Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : My dream is to be in some sort of military service as a grunt/infantry my current plan is to a) join the FFL or b) join the USMC (yes I know there are many challenges I will have to face if I try either one of these options)

However my plan also involves cutting contact with my family as I have a strong dislike for almost all of everyone within my family due to

A) my extended family being a bunch of judgemental lazy assholes

B) my close family member who is insane and refuses to get help no matter how much I try to suggest it/convince her and almost every interaction devolves into a screaming match (I get that it’s not their fault but I can’t handle it anymore)

C) my other close family who just ignore my existence almost entirely (we do have okay interactions on the odd occasion)

The only people I enjoy hanging with are my mates, to me they’re more like family but we’re all kind off splitting off to do our own thing i.e uni, full time work ect ect so basically to me it feels like there’s there’s nothing for me here in my current situation as I’m currently just working a dead end job

I don’t plan on telling anyone my plans or when I’m leaving as I don’t want to have to deal with the shitstorm that’ll arise from it

There are a few members of my family who I really do care about though and those are the few people I really am sad about leaving behind but I hope to stay in contact with them after I leave 

P.s if this does come off as me seeking validation I apologise and that wasn’t my intention, I sincerely do want to know if you guys think this is a asshole move or not 