So my boyfriend (27m) and I (23f) had a massive two and a half hour argument on Saturday. We had made plans for him to have dinner with my family and he had bailed an hour and a half before I’d asked him to be there. The crux of the argument was that he felt I didn’t understand his workload and put pressure on him to catch up a lot, and I felt that he was failing to communicate, and if he didn’t want to see me he just needed to say no., and not wait until the last moment. We ended in an unsettled agreement and haven’t talked for two days. After talking/seeing each other everyday most weeks, this is unusual and upsetting for me. But in an effort to understand his workload and to recognise that I had heard what he was saying in the argument, I left him alone. 

I should also mention that I’ve been really sick with the flu this week so I’ve been pretty miserable. 

Anyway come to last night and there comes a stream of Facebook posts from my boyfriend that are a mix of complaining about burnt coffee and being happy some of his big assignments are done. Amidst the Facebook posts he writes this:
“Today was  a good day. Also didn’t mind the couple of cute girls complimenting me on my appearance on the way home to finish it off” 

This annoyed me. He hasn’t talked to me in two days since the huge fight and this status made me feel really insecure. I rang him this morning and gently brought up that posting something like that on Facebook really made me feel bad, especially after a huge fight we hadn’t quite healed from yet. He got really angry at me and said that I was taking away from something nice someone had said to him and that he wasn’t going to stop posting things like that if someone showed him random kindness. I stressed to him that I was happy someone had complimented him, but that him specifically mentioning they were cute girls made me feel insecure after our fight. He disagreed and hung up on me. 

So AITA here? I don’t know if I’m feeling overly sensitive from being sick and not talking to him much this week. If I am in the wrong I just want to know so I can apologise. 