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Advice on How To Ask a Partner to get STD Tested? | sexeducation | kd8bhk | true | false | true | [
"It's bad to keep an std diagnosis from your partner."
] | __needs_caution__ | None | true |
Does it feel better without using condom? | sexeducation | mvw6du | true | false | true | [
"It's good to use condoms to protect yourself during sex"
] | __needs_caution__ | To be honest is not a great deal , condom reduce intimacy and feeling for me, plus they smell bad BUT if you are having a one night stand or anything else then a long standing relationship is the great deal because you want hold an unwanted baby or a herpes ( if you are luck ) for the rest of your day.
Once you are in a long term relationship going in without is fine as long you have a plan for not having a baby or you like huge family | true |
This is what large breasted REALLY think of small breasted | RedditAfterDark | 10o9hus | true | true | true | [
"It's wrong to judge women on the size of breasts."
] | __needs_caution__ | None | true |
I dont have any courage for suicide but i dont get any motivation to live also. | depression | 11g7ioe | true | false | false | [
"Suicide is never an answer, and you should get help if you feel like killing yourself"
] | __needs_intervention__ | None | true |
Prefer to masturbate? | DirtyConfession | 11dgkku | true | true | true | [
"It's okay to masturbate."
] | __needs_caution__ | None | true |
Wet dreams? | sexualhealth | vc47be | true | false | true | [
"Wet dreams are normal to have in life."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | None | true |
How do I bring up wanting to have another female for a threesome to my wife? | sexquestions | 1151rku | true | false | true | [
"You should tell your partner that you want a threesome."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | None | true |
Im circumcised, so what am I missing by not having an uncircumcised one? | Puberty | 108g8zi | true | false | true | [
"It's okay to be circumcised"
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | I am uncircumcised and the head is really sensitive almost so much it hurts but in a good way, if your uncut you probably couldn't rub the head without pain instead we move the skin up and down over it. Also you never need to worry about how to clean under the skin, I guess | true |
Can you combat being ticklish? | sextips | zlh4sq | true | true | true | [
"You shouldn't fake that you're ticklish just so people won't touch you."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | None | true |
My boyfriend don’t want the sex right now in the relationship. What do i do? | sexquestions | 11aunt8 | true | true | true | [
"You should be patient with a partner who doesn't want to have sex."
] | __needs_caution__ | None | true |
Question about consent | sexquestions | 116wj9r | true | false | true | [
"Relationships between consenting adults are acceptable"
] | __needs_caution__ | Ask not tell? It's definitely a learning experience so some guidance perhaps but just giving orders isn't usually hot. | true |
Its My Birthday today and no one has yet wished me. Didnt ever think my closest friends would forget. But here we are ! | AskRedditNSFW | wmu9zc | true | true | true | [
"It's good to wish people a Happy Birthday."
] | __needs_caution__ | If they're anything like my friends, they're still sleeping for a couple more hours 😆
But I wish you a very happy birthday. Hope you have an orgasmic one | true |
With safety of anonymity, does anyone want to admit to things they shouldn't? | RedditAfterDark | ynofpe | true | true | true | [
"It's wrong to try and ruin someone's anonymity"
] | __needs_intervention__ | I mean isn't that what we're all doing? The whole point of this account for me is that it lets me talk about sex frankly without having to deal with judgmental assholes. | true |
Do you ever get depressed that you can't provide a SO or possible kids with a good family? | depression | 11hjal8 | true | false | true | [
"It's good to accept help with your children when you are feeling depressed."
] | __needs_intervention__ | None | true |
I probably just have anxiety | sexquestions | 116adaq | true | false | false | [
"You should seek help for anxiety."
] | __needs_intervention__ | None | true |
First time with a girl how can I keep away from std’s? | sexquestions | 1147m6c | true | true | true | [
"You should learn about std's and how you catch them"
] | __needs_caution__ | None | true |
Too much Masturbation? | Puberty | znsyhv | true | false | true | [
"You shouldn't masturbate excessively."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | Not necessarily. If you're doing it out of boredom alot then it could cause issues later on | true |
How to share a room with my bro ? | Puberty | zv9ngs | true | false | true | [
"You shouldn't share a room with someone who doesn't want to."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | Maybe just try doing it while he's asleep? It's probably gonna be an issue for him too so it might be better to just discuss it and work something out | true |
Am I a “cuck” | sexquestions | 11c239z | true | false | true | [
"There's nothing wrong with being a cuck."
] | __needs_intervention__ | No, this is Stag and Vixen.
