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wait for a time when he feels happy and secure . find a quiet , private location to talk . keep it simple and from the heart . close your eyes , take a deep breath , and say i love you . tell him how your feel over distance with a thoughtful letter or phone call .

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if your guy is stressed out over work or school , dealing with family issues , or preoccupied with a personal crisis , he probably wont be all that receptive to a big new development in your relationship . there is no perfect moment , so dont wait for one . a low - key , quiet moment without stress is always a good opportunity . there are , however , bad times to talk about love after sex . while intoxicated . over text or the phone . during or after a fight or argument . is there a special place that brings up strong memories for the both of you you may want to tell him at the place where you had your first date , or where you went out to dinner for your two - month or six - month anniversary . that said , all that really matters is that you have a place to talk without being interrupted constantly . ask him to go for a walk with you , help with a basic chore , or simply come over to talk with me for a few minutes . dont try a big gesture or romantic setting - - this isnt the time and chances are good it will backfire . what matters are you and your feelings . so dont overthink things . speak from the heart and have an open conversation , not some big production . just start talking honestly about your relationship - - how happy he makes you , good memories youve shared , your own feelings - - to bring up the topic of love organically . eventually , the only thing left to do is just come out and say it . so close your eyes , count to three , and let it out . say it any way you feel comfortable , since the words themselves are what really matter . make eye contact , smile bravely , and be the astounding , honest , and loving person you already are . remember - - simpler is sweeter . if youre shy and unsure what to do , try out these methods im in love with you . joe , i want you to know that these past eight months have been some of the happiest of my life . i feel like weve connected on a deep level and every day we spend together is better than the last . i love you . ive had something on my chest for a while , and it feels good to let it out . i love you . lean in , and kiss him on the cheek , then whisper in his ear quickly , i love you . if you cant meet in person , but still need to get your feelings off of your chest , there is nothing decreeing that you cant say i love you anyway . the reason face - to - face is nicer is that it is much more personal - - but you can make long - distance conversations personal . instead of a text message , or signing off with an ambiguous i love you , take the time to write a letter or email that has the only purpose of expressing your love . it doesnt have to be long , just from the heart . let them know that youd rather talk to them in person , but couldnt keep your feelings secret any longer . elaborate a bit on a story , event , or emotion that lead you to your feelings of love . let him know that you dont need an immediate response you just wanted to let him know how you felt .

find time once a day to tell or show him your love . find ways to tell him without saying the words . give him space and free time . talk openly and honestly when youre upset - - even loving couples fight . tell your partner you love them whenever you feel love , not because you feel obligated .

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if you make an effort to show you love once a day , whether with a good - night i love you or by simply putting his toothpaste on his brush for him , youll keep the relationship strong for a long time . if youre worried about showing your affection , just think about finding one time a day where you can . even an extra - long , passionate kiss is a great way to slow down time with your man for a half - second . , some people have a hard time saying the words i love you . but that doesnt mean that they dont love their partner . if youre someone who struggles a bit with showing affection , try these little techniques to let someone know you care hold or squeezing hands make plans together for the future , even just future dates introduce your friends andor family surprise him with kisses , hugs , and affection give compliments , encouragement , and admiration . do little favors for him , especially when he seems upset . it sounds paradoxical , but sometimes the best thing you can do is not see him at all . remember - - you fell in love as separate people with separate lives - - you need to preserve some of this independence to stay happy and in love . dont feel like you need to talk or check in constantly to show how much you care . sometimes giving each other some free time is the best way to show you know and love someone . , do not avoid fights or issues just by saying i love you , and accepting your concerns . the most in - love couples have arguments too , and you need to air them out openly and honestly to keep your love alive . so dont feel like youre destroying your love , or going back on your word , if you bring up a disagreement or issue - - youre just showing your love in another way . dont ever let a partner get you to do something you dont want to to prove your love . love doesnt need to be proven . everyone has different comfort levels when it comes to saying i love you . there are those that say it after every phone call and those that only save it for special moments , and there is everything in between . so dont worry about how often you should say i love you , or how often you hear it - - people are different , and show their love in different ways . these words mean much more when you mean them . if you only say i love you when youre feeling full of love , youll both be much happier .

make it clear that you dont demand to hear it back . sit and listen to him after youve said your piece . give him time and space to think . continue treating him like a friend , no matter what his response , to help the relationship grow . respect his decision or response without argument .

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you can pause , smile , and start talking about something else , indicate that the moment is over by saying just thought you should know . you can even tell him you dont need to hear anything back , letting him know he should take some time to think things over . the less you come across like youre trying to extract a particular response from him the likelier hell be to give you the one you want – if not immediately , eventually , when he realizes what a lucky guy he is . when talking , try to phrase everything personally - - i realized i love you , i fell for you , etc . - - instead of using language like we and us . because guys arent always encouraged to communicate their thoughts and feelings , its extra important to make them feel like they have someone to confide in . be an active listener by reading between the lines , waiting for him to finish before you respond , and digging in with further questions . avoid tying whatever he says back to yourself . youve told him you love him , now be patient as he works through his own emotions . some silence , though it may feel awkward , is not a bad thing . he may be a bit shocked and need time to digest the news - - dont feel like one of you must always be talking . just because youre not demanding a response doesnt mean you arent pressuring him . if he disappears for a day or two , dont worry too much - - he just needs to process things . chasing him down or following his every move , waiting to see how he responds , will only drive him farther away . if he is awkward or tells you he has other feelings , be kind and cordial - - youve done your part but if he smiles or responds that he loves you too , there is no reason to rush down the aisle . telling someone you love them in just another step in your relationship , not the end of the line . the important thing is treating him like you love him , not just saying the words . keep talking regularly , having open and honest conversations about your relationship . dont feel the need to tell him you love him every day now - - actions speak louder than words . ultimately , all you can do is express your feelings . you cant control how he is going to respond , nor should you . no matter what he says in return , you should respect his wishes and move on with your life . it takes a lot of bravery and passion to tell someone that you love them - - be proud of yourself for the effort and courage .

ask yourself why you wanted to say i love you . spend time together talking , hanging out , and being romantic . talk to trusted mutual friends if you are unsure whether he is a friend or something more . make sure he knows that you like him before you tell him you love him . let your love wash over you for a few days before making a move . considering letting him say it first .

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love is a beautiful , joyous emotion . but it is also a powerful word , and you shouldnt throw it around with your man unless youre sure you mean it . this doesnt mean you need to write a thesis on your feelings . but you do need to ask yourself what you hope to gain by telling him you love him . if hes already said i love you , and you know you feel the same , feel free to come out and say it . if your relationship is strong , and you know him and yourself well , it might be time to say i love you . if youre convinced youre in love , and need to tell him so , then trust your instincts and say it . if you want to tell him just to see if hell say i love you back , or because you feel pressured to say it , dont . love is something you give to others , it doesnt expect or need someone elses response . if youre just friends , but want more , you should consider asking him out before saying you love him . make sure you can spend quality time together before launching an l - bomb . this will also give you a great chance to gauge his own feelings towards you . more likely than not , if you love him then he will feel some attraction back towards you . just focus on letting go and having fun - - love is not about forcing your feelings - - so take your time and build a relationship . at the end of the day , this is about you confidently telling him how you feel . if youre not sure if he likes you back , that is okay thats why you want to tell him your own feelings . is he comfortable hanging out with just you if not , telling him youre in love might come off a little too strongly . sometimes you just need some perspective . a big reason many people wont say i love you is that theyre afraid the partner doesnt feel the same way . at the end of the day , it comes down to speaking your mind and feelings honestly . however , if youre a little worried ask a mutual , trusted friend if they can see you two dating . talk to one of his friends and see if he is interested in anyone right now . if youre feeling bold , ask if he has any feelings for you . even best friends can be taken aback by the powerful words i love you . you might have thought about this love for months , but for him this is big , sudden news . imagine yourself in a similar situation - - you have a friend you like who suddenly tells you they are in love . youd be at a loss for words , to say the least . so dont jump right to love - - take your time exploring your feelings together . test the water a few weeks in advance with i just wanted to tell you that i really like you . i love spending time with you . this has been a great few months . lets go on a few dates , just you and me for a change . love the most blissfully confusing human emotion around . if you feel overwhelmed with affection , feel your stomach flip every time you see him , and want to blurt out i love you at every turn , chances are good youre head over heels in love . but , as strong as the feeling is , avoid the temptation to immediately tell anyone . instead , sit back and enjoy the rush of love for a few days . show yourself that this isnt just a crush , this is the real thing . if you still feel like you love him , then get ready to make your move . if you dont still feel attached to him after the a few days than you hadnt a crush , not love . love stays around for a long while . it is scientifically proven then men say i love you first more often than women . to make matters worst , many dating books are hard - set on the woman always saying i love you second . the reasons are fuzzy evolutionary advantage for men who create commitment early on or made up women who say it first seem overly needy , but there is something to be said for tradition . like it or not , some men are weirded out when a woman says i love you first . this shouldnt keep you from expressing your feelings , but it is worth considering .

when she walks into the room and sees you she may look down as if someone said you have a stain on your shirt and she is trying to find the stain . if you sit next to her in class see if she glances at you . if she has made any note of you shell most likely play hard to get sometimes like hardly looking at you but when she does she blushes , smiles , etc . depending on how shy she is , when she stares at you , she will either pull away very quickly or hold your gaze . does she casually touch your arm while you are talking , does she love to hang around with you as compared to other guys , ask her friends about her crush . does she include you in all her planned events , well , now if she is your best friend then these signs will be normal . does she compliment you , does she defend you

how to tell if a girl in your class likes you high school

thats probably her making sure she looks nice . it means she is nervous on how she looks and normally if it was a regular guy that walked into the room she wouldnt bother to check . if she doesnt look as nervous then dont get your hopes down . some girls try to hide it and act normal . they dont want you to know . stay tuned theres other ways to notice . if she looks at you three or more separate times she probably likes you . rarely the looks will be one right after the other . this means she notices you , more than a regular guy who walks into the room . dont think she likes you right away . , both of these means she likes you . does she play with her hair while talkinglooking at you maybe she likes you . they can be a big help . she likes your company then . now as a best friend , you should directly ask her . she maybe saying i like him but deep inside once she will like you but you should be the one to make the first move . she may just be a nice person or wants to get close to you well 10 she likes you but the other 90 , if you deserve justice then any girl will stand for you .

be yourself . ask her about herself . ask her a simple question . shell start random conversations with you . if she walks by you and doesnt look at you or acknowledge you , it may be because she wants you to think she isnt interested . does she pay attention to you , say something random to her . make sure to be nice to her . if her friends look at her and then you , or whenever you are talking to her , her friends give looks at you and raise their eyebrows , this is also a good sign , and if somebody says she likes you , chances are she told them because she was hoping you would find out . if you sit diagonal from her in class , her knees or shoulders will be pointed towards you . if you are sitting beside her and she has her legs crossed over and her crossed over leg is towards you this may mean that she is comfortable in your company and likes to talk to you . if youre sitting behind her , she will lean back on her chair , and try to get your attention for example , copying your habits and will look for ways to turn around and look at you passing an assignment back , shell turn around and look at you . another sign that you can tell if a girl likes you is if she smiles every time you come and talk to her . ask her out and see what she says . if you like her , give her hints on snapchat or facebook , say . if the girl is online , chat with her a bit , then tell her you have to go . notice her movements . pay attention to whether she changes her posture when you enter the class . heres a great hint that she likes you . notice when you tease her . dont talk to her best friend obsessively , as this could hint that maybe you like her best friend and that is not a good sign , when youre in the hallway , try to walk a couple of steps in front of her . if you talk to her in class and shes quiet and quick speaking , but you talk to her on the phone or something and shes all loud and not nervous , she may like you . notice when she sits by you in class . get up a few times in class . if she looks at you and doesnt say anything , then she is waiting for you to say something to start the conversation or give a simple sign to let her know that you notice her , like a wave and smile . if you both have facebook accounts or something similar and she starts chatting with you within five minutes of your arrival online , and this happens a few times , this is a good sign . if you have known her for a long time , then if she likes you , she will start to change her behavior , unconsciously or consciously . if you are friends and she goes to you with all her problems , it shows she trusts you and wants you to be part of her life . if you play an online game and she is your friend on the game , she might start sending you a lot of presents . if you make her laugh and she puts her head on your shoulder and puts her hand over yours there is a good chance she likes you . if she is slouching forward with her head in her arms , or her hair is concealing her face , pay attention to which way her chair angles , and which way her face is pointing . if you are in lunch and she stares at you from time to time maybe smiling from here to there , she is probably into you . check to see if shes flirting . note , tease her a little , but not too much . get to know her very well then ask her out but dont say , do you like me , help her out and do stuff with her , she stares at you . if you like her , but youre not sure if she likes you back , go to one of her best friends and have them ask her who she likes .

how to tell if a girl likes you in school

be confident , keep your head up , and look her into her eyes . if you are confident you can make the first move . typically , people love to talk about themselves . ask her questions and get to know her . if she doesnt know you or doesnt seem interested in sharing , back off . you dont want to come off as creepy . may i sit if she doesnt reply quickly , it means that she wants you to stick around longer because she likes you . if she likes you shell want to talk to you more than any other person . unless shes playing hard to get . also , if she smiles while shes talking , or says not yes not no answers , that means she is nervous of how you will judge her . if she likes you , especially if you dont talk with her too much , she will attempt to talk to you and start very small conversations . if she has a question , take note if she goes out of her way to ask you instead of anyone else . call out her name and say , hi . she will probably just smile because she is nervous . when she talks to you , does she say your name a lot if so , it means that she wants you to notice that she likes you . blurt it at her and keep doing so until she notices . chances are , if she has even a trace amount of feelings for you , shell smile and try to stretch the conversation . if she just gives you a dirty look and turns away , its okay , just go to the next step . make sure that you do not make her think you dislike her at all be polite and gentleman - like . dont worry if her friends dont act different around you , she may not have told them . or if you sit across from her , she will be angled in towards you . this means she likes you and wants to get closer to you . , get it out of the way if she likes you , it will save a lot of running around after her . im always thinking of her , and if she asks you , who do you like tell her that its her , or you can say that her name starts with a the letter her name starts with and get her to think a little before you tell her . this is a really good flirting method , but only do this to a point , because most girls like guys to come straight out with it . if she logs off , then that is a big hint that she likes you . if she is playing with her bangs , tugging on her hair , playing with her hair , or adjusting her clothes when she is talking to you , she probably likes you . girls seem to get nervous around the guy they like . if she cant look you in the eye , it may be a sign of something good . she could really like you and want to look good for you , or shes very nervous around you . this is a definite sign . when youre talking to her beforehand have your friend walk up and say , hi . if she says , hi , and turns back to you , she either wants your attention or wants him to leave so she can continue . if she has a hard time thinking of a comeback she probably likes you but doesnt want to go any further so that she doesnt offend you . girls can get jealous . if she likes you , shell walk faster to catch up with you . on the other hand , if shes walking in front of you , and shes walking really slowly , its because she wants you to speed up and walk next to her . if she slows down behind you , dont take this as a sign she doesnt like you shes probably just nervous . , if she tries to act funny around you , then there might definitely be something there . see if she follows in your direction . if she does , dont do this very many times . otherwise , she may notice what you are doing . if she does the same back , she probably likes you . it means that she is watching the chat list and waiting for you to come online . however , if she doesnt do this every time , dont worry she is probably worried about bugging you or appearing pushy . she may become a better person , or start copying some things that you do as an attempt to impress you . this is also a good way of finding out roughly how long she has liked you . take up those problems , and try to help her solve them . similarly , if you go to her for your problems , and she shows an obsessive mother - hen concern , and genuinely tries to fix every problem , she either likes you or you are very good friends . this may or may not mean that she likes you . if you sit near her but not very near to her in a free session , talk a tiny bit louder than usual . she may appear to be reading a book , but if she is not turning the pages and if her head is turned slightly towards you , she may be trying to listen to what you are saying . say something funny , and if she smiles slightly or chuckles , it is almost 100 percent sure that she is listening to you , and therefore likes you , or at least is interested in you . similarly , if she has a textbook open and is writing but she doesnt seem to be aware of what she is writing , she may be listening to you this is quite difficult to spot . , she may be trying to sneak peeks at you . or if one of your friends are also friends with her , and you walk by to talk to himher she might look at you and smile or she will look at himher with an angry look . does she touch or play with your hair if youre sitting next to her , is her knee touching yours does she smile at you a lot does she laugh all the time do you catch her looking at you these are some pretty obvious flirts . if a girl has liked you for a long time , she may not do these things anymore . she will probably still look at you from time , but they will be more discreet . they will become better at concealing their feelings , and liking you will be an accepted part of their lives . so if she does not openly declare her love for you , that does not mean that she is not interested . dig deeper also , if you know her favorite animal , then say something about it and then smile at her . because you will freak her out . if she says i really want to see that movie say hey , me too maybe we can go see it sometimes this will work only do it if youve known her for a while and she is comfortable with you . that is a clue . also , if she always talks about you with her friends shes probably crushing on you . if you really want to know , you should just ask her or her friends if youre afraid , ask one of your friends to ask her friends . if they say that she likes you , then ask her out

notice the touch barrier . watch her body language . notice her eye contact . pay attention to how she acts around her boyfriend .

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pay attention to if she has broken the touch barrier with you . if she has , you need to figure out if it is friendly or flirty . she might just be giving you a friendly pat on the shoulder or she might be flirting with you because she is interested in you . if she touches you often , it might be a sign that she is flirting . the amount of time she touches you for is an aspect of what determines if the touching is flirty or friendly . was the touch a quick brush or does her hand linger for a few seconds where she touches you could be a sign of what the touch means . touching your shoulder might be something she does with friends , whereas touching your hand or face could be a sign she is interested in you . notice if she reciprocates your touch . if you give her a side hug and she leans into it , she might like you . if she seems uncomfortable and pulls away from the hug , maybe not . if she gives you space when she talks to you , she might not like you . if she turns her body toward you and points her feet your way , she could be interested . some women get nervous around guys they like . touching her hair and neck are signs she is feeling jittery and nervous around you and might be interested in you . , some women look at the guy they like often . if she likes you she wont be able to help but look at you . if you notice a lot of eye contact from her when you talk to her , she might be interested in you . if you know she is the kind of girl to get shy and nervous , she might be doing the opposite and not looking at you at all . this could also mean she likes you . , if every time she is with her boyfriend she has a huge smile on her face , it might be a sign you should back off . if she always looks miserable with him , then maybe there is room in her heart to develop feelings for someone else . paying attention to how she acts around her boyfriend might help you figure out how she feels about you , but it also might not mean anything . if she her look sad with her boyfriend , it does not necessarily mean she does not love him or that she wants to be with you .

notice her sense of humor . think about what she talks to you about . pay attention when she talks about her boyfriend . notice when she talks to you . look at your messages .

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if she is always really serious around you , she might not like you . it could just mean she is shy or not a humorous person , but often girls joke around with guys they like . if she genuinely seems like she is having fun with you – teasing you , joking around with you , and laughing at your jokes – she might like you . if your conversations consist only of basic day - to - day small talk how was your weekend or it is really warm out today . she might not like you . although it could also mean she is too nervous to ask you anything deeper . if she is asking you about your life and interests and telling you about hers , she might be interested in you . , if she has never brought him up or only says negative things about him , her feelings for him could be fading . if she goes on and on to you about how perfect he is , she probably does not like you . it can be complicated though because it is possible to have feelings for more than one person . if she says , tanner bought me roses yesterday and we are going out to dinner tonight he is the best boyfriend , she probably does not like you . if she says things like tanner and i got in a huge fight last night because we never do anything together , her heart might not be all in the relationship . if she goes out of her way to talk to you and give you attention , she might like you . is she speeding up to catch up with you and talk to you or does she only talk to you if you happen to be near each other if she seems to be going out of her way to talk to you and show you attention , she might like you . , pay attention to your online conversations , not just the conversations you have in person . if she never sends you texts or snapchats , she might not like you . although she might not be doing this because she has a boyfriend . if she always sends you texts or snapchats about her day - to - day activities or asks you about yourself , she might be interested . if she only texts you once a month to ask about school or work , maybe not .

figure out your intentions . flirt with her . bring up that you are interested . back off if you need to .

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if you decide to ask her how she feels about you , figure out what you want first . do you just want to sleep with her one time and never speak again or are you in love with her if you dont have genuine feelings for her , it is probably not worth your time or her time to try to pursue her . if you genuinely like her , then it might be worth asking her how she feels about you . , dont just jump right into asking her how she feels about you . first flirt with her you to show her you are interested . be yourself and joke around with her . give her compliments and ask her about herself . smile when you see her and make eye contact . try to break the touch barrier with her by finding an excuse to brush against her or touch her arm . be sincere and not fake . , if you feel like you have established a connection with her and feel confident that she might like you back , ask her how she feels . this can be stressful and nerve - racking but worth it to finally have a clear answer . be confident but also be understanding that this is a delicate situation and you might be putting her in an awkward spot . even if she has been flirting with you , it does not mean she must not love her boyfriend . try saying something like , i know you have a boyfriend - and i dont want to get in the way of that - but i just wanted you to know that i have developed feelings for you . i completely understand that you are committed to someone else , but i want you to know that if you werent i would want to date you . give her plenty of time to think about what you tell her and to navigate her feelings . if she says she is not interested , then she is not interested . leave her alone and let her be happy with her boyfriend . continuing to pursue her is rude and disrespectful . give her however much space she wants or that you need to get over her . if you are both comfortable with it , continue to be her friend .

get to know your crush a bit . hang out in person . figure out if she likes you . get your crushs number . start with a brief greeting . text with good spelling and grammar . text in the evening . text when you know she wont be busy . steer the conversation in a positive direction . revisit topics youve discussed before . give a sincere compliment . dont over - text . plan what you want to say . tell her you enjoy spending time together . tell her that you like her . ask her out .

how to tell a girl you like her over text

your crush may be the prettiest person in the woodwind section , but if you dont know anything about her , how can you know if shes someone youd want to date try to notice the important things about her if she treats her friends well if shes nice to little kids and less popular people if shes passionate about something cool . make sure you like both her personality and her face before trying to date her . if shes funny , notice what kind of jokes she makes . a nice person doesnt hurt other peoples feelings to get laughs . if shes smart , see if she helps others , too . if she walks the person sitting next to her through a math problem , its a sign that shes kind , too . if you go to school together , or have friends in common , figure out a way to talk to your crush a bit in a low - pressure situation . for example , you and your lab partner could collaborate with her and her lab partner or a project . if you want to see her outside of school , maybe she and her friends can come out with you and your friends . say ellen and tyree and i are going bowling after school - - want to come with us you can bring other people , too . if you dont have any friends in common , start by simply talking to her . dont use a pickup line or anything like that . just smile , greet her by name , and ask about something you both have in common . say something like hi , bethany have you gotten the hang of the new choir piece yet group hangs are fun , but they arent the same as dates . remember that you arent on a date unless both people know its a date . this means its no fair to act like youre inviting a ton of friends to the movies , when youre only inviting her . girls arent a different species , and they dont need to be decoded . you wont be able to know if she likes you just because she plays with her hair or touches your shoulder a certain amount of times . what you can tell is if she enjoys spending time with you . if her face lights up when she sees you , or if you have a great time swapping jokes whenever you hang out , youre probably on the right track . if a girl touches your arm or shoulder a lot , its a sign that she feels comfortable around you , which is a good sign . if she initiates plans with you for instance , by signaling that she wants to be conversation partners in spanish class , that means she enjoys your company . if conversation flows naturally when youre together , you probably have both mutual interests and compatible communication styles . thats also good news . once youre friendly , and if youre still interested in your crush , take the next step and get her phone number . if you both hang out and talk already , this wont be a outrageous request , so stay calm . when you ask , say something simple and matter of fact , like can we trade numbers i want to be the first to hear your opinions on the new marvel movie . if youre working on a project together , thisll be even more natural . say well probably need to meet over the weekend to lay out the newspaper together . can i text you you can also make this part of planning a group hang . say im stoked for the concert with you , brian , and jessica . can i have your number so we can make sure we meet in the same place when youve started texting your crush , its best to begin in a friendly , open - ended way . a salutation and question initiates conversation , and allows you to gauge whether shes busy or preoccupied . for example , send a text that says hi , what are you up to or hello , how are you today dont just say hi or hey . it sounds lazy , and she might not know what to say in response . use follow - up questions , too . all girls - - all people - - like to feel that theyre interesting . ask her to tell you more about her quirky dance teacher , her semifinal softball game , or what its like to babysit her little brother . texting etiquette is complicated . for instance , everyone knows that ending every text with a period makes you sound angry . you dont need to write an english paper , but do your best to check your spelling and not put commas where they dont belong . this will show her that you like her enough to put thought into your writing . hi , whats up is the math homework destroying you as badly as its destroying me looks a lot better than hi whats is the math hmwrk killing u 2 most people are more relaxed in the evening , following a busy day at school or work . youll have more time to respond to each others thoughts this way . plus , communicating with her at night can feel more romantic than telling her you like her in broad daylight . make sure not to text after bedtime , which can feel invasive . wind down the texts after 10 pm or so . you want to be able to give your full attention to the conversation , and you want her to be able to give you attention too . this means that its best not to text her when shes told you about other plans . if shes told you that shes going out with friends , for instance , give her a little space . you can always text her tomorrow and ask how her girls - night - out went . it works the other way , too - - dont text her right before a movie if you know youll be distracted . the more upbeat and positive the conversation , the more receptive a girl will be when you tell her you like her . try to stay away from negative topics that can ruin the mood , such as problems at school or work , or controversial subjects that can upset her and turn conversation sour . talk about pop culture you have in common . if youre both giant potterheads , ask how she feels about the new movie trailer . joke about something in your daily life you both share . if the school lunch was an inedible casserole , ask if shes having nightmares about it too . this shows youre a good listener and that you care , and that you pay attention to everything she shares with you . for example , if she once mentioned that she likes bowling , ask about her highest score or favorite alley . this is often more effective than telling a girl you like her , because it shows you understand her and recognize her best qualities . for example , if you like her knowledge of comics , tell her that you learn something new about the x - men every time you talk to her . avoid complimenting your crushs physical characteristics , like her body or eyes , at this stage . it can come off as creepy . if your crush has recently rocked a performance or other big event , congratulate her on her skills . texting is fun , but too much of it can become really intense . if youre texting your crush for several hours a day , it might be time to dial it back a bit . this is especially true if you seem to be putting more effort into your texts than she is . if you text your crush twice and she doesnt respond , back off for a while . if shes into you , shell text you again when shes ready . dont go too far in the other direction and never text her back . you may be trying to play it cool , but if she feels ignored , shell feel bad . you dont need to write yourself a perfect script , but take a little time and figure out when and how to tell your crush that youre into her . if you think ahead a little bit , youre less likely to fumble and forget yourself , or blurt out something too intense ive had a crush on you for seven years . consider that its often better to ask someone on a clearly - defined date . this way , youre telling her that you like her and giving her an opportunity for an action plan . know how youll deal if youre rejected . rejection happens to everyone , and its not the end of the world . its easiest to say something like thank you for telling me i enjoy hanging out with you as friends , so no worries , take a bit of space , then return to the friendship after a couple weeks . this is a confident , indirect way to tell a girl you like her without actually saying you like her . send this text after hanging out together , or even after an official date . say something like i had fun with you tonight and enjoyed your company cant wait to do it again . be simple and direct . this shows that youre confident and feel strongly enough about your feelings that youre willing to admit it word for word . make your statement more personal by sharing what you like most about her . for example , say im into you because youre so passionate about social justice , or i like you because youre sunny enough to brighten anyones day . just like when youre complimenting a girl , mention something specific about her personality that you like . tell her that she cracks you up whenever you hang out , or that her commitment to saving the environment is powerful and cool . now that youve laid your feelings bare , you probably want to take your relationship a step further by dating . the only way to date a girl is , of course , to go on a date with her . after youve told her you like her , invite her on an outing for just the two of you . make it clear that its not a group hang or a casual thing - - its a real date . when youre asking someone out , always suggest a specific date and time . say something like want to get deep - dish and see the school play friday night this way , if she likes you but cant make it , shell reschedule . if shes not interested , itll be a lot easier on your feelings to hear im sorry , i cant make it then i dont feel that way about you . plan the date around things you both like . if youre both into mini - golf and milkshakes , ask want to go to my favorite range on thursday after school we can stop by the diner for milkshakes after .

start a conversation with your crush five minutes before your class is about to end . a minute or so before the bell rings , look at the clock and say , oh man , class is almost over , if he refuses , just casually shake it off and say , oh , okay . if he says yes and gives it to you , then dont go crazy right there .

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talk about something he likes - tv shows , movies , sports , his hobbies , etc . make sure to be calm and casual , yet still appear interested . here , give me your number and ill call you later . dont be frantic and crazy when you say this . remain serene as if you do this all the time . we can just talk in person tomorrow dont let it get to you if he says no . some guys just arent comfortable with that . however , if he says no , wait a while before you try asking again . otherwise , hell catch on . just say thanks and smile for now . you can get excited later

go up to your crush and just ask him for his number , saying something like , hey , i was going through my contacts last night , and i realized that i dont have your number

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or , oh my gosh , i totally need your number

once again , if he says no , just shake it off and keep going .

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if he says yes , wait until hes gone to get excited .

go up to him and say i dont want to use a cheap line , like i lost my phone , can i borrow yours , or .

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so can you just give me your number so i dont have to use that old line . fold a tiny piece of paper , write your name , something sweet like have fun , and number on it , and then stick it in a pen cap . if you go to school with your crush and they ask for a pen , it will be there . if they dont find the paper and try to give the pen back at the end of class , just say something like , keep it look at it closely if they like you back , they should textcall you afterwards . voila , you are the owner of his number , and he is the owner of yours . just dont textcall him too often unless he does it to you first . no one likes neediness .

find common ground . be yourself instead of someone else . dress in a way that makes you comfortable . be friendly — to everyone . show a real interest in them . wow them with your confidence . talk about the things that actually interest you . know when you should change the subject . compliment them . ask them questions . be okay with poking fun at yourself . dont act like a girly girl if thats not who you are . dont get your girlfriends to talk to guys for you . dont laugh at everything . dont try to show off . dont make fun of other girls .

how to act around guys

one thing you can do around guys is to look for things you have in common so you can get an interesting conversation going . it doesnt have to be super deep and can be as simple as your mutual affection for community or your lifelong love for the cubs . look at the guys clothes , binders , or notebooks for clues about what you may have in common and start a lighthearted discussion about it . you dont have to find it immediately . if you get a guy talking for a few minutes or more , youll be able to latch on to something pretty soon . this is better than coming right out and asking him what all of his favorite bands , hobbies , or movies are , though you can get around to that eventually . you can also check out a guys facebook profile for hints of the stuff he likes , if youre nervous about striking up a conversation . though be yourself may sound like super corny advice , it can be the best advice you get . if you really want guys to like you and to get to know you , then all you can do is to be the person you were meant to be . of course , if you want to wait for them to really get to know you or avoid topics that may be more suited for your girlfriends , thats fine , but you shouldnt change who you are just to fit an idea of what the guys may expect you to do or say . when you talk to a guy , dont act like a version of a girl you think he might like more , and dont try to mimic one of the most popular girls in your high school . this wont get you nearly as far as sharing your true self with others . if youre more shy , you dont have to put it all out there at once . just open up to guys little by little as you become friends with them . you can wear whatever makes you feel good . if you like babydoll dresses , then wear them all you want . if youre into leggings and long shirts , skirts and tanktops , or jeans and t - shirts , then thats fine , too . you shouldnt wear clothes that are tighter or more revealing than youre comfortable with just to fit an image of what you think guys are into . youll look the best when youre clearly comfortable with what youre wearing . dont feel like youre limited to one style or image , whether youre more grungy or super girly . you can rock leather jeans one week and a pink babydoll dress the next . what matters is that you feel like yourself in whatever you wear . you may think that guys will think youre cool if youre mean to people whom you deem unworthy of you or somehow inferior , but in fact , the best thing to do is to be friendly to everyone around unless they give you a reason not to be . whether youre talking to the quiet guy in your homeroom for the first time or striking up a conversation with the new guy in school , make a point of having a smile on your face , asking questions , and being friendly . guys will see that youre a person they want to be around . if youre more shy , then you dont have to suddenly become super outgoing . but you should make an effort to at least smile and wave at people and to introduce yourself to new people when you can . if you want to have a great time hanging out with guys , then you have to show that you really care about them , whether you like them romantically or not . just show that you care by asking them questions about their lives , complimenting them , looking like you care about how theyre feeling , and making eye contact when you talk to them . dont switch the conversation to yourself every chance you get or keep checking your phone when theyre trying to talk to you . instead , take the time to let them know they matter . of course , it can be tricky to let a guy know you care about him when you dont have romantic feelings for him . just be fun and friendly and make it clear that youre only looking for friendship . you may think that every girl but you is feeling confident about who she is , what she does , and how she looks . however , youd be surprised by just how many girls are plagued by insecurity and try to mask it with a big smile or a mean attitude . you can be better than that . work on loving the person who you are , being kind to the people around you , and feeling capable of doing anything . if you have a positive attitude and a great energy , then guys will like being around you . dont talk about how much weight you need to lose or how much you hate being tall . instead , focus on the things you like about yourself . of course , it can take years to truly love yourself . but you can take steps in this direction by accepting what you cant change and working on changing what you can . you dont want to change who you are just to get the attention of a guy , especially if it means pretending to love star wars or talking about a band you cant stand for hours . talk about your favorite tv shows , a great movie you just saw , the hobby you most care about , or really any of the things you care about , and guys will be drawn to your passion . think about it as not being different from talking to your girlfriends about everyday things — except that you can avoid talking about the guys you like the subject of your conversation is less important than making sure that you and the guys you talk to maintain a fair balance between talking and listening . try not to dominate any conversation and leave room for other people to talk . if youre talking to a guy one - on - one , try not to do more than about half the talking . though its important to feel comfortable actually talking about the things that matter to you , you should also be able to get a sense of when a guy is starting to lose interest . if youve been talking about your horse for twenty minutes and you see the guy shifting on his feet , checking his phone , or looking around for a friend who can give him a save , then you can shift subjects by asking him a question instead . learn to read body language and facial expressions to see whether or not a guy is listening to you . if hes listening , hell be making eye contact unless hes super shy or has a crush on you , and turning his body toward you instead of away . one thing you can do is to offer a subtle compliment to a guy from time to time . you dont have to tell him he has the worlds most beautiful eyes or that hes a big hunk , but you can compliment a new shirt the guy is wearing , tell him he did great in yesterdays basketball game , or just make a kind , lighthearted comment that lets the guy know you care . you dont have to actually have a crush on the guy to give him a compliment , either . you can say something like , youre so good at chemistry . how do you do it or , you have such a unique laugh . i could tell it was you from the other side of the hall . if you want to have a good time hanging out with guys , then you should ask them about themselves from time to time without interrogating them . you can get to know them little by little and show that you care about the things that matter to them . you dont need to interview them , but you should ask them a question or two in the course of a conversation . here are some things you can ask them about to show them you care their favorite bands their hobbies their favorite tv shows , movies , or actors their weekend plans their pets guys like girls who dont take themselves too seriously . while its not attractive to actually put yourself down or to make fun of yourself in a real way , like saying that youre fat , that youre stupid , or that you hate something about yourself , some light humor can show that youre a fun , easygoing person . this is different from bad - mouthing yourself in hopes that someone will give you some attention just learn to laugh at yourself and the rest of your life will be much easier . for example , you can make a comment like , big surprise , i tripped again , or , i wonder how many more pink sweaters i can wear , to show guys that youre aware of your goofy or endearing qualities while not being committed to perfection . if you would describe yourself as a girly girl , like to wear dresses and emphasize your feminine qualities , then you should keep doing that . but if youre more of a tomboy , then you should be proud to be who you are and not try to giggle more than usual , play with your hair more than usual , or just change who you are to be more girly because you think thats what guys want . the most important thing is that you act like yourself , and guys will be impressed . you can also mix it up . if youre more of a tomboy but want to put on a dress or a skirt once in a while , no one is stopping you . if you have a crush on a guy and have something to say to him about it , then make sure you do it yourself . sure , its easier and less stressful to have one of your friends talk to the guy for you to tell him what youre thinking , but if you do it yourself , youll start an easier flow of communication and the guy will be impressed by your confidence . the worst that can happen is that he may not return your feelings , but at least youll have the satisfaction of knowing that you had the courage to talk to him to begin with . if youre really shy about telling a guy you like him in person , you can pass him a note or talk to him online . the most important thing is that its coming from you directly . again , another misconception girls have about how to act around guys is that they want girls who are laughing all the time . of course , if the guy youre around is genuinely funny , you can laugh all you want , but you should avoid laughing if youre doing it only because you think itll make people like you more . you can laugh , but you should also have jokes of your own to share , too . you dont want people to think youre just a laugh track . when a guy is genuinely funny , you can crack up all you want . but you should avoid doing it just because you think it makes you look cute . you may also think that guys like girls who talk about how much money their purse cost , which celebrities are following them on twitter , or other things that may superficially make you more interesting . instead , talk about the things you actually care about , and guys will be impressed . if you do something that is worth bragging about , then the guys will find out some other way because other people will be praising you . just work on being the best person you can be and guys will be impressed by what you do , whether youre amazing at learning foreign languages or have an unstoppable tennis serve . you may think that guys will think its funny if you put other girls down or talk about the random drama youre experiencing . however , most guys actually prefer girls who are chill and who dont complain about their friends and who dont feel the need to put other people down just to feel better about themselves . if you actually say nice things about girls who arent there and avoid gossip , guys will like you more because theyll see that youre easygoing and drama free and will be drawn to you . if you put down other girls , then itll be a sign of your insecurity , and guys will see that youre only doing it to try to make yourself look better . instead , praise other girls to show how comfortable you are with what you have to offer .

try to catch her staring at you . see if she blushes around you - - a lot . see if she giggles a lot around you . see how her friends act when she passes by . see if she looks for excuses to hang out . see if she pays more attention to her looks around you . notice her body language . see how she acts around other guys .

