Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Here’s the full story. A tl;dr is below if this is too long. About a month ago I was desperate for any attention/affection. I would do very risky and dumb things. But one specific moment is this one person who messaged me. They didn’t have any pfp (a huge red flag) but I was just hoping and wishing for the best result since she seemed interested in me 

And so I sent some pictures and said some very vile things because I don’t like saying no to people. After the nudes and flurry of role play messages passed, she revealed that this was a shared account. I thought it was a joke or something so I played along and stuff. But the next day during lunch I was told people were airdropped my nudes.

I was incredibly ashamed and scared because I don’t know how to handle this sort of stuff and the main guy (let’s call him Dave) kept harassing me about it for about a month. Then the 20th came. I had a failed suicide attempt because of the constant harassment (I used nutmeg because I heard it could cause death)
 
When school started again (winter break) I didn’t hear much from him until yesterday when I heard from a friend that my nude was uploaded to a spam account. I was embarrassed so I requested to go home early. When this happened I started looking up if I could file a case about this or get him arrested for distributing CP. 

Then comes today. I was already feeling like shit so I couldn’t handle much. When 5th period came I wanted to use the elevator to go up to my class but when I walked in, I noticed the two people who are mainly causing me trouble (Dave and the girl who’s account he used). They started loudly announcing that my ass was “ugly” and that my dick was “flexible” . Other people were in the elevator and I couldn’t handle this constant shit so I just walked up the stairs to my class

I started crying because it was too much for me at the time. My friend noticed and when class ended he came up to me and asked to talk. I told him that after I get myself together I’ll talk to him. I then saw Dave and had the idea to confront him about it and ask him to stop. Most likely not the brightest idea. I told him to stop talking about me and he claimed he didn’t do it even though I have evidence. After that ordeal I felt so angry and depressed that I made a post saying “you people need to leave me alone. Stop spreading shit about me”. I walked up to my friend and I told my friend to go into the bathroom with me and then I broke down in front of him saying that I am trying to ignore him but that he keeps getting bolder and more creative with this shit. He told me to go to the social worker and that’s what I did.

When I was there I told her everything but not saying I gave out nudes but saying “I did something shameful that I am not ready to talk about with the school yet. I will tell you what exactly happened on Monday” they understood and said I didn’t have to specify right now if I didn’t feel comfortable. We then talked about all of the things bothering me here. They called my mom and I left.

When I got to my grandmas house (we were picking something up) I told my mom all of the details about what happened. She recommended that I take this to the court of law, which I’ll begrudginglydo. About 30 or so minutes later I got a message from one of my ‘friends’.  She asked what was wrong and since we were cool I told her what happened. She then proceeded to tell Dave that I messaged her about this and he messaged me saying he was sorry and not to do this.

I told him I don’t forgive him and that we’ll deal with this when I talk to the Vice Principal or the police. He then swore up and down that he didn’t spread this stuff and that I was wrong. I told him that we’ll see. He then sent me a wall of messages begging me not to do it and that he’s innocent. I ignored and blocked him. 

The ‘friend’ that messaged me saying that it’s my fault that I sent it and that I’ll be an asshole for getting the police and the school involved. I left her on read because i didn’t know what to say, as I wasn’t sure how to react to this.


**tl;dr** A shared account catfished me and spread my nudes across my school. When I brought it to the main guy who did this attention he said he didn’t do it even though I have proof. I was also told by a ‘friend’ of mine that she thinks it all my fault and that I shouldn’t talk to the Vice Principal or go through with a lawsuit that I am planning to file.


**AITA** for proceeding to file a lawsuit for this? I just need to know before I go through with it and I need to make sure that I am mostly in the right, since he technically he spread CP and that’s a crime and a breach of privacy. At least I think it is. I don’t wanna be another one of those frivolous cases that America has so much of. 


