Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : I(17M) am in study hall with my best friend(16F) and we start talking about her story she is writing). She started the conversation, and it goes on for 30 mins.  I try having a different conversation with her and she either says shut up or I dont care(This has happened on different occasions, but its somewhat apart of our friendship where a little mean to each other, like she calls me bitch and I call her a dick) Then ten mins pass and she says I have to listen to this playlist and I do.  After the song is over I tell her she should listen to this.  She tells me no and when I said I listened to her songs she said it was my fault for listening.  Ten mins pass and I try showing her this gif on reddit, and she says she doesn’t want to watch.  I look upset and she asks if Im mad now.  I was mad but tell her no because she had a really bad week last week, and I didn’t want to say anything I regret and I said no.  The class period ends, and we both go to different classes.  I spend the whole period thinking out what I was going to say and how I felt because the last month I felt she wasnt treating nice at all.  She ignored me last week, but talked to all the friends in our friend group and ignored all the texts I sent.  I sent 4 texts in total and gave up when she didnt reply.  Theres alot more stuff that she does but Im trying to keep it short.  I send a message saying how I felt and why I didnt say it in person.  She tells me that I should’ve said it in person and not hide behind a screen.  When ever she critizes me, she does it through text.  I replied do you to talk about it in person and says No, and that if shes such a problem i should leave her.  I tell her she is acting childish and the only said this so we could make our friendship stronger.  She gets upset and tells me to leave her alone.  She tells me if I ever make her uncomfortable or if I do something that angers her and I thought I was just doing the same thing.  Am I the asshole