so my now ex boyfriend and i went on a holiday with his family, it was a pretty beachy holiday town to give you an idea. 
there was multiple times where i caught him checking out the girls around in bikinis and making comments w/ his dad about the girls, which bothered me but only because he was so obvious about it. 
but what happened after this when we got back from this holiday is, he texted me basically stating that the whole trip he was testing me and seeing if i was “worth” dating still. to which he said i wasn’t because i shouldn’t get annoyed over such things as him checking out other girls. i argued that it’s not fair what he said and he’s called me the asshole for getting mad in the first place. he then broke up with me over text a day or two later after ignoring me completely. 
so am i the asshole for getting annoyed in the first place? 

sorry if it’s confusing etc, it was a confusing situation and i’ve tried my hardest to explain it all 