Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : For context, we've been together for over two years. I adore this man. He's so loving, caring and overall amazing. Unfortunately, he has a major fault, though: his spine is rubber when it comes to himself and Mommy dearest. He'll make a very visible effort to stand up to her miserable ass if she fucks with me, but he will forgive her any trespass.

When we first started dating almost a year after my abusive parents threw me out his mother started sending me nasty texts calling me a whore for stealing her baby (who I might add was 27 years old, 8 older than me). I showed them to him, and he threatened her to move out if she didn't stop. She left me in peace for a few months then sent another...And the cycle repeated even after he moved in with me.

I should have known something was up with the bitch then, but our lease ran out, we had nowhere safe to go and she, FIL having just remodeled their house, insisted that they'd built a room for us to move in and we could bring the dogs. Hoo boy, was that a bad decision. Since moving in, she's screamed multiple times at my fiance that I'm useless, to "make me" do things, telling him to "control your whore", complained that he "lets me walk all over him" but he doesn't let her do it (!), told me I should stop working because my job only benefits me and my dogs, physically assaulted me for correcting my dog while she abuses hers, asked my fiance constantly to buy groceries and other shit for her while complaining that we "spend too much" on OUR dogs, taken MY dogs out to show off to her friends against MY instructions and called me names when I told her off for it, actively undermined my dogs' training by uncrating them when told specifically not to or by physically restraining them when I called them to me, tried to get my mother to FORCE me to birth a child to GIVE to her, fed my smaller dogs shit they're allergic to, allowed BIL to raise hands, threaten and insult me, taken me aside for "talks" where she tells me I can't love my fiance because I "don't do enough" for him (I work twice as many hours as he does, he helps me and her out tremendously around the house) or that I'm disrespecting him by not having children...when we aren't married yet, are still struggling to build our lives AND agreed before dating we'd be CF...And so much more.

He's been super supportive of me. I now make more than he does, and we share everything equally. But for a long time when I was out of work he supported me and our furry children with never a word of complaint. He won't go to the doctor without a lot of urging when he needs to, but if he's even slightly concerned about me off he goes right away. We've agreed to share everything, yet he will tell me to take any money I need from his earnings, while he ALWAYS asks before taking anything from my earnings even though I've told him he doesn't need to. He doesn't fully understand mental issues, having been raised in a family where they taught him (and still do) that mental illness is shameful, women should submit to and serve men, and that you "can't" be depressed if you don't have a "reason" to be. (Hell, his brother and mother tell him he's a "faggot" and "not a man" because he protects me from them and never makes me do anything I don't want to. He knows I have food related anxiety, and while he doesn't understand it, he knows I often don't eat because of it, ESPECIALLY not with his family around; and he'll bring us both food to our room to ensure I eat. But I do wish he would say more to her than the occasional mumbled "shut up, mom" or "you can't say anything because you don't take care of your own dogs". When she's going off bitching about me very loudly I might add, he'll ignore her or try to placate her. I know he wants to avoid trouble, but AITA for wishing he would tell that bitch to shut the fuck up and stop referring to his partner in that way?

The kicker came last Saturday. The bitch was annoyed we weren't cleaning up fast enough for her liking, so she OPENED THE YARD GATE and just stood there like a fucking idiot letting my husky run out into the street! SO and I ran after her and the stupid old hag continued to stand there. The only reason I didn't elbow her in the ugly bulldog face as I ran past was because I was too afraid she'd grab me and not let me catch my baby who was halfway to the busy avenue that's only a block away. Now I couldn't say if my Weim pushed her way out on her own, but I doubt it because as I ran out I remember distinctly that her crate was closed; and while we ran after the husky the weim also ran out the gate and went straight for us thinking we were playing. Luckily we caught both of them unharmed, and by the time we got back my Monster in law had closed the gate and gone inside. 

My fiance loves our husky. We raised her from a puppy and she is one of his favorites. As annoyed as I'd ever seen him with her, he told her this is why nobody wants her around and she responded with a low blow at me, saying my parents threw me out because I'm a terrible person and they didn't want me. I saw red and I fired back she should thank her lucky stars my baby wasn't hurt or her ass would not see daylight again. She screamed back that I'm a "pendeja" and that "it's her house and she will throw my dogs out onto the street if I don't want to clean up after them". Mind, SO and I were both exhausted and there was ONE poop in the corner. ONE. We clean at least three times a day...she lets her own dogs fester in piss and shit and NEVER cleans so he has to do it for her. Of course I told her exactly what I thought of her irresponsible ass. Even my fiance temporarily went from "she won't do anything, take the dogs to pee and play in the yard" to "I'm going to look for a house for us to buy, keep the dogs' crates and our room locked when we aren't around". I say temporarily, because he now says she does what she does and doesn't clean her own dogs because she's "getting older" and "it's just how she is" and he "talked to her so it won't happen as long as we clean".

I told him exactly what I thought of that. I told him my grandma who died of cancer at 84, over 25 years older than this bitch, still took excellent care of HER dogs and never pulled shit like this. I reminded her how he talked to her before and always said she'd never do this and now she just did. He went silent and promised me we're leaving ASAP. He also agreed to go to therapy with me, but I can tell he's still in denial that his mother could do something like that. (Might I add he was sexually abused as a child. I don't know who did it, but his mother's entire attitude is making me think it was she. Urgh.) 

I haven't spoken to the bitch since. I don't greet her when I walk in the door after work, I don't even look at her if I can help it. I would love to give her a good smack upside the head. I hate her with a passion. And I told my fiance straight up that she's a sack of shit who makes me feel like a trapped animal and I wish I were free of her right now. I don't feel it any less intensely, but I feel bad because I know he loves me and also has some trauma bonding with her and I know firsthand how difficult it is when you realize that your birth giver is a steaming puddle of slimy frothy diarrhea.

AITA for saying this to him and secretly wishing the woman would just disappear or die already?