Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : As the title says, every time somebody opens up to me with a problem, especially out of nowhere I get really annoyed, even when its a very close friend. Obviously I don't externalize my frustrations and I try to listen and help them the best I could but I just can't help but feeling like getting out the conversation as soon as I possibly can. Maybe its because I never open up to my friends so I don't feel like they should open up to me? I don't know. It just feels bad because I feel like its making me not help them or hear them out properly because I don't even want to in the first place

An example of this is literally just a few minutes ago, a close friend of mine messaged me out of nowhere while I was watching a show (The Sopranos, great fucking show) talking about how down she was that her partner broke up with her and how this is exacerbating her depression all I could think was why the fuck was this happening now of all times when I'm comfy as hell and the show is getting heated. Another example is every time me and my friends would drink, whenever someone gets sad alcohol sad and cries about things I usually go talk to them and try to hear them out but I just cant shake off the thought of "why the fuck are you doing this now, drinking is supposed to be a happy thing, I'm in a good mood, why the fuck are you killing the vibe god fucking damn"