Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : I have some leaders at church that I have over heard call me "worthless", "loser", "cocksucker", etc. We ended up meeting about it because it was complete bullshit that someone in charge was talking about a member like that. He never apologized (after I wrote him a page long paper apologizing for anything I might have done) because "he likes me as a leader but doesn't care about me as a person" and it was my fault for listening to him talk about me. 

This has been months and the pattern has been the same. But every time he sees me he wants to shake my hand and act like we're good friends. I try to keep conversations to a minimal but I want to just tell him we're not going to be fake because it's immature. Should I act like I like him too?