My husband borrowed my car and took an Express lane with a toll. I got an unpaid notice in the mail because my ezpass was not activated (I hadn't used it in a couple years and eventually let it lapse). 

He says I should have told him or taken down the ezpass, but I say he should have asked before taking the toll road. Even if the ezpass was working, no guarantee it would have money in the account. I never would have expected him to take a toll road for a 25 minute trip on a weekend anyway.

I said I'd leave the bill for him to pay ($2 toll plus $12 fee) and he said he wouldn't. I got mad and wouldn't help him with his laundry since I was "busy" writing the check.