Is EVERYBODY wrong in the post ? POST : Hi,


I wanted to start off by saying that me and my wife are expecting a child. She is 37 weeks pregnant right now. 


We bought the house from my father and are currently renovating and cleaning it. He's still living here for another 2 years as part of the agreement. It's been his house since it was built in 1992. He's been the sole owner since that time up until recently. 


My wife is with maternity leave and making sure everything is ready for our baby. I go to school and work after. I'm only home in the evenings. She's been cleaning the entire house. She constantly complains to me that there's black mold everywhere and things haven't been cleaned for what looks like years. 


I asked my dad a few times when the last time he cleaned certains items was. He said he didn't clean the top level of the house EVER. Certain other things too such as window frames and doors. There's mold literally on every window frame. 


Today, I come home to find my 37 weeks pregnant wife on her knees scrubbing the house. She's in pain and complaining about the mold. My father however is only interested in where his newspaper is. Turns out my wife used it to paint something on. He is pissy about it.


So I tell him how she's on her knees cleaning the shit he never did and that he can stick the newspaper up his ass. I go off about how he let mold grow for 25 years and never once lifted a finger to clean it, and now my wife has to do it and he just watches her and doesn't try to help at all. I find him very disrespectful and I lost my temper. I shouldn't have yelled or said the things I did but I don't know if I'm in the wrong here. 

AITA for being pissed? 