Is EVERYBODY wrong in the post ? POST : This might sound stupid, but it's annoying me to no end and causing problems and tension in our relationship. My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and we don't technically live together but I stay at his apartment every night. We spend a lot of time together and hang out, but he will stay up until 5am drinking with his roommate while I go to bed around 2ish or whenever I get tired. You might wonder what the problem is.

Well, I feel like going to bed together is a special time and he just completely disregards how I feel and chooses his roommate over me. I also feel like it's unnecessary to stay up until 5 am drinking??? It's not like he has insomnia, works late, or has some reason why he needs to stay up. It's literally alcohol fueled. We are all at home by 8-9 pm and have plenty of time to hang out together and have no reason to stay up until 5am. When I bring this up to him, his reply is always "you can always hang out with us but you CHOOSE to go to bed at 2am and leave us." Um yeah because a fucking normal person gets tired and wants to go to bed?? Like am I the crazy one here? 

Also, I'll go to bed when I'm tired and I just expect to wake up and him be in bed which would be fine but nope. I'll wake up at 5, sometimes 6, and he's still out in the living room 12 shots of vodka deep just watching tv and chilling with his roommate. It annoys me to no end and at first I tried to nicely talk to him but now I just explode. I've said to him if I wanted to sleep alone and be alone, I can just stay home at my own apartment. We got into a major fight about this a few days ago just straight up screaming at each other because I just can't deal with it anymore. And what does he do the very next day? Stay up til 5am. Am I being the asshole here? 