Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : I’m turning 18 on April 1st, but I’m having my party on March 30th. I planned my birthday party three weeks ago, so lots of people had time to work their schedules around it. I planned a nice dinner and invited my entire family and everyone said they would come. Then suddenly, a week before my birthday, my aunt and my uncle planned their kid’s party on the exact same day as mine, despite their kid’s birthday being on the 23rd of March. All my but 3 of my family members have cancelled coming to my party to go to my little cousin’s. Everyone is saying I should just go to my cousin’s party and basically share a birthday party with her. 

No offence to this baby, but I wasn’t really wanting to share my 18th with a 1 year old. Yesterday my mom messaged the family group chat saying that she was upset for everyone assuming I should share a birthday party with my cousin. My aunt’s family told my mom and I that we’re being “ignorant and childish”. They also told me to go cry somewhere else. I then defended my mom and myself by saying that I was only upset that everyone cancelled on me, and that I’d still come to their party. I also told them not to insult my mom for defending me. I then left the group chat because I didn’t want to fight with my uncle. My aunt and my uncle think I’m trying to ruin their little girl’s special day. My aunt’s say I should just go to my cousin’s party and they’d all see me there. My mom and my grandma all said I have a right to be upset. I’m pissed because I planned all this and now a lot of people aren’t coming. So I gotta know, am I being unreasonable here? Am I an asshole? 