Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : Mom planned a trip for my kids to visit her 6 months ago. They are supposed to fly down in about 3 weeks. Today she messages me that my stepbrother(who I hardly know) will be visiting and his trip with his teenage sons will over lap my kids trip. 

She lives in a trailer that is small and only has one guest room. 

I told her that I’m uncomfortable with this and would have to know and be okay with the sleeping arrangements in order to protect my daughter. 

I told her the reason why is that I had a close friend who’s 8 year old daughter was assaulted in a similar situation. Both her parents were at the house sleeping even when this happened and it affects me and my wife’s comfort with these situations. 

She is immediately offended and accuses us of being overprotective ( we probably are on some things). I told her I would call tomorrow and we could discuss it. 

Afterwards I found out my wife already mentioned the assault when we were planning the trip and how she was nervous. ( my wife held the poor girl while she relayed what happen to her)

My wife wants to cancel the trip and I’m leaning that way as well. Are we being crazy here?