Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : I'd known this girl for about two years and I swore she was my absolute best friend (let's call her Leah). We would hang out every time we had the chance. After a little while, she introduced me to another friend of hers, who I got along with pretty all right, and I thought I ought to invite said person (we'll call him Ed) to hang out with Leah and I on the weekends.

So, I invite Ed and Leah over on the weekends, always making sure to ask a week ahead so they would have time to check with their parents, and they always promised to ask their parents. I ask them both the first weekend we were planning to hang out.

Ed told me that he couldn't go because his mother said it was too short notice. I brush it off because I have crazy parents and I understand. I text Leah that Ed wasn't going to be able to make it, but she and I could still hang out.

Leah declined the offer. I understood. We reschedule for the next weekend.

I ask them Friday afternoon if we're still good to hang out the next day. Again, Ed says it's too short notice, and I ask when would be a good time for him to hang out. He said anytime, just not this weekend. I understood and again told Leah that Ed wouldn't be able to make it. Again, she decided it would just be better to reschedule again, as it would be less fun without Ed.

So we reschedule again. They both cancel again.

We get to the weekend, I ask Ed if he's still good, and he actually says yes. I immediately text Leah to see if she's still good to hang out. She canceled to go to a concert, and I broke down and cry.

I left Leah and Ed alone for a week just to let myself calm down and give them some time in case they wanted space. They both mentioned to me that they wanted to hang out sometime. 

When they canceled again, I snap. Ed told me it was too last minute, Leah didn't want to hang out without him there, and I told them both that I was getting fed up.

I very explicitly told them that I didn't want to continue being friends with them if they would keep canceling on me last minute because they kept asking their parents too late, to either get their act together or don't talk to me again.

Leah texted me back saying that what I had told her was abusive and manipulative (her actual words), and that I couldn't just cut off our relationship. I told her that for the past five times, she and Ed had canceled on me last minute and that I wasn't going to have that, that a genuine friendship requires effort. She then brought up that we had known each other for two years now, and to break off our friendship over this was stupid. Leah brought up all of the things we had done together (gone to the movies, gotten food, etc) and I snapped at her saying that I had paid for all of those times we had hung out, and that she was manipulative for trying to keep me in a friendship I didn't want to be in.

Was I the asshole?