I tend to get smirks, sassed, or given poor outcomes for something that I want, even though I politely and clearly state what I want. Like for example: a haircut, a fast food order, etc. 

Recently, I haven’t been scared to specify what I want. I used to let things go if they didn’t turn out the way I wanted it to be. To be fair, I used to be vague in what I want but now, I put in great detail for something and it feels good. But I mostly get attitude given towards me, such as a fast food order because I ask them to remove the may from the burger, maybe add some extra sauce and or ask for extra sauce packets. Another instance being that I got a poor, unresponsive actions towards my cut from my barber, even though I specified not to do that in a monotone voice (because I don’t put much quirkiness in my personality). 

So, am I the asshole? I politely ask for what I want, give a please and thank you, but people seem to think I’m cocky I believe? It’s not my intention but it seems people don’t like to do their job or at least perform it well. 

AITA? 