Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Bf and I got into a fight recently over whether or not I need a nosejob. I feel like it would make me prettier and happier, but he doesn't want me to change my features.

After a few min of debate over text, he says "I didn't fall in love with some bitch that got a nosejob."

I was absolutely astonished that he would say this to me. He basically called me a bitch for wanting a surgery? I'll be honest, I lost my temper and probably blew it up bigger than it needed to be.

Then, after I told him he offended me, he didn't understand what about it was offensive. I don't understand how in the world he cannot see how this is offensive to me.

So reddit... am I the asshole? 