For context, we and my are both in high school.

I just recently met this girl, I asked her out on a date and she said yes. We have been dating for almost a month now, and I decided that it was time to have a discussion about sexuality in our relationship. I said that I wanted to have sex, but she quickly mentioned that she didn’t feel ready. Now, I completely understand that mentality (as we are both 16 years old), and I told her that I respect that, and I wouldn’t force her to do anything she is not comfortable with. However, I mentioned that I wasn’t looking for a relationship without sex, as it would basically just be us being really good friends that cuddle sometimes. I said that I didn’t want to force her to do anything, but I wouldn’t want to continue to be in a relationship without sex, but I would like to still be friends. She immediately became angry, and quite standoffish, as she would not talk to me other than to accuse me of just using her for sex. Now she is telling all of her friends that I am just a “man-whore.” Am I the Asshole?