Is EVERYBODY wrong in the post ? POST : This is mostly sex based, and probably childish also, but he always seems to think I'm picking on him and I suppose in a way I am but I don't know if it's wrong of me because he won't listen when I try to bring up the real issue.

He essentially treats me like an object. Constantly making comments about how I'm "so hormonal" and how I'm being a "typical woman". If I'm doing something he dislikes or get an attitude he'll tell me to stop because it's not attractive. I find this rude but he says it's what older men do, he's 38. I'm much younger. 

He also mistreats me during sex. I can repeatedly and very sternly tell him I don't want something, the word no being important here, and he (non-aggressively) makes it happen or whines and begs until I give in. If something is hurting me he claims that the faces I make are unattractive and I need to stop behaving like a child.

To combat this, because he won't talk with me about it, I often make rather cocky remarks about things he does. This morning he was on the phone with his boss and was complaining about something his boss was telling him he could not do. I said "you don't seem to have a problem forcing other people into things, what's the deal with him" and he gave me a nasty glare.
If he mentions my "hormonal female typicality" I tend to be quite mean and say "so your mother is just as useless as me considering she's female too". 

Tl;dr: My boyfriend is mean to me often and he won't talk about it so I pick on him instead. 
