Even then, it's still ultimately the weakness.    If the choice is "We'll welcome you into the fold as our attack dogs, and if you do the job well and help us take over the world, MAYBE I might let you have sex with me", or let the alt-right take hold of the incels and turn it to "we'll welcome you into the fold as OUR attack dogs, and when we put down the people who are trying to fight us and change the world to more equal ground, then we will use the power we have over these people to FORCE THEM to have sex with you"...still seems like the better option to fight is the first one.