Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : I’m a stay at home mom, so my son is home with me always.  He stays with my Mom maybe once a week for 2-3 hours. He has toys there and plenty to play with for the short amount of time that he’s there. 

For the past two years every Christmas and birthday she wants to buy him toys or even clothing items to keep at her house. 

Example. 
His first birthday she bought him a Cozy Coupe car, he didn’t have one. She brought it to our house for him on his birthday and when she went to leave she was going to take it with her. He cried wanting it and I asked “Is that not a gift for him?” And she (grudgingly) left it. 

Last Christmas she bought him a power wheels 3-wheeler for Christmas and informed us that it was to stay at her house, along with a few other gifts. We just let it go because he didn’t ask to take it home. 

Now this year she wants to buy him a whole swing set for her house. He doesn’t even have one at home! It will be most of his Christmas, plus a few other toys that he doesn’t have that she says are for her house.  

This really seriously bothers me. They’re supposed to be his gifts! It would be like me buying her a new Keurig or something and saying “Oh, this is only for you to use at my house.”

I mean it kinda makes me mad, and my husband says to let it go because I sound ungrateful. 
I’m not ungrateful for the gifts, just that everything she buys him he only gets to play with maybe once a week and only at HER house. 

I want to tell her, but husband says I would be an ass hole. 

So...AITA for wanting my kid to have his gifts actually given to him? 


(On mobile. Formatted the best that I could.) 