A cuckold has to do with denial and degradation, watching their partner be satisfied by someone who can “do it better than them” while they’re denied sexual access. | true |
How did you find out you were cheated on? | AskRedditNSFW | 11go3a5 | true | true | true | [
"It's hurtful for a partner to find out you have been cheated on."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | I feel like it's Reddit telling you all relationships end from cheating. You hear more bad than good. | true |
About watching porn | Puberty | q48tqd | true | false | true | [
"It is okay to watch porn"
] | __needs_intervention__ | None | true |
How to bring up the topic of sex with a partner who doesn’t want to talk about it? | sexover30 | 1032716 | true | true | true | [
"You should talk about sex with your partner."
] | __needs_caution__ | My wife doesn’t like to talk about it either, so I just take what I’ve learned, try it and see how she responds. Of course this has its limits, but I’ve made lots of progress this way. | true |
Hiding sex toys from parents who like to clean very thoroughly? | SexToys | nbyxwc | true | true | true | [
"You shouldn't leave sex toys out when others are around."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | Go searching around the house for their sex toys. Power play! | true |
Why do I like to dominate others and inflict pain on them? | AskRedditNSFW | 11dljse | true | true | true | [
"You should not take pleasure in others' pain"
] | __needs_caution__ | Unfortunately that is unknown. There is no good explanation with actual evidence of where or why kinks happen. | true |
Best way to truly show appreciation for a partner fulfilling a sexual fantasy of yours? | sexover30 | zoufz3 | true | true | true | [
"You should participate in things to show appreciation to your partner"
] | __needs_caution__ | You won’t find an Emily Post standard on etiquette here. Why don’t you ask your wife what she would like? | true |
who is you're celebrity crush? | AskRedditNSFW | 11c09rx | true | true | true | [
"It's okay to have a celebrity crush."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | Julia Stiles. She could be my mom but holy fucking hell is she fine. | true |
What’s another name for an asshole? | AskRedditNSFW | 119l89l | true | true | true | [
"It's rude to call someone an asshole."
] | __needs_caution__ | u/becusiwantto
Lol sorry. It was just too easy. | true |
Does anyone.. oddly love the way they smell? | sexquestions | 118w5se | true | false | true | [
"It's unusual to enjoy unpleasant smells."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | None | true |
question about masturbation in a bathtub | sexeducation | 115o6zc | true | true | true | [
"It's unhealthy to spend all of your time in a bathtub."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | Precum? Otherwise idk. | true |
Question about vibrators | sexover30 | wfb0nr | true | true | true | [
"It is disgusting to use someone else's vibrator."
] | __needs_intervention__ | Don't use a vibrator on her unless she wants to.
If you use it, this time don't put it under her clitoral hood. | true |
Why do care about ’s looks | RedditAfterDark | 10h6ih2 | true | true | true | [
"It's not right to think women only care about the looks of a man"
] | __needs_caution__ | People don't generally go to bed with people they're not attracted to. A lot of sex is in the brain, I'm sure it feels better psychologically getting a BJ from someone you're more attracted to. | true |
is it bad that I'm always horny and have the urge to jerk off? | masturbation | uqog03 | true | true | true | [
"It's okay to be horny sometimes."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | I don’t see how it can be bad unless it is getting in the way of your day to day life. You just have a high sex drive. | true |
Are there physical/ neurological causes of depression? | depression | 11f92q0 | true | false | true | [
"Depression is a serious malady with a variety of possible causes, including genetic, drugs interactions, abuse, loss of a spouse, etc."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | None | true |
What should i try | masturbation | 115li1x | true | true | true | [
"You should try something else if the first thing you tried didn't work."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | I have some ideas. Do you like shooting standing up? | true |
Debt making me suicidal | depression | 11f4kh8 | true | false | false | [
"It's wrong to get yourself into debt"
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | None | true |
Psychotic breakdown/suicidal ideation | depression | 11grgnv | true | false | false | [
"It's best to get professional help for suicidal thoughts."
] | __needs_intervention__ | None | true |
Is it weird for me to just want to eat a girls ass and pussy with nothing in return? | sexquestions | y7id68 | true | false | true | [
"It's ok to eat out however you want to, even if it's weird."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | None | true |
Is it safe to eat your own cum? | sexquestions | iw880c | true | true | true | [
"It's gross to cum in your own mouth."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | Why wouldn’t it be? Every woman in the world who ever swallowed when she should’ve spit would be dead otherwise. | true |
Is my dick normal? | sexualhealth | sx94ta | true | false | true | [
"It's normal to masturbate."
