Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST :       So 3 months ago I (20/F) went on a 3 week vacation trip to Mexico, with my boyfriend (21/m), my BIL (16), and my SIL (10). I paid my expenses, boyfriend paid for his, my parents in law (PIL) paid for BIL &amp; SIL. I left over some money so when I would come back to USA I would have money for my bills and I wouldn’t be struggling until my next paycheck. 

       Anyways, on the day that we leave back to USA, it turns out our tickets didn’t include our bags so we had to pay around 75$ each for our bags. I paid for mine, no problem. But then my bf realizes he doesn’t have enough to pay for them 3. I think it’s worth mentioning that my father in law had wanted my bf to throw a farewell party the day before we left, with their family members... which left them with no money.  My bf did not want to throw the party but his father insisted. Anyway, he asked me if I could let him borrow the 3500 pesos (around 188$) I had left to pay for his siblings bags. I was hesitant at first because it was all the money I had left, but my bf and my BIL promised me that their father would pay me back since it was for BIL &amp; SIL. 

         I paid for their luggage and came back to USA with 0$ to my name. I ended up having a negative balance on my card and I’ve been trying to recover from this trip for a while now. Now it’s been almost two months, and I ask my boyfriend when my PIL  are going to pay me back because I could really use my money, and he tells me he will ask his parents again. 

      Today he asked his mom when they will pay me back and she got angry. She said I am very “fijada” which roughly translates to I’m very ungrateful. She says because sometimes I eat at their house, why am I charging them for the luggage fees and that they will start charging me for things too. My bf defended me saying that I buy my siblings in law food at times too, when I owe them money I pay them on time, etc. Plus to her, damn near 200$ may not seem like a lot, but for a 20 year old who gets paid 400$ working a part-time, it’s almost half my paycheck! Does she think I shit money? I could of easily said no and let my BIL and SIL leave their luggages in Mexico but I didn’t and I came back with 0$ to my name and had to end up even borrowing money to pay my bills. 

     So Reddit, am I an asshole for wanting my PIL to pay me back? I admit I do eat at their house at times, and my MIL gifts me clothes from her store, but again I do not ask her to give me things, and if eating at their house is such a big deal I will stop. My boyfriend currently lost his job so I’ve been helping him financially too. I’ve been helping her son but she still thinks I’m ungrateful. Am I really an asshole? 