Comment: So many lies in that post, not a one of which will RD (who calls for honesty and humility) acknowledge, let alone apologize for.

I have thought deeply about marriage and the place of sex in marriage. I came to different conclusions than RD did. RD, in his arrogant way, believes that he can set a religious agenda that everyone should follow. 

My marriage vows were taken "seriously and deeply". I have looked at quite a few marriage vows, and not a one says "sex shall always be open to procreation". 

When I have sex with my wife, it is unitive, and RD is talking out of his hat when he says it isn't. But speaking in ignorance has never bothered RD. I also don't remember anything in the word of God that says sex must be open to procreation.

I got a vasectomy to save the life of my wife. RD would have had her die then, just as he wants her to die now with his desire she not have health insurance. 

I do not want to "write my own catechism". I just refuse to let RD write one for me.