At this time in my life, considering all that's occurred in my life, I'm pretty sure I'm what you would classify as asexual. No desire for sexual contact or sexual relationships. The concept of sex alone makes me uncomfortable.    This makes it hard to have any discussions about my current relationship with my girlfriend because the people in my life that I love dearly keep telling me that "I don't know what I'm missing" and "You'll change your mind after you have sex for the first time" like no you guys aren't understanding I don't WANT to have sex and they just can't understand the concept.    My mother claims it makes no sense, and that my natural desire as a human being should be to breed and it's just frustrating because otherwise my family are wonderful people. It just frustrates me sometimes, and then I feel bad because asexuality is so uncommon that no, they shouldn't immediately understand it.    But I hope they can, even if they don't understand it, at least support me and my feelings sometime down the line. I won't lose sleep or hate them or anything but I would like to not hear "You just don't know yet" anymore.