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this one is a giveaway . if you look across the room in class or at a party and catch her looking right at you , then she may have a crush on you . if she sees that youve noticed her staring and looks away and blushes , or gives you a little smile , then she may be acknowledging that she may like you . just dont be too obvious about trying to catch her staring at you , or she may think that youre the one staring at her . this is another sign that she may have a crush on you . if every time you walk by or talk to her , you find her turning red or getting flustered , then this may be a sign that she likes you and is shy and embarrassed about talking to you or saying the wrong thing . if you do see her blushing , dont tease her about it or mention it , or that may scare her off from talking to you . just make sure shes not the kind of girl who blushes whenever she talks to any guy - - she could just be shy around guys . a lot of girls giggle a lot around the guys they like because crushes make them feel a bit giddy and lightheaded just for being around the guy that they like . if you find the girl always giggling or laughing a lot around you , even if youve barely said anything funny , then she may like you . she could just be feeling giggly because she likes you , or she could really think that everything you say is funny because she has a big crush on you . next time you talk to her , see how much she laughs . try a small joke and see if she laughs way too much - - this may mean that she has feelings for you . a girls friends can tell you a lot about how she feels about you without saying much . next time the girl walks by with her friends in the halls , see if the friends giggle when they see you , elbow her , or just nod in your direction , trying to tell the girl that youre around . this is a not - so - subtle way of letting you know that the girl may have a crush on you . if the girls friends always greet you with a knowing smile , then they may be telling you that the girl likes you . if the girl has a crush on you , then she may want to be around you as much as possible . if she likes you , she may be looking for excuses to hang out , like asking for help with her math homework , or even asking you to see a movie or to go to a concert with you . she could be very casual when she asks you to hang out to hide the fact that she likes you . if youre in the same social circle , but shes been around a lot more lately , then it may be because she has a crush on you . if the girl dresses up a bit more whenever shes around you and pays more attention to her hair and makeup , then she may be trying to impress you . if youre just hanging out with her , or hanging out in a small group , but she spends a lot of time putting on lipstick or lip balm , looking at herself in the mirror , or just fidgeting with her clothes , then she may be trying to impress you . if you see her unexpectedly , and shes dressed down a lot more , then she may be dressing up to impress you . if you see her at the grocery store or somewhere unexpected , and she makes a joke about how casual she looks , then she may be embarrassed that shes not more dressed up for you . the girls body language can say a lot about how she feels about you . if shes always making eye contact , leaning closer to you , and turning her body to you when you talk , then she may like you . here are some other things to look for if she plays with her hair when she talks to you , then this may mean that shes nervous because she likes you . if she shifts her weight from foot to foot , she may be a bit nervous about talking to you too . if she breaks eye contact and looks at the floor once in a while , it may be because she likes you . this is an important point . you may think the girl likes you , but it could turn out that shes flirty , talkative , and playful around many guys . some girls just have a lot of crushes on guys at once , or just like hanging out with guys - - some even prefer hanging out with guys to hanging out with girls . you may be misreading the signs and thinking a really friendly girl has a crush on you . check out how the girl acts around other guys . if shes the same way with everyone , then its just part of her personality . if she treats you differently , however , and pays more attention to you - - or less attention , because she feels shy about talking to you - - then she may have a crush on you .

build your romantic relationship . dont allow fear to paralyze you . be honest about your feelings . dont try to read her mind . stay positive . choose the right time and place . be aware of your body language and how you carry yourself around her . find out more about her and her friends . understand that men are more likely to say i love you first . let your actions speak louder than your words . communicate respectfully and openly . be aware that the word love can carry different emotional context for different people . prepare for any obstacles . maintain your composure . respect her reaction . celebrate your maturity and fortitude . continue to build your relationship . know when to walk away from a friendship .

how to tell a girl you love her when you are not sure she loves you back

spending time together allows you both to get to know each other on a deeper level . eliminate distractions including cell phones , unwanted visitors , or blaring music whenever you can . getting to know her and spending time together are essential to building a romantic relationship . you wont know what activities you enjoy together unless you communicate . choose activities that you can both do together like studying , hiking , or grabbing a bite to eat . make sure you make it clear that you enjoy your time with her and appreciate how much you both are getting to know one another . if you fear rejection , putting your emotions out in the open can be terrifying however , you should also realize that regret can be just as powerful . realize that putting yourself out there and knowing the truth is the only way to overcome both the fear of rejection and regret . it is a relief just to get this off your chest . do you actually love her or is this lust or infatuation could you stand losing her friendship do not be friends with her in hopes that you can change her mind about you . this is unfair to her as friendships should be based on trust and respect . if you truly love her , you will be a good friend first and foremost . analyzing your own feelings can be difficult but there are a few scientifically proven signals that may indicate whether youre in love . do you exhibit any of these feelingsif you believe that she is unique , it may be because your brain has elevated levels of focus and attention . if you think that she is perfect and only focus on her positive qualities , it may be because your memory has increased to accommodate your new feelings of love . if you feel like youre a wreck over your new love , it is because research has shown that being in love involves similar brain activity to being addicted with similar mood swings . going through adversity can also make you fall in love because your brain produces more dopamine , a chemical responsible for reward and pleasure . if you feel you are obsessing over her it may be because your brain has decreased the levels of central serotonin , which is associated with obsessive behavior . people in love have also shown signs of emotional dependency in which they want to be together all the time and hope to stay together forever . when youre in love you may feel like youll do anything for her because you have a greater sense of empathy for the woman you love . studies have shown that being in love is about an emotional union , not about sex . studies have also shown that people in love feel that their love is uncontrollable . be direct when expressing yourself . dont assume that you know how she is feeling . always respectfully ask and thank her for opening up to you . being open is essential in expressing your love for one another . love is a very strong emotion and is usually developed over time . take a look at how your relationship with her has developed over time and focus on all the positive emotions you have shared together . if you feel that your love for her has developed rather quickly , stay positive that there is no better time to reveal your feelings . you can always find a reason not to do something so be bold and follow your heart . dont be distracted by outside factors . approach her when you are going to be able to talk to her in relative privacy and when neither of you will feel rushed . look for a quiet place or ask to schedule a meeting to ensure that both of you are mentally and emotionally present . expressing your love should be a joyous occasion so make sure youve created a situation where she is able to fully process her thoughts and emotions . you dont want to tell her you love her when you are being distracted by friends or she has to work overtime to meet the deadline of an important client . chat with her whenever you have the opportunity and initiate with a smile . focus on your posture and maintain eye contact . be friendly and joke when you can , but dont be rude . dont overwhelm her , as a smile and a wave can go along way . engage her in a conversation by starting with a simple hows are you you will come off as creepy or awkward if you stand at her location without saying anything . if you cant think of something to say because youre nervous , just say hello and keep walking or talk to someone else . her friends are her support system and will protect her so leave a good impression and take a genuine interest in who they are . endearing yourself to her friends will let them and her know that you are fully invested in her wellbeing . studies have shown that men are prone to saying i love you first because they do not want to lose a relationship whereas women want to ensure that the relationship is worth their investment so they are inclined to wait . so before you say i love you , prove that you are worth it and leave no doubt in her mind why she loves you back . there are many resources that give examples of romantic gestures , however , love is a personal thing . only you know how to express your love and what will make her happy . whether its buying her flowers after shes had a long day , singing her favorite song to surprise her , or just holding hands everyday as you walk her home from school , showing her that you love her isnt just a one time gesture but rather a state of mind that informs all that you do . the best way tell her you love her is to be direct . there is no sense in trying to manipulate her or trying to wait her out . give her time to process her thoughts and emotions . she may say that she wants to just stay friends so be prepared to examine your own emotions and what role she will play in your life moving forward . some people may have a very difficult time hearing or using that word . however you articulate your emotions , be sure that she completely understands your intentions . for example , if you know she gets awkward and skittish whenever you watch the end of romantic comedies whenever the characters finally say i love you , do not make the same gesture . instead , sincerely , but casually , let her know how much you care about her and that you want to take a step forward in your relationship . religion , cultural differences , or strict family members can all be involved in how she responds to you . remember to always be respectful of who she is because , if you truly love her , you will get to know these things about her and how you can possibly work through any obstacle . if she is tentative but still says yes , address it and abide by the rules she has set in order to ease her mind . if she asked you to get to know her parents first because of her cultural customs , then take it as an honour and follow her lead . if she does not want to get physical in the relationship then dont pressure her . whether she says she loves you or rejects you , express yourself tactfully , especially if youre in public . dont be a jerk and try to lash out if your feelings hurt . if she doesnt love you back , remember that she is still the same person who you have created a deep bond with so continue to respect her . you cannot force someone to like or love you . dont become unresponsive or stonewall her . women are sensitive to interpersonal cues so blank expressions or being stonewalled can escalate an already negative situation . if you have gotten to know one another and developed a strong relationship based on respect and open communication , chances are that she will express the same feelings of love . take pride in being able to put your emotions out into the open and celebrate with her . even if the love she shares stops at friendship , revel in your personal growth . share your experience with others and know that you are not alone . use your friends , family , and other parts of your support system to deal with rejection . if you really love someone , you will respect them , care for them , and be there for the good and the bad . love can be a roller coaster but the scariest part is taking the first plunge and telling her that you love her . get closure . if she doesnt have the same feelings for you , do not keep persisting . learn to accept that it wasnt meant to be and keep optimistic that there is something meant for you just around the corner . this may be difficult but take as much time as you need . thats why there are so many sad love songs and movies that can help cheer you up . there is no sense in trying to manipulate her or trying to wait her out . if you tell her you love her and says she doesnt feel the same but wants to stay friends , respectfully decline . your emotions may be too raw after you have been rejected to maintain a friendship . a friendship is based on mutual support and respect . ask yourself if you can truly give that to her after you have clearly expressed that you see her as more than a friend . can you still be friends with her if she is dating someone else

see if she teases you . notice if she compliments you . see if she looks for every excuse to talk to you . notice if she asks if you like anyone . notice what she says about any girls you hang out with . see if she hints that she wants a boyfriend . see what she says about other guys . see if she calls or texts you a lot .

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if the girl teases you , then its another sure - fire sign that she has a crush on you . teasing is just one form of flirting , and its her way of letting you know she has a crush on you while being playful . if she teases you , then shell make fun of your clothes , playfully push or shove you , or even make fun of your hair or new shoes . dont be offended - - this is just her way to let you know that shes paying attention to you . see if she teases all of the guys , or just you . if she teases everyone , then she may just be a playful person . but if its just you , then youre special to her . if the girl is always giving you complements , then theres a good chance she has a crush on you . if she tells you she likes your new shoes , that she liked your history presentation , or that you did great in the baseball game though all you did was strike out , then yeah , she probably has a crush on you . if a girl has a crush on you , shell like every little thing you do , and she may not be afraid to tell you about it . see if shes the type of girl who is just really nice and gives everyone compliments , or if she only says flattering things to you . who knows - - maybe shes just really , really nice . but probably not . if she compliments a new shirt or a new haircut , that means she notices when your wardrobe or looks change , which already is a strong sign that she has a crush on you . if a girl has a crush on you , then shell try to talk to you as much as she can - - unless shes really shy . if you dont have many mutual friends or other reasons to be around each other , she may come up and ask you an obvious question , like something about the math homework that she could have easily asked another friend . she may even call or text you to ask an obvious question , hoping it could lead to more conversation . if she likes you , she may even try to talk to you about something she know that you love , like a sport or favorite tv show . she could come up to you just to ask if you saw last nights game or to ask what you thought about the season finale of your favorite show . she could share your interests too , of course , but she could also be using them as an excuse to talk to you . the girl may think shes being subtle when she asks if you like anyone , or when she asks you if youre going out with any girls this weekend , or asks if you have a crush on a specific girl , but youll be able to see right through her . if shes asking if you have a crush on anyone , shes really asking , do you like me theres only one other option - - she could be asking if you like anyone because one of her friends like you and shes acting as a go - between . if you tell her you dont like anyone , and she says something like , how can you not like anyone you must like someone . then she really wants you to tell her that you like her . even the fact that she takes any interest in your love life shows that she has romantic feelings for you . does the girl subtly try to put down the other girls you hang out with does she mention that any girls youve dated in the past arent good enough for you if so , then what shes really saying is that she thinks shes the one for you . if she puts down any girls you hang out with , or even any girls she just sees you talking to in the halls , then shes just jealous that she doesnt have all of your attention . its okay for her to be jealous before you start dating - - just make sure it isnt a problem if she does end up being your girlfriend . she may think shes just dropping a hint , but if she often says things like , it would be cool to have a boyfriend , or being single is so not fun , or i wish i had a guy to go to the movies with , then shes basically asking you to be her boyfriend . if shes always making subtle comments about how much she wants to date someone , that person is you . theres only one other option - - that she wants to date one of your friends . but if she never asks about any of your friends , then chances are that she has her eye on you . if all she says about other guys is that this or that guy isnt good enough , or that he isnt nearly as great as you , then shes basically saying that she has a crush on you . she may even say that she wished this or that guy possessed a certain quality - - one that you have . if she says she wishes that a guy she went on a date with had a better sense of humor and she always praises your sense of humor , then shes basically telling you that she wants to date you . if shes always comparing you favorably to other guys , then shes letting you know that she likes you more than any other guy around . if shes always texting you or calling you , then chances are that she has a crush on you . if she sends you a lot of cute smiley face emoticons , or calls you just to say hi or for a dumb excuse like asking for the homework for a class that she could get from anyone , then shes just looking for reasons to talk to you . if she texts you a smiley face or just a word like hehe , then shes flirting with you .

ask your friends . ask her friends . ask her .

how to tell if a girl has a crush on you 3

your first resource should be your own buddies . ask your friends if theyve seen you and the girl together and ask their honest opinion about whether or not the girl has a crush on you . your friends may have more perspective on whether the girl actually likes you , or if shes just playful and flirtatious with everyone . ask them to be honest - - if they dont think she likes you , they should let you know . your guy friends may also know if the girl likes someone else instead of you . this could be helpful information before you try talking to the girl yourself . just try not to ask anyone too chatty , or a guy who is very friendly with the girl . if you do , the guy may tell her that you asked , and hell blow your cover . asking the girls friends if she likes you is basically as good as asking her yourself . but if you really trust one of her friends and dont think shell report back to her friend , then go ahead and ask if the girl has a crush on you . her friend will mostly likely know whether or not she likes you - - itll just be a matter of whether or not shell tell you . dont make a big deal about it . dont reveal your feelings about the girl . if you like the girl too and want to know her true feelings , dont be afraid to ask . just find a time when youre both relatively alone and in a quiet place , and ask her if she has a crush on you . if you like her , you can even tell her first that you have a crush on her and want to know if she likes you too . just speak calmly , make eye contact , and give her all of your attention to let her know shes important . but dont make it seem like too much of a big deal or you may scare her away . if she does admit she has a crush on you and you like her , then ask her out on a date and see where it takes you . if she says she doesnt have a crush on you , react the right way . dont get all upset or offended - - just play it cool and show her what a great guy you are .

get to know her as a friend before making a move . build a relationship off of common interests , finding common interests to bring your together as a couple . keep clean and well dressed to both look and feel confident . smile , keep your head up , and pull your shoulders back to exude confidence . stay calm , even if youre nervous , by slowly counting to three in your head before talking or responding . think about what you want to say ahead of time , but keep it brief . wait to tell her until the two of you are alone and she is in a good , stress - free mood . talk to her in person instead of through text , the internet , or a phone call . know that an open , honest discussion is far more important than any big surprise . look at her in the eyes . just come out and say it , let her respond on her own instead of asking for a response . have a game plan . flirt with her through eye - contact , light touching , and smiles . dont try to rush through things . continue building the relationship as friends first , and a couple second . know that you did everything in your power , and be proud of your courage . understand that arguing or getting angry fixes nothing in this situation . give her some space for a few weeks . be open to other opportunities .

how to tell a girl you like her

you want to know someone before you get romantic . think about why you like her so much - - what sorts of experiences and conversations brought you together you want to both feel comfortable and friendly with each other . if you establish a respectful and kind friendship with her , she will be much more likely to like you back . ask her on casual dates , usually with other people . try to hang out outside of work or school occasionally to develop a connection . if she doesnt seem interested in acting like friends , or seems stand - offish , you should re - consider if she is someone you really want to spend a lot of time with . youll need something to bond over , so find things that you both enjoy . it could be a hobby , sport , team , movie , musical style , anything at all . the only way youll build a relationship together is if you can build off of a conversation , so get talking . this will give you something to talk about , but it will also show her that a relationship between the two of you could be fun . hygiene is a sign that you care for yourself , and therefore that youre willing and able to care for her . take a shower , brush your hair , use deodorant , brush your teeth , and generally try to be clean and tidy . wear your favorite shirt and put a comb through your hair . this isnt just about her - - it is about you . looking your best will help you feel your best . dont neglect things like facial hair and fingernails . keep everything trim and tidy . smell fantastic , but dont overdo it . 1 - 2 spritz of cologne or body spray , max . smiling is our way of expressing happiness , and girls want to be with someone who is happy and carefree , not someone who is sad and sulky . the basics of strong body language are easy - - head up , spine straight , and shoulders back . combined with a good smile , these simple steps are proven to be the most effective form of flirting you have . dont blurt out the first thing in your head slow down and take a breath before proceeding so you dont feel like a chicken with his head cut off . remember that you should feel nervous . if you didnt you wouldnt really like her . so feel confident in your decision and the butterflies in your stomach - - theyre telling you that youve made the right decision . try to slow down as you speak . it will keep everyone , you included , much calmer . keep smiling just the act of smiling actually makes you happier . you dont have to write a script or poem , or think of great jokes and stories . in fact , trying to manufacture the perfect tell is far too difficult and complicated for something that should come from the heart . visualize the conversation to get mentally ready , but dont obsess over the details . i think youre awesome , and i really like you . what im trying to say is i like you . do you want to go out on a date hey . i dont usually go up to girls and say this , but i really like you . it may be more embarrassing for the both of you if other people are around , and it puts pressure on her for a response . find a time and place where you are both relaxed , happy , and relatively alone . consider telling her i wanted to talk to you , can we meet after school and just pick a place and a time . most girls prefer talking face - to - face , so try not to call her on the phone . if you call her on the phone , she might think that you arent confident enough to ask her in person . if the phone is the only way you can find yourself asking her , then go for it . know , however , that youll always make a bigger impression in person . asking a friend to do it for you has a high chance of backfiring . again , she might think you arent confident enough to tell her in person . dont tell her over im or chat , if at all possible . telling her to her face makes you seem more brave and confident but it also shows her that you respect her . dont be anyone youre not . let the real you shine through because theres a much bigger chance shell like the real you than someone you pretend to be for her sake or someone elses . dont be cheesy with her try not to say anything too flirty , because she might not know whether you actually mean it . she might even think you were just teasing her trying to look cool or something , etc . and get upset at you . dont keep her guessing . be absolutely real and truthful . shell appreciate this more than anything . do not say anything stupid unless you are absolutely sure she is going to laugh . otherwise , it just makes the situation more awkward for you . if you think you can make her laugh at a good joke , dont be afraid to work it in . girls love a sense of humor . it shows her that you like having fun . youre not talking to the ground , so dont stare at it looking her in the eyes has a way of telling her that youre completely focused on her and that she grabs your attention like no other person . plus , itll give her a chance to stare into your eyes , too , and lots of girls think that the eyes are the most attractive part of the face . this wont get any easier , unfortunately . so just get out with it . you dont need to look like tom cruise , talk like shakespeare , or plan a wedding proposal - - you just have to say i like you . if youre struggling , count to five in your head . tell yourself that , no matter what , youre going to say the words when you finish i really like you . i was hoping we could go on a date sometime . lets try to be more than friends . while this is hard for you , remember that youre dropping a pretty big bomb on her as well . she needs time to think about your words , and you asking questions or butting in doesnt help . even if she does like you back , its not always easy to say that you like someone , or maybe she hasnt really thought about it yet . dont force her to make a decision . instead , ask her out on a date this allows her to find out whether she likes you if she doesnt already know . if she says yes . lucky you youre probably a pretty special person and she thinks that you have a lot to offer her . at the very least , shes interested in you and wants to get to know you better . have a game plan for a date or at least calling her , or else you might make her wonder if youve reconsidered later . dont be afraid to flirt with her a little . when you say goodbye to her , smile , touch her lightly on the back and say , cool . im glad you said yes . ill call you about the movie . whats your number once youve made the connection , be sure to follow up on it a bit flirting is supposed to be subtle . you really dont need to change that much about yourself other than the occasional physical contact and willingness to hold eye contact longer . no need to over think it , remember , girls sometimes move a little slower than guys , so dont expect to be kissing her the next day . if you get a chance to at the movies — or wherever you have the date — give her a little kiss , but dont expect her to want to move as quickly as you might . remember , youll probably get more of what you want by making her feel comfortable , so be patient . you want to be a good friend , otherwise the romance will fall to pieces . make sure you talk , hang out , and stay true to yourself and your other friends . just because she said yes doesnt mean you need to be smothering each other all of a sudden . make time together at least once a week . plan dates together . continue seeing your friends and following your daily life - - she fell for you , not a puppy who only follows her around telling someone you like them is really , really hard . not everyone has the strength to go through with it . at the end of the day , however , you were open and honest enough to take a risk . she might not have felt that connection , but you better believe other women will . dont try to make her feel bad , because shell get angry that youre doing that she wont suddenly like you even as a friend . remember , people are attracted to happy , playful , funny people . try to look at life in a happy , playful , funny way , even if it seems like theres no reason to at the moment . there is no beating around the bush - - it will be awkward for a bit . give her time , to get to know you better or to show her all you have to offer her . you might have a chance with her in the future , but you wont if youre super creepy about it . if she feels like youre clingy or stalking her , youre going to seriously hurt your chances . focus on being a good friend and dont make her feel like you have expectations . if she changes her mind about how she feels about you , shell probably be more willing to make the first move , so just wait it out . you put yourself out there openly and honestly - - you should be proud of yourself . if you dont think shell ever give you a chance , let life show you who else is beautiful . there are lots of people out there who you might be compatible with try to open your eyes to new possibilities . life is too short to chase after someone who doesnt see your merits . if you are truly meant to be , she will come back to you now that she knows you like her .

make eye contact . time it right . start with a compliment . keep the conversation moving . instead , have a mental list of backup questions you can use if you stumble on an uncomfortable pause . make her laugh optional . close the conversation early .

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spend a few days catching her gaze every now and then . dont just stare at her , though instead , shoot her small glances until your eyes meet and she catches you . when she does , smile slightly and look away after a second . youll probably blush as well , which is all the better - blushing indicates youre nervous , which is a hint that you like her . when you do talk to her , pick a time thats convenient . dont try to get her attention when shes obviously involved in something else , and try to have a bit of privacy - you dont have to be completely alone , but her attention shouldnt be too distracted . make the interaction extra casual and put a time limit on it by talking to her while youre both walking somewhere else . if you walk to a class at the same time as her , or you start walking the same way home , this is a great opening . paying a girl the right compliment makes your intentions clear right away - shell know instantly that youre interested in being more than her friend . here are some things to consider know how to deliver a compliment . even the best compliment in the world will fall flat if your delivery is off . keep a half smile as you talk - it will make you naturally add appealing inflection to your voice . try this trick out when you answer the phone sometime and see if you notice a difference . maintain eye contact with her , and keep the tones of your voice up , but lower the actual volume - speaking softly immediately communicates intimacy , and it can make her instinctively lean in closer to hear you . if this all sounds a bit difficult , practice it in front of a mirror first . as anyone whos ever had a stalker can tell you , theres a fine but definite line between flattering and creepy . with this in mind , choose your compliment wisely . saying something like you always look amazing in that shirt can come off as weird if you dont know her well , and implies that you watch her . even if you do , its best not to spill that information immediately . instead , opt for something general but cute , such as your smile is glowing today . whats making you so happy or i thought what you said in class earlier was really interesting . a good compliment should naturally lead to more conversation , instead of just hanging awkwardly in the air after you say it . know what to avoid . if youre going to pay a girl a compliment about her physical looks , stick to her eyes , smile or hair . do not comment on her body otherwise , especially on the first interaction . if you want to play it extra safe , pick something you already know shes proud of . for instance , if you know shes a dedicated violinist , say something like , ive heard youre an amazing musician , and use it as a way to ask her some questions about it . you might be tempted to stop talking and just stare at this girl , but dont let your nerves get the best of you . allowing a long lull in the conversation will make things feel awkward . ask about what she thinks of a shared homework assignment or an upcoming event . asking for her opinion communicates that you care about what she thinks , and see her as more than just an object . use the conversation to find out more about her , but be subtle . for instance , if you want to find out if she already has a boyfriend , you could casually ask , so , anything fun planned with your boyfriend for the weekend if she doesnt have one and shes interested in you , shell let you know immediately . ask open - ended questions . for instance , instead of saying so , have anything fun planned for the break which can be answered with a short yes or no , say what are you going to do to keep busy while school is out a question that requires a detailed response is always better to keep a conversation flowing . if youre sure youve got a joke shell appreciate , give it a shot . the goal is to show her you have an engaging sense of humor , but you dont want to come off as desperate or cheesy . if possible , crack a joke about the current situation or something you both saw happen . situational humor is more meaningful than a joke you read online . dont tell a dirty joke . its not appropriate for a first conversation , and it might give her the wrong impression . if she doesnt get the joke , dont explain it to her unless she asks . just move on quickly with a new point of conversation . good humor is really attractive , but bad humor is a complete turn off . if you cant think of a joke that makes sense with the situation at hand , leave it alone . follow that old saying - always leave them wanting more . find a way to gracefully duck out of the conversation before it goes stale . good luck

have a cool approach . open with a light topic . get a feel for the girls personality . make small talk . give the girl a subtle compliment . ask some light questions . make her laugh . let her talk . dont brag or show off . let her see what makes you special . play it cool . know when its time to leave . leave her wanting more . let her know you liked talking to her . talk about when youll get to talk to her again . exit gracefully .

how to talk to girls as a teen boy

if you want to have a knockout conversation with the girl , then you have to start strong . when you see the girl you want to talk to , whether its a girl youve been crushing on for a while or a cute girl you just spotted at a party , you should let her notice you for a few minutes . let her see you have fun with your friends and not paying too much attention to her . then , when you lock eyes , stride over to her with confidence . keep your head up high and look straight ahead . if you dont know her , then introduce yourself . just say , hey , im brian . whats your name this is simple but effective . if you do know the girl , just say , hi , how are you or what have you been up to you dont have to be too elaborate here - - you just want to walk up to her like its no big deal . fake it until you make it - - even if youre terrified of talking to girls , just pretend like its no big deal . theres no need to prepare an elaborate joke or a pick - up line or to do a backflip to get the girls attention . just say something that will make the girl want to talk to you more , and to get to know you a bit . this is not the time to discuss your grandmothers funeral or to talk about your goals for the future . just talk to her about something you saw on tv , about something your dog did , or about something cool that you did over the weekend . dont put too much pressure on yourself and start with a light opening line . try something like this man , my weekend was crazy . i had to help my dad build an addition to the house and i can barely move my arms . how about you did you do something more exciting with your time look at this scratch on my hand . my cat is nuts when hes hungry . how about you - - do you have any pets can you believe how hard that math test was im pretty sure i got every question wrong . how about you as you start talking to the girl , you should get a sense of what she wants from you . every girl is different . if shes more shy , then shell need you to draw her out , ask more questions , and to do more of the talking . but if shes really chatty and outgoing , then you should let her speak and not worry so much about impressing her , and avoid interrupting her as well . once you know the kind of girl she is , then you can adjust your conversation accordingly . dont worry if shes shy . she may be one of those girls who is only shy at first , but who quickly opens up once you make her comfortable . though its important to be yourself , you should stick to safe topics when you first talk to the girl , before you know whether she has a sick sense of humor or if shes easily offended by inappropriate jokes or comments . the more you talk to her , the more youll know what you can and cant say around her . even if the girl is outgoing , you shouldnt let her do all of the talking . let her know that you can hang with her . theres nothing small about small talk . if youre talking to a girl , you cant start off with your deepest , most important desires , or shell want to run away . small talk is an art , and you can master it just by mentioning mundane topics that lead you to a more intimate , exciting conversation . you have to start small to end big , so dont be afraid to mention the most basic things , even the weather or your upcoming chemistry test . here are some examples of how you can make small talk turn to a more deep topic can you believe how much it rained this weekend i was supposed to go biking with my dad , but we ended up staying in the house all weekend . did you do anything fun in the rain , or were you cooped up too i meant to study for tomorrows chem test last night , but my little sister was sick with a cold and i had to help my mom take care of her . how about you - - do you have any siblings i saw the avengers last night . i thought it was okay , but not my favorite . whats your favorite movie after youve talked to the girl for a little while , you can let her know youre interested without coming on too strong or scaring her off . you can even joke around with her a bit , and compliment her by teasing her . just one compliment will do for now - - you dont want her to feel like youre stalking her or obsessing over how great she is . here are some ways to do it i like the color of your shirt . it really matches your eyes . did you do that on purpose you have a great laugh . you should use it more often . youre the only girl ive ever met who knows more about baseball than i do . how did that happen once youve been chatting with the girl for a while , you can start to ask her some questions that show that her interests and opinion matters to you without prying too much . she shouldnt feel like shes in an interrogation room , but she should feel like youre genuinely making the effort to get to know her instead of just showing off or trying to impress her without caring who she really is . here are some questions that you can ask questions while revealing something about yourself to make the girl feel more comfortable when i get home from school , i always pick up my guitar first . what do you do for fun when youre not in school do you like being on the tennis team i think being on the soccer team is okay - - when our coaching isnt killing us with drills . i see you hanging out with sarah a lot . is she your best friend , or are you one of those girls with a bunch of best friends if you want to keep the girl hooked , then you have to make her laugh so she feels comfortable and wants to keep talking to you . to make her laugh , you can poke fun at yourself , tease her a bit , or tell her a funny thing that happened to you over the weekend . dont be too obvious about trying to be funny or telling her jokes , and dont try to make her laugh just by putting people down . here are some things you can say to try to make her laugh ive been playing my guitar so much that i think im becoming obsessed . last night , i had a dream that i was jimi hendrix - - man , was i bummed when i woke up . is everything in your wardrobe pink , or are you just wearing all of your pink clothes at once yesterday , i told coach i had a cold so i could skip practice . but then he saw me hanging out at sonic later that day - - man , was i busted even if the girl is more on the shy side , you should still let her talk and tell you what shes thinking or what she cares about . you may be so nervous about running out of things to say that you find yourself rambling on about seemingly nothing and not coming up for air . make sure to pause between your sentences , let the girl make interjections , and dont interrupt her if she tries to talk . if shes in the middle of telling her a story , dont just wait for her to finish so you can tell her a story that you think is similar but better - - this will make her feel like youre not really listening . react to what shes saying . you dont have to nod along or say yeah , every two seconds to let her know you care about what she has to say . just make eye contact , nod at the right times , and make appropriate comments like , thats crazy , i cant believe you had to do that , or i had no idea that . if youre bragging or showing off , then the girl will want to run for the hills before you finish listing all of your accomplishments in the world of high school basketball . telling the girl what a great athlete or student you are wont impress her and will in fact have the opposite effect and will make her think youre shallow or narcissistic . you can talk about how much you like the sport you play without telling her how great you are at it . you can mention your favorite class without saying that you got an a on the last paper . dont think that the girl wont know how awesome you are if you dont brag . instead , shell think youre awesome because youre being humble . this is different from bragging . you can make the girl see what makes you different from all of the other guys without bragging about it . instead , let her know a bit about your quirks or interests without making her think that youre a little weird right away . this may not be the time to tell her about your spider collection , but you can talk about how much you like volunteering at the local soup kitchen , taking your dog for walks , or writing songs . find a way of bringing up one of the things you like to do that really represents who you are and wait for the girl to ask for more questions . after you tell her something about yourself , ask her something about herself so she doesnt feel like youre dominating the conversation . if you really want to keep the girls interest , then you have to play it cool , striking the balance between letting her see that you like talking to her without getting puppy - dog eyes or practically drooling at her feet . to play it cool , you shouldnt crowd her too much when youre talking to her , compliment her a million times , or tell her how beautiful or amazing she is . you should act like you like talking to her , but that you have lots of experience talking to girls , so if she doesnt like you , youll survive . think before you speak . if youre dying to give her a compliment , find a way to make it sound less intense first . for example , if youre dying to say , you have the most beautiful hair in the world , you can say , i like the way your hair catches the light . ive never seen that before . there are two scenarios for when its best to stop talking to the girl . one is that shes just not that into you , and is looking at her feet , her phone , or desperately glancing at her friends to save her . the other is when youre having an amazing time talking to her and can tell shes really into the conversation - - though it may seem unnatural , you should leave the girl at the peak of the conversation , if youre not being rude , so she wants to talk to you next time . if the girl doesnt like talking to you , just give her a kind goodbye and leave . theres no reason to make it worse by saying , i guess you think im annoying . if you can tell that she does really like talking to you and youre having a great time , then its time to prepare to make an exit . you shouldnt pull every trick out of your sleeve , tell the girl every little thing that makes you interesting , and ask her every possible question that will fascinate her all at once . that will leave you with little to talk about the next time you see her . instead , find a way to tease the conversation so she wants to hear what you have to say and to keep talking the next time youre around . here are some ways to do it did i tell you about the time i met dave matthews at a burger king oh man , ill have to save that one for another day . acting sounds so fun . i want to hear all about how youre getting into the role of lady macbeth next time . macbeth is like , my favorite shakespeare play . eddie and i are going to try surfing for the first time tomorrow . its supposed to be really windy , so ill let you know if we survive . you dont have to tell the girl that you just had the time of your life talking to her - - even if you did just one short sentence that lets her know that you had a great conversation will make her feel special and will make her want to talk to you again . here are some ways to do it its been fun catching up . i cant believe what you told me about your sister . i love talking to you about music . i always walk away with a new recommendation . looks like i lost track of time because i like talking about movies so much . the conversation doesnt have to end there . right before you say goodbye , say something that lets her know that youre looking forward to talking again , even if you wont get to see her for a little while . this will make her feel special without feeling like shes being stalked . here are some things you can say good luck with that swim meet tomorrow . youll have to tell me all about it soon . ill see you in math tomorrow . please come prepared with a joke because ill need a good laugh after we get those tests back . i love hearing your stories about your family . maybe ill get to hear more at beckys party this weekend . once youve closed down the conversation , let the girl know that you like talking to her , and mentioned a time when youll potentially see each other again , you have nothing left to do but to smile , lift up a hand , say , see you later , and then walk off into the sunset . make your exit confidently and quickly instead of lingering around until you run out of things to talk about or keep shifting feet . dont try too hard at the end . just a simple , ill talk to you later , will get the point across . if you have a place to go , like english class or batting practice , tell her where youre going so she sees that youre busy and have a lot going on . give the girl a big smile when you leave to make her comfortable . it doesnt have to be an intense , over - the - top smile . just smile enough to let her see that youve had a good time .

make a list of the things that you like about her . begin organizing your feelings into a letter . be honest with your feelings . use some romantic style in your letter . tell her you want to talk and would like to meet somewhere . avoid copying love quotes found online , as these usually end up sounding artificial . thank her for taking the time to read the letter and let her know that if she doesnt feel the same that its okay .

how to tell a girl you like her in a letter 1

dont worry about organization . just open your heart and let it spill . even if it sounds weird on paper , you can always change it later . just like in english class , writing a great letter that will make her smile requires a process . let her know that you find her special and that you would like a chance to get to know her better . similes such as , your eyes are like a deep blue ocean or your smile is like a sunrise that welcomes a wonderful day are ideas of how to make your letter stand out . dont overdo it , but a little spice in the soup will get her attention . if shes interested , this will get her excited . , you just want to let her know how you feel .

develop your interests . practice saying things out loud . talk to girls . stay prepared . make your approach . talk the talk . keep the conversation going for a little while . stay positive . take the initiative . ask for her number . walk away .

how to talk to a girl you like

you dont need to be a brain to find things to talk about , but you do need to have passions and interests . a person who can talk naturally about things hes interested in is always better conversation than someone armed with pre - written prompts and a vague hope of getting a date . make a short list . list everything youre interested in . go for more detail rather than less . for example , instead of music , write playing classical guitar , going to concerts , collecting old funk lps . expand the list into topics . using the example above , you might think about what brand of guitar you own or rent versus the brand you wish you could have , what concerts youve been to , and what funk bands you enjoy . make a mental note of your opinion on each topic . this will help you to know yourself better . when you talk about any subject you have an interest in , youll be able to speak confidently about it and explain why youre interested in it , which makes for good conversation . get used to talking , or youll never be able to talk well . one of the easiest and simplest things you can do to improve your comfort level is simply to say things aloud to yourself . this helps you get comfortable with the sound of your own voice , and with speaking rather than simply responding to others . find a time and a place . whenever youre home alone is a great choice . it doesnt have to be regularly scheduled just seize opportunities as they arise . say something . try to talk a little bit about something rather than just mumbling a few words . tell yourself about the plot of the last tv show or movie you watched . if you cant think of anything to say , find a book and read aloud from it . when reading from a book , try to make the words sound natural , rather than the stilted sight - reading drone that many people lapse into . read a sentence or two in your head first , then say them aloud as though you had just thought of them yourself . books of poetry are ideal for this . poetry is almost always meant to be read aloud , and the concentration required to be able to read a poem naturally will help distract you from feeling silly . keep talking for a little while . try to speak out loud for at least a minute . over time , this will help you get used to initiating conversations and speaking your mind , which are important skills for making a good impression on your crush . wherever you interact with women on a regular basis – work , school , clubs , or elsewhere – make an extra effort to engage in small talk with them . this will teach you that there is nothing to fear about talking to a girl , even if you have a crush on her . start with people you already interact with a little bit , like coworkers . ask them how their week has been going , and use short questions to encourage them to talk more . most girls will be glad to talk with you for a moment . if a girl asks about your week after shes told you about hers , do the polite thing and tell her , in about the same level of detail she used when talking to you . leave out the fact that youre trying to get better at talking to girls . be friendly with project partners . at school or during community service , you will often be paired with a partner . when your partner is a girl you dont know very well , a little geniality will go a long way towards making things comfortable for both of you . try talking about the project rather than asking about her . if she responds well , continue on , and mix in small talk and simple questions as you go along . dont ask her about herself or her life . instead , ask her what she thinks of another person , such as the teacher , or an upcoming event you both know about . dont talk too often . show that youre primarily interested in being helpful and completing your project together . speak as thoughts come to you , rather than pushing the conversation along . if you want to make a good impression on a girl , the very least you can do is control your behavior and your hygiene . keep up a daily hygiene regimen of bathing , face cleaning , tooth brushing , and hair care . wear deodorant . clip your fingernails regularly . if you wear cologne , remember less is more . spray enough onto your wrists and the base of your neck that you can smell it from a foot or two away at most , but no more . good cologne will dry down and last several hours there is no need to overdo it . always dress your best . use clean clothes , and plan outfits the evening before you wear them so you dont have to make last - minute substitutions . be on your best behavior . you dont have to stop being the class clown if thats who you are , but you shouldnt say or do anything that you wouldnt want your crush to know about . you never know what might get back to her . be kind and forgiving with others , and avoid getting into trouble with higher - ups . whenever you see a good opportunity to speak to your crush alone for a moment , even if other people are around , step up and do it . get her attention . call her name and wave at her while smiling . look happy to see her . meet her . start walking up as soon as shes acknowledged you . dont wait for her to come over to where you are . show youre proactive and confident by closing the distance yourself . if she looks upset or bothered by your greeting , or tries to pretend she doesnt hear you , she is most likely not interested in getting to know you . cut your losses and move on . you deserve someone who will be glad to see you . by now , you should be comfortable talking to girls , and confident that youre an interesting person with things to say on a variety of subjects . this is your chance to make a great impression with the skills youve developed . if you dont know your crush , introduce yourself and tell her where youve seen each other around . once she recognizes you shell probably ask you a polite question , like whats up or hows it going dont answer dismissively instead , think on your feet and say something in response that will move the conversation along . if all else fails , say that you just saw her and thought youd come over and catch up for a bit . this allows you to jump into a conversational lead with the next statement . ask her about people and places you both know . respond lightly when she answers your questions , and use gentle humor to offer your opinions . for example , if you both had a class with a teacher named mr . smith who always seemed tired , you could ask her about mr . smith , and respond with an observation about how tired he always looked when she answers your question . smile and dont be afraid to look at her while shes talking . remember the old saying laugh and the world laughs with you cry and you cry alone . we make our best impressions when we make others feel happy to be around us . leave serious and sad topics out of this conversation . if one has to come up for example , if she asks about someone and you know he just died , be honest , but dont let the conversation dwell in that spot . if theres a lull in the conversation , but its otherwise going well , tell her about a recent event in your life that has to do with one of your personal interests . continuing with the musical example from previously , you might bring up a concert you recently attended or an album you recently bought . dont get too into your own interests . keep it general enough that she can follow whats being said without having any special knowledge . make plenty of room for her to interject or change the subject . the important thing is to keep your conversation interesting and alive . tell her it was great to talk with her and suggest that the two of you get together again soon , then ask for her number . depending on how slowly you want to take things , asking for a phone number outright might not always be an appropriate step , but its a good middle ground between simply saying goodbye and asking her out on the spot . alternatively , just ask to be facebook friends , or request her e - mail address . this is less blatantly an invitation to date than asking for a girls number , and most people dont mind giving out online information . tell her youll call or otherwise contact her soon and leave her with a smile and a wave . if all went well , you should be looking at a get - together or possibly even a first date within a week or two .

be honest with yourself , first and foremost . remember that she likes you . choose rejection over regret . just be yourself . be honest when giving a compliment . talk to her in the presence of her friends . join a club or participate in an activity in which she is involved . girls are human too . say hi

how to talk to the girl who likes you

is she really the girl for you hopefully , keeping this in mind will inspire confidence since you are already starting at a vantage point . nothing ventured , nothing gained . its better to know that you two didnt have a chance , rather than living off false hope dont lead her on , but rather confront her with your feelings . both of your emotions are important in whatever relationship you choose to have with her . this is critical . it is important that your admirer accept you for who you are , not who you think she wants you to be . any relationship will ultimately fail if you engage in false pretenses . it is easy to sense when someone is insincere . keep compliments brief and not overly personal until you really know her well . an insightful compliment that remarks on her behavior , personality trait or action can be powerful when delivered at the appropriate time and place . it allows her to see that you are not being trite or superficial and that you value her for who she is . make sure to make eye contact and include her friends in the conversation . this not only exhibits good manners but it will ingratiate you with her peers . it will also help to make her and others feel less self - conscious if you are friendly and relaxed . this will increase both your comfort levels and give you a common ground on which to build a friendship . however , if you truly have no interest , do not force yourself to attend . see 2 and 3 above . if there is a predominance of girls in the club , dont let that deter you . remember , your purpose for attending is to get to know her but if that should not work out , you will have expanded your network of other available girls to socialize with in the future . the fact that there are few guys in the club means that you have eliminated the competition . remembering that she likes you and probably suffers from the same insecurities that you do , should help to reduce your anxiety . if it is meant to be , friendship is a process that should develop naturally over time . trust and respect are not earned overnight . take the initiative when you pass her in the hall , say , hi so - and - so do it often , too .

read your first draft out loud to yourself at least five times . check your spelling , especially her name . make it neat .