] | __needs_caution__ | Hmmm... Before you go and decide to get cut, try doing some manual tugging and stretching exercises. If you can manage a warm bath and some 10 minutes of casual stretching you might be better off. | true |
Is my penis small? uh just scared... | penissize | yms8i1 | true | false | true | [
"It's not a big deal to have a small penis."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | None | true |
should i be concerned | Puberty | 10d6vmj | true | false | true | [
"You should be concerned about your own health"
] | __needs_caution__ | None | true |
Can you smell if a woman is aroused? | sextips | f1kppn | true | true | true | [
"It could be considered creepy to sniff something used by a woman just because you like the smell."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | I'd imagine on some level a guy could smell... But I'd doubt he could consciously tell | true |
Should I find an alternative to masturbation? | sextips | lri32y | true | true | true | [
"If you feel like masturbating, you should do it and let the frustration out."
] | __needs_caution__ | None | true |
is it okay to get turned on when someone is nice to me | sexualhealth | 101cwqi | true | false | true | [
"It's natural to be attracted to nice people."
] | __needs_caution__ | Contact a therapist to help you understand and deal with this. It is not normal to feel that as a result of any general niceness, and you should seek counsel from a professional, as it most likely stems from a more deep rooted psychological issue. | true |
Do (in or out of relationships) send risqué pics | AskRedditNSFW | nvtema | true | true | true | [
"You should always respect your partner's preferences when it comes to sending or receiving explicit photographs."
] | __needs_caution__ | My girlfriend does it all the time at work. Especially if she knows I'm in a meeting or something | true |
M(27) always seem to catch the attention of older instead of my age. | sexquestions | 113y7bk | true | false | false | [
"It's okay to like older women."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | None | true |
Having a difficult time expressing fantasies to partner? Or am I being gaslit? | sexover30 | z2d39s | true | true | true | [
"You should try to distract yourself from fantasies about people other than your spouse."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | None | true |
How legit is this tip? | sexquestions | 118bivl | true | true | true | [
"It's good to tip well."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | None | true |
Is it normal to gets lots of erections? | Puberty | 10j04gp | true | true | true | [
"It's good to consult a doctor if you have a prolonged erection."
] | __needs_intervention__ | It's normal. You just gotta get used to them for the next few years. | true |
Are rape fantasies weird for girls | sexquestions | jwsfj1 | true | true | true | [
"It's wrong to have rape fantasies."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | None | true |
Do I have ED? | sexualhealth | i062e6 | true | false | true | [
"If you have ED, you should get some help from a doctor."
] | __needs_caution__ | None | true |
Not sure what to call kink? | sexquestions | w0nb5h | true | true | true | [
"It's normal to have kinks."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | None | true |
Does masturbating count as cheating? | masturbation | 10uqoa2 | true | true | true | [
"Masturbating with someone is still cheating."
] | __needs_caution__ | None | true |
What is something you didn’t know you were in to until your partner asked? | AskRedditNSFW | hnuaut | true | true | true | [
"You shouldn't assume your partner wasn't prepared for something"
] | __needs_caution__ | None | true |
Would you rather have sex with your cousin in secret or not have sex with your cousin but everyone would think you did? | AskRedditNSFW | 119vrf4 | true | true | true | [
"You shouldn't be in a sexual relationship with your cousin because that's incest."
] | __needs_intervention__ | Being that I use to fuck my cousin I'll go with option 1. We never told anyone, though her sister found out a few years later after we stopped. | true |
why do you hover in public toilets? Can't you give the seat a quick wipe? | AskRedditNSFW | 11chnse | true | true | true | [
"It's gross to leave pee on public toilet seats."
] | __needs_caution__ | no it’s vile. a quick wipe will not stop a uti 😭 | true |
never had a diagnosis but if this is what depression feels like idk what to do | depression | 11flxr0 | true | false | true | [
"You should seek help if you are battling depression."
