Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : So this happened several years ago when I was in college. I think it’s kind of cringey/funny to look back and think about but I still wonder if I was a Grade A Asshole.

I was in a class with one of the friends of a guy I’d hooked up with a couple times (let’s call ex-hookup A, friend in class B). I was really into A but it never went anywhere and kind of fizzled out. I was upset but whatever, shit happens.

However, B kind of started showing an interest in me and I was like fuck it, he’s kind of attractive and if it happens to weird out A then that’s just a bonus. So B and I plan to “work on an assignment together” at his place (I actually DID want to work on the assignment for at least a bit but he didn’t lol). 

The whole time I’m at his place trying to get a bit of work done and he keeps saying stuff like, “Yeah, A is a total stoner and never does shit with his life” (even though B was telling me this while smoking a fat joint) and “I definitely could’ve gotten into XYZ frat, I know so many of the guys there” and just dumb shit I didn’t care about. Finally I resign to the fact that I’m not gonna get any work done so he offers me some of the joint and I take it. We got pretty high and decided to watch Django Unchained (again, I actually wanted to watch this but I later found out was not the case with him lol) and not even 10 minutes into the beginning he goes for the kiss. Except it was a really fucking bad kiss. Like, his entire lips engulfed my mouth. Whatever, maybe he like slipped or something.

We take it to his bedroom and he is still just doing a terrible job kissing. By now I’m like high as a kite and kind of just trying to get into it but I just couldn’t. I think he was *trying* to suck on my lower lip in a sexy way but it ended up being a big swollen bruise the next day. It was like making out with one of a Kraken’s tentacles. Finally, I couldn’t take it anymore and told him, “Look, I’m not trying to be mean, but you’re kind of a bad kisser.” At the time I think it sounded ok because I was so fucking high but he obviously did not take it well, told me he wasn’t hard anymore, and ended up driving me home. I told my friends what happened and while they thought it was hilarious they definitely said I was in the wrong. I did end up texting him apologizing for “being bitchy” because I was high but I literally never spoke to him or even made eye contact him again, even though we were in a very small class for the rest of the semester.

So, WITA for telling him that he sucked (pun kind of intended) at kissing?