Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : A little bit of context: before I really realized I was trans or that I was heavily depressed, I briefly fell into a group filled with channers and alt rights and cryptofascists. It was probably the darkest, most fucky time of my life. I was miserable, the people around me we're manipualtive and horrifying, and in general it caused a lot of trauma for me. Needless to say, with this I was exposed to a whole ton of channerspeak, which has become something of a sensitivity and an alarm raiser, even amongst people I know  I can trust absolutely. 

Today, while on Discord, I noticed I had someone blocked and I didn't recognize their name. I also couldn't find any sort of previous conversations with them in any way, and they didn't seem like they were too terrible a person. So I asked if maybe they had been under a different name before.

They asked why I was asking, and I told them it was because I had them blocked and I couldn't figure out why. They told me no, and also made a joke along the lines of "block me harder daddy" (which made me kinda uncomfortable, but whatever). I then unblocked them, at which point they made a post with "kek" in it.

I mentioned that this was probably why I blocked them, as often it's a dogwhistle for really shitty people. I didn't go into my history because I didn't want to come off as needy or self-important and figured it would probably come off as a moodkiller.

They got very upset at me for saying this, saying they were nothing of the sort, and that they were most certainly much more far left than that, and that they'd never encountered more than a couple of channers who said it.

We've made up, however. We're on good terms, it turns out we share a bunch of servers, they know a bunch of my friends, and all of this is now water under the bridge, but I still wonder - was I the asshole for blocking them?