Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : Hi guys, just to preface this: my girlfriend doesn't think I'm the asshole, but she thinks I'm overreacting. Most of the people I talked to agreed with me, but some thought I was being controlling and I wanted to get more opinions.  
  
My girlfriend is quitting her job and recently found a new one (part-time). The store hasn't opened yet, so everyone needs to be trained. The boss demanded she put in her two weeks at her current job in order to train for the new job. Her new boss didn't send a training schedule, or even a message about it. Grand opening was 2 weeks away at the time she put in her 2 weeks. A week passed, and her boss texted her back after she asked about training saying Grand Opening was pushed back. Training would start soon.    

At this point, I figured it was just a case of bad management. But today, her boss texted her asking to meet for coffee to 'discuss training'. I don't understand this. He asked ONLY her (she confirmed with her coworkers). He had already told her she wouldn't be a shift lead, so why does he have to talk with ONLY her? Even if he changed her mind, why would he only promote her? It's a team of 10-15 people, more than 1 shift lead is required (especially since she is only working 2-3 days/week).   

I'm not sure of his exact age, but I believe he is at least 30 years old. She's 18. I don't understand what he can have to discuss with her about training. If he did want to promote her to be a shift lead, why does he have to meet her for coffee outside of work? How can he know if she is competent? Why can't he text her or call her?   
  
After so much thinking and talking, I decided to go with her (she invited me because she thought I was being paranoid). Am I really being paranoid? Isn't it creepy for a 30+ man to meet an 18 year old girl for coffee to discuss work, when there's really not much to discuss?  
  
The reason why I'm so persistent about this is because I'm a manager at my current job (I work full-time though). I've hired and trained people, participated in grand openings multiple times, etc. I've never heard of this happening. I've never had to meet anyone outside of work to 'discuss training' either. Am I the asshole for going? For thinking this is creepy and she shouldn't be alone? 