Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : We have been dating for a month, and we are sharing stories about our friends and stuff. She told me that she has a male gay friend, and once the friend said he wanted to kiss her. She laughed it off and didn't do it. This was way before we started dating, and a couple of months before the dude came out as gay. So I told her that maybe he was conflicted and just wanted to see how kissing a girl would feel like. Maybe he waned to experiment so that he could be clearer about his sexuality. She didn't respond well to this text, and said to drop the matter when I asked her whether I said anything wrong. I honestly had no intention of hurting her feelings, but I feel I may have mistakenly done so. Am I the asshole?