 

Context  : We have an incredible relationship and are very happy with each  other. Literally, the only « problem » we have in our relationship comes  back to Girlfriend’s dogs.  Boyfriend « is not very fond of dogs ». He  grew up with cats.  Girlfriend has two dogs one of whom she has had for 9  years and the other for 4. One time, girlfriend went to boyfriend’s  house with the dogs to sleep over. The dogs are accustomed to sleeping  in her bed, but they were in the living room because Boyfriend didn’t  want them in his bedroom. They ended up clearly unhappy and barking ,  which resulted in Girlfriend walking home at 3AM thinking the  relationship was doomed. As a result, we made an agreement due to the  fact boyfriend is not comfortable with dogs in his apartment (especially  in his bed). The agreement was that for each night he slept over at  Girlfriend’s place, Girlfriend would sleep at his place, without her  dogs – potentially leaving them overnight alone. Girlfriend thought once  in a Blue Moon it would be acceptable if she left late at night and  came back early. Well, the only time the she ever attempted to do this,  she came home to two very sad dogs, one of whom had puked all over and  she had to take the next day off work to clean the apartment. (It is  important to note that girlfriend has also gone out before to the very  early hours of the morning (even as late as 9AM ONCE) without them  puking).

Since then, Girlfriend has  never slept at Boyfriend’s house and he has only slept at her house  because she does not feel comfortable leaving her dogs.

Boyfriend is wondering if Girlfriend is the asshole for breaking the original sleeping agreement.

Who  is the asshole ?  Is our relationship fucking doomed?!?!? Should, the  boyfriend, eat the dogs for breakfast? Should, the Girlfriend, hand over  the fucking keyboard?

PS \_ Am I the  asshole for insisting on typing this because English is my first  language and his is not while the keyboard is an AZERTY?

PPS\_Boyfriend is mad because I have way more karma point than him! 