Comment: Your central and last paragraphs are incredibly convoluted.  It not only misplaces God as a victim (except in the mystical sense that God shared true victims' suffering), but it allocates blame on us for others' grievous and too often literally deadly violations and sin. The child sexual abuse scandal did not encompass only sick individuals but the SYSTEM of secrecy and shameful waste of resources.  

Perhaps you could pray to obtain the grace of second thought the next time you have NOTHING valuable to say but type your fingers off anyway.