Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : I noticed I had not seen a male friend of mine and my husband’s on any social media since the start of the week. No post, no comment, no likes since Sunday. He wouldn’t respond to texts either. My hubby is the one who primarily talks to him since I don’t talk to male friends without my hubby around. It’s my rule and my hubby hub hub respects that. Anyways, yesterday we finally got a hold of him and asked him if he was ok. Yes. Why did he leave social media. 

“Because of Valentine’s Day” he said. He does not like being on social media during Valentine’s Day because he thinks couples bully singles and shove their relationships down everyone’s throats. He also claims its just a “Hallmark holiday” that exists for the sole reason of making corporations money. Shit like that. It’s why he takes a social media break. 

Well, come to find out he muted mine and my hubby hub hub’s joint account (I don’t have one without him), and the accounts of other couples because we do nothing but brag about our relationship. I told him that our account is ours and we can do whatever we want with it. If he can’t be a supportive friend and be happy for us sharing our love, then he doesn’t need to be a friend of ours. 

He got real mad at that because he claimed he doesn’t complain about Valentine’s Day, only get off social media. Me and my hubby hub hub told him that him not supporting us is the problem. It’s a silent way of complaining. Him muting us on social media is complaining. Him leaving social media for a week because of Valentine’s Day is complaining. It’s him throwing a temper tantrum because he thinks he’s a victim of something he’s not. 

Honestly, I’m glad he’s not in our lives anymore. 