Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : For starters, I'm a sixteen year old and my parents have been divorced for almost all my life. They aren't hostile to one another and are usually very civil. My dad remarried and my mom is still single. This week is spring break for me, so I was at my dad's for almost the entire week. 

Yesterday I went to a friend's (let's call him Sam) house to hangout after my soccer practice. My dad had dropped me off to practice and one of my other friends took me to Sam's house as I don't have my driver's license. 

All goes fine until about 10:45ish when my mom texts my dad asking where I am. My dad responds, "He's at Sam's house, right?" (I told my dad I would be going to a friend's house Friday and Saturday the day before he dropped me off. I also reminded him the day of as well)  My mom interprets this as him not knowing where I am, instead of the logical thinking that," He's at Sam's, unless you've heard otherwise?" This causes my mom to go ballistic, calling my phone multiple times and texting me multiple times as well.

However, I did not see the texts or calls because my phone automatically goes to do not disturb at 10. Also, I don't always keep my phone near me as I try to actually hang out with my friends instead of be on my phone the entire time.

About 45 minutes after she goes ape shit, I see the texts from my parents ( my dad had texted me a bunch too because my mom told him that I was avoiding her or something). I responded to my mom like this: my dad knows where I am, (she asked if dad knew where I was) Sam's parent's were ok with me staying the night, (they were) and that I had already told her throughout the week that I was staying the night at a friend's house Friday (3 times in fact). 

What's even worse, Sam tells me later that my mom had called his parents (who were asleep) multiple times around MIDNIGHT. On top of that, my mom texts me back that I need to start being more responsible and I was acting like a brat. 

Today she is still mad at me and now wants me to download an app that lets her track me 24/7. My dad brushed this whole thing aside because "being a single parent is hard".

Don't get me wrong, I'm so grateful to have parents that care about me, but I don't think her behavior can be swept under the rug because "being a single parent is hard". AITA for still being mad at her?

TL;DR : Went to sleepover at friend's house and  notified my parents the days prior. Mom forgot about this and blew up mine and my friend's parent's phones up around midnight. Says I was being a brat because I hadn't told her every single detail of my day or because my I "made my own plans" without them knowing.



