Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : My gf (24F) recently admitted to herself that her father molested her when she was young. So far I'm the only one she's told. Her parents are divorced but her and her 3 older sisters all still have a relationship with him. I'm trying to support her and help her find therapy and start the healing process. I haven't met him but she wants me to meet him when I visit her family over Christmas. Her biggest fear with telling me was that it would "affect the way I see him when I meet him" I don't want to see him. He's a child molesting piece of shit. I haven't told her I never want to interact with him. Am I an asshole if I refuse to meet him?