So a couple days ago I met up with my friend and to talk and just hang out and the topic of my wedding came up. My fiancé (31F) does not want his girlfriend to attend and I don’t really either, not because she’s a bad person, I just don’t have an appreciation for who she is anymore and I think she’s annoyingly self-centered.

For the most part, I side with my fiancé that there’s no reason for her to be there, and that my friend should just accept it and deal with it. I’ve explained that essentially it’s my fiance’s big day and we should just let her have the best day she’s always wanted. My friend out right stated that if he’s invited and can’t bring his girlfriend, then there’s going to be drama. 

At the time I just laughed it off and thought…. Well this is gunna get trashy. But after thinking about it, I think it might be best to just not have him (and by proxy her) be there at all. Which sucks because he’s been a close friend for 30 years, and I want him there. But the evident and outright threat of drama just makes me want to not invite him at all. 