Some background: I recently got my heart broken, the man I was in love with cheated on me for months and after I ended it with him, he got together with the woman he cheated with. They both work at the same company as me which means seeing them quite often and together and it’s incredibly hard. I’ve been feeling insecure and depressed because of this. 
I have a good friend who has had a pretty obvious crush on me for a while now, but he never said anything specifically about it to me. A few nights ago, after a particularly bad day he showed up at my apartment confessing his love for me, telling me that he would never hurt me like the others. Before I really knew what was happening we were kissing. We ended up sleeping together and I had a panic attack the morning after and basically ended up kicking him out so that I could get myself together. We haven’t spoken since, he blocked my number and refuses to be in the same room as me. Am I the asshole? Does this count as leading someone on? Did I take advantage? 
