Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : We moved to another country 7 months ago (husband &amp; daughter) while in my home town, my daughter was in my mom’s care while I was at work all day and she was spoiled and she would do whatever she wanted. I managed to have her behave and follow our rules  and basically educated manners wise even to socialise (i didn’t realise how spoiled she was this while at home)  my mom came to visit and I told her to basically not treat her like she was a baby or explain things as if she doesn’t understand. I told her to not change her habits while being here visiting cause i don’t want my daughter to give a step back. So now day 4th out of 18 she is to be here and is already in her room, not speaking to anybody and crying. Am I wrong for wanting my daughter to not step back from the progress she made? I even told her nicely since im trying to avoid an uncomfortable situation when my husband comes back from his business trip, cause he will tell it like it is.