Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : So, this happened last year but I have been thinking about it a bit recently and wondered if I was the person in the wrong within this situation.

I became single in Jan last year.

I was on tinder and I met E. We got talking last March, and E asked me out on a date. I accepted.

We had an amazing date and I really enjoyed myself, so we went on a few more. He was so lovely- kind, caring, chatty, thoughtful and affectionate, and he made me laugh a lot. The thing is, E was a very chivalrous person and point blank refused to let me contribute to dates, to the point where if I did pay he got upset and quite angry.

Things were going good, and we were dating for about 2 months. I really enjoyed his company. 

Now, my birthday is in May, and I told him not to bother getting me anything as he had been so generous in the past. However, my birthday rolls around and he turns up at my house, and to my utter shock he gives me my present- a 5 star couples holiday to Tunisia. As soon as he gives me this, he asks me to be his girlfriend. I accepted.

Things went well, and the day of the holiday rolls around. He came to pick me up from my house, and suddenly he was like a different person. Literally a complete 180 of the person he was before the holiday- he was quiet, moody, and didn't speak to me AT ALL until we got to the airport. I thought he was just tired and gave him the benefit of the doubt, but when we actually got to Tunisia, he continued this behaviour- he snapped a lot, hardly said a word to me (and when he did it was about his ex girlfriend) and was on his phone the ENTIRE time. Literally 24/7- at dinner, at drinks, by the pool. He also hardly wanted to spend time with me, never coming to breakfast, going to bed very early and he slept pretty much on the opposite side of the bed to me. I kept asking him what was wrong, if I had upset him, if there was anything I could do to help but he just said there was nothing wrong. Honestly, the whole holiday felt as though I was a spare part and he had just taken me as he had no-one else to go with. This carried on for the entire 10 days we were there.

When we came back, he dropped me off at home, didn't even say goodbye. I asked to meet up with him the next day and said that I was breaking up with him for the way he acted on holiday- he told me he could see it coming as he knew he wasn't himself. I offered to pay for half the holiday, but again, he refused to let me.

Was I the A-hole in this situation? I feel like I was as he bought me a holiday, however he made me completely miserable the whole time, was very rude, constantly talked about his ex and was on his phone the whole time. At the time I felt as though I did the right thing as I wasn't happy at all, but I feel guilty that I went on the holiday in the first place. Is there anything I should have done differently? 