Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : On Sunday, my girlfriend said she wanted to surprise me with a gift at noon for today. She wouldn't tell me what the gift is so I assumed it was something like a card she wrote for me (our anniversary is coming up and she loves arts and crafts).

The next day, I accidentally spoiled a TV series for her that she was watching and she got mad at me. She texted me "Don't talk to me". I apologized, saying I didn't know she didn't get up to that part yet and she left me on seen. I think alright, she'll get over this later. She never responded back so I got petty for her ignoring me for something I didn't mean to do intentionally.

We had no contact since then (until today) and I thought she was still upset with me so I went out to grab lunch with my coworkers a little before noon. She messages me at noon, telling me she's downstairs and to pick up her gift for me. I told her I went out for food because I didn't think she would still pull through today because she was mad and ignored me. She told me to pick it up anyway.

I got my food to go, met up with her, and picked up my gift. I asked her what it was but she wouldn't tell me. She looked sad, which I assumed was because she thought I was upset with her (I was because she ignored me for 2 days). I hugged her and she started crying and that made me feel really bad but she told me it was ok and she left. I went back to work, ate my food, then looked at the gift (it was in a big bag) and found out that it was food for two. She planned on eating lunch with me but because she didn't tell me anything beforehand and I was being petty, I ended up eating my own lunch before opening her gift and finding out it was food for the both of us.

I feel terrible because she was probably looking forward to it today but she ended up leaving sad and hungry. AITA for eating my own lunch because she didn't specify she got me food as a gift?