Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : So TL;DR, this all deals with him and how he envisions his future, but I don't know how to word the title correctly.

Anyways, a background of myself is I'm in college rn with 6 classes and no free time to work. He is working a technically full-time job at a country club, doesn't want to go to college, and doesn't think about the way future. Both of us are the same age.

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Recently with my decision to switch colleges next year and possibly place myself in the Army after college, he hasn't been very supportive of this decision. He doesn't want me to go too far from him, and wants to at least hang out on the weekends (which I may not have any time to travel back). I've told him this whole plan and mentioned that maybe he should consider joining the military since they have many benefits and could possibly pay for college. His family is poor, his mom and dad are more of financial burdens than helpful towards him. He doesn't want to go into the military because he'd rather stay at his job rn and "move up the ladder". Plot twist is my mother works there too, for about 15 years now, and she's never been promoted to even a manager role. At the very least, I told him he should try to go to college in the future if he can, even if it was just a technical degree and work a stable, well-paying job for a while. 

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Issue is, he believes college is a scam and doesn't believe in the government being helpful, so he wouldn't want to support the military by joining. I have high aspirations, I want to be a pilot, work in the military for 20-30 years, and retire smoothly. But I almost feel like he is holding me back, since he would only be making $1000 a month max for the next 10 years. I don't know what else to do except try to look for someone who is on the same level as myself. I don't want to have a financial burden on myself, and plan on having kids within 10 years. 

So the big question here is, WIBTA for leaving my boyfriend (by the time I move to the new college) to find someone with higher aspirations? 