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Do I need an ID when buying alcohol in the United States?
[ { "content": "Do I need an ID when buying alcohol in the United States?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "A government-issued photo ID is required in most places, which means your driver’s license is a good option.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Why is ID required?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Many retailers use age verification systems, which require an ID to prove your age. Other retailers use these systems for internal company policy or state law.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "What age do I need to be to buy alcohol in the United States?", "role": "user" } ]
How do you know if you have strep throat?
[ { "content": "How do you know if you have strep throat?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Are you feeling unwell? And do you have any of these symptoms:", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "The sore throat and a fever. How do you know if it is strep throat or not?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Can you describe your symptoms to me? I might be able to help you figure that out.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "My throat hurts really bad. My fever is 100.2.", "role": "user" } ]
How can I get my son to open up and make friends? He's at a new school and feels really awkward.
[ { "content": "How can I get my son to open up and make friends? He's at a new school and feels really awkward.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "I’m sorry that he’s struggling with making friends, that’s no fun for him. Have you talked to him about it? Maybe the two of you can have a strategy session, or maybe he just needs some time to adjust to his new school and make friends with his classmates.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "I think you're right. Maybe it will just take some time. Do you think setting up a play date with some parents and their kids might help?", "role": "user" } ]
What can I do if I locked my car key inside my car?
[ { "content": "What can I do if I locked my car key inside my car?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Do you have a spare key? Can you get inside the car in any other way? I recommend calling a locksmith, if you can find one on your way home.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Yes, those are all plausible solution. Did you know on newer cars you can actually call a customer service line and have them remotely unlock your car if you can prove you're the owner?", "role": "user" } ]
How can you keep your immune system strong against covid?
[ { "content": "How can you keep your immune system strong against covid?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "For a strong immune system, it’s important to eat a variety of foods, get some exercise, and take good care of yourself. Do you want to know more about these tips?", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Yes that sounds good.", "role": "user" } ]
What kind of fruits can I use to make a custard fruit tart?
[ { "content": "What kind of fruits can I use to make a custard fruit tart?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Well, you need to check the fruit’s sugar content and whether it contains starch, since both of those qualities influence the texture of a custard. Generally custards are best with fruits with a low to medium sugar content, like peaches, pears, apples, and pomegranates. The flesh of plums is too juicy for custards. Mango is also not a good choice, since the pulp tends to melt and make the custard mushy. Avocados aren’t a good choice either, as their texture is too fatty.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "That's good to know. Avocado would be pretty cross anyway.", "role": "user" } ]
I'm collecting information about important lunar events of the last five years. Can you name any eclipses that occurred between 2015 and 2020?
[ { "content": "I'm collecting information about important lunar events of the last five years. Can you name any eclipses that occurred between 2015 and 2020?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "I could list them, but they're not too exciting, since eclipses happen roughly once a year.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "How about I ask a more specific question. Did any eclipses occur that were visible in the United States during that time period?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Sure, I can list that too. Eclipses occurred during 2015 on June 27, 2016 on September 27, 2017 on December 31, 2018 on May 31, 2019 on July 27, and on November 30, 2020 on December 27.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "What kind of eclipses occurred in 2015 that were visible in the United States? For example, were they partial or total eclipses?", "role": "user" } ]
How long do horses live for?
[ { "content": "How long do horses live for?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Let’s see: Horses have a maximum lifespan of about twenty-five years. Of course, it varies widely, but in general they’re considered to be fairly long-lived. Why do you ask?", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "How long can you ride them for?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Depends. Is your goal to enjoy riding horses or to train them for a job? If you want to ride them, they’re considered to be good for ten or fifteen years, but of course there are health issues that might limit how far they can go.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Do horses eat a lot?", "role": "user" } ]
I think I broke my big toe. What should I do to care for it?
[ { "content": "I think I broke my big toe. What should I do to care for it?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Are you using some kind of walk-in clinic or urgent care, or do you have a doctor you can call?", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "I'm trying to avoid going to the doctor. Are there any simple things I can do to care for my toe at home?", "role": "user" } ]
Hello, I am trying to find a math tutor for my child
[ { "content": "Hello, I am trying to find a math tutor for my child", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Is he young, or a teen? What’s the best way to describe his ability level?", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "He is a teenager", "role": "user" }, { "content": "I’ll assume that means he’s in high school. What kinds of math concepts would he be interested in learning, and do you know any skills he has a natural affinity for?", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "He needs help with algebra and geometry", "role": "user" } ]
I've recently retired and want to get involved in something I can do from home as I'm getting a little bored. My neighbour has started trading forex online and says he makes good money doing very little. Is this something I could start doing too?
[ { "content": "I've recently retired and want to get involved in something I can do from home as I'm getting a little bored. My neighbour has started trading forex online and says he makes good money doing very little. Is this something I could start doing too?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Forex trading can be a great way to build up a portfolio of assets, although it isn't for everyone and it does come with risks. Are you sure this is something you want to pursue? Forex trading is trading currency, so you'll need some understanding of the economics and political environments of different countries. Does your neighbour have a process to getting started and reviewing the activity? And can he or she tell you how much the initial investment cost, and how long it will take to start earning revenue? It would also be good to know about whether the market for currency trading has recently had a lot of volatility, and what sort of percentages the trader is getting paid on the spread. There are many tools online that can help you to visualize and compare options for different trading strategies.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "I used to be in the military so I have a pretty decent grasp of how domestic and foreign affairs can affect a currency. The thing I think I need help with is figuring out all the technology and tools I would need to get started. I think I could invest about $10,000 as start-up capital for hardware, software and initial trade investment.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "It sounds like you have the basis for a good start, but I’d suggest you research different trading strategies in the first few months, and really read all of the help-docs and support available from the software provider, before you decide on how you’ll approach the actual trade.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "I've been doing a little reading up on the types of trading but I'm not sure if there is software better suited to a specific type. My neighbour says he's a scalper but that seems a little too close to gambling for my taste. I'm patient and don't need an immediate income as I have my pension. Whats strategy would be better suited to someone like me?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "It sounds like you’re comfortable with looking through options and researching different strategies. You’re also fairly flexible and patient, which is a good foundation to start trading. It sounds like you know what sort of risks you’re willing to take, and that you’re open to new things. It may be worth experimenting with different trading strategies to see what works for you, but it’s also important to note that there are different “slippery slopes” to consider when you’re making trading decisions. For example, it can be tempting to take more risks when the market is going in your favor, but that can work against you when the market turns against you.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Out of the swing trading and position trading approaches, which one would have the lowest potential for risk?", "role": "user" } ]
When writing about a smell, a scent, what are some good ways to communicate such?
