Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : So, I am 16 and my cousin is about 12. About a year or so ago we used to play a lot of TF2 and Minecraft together via Discord, but at some point the other things in life got in my way, and I just felt too tired to talk to him in general most of the time. He has much more energy than I do, it seems, and so is much more eager to play together when I'd rather just play Rocket League or Minecraft in single player and relax with some hot cocoa. 

He spammed me a lot at some point, sometimes even called me on my phone, so I ended up setting my Discord status to "invisible" so he wouldn't see that I was online. 

This friday he called me again on my way back from the choir, and I thought "well it won't take a piece out of me to play with him once in three months" so... we played some TF2 and Minecraft together. I have to say, it was pretty fun for a bit before I started getting a headache. I told him I'd download War Thunder on my desktop and then we can play it sometime. However, I forgot to download the game and just did not feel like talking to him in general.

Today he started spamming me again while I was playing some singleplayer Rocket League, and when I told him that I was too tired right now and that I have a hard school day tomorrow(Actually true) he pretty much went "who cares". 

I really don't have anything against him, but he is kind of not nice sometimes, I'm trans and he knows it, yet he keeps calling me by the name I don't want to be called by, he is really annoying at times, and I get this is all part of being a 12 year old, but I'd just prefer to play with someone older and a bit more mature. AITA here?