Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : To make a very long story somewhat short, my mom has BPD (borderline personality disorder) and is very erratic to say the least. Since I was a kid it’s always been about me caring for her and her needs. I took care of my siblings, cooked, cleaned, helped with homework, etc. Around 13/14 I kind of gave up on trying to keep up with my duties because they were never done “good enough” I was always being belittled and developed depression and anxiety issues from a young age. I started developing a deep set resentment for my mother around that same time. I feel as though I’m the asshole because there are times where she’s perfectly fine and we get along, or she does nice things for my siblings and I (takes us on trips, movies, dinner, beach, etc), and I understand that her disorder is a big root in this, but I can’t shake the seething hatred I feel for her at times. 

TL;DR AITA because I resent my mother for her somewhat abusive personality disorder? 