Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : So I was having some banter with a couple of chaps at the bar and my buddy Rodger is telling us how he got a promotion at work. He’s been insecure how his career recently so I congratulated him. My other friend, Jaguar, also works at the same place but didn’t receive a promotion. Jaguar thought he deserved one because him and Rodger worked on the same projects and had a similar length of tenure at the company.

My pal Rodger had a couple of fuck ups throughout the night (spilling his drink, not having any luck with the ladies, etc) and every time he had one I would say “and that’s why Jaguar should have got the promotion.” When I said this, I would receive some laughs from my chaps and it was obviously meant as a joke.

Anyways after I make the joke for the third or fourth time, Rodger tells me “You know you really hurts my feelings when you say shit like that, asshole.”

AITA here? For context, this is what our whole friend group is based on. We always make fun of each other but it’s all in good fun. Did I take it too far or is Rodger just taking out his anger on me?