Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : I've been talking to this girl for a while and we both like each other. Her ex has contacted her recently and been asking to call her, she asked how I would feel about them talking on the phone and assured me she doesn't have feelings for him anymore. I told her that it's her life and I have no right to tell her who to talk to but that I wouldn't be comfortable with it and she got mad. Am I the asshole?