This friend is a pathological liar but i really didnt care because up until a few days ago her lies were attention seeking. To make a long story short, she told me there was a guy that found me cute and wanted to talk to me on snapchat. After a couple of days i came to the realization it was just her as she had tried to create fake texts as evidence (the name was the same but the bitmoji was very different and so was the snapchat username), the guy was always too busy to meet, they had the exact same voice and me and the guy shared many many similarities that are highly unlikely (both do ballet, both watch exactly the same shows, both have diabetes type 1, etc) the evidence kept stacking up but the nail in the coffin was her going onto the account and accidently messaging a friend saying "hey. oops im logged in on the wrong account" from the account that was talking to me. I tried to confront her but she would leave for hours at a time and come up with excuses like "my phone fell into the toilet (she was texting me on snapchat???)" and would come up with another lie. I told all my friends about this out of fustration at a. betrayal of trust (I didnt share anything especially sensitive but if it had kept going i dont know how much i would've said), b. raising my hopes unnecessarily and c. lying to me. One of my friends asked her why she did it and she messaged me a long tirade telling me i didnt need to take vengeance for it, etc. In general she's now trying to victimize herself and telling me that it's only between me and her and that I had no right to tell other peopke . Am i the asshole for telling my friends that she catfished me (i also told them because they'd seen my texts with the "guy" before i realised it was a catfish so I also kinda felt the need to clear that up) 