Today I(19F) asked for a break from my boyfriend of 6 months because I found a guy at a party attractive and started flirting with him at the party. It didn't go any further, but I realized the next morning that maybe I am not ready for the commitment that comes with being in a relationship and that I missed being single. Being in a relationship makes me complacent, so I decided that I wanted to work on myself until I'm happy with who I am before committing. I feel bad because this really has nothing to do with him and a lot to do with my own insecurity and need for validation, but I also don't want to be unfair to him and be in a relationship where I constantly feel like I want to flirt or do stuff with other guys. Am I the asshole for asking for a break and if so what can I do instead? Thanks guys. 