Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : So my phone's battery died so I had to use my dad's old phone for awhile. For some reason he didn't delete his old messages which I have obviously read. He was sending messages to another women , telling her how he loved her and how he wanted to do "stuff" with her. So I have told on my dad. My mother never could fully forgive my father and he didn't really try to seek forgiveness other than buy her an expensive ring. She still reminds him of the accident during huge fights and my father always blames me for telling on him and for destroying our family.