Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : My grandmother is 74 years old and has early stage dementia. My mother is 50 and she is constantly needing me to take my grandmother to her appointments. My mother works M-F from 3-4 so she can’t really take her to her appointments as most doctors offices are closed by the time she gets out. I have not complained yet but it’s starting to get to me. My days off usually consist of one appointment. I have to go to work late because when my mother goes to work she wants me to stop by the house and check on my grandmother if she needs anything. I’ve had to leave work many times to take her to the ER, I’ve had to bathe her and change her when she broke her clavicle. The most annoying part is sometimes I will go to work early and my mother will call me extremely upset asking why I didn’t stop to check on my grandmother, I believe there has never not once been a thank you. I love them both, I know this is hard for my mother and I also am and only child so I want to help her as much as I can.  I really don’t want to be the asshole but I think maybe I am.