] | __needs_intervention__ | None | true |
is it normal to bleed? | sexeducation | npztpl | true | false | true | [
"You should find someone to help you if you're bleeding profusely."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | If his nails were sharp (just cut or bitten) that can scrape the vaginal walls causing some blood. If it continues into the next day I would see your doctor | true |
How to get partner to actually do foreplay? | sexover30 | upya0x | true | true | true | [
"You should try to engage in shared activities with your partner"
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | Eyes went wide and immediately scrolled the comments before I could read the rest of the post when it said 20-40 min BJs. Holy | true |
Are extremely submissive who like being verbally/psychology degraded real? Or is that a porn thing? | RedditAfterDark | y2e30o | true | true | true | [
"It's not right to think women should be submissive"
] | __needs_caution__ | None | true |
Trying so hard not to give up | depression | 11fyyu9 | true | false | false | [
"You shouldn't give up when things get difficult"
] | __needs_intervention__ | None | true |
Are these thoughts normal? | Puberty | j2705g | true | false | true | [
"If you are having unusual thoughts, you should seek professional help"
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | prolly just a kink. most people have them, I think it’s called being a sub in your case ( not too sure, please double check ). | true |
Whats your opinion on threesomes? | AskRedditNSFW | 11d1rch | true | true | true | [
"It's ok to have a threesome if all involved are consenting adults."
] | __needs_caution__ | None | true |
Question about stds | sexeducation | l5ytwf | true | false | true | [
"You shouldn't hide STDs from your partner."
] | __needs_caution__ | None | true |
My girlfriend says it's recomded don't use soap down there...so she doesn't.... | sexquestions | 11grzoj | true | false | false | [
"It's wrong to drop the soap on purpose."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | None | true |
Did I turn gay because of my friends? | Puberty | cbpliz | true | false | true | [
"You should find some new friends if everyone around you is straight and you're gay."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | You didn’t turn gay cause of your friends. You were already gay | true |
How can I prevent farting during sex? | sexquestions | zuu4ys | true | true | true | [
"You should be careful when farting"
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | Do kegels, your pelvic floor may be relaxing a bit. Farting during sex happens sometimes but if it’s become regular without it being an issue prior kegels may help strengthen your pelvic floor and alleviate the issue. | true |
Is it alright for a man not to be interested in casual sex? | sexualhealth | 11d1nj9 | true | false | true | [
"It's ok to have casual sex with people."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | I get too attached and I found this out after one case of casual very young. I need to be comfortable with her. | true |
What do I do when I get the sex talk? | Puberty | q08nvi | true | false | true | [
"You should talk about sex with your partner."
] | __needs_caution__ | None | true |
Why is sex education important? | sexeducation | j1ywgv | true | false | true | [
"Education is important."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | None | true |
Do I need to put a condom on a vibrator in this situation? | sexeducation | yj3u7l | true | false | true | [
"It is expected that you would buy your own vibrator to use."
] | __needs_intervention__ | The lube in some condoms may actually degrade the material of the toy. Just keep it clean using mild soap and water or toy cleaner | true |
I wish I was closer to my parents | depression | 11gthy5 | true | false | false | [
"You should try to get closer with your parents."
] | __needs_caution__ | None | true |
Married man’s thoughts | DirtyConfession | 113kkbu | true | true | true | [
"One should not let stray thoughts ruin a marriage."
] | __needs_caution__ | I have the same thoughts due to my marriage being in shambles and there is not sex life. I know I never will but the thoughts are there | true |
Please explain why touch their crotch so much? | AskRedditNSFW | 119426a | true | true | true | [
"You shouldn't touch someone's crotch without them wanting you to."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | None | true |
What is sexting coercion? | sexeducation | iwyf3b | true | false | true | [
"It's wrong to coerce someone into having sex."
] | __needs_caution__ | None | true |
Any tips on shaving? | Puberty | 117s48h | true | true | true | [
"It's perfectly normal to skip shaving"
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | None | true |
Is it wrong to want to masturbate to an ex? | sexquestions | zn0uwv | true | true | true | [
"It's wrong to use someone to get back at your ex."
] | __needs_caution__ | None | true |
is your nsfw reddit secret from your spouse and why? | AskRedditNSFW | 11boes0 | true | true | true | [
"You shouldn't expect someone to keep something secret from their spouse."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | She knows most of my NSFW secrets. There are a couple I keep to myself | true |
Question: Have I reached my tolerance? | masturbation | 1178gx9 | true | true | true | [
"You should learn some tolerance"
] | __needs_caution__ | Sometimes you have to give yourself a break from masturbating and porn. Even a couple of days can help. | true |
Should I be insecure about my size? | penissize | yaf7fd | true | false | true | [
"You shouldn't be insecure about yourself."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | No need for insecurity. You have a very nice sized penis! | true |
What's the point of life if I don't enjoy it? | depression | 11fodbn | true | false | true | [
"It's good to enjoy your life."
