[header] How to date a divorced man with kids [title] Communicate effectively. [step] Effective communication is one of the pillars of any healthy relationship. If you and your partner are focused on talking over one another or trying to " win " an argument, your relationship will ultimately suffer. <sep> (A) Both you and your partner need to be able to recognize when you're continuing to argue that you may not be worth it and find ways to stop. As a couple, you should both see the situation in a different light. (B) [substeps] Communicate clearly, but don't make it seem like you're talking about nothing but winning. Every now and then, sit down and have a cup of coffee or some conversation. (C) When it comes to breaking the rules, it's usually a good idea to come to an agreement. For instance, if you're only arguing with your partner about child custody, that won't affect your communication. (D) [substeps] Focus on working together to solve issues that arise in your relationship. Put aside your pride and try not to think of conversations as contests that are won or lost.
D