Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : I don’t feel like I’m the asshole, but she’s overly upset about this to the point where she’s crying and refusing to talk to me. 

No matter what I try to do she’s telling me that I make her feel gross and nasty, but I’m trying my best to assure her that’s not the case. I just don’t want blood all over. In the end, we ended up having sex without a condom anyway just to make her happy, but afterwards this is the aftermath. 

We don’t argue all so often and we’ve been together for a good while this just strikes me as strange, and I feel absolutely terrible about this. Apologizing isn’t helping either. Am I as shitty as I’m feeling right now?