Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : I have a friend, we'll call him Evan. He often hosts an Oscars party that's a pretty casual affair. Our friend group is big on events, and we tend to each have the "thing" we host - Evan has like, 3-4 things he hosts though. The other "holidays" he takes the lead on are each bigger than the Oscars. He has yet to officially send out a text or email asking people for this year.

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Me and my friend Rachel are both very close with Evan, and have also made a good new friend from work who we can call Laura. Laura doesn't have a very large friend group where we live, and is really excited about an Oscar party she's hosting. In the past, Evan has gotten pretty huffy about stuff like this. I mentioned Laura's party to him at a friend's play the other night and he, as expected, seemed miffed that we were considering doing something else this year.

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I love Evan, he's great, he throws a great party. If this was his one thing I year I'd feel worse about missing it. I guess the question is - AITA for missing a somewhat annual event of a friend to do something else this year, or not?