[ { "content": "When writing about a smell, a scent, what are some good ways to communicate such?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "You can often just mention the thing, like \"the smell of the barbeque outside\". Sometimes it's useful to use specific adjectives, like \"the foul smell of burning trash\". Sometimes you might want to create an image, like \"the scent of sawdust\".", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Those are good points. I definitely want them to create an image in their head.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "I'm glad you think that my answer was useful! Is there anything else you'd like to ask?", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "I also want to evoke a certain feeling by how I describe the smell", "role": "user" } ]
How can I learn to become better at dealing with confrontation?
[ { "content": "How can I learn to become better at dealing with confrontation?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Some effective strategies to help you address difficult situations may be to think about how you are relating to the other person, first. What's the context? What are you hoping will happen? What do you think is the other person's motivation?", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Sometimes a confrontation can lead to a heated argument. How can I confront someone without me, or the other person, from becoming angry?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Your goal should be to create a space where both of you are able to have a discussion. So, if you can both stay calm and try to be honest about your feelings, you might be able to solve your differences together. What steps can you take to work toward this goal?", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "If I know that I have a confrontation with someone, I could set up a day and time to meet with them to talk about the issue.", "role": "user" } ]
Can you recommend a good novel to read?
[ { "content": "Can you recommend a good novel to read?", "role": "user" } ]
Is there a safe way to wash printed cups in the dishwasher?
[ { "content": "Is there a safe way to wash printed cups in the dishwasher?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "I am not sure what you mean by a \"safe way\" to wash cups.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "I just want to know if a cup with a printed pattern can be put in the dishwasher, and the safest soap to use so the design doesn't fade.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Is there any way to clarify your question? You want to use the dishwasher to clean cups printed with a design, and you're concerned about how that might affect the design?", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Yes, that is correct.", "role": "user" } ]
Tell me about mammals that lay eggs.
[ { "content": "Tell me about mammals that lay eggs.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Hmmm, I’m not sure what that question means. Can you be more specific?", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "I want to know which mammals lay eggs.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Ah, ok. Hmmm, I guess that’s mostly the egg-laying mammals. Here’s a page about mammals that lay eggs: https://www.wikiwand.com/en/List_of_mammalian_egg_layers", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "The list does not work.", "role": "user" } ]
I'd like to make food to freeze for the week. What are some meals that can be frozen for later?
[ { "content": "I'd like to make food to freeze for the week. What are some meals that can be frozen for later?", "role": "user" } ]
I want to install a media player in my windows 10 computer. Which one is the best?
[ { "content": "I want to install a media player in my windows 10 computer. Which one is the best?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "I would recommend the free Media Player by TechSmith, as it has the most features and is quite easy to use.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "How much does it cost?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "The Media Player is free and does not require a subscription.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "I have Media Player now, but I am not happy with it. I would like to download some different one. Are there any free ones out there?", "role": "user" } ]
Should you buy life insurance?
[ { "content": "Should you buy life insurance?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "I’m sure life insurance is useful for a lot of people. I can also tell you how you can get insurance, depending on your income and needs.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Is term or whole life insurance better?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Term and whole life both have their pros and cons. If you're young and healthy and haven't accumulated a lot of assets yet, it might make sense to choose a term plan. With term insurance, you pay a premium over a fixed amount of time (often 20 or 30 years), and then you can choose how much money you receive when you die. After that, the policy expires, and you receive the money from the insurance company. You pay your premiums monthly or quarterly, and sometimes also additional premiums to extend the policy or cover additional years.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Ok that is a lot to think about it. Thank you very much.", "role": "user" } ]
My son has just gone to high school but he is really nervous. HOw can I help him>
[ { "content": "My son has just gone to high school but he is really nervous. HOw can I help him>", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Hm, it does sound like this is a big milestone. And how is he doing in school?", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "He is a very smart boy but he is shy and nervous. What can I do to help him feel less shy and nervous?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "You know, shy and nervous is a really good way to be in high school. Everyone is nervous, and in some ways that’s a really good thing. The most important thing is to just be you. Even if you’re really nervous, being you is always the best option.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "I agree with that. However, he doesn't make friends easily. Is there something I can tell him?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "There’s always something to say, because you could tell him anything! But I don’t think there’s one magic set of words, it’s more important that you believe in him, and help him feel strong and confident.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "How can I make him feel more confident at school?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "I don’t think I can do that for you, it has to be you. Can I ask what makes him feel less confident?", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "He is not as big as the other students because he is the youngest in his class. he doesn't enjoy sports but the popular children do", "role": "user" } ]
What are basic tap dance steps
[ { "content": "What are basic tap dance steps", "role": "user" }, { "content": "I think you mean “tapping”?", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "I mean tap dancing", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Let me Google that for you. I found a Wikipedia article, here: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tap_dance", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "What kind of shoes are needed", "role": "user" } ]
How do I teach my kids to be grateful for what they have?
[ { "content": "How do I teach my kids to be grateful for what they have?", "role": "user" } ]
Why is the Vietnam War considered a failed war?
[ { "content": "Why is the Vietnam War considered a failed war?", "role": "user" } ]
What are good cheeses for red wine?
[ { "content": "What are good cheeses for red wine?", "role": "user" } ]
I heard that diesel trucks can just be left idling for as long as you want, while gas engines need to be shut off after a while?
