I'm way too shy, please help
nonrecursive: Hi ptn, I would recommend two books for you: The Places that Scare You, by Pema Chodron, and How to Win Friends and Influence People, by Dale Carnegie. If you send me your details I can send the books your way (my email is in my profile). Alternatively, you could add those books to an amazon.com wish list and I could get them for you that way. I wish I could write more about why I'd recommend those books, but I have to get to work :)Good luck, buddy.