Ok so I'm conflicted about something, so I'm doing what any reasonable person would do...asking a bunch of strangers on the internet their opinion. So here's the deal... a group of friends and I meet semi regularly to play Dungeons and dragons 5th edition together. For me, getting into dnd was mostly a no brainer since I'd get to play a roleplaying game regularly with my old highschool friends up north. I regularly make the trips up north to go see them and play(about 160km each way or 100 miles in murican) i would do this on my free weekends to see old friends and have fun. Gradually, new people have been added to the group to bolster numbers and make adventures more interesting. However, recently some good(or bad) things have happened. We finally got to a complex part of the campaign and had to call it a day in the middle of a long puzzle dungeon our dm put together. To their credit, this dungeon the dm built is incredible in its design. A lot of love and care has gone into building this scenario for us, the players to play. Now the thing that makes me wonder AITA.. I recently had to give a firm no to our dm that i would not be able to make this most recent session to continue our quests as I'm having some dental work done. This precludes me from being able to make the 2+hour drive up to see the team and continue playing. Conversations with my friend (the dm) ended with them just saying "Shame..." now i hear from another one of my close friends in the same dnd group (he plays a tabaxi rogue) that the dm plans to go ahead anyway. AITA for being a bit upset that the dm is allegedly continuing our adventure without me, without asking if i'm ok with it. I feel like a bit of an ass saying don't play without me (i mean its not exactly fair for me to hold back the entire party either) but i feel like the dm continuing the adventure without me, without even asking me is a little asshole-ish. Or AITA for asking him to wait an extra week or two? Or expecting to be consulted before the campaign continues. I feel like I'm in the right in this situation, but I've been wrong before I'd be interested to hear public opinion.