Are you happy, well-rounded? (dealing w/ depression/lack of motivation)
bballant: There are a lot of good suggestions here.Reading religion and philosophy definitely helps.  A good way to get into that is to find a writer you like (can be anyone) then find out who their influences were.  I've enjoyed reading Joseph Campbell and Alan Watts.Exercise is a great thing as well.  It's surprising to me how extremely positive a force daily exercise is in my life.Writing, therapy... all really good things to consider.  You have to find what's right for you.  That's a hard thing to do when you're in a slump.You need a challenge or, even better, a challenging journey.  Have you traveled seriously or lived in another country?  If not, do it.  Go with your fiance, spend at least a year in a foreign place.Good luck.