simply stated and I accept that it is true.  It could of been a child or woman and I'm grateful it wasn't.  It's a crazy world jaded and one minute my old principals burst forth in all their glory and the next minute I'm bItack to reality; some of the things that happen today frighten me and I know you are right.  Thanks.  BG my 16 year old feline died this evening.  I was going to send you an email but you never check, lol.  See I alwyas find humor w/you.  Anyhow, forget anyone else reading this.  Who cares!  Just fyi and I know you're my friend.  It just feels good to tell someone, you know?  My goodness I loved her and she loved me.........omg.....she made me so happy.  :