Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : So it's been a few weeks since the incident, but I am a navy wife with a deployed husband and 8 month old twin daughters. I sometimes only eat one meal a day because that all I have time for. My brother is 23 living at home keeps claiming he's going to join the air force. He is mildly autistic as well.

I went to go vist my parents and they happened to buy some pizza that night. I was goofing playing games with my siblings. while my younger sister watched and played with my girls. My mom REALLY wanted to talk so I take off to the store with her leaving my barely touched pizza on the table. I know that wasn't the smartest choice, but whatever the only people that clean are my mom, my little sister, and younger brother so I thought it was fine. I did it before when I was living at home.

Me and my mom talk she gets some things off her chest and we return. I go up stairs wanting that delicious pizza and it's gone the one time my older brother decides he wants to clean it just happens to be the one day I forget to eat anything else. Now I'm fuming, because 1 I'm hangry, 2 about a month ago he punched my 16 year old youngest brother in the gut (my 23 year old brother was treated to ice cream over it), 3 he's done some other messed up crap.

So I go charging down to his room in the basement, he answers the door, and I proceeded to yell at him saying that the pizza was the only thing I had to eat all day and than it breaks into a rant about how he needs to be more considerate of other people because when he joins the military even though they claim bot to care they do and if he treats his future fellow airmen the same way he will be eaten alive. 

He held up his hand and I thought it was going to be an apology and I would've apologized back, but NO his exact words were "thank you OP for giving me another reason why I don't want to live." To which I replied with "what kinda messed up logic is that?! I'm just asking you to consider other people's feelings." He than goes in a rant about how he knows that no one loves him and how he'll be happy to leave. I left before he finished, because I knew I was going to say something that I might regret. 

I took my other brother to a gas station with me that had a little restaurant inside, we filled up and got food. Flash forward a to a couple days ago my mom gets on my case to apologize and I said no, because I would not mean it in the slightest and I personally hate hollow apologies. She said it would mean a lot to her as he now refuses to leave his room except to go to classes. He's on spring break. So I bought him two tickets to the new captain marvel movie as a peace offering. For him and whoever he wishes. He turned me down so fast.

So the question is am I the asshole for not wanting to apologize and for demanding he treat others like humans?