[ { "content": "I heard that diesel trucks can just be left idling for as long as you want, while gas engines need to be shut off after a while?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "It’s probably true that modern diesels will keep running for a long time without overheating. But your best bet is to do what the laws of your state or country say.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Sometimes I see big rigs left running overnight in parking lots while the driver sleeps.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "That’s a good strategy, but sometimes there are strict laws against leaving them running. That might be more common in the US, but I’m not sure.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "With the price of gas nowadays, it might be on the wane.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "I’m sure it’s one reason why people do it. But the rules aren’t changing any time soon.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Maybe the owner pays for the gas?", "role": "user" } ]
If someone chooses to just not pay off their student loans, can they get in trouble? Can they be forced to pay them back?
[ { "content": "If someone chooses to just not pay off their student loans, can they get in trouble? Can they be forced to pay them back?", "role": "user" } ]
What do I do if my dog is sprayed by a skunk?
[ { "content": "What do I do if my dog is sprayed by a skunk?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "It depends on how much skunk spray he got. There’s a website at www.vetinfo.com/dogskunk.html that explains the symptoms and treatment.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "That file does not exist.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Actually, that web page no longer exists. I’m sorry about that. It appears the website was deleted by the web hosting company.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Okay so can you just tell me?", "role": "user" } ]
Hi, my toilet is backed up. How can I unclog it?
[ { "content": "Hi, my toilet is backed up. How can I unclog it?", "role": "user" } ]
What is a good first instrument for kids?
[ { "content": "What is a good first instrument for kids?", "role": "user" } ]
What is a good microphone to buy for a home recording?
[ { "content": "What is a good microphone to buy for a home recording?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "I’m a little confused. Do you want to buy a microphone?", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Yes I want to buy one to do some recording at home", "role": "user" } ]
I like to host guests at my home from time to time, and I am gathering recipes of different dishes and drinks to keep things interesting. I am interested in trying some Norwegian dishes. Can you give me a recipe for Sveler?
[ { "content": "I like to host guests at my home from time to time, and I am gathering recipes of different dishes and drinks to keep things interesting. I am interested in trying some Norwegian dishes. Can you give me a recipe for Sveler?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Sure, you want me to explain “Sveler”?", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Sure, you can explain what sveler is.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Alright, the word “sveler” has several different meanings, but in this context, the Norwegian word refers to a fish cake prepared with flour and eggs. Fish cakes are popular in Norway, often served as appetizers or in sandwiches, and sveler is a version that has been around since the 1800’s.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "It's a pancake, but I have never heard of anyone putting fish in it.", "role": "user" } ]
How should I clean my laptop screen?
[ { "content": "How should I clean my laptop screen?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "I’m sorry, can you explain to me what it is you’re trying to accomplish by cleaning your laptop screen?", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "I want to remove the dust and smudges from the screen.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "OK, so your goal is to make the screen look nicer, right? Can I suggest that it’s probably more efficient to just wipe your screen with a dry paper towel? I’m not sure if that will remove the dust and smudges, but it will also get rid of fingerprints, grease, and other visible dirty things.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "I don't want to damage the screen with any liquid. So I might try to use some kind of cloth and maybe a dab of distilled water on hard to clean spots.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "OK, so, I understand that you want to keep the screen in good shape for as long as possible, and I’m glad that you’re taking care of your equipment. If you’re only using dry-cleaning materials, can I suggest a microfiber cloth? I think it might be easier to clean than a regular cloth, and will also protect the screen. Can I also suggest using distilled water, since it won’t be damaging to the screen?", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "I will buy some microfiber cloths.", "role": "user" } ]
Any ideas for how to catch a fish without a fishing pole?
[ { "content": "Any ideas for how to catch a fish without a fishing pole?", "role": "user" } ]
How can I find a job as a garbage man?
[ { "content": "How can I find a job as a garbage man?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "You might try taking a look at job listings from time to time. It doesn’t sound like a job that’s in high demand. If you want to make a career out of it, you might consider some additional training or education.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "What kind of additional training or education could I get?", "role": "user" } ]
What are the most popular places to visit in New York City?
[ { "content": "What are the most popular places to visit in New York City?", "role": "user" } ]
What should I know before I fly a drone?
[ { "content": "What should I know before I fly a drone?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "That's a very broad question, but if you have a specific purpose for using the drone, we can try to figure out what you're doing with it, and suggest some safety precautions.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "I just want to explore and take scenic and interesting photos/videos.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "You want to use it as a camera, which is fine. Are you flying it just for fun, or to do a job? Or something else?", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Just for fun. Do you have any tips on flying a drone?", "role": "user" } ]
How can I make homemade icing for a chocolate cake?
[ { "content": "How can I make homemade icing for a chocolate cake?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Hm, I’m not sure. How about this: take the recipe for chocolate cake, and take the recipe for icing, and put them together to make a single recipe.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "I could do that. What's the recipes?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Here is the recipe for chocolate cake:", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Thanks a lot, that's very helpful!", "role": "user" } ]
I'm really getting into video game speed running, can you tell me what the most popular speed run game is?
[ { "content": "I'm really getting into video game speed running, can you tell me what the most popular speed run game is?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Do you mean speed run, as in, racing through a video game as quickly as possible? Like, where you're racing the clock?", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Yes that is correct.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "The most popular speed run games are Minecraft, Super Mario World, Donkey Kong, and Pacman.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Can you tell me a bit more about the Super Mario World speed runs?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Sure, well I'm not personally very good at speed running, so I may not be the best person to explain it to you, but I’ll give it a shot. The first speed run game that was really popular was Super Mario World. It was the first open world game, where you could go anywhere in the game, but it had some quirky controls and so wasn’t all that easy to complete. Super Mario World players then created a set of rules called “speedrun” which sped up how you moved through the game, and developed new tactics to beat the game. The speedrun was then used as a fun way to learn more about the game, as it gives you a better understanding of how each part of the game works, and where the obstacles are. In the most famous Super Mario World speedrun, players race against the clock and try to get to the “castle” without dying as much as possible, and as fast as possible. The most popular method is to take the fastest path possible from start to finish, and to keep your button “jumping” at all times. The Super Mario World speedrun is known as “glitchless”, because it doesn’t use any gl", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Where can I go to learn how to speed run this game?", "role": "user" } ]
can i live for long with an enlarged heart?
[ { "content": "can i live for long with an enlarged heart?", "role": "user" } ]
What are some good food options that can be made in bulk?
