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So let’s get started. During summer vacation when I was 13, I went to a summer day camp. It was fun and I made some friends but there was this one girl I really clicked with. She was a year older than me, but it wasn’t a big deal. 

We could joke about anything, and we would constantly tell each other our weirdest pickup lines. It was a week long camp, and on the second day, we were sitting next to each other and she grabbed my inner thigh quite far up my leg. She said “when she grabs your inner thigh” and started laughing. I laughed to, thinking nothing of it. 

Third day, and we were talking and I told her I liked her. She said she liked me to. She said she wanted to make out, so we went to go do it (I had never done it before), and right before she went to kiss me, she freaked out. She said she wasn’t ready for a relationship. I said ok. It was her last day at the camp, and apparently she felt bad for messing with me and cried in the bathroom afterwards.  

We had exchanged numbers, and we would still occasionally text. She said we could be friends and would see how it went from there. I would text her asking if she wanted to hang out, she wouldn’t respond. We would have a five minute conversation every couple months. 

Nearly a year later, I was fed up. I told her I might as well delete her number, since it seemed that she had no interest in being friends. She said she wanted to hang out. I said I was free for the next 4 days, she says she’ll go ask her mum if/when she could hang out. 

Two hours later, she texts me saying I have a wrong number. I ask if it’s her,  she says yes. I say it’s u/SpyTrain_from_Canada, she says she doesn’t know a u/SpyTrain_from_Canada. I again ask if it her, by her full name. She admits she remembers me and just wanted to get rid of me. 

I called her a terrible person, and deleted her contact.

I fell like I acted like an incel or something. AITA?

(Sorry for being so long winded).  