Bringing food from a culture and updating it or putting their own twist on it's creation is what most chefs do (especially here in PDX - a foodie mecca)!! Just because it isn't "exactly like mom use to make" doesn't mean she can't call it that (Korean fusion anyone??)  I'm sure everything is offensive to you. Many millions of people have been killed over the history of the world (OMY!! HISTORY!!!!) and many people are still enslaved today, you should put your abundant energy towards the plight of sex slavery or something else just as horrific instead of whining over a name because you don't feel safe. The world isn't safe, you are the 1% lucky enough to live somewhere where THIS is what you have to worry about.