This is stilling on going this week so I’ll update as things play out, also I’ll put a TL;DR at the end. 

I’ve been with my current girlfriend for a little over a year. We work different shifts and do not live together so we typically only see each other one or two days during the week. 

We call/time/FaceTime throughout the week and when my SO is feeling frisky, she’ll send me nude photos and we’ll engage in some sexy talk/sext. 

Yesterday while I was at work, I got a notification that she had sent me a photo. 

“Oh hell yeah,” I think as I open it and see a photo of my SO’s lady bits. 

However as I’m looking at it something catches my eye. On closer inspection I notice it’s a tampon string. 

I reply with a “?” And she asks what’s wrong. 

I point out the string and she doesn’t see what the big deal is. She tells me I’m shaming her for something she can’t control. I tell her I’m not, but that I don’t want to see that. 

We argue throughout the night about this, and she didn’t pick up my phone calls last night. We haven’t talked today either. 

Am I the asshole? 

TL;DR SO sent me nude with tampon visable