Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : To save some people some reading here's a TLDR;

Former Ex asked to be brought to a party while in town visiting and hooks up with one of my friends while he was drunk.

  


Long Boring Story:

We dated for a while but ended it as she moved out of town. Long story short we still talked a bit but nothing more than friends. Some time later she comes to town to visit (this was highschool so things are a bit less exciting) and asks for me to take her to a party as she didn't really keep contact with anyone.

I agree and fast forward to the party I'm having a good time socializing with friends and whatnot, but since I brought her I hadn't seen her since we walked in door. Chalking it up to the party being large I paid it no mind, and stayed mostly sober seeing as I was DD that night.

On the other hand, the other friends I had were much more intoxicated and eventually breaks off from the group. Long story short she was sober and he was drunk when they went and hooked up in my car. I'm aware of this and keep my cool for the most part, and when we leave to hop to the next party I leave the drunk friend behind, however petty it may have been.

The rest of the night goes off without a hitch, and the next day I get a few texts from him apologizing and I respect it.

On the other hand the girl texted me that same night first claiming she was disgusted with my drunk friends. Then moved on to claim she was drunk as well at the time (though she drove her and a friend to and from the party).

After not responding o get another flurry of texts from her then her friend ranging from excuses such as the drunk example, to eventually calling me an asshole as she had driven 4 hours from her home town and now she wouldn't be able to go to any more parties in that time.

Needless to say I stopped contact with her from that point on, but after discussing it with other peers later in life I always wondered if I overreacted in completely cutting off contact, or if there was more blame to be shifted to my drunk friend (of whom I still know and am in contact with).