So I met this guy Mike in line for a concert. I got his ig &amp; a few hours later he Dm'd me "hey we should hang out soon, lets get drinks." I told him I'm down to since I was actually pretty interested &amp; thought he was cute. We ended up getting drinks.

It was a bit awkward for the first 10 minutes but its not like I knew him well. After 6 shots it was getting more lively. I got too confident &amp; kept drinking. I was at my 16th &amp; it all hit me like a ton of bricks. I was DRUNK. I kept going to the bathroom to puke &amp; Mike noticed &amp; came with me. He held my hair while I threw up, was rubbing my back saying its okay; trying to comfort me. I was a mess &amp; ended up passing out on his lap. He paid everything even though I offered &amp; drove me home. He even stopped at a gas station to buy me water. On the way home he was holding my hand &amp; when he dropped me off he asked if he could hug me. My friend who works at the spot we were at text me like "i think he likes u he had his arms around u" I was expecting Mike to not want to see me again after all that, but he still wanted to talk.

Few days later, he said he wanted me to meet his friend John. He sends me a snapchat of him &amp; John &amp; Im like tell him I said hey. Mike says "John asks if you think hes cute" I'm like yeah. I show a pic of John to my friend Abby &amp; Im like "hes cute. lets do a double date." She agrees.

We get drinks with the boys &amp; Abby that week. I meet up with them, &amp; as soon as John sees me he gives me a hug &amp; he's like nice to meet you. Tbh, I was starstruck by John. We sit at the table &amp; me &amp; John are hitting it off.  John asked if I think he's cute, cool or whatever, I said yes. Mike was barely talking. I was trying to include him but he didn't seem up for it. We went outside to smoke, &amp; I asked Mike if i smelled like cigs. I know he was mad cause he's like "Don't ask me. I smoke too" super coldly. So I asked John &amp; hes like "nah you smell sweet." We left (I was getting a ride home with the guys) but John hugged me like we were saying bye to eachother.

I admit I DM John later. We'd talk &amp; I'd notice he'd lowkey say things to make himself look better &amp; make Mike look bad? Might be overthinking it but he'd be like "after we came home Mike had another two beers. Just like the night you two went out. He drinks like everyday. I only drink with my friends, I'm a healthy guy." Mike still seemed off. Barely texted me. I text Abby too, &amp; she's like "idk if John finds me attractive. I didn't get flirty vibes from him, at least not to me.

I'm not gonna lie and say I wasn't trying to get to the talking stage with Mike. We were almost there. So, AITA homie hopper for thinking about pursuing John? Is John the asshole for \*maybe\* trying to make his homie look bad? And again, AITA for talking to John even though I know my friend was kind of into him? I know nothing is official but please. Let me know if I'm being an asshole. 