Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : Let me start off saying this. I love my girlfriend. We have a great relationship and are perfect for each other. The one beef a have though, is that’s she doesn’t have an inside voice. She’s is a loud person and always talking really loud. I always have to say “shhh your yelling” even if we are 2 feet. She then will quite down and use a normal level voice for probably a minute and then go back to yelling. Well yesterday after telling her for the tenth time to please quite down she told me to stop saying that because she hates when I say it. It makes her feel like I don’t like her and she just can’t help being loud that’s how she is. 

Am I the asshole for asking her to not yell?