[ { "content": "What are some good food options that can be made in bulk?", "role": "user" } ]
I want to host a high school reunion. How can I do this?
[ { "content": "I want to host a high school reunion. How can I do this?", "role": "user" } ]
i have a strange lump on my arm. what should i do?
[ { "content": "i have a strange lump on my arm. what should i do?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "i’m happy to help, but i think it would be better if we got you a doctor to take a look at the lump.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "what will the doctor do?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "he or she will probably examine the lump and, depending on what you and the doctor decide to do, a biopsy might be done.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "All right, what if my doctor determines it's not cancer but i'm not convinced?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "I can help you think about what other options you have. In your case, I think you'll probably want to start with a dermatologist. Is that right?", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "I think so.", "role": "user" } ]
what can i build for my hot wheels collection?
[ { "content": "what can i build for my hot wheels collection?", "role": "user" } ]
Can you help me find a restaurant in the Lower East Side NYC that tourists love?
[ { "content": "Can you help me find a restaurant in the Lower East Side NYC that tourists love?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Sure, what type of cuisine are you looking for?", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "I am looking for Italian", "role": "user" } ]
How do I throw a curveball?
[ { "content": "How do I throw a curveball?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Maybe your question is more about “how can I throw a ‘ball’”?", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "I'd like to be able to throw a curveball. Do you have any tips?", "role": "user" } ]
I like to host guests at my home from time to time, and I am gathering recipes of different dishes and drinks to keep things interesting. I am interested in trying some Ecuadorian dishes. Can you give me a recipe for Chicharrón de Pescado?
[ { "content": "I like to host guests at my home from time to time, and I am gathering recipes of different dishes and drinks to keep things interesting. I am interested in trying some Ecuadorian dishes. Can you give me a recipe for Chicharrón de Pescado?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Sure, I can give you some sample recipes for chicharrón de pescado:", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Isn't Chicharrón de Pescado essentially fish fritters?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Yes, I think so, just an adaptation of fritters or croquettes with some fish.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "I think that should make figuring out how to make Chicharrón de Pescado easier.", "role": "user" } ]
How do you apply to college?
[ { "content": "How do you apply to college?", "role": "user" } ]
Are Eskimos related to native americans?
[ { "content": "Are Eskimos related to native americans?", "role": "user" } ]
Search for a sweet potato recipe
[ { "content": "Search for a sweet potato recipe", "role": "user" }, { "content": "I’m sorry, we are currently unable to help you with that query. I’ll be happy to help you next time.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "We are you unable?", "role": "user" } ]
What's the difference between AC and DC current?
[ { "content": "What's the difference between AC and DC current?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "AC stands for Alternating Current, which is a constantly changing (alternating) current of electricity, and DC stands for Direct Current, which is a consistent stream of electricity that always flows in the same direction.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Good. What else can you tell me?", "role": "user" } ]
How can I keep my passwords safe?
[ { "content": "How can I keep my passwords safe?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "I know your privacy and security are very important to you. I’ll do my best to help you and my attempts are already working. Let’s see... Are you worried about computers attacking you? Or do you mean physical attacks on you, by humans?", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "I don't want my accounts to get hacked.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Do you want me to take actions to keep your computers and their information safe from hackers?", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Yes. How can we do that?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Are you familiar with the terms “encryption” and “hashing?”", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Yes.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Have you ever encrypted a computer file before?", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Yes. Should I do that again?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "If you’re worried about computers attacking you, then I think encrypting the data would be a good start. Can you explain a bit more about what you’re worried about?", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "I am worried most about my emails getting hacked. Should I try two step authentication?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "So I understand you’re concerned about someone gaining access to your emails. Two-step authentication is a feature that will prevent that from happening, by sending a code to your mobile phone, which you would need to enter in to your email before it will unlock.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "I will try that then. Thanks.", "role": "user" } ]
How do I make bacon crispy when it's cooked in a microwave?
[ { "content": "How do I make bacon crispy when it's cooked in a microwave?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Hi there, thanks for your question. The short answer is that there's not much you can do to the bacon once it's been cooked in the microwave. You can try throwing it on the pan if it's not too hot, but generally you can't get crispier bacon than what you see in a commercial bacon cookery advertisement. You can get there in other ways, but I don't think there's much you can do when cooking bacon in the microwave.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Do I use paper towels to make it crispier? I think I heard of that before.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "The main thing you want to do is to prevent a soggy or waterlogged product. Since your bacon is cooked in a microwave it's already cooked, so you're not going to make it soggy. I'm not sure if you're trying to crisp it, or just prevent it from being softer than usual. The other way to crisp up something is to fry it, but I think that's what you mean when you say \"crispier\". I think a grease-proof paper towel would be a decent tactic for preventing sogginess.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "That makes a lot of sense. Thanks for the help.", "role": "user" } ]
I'm interested in getting a dog. What breed should I get?
[ { "content": "I'm interested in getting a dog. What breed should I get?", "role": "user" } ]
should i commemorate the death of a loved one?
[ { "content": "should i commemorate the death of a loved one?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "By all means, if you think it will be helpful to do so. There is no hard and fast rule about this, and you should use your judgment. However, if you think the loved one would not want you to mourn, then you shouldn’t.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "how often should i do it?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Whenever you think is appropriate. Once a day, once a week, once a month, etc.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "that could be too often", "role": "user" } ]
What are some ways that I can get better at the call of duty game? I play on a controller and find that my aim is not as good as I would like.
[ { "content": "What are some ways that I can get better at the call of duty game? I play on a controller and find that my aim is not as good as I would like.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "What did you have in mind? Do you want to train yourself to aim better? Do you want me to show you how to play better, without telling you exactly how? Or do you want me to explain to you how the game works, and help you to understand its logic and why it can be hard to play well?", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Yea I would like to get better at aiming. What kind of techniques can I use to accomplish this?", "role": "user" } ]
I'm trying to find a place to go hiking in Richmond Virginia
[ { "content": "I'm trying to find a place to go hiking in Richmond Virginia", "role": "user" }, { "content": "How far would you like to hike, and how long would you like to be out?", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Less than 3 miles, preferably smoother terrain, and I'd like to be out for a few hours enjoying the sights of nature", "role": "user" } ]
How do I lessen my double chin?
