She keeps bringing up the fact she doesnt want to change her last name. Like she just randomly brings up the topic unprovoked a lot. Both of our last names are the same length and difficulty. But she gives me a lot of shit for saying id want to share a last name if we ever get married. My reasoning is that it feels more real to share last names as opposed to just being a sperm donar and claiming eachother on taxes, it removes any confusion about who we are as a family and what the kids last name would be, and im the last of my line so my last name dies with me. Id rather take her last name than nothing at all but if i got to pick id want her to take mine. Am i the asshole for wanting to feel like were more than tax buddies?