Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : My grandmother has dementia, she’s getting worse every month. She can still go out on her own, but will do things like put the electric kettle on an open hob where it burns. She has occasionally wondered off and gone missing. She forgets to eat and we can see her withering away. It’s not good, but she is semi independent still.

My Dad and his wife have 2 young kids, they both work full time but live a 10 minute walk from my granny. My aunt (my fathers sister and my granny’s daughter) is a teacher in a different city. She visits occasionally, changing the bed sheets and helps with looking after her mother. 

My aunt is now taking a year long sabbatical travelling, she has asked me to change the bed sheets every two weeks. I am a college film student living in a different city. I’m more than happy to change the sheets for my granny, but it’s not like she lives down the road from me. I love her and I know she needs it so I’m happy to do it. I go home to see my therapist every 2-3 weeks anyway so I can do it then. But I feel like it’s irresponsible for her to leave her mum when she’s in a bad state, I can’t imagine her living for another 2-3 years. We are all busy people, but we all do our part to look after my granny. 

AITA for being annoyed at my Aunt for leaving at this point in time? 

