Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : This boy and I are in the same orchestra and we met through a mutual friend. I thought he was awesome to talk to. He was funny and loved music just as much as I did. 

Then he said he wanted to start dating.

I told him I didn’t want a relationship. He kept asking me, and then it got so bad that he professed his love to me all the time and was constantly seeing when I was on social media so he could talk to me. He even brought up sex, which I *definitely* didn’t want to do with him. After it got to a breaking point, I started ignoring him for fear of my own safety.

I went to orchestra one day to talk to the mutual friend, and she ignored me! Her friends ignored me too. I realized that the boy had badmouthed me to all his friends, which were also my friends. Now, I’m an enemy for making a choice.

I feel guilty for ignoring him, but he was almost rapey! Should I have not ignored him?