Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : Concerns one of my friends from the 'original' friend group in college. I'll call them Lucy. We bonded quickly early on but as college has progressed I've made loads more good friends, and come to find that certain people in the original friend group live to try and cause drama. This has caused a certain level of seperation with the group at times.

I've been away in a different university for ages and won't be home until just before Christmas, so I have a huge amount of things planned or responsibilities I have to take care of as I've been away for nearly a year. Lucy is aware of this and has asked me when I'll be free to see the OG group. I've been open and honest and said that I'm not totally sure as I'm extremely busy but I can't wait to see them again. They then respond asking if being away has 'changed me' and being very passive aggressive with their messages about how they basically expect me to drop everything to make sure I see them first. 

As a result this has meant I haven't invited friends from the group to an upcoming party as it would mean having to invite Lucy and certain others as well and I don't have the patience for the possible drama it would cause on a day I want to be happy. Am I the asshole for making better friends with other people and not wanting petty drama at the special occasion even it means not seeing people I consider friends?