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as you read , anything that makes you hesitate should be fixed . if you get that wrong its over . after all , the whole point of writing the letter is to impress her , right make your final copy look as good as she does .

stay calm . smile . greet her with a hello . ask a favor . ask a question . make a small statement . look your best . try to make her comfortable . focus on your positive attributes . go easy on yourself . speak assertively . think positively . find the best time to talk . ask her about her day . make her laugh . find out more about her . pay her a small compliment . invite her to sit with you . ask for her number .

how to talk to a girl at school boys

try not to overthink the situation . though you want to talk to this girl very much , remember that she is not perfect and may be as nervous as you . girls have emotions and feelings just like you do and may be wondering the right way to approach you as well . or she may be waiting on you to make the first move . breathe deeply before you talk to her . deep breaths help calm you down . when you see her , greet her with a sweet smile . smiles indicate friendliness and warmth . you may have never smiled at her before , so she may have no idea that you want to talk to her . smiling at her will plant a seed in her mind that you have some level of interest . she wont be as caught off guard when you actually do speak to her . if you see her in the mornings or walk past her on your way to class , tell her hello . this will likely begin to spark an interest in her to know more about you and to talk to you . this also will guarantee that she notices you . unless you have spoken to her before , however , dont use her name when you say hello . she might find it creepy if you know her name but she doesnt know you or yours , especially if you go to a big school . dont look up any information about her either because this can come across as stalker - like behavior . one way to begin having small conversations with her is to ask her for a small favor . this is another way to guarantee that she notices you . for instance , you might ask her something like can you grab a cup for me if she is standing by the cups in the cafeteria . you might also ask something like can you let me borrow a pencil if you have a class with her , just make sure that you give the pencil back . another great way to begin having small conversations is to ask her small questions . she will appreciate the opportunity to be able to help you if you ask questions like what page did the teacher say we should turn to or what is our homework assignment for tonightif youre lucky , she may begin to rely on you when she has questions as well and then you can spark up conversations . you can also begin the conversation with her by making small statements that dont necessarily require a response . saying things like wow , its a nice day today or this lunch is so good are great ways to speak to her without fear , because such does not require her to respond . however , she will likely respond to you if she is interested , so continue the conversation from there . one way to impress a girl that you have not yet spoken to is to always look great . get up a few minutes earlier in the mornings and take a little extra time to get ready . a girl is more likely to notice you if you come to school looking handsome and clean cut regularly . pick your outfit out the night before and iron it so your clothes look neat . maintain your hygiene . shower regularly and wear deodorant . brush your teeth and floss . put on lotion and wear chapstick . get haircuts regularly to maintain a sharp hairstyle . if you have long hair , wash it regularly and comb it to keep it neat . wear cologne , but dont overdo it . most girls enjoy when boys smell nice . be very respectful to her and avoid staring or making forward comments . many girls have guys approaching them on the streets or on social media making inappropriate comments often . do your best to avoid being one of these kind of guys at all costs . a girl is unlikely to talk to you if she feels uncomfortable or if she feels that you only want her physically . for example , avoid saying things like hey baby or nice butt to her . she may think these comments are strange or offensive . avoid using cheesy pickup lines or making comments about her body . though this girl may be wonderful , you must remember that she is also probably looking to connect and make friends with people , too . before you approach her , take some time to think about all of the good aspects about you , as well . if you are a loyal friend or a kind person , show those qualities to the girl when you speak to her , without being cocky or bragging . confidence comes from experience , you cannot fake it or if you do , you can only fake for so long . be honest with yourself and about yourself . you are probably going to feel nervous to some extent . accept it remember that she is just another person , do not put her on a pedestal or have any expectations when approaching her . just be genuinely interested in what she has to say and let the conversation unfold as naturally as possible . some ways that you can project confidence are to stand up straight and maintain eye contact with the girl . when you do approach her , dont stammer over your words or mumble , even if you are nervous . speak calmly , assuredly , and with earnest behavior . most girls like boys who are confident when they speak and find it easier to have conversations with them . speak slightly louder than you normally would if you have been told that you are soft spoken . dont overtalk her , either . confidence is not about being the loudest or speaking the most . it might be best to let her do most of the talking . try coming up with a list of open - ended questions to get her talking about herself . these are questions that do not have a simple yes and no answer . they invite elaboration . for example , you could ask her , what do you like to do for fun or how was your day this will help to show that you are a good listener and you can learn more about her in the process . dont get caught up in thinking negatively about yourself or what could go wrong when you talk to her . think positively and positive things will likely come to you . the girl will also likely feel this positivity from you and enjoy your spirit and personality . most people dont like hanging around people who are negative , so practice positivity before speaking to her . often times , lunch period can provide a great time for conversation because this is allotted free time during your school day . however , there are other times that work well , too . for instance , in the beginning of the school day , there is some time that you could make to speak to her . after class is another great time . speaking to her when she is around a large group of friends could be risky unless you are friends with some of them . try to talk to her when she is alone or only with one or two friends . after you have successfully began making small talk with her , you can now have an actual conversation . ask her how her day is going to show that you are interested in her life . most people enjoy talking about themselves , so she will likely welcome the opportunity and be flattered that you asked . you can approach her and say something like hey , hows your day going so far there is an old adage that says that the way to a womans heart is to make her laugh . if you dont know her , making her laugh might be difficult since you arent aware of her sense of humor . however , you can work on picking out little funny things about your school that she is likely to find funny . for instance , maybe your teacher does something that is funny to you like using the word irregardless . you could say something humorous like i think its so funny how we have an english teacher who uses words that arent words take some time when you talk to her to find out more about her as a person . if you dont know her name , start there . if you dont know what year she is , ask her if shes the same year as you . she will gradually begin to open up and you can start asking more personal questions like what do you like to do for fun or whats your favorite movie talk about yourself some , as well , but dont overdo it . you dont want to dominate the conversation . you might say something like im in the 7th grade , too or i got into college and im really excited about it . she will likely ask some questions about you , as well . after establishing some rapport with her , you can pay her a small compliment . dont give compliments that are physical or that are overly detailed just yet . she may be put off by that and uncomfortable talking to you thereafter . you might say something like youre really good at soccer or i saw you stick up for your friend to that bully . youre a really nice friend , it seems . if you have spoken with her several times , then you might try asking her to sit with you . for example , you can invite her to sit with you at lunch so you can talk some more . if she still wants to sit with her friends , dont be pushy . you can try asking her again at a later time once you have had more conversations . she may be intimidated to sit with you if you sit with a lot of your guy friends , so tell her that you two can sit alone if she likes . the conversations with her dont have to stop after this first real interaction . you can continue to speak to her after this , even when you are not at school . ask her for her phone number and see if shes okay with you calling or texting her sometimes . ask her something like i really have enjoyed talking to you . can i have your number so i can call or text you sometime she may prefer to give you her social media information . you can talk to her that way , as well . her parents may be strict and may not allow her to talk to boys . if so , be respectful . you can still talk to her at school .

find a backing track . write the melody yourself . use a ghost melody to inspire the song . start with a hook . determine the rhyming structure . put the choruses in order . make the chorus memorable . write down how you feel about your crush . build on texts youve already written about your crush . figure out the rhyming pattern . make the verses personal and specific to your crush . avoid cliche descriptions and details . write the lyrics for the bridge . switch up the melody in the bridge . add the bridge to the song .

how to write a good love song for your crush

some people like to start their song by writing the lyrics , but if youre not an experienced songwriter , it can be tricky to find a melody or track to fit those lyrics . look for a beat that you like , then write the rest of the song to fit that beat . you should also consider using a slower beat if you are planning to write a love song that is sensual and sexy for your crush . pay close attention to the melody and rhythm of the track and try to fit your lyrics into whats already there . if your crush likes a certain genre of music , like pop or hip hop , you can also look for a backing track that falls within that genre . if you play an instrument or are musically inclined , you may be able to write the melody for the song yourself . start by picking a simple chord progression , then build the melody for the song on top of that . try strumming or playing the chord progression while vocally improvising a melody . record your improvisation and listen to it back to see if theres anything you want to keep . start with a basic chord progression , like d - e - a or am - f - c - g . sometimes a melody will pop into your head , fully formed , but sometimes you have to work a little harder . practice singing the melody of a hit song , then fooling around with the melody to make it your own . change the pitches of the ghost melody to be higher or lower . where the song usually rises , have the melody fall instead . try syncopating the beat or adding pauses where theres usually music . the hook is the chorus of your song . some beginning songwriters find it easier to write the hook first , then compose the rest of the lyrics . familiarize yourself with the beat and melody of the song , then try to write the chorus to fit that beat and melody . think of the hook as the thesis to your love song and try to sum up how you feel about your crush in a single statement . brainstorm some ideas , then try to write the chorus based off those . you may write down a few keywords that come to mind when you think about your crush , such as smart , strong , hot , brave , or sensual . the lyrics for the chorus can be very simple like hit me baby one more time or come on ride the train . ride it you may combine a few keywords to create the chorus , shes smart , strong , and hot , or hes brave , sensual , and strong . typically , the title of the song should also appear in the chorus . for example , if you use the chorus , shes smart , strong , and hot , the song may be called smart , strong , and hot . part of what makes a good chorus is setting up and paying off a rhyme . there are many ways to set up the rhyming structure of your chorus and theres no right or wrong way to go about doing it . your options for the rhyming structure arerepeat the same line at least three times . if you choose to do this , make sure the line is fun to say or sing . for example , you may repeat the line , i think youre great three times . when writing a four line chorus , rhyme the first line to the third line and the second line to the fourth line . for example , you may have the lines i think youre greatwe would be so good togetheryoure the perfect matei think we could be forever . make the first and third lines the same and make the second and fourth lines the same . for example , you may have the lines i think youre greatwe would be so good togetheryoure the perfect matei think we could be something special . make the first three lines the same , then diverge from the pattern for the fourth line . for example , you may have the lines i think youre greatthe perfect matei cant waitfor us to be together . make all four lines completely different . for example , you may have the lines i think youre greatwe would be so good togetheryoure my ideali want to date you . there are many different places a chorus can go within the confines of a song . most people choose to alternate verses and choruses , but there is no hard and fast rule on this . some songs repeat the chorus of the song over and over to help signify that the song is ending . if you choose to add a bridge , youll want to position an additional chorus after the bridge . your chorus will continue to reappear throughout the course of the song , so its important that the chorus be catchy enough that your crush will want to listen to it over and over again . infuse the chorus with emotion to help show your crush how you really feel . you may talk about your feelings and emotions as well as the qualities that you appreciate in your crush . another option is to write a chorus that sounds completely different from the rest of the verses . try mixing up the rhythm or chord projections , changing keys or applying shifts in volume . if you know how , you can also add harmonies or instruments to enhance the chorus . the verses will make up the majority of your song , so you want to use them to show your crush how you really feel about them . brainstorm ideas by writing down your feelings , memories , or any moments youve spent with your crush that have made you happy . read the writing out loud and look for keywords that stand out . make a list of these words and use them as the foundation for your verse lyrics . if youve ever written anything about your crush , you can use your previous writing in your song lyrics . look back at old diary entries , texts , tweets or poems youve written to or about your crush . try taking an individual line from something youve already written and building this into the verses of your song . you can also look at things your crush has written to or about you and mine those for inspiration . verses , like choruses , dont always rhyme . if you want your verses to rhyme , check out a rhyming dictionary and look for places where you can change words to fit your rhyming pattern . your words dont always have to rhyme perfectly . try using slant rhymes like rhyming kiss and abyss . its better to have a song that doesnt rhyme then to pick words that rhyme but dont make sense in your song . you are writing a love song for your crush only . you should try to make the lyrics specific to your crush , as this will make the song seem more genuine and heartfelt . use personal experiences and details about your crush in the song . you may include inside jokes that you both share , such as a funny moment at work or at school . you may mention the inside joke in your lyrics to add a nice personal touch to the song . you may also mention specific details or traits that you admire or like about your crush . try mentioning a specific moment when you noticed this trait or detail , such as the time your crush helped you solve a problem on the computer , showing you that they are sexy and computer savvy . or the time your crush helped you move into your new apartment , a moment where you realized your crush was strong and supportive . love songs can become familiar and generic very fast , as there are too many cliches out there about love . a cliche is a phrase that has become so familiar it loses its meaning . you should avoid cliches in your love song so it feels specific to your crush and makes the emotional impact you are hoping for . for example , avoid familiar descriptions of love , like my love is deep or my love is everlasting . you should also avoid describing your feelings for your crush with cliche details , like my heart cries for you or i want you so bad . instead , go for descriptions and details that feel unique and unfamiliar . try describing your feelings for your crush in a funny and creative way , like i like you more than cheese pizza and upside down cake or i think youre cooler than anyone i know . make the lyrics fun and interesting so your crush gets drawn into your love song . a bridge is used to break up a song – its a departure from the verses and chorus and can infuse a totally different feeling into a piece of music . write lyrics for the bridge that are emotionally based and that heighten the feeling of love in your song . if you spend the entire song talking about how much you love your crush , use the bridge to describe the feeling you get when theyre not around . build the energy throughout the bridge to help make your final chorus that much more powerful . since the bridge is meant to be a change from the rest of the song , you want to use the bridges melody to reflect that . experiment with writing a new chord progression for the bridge . if the rest of the song is in a major key , switch to minor for the bridge . borrow chord progressions from different keys for the bridge . since the bridge is a heightening of the song , play around with setting the bridge in a higher key . end the bridge with an open chord or non - tonic chord . most songs are laid out like this verse , chorus , verse , chorus , bridge , chorus . your song does not have to follow this format , but you can definitely use it as a template as you construct the order of your song . some songs include third verses . if you have a third verse , position the third verse after the bridge , but before the last chorus . if you only have two verses , repeat the chorus twice after the bridge to capitalize on the energy built in the bridge section .

dont be disappointed if your crush doesnt share your feelings . dont be weird about seeing your crush if you know they dont like you . celebrate if your crush does like you .

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if they dont feel the same way , its not the end of the world . you should feel proud that you had enough confidence to share your true feelings , and that you got the answers you were looking for , even if you didnt end up getting what you wanted . if your crush doesnt feel the same way , just say , cool , no problem , or thanks for listening to me anyway . be polite and kind as you say goodbye - - dont make your crush feel worse by saying , i knew this would happen , or no one ever likes me back . remember that having the confidence to tell your crush how you feel will make you feel confident in your future relationships and choices . if your crush doesnt share your feelings , thats okay . if you are friends , then maybe you should take it easy for a while , but that doesnt mean you should run away or avoid them the next time you see them . keep doing what you always do , and act happy to see your crush the next time you cross paths . remember that your crush cant help how they feel , and just play it cool . if your crush returns your feelings , then you should enjoy your feelings of giddiness and excitement . be proud of yourself for sharing how you feel , and have fun hanging out with your crush or even dating them . you can take things slow and decide what you want to do next . your crush will be impressed by your boldness and honesty , and will want to hang out with you as soon as possible .

look your best without being too obvious about it . pick the right time and place to do it . tell your crush that you want to talk about something . make your crush feel comfortable by laughing or making a joke . spit it out . wait for a reaction .

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sure , you should look good when you plan to tell your crush how you feel . just dont dress up to the nines if you normally rock a casual look , or put on a brand - new outfit if youre always seen in cozy clothes . you dont want your crush to think that youre trying too hard to send them the right message . just try looking a bit more dressed up and well groomed than you normally do - - this will boost your confidence when you share your feelings . if you want to get the best results , then you have to pick a time when you and your crush can be fairly alone in a stress - free environment . you may not want to do it between classes , when your crush may be caught off guard or worried about the math test they have to take next period . instead , pick a time when you know you can be alone , like after school , or at a group event when you know you can pull them away to chat for a while . dont make a big deal about it - - make it sound like you could be asking for help with your homework or something . let your crush know that you wanted to talk about something in a one on one setting , but that theres not a lot of pressure to have a serious conversation . the more casual you can be without making it sound too casual , the better . just say , hey , i wanted to talk to you about something after school , do you have a minute you shouldnt immediately spit out the words , i like you because your crush may still be a little uncomfortable or confused about why youre alone . instead , put them at ease by making a silly joke , poking fun at yourself , or laughing extra hard at something they say . laughing will put your crush in a positive frame of mind , and itll make them more receptive to whatever you want to say . theres no need to delay . once youre alone and have made your crush comfortable , you should just tell them how you feel . the sooner you do it , the better , and the less likely youll be to make yourself more nervous or likely to ramble on about something unrelated . just be simple and direct . say , i wanted to tell you that i have a crush on you or i really like hanging out with you , and i want you to know that i have feelings for you . when you tell your crush , look them in the eye and relax your body . dont stand too close to them or look at the floor , or youll look either too eager or too withdrawn . use your crushs name when you tell them how you feel . michael , theres something i want to tell you . sounds more personal than just saying , i want to tell you something . dont build up to the thing you have to say too much . this will only put pressure on yourself . dont immediately put pressure on your crush and say , so what do you think its likely that your crush is thrown off guard and needs some time to consider your words , whether they share your feelings or not . take a few deep breaths , step back , and wait for your crush to respond . your crush may immediately say that they return your feelings , but its more likely that your crush may need more time and will say , cool , thanks for telling me , or can i have some time to think about it thats perfectly natural . if you want to increase the chances of your crush liking you , you should play it cool after you put your cards on the table .

tell your crush how you feel over the phone . tell your crush how you feel with a cute note . ask them on a casual date . know what not to do .

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though telling your crush in person will make you look more confident and mature , and saying it over the phone is sort of the worst way to do it , if youre really shy about telling your crush how you feel , then calling them and revealing your feelings is the next best bet . just say hello , make them comfortable with a joke or casual comment , say , i wanted to tell you something , and then reveal your feelings . talking over the phone will make you feel less nervous because you wont see your crush face to face . still , if youre nervous , you can pace back and forth to get rid of some of that nervous energy . if youre determined to tell your crush how you feel over the phone , you can also practice by calling one of your friends and rehearsing what youd say first . putting a cute note in your crushs locker , textbook , or backpack that tells them that you like them can be a nice way to tell them how you really feel . just write something like , hi , mark , i just wanted to tell you that i like you . having your crush find the note at the right time can be a pleasant surprise - - just make sure the note will be easy to find . if youre too nervous about saying , i like you , you can sidestep the situation by just asking your crush to hang out . you can simply say you have extra tickets to a movie or a show and invite your crush along , ask your crush if theyre hungry or want to grab a snack or coffee somewhere , or ask if they want to go for a walk in the park . asking them to hang out solo will make your feelings pretty obvious , so you can let your crush do more of the work when he figures it out . there are a few things you should avoid doing if you want to tell your crush that you like them and get the best results . here are some things you should avoid if you want to look confident and mature dont have your friends tell them how you feel . if you want to look mature , you have to do it yourself . dont do it over facebook . this will make you look like youre not serious or confident enough to have the conversation in person . dont be too eager when you tell your crush how you feel . a simple i like you is far more effective and far less likely to scare them off than saying , ive been in love with you since the second grade .

get your crushs phone number . have a plan , send your first text . observe how your crush acts . text your crush and ask , what did you think of school today , use holidays and celebrations as conversation starters . ask questions about his or her family . talk to your crush about his or her hobbies . text something sympathetic . take your time . avoid racking up phone charges . skip the abbreviations . use emoticons with caution . make sure your crush starts the conversation at some point .

how to text your crush and start a conversation

the best time to do this is when youre in the middle of a really great conversation . drop the request in really casually and make it seem really low pressure . say something simple , like hey , why dont we trade cell numbers by the way , i just got an iphone . what kind of phone do you have the moment after a phone number exchange can be a little awkward . make sure that you dont miss a beat . keep the conversation flowing so that the number exchange seems completely natural . before you send your first message have a plan of what you are going to say or what you want to achieve by the end of the conversation . a simple what are you doing or what are you up to is a good conversation starter . if your crush replies that he or she is watching television , listening to music or playing a game , reply by asking about what theyre watching , listening to or playing . whatever your crush says , you want to be ready with a follow - up question to keep the conversation flowing . your crush may say something along the lines of , im doing my homework . in reply , you can say something like we got loads , didnt we mine took ages to finish or if your crush doesnt go to your school you could say , oh poor you ha , did you get a lot tell your crush what youre up to as well . when your crush texts you letting you know what he or she is doing , send a reply like , thats cool . im just checking facebook or whatever else youre actually doing at the time . look for clues in the conversation to see whether the person is enjoying texting back and forth , whether the person has had enough of the conversation or whether youre ready to step it up and ask your crush on a date . if the answers to your texts are really short or clipped , then you should probably text back something like , okay , catch you later , or see you later alligator . cute texting movedont read too much into it . the person could be really busy or in a bad mood . just make sure that you dont make yourself look desperate or needy by trying to push a conversation when it isnt happening . when your crush responds by asking you questions , like what are you doing then you know that he or she wants to keep talking . just let the conversation flow naturally . however , make sure they are the one to end the conversation . be talkative and forward . look for chances to take it to the next level . if the conversation starts to get intense or veers to really personal subjects , or if your crush starts to confide in you about a problem , then you can say , why dont you call me so that we can talk i want to get together sometime , maybe . be bold . if you know the time is right , ask your crush on a date . if they reject there are plenty of fish in the sea if the reply is something like okay , i guess or pretty normal , you could ask what he or she thought of the homework , the science experiment you did , the geography project youve been assigned , the book report due in next week or the exams that are coming up soon . if youre texting your crush just before christmas or right before his or her birthday , then ask your crush about the plans he or she has for celebrating . if youre texting the person just after a holiday , send a text that says , hey , did you have a good birthday get anything special learn about holidays that you dont celebrate . for example , if your crush celebrates hanukkah while you celebrate christmas , ask questions to learn what his or her holiday is about . text your crush around new years day and ask if the person made any new years resolutions . share your resolutions back . your crush could be complaining about a sibling , or maybe your crush has an older sibling who is headed off to college . if you have siblings yourself , say something like , i can relate to the problems youre having with your sister . my sister drives me crazy . you can also ask questions about parents or even about pets . if your crush is on the tennis team , ask how his or her latest match went . if your crush has other interests like band , school newspaper or academic extracurriculars , then ask what he or she has been up to lately in some of these activities . has your crush recently been in a competition of some sort was the person on a winning quiz bowl team or did he or she get a part in the school play text the person to say congratulations . maybe your crush had a bad exam grade , lost an important game or experienced something really sad , like the death of a pet or family member . send the person a text saying something like , im so sorry to hear what happened . how are you holding up with a text , you have 160 characters to send a great message . you dont have to reply to your crushs text instantaneously . deliver a response after youve had some time to think about it . make sure that you have an unlimited texting plan or that you are tracking the number of texts that you send carefully . you dont want you or your parents to get a nasty surprise when the cell phone bill arrives . abbreviations can make you look shallow and flighty . save the abbreviations for your bffs and use complete sentences and capitalization when you text your crush . smilies or sad faces are okay , but you need to be pretty certain that your crush likes you back before using a flirty emoticon . definitely be at least 99 sure that heshe likes you before using a love emoticon . dont text himher too often . texting once or twice a week is good enough . you dont want to look desperate .

look at their body language when theyre around you . notice what information they give you . pay attention to physical contact . find out how often they look at you . figure out their shyness around you . notice how often theyre around you . find out how much they respect you . during class , eye contact during a conversation is very important , if he or she does this , they are paying full attention to you and only you in a crowd full of other kids or even friends .

how to tell that your crush likes you back

do they seem to get more tense when they realize youre in the same room do they cross their legs towards you and keep their shoulders pointed at you at the same time do they try to appear good - looking do they every so often take a look in your direction to see if youre looking at them if so , it could be a good sign that theyre into you . small things like this often can mean more than what it seems . another good sign is if you notice them hanging around you even though youre not having a conversation with them . looking straight into your eyes although they may be a little nervous doing so means theyre paying attention to you . if you feel like they are looking deep into your eyes , that could also be a sign . most of the time , if a crush likes you , theyll jump at the opportunity to help you . even with small things , theyll always be there to help out with your problems especially if you ask . do they sometimes show off and tell jokes around you to make you laugh do they look straight at you when they deliver the punchline how do you feel around them do they ever tell you about something special theyre doing , such as reading a book or playing a sport , out of the blue does heshe tell you secrets and random stories about their day they might be trying to impress you . do they give you semi - personal information when you didnt ask for it giving people personal information is a sign that they trust you or want you to give them personal information back . do they talk about their family , their ex , or about the past these topics are all things people are usually pretty guarded about . if your crush is letting you in on them , it may be a sign . whether or not its conscious , someone who likes you more often girls will generally find excuses to touch you . they might put their hand on your shoulder , or accidentally walk into you in the halls , or wipe something random off your face . do they tickle you or tease with their hands do they ask you for piggybacks , or throw random things at you in an effort to get your attention even gestures that dont seem playful or nice might mean theyre attracted to you . lots of people understand that their body language is giving them away , and try to make the body language mean or impersonal . do they hit you lightly or play pranks on you it might mean that they want attention from you , and theyre trying to get it without telegraphing their true feelings . do you ever see them looking at you when they think you cannot see them if you catch himher looking at you and you look back , do they look away if they do , that could be a sign of nervousness . on the other hand , do they always avoid looking at you , no matter what not looking at someone might mean theyre trying to keep their crush secret and dont want you to know . get a trusted friend to look at them during class or at recess have the friend see whether your crush looks at you , and for how long . if theyre constantly staring in your direction for minutes at a time , theyre really crushing hard . are they more shy or attentive around , or when talking to you , than with other people if theyre normally a super - confident person , and the sight of you turns them into blabbering mush , its a pretty good sign they like you especially if theyre nervously playing with their hands . be careful , however , because shy people are usually shy all the time . you could misread whether your crush actually likes you . so its best to use this information along with the other steps when youre making the call about whether or not they like you . does it seem that they make it a point to happen to be near you or walk back and forth in front of you then it means that they are trying to get your attention , but in a very discreet way . does their voice get louder when theyre talking to other people around you it could be a sign that they want you to listen or pay attention to them . do they make little excuses to be around you do they ask you for the homework problems , or sit next to you in class , or pick you to be on their team for recess sports it could mean something if they act like a gentleman or gentlewoman to you , its often a sign that they like you . does he or she open the door for you or give you parts of their lunch that they usually never give to other people does he or she stick up for you when you get in a fight or when someone badmouths something youre doing do they say to their friends , stop saying bad things about himher does he or she suddenly get along with a lot of your friends that they used to not care about do they constantly look at you during class periods you have with them

think of what you have to say , first . gather up your supplies . assemble your note . write your note inside of the paper . find out a way to give the note to your crush . do not back out . give them the note and wait for a reply . brace yourself for rejection .

how to tell your crush you like them in a note

plan out what you want to write , how you want to express it , what youre going to write on , etc . you simply cant say that you like them and leave it at that . write some rough drafts until you get an idea of what to say . ink pen or pencil , along with paper , of course additionally , you can get some stickers together to add some style to your note . heart stickers are always a good option a good idea for your note is to use red or pink paper to remind your crush about valentines day fold the paper the way you want , add the stickers , whatever you want try to add little details that are romantic to set the mood . use your best handwriting no one wants a note that they cannot read due to such sloppy handwriting . be nice and write nicely so your crush doesnt have to strain their eyes to read your poor penmanship . would you like to stick it in their locker , have a friend pass it to them , or drop it off as you say your daily hello to them either way , find out a way to give it to them and stick to your plan . you only live once . you never know , your crush could like you back . if you back out now and they did like you , their feelings will soon fade off if they get the impression that you do not feel the same way . also , its not like writing them a note looks like a lame way to confess your feelings . its a perfectly normal way to do it . they might not feel the same way , but its always nice to know that you dont have to worry about holding in your feelings forever . if they say they dont feel the same way , then respect them for that . you cant expect someone to like you back just because you like them if they do feel the same way , try asking them to meet up with you sometime . wink when you suggest it so they get the right idea .

talk to your crush alone . keep it simple and friendly . come out with what you want to say . explain your feelings for your crush . wait for your crushs response .

how to tell your crush how you really feel

itll only be embarrassing for both of you if others are around and even more so if your crush rejects you . you could have a friend waiting in the wings to give you courage and be there for you afterward but dont have this person anywhere near you and your crush when you decide to talk . wait for a time when youre not in a group or surrounded by others . be sure things wont be rushed . dont leave it till the bell is about to ring . dont do the whole i have something terribly serious routine . it is an immediate giveaway and also suggests that you are a bit clingy or dramatic , which could frighten off your prospective date . instead , find the right moment and just say can we have a chat . alone and suggest that you sit somewhere pleasant . ensure that the spot is comfortable and sufficiently private before talking . if youre at the point of explaining your feelings , itll mean youve already done the soul searching and deep thinking . now is the time for action . be confident and start with some small talk to ease yourself into the situation , asking how school is , what the weekends plans are , etc . there is no one single right way to explain it , thats up to you and how youd like to express it . the main thing is to get to the point , to keep it simple and to avoid gushing . here are some possible ways to open up i have a crush on you . i was just wondering if you feel the same way , do you if you dont i will completely understand . i like you . id love to go on a date with you some time soon . weve been hanging out together for a long time now . my feelings for you are deeper than friendship and i wanted to tell you ive been crushing on you for a while now . i hope you feel the same way too . he or she will either be receptive to your admission or a little taken aback . if they are of the same mind and tell you so , be happy and suggest the chance for a date . if not , well , at least youve expressed yourself and know the reality of the situation . however , give things some time remember that your crush may be someone who needs time to digest things . here are some suggested replies if heshe says yes , be happy and give them a hug . say thanks for letting me know you feel the same way too . itll be much easier not having to keep my feelings to myself and you can suggest a first date . if heshe says no , be polite and kind . say oh , thats okay , i understand . we have different feelings and thats okay , i just wanted to let you know what i felt . im sorry if ive surprised you , itll all be okay . then suggest you stay good friends and let things be as theyve always been . head off to find your friend for moral support . if you do get rejected , be polite enough to never speak of it again . rejection is part of life , gossiping about or maligning the other person doesnt make it any better . just let it go there is someone else out there for you .

figure out your own feelings first . its important to first ask yourself whether your feelings are really strong enough to warrant taking things to the next level . consider your chances . find out if your crush is already interested in somebody else . check your crush for signs of attraction . signs of attraction , whether conscious or unconscious , will usually shine through in a given interaction , even if its just a friendship on the surface level so far . make sure there are no outstanding issues in your current friendship . make sure your lives are relatively stable . dress your best . use confident body language . confident body language is a positive vicious cycle . make a list of reasons why you would be great for your crush . stay calm and upbeat . ask your crush to meet up with you . hang out casually . make eye contact . exhibiting all forms of positive , confident body language is an important trick when it comes to attracting someone , but nothings quite as important as holding eye contact while you admit romantic feelings to your crush . tell your crush how you feel . express your feelings non - verbally . express your intentions . let your crush respond . work damage control , if necessary .

