Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : I'm 14M my brother is 16M so he's been around my whole life. He's objectively bloody annoying. He talks about the same stuff over and over again no matter how often you say that he's already told you that. In addition he will sometimes have violent hysteric meltdowns where he will scream and flail around. 

Strangely enough I've never been to bothered by him in the past. I've just always been used to it I guess. He used to be so much worse to. His meltdowns are *a lot* less frequent but they also bother me a lot more. I don't know why but I've come to fucking hate everything about him, his annoying, whiny voice, his stupid-ass face, the way he always skipps about the hallways. Everything about him irritates me to no end. I avoid seing him as much as possible because if I do I just end up wanting to punch a hole in his stupid face. 

I reckon I've been feeling a bit rubbish lately so maybe that's why but it seems unlikely. I have no idea where this is coming from. He is getting less annoying but I'm getting more annoyed. It doesn't make sense.

I think I might already know the answer but I just need to ask: am I the asshole?