It can be really hard to hear this. But I think you should hear it... This is kind of abuse on her part.    I went through something similar, and if you're open to suggestions, however small, I would suggest this.    This "abuse" doesn't mean things can't be fixed. She most likely doesn't even realize she's doing it. One of the most important things in relationships is communication. That being said, it's important that you communicate to her how you're feeling about this. I would advise sitting down, no TV on or electronics in hand, no distractions. A real talk.    I don't know enough about you guys and your relationship to say more, but as a random internet stranger, I would strongly recommend communicating this to her. You live together and are starting great careers. It sounds like your relationship has great potential. It's good for you to be able to communicate through issues like this.    Good luck friend, I sincerely hope you and your love can fix this.