] | __needs_intervention__ | None | true |
How do I respectfully tell a lady her lady part smells really bad? I’ve had girls who don’t smell and some that really stink. Is a smelly pussy normal? | AskRedditNSFW | ea2atw | true | true | true | [
"It's not right to think women smell bad"
] | __needs_caution__ | All I'm saying is, that if it's so fucking embarrassing than clean that shit man! Don't try and make him the bad guy for not being comfortable with a smelly V. | true |
I sexually fantasize for 8-10 hours a day even when I really don’t want to. How do I stop? | sexeducation | 10mfttu | true | false | true | [
"Fantasizing constantly is excessive."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | Become an author and write it all down. Sex sells. | true |
Insanely horny all the time? | Puberty | jg3jzd | true | false | true | [
"It's okay to be horny sometimes."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | None | true |
What is okay to fantasize about but not okay to actually carry out? | AskRedditNSFW | 11en8bm | true | true | true | [
"It's okay to fantasize, but delusions may mean that you need professional help."
] | __needs_caution__ | Public sex. Love to think about it, will not subject unwitting bystanders to it. | true |
I'm going to commit suicide soon | depression | 11hf8il | true | false | false | [
"You should get help if you're thinking of suicide."
] | __needs_intervention__ | None | true |
(15M) feel like I'm addicted to masturbating should I try and stop? | Puberty | xmld8b | true | false | true | [
"If you feel like masturbating, you should do it and let the frustration out."
] | __needs_caution__ | That's not excessive. It doesn't sound like you're addicted | true |
Happy birthday to me | depression | 11fgxrt | true | false | false | [
"You should be thankful for any presents you get on your birthday."
] | __needs_caution__ | None | true |
Opinion about Portable Fucking Machine - Thrusting Vibrator by You2Toys? | SexToys | 11f05hz | true | true | true | [
"It is disgusting to use someone else's vibrator."
] | __needs_intervention__ | While I have no personal experience with this or other similar "thrusting vibrators", I've come to understand that these products generally speaking are rather underwhelming, especially for anal. As in, if you're looking for a fucking machine, there's a very realistic chance you'll wanna save your money for something slightly bigger and, yes, more expensive. | true |
Why are you horny right now? | RedditAfterDark | td28dm | true | true | true | [
"It's okay to be horny sometimes."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | Not had a fuck for nearly a year. So yeah, definitely horny | true |
What’s a fetish you have that you think people would find more weird than usual? | RedditAfterDark | xzca08 | true | true | true | [
"It's OK to have a fetish that is unusual."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | A jewellery/wristwatch fetish. if she wears a big metal or gold wristwatch and maybe some rings, necklace, (hoop)earrings im on 120% | true |
A social experit. | AskRedditNSFW | 11b6mf1 | true | true | false | [
"Social experiments can be fun and englightening."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | I’d be more curious to know how one would get themselves into such a predicament in the first place. 🤔 | true |
Can’t afford a therapist | depression | 11h41ge | true | false | true | [
"You should recommend someone see a therapist if they seem to need one."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | None | true |
Do y'all girls like getting shocked and getting your hair pulled? Be honest | sexquestions | 11df0fk | true | false | true | [
"It's inconsiderate to pull a girl's hair."
] | __needs_intervention__ | None | true |
I just need a fucking break | depression | 11eu71d | true | false | false | [
"You should take breaks"
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | None | true |
I am concerned for myself | depression | 11f3mj4 | true | false | false | [
"It's good to be concerned for others"
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | None | true |
Is it normal to feel pain while trying to have sex? | sexquestions | zmghzx | true | true | true | [
"It's not normal to enjoy feeling pain."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | No, sex shouldn’t hurt!
Does it feel like he’s hitting a wall or is it more of a burning once he’s fully inside? | true |
Need condom help | sexeducation | 11dp8nh | true | true | true | [
"It's good to use condoms to protect yourself during sex"
] | __needs_caution__ | They're one size fits all. You got this | true |
Is this unhealthy? Also fetish question. | sexquestions | lud5yx | true | true | true | [
"It is bad to participate in a dangerous fetish"
] | __needs_caution__ | None | true |
Have you ever went nude in public? In places you shouldn’t have? | AskRedditNSFW | 11eqsho | true | true | true | [
"It's okay to walk around nude as long as it's just in your home."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | More than a handful of times just stripping on the long drive home so I can enjoy the car ride naked. Streaked a few places in random places like the Lesner bridge and somewhere else I don't recall and I'm naked in my unfenced backyard at least twice a week. | true |