Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Gf and I have been dating since August and she moved in with me at the beginning of this month.  Before she was living in a shared house and once they found someone to rent her room she came to live with me.  

It really didn’t take long before things went south.  She’s pretty messy, she picks fights over dumb stuff like tv, she’s been smoking inside when I’m not around even though she agreed to go outside to smoke.  She’s also gotten really controlling about what we do in our free time.  All she wants to do is sit around here and if I go out without her she’ll get mad.  Lately she’s also been saying she wants to quit her job and find something else which is a huge red flag for me.  

It’s just not working out.   I know we’ll probably break up when I tell her I want to leave, but if this is what living with her is like it’s probably for the best.   I wouldn’t just let her go homeless, I’d give her time to find another house share, but part of me feels guilty.  She can’t move back to where she was before so she’ll have to live with new people.  