Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : About 5 years ago my sister broker up with her boyfriend and I moved into her flat with her, since then we have both paid equal rent and shared all the bills. However I’ve never felt comfortable at home as she questions everything I do and I can never relax. For example she came in my room screaming at me because she didn’t feel like the amount of items I had in the dryer warranted enough to use it. This is just a tiny example that extends to anything I do.  

I feel like the problems stems from her thinking it’s her flat rather than ours. 

Anyway I let her know that I was moving out and have her roughly a month and a half notice and my entire family has come down on me calling me selfish and made me feel like shit. 

Just for some context, the city we rent in is 3 miles from her work and 40 miles from mine. It isn’t even my home town as my parents live a further 50 miles in the opposite direction so it feels like the only reason I’m here is to appease her. 

To add to this she told me she wanted to move out on her own around 6 months ago and all my family backed her just as I did.. until that fell through and I agreed to further our tenancy. Now the shoe is on the other foot I’m the monster because she can’t afford that place on her own and I’m forcing her to find a new place to live. 

So AITA for wanting to put myself first? 