TL;DR at the bottom.

Ok so... I’ve been with my girlfriend now for almost 4 years and things are great. We have our ups and downs but hey who doesn’t. 

Recently she invited me to go to a concert with her in a town that’s 4 hrs away, I said of course I would go and everything was fine, we booked tickets, parking, etc. (our plan was to drive down and back home straight after the concert) flash forward 4 months to 2 weeks before the concert and she turns around and says I can’t go anymore because she wants to go with her other girlfriends, so I’m like that’s cool, I’ll just stay home. 

But she asks me if I will drive her and her friends down to this concert 4 hrs away, then sit in the car and wait in the car park for her for another 4 hrs and then drive 4 hrs home. I say no and she looses her mind, saying that I’m a horrible boyfriend and why won’t I take her down to this concert and sit in the car, in a car park and wait for 4 hrs with nothing to do. 

She goes on being cranky at me for a week about it until eventually I give in and say I’ll drive her and wait, but her and her friends have to chip in for fuel. But then she gets cranky all over again saying no. I “offered” to take her so I should pay the fuel. 

So now I’m sitting in a car park, it’s 8pm. I’ve been here since 6pm wondering. AITA?

TL;DR - My girlfriend of 4 years invited then uninvited me to a concert and then expected I drive her 4 hrs there, wait 4 hrs then drive 4 hrs back