Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : Me and her started talking about two months ago and we went on a date and she said she was excited for our next date. Well she lives about 4 hours away from me but it's not that bad because the town she lives in I have family there. Anyways so I drive into town back in early October to hangout with some friends for the weekend and me and her were going to go out Sunday night. About 30 min before the date she says she needs to call it off because her friend is having an emergency and she needs to go help her. I think no big deal it happens. Anyways so throughout the month of October we plan on doing another date in early November nothing major just pizza and night in watching a movie. I was going to drive the 4 hours back to the town after I got off work on Saturday which was about 2:00 pm here. Anyways on the Thursday before I asked her to confirm and she texted back changing the subject. I asked her the same thing on Friday and she changed the subject again but I decided to take the gamble and just drive back on Saturday. Anyways when I get back I text her and say when does she plan to come over and 2 hours later she says "hey I hurt my back today I'm going to go home and take some medicine and stay home" and that pissed me off. I just said "ok...I hope you feel better" and I haven't texted her since. Am I the asshole for having stopped talking to her? 