Pretty short, but I woke up today (birthday) and saw my dad had written birthday well wishes on my wall, which included: news of my graduation +  final grade, new job as a nurse and a ring emoji to signal my "recent engagement" (2-3 months ago) that we havent told everyone about yet, just the nearest family and some friends. 

I told him immeadiatly wrote to him: "thank you for the birthday note dad &lt;3 but I'd like to control when to post news about my exam, job and engagement. Would you please delete that part?"

I realize that he is proud of me, but I am afraid that I will get shit later today from my stepmom, that I am way too lazy to write updates about myself so someone will have to. But the thing is, that it is not his story to spread. Its MY graduation and MY engagement. Not his. 

He deleted the parts, with no complaining or resistance.

So what do you think? ATIA? If not enough INFO then just ask.