Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : My SO brought up that his alone time feels like a "privilege" now that I've moved in (he invited me). The moment he made that comment using those particular set of words, I got triggered.

He has mentioned multiple times that his ex never gave him his space. She wanted to see him every night and wanted to go wherever he wanted to go. So much so that she integrated into his main group of friends and remained even though they broke up.

So I have been very mindful of this. We don't eat dinner together every day, he has his poker night once a fortnight, watches the game at a pub once a week during the season, goes on a boys trip once every quarter, and plays video games 3-4 times a week. Sometimes I go home to sleep at my parents (about once a week). I also spend time alone in the living room while he's gaming, and I watch Netflix, do some work, etc.

So when he said that getting alone time is like a privilege now, I was extremely hurt because I feel like I've given him a lot of space. Granted, last week I was a bit uncomfortable about he frequency of his gaming because he just picked up a new game. Last week, he went to an internet café with his friends until 2am. And within the same week, he started a game right after he got back from work and before we were due to go out for a movie, and he neglected to prepare his own dinner or feed the dogs (this is a one time occurance and his dogs are generally well taken care of) or and once, while I was thinking of my next move in Scrabble. Sure, maybe I made a face or comment expressing my displeasure but I curbed it because I know this isn't such a huge problem - not yet anyway. But he was unhappy with the way I'm handling his new gaming habits.

I burst into tears and he immediately said he can't even given me constructive criticism without it turning into an emotional shitshow. This I don't deny - my parents are hypercritical and I'm extremely sensitive to criticism. But I also feel like this is the one area I was consciously putting a lot of effort in and I was just so upset that my efforts weren't enough. I seriously don't know what else I can do anymore.

So...AITA?