They were over for dinner and told us their 19 year old daughter got a motorcycle. Everyone I know who has had a motorcycle is either dead or came pretty close. My cousin died when he was 21 in a motorcycle accident so that’s the first thing that comes to mind when I hear that some young person got a motorcycle. Should I have just kept my mouth shut and said “oh that’s nice.”  That isn’t what I did. I told them the whole gruesome details. 