Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : So I had been dating this guy for a few months. We shared a lot in common and made each other laugh. There were no major issues to speak of. Never had an argument or anything like that. We were both university students in the same city, and spent a lot of our time together in dorms snuggling under the covers, watching movies etc. Exam season was coming up and I decided it was best if I remove myself from distractions of the big city and go back to my hometown (two hundred miles away) to revise and study. I had been a bit of a party animal that year so I was quite worried about my prospects of passing the year. My BF, who stayed in the city, was a little bummed out that I would be gone for over a month, but made sure we had a good time the night before I left. 

We kept in contact everyday via fb and whatsapp. This started off fine, but after a couple weeks the conversation started to get a little tedious, which is natural I suppose. At around the same time, I also met another man at a bar in my hometown and we became further acquainted with each other. I am naturally a people person, so there was nothing out of the ordinary for me to make new guy friends, but I did notice myself getting unusually closer to him. There isnt much to do in my hometown, so I would see this guy quite often and I could tell he was developing feelings for me. After about 10 days of getting to know him, he made a pass at me. He knew I was in a relationship and I told him no and that was that. My BF must have noticed something was wrong because he was asking me why I was a little distant in our fb conversation. I told him I was busy with revision stuff and worried about failing my exams (which was true). I told him that I really like him, but perhaps we should call it off for now as the distance between us was an issue and we will both be too busy with uni stuff to see each other for a while....after that it would be summer holidays and we wouldnt be in the same town for another few months so it made sense to call it quits. My BF was a little confused and asked if there was another reason for me wanting to take a break from the relationship. He even thought I was messing around with a uni friend, but I told him that was absolutely not the case. He didnt seem convinced, but he accepted that it was over anyway.

Once I broke it off with the BF, I did in fact later get with the man in my hometown and we began dating. My Ex tried to stay in contact and wanted to meet up over the summer, but I decided it was probably for the best I not see him again. I also didnt tell him I was in a relationship. After 6 months of being with my new BF, I posted on Facebook about how its been a great 6 months with him. I then got a message from my ex who noticed that we were still together around 6 months ago. I then explained to him that I had met a guy while we were still seeing eachother, but that I didnt do anything sexual with him until after we broke up. 

He was not happy. He said I cheated on him and that I was dishonest and not a nice person. I protested that I didnt do anything with him until after we broke up, but he wasnt have any of it. My ex said I was ignoring his messages while gallivanting with some other guy and then lied about the reasons I broke it off with him. He was also upset because he thought I was leading him on by not telling him I had been dating someone else. I dont think I did anything wrong as I didnt do anything with my new BF until after I had broke it off with the ex and I didnt feel it was necessary to tell him about every development occurring in my life. He called me a piece of shit and deleted me off facebook, which really hurts as I always try to be nice to people.
