Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : AITA? We have hit some very rough patches and I'm going through my own stuff with addiction and trying to stay sober. I don't know what I would do with a child at this point and I am questioning the relationship a little bit. I'm especially now extremely weary of what life would be like if I had a kid with some one that I'm not sure I even want to spend the rest of my life with. So, after a year+ of the pullout method I explained all of this to her and demanded that she either go on the pill, we use condoms, or we don't have sex. 

She acted like she understood the whole rough patch thing and didn't seem to be upset by any of that. I explained that I didn't know what direction our relationship was headed in, but that I'm willing to try to work things out between us.

The thing that made her upset was: "the pullout method has worked for us until now".

She acted like condoms would just be a drag and she claims she can't go on the pill because of having PCOS and because it "messes with her hormones." AITA?