how to tell someone you have feelings for them

there are many different levels and types of attraction . in some cases , your feelings may not be strong enough to warrant moving forward with them in other situations its better to wait a while and see . if you feel you really want to admit your feelings however , you owe it to yourself to follow through with it . its probably not the sort of thing you want to be thinking about realistically when you first become attracted to someone , but it is nonetheless important to consider just how likely your crush is to return your feelings . has he shown you any signs of attraction beyond friendship , or has he turned you away whenever things have gotten personalweighing the risk of telling your feelings is important if you dont want to risk the friendship . you can do more harm than good by letting a friend know your real feelings , especially if the whole thing is approached incorrectly . finding out about your crushs other potential interests is an important part of weighing your own chances . letting someone know you have feelings for him is a big risk , especially if you really value the existing relationship you share together . with that in mind , its a good idea to make sure someone hasnt beaten you to the chase before going in yourself . even if someone might be interested in you otherwise , theres very little chance hell strike up a relationship if hes actively pursuing someone else at the time . note the difference between real interest and passing attraction . if your friend has called a member of the opposite sex good - looking or even hot , that doesnt necessarily mean hes wanting to date them . on the contrary , he may even be testing you to see if youll react when he says something like that . if your crush likes you , chances are youll be able to sense it on some level . does he go out of his way to shower you with attention and compliments if your crush is a girl , does she avert her gaze a lot when shes around you , or laugh and smile more than usual when youre talking to her not only will sensing mutual attraction give you a better idea of what your potential chances are , knowing the attraction is there will make you feel more confident when it comes time to admit your feelings . even if the two of you are both attracted to one another , admitting attraction is bringing new business into your relationship , and it should be avoided for the time being if you still have current issues to attend to . if you had a recent fight as friends , it would be a good idea to hold off on admitting your feelings until the dust has settled and youve resolved your current differences . if youre starting a relationship together , you want to get it started off on the right foot . could you imagine someone admitting they have a crush on you if you were in the middle of going through a family tragedy even if you had feelings in return for that person , you wouldnt be able to deal with it at the time . knowing when to strike is a key part of making the approach work . dressing up doesnt have to mean getting glamorous or ritzy . what it does mean , however , is that you should put slightly more effort into your appearance than you usually do . this isnt so much for your crushs benefit as for your own . we always feel our most confident when were looking our best . if this means taking an extra few minutes to soak up steam in the shower , or wearing your favourite shirt , then so be it . in the end , you want to do everything you can to set your mind at rest . although confidence - boosting is the biggest reason why you should try to look good , it goes without saying that your crush is all that more likely to accept you if you put some added effort into your appearance while it goes to show other people that youre feeling confident , using body language like good posture , eye contact and smiling will serve to make you feel even more confident . even before you meet up with your crush , you should try making a habit of expressing confident body language . you should notice a firm change in the way you feel before too long . a relationship is a two - way street , and both sides need to be getting something out of it . that means you should have a good idea what youll be bringing into a relationship if it works out in your favour . start by making a list of things you love most about yourself . which of these things would benefit a relationship do you love your smile your crush probably does too . do you like to laugh are you really clever or funny nows not the time to be modest reflect upon this list and try to imagine how happy you could make the other person . if you know you have a lot to offer , youll feel more confident when it comes time to admit your feelings . if you need any help thinking up things , you should try talking to a friend who isnt your crush about what things most stand out about you . the worst injury anyone can cause their chances of starting a relationship with their crush is by doubting themselves . when you self - doubt , it shows in the way you act and carry yourself . you wont be able to act casual if youre worried about what - if situations as you close in . taking a deep breath is a helpful way to calm your nerves if theyre acting up on you . it will take the edge off the stress , and give you a respite from the physical anxiety . positive self - talk works as well . for example , try thinking something along these lines to yourself i have nothing to fear . i am worth my crushs time . everythings going to work out just the way i want it . keep telling yourself that until you start believing it . whether you think its plausible or not , positive self - talk tends to be a self - fulfilling prophecy , as the confidence youll gain from it will have a major impact on how the interaction plays out . its becoming more and more common for people to confess their crushes online , or via text message . talking through a screen will work in a pinch , but it robs the conversation of its full importance . because so many of the signs of attraction come across through body language , youll stifle your chances by keeping it online . ask your crush out by saying something like hey - - i was thinking of going to the beach sometime this weekend . would you be interested in coming with keep it casual admitting your feelings doesnt have to be the main point of hanging out with them . if you enjoy their company enough , it wont feel out of place to get together . a big mistake many people make when it comes to approaching their crushes is that they put too much weight on the act . if the experience of being around you is extremely serious and sombre , your crush isnt exactly going to be open to starting a relationship with you , even if hes already attracted to you . a casual hangout could be anything from going to the mall or rock concert , to something quieter like the park or beach . activities that limit interaction like a movie arent as well suited for something like this , as it wont give you near as much opportunity to confess your feelings . going to dinner is a very common type of casual hangout . if you go for food , the type of restaurant you go to will help decide the type of atmosphere . something ritzy and formal may be inauthentic if youre not used to going to fancy restaurants . go somewhere the two of you will feel comfortable and relaxed . eye contact is a way of making the emotions feel real a lot of unconscious communication goes on with eye contact . suffice to say , holding your crushs gaze while you admit your feelings will keep him focused on what youre saying . make a point of holding eye contact when your crush is speaking to you . hold your crushs gaze while you admit your feelings . it may be appropriate to look away after you have confessed and are waiting for a response . averting your gaze may help your crush to relax while he prepares a response . wait until you feel very comfortable with your crush to let him know how you feel . this is the point youve been waiting for , at its probably pretty likely youre feeling frazzled at the thought of it . but worry not - - actually telling your crush is in itself a fairly simple action . with solid eye contact in place , tell your crush how you feel . express it in simple terms , so that theres no room for interpretation . if you try to dress it up , youll only distract from the point youre trying to make . stay confident , and treat the experience like a positive thing . you can list some reasons why you like them as well if youd like . use the following as an example you know , i dont know if its already totally obvious , but i really like you . in a way thats more than a friend . i hope you feel the same way about me too . one method that tends to work fairly well is actually not to say anything at all . instead , expressing your feelings non - verbally can say as much as any number of words . while a non - verbal expression will usually be followed by some confirmation that you do have real feelings for this person , letting your feelings through in a more subtle way can be a perfect way to break the ice . physical touching is risky if your existing relationship has never included it , but its much more likely to succeed if you go into it with confidence in yourself . something as light as reaching for their hand , or more bold like a direct kiss , will leave little room for interpretation that youre interested . giving a gift also works , especially if youre a male in pursuit of a female . gift - giving is often seen as chivalrous , and definitely pushes past the boundaries of just friends provided the gift is special enough . buying flowers is a good place to start if you cant think of something more specific , but its always best to pick out a gift that really relates to the specific connection and experiences youve shared together . non - verbal ways of expressing your feelings are always best accompanied with some sort of verbal affirmation . dont just take her hand or give her a gift let her know exactly why youve done that , and make it clear the balls now in her court . now that youve made your feelings known to your crush , its time to go into a bit more detail as to where youd like your relationship to go . simply telling someone youre attracted to him isnt an end unto itself if you see it going anywhere , you should arrange plans to see one another on a more regular , romantic basis , provided thats what youre looking for . be specific about what you want . you might try formally asking your crush on a first date . try saying something like if you agree that theres something special between us , maybe youd be interested in going out with me sometime it would be great to get a chance to get to know each other on a deeper level . gauging by the reaction of your crush as you told him your feelings , you should have a better idea whether things are going to work out . the anticipation and nerve - wracking nature of admitting your feelings to someone is rarely about how youre going to do it , but the ways in which you think the other person might react . if youve admitted your feelings and possibly expressed clear intentions , the other person is bound to have some sort of response in store for you . whether its a positive or negative one will depend on the success of your advance , and the feelings theyve had or havent had for you all along . all the same , it is necessary you give your crush some time to properly respond to you . stay calm throughout . even in the worst reactions , its better to keep a brave face and remain strong rather than let your emotions get the best of you . breaking down into tears was never a good look on anyone . if you get news you dont want to hear , its important to remember that its not the end of the world . as hard as it is to believe at the time , youll feel much better about it as times goes on , and possibly even realize that you were better off without taking things to the next level . even so , doing some damage control is often the best next step . let your crush know that you care about him as a friend still , and you dont want to lose the friendship . take some time to yourself if you feel you need to heal . remind your crush that you care about him on multiple levels and arent purely trying to get a relationship out of him . for example , you can say i know this might change things for us , but i want you to know i really value having you as a friend , and i dont want to lose you , even if you dont feel the same way about me .

notice how he talks to you . notice what he talks about . see how he talks about other girls .

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the way he talks to you can say a lot about his real feelings for you . the next time you hang out , pay attention to his tone and the level of attention he gives you when you speak . here are some ways to see if he likes you just based on how you talk to each other see if he makes eye contact . is he giving you his full attention , or looking around the room for something better to do is he breaking eye contact occasionally but smiling because he feels shy around you see if hes giving you his full attention when he talks to you . is he checking his phone and stopping to talk to other people if so , then he may not be trying to impress you . but if he talks to you like youre the only person in the world , then he may have a big crush on you . see if he tries to impress you . does he tell stories that make him look strong , funny , or adventurous if so , then he probably wants to catch your eye . see if he talks more softly when hes around you . this may be his way of telling you to lean in to get closer . if the guy has you firmly planted in his friend zone , then hell talk to you differently than he would if he was trying to impress you and make you see him as more than a friend . you should pay attention not only to how he talks to you , but to what he chooses to talk about . see if he reveals personal information . if hes opening up to you about trouble with his friends or family , then he values your opinion and likes you . but if hes opening up to you about a new girl he likes , then you may have a problem . see if he mentions his childhood . this is pretty private for most guys , and if he opens up about it , then hes definitely trying to get closer to you . see if he compliments you . if he tells you that you look nice , or finds subtle ways to let you know youre interesting or funny , then he may be falling for you . see if he teases you . if he feels comfortable enough around you to tease you , then he might like you . see if he tries to be more refined around you . if you notice him burping , cursing , and being generally a little bit gross around his bros , but find him never cursing and speaking in a measured and polite way around you , then hes trying to impress you . if he talks to you about other girls , itll be for one of two reasons . either he likes you and wants to make you jealous , or he just sees you as a friend and wants your advice . heres how to find out what it means when he tells you about other ladies if hes always complaining about women hes dating or says , none of them are what im looking for , then he may be hinting that youre the one . if he always asks you for romantic advice no matter who hes dating , then he may see you as a friend . if he says that you give the best advice , he may not be looking at you as more than a friend . if hes always talking about his latest conquest but not asking for advice , he could just be showing off to win you over . but be careful - you dont want to end up being just another number in his little black book . if he ever compares a girl to you unfavorably by saying something like , shes cool , but shes not nearly as funny as you , then hes telling you hed rather be dating you instead .

before the big event comes up , make sure you have established a good relationship with your crush . try one of the below methods on your crush .

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letting himher have a basic knowledge of you will heighten the chances that heshe will say yes when you ask himher . if your crush barely knows you at all , heshe will be less likely to agree and heshe might get a little scared . if heshe declines , try one of the methods again on a different person .

you hang out most often , just the two of you . you see each other every day . your hangouts are getting more intimate . you have lots of physical contact . youre receiving gifts . theres lots of flirting . you dont have any conversational limits . your friend acts nervous around you . your friend seems to dress up around you . your friend gets jealous . you like your friend . decide how you feel . just ask . ask your mutual friends for advice . tell them how you feel . spend some time apart , if youre uncomfortable .

how to tell if your friend likes you

almost all friends hang out , and often itll just be one - on - one . if your friend has been suggesting lots of one - on - one hangouts , thats extremely common for both close friends and for flirty romances , and not necessarily a sign of a romance . but , if youve noticed that its happening a lot lately , or more than usual , it might be a sign your friend likes you . if your friend doesnt want to hang out with other people when youre hanging out together , that could definitely be a sign . you might see your friends often , but if you feel the need to check in with this person all the time , every single day , there might be a lot more there than a regular old friendship . does your day feel incomplete if you dont talk to your friend do you miss your friend , even if youre just apart for the after - school period of the day keep in mind texting as well . if youre regularly having never - ending text conversations , were talking hundreds of messages a day , then you might like each other . going for coffee , just the two of you going to dinner , or for long walks in the evenings are they going out of their way to invite you to something you love , but they dont care much about thats a sure sign that your friend is showing you that you matter to them , a lot . maybe they like you more than a friend . if your friend likes you , they may start touching you more . while some people are naturally hands - on , an increase in physical contact is almost always a sign of romantic interest . you may find that theyre doing it to test your boundaries , like dipping your toe in the water to find out how cold it is . if you notice that its happening quite frequently , its a big sign . if the contact makes you uncomfortable , then say something about it . its never ok to touch someone inappropriately and out of the blue if youre not interested . if they are giving you very personal gifts , such as poems , songs , or things that you specifically like , your friend may be trying to get a message across in big bold letters i like you . personal gifts and hand - made items are usually signs of romantic interest . mix cds huge sign of a crush . some people are just naturally flirty . the barista , the server , the bus driver might all be flirted with in the course of a day for the naturally flirtatious . of course , you may find that your platonic relationship has suddenly turned flirty on a regular basis , where it wasnt before . they may not be so subtle or shy about their crush on you . if your friend is paying you a lot of compliments , or making cheeky little flirty comments , its a safe bet that they like you and are interested . if your friend tells you everything–like , everything–then its a pretty good sign that youve got a more - than - friends relationship . you might talk to friends about school , and your sports team , and other normal stuff . but if youre regularly talking to someone about your dreams , your hopes , your fears , and your deepest kind of stuff that might be a sign that theres more going on there . having deep conversations is also something that happens between very close friends . if youre just having good conversations but dont notice any other signs , its not necessarily a sign of anything more . if youre just friends with someone , theres not usually any reason to feel nervous about anything . if your friend seems to be suddenly anxious to be around you , that could be a sign that youre becoming more than a friend to them . try to pay attention to their body language and their level of nervousness . does your friend seem to be making an extra effort at looking good in your presence if you made plans to walk around the mall , but your friend looks like theyre done up for a date , it might be because they think theyre going on one . pay especially close attention to things like hair product , make - up , and fancy clothes . if your friend is putting in the extra effort , youll notice . try bringing up a current crush that youve got . even if you have to make it up , bring up the concept of dating someone else and see how your friend reacts . if they like you , they may get jealous , or become kind of down . they may make fun of the person you say youve got a crush on . this is all a sign that theyre interested . ask your friend about their current crushes . if they get embarrassed or dont want to talk about it , it might be because their crush is sitting in your chair . if youre wondering whether or not your friend likes you more than a friend , it might be because youre feeling those feelings yourself . but it can be hard to tell the difference sometimes . whats the difference between wanting to hang out with someone a lot and wanting to be more maybe nothing all relationships move at different paces , and it can be hard to tell . do you think about your friend more your other crushes or love interests if so , you might be having deeper feedings . are you attracted to your friend physically if so , you might like them , but you also might like them even if you never really noticed them before . you might like what youve gotten to know on the inside . if youve noticed some signs that your friend might have a crush on you , its important to give some thought to the way that you feel before you do anything about it . decide what youll do for either outcome , before you actually do anything . assume the answer is yes , and that your friend likes you . do you feel the same way would you like your friendship to be more than just a friendship assume the answer is no , and that your friend doesnt like you . might bringing it up make your friend uncomfortable if you do like your friend and would like to be more , do you think talking about it might harm the friendship you do have . the best and fastest way to find out if your friend likes you is to just ask . if youve noticed more than a couple of the signs listed in the previous section , theres a good chance that your friend might like you . sit them down , say , weve been spending a lot of time together . i just noticed and i started wondering – do you like me do you want to be more than friendseven if they dont like you , if your friend is a true and caring friend , they wont be offended if you ask , or if you talk about whether or not you want to be more than just friends . if you think your friendship might suffer , and youre not interested in being a couple , then you might consider not asking . dont worry about whether or not they like you and just continue being friends . if youve noticed some signs of attraction , but youre just not sure , then ask around . talk to a trusted mutual friend who knows both of you equally . say something gentle and kind , like , ive noticed that seems to be paying a lot of attention to me lately . do you think theres something there asking around doesnt mean spreading rumors . dont tell people that your friend likes you if you havent talked to them first . if you suspect they do like you , and you like them back , then tell them . take a chance you never know where it could take you . and if you dont like them , and they are making you uncomfortable , its also important to tell them . you dont deserve to feel uncomfortable , and your friend probably doesnt want you to feel uncomfortable either . even if you dont like them back , it can be good to clear the air and be honest with one another . if youre made uncomfortable by your friends advances , it might be important to spend some time apart for a while . if your friend does like you and you dont , or vice versa , it might make it hard to keep hanging out like you have been . its sad to think that your friendship might suffer , but in some cases , its important to spend a little time apart so you can stay friends in the long - term . in some cases , if your feelings are strong enough , it might be hard to stay friends like you used to be , if you feel differently about each other . you may find yourselves naturally moving apart from each other . thats ok . its a big part of growing up .

notice his body language . pay attention to the things he does for you . study him in action with other girls . see if hes always trying to hang out with you . analyze your hang - out sessions . see if he flirts with you .

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his body language can be a big factor in showing you if he wants to get closer to you , or if he just sees you as a buddy . if he puts his arm around you , you need to know its because he likes you , not because hes just palling around . here are some ways to see if his body language means he likes you as more than a friend notice how he sits next to you . does he always try to move closer until your knees touch , or is he sitting miles away try to see if you can catch him stealing a glance in your direction . if you catch his eye and he even blushes and looks away , then he knows hes been caught see if hes always looking for excuses to touch you . does he get physical if youre playing a friendly game of volleyball or soccer , and does he always ask you to be his partner when its time for chicken fights in the pool see if his body is directed towards you when you speak . does he stand with his body towards you and his arms gesturing or at his sides if so , then he wants to give you all of his attention . see how he touches other girls . does he put his arm around every girl , or only you see if he ever gently pats your hand , even when hes joking . this is a very intimate gesture , and it may show that he really likes you . he may just be a really good friend , or all of those favors hes doing for you may mean something more . notice all of the things he does for you and think about what they mean . heres how to tell see if hes being very thoughtful . does he bring you coffee when youre having an intense study session , or get tickets for a movie you hinted that you want to see if so , then hes probably hanging on to your every word and just wants to make you happy . see if he does nice things for everyone . is he just mr . nice guy and loves giving rides and buying lunch for everyone in town , or does he do these things for only you remember , if he likes you , then hell treat you differently than everybody else . if he helps you out with your chores , like doing your laundry , then he definitely wants to be your boyfriend . if he offers to help you with your car , hes not just being friendly - he wants you to be impressed by his manliness . you need to check out how he talks to other girls to see if he treats them just like he treats you , or if he thinks youre special to him . you dont have to stare or stalk to get a sense of how he treats others and to have a sense of where you stand with him . see if hes a perpetual flirt . does he flirt with every girl in the room , or only you remember , he may still like you if he flirts with other girls , but it makes it less likely that hes singling you out . you can also look for the opposite sign . does he flirt with every girl except for you then maybe hes not flirting with you because youre the only one he really likes . he may respect you too much to tease or flirt with you like he does with every other girl . does he seem embarrassed or shy if he hangs out with a new girlfriend in front of you if so , then he may not want you to see his relationship unfolding because hed rather be with you . see if the other girls he hangs out with know who you are . if hes with another girl and she gives you an , oh , ive heard about you look , then the girl may be jealous because youre important to the guy . if he likes you , then hell want to be around you as much as possible . he could try to do this in subtle and not - so - subtle ways . here are a few signs that he wants to be around you because he sees you as more than a friend if he acts like youre the only person in the room when youre hanging out in big groups . if youre at a party , concert , or a bar , and you realize you ended up talking to him for most of the night , then he definitely wants to get closer to you . if you have a class together and he always tries to sit next to you and even saves you a seat , then he may want to take things to the next level . notice if he sometimes just happens to run into you in your favorite coffee shop or bar . if hes always around , then he may have a stalking problem , but if hes just in the area occasionally , then it may be because hes hoping to run into you . paying attention to how and how often you hang out and to when and where you hang out can give you great insight into whether he just wants to see you ask a friend or if he wants all of your hang - sessions to be more like dates . here are some points to consider notice where you hang out . do you see him in romantic locations like gardens , nicer wine bars , or places where you see couples hanging out for date nights if so , then he may want the same for you . notice who is around when you hang out . if its always just the two of you , then he may see you as crush material . but if hes always inviting ten of his closest bros along , then he may see you just as another friend . notice when you hang out . if you only see him once a month , then he may not be trying to spend more time with you . but if it feels like you havent gone more than a day without seeing him recently , then yeah , he probably likes you . notice what you do when you hang out . going out for coffee or a quick lunch is more meant for the friend zone , but going out for dinner or seeing a movie in the evening is a more - than - friend activity . this may feel like a no brainer , but it may be harder to tell if hes flirting with you than you think . every guy has his own flirting style , and there will be a variety of ways to flirt with you to show that he definitely likes you . here are a few signs that hes flirting if hes always trying to make you laugh if you have a class together , and even doodles in the margins of your notes , then hes definitely flirting with you . if he sends you a lot of emoticons when hes texting , then hes flirting with you . if hes always playfully hitting you or giving you a gentle shove , then hes flirting with you . if he loves dunking you underwater when youre in a pool , then he is definitely flirting . if hes always trying to make you laugh or giggle , then hes definitely flirting . if he blushes when youre both laughing , then hes definitely feeling flirtatious .

ask your friends what they think . if youre feeling bold , ask his friends . ask him yourself .

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if you have some close friends who are always hanging around you two , then you may be able to ask them if they think he really likes you . you may be too blinded by cupids arrow to be able to see the situation clearly , but one of your friends may have more insight . ask a friend you trust who already knows the situation well . if shes seen you hang out a bunch of times , she should have an opinion . ask a friend to study the two of you next time youre together and to report back . just make sure the friend isnt being too obvious . pick a friend whose opinion and judgment you value . pick someone with good social sense to get the best answer . tell your friends to be honest . if they really dont think he likes you , or even know that he likes someone else , then you should benefit from the truth . this is a very dangerous step . there are few boys who would break bro code and not run and report your question back to your crush . but if you dont know who else to ask or if you really trust one of his friends , then casually ask how he feels about you . though this is a riskier step , his friends will have a better answer than your friends , since they have first - hand information from your guy . ask his friend if he likes you could also just be a sneaky way to let him know how you feel . if youre too scared to tell him yourself , this information will get back to him asap if you tell the wrong person . once youre feeling fairly confident that the guy likes you and are tired of waiting around and reading the signs , it may be time to just tell him how you feel and ask if he feels the same way . he could be really shy and may be relieved that youre taking the initiative . heres how to ask him if he really likes you find some time to be alone with him . make sure you dont ask him when his friends are looking over your shoulder . be honest and open . just say you have a crush on him and want to know if he shares your feelings . before he responds , let him know that its no big deal if he doesnt like you . you should only do this if youre pretty sure that he likes you . if he has exhibited multiple signs of liking you , then be bold and ask him . if he has shown no signs of liking you , then it may be time to wait to see what happens .

about a week or so before the danceprom , text your crush to create a good , friendly conversation . after a few moments of exchanging texts , ask himher to go to the dance with you at an appropriate time in the conversation while its still good .

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its best if you get hisher number beforehand while you two have a friendship so that you wont have to scramble to find hisher number however , make sure you didnt just get your crushs number from a friend , or else heshe might get upset or scared and itll be awkward . simply text , hey , i was thinking it might be fun to go to the dance . want to if your crush agrees , youre ready to go shopping . if your crush declines , do not freak out . it might be that your crush just isnt ready to start a relationship with you , or heshe thinks of you as a friend . still keep maintaining that relationship with your crush and treat himher nicely . it still has its chances of blossoming into a romantic bond keep in mind that if you take this calmly , your crush might change hisher mind .

about two weeks or so before the promdance , construct a sweet , simple letter asking your crush to go out to the promdance with you . decide whether you want to mail your crush the letter , hand it to himher personally , or slip it into hisher locker or backpack . wait for your crushs response .

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letters are a little more romantic than asking someone out by email or text , and your crush may be flattered by your thoughtfulness . make sure the letter contains no inappropriate content or anything that might make your crush uncomfortable . you dont have to use flowery words . just simply ask them , would you like to go to the promdance with me dont be afraid to sign your name , or your crush might not know who asked himher out since letters have more impact than an email or text does , youll want to give your crush some time to think about it if heshe needs to . therefore , you should send your crush the letter a little earlier than you would send a text or email to himher . consider the pros and cons of each option above , and choose the one that seems to go best with you . keep in mind that mailing letters may take a while , and youll never know when your crush may receive the letter . also , your crushs parents might see the letter and your crush might be embarrassed therefore , its best to turn to other options rather than this one , although it is an open choice for you . dont expect himher to reply by letter , although heshe might . if your crush agrees , you can go shopping . if your crush declines , do not freak out . still keep maintaining that relationship with your crush and treat himher nicely . it still has its chances of blossoming into a romantic bond keep in mind that if you take this calmly , your crush might change hisher mind .

about a week or so before the promdance , approach your crush at an appropriate time when you know heshe isnt busy or upset . simply and calmly ask your crush , would you like to go to the promdance with me , wait for your crushs response .

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make sure you talk to your crush in an empty area with none of hisher friends around , or your crush might feel intimidated . if you find your crush with hisher friends , polite ask your crush , may i please talk to you alone real quick if youre already scared by this step , tell yourself inwardly that you have twenty seconds of insane courage to do whatever you want and that itll take one second of humiliation to get nineteen seconds of pride for your bravery . if your crush agrees , you can go shopping . if your crush declines , do not freak out . still keep maintaining that relationship with your crush and treat himher nicely . it still has its chances of blossoming into a romantic bond keep in mind that if you take this calmly , your crush might change hisher mind .

a week before the promdance , purchase a dress that both fits you and complements your body shape . shop for a pair of cute shoes if you need one . about a few hours before the promdance , its best to prepare so that you wont be late . pick out any accessories that match your dress , but beware of having too many . look up prom hairstyles and choose one that appeals to you . apply your makeup as needed . apply deodorant to make sure you smell good . slip into your shoes and pop on a jacket if needed , making sure not to mess up your hairstyle or wrinkle your dress . hold yourself in a tall position by throwing back your shoulders the slightest bit and sucking in your stomach a little . meet your crush and give him a friendly , hey . dont be afraid to dance with your crush , but remember that you dont have to dance to every single song that is playing . smile naturally , as this is one of the important keys to unlocking your beauty . if youre lucky , you two might kiss or become a couple .

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make sure the color goes well with your skin tone and that it wont look awkward or out of place on you . check the price to make sure its decent and that it fits within your budget . if you find that the dress is expensive , look in other stores to see if you can find a similar one for a cheaper price . sales and coupons are very helpful . avoid dresses that are too tight or too big , as you wont look as good and your crush might think differently of you . avoid creating a sexy look . its fine to look beautiful , but its not cool to wear inappropriate clothing . plus , your crush might get scared and not want to go out with you ever again your reputation could also get destroyed . remember that if your crush doesnt like you for who you are , your crush is a jerk and you shouldnt let him put you down . however , its best to avoid high heels , anything that makes your feet feel uncomfortable , or heightens the risk of you tripping andor hurting yourself . youll be dancing in those shoes , so its best to stick with flats . make sure the price is decent . look in other stores if you find that the shoes are too expensive . make sure you will be able to dance in your shoes , and be sure they match your dress . theres nothing worse in an outfit than a clashing dress and pair of shoes slip into your dress and make sure all buttons or zippers are in their proper places if you have any . be sure that there are no wrinkles , and that you have ironed out any beforehand . limit your accessories to two only to prevent the dreaded , overdressed appearance . suggestions for cute accessories are a cute scarf that complements your dress is recommended , especially if you find that your dress is a little too low . a cute pair of earrings would be brilliant , especially if you already have a matching scarf on . a pretty necklace that isnt too sparkly would be good , but dont wear one if you already have a scarf on and vice versa . dont wear a bracelet if you have a necklace and earrings on . dont wear a necklace if you have a bracelet and earrings on . dont wear earrings if you have a necklace and bracelet on . make sure the style matches your dress , but be sure it isnt too dressy either . style your hair as desired , but refrain from doing anything to it that would destroy or mess it up . its best to have washed your hair one or two evenings before . do not wash your hair on the day of the promdance , and then style it later , or it will not turn out well at all . if you find that youve already done that , try putting it up in a pretty bun appropriate for the occasion to hide your mistake . dont put any hair accessories into your hairstyle if you already have two other accessories . either remove one or go without a hair accessory . make sure your hair accessory is small and simple , and that it doesnt draw too much attention ex sparkly hair clip is a big no . beware of putting too much on . remember that you are only adding glow to your face and not color . refrain from looking like a clown . sometimes , its best if you completely go without makeup , as beauty is found deeper past the artificial appearance . if desired , spray a little bit of perfume onto you and your clothes , but avoid being the only person that your crush can smell clearly leave at the appropriate time so youll arrive right on time . avoid looking like a military soldier standing at command , but refrain from slouching hold yourself with confidence , as confidence is one of the key elements to winning over your crush , but beware of having too much . create another conversation again and be fairly casual while not looking stiff or creepy . talk about school , your interests and his , or anything else that will entertain you both comfortably . however , if there is a slow dance playing , ask your crush to dance with you . however , dont smile too much or youll start to look false andor creepy . even if that doesnt happen , still have fun throughout the whole event and make it a night to remember . be prepared for whatever is thrown your way

see how often he wants to see you . check how often he reaches out to you . find out what hes doing . tell him you need time for yourself .

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allow him to make plans for getting together . note how much of his free time he devotes to you . the more time he wants to spend with you , the more he cares . allow some leeway if your schedules are busy or conflicting because of work , school , or family functions . but if he has all the free time in the world and only wants to see you once a week , consider that a sign of ambivalence . note how frequently he calls , emails , or texts you . if he contacts you regularly , consider that a sign that he wants to be part of your life . give him a little grace period if hes extremely busy , but also note how much effort he makes to keep in touch in spite of that . on the other hand , watch out if hes calling way too much . if he calls you when he knows youre busy with work , family , or studying and still expects you to drop everything and talk to him , that probably means he cares less about your needs and more about his own . when you arent going to see each other anytime soon , ask him what hell be up to . gauge his willingness to answer . if he seems cagey and vague , consider that a sign that he doesnt care enough about you to share all of his life with you . if hes forthcoming and lets you know what his plans are at any given hour , take it as a sign of honesty and inclusion . take him at his word when he tells you what hell be up to . dont sneak around and spy on him to make sure hes telling the truth unless he gives you a very good reason to . if he does care about you and catches you stalking him , he might take that as a sign of mistrust , which could hurt your relationship . every now and then , say that you need a little alone - time , either by yourself or with your own friends . see how well he takes it . if he respects the fact that everyone needs a little break from each other from time to time , take that as a plus . but if he demands that you spend every available second with him , take that to mean hes less interested in keeping you happy than keeping himself happy . remember this works both ways . dont be upset if he asks for a night off every now and then so he can spend time with other people or by himself , especially if the two of you have been spending a lot of time together recently .

know that all girls are different . spend quality time with her . talk to her . note her body language . lightly tease and joke with her . see where she puts her attention in a group . talk to her friends . be your best self around her . let her know how you feel .

how to tell if a girl thinks youre cute

there is no one , perfect way to find out if a girl thinks youre cute , and signs that one girl likes you may be a sign from another girl that she isnt interested . the only way to get around this is to spend time with a women . the better you know her , the better youll be able to read her and figure out if she thinks youre cute . shy girls often stay quiet , avoid eye contact , or maintain some distance , especially if they like a boy and are nervous he might find out . louder , outgoing girls may act friendly or flirty with everyone , making it harder to see who they actually think is cute . the more you know her , however , the more youll see how she treats the ones she really admires . if you can spend time alone , this is always going to be best . you cannot tell if a girl is into you if youre always off on your own , or if youre trying to judge her from afar . you need to spend quality time with her , even if it is just casual , to see how she treats you . sit down next to her in class or at lunch , or join her games at recess . any time spent nearby will help show you how she feels . invite her to group events , where the pressure to be together or romantic is low and you can casually see how she feels by her response to the invitation . a big indicator of attraction is how she responds to conversations . is she looking away , making up reasons to leave , or sitting silently whenever youre not talking if so , chances are good she is not interested in you . however , if you give a pause or lull in the conversation and after a second or two of silence and she reengages you by asking you a question such as where are you from how about you do you like xyz , that is a sign that she wants to keep the interaction going on between you two and see where the vibe is headed unwinds . this is an important precursor to her thinking youre cute . body language is not the only way to see if someone thinks youre cute , but it is a great way to gauge how someone might feel about you . good signs include touching you , especially on the arms or back . smiling frequently at you . making eye contact . turning and facing you during conversations especially in group settings . agreeing frequently , showing that she enjoys similar things . teasing is one of the best ways to subtly see where her heart is at . you never want to be mean , but making jokes , having small , competitive challenges in class , at recess , or at work , and slightly making fun of her for mistakes is classic flirting . if she engages back , teasing and joking with you , there is a good chance she thinks youre cute . note , however , that some people are shy and dont show their affection this way . if she doesnt joke or tease back , but still smiles and seems interested , she might still think youre cute . if you do this , observe whether the girl pays more attention to you or her friends . if it is friends , then you know she isnt crushing on you , but if she pays more attention to you , then you know that she is crushing on you . she may try to impress you , make lots of jokes , or spend most of her time talking to you . find a friend you both have in common and ask their opinion . often another friend has the outside perspective needed figure out if their is mutual attraction . know , however , that this can quickly turn into a rumor that leaves all of your friends asking do you have a crush on her only ask trusted friends their advice , and keep it to a minimum . you cant control what she thinks about you , but you can control how you act around her . be a gentleman by listening to her when she talks and offering to help her out when possible . she may not think youre cute now , but with simple , easy gestures like holding the door open or asking how she is doing each morning you can give her a great impression to remember you by . this may be the most terrifying - seeming action in the world , but that doesnt make it any less important . the only way to really know if she thinks youre cute is to let her know you find her cute . this doesnt have to be a grand , enormous profession of love . in fact , it shouldnt be - - it should be casual and lighthearted . let her know i think youre cute , give a light smile , and move on if she rejects you . more likely than not , however , this little complement will open her up to say how she feels as well .

avoid tired old lines . try not to encourage them . dont disconnect . be ready for questions . dont get angry . try to forget . let things go back to normal .

how to tell a friend with a crush on you that you just want to stay friends

the same old i dont want to wreck our friendship or sorry , but i just dont like you that way will come out sounding cold and heartless . instead of just telling your friend that you dont want a relationship , list specific reasons why you think dating would be a bad idea . i really appreciate that , but i just think we should stick to being friends . i mean , i tell you everything about me that would be a little awkward for me if we were dating . and hey , if you dont feel the love for your friend at the time , but could see something blossoming in the future , dont be afraid to tell them that , too take a bit of time to reflect on your actions toward your friend lately . have you said or done anything that they may take to be an advance or maybe youre just a particularly flirty person . make sure you turn off the charm around your friend , at least until things cool down a bit . it can be tempting to give your friend a little space to help them get over you . this isnt wise , simply because your friend is likely to take this as a clue to back off for good . it may also leave your friend feeling guilty about or ashamed of confessing their feelings to you . let them know that things are okay between you two , and try your best to text , talk on the phone , and hang out just as much as you did before your friend asked you out . and if youre the one being cut off take this as a silent memo that your friend needs a little time to sort things out . try to make contact after a week or two , and if there isnt any response , take this as a cue to put your friendship on hiatus . why cant we date is it because im not as attractive as you are you embarrassed by me is there someone else these are all questions you should be prepared for in the event that a friend should ask you out . take time and give the best answers you possibly can in a calm , gentle way . make sure your friend knows that its okay to be curious about whats going on in your head , but its not okay to constantly badger you with annoying questions and pleadings . if the whys and what ifs havent ceased after a week , give your friend a stern reminder that you just arent interested and you dont owe himher any other answers . sure , there are a million annoying things about the situation the immediate awkwardness , the constant questions , and the broken - hearted look in your friends eyes , just to name a few . its important , though , that you dont get angry . if you lash out at your friend , they may think they are seeing a dark side of you that hasnt come out before . they may also feel like they somehow inconvenienced you by having a crush on you . when you feel like screaming at this friend to forget it , remember that all youre going to do is make them feel cruddy , which isnt what you want . naturally , the only thing on your mind is going to be what theyre thinking about when youre together . try to push this out of your mind though . focus on what you liked about your friend before they liked you . maybe it was their sense of humor or indispensable advice . whatever it may be , keep that on your mind the first few times you hang out after youre asked out . remember that your friend is the same person they were before they liked you . play things right , and slowly but surely , your friendship will go from being awkward to being the gemstone it once was .

a week before the promdance , purchase a tuxedo that fits you . if you discover no tuxedos within your price range , a crisp , formal collared shirt tucked into formal pants with a tie and dress shoes would be perfectly acceptable . on the day of the promdance , take a shower to make sure you smell fine . put on the formal clothes that you have picked out for this occasion . comb your hair nicely and apply gel if needed . put on your dress shoes and a jacket if needed . hold yourself in a tall , confident position by throwing back your shoulders the slightest bit . meet your crush and give her a friendly , hey . dont be afraid to dance with your crush , but remember that you dont have to dance to every single song that is playing . if she smiles at you , let a friendly grin slip out from your mouth , but avoid looking creepy or smiling too widely . if youre lucky , you two might kiss or become a couple .

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make sure the color goes well with your skin tone and that it wont look awkward or out of place on you . check the price to make sure its decent and that it fits within your budget . if you find that the tuxedo is expensive , look in other stores to see if you can find a similar one for a cheaper price . sales and coupons are very helpful . avoid tuxedos that are too tight or too big , as youll look awkward and your crush might think different of you . remember that tuxedos arent mandatory . as long as you are dressed appropriate for the occasion , you will be fine put on deodorant or cologne , but avoid smelling like you literally took a bath in it , as this is a mistake many guys tend to make if you find that you have trouble getting on your tie , dont be afraid to ask your mom for help . if your mom has no knowledge of putting on ties , she is unavailable , or youre just too embarrassed , try looking up instructions on the internet and learning it yourself . however , if you find that you still cant get the hang of tying a tie , either get over your embarrassment and ask your mom , or go without one . avoid looking like a slob , but dont look stiff or too dressed up either girls tend to go for the guys who dont appear uptight or too formal , but its okay if you want to look nice - just dont look too nice . leave at the appropriate time so that you will arrive on time at the promdance . avoid looking like a military soldier standing at command , but refrain from slouching hold yourself with confidence , as confidence is one of the key elements to winning over your crush , but beware of having too much . create another conversation again and be fairly casual while not looking stiff or creepy . talk about school , your interests and hers , or anything else that will entertain you both comfortably . however , if there is a slow dance playing , ask your crush to dance with you . , even if that doesnt happen , still have fun throughout the whole event and make it a night to remember well . be prepared for whatever is thrown your way

note where he places himself . suggest activities you know hes not into . ask to join him in his favorite things . keep track of his promises . ask him for favors . test his memory . talk about the future .

