Throwaway account because my boyfriend knows my main one.

It snowed a whole lot where we are last night and the roads were super scary and bad. I picked my boyfriend up and brought him to my apartment. He had a bag so he was sleeping over, a nice surprise. I told him that I would not drive him to work in the morning because I did not expect the roads to clear up and it was very scary driving to pick him up. There is a bus stop two or three blocks from my apt that he could take directly to work.

Next day: He leaves to go to the bus stop and when he sees the streets he immediately snapchats me that I am an ass for not driving him because the streets are fine (which I did not know). He gets to the bus stop and asks me to drive him because the bus won't be there for another 10 minutes or so. I am mildly sick and he was already at the bus stop so I said no, that I would probably get to him at the same time as the bus anyway.

So he's all mad at me now for not driving him and I'm mad at him for being mad at me because I do not owe him rides, he should plan better to get to his job, and he called me an ass without apologizing. His unwillingness to forgive me has me wondering...Am I the asshole?