Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST :  Ok so, I have a “friend” whom I’ve known for about two years . We met at work and we then started to hang out , she would open up to me because me being a good friend , I would always listen to her . I’d stop what I was doing, answer her phone calls . I was always pretty much there for her.. if she didn’t want to be at home , I’d take her out and I always paid. It didn’t bother me , as long as she was happy that’s all I cared about . If she didn’t have gas money , I’d give her some ,that way she can get to and from work.  I never asked for her to pay me back at all. Also , when I wanted to vent about something , she was never there.. fast forward a bit, she has a different job with better pay , and not once has she invited me out to do anything.  I started to realize that she wasn’t a friend , she was just using me .. so I don’t reply to her messages anymore or calls.  I mean is that ok, if I just ignore her ??