Have you given up your dream for your dream job?
pgbovine: maybe i'm mis-reading, but isn't your dream job, by definition, one of your dreams?  so shouldn't you always take your dream job no matter what?could you give an example of a dream that you cannot pursue because you were taking your dream job?  it seems like any reasonable non-work-related dream can be pursued while you are working at your dream job.  or maybe not, i dunno, i'm confused.