Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : We were 11 at the time and me her dated for 3 years. I'm 21 now and have a fiance. I love her so much and want to spend the rest of my life with her. I'm curious if talking to said ex will be a wrong move even if it's just a friendly catchup chat. I'm worried she'll still consider it a proper ex even though we were so young back then so I'm just checking base before I do anything. 

What does reddit think? 