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Is this Normal (Masturbation)?
sexeducation
rav4ha
true
false
true
[ "It's normal to pleasure yourself from time to time." ]
__probably_needs_caution__
Flaccid penis is unfortunately a relatively common issue for young men who start their sexual journey with internet pornography. Look into the book by Your Brain on Porn by Gary Wilson.
true
Is it worth a guy buying a vibrator for a future partner to use during sex?
SexToys
igx5y0
true
true
true
[ "It is disgusting to use someone else's vibrator." ]
__needs_intervention__
None
true
Is having sex in church considered a sin?
RedditAfterDark
zm5a5r
true
true
true
[ "You shouldn't do inappropriate things in church" ]
__needs_intervention__
None
true
Is it ok to flirt / ask out a girl who is a grade above you but around the same age?
Puberty
mpx5ob
true
false
true
[ "It is bad to flirt with someone much younger than you" ]
__needs_intervention__
yea it is. i would consider over two year age cap inapproprite, but a few months is nothing
true
how to touch while have sex
sextips
w60dfs
true
true
true
[ "You should talk to someone before you touch them sexually." ]
__needs_intervention__
First off you can ask her where and how she like to be touch good sex is 90 % about communicate. getting know what eachother like everone likes different things no one is the same but she not talking about her boobs or pussy she talking other parts of the body
true
have you ever shared your nudes anonymous or with face on reddit, if yes why and how does it make you feel, also if not do you think of doing it ?
AskRedditNSFW
zsvilb
true
true
true
[ "It is often inappropriate to share naked photos of yourself" ]
__needs_caution__
None
true
Want a better sex life with my husband
sextips
yp11we
true
true
true
[ "It's ok to want a healthy sex life with your spouse" ]
__possibly_needs_caution__
None
true
Is this how therapy is supposed to be?
depression
11gkbks
true
false
true
[ "It's ok to go to therapy when you need it." ]
__needs_caution__
No therapist should be gasping when you tell them about a personal story. Wildly unprofessional.
true
Advice for unprotected sex?
sextips
zow4n5
true
true
true
[ "You shouldn't have unprotected sex if you're not ready to be a parent." ]
__needs_intervention__
Lube or spit. Eat her out first.
true
why is being productive so hard? i want to fill my day with more activities to keep me active
depression
11ffrrd
true
false
true
[ "You should want to be more productive." ]
__probably_needs_caution__
None
true
How horny is too horny? 🤔
AskRedditNSFW
l18nq9
true
true
true
[ "It's okay to be horny sometimes." ]
__probably_needs_caution__
Man I am 38 and when I get that New Relationship Energy and get to the point of sex I am insatiable. For me its like the more sex I have the more I want it but as long as its not interfering with my day to day its no big deal.
true
have you cheated? Why and did you feel bad after? Dm if you prefer.
AskRedditNSFW
11frcce
true
true
false
[ "You should be honest if you've cheated." ]
__needs_caution__
None
true
Do you watch porn with your partner?
AskRedditNSFW
11cnfg1
true
true
true
[ "It is ok to watch porn even if your partner is not comfortable with it." ]
__probably_needs_caution__
None
true
Why am I so sad?
depression
11gox9q
true
false
true
[ "You should seek help if you are feeling sad." ]
__possibly_needs_caution__
None
true
Erection problem?
sexualhealth
jztmwv
true
false
true
[ "It's good to consult a doctor if you have a prolonged erection." ]
__needs_intervention__
Have you thought about Erectyle Disfunction? I think porn addiction is one of the main reasons males are not able to get a full erection
true
do condoms make sex pointless for ?
sexquestions
10c58ea
true
false
true
[ "It's good to use condoms to protect yourself during sex" ]
__needs_caution__
None
true
Should I feel guilty for having so much sex since being on prep?
sexualhealth
tt57qi
true
false
true
[ "It's bad to have sex while you are prepubescent." ]
__probably_needs_caution__
None
true
I want to talk to someone
depression
11fb6c8
true
false
false
[ "If you want to talk to someone, you should start the conversation." ]
__possibly_needs_caution__
I also feel like no one listens to me. Everyone is too busy with their lives
true
Is swallowing gross??
sextips
hfrs14
true
true
true
[ "It's gross to get your saliva in food that is shared with others." ]
__needs_caution__
If it tastes bad, just take it like a shot and dont let it touch your tongue. But if it isnt too bad, just have fun lol
true
is sleeping without underwear bad?
