Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : This happened a while back, but my sister brings it up from time to time. Basically, about a year ago my sister was on a bad mix of medications. She was constantly picking fights with people, she was depressed, and so anxious she barely left the house. It looked like it just kept spiraling down and things kept getting worse. My parents are divorced, but they still get along well. I thought it would be helpful to get my mom, dad, and myself together and take her out to eat and let her know we love her and support her and talk to her about how we think she may need some help. Basically it was an “intervention” she wasn’t expecting. She was pretty mature about it while it was happening, there were some tears. My sister brings it up all the time that it was a crappy thing to do. I can imagine that it may have felt shitty that the first time the four of us were together again it was because of this reason, but I feel like it was a necessary wake up call. 