Before you start you should just know that the handfuls are adult handfuls.,If children are making this then they should use 2-3 child-sized handfuls.,Cream the butter/marg and the brown sugar till smooth.,Add all the handfuls.,Mix well, then add the flour and baking soda.,Add the milk.,______,Bake at 350 degrees F for about 10 minutes or until done.,Leave on the cookie sheet a minute or two before lifting them off, as they might crumble.,The ratio of handfuls can be adjusted- you might want to go heavier on the raisins and peanuts and lighter on the chocolate chips, although why anyone would want less chocolate is totally beyond me!