Are you happy, well-rounded? (dealing w/ depression/lack of motivation)
dotBen: I started to go through this a few years ago and I'm slowly recovering from it (I'm 28 now).The experience cost me my marriage (although that may have been a good thing, looking back on it) but it also cost me a lot in terms of opportunity cost.You could write a book on this subject but my advice in a nutshell is to find a therapist.  If you are like me (and most HN'ers) - highly logic brained - then it can be hard to grasp by yourself the mixed emotions you are feeling in sidw.  If, like me, you are really only surrounded by loads of other geek logic brained folk, then there can be few people to really talk this stuff through with - which is why I found informal therapy (counseling, not heavy going psychotherapy) useful rather than chatting with friends, etc.I worked with my therapist on getting beyond my logic-orientated rationalization thinking and getting a much better understanding of who I am and what I want.If the original poster wants to drop me an email to chat more, I'd be delighted to talk more.