So this guy privately messaged me on a social media site, asking me if I was open to roleplay. I was, of course, more than happy and open to do so. So we took some time, getting everything settled before jumping right into it. 

After a short while, we had everything decided. Mind you, and this is important, I sent four messages after his last one. My first message was the actual roleplay starter, and right after was me basically saying: “Here’s the rp starter!”. I didn’t get any response from the dude, so I sent a small message an hour later, and then another five hours. Just another thing, he didn’t say anything about being busy or leaving. 

The chat stayed completely silent for five days, before I sent another message to check up on him. And finally, a whole day later I sent another message. Some time after that, he left the chat without saying anything. As you can probably have imagined, I got pretty annoyed that he left like that, especially after ignoring me for a whole week. 

I later sent a message on his profile, since I was under the assumption that he would’ve just ignored me again if I sent him a private message. To summarize my comment, it was a sarcastic remark about how great our communication was together, followed by a picture of our chat when he left me hanging. It took him a whole day for him to respond to my message. 

He replied with: “Sorry, I just don’t like persistent people.” Now another thing, I would’ve been more than content if he told me this right off the bat. If he felt that I was annoying or bothering him, then that would’ve been valid. But, he decides to tell me this after he ignored me, and only when I went up to him. My thoughts here was pretty much what I responded with, and I felt his reason was a poor excuse for what he did. 

After that, he then proceeded to label my comments as “hate”, adding in some sarcastic remark about how riveting I was. At this point, I was only getting annoyed with his responses, as we continued on going back and forth with each other. He kept resorting to sarcastic remarks against me, while my own patience was whittled away. Eventually, there reached a point where I couldn’t hold back from calling him out. I called him inconsiderate, self-centered, and selfish. In which, he ended up getting annoyed to, and called me immature for taking this situation to his wall, where everyone can see. 

At this point, I was just sick and tired of arguing, especially since he didn’t at all acknowledge what he himself did. So what I did was, suck up my pride, and apologized. I apologized for messaging him the way I did, and took back some of the things I said. All I got back was a thumbs up emoji, before I deleted the message chain to avoid any other trouble. 

Admittedly, I wasn’t very happy with how I reacted, but I still wasn’t happy with him either. So was I wrong? Was he wrong? Did we both just plainly sucked?