Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : We were a group of four students age between 20 and 25 and had to do a small project for work.
we had to write some bulletpoints and got a big sheet of paper for that.
I passed the paper to the only girl in our group and said that the hand writing of a girl is usually better. 
The lecturer perceived it as sexism and told the girl to stand up for herself if she does not feel like doing the task.
I was rather trying to break the ice and not commanding her.
It wasnt about the work or task itself (also because the outcome of our work was totally irrelevant and it was just an exercise)

retrospectively she might have perceived it as sexism. I do not have a guilty conscience. But I would like to know your opinion.