Ive never cheated on anyone, and I never plan on it, because I see how much other people hate it, and ive been in a relationship before. Im also not polyamorous, and I wouldnt want to be in a relationship where I know that he's fooling around, but i honestly wouldnt mind if I didnt know. Like ive never understood why people care if hes still providing the same level of love. Its like jerking off. So, im not gonna cheat on anyone but like.. i just dont get it. Am i an asshole? Can i continue to have monogamous relationships and not be an asshole or should i just like... not.