I would go for a wall text here, but the question is quite simple: I talked with a girl for a whole month, then she started to take 1 or 2 days to answer me, sometimes didn't answering at all.

I didn't complained about it, but I got tired and then did the same thing when she replyed me back. Now she keep sending me messages of how I'm such an asshole. Is dealing with situations like that in "eye for an eye mode" that bad?