I just had hernia repair surgery and am in my first day of recovery - I'm in a lot of pain. I'm scheduled to be out of work for two weeks. My girlfriend had plans to go see a show with her sister tomorrow night. To be fair, the show was scheduled before my surgery. But her sister has some undiagnosed illness, and if I get what sounds like the cold/flu it would make my recovery far worse - especially if I end up with a cough. I told her it's not worth the risk and to not worry about the money (under 100) spent. But she still wants to go. AITA?