Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : 
So for a little context I work 23 hours from the town my wife refuses to leave. 4 weeks working 2 weeks off. We have two kids 10 and 8 plus one on the way. 

I make pretty good money, so when I took this job we sat down and talked about her staying at home because she would have to  Cook, clean, care for the kids. All by herself. She said of course and was excited.

So at the beginning of this week she tells me she is pregnant. Sweet. Right.

On thrusday I work from 330am until 5pm then jump in my car and drive 23 hours straight. 

I dont expect much from her given that she has morning sickness and normal pregnancy issues.  I get home home exhausted but willing to watch the kids I mean they r old enough it isnt much to ask. Plus it is almost dinner time. 
She then gathers up her purse and claims she needs to get some craft crap for our daughter. Then tells me to make dinner. At this point I take stock of the apartment and clothes are everywhere. My son's room has a pile of clean clothes on the floor, she left them. The dishes haven't been done. Basically it is not a shit show but it is working on it. 

I said screw it made dinner and did the dishes. (Still haven't slept yet) she gets home and I let her have it. She claims I am being an ass cause I am gone. I called her a name that I regret, but she could have just moved with me to my job. Where I want her to be anyway, so I can help her out. 

So AITA


Tldr, came home from working out of town, SAHM didnt clean anything I called her a lazy female dog. 