Wife and I just celebrated 27 years of marriage last week.  I've known her since 1985.   I do all the cooking for the family.  Son is on the spectrum and is very particular of what he'll eat (hates pizza, cheese, pasta).  We found out 2 years ago my wife is Gluten Intolerant, she has Celiac's Desease and gets very ill if she ingests gluten.   I take particular care when cooking for her as well as factor in what to cook for my son, it can get cumbersome juggling both requirements.

We talk about her finally figuring out she can't eat gluten "all of the time".   For years it's been a struggle for her until she figured it out and it's a topic that comes up a few times a week.  Last night I made a pot roast and used a corn starch slurry to make the gravy.  She comes up, looks at it and says, "I can't eat that,  you used flour for the gravy, I'm gluten intolerant"! 

I looked at her and said, "Do you really think I'd make that with flour?  Do you think I'm a fucking idiot"!?   I just dropped the utensils, walked away and went upstairs for the night.  I haven't apologized and either did she.  She did eat supper which I passed on,  I was too pissed.  I can't believe she would think that of me.  I haven't looked her in the eye since.  Am I the asshole?

&amp;#x200B;