Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Hi, so I'll just get right to it I guess.

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My grandma is really old. Like, we know her time is coming soon. My dad reminds me of this almost every time I'm in the car with him and talks about how I should visit her more since she's lonely and old.

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My mom on the other hand really, really dislikes my grandma. And I totally get this because my grandma was really shitty to my mom. So I kind of resent my grandma for this, even though she's pretty much been a good granny to me. (My mom tells me some kinda crappy things my granny did to me when I was a baby but since I don't remember and turned out fine I won't hold it against her.)

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Anyway so my mom doesn't like me going to my grandma's house. I don't have much of an opinion about going there or not. But since I kind of resent my grandma for the way she treated my mom I usually just do as my mom says and not go to family gatherings at my grandma's house.

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So am I the asshole for not visiting my grandma, who's getting really old (and seems to really favor me among her grandchildren), because of the way she treated my mom even though she hasn't done anything shitty to me in particular?