Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : My mother seems to think so. She says we should have talked and made a safety plan. But with my sons occupational therapist noticing his behavior changes and red flags I really had no choice. Not that it mattered I was going to report him anyway. 

It just doesn't make sense to me. How can she act like this isn't an issue? It's not as simple as spanking him to hard. 

Between my ex threatening suicide over this and my mom telling me I'm taking the kids from there dad I have never felt so sick and emotional in my life. 

I know I have to put my kids first. But I really feel like an asshole right now. 