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I literally posted on this Subreddit yesterday.
Life isn't great lmao.

Anyway. I'd been talking to a girl online. We knew each other in real life. I've met her, she used to live near me until she moved away. We were pretty close.
Now. Maybe a month or so ago our messages stated to become a but more flirtatious. 

Now I didn't mind this. I found this girl attractive and I would be open to a relationship if we got further into the future and got to know each other even more.
We carried on chatting and, to me, but obviously not to her, it felt like we were unofficially dating.
As I asked, "What are We?"

To which I got this response.

"I just don't know.. I'm really confused.. Because you're really nice but.. Idk. I've been chatting to someone else aswell named ____"

Now, I just found this incredibly immature. But okay. Whatever. I decided to ask about ____, maybe they were an amazing match.

Turns out they'd been chatting for a week at most, and that _____ lived over 8 hours away if you were to take a plane. Now, obviously I don't care that it was long distance. I just felt slightly offended. I've had bad long distance relationships before, where I've been cheated on. But that's just me being bias and I didn't bring that up in conversation.
After that, our flirting dropped drastically.

Later on that day. She revealed to me that they'd started dating. I didn't object or say anything. Cool. She obviously preferred this girl over me and I couldn't change that.

Our flirting stopped completely. I didn't want to get in the way of this relationship and I was feeling a little disappointed.

Okay. So maybe a week ago, she broke up with this girl. And she told me, then proceeded to say,

"Now we can date!"

I said no. Because I didn't like feeling like something that this girl had as a second choice. And even if that wasn't her intent, I can't help feeling like that. But she has been awfully cold with me lately and I miss our friendship. I just don't feel like getting into a relationship with her. 

AITA?