Ben McBride:  Jane . I need you to listen to me , 'cause it might be the last time I ever get to talk to you . I haven't been a good enough father . You 're _ fourteen _ . You have no idea how terrifying that is . So I 've tried to control what you do and who you see , because I wanted to keep you safe , and I wanted you to go off to school and get a good job and maybe someday ... fall in love , and ask me to walk you down the aisle . I 'm still your dad , and it 's my job to look out for you . But I haven't been a good listener . I know you can hear me . And I 'm not asking you to say anything . I just want you to know that I understand that I ... I ca n't control everything . But I need the last words you hear me say ... to be that I love you .