Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : I was talking to a couple of my friends about my relationship, and her and I aren't doing well right now, and that's shes talking to a guy and tells me how it reminds her of our early conversations, because now we usually go to bed annoyed with what one another said, but anyway, I mentioned that she might leave me for this guy, and my friends make a couple jokes about how much of a downgrade it would be and that I have nothing to worry about. I tell my gf about this conversation and she instantly blows up on me, and hasn't talked to me since, and blocked me on a couple social media sites. am I the asshole?