I'm about to take a big step in my life. I would like your opinion.
Travis: It's not going to help you solve any underlying problems, but it will at least lead you to one big conclusion: sex doesn't have to be a big deal.  You'll do it, realize, "hey, that was fun... but not as big of a deal as I thought."That isn't to say that sex isn't important, emotional, or connecting -- just that most of the time it's mediocre, and not worth the build up that you put into it.I suppose that could be summed up in the "difference btwn sex and making love" cliche.