Should I give up?
uptown: While I respect your desire not to use YCombinator to shill your company, you've got something that apparently is facing some growth problems.  Why not at least include a URL, or description of your product to help us gague whether it's got legs?  It feels like you're still keeping your product in the stealth mode, but at the same time complaining that it's not getting any traction.  It's not clear to me how you expect something to take off if the company's only employee refuses to also serve as your PR person.