So I belong to an organization at school and know plenty of people there. We have our own “families” with people we share interests or whatever based on a survey. Anyways, I have a big “sister” and brother, some siblings and my own little. The big “sister” I was assigned last year has always treated me differently. I’ve always tried to be nice but she always condescends me or argues.

For example, these guys who are her friends did something then I did the same thing and she said what I did was childish and she also said I shouldn’t do it. There was a time she yelled at me because someone outside was smoking and I told her to close the window and also said who cares when she wanted to report him. Apparently it’s against the lease to smoke outside of your house? But this girl supplies alcohol and there’s people under 21 so I’m sure that’s MORE illegal. She does lots of computer science and talks shit about her co workers or other classmates in class like, “oh they never do anything” or she complained how people send short resumes to where she works on campus yet I’ve applied before and the place to put your resume has a small space to type in


When I’ve asked her questions she responds like, “yeah...” and gives me that look people give when you think they just asked the dumbest question ever. Anyways, she hates me, she’s turned this one girl I liked against me. I don’t know WHY she hates me, I’ve tried telling her sorry before and talk but she shuts me down. I can’t NOT be around her, we have family nights at my house since my roommate is in the same fam so sometimes I have no choice.

Idk what to do, but honestly, maybe I’m sexist but if a dude talked to me the way she did, they’d be getting into a fight. I wanna call her out or something but I don’t want people to be mad at me. She’s totally fine with most people except me. 

Never knew why and it’s like I wanna give her a reason to hate me now. If I call her out or start being a dick then at least she’d HAVE a reason to hate me. 