Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : I’m gonna try to be as straight forward as possible and not push anything against her. 
Anyways, going into high school, I wasn’t that social and had very few friends, she was the new girl. We were both on the school soccer team and when asked to partner up, we were always the only 2 left, so we’d always end up being partners. We clicked immediately and I helped her around as she was new to the area.

Over the years we were doing everything together. But around junior year of high school things were going downhill. She started getting jealous of me whenever I got involved with boys and we were fighting more often. But with all the pressure on us of being I separable, I had to deal with it and make up with her.

May I also point out she’s had a terrible home life and parents are divorced and her dad is verbally abusive. But I do not allow that as an excuse for the stuff she put me through.

She always expected me to read her mind and got mad when I didn’t do what she wanted. She was trying to control my life and always try to do things to be better than me to one-up me and brag to me about it. 

Senior year I get a boyfriend and she struggles to keep a boyfriend for more than a week. Whenever I told her what I did, she would find a guy, hook up with him, and then brag to me what she did.

She would always tell me how much of an asshole my boyfriend was and how “we wouldn’t last”. She was the only person who pushed situations to have an excuse to hate him. (For example: she kicked my boyfriend in the balls and out of reaction my boyfriend swung as a reflex and hit her. She then went around telling everybody my boyfriend slapped her without the co text that she kicked him in the balls for no reason.)

She committed to a school 9 hours away while I was staying local.

 The breaking point for me was when me and my group of friends went on vacation. We went to one of my friends’s aunt’s beach house. So I invited my best friend and told her THE SPECIFIC DATES. I said “these are the dates, so let &lt;our friend&gt; know if you can go” because it’s not my trip, nor my house, so I told her to let the friend in charge of the trip to know if she can go. 

We go on the trip and she never said anything. We come home and she starts blaming me for not inviting her. I tell her I told her the dates and she said “no, you just told me to tell &lt;our friend&gt;.” And I’m like, yeah, because she was in charge of the trip.
TURNS OUT, she couldn’t have went on the trip anyways, so we don’t even know why she was making a big deal out of it. 
A week later she goes to college and I ignore her texts and stuff. Eventually I told her why I was ignoring her and she once again, blamed ME for everything, and didn’t even want to hear me out. So I ignored her again and she still keeps asking what she did and why I hate her, even though I’ve told her multiple times. 

So AITA for ignoring her after 4 years of being best friends?