Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Okay. Throwaway account. 

I am a 23 year old female. I have been in a relationship with 25m for over 5 years, living together for 2. A week ago, I found out that I was pregnant. Trust me when I say, we were being as safe as possible and it was a HUGE shock to us. We both talked and agreed that abortion is the best answer. 

So, we made an appointment with the doctor. We have a mandatory reflection period after the first appointment and before the procedure. My next appointment is 3 days from today. 

So, last friday, I started feeling overwhelmed at work and was kinda losing it in the bathroom when a coworker walked in. She is really sweet and one of the senior managers who helped me out a lot in the beginning. I spilled my beans and she was very comforting and calming me. But later that day, she asks me if I was willing to have the baby, so that she and her husband can adopt. Turns out both her and her husband have fertility issues and there was no way to get pregnant and they have been adopt for a long time now. She said she will help me with the pregnancy, help with the cost, put in a good word with boss at work so my career won't be affected etc etc. 

I was really shocked and said I will think about it. After thinking about it over the weekend, I decided that I didn't wanna do this. I was already feeling too overwhelmed and I didn't want to carry a baby only to give him/her up. I don't think I can handle that. 

So, on Monday, I went to her office and told her about my decision. As soon as I said no, she started crying and I just felt so guilty. Because she is a sweet person and would be a lovely mother. I kept trying to explain to her and she wasn't willing to listen and she kept telling me to get out. I thought she needed a moment and left. But after that, she refused to hear my apology or even listen to my reasoning. She was  avoiding me all day. Some of my colleagues came to know about this and everyone was coming over to my desk to change my mind. I was almost breaking down and I kept saying no. Everyone thinks I am the asshole for preferring abortion when there is a good family willing to adopt. 

Needless to say I was quite upset when I got home. When I told my bf about this, he didn't think I was the asshole but he did say this was a good idea and he would prefer this over abortion and he asked me to think about this for some more time and to postpone my appointment to Monday. But I said no, and that i am going to this appointment and that its final. 

Then he got mad and said that I wasn't even willing to think about it and that was the least I could do. He was also mad that I wasn't even willing to take his advice and that the baby is also his. I just went to the study room and locked the door and didn't talk to him after that. And also, I took WFH today because I didn't want to face anyone right now. I haven't spoken to anyone since last night.

This whole week has been an emotional rollercoaster.

So, AITA?? 