Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : To give you some background, I am 17 and I live with my Mum. My older brother is 19 and lives in my Dad's apartment (Dad not currently in town.) Because of unpaid rent, my brother will get evicted and have to find somewhere to live.  He could call our Dad and find another place, but I doubt he will be much help. So my mother feels bad and wants him to live with us. I would honestly not mind it, but I despise how my brother acts.

He used to have a medical condition and I used to sometimes look after him. He treated me with belittlement and entitlement ever since. He always thought I was inferior to him and owed him something. I could've ignored him instead of spending hours every day tending to his needs. But after all I did for him for years, he was never grateful or thankful for anything I did. I only did it because I truly cared for him.

My brother is also a slob and a high school dropout. He acts like a king and expects to be treated as such. He gets me in trouble because he always takes things personally, especially jokes. Because of his condition, he got a free pass for every thing he did. He is spoiled and a Daddy's boy as well. My brother is just a useless prick with no job or direction in life. Last time I saw him months ago, he almost started a physical fight with me. I can tell that he hates me and does not care.

And now I am supposed to welcome him with open arms into my house and once again have to put with his shit. Fuck that. My home is where I am comfortable and in peace, I will not have that taken away. But my Mum probably thinks I am heartless because I don't want anything to do with him. But she has also not seen what I have seen.

So am I the asshole for not helping him out? I know that he is my brother and all, but I just can't do it.