Backstory is that we have a mint budget we follow now with our current financial situation. Well that situation just changed and we have more $$$ to play with but I’m not sure how much yet. My SO doesn’t work and choose to stay at home to raise our first kid. It’s going good. Now with kid #2 the finances change and I got a raise at work so in my mind I want to see what the next paycheck looks like before we start spending more money on things. We have allocated money for everything already and once mint says we reached it, we’re done with that category. We agreed we would wait to see what our new financial situation was. The paycheck won’t come till the end of the month. SO buys stuff for the kids knowing we have more money in the future even though on the current budget we have maxed the kids spending out. SO reasoning is that we need it. My reasoning is that we agreed to wait for new budget before spending. Aita here?