
Best friend of 2 years, lived together for 10 months. We are both low income(we like stress free jobs) mid 20s. We even work(ed) in the same place. We both had a crush on this girl(lets call her Gaby) from work and one thing led to another i ended up dating her for 5 months. We never talked about the words bf/gf but we did talk about if we were seeing other people and both of us said no, and I was happy and she liked that too  Recently we even had talked about looking at new apartments when my lease was up so i thought it was ramping up to something serious.



Idk if this is an asshole thing for bringing it up, but it was used as an excuse. Gaby is bipolar and sometimes acts rash or makes strange discisions but i can live with that. She goes to therapy twice a month. 



Better part of a week ago Besty and I been drinking but I don't feel good and go to sleep early. Besty goes to hang out and drink more at a nearby friends house and Gaby is there too. You can probably guess what happens, they 'got too drunk' and smash. 3rd party friend immediatly tells me. Besty is blaming it on the alcohol and even her being bipolar comes up. After a short heated argument my besty tells me Gabys not my gf and hes been upset at me the whole time for not 'making her my girlfriend' because he had a crush on her too when we all first started hanging out.



Haven't talked to Gaby, we didnt block eachother but I havent bothered talking to her and she hasn't made an attempt to contact me. We normally talk every day. Don't think I even care anymore.



So... We are already late on this month's rent and I tell the landlord he's not getting my rent anymore and I'm out, the whole Fuck off and everything. We have an eviction and at this point owe a LOT. Besty doesn't have ANY family and probably has less than a hundred bucks and doesn't drive. We have the same friends and I went pretty aggressive slandering his name and I know they're not helping him because... I'm staying with the only one that had room.



He's about to be homeless with an eviction on his record and I feel... Delighted, angry, sad, and like a monster because no one is perfect but I genuinely feel so hurt I just want him to suffer. 




I may have just ruined his life. 



TL;DR: He drunkingly slept with this girl ive been seeing for months and trying to make it serious. I know hes liked her. Out of spite i got us evicted and i know hes really bad off because hes asking around for help and he has no family or money to fall back on.

