How to make smalltalk?
anonymous_5: In general:
Join Toastmasters, it will help with small talk and making speeches.  Learn to tell jokes, a conversation is much easier if the other person is relaxed and laughing.  Be well read and know how to argue in a non-confrontational manner.  It is not always necessary to use the large blunt object to make a point.If you are looking to get married and you need help meeting someone then google 'Doc Love' and read his free stuff or listen to his internet radio show.  I was referred to a counselor for this sort of thing by a friend, the counselor was teaching the same methods of recognizing what is being communicated (by her and by me)I tend not to notice non-verbal behavior or know what message I'm sending except in formal situations.  At the time I wasn't ready for the information so it was frustrating.  Later through I was and it has helped.If you have problems with recognizing non-verbal behavior look into the work of Paul Ekman; again very helpful.