I’ve been dating my boyfriend for 6 years now, living together for 3. The entire time, he’s worked a really intense job, about an hour and a half away. The commute wouldn’t be so bad were it not for the 70 hour weeks. He loves our town though and refuses to move closer to work. 

His company puts him up in a hotel for free and he usually stays near the office 2-3 nights a week. He’s been complaining about it a lot lately, mostly feeling like his life is constantly in flux (and he’s losing a lot of things...)

He’s mentioned getting a cheap room in a house with some of his colleagues but he mentions a lot of random ideas, so I figured we’d discuss it more seriously if it was...more serious. 

Well after not really talking outside of text for a few days because he was working 18-hour shifts...he came home and told me he rented a room (“I had to make an immediate choice when the opportunity came up”)

Our finances are separate so money isn’t the issue but aita for being furious about this?