Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : 
Hi, I don’t post often and this is my first time posting to this thread so I apologize for messing anything up. 

So I have a family friend whom I’ve known since we were about 10 years old. I also have a fairly large family on my moms side and I have a lot of cousins and second cousins who are in their early teens whom I’m over protective of being a female myself and knowing how predatory guys that we don’t know well tend to get. 

I saw on Instagram that my family friend was liking and commenting on on my cousins pictures and I felt some way about this and I messaged him asking him to stop doing that and just unfollow her because she’s only 13 and it looks kind of creepy for a grown man lurking on a 13 year olds Instagram page. 

He immediately began to curse at me and tell me that I’m being crazy and starting drama with him and that I’m accusing him of being a predator.

But I also told him that I have done and will do the same for his sister because she’s the same age and doesn’t know any better and would be susceptible to the same thing. 

I just wanted him to understand that I didn’t like how he was interacting with my younger cousins and I brought it to his attention and he says that I’m in the wrong. Am I the asshole in this situation? 

