So, I've been living with 2 friends as roommates... first mistake there, I know. One of them has been so frustrating to live with. My grandma owns the place so she rents it to us for 500 a month (pretty fucking good imo). That's only 170 a month and i'm really appreciative of this. The first battle that started, is how often his girlfriend is over. The agreement was 3 nights a week. My thinking was anything over that is half the month and thats not fair to not pay anything. That's for any guest, that way I wasnt singling her out, but i've known my friend for a long time and know how he is. So of course, here comes the first battle. She starts staying 4-5 nights a week. Months of endless battles about this. My grandma is the one renting it to us, so I felt it was her decision. I didn't feel like it was my place. It pissed her off as well, but all he would do is apologize, say he understands and would do something about it. It'd get better for a couple weeks, then rinse and repeat. I eventually just gave up. My grandma is just too caring and forgiving so I was like, whatever.... so now. The new problem that i've just been letting go one without saying anything. For that past 2 months I have refused to stop cleaning. The kitchen that is. I have been the only one to ever take the trash bags out to the bin. I also stopped buying groceries, so i dont use dishes. Take note, theres not a single time where his girlfriend has helped clean. So i got tired of cleaning up their shit. Other roommate doesnt want to clean for the same reason, doesn't buy grocies so doesn't use dishes. So now there's constantly so many dishes in the sink they're on the counter and like 5 trash bags in the floor. Just because you don't fucking "live" here i guess you cant make a mess. Huh? Well. My brother lives in a mold infested basement right now and is constantly sick so I want to kick my roommate out so my brother can move in... AITA?