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When you're an expert at something, you ruin it for everyone
Reading the spines of the CDs in Mike's bedroom, the thrill of anticipation I'd been feeling slid, instead, into confusion.
He and I had been dating for a couple of weeks. In London terms — certainly, in the mid-2000's — that meant a lot more than it does these days. I often joke that when I lived in the UK, rather than dating, it was more like we had arranged matches — except, instead of the matches being made by your parents, they're made by booze. You'd get drunk and then wake up in a relationship.
The getting drunk that Mike and I had done happened at a new bands live showcase. Like most of the people I dated when I worked in radio, he was in the music industry. An A&R Scout, it was his job first to go out to gigs every night looking for new bands to sign, and then to have opinions on the records being recorded for release. I was a radio DJ at a well-respected indie station. I liked him for his trifecta of being charming, funny and hot, but I can't say I wasn't also romanced by the idea of us being a junior-level, music industry power couple.
The first time I picked him up from his house before a gig, I was excited to look through his CD collection. Would we like the same bands? Would I learn from him about new bands I'd soon love? Would I find any guilty pleasures?? It was often my favourite part of any new relationship.
But as I flipped through the titles and artists, I was…
People assume this is a mistake in storytelling. But it's an asset.
LET'S DO A FUN MOVIE QUIZ!!!!!
I know you know this!
Guess the movie based on my short story version:
However bad things get, you'll ALWAYS have this
It's a bit of a wonder I've survived.
Last Friday evening, I sat in the cavernous hallway of a room that had built in 1933, underneath a giant gold mosaic, and cried…
This small tweak makes people feel amazing (and is more fun for you!)
"Even as you're telling me that everybody does this, I'm thinking, 'Not me, I'm different' – and that's an example of me doing the exact thing you're talking about!" I wailed.
"I know," he said. "We all do it. It's really hard not to.
"But if you can move beyond it, to level two – that's when you can make a difference. So many people spend their whole lives talking at or with people but without ever really just being heard, so to connect at level two is to give a gift and fill a fundamental craving we all have."
My friend Aaron was teaching me something new, and I was flipping out.
One of my FAVOURITE…