My spouse and I just had a serious talk about divorce after tip toeing around it recently. They told me about a month ago they were 50/50 leaving me then a few days later said were not ready to end it yet. Slowly over the last month I’ve came to believe that their mind was already made up and approached them about it today. They said that wasn’t their plan and apologized. We both now agree the marriage won’t work and is headed for divorce. They currently have a conditional green card based on their marriage to me. I did some brief research and it looks like divorce will not help their case for permanent status but as long as the marriage wasn’t a sham they should still be fine. They start talking about staying together just so they can get their immigration status and I said no way. They made the point that it would help me with finances. It’s true that it would be tough without them but I can do it. They start saying stuff like remember the good times, don’t I trust them, and that they would do it for me etc etc. I’m pissed that they would even suggest we pretend to still be married for another year. Am I being selfish? They said they couldn’t believe I didn’t at least sleep on it. Am I wrong to be so quick and stubborn on my stance? AITA?