Brother is having first baby and as I have lots of stuff that we won't use I have given him some bits. I made sure that they were all clean and in really good condition. However after a couple of weeks he has messaged to say he doesn't want some of them and do I want them back? I feel quite hurt as we had some gifts, when we had newborns, that weren't necessarily to our taste but we thanked the givers and didn't let on that we didn't want them. We either donated or passed on to others that we know. 