Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : I’ve never met my father, he and my mom split when she was pregnant.  I tried to get to know him when I was around 13.  I got his address off one of the child support checks that was mailed and wrote this long letter to him asking about him and telling him about myself.  After that the mail started coming from a female’s first name and his last, I’m assuming his wife.  I took the hint and tried my best to close off that curiosity and feelings.  

I’m 34 now.  Recently my grandma got mailed a letter addressed to me.  It was from a half sibling from my father’s side of the family.  The gist was I have 4 half siblings and they’ve been curious about me ever since first learning about me.  I can see the irony or hypocrisy that I was hurt when my letter of wanting to get to know my father was ignored and basically doing the same thing to them, but I closed myself off to that side of the family 20 years ago and I really have no interest in getting to know them. 