Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : This past week, one of my old friends that I dropped contact with 4 months ago texted me out of the blue saying that they missed me. Due to how our relationship had ended earlier this year I was slow to respond and careful with how I handled it as I do not want the stress involved with having them in my life especially during finals week. I very clearly expressed that I did not want to foster this friendship back into reality, however they continued to try and guilt trip me into it.

Now for a little more context this person has bipolar depression that they refuse to treat. Whenever they text me its either a very concerning conversation where I genuinely worry about them and what they might do, or they are incredibly happy and lovey with me even though they are already in a relationship and I have made it very clear that I do not want any kind of relationship, this is the same reason that our past friendship ended as they were trying to make unwanted sexual advances on me and I freaked out on them.

They past couple of days they texted me and I began to wonder if maybe I am the asshole in this case as this weeks conversations had been Michigan winter cold on my part. The conversations were along the lines of them asking for forgiveness for "Being weird and insecure" and my response asking if they were on their meds. When they responded no I shrugged this off as another mood swing they wanted to catch me in, and as I mentioned right now is a stressful time already with it being finals week among other things. Yesterday when they asked if they were to much to handle I was honest and straight up told them yes. Again they messaged me again today tried multiple times to try and guilt me into being friends promising me everything from just barely being in my life to being my life. After I refused again with the reasons given above. They responded that their going to try and get their "druggie" what I'm assuming friend or SO back. I told them to just make new friends and don't search for toxic ones. Am I the ass hole for not wanting to deal with them?