So ive been talking to a girl for about 2 months now and I really like her. She has a child already and I have yet to meet him because we are taking things slow. We arent "officially" together but we do everything a couple would normally do. Including sex on a regular basis. Now this is where I fucked up but I didnt wear a condom any time we had sex. She is on the pill and in my previous relationships ive never used a condom if the girl was on the pill and never had an issue. Now, she is very conservative and doesnt believe in terminating a pregnancy no matter what the situation is. I on the other hand believe that would be the best option considering im really not finacially or emotionally ready to raise a child. Especially with someone I feel like I just met. I told her this and she looked at me like I just stepped on a kitten. She's really not happy about it either and also thinks its a fucked up situation but she doesnt think she could live with herself if she got an abortion. I really dont know what to do and im scared out of my mind that I could potentially have a kid with someone I hardly got to know. Am I an asshole for wanting her to get an abortion? Im also curious as to if anyone else was in a similar situation and what there decision was.