Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Disclaimer: On mobile, also I know I sound like the asshole but just listen..

So for context, my SO suffers from depression and is prescribed Antidepressants but because of some personal side effects that affected both of us he stopped taking them about 6 months ago. 

Lately, his depression has gotten really bad. He's been emotional, unmotivated, has lost interest in everything he used to find enjoyable, is more tired, more hungry, etc. It's been really hard for him and I've been trying to help as much as I can because I also have depression so I understand exactly what he's going through. I'm not on any antidepressants because none have worked for me and I'd rather just deal with my depression since it's what I'm used to but I do think that he should be on some if they work for him and will make him feel better.

However, I don't want him to start taking his antidepressants again because I know he just wants instant relief, which he won't get. The antidepressants take 2-4 weeks to work, and he has a med management appointment scheduled in about 2 weeks where he wants to see about getting prescribed a new antidepressants. 

We were talking about this and he wasn't angry or anything, he understood what I was saying and agreed that I was right but he was still upset and I feel bad because I want him to feel better, but I really think he should wait until his med management appointment.. So, AITA? 