Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : I want to start off by saying, my grandmother has always been a rude person, even to her own friends and family. I have never gotten on with her and she always gets the sympathy because she's always sick and in and out of the hospital. 

Now, recently, I've been told this is real. She's in the hospital and there's a chance she won't come out. The sadness hasn't hit me and I don't think it will. Obviously I don't want her to die, I'm not a vile person. But everyone has to go sometimes and I'm just not as sad as I thought I would be. 

I've always been told that if I don't want to do something, I shouldn't be bullied into doing it. And I don't want to visit her. I just do not care. she made me miserable my whole life and always got away with it. the only person who's been outraged with her actions against me is my mother, but I think that's because she's not blood related.

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I feel like the asshole for sure, but is that feeling justified?