It's happened a few times in the past and again tonight.  


She has a very selective diet due to certain conditions, but on the odd occasion orders food that obviously contains ingredients that places her in a lot of pain, bloating and cramps. She claims she forgot but I find it hard to believe considering the effects are severe and it's something she has had to deal with for years.  


She gets upset with me as I don't show her any sympathy because I consider it self-inflicted.   


AITA?