So its my birthday soon, and my family always a small dinner (direct family only). However now days my grandma always comes. But whenever she's here she makes everything about her and always bitches about me and what I do, it's super annoying and always ruins my mood. Don't get me wrong i love her to bits but also always ruins everything. Also if she's not there she's coming to dinner the next day
So am I the asshole for wanting to enjoy my birthday