Let's start at the very beginning.

A couple of months ago, I decided I was gonna wear a dress and heels to the Homecoming dance. So one of my super close friends lets me borrow a dress and a pair of shoes. I've known this friend literally my entire life. One of the jokes about me is that I act kinda dumb sometimes because (and this did happen) she kicked me in the head from inside the womb. 

Fast forward to now, and I still have the dress and shoes. She got a boyfriend (more on him later), and is doing well. Until Christmas break rolls around. Over break, she posted something on her Snapchat story. It said something along the lines of, "Everybody's fake, my only friends are..." and then listed 4 or 5 people she talks to. This immediately sparks a reaction from several of her friends, including me. We point out the fact that every time she gets a new boyfriend, she gets too busy shoving her tongue down his throat to talk to us. Her current boyfriend is nearly 17 and is *still a freshman*.

All of our mutual friends, myself included, have stopped talking to her altogether. She doesn't try to talk to us, and this is fine. So one day, she has one of my friends tell me she wants her dress back. I say no, and that if she wants her stuff back she'll have to ask me herself. Then she goes and has her mom text my mom asking that I give her stuff back. I tell my mom what's going on, and she's on my side.

As of writing this post, we still aren't talking, she blocked my on Snapchat, and I still have the dress. But I miss her, and I really want to have her back in my life, even if none of my other friends do. Am I an asshole for keeping her things?