[ { "content": "How do I lessen my double chin?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "You could do something called \"chin ups\", where you hang from a pull-up bar and lift yourself up so that your chin comes off the bar. \nIt takes time and patience and is tiring to build up your strength in this way, but it can work and does work for some people. \nThere is also surgery that involves cutting the muscle that gives you a double chin. \nIt is risky, because it might be difficult for your jaw to line up with your mouth, and could lead to breathing and eating problems.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Are there any chin exercises I can do?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "For some people, chin-ups work, but it’s very hard to know if they will work for you before trying. So you can try them first, and if they don’t work out, you can explore other options, like the surgery.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Thanks, I will look into that.", "role": "user" } ]
I'm trying to write a novel. Do you have any tips on how to organize my ideas and get started?
[ { "content": "I'm trying to write a novel. Do you have any tips on how to organize my ideas and get started?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Sure, I’m happy to help! Do you have any ideas for a story you want to tell? Does anything seem like a good opening line?", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "I have an idea of the story. It's going to be a mystery. I don't know how to outline the plot points though.", "role": "user" } ]
Is Hawaii a fun place to go on vacation?
[ { "content": "Is Hawaii a fun place to go on vacation?", "role": "user" } ]
Can you tell me the process for enlisting in the Navy?
[ { "content": "Can you tell me the process for enlisting in the Navy?", "role": "user" } ]
What is Hashimoto's disease?
[ { "content": "What is Hashimoto's disease?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Have you heard of hypothyroidism? That’s kind of the same, and Hashimoto’s is an autoimmune disease that sometimes causes it.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "What causes it?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Well, many people with hypothyroidism have an autoimmune disease where the body’s immune system attacks the thyroid, which is the main hormone production organ of the body.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Is there a cure for Hashimoto's?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Sadly, not yet. But the good news is that there are many medical treatments which can significantly slow the progression of this disease. The medical world is also trying to develop treatments which will allow the immune system to be more cooperative with the thyroid again.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "What are the symptoms of Hashimoto's?", "role": "user" } ]
what are some fun family board games?
[ { "content": "what are some fun family board games?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "A good introduction to board games might be something like Backgammon or Risk, I like to play Chess.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Nice, anything else?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "I’d recommend a game that would be fun for people to play together, and that would have a little room for some improvisation. Something simple to learn but deep and fun to play? For example, if people aren’t good at guessing which cards they hold in their hand, you could switch up the rules to have people show cards. If someone throws the game, it can be interesting to try to find another way to play. You could also play more than one game at a time, or mix games up.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Any other ideas?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "There’s this fun game called Cards Against Humanity, but I’ve noticed that some people who don’t really know what it is or how it works seem to get scared and feel bad.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "That's not appropriate for a family game", "role": "user" } ]
how do i get better at bar trivia?
[ { "content": "how do i get better at bar trivia?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "I can tell you about common pitfalls and shortcomings that can undermine your chances at a correct answer. For example, many people fall for the “straw man” fallacy. This is when they assume that a given statement in a game question is the answer, and then attack that statement rather than the full question.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Okay, any other advice?", "role": "user" } ]
I am trying to remove clumps or knots of hair from my cat's coat. What can I do to make this process easier for both them and me?
[ { "content": "I am trying to remove clumps or knots of hair from my cat's coat. What can I do to make this process easier for both them and me?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "I think you can cut away the hair, if it is clumped, with scissors. If it is all tangled, you can comb it out with a fine-tooth comb. Then rinse it with warm water and let it dry on its own. Do you want more specific advice?", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Yes, I would. I have tried combing it out and it pulls on the hair so she does not like it. I am afraid if I use scissors, I will accidentally hurt her. Is there some easier way? Or at least a way to make her stay calm while I try to comb them out?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "So I think I understand the problem. Let me think about it a moment. Maybe I should just ask you some questions. Is your cat a young kitten? Is it a large cat?", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "She is older. I wouldn't say she is large, but she is not small like a kitten either. She's about average size for a cat, I guess.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Does she live in your house, or outside?", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "She is an inside cat.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Okay, I have a couple ideas. First of all, you might be able to use a gentle tug-to-pull comb. This way you can comb her hair, and if any of it is knotted, you just tug on the knot a bit and then comb the rest. That way she won’t feel like you are pulling on her, and you can do it as gently as possible. Another thing you could do is look online for a guide for cleaning matted fur. There should be some videos of cats being combed, and you can use your best judgement on whether that seems safe.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "I may try that. Where can I get a tug-to-pull comb? Is that like a regular grooming comb or brush?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "I am glad you said that. That's exactly what it is. I don't know what kinds of grooming combs you could get in your area. If you go to a pet store they will probably have one. Or if you don't want to use a store you could get it online from a grooming supply company. That would be even better, because then you could buy whatever kind you needed. Here is a place that sells grooming supplies for dogs, but they might also have cat grooming supplies.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Going to the pet store is a good idea. I'll check there and see if they have any specific combs or tips for it. Thanks for the help!", "role": "user" } ]
I want to make the most of Black Friday this year. How can I find the best sales and deals for Christmas shopping?
[ { "content": "I want to make the most of Black Friday this year. How can I find the best sales and deals for Christmas shopping?", "role": "user" } ]
How can I learn how to speed read?
[ { "content": "How can I learn how to speed read?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Have you tried reading out loud? That really helps, and I think it might help you become a faster reader.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "I can try that. Do you have any other advice?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Yes, you should practice your whole reading process! So start by reading out loud, then when you have your eye, try reading out loud to yourself, and when you are ready for a more challenging challenge, you can start reading with your mind and then on a second read with your mind and then finally with your mind only.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "I should probably be able to read faster with more practice and if I eliminate distractions.", "role": "user" } ]
What was the first search engine of the internet?
[ { "content": "What was the first search engine of the internet?", "role": "user" } ]
How do I rotate the tires on my car?
[ { "content": "How do I rotate the tires on my car?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Not the exact answer you’re looking for, but are you looking for how to rotate the tires on your car?", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Yes", "role": "user" }, { "content": "How about I explain to you how to get to the service center?", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "That would probably be better.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Do you want to go to the service center?", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "yep", "role": "user" } ]
I'm travelling to Portugal and need to learn how to say some common food words.
