The conversation I will be talking about took place yesterday (Wednesday) for time reference. I bought annual passes to universal studios for me and my gf a while back and have been meaning to use them. Our schedule allows us to only have 1 day of the week to spend a full day at universal studios. Unlike my gf I prefer to take advantage of this free time while she likes to sleep in and start the day late. Now we had planned to go to universal studios today (Thursday) and I had mentioned wanting to be out the door no later than 9 am. She tells me she has a test on Friday and would need to somehow spend time preparing for it. Now we had prior plans to go out for Wednesday trivia night and she said she would have to stay up till 3 am that night to study after trivia night and would like to leave at 10 am rather than 9 am. Now my gf is the type of person to never follow anything I say exactly and would often think that I am being controlling. I suspected she said she wanted to go at 10am because she said it herself and it was a time different than what I had proposed. 

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In all honesty an hour difference wouldn't of mattered to me but just the fact that she needed to stay up at 3 am made me rethink plans to go to universal studios at all. If she could she would sleep in as long as she could so I know that staying up till 3 am means its very unlikely for her to be out the door by 10 am let alone spend a full day at universal studios. I asked her to stay back from trivia night to spend some more time studying so we could still leave relatively early while she also gets more sleep, but she had already told others she would be there. I then told her we should just not go at all to universal studios and we started to get into a fight. She says I'm controlling for not wanting to go at 10am but she didn't see the real reason for why I didn't want to go at all anymore. There's no point to go if she's just going to get tired early on in the day. She did the usual breaking up with me, blocking me, getting her things from my house and here I am spending my day off alone not knowing what's going on in our relationship. Am I the asshole?

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TL;DR Had plans to go to universal wanting to leave at 9am, gf has test to study wants to leave 10am, I say lets not go at all cause she has to stay up late to study the night before.