me that again she plays on emotional card and condition me emotionally.

I decided to stand my ground. My thought process went like this: my political and moral opinions are mine, nobody has the right to blackmail into changing them and I don't do either, you offered me no space to change my mind and didn't bring any evidence into argument - just feelings, you ask for me to make a change yet you are not open for compromise, you are ready to put our relationship on the line bc you only consider your feels, ok I will let you have it.
I say "If you are ready to break up over something like this, then it's a measure of how much you appreciate our relationship. If you are ready to extort me emotionally for anything let alone this simple situation then I won't stand this. I am going out now and you have time to calm down and think".

I later returned and asked her if she changed her mind, she continued to try and make me feel guilty bc "I don't respect her feelings". At this point I am broken and can't handle situation calmly anymore so I say it's over and that I'm sorry it had to come to this..

So am I really TAH for respecting my self enough not to let someone emotionally extort me and ignore red flags or am I trippin?