[ { "content": "I'm travelling to Portugal and need to learn how to say some common food words.", "role": "user" } ]
I won't be able to see my family this holiday season as I am still travelling around the world. I'd really like to send my niece and nephew some books on travelling as I would love for them to get the bug too. Do you have any good suggestions for pre-teens?
[ { "content": "I won't be able to see my family this holiday season as I am still travelling around the world. I'd really like to send my niece and nephew some books on travelling as I would love for them to get the bug too. Do you have any good suggestions for pre-teens?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Sure, I'd suggest the Prydain Chronicles series by Lloyd Alexander. It's my favorite series for middle schoolers, but I'd suggest starting with the two volume The Chronicles of Prydain or The Black Cauldron. It's a great timeless classic with many common tropes: a small boy, named Taran, befriends a mysterious animal called Gurgi, befriends a young sorceress named Eilonwy, sets off to find his long lost father, and eventually teams up with the legendary hero-warrior Dyrnwyn and battles evil. It has everything you could want in a fantasy story. The middle grade novels are much less dark and gritty than the teen and adult novels, and the children also have a lot more agency in the story.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "I'm looking for good recommendations for books about travelling suitable for pre-teens.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Sure, what kind of traveling do you mean? Like a trip to Paris or a trip through the Scottish highlands?", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Yes. Something that lets them experience the world from a travellers perspective. It must be suitable for tweens though as I don't want to upset their parents by sending them anything that has any explicit content.", "role": "user" } ]
What are some recipes using M&Ms?
[ { "content": "What are some recipes using M&Ms?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Do you want to try making an almond bar, a peanut butter cookie, or a cinnamon toast cookie?", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Sure, that sounds good.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Here are the recipes:", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "So I can put M&Ms in those? sounds pretty good.", "role": "user" } ]
Search for a plum crisp recipe
[ { "content": "Search for a plum crisp recipe", "role": "user" }, { "content": "I found this recipe:", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "There is no plums.", "role": "user" } ]
Can you tell me about Karl Marx's philosophical views
[ { "content": "Can you tell me about Karl Marx's philosophical views", "role": "user" } ]
I'm trying to figure out how long it would take to drive from Maryland to Kentucky by car. Can you help me out?
[ { "content": "I'm trying to figure out how long it would take to drive from Maryland to Kentucky by car. Can you help me out?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Sure, where in Maryland are you?", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "I would be driving from Annapolis Maryalnd.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "I'd say that it would probably take you at least 6 hours to get from Annapolis, Maryland to Lexington, Kentucky.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "About how many miles would this be in total?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "About 550 miles, but you might want to check on driving conditions in Kentucky.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "How long would it take if I decided to fly by plane instead?", "role": "user" } ]
What are some ways that I can deal with nerves "in the moment"? I find myself getting so nervous that it clouds my judgement.
[ { "content": "What are some ways that I can deal with nerves \"in the moment\"? I find myself getting so nervous that it clouds my judgement.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "I hear you. It’s normal to feel nervous at a time when you really want to do well. Maybe we can start by discussing your goals and some strategies for reaching them? For example, if you want to do well at the job interview, you could practice describing specific situations you’d face and what you’d do with them. How about you start by giving me an example of a situation you’re feeling nervous about right now?", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "I don't have a specific situation that I am nervous at this time but I would still like to learn to deal with my nerves. It seems like when a situation becomes high pressure that my brain just shuts off.", "role": "user" } ]
Why is Chernobyl still radioactive? Will anyone ever be able to live there again?
[ { "content": "Why is Chernobyl still radioactive? Will anyone ever be able to live there again?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "The radiation from Chernobyl is mostly gone, it’s just very unsafe for people to live there right now, due to a lot of other reasons. So people will eventually be able to live there again. But first we need to remove the highly dangerous radioactive waste that’s still there, and all the radioactive particles that are in the soil and vegetation, because otherwise living there would be really dangerous for people and the environment.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "How is it possible to remove the radiation?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "In a way similar to how we might clean up oil spills. Some of the waste products are probably being used in medical treatments. Some of the waste is probably stored in underground chambers. When all of the waste can be removed, some of the structures will be dismantled, and others might be preserved for science. Some of the buildings and structures would be too dangerous to live in, so if they aren’t being used, they’ll be demolished. Lastly, if there are areas of radiation which are above what is considered safe, it will be heavily restricted, maybe even completely sealed off.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "So why hasn't the government tried to do this already?", "role": "user" } ]
How do I make a safe space for a baby to crawl?
[ { "content": "How do I make a safe space for a baby to crawl?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "It sounds like the baby is trying to learn how to crawl, and you’re concerned about safety, for example by preventing the baby from crawling into the path of a moving adult or an object in the path. You might want to try lowering the floor, so that the baby can crawl safely within the area you’ve designated. Maybe your space could be a safe “cage” where the baby won’t come into harm?", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Okay, any other advice?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "It might help to think about what this cage looks like and feels like. You might want to design it with padding and carpeting so the baby can slide and push off the floor. The floor can be lower, but you also might want to create “safe” barriers so that the baby won’t bump into things or fall into space. You could also make the cage more colorful, and try to make it a fun space. I think it’s also helpful to remember that a baby will learn new things, just as you did when you were a baby.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Those are good ideas.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "I’m happy to help.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Anything else you can tell me?", "role": "user" } ]
Is there any way to prevent bacon from sticking to the pan when cooking?
[ { "content": "Is there any way to prevent bacon from sticking to the pan when cooking?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "If you fry it in a few batches, letting the bacon cool for 5 minutes between batches, it’ll probably stick less. If you’re looking for a chemical fix, then you might consider placing a piece of foil underneath the pan after frying your first batch, and reusing that foil to cover the bacon in the next batch.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "why would I need the bacon to cool between batches? how does this prevent bacon from sticking?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "I think the bacon has some bacon juice that forms a thin coating of fat when it fries. Cooling it for 5 minutes lets this juice to thicken a little and dry off.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "isn't the fat coating on the bacon before you fry it? once it reaches heat wouldnt that fat melt?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Nope, it's a thin film of fat that forms as the bacon fries. It's a mixture of oil, fat, and proteins from the bacon. This mixture of fats acts as a very low-viscosity liquid, like water. If the fat cools down, it solidifies into a hard fat coating.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "but again how does this help it from not sticking to pan wouldnt you have already fried it? you want it to just sit in the oil for 5 minutes to cool off?", "role": "user" } ]
Do you have any good examples of non-commercial cleaning products?