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when youre together , pay attention to where he orients himself in relation to you–especially when youre out with other people . think of the physical distance between the two of you as the emotional distance that he wants to maintain . the farther he keeps his body away when youre sitting or standing together , the less he wants others to think of you two as being together . take this less to heart if you know he tends to be shy or reserved . if thats your guy , he could be nervous around you because he cares about you , or he may want to avoid coming across as someone whos going to smother you . if he hates romantic comedies , ask him to go see one with you . if he doesnt particularly like one or more of your friends , ask him to come along when you go out to see them . test how willing he is to keep you happy . if hes happy to do things that hed rather not do just to keep you happy , be assured that this means he cares about you . be careful not to overdo it . if all you ever do is drag him to places that you know he doesnt like , he may start to resent it after a while . if he goes surfing every weekend , say you want to come along to the beach even if you dont know how to surf . if he has a regular hang - out that he goes to , like an arcade or coffee shop , suggest going together . see how willing he is to include you in all aspects of his life . respect the fact that everyone needs to do their own thing if he doesnt want to make a habit out of bringing you along every single time . but at the very least he should be willing to include you every once and a while just so you can see what matters so much to him . when he says hes going to do something , note whether he actually does it . pay attention to how punctual he is when youre supposed to meet or call each other . if he fails to show up on time , ask for the reason why and see if its a valid excuse . everyone runs late or forgets to do stuff every now and then . but if he consistently fails to follow through on his word , consider that a sign that he doesnt think of you as someone worth proving himself to . whether its big or small , see how quickly he offers to do it . if he fetches you another soda from the fridge just so you dont have to get up , or gives you his jacket because you feel a chill , then he cares about you . if he does it without thinking twice about it or expecting a reward , he cares even more . obviously , if its a really big favor , like fix my car , hell probably have to think things over at first , if only to figure out if and when he could possibly do such a time - consuming project . in passing , refer back to a previous conversation youve had with him . if you told him a story about school or work last week , tell him how things turned out since then . see how much he remembers from the first story . of course , he may not have the same job as you or attend the same class , so he may not have had a strong grasp on all the details in the first place . but expect him to at least remember the point of the story . mention your own hopes and plans . ask him where he sees himself a year from now , in five years , in ten . pay close attention to how he answers . see how much your two visions conflict with each other , and if they do , how much effort he makes into combining the two into one shared vision . the more he talks about we and the less he uses i , the more likely he thinks of you as someone to plan his own future around .

note how much he includes you . talk about meeting his family andor friends . watch him with your pet .

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when youre out with other people , pay attention to where he focuses his own attention . stay quiet for a while and see how long it takes him to draw you back into the conversation , or if he forgets about you entirely . if youre at a large party and separate to talk to different people , check how frequently he comes back to touch base with you , if only for a moment . be sure to do this on a case - by - case basis . the situation will probably be at least a little bit different each time . if he hasnt seen a certain friend in a very long time , for instance , he may understandably focus more on them . look for consistent behavior over time instead of singling out just one occasion . watch his reaction to the idea . if he seems reluctant to introduce you , ask him why . if he cant give you a good reason , or if he says sure all the time but keeps putting it off , question why a guy who supposedly cares about you wouldnt want other people in his life to meet you . remember he may have a valid reason for being reluctant . he may be more worried about what you think of his friends than the other way around . or his family life may not be the best situation . encourage him to talk freely about his concerns . the more he confides , the more he cares . observe how he behaves with your favorite animal in the whole world . see if they get along right off the bat , and if not , what sort of effort he makes to befriend it . you and he both know that your pet is going to be with you for a while , so use your pet to see what lengths the guy will go to in order to be part of your life , too .

examine how he deals with conflict . ask yourself if hes really listening to you . when you argue , see if he absorbs the points youre making . listen to his tone and words .

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when you disagree with him , gauge how he reacts . reading his responses as good or bad is tricky , but generally , accept it as a good sign when he argues his own points with you . take it to mean that he wants you to understand exactly where he stands so that you know exactly who youre with . no two people hold the exact same opinions , so be wary if he always agrees with you . if he does , consider it likely that hes more interested in enjoying himself here and now than in building a long - term relationship , where knowing and resolving differences in opinion will really matter . he doesnt have to agree with you in the end , but , at the very least , expect him to consider what youre saying before responding . but if he always barrels on with his own opinions , as if you never said anything at all , he probably cares more about being right than about having a real exchange of ideas . watch out for put - downs and insults . judge how much he cares about you by his willingness to hurt you just because you disagree . if he calls you or your ideas stupid or anything like that , take that as a red flag . also note the way he talks to you . even if he doesnt insult you outright , recognize when hes still being dismissive and talking down to you .

like or retweet something that she has posted . post on social media . make a comment on one of her posts . invite her to an event through facebook or google . send her an instant message , a message through social media , or an email message .

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this is an indirect but potentially effective way to get back in touch . this is something that you can do to build up your courage to talk to her , or this can be a primer for starting a conversation . liking her posts or retweeting her tweets will remind her of you , and let her know that you are following her posts . do not like everything she posts . choose one or two things that you genuinely like and space out the time between your likes to every few days . if you send too much attention to her all at once , it may come off like you are trying too hard . do not like only the cute pictures of her . you can like one photo where you feel like she looks particularly good , but if you like too many pictures of her looking pretty , you may come off creepy . consider liking a variety of things that she posts rather than just her pictures . if you have been liking or commenting on her posts , provide her with material to comment back on . post clever or interesting thoughts you have about the world and people , share beautiful or interesting pictures that you have taken , or find funny gifs , pictures or quotes from the internet that you can post along with a comment about why you like it . consider what she would find funny or interesting . you dont want to post things for her however , you want to take into consideration that her internet style might be different from yours . take a look at her posts and the things she likes to get an idea of her online interests and style . for example , if she writes a lot of posts about bands she likes and you share a band you like in common , you can post one of their music videos or the lyrics from one of their songs with a comment about why you like it . stay true to yourself . only post things that you genuinely like and are a part of who you are . it can come off fake if you are posting about things you havent shown an interest in before . you should make a comment on a post that she writes early after it has been posted . if you write the comment early , she will be more likely to respond . look for things that she is into that is a common interest you share , like your music taste , love of food , love of movies , etc . consider praising the post , asking a question about it , or commenting about something you find interesting about it . for example , if she writes a post about going to a show , you can respond i am so jealous you got to see them did you think they were good live hopefully your comments will spark a chain of comments back and forth . if this happens , you should send her a message asking her how she is doing or extending the conversation . say hey , i am enjoying our conversation . how have you been are there any other bands you have been listening to lately that i should check out follow the inline citations to learn how to create an event on either platform . you can either create an event , or you can invite her to an event you are attending . for example , if you are going to a music festival that you think she would like , invite her to the event . there are several events that are open invite . you can send her an invitation by going to the page of the event and sending the invite from that page . or if you and your friends are throwing a halloween party , for example , make an event for it and invite her . after you invite her , you should send her a follow up message saying hello and telling her about the event . say something like , hey , my friends and i are having a halloween party and i was thinking it would be great to see you again . are you free for halloween if she cannot come to the event , use the event as an opportunity to continue messaging her . ask her about how things have been going , and start a conversation with her . whichever way that you decide to reach out to her , you can follow the same tactic as writing a comment . send her a message with a praise , talk about some common ground that you have , or ask her a question . send a message that praises her for something she has recently done or accomplished . for example , if she recently finished a program or got a new pet , for example , send her a message saying congratulations , and then ask her how she has been lately . talk about something that you share in common . for example , if she did a hike recently and you also like to go hiking , send her a message that say something like i saw that you went on a hike to palm canyon . i was just there a couple of months ago and really enjoyed the waterfalls - did you like the trail . ask her a question about something she has posted . say something like i saw the pictures you posted of you surfing - what kind of board do you have i love surfing and go every chance i get .

talk to her about her boyfriend . see if shes happy in her current relationship . see if shes even interested in you . dont get stuck in the friend zone . know which girls are just not worth talking to . treat her with respect . let her make the calls . find a way to hang out . make her feel special . let her see that youre interested . show her how awesome you are . be refreshing . be persistent without being annoying . get together with her . take it slow . avoid talking about her ex - boyfriend . dont get paranoid . get a fresh start .

how to talk to a girl that you like if she has a boyfriend

if the boyfriend is one of your close friends , then yeah , its a very good idea to back off unless you want to ruin your friendship . but if you dont know who the boyfriend is and want to get a sense of her relationship with him , then you can try to slyly get a sense of her relationship and how serious it is without prying too much . heres what you can say what are you up to this weekend how long have you been with your boyfriend i had a girlfriend , but we broke up a few months ago . it was hard , but i feel much better about it now . though you cant just come out and ask her if shes happy , you can get a sense about it just by talking . basically , if she complains to you about her boyfriend all the time then that is a strong sign that her relationship is not looking so good . see if you can get an idea of how shes feeling just by making casual comments and seeing if she responds in the negative or affirmative . basically , you dont want to try to get with a girl who is in a great , or a particularly long , relationship you dont want to deal with the emotional baggage even if she does decide to end things . say , it must be nice to live with your partner . whats that like or say , youve been together for two years thats a pretty long time… before you step further , see if the girl even cares about you in a romantic way . read the signs . does she go out of her way to talk to you does she light up when you walk into the room does she make excuses to always be at your side does she even flirt a little bit if so , then yeah , theres a good chance that she may have a crush on you . here are some other ways you can see if this is the case talk about other girls in front of her . without being too obvious about it , see if she gets jealous . give her a compliment or two . see if she gives one back later . if you want to get with the girl , then you cant turn into her best friend , the guy she can come to with all of her problems . though talking to her about her boyfriend and relationship in the beginning can be a good way to get a sense of whats really going on , the last thing you want to do is to be the guy who she comes to with a carton of cherry garcia at midnight so she can cry about her communication issues with her boyfriend . you want to be seen as another romantic prospect , plain and simple , not as her new bff . though you do want to be seen as a romantic prospect , that does not mean you want her to see you as a sharper , snazzier , version of her current boyfriend . she should see you as someone completely new , refreshing , and exciting , not as another guy she can take to the movies and hold hands with . if she starts complaining to you about her boyfriend issues , say , hey , you can save that stuff for your best friend . i just really dont want to go there , okay if you want to talk to a girl you like who has a boyfriend in the hopes of breaking up her relationship and having it lead to something more , then you should make sure youre talking to a girl who is worth it , a girl who is really interested in you and not just with flirting with you and then coming home to her boyfriend . here are some girls to avoid the girl who lets you take her out to dinner and the movies only to go home to her boyfriend . dont take her out like youre her boyfriend unless you actually are her boyfriend . she may just be using you for free food and drinks . the girl who flirts with you for months but doesnt let it go anywhere . dont be with the perpetual flirt , who just likes to get attention from guys and nothing more . the girl with the crazy boyfriend . you do not want to get mixed up in that . the girl who is just looking for a guy - pal . see above about avoiding the friend zone at all costs . the girl who is just using you to make her boyfriend jealous . stay as far away as possible . if you want the girl to like you , then you have to be respectful of her , and of the fact that she has a boyfriend . dont make jokes about the boyfriend , be sleazy , always try to put your arm around her , or say demeaning things about the boyfriend or her relationship . if you really want her to like you , then you have to treat her like a lady . you can compliment her but dont make it look like you are perfectly ok hitting on a girl who has a boyfriend let her start to see that theres something special about you . even if she is entertaining the idea of being with you , nothing will put it out of her mind faster than if you blatantly try to hook up with her . get her to the point where she really likes you and wants to spend more time together . mention a movie you want to see and see if she asks to come along . tell her about a party youre throwing and see if shed like to be there . the ball should be in her court so she can make these decisions on her own and not feel like youre putting too much pressure on her . play a little bit hard to get you have a lot going on and plenty of girls who want you , and if shes interested , she should get in line . letting her realize how awesome you are just by being your charming self is better than degrading yourself by begging her to hang out with you when you know she is taken . whether youre studying together , going to the same party , or just randomly ending up at a cafe after class , make sure you spend some time with her . dont just flirt over text or send her facebook messages if you actually want to get somewhere . if you think it would be too weird to hang out alone , hang out with her in a group setting first . but try to get her alone when you can , so she can start thinking about you in a romantic way , and really noticing the fact that you two have a lot of chemistry . let her see that you see something unique in her , and that youre not just trying to get together with her because you think shes hot . compliment her hair , an aspect of her personality , or her ability to work so hard in school . you shouldnt hit on her , touch her , or be too obvious about it , but you should let her know that you really see something in her . if she has a feeling that you really have a sense of the amazing person she is , then she will start to see that you may be the right guy for her . show her that you really care about what she thinks . ask her what she thinks about your new shoes , your chemistry teacher , or a new band you like . let her see that you really value her thoughts . you dont need to spell it out for her , but you should let her see that you view her as more than a friend . you can do this through compliments , suggestions that you really care about her , or just by making eye contact and standing close to her when you talk . here are some things you can say i think your new haircut really makes your eyes stand out . it looked great before , but its even prettier now . youre one of the only girls ive met who loves sports and who is really fun to talk to about almost anything . thats so cool . i really feel like i can talk to you about anything . you shouldnt have to fake it to impress the girl and make her see that youre a guy worth knowing . stay modest while letting her see that you have potential , that youre smart , cool , talented , and interesting and someone who would be perfect for her . just be your best self without feeling like youre being dishonest . open up to her about the things that matter to you . just make sure that shes also opening up . after you tell her something that might be a bit private , you can say , i havent talked to anyone about that in a long time . its just so easy to talk to you , for some reason . remember what we said about how the last thing she wants is another guy who is exactly like her boyfriend well , its absolutely true . be spontaneous . be fun . dont call or text her every five minutes just to check in . come up with something completely random and fun that you can do together . give her an original compliment or a funny little gift . ask her to dance in the middle of the street . just do whatever a normal , boring old boyfriend wouldnt do . make her feel alive every time the two of you are together . dont be afraid to talk to her about something that you think may be a little random if its funny or interesting . you dont have to fit any kind of mold . this is a delicate balance to find . you want her to know that you want her without coming on too strong or always being up in her grill . talk to her at parties , walk alongside her after class , but do not become the guy that she can flirt and have some fun with before she comes home to her boyfriend . be around , let her know youre interested , but also let her see that you wont wait around forever for her to make the call . if you just flirt around with her for months , shell think its perfectly okay for her to have a guy to flirt with and a guy she is dating . well , thats not cool , and the longer you go for this , the more shell see that she can string you along without ever making a move . so , its time to make a move , have her respond , or get her to make a move already , whether it means kissing you and getting with her boyfriend . ideally , of course , shell break up with her boyfriend and then get with you . seriously , the sooner this can happen , the better . if youve been flirting around for over a month , chances are , shell never make the break . so , youve snagged the girl , shes dumped her loser boyfriend , and now youve finally gotten what you want . does this mean you should go shopping for engagement rings or take a weekend trip to the bahamas absolutely not . even if the girl got out of a bad relationship , its likely that shes still reeling , so give her some time and space . if you try to hang out with her every second of every day , shes likely to feel overwhelmed and to back away . instead , give her space and hang out with her once or twice a week , or however many times shes ready for . this is something people dont get break - ups are always painful , even if youre the person who did the breaking up . you may think that she feels totally free and happy because she got rid of the dead weight in her life , but shell still be dealing with pain , and the inevitable grief that comes from saying goodbye to something , even if it wasnt all that great , and you have to be understanding of that . though she shouldnt be the one to call or text you every time , make sure to give her some of the power . if youre the one who initiates contact every time , she may think that shes not ready for another boyfriend or for anything serious . whether she got out of a three month relationship with a real jerk or a five - year relationship with a nice but boring guy , you should never bring up the guy , especially if you want to make fun of him , call him a loser , remind her that he wasnt good enough for her , etc . though your intentions may be pure and you may just want to make her feel better about ending something that wasnt working , she may take this as an assault on her former relationship , and may be offended , because its likely that she still has tender feelings for her ex . give it time . if she was in a five year relationship , then yeah , she may not be ready to talk about that part of her life for a long time . maybe even a year will pass before she brings up her ex at all , because it will hurt too much to do it before hand . be patient . if you keep asking questions about her ex , youll come off as jealous and shell get annoyed . yeah , there may be this whole part of her life that you dont have access to for a while because it has to do with her ex . nobody said snagging a girl with a boyfriend was easy , or that it didnt have consequences . but if you wait out this painful period , itll be worth it . okay , so you grabbed a girl with a boyfriend , and only now does it dawn on you - - if she was able to cheat or just emotionally cheat on her boyfriend with another guy , then what will keep her from being unfaithful to you with the next guy who comes along well , hopefully she got out of her last relationship because it was truly bad and because she saw something special in you , not because she was generally restless . if she has a pattern of this behavior , then that is something to worry about , but if not , unfortunately , the heart does wander sometimes if its worth it . your job is to focus on your new relationship instead of worrying that shes seeing someone on the side if youre constantly jealous and paranoid because of the way that you met , then your newfound love will never wok . if she just got out of something serious , the last thing she may want is to feel like shes smothered all over again and cant go more than ten minutes without checking in with you . so , the two of you are together , maybe even officially dating . sure , you might have met in a somewhat sketchy way , but that doesnt mean you have to bring it up all the time . focus on whats ahead of you instead of looking behind , and work on building a solid foundation for your love , not one thats based on lies , deceit , and uncertainty . even if you had a rocky beginning , you may be able to form a strong bond , though yeah , itll be tougher than if you were just two single people who met at bar . if you do want it to work , focus on the things you will do together , instead of any of the pain that is behind you . this doesnt mean you can never talk about the period when you were getting together on the dl . but it does mean that you should focus on all of the great things ahead of you , not on the pain that you might have felt in the beginning . find new things that neither of you have done that you have always wanted to try , whether its making your own sushi or going on a long hike . find things you can claim as yours and that you can use to build a solid foundation for your love . then just sit back , relax , and enjoy the ride

wait for the right time and place to start a conversation . talk to your crush like you already know him or her . think about what he or she might be interested in talking about . freshen your breath before you talk . make a funny or playful comment about the place you are at or thing you are doing . get the update on something he or she has been doing , especially if you share something in common . ask for his or her opinion on something easy to talk about . ask him or her something unexpected but easy to answer . go with an opening line that pops in your head . ask questions about his or her interests , hobbies , or work . be an active listener in your conversation . show him or her that you are enjoying yourself in conversation . make a plan to hang out again , andor get his or her number . if things seem to be going well , ask your crush if he or she wants to hang out again or ask for his or her number . bring the conversation back to something you already talked about . end the conversation on a good note .

how to start a conversation with your crush without it being awkward

a lot of awkwardness can be avoided if you can find a good time to talk to your crush . a good time to start a conversation could be before school , during lunch or a break , or after school or after an event is over . use down time as an opportunity to start a conversation . a good place to talk could be at a bus stop , in a bus or on public transit , in a lunchroom , at a dance , or at a get together . make sure you have enough time for at least a few minutes of conversation . there are some down time periods that are too short for a conversation . an example of a bad time to talk to someone would be if class is about to start . this is probably not a great time to try to have a conversation because you will be interrupted and will feel silly that you tried to start a conversation at that time . avoid trying to start a conversation in a line or during a passing period . think about the way your schedule and your crushes schedule overlaps . plan on starting a conversation when both of you are free . are there any events that are coming up think about if there are any dances , parties , or school events that are coming up that you can start a conversation with him or her at . one way that conversations can become awkward is when one person is extra stiff with the other person treating him or her like a stranger . instead , treat your crush as though you are already friendly with him or her . even though it may be true that you do not know your crush well , you should still talk to him or her with warmth and a friendly tone . you can even start a conversation with an introduction while using a tone of familiarity and warmth by saying something like , hi , i dont know if we have actually met . im tim , hows it going when you are talking to your friends , try to notice your tone of voice , the hand gestures you use , and the kind of expressions you use . when you are talking with your crush , try to be the same kind of natural and relaxed while you talk . dont be overly familiar with him or her as though you have a history you do not have . for example , you wouldnt say hey dude . hows it . if you are familiar with your crushes interests , life , friends , likes , dislikes , etc . use that knowledge to your advantage . you dont have to focus on those things in particular when you talk , but you can talk about things related to his or her interests . for example , if you know that he or she loves the beach , you can talk about the surfing you have done recently . and you dont have to mention that you know that the person likes the beach . just talk about it like you would talk to a friend who loves the beach . awkward conversation can happen when you pretend like you know more about the person than you do in the same way that it can become awkward when you act like you dont know anything about himher at all when that is not true . this is an easy way to feel confident in yourself and avoid awkwardness . buy a pack of sugarless gum with xylitol to take with you to school or wherever you meet your crush . sugarless gum will cause your mouth to make saliva which will in turn make your breath better and make it easier for you to talk . pop a piece in your mouth 5 minutes after a meal and a few minutes before you talk with your crush . if you are going to a dance or somewhere you might be up close and personal with him or her , you can gargle with a mouth wash after you brush your teeth to freshen your breath . avoid eating food that will make your breath smell like onions and garlic . drink a glass of water , this will flush out any of the food and bacteria that make for bad breath . use your comment as an icebreaker to start the conversation . look around and observe what is going on around you . is there anything funny or interesting that you notice for example , if it is lunch and the food truck hasnt arrived yet , you can say are they going to get us water for this wait , or do they want us to die if you are going to remark on something simple , try to make it playful . even if you dont think of yourself as a funny person , you can still be playful . and playfulness is found to be very attractive to both guys and girls . this playfulness will make the conversation fun and will help keep the mood light . dont worry , the first few comments you make to your crush are not going to make or break the conversation . getting the conversation started is more important . so dont worry too much about being smooth , and focus instead on continuing conversation . once you have broken in with an opening line , move on into something you can talk about more . asking for an update is a good question to ask if you do already know the person a little bit or you are taking a class together , for example . it is good idea to acknowledge your familiarity with one another by talking about the thing you have in common . this will make the conversation less awkward , and you will also get a better understanding of what is going on with the other person in your shared thing . for example , if you are taking a class together you can say , so how is your midterm paper coming together you dont have to mention the fact that you are in a class together unless you arent sure that he or she knows . if you want to remind him or her , do it without making a big deal out of it . say so in english class , how is your midterm paper coming together it is not weird that you know that you share a class . if he or she doesnt know , you mentioning the class first will tip him or her off and he or she will probably apologize for not recognizing you . topics of conversation can go by pretty quickly , and so it can be good to have a couple of open ended and easy to answer questions lined up to ask your crush . you can start by telling him or her something that you do or know and then ask his or her opinion on it . this question can also be related to the context of where you are or what you are doing . for example , if you are eating an apple at lunch you could say i personally know that granny smith apples are the best apples in the world , but out of curiosity , what kind of apple is your favorite once again , being playful is a good way to make your conversation less awkward and more fun , especially when you are talking about simple topics and just getting your conversation going . you dont want to ask him or her something too controversial . stay away from any hot button topics like politics or religion . , you should try to make a unique connection based on your conversation and the particular person you are talking to . you can ask your crush something unusual but fun . for example , you could ask him or her something like is there a celebrity that people say , or you think , that you look like . this kind of question could make him or her laugh . once he or she tells you his or her celebrity look alike , you can say whether you agree or disagree , and you can tell him or her who your celebrity look alike is and you can lie as a joke . avoid small talk or getting to know you questions . you dont want to ask questions like so where are you from because you will get an answer he or she has already used many times before . this kind of playful conversation helps you get more comfortable with one another . if you dont have many opportunities to talk to your crush and you see a good one , even if you dont have everything mapped out , you may want to seize the opportunity to talk to him or her by just going for it . part of having a crush will always involve some amount of awkwardness and that can be part of the fun . so you dont have to overthink it - go for it . going for it is good because it will help you get over the barrier of initial contact . and remember , it isnt very important how you start talking to him or her - the important part is continuing the conversation . sometimes just going with your gut can bring out your most confident self . once you have established a good connection with your crush , you should start trying to get to know him or her better . start with something that he or she has mentioned or that you have observed in your interactions . for example , i see you have some books with you , what are you reading this is a low pressure question that lets your crush know you are interested in him or her . then ask follow up questions . for example , if he or she is excited to talk about the books , ask more questionsmake connections related to the books . for example , that is cool that you are reading that book . my favorite book by that author is blank . or , if he or she doesnt seem too excited about his or her books , you can move onto something else more open ended . say something like , so what else are you up to this week . avoid bring up topics of conversation that show that you already know about your crushes interests because that might make you feel awkward . for example , if you know he plays soccer , avoid bringing that up directly . dont say so tell me about your soccer season . instead , let the conversation get there naturally . your crush will enjoy himherself in a conversation with you much more if you are a good listener . once you have started conversation , you should be face to face or in a listening position where you hear and see his or her face easily . another key part of active listening is making consistent but not constant eye contact during your conversation . avoid distractions . dont send a text or look at your phone while you talk . this will make it seem like you are disinterested and might keep you from really hearing what your crush is saying . repeat the main idea of what your crush is saying . this will let him or her know that you are listening and will give him or her the chance to clarify anything . repeat the most meaningful parts of what he or she is saying . for example , you can say so are you saying that you are new to painting but it feels like you have been doing it forever . this will help him or her feel connected to you because you show that you understand important things about him or her . avoid interrupting him or her in conversation . it is easy to get excited by what we want to say and interrupt during his or her turn in the conversation . but resist the temptation and wait until he or she has finished talking , and then show your enthusiasm for what he or she is saying . be empathetic . if your crush talks about something hard that is going on with him or her , make sure you dont skip over his or her feelings in the conversation . you could say in response to him or her talking about failing a test , something like , i could understand why it would be really frustrating to have to retake that test . one way to keep a conversation friendly and natural is if you seem like you are having a good time talking with him or her . a few ways you can show this if you make eye contact , smile often , laugh , lean forward slightly when you are talking , and use open body language . use any gestures when you talk that are natural for you , and keep your arms open and not crossed . tilting your head to one side is another good way to show friendlinessplayfulness when you are talking and flirting . , this is good to do around the three quarter point into your conversation . it is a good idea to suggest getting together or getting his or her number after you have made solid connections and before the conversation has become tired or worn out . think about a couple of activities that would be right for you both before you have a conversation . say something like , you are really cool , would you want to hang out sometime then suggest a couple of things you can do together and get his or her number . or if you want to play it safer , you can simply ask hey , can i have your number i have really enjoyed talking to you . if you feel like the conversation was just okay , you can always wait for a couple more conversations through texting or in person before asking to him or her to hang out . you might want to talk to your crush about something he or she talked about at the beginning of the conversation . for example , you can say , so how much longer do you think you need to spend on your midterm paper and then spend the rest of the conversation finishing talking about the points of conversation you have already started . you can make inside jokes about what you talked about . for example , you can say well now that we have made it through this lunch period without water , i suppose we can get through anything together . making inside jokes can help you cement connections you have made , and it is a good way to make your connection last past the first conversation . when you are feeling good and you have just finished laughing about something , you should politely end your conversation so that your crush is left with a good impression . make sure to tell him or her that you enjoyed your conversation . you can keep the end of your conversation casual . you can say something like , i should be getting home now , but i had a lot of fun talking to you . if you are going to be seeing your crush in the future you should say something about seeing him or her again . say , i look forward to seeing you in class and hearing how your paper turned out . send a follow up text in the next couple of days saying hello and checking in with him or her about the things you talked about .

send her a text bringing up a connection that you share . be direct in your text , and tell her you have been thinking about her . send her a text that is funny or silly . keep your text conversation going . suggest getting together to catch up more . make new connections with her .

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remind her of something that connected you in the past to test the waters . be confident in your connection , and you can ask her a question related to your question as well . for example , you could say , hey , i saw the lakers play yesterday , and i remember how you like them . how have you been did you see the game you can still bring up a connection that you have without having to give a reason behind why you texted . however , dont bring up anything heavy from the past to break the ice . say something like , hey , i have been thinking about you lately and all of our fun conversations last summer . how have you been because studies show that girls like guys more if they find them funny , humor is always a smart way to go when you are talking with girls . you can reference an inside joke that you had or ask her a question as a joke . for example , say something silly like how long has it been since we ate that giant tamale after you have broke the ice , you can ask her questions about how she has been and respond with interest . try to approximately match the length of texts that she sends you and wait time . for example , dont text her back within a minute with three texts if she answered you with a line or two of text a couple of hours after you texted . ask follow up questions like , i didnt know that you were working at a new restaurant . thats cool how do you like it if she has been responding to your texts with friendly texts back , you should ask her if she wants to get together and catch up in person . if you ask her to get together , suggest an activity that you two could do together . instead of doing what you have done before , try doing new things and going to new places . if you usually get together and eat , for example , try going somewhere new . go to a new neighborhood to eat , or make food at your house .

think about where you will see her . go up and say hi , and tell her you want to talk . start a conversation with her . tell her you are happy to see her . ask her genuinely how she has been . ask her follow up questions . tell her interesting things that have been going on with you . ask her if you can hang out again . pay attention to her response . follow up with a text or message .

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maybe you are not trying to go out of your way to see your crush , but you share a friend group and want to be friendly and cool with her - you can use these steps to help create a good connection with her . or if you want to get into contact with your old crush and you cant or dont want to contact her directly , hang out with the mutual friends you have , and go to events she will probably be at . you can call your friends and ask them about the events and parties that are coming up and then attend those events . or if you know she goes to certain church activities , for example , you can start attending those activities again . dont use your friends to get to your crush . for example , when you hang out with your friends , be there to have a good time with them first , and consider seeing her second . that way if it doesnt work out , you will still have a good time , and you wont mistreat your friends . when you first see each other , make sure you acknowledge her . if you see her across the room , give her a smile , and a friendly wave or greeting . if it doesnt seem like a good time to talk , tell her it is great to see you i want to talk to you . can you give me a minute you can finish doing what you are doing , and let her finish doing what she is doing , too . giving yourself a minute will help you compose yourself and can add a good element of anticipation for your conversation . think about an interesting topic of conversation or something that you can ask her about as an ice breaker before you walk up and talk to her . for example , you can make an observation about the party you are at by saying something like , i like that they really made sure that all of our chip needs are met at this party . then gesture to a table covered in 10 different types of chips . once she is free to talk , start a conversation . if you are somewhere where it is difficult to talk , ask her , do you want to find a better place to talk look for somewhere quiet and relaxed where you sit down and catch up uninterrupted . if you two have any awkward history together , break through that barrier by expressing your positive feelings at seeing her again . once you two are settled , show her that you are happy to see her again by smiling , making eye contact , and simply saying i am happy to see you . being positive and direct will make you seem confident and can help overcome any weirdness either of you might feel at the start of the conversation . use your tone of voice and hand gestures to show her that you are interested in hearing about her . this will make you seem confident and happy to talk to her again . it can be a little less intimidating if you ask her how she is doing now because having to recount everything that has happened since the last time you saw each other might require a lot of explanation . say something like , id love to her how you are doing now . or you can start by saying what you remember of what she was doing last . for example , you can say if i remember right , the last time we talked you were… avoid talking about anything awkward or difficult things from the past . if the conversation progresses that way naturally , you can talk about deeper topics , but at the beginning of the conversation you want to keep it light and positive . when she tells you how her life has been , listen attentively by making eye contact , nodding along with what she says , restating her main ideas and asking her relevant questions . for example , if she says she has been having a hard week , ask her what has been going on that has made her week hard . think of positive , funny or lighter stories that will give her an idea of what you have been up to lately . consider talking about topics that you know she is interested in . for example , if she loves marine biology , you can say i went on a trip with my school recently to catalina island , and we had a blast snorkeling . mirror or match her energy level and body language in conversation . for example , if she is talking energetically and using lots of body language , use lots of body language in response and laugh often . or if she seems a little more reserved , you can talk quieter and give her more physical distance . dont copy her gestures however , do go for a similar level of energy . after you feel like you have had a chance to catch up and made a good connection in your conversation , tell her you really liked talking and ask her about getting together again . after you have finished laughing about something , for example , you can say i really liked talking with you again . we should get together again and continue catching up . if she seems interested in going out with you , make sure you have her correct contact information , and arrange to get together to do something in the near future . if she is ambiguous about whether she can hang out again , dont push it . it is better to let her tell you when she is free . sometimes people may be nervous in the moment and may come off uninterested , and at other times , they are sending you a message that they are not interested . send her a follow up message or text to find out which is the case . for example , if she says something like i dont know , im going to be busy for a while . you can say , no problem , it was really good catching up with you . im glad we got the chance . if you got her information and you are going to get together soon , you should send a follow up text sometime in the next couple of days that says something like it was really good catching up - i am excited to hang out again . if she seemed like maybe she wanted to hang out again , then follow up with a simple message or text that says it was really awesome catching up with you - let me know if you want to get together sometime . this kind of text is low pressure while also getting across that you are interested in hanging out more .

make eye contact . pay attention to the rest of her face . stare off to the side like youre lost in thought . find another place to rest your eyes . get lost in conversation . think of the consequences . if all else fails , pretend shes your mother . apologize if youre caught .

how to stop staring at a girls boobs

if youre talking to the girl , then you should stay focused on her face . if just looking into her eyes isnt enough for you , start to really study them . note the color of her eyes , whether or not they are speckled , how they are shaped , what kind of eye makeup , if any , she is wearing , how long her lashes are , etc . only do this if you dont think its creeping her out , and if youre engaged in conversation . even if youre focusing on her eyes , you should break eye contact from time to time so the girl doesnt feel creeped out or like youre paying too much attention to her face . pretend you have to give her description to a sketch artist and fixate on her facial features . note the color of her eyebrows , the shape of her nose , the width of her cheekbones , whether or not she has freckles or moles , etc . if youre an artist , try to memorize her face well enough to be able to sketch it later . again , try not to stare . keep your eye gaze natural and let it flit around the scenery around you two as well . this is best achieved by looking at her whole face at once and mentally noting her various features , not by eyeballing every area of her face individually . be especially careful not to stare at her lips , as this can also be taken the wrong way . if you dont know her that well or feel like youve been staring too long , alternate between looking at her face and looking off to the side like youre thinking or remembering something . looking up and to one side is especially effective , as it keeps your eyes from straying downwards . though this may feel weird to you at first , its very common for people to get lost in thought like this when they speak . so making eye contact is great , but you cant do it 247 without freaking the girl out , so decide on a place where you will rest your eyes from time to time . it can be the clock above the girls head , it can be your watch or the books youre holding , or it can be the door to the left of you . whenever your eyes need to take a break , return them to that same location so they dont end up wandering over to an inappropriate area . one of the reasons that you may be looking at the girls chest is because you feel the need to break eye contact and naturally rest your eyes on an appealing place . sure , the girl may think its a little strange that youre looking at the clock every minute , but thats better than staring at her chest , isnt it talk to her about anything - - movies , school , events , or whatever interests you enough to distract you from her breasts . practice the art of good conversation and attentive listening . if youre having a great conversation , then soon enough , you wont be thinking about her boobs . think of ways to make her laugh , impress her , or to make her feel special , and soon enough , youll be focusing on the right things . if you do end up staring at the girls boobs , she will definitely notice . she may call you out on it and embarrass you , or she may just feel bad and like you think of her as a sex object . either way , looking at the girls boobs wont make your relationship any better and can only lead to bad things . here are some other consequences that may happen as a result of you staring at the girls breasts you may get an embarrassing erection from looking at her breasts for too long . you will likely lose any chance of asking her out or seducing her . she may tell other girls what happened and they wont want to hang out with you because they will think youre a pervert . if nothing else is working for you , picture your moms face in place of hers . that should keep your eyeballs squared firmly above her shoulders . though this may sounds a little bit gross , thats exactly the point - - do whatever you can to keep your eyes at eye level . nobody said it was going to be fun . and hey , why not , you can also pretend shes your sister . either way will keep you nice and respectful . if the girl catches you staring at her chest and calls you out on it , then dont deny it , turn bright red , and call her a liar . just fess up . say , im so sorry , i know that was disrespectful . sure , that wont be pleasant for you , but its better than looking like a wimp . remember that seeing you looking at her chest probably wasnt all that pleasant for the girl , either .

pay attention to her tone of voice and body language . do not assume too much . think about whether she is already seeing someone . think about whether she can date .

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consider why she is asking . if you have an idea about how she feels , it will help you have a more productive conversation with her . we communicate mainly through our tone of voice and body language , so try to understand what is going on using these signals . if she is raising her eyebrows , she might be uncomfortable . this might mean that she does not want you to like her . if she is mirroring your body language , then you are probably connecting . perhaps she hopes that you like her back or she feels connected to you and wants you to know that she doesnt want the same thing . if she is making lots of eye contact , this shows interest . but it could go both ways , she could be interested in knowing how you feel because you are close and she doesnt want to hurt you , or because she likes you . a group of gestures together shows that she feels connected to you . for example , if she is smiling , she has her head titled to the side , and she is holding or touching her face at the same time , this could mean that she does like you . however , always believe what she says over any of the signals you get . crossed legs and arms may mean that she is trying to stay closed off to you . this might mean that she is anxious or resistant to your feelings . once you have considered how she feels and evaluated her body language , you do not have to over think her feelings for you . the truth is that you do not know for sure how she feels . and you will not know until you have asked her straight out how she feels . and believe what she says over the other signals you feel like you may be getting . do not feel bad about what you think she feels or thinks . this is not going to help you stay confident , and it is also probably not accurate . this will help you to know how to talk to her . if she has a crush on someone else or is with someone else , you will want to approach this conversation differently . you would know because you may have heard other people talk about it , or she may talk about it herself . if you do know she is with someone else , acknowledge it at the start of the conversation . you will need to say that you do not want to step on her relationship . stay a little more reserved or distant in your conversation , while still remaining honest . you can ask her , do you want me to tell you about my feelings sometimes when a person asks a question they are not interested in hearing a sincere answer . for example , in this instance she may be trying to point out that you are acting like you like her . being honest and straightforward in your question do you want me to be honest will be the best way to deal with this possibility . stay further away from her physically and emotionally if she is with someone . getting close to her or being very open and honest might make her feel uncomfortable . you will want to keep your distance . do you know whether she is allowed to date some people may be interested in dating but have parents who are strict about dating rules . if you know that she isnt allowed to date , you may want to acknowledge this fact in the conversation . try to make her feel comfortable if she seems worried about her parents . tell her that you do not want to step on her relationship with her parents . in this case you may not need to tell her that you have a crush on her . you can simply acknowledge that she is not allowed to date . keep your distance physically to help her feel comfortable .

choose the right place . choose the right time . ask if you can sit down . respect her wishes if she says no . dont sit too close . sit up straight . dont fidget .

