Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : This is actually a really weird situation I'm currently in. My husband and his wife had an amazing relationship. 

They had an accident which killed his wife, but my husband survived. This happened years ago. I understand that it was a very traumatic experience for him.

We've been married for 7 years and we have a 5 yo daughte together. We have an amazing relationship. He has this habit of buying me expensive presents. An year after being with him, I discovered that his wife and I shared the same name. I asked him about it and he told me that it was not one if the reasons he was attracted to me.

After we moved in together, he converted our backyard store room into her memorial. It has her pictures and ither stuff belonging to her. And everything he buys for me, he buys for her. Literally everything. He got me new ring fir Valentine's day. It looked amazing. And guess who else he bought that for? 

Even my daughter is asking me who that lady in our backyard is. I don't how she knows, but children are very smart and she keeps pestering me about it. 

I just cant help feeling that I'm just a replacement. If she were alive, I'd never be here. I just feel like her doppleganger. 

And we git into a big fight about this. I told him that this cannot continue and I feel really insecure. But he refuses to understand. He told me that he loves me and I'm to woman he chose to be with and I should never feel insecure about someone who passed away. 

I just cannot understand his argument. AITA?