Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : The short version:

We met online my freshman year and I wasnt really a social guy in school so I didnt have interest in finding anyone else.  Fast forward four years she moves out to my state (5 hour drive) after high school leaving behind her parents and free school (only in her state) to live with me.  I've loved her this whole time but I slowly started to realize once she moved out here that we probably arent right for each other.  We fight all the time and she wants to make this work but I can tell she isnt happy here.  She doesnt want to live with me or my family.  She wants me to move out with her which I cant afford to and dont think I'm ready to do even though I'm 18.  I dont think I'm happy either.  I feel like im not myself when shes around.  I cant do what I usually do (make music with my brothers)  cause I can't leave her alone, I'm her only friend here.  She doesnt want to sit in the room with us either.

Basically AITA for wanting to break up with her?