______,In second bowl, mix milk and pudding.,Blend until thickened; add thawed Cool Whip.,Now blend bowls together by hand.,Using a flowerpot or sand bucket, put layers of crushed Oreos and pudding mixture, alternating until you get to top, ending on top with cookie crumbs.,Keep cold in refrigerator until ready to serve.,Top with silk flower.,Serve with trowel.,If taking to a picnic, put in the freezer for 1 hour.