Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : So my fiancee's best friend got me a great job. My position is constant, hers is based in billable hours.

I didnt really think about why she didnt have the day before our wedding off, and asked her project manager if maybe if there's a possibility could she see if that time could be freed up?

Now the MOH is about to start a giant project and she will he lead with maybe one or two other competent co workers, in my mind asking this personal favor was no big deal.

She texted me going nuclear about how I put her employment at risk. 

I know a wedding isn't a giant important thing for corporations vs profits and work or whatever but it seems like MOH and best man duties would warrant time, if it was a flight this wouldn't even be an issue. Its local so she wont have to drive far.


Now the KICKER is while I was asking her PM, I also asked a dozen family members.
I literally dont need her help anymore.

I still have a hard time comprehending that what I did could in any way threaten her job.

Awkward sure, unprofessional sure, but I mean she really blew up.

Had to ask you all. I feel like an asshole.