Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Backstory on the people and location - Long time friends of mine and my wife (known her 15+ years, him since they've been together) stay with us occasionally. They live several hours away. We know this couple well, have traveled with them, my wife was in their wedding, etc. Overall relationship is very good. Her parents are in the same area as us, but have a small house that is at capacity and not convenient for them to stay in so they usually stay at our place. We have a guest room with a nice bed, they have full use of a separate bathroom, a driveway where they can leave their car without blocking us in, etc. We go out of our way to make sure everyone has what they need. Last trip, they brought their baby and we had a portable crib set up and rocking chair in the room. The bed in question used to be mine but wasn't used much after my now wife and I moved in together as she had a larger bed. Many friends and family have slept on the guest one recently, including me occasionally - no complaints. It was quality when I bought it, not some cheap "it's only for the guest room" bed.

So, the wife in this couple comes out for the weekend to go to an event in our area. We repeatedly offer the guest room, but she declines each time and stays with her parents. I figure since it's just her and she had no car because she flew in, etc. it was just easier. My wife had dinner with her one of the nights she was in town. I wasn't there, so I'm hearing this third party, but it's from my wife and I believe the details to be true. This person informed my wife that the real reason she didn't stay with us is because this bed is "so uncomfortable" and her and her husband couldn't stand it the last time they stayed with us a few nights as mentioned earlier. I thought this was pretty audacious to bring up about free accommodations even if what she was saying was accurate. She then proceeded to show my wife texts FROM THE HUSBAND encouraging her to bring up how bad the bed is! My wife arrived home around 10:30 that night and told me about it. She felt bad (scratching my head over that reaction). I nearly hit the ceiling. I thought it was incredibly rude and ungrateful, not to mention completely false. If anything, they have a hardness/softness preference that this bed doesn't meet, but that doesn't make it a bad bed and sure as shit doesn't mean I should have to do dick to resolve it.

To further complicate matters, my wife informed this person that we have another mattress in the basement that is unused and maybe they could try that one. Sorry, but there is no way I'm moving a mattress up two flights of stairs in the off chance that it \*might\* be acceptable for people who stay with us maybe 6 nights total in a year. On top of that, I'm not inclined to do anything besides make a hotel recommendation after this load of unappreciative bullshit over what is essentially a free and very convenient, safe, and quiet place to stay.

AITA here? Thanks.