To preface, this was after church (I’m not Christian but act like I am) and just my mother and I were on our way to lunch with the family. 

The topic goes to this 12 year old girl at church. My mother just goes on an on saying that she is ugly and has a weird face, for about two or three minutes. I 17M, finally have had enough and tell her that judging a 12 year old kid about their looks is rude and something that should remain unsaid. Now, I will admit, that kid isn’t super good looking, but maybe I just think it doesn’t matter because I’m gay, but she is super nice usually. 

Well my mother got all upset at me and every time she said an opinion at lunch she would then say, “Oh wait, ntaylor7746 said I’m not allowed to have an opinion.” Am I the asshole for calling her, a grown ass 44 year old woman, put for talking shit about a child?