Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Tl;dr My bf won't talk to me after I became hurt that he was frustrated with me for leaving our front door unlocked. It's been two hours. AITA?


You all do such good work here, so maybe you can help me out in seeing this situation clearly.


The details: 


My bf (of five years and we're both early 30s) had a rough day at work today, everything seemed to be going wrong for him, and he lost money because of it. He called me while he was on his way home and we talked it out for a while. He seemed upset and disappointed, but this sort of thing has happened before and he usually bounces back, so I assumed our chat had done all that it could to support him in the situation and everything would be okay after some time had passed.


Before work I planned all of our meals for the week, then I went to work, and went grocery shopping after work, and then made dinner for us. My bf is struggling for cash right now, and as I have a steady job, I've been pretty much paying for everything for the last couple of months.


Anyway, my bf came home and got frustrated with me for leaving our door unlocked and leaving some things out, and didn't want to eat the dinner I made him. I felt a little hurt by his snapping frustrations, but didn't initially say anything because I knew he was having a rough day, and me being upset would make it worse. We then got into a slight disagreement about how he handled some of his work things. He could tell I was a bit annoyed so he repeatedly asked what was up, and I eventually burst into tears and told him I was hurt that he didn't eat and that he was frustrated about me leaving the door unlocked etc. (Crying about something as small as this is somewhat typical for me, because I'm overly sensitive and confrontation pretty much always overwhelms me, but it's usually like a burst of tears and then I'm okay again. I'm working on this.)


He scoffed at me, went into another room, closed the door, and essentially hasn't talked to me since. I tried to tell him I totally get that his day sucked and that I wasn't like, super upset, just a little hurt and that it's not a big deal, and he still hasn't said anything despite me trying to explain myself. It's been two hours now. He's obviously mad at me, but AITA here? 