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Hey all,

To get right into the issue at hand: my husband and I gutted the house we purchased and he and his dad are laying the tile. Before they started we laid out quite a few to see how they would look. We discussed which way they would run and the design. They have a sort of cloudy pattern that i asked him to pay mind to when hes laying and to not put two identical patterned tiles next to one another. 

After the first day of laying I came to the house to find out they laid them the opposite way of how we discussed. They're 12x24", we originally planned for North-South and they changed them to East-West because it saves 30% waste. Frankly, I don't give a fuck about the waste. He and his dad think they look better and less waste was a benefit. Whatever I thought, they're down and there's nothing to be done about it. This was just a few rows into the entryway.

I went over to check out the progress last night and the whole floor is laid. The clouds are non-existent. The darker ends of the tile butt up to the lighter ends and there are two idential tiles next to one another all over the place. I asked him what happened to what we talked about, he told me his dad said there are no clouds in the tile and it won't matter once its laid. What the fuck? 

This is the third time during our remodel hes taken his dads word over mine. I told him we should caulk gaps in the cabinets before painting and that we should put headers above the doors instead of plain trim, he said no they're fine. Until his dad came along and said the exact same shit and now its being done.

Beside the fact that he disregarded what I asked, the floors quality-wise are great. The lines are clean, the angle are beautiful. They really did excellent work. But I can't help but see red, and I can't tell if I'm blowing this out of proportion or not. Guests in our home probably won't see the identical tiles next to each other, but I do. 

Reddit, am I being an asshole about this?

TL;DR: husband and I discussed how the tile will be laid. Dad-in-law got in his ear and all of it changed.