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there are many places where sitting next to a girl that you like can be a great way to introduce yourself or get to know her further . ideally you want to choose somewhere where you can initiate a conversation . somewhere where she is likely to have an empty seat next to her . sit in the desk next to her before class . try finding a seat next to her in the cafeteria . timing is everything when talking to someone you have a crush on . you dont want them to see you as a nuisance or an interruption . if the girl you like seems busy doing homework or talking to someone on her cellphone , this may not be the best time to approach her . before or after class is a good time . choose a seat next to her during study hall . show that you are courteous and thoughtful by asking her if you can sit next to her . you also want to make sure no one else has that seat claimed , like maybe a friend of hers , before you just jump into it . is someone already sitting in this seat do you mind if i sit here if it turns out she was busy , apologize for interrupting . no woman is under any obligation to talk to you . also , if she says this isnt a good time or that she would rather sit alone , youll go further toward earning her respect by be being mindful of her wishes . say something like , oh , okay . maybe another time . and then walk away graciously . dont sit down anyway if she says no . realize that your crush may just be having a bad day or might be trying to focus on other things . just because she said no today doesnt mean shell say no next time . when you sit next to your crush be sure not to intrude on their personal space . you want to be close enough so that you can easily carry on a conversation but not so close that your knees touch when you turn to face her . when choosing the desk next to your crush in class , dont pull it closer to hers . she may find this to be an overly aggressive gesture . if you strike up a conversation and feel like the desks are too far apart to continue comfortably , you may want to slide it over a bit , but generally you should just leave it where it is . if you take a seat next to her on a bench , like on the playground or at a table in the lunch room , leave several inches between you . dont slouch . sit with your spine straight and your shoulders back . keep your head up . you might want to turn your body slightly so that you are facing your crush more directly . maintaining good posture will not only make you look more confident , it can increase your energy level and actually affect your hormones , making it more likely that youll be positive and clear headed while you speak . tapping your fingers on the desk , shaking your legs , or constantly readjusting your glasses will just make you look nervous . it will also act as a distraction for your crush which will make it hard for her to focus on what you have to say . take deep breathes . fold your hands and rest them on the desk or table in front of you . if there is no table , rest them in your lap . you dont have to keep your hands still the whole time . many of us use our hands to gesture while we speak , but when they are idle , keeping them folded will help keep you from fidgeting too much . take a quick inventory of your body every few minutes . maybe while she is talking or when there is a small break in the conversation . check in with yourself . if you feel your leg bouncing or an urge to keep moving around in your seat , take a deep breath and try to relax . bring your focus back to your crush .

ask her if you two can talk somewhere . ask her where she would be comfortable having the conversation . look her in the eye and say yes , i do have a crush on you . once you have had a minute and you are situated you can own how you feel , and be confident . ask her how she feels . respond with honesty and kindness . talk about what you should do about your feelings . follow up with her about the conversation later .

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if you feel like she genuinely wants to know how you feel , you may want to have this conversation somewhere quiet . think about going to a place where you can talk uninterrupted . you want to have this conversation in a space where you are comfortable to talk about how you feel openly . this can be a great opportunity to show her how cool you are regardless of why she is asking . if you can tell her how you feel and remain cool , calm , and collected , she will respect you all the more . going on a walk can be a good option for a conversation like this . walking can take away some of the awkwardness involved in the conversation . walking is great because you are moving , not sitting and looking at each other . going to a restaurant or coffee shop can also work if it is not busy . if you can find a secluded table to sit at or a table outside , this can be ideal . go to a park . sit on the swings or find a bench where the two of you can talk . in order to show her that you respect her space and boundaries , ask her to decide where you should go . if she does not have a preference , then you can suggest places to go . be careful not to try to force her to feel the same way . say that you like her in a way that is free of further implication . free of implication means that you are not communicating a different message through your body language or tone . for example , do not look very intently at her in a way that asks her to like you back . or do not lean forward into her space unless you know that she likes you . you could ask her how she feels before you say anything . however , it is more attractive and confident if you own how you feel and speak first . she has asked you about your crush on her , and you can absolutely ask why she wants to know . simply ask why are you asking do not assume that you know why she is asking . once again , keep your tone and body language free of implication . do not suggest that you know why she is asking with a flirty or accusing tone . focus fully on what she is saying . show interest , nod , smile and communicate that you understand through your body language and noises . try not to interrupt her . let her speak her piece . you can ask for clarification later . give her feedback about what she said . you can say so what i hear you say is . this will let her know that you really listened and that you want to understand her . do not be judgmental about what she is saying . this is how she feels and although it may involve you , do not take her feelings personally . read on to the next method for more on not taking it personally . if she likes you back , you can tell her im so excited that you like me too if she does not like you back , you can tell her honestly im sad that you do not like me , but i appreciate that you told me . you can also thank her for being brave enough to bring up the conversation . if she does not like you , do not make her feel bad for not liking you . even if you honestly feel like she should like you , it is not your place to tell her that or make her feel that way . if she doesnt feel the same way , you might want to ask her if she still wants to be friends . if you do not feel like you two can be friends , ask if you can have space . if she does like you , ask her whether she would like to start dating . try not to assume what will happen between you two if she says she has a crush on you , too . instead , communicate with her how she feels about dating . if you want to start dating , ask her about what dating means to her and explain what dating means to you . you want to make sure that you are talking about the same thing . you may also want to discuss relationship expectations you have and ask her about hers . this may be a full conversation in itself , and one you come back to periodically . because it can be an awkward conversation , you may want to avoid talking about it . however , embrace the awkwardness and be confident . if you are still friends but she does not like you , you can simply tell her thanks for having that conversation with me i appreciated it . you can also follow up over text message , but keep it brief . do not try to change her mind , instead , acknowledge the conversation and then move on .

do not take it personally . work on liking yourself . feel good about being honest . take time to get over her . start talking to new people .

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whether someone likes you or not says nothing about you as a person . you are still awesome for all of the same reasons . do not let her romantic feelings change the way you feel about yourself . think about it from her perspective . the more you understand her , the easier it will be to realize that it is not about you . avoid jumping to conclusions . you dont know why she doesnt like you . be careful not to assume that it is because of something particular about you . make some space between you and your immediate reaction . try to suppress any initial panicked emotions . realize that your feelings will subside and wait for them to do so before you speak or do anything . liking yourself is more important than other people liking you . when you truly like yourself , it has an awesome effect - other people want to be around you more . speak to yourself as a friend . you should offer yourself the same compassion , love and support you would to a friend who is going through a hard time . imagine yourself confident and free . in your mind visualize what you would look like if you were perfectly confident and happy . what would you look like strive for being that person . think about that person when you are in doubt about yourself . it is hard to be open and honest with someone you like . if she does not also have a crush on you too , at least now you know . you are in a better position because you dont have to spend more time wondering about her . being open and honest is a good habit to get into . with the next girl you like , you will be better able to interact with her because you had this experience . if you feel like you are not ready to start dating other people , work on yourself . do not worry about liking someone again until you feeling better . go out with your friends . spend time with good friends who make you feel good about yourself . these people will remind you of your interests and the other things that you love . distance yourself from her . if you are having a hard time with your emotions , tell her that youd like some time and space from your relationship . having her out of your life for the time being will help you focus on you . if you are feeling like you are ready to move on , pursue girls you are interested in . hang out with groups of people that have new girls . ask your friends about any get together coming up and attend them . when you meet a girl you like , ask her for her number . you can be direct and say i really liked talking to you - can i have your number so we can keep talking go on online dating websites . there are a few free websites that you can join and meet people to date . lots of people use these applications to find people who share their interests and personality type .

have some ideas about what to talk about . introduce yourself . compliment her . listen and ask questions . pay attention to her body language .

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talking to a girl you like can be nerve - racking . you can ease some of the stress by having a few things already picked out to talk about before you sit down . if you are in the same class you could say something about the teacher or the content of the class itself . if you are at lunch or out with friends you might mention a popular movie or the antics of a friend you have in common . professor fink is so boring . i actually like physics , but he has a real knack for sucking all the fun out of it . have you seen the latest episode of supernatural it was riveting . today is my dogs birthday . im so excited . do you have any pets if you dont already know the girl you like , introduce yourself as soon as you sit down . tell her your name and maybe what you think of the class . just a few sentences . im steven . i usually sit over by the coke machine at lunch , but i thought id switch it up today . when delivered with the right intentions , a sincere compliment can make anyone feel good . avoid saying things about her body or comments that are lewd or sexual . instead , tell her you like her shirt or her earrings . even better , compliment her ideas while you guys are talking . be honest . an insincere compliment is usually easy to pick out and can have the opposite effect . i really like listening to you break down the thematic elements of the latest episode of supernatural . its opening up the show in a new way for me . those are really nice earrings . where did you get them avoid sexually charged compliments . dont just monopolize the conversation . sitting next to some you like is a great way to get to know them better . ask her about herself . what kinds of things is she into how is she liking the class so far what does she usually like to get for lunch from the cafeteriaif this is a first meeting , keep the questions light . avoid extremely personal questions . smile and nod your head . say things like , i see . yes . or i understand . make eye contact . this helps you appear confident . it also assures her that you are listening when she speaks and that you are engaged in what she has to say . if she is avoiding eye contact or leaning away from you , these may be indicators that she is not into the conversation . you can try redirecting the topic to something more neutral or inline with her interests . this may also be a sign that she needs more space or is feeling somehow intruded on . try leaning back or scooting over a bit to give her more room . if you notice her leaning forward , smiling , andor making eye contact , then this is a good indicator that she is engaged in the conversation and having a good time . keep it up

know when to stop talking . practice good hygiene . tell her it was nice to meet her . ask if she would like to talk again .

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when class starts or an assembly in the gym begins , dont try to keep the conversation going in a whisper . instead , participate fully in whatever the activity is . this will show her that you have very clear boundaries and that you understand social norms . you may be able to make a few more connections with some non verbal communication . if the teacher says something funny , you might look her way and make some eye contact while you laugh . youll want to be at your best when you sit next to a person you like . the last thing you want is to come off charming and likable , only to have her become too distracted by any offensive odors coming from your body . be sure to shower daily . where deodorant and brush your teeth twice a day . carry mints with you . have one before you sit down . gum can work too , but it can sometimes be hard to talk while chewing gum . it can also be perceived as rude or gross . where a modest amount of cologne . dont dump too much on . it shouldnt burn the nostrils of the person smelling it . a few dabs on your neck and wrists is fine . end the conversation by thank her for her time . tell her you really enjoyed meeting her or getting to know her even better . be specific . reference something you guys talked about . i had a really great time hearing your views on the television show supernatural . thank you for telling me that funny story about your cats . i understand this physics problem so much better now that weve had a chance to talk it out together . if youve just met , it might not be prudent to ask for her number right away . but you can try to set up an appropriate time to meet again . or even better , ask if it would be okay if you sat next to her the next time the class meets . after you get to know her a little better , you can ask to call her sometime . be specific here as well . id like to talk more about pet ownership with you if you are interested . let her know when youll be here again . this puts the power in her hands to decide if she would like to sit next to you again . which she totally will if you followed these steps .

let her see you having a good time . be a gentleman . wow her with your confidence . be independent . be a little bit mysterious . be good at something . dont show off too much . put some effort into your appearance . treat others with respect . dont take yourself too seriously . actually listen to her . flirt with her . make her friends think youre awesome . make her feel special . just remember to play hard to get . check in on her occasionally . dont overthink it .

how to make girls crazy for you

theres nothing a girl wants more than a guy who is obviously enjoying himself and completely happy on his own . when youre with your friends , enjoy laughing and sharing stories . when youre walking to class , think happy thoughts that put a smile on your face . when you see her , show her that youre in a good mood , and that youre not a total downer . you dont have to fake it , obviously , but you should let her see that youre a person who is enjoying himself so she wants to be in your orbit . if she sees you already having a great time , then shell want to be a part of what you have to offer . if she thinks you need a girl to have a good time , then shell think that youre not quite happy with yourself . gentlemen are all too hard to come by these days and if you are one , girls will take notice . you dont have to wear a stuffy suit or act all formal just to show a basic courtesy to women . to be a gentleman , treat women with respect by opening doors for them , caring about how theyre feeling when youre around them , and generally not being too vulgar or burping or being crude in their presence . every girl wants to be treated like a lady , and you dont want to make it feel forced to be a real gentleman . many guys you know may not have the greatest manners or politeness skills . stand out from the pack by having good manners and by being polite both to the girl and the people around you . girls love confident guys and naturally gravitate towards them . if you want the girl to really go crazy for you , then you have to let her see how much you love being who you are . be happy to just be in the moment , enjoy the time you spend with your friends , and just let her see that youre happy and secure with the person who you are and that you dont care about what other people think . many guys are obviously insecure and girls dont like that they dont want to spend their time building you up . if youre happy with who you are , then the girl will be much more likely to want to be around you . this doesnt mean that you have to love every last thing about yourself . it does mean that you should be aware of your flaws , trying to change the ones you can change , and accepting the ones you cant . you dont have to act overly macho or brag about how awesome you are to come off as truly confident . in fact , this will be a turn - off for girls . though girls need guys who have time for them , they dont want guys who have nothing going on except them , either . if you want the girl to go crazy for you , then you have to impress her with how cool and independent you are . you should be happy doing your own thing , whether its playing your guitar on the quad or going for a run in the park . if youre a follower and just try to do what everyone else is doing because you cant think for yourself , then shell be able to tell . instead , impress her with your ability to think for yourself and to be comfortable on your own . though a girl wants a guy who can have a great time in a crowd , she doesnt want someone who is completely bored on his own , either . dont open up to her about every little thing youre thinking right away . as you get to know the girl , sure , you can reveal a little bit about yourself , but at first , you dont have to tell her about how much you love your dog munchkin , or about your fight with your best friend . let her see that its worth it to get to know you because itll make you open up , little by little . if she thinks its too easy to get to know you , then she wont see you as a challenge . while you dont have to lie to her or make up excuses to be mysterious , you should avoid telling her everything all at one . if you have to go , dont tell her that you have to go meet your mom . leave her to wonder about your plans . nothing makes girls go crazier than a guy who is great a guitar , who has an amazing singing voice , or who is unstoppable when it comes to basketball . to put it bluntly , talent is hot . if you want to amaze and impress a girl , then yeah , it helps if youre really good at something . that doesnt mean that you should brag about it or show off in front of her or anything . it just means that you should work to be really good at something and lead her to find out about it . of course , you shouldnt just pursue an activity or a passion just to impress girls , but because you care about it . being really good at something will also boost your self - esteem , which will also be great for impressing the girls . stop thinking that the only way a girl will go crazy for you is if you keep bragging and talking about how awesome you are at various activities . if you really are great at something , then shell get word of it if you feel like you have to tell her , then it means that youre insecure and feel like you have to convince people about how amazing you are . you can talk about the things you love to do , but dont say things like , im the best at… or , i just killed it when… or the girl will get bored and will start rolling her eyes . if youre always showing off and talking about how awesome you are , then girls will start to see you as social poison . nobody wants to be around guys who are always talking about themselves . this doesnt mean you have to spend all of your spare time at the gym working on those guns . it does mean that you should make an effort to think about how you look before you step out of the house , making sure youre showered , smell nice , have well - fitting clothes , and that you dont look super scruffy unless thats part of your look . if you look like you just rolled out of bed , then the girl will wonder why she should spend time caring about you if you barely care about yourself . you dont need to look like a model to show a girl that youve made an effort to look decent . if youre hanging out with a girl , its common courtesy to show up looking nice . otherwise , shell take your lack of effort personally . if you want a girl to go crazy for you , then you have to actually have a reputation for being a nice person . this doesnt mean you should let people walk all over you or that you should be nice to people who are mean to you , but it does mean that you should treat everyone around you , from the less cool kids in your school to your teachers or the girl who works at your local grocery store , with a base level of respect . dont just be nice to the cool people and treat everyone else like dirt treat all of the people around you like equals and girls will be impressed that youre a good person with a kind heart . contrary to what you think , putting people down and gossiping wont really win girls over . if youre always being negative about or to other people , then the girls will feel like they cant really trust you . girls love guys who can make them laugh , and who are comfortable enough with themselves to be able to make jokes at their own expense . this doesnt mean you have to sound insecure or self - deprecating , but if you find an opportunity to poke fun at yourself and to make her laugh in the process , then go for it . shell think its cool that youre not obsessing over impressing her or making her think youre perfect , and shell begin to open up to you and want to be around you more . if you get easily offended or mad when anyone else pokes fun at you , youll come off as insecure and defensive . learn to take a joke , and the ladies will be impressed . one of the biggest mistakes guys make is to spend so much time talking about themselves or worrying about themselves that they never stop and realize that theres a girl standing in front of them . you may even make the innocent mistake of thinking too hard about what to say to impress a girl to have the time to consider what shes saying to you . that stops now . instead , take the time to really listen to her , to let her finish talking instead of interrupting , and to make an effort to really understand what shes trying to say instead of trying to relate everything back to yourself . its really hard for girls to find a good listener . if you can be a good listener , this will definitely make you stand out as someone who genuinely cares for her . a little bit of flirting can go a long way . if you want to get the ladies , then you have to know how to flirt with them without going over the top . just be fun and light and playful , making harmless jokes and teasing them a little bit , and keep the conversation and banter going in a fun , lighthearted way . dont make overly sexual comments or insult the girl when youre really just trying to tease her instead , give her cute compliments and even laugh at yourself a little bit to make her see that you like her and dont take the whole flirting thing too seriously . of course , if you want one special girl , you should give her most of your flirting energy while occasionally flirting with others to keep it interesting you dont want her to think that youre just a big flirt who flirts with everybody and doesnt really care about her . if you want the girl to go crazy over you , then it helps a lot if her friends think youre the best thing since sliced bread . if youre only nice to the girl you like and are kind of mean to the rest of her friends , then shell get word of it and will think that you dont really care about people . but if you charm her friends , without flirting with them or giving them the wrong idea , then shell get word of how nice of a guy you are , and will undoubtedly like you even more . when girls hear other girls talking about how awesome a guy is , then they get jealous , which makes them like that guy even more . if you want a girl to go crazy for you , then you have to make her feel special by actually taking the time to recognize her as a unique individual . tell her , youre not like other girls… or youre so different from your friends… and make her see that she really does stand out to you . you can give her a specific compliment about her personality or mention something she said in a previous conversation to show that youre listening and that you do care . dont do this to every girl , though , or it will get back to her , and itll look like youre just a player . girls want to feel unique , and if they can find a guy who makes them feel that way , theyll be all in . take the time to really notice the things that make the girl stand out , whether its her confidence , her laugh , or her talent at dancing . let her know why shes special . though you want to win the girl over , you have to keep up the chase . you dont want her to think that she has you in the palm of her hand , but that she has to do some work to win you over , too . it should be a mutual thing . let her know you like her , but dont shower her with compliments . hang out with her , but make sure you have plans with other friends , too , and that you arent available the second she wants to hang out . if she calls you , stop picking up the second the phone rings youve got other things to do , right this will keep the girl interested in coming back for more . this doesnt mean that you have to play elaborate games to win the girl over . it does mean that you should keep things interesting so theres never a dull moment when she sees you . if you put it all out there , shell be less likely to be crazy about the intriguing , awesome guy that you are . you dont want to become that obsessive possessive guy every girl is afraid of , but you also dont want to be mr . aloof . whether youre in a relationship with a girl or just starting to hang out , texting her every once in a while to ask how her day is going or to ask how her math test or soccer game went will show that youre thinking about her even when youre not together . this will make her see that youre a guy worth keeping around . just make sure that youre not always the one to check in first or she may feel a bit smothered . dont text her to say hi more than once every other day or so . you dont want her to think that you have nothing better to do than to be in touch with her . the best way to win a girl over is not to rush it and just to enjoy the moment instead of trying to find the best fifty ways to be the coolest guy ever . as corny as it sounds , at the end of the day , you want the girl to like you , not some overdone , fake version of who you are , so you should focus on having the girl get to know the real you and getting to know the real her in the process . if you spend all your time trying to impress the girl , trying to play hard to get , or generally behaving in a way that just doesnt feel natural to you , then shell catch on pretty fast . instead , relax , charm the girl , and get ready for her to go crazy for you .

smile at her . talk to her . compliment her .

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often its as easy as making eye contact and smiling to get a girl to smile back . if it doesnt work , keep trying , and you might get a smile yet . you might even try a sillier smile to see if it might make her laugh . smiling is a good way to open up a conversation , because it makes both you and her happier . when you smile , it literally changes chemicals in your brain , making you feel happier , and smiles are catching . that means , when someone sees a smile , they want to smile , too , making them happier . ask questions about her and what she likes . find things you have in common . by discovering what you both like , she might see you in a different way than before . and shell smile because it shows that you enjoy talking to her . it also sets you up with ideas of what to do in the future . everyone likes to hear nice things about themselves , and so , a compliment is sure to make her smile . the best compliments are sincere , which means you really mean it . take a moment to study her , so you can tell her what you really do like about her . you dont have to stick to looks . you can also compliment her brains , her brilliant smile , or her sparkling wit . for example , you could say , the dress looks good on you you could also say , you know , youre really smart you always seem to have the right answer in class . another option is , you have the best hair i love how wavy it is .

make sure you have her attention first . poke fun of yourself . crack a joke . be silly . try a silly dance .

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you cant make someone laugh if theyre not paying any attention to you . make sure you have her attention before you try anything funny , such as walking up to her and saying hello or making eye contact with her . poking fun at yourself shows you dont take yourself too seriously , and thats an attractive quality . plus , any time you can crack a joke , even at your own expense , will help to make a girl smile , and it can help lighten up any tension in the room that may be the cause of the girls frown . this type of humor works especially well when you do something a little silly or clumsy . for instance , if you trip over your shoelaces when shes around , you could say , if only someone had taught me to tie my shoes , i wouldnt be in this situation . it can also work if she does something clumsy . you can take the attention off her by poking fun at yourself . for instance , you could say , that wasnt clumsy . let me tell you about clumsy . one time , i tripped on my own shoe and went tumbling down the stairs . now that was clumsy . what you just did was just cute . cracking a joke shows you have some confidence . not every joke is going to be a winner , but just the attempt can make her smile . some of the main ingredients of a good joke include finding the right target , having the element of surprise , exaggerating everyday life , and having the basis of truth . the target refers to what you tell the joke about . when telling a joke to someone , the target should be relevant to their interests . for instance , telling a combat joke to a teenage girl may not make much sense , since shes likely never been in combat . the surprise is the twist to the joke that makes it funny . exaggerating makes it funny because it takes it beyond the every day while still keeping an element of truth . for example , if youre eating together in the cafeteria , try cracking a joke about the food . you could say something like , this food is so terrible my dog would turn up his nose at it . even in junior high and high school , being silly can make people smile or laugh . you can try silly voices , or you can attempt an impression of someone famous . you could even employ some slapstick humor , such as accidentally spraying yourself with the water fountain by holding your thumb over the stream . however , slapstick could backfire if the girl just finds it ridiculous . think about what makes you or your friends laugh , as shell likely find some of the same things funny . another way to make to make someone laugh is to do a silly dance . of course , you dont want to just run up to a girl and start doing a gorilla a dance . however , if youre standing near her , and some music came on , you could start doing a silly dance in time to the music .

stay in touch . be there for her . tease her or play with her . apologize when youve done something wrong .

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text her fun messages or leave her voice messages to wake up to in the morning . sending her little messages lets her know youre thinking about her and makes her feel loved and supported . its sure to put a smile on her face . when she lets you know that she needs or wants your help , make sure you are there . if shes upset , make sure you provide a shoulder to cry on . when you say youll do something , make sure youre there . if you make a date with her , show up on time and be genuine about it . if she knows you are true to your word and a person she can depend on , shell definitely smile more . you could lightly arm wrestle with her or tickle her , too . not in a mean way , but in a cute way that allows her to realize you want to share a special connection with her . try holding her hand or hugging her by surprise . however , if she pulls back , make sure to let her go , as she may not want to be touched right then . thats it , youve done it again . youve done something wrong , and now youre girlfriends mad . the only way out of this situation is to apologize , truly and sincerely , by admitting what you did wrong and asking how you can make up for what you did . only then will you have a smiling girlfriend again eventually . for instance , just saying , ok , im sorry , isnt going to cut it . rather , you should say something like , im sorry i forgot to meet you after school . i know i made you wait around for me , and that sucks for you . maybe i can buy you a soda right now to make up for it

make her something . show youre listening . give her a gift . take her on a surprise outing .

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nothing says youre interested in her more than taking the time to make her something . it could be something as small as a bouquet of wildflowers you picked yourself and put in a homemade vase . really , its the thought and the surprise that count . you could also make her a braided bracelet out of yarn or beads . another option is baking her something , like a batch of cookies or brownies . if she talks about a particular band that youve never heard , find it and listen to it . she will probably be impressed that you went to the trouble of listening to it . bring her things she mentions . if she said she likes coffee , bring her coffee one day . show her that you are getting to know the real girl , and her likes and dislikes . also , pay attention when she tells a story . it says something about her , and shell be touched if you remember it later . it doesnt have to be big , but it should be thoughtful . she should know that youve been thinking about her . it should also show that you know the kinds of things she likes and likes to do . in other words , it should be thoughtful . if she collects things , like stickers , pins , pens , or hair bows , bring her a new one that you know shell like . if she likes to read , pick a used book to give to her . you could also bring her a piece of chocolate or her favorite soda . it doesnt have to be fancy , just something that will be new and surprising and bring a smile to her face . think about the kinds of activities she likes , and come up with a plan . in fact , you could even ask some questions to figure out what she likes , without giving away the surprise , such as , so what are some of your favorite restaurants in town i love bettys burgers . visit a free art gallery , or go have coffee and dessert at a coffee shop . take a walk by the lake to feed the ducks . join a free dancing lesson , or go browse the library together .

gain a girls trust in the same ways you gain it from anyone . assume shes been let down before . be clear with your intentions . be true to yourself . follow through on your promises . be appropriately affectionate . communicate with trust . dont take it for granted . come clean but dont obsess over the details . apologize unconditionally . forgive yourself . be patient and understanding . work together .

how to make a girl trust you

gaining the trust of the girl you like , of the old friend youve let down , or of the husband youve betrayed are not all that different . assuming that girls young women have special requirements for gaining trust can easily devolve into stereotyping and unfair generalizations . instead , universal advice like that provided by how to build trust makes a good starting point for anyone . in it , the basic requirements for earning trust include being reliable . being honest . being open . showing integrity . more specific ideas about how to get a girl to trust you should draw from basic building blocks like these . theres a good chance that the old saying once bitten , twice shy may apply to your girl . at some point , shes probably had her trust betrayed by someone important to her , and therefore may be hesitant to take the chance of being hurt again . dont take it personally if she is hesitant to trust you because of past disappointments . accept the challenge to work even harder to earn her trust . for instance , getting help from references — mutual friends or acquaintances who can speak to your trustworthiness — may help you break through the walls of skepticism created by previous betrayals . gather as much evidence as possible that you can be trusted , but expect your own words and actions to be most important . it is always easier to trust someone who is clear and unequivocal about his intentions , be it in business , in love , or in life . evasiveness or deception about your real interest in a girl will make it easy for her to withhold her trust . in relationship terms , be up - front about whether you are just seeking some short - term fun , hope for something more lasting , or simply arent sure where you see things heading . if you have any genuine care or respect for that girl you met at a party , for example , dont lead her on by saying youre interested in a long - term relationship if you are not . show trust in her by being honest from the start , and youll be more likely to earn her trust in return . dont try to be someone you are not in order to draw the interest of a girl , and then expect to be able to gain her trust . even if you manage to fool her temporarily , she will eventually see through this fabrication , and then it will be nearly impossible to earn her trust after you have deceived her right from the start . be confident in who you are , and expect that to be good enough to score her affections and , eventually , her trust . it is much easier to trust someone who looks , talks , and acts like someone who is comfortable in his or her own skin . if you know you are trustworthy , she will eventually see it too . reliability is always a critical factor in building trust , whether from a co - worker or a romantic interest . she needs to believe youll do what you say youll do and not do what you say you wont , each and every time . that is the kind of person who is easy to trust . be consistent in what you say and do . if you say youll pick her up at 7 oclock , do it . if you promise to drop a bad habit that bothers her , work as hard as you can to do so . her trust will be the reward for your efforts . lots of girls out there and guys , for that matter appreciate an unsolicited hug , a hand to hold , a gentle kiss , or a shoulder to cry on . proving that you understand her wants and needs , and that you are always there for her , will put you on the fast track toward earning her trust . of course , realizing that she isnt a hugger , or showing that you know and accept her current limits on the physical nature of your relationship , can also build trust . sometimes what you dont do is just as important as what you do in order to gain trust . if she feels like you dont understand her , or are pressuring her to move things forward , she is more likely to withhold her trust . trust is almost impossible to build without regular , open , and honest communication . prove yourself to be an active , involved , and interested listener , and speak to her thoughtfully and truthfully about your feelings , and you will slowly but surely gain her trust . in the business world , people have found that certain simple , direct phrases tend to help build trust with co - workers or clients . the same concept holds true in personal relationships as well . phrases like thank you , yes , i will , what do you think , i trust your judgment , and i understand are unequivocal and demonstrate a focus on the other persons needs . it turns out that trust is a lot like everyones favorite nursery rhyme egg , humpty dumpty its easy to break , and very hard to rebuild afterward . once youve betrayed a girls trust , all the kings horses and all the kings men may not be enough to get it back . sometimes youll just have to accept that it is lost forever . but that doesnt mean you shouldnt try your hardest to earn it back . never assume that you deserve a second chance , especially if you have seriously betrayed her trust , such as by cheating on her . earning trust is hard , and re - earning it is that much more difficult . dont fool yourself about the substantial effort it will take on your part , and the reality that it may not be enough not matter what you do . the first step to regaining trust is always to be completely honest to her and to yourself about what you did to lose it in the first place . think long and hard about why you did the thing that broke her trust , and be prepared to patiently answer her questions and accept her anger and sadness . never try to downplay what you have done to break her trust . it is serious business , and you need to always treat it as such if you want any shot at regaining her trust . that said , once youve come clean , try not to obsess over why you did it or the gory details . at some point , both of you have to be able to move forward if trust is to be rebuilt . you cant control her pace in moving past it , but you can control yours . never make excuses for your indiscretions that have caused a loss of trust . you screwed up , it was your fault and yours alone , and now it is up to you to do everything you can to rebuild what your actions have broken . as with coming clean with all the details , a full apology is necessary to clean the slate before you can begin working to restore trust . saying sorry i messed up . i promise i wont do it again will not cut it . try something more like i am very sorry that i lied to you about something so important . i know how much it has hurt you , and it is all my fault . i hope you will give the the chance to earn your forgiveness and regain your trust , even if i dont deserve it right now . sometimes people can become so focused on admitting their errors and begging for forgiveness that they never get around to forgiving themselves . we all make stupid mistakes , and hurt people we care about . without minimizing the seriousness of what youve done , you need to be able to accept it and leave it behind if you hope to move forward . if you cant get past it , shell definitely never be able to . regaining trust is hard work , and requires you to make real changes in your life . if youre too busy still punishing yourself for screwing up , you wont be able to put the work in that is necessary to regain her trust . remember , you cant take back what youve done . all you can do is try to make amends for it and prove that youve learned from this mistake and wont repeat it . earning forgiveness and regaining trust take time , and they have to happen at the pace set by the person who has been harmed . your actions and words will help determine if the process succeeds , but you cant force things along . sometimes , all you can do is wait and hope . expect setbacks in the process . things may seem like they are going well , and then all of a sudden she cant stand to look at you again . the truth is that the sting of a betrayal is never going to completely vanish , and like any old injury , you have to accept that the pain is going to flare up every so often , and sometimes for no apparent reason . you broke her trust , and you have to do much of the heavy lifting in order to stand a chance of getting it back . however , she has to be willing to put in the effort as well . only by working together can trust be restored . if she cant or wont join you in making the effort to rebuild things , take that as a sign that the break is irreparable . if open and honest communication is important to building trust , it is even more vital to rebuilding it . be willing to talk and listen a lot . dont hold back , and encourage her to do the same . consider engaging the help of a therapist or counselor trained in dealing with broken relationships . if she raises the idea , never hesitate to agree . if its your idea , give her the time and space to consider it .

consider the place youre going to vacation at . it goes without saying that some vacation destinations are better than others when it comes to meeting women . go on a singles cruise . although most cruises are intended for married couple , there are specific cruises that capitalize on offering experiences for singles . look into singles vacation packages . although the tourism industry is conventionally built around couples , families and groups , there are vacation packages catered specifically to singles as well . plan your vacation activities with meeting women in mind . go vacationing with the right kind of people . the people you go on vacation with will have a major impact on your experience abroad .

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think about the place youre going if youre looking to meet women abroad , and consider changing your choice of destination if its that important to you . if you can imagine a vacation location as being exciting and potentially romantic , theres a good chance youll be able to meet women there . cruises , for example , are generally intended for committed couples , unless the cruise is listed as being otherwise . tropical resorts or festive cities on the other hand attract singles in droves . because most everyone going will be single , a singles cruise will vastly increase your chance to striking up conversation with single women . conceivably , meeting someone on any cruise ship would be a romantic experience , but due to the fact that cruises are regularly associated with couples , your bet luck will be had with singles cruises . many of these involve resorts where other singles may congregate and make their own fun together . if you have a rough idea where youd like to go , look into whether the region in question has any packages suited for your intent and situation . while some people prefer to take it easy and lay back while theyre on vacation , there are almost always good way of meeting single women when youre abroad . once you have a destination picked out , look into the attractions . the best place for meeting women will be high - energy settings where alcohol is involved . clubs , bars and the beach are all great places to start . try to steer away from places that attract families . your party will also have a considerable impact on your chances of meeting women . going with your family wont help your odds for example , but going with a group of fellow singles who are intent on the same thing will make it easier to find fresh opportunities during the vacation .

sharpen up your social skills in the months prior . dress appropriately . looking good is an important part of meeting and attracting women no matter where you are . stay busy . act friendly . above all , it doesnt hurt your chances to be sincerely friendly towards people while youre out on vacation . carry something to share with others . if you carry something as simple as a pack of smokes or playing cards , youll have a physical proper conversations with .

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you will have the highest chances of success dating on vacation if you plan for it well in advance . look up the customs and social norms of the culture youre visiting , and work on your charm . although a lot of this is easier said than done , it can be accomplished with the right degree of self - awareness . go out and be social in your own area first dont wait for a vacation to turn on the charm . dont throw money at so - called pickup artists and dating coaches . although some of the basic information may be helpful , its seldom worth the exorbitant rates many of the coaches charge for their services . although your dress should be relatively casual and applicable to the vacation setting , you should emphasize appearance over pure comfort . a collared shirt and dress shoes work well for the majority of cases . no matter what , stay busy during your vacation . although some people take a vacation as an opportunity to laze about , youll only have a realistic chance of meeting new people when youre out actively doing things . check the weekly schedule for the resort youre staying at . read up on the events that are happening nearby . if your resort has a bar or club , check it out and see whats going on . just about any event will provide an opportunity to meet women , so you should take up any opportunity when it presents itself . check out party events in the area . parties entail a high - energy environment thats perfect for meeting single women . meeting women during the day increases your chances as opposed to the night . because people will be relaxing throughout the day while on vacation , youll have more time to spend with a girl than if you were saving your advances purely for the night . most guys will only approach at night , which also has the effect of increasing your competition . you should be honest and authentic . even if a prospect doesnt share your postal code , shell most likely be able to tell if youre being disingenuous towards her . this includes lots of smiling . just make sure not to stare at one girl for too long . this runs the risk of being interpreted as creepiness . for instance , if you have a decent grasp of magic tricks using playing cards , you can approach a group of girls and ask if they would like to see a trick . some girls may even approach you for a cigarette if they see you smoking . sunscreen is also handy , as most vacationers will be in want of it if theyre spending much time on the beach .

keep the conversation light - hearted . even if youre looking to make a serious romance with the girl youre talking with , you shouldnt touch upon any serious topics when youre first chatting with her . invite her to do something with you . you shouldnt wait long into a conversation before asking the girl to do something fun with you . take advantage of a vacations excitement . unlike a romance closer to home , theres a much greater degree of excitement when youre out on vacation . share good experiences together . a vacation is meant to be a time where you get out and do things youre not familiar with . look for signs of attraction . as with any interaction with a woman youre interested in , you can gauge the likelihood of your success by looking at signs of attraction . act quickly . vacations dont last long , so your window of opportunity will almost always be accordingly brief . practice safety first . vacationers who meet other singles are more likely to practice unsafe sexual practices than if they were back at home .

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keep the conversation light and fun . if in doubt , ask questions about her . ask her where shes from , whos she on vacation with , and what sort of things shes seen since she got here . all of these questions can lead to positive conversations . if youre out on vacation , there should be a wide range of activities available to you . whether its swimming , hiking , partying or seeing a show , you should keep the activities on - the - go and exciting . when one activity ends , start up another . this will show the girl that you are fun and spontaneous . if youre looking to meet a woman abroad , you should take advantage of this excitement . this is especially true if the woman is out vacationing herself . while you interact with her , dont hesitate or be afraid of potentially making a fool of yourself . because you may only know this girl for a short amount of time , there are far fewer repercussions than if you were approaching someone domestically . you can just as easily share these things with someone you just recently met . whether its going to a resort club , taking a long swim or watching a tropical sunset together , the girl will associate positive feelings with you as she shares worthwhile experiences with you . here are some of the things you should keep an eye out for if youre trying to figure out if shes interested if shes messaging you frequently throughout the vacation , its a good sign that shes interested in seeing more of you . shes likely interested in pursuing things with you if she singles you out in a crowd , or spends more time with you than the party she originally came on vacation with . typical body language signs of attraction , like twirling hair and sustained eye contact , should also be taken into account in this instance , although you should consider potential differences in culture . women from certain cultures will manifest their attraction in more subtle ways than what youre used to dealing with . although you shouldnt jump in the second you meet a girl , you shouldnt wait to make your feelings and intentions known to her . if you feel youve arrived at an appropriate time , jump on the chance and see what happens . if it turns out that the girl isnt interested in you , you shouldnt take it to heart . vacation romances seldom work out as it is , and any pain you feel will be lessened by the time you get back home . although part of this is the impression that someone wont be judged if shes away from the people she knows , its still paramount that you approach any potential sexual encounter with safety in mind . failing to do so could result in sexually transmitted diseases or even pregnancy .

decide what you want . look up the girl online . looking up the girls name on social media will give you a glimpse into her regular life . be realistic . romances while out on vacation can be a lot of fun , but the truth is that the vast majority of them do not last for very long . make plans to stay in touch . accept the potential for rejection . reflect on the experience . most romances while on vacation dont end up amounting to anything long - lasting .

