Bessie Potter:  The way I see it , the second kiss is always tougher then the first one .
Joey: We actually kissed more than once that night .
Bessie Potter: Yeah , but it only counts as one , and that first kiss ? It 's the passionate _ one _ . It 's the one fueled by desire and attraction and all that . Well , the second kiss is rational . You 've got time to think about it , to worry and overanalyze . Most women , they prefer that first kiss ... but I 'm partial to the second one because it 's about something more . You 'll get that second kiss , Joey , and when you do , it 'll be great . It 'll be real . It 'll be meaningful .