Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : Throwaway just because...

     Had a close friend I always liked and was thrilled to learn he liked me back. We have been friends for 4 years, met in College. 

       We finally decided to give it a try and be more than friends. Well we did other sexual things except penetration. We decided to get tested just to be on a safe side. Been together for about 2 months so far 

      Well, my test was negative, his was positive( his STD has no cure). felt bad but I had to break up. I just did not feel right. To be protected we have to use condoms and I have to take a pill everyday. I said not for me and asked him to just be friends. 

Well he didn't take it well. Told our close friends who now think am a horrible person. 

So Am I the Asshole for what I did? 