This is my first post here, and I'll talk about something that happened some time ago.
I met this boy and we chatted for a bit. He was depressed at the time and I helped him. A few weeks after we met he starts acting strange. He randomly complimented me, and things like that. And I was happy because I felt like I was helping him. He was a bit creepy tho, he once told me he was touching himself (wth..?) and things like that. After three weeks of knowing each other, he confessed to me, telling me that he's in love with me. And at first I didn't believed him. We've been knowing each other for a short time, and I thought it was weird that he fell for me. He also lives really far away from me, we don't even speak the same Language. Anyway, I told him that I don't feel something for him because it's too early, and that we should just wait a little longer. Now, I tried to tell him in the nicest way possible, but he didn't get it.
We kept talking, and I realized I'd never fall for him. He kept telling me he wanted me to be happy with him after I told him that we didn't need to be in a relationship to be happy and I just wanted to be friends.
He then started to make weird drawings of us kissing or hugging. At first I was okay with it, but after some time it started to make me feel uncomfortable. I felt like he was forcing me to be with him, but I didn't told him that, hoping that he would stop. He kept referring to us as a "couple" even tho I never really agreed on that, so I told him that he should first ask me if I want to be in a relationship with him. So he asks me to if I want to be his girlfriend, and I say no, because it's too early and, even if I feel something for him, it's not it the "romantic sense", and I hoped he would've understand. I didn't wanted him to be sad about it, so I didn't told him straight that I only saw him as a friend. And that was a mistake. The day after I rejected him, he sent me another drawing of us, knowing that it makes me uncomfortable, and then he starts saying things like: "we are a beautiful couple. We feel the same way about each other, you're maybe just scared of how you feel but it's okay, we can make it, because we're in love". Now, I'm a really calm person and I rarely get mad. But as I was reading this I knew I couldn't take it anymore.
I told him that he clearly didn't understood what I meant the other day. I told him that I'm not in love with him, I'm not interested and I'll never be interested, and also that he needs to stop drawing us and referring to us as a couple because it's cringy and I absolutely hate it. We have a discussion and then he blocks me. So, that's it. I actually felt a bit bad that I attacked him like that, but he wouldn't understand. On the other hand, I feel like he's the one who should feel bad, because if he didn't made me feel like I was being forced into a relationship, we could've been great friends. Anyway, thanks for reading this and tell me your opinions about it!