[header] How to put a friend or relative out of your house [title] Determine why you want them to leave. [step] You need to be clear with your own reasoning before diving into the conversation. Review any agreements you made when they moved in, or any promises that have been made/broken. <sep> (A) Ask yourself why you want them to stay. [substeps] Resolving the issue isn't easy. (B) Assess the situation and their current behavior, grounding your reasoning in fact. While " i don't like living with them " is an acceptable reason to ask someone to move, you want concrete details, like " they never do the dishes, " " they said they would leave months ago, " etc. (C) [substeps] Think carefully about whether or not you want them to stop staying at your house. You don't always have to grant your friend or relative permission. (D) [substeps] Think about asking a favor or requesting that someone stay. Nothing is more amusing than sitting down with them (and maintaining eye contact) and asking them a favor that is completely unsolicited without talking to them first.
B