Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : My girlfriend and I have been together for 9 month. About 1 month ago her ex boyfriend died of a drug over dose. I never met the guy and I only know about him from what my girlfriend said about him. Basically they had been friends for years (since their freshman year in college) because they were in the same small program and dated for about 2 years before they broke u. They had been broken up for 2 months when we started dating. 

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Apparently he had issues with drugs for a long time but she thought he was clean when they started dating but then he started them again during their relationship. Initially she tried to be supportive and help him through the addiction and help him get sober but it was too much strain on the relationship and he started becoming emotionally abusive so they eventually broke up. She kind of a goody two shoes type girl who is super studious, who doesn't even party much and it kinda seems this guy was her "bad boy phase." Again I've never met the guy, this was just the impression I got from him. 

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Anyway he sadly died 1 month ago from an accidental overdose and my girlfriend was devastated. His parent invited her to the funeral which I thought was a bit odd but I was supportive of her going. It seems she blames herself partly for his death. 

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HoweverI am getting annoyed at some of the things she keeps doing she has posted 5 pictures of him on her instagram since his death. I get she was mourning but I don't think all mourning has to be pubic on social media and that was even more pictures that we have together on her social media. I think it unnecessary and disrespectful to me. I told her this bothers me and she kind of brushed it off and acted like I was over reacting but said she would stop. 

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Then yesterday i found out she got a tattoo of a guitar with his initials on it. The tattoo i about 4 inches long.   Her ex was an avid guitar player. Obviously I was really mad. She didn't even consult me or check with me if it was okay and just got a permanent reminder of her ex on her body. This obviously wasn't a spur of the moment decision either.She only has one other tattoo which honours her late grandmother and her own parents hate tattoos and were mad she got that one. I confronted her and told her she obviously has no respect four relationship about it and she said it's her body and she didn't think she needed to consult me and I was acting like a controlling asshole and acting jealous of someone who was dead.  

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AITA here? 