Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Not my story, but my dads girlfriends (who I really support in this story. But this is the view from an outsider) 

So, a few months back my dads girlfriend, who I'll call C, had her kids over (1 girl, who is a gymnast and in college, 3 sons, 1 is depressed, 1 has a wife and three kids, and another who is planning on going into the military. None of this is really important, but it will come up in the story) 

C is normally the one to wake up and make everyone breakfast (for my dad, me, my two sisters, and now her four kids, alond with three young children) so, obviously, she put her own kids first, as she hadn't seen them in a long time- since they live with their father about an hour and a half away, and she's always at work (travel nurse). Making breakfast for 12 people is a bit of a stretch. Me and my sisters are still sleeping so she decides to cook for us when we wake up. 

Bad idea: my dad gets really pissed at her for not waking us up when the food is done. She tries to explain that she was going to cook when we woke up, since we don't like other people, and it was getting crowded. So he waits. We wake up, and she was in the middle of something with her kids so she couldn't cook right away. Now my dad is getting pissier and pissier by the second. He's a big guy, around 6 feet and 300+ lbs- and he has a history of being emotionally and psychologically controlling towards people around him (ex: he makes fun of me and my sisters and constantly tells us our shortcomings) so when he's pissed, it gets scary. She apologizes to us each personally for not making the food yet, and she gets up to do it. My dad, of course, starts yelling at her for not treating HIS kids the same as HER kids. Now, I understand both sides. She lives with him and treats us as her own, but he doesn't treat her kids as even remotely his. My dad tells us to go get dressed to leave, and we do, seeing as we don't want to make him madder. C gets sad and tries to get him to stay,  "I'm sorry, I'll never do it again", "I didn't know I wasn't treating them the same" etc. 

So we leave for a few hours to do who knows what, and when we get back she had clearly been crying (red eyes, puffy cheeks, etc) but does Dad care? Not one bit. He makes off hand comments about it, making her feel worse and apologize more. As the day goes on, everyone drops the subject, but her kids are clearly mad at my dad for the 'incident'

Side note: I don't know the exact ages of her kids, but the youngest is 16- C is constantly at work so she hardly has any time for herself. On the rare occasion she does, it's either spent sleeping or cooking/cleaning for my dad. 

Another side note, further explaining my dads manipulation: so, C and my dad are planning on getting married, though, SHE has to lose weight before he'll even propose (she has to get down to 160, which I believe she'll look like a twig.) While he's perfectly fine in his almost 400+ lbs lifestyle. 


Rip me a new one here, is C the asshole here? Or is it my dad? 