Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : I'm waiting for an official diagnosis from a specialist, but it is strongly looking like I have a something called Ehlers Danlos Syndrome (EDS.) **EDS is genetic**, and frankly this is where my problem is.

I have siblings, and the one sister I am very close to (G,) has some similar symptoms. So, I've been talking with G about the medical concerns. My spouse and I have only told my medical stuff to my parents, his parents, my best friend/her spouse, G/her spouse, and my husbands boss. Basically, we only told people who are a part of our emergency childcare plan as my symptoms can flare up unexpectedly, can take significant time to recover from, and my spouses career sometimes has him away from home for extended periods of time.

Unfortunately G has a history of taking my personal information, and telling others, under the guise of being 'well meaning.' Since *I do not have a 100% confirmed diagnosis*, I said I was not telling our oldest sister, C, and I asked G **specifically by name** not to talked to her about it either. I stated my reasons not to tell C yet is because she lives nearly 3000 km/2000 mi away, does not have any family nearby for support (as she's in a different country,) and our healthcare systems are different – I do not want to jeopardize her healthcare on the off chance that my health concerns are an acute issue just limited to me.

Sure enough, G told C. And, she told her incorrect information on top of it. G stated that EDS is just like Fibromyalgia (it's not,) had C and her spouse run through a physical test (the Beighton Score,) that my diagnosis was absolute and set-in-stone (again, nope,) and I am officially disabled for life (which is something that can only be speculated once I have the diagnosis in hand.) I completely understand that G is concerned, may have questions, or may be frustrated that it's 'another thing to add to her busy life.' BUT I ensured that she could talk to her spouse or our parents if she didn't want to discuss this stuff with me.

I approached G after taking a night to calm down, and reinstated that I do not want her to share my health concerns with anyone. I said if she wants to talk to people about her health, she is welcome to, but please do not talk about mine. While when I confronted G, she claimed she 'only mentioned I had back issues,' which C already debunked. I told her that while I understand that she is likely very worried herself, that she really betrayed my trust, even after I pointed out to her her history of sharing news that isn't hers, and plainly asking her to not mention this at all with C. I said that she knew she had other people she could've talked to (our parents, her spouse,) and she directly went against my wishes. In response, she said again 'it isn't a big deal, I apologize but I was worried, and if you feel that way, don't talk to me again.' She called me an asshole, and ultimately blocked me.

So, AITA here?