Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : My boyfriend “Nick” (25M) and I (23F) have been together almost five years now. Last year, I got pregnant, and while we were surprised and a bit worried, we decided to keep it. We told his mom “Sabrina” and my parents around 8 weeks in, with plans to announce to everyone else at 12 weeks. At 11 weeks, I had a miscarriage. It was extremely emotional, and happened on top of a bunch of super stressful stuff (we work at the same company and I got a promotion which meant transferring from Florida to NY, so we were temporarily long distance).  We were devastated and it didn’t help the rough patch we were in, so after a few weeks I ended up quitting my job, dumping him and moving back home to Philadelphia in a weird rom-com style “finding myself” move. During this time, Sabrina reached out to me to share a story of her own miscarriage and told me that she loved me and wanted to stay in touch, no matter what my relationship to Nick was. My mother was sympathetic of course but we aren’t really that close, and even though I was staying with her, she didn’t really know what to do with me and my mopey ass. 
Nick reached out to me two months after I left New York to let me know he was thinking of me and hoping I was doing alright - one thing led to another and I moved back in with him in our house in Florida and we’re talking about marriage. A few weeks ago, I realized I’d missed my period, took a test, and SURPRISE - five weeks along. Nick and I were overjoyed. We had a trip to Puerto Rico to visit Sabrina already planned, and while we were down there (I was 9-10 weeks along), Nick hinted that I was pregnant again at dinner with his mom, so I told her when she asked me about it after. 
On Valentine’s Day (13 weeks in),  Nick and I posted an announcement to social media to inform the rest of our friends and family. My mother doesn’t have social media, so I made sure to text her the announcement/photo, and also texted her that I was so grateful to her for letting me live at home with her while Nick and I were figuring stuff out. I would have called but she’s unable to get phone calls at work and I couldn’t remember what her schedule was that week. 
She called me a few hours later to say congratulations and then randomly asked if I’d told Sabrina yet. I was honest and said that we’d told her while we were in Puerto Rico. My mom was LIVID. She said that not only was it disrespectful to not tell her earlier than everyone on social media, but that it was doubly disrespectful to have told Sabrina before her. She accused me of playing favorites and then she said “Well, next time you and Nick have trouble being adults, you can go be a bum on Sabrina’s couch instead.” It was really hurtful, although I’m hoping she just said that out of anger. Nick doesn’t think I did anything wrong and he’s pissed at my mom (they have never liked each other). My dad says I should apologize to my mom. Nick told Sabrina about the incident (I wasn’t going to tell her about it) and she called me to tell me that my mom is an asshole. I want to believe I did everything right, but my mother seems really hurt. Am I the asshole? 