So in school there is this girl who's life mission is to make me annoyed (which fun fact is REALLY easy) so whenever she does annoy me I ask her to stop (she does not) which eventually ends up with me insulting her some way or another. Sonetimes I must admit I go little over board my telling her to die (which is bad enough but she told everyone that I told her to go die IN A HOLE when I did not) now with no examples on her bullying you probably think I'm the asshole so allow me to give a list of some of the things she's done
Made fun of the way I say my r's 
Falsely accused me of multiple things including telling her to die in a hole AS WELL as saying I called her stupid (I probably have recently but at the time she said it I hadn't) AND that I told her friend to kill her self (I would never)
She makes fun of the name I chose for my confirmation
And just tapping her pencils against the desk to annoy me
So I have called her out for being a bully HOWEVER she says I'M the bully
So i ask you reddit am I the asshole?