Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Basically, I (26M) am of Indian background and have been dating a white girl (26F) for 8 months. We'll call her Lucy. I was born/raised in UK but my parents are from India.

Lucy is very good looking but that's not the only reason I went for her. She's got a very outgoing and bubbly personality, one of those positive people you don't come across so that's why I went for her. Also she's not a golddigger or anything, we both have the same job/similar salary (solicitors).

But I'm not seriously considering ever marrying her, I don't think. My parents wouldn't accept nor would my family. So really, I think I wouldn't ever considering marrying any white girl but I have been with them before sexually. I don't think this is particuarly racist because I'm brown and she's white so even though it's not fully ok it's not racist, but I'm not sure if Lucy is aiming for marriage. She hasn't spoken about it, but she said ''I love you once'' to me. AITA?