Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : My friends and I are going away to the lake for the weekend and the place we're staying at has a small boat. Once I told my friends the car I am driving (which is not mine and I am not insured to drive) has a tow bar they started celebrating how much fun it will be going boating. They never explicitly asked me if I was happy to drive the boat down and back it into the water, they just assumed because I had a tow bar that I would do it.

I have never backed a trailer or driven with one before, let alone backed one into the water with a boat on it, and I feel very uncomfortable doing it for the first time this weekend. No one else has ever done it, or knows how to drive with a trailer. I am not interested in taking the risks of being the one liable for any costs or damages when I do not believe they will be willing to pay if the boat is damaged. I don't think going on the boat will make or break the weekend.

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I feel very bad for letting them down but its just who I am for being nervous about the risks of something like this. But I thought I'd find some more guidance here since I'm not sure if I'm being reasonable or not.

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So reddit- AITA?