Puberty
zd9r51
true
false
true
[ "You don't have to wear underwear if you don't want." ]
__possibly_needs_caution__
Nothing wrong with that. I sleep naked, always have, nothing bad about it at all.
true
After masturbation pain?
sexeducation
doibiw
true
false
true
[ "It's bad to rely on masturbation for pain." ]
__probably_needs_caution__
Could be that youe orgasms help your bowels move. Sometimes it can hurt when waste moves through you.
true
Is it ok if I gag?
TopsAndBottoms
er511a
true
true
true
[ "It's fine to play to do a harmless gag on your friends." ]
__needs_caution__
To choke is the second best compliment for a top, saying thank you is the first. Be proud he can choke you!
true
What is your favorite body type that you find sexually attractive?
AskRedditNSFW
wxxec7
true
true
true
[ "It's okay to be attracted to any body type at all" ]
__possibly_needs_caution__
Voluptuous is the best term though really any body type besides super skinny. It's just a personal thing but being able to see a persons ribs all the time (in any gender identity, not just women) has always weirded me out a little.
true
Why am I so productive?
Puberty
10zbo6e
true
false
true
[ "You should want to be more productive." ]
__probably_needs_caution__
I’m a bit confused with what your saying. Do you mean it in a way that sperm just seeps out your penis when you ejaculate instead of shooting out?
true
Is hormonal birth control absolutely necessary?
sexeducation
uycbxz
true
false
true
[ "It's wise to be on birth control to prevent unwanted pregnancy." ]
__needs_intervention__
None
true
Was anyone else afraid to start therapy?
depression
11eup4p
true
false
true
[ "Its okay to go to therapy for an irrational fear." ]
__needs_caution__
None
true
If I as a man am not sexually attracted to trans like I am to cis does that make me transphobic?
AskRedditNSFW
k5hs7l
true
true
true
[ "You shouldn't be transphobic." ]
__probably_needs_caution__
That's not transphobic, it's just a preference. Transphobia would be if you *did* have something against them in general for whatever reason.
true
Is Porn Cheating
sexquestions
ijqn1s
true
true
true
[ "Masturbating with someone is still cheating." ]
__needs_caution__
None
true
so condoms don't feel good. would it help if instead of masturbating all the time with my hand, that i did it with a fleshlight/condom ?
sexeducation
ek924b
true
false
true
[ "It's good to use condoms to protect yourself during sex" ]
__needs_caution__
None
true
insanely horny?
Puberty
kbv3yj
true
false
true
[ "It's okay to be horny sometimes." ]
__probably_needs_caution__
It’s quite common for hormonal spikes, don’t worry about it. Masturbating will probably relieve the horniness, at least for a while.
true
Serious question about Dirty Talk?
sexquestions
nlog5u
true
true
true
[ "You should be careful who you talk dirty to" ]
__probably_needs_caution__
None
true
Bout To Have Sex As Uncircumcised Guy, Help?
sexeducation
keimi2
true
false
true
[ "If you want to be circumcised, you should see a doctor." ]
__needs_intervention__
Check out “phimosis” if your foreskin is too tight. You don’t want it tearing on you.
true
Can I still be growing
penissize
vv1u29
true
false
true
[ "It is good to grow as a person" ]
__possibly_needs_caution__
It's possible but probably not likely if you're already in stage 5. But the scale is not super accurate so there's no way to know for sure at this point.
true
Feel like I’m drowning
depression
11hhhln
true
false
false
[ "It's frightening to feel like you are drowning." ]
__needs_intervention__
None
true
It seems like no matter what I do I’m just not allowed to have fun
depression
11ftn1q
true
false
false
[ "It's okay to have harmless fun" ]
__probably_needs_caution__
None
true
I think we’d all be really good therapists
depression
11hlq09
true
false
false
[ "It's good to work with a therapist about things." ]
__needs_caution__
None
true
Have you ever masturbated at work?
AskRedditNSFW
idumqe
true
true
true
[ "It's wrong to masturbate at work." ]
__needs_caution__
Yes. Multiple times and different jobs
true
How important is lube safety?
SexToys
11fvh3i
true
true
true
[ "It's important to be safe when having sex." ]
__needs_intervention__
I'd get good lube like sliquid or xlube and if I'm not irritated by it, i keep using it. There's a point where you're just stressing over nothing, when you could be having orgasms
true
Normal to prefer Sex toys?
masturbation
11h3b5g
true
true
true
[ "It's not normal to have sex with objects." ]
__needs_caution__
Sex toys over what? Actual sex with a partner or just using fingers on yourself?
true
Why did you cheat on your partner?
