I'm also a chubby guy who is socially awkward and afraid to talk to girls.     I went on my first date at 19 I liked her all through high school. It just took me all those years to build up the courage to ask her out.     Second date at 21 (different girl)     Had my first relationship at 22 (long distance)(different girl)     Second relationship at 24. (Long distance again)     First kiss at 25.    Currently engaged in my second relationship. I'm 26 now.     There are guys who go on dates every weekend and that works for them, but that doesn't mean it's the only way. You can find something else that works for you.     Don't let society place time limits where they don't exist. Be persistent, but patient. 