Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : Ok, so this past school year has been a mess. I know a lot of this I’m going to tell u is me being a asshole already. Sorry in advance about way too much detailed than needed I’m really nervous and this is my first time posting on Reddit and I’m also on mobile. 

My now ex: B 
Ex’s new gf: K 
Ex’s best friend: J 
Ex’s best friend’s gf: E
Best friend: A 
Any names used is not the real name of person just theses are the main people. 

Last school year was my first year of high school. I was in the band and I met B well we started dating as soon as the school year started basically. I became friends with E and J hated me. He had a crush on B. 

Before I even met K she gave me a dirty look because she had a crush on B. B and I would poke each other in the hallway and that was out weird way of flirting. That was even before we got together. 

I met K at the homecoming pep rally and I didn’t talk to her really, mostly because I didn’t know her gender and didn’t want to misgender her. 

Now the first question if I am an asshole is with me and my best friend A. 

B and I have been dating for about a month at this point. Well we were at Beta. If you don’t know what Beta Club is just look it up. 

A didn’t go to school with us, but I went to school with him on and off my whole life. I dated A in 7th grade to piss off a girl that no one liked, but followed around my friend group. B already knew this. When Beta came around I haven’t seen A for like 3 months. Well at beta I was hanging out with B and Mad. We met up with A and went to Hot Topic because we are just emo teens. Well I was talking to A and just walking. Well I accidentally left B and Mad. They got mad. B got mad and I apologized. 

This isn’t where it ends with the story with A. 

After Beta was over we went back to school and everything was fine. A and I didn’t really text before Beta, so we never really texted after Beta either. 

I don’t remember how long after Beta, but B was walking me to 6th period. 
B told me that J was cheating on E with K. 
Well I was shook. 

Well long story short. E and J were still together. K was acting like she did nothing wrong and was writing edgy poems about me and E. 

Yes I did ask B not to talk to her because I didn’t trust her. 
Yes I did ask B to save there msges on snap because she could easily make it look like he said something he didn’t. 
Yes I hated K. 
K and her best friend at one point tried to FaceTime B after he said I’m getting in the shower. 
K and I also argued a lot, but just stopped talking to each other. 

Yes I know I was a asshole for most of that. 

Well lets fast forward to this past summer and now we are back on the topic of A. 

This past summer B had family issues and wasn’t able to talk to me a lot. His cousin was a ass to me from Easter till the school year ended and because of that our relationship was already damaged. 

Well A and I started talking a lot more. We talked about Star vs the forces of evil, Steven universe, and other cartoon stuff. 

Well later. When I say later I mean about a week ago. I found out that B was upset about this because I would talk about A and I acting like idiots on FaceTime and ya having the time of our life. 

The start of this school year was a something. I found out my grandmother had a spot of cancer (she is ok now) and she was going to have a surgery to get it removed. Well my dad was like ya I’m moving down to Florida to take care of your grandma after her surgery. 

Well this hit me hard because I feel like my dad is the only adult I can talk to. 

Well the school year started well I had like 4 classes with K. Well I decided to msg her and be like yo I’m cool and shit. Well later I did apologize to K and we were cool.  

She became one of my literal best friends. I told her everything. I don’t open up to people a lot, but I opened up to her about family stuff. Like stuff I only told B. I even told her about me knowing I been a asshole to B because I been mad at the world. She even told me stuff that you wouldn’t just tell anyone. 

Well this past Beta A LOT of shit went down. The only thing that matters is that B got mad because we hanged out with A. I thought he overreacting. I also kicked J out of the hotel room because K was uncomfortable with him being in there, so I told him to get out I said something that was true about J, but pissed off B’s cousin. 

Well B and I broke up. Now let’s get into the real shit that happened with me and K. 

K WAS FUCKING TELLING B ONLY THE BAD SHIT I SAID ABOUT B. Ok every time when I was venting about B I always said at the end that I still love him though. 

I knew K still had a crush on B btw. I trusted that she wouldn’t do anything. 

Ok well about a week after B and I broke up K just completely stopped talking to me. Well her and her friend H was talking and I found out that K was talking to B. 

I was playing dumb with B and was like oh who’s K talking to. He was like I will tell you later. He told me while we were texting when we got home. I died laughing. Less than a week later they were dating and less than a month after we broke up. 

Let me note. K didn’t come to me and say hey me and B are talking or hey me and B are dating. 

I found out they were dating because my friend Kay told me. 

If she told me they were talking I would have actually give her some best friend advice and said listen I’m not going to say I’m not mad and I won’t be salty, but bitch it’s been less than a month me and him have been broken up if you want to make sure your not a rebound wait after New Years.(this was in mid December) 

Well now it’s been 3 months since B and I broke up and well I’m not as sad that we broke up I’m more mad that K pretended to be my friend for 3 months. 

Literally B will still msg me to “tell me off” about telling people that she pretended to be my friend. 

Even now K is telling B lies about me. 


Am I a asshole for thinking that B was over reacting over A? 
My opinion: I can see both sides 
 Am I a asshole for being mad that K pretended to be my friend and still my bf? 
My opinion: no 

Tbh I left a lot of details, so if you don’t understand something ask. 

I may do more post about this break up because sis there is so much. 