Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : My boyfriend works from midnight to 6am. So it’s a night shift. I’m up usually at like 11 am on my off days, but when I’m in classes I’ll wake up at 5am and leave straight away. I normally try to wake him at 5-6pm. But lately he’s been getting to bed later and later till like 1pm. So hes been trying to sleep in later and later as well until lately where he’s been waking up at 8:30pm. This bugs me because he’s not actively trying to sleep when he’s been staying up, he’s been watching a tv show or playing a video game in bed (which he says is the best way for him to fall asleep). 

We’ve had multiple conversations where we both agree that him going to bed at 9am and sleeping till 5pm would work, but it feels like he doesn’t try to work to maintain that sleep schedule. He’s been working really hard at his job and so he barely gets any time off (overtime on Fridays and 12hr shift on Sunday nights) so he tries to spend his morning playing games and stuff and he’s been out playing until like 11 am lately not even trying to sleep but he says he’s not tired at all so he can’t. Like I understand that he wants to spend his off time having fun, I’m an avid gamer myself, but he does it in the morning when he could be sleeping. I’d rather he played after he woke up when we could play together. I’m just so conflicted because I understand he needs his sleep but he needs to wake up earlier otherwise he’ll keep sleeping later and later. If he kept waking up at 6pm then he WOULD be tired by the next day. But he insists on sleeping in. 

I get frustrated because with him staying up because it feels like I get no time with him when we’re both up then. He’s just alone while I’m sleeping and then I’m alone when he’s sleeping. I am fine with that until 5-6 but it gets frustrating when I’m waiting till 8pm or even 9pm for him to wake up. 

Am I the asshole for being mad that he’s sleeping in all the time? 

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