Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : I’ve been in a relationship for a few years now with a girl I’ve known for quite some time. At the beginning of our relationship we had a very active sex life and we would do it almost every day of the week. Being a college kid I felt that was necessary to relieve stress and get my mind off of things. Not to mention the fact that my testosterone levels are probably at their peak. 

Recently the number of times per week has decreased anywhere from 5-20 times, to 1-2 times a week if I’m lucky. I am very into this girl and enjoy the time we spend together, and although sex isn’t the backbone of our relationship, it is still important to me. 

I’ve never become angry with her over the fact, but I have brought it up multiple times and she has said she wants to have more sex but in the weeks following it will just steady out back to the bare minimum. We spend so much time alone together and quite honestly, we get bored a lot, which is another reason I would think that sex should be more prevalent. 

I don’t want to make this a big issue between the two of us but I can’t see myself with someone who has so little sex especially when we had so much only a year ago. 

Am I the asshole for being frustrated with this lack of sex? 