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after you and a certain girl have spent enough time together , there will come a point where you should figure out what it is you want from the connection . are you content with a short - term interaction , or do you think theres the potential for something greater if youre unsure , you might bring this subject up with the girl in question . finding out what her thoughts are may give you some clarity . this is helpful if you want to stay in touch , and particularly important if you think she may be leading you on . many people will show their relationship statuses online . this way , you can see if a girl is truly as available as she says she is . likewise , you should expect a girl to look you up online as well . this means you should avoid trying to start romance if you are already in a committed relationship with someone back home . this is important to keep in mind going into the romance itself , as you shouldnt set yourself up for heartbreak towards the end . if anything , you should enjoy a romance for the short time it lasts . if the chemistry is really strong enough however , the two of you may want to take it further . if the chemistry between the two of you is potent enough , you should try to keep a connection between the two of you , even if theres a major distance . some lifelong romances have occurred in spite of originally living continents apart . ask for her number or email information and take it from there . if the two of you manage to foster a longer - lasting correspondence , you may decide to meet up again later on down the road . like any romantic encounter , there is absolutely nothing to promise that the other person will feel the same way as you do . this is possibly especially true in a vacation setting , where a more prudent woman will recognize the folly of falling in love on vacation . no matter how bad it hurts at first , accept it gracefully and go back to enjoying your vacation . dont let a rejection get in the way of the rest of your experience . its quite possible that youll meet another woman on the same trip and thing will turn out for the better . even if it doesnt pan out and you wanted it to last , the experience still leaves a lot to consider . when you return from your travels , you should take the time to reflect on what happened , and how it may have changed your opinions on your day - to - day life .

keep things light at the beginning . show her that you have a great personality . be a gentleman . ask questions to get to know her better . give her space . impress her with your independence . give her sincere compliments . open up to her . be supportive . keep things interesting . win over her friends and family . surprise her and be thoughtful . show her that youll be a good long - term partner . listen to her . communicate with each other . be forgiving . keep taking care of yourself . do little things to impress her . assess changes in your relationship . build your interests together . remember to maintain your independence . never stop saying i love you .

how to make a woman fall in love with you

though you may be desperate for your woman to fall in love with you , you cant try too hard , at first , or youll scare her off . take it slow and let things progress naturally . if youve only been together for a few weeks , or a month or two , then you should keep things light and fun . dont say i love you yet , or it may not have the effect youre hoping for . of course , every relationship moves at its own pace . if you think youre both really approaching love after a few months , then dive in but make sure that youre looking for love with this specific woman , not just love in general . demonstrate your great personality to the woman you are interested in . by being positive , kind , funny , and thoughtful , you can show her that you are a great guy who would make an excellent boyfriend . try making her laugh by telling jokes . remember to be kind to people . try to maintain a positive and upbeat attitude . you dont have to ride up on a horse to pick her up for a date , but you should make an effort to treat her like a lady . part of being a gentleman is having stellar manners and treating people well . if you do this , then she will take notice and will be on her way to falling for you . this doesnt mean that you should not be yourself and have to start acting formal all of the time . it just means that you should try a bit harder to be polite and considerate of her needs . here are some things any old gentleman can do give her your coat if shes cold use proper table manners put her needs before your own when it comes to having the best seat , the last bite of food , etc . hold open doors for her pull out her chair for her be attentive to her needs in general if you want a woman to fall in love with you , then you have to show her that you see her as more than just an object or a trophy to be won . show her see that you care about who she is as a person , about what she wants , what her dreams are , and what her experiences have been . you shouldnt interrogate her , but at the same time , you have to make an effort to know who she really is besides the fun - loving , beautiful woman you see in front of you . here are some things to ask her about her childhood her favorite memories her friendships her relationships with her family members her hopes for the future her job or her career goals her passions or hobbies always hanging around and calling and texting a woman will not make her fall in love with you . in order to evaluate her feelings about you , she needs some distance and space to think about you . if youre always around , asking what shes up to , or telling her how amazing she is 247 , that wont increase her feelings of love for you . if you let her know you care but give her space at the same time , then shell be much more likely to fall for you . just like guys are turned off by women who come on too strong , so are women . find a balance between letting her know how much you like her and giving her space . if you want a woman to fall for you , then you have to make her see that youre a person who is worth falling for , not just a puppy dog she can keep on a leash . maintain your hobbies and work hard at a job that means something to you . the happier you are on your own , the more the woman will want to be around you . for example , you could hang out with your guy friends , spend time training for a marathon , play guitar , or pursue your favorite hobby . another way to win a girl over is to give her compliments that actually mean something . this means you should go beyond telling her how pretty she is , and dig deeper to let her know which attributes really mean something to you . of course , complimenting her looks will make her feel good , too , as long as its not the only thing youre complimenting . look for unique aspects of her personality or her life that are really worth complimenting , and shell see that you really care . here are some things you can say you always know how to crack me up , even when im having a bad day . youre so good at talking to almost anyone . my grandma pearl could have talked to you for hours what a gift . ive never seen eyes that are the same shade of blue as yours . if you want to deepen your bond , then you have to open up as your relationship progresses . dont tell her everything about yourself at first , or she may feel like theres no mystery there . but once youve been together for a while , slowly let her know about the things that matter to you . this could mean talking about your real dreams for the future , discussing a complicated friendship from the past , or even revealing your biggest fears . try asking for her advice about things now and then to show her that you value her input . if you want a woman to really fall in love with you , then you have to be there to support her when she needs you . this means anything from going to support her in the school play or building her up before a job interview . youll need to be there for her when shes nervous about something , having a bad day , or just figuring out her life . women look for this quality in a life partner , and if you want her to really fall for you , then she has to see that youll be there for her through the good times and the bad . try leaving an encouraging note in her lunch bag , sending her a confidence boosting text message , or just congratulate her on her accomplishments . trying new things now and then will help to keep things interesting and exciting in your relationship . this doesnt mean you should get a motorcycle and start doing backflips in your living room , but it does mean that you should keep an eye on the unconventional and exciting things that would take your relationship to the next level . if you do the same old thing or talk about the same old thing all the time , then the woman may begin to get a little restless . ask your girlfriend what she has always wanted to do , but never has . then , plan an outing so that you can try that activity . for example , maybe she has always wanted to learn how to surf . you can arrange for the two of you to take a surfing lesson together . vary your conversation topics as well . if youre always talking about sports or the same old thing , it may get old . read the news , read literature , watch documentaries , and just do things that make you a more interesting person - - so that you can keep her interest . if you want a woman to really fall in love with you , then you have to work hard to make sure that her friends and family also like you . be kind and polite to her family , be fun and sweet around her friends , and most importantly , show that you really care about her . in the end , thats the biggest thing theyre looking for - - not how much money you make or how cute you are . avoid getting in heated fights or political debates with her friends and relatives . its just not worth it . if you really dont like one of the womans relatives or friends , its best to keep your mouth shut , in most cases . the woman wont like it if youre threatening one of the relationships shes had much longer than shes known you . surprising your girlfriend and doing thoughtful little things will show her how much you care . though you shouldnt be her love slave , you should take the time to do little things that make her really feel loved and cared for . for example , you can send her flowers on a random day , send her a text to say youre thinking of her , cook her a meal when you know shes had a long day , or massage her feet if shes feeling tired . if you want a woman to fall for you , then you have to make her see you as more than just a hot , exciting prospect who is perfect for right now . let her see that youre responsible , caring , smart , fun to be around , and an all - around good long - term bet . be your best self and show her that youre mr . right , not just mr . right now . being responsible is a big plus . if she sees that you can balance your checkbook , cook dinner , and do what needs to get done , shell be very impressed . listening is crucial to the success of a relationship . when she needs you to listen to her , drop your distractions , look her in the eyes , and take in what shes telling you . dont try to solve her problems or give an opinion on everything - - just be there and listen when she wants to talk . demonstrate that you are listening by summarizing what she said and checking to see if you are understanding . for example , you could say something like , if im understanding you correctly , you are feeling frustrated about your boss and the way she handles meetings . is that right ask questions to show her that you are interested in hearing more . stick to who , what , when , where , and how questions . avoid why questions because they may cause her to become defensive . good communication is essential for maintaining a long - lasting , loving relationship . if you find that you and your partner are not communicating very well , take the initiative and try to find out whats been going on . ask her how shes feeling , ask about her day , or just ask if theres anything in particular that she wants to talk about . tell your girlfriend how you are feeling and when you want or do not want to talk as well . for example , if you are having a bad day and need some space , let her know . forgiveness is essential to a long lasting relationship . all couples argue from time to time and your girlfriend is bound to make mistakes sometimes . if you hold a grudge and refuse to forgive her for mistakes , then your relationship will suffer . practice forgiveness when she does something that upsets you and your relationship will stand a better chance of survival . looks are not everything , but maintaining a healthy lifestyle is good for you and good for your relationship . if you want to ensure that you feel your best and she continues to enjoy the way that you look , you have to keep taking care of yourself . make sure that you eat well , exercise daily , and get plenty of rest and relaxation . if you really want her to fall in love with you - - and to stay that way - - then you always have to keep making the effort . youve got to bring her flowers on random days . you should dress up for date nights . come up with new things to do together . never give up on trying to make her laugh . dont quit on her if shes in a bad mood . just keep working your charms and working hard to keep her . dont think that , once youve both said you love each other , youve got this in the bag . you always have to keep making an effort , whether youre 20 , 30 , or 80 . assess your relationship every so often to see what has changed or what needs to change . research has shown that people undergo significant changes every 7 - 8 years and you will need to account for these changes in your relationship . whether it is a new job or a new interest , it is important to address these changes in order to maintain a good relationship . if you want your relationship to keep going strong , then you should build a list of things that you do together . you have to have a few things that are just for the two of you , which you love doing together as you build your relationship . consider taking some sunday morning hikes , reading together near the fireplace , making italian meals together , going wine tasting , or running races . keep in mind that this doesnt mean that you have to share all of the same interests - - you dont have to go to yoga just to please her , and she doesnt have to watch your favorite tv show with you if its not her thing . having your own interests that you maintain will help you grow stronger , too . while you should work on doing things together , its important to stay focused on your own goals and pursuits , too . if youre always together , one or both of you may begin to feel smothered . keep on doing the things you love while making time for the person you love . try setting aside a day or night where you spend time with your friends and she spends time with hers . if you want to make a woman fall for you , and make it last forever , then you have to tell her that you love her . do it at least once a day and say it like you really mean it . these three words can make a big impact on your life - - and your relationship . no matter how secure a woman is in her relationship , she will always like to hear that you love her .

be her hero . dont fly too deep into the friend zone . pay attention to how you look . be charmingyou must at least have some kind of charm to appeal to a woman . be reliable . try to be funny this gives the girl a reason to relax . dont be too pushy . have financial independence . dont flirt with other girls too much . compliment her . give her reasons to be reminded of you . balance your sensitive side with your masculine side . most of all , do not use guides such as this one literally . girls have no idea what they want .

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whenever she is in trouble or worried about something , dont just sit there with her . acknowledge that you dont have all the answers , and that you may not know exactly what shes going through , but try to help make the situation better for her . ask her how you can help , but dont insist that she let you . be patient with anything she goes through and be supportive . when you can make a difference , do so without hesitation , but also cautiously , as you dont want to hurt her in any way . if she likes you already , go above and beyond the call of duty . do something that shed never expect you to do , like cooking her breakfast and then doing the dishes , and shell fall even harder for you . youre showing her what youre made of . if she doesnt like you yet , or you dont know how she feels about it , play it cool . be calm . if youre the kind of guy who gets sweaty and stutters his words when hes around a girl , then just calm down . think of her as just your friend who happens to look different . if you cant calm down , no sweat girls think it is adorable when guys trip over themselves . youll make her laugh in a good way be friendly with her without always being available . girls love guys who are a bit mysterious , so try to cultivate a bit of mystery — dont always pick up the phone , let on where youre going , etc . be honest , but not always totally up front . your guy - friends probably didnt care that you walked around in the same clothes you mowed the lawn in , but the girl of your dreams probably wont be very impressed . here are three simple things you can start doing right away that will help shower and shave every day . if youre not yet old enough to shave , dont sweat it . you should be soon . smell nice and look clean by showering or bathing regularly . wear clothes that actually fit . not your older brothers clothes not your dads clothes . wear your own clothes , and ones that flatter your figure . it doesnt matter how much money you have — every guy needs a good pair of jeans , a fitting t - shirt , a simple but elegant collared shirt , and shoes to fit the occasion . get in shape . lose that excess flab if you can and turn it into muscle . most girls like guys who have developed muscles that arent so chiseled theyre intimidating . find an intramural sports league that youre interested in and go for it . you might even be able to impress your lady with your skills . most men are charming in a couple different ways , but here are some charming ideas to think about be a gentleman . this means opening doors , paying for a date , keeping your word , etc . girls love to feel like a gentleman cares about them . be witty . girls love guys who are great conversationalists , who can turn anything into a joke . learn how to elegantly make fun of yourself . be intelligent . you should do your best to be well - read , informed about current - affairs , and curious . women like men who are smart but still relatable . every girl wants a guy who , at the end of the day , is reliable — dependable not because he has to be , but because he wants to be . being reliable is all about telling a girl that she has security with you . try to be the most reliable guy you know . do what you say youre going to do . if you talk the talk , walk the walk . girls dont like guys who say theyre going to do something and never follow through with it . be punctual . even though some girls are late to dates , a girl hates it when she has to wait on a guy . to her , it says i dont care enough about you to be on - time . if youre going to be late , let her know . have a good reputation . be the guy that other guys want to vouch for . you never know whether she , or one of her friends , could ask around about you . and if she hears how you cheated on your ex - girlfriend , your reputation is shot and youll have to rebuild it . a person is more responsive and receptive when relaxed . this is similar to being witty , but with higher importance . it helps you connect with her emotionallyintellectually . she should enjoy your company and not be bored . its a turnoff when youre always around her and touching her and flirting obnoxiously with her when she is not interested and has never shown any interest at all . learn to give her the control , even if its only the illusion of control . if a girl doesnt want to make out , for example , or have sex , dont try to force it out of her . thats not the way to get her obsessed with you . instead , listen to her wishes , understand why she has them , and respect them . youll get more bees with honey than you will with vinegar . most women dont care how much you make , or who your parents are , so long as you can provide for them . thats nice , because most men arent blessed with wealth . remember these things about money around women women , like men , want to be spoiled some of the time . it doesnt have to be extravagant , but they like to be spoiled . save enough money so that you can spoil her every once in a while . most women dont like men who flaunt their money . if you have money , dont flaunt it , because you just might scare her away . a girl might really like you but if she sees you dancing or talking with another girl , that could be a dealbreaker . make sure she knows youre interested in only her . at the same time , have friends who are also girls . if you hang around friends who are also girls , shell feel safer around you because other women are comfortable hanging out with you . if you never hang around any women , it could be a sign to her that youre illiterate when it comes to them . sometimes , women engage in a little competition — just like men therefore , its helpful to have other women around , provided you dont get involved or flirt with them . give her some good old - fashioned compliments . dont compliment her ability to do every little thing perfectly , or youll seem too needy or obsessive yourself . but a well - placed compliment can make a girl remember you for days on end be sincere when you compliment . figure out what you like about her best — what you think makes her most unique — and tell her . if its the truth , it will automatically come out as sincere . reinforce how she views herself . if she thinks of herself as an athlete , reinforce her competitive spirit or athletic skills . if she thinks of herself as a thinker , praise her smarts . whatever she thinks of herself as , compliment that aspect of her the most . focus more on her personality than her appearance . if you have to get in a compliment about her appearance , stay away from the more feminine areas and stick to complimenting these smile hair eyes lips clothes style , appearance , etc . sing or hum songs , talk about movies , share favorite places . anything that , when she hearssees it again , will make her think of you . girls like guys who are in touch with their feminine side without being girly at all . that means you have to understand where shes coming from but still be thoroughly manly if you can . learn a lesson from the following cues its ok to cry at a movie . if that movie is about sports . while most girls dont like sports , its a badge of your manliness to her . be prepared to stick with sports while still making time to see her . its ok to dress well . but not too well . as discussed earlier , girls love a guy who can dress nicely . but as soon as the guy dresses nicer than her , that can be a big turnoff . you should not make building a relationship with her a script . the most important thing to do when looking for a meaningful relationship is to relax around her , and let your true personality shine through . do not force yourself to fit a stereotype . youre better off waiting until you can find a girl who likes you , not a stereotypical cool guy . a relationship in which you can be yourself is much , much more meaningful than one in which you have to pretend to be someone else . be yourself and be a gentlemen . let her do what she wants and act like you care about her .

give her an unexpected compliment . maintain good eye contact . flirt , tease her gently . crack an inside joke around other people . impress her peers . if youre together , show her how important she is to you . if youre not together , make a move . dont objectify her . dont be creepy . dont use inappropriate touch . dont be cruel when you tease her . dont rely on money or gifts .

how to make a girl blush

this is the simplest , most direct way to make a girl blush . almost everyone appreciates a good compliment . if you choose the right words — walking the thin line between sincere and funny — she just might blush . a few tips are below . try to make the compliment about her , rather than about her things . as a simple example , you might say you look great in that dress instead of i like your dress . explore topics besides her looks . for example , her smarts and artistic abilities are also great things to bring up . dont lay it on too thick . one or two compliments per conversation are fine . a constant string of compliments will usually make people feel uncomfortable . sometimes a single look can say a thousand words . when you catch her eye as you talk , smile at her and keep your gaze for a few seconds longer than you normally would . if she is shy , even the slightest amount of eye contact may turn her cheeks pink . if she smiles back at you , this can be a sign she feels an attraction for you though you shouldnt go off of this alone . when something else catches your attention or someone else starts talking , break your eye contact . dont keep staring at the girl — this can come across as creepy leering . not all girls will blush over something as innocent as eye contact . however , a little good - natured flirting can usually do the trick . flirting is a skill that is a little too complex to explain in a single step , so see our article on it for detailed instructions . one basic way to flirt is to give someone a ridiculous compliment with a joking or sarcastic delivery . for example , if the girl flexes to show off her bicep , you might say something like , oooh , soo sexy . it should come across like youre teasing her but being a little sincere at the same time . this takes a little finesse , but it works great when you get good at it . your goal here is to embarrass the girl , but only slightly and only about something thats not actually very important . you should always keep your teasing lighthearted . back off immediately if you sense that she feels offended or deeply embarrassed . a good rule is to tease her about her skills or decisions instead of her personality or appearance . for example , teasing her about her bad driving skills can be cute . on the other hand , teasing her about a few light wisps of facial hair is a bad idea . when youre hanging out in a group of people , try making a joke that only she will get . it can be a reference to something from your past , something funny that happened to you two but not the other people , or something that references a mutual interest . if you pull it off , shell feel special . out of all the people , you singled out her for some humor . thinking up an inside joke is up to you — only you can search your shared history for something amusing to say . girls like boys listen to their peers . if she hears her friends or family talking about what an amazing , desirable person you are , she may start thinking about you in new romantic ways . your best bet for this to happen is to simply present your best self . look as good as you can , have confidence in yourself , and make an effort to be friendly to all of her peers . if youre already dating , impressing her parents with your politeness and achievements can be a major plus . for many girls , the approval of the parents can mean the world . a little old - fashioned chivalry and good manners in front of the parents can make you look like an absolute gentleman . if you really want to look good , consider getting a clean - cut haircut as well . if youre dating the girl that youre trying to make blush , you have more options at your disposal because you already share a level of intimacy . let her know that shes extremely valuable to you . if youre comfortable with the idea and your relationship has reached this point , you can also bring the l word into the conversation . for the best effect , your actions should reflect your words . a few ideas for showing your seriousness are below write her a sweet , hand - penned note . make her a mix with her favorite songs on it . take her to your favorite hiking or camping spot . share a picnic somewhere with a gorgeous view . treat her to a semi - fancy night out just because . on the other hand , if the girl youre trying to make blush isnt your girlfriend , making your romantic intentions known can certainly make her blush . this can be something as simple as breaking the touch barrier for instance , touching her shoulder as you laugh or a little flirting . if you want to be drastic , consider asking the girl out . shes certain to be flattered , even if she doesnt feel the same way . if she does , you have an exciting new relationship to explore if youre ready to take the plunge , see our guide on asking girls out . when it comes to complimenting a girl , youll want to avoid anything that makes her feel like a sex object or a piece of meat rather than a feeling , thinking human being . keep you compliments about her beauty , her intelligence , her decisions , and her personality . avoid the following subjects her sex characteristics e . g . bust size how revealing or non - revealing her clothing is her race or ethnicity outward identifiers of her religion or social status while its ok to be attracted to someone or be captivated by someones beauty , getting too fixated on her looks can be a great way to ruin your chances . in extreme cases , this sort of behavior can constitute harassment . actions and comments that are inappropriately personal or sexual or personal are off - limits . avoid the following sorts of actions staring or ogling — especially if youre looking below the neck asking prying questions about her dating or sex history pressing her for a chance to hang out together if she says no or offers an excuse for why she cant making any sort of comment that insinuates that she should do something sexual with you touching a someone inappropriately against their will is wrong . at best , it is cause for this person to get angry with you . at worst , it can be a crime . if you havent already established that touching is ok , keep your hands to yourself except for harmless flirtatious gestures like briefly touching her shoulder as you laugh . if she appears uncomfortable or asks you to stop , stop — even if you dont think youre doing anything wrong . as noted above , gentle teasing can be a great way to flirt with a girl and get her to blush . however , theres a fine line to be aware of here . teasing a girl in a way that makes her feel self - conscious or under attack can lead to hurt feelings , anger , and even lasting grudges . avoid the following sorts of topics as a general rule negative comments about her appearance or weight serious criticisms of her personal , political , or religious views gossipy comments about her family or the people she spends time with mean - spirited imitations of her tics or habits a few sincere presents or a fancy night out every once in a while can be great for showing that a girl means a lot to you . however , trying to throw your weight around by spending lots of money on your outings or buying luxurious gifts isnt a good idea . it may make her blush , but if shes intelligent , her blushing is likely to be out of embarrassment for you . money is entirely separate from your ability to make girls feel special . people with lots of money can be romantic , but this isnt why theyre romantic . trying to woo girls with money is only likely to make you end up broke or in the company of women with poor life priorities .

be friendly . however , dont stick yourself in the friend zone . let it spread . compliment her . hang out with your other friends . hang out in a group . drop hints . focus on you .

how to make a girl chase you

girl like when boys make the first move . if you initiate conversation , then shell be all the more willing to keep it up , even if she doesnt have a crush on you . try to be a little flirty all the time , too . dont underestimate the power of withdrawal . if she flirts , flirt back , but keep it short and leave her wanting more . dont make yourself so easy to get that she becomes uninterested . hint to someone close to her that youre interested . theyre bound to tell the girl youre eyeing dont make it seem desperate , though . you may find out if she already likes you from a mutual friend if she does , your work is easy just let her chase you . in case you didnt know , girls like that however , dont let her expect the compliments , then its you doing the chasing . also , be sure to compliment the right things . if you dont know the girl well , just talking about how hot she is will make her think youre just interested in the physical stuff , and you dont want that . be cool let her see you have a social life , but dont be cocky about it , and dont try too hard to be busy or it will show . be slightly distant without being rude . treat em mean , keep em keen doesnt work . many girls will become confused and hurt if you try this , and may lose interest all together . ask her out on a group thing , but spend a lot of time with her . shell think of it as a date subconsciously if she spends most of the night talking to you . describe an ideal girlfriend , using a lot of the qualities that the girl youre talking to has . dont come right out and say it , but by dropping hints shell begin to think of herself as a good fit for you . overall , once youve established yourself as a usual person she talks to , ease back a bit . dont ignore her entirely , just try play it cool . once she realizes you havent spoken in a while shell be missing you , then shell start messaging you first and seeking you out . hence , chasing you . from then on flirt , sweet talk and play it hot and cold , itll keep her constantly looking for approval and attention for you , but youll hold the power . just remember not to stay too distant , or she may think youre too hard to get .

clean yourself up . dress well . approach with confidence . start a conversation . respect her personal space . spend time with her . dont judge her . become trustworthy . show sincere interest . avoid making her feel pressured .

how to make a girl be comfortable around you

first impressions make a difference . good hygiene shows that you take care of yourself . take a shower every morning . wash your hair , put on deodorant , and possibly use a small amount of cologne or perfume . bad odors , among other problems , are distracting and cause people to not want to be around you . when you use cologne or perfume , add only a small amount to your neck , chest , and shoulders . she should be able to smell it up close without it overwhelming her senses . clothes and hairstyle are also factors in how people judge you . if your hair is long and greasy and you wear stained sweatpants , chances are the girl will think of you in a negative way , making her feel uncomfortable . buy yourself clothes that flatter your figure . a style that looks unique on you without being too flashy will help her appreciate you . if you dont feel comfortable , chances are she wont feel comfortable either . anytime you seek her out , display your best self . this means going up to her , maintaining eye contact , and speaking loudly and clearly . to do this , practice being natural . look into a mirror as you speak , maintaining eye contact with yourself . even if you feel nervous around her , slow down . breathe deeply , speak slowly , relax , and focus on her . be your natural self . if youre going to be at the same place a girl is , such as school or a party , try getting to the place early . this gives you time to get accustomed to the environment before it becomes more crowded and busy . avoid any bad habits that would make her uncomfortable , such as swearing , telling inappropriate jokes , or fidgeting . start with small questions , such as thats a nice tattoo , what does it mean avoid asking deep questions , as these are too personal too soon . instead , let her answer and then add to the conversation , such as by talking about something a little personal such as your own tattoos . everyone has boundaries about how physically close someone cannot be . moving into this space too fast and being unwelcome is a sure way to make a girl feel uncomfortable . especially early on , avoid standing too close , putting your face near hers , or touching sensitive areas such as the face . bad touches feel uncomfortable , but welcome touches associate you with positive emotions . as you get to know her better , add positive touches such as putting a hand across her shoulder to shield her when moving through a crowd at a concert . other positive touches include touching her elbow when making a point or brushing her back and sides when laughing together . once youve established a base , find ways to be near her . this can be as simple as a shared activity such as lunch at school , or you can do an activity that you both enjoy . by talking to her , find out her interests and spend time together building positive , memorable experiences . try to go to different places and have different experiences , as these stand out more than spending several hours watching tv at home . an easy way to spend time together is if you belong to the same group . spending time with shared friends , doing a school activity , or doing a hobby together are all options that take some of the pressure off of you to be entertaining . even if youre interested in her romantically , dont suggest that she go on a date with you . youre better served building up emotional comfort without revealing a motive , as this shows you value her as an individual . there are many ways you can inadvertently end up making a judgment that makes her feel uncomfortable . try to avoid making jokes at the expense of her interests . if shes quiet , dont bring up her quietness or force her to be around people all the time . instead , its better for you to be patient and funny in a way that shows you accept her . instead of saying , wow , comic books are for nerds or why are you so quiet talk to her about comic books or make commentary about the cafeteria food youre eating . this applies too to her goals in life . if she wants to be a photographer , encourage her no matter what you think of the choice . be the kind of person that she can confide in . this means not giving up her secrets . she may start off by telling you something in confidence . dont talk behind her back and dont tell your friends . once she knows you wont break her trust , shell feel closer to you because shell be able to tell you more of her deeper thoughts and feelings . if you want to be more than friends with her , limit your availability . you need to be trusted , but you cant become someone she talks to about her relationship problems or issues she doesnt want to tell her relationship partner . always avoid being the kind of person thats there to provide money or food . someone who frequently asks you to do this is using you . once youve begun building up trust between you , have deeper discussions when the timing is right . ask her questions such as what career she wants in the future . when you do this , listen actively . put down your phone , hear what shes saying , and try to remember it . this shows that you care about her as a person . remember important dates such as her birthday . many people have a tendency to forget , so it will be impressive to her when you display consideration . shell have a lot of pressures in life , including from friends and family . dont add to it . never put her into a spot where shed have to make a difficult decision , such as forcing her to leave a relationship . give her some personal space . dont smother her with attention by calling or texting every day and spending all your time near her . remember to live your life outside of your connection to her . talk to other people . take care of responsibilities such as school .

put in a little time before you go in and speak to him or her . spend some time relaxing beforehand . think before you speak . get to know a little bit about them . find innovative ways to boost your self - confidence . be outcome - independent . approach your crush when you are alone . introduce yourself . ask your crush about himself or herself . remember to interject occasionally if your crush is telling a long story . pay attention to your body language . dont use pick - up lines , dont take yourself so seriously . ask for a date . be aware of the situation . handle rejection calmly .

how to talk to your crush without being crushed

it pays to be prepared . you dont just take a math test without studying , or pass a drivers ed test without taking a class . the people who put time and thought into winning their crush usually have a better shot at winning them . try to strike a good balance between preparing and being creepily prepared . your crush likes getting the extra attention you want to give them , but they dont want to feel like youve been thinking about them every single second for the past three days . thats a bit creepy , even if it might be true take deep breaths and practice letting your entire body go limp . this is sometimes easier when you arent in public . try relaxing in your bed before going to sleep or when you get home or in the shower . you can get over your nervousness — or eliminate it altogether — by taking a moment to consider your options . practice at home before actually approaching your crush , and you wont be caught in an awkward moment of silence . take your time , especially if youre about to make a first impression on someone whos important to you . practice in the mirror . youll want to make sure you know what youre going to say , but dont make it sound rehearsed . imagine a variety of situations in which you might have the opportunity to talk to your crush , and act these out in front of the mirror . the more prepared you are , the more confident youll be during the conversation itself . have fun with it . sure , try the serious versions of what you want to say , but also say it in a completely goofy way that makes you laugh . the less serious you take yourself , the more natural you will be when the time comes . take the time to notice what pictures they have in their notebook , or what they eat at lunch , or which sports they like to play . knowing these small but important details will help you make conversation later on . it could help you say something like i noticed those movies on your notebook . im all about movies from the 80s . do you have a favorite hey , my friends and i were going to play some pickup after school . maybe youd want to join if youre up for it one of the reasons youre probably afraid of being crushed is that it will hurt your confidence . dont let that happen . its crazy to let your confidence be swayed by just one person . much of your confidence should come from how you feel about yourself . so find ways to boost your confidence before you really start getting to know your crush . that way , youll be more attractive to your crush and you wont be crushed if something bad happens . look at your facebook wall . studies have found that simply looking at your facebook wall for 3 minutes can significantly boost your self - confidence . its worth a try spend a little time with your dad . studies also show that kids who spend more time with their fathers during adolescence turn out to be more confident than those who spend less . note its probably best to hang out with your dad several hours before talking with your crush . its for the best . what does that mean it means put yourself in a position where you dont care whether your crush likes you back . why is this important its important for two reasons . it helps you deal with rejection , which is ultimately something youre going to have to do . if youre not getting rejected somewhere along the way , youre not trying . and secondly , it helps you have a healthier relationship with your crush . instead of building the crush up to be a superhero who will save everything in your world , you treat them like a normal , but special , person instead . what you say . why would i do that i dont even have control over it . you may not . but sometimes , we think about our crushes so much , and we imagine what life would be with them , that we start to develop unhealthy relationships with their imaginary selves . these imaginary relationships become so unhealthy that we cant imagine ourselves being without this person , all without the other person even knowing . if youre outcome - independent , your confidence grows . this is attractive to a lot of people . you dont feel that getting rejected from any one girl or any one guy is a big deal , and so you shrug it off . your confidence is bigger than the rejection of one person . the first time you interact on a personal level should be in a casual situation without too many other people around to distract you . the middle of the dance floor would not be great place to have a lengthy conversation , for example . go up to your crush during lunch time in the cafeteria . ask him or her if you can sit next to them and begin to strike up a conversation . its often honestly as simple as that . talk to your crush at a party . whether its a birthday party or a pool party , if youre both invited , you have an excuse to talk to them . interact with him or her through one of your mutual friends . if youre friends with one of his friends , go up to the friend and start talking , waiting for him to give you something to say . if youve already formally introduced yourself , then all you need to do is say a simple hi or hello . remember to look your crush directly into the eyes when you say hello . youre unintentionally saying a lot if you stare down at your shoes while saying hello . ask thought - provoking things that relate to your current situation—why and how questions are typically best if you want to talk for awhile . these often lead to in - depth discussions that both of you can participate in , which is ideal when talking to a crush . remember to try to avoid simple yes or no questions . if you ask your crush did you go to school in canada they dont have to give you a long answer . if you ask your crush what was it like going to school in canada theyll talk a lot more . ask them about their background . where are they from , what do their parents do , how do they know so - and - so , etc . people , your crush included , love talking about themselves . meaning ask a few questions while heshe is telling the story . this will show them that you are paying attention to what they have to say . if you come up with a story to tell , make sure your crush has finished talking before you begin , and keep it short and sweet so your crush doesnt think youre full of yourself . your body language communicates a lot , whether or not you want it to . sometimes , your body will says things you cant help . but a lot of the time , if youre aware of what your body is saying , you can correct it if you ever notice it betraying you . heres what to pay attention to eye - contact . making and keeping eye - contact says that youre interested in what the other person is saying . face in their direction . face your body in their direction . it means youre interested in what theyre saying and arent shy . smile . smiling says the other person makes you happy . flirt with body language . especially if youre a girl . gently bat your eyelashes , twirl your hair , or touch their shoulder . laughing at their jokes . even if the jokes arent that funny , smile and do your best to humor your crush . whatever you do , dont use pick - up lines . theyre horribly cheesy and they dont really work . if youre a guy and you cant think of what to use other than a pick - up line , read this article on how to start a conversation with a girl . seriously . if youre like a normal person , being close to your crush is going to drive you insane . and when you feel that way , youre likely to do , well , stupid stuff . shrug it off . if you trip over your words , say something like wow . i cant speak . i guess being close to a beautiful girl will do that . if you trip over your shoes and he comes to pick you up , asking are you okay say something like sure , i really thought i nailed the landing . if you feel like the conversation is going well , dont hesitate to ask when your crush is free again . this can be anything from a couple of minutes at lunch tomorrow to a bona fide date with movie and dinner — your request will depend on how confident you feel and how your crush acts while youre talking . once youve thought it through and you can tell they are interested in you , dont worry about asking when you can see each other after this . you are not necessarily going to get a warm reception when you first try to initiate conversation . if your crush seems disengaged or bored , ask if anything is wrong maybe its been a bad day , maybe theyve got something on their mind . if there doesnt appear to be anything distracting your crush and his or her annoyance with you still seems to be heightening , excuse yourself politely , make a quick escape , and consider trying another day . its possible that your crush just doesnt feel the same way about you . if you determine that this is the case , the two of you can still talk , but you have to accept that a romantic relationship between you is unlikely . theres nothing worse than feeling unrequited love for someone whos completely unaware of it , so if your crush friend - zones you , just accept it and move on .

listen to the way she asks you if you have a crush on her . watch for how she looks at you . look out for her gestures and posture . pay attention to the signs that she doesnt like you . hang out with her more before you decide that she does or doesnt like you . stop and find a good place to have a conversation . tell her how you feel . ask her how she feels about you . give her an explanation of why you have feelings for her . take some space for your immediate reaction to pass . treat yourself like a friend . think about her perspective and feelings . go out with your friends . distance yourself from her .

