Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : My girlfriend will regularly leave to go do something for 3 or 4 hours while texting me, with no warning, and will simply answer a few hours later as if nothing had happened. 

I understand that she has her own schedule, and don’t want to be controlling or even know where she’s going. I’d simply like her to tell me when she has to go, so I’m not left wondering what happened.

Am I the asshole here? Should I just accept it as a part of our relationship and move on?