Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : So my gf(21F) and I (22M) we’re trying to figure out what to do New Years. I suggest a place with open bar as we’re both of age and I have off work the next day which is unusual for me. She then tells me we can’t cause she spends every year with her friend (20F) who is underage. And she has no other friends to spend the new year with. This made me upset as we are both overage and this is the first time I’ve been of age with a S.O.

       I was low key hinting that she doesn’t have to spend every New Years with her and we could do our own thing. But she didn’t want any of that.  So she’s been trying to find options that are 18 plus which are few and far between. But pretty much there’s only shitty house parties and Dave and busters. Neither of which seem like a good time for New Years. 


     My Gf is stressing out over this about trying to make everyone happy. She suggested I go out with other people and do my own thing but as we’ve been dating a year I obviously want to spend New Years with her.  So I just compromised with her to go to some shitty warehouse party so her friend will be able to go. 

  AITA for wanting my girlfriend to just tell her friend she’s hanging out with me so we can go out and go to actual New Years events as 95% of them are 21+?


   TLDR; want to go to bars for New Years . gf has to hangout with friend who is underage so I compromise to go to shitty warehouse party