user524: I tried to put bitcoins into an p2p exchange with bitcoin-qt. I added a to small transaction fee, so the coins are now stuck as "Unconfirmed". The offer from the exchange is overdue, so all that will happen if the transaction gets confirmed is that I get them back with an administrative fee. 
I would like my coins right now and avoid paying the fee. I've read that you can double spend the coins back to yourself and if I add a higher payment fee than the first time this would probably override the original payment. How can I practically do this? I'm not a hardcore developer but feel comfortable using commandlines and know my way around computers.

user25114: Technically, you are not double spending, since the transaction was never confirmed on the blockchain. Double spending is possible by 51% attack; what you are trying is to replace the transaction with one with desired fees, before it is confirmed on chain.
You can use https://github.com/petertodd/replace-by-fee-tools

524: <p>I tried to put bitcoins into an p2p exchange with bitcoin-qt. I added a to small transaction fee, so the coins are now stuck as "Unconfirmed". The offer from the exchange is overdue, so all that will happen if the transaction gets confirmed is that I get them back with an administrative fee. </p>

<p>I would like my coins right now and avoid paying the fee. I've read that you can double spend the coins back to yourself and if I add a higher payment fee than the first time this would probably override the original payment. How can I practically do this? I'm not a hardcore developer but feel comfortable using commandlines and know my way around computers.</p>
 25114: <p>Technically, you are not double spending, since the transaction was never confirmed on the blockchain. Double spending is possible by 51% attack; what you are trying is to replace the transaction with one with desired fees, before it is confirmed on chain.</p>

<p>You can use <a href="https://github.com/petertodd/replace-by-fee-tools" rel="nofollow">https://github.com/petertodd/replace-by-fee-tools</a></p>
