Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : My wife loves to cuddle up on the couch with me fo watch TV.  She doesn't usually last much longer than 9:30 or 10, and will fall asleep, usually using me as a glorified teddy bear.  Which I dont mind at all.  

But on evenings that I dont work the next day, I often stay up very late.  I'm very much a night owl.  So once she falls asleep, I'll often detach myself from her and go down to the man cave to play some video games.  After an hour or so she'll wake up and be pissed off because I 'abandoned her.'  She'll go to bed alone and somewhat upset because I'm not going to bed at the same time as her. 

Am I the asshole?  Should I stay on the couch with her and watch TV i dont really care about to make her more comfortable?  