Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : This happened awhile ago but I want to know if I was in the wrong here. My best friend throughout college has had her fair share of long term relationships. While she was dating one of her boyfriends  she would talk about a mutual friend of ours that she said was cute but couldn’t do much since she had a boyfriend. They broke up and she started talking with the mutual friend. He would ask her out she would turn him down and eventually she moved on and dated someone else. Outside of mentioning he was cute and they had talked but she turned him down I didn’t hear much more about him. Fast forward a couple months she’s single again and so am I. I go out with this mutual friend for New Years to drink and all night he’s touching me and hitting on me. We get back to his place and he keeps asking if we can have sex. I’m drunk and keep saying no and then change my mind. He asked if my best friend would care afterwards seeing how they talked. I told her immediately afterwards and apologized and she stopped talking to me but eventually came back and said she decided since I was just freshly single I get a pass but that I was an asshole for it. Since she had turned him down and she had dated other people i honestly didn’t see an issue since she had made it clear she wanted nothing to do with him. Plus me and him had been drinking all night and he initiated it not me. Am I the asshole here? 