Before you make any judgement, let me explain. Met this girl on tinder, first time we hookup she says she doesn’t want to have sex. I get it and respect that not all girls want to have sex the first time they meet someone. We hookup again and when I try to move down she stops me saying she doesn’t like penetration. Weird but okay I’m not gonna make any advances that she’s not comfortable with. Sex is something casual and fun for me and I like to be involved when pleasuring someone. But with her all it is is her giving me a bj and then getting herself off. It’s boring and my lack of involvement makes me not want to continue. I tried breaking things off by just saying I wasn’t interested in pursuing anything further bc I just got out of a relationship (which is true) and didn’t want to start anything serious. She then sent like 5 walls of text saying that she doesn’t have feelings for me, that she thought we were just having fun, and I was really good at making her cum. First off the wall of texts was a big red flag since I only met up with this girl a couple of times, and secondly if I barely get to touch her how am good at making her cum. Sex is something passionate but when I’m just laying there while she gets herself off there is no passion. Am I the asshole or would I be the asshole if I told her I didn’t want to continue because of the sex? I don’t want to hurt this girls feelings or pressure her into having sex but if I can’t do anything And not really enjoying it I’d rather not continue.