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I’m at a hotel with my family for a gathering this weekend, and I’m sharing a room with my sister.   The room has one bed and one pull out couch. I arrived with my father a few hours before my mother and sister arrived, so I set my stuff up on the bed. 

When my sister arrived my mother asked something along the lines of “I assume you are on the bed because your sister was last time”, which my sister responded to with “no, I was on the couch last time” which I am fairly certain is true, although it has been almost a year and a half since last time we shared a hotel room so I’m not totally sure.

My first response to this was that in the long history of us sharing hotel rooms I was almost always on the floor or couch, but I didn’t think it was that big a deal. I initially offered to switch with her on the second night, which they both shut down very quickly saying that last time I had the bed both nights ( I’m pretty sure we were only there one night)

    I mentioned that I didn’t care that much where I was but they had yet to politely ask me to move. All they did was make points as to why my sister was more deserving of it than me, and they shouldn’t have to ask because I wasn’t entitled to it. It’s not just that they hadn’t said please or anything, they hadn’t directly asked at all. I’m pressured into shit all the time by them so while I don’t think where I sleep is a huge deal, I felt like a bit of respect would have been nice this time.

I decided I wanted to be clear about this, and said that I would happily move, but it would like to be asked first. My mom once again talked how she shouldn’t have to ask at all, and after a few minutes of that my sister asked in a very exasperated tone if I would please move. I said I would be happy to and switched spots with her.

For context me and me sister are both college age, she’s two years older than me, and have had a slightly rocky relationship most of our lives, though things have been going better lately.  I know this might seem a bit childish or petty, but as the younger kid I don’t tend to get much respect and I sort of felt like I would like some instead of just backing down immediately like I usually do.