Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : I have been dating my girlfriend for almost 4 years but we still keep separate finances and split rent. There was a period where she was unemployed and I was paying 100% of the rent for which I didn’t ask, nor do I want, her to pay me back. 

She then found a job that she started on the first of the the month. Since she wouldn’t be getting a check until the 15th and had been dipping into her savings to cover other living expenses I said that she should not pay her half of the rent on the first of the month (the day she started her job) and instead just pay me back at the end of our current lease (about a year away).

Now that that time has come, I feel weird asking her to pay me that half a month’s rent from a year ago. 