Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : I'm 18 and I live on my own currently. I've been wanting to leave this state for a long time because it's not for me and I have disliked it since we moved here, and my mom fully supports that. 

She says she "wants me to do what makes me happy" and that she'll love me no matter what. My dad was an asshole to her and he's also an alcoholic and a prescription addict so there's a lot of bad blood there and he's not been the greatest parent to me for the most part

But for a long time I've been talking about moving to Colorado and my mom hates that. My dad is originally from Littleton, Colorado(Denver area) and I've been there once with him. When I was 16, just me and my dad went for a father/son trip, and it was great. I was very depressed at the time and having a lot of problems but when I was just hanging out with my dad in Colorado and doing all kinds of fun shit, I forgot about it and I felt happy. 

My mom insists that the Colorado trip was a bad memory, not a good one, because it was with my dad and he's a "degenerate." Yeah my dad treated her badly and I don't like that. He wasn't there for me as much as he should've been and we don't see each other much now. I don't know how I feel about him but I'd like to go back and I don't consider the trip to be a bad memory at all, he acted like the dad I wished he could've been the rest of the time.

She also told me if I moved there, it would be the "ultimate slap in the face" to her because my dad almost didn't marry her since he was considering going back to Colorado to work as a ski instructor. All of her associations with the state are bad and she says "don't expect me to ever visit you."

If I didn't move to Colorado, then I would move to Wyoming which is another place I really like. My mom's opposed to that too because "funnily" enough my dad lived there for a while. 

I'm not interested in these places just because of my dad and I'm not doing anything to spite my mother, I love her very much. I just want to live my own life but she's overprotective of me still, she feels like she has to over-manage me to make up for my dad.