Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : So long story short I recently had an abortion fathered by a friend of mine. He was supportive during, he came down to see me for the two days I went through it and, though it was kind of painful, we managed quite well just eating chocolate in bed and watching movies. Now however, it’s taken a bit of a turn. Basically he wanted me to call up my abortion clinic and ask for an email confirmation of my abortion so he could use it to get extended time for essays. I told him I did not want to do that, that it made me feel sick and uncomfortable and reopened stuff I just wanted to forget about. He then started calling me selfish, that he was emotionally affected by it too and that he needed the evidence to get the time as the two days he spent with me were on the week everything was taught for his essays. We sort of left it last night with me agreeing to call them, even though I still really didn’t want to, then this morning I asked if he was going to apologise for shouting at me and calling me selfish. He point blank refused. He said that he stood by every word he said and that I was being selfish and not thinking about him. He then said ‘are we done? Cos I need to go sort my life out’ and we hung up. I’ve spoken to my housemate and she said I was well within my right to refuse to do something I didn’t want to. I’m glad she is sticking with me because otherwise I would probably feel like I had done something wrong. I love this guy and understand that he truly believes he needs this evidence and that he will fail if he doesn’t - I just don’t know how to feel, am I really being so ridiculously selfish? 

