Under normal circumstances, I think wanting a child-free wedding is fair. They are noisy and in the way and if we go for a sit-down meal, they need catering for differently. The youngest family member I'm inviting is 13, the rest of my guests are adults.

But here's the snag. We want to have our reception at the Cricket club, because my husband-to-be's cousin organizes the events, so we should be able to get a good deal on the venue hire.

But his Cousin has a 2-3 year old daughter. I've only met her once, so I can't say if she's well behaved or not, but I feel like this age is young enough to be a nuisance.

My partner doesn't want the baby at the wedding either, but he thinks that his Cousin is likely to be offended if her daughter isn't invited. 

AITA for wanting "mates rates" on a wedding venue from my partner's cousin, but also saying she can't bring her baby?