Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : It was Saturday night around 8:30 pm and I was in bed trying to sleep.  The last few days had been jam packed with our kids’ sporting events and my body and brain were just done!  The husband is next to me in bed watching his phone with headphones.  Just when I’m finally drifting off, he gets a phone call, and takes the call, in bed, sitting right next to me.  He has a naturally loud voice, and is not holding anything back!  It was so loud that it startled me.  My heart started beating super fast and I sighed out a “shhhhh” in hopes that he just didn’t realize how loud he was.  He proceeded to talk louder and continues the phone call in bed.  He was on the phone for a good 15 minutes with absolute no regard for me while I was sleeping.  

Once he hung up, I expressed to him how rude and inconsiderate it was that he didn’t take the call in another room or at least lower his voice.  He laughed and blatantly said “I do not care”.  He said it was only 9 pm on a Saturday night and to get over it.  He got shitty with me for the “shhhh”.  

Am I being irrational/unreasonable?  Is it normal to go about normal activities while someone is sleeping?  I grew up with my dad working nights and slept during the day - we were always very aware and tried our hardest not to disturb him or anyone while they were sleeping.  Looking forward to comments/suggestions!  Thanks!

