Is EVERYBODY wrong in the post ? POST : So obviously it sounds really bad just from the title, but there’s a bit more that goes into it. This is also a throwaway, although the names aren’t the same, they’re significant.

I know that what we did was shitty, but i’m going to explain some of the bs that went into this before we finally caved.

TL;DR at bottom 


I met “the other roommate”, we’ll call her Cori, last year, she started dating my best friend, we’ll call him Mitchell, in college, and he introduced me to her. For a while everything was cool, &amp; then one day she asked me if i wanted to live with her next year. At the time, i was still 17 because i’d graduated high school early &amp; she was 20, so i thought it was a little strange, but i figured why not? Ya know? Mitchell would be there &amp; id have someone there to kinda help me out.

Flash forward to summer, Cori lives 2 hours away from where Mitchell &amp; i live. He starts making trips out there and then being basically forced “or so he said” by her to stay. I don’t care, i have other friends. Every time he does manage to come home, we get together &amp; he talks mad shit about the kinda person she is etc. says he wants to break up, you get it.

He breaks up with her for about a day, they immediately get back together. Flash forward to school starting, i meet our third roommate, call her Haley, Cori’s best friend, &amp; i’m kinda shy so we didn’t become friend for awhile. 

During this beginning period of school, Mitchell gets pissed, breaks up with Cori, and then they get back together in about a week. This goes on for a couple weeks, &amp; he tells me that they’re broken up, but it’s cordial so he can still come hang out with me, he does, &amp; almost every time Cori would say some cryptic bull about “needing to talk to him” in her room, &amp; they do that for 30 min- to an hour &amp; he tells me it’s nothing, but i’m not stupid, i know they’re having sex.

Finally they come back out as dating. Now here’s where the main conflict starts, i found out later on that Cori used to go over to his house when they were “broken up” &amp; tell him that she was going to kill herself, that he’s the reason she’s not eating, &amp; all this other stuff. She gets even more manipulative &amp; controlling, &amp; Mitchell starts staying &amp; basically living at this house that the 3 of us are splitting evenly in rent &amp; utilities. 

During this kinda in between period, like september to october, she’s picking fights with me over him, saying rude comments, and generally just making me afraid to leave my room, (i actually stayed in my room for a full 36 hours at one point) and just forcing him to kinda put me out of his life. This was when Haley &amp; i became friends, along with her finding out from tons of mutual friends that Cori had been telling everyone that Haley was a slut etc., i got so angry one day that i threw all of Cori’s chairs into our backyard, put them back, then went to my room &amp; punched a hole in my door. I thought I’d broken my hand, Haley took me to the hospital, bam friendship was born. 

Things were iffy for awhile, just general bs. Haley would say she didn’t want Mitchell at our house, Mitchell is literally living at our house. We’d have a fight, they’d stay at his place for a week or so, but they were always back. Plus, Haley &amp; i keep the house clean when it’s just us, but Mitchell &amp; Cori are slobs, shit everywhere. Then Mitchell &amp; i started fighting, around Thanksgiving it gets really bad, i say i don’t want him in my home, Haley doesn’t want him in our home, &amp; i want his shit gone.

They leave to his house for a week. Mitchell &amp; i are no longer friends. Next week they’re back, living at our home, Mitchell, at our home. Haley &amp; i decide to move out. Mitchell’s &amp; my mutual friend, decided to move in with us. 

Next two months until yesterday we’re busy getting our things in order for our new apartment. We find it &amp; start moving our things a few days ago &amp; yesterday when she saw us draining my waterbed our my window, she came out &amp; started screaming at us. 

We took that load of stuff, dropped it off &amp; went back to get more, &amp; they had unplugged the garage door opener, put a handle on the front door (Mitchell had broken it &amp; taken it off with the intention of fixing it a few days ago &amp; then had just left it open) , had locked my bedroom window, &amp; locked the back door. Haley had to crawl in through the doggy door &amp; push the wood cover out of its slides. 

While Haley &amp; our mutual friend, let’s call him Dawson, were moving out her wooden headboard, Cori &amp; Mitchell came to the garage door &amp; got into a fight with her where she said it was hers because it was made from materials on her ranch, &amp; Haley said fine, &amp; slammed the thing down on the floor of our garage, stepped on it, then tried to walk back into the house. 

Haley is not a huge fighter, but when she gets pissed she sees red, &amp; while she tried to walk in, Cori shouldered her hard, Haley automatically turned &amp; pushed her into my washing machine, and yelled at her. Mitchell has to keep them apart. About 15 minutes after that, there were two cops there, just “making sure it went smoothly.” We weren’t there for that much longer, but the whole time Mitchell and Cori were out sucking up to the policemen.

Found out later that they had already figured out where our new house was, we didn’t want them to know, &amp; had toured it apparently. They’re psychos. Just want to know if AITA or not. Sorry for long text.


TL;DR: have a shitty roommate, her shitty boyfriend lived with us despite us not wanting him there, psychological/emotional abuse, didn’t tell her we were moving until the day we were leaving.
