Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : So basically my friend has been seeing this boy for about six months. They've had issues from the very beginning of the relationship but lately it's seems like it's getting worse. She constantly comes to me and our other friends crying about things this boy said to her/did to her/ the way he treats her. Some of these things I would describe as borderline emotional abusive.

I tried being very supportive at first but at this point it's been so long the only advice I can really give her is to walk away from the relationship, and we've offered to help her with that/help her get help. She basically flat out states she isn't willing to do this or even willing to see this boy less. In addition, 90% of the time after we're done listening to her and trying to provide support, she goes straight to this boys house.

I basically told my friend that until she's willing to do something about it, I can't hear about it anymore. It's emotionally tolling on me to see my friend in pain and not be able to do anything about it.  However, she has basically told my other friends that I'm isolating her and making the situation worse.

AITA for telling her not to come to me until she's willing to change? Should I just suck it up and listen?