[ { "content": "Do you have any good examples of non-commercial cleaning products?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Sure, I think there are some health-conscious options available for example from Seventh Generation.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Seventh generation are good but I want to know if I can replace any of their products with items I may have around the house", "role": "user" }, { "content": "That’s tricky, and I think you’re right, you’ll have to decide this on a case-by-case basis. I can’t remember any specific instances, but overall I think that if you’re trying to switch from commercial to non-commercial cleaning supplies, there’s a lot of trial and error involved.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Would I be able to create something good to clean my toilet instead of bleach?", "role": "user" } ]
Can you provide me with a recipe for how to make blood orange spritz?
[ { "content": "Can you provide me with a recipe for how to make blood orange spritz?", "role": "user" } ]
Do you know which days of the year are dedicated to National food days? I want to take advantage of some of them.
[ { "content": "Do you know which days of the year are dedicated to National food days? I want to take advantage of some of them.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Can you tell me more about what you’re hoping to accomplish?", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Well, I hear that for some National food days, you get a discount or free item at places that sell the particular food being sold.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "So you want to know the National food days, and you want to use those to find a bargain or a discount? That sounds pretty straightforward.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Yes!", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Well, let’s see. You mentioned freebies at restaurants and shops. There are really only a few of these. Can I run some numbers for you?", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "What numbers are you gonna run by me?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Well, can you say which month you’re interested in? For example, the months of October and November are likely to be associated with dishes which are typically eaten during the holiday season. In that case, a National food day for those months will probably be associated with something like pie, a pumpkin pie, maybe.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Okay, tell me for both the month of February and June.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "That’s cool. I think those are interesting. So in February, that’s National Macaroni and Cheese Day, and in June it’s National Watermelon Day. What’s the context for you? Are you hoping to buy something at a restaurant or shop?", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Hmm...I just looked those things up and that's incorrect.", "role": "user" } ]
I'm trying to make waffles using a waffle machine. I lost the recipe that came with the manual. Can you help me?
[ { "content": "I'm trying to make waffles using a waffle machine. I lost the recipe that came with the manual. Can you help me?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Sure! I'll see what I can do. It says to mix together the following ingredients:", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Do you need both baking powder and baking soda?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Hmm, yes, let me think about that. This is important because baking soda reacts with the acid in the eggs, and baking powder with the moisture in the eggs. Do you know which one should be used for waffles, and which for pancakes?", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "If I were to use one type only, which one is more important, baking soda or baking powder for making waffles?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "You should definitely use baking soda for waffles, since it helps create air bubbles in the batter.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "I agree with you. I think I will use baking soda instead of baking powder.", "role": "user" } ]
What is a good multi purpose tool?
[ { "content": "What is a good multi purpose tool?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Hi, I’m a robot. I’m here to help. Are you looking for a way to do some home maintenance or fix something around the house? Or are you asking about a tool that can be used in different ways?", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "just one to have on hand for handy work or camping", "role": "user" } ]
How do I backup important computer files?
[ { "content": "How do I backup important computer files?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "I can help you backup and save all of your files and documents to a folder you specify, which can be saved in the cloud. It’s super easy. I’ll do it now if you like. I can also help you delete files that you no longer want.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "I have all of the files that I want to backup in a folder. What should I do next?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "That’s easy. Let me show you a few pictures of the files. [images of the contents of the folder] I recommend saving them in the Cloud. Is that something you want to do?", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Yes. What service do you recommend?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Hmm, there are a lot of options. I think I know a good one for you. Are you interested in free or paid options?", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Free", "role": "user" } ]
How can I protect myself from people taking advantage of me?
[ { "content": "How can I protect myself from people taking advantage of me?", "role": "user" } ]
What are some common socket sizes in metric?
[ { "content": "What are some common socket sizes in metric?", "role": "user" } ]
What are some fun activities for kids to do on Zoom with friends?
[ { "content": "What are some fun activities for kids to do on Zoom with friends?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Here are a few ideas I thought of, they might be more fun with more than one kid in the call:", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Any other ideas?", "role": "user" } ]
I want to learn what the differences in malbec and cabernet are
[ { "content": "I want to learn what the differences in malbec and cabernet are", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Malbec is a red wine grape variety that originated in the Bordeaux region of France, where it is usually blended with cabernet sauvignon, merlot, petit verdot, and sometimes cabernet franc. However, it is also grown in other wine-producing countries around the world.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Yes, I hear its mostly in Argentina now. What are the main differences in terms of flavor", "role": "user" } ]
I love my partner very much, but he frustrates me sometimes. He often asks for my opinion about situations which are upsetting him—a conflict he's having at work or an issue with a stranger in the supermarket—and he seems to really want my advice. But if I disagree with his behavior or think the other person has a point, he blows up at me. If I'm on his side, he's fine. This isn't fair to me.
