Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : My lady's birthday is coming up on Tuesday, and justifiably, she wanted to celebrate over the weekend. The problem is: she's doing multiple different celebrations with different groups and the only person required to attend all of them is me. Here's a rough schedule:

Saturday: Birthday dinner and game night with friends
Sunday: Full day with just me
Monday: Dinner with her family
Tuesday: Actual birthday dinner

Problem is that I've got a lot of other things to do or obligations that I'm trying to work around. She wanted me to sleep at her place after game night, but while she's waiting for renovations on her house, she's living with her parents for the next few months and my dog doesn't do well in strange houses, so I stayed until 1am. 

Then her friend had an emergency Sunday, so she cancelled our plans. Totally understandable. 

Tonight I went to family dinner, but didn't meet them at their house to ride in the same car, choosing to drive myself because I just left a work event. This turned into an absolute screaming fit by her about how I ruined her birthday and how I didn't do a single thing that she wanted. I responded by saying I've been to every event with more on the books, but I've only slightly modified them to work a little bit better for me, and that she needed to stop being spoiled and acting like adults get birthday weeks. 

Am I the asshole?

