So me and this guy have been best friends for almost a decade. We've gone through a lot together and we have a really strong relationship. During the summer he moved to another country because he got into a University there, and recently he asked me if he could crash in my house for a few days while he was visiting, because his family had moved elsewhere. Of course, me and my family were happy to let him stay, we really love his company.

Now, I play football, and take it very seriously (I'd like to be pro), and this weekend we had a really crucial game (top of the table clash), and I assumed he'd be coming to watch and support me/my team, since he was living with me. We even talked about it and it really sounded like he was coming. However, I then found out that he wasn't coming, and was instead going to watch a football match of his favourite team. I don't know how long he's had the ticket for, but, like I said, we spoke several times before he travelled and he was speaking like he intended to come to my game.

I'm not gonna say anything, so maybe I'm not exactly the asshole, but am I overreacting or being hypocritical? Should he have come or is it irrelevant? 