Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Backstory: So my friend and I have been best friends since we were kids. Most of our friendship has been long distance since her family moved out of state. We have been there for each other through everything...well up until recently. 

As adults, our friendship went from talking every day to maybe once a week at most. When we do talk, it's always very one-sided and she talks for most of the phone call. When it's my turn, she always seems disinterested. For instance, I was talking to my sister about this very issue and the friend texted me saying we could try to talk. I was excited and talked a lot, but she was silent or preoccupied so I felt like an ass by the end of the call, which lasted about 10 minutes. I wouldn't be so sad about it, except she only will talk to me when shes driving home from work. She won't call on the weekends or evenings. She won't have a conversation through text, most of the time if I text her I dont get a response at all. Even when I have gone through some serious mental health problems, she still didn't put forth any effort to reach out, it was all me. I don't usually reach out after work or on the weekend anymore, she has a 6 month old and I know that must be time consuming. But now I dont really reach out at all. I feel like I'm having to force the a one-sided friendship. I wonder if maybe it's time to go our own ways, but I feel like a total asshole for it. 