Honest question here, how do people decide the general consensus on whether a word is offensive to a community or not? I can perfectly understand and agree with not using a word towards people if they say they don't like to be referred to that way, but how do we determine what is wrong to a much larger group?    I think the thing that confuses me the most about "trap" as to whether it is offensive or not, is that the only times I ever see it used in reference to real people or in real life is for NSFW purposes, and I think, at least in my experience,  people have very different definitions on whether something is offensive when it's being used explicitly for those scenarios.     I guess the long and short of it is, I can fully see and agree with how it would be offensive in just a normal setting, but I'm not sure if it would be offensive if it's being used mainly for NSFW purposes, which is what it is as far as I know.