Going to try to be a bit vague but give as much detail as I can. Long story short my bf of a few months has free shows with a group (not a band) about 5 a month. When we first started dating he invited me very often and it kind of went away. He then just started letting me after the shows happened. I brought this up to him and expressed that I really got into his shows and would like to know. A little bit of background here I am not a social person at all and he is so this is the only time I got out at all. Anyways fast forward a few weeks and it happens again when he stops telling me about his shows and even going out to a bar after the shows and telling me a few days later about those nights. Well now to today we made plans and I had text him twice asking him what he was doing tonight and told me he had to work at the gym after seeing me that’s all. He then sneaks in a conversation he has a show and I ask him it’s too late for me to go but why he forgot to tell me if I has asked him about tonight already. I honestly don’t feel he’s hiding it or purposeful doesn’t want to invite me. I approached it in a nicely manner and he broke up with me:/ so AITA for asking to be invited to my bf’s shows? 