Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Some months ago, my father in law passed away after a couple of months of fighting a terminal disease (he really was a strong man and we genuinely thought that he would beat his cancer). 
After funeral arrangements were going on, I learned that my mother in law was mildly struggling to pay for the funeral services, so I asked for a bank loan and offered her some money to pay for it. It was not really much (around  2K) but in that moment it was kind of a big amount for us: my wife and I have two babies and last year came back to our home country after I finished my PhD studies, so we were not in a good financial spot....

So after offering the money, my mother in law asks my wife for a bigger amount to pay off some debts. I said no, since I felt we were making already a good deed in helping pay for the funeral. At the end she took the 2K.

To this day I still feel guilty for denying the higher amount. AITA?

TLDR: mother in law was in financial crisis, so I offered some money, she asked for more and I said no.