Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : I was born, raised and went to college in Philadelphia but my fiance is from the south. Last year his cousin got married at this plantation and it was really beautiful and had a nice aesthetic and since we were getting married in the South I wanted to have a plantation wedding as well. Obviously I don't support slavery in any way but it's just a pretty location to have a wedding and evokes southern charm with the antebellum themed houses and beautiful backdrop.

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When we started planning the wedding, I asked 6 of my friends to be my bridesmaids. One of my bridesmaids I was  best friends with in elementary, middle and  high school but drifted apart a bit when we went to colleges in different states. We are still friends but  definitely feel college change us in many ways. She became very passionate about social justice issues and black identity (she is biracial- half black half white) which is great but we didn't relate as much. She is completely against the idea of a plantation wedding. She says it's like having a wedding at a concentration camp and they were the settings of terrible practices towards slaves . I really think this is an unfair comparison. People were killed at concentration camps and those are set up as memorials to the holocaust. 

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But she is very adamant about it and says if I have a plantation wedding she won't be my bridesmaid and won't attend my wedding. I think it's a bit ridiculous and dramatic to sacrifice a 15 year friendship over something so petty and provide and ultimatum. It's a piece of land that has culture and history. What's worse is that it's making some of the my other brides maids uncomfortable now and they are thinking I should just have the wedding at a different location. 

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AITA here? 