Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : My great-grandmother died about a month ago and they were having her cremated at a crematorium for the funeral. During the service, I noticed most of the other people in the room were crying or close to it, but I didn't want to, nor did I feel like I wanted to. My mum afterwards thought I was holding it in and wasn't happy about it, but I honestly didn't feel the need to cry at all. Am I the asshole?