Currently, I (15M) am on vacation in Washington, D.C. with my family. I've never really expressed much interest in going here, but I never said anything to the nature of "I don't want to go" because there is no purpose. It would just rile everyone up. Well, earlier today, we went to see most of the major buildings and memorials. That's when shit hit the fan; I won't go into details, but I expressed interest in going to the library of Congress. This was shot down by my father, who said it was a decently long walk from where we were. I told him that the walk from our hotel to the Lincoln memorial was about the same distance so it shouldn't be terrible, to which he responded that I don't always get my way.

This is where I said some things that I regret voicing, and I'm certain that some of it was just me being a bitchy teenager. I told him that I hadn't gotten to do anything of remote interest to me since we've gotten here, and that I didn't even want to be here in the first place. This ticked him off and he started going off on me. Eventually, my mother pulled me aside and told me that I was being ungrateful and that I should be appreciative of all the places I get taken (my parents are fairly well off). I argued that I wasn't ungrateful because I was forced to come, which didn't sit well with her. Eventually, once we get back to the street, my father starts insulting me, and my mother keeps telling him to stop. After he calmed down, my mother turned to me and said something like "Do you see what you cause?"

I don't believe that I, as a minor, should be responsible for my middle aged father's actions. Apparently I ruined the entire trip for my family. I don't know if my parents are being assholes or if I'm being a stupid teenager, so AITA?