Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : So some context, I'm 16M Asian, Hmong to be specific, but anyways my dad has a history of cheating on my mom, (he has done it twice) and he tends to be verbally abusive when drunk. (also kinda alcoholic) The reason why he's currently in jail is because he was caught transporting weed a while back.

When my dad first cheated he did it while drunk, even though at the time I was around 6 years old I understood that he was in the wrong. Then the second time I was about 11 years old I went on a fishing/camping trip with my dad, and a few of his friends, and on a late night I woke up to my dad drinking with his buddies bragging how he had a Thai girl, (IDK why but OG Hmong peeps like young Thai chicks) and he ended calling her, that's where my hate for him began to build up. (BTW I didn't tell my mom yet because at the time I felt that this would break my home.)

Fast forward to the next summer threw a party with his friends, and decided to invite the chick over when my mom wasn't home (college class), and he was showing her around the house, and this made me livid, but I didn't do anything because I was too scared of my dad when he's drunk. (btw he never hit me, but he was loud and threatening) 

Then that Fall he was arrested for possession of more weed. (he was the supply) But a few days pass he got out, and my parents went out for their anniversary. 
Then shit hit the fan, the Thai chick approached my mom and dad on their date they got into a drunken argument that night. Then a 3 month period where they would be drunk when I got home from school, and just argue nearly every day ensued. This time period fucked me up pretty bad.

Fast forward to the past year my dad would get super wasted almost every weekend and even the weekdays when he knew he had a job to go to. He's also thinks he's the shit that all the other people respect him for being able to drink the most.

Then fairly recently, about 2 months ago. I got into a big argument with my dad because he would constantly guilt trip me about how much he loved me, and that I need to do more chores of which I already do. Then recently he was arrested because there was a warrant.

Tl;DR don't feel bad for my dad in to jail because he's a cheat, and verbally abusive

 Sorry if the this post is shite, it's the first thing I have ever posted on Reddit besides a shitty meme