Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Preface to this, I love my wife she’s a great mom. The best. However with a 6month old and just starting work she is either on drugs or extremely sleep deprived. 


In the last day or two she has been acting so different (yelling at me over things that would never cause an issue much less make her yell) , constantly forgetting things (she lost her vape, phone, car keys and cigarettes multiple times times in an hour ) and she’s fallen asleep in the most random awkward positions ( on the toilet, middle of the floor, etc). Seeing her so exhausted made me call out of work so I could watch the kid and she could get a full nights rest. This is an extremely crucial time at my job and they need me, and I just asked for a raise which our family desperately needs. So to me it’s a big deal that I’m doing this ( I know she didn’t ask but I feel family is more important then a job). 

When I brought up that she was acting different and that she looked really out of it and I took off tomarrow so she could get some sleep, she really got upset and started yell shouting and hitting me. After fighting and yelling at me in front of our kid (something I NEVER do, and constantly ask her not too) she refused that she was tired. I backed off and let her feed him before he passed out for the night. I went into the next room so if our son woke up I could come before she awoke. 

When I left she was feeding him on the couch. After about 10 minutes I herd our kid screaming bloody murder. When I run into the room she’s asleep on the couch and our baby is on the floor. After tending to child I awoke her and very calmly told her that because of whatever is affecting her is now endangering our baby. 

She then preceded to bring up every mistake I’ve ever made in our marriage. She refuses to go to sleep ( even though she has passed out on the toilet 2x in the last hour and on the floor).

I love her but whatever is affecting her is now endangering our child. She had a pizza in the oven at the same time the child rolled out of her lap and onto the floor. Both of this issues are unacceptable to me. Am I the asshole? 