Long story short. My wife of 13 years passed almost a year ago. It was looking like a devorce was on the way (from me and not related to health issues).

I work with this girl (mid to last 20s), that I'm interested in great personality and some similar interests. but she has some health issues (bad back is all I know) and trauma from her baby daddy.

Am I the asshole to being hesitant? 