So my girlfriend of 2.67 years and I both go to the same college and until recebtly we were both RAs, I graduated last year but due to some unforeseen classes and requirements I was going to have to take another 1-2 years to complete my second major. I also learned that this would cost me $50,000-$60,000. I didn't think I could afford this (it would be more than the first four years combined) so I decided to transfer to a cheaper school to complete my certification, but I'm still taking 3 classes at my first school for prerequisites. 

Also, I was promoted to head RA at the end of last year, but since living on campus would cost me $15,000 I believed it was best to quit that job, move home with my dad, and work full time at my other job.  

The issue comes with my relationship, because I'm now living and working 30 minutes away, I don't get to see my girlfriend a lot. I still go down every day and we will often spend a few hours together most week days, and saturday but all semester she has often brought up how I ditched her or abandoned her or "chose money over our relationship" and I do understand that not seeing each other as much as we used to is hard and frustrating but I also don't feel like I made an unreasonable or ridiculous decision in moving home. 

She also gets upset whenever I have free time that I have to use doing things like cleaning up my room (everything is just strewn everywhere and there are piles of my stuff from when I moved) or spending time with my dad, when I could be spending it with her, although I do kinda understand as there is not much time for her and I to be together and that's all she really wants. But she often attacks me and says that I'm an asshole for the choice that I made.