Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : I’ll start from the beginning. We’ll call him Noah. So, N and I have been in the same choir for half a year. Because we’ve had hours upon hours to be around each other, we’d become close friends. 

Then, about a month ago, Noah texts me, saying something along the lines of “Thank you for being such a good friend to me, don’t let anyone change who you are, goodbye.” As it would any friend, this message extremely worried me. Long story short, I called the police, they went to his house, and found he had taken a bunch of pills. They took him to the hospital and saved his life.

Now, about a week or two ago, Noah asks me out, and I say yes. Truth be told, I had started to like him about a month before the incident. We start dating, and all is going well. Until he texts me that this girl he knew (we’ll call her Nadine) texted him that if he didn’t date her, she was going to kill herself. To me, this sounded like obvious manipulation. I’m still not sure whether he actually didn’t see it, or just didn’t care, but Noah (after relating to me what had happened) asked me if we could go on a break (so he could date her). He also says that he likes her. Slightly annoyed, I said, in *the* most passive aggressive tone, “sure”.

Fast forward to last Thursday. It’s the night of our concert, so, instead of going home for the day like usual at 3:30, we stay to prepare for the concert at 7:00. Other than the choir Noah and I are in, there are two other choirs, and we’ll all perform together for the concert. In one of the choirs is a guy I also like. We’ll call him Sean. Note that Sean and Noah are friends. 

Our choir director orders a pizza to arrive at 5:30. At 5:00, we finish practice/preparation, and have a bit of free time. The cafeteria is full, so Sean, Noah, and a few of our other friends go sit at one of the outside tables. I had forgotten my jacket (note that *everyone* else is wearing a jacket), and it was really cold, so I was freezing. After sitting there shivering for a minute or two, Sean takes off his jacket and offers it to me. 

Noah says “If you put that on, we’re done.”

So I put it on!

What do you guys think? AITA?

Tldr; Friend tries to kill himself, we start dating, he wants to take a break to date a different girl who threatened to kill herself if he didn’t date her. Him, a different guy, and I are outside and I’m freezing, so the different guy offers me his jacket. Then he says if I put on other guy’s jacket, “we’re done,” so I put it on.