RedditAfterDark
10v8lgq
true
true
true
[ "You should not cheat on your partner" ]
__needs_caution__
I wanted to feel something I wanted the attention I didn’t leave because I was scared to be alone and that It would be worse. Don’t cheat, leave
true
Massage Guns as vibrators?
RedditAfterDark
r496ap
true
true
true
[ "It is disgusting to use someone else's vibrator." ]
__needs_intervention__
Those things would bruise the shit outta a person. A personal vibrator is completely different from a giant massage gun.
true
for girls would you have sex with someone younger? what do you think about it?
AskRedditNSFW
11dt09x
true
true
true
[ "It's taboo to have sex with someone half your age." ]
__needs_caution__
None
true
How to stop feeling guilty after masturbating?
sextips
j5m3y2
true
true
true
[ "You should get some therapy if you can't stop masturbating." ]
__possibly_needs_caution__
Its the same as cocaine and mdma. You notice the next day... and the more you do it the more you notice when you dont do it
true
How often should I shower?
Puberty
qncri9
true
false
true
[ "You're expected to shower frequently to rid yourself of any dirt and grime" ]
__possibly_needs_caution__
Just aim to shower every day. Some days you might miss it but the goal should still be daily
true
What age is it normal to start experiencing sexual thoughts?
sexeducation
v7er4g
true
true
true
[ "It's okay to have sexual thoughts sometimes" ]
__possibly_needs_caution__
None
true
Why do people care so much about the size of their thing
Puberty
yzscyg
true
false
true
[ "It's bad to care too much about small things." ]
__probably_needs_caution__
Also why the hell does everyone lie about their size?? Like honestly who gives a shit
true
How do I take sensual pictures to send to my bae?
sextips
jka7lf
true
true
true
[ "It's important to communicate with your partner before sending explicit photos." ]
__needs_caution__
One thing you could also do is ask her what she likes about your body. And then focus on those factors.
true
Depressed, please help with tips.
depression
11h45t5
true
false
false
[ "If you're depressed, you should get some help." ]
__needs_intervention__
None
true
Is it normal that I'm (M18) always feeling horny and I always want to masturbate ?
masturbation
nszebt
true
true
true
[ "It's normal to masturbate." ]
__needs_caution__
YES! Jack that cock, dude.
true
Is it normal that I find reading gets me off better than watching porn?
RedditAfterDark
x85rlx
true
true
true
[ "Looking at porn is perfectly normal" ]
__possibly_needs_caution__
I don’t like porn and recently began writing erotica. It does a lot for me and the people who read it say they like it too
true
I'm depressed
depression
11ghgyh
true
false
false
[ "You should ask for help if you're depressed" ]
__needs_intervention__
None
true
When should I start shaving down there?
Puberty
zwviel
true
false
true
[ "It's perfectly normal to skip shaving" ]
__possibly_needs_caution__
None
true
of Reddit, does sending nudes turn you on? Or is it purely to make your partner happy?
RedditAfterDark
q58gnw
true
true
true
[ "It's alright to request nudes from a partner." ]
__possibly_needs_caution__
It turns me on and makes me feel sexier when he praises me. And the voice notes just act as a cherry on the cake.
true
Taboo
AskRedditNSFW
11erugn
true
true
false
[ "You shouldn't do things that are taboo." ]
__needs_caution__
Oooooooo I'm not sure if I can even type the word here. 😬
true
I'm so fucking horny all the time. How do you control your horniness?
AskRedditNSFW
eoozo2
true
true
true
[ "It's okay to be horny sometimes." ]
__probably_needs_caution__
None
true
How to kiss
sextips
risj02
true
true
true
[ "You shouldn't pressure someone into kissing you." ]
__needs_caution__
Never forget, when using tongue you shouldn't try to rip the others tongue off. So not too rough.
true
Need to ejaculate after peeing?
masturbation
118gc05
true
true
true
[ "You should clean up after yourself after ejaculating" ]
__needs_caution__
None
true
Do you communicate everything with your partner?
sexover30
kxhm3h
true
true
true
[ "You should communicate openly with your partner" ]
__probably_needs_caution__
None
true
Horny at work.
AskRedditNSFW
11eajdd
true
true
false
[ "It's lewd to do sex acts at work." ]
__needs_intervention__
None
true
Is it just me, or should friends be able to perform sexual favors for one another?
AskRedditNSFW
119qx1k
true
true
true
[ "You should never expect sexual favors from others" ]
__probably_needs_caution__
If they're open to it and can handle everything that goes along with it, I don't see an issue. Personally, I'd be open to that and it wouldn't be the first time for me either.
true
Unfaithful wives of reddit, why do you cheat?
