Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : My gf(19) and (M22)I have been dating for about a year and a half. Yesterday we were having a normal conversation while cuddling and she asked if I look at other girls butts at the gym. I told her I do but only if they cross my path and I notice that they’re in shape. I told her I don’t seek out looking at other women but if they’re in front of me and cross my path I glance over.

Side note: I’m very into bodybuilding/powerlifting. I even look at other dudes in the gym but not in a homosexual sense. For ex: if a dude is lifting 405 lbs on the flat bench press for reps with good form I’ll look at their physique or if they’re squatting a super heavy weight I’ll look at them.

With all that said she got extremely pissed. I’ve never cheated, don’t want to cheat, or do anything with another.

Am I the asshole?