Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST :  So i have this best friend we'll call her ash and like i've recently started going over to her house and she's shy and has anxiety so it's hard for her to make new friends so she's always so excited when we hangout. Here's where the problem starts, my mom is doing this event thing and she wants my friend to come over to our place for a bit so she can take pictures. I think this is a great idea i'll get to show her my room and stuff but she says it'll be awkward. It wasn't a no but I was feeling pretty mad at it and i asked her what she meant by awkward and she said "well i've never been there and there might not be enough things to do and stuff" and my mom got upset too she was talking to me about it and she said "I don't get it, why can you come over and have fun but the moment you mention even slightly coming over to YOUR house she doesn't even have to think to say no?" of course my mom was exaggerating but i kinda felt the same way. My mom lives in an apartment building, she owns a hair shop and is going to get a house soon but for now the salon and her kids are her priorities right now. Am i an asshole for being upset? 