Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : Hey guys so some context is necessary. About a year ago, I decided to finally gain my independence and get my dream tattoo. It never happened due to a stupidly massive argument with my parents. I really want to get this tattoo done as it represents my childhood and is very meaningful. It wasn’t going to be a large tattoo, and I clarified this when I tried vehemently to explain to my parents. They were having none of that. 

They accused me of being a failure just because I never went to university and I don’t currently own a car driving license. They keep telling me tattoos are vulgar and hideous, and I feel like they are emotionally blackmailing me. When I tried to explain to them why and where I want it, I was given an ultimatum. Get the tattoo and be homeless with parents who ignore me (so petty) or don’t get the tattoo and make them proud (ugh). 

They believe what I do reflects on how the public views them and they are so scared of being viewed as “bad parents”. It’s honestly getting ridiculous at this point. 

My question to you redditors, is AITA for wanting to take the plunge and just get the tattoo? 