Yesterday, I made some refried beans on a pan for my friend and I. I had a lot left so I thought I’d put them on a container and put them in the refrigerator. Unfortunately, I forgot about it, so they were on the stove overnight.
This morning, I came into the kitchen, and about half of the beans were spilled on the floor and left there. I know it was my roommate. I’m assuming she was moving the pan and some of them spilled, so it was likely an accident. But still, she never cleaned it up. Honestly, it made me pretty pissed that she didn’t pick up what she spilled on the floor, and I’m kind of refusing to clean that up. So far, all I’ve done is clean the pan. We’ve had some issues for a few months, so this honestly feels more passive aggressive than anything. 
But I’m torn because I know it was my food that was spilled, but if I accidentally dropped some leftover food of hers that had been sitting out, I would have cleaned it. AITA for not cleaning up the food on the floor and wanting her to do it?