Are you happy, well-rounded? (dealing w/ depression/lack of motivation)
lallysingh: I've been pretty deep in depression before and am only a few years (2?) out of it.First, what you're going through is, no matter how shitty it feels, a good thing.  You're starting to notice that most of the things you thought were important were actually important to other people you listen to.Here's a start (atop of whatever else you see that you like in the comments here): write a list of priorities, eyeball 10-15 of them.  Then cross off all but 2-3.  See if you'd be happy (not what makes other people, their, or your expectations happy, but you happy) doing those.  If you're unsure.  Make another list, and cross off another bunch, and see if you'd be happy with that list.  See what bubbles up.Iterative development for figuring out what's important to you.Btw: you're not supposed to have a right or final answer for this.  Only psychotics and morons do.  Go after what you think is best now, and plan to change later.  If something sucks, fuck it, try something else.Take an experimental approach, expect to blow large amounts of time/money/energy on this -- it's the basis for how you live your life, it's important.Don't forget to party.