Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : So I'll get to it. Me (19f) have had a best friend (19m) for more than 2 years now. We've been through shit and though amazing times. Lately we went through a tough period and we're not really just as close. There are some things left unsaid and seems like no one wanted to say them.

For context, he;s been smoking weed for about a year and a half or more and has these 3 friends he does it with, which in my opinion are toxit (barely graduted, spending their parents' money and doing/dealing weed etc). He knows I don't like them, but I've never been to vocal about it.

So today I caught him in a small lie and got all annoyed and I snaped. So I told him everything I had on my soul, and poured my soul. He's been smoking HUGE amounts lately, like huge, more than he has ever before and hangs out with these friends all the time just to smoke and drive around the town. I know those friends are into stronger stuff and I'm really scared he might end up doing other things as well. So I told him that I care, that he is not heading in the right direction imo and he should really be more careful as those guys are just there for him when it comes to smoking, not real friends like me and him have been. Told him I can't stand to watch it. He replied "stop texting me SHIT LIKE THIS". 

I can't tie myself to someone doing things like this, I was more open than ever, but I've just started therapy after almost killing myself and I can't have toxit people and drugs in my life. Told him that, from my point of view, unless he decides to contact me and talk about it, our friendship is over.

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I'm heartbroken but I can't watch how my best friend is slowly changing to the point I don't recognize him. Was I the asshole here? 