Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : One of my closest friends dated a girl for 5 years, they recently broke up and when he told me about It, we have all hung out together a few times but she was never really more than my friends girlfriend. He said they broke up mutually and just wanted different things out of the relationship. I messaged her a day after they split saying it sucks it happened, it was nice getting to know you I’m sorry it ended between the two of them. I joked about him sending her nudes (I explicitly said immediately after that it was a joke to her and she knew already it was anyway its just my sense of humour) and basically parted ways there. They are seeing each other again but not actually dating its more FWB, but he’s upset with me for texting her at all. AMITA for messaging her? Should I just have not said anything? I honestly just thought I was being polite but now I’m not so sure.