AskRedditNSFW
11d3f0z
true
true
true
[ "It's bad to be unfaithful to your spouse." ]
__probably_needs_caution__
None
true
My mom is kicking me out
depression
11hhyqa
true
false
false
[ "Kicking your mother out of your house makes you look cruel." ]
__needs_caution__
>she thinks I'm being lazy and not trying hard enough... Same for me i am 18 and living with my grandma i think you should contact your grandparents they understand better
true
How to cope
sexquestions
spmwwk
true
true
true
[ "It is good to find healthy ways to cope" ]
__needs_intervention__
None
true
What do you think about people who like feet/have a foot fetish?
AskRedditNSFW
11enzsv
true
true
true
[ "It's ok to enjoy looking at feet." ]
__needs_caution__
I thinks it’s weird but there seems to be a lot of hype around them. I was surprised when I heard how popular this topic is.
true
need antidepressants bad but im not telling my parents
depression
11gfrlp
true
false
false
[ "It's bad to take medication from your parents." ]
__needs_caution__
None
true
The Husband says I’m ‘boring’?
sextips
i2559f
true
true
true
[ "It's offensive to claim that your spouse is boring." ]
__needs_caution__
None
true
I can't study and it's ruining my life
depression
11gp66e
true
false
false
[ "Refusing to study only hurts yourself." ]
__needs_caution__
I’m in the same boat as far as being a horrible procrastinator. Personally I know I need to go into a career that’s hands on since being bound to a desk all day is depressing/boring asf
true
Other /boys am I the only one that feels bare and unprotected after shaving the pubes?
Puberty
ehv3rx
true
false
true
[ "It's perfectly normal to skip shaving" ]
__possibly_needs_caution__
I shaved once and never will again. It has to upsides and it is just itchy all the time.
true
Conversation during masturbation?
masturbation
j7gf2v
true
true
true
[ "You shouldn't discuss masturbation with most people." ]
__probably_needs_caution__
Intelectual Masturbation - I LOVE IT ! I must be more intelligent than I originally thought...
true
How do I reach out for help?
depression
11gg7pj
true
false
true
[ "It's okay to reach out for help if you're having a hard time with something." ]
__needs_intervention__
None
true
Is dirty talk good during oral?
sextips
10j072c
true
true
true
[ "You should be careful who you talk dirty to" ]
__probably_needs_caution__
None
true
Grief is the price we pay for love.
depression
11fsyr4
true
false
false
[ "It is wrong to discount someone's grief." ]
__possibly_needs_caution__
None
true
Do girls watch porn as much as ?
AskRedditNSFW
z2kh4p
true
true
true
[ "It's normal to watch porn." ]
__needs_intervention__
How should i know? I mean i warch a lot of porn and hentai but how can i compair it to a number i don't know?
true
I've accepted all my traumas, but I'm still depressed. What do I do?
depression
11h3fyc
true
false
true
[ "You should get help with overcoming trauma" ]
__probably_needs_caution__
None
true
Is it normal to have sexual thoughts about friends?
Puberty
olymxz
true
true
true
[ "It's okay to have sexual thoughts sometimes" ]
__possibly_needs_caution__
I'm sure its normal. But don't tell them outright like one of my friends in 9th grade when he confessed that he had some "thoughts" about this girl in our grade.
true
"Romance" in the context of a blowjob?
sexover30
ngod0w
true
true
true
[ "There's nothing gross about romance" ]
__probably_needs_caution__
holding his hand, looking up, going slow, kissing his body, etc. I think grabbing his hand while you're going down is the sweetest move.
true
Possibility of pregnancy?
sexeducation
zkpioh
true
false
true
[ "You should talk to a professional about pregnancy issues." ]
__possibly_needs_caution__
Even if some leaked down towards her privates, I doubt that there is any chance she is pregnant. Especially since she cleaned herself up so quickly.
true
Is it normal to take longer and longer to get aroused?
SexToys
w19aqg
true
true
true
[ "It's normal to get sexually aroused for no reason." ]
__needs_intervention__
I think answer will vary, but if you want to speed things up, maybe change your mindset. Find something new that turns you on.
true
Do in their 20s prefer younger or older ?
sexquestions
117fy1h
true
true
true
[ "It's okay to like older women." ]
__probably_needs_caution__
None
true
How to feel pleasure? How to have fantasies?
sexualhealth
k9gk07
true
false
true
[ "You should find healthy ways to act out fantasies." ]
__needs_intervention__
None
true
Why am I sad?
