Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : So, to start things off, I have ASD, which makes feelings hard to grasp for me. Also, I am considered fairly attractive by many people, including platonic friends, though I don't really get how myself, and as such I get a fair amount of looks from girls. 

Enough humblebragging though, my problem with girls has always been that I never pursue them, even when there is mutual attraction, or even feelings for each other. I don't know why I do this, though if I'd guess, it would be laziness mixed with depression and some deep seated insecurities. 

It's always the same thing, I meet a girl, we hang out, things develop, and then I either pull away, or just give up. I feel like an asshole, because I can never give them a decent answer, since I'm terrible with expressing myself, and I don't even know why myself, really. My friends have had to call me out, because when I get nervous I stop putting in any effort, and usually let things die off.

I don't want this to happen, especially when there is mutual feelings/attraction, but I always end up doing this, and in some cases, I've stringed girls along for months, in one case a full year because I don't know how to go any further than flirting. To everyone else, I'm either seen as callous, or just like having girls around for my ego, and I'm starting to wonder if they're right.

Am I the asshole for not putting in the effort with girls, which usually ends up with us cutting contact, or me leading them on. I don't want to do this, but I keep pulling the same shit. So, asshole or not?