Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : So, I just want to state that I have some aged issues, but please send me some actual reasons if I’m an asshole or not. 

So this girl, right, I like her and well she doesn’t “yeah ok, fair enough” but I decided, hey just don’t talk to her for a week. I Wanted to see if she cared about our friendship, I had been building it up, and because she ignored me often, and I thought to myself, “hey I just need some time to get over it” of course, I felt kind of bad for just not talking to her, (she’s got some issues with family but has a lot of friends including me supporting her) But, y’know if she talked to me first or needed something I would’ve responded.

Then, the girl which I’ll call Alice,  responds with “it’s fine” , I wanted to make sure she really was just okay with it all, so I said “You’re just fine with it?” She responds with “I’m used to being ignored.” I said a half truth, saying that “I thought you just didn’t want to talk to me, so I didn’t.” (This is true by the way, just not the whole reason)  and “if you wanted to talk to me you could’ve just started it.”

“Also, you always wanna seem to talk to someone else, like you always say where’s such and such, or Where’s this guy” (I’d say that’s kind of an asshole thing)  She says, “Why should I talk if no one is there for me?” This is what got me pretty angry, as these two people in particular always try to help her, and I know as I’m close friends with these two. and her definition of being there is “helping me with all my problems.” She then says, “I’M A BURDEN TO ALL OF THEM, they probably became friends with me because of pity”  (now she’s assuming things) 

Then she says “Okay, to use me then!” This kind of makes me angry. I was saying how a bunch of people weren’t using her and what not (I handled it badly, IMO) but she seems to think everyone wants to use her. Then after I say, “Look, Alice not everyone is gonna use you!” She responds with “lmao who” this gets me mad, and this is where I question “Am I a asshole?” I say, “You don’t want help you just want pity, saying how she undermines the help people give to others and to her,  Then I end it with “You’re so stubborn that what I’m saying won’t phase you!”
And well, after I didn’t talk to her at all.