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The other day at around 3am I got a call from friend (S) that his mom scratched him with a knife and she was furious cause she found out he was gay. I stayed on the phone with S to calm him down

I told S he needed to leave, and that he had a spot at mine for as long as he needed. He refused saying it would make things worse. I said he was an adult and she had no power over him. His safety was more important than anything (he told me he was afraid of being stabbed)

S had to talk to his dad so he got off the phone but texted me. I called other friend (L) S lived closer too, explained some if S needed a place closer. L said yes so I told S. I call my gf. S texted me throughout saying he couldn’t leave, but he would stay awake until he had class and call me driving. S called me elaborated, and I tried saying my place was open. S refused, I had class so I dropped it

FF afternoon. One of the friends (A) in the group asked if S was alright cause of snap story. L told A S is ok

A texted S, who said he was fine. A texted me and L asked for more info, we refused

Later in the day (we have group skype to) S asked if anyone was up for a call while he drove home. I said yes so I called. Nobody picked up and A told me S was driving

FF to later A texts me telling me S and her talked during ride home. I asked if S was ok or told her anything. A said yeah got told everything. A said that his mom was batshit but leaving would’ve made the problem worse and it was a hard situation. I said don’t say to S that leaving is bad it’s gonna just make him feel trapped. I said his well-being is worth more and he has places to go. A said but where is he gonna go pay for his college etc

This infuriated me. I left my abusive house just last August because my girlfriend convinced me I could leave. Nobody else ever helped me. I felt trapped with no way out and didn’t want S feeling that way. A is aware this

I told her that she didn’t understand what she was talking about and that S was with his mother who hurt him. he could come to mine and that he was feeling trapped when he could leave if he’s being hurt. A said that that’s not what she meant. I said that’s what she just said. I didn’t look at any more cause I was angry

Twenty minutes later I get a call from my sister saying L said A is crying and freaking out that she upset me. I said I was upset with her but I’m not gonna stop being her friend I just need time to cool. My sister said okay and it ended there

I looked later and A had sent me a bunch of texts apologizing. I didn’t reply. We still streak on Snapchat but I only had vague convos with her

I get a long text the next day about everything she’s going through in life and with this. I told her that I would still be her friend, but I’m still upset I just need some time

L is saying I’m just freaking A out these last few days. I’m not ready to say it’s ok. I need space. Everyone has their own opinion on me being angry at A and I need to know AITA