 
Backstory: I've always had a lot of male friends. I know the stigma behind a girl that hangs out with a lot of guys, but I've been like this since I was a kid. Grew up Fixing cars, airsoft,videogames, etc. So its just people i can relate to a lot more due to the demographic of things I enjoy.



Anyways, this has caused a lot of strain in past relationships even though i swear by the guys I spend time with or get to know. 


This has been a lot harder recently with my current bf, been together for almost 2 years. But he is insecure about me spending time with other guys.


Well, he has recently been the most uncomfortable about guys spending money on me, mainly offering me food. To which most of the time, doesnt matter who it is, I'm stubborn and decline the offers because I can't pay for myself. A lot of the time they insist and I end up saying that the next time i will treat them or give them money for my meal, etc. Even if they say i don't have too.


My bf thinks I do this a lot and thinks they only want sex from me...which in some situations I know thats the case. Generally I will cut that person off if they are acting in such a way. Even though i always make it clear that I am in a relationship to everyone that i become acquainted with (i go so far as to calling him my fiance at this point). Anyways though, a lot of the time they seem to just be acting friendly, and more times than not I will buy the next meal we have, or the next round of drinks, etc. I will try to at least


He is still very against me doing it and it seems to piss him off more than anything when it happens. I know he worrys about someone trying something but i always carry my knife or stuff like that incase something like that will ever occur. (Thankfully it hasnt) I will admit that I can be to trusting of new people sometimed though.


I don't want to breach his trust just because i have guy friends, but he also thinks i let them pay for me too much even if i pay them back or try too. I don't know what to do with this situation as the whole topic in general is kind of a tender spot in our relationship. 


So anyways, AITA for letting guys pay for me?