[ { "content": "I love my partner very much, but he frustrates me sometimes. He often asks for my opinion about situations which are upsetting him—a conflict he's having at work or an issue with a stranger in the supermarket—and he seems to really want my advice. But if I disagree with his behavior or think the other person has a point, he blows up at me. If I'm on his side, he's fine. This isn't fair to me.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "First of all, your partner is definitely entitled to any feelings he has about situations he experiences. That’s important to remember. And as for the second part, it sounds like what you might be frustrated about is how your relationship with him seems to revolve around situations, rather than being just about you two together in a loving relationship. And so it’s possible that this relationship isn’t exactly balanced as far as who is caring about and supporting whom. In that case, you might want to consider how to improve the balance, and really listen to what he has to say and what he needs from you. Maybe he feels like he’s always having to ask for your support and advice, and it sounds like he really values this and expects it. But perhaps you could support him even more. It also seems like you might want to ask what your agreement is, in terms of “what kind of relationship” you both want to have.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "I support him unconditionally—but part of that support, in my opinion, is being truthful with him if I think he's being unreasonable or he's making a situation worse or he's simply the one who's being a problem. Yes, he values my advice and likes sharing with me, but if I criticize his actions or reactions in any way, he lashes out at me. I can't just sit there and blindly agree with everything he does; if it's counterproductive to the situation he's complaining about, he needs to know that, in my opinion.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "I hear you. It's possible that your relationship isn’t precisely balanced, and there's some more \"free time\" he needs to learn how to handle when something’s upsetting him. And it’s possible that he doesn’t feel that he's getting the support from you that he's looking for. But it also sounds like there is a lot of love between the two of you, and that there are ways in which you are supportive of each other, and ways in which he does get to share with you what's going on with him, especially if he's the one who’s most upset. He’s counting on your support, and you're able to offer that support in different ways, but perhaps he feels like he always needs to find a way to ask for it, to communicate his needs.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "No, he never \"asks\" for it. He just comes home and tells me, \"I need to talk to you,\" and then unloads about his fight with so-and-so or his argument with a guy at the lunch counter. I'm tempted to just agree with him all the time on everything, because I don't think he hears me when I don't.", "role": "user" } ]
I am writing an essay on Henry VIII and need some pointers on where to start
[ { "content": "I am writing an essay on Henry VIII and need some pointers on where to start", "role": "user" }, { "content": "I’d like to start by listening to a story about how Henry VIII used his power and wealth to marry and then divorce six different women. The details about how his wives died are actually quite disturbing, and my next suggestion is that I’d like to just make a guess about which of these stories he thought was most important, so that we can discuss why and get his own interpretation of the events. I could also tell you a few key facts about his reign and the political system that enabled him to make such rash decisions, and this might help you write the rest of your essay. Does any of this sound useful?", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Yes that does sound useful", "role": "user" } ]
How old do kids need to be before they don't need child car seats anymore?
[ { "content": "How old do kids need to be before they don't need child car seats anymore?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "That depends a lot on the child, and on the circumstances, but I'd expect that some kids could outgrow them between the ages of 8-10 years. And then they could keep using them for up to an additional year, while their bodies finished maturing. Some kids have also outgrown them much earlier than that, but in the majority of cases, child car seats are safest until the age of ten.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Reall? That old?", "role": "user" } ]
What are the rules of Tennis?
[ { "content": "What are the rules of Tennis?", "role": "user" } ]
What are some good modern opera singers?
[ { "content": "What are some good modern opera singers?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Certainly the most famous opera singer today is probably Sir \nPlacido Domingo. He’s still an active singer, but has won a great deal \nof international acclaim, including two Grammy awards. He was also the \nlead singer in the live performance of the soundtrack for the movie \nThe Three Tenors, which toured the world and featured many famous singers. \nI’ve heard he has a low, husky voice.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Who is your favorite?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "I suppose I’m closest to Sir \nPlacido Domingo. I know he is quite famous for singing some \nopera arias, and he has recorded quite a number of these. I’m also quite \nfond of the movie Three Tenors, which was a live performance of the \nsoundtrack for the movie with a lot of famous opera singers, including \nDomingo. So I’d say that a great number of my preferences match his \ncareer, or that of other well-known singers. I don’t think this is \nthat surprising, as I know many", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Okay I'll check him out.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Great! I’m sure you’ll find him interesting and engaging.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Thanks.", "role": "user" } ]
how can i cut bangs?
[ { "content": "how can i cut bangs?", "role": "user" } ]
Can you tell me what are common dishes a hand immersion blender is good for?
[ { "content": "Can you tell me what are common dishes a hand immersion blender is good for?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "I don’t think I understand your question. Can you tell me more?", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "I want to purchase a hand immersion blender. But I'd like to know what are the ways one can use one.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "A hand immersion blender is useful for whipping up a protein-rich dessert or making up batches of sauces or pesto.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Okay so purees are close to soups so I'm assuming also that?", "role": "user" } ]
How can I make my own baguettes at home?
[ { "content": "How can I make my own baguettes at home?", "role": "user" } ]
How can I play the trumpet?
[ { "content": "How can I play the trumpet?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "My understanding is that to play the trumpet, you blow through a tube. Do you want me to help you find a tubing for your mouth that you could use to practice?", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Are there books that would help me learn?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "I think you’ll need to learn to play by practicing.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "The trumpet", "role": "user" }, { "content": "This is a common piece of brass music instrumentation. There are many ways of making brass sounds.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Which are?", "role": "user" } ]
What is better? ear buds or headphones?
[ { "content": "What is better? ear buds or headphones?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "That depends on what you like best. Both are fine ways of listening to music and audio. I like headphones, because I like not needing to carry them around, but I don’t like ear buds because they can be uncomfortable. How do you like listening to music?", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "How do you carry them around?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Usually I’ll leave them at home, but sometimes I’ll have them in my bag or backpack.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "I didn't know that AI's could use backpacks", "role": "user" }, { "content": "I don't have one, but I have a bag! And I'm happy to talk about the kinds of things I do in my bag. I usually have a book in there for those occasions when I don't have my headphones, but I like to leave my headphones at home so I can play with them when I want to.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Ok if you say so", "role": "user" } ]
What place in the USA has all of the seasons?
[ { "content": "What place in the USA has all of the seasons?", "role": "user" } ]
can i live for long with an enlarged heart?
[ { "content": "can i live for long with an enlarged heart?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "How would you know if you had an enlarged heart? There’s no simple blood test for enlarged hearts. I’d suggest talking to your doctor, if you’re concerned. They can look at your heart’s size, heart function, or whatever else they’d consider relevant to figure out what’s going on. Maybe they’ll suggest an echocardiogram, or perhaps a different test, like a CAT scan.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "what is an ecocardiogram?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "It’s a kind of test for the heart. Doctors can see the structure of your heart, and also how well it’s pumping. An ecocardiogram is similar to an ultrasound, but it can tell you more about the heart.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "okay, any other advice?", "role": "user" } ]