Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : More often than not I ignore my grandma's texts, and my boyfriend just got upset with me about it.  Up until a few years ago I really loved my grandmother, but then my mom opened up to me about her childhood.  My mother was physically and emotionally abused by my grandmother, and then kicked out and forced to live with my grandfather (they're divorced, as my grandma cheated on him), where my mother was physically abused by her step-mother.  Basically, my grandma is a terrible person by all accounts.  But when my mother was an adult, my grandma got sick (multiple sclerosis) and saw it as a sort of punishment from God and tried to be better.  Considering she cleaned up her act and only wanted to be a loving grandmother, my mom decided we should have a relationship with her, and she really has always been sweet to me.  The fact is, I've never been able to look at her the same way since my mom told me about how she treated her.  My boyfriend says I should answer her texts since she's old and doesn't see much of anyone due to her MS -- she can't get around so well.  He also thinks I'm being a dick since my mom has clearly forgiven her, but the way my mom looked when she told me about her past, I really don't think she has.  I know she's my grandma, but I don't want her in my life.  AITA?