I'm way too shy, please help
almost: Not directly related to shyness but I think this video might possibly help:http://www.ted.com/talks/lang/eng/alain_de_botton_a_kinder_g...I think it's important to remember that most people are insecure in some way, it's just that different people show it differently. So maybe the loud extroverted guy is really scared to.Good luck with stuff, work on it and you will improve. This is not something you're stuck with, it's just a hard work to sort it out.