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To start, I (22m) had been seeing this girl for about a year. We met at a job over the summer and we went on a few dates, she introduced me to weed, and we generally got along all things considered. I eventually asked her if we would ever get serious and she told me that she wanted to wait until she was done with school before she commits to anyone. At first I was on board because I respected her wishes and wanted a strong healthy relationship. The problem here is that she wants to be a lawyer and that would require more schooling outside of college (i guess around 3-4+ years). She also told me that the school she wanted to go to was in L.A. (we're in NorCal). On top of that, I was feeling self conscious about if I could even wait that long, which would normally be no problem but she hardly if ever shows any signs of affection or interest in me romantically. I would have liked to talk to her but whenever conversations like this come up, she always presents a new reason as why she can't reciprocate. (Ex. She required a solid "connection" that only came from seeing me regularly, which is impossible since she goes to a different school, lives in a different city, and she frequently cancelled our plans.)

Jumping to the night before the cut, I wanted to talk to her about these feelings. She said yes and we agreed to talk around 10-10:30 and she ends up falling asleep. I knew she was very busy with school and I didn't want to seem pushy or anything like that so I waited hoping she would respond later. Instead she texts me the next morning that she fell asleep because she started a new job (I also didn't know this). I was upset and responded by saying that next time, she should tell me before going to sleep that way I didn't feel that I was left hanging. She exploded saying I'm being immature and that she has a life outside of me and that I was being rude by saying that. This leads to an argument with me just trying to convey to her that I just wanted her to say something prior to her going to sleep which I don't think is asking too much. She didn't see it from my perspective saying that I'm going to be disappointed in life over little things that don't go my way. We weren't getting anywhere so decided to end the "relationship". She told me goodbye on Snapchat so I removed her entirely with no further words exchanged.

She then follows up to text me saying "Thank you for showing me that all the countless times I talked with you and gave you my love and understanding when you thought about killing yourself meant nothing." I snapped, cursed her out, and never talked to her again. She had told me sensitive information which I won't be sharing here and I did not use that against her as I didn't want to stoop to her level.

For Clarification: This happened months ago. I am no longer talking to this person and am dating someone else who makes me very happy and is nothing like this girl. I think about how this went down and I wonder if I handled this correctly. We were never exclusive by her definition so am I asking too much?