I like to show my daughter (5) the shows that I used to watch growing up. I used to watch a lot of the Dick Van Dyke Show, the Honeymooners, What’s Your Line, those sort of shows. Since most of this stuff is streamable, we sometimes watch a few episodes. My husband told me he has a problem with me showing her these shows because he doesn’t want her to be influenced by those old ideas of how people should be. I understand what he’s saying, but I told him that I’ve explained to her that the shows are old and that women weren’t always able to be so independent as they are now.  I’ve told her that she’s so lucky that she can wear whatever she wants and be whoever she wants. He doesn’t think that’s enough, however. My husband has proposed a ban on all the older shows and movies, but I think that’s a bit silly, especially since she likes to watch them, and I think it’s a kind of teachable moment. I think it’s better to have conversations with her about the content than to just eliminate it entirely. Writing this out feels kind of dumb, but my husband is legitimately pissed at me, so am I the asshole?