Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Throw away friends know my main. 

Just started a new relationship and as I just got off my period we have began having sex for the first few times. He knows I just got off my period and I don’t expect him to understand the female anatomy but he kept hinting at my smell during sex. I only get my period once every four months due to birth control so things get a little out of wack when it happens.

 I’d also like to add for my own embarrassment I shower daily with unscented soap around this time and have never had an issue like this before.  

Finally this morning I get a text saying he’s concerned about my health and that I might have bacterial vaginitis and that it probably isn’t just a post period thing and he’s having a hard time having sex with me. In addition immediately after that he said maybe we need to slow our relationship down. I tried to explain that new partners can throw off ph balance as well to which the response was just an ok and a string of uninvolved texts when I made it clear I was embarrassed. 

In addition to this he took the blame for moving things a bit too fast and I had recently told him I value openness and communication in a relationship. For this I feel like a hypocrite. I also feel that telling your girlfriend you don’t like her shoes and her pussy stank are on entirely different levels of openness we have not yet reached lol. I just felt double attacked in that moment when I feel a new relationship should be about being sweet and comforting each other. I also feel like this is a huge scar in my comfort moving forward with him intimately if I decide to continue seeing him. 

I’m incredibly hurt and embarrassed and broke things off. Am I the sensitive immature asshole here for breaking things off? He seems upset but willing to give me space. 
