Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : this is going to be a long one. most likely there will be a tldr at the bottom.

so, i live with my great grandmother. ever since i was young, this is all i remember. she moved in on an odd circumstance. my parents personally funded her home for a while, until they figured it would be alright for her to move in on the condition she pays rent. well, she doesn’t pay rent, and we have to pay her credit card debt.
of course this is brushed off, she will most likely be in a home soon and we won’t have to deal with it anymore. well, we still are.
she is manipulative imo, of course that could be biased because perhaps i am the asshole. she states my dad is good for nothing (despite him being the one who funds the very house she lives under) she acts as if she runs the house: certain things cannot be cooked, certain chores must be done at certain times, etc.
she also overfed my first family pet to the point it caused damage and we eventually had to put the poor thing down; and then blamed it upon my father for choosing to kill ‘her dog’ and ‘not letting her say goodbye.’ this isn’t even the extent of anything. this has caused me so much anxiety as a teen i don’t know what to do. found this subreddit and was curious what everyone thinks, considering my family believes im the asshole for wanting her to move out.

sounds easy enough, just move her out? no. she wastes her monthly check gambling (bless her at her age, though it’s tearing my life to shambles.) and then says she has no money to fund anywhere to go. family won’t do anything and whenever i voice my stress i am told to just ‘be nice’ she also manipulated her own daughter, saying, in her own words, “if you put me in a home i’ll die a week later.” is that manipulation? i don’t know, seems like it to me, but i’m attempting to leave potential bias up for interpretation.

so here i am, living in a home i find to be hell. i have my parents but they don’t even care, thinking it’s something i need to brush off. i have  developed a god awful mental state due to this. 

so, AITA? someone bring me down to earth if i am. i’m at a loss.
