To start things off we have been together just under a year and it is in the last few weeks I have started to feel like we live very different lives due to our age (previously it has been great). We work in a very similar environment, not in the exact same office but in a close building and we are known as a great couple. She has just been told soon she will be offered up as an associate director and all that gives me is dread as I feel I am still young and do just want to enjoy these years. I have been thinking about ending things but struggle to do so because she has done nothing wrong whatsoever. So really am I the asshole for wanting to split now she's being promoted?