Bf and I live together.  He works a lot and when he comes home he’s so smelly.   I don’t know why, but his sweat smells like cat pee. 

I told him to shower when he gets home from work and he usually does.  Tonight though he gave me attitude about it.  He said he was tired.  Then told me I don’t smell so great myself sometimes.  He also out of nowhere brought up that I’m not working right now.  Like that has anything to do with anything.  Just lashing out.  I don’t get what the big deal is.  It’s 20 minutes and he’d be smelling fine the rest of the night. 