Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : I have had an on and off relationship with a girl I knew since I was a sophomore in high school. She’s quirky, and has a really high sex drive ever since I knew her. We had a few sexual encounters before in high school, but nothing out of the ordinary and it was always with protection.

We went to different colleges and drifted apart, only for her to chat me up in my second semester of college. We talked a lot, and said she had no place to stay for the night. I offered to let her have my bed in my dorm since my roommate was out for the weekend. One round of drinking later, we ended up having sex. But in the middle of the night we did it again, and I didn’t have another condom, so we just did it without one, and nothing bad happened.

About 2 years later, after having broke up again, we saw each other and decided to try dating again, mostly because she told me she had matured and just wanted something stable, after a pretty nasty engagement on her side. We got somewhat sexual quickly, but didn’t actually do anything up until she invited me over to her folks place so she could cook me dinner.

After dinner, she drank some wine, but because I knew, or at least thought, I was just going back home later, I didn’t have any. She kept insisting I have some and stay the night, but I had school really early, and repetitively said no, to her frustrations, but the night was still nice... except for her telling me that her previous fiancé had sex with questionable women before her, and didn’t know how safe it was.

After making out, we started to undress... and then realized I forgot my condoms in my car. I told her I could go back and get them, but she told me that might wake her parents, and that we should just do it without one, to which I said no. This was mostly because of all the talk of her fiancé having unprotected sex with her and the questionable women of his past, kinda making me paranoid. Didn’t help the house was old, and that I just generally like to play it safe when I’m sober. 

She reminded me that we had done it with no protection before, and that there was nothing different now, that she should trust her judgement. In response, I just apologized and said I don’t think I should, to which she got dejected and the night ended with me going home. 2 days later she said she no longer wanted to talk to me.

This all happened around a month ago with no talking since. 

At first I was sure I wasn’t being the asshole... but in recent speculation, maybe I should have trusted her judgement, avoided the fight, and kept going.

AITA? I’m severely doubting my own judgement now 