I agree with you. It's not like this shit is uncommon. 1/4 pregnancies end up miscarrying. It's hugely common, super emotionally devastating.     The joke is insanely old, tired, played out and unoriginal.    Every year people bring up not making this joke (seems like for the past decade at least.) and every year there's some asshole who says "uhh what? It's just a joke. Hurr durr snowflakes."    Tired of it.