Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : I (28M) have known both women, we'll call them Amy(25) and Betty (25) for about six years. I used to have a thing for Amy when we first met, but nothing ever really came of it and we became really good friends. 

Betty and I dated for about half a year about four years ago, and separated due to her moving away to another state. We got back together about two years ago, and have since gotten married and had a beautiful son together.

Ever since Betty and I had gotten back together I don't really talk to Amy anymore. We maybe text each other a few times a month just to kinda keep in touch. Amy also lives in a different state than us.

My wife has always had a grudge against Amy even before we started dating though. They know each other, and Amy wasn't always the nicest person to my wife. Me and Amy remained close over the years. I even went to visit her a few times over the years when Betty and I weren't together. Amy and I also got matching tattoos together one of the times that I went to visit her.

My wife has said that she was okay with me talking to her now, but in the past she didn't want me to talk to her at all. I've always respected her opinion and always wanted to put our relationship first. I still feel she is uneasy about any communication I have with Amy, due to the fact that I had strong feelings for Amy in the past, and that we remained close all these years even when me and Betty weren't together.

So Reddit, am I the asshole?

