So, I have this friend. I will call her Sarah. We've been friends since we were about 10, so just over 14 years of being friends. She's an amazing person and I do see her as one of my good friends because I can trust her with anything but her excuses to not meet up are driving me insane. She only started doing this in 2016, and I don't know where it came from.

Some of the excuses used a few times are;

* It's raining.
* I missed my bus, and I can't be bothered to wait for the next one, can we meet another day?
* I made other plans because I don't wanna do (cinema/coffee/whatever) with you anymore.

There have also been days where we have arranged to meet, and everything is fine, up until the time we agreed to meet. I'll be there, at the place we said to meet and she will advise me "I'm on the train" or "I'm on the bus" and so many minutes later, she will say "I'm sorry I'm actually at home in bed, not well." This hasn't just happened once, it's happened quite a few times.

And if I make plans on a full weekend, she gets mad at me for "never making time for her".

I've tried to cut her off 3 times, but every time I try and cut her off, she says "Why are you cutting me off because I have depression?" and it starts a massive argument. And that's not the reason at all. I'm not cutting her off because she has depression. I just don't know what to do at this rate. I haven't seen her for 2 years because of the excuses. And I don't know what to say to her anymore.