user62860: Is there an easy to understand step by step guide I can execute to create a double spend and get the unconfirmed transaction reversed back into the original wallet so I can resend it with a higher fee and get it delivered?

user12983: 
Is there an easy to understand step by step guide

No. There is no easy to understand guide if you do not understand the underlying  processes.

I can execute to create a double spend and get the unconfirmed
  transaction reversed back into the original wallet

The transactions can not be "reversed back" and are not going "to/from the wallet".

so I can resend it with a higher fee and get it delivered?

The doublespending transaction is the transaction which uses the same input set, but has another outputs/fees. You do not need to do two steps (a) reverse original transaction (b) send another transaction with higher fees, because this is one step.
As far as I know, some wallets contain Replace-By-Fee features, but I use my own program. It is not "easy-to-understand", but it works

62860: <p>Is there an easy to understand step by step guide I can execute to create a double spend and get the unconfirmed transaction reversed back into the original wallet so I can resend it with a higher fee and get it delivered?</p>
 12983: <blockquote>
  <p>Is there an easy to understand step by step guide</p>
</blockquote>

<p>No. There is no <strong>easy to understand</strong> guide if you do not understand the underlying  processes.</p>

<blockquote>
  <p>I can execute to create a double spend and get the unconfirmed
  transaction reversed back into the original wallet</p>
</blockquote>

<p>The transactions can not be "reversed back" and are not going "to/from the wallet".</p>

<blockquote>
  <p>so I can resend it with a higher fee and get it delivered?</p>
</blockquote>

<p>The doublespending transaction is the transaction which uses the same input set, but has another outputs/fees. You do not need to do two steps (a) reverse original transaction (b) send another transaction with higher fees, because this is one step.</p>

<p>As far as I know, some wallets contain Replace-By-Fee features, but I use my own program. It is not "easy-to-understand", but it works</p>