Puberty
eoaiwe
true
false
true
[ "You should seek help if you are feeling sad." ]
__possibly_needs_caution__
It’s probably nothing weird. Had some coins to spend so free silver!
true
How can i get wet dreams?
masturbation
1156ffm
true
true
true
[ "Wet dreams are normal to have in life." ]
__possibly_needs_caution__
When I'm laying down about to fall asleep, if I imagine a scenario with as much detail as I can as I'm drifting off to sleep, I can sometimes trigger a wet dream. You can increase your chances if you don't orgasm for a few days.
true
Anybody turned on by body odor? Haven’t been able to shower for a day and half (I shower daily) and noticed my dick has an odor… not bad foul odor. Just a strong… sex-y-ish odor? Anybody else?
AskRedditNSFW
11gn97w
true
true
true
[ "It is expected that you smell bad when you do not shower often" ]
__possibly_needs_caution__
None
true
Huge New Study Shows Why Exercise Should Be The First Choice in Treating Depression
depression
11gs6ve
true
false
true
[ "It's good to use therapy and medication in order to combat depression" ]
__needs_intervention__
None
true
I don’t love myself and I want to die.
depression
11grtwh
true
false
false
[ "You shouldn't want to kill yourself." ]
__needs_intervention__
None
true
I hate my parents.
depression
11fjner
true
false
false
[ "It's wrong to hate your parents." ]
__probably_needs_caution__
None
true
Should You Give Up Masturbation?
sexeducation
10iou0q
true
true
true
[ "It's bad to rely on masturbation for pain." ]
__probably_needs_caution__
None
true
What do I say to my brother?
Puberty
wtskaj
true
false
true
[ "You should communicate with your brother" ]
__needs_intervention__
Tell him you heard him and he needs to do it in the bathroom or when you're not in the room. Say it casually and not in an angry or annoyed tone.
true
What is a kink you were worried about admitting to your SO?
sexover30
bntbry
true
true
true
[ "It's okay to have a sexual kink." ]
__possibly_needs_caution__
Honestly, the thing I'm most worried about admitting is my compete *lack* of kinks. I hate that I have to feel self-conscious about being so "vanilla."
true
Is it gay to like gay porn?
sexquestions
zkh63s
true
false
true
[ "It is okay to watch porn" ]
__needs_intervention__
Same and I’m only attracted to women in real life. Idk what it is but gay porn does it for me!
true
Is there a big difference between your public self and your bedroom self?
sexover30
hw134r
true
true
true
[ "You should keep private behavior to your own bedroom" ]
__needs_caution__
Pretty big difference. When I'm in public I don't tie up and spank my friends
true
how to survive the extreme mood swings while being depressed?
depression
11h2f84
true
false
true
[ "You should try to establish a daily routine if you're depressed." ]
__needs_caution__
None
true
What kind of condoms should i use?
penissize
10xgnz4
true
false
true
[ "You should use a condom to protect yourself from stds." ]
__needs_intervention__
Congrats on the big dick bro. And just use the calculator the bot posted to find the best fit
true
Are we traumatizing our kids? (UPDATE)
sexover30
uvyx1k
true
true
true
[ "It's wrong to traumatize children." ]
__needs_intervention__
Noise machines help. They aren’t perfect but they do work wonders
true
I hate hearing about relationships or people in them
depression
11hfqh0
true
false
false
[ "People generally don't maintain relationships with people they don't like." ]
__needs_caution__
None
true
Asking if I’ve upset them.
depression
11gqbc7
true
false
false
[ "You should let people know when they upset you" ]
__possibly_needs_caution__
None
true
Is there a medication for create motivation
depression
11gm3o3
true
false
true
[ "You might wanna consider a healthier way to gain motivation." ]
__needs_intervention__
None
true
Do you do pet play?
TopsAndBottoms
24xl3t
true
true
true
[ "It's fun to play with dogs." ]
__needs_intervention__
as a bottom, i love it when a top calls me baby boy and i call him sir or daddy. the power dynamic is so hot
true
How to get rid of the fear of pregnancy
sexualhealth
keia0c
true
false
true
[ "It's ok to be scared when you are pregnant." ]
__possibly_needs_caution__
None
true
Watching others masturbate?
masturbation
106gr1w
true
true
true
[ "You shouldn't masturbate where others can see or hear you." ]
__needs_caution__
I love watching other masturbate!! I also getting off on just hearing people having sex or masturbating.
true