Elaine Frye Cavanaugh:  I tried to instill discipline in June . Do well in school , practice your piano . And Roger would come right along behind me and spoil her with candy and sleepovers . That 's why I divorced him .
Detective Elliot Stabler: Yeah , well , it 's a tough world out there , you ca n't screw around .
Elaine Frye Cavanaugh: Clearly you have children .
Detective Elliot Stabler: I 've got _ five _ .
Elaine Frye Cavanaugh: Then you know perfection is n't easily attained .