Is EVERYBODY wrong in the post ? POST : Okay so I (16M) am the second of 7 children to 2 parents who are still together. My parents and I have always had a shaky relationship, mostly due to the fact that my parents have a toxic style of parenting, as phrased by my therapist. 

This takes place over this past Friday and Saturday. My parents decided that they wanted the 9 of us to watch several hours of family videos over these two days and I didn’t want to. As I explained to them, watching the videos with me in them always result in my parents/siblings taking shots at my masculinity and making fun of me for sensitive topics that have been recorded on camera. Additionally, one of these videos was my circumcision and I really don’t feel comfortable watching that video, nor do I with my siblings seeing this (Don’t ask why this was videoed- I have no idea). My parents said that it’s a family thing and I should suck it up and take part. Friday night, after dinner, my mom sets some videos up on our TV. Everyone goes to watch and I opt to sleep instead. Around 5 minutes after I went to bed, I was asleep. My father came into room and said that I need to come watch or I’m grounded for two weeks. Thing is, I was asleep at the time, so I didn’t respond. The next day, after a family lunch, my parents put some more videos on the TV. I began to head towards my bedroom and my dad said I’m obligated to watch. He said I’m grounded for ignoring his comments from the previous night (the ones I was asleep for) and I need to watch these videos. I told him that I wasn’t going to watch them. He screamed at me, saying that I’m less involved with our family than anyone else in the house and that I need to spend more time with them. I said that I’m actually a huge part of the family, in fact I’m  more a part of it than he is. He continues yelling, saying that I’m wrong and I look for every opportunity to avoid spending time with my family. I responded by telling him that there’s a difference between wanting to spend time with my friends and ditching my family. Seemingly ignoring my calm tone of voice, he continues his shouting, now saying how I’m avoiding my responsibilities and an all around piece of shit. He claimed that no one’s ever told me that because I’m so controlling and I’d snap at them if they did. I sarcastically asked “oh, so you’re the saint who’s going to speak for everyone and take on the wrath of the enraged fagaaron?” He yelled at me for being disrespectful so I, knowing that he’s a deep down sensitive man, said that I’d trade him in for my best friend’s dead dad any day of the week. With that, I went to bed and was ignored by him for the rest of the day. 

That’s my story, Reddit, so with that I ask:

Am I the asshole?