Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : My boyfriend (30M) and I (28F) have lived together for about 3 years, we both smoke a lot of marijuana, cannabis, weed, pot, devils lettuce, whatever you want to call it. He works in the industry so he gets quite a bit for free and when we run out I buy more (with his industry discount). We have arguments over who smokes more or he gets upset because I like joints and he thinks they waste weed.  
  
But that’s not what this is about, this is about a lighter. He goes to work really early and usually takes all of the working lighter with him to work. There have been so many times that I have searched high and low for a lighter with no luck. So I run to the store and get a new one. A few weeks ago I had a brilliant idea, I bought a bright pink Djeep lighter instead of a Bic and thought ‘he will never take this’ and when he got home I even said “I bought this so you won’t take it to work”.   
  
Flash forward to yesterday morning, we were both getting ready for work. He put the bright pink Djeep lighter in his pocket. I rolled a joint and before he left I said “hey you have my lighter!” He gave it me to light the joint and I put it in my pocket. He got super upset and went into this whole rant about how I can just buy a new one. He is right, I can.. but he can too. He made me feel bad for smoking weed that he got from work and I gave him the lighter to take to work. He left angrily without saying goodbye.  
  

I’m not sure what to think and I feel like an asshole for caring about a cheap little lighter but another part of me doesn’t know.  
