Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : I just turned 30 and since I was 11 I pretty much knew I was gay. With that correlation, I also knew there would come a time when my parents, grandparents, aunts and uncles would start asking about wife, kids etc. Now, outside of my high school prom, they've never seen me with a women and I don't even talk about my friends with them.

The conversation of me being gay has never come up but they are very homophobic and have made disgusting remarks about gay people. I personally don't plan on coming out to them because it's a headache and drama I don't want. But I do plan on becoming as distant as possible and lowering the number of times I interact with them I order to have my won life.

Recently, the subject of me getting married and having kids came up again and I bluntly had to tell them to stop asking about my personal life because that's a part of me I wont be sharing with anyone except the person I'm seeing.  That includes getting married and or having children. Some family members were shocked and upset by what I said but I don't see the big deal.