Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : My friend is 20 years old she hasn't had a good track record of dudes that she has fallen for.

She dated a Air Force dude that was in town for training who ended up being married.

She dated another dude who ended up being involved with someone and had a kid.

Dated someone who sexually assaulted her.

My friend isn't what you would call...hot. She is a big girl and I think she jumps into relationships very quickly ( I have told her so).

I am honest with my friend in all things and she talks to me to get the "real" take on things (her words) and I have been right about the dirtbags she has dated.

The guy is older and well off but she is insisting this isn't a "sugar daddy" thing. He "told" her that she is the first girl her age he dated and he has "never done this before" (they met on Tinder).

She has dated guys who were in their 30's (I am her friend and I am in her 30's) and that has never bothered me, but this dude is 41 and has four kids (two her age) and it just strikes me as weird.

She got really upset that I was being "so judgy" but yet she comes to me from my opinion. So am I the asshole?

