Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : I have developed depression due to some severe traumatic experiences I went through since our marriage over a year ago. We live long distance (oceans apart) due to having financial problems which contributes a lot to my said depression. My husband doesn’t give me proper timing and always prioritizes his friends. He usually isn’t the one being loving and caring either. Usually I have to initiate things for him to even say anything. But he tells me hes more of an action man than words and can’t do much since we are apart. Anyways, I told him yesterday about an argument I had with my sister which really triggered self-hatred and sensitive feeling in me to which he was talking to me for about half an hour and said that we will talk later. 

Que 12 hours later and I’m still waiting to talk to him since I do not discuss these things with anyone else. He knew I was waiting and got really upset at him when he finally called because I wanted some of his time and that he should have been there for me. He went to sleep as I was talking to him on the phone and I started to cry which woke him and he got angry and told me to go find someone else to bother and hung up the phone. I know sometimes it can be too much to have someone be wanting your attention. But he is the only person if I speak to him I feel better. Am I an asshole for demanding him to be there for me when I have an episode like this? 