Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : My kids dad and I are separated and I am main carer during the week of our the kids. He has them for 24 hours once a week (Saturday night through to Sunday afternoon.) I love my kids dearly but single parenting is hard work, I also work 30 hours a week so enjoy my day off to get stuff done and have some time to myself. 

March 31 is mothers day here in the UK and my ex asked me if I'd like to keep the kids that weekend. I haven't replied as I'm really not sure how I feel about it. I kind of want to say I still want my day off but get them to make me a card. I'm just not sure if that makes me an asshole. 