I've been in a rough patch for awhile getting adjusted to a new job and trying to move up in life so I pretty haven't been checking my messages unless they come from my s.o. I know my friend (let's call her jess) has anxiety issues and if I don't check on her I'll get text messages asking if I still love her. It's been happening for years and it makes me feel like shit but I wanted her to know I was there so i shot her a quick text explaining that I had been very stressed and just focusing on work and sleeping (which is honestly all I can really do) she texts back that it's fine and asked how I've been. Wtf!?! Did she not READ the text? I've always been there for her even though she goes to therapy she expects me to reply instantly whenever shes upset about something no matter what it is and she'll get pissy with me if I dont respond in a timely manner. I'd never dump something on her without asking if she could handle it but I'm really starting to get sick of just being there because I treat her good and I'm the only person who's ever stayed by her. In the past when I stop wanting to be friends with a user I leave without explaining because confronting people is my absolute least favorite thing in the world but I've been trying to stop. Am I the asshole?