Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : A little info: At the time I was working 2 jobs, going to college, and renting a room when a hurricane hit my city. 

Queue the story: so I throw some hints and the store was able to open I ended up spending too 200 my dollars going and getting kids: toys, canned foods, diapers etc I luckily at a discount store for which I worked so I was even able to afford to get some people blankets.  

Our regulars came in tears and I hugged each one and talked to as many as I could. Inevitably some 30 year old lady came up to me trying to start a conversation. She said something along the lines of" oh, I'm so miserable I have to live an a hotel room my 6 bedroom house is gone. Oh and my husband is keeping all the money so I can barely spend on myself. I cant even get gas money for my cars."

I did genuinely feel bad but for her not too bad since many people had lost family, homes, cars, without electricity, and many had to relocate to homeless shelter so not too bad. I said I was sorry to hear that and kept working and being as nice as possible to the regulars whom wanted to chat or needed battery powered heaters and basic necessity. When she began having her own pity party . Following me around the store wallowing for 10 minutes.  When she said this. "Ugh I am so poor I don't even know what to do. My life, my home and that stupid hotel. I told my husband we should have bought another house ." I was furious that this lady would keep on complaining and I stopped working made eye contact and told her " You know what lady, I understand your upset but at least you had the opportunity to live such a lavish life style. Some people don't every appreciate what they have while other wont ever even get that chance. " while I walked away she started crying in the middle of the aisle and complained to my manager. But he know how badly I had it and how I didn't even have electricity myself.

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Am I the asshole? Bc I still feel bad.