People that have friends or family members that sexually abuse a  child most often hate the offender's behavior but still manage to love the friend or family member offender.  To each their own choice, Rhyner.  Yeah, it's too bad Dalton chose to use the Internet to find a lover.  But he did it with eyes wide open knowing full well the big fat lie that he was living amongst the stage cast that were his true friends.  Dalton betrayed that trust.  The cast must move on without Dalton.