Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : I work at a thrift store helping people drop off their donations. This guy came with a truck full of big boxes, gets off, says “everything.” And just sits in his car. Normally I would just shrug and do my job but I felt like this was a little disrespectful and my coworker is a 55 year old retired man, the guy was young and looked healthy enough to help out. So i ask him to and he does but starts asking me questions like “is this volunteer work?” “Don’t you get paid for this shit?” I tell him that my job is to HELP. Not to unload everything for you. (My manager confirmed this in a later conversation) we finish and he keeps cussing under his breath and calls me a piece of shit as he gets in his car. I even let him know his truck was leaking as he closed the door. What do you guys think? Am I a lazy fuck or am I wrong for thinking its common sense to assume you have to lend a hand when dropping off big boxes well, anywhere. 

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I asked a guy to help me out when he came to drop off some stuff. He wanted to sit and wait in his car so he didn’t like that too much. Am I the asshole? 