Tandi McCain:  What should I do ?
Ronald McCain: I do n't know , sweetheart . What would you do ?
Detective Olivia Benson: I think that has to be Tandi 's decision , but I 've known many rape victims who 've regretted not going to court and I 've never met _ one _ who 's regretted it .
Ronald McCain: Win or lose ?
Detective Olivia Benson: Yeah . Even if you do lose , you 've already faced your attacker and named him for what he is .