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This happened a year ago

So, I met a girl thru tinder (Dec of 2017). We met at a bar, had drinks, went to my place and she spent the night over. For the next few days, we started messaging each other, just casual talk. As I had to go abroad during the holidays, we stopped talking as much.

When I got back on January, we hooked up again. This happened a few times with her staying over at my place. Around the middle of January, she asked me what she was to me, confessing that she was starting to like me. I told her that I was unsure of my feelings and she was visibly hurt. I thought it over the weekend and I told her that we'll start going out.

Things went well for the next two weeks, with us saying "I love you to each other". Around feb, she asked me if it was alright for her to hang out with her friends at a club. Seeing as I trusted her, I said no problem. So she messaged me that night, but her messages were kinda messy and weird. I didn't think too much about it and kinda forgot about it.

A few months went by and she "confessed" that she was actually coerced by her so called friend. She was kinda hesitant about the details. Seeing as it was traumatizing for her, I didnt push through with it. However, I felt that some things were off so I did a bit of snooping. I managed to find out that the guy wasn't actually her highschool friend and was someone she also met and also slept with thru tinder on december (they met a week after we hooked up), after we first met. I confronted her about it and she cried, saying that the guy kept pestering to met her, so she agreed to meet at a night club with the condition that no sex was gonna happen. She forgot to bring her ID that night so she was denied entrance. The guy was so mad at her and started shouting at her. She felt guilty so she went into his car and went to his place. One thing led to another and she said she felt pressured so they slept together.

I felt messed up after this and for the next few months, kept calling her names and when I remember what happened I thought of ways to emotionally hurt her. I was filled with so much hate so I called it off with her.