My husband and I have been together for going on 13 years. I've had 4 miscarriages and really want a baby. None were planned pregnancies, they just kind of happened. As far as we know the main reason the miscarriages happen is because I had an undiagnosed depression coupled with stress from my family crowding me with unwanted attention.

Now I'm on medication which has helped for the last 2 years with my depression and stress. My doctor believes if we try again we'd have a strong chance of making it through the pregnancy. 

Here is where the AITA part comes in; since my last miscarriage 2 years ago my father in law has been talking hard to my husband about how kids are awful and that it'll ruin out relationship and our way of life. NOW my husband doesn't want to try anymore unless I go with a sperm donor and make sure that when the child is born he doesn't have any chance of having to pay child support if he decides it's way too hard or our life isn't the same and decides to divorce me.

We got into a huge fight because he knew when he married me I wanted to someday have kids and now I'm 33 and time is flying by. We might have a fix for the miscarriages and even though the last one was the most horrible experience of my life, I really want to try again.  