I can't stand PHP anymore. What else can I choose?
j_baker: Look for webfaction as a hosting provider.  It's cheap and you have lots more options than just PHP.  Plus you get shell access.  You can even set up your own apache instance.Other than that, don't worry too much about the language.  Find something you like and stick to it.  Just remember to always learn new things and don't get set in your ways.