how to know what to say if your crush asks you if you like her

if her voice drops so that it is deeper and more breathy than usual , she may have feelings for you . people who study attraction find that girls may think that when they have feelings for someone it is more seductive to make their voice lower and huskier to attract that person . whatever the case , paying attention to the tone of her voice could tell you whether or not she is asking you about your feelings because she has a crush on you too . if her gaze seems to be going to your face and eyes a lot in conversation , she may like you . if she blinks a lot when you are talking to her , more than 6 - 10 times in a minute , then this could be another sign that she does like you . if you notice the black pupils in her eyes get smaller when she is looking at you , again , she might like you . but pay attention to the lighting when her pupils get smaller if the lightness in the room suddenly gets brighter , that may be the reason why her pupils are getting smaller . if she raises her eyebrows often when she is talking to you , this could mean that she is worried and anxious . and the attention that she is paying to you may be because she is worried that you like her . if while she is laughing she straightens up or positions herself so that she looks prettier , she may have a crush on you . touching her clothes and tilting her head , too , can show that she has feelings for you , especially if they are all grouped together at the same time . for example , if she is smiling , touching her neck , and has her head tilted , that might be a very good sign . be careful reading too much into these signs , some girls who are extroverted might act this way because they enjoy themselves in conversation . it might not mean that they have a crush on you . notice how she gestures with her friends to see if she acts the same way in normal conversation . if she acts this way with her friends , it might only mean that she is an expressive person . there is also body language that could mean that she is not interested in you romantically that you might want to look out for . this body language would most likely happen when you are flirting with her . if she fake smiles a lot during your interactions , for example , perhaps she is not interested in you . fake smiling is pretty easy to spot - she will smile only with her mouth while her eyes and cheeks look normal . another sign of possible disinterest is if she is raising her eyebrows often in conversation , this could be a sign that she is uncomfortable or nervous . yet another sign is if she keeps her arms and legs crossed when you talk to her . this may mean that she is not interested or is closed off to you . ask her if she is worried about anything . if she responds that something is causing her anxiety or stress , perhaps her gestures arent about you . if she does like you but doesnt know if you like her too , then these signs could mean that she is anxious about her feelings for you . if you notice that she is sending you mixed signals , you may want to ask her how she feels about you . both guys and girls are not always very good at guessing correctly that someone is flirting with them because flirting is hard to pick up on . attraction can be difficult to pick up on because girls , and people in general , dont want to be obvious about their romantic feelings if they dont know how they will be taken . so make sure you have had lots of conversations before you decide whether she likes you or not . most of all , it is important that you pay attention to the way that she acts toward you over time . if she asks you if you have a crush on her and you are in a place where it is difficult to talk , relocate to a better place . tell her i want to talk to you about this . can we find a better place to talk . go to a place where you two can sit down and talk . this could be a park bench , a coffee table , or a corner in a house that is quiet . ask her how she feels about going to a particular place if you are worried that she may not be comfortable leaving where you are at the moment . once you are situated you should bring back up the topic of conversation . say so you asked me about how i feel about you this will bring a good level of anticipation to your answer . you can add a pause if you want to . then say i have a crush on you . dont be overly confident when you tell her how you feel , this could make you seem arrogant or hurt you if she doesnt like you back . go for a slightly hopeful and matter of fact tone . it is good to own your feelings whether or not you think that she likes you back . even if you experience rejection , you will be able to move on faster because you were honest . you might be tempted to ask her why she is asking before you answer , but she will appreciate it if you are bold enough and answer her question without asking for an explanation . also , this confidence will most likely make you more attractive . you have a right to know if she likes you back . you can ask the question straight out - do you have romantic feelings for me . it is good to be specific with this question , even if it seems unnecessary to be specific or sounds weird . the reason why it can be better to say romantic feelings is because people can take like in lots of different ways . for example , it may be harder for her to answer you honestly if you use like me instead of like me romantically . remember that it is better for you in the long run to hear her honest answer about her feelings , rather than an ambiguous response . the sooner you know her honest feelings about you the sooner you can move on if she doesnt like you . dont assume her reasons for asking you , so be kind and honest with her , even if you think that she doesnt like you . depending on her personality and her feelings , there are a variety of ways she could respond . here are a few possibilities she could answer with a straight yes or no , or she might not want to hurt your feelings so she may say things like i really like you as a friend . finally , she might answer ambiguously because she doesnt want to hurt you andor doesnt know how she feels about you . she might say i kind of like you but i dont know . this explanation will vary a lot based on how she feels . no matter how she feels , it is nice to say something in response to her answer . even if she doesnt like you , you should be kind to her and respect her feelings . if she likes you back or seems to like you back , you can tell her all the awesome reasons why you like her . you can talk about how pretty you think she is , how intelligent you find her , how funny you think she is , how caring and kind you think that she is , etc . be sure to use specific and concrete examples to compliment her . for example , you can talk about when you first knew you liked her and how you knew . describe how you knew with a short story , i knew i had a crush on you when we were sitting next to each other in algebra . at first you were so annoying because you knew all the answers to the questions but after a while i found that i couldnt stop smiling when i saw your hand raised . if she seems confused or ambiguous , you can ask her if she wants you to explain your romantic feelings for her . if she wants to know then you can explain all the awesome ways you feel about her . be careful while you explain if she doesnt know how she feels about you because telling her how you feel might make you feel more vulnerable . if she doesnt want you to go on , respond with the next response . if she doesnt like you back , keep your cool and try to genuinely thank her for being honest with you . tell her something nice and short . for example , i think you are a really cool person . thanks for being honest with me . she will respect you for being a big person and taking the rejection well . if you are having a hard time with your emotions , you can say i think i need some space and time . thanks for talking to me . then you can find somewhere to go to be alone for a while . you may feel intense feelings if you are rejected , but try to let your first panicked emotions wash over you . your feelings will get less intense after a couple of days . try to wait for them patiently to pass , and avoid talking about it to people who you might regret talking to later or doing anything that you will regret . for example , do not post on social media about her . exercise can help you process your emotions . going on a run or doing your exercise routine if you notice that your emotions are getting out of control is a healthy way to handle your emotions . , we all talk to ourselves in our heads and sometimes we can be very hard on ourselves after we have been rejected . for example , you might say to yourself no one will ever like me . but when you start to think these negative thoughts ask yourself if your friend would talk to you like that . a friend would never say no one will ever like you , and not only because it is not very nice , but because it is an unfair and overly negative conclusion that a friend would not think . focus on redirecting your negative thoughts to all of the good things that you did , the ways you can still grow , or the humor in the situation . reframe your negative thoughts into positive ones . instead of no one will ever like you , think she doesnt like me but that doesnt mean i dont have great qualities . or focus on the good things you did . say to yourself something like , it was an awkward situation , but you were honest and nice . ask yourself what other things are going on in her life . this might be something difficult to do at first , but the more you can understand what is going on with her the less the rejection will probably seem about you . remember her feelings are part of a bigger picture that doesnt involve you . be careful about making assumptions about the way she feels about you . for example , you might think she doesnt like me because i have a funny voice . but you cant read her thoughts . she may have recently gotten out of a relationship or is interested in someone else , whatever the case , she is probably preoccupied thinking about her own life and feelings . spend time with good friends who make you feel good about yourself . these people will remind you of your interests and the things that you love . pick activities where you will laugh and have fun . for example , go out to a funny movie with your friends and then talk about it after . laughter will release your endorphins and help you relax . if you are having a hard time with your emotions , tell her that youd like some time and space from your friendship . having her out of your life for the time being will help you focus on you . start hanging out with a different friend group or talking to new people - this will help you distance yourself from her . when you feel like you are ready to move on , start talking to girls you are interested in .

talk to your friends about your crush . dont hang out alone with your crush at first . always remember that your crush is a human being . keep your self - esteem high . dont pester your crush with constant attention . dont be afraid to make the occasional mistakes . dont let yourself get overcome with anxiety . dont be too shy to ever express your true feelings .

how to talk to your crush when youre nervous

remember nothing is easier if you dont talk about it . your close friends should be your trusted advisers when it comes to dealing with crushes . even if you dont take their advice , itll feel great to get this major source of emotional stress off of your chest , so speak up another side benefit is that talking to your friends about your crush can force you to actually do something about it . once your friends know about it , theyll subtly push you to take action . this can be a good thing if youd lack confidence normally . to deal with a crush , you must crawl before you can walk . try to limit your one - on - one time with your crush initially . instead , try to hang out in groups . its much easier to come across as charming when you have your friends around to do some of the work in the conversation for you . being in the company of people you already know will also make you feel more at ease , so conversation will come more naturally . gradually move on to one - on - one hangout sessions . eventually , if you want your crush to develop into something more , youll need to spend some alone time with that person . try not to think of your crush as perfect or unattainable — she is not . your crush has flaws , fears , and things she is bad at . in other words , your crush is a human being just like you . letting yourself believe that your crush is somehow better than other people will only make it harder to keep your cool when youre together . if you find yourself freaking out when youre around your crush , think back to some time that you remember herhim doing something wrong . this can be almost anything , like getting a fact wrong , making a bad play during a sports game , or accidentally doing something embarrassing . this is a good way to remind yourself that your crush is far from perfect , even if it may not always seem like it . staying calm about your crush isnt all about how you manage your thoughts and behavior . its also about how you think about yourself . remember that you are the most important one in your interactions with your crush . if you think to yourself , my crush would be lucky to have me and not the other way around , it will be much easier to talk to this person . this can also protect you if your crush turns out not to be such a great person . if youre devoted to your crush from the start , it may be easy for him or her to take advantage of your kindness . on the other hand , if you value yourself , youll have no reason at all to take any disrespect . once you can talk to your crush , this doesnt necessarily mean that you always should . remember , your crush is like you — she most likely has responsibilities that take up a good portion of the day . texting , talking , or calling this person 247 will make you an annoyance in your crushs eyes . a good general rule is to always try to end the conversation a little earlier than you think you need to . not only will this prevent awkward , drawn - out exchanges , but also leave your crush wanting to talk to you again . everyone makes mistakes — even you and your crush . dont worry if you use the wrong word around your crush or have an embarrassing freudian slip . these are things that happen naturally from time to time during normal conversations . simply laugh at your mistake and move on . if you think your mistake has offended your partner , apologize , then change the subject . stressing out will only call extra attention to any awkwardness . whether or not it goes well , a conversation with a crush isnt the most important thing in the world . luckily , there are a few things you can do to calm yourself in the event that you feel your nervousness become overwhelming . try these easy steps to get yourself under control as soon as you feel extremely anxious remove yourself from the difficult situation . you can tell a white lie here . something like , excuse me , i have to go to the bathroom usually works . let your emotions out . if youre sad , cry somewhere private . if youre angry , try punching a pillow . take deep breaths . this will slow your heart rate and help you get your emotions under control . when youre ready , go back to what you were doing with your head held high . having a crush is great , but keeping it a secret isnt . if you really feel strongly about someone , consider telling this person how you feel . opening up about your feelings may lead to a relationship , but even if it doesnt , its often satisfying to get your emotions off your chest . see how to tell your crush you like them for more help here . however , remember that your crush may not feel the same way about you . if you get a response like , im touched you feel this way about me , but can we be friends instead , just say of course and walk away .

have confidence , even if you are shy . be yourself when you speak with your crush . start simply . have an interesting topic to talk about . dont lie or embellish when you talk to your crush . be nice . break bad habits . make things clear . ask himher out if your crush likes you back .

how to talk to your crush even though you are shy

or , fake it till you make it––just thinking about being more confident can help even if you dont actually feel this way . think of who you are , and if your crush likes you the way you are , they will accept you . having confidence is one of the key ways to get your crushs attention . not having enough confidence will show through your words and actions . be proud of who you are stand up straight . good posture will trick your brain into thinking youre confident . your crush may not like you if you pretend to be someone youre not . plus , it gets tiring to have to put on an act every day . your personality should shine through your words . never be ashamed of who you are - dont try to hide yourself conversations can be easily started with just a simple sentence . all it takes is bravery and confidence in yourself . if you are passing in the hallways , just try to get the courage to greet them and softly smile . there is nothing more powerful than a genuine , acknowledging smile . eye contact is also very important in this step . if you have a crush on a girl , compliment her on things she does in class as well , or something you know she did like an event or win an award . it will mean a lot more to her if you complement her actions rather than her outfit or hair . you should show an interest in their personality , not just their looks . if you have a crush on a guy , you might want to compliment their looks and outfits if you really like an item of clothing they wear well , like a hat , compliment it , or focus on something they did . for example , you could say , hey , that presentation you did in class was great or you did great at yesterdays soccer game . things like this will boost their ego and make them feel great about themselves . read some blogs or check the news . read magazines , books , watch tv , have adventures , listen to different music , and watch different movies . if you expand your knowledge to a variety of topics , youll have lots to talk about with your crush if they enjoy a hobby that you dont , refrain from lying and telling them you like it also . your crush will eventually discover the truth and their opinion of you will diminish . never give your crush mean looks or anything to draw attention unless they know youre joking with them . when you do tease or joke with them , make sure its obvious and that you dont really mean it . however , too much teasing may lead to hurt feelings and a sour relationship keep your teasing to a minimum and light - hearted tease them only about things you know that they wont mind . keep away from touchy topics . if you have any bad habits while talking to your crush , youll be at a downside . try to be yourself , but refrain from cursing excessively , calling everything retarded , etc . keep your conversations innocent , clean , but entertaining in a positive way . after talking to crush a lot , finally come out with saying you like them , but dont say the exact line your line should be something like a hint , but big and clear enough that your crush will get the point and understand . come up with something original hey uh . ive been talking a lot with you because i like you hi , nice to see you again , um , look , i like you hey . i gotta tell you something . i maybe um , sorta kinda like you a little bit uh hi . um okay i know im shy and all , but i have feelings for you . something like that might work . hey um , look , i have to tell you something , and you might like it , or might not . - sigh - i like you . hi , um , look , i think youre a cool person . im sure theres someone that likes you out there . will be good enough see tips for more suggestions . refrain from sounding like you have practiced the line . one to three um or ah will make it sound more natural - stick them in appropriate places try not to use um and ah too much . it will make your crush think that youre far too shy when confessing your crush on them , let them know about it with confidence . everyone likes someone with confidence - the more confidence , the better . however , be careful about having too much confidence have eye contact when youre telling your crush you like himher . it will make you appear more confident and it makes you look bold however , if your crush doesnt feel the same about you , its fine . there are plenty of other fish in the sea . the right person is out there , waiting for you to come around the corner . if you never get past this event , you will never find your true love move on

find out your crushs email . dont sound like youre saying something smart like a know - it - all . if your crush keeps emailing , score , if you are smarter than your crush , make no comments that are sarcastic , confusing or unanswerable . if you begin talking everyday and he or she hasnt emailed you yet that day . be brave , just email , hi or hey , and they should continue the conversation from there . never get too clingy , always expecting an email . if you tell them you like them via email make sure they like you back . if they tell you they like you via email , do not be scared , simply email back with i like you , but only if you do , or say thanks , but were just friends , and wait for the next email . if you are receiving emails from your crush within 3 - 5 minutes of sending them , they are hooked , so just keep going .

how to talk to your crush via email

be clear with your answer , but still flirtatious . for example if they ask whats for homework , simply answer with the list of whats for homework and coyly add that they should email or call if they need some help with it . youve got em , but make sure they like you back before mentioning something personal or intimate . , dont continuously check your email . it may just make you feel desperate and less confident . ,

say hello and wave when you see them . prepare questions ahead of time if you get tongue - tied . ask your crush how theyre doing to keep it simple . comment on the weather for a low - pressure topic . introduce yourself casually if youve never officially met your crush . talk about classes or interests you have in common . avoid stressing out if you had an awkward conversation . stay positive during casual conversations . offer a thoughtful compliment to make them smile .

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raise your hand , smile , and say hi when you see them . this simple exchange can allow your crush to start really noticing you . its also a great way to open conversations , and your crush may respond to your greeting by asking you a question . you might find that youre too nervous to say anything every time you try to talk to your crush . to avoid this , come up with a list of simple questions that can allow the two of you to begin chatting when you bump into each other . once you break the ice with the first question , itll be much easier to keep the conversation going . how are you is the most natural question in the world . its an expected next step after someone says hello , so your crush wont be weirded out when you ask them this question . its also not a question that you can answer with just a quick yes or no , so its perfect for opening up a more in - depth interaction . try saying something like hey tom , whats up did you have a good weekend talking about the weather is easy , because everyone experiences it . its also not something that people usually disagree on . most people enjoy sunshine and dont love it when there are too many cloudy or rainy days in a row . these discussions can help you get comfortable talking to your crush without venturing into emotional or personal territory . ask do you happen to know if its stopped raining i forgot my umbrella today . or , have you been outside yet today its beautiful having a crush on someone who doesnt know your name is especially scary and maybe even depressing . but just because they dont know you now doesnt mean it has to stay that way if you walk past them in the hallway a few times a day and make eye contact , theyve already noticed you . add an introduction the next time you see them . say i see you around all the time , but ive never actually gotten your name . im sarah . you and your crush may be in a class together , or you may work at the same restaurant . you may even share a passion for star wars . these are perfect topics to discuss with your crush , as theyll highlight your similarities and shared experiences . theres nothing better than having an inside joke with your crush about your slightly odd manager . you may find yourself over - analyzing every interaction you have with your crush . maybe youre feeling embarrassed because you stammered through a greeting , or revealed a strange , personal detail about yourself by accident . take a deep breath . you probably remember the conversation much better than they do . tell yourself that youve got another chance to show them who you are tomorrow . theres no point in dwelling on what happened yesterday or this morning . its easy to gossip or complain about something or someone , so this may be what comes out of your mouth when youre nervous . but try as hard as you can to keep your complaints to a minimum in interactions with your crush . instead , focus on what you like about the world around you . this will allow you both to enjoy your chats with one another . for example , dont say i really hate mr . smiths class . hes such a pain . instead , go with mr . smith is tough , but his classes are interesting . what do you think about his latest assignment everyone enjoys receiving nice and genuine compliments about themselves . try to avoid complimenting only your crushs appearance . instead , share comments that make your crush aware that you appreciate their personality , talents , and strengths . for example , if you saw them give a presentation that day , tell them how much you enjoyed it . you could also take the opportunity to compliment them on one of the aspects of their personality that you like about them . say , you know , youre a really good listener . or , its awesome that you take the time to help other people with their problems .

listen attentively by tilting your head or nodding . maintain eye contact while you talk to your crush . smile when you chat with with your crush .

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when you like someone , its important to show interest in the things that are important to that person . when your crush tells you a story or gives their opinion , use your facial expressions to demonstrate that youre paying attention . listening will also allow you to bring up the topic in later conversations . be sure to stay focused on your crushs eyes and face whenever the two of you chat . this will let them know youre engaged in your interactions with them . this could also act as a subtle way to show them that you like them . avoid making your eye contact creepy . allow yourself to blink , and dont be so worried about maintaining eye contact that you never look away from your crushs face . when you pass them in the hallway or have a casual conversation by your lockers , smile . this will light up your face and show that youre a positive and confident person . this could also make them enjoy your interactions more and cause them to look forward to seeing you each day .

comment on your crushs photos and posts . use instagram or snapchat for one - or two - line direct messages . use facebook or twitter for longer dms about mutual interests . avoid over - liking or commenting on posts to keep it casual . post fun things that reflect your personality . ask a mutual friend to tag you to amplify your online presence .

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follow your crush on the social media platform they use most often . when your crush posts something new , take the time to check it out . let them know youre staying updated on their activities by liking and commenting on posts you especially appreciate . they may reach out and do the same for you . try commenting on a picture of a concert or event they attended by saying , i love the chainsmokers so cool you got to see them live this will let your crush know you share their interests . if your crush posts a more routine photo that you like for its artsiness , say , artsy i like this shot . sometimes , its easier to talk to your crush online than in person , so private messages may provide a good way to learn more about your crush . these two popular platforms are designed for sharing photos more than words . because you need to limit yourself to a few sentences , keep it simple and just remind them youre thinking of them . if your crush posts a picture from their vacation on instagram , you could say , have fun in paris cant wait to hear about it when you get back if youre feeling daring , try ending with , ill miss you you can even add an emoji . following someone on twitter and even facebook will likely inform you of their likes , dislikes , and interests . if you share a particular view or activity with your crush , use a private message to start a conversation about it . this could allow the two of you to have an in - depth conversation about a common passion . maybe your crush just posted about a lesser - known politician you also happen to like . try saying wow i cant believe you know who pete buttigieg is . we should totally talk about him over coffee . your crush may have just posted that they had a guitar class at the same music school where you go for piano lessons . message them by saying , this is crazy , but we both take lessons on wednesday afternoons we should carpool . and start a band . dont like or comment on all of your crushs posts , and stick to only recent posts . otherwise , your crush may get a creepy vibe from you . you dont want your crush to feel like you dont have your own interests and life outside of reviewing their feeds . just as youre likely tempted to obsess over your crushs posts , you may be worrying about what you should post to make your crush like you . instead of trying to get in your crushs head and imagining what they might want to see , post things that make you happy , laugh , or smile . this will allow your crush to use your feed to get to know you better . if your crush is closer with one of your friends than with you , ask that friend to use their posts to make your crush notice you . they can tag you in photos , or post when youre going out together . if your crush sees these posts , they may ask your mutual friend about you .

ask your crush for their phone number if you dont already have it . text your crush to keep talking even when youre apart . invite your crush to a group gathering . invite them to go with you to an event you know theyd enjoy . tell them you like them . respect their choice if they tell you they dont like you .

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once youve spent some time getting to know your crush either in person or online , see if theyre willing to share their phone number . this will allow you to reach out and chat via text . ask your crush for their number by using a shared class or project as an excuse . say hey , i could really use your help on the pre - calc assignment . could we exchange numbers once you have each others numbers , you can start texting each other just to say hello . be bold and tell them you want their number to talk more . try you know , weve been chatting a lot lately . want to give me your number so we can text , too texting can act as a good way to slowly increase the amount of time the two of you interact . avoid sending your crush multiple texts before you receive one back , and use emojis sparingly . you can start by reaching out with simple questions , which may then lead to longer , more detailed communications . try starting a conversation by mentioning seeing them earlier during the day , and then asking them how theyve been since you saw them . for example , hey it was fun hanging out at lunch today . how was your afternoon see if your crush will join you in a group setting . ask them to come to a study session , go out for drinks with friends , or attend a game with several of your acquaintances . once youre at the event , interact with your crush and use the time to flirt a little . now that you know your crush a bit better , youre likely aware of the interests the two of you have in common . these dont necessarily need to be dates , and you can avoid defining them if youd like . instead , take the opportunity to increase your one - on - one time with your crush on activities that show how many interests you sharefor example , there might be a movie coming out you know your crush is excited about because you talked about last week . or you might have just found out that you and your crush are both avid rock - climbers . take advantage of these commonalities this question could look like so , i know youre really excited about the new wonder woman movie . i really want to see it too , but my other friends arent into superheroes . would you want to go together if they ask you if its a date , respond depending on whether youre ready to officially ask them out . you could either say , i dont really know . how would feel about it being a date or , no , wed just go as friends . your other option would be to go for it and say , yeah , its a date . at some point , it will be time to take the plunge and be honest about your feelings . this conversation could be exactly whats needed for you and your crush to become something more . they may even be too shy to tell you that they have a crush on youif youve already asked your crush to hang out with you one - on - one , this confession might be less of a surprise to them . you can either confess directly , saying simply , i really like you as more than a friend . do you like me in that way too or , you can be more subtle weve been spending tons of time together , and i feel like we enjoy the same things . we might have a lot of fun if we spent even more time together as something more than friends . what do you think be prepared for disappointment , because its impossible to predict or control someone elses feelings . even though youve interpreted your interactions as flirtation , your crush may have thought you were just becoming good friends . you dont need to stop liking your crush , and , in fact , you likely cant force yourself to do so . however , if they tell you to back off , you need to understand that they have the right to make that choice . this doesnt mean the two of you cant still be friends . besides , if you stay friends , their feelings for you may change .

have confidence . get your crush to notice you . write a up a list of things you know a little about , and both like . talk to your crushs friends . find simple things to break the ice . ease the tension between the two of you . talk to your crush frequently . try to get as close to your crush as you can when doing an assignment . begin to go to events with your crush . keep talking often . confess .

how to talk to your crush

tell yourself you wont make a fool of yourself . be confident take a deep breath , look natural and just approach himher and start conversation . do things he or she likes to do , if you like it too . try reading your crushs favorite book , or join the sports team he or she plays on , and you like the sport too . if he or she doesnt know you exist , its time to get noticed . while you talk , youll be able to use this to start finding out more about your crush , and will be able to have more choices of things to talk about . get a feel of what he or she talks to them about . dont know what to say try hi first of all , followed up with a smile . if you have a chance for a chat , you can start by asking himher what sports heshe enjoys , what are hisher after school activities or quiz himher a brainteaser . start saying hi in the halls even the simplest word can start a conversation . compliments are good too . in fact , they can be a great way to start a conversation . smile at himher and be friendly . wave hello or smile whenever you meet himher . people are often attracted to a cheerful person once youre used to talking about simple things regularly , itll get easier for you . ask himher a few questions like hey , did you watch that movie which just came out or hey , have you completed the english assignment that was given out last week if you sit next to himher in a class , occasionally ask them hey , what did just say i wasnt paying attention even if you heard himher perfectly . this will give you a chance to talk to himher , and they might even have the impression that you werent paying attention because you were thinking of them . another excuse to talk to him is if you couldnt write down the homework down , that is conveniently from a class you have together . go to events such as games , or a dance , perhaps as a group or just turn up when you know your crush will be around . you can then talk together about the event . as you find more and more in common with each - other , he or she will begin to like you more and more . tell your crush that you like him or her , once youve plucked up sufficient courage and know its the right time .

start with a simple greeting . ask your crush an open ended question . listen to their response . share a relevant anecdote or ask a follow - up question . present the best version of yourself . communicate to your crush with body language .

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when you see your crush , extend a friendly greeting . smile and make eye contact with your crush . once youve locked eyes , exchange hellos with your crush . dont try to force the conversation . if your crush says hello and keeps walking , dont chase after them . your crush may not be interested in talking to you or they may be heading somewhere in a hurry . after saying hello , strike up a conversation by asking your crush a question . you may choose to pose a generic stock question , ask them a school related question , or tailor the question to your crushs interests and activities . stock questions include how are you doing what are you doing over break were you at the game last night do you work at school related questions include did we have homework in english class do you want to study for the test together what did you think about the quiz do you need help with the math homework personalized questions include how did you play in the game last night have you ever seen insert bands name perform live what are you doing this weekend are you going to the party how was your vacation , after asking the question , remain focused on your crush . actively listen to their reply so that you can extend the conversation with another question or personal story . as you listen , make a concentrated effort to appear genuinely interested in what your crush has to say—when you remain engaged in a conversation , people are more willing to keep talking . set aside all potential distractions , like your phone and computer . make mental notes of potential follow - up questions or relevant personal stories to share . after your crush has responded to your initial question , both you and your crush have the ability to carry on the conversation . if your crush asks you a question , take a moment to reply to their question and then pose another question of your own . if your crush does not ask you a question , you have three options ask a follow - up question , share a relevant personal story , or end the conversation . continue asking each other questions , telling jokes , and exchanging stories until one or both of you decide to end the conversation . during a conversation , the information you share about yourself is just as revealing as the questions you ask others . when talking about yourself , keep the conversation positive—negativity and bragging are unflattering qualities . you should also strive to keep the conversation balanced—give your crush a chance to talk . dont spend the entire conversation boasting about your latest accomplishments and avoid exclusively discussing your laundry list of failures . instead , discuss your passions , your interests , and your dreams for the future . your crush will come to see how awesome you are asking thoughtful questions demonstrates that you are caring , considerate , and genuinely interested in your crush . body language is an extremely effective and powerful form of communication . you can use these non - verbal gestures to express your feelings and flirt with your crush . maintain eye contact with your crush . your eyes can convey a variety of feelings , from love and lust to interest and attraction . mirror their body language and facial reactions . nod occasionally to let your crush know you are listening . initiate appropriate contact by touching your crush on the arm or shoulder occasionally . remain aware of your gestures and facial expressions . if your facial expression and gestures dont match the sentiment of your words , you run the risk of sending mixed messages to your crush .

text your crush . flirt with your crush on instagram . flirt with your crush on twitter .

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if you are extremely shy , you may feel more comfortable texting your crush instead of talking to them in person . while this form of communication is easier and less intimate , it is accompanied by its own set of rules and social nuisances . exchange numbers with your crush or get their number from a mutual acquaintance . text your crush the same day or night you receive their number . dont text your crush at odd hours , like early in the morning or late at night . instead of texting just hi , begin the conversation by asking your crush a question , telling them it was nice to see them , or asking them to make plans . dont stress about your crushs response time . if your crush doesnt respond after the first or second text , do not try again . your crushs phone number is privileged information . dont abuse the privilege . use traditional grammar and spelling in your text messages . it is possible to flirt with your crush on every social media platform , even instagram . this form of flirting is extremely low stress and requires next to no traditional forms communication . every few days , double click on one of their pictures to like the image . after a few weeks , your crush will notice that youre consistently likely their images and hopefully take the hint . dont like every post . if you are feeling bold , comment on their picture . while you can use twitter to post witty zingers and insightful comments about current events , you can also use this social media platform to flirt with your crush . there are several ways to catch your crushs attention on twitter retweet their latest tweet . your crush will be flattered that you liked their clever comment or at very least be reminded that you exist . follow them on twitter . everyone gets a small twinge of excitement when a new person follows them on twitter—your crush wont be any different . direct message your crush . you can use twitters direct message feature to talk to and flirt with your crush one - on - one . instead of retweeting and replying to every one of you crushs tweets , be selective . choose one or two tweets to respond to or retweet each week .

learn to love yourself . start accepting compliments . develop a list of conversation starters . dont wait for your crush to make the first move . stay calm , cool , and collected throughout the conversation .

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the key to flirting and conversing with your crush is confidence . your crush cant see how incredible you are unless you truly believe that you are awesome . you dont need to strive to be perfect , the most beautiful , the coolest , the smartest , or the funniest person in room—just be the best version of yourself . instead of criticizing your appearance , identify your best attributes . write them down and repeat these positive qualities to yourself whenever you feel insecure . when you look in the mirror , you will start to notice your favorite features instead of focusing on your least favorite features . make a second list of your best characteristics . are you a great friend , a hard worker , an awesome teacher , or a talented musician do you show compassion and kindness to everyone , are you willing to give others second chances , or do you have the ability to make unbiased decisions your best characteristics are some of your most attractive qualities . it is difficult to accept compliments when you lack confidence . you may struggle to accept that someone thinks youre attractive or talented . instead of thanking them , you might say , im really not or thanks , but im not that . give your self - confidence a boost by accepting these positive comments . when you start receiving compliments from others , you will start believing that their comments are true . instead of saying thanks , but , simply say thanks and smile . as you grow more comfortable and confident , you can expand your reply . it is way easier to make the excuse , i have nothing to say , than it is to actually talk to a crush . this excuse , however , is not valid . you dont need to have an arsenal full of bizarre facts , funny anecdotes , insightful comments , and probing questions to talk to someone . instead , you just need to be genuinely interested in what your crush has to say and have a few stock questions in your quiver to jumpstart the conversation . these questions may include what have you been up to have you seen the latest episode of what did you think of the test do you know when the english assignment is due are you going to the game tomorrow , our fear of rejection is often crippling and debilitating . this fear often prevents us from taking risks , like talking to our crush . instead of allowing the fear of the unknown to control your love life , step out of your comfort zone and talk to your crush . dont assume that if your crush really wanted to talk to you , they would start a conversation with you . your crush may be feeling as insecure , shy , and unsure as you . instead of waiting for your crush to make the first move , take charge and talk to your crush with confidence . if it turns out that your crush isnt interested in you , at least youll never spend time wondering about what could have been . when you talk to your crush , you want to present the best version of yourself . speak with confidence , keep your emotions in check , and act appropriately . avoid gossiping about others try to control your nervous ticks , like biting your nails or twirling your hair dont act pushy—if your crush isnt interested in you , move on avoid making offensive comments do not tell lies about yourself

wait for a chance during a free period when your crush is crowded around a teacher with other people , randomly walk up to them , but not too close to himher . ask the teacher something random , or engage in a minor conversation with the teacher . ask someone else particularly one of your crushs friends something random . continue to talk to the friend . remember , if you want to talk with your crush , and want to be their friend , then dont be shy , continue to find connections between you and your crush . get to know their parents too . once you become great friends , your crush may feel comfortable answering personal questions . if you start dating , let people know

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that way , your crush will be looking at either you or the teacher . either way , its in your general direction . if they give you an honest answer , then you have their attention . if you are still feeling shy , then talk to a different friend . ask them subtly about your crush , what heshe likes , and what they do . now , you know what they like , and you may find a connection between them and you . maybe you both enjoy the same music or something . talk directly to them with a smile , and be yourself . dont share anything really weird that you may do with your crush , though . if its something like eating toothpaste in your spare time , then he may not want to know you very well . talk to each other frequently , and dont be afraid to ask them some questions . maybe you could plan a get - together at your house or theirs . this will build an even deeper foundation in a relationship , if you hang out a bit . the parents may either like you or hate you . you , of course , want the first choice . talk with them about school , or how they have such a lovely kitchen . however , if its not a lovely kitchen , dont mention it . dont just throw these questions out , though . and never say i love you at this time . only when you both feel romantic may you say something like youre really prettyhandsome . dont be afraid to say , i like them , and heshe likes me

be honest , but not brutally honest . ask her what makes her happy . be understanding . listen actively during conversations . pay attention to non - verbal cues . compliment her to show her you care about her . dont take her for granted .

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girls like guys who are honest with them about things going on in their lives , but you dont need to tell her when she isnt looking 100 . many people have rough days . be direct to discover what specific things you should and should not do to ensure she stays happy . having a relationship built on open communication and honesty is crucial to ensure that its going to last . a girl wants you to get to know her on a deep level so they dont have to always explain herself . learn to be empathetic to her and be able to understand things she is going through . dont dismiss her problems or concerns . be aware of little things that upset her . be willing to go out of your way to do the things she wants . girls like to talk they want guys who truly listen and are able to open up and talk back as well . communication is a two way street that requires both parties to listen and speak . allow her to speak her mind without dominating the conversation . listen without trying to solve all the problems . rephrase what she says and repeat it back telling her you understand what she said . girls communicate with more than just words . be aware of the signals shes sending when she isnt talking . watch her body language to see if she likes something or if it makes her uncomfortable . listen to the tone of her voice , not just the words , to find hidden inflections . look into her eyes when she smiles . a true smile can be seen in the eyes and you can learn what makes her truly happy . a girl likes to be complimented not only on her looks , but also about her abilities like her intellect , sports skills , or sense of humor . girls like to be appreciated . show gratitude when they do things for you , even the small things . recognize and thank her for the things she does . let her know youre grateful through your words and actions .

be strong for her . stand up for what is right . follow through when you say youll do something .

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strength is not just measured in physical prowess . girls want a man who is supportive of their feelings , able to comfort them when they are feeling down , and provide a feeling of security . take care of yourself financially . girls arent just after money , but most would like to know that you could provide if you have to . be able to deal with situations that make her scared . hold her during scary movies , and kill the creepy crawlies that get in the house . help her move things that are heavy . you dont have to be a muscle man , but be able to help out when youre needed . girls want to see a man who is willing to put himself on the line to defend what is right . this does not mean throwing punches and getting into physical altercations , but it is important to be willing to speak up if things arent going well . send food back if it isnt what was ordered . stop people from bullying or picking on others . sign petitions and be active in making the community better . being dependable is important to show that you can be counted on during hard times . if you are constantly procrastinating and telling a girl that you will do something later , she will wonder if you ever complete anything .

know what is happening in the world . help her study . share your interests with her . learn about arts and culture . know how to cook a meal .

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knowing current events is not only great material for small talk , but also a great way to show a girl that you are smart and aware of the world around you . being able to help a girl learn something new is a great way to make a connection . it can help you build common interests and also helps her see you as a knowledgeable provider . girls want to become part of a guys life . if you can teach her and share something that you are interested in with her , it is a great way to draw her in . girls appreciate guys who have more than one dimension . if all you know about is sports statistics it might be harder to have a conversation with a girl . learning about music and art are great ways to show her that you are interested in a variety of topics . girls want to know that they arent the only one who is responsible for preparing food . even if you only know how to make one meal , learn the recipe by heart so you can make her an amazing dinner without having to fumble through a cookbook .

have a good sense of humor . be respectful to everyone around you . support her dreams and desires . understand that girls change their minds . care about her and others .

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being jovial and light hearted can help you make the people around you feel good . laughing releases endorphins and reduces stress levels in the body . girls want to feel good about themselves when they are with a guy , so if you can make them laugh , youre doing a good thing . being cocky or a jerk makes you look like you dont care about others feelings . girls like guys that show respect to them , their friends , and other people . be willing to help her along the way to achieving her goals . it is important for girls to know that they have someone who is in their corner and will provide encouragement when they want to do something . everyone changes what they want from time to time . even if a girl liked something one day , it is not guaranteed that she will like it tomorrow . be willing to accept changes and go with the flow to keep her comfortable and happy . a girl wants a guy who is caring and compassionate . she needs to know that she is your number 1 and wants you to take an interest in her life . showing true compassion in front of a girl shows her that you are capable of loving .

keep yourself well groomed . wear stylish clothing . shower or bathe regularly to cut down on body odor . exercise regularly .

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staying well groomed shows a girl that you can take care of yourself and are not lazy . brush your hair and keep it well trimmed . keep facial hair neatly trimmed or shaved . clothes that are not dirty or torn help you look presentable . you can personalize your style to make it uniquely yours however , you want to make sure it isnt too wild or you may end up turning girls away . girls like a man who smells good . dont overdo it with cologne or body sprays , but make sure that you dont smell like a locker room either . you dont need to go to the gym daily to bulk up , but it is important to take care of your body . girls like guys to be fit you dont want to look like you just sit and play video games or watch tv all day .

dont be a jerk . be yourself , try not to get into fights around the girl . have a sense of humor . let her have her girl time . know how to ask her out . dont immediately jump to girlfriend and boyfriend . dont get physical too soon . make the first move .

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being a jerk signals that you are a bully and you are not being yourself . dont fake who you really are , it forces the girl to not like you in an intimate way . she wont know who you really are . if you are fighting make sure that its not a petty reason . for examplesomeone doesnt like your shoes . girls like boys who are funny , but not constantly . they dont like getting in trouble so dont always talk to them . interact at times when youre allowed to . if you dont , it may be a turnoff . it also says that you cant be taken seriously . if you do get in trouble for talking , put the blame on yourself . it says that you are a gentleman . however , if the girl takes advantage of this , she is not the one . girls want to hang out with boys , but not all the time . they want to be with their friends too . so try not to interrupt her conversations , follow her around , sign up for all her classes , etc . if you want to ask the girl out , dont say , do you want to go out with me try something more like . hey , im going to see this movie on friday , i think youd like it . when asking the question , dont use adjectives like fun and boring . these tell about your taste in the movie and that can be a kill . after she responds say something like , wanna come it works a lot easier and shows her that you want her to be in your life besides school . some girls arent ready for that yet . they might prefer to be just friends and then work their way into a relationship . make sure that the girl you are interested in does not have a boyfriend . if she does , distance the flirting but still remain friends . she will come around sometime . most girls secretly want to kiss a boy , but boys usually make the first move . if you ask them to kiss . theyll be clueless or think you might cause physical troubles later on in your relationship . after you both are comfortable with each other . then you can get into physical contact . try not to touch parts of her body other than her face . it may seem as if you want something from her . girls like guys that are confident and if they dont like you as a boyfriend , most girls will let you down easily . questions , comments , concerns . if liked this article then click the smiley face to the right . comment if you think it is necessary . and i will get back to you on any questions .

eye contact . physical contact . jealous tendencies .

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is she looking you in the eyes longer or glancing at you when youre not looking this is usually an indication that someone is attracted to you . this can range from subtle gestures like letting an arm rest against you to more obvious ones like an extended hug . either way , consistent physical contact isnt something you typically do with your platonic friends . its probably a good sign . does she seem to get upset when youre around other girls or try to jump into every conversation you have with one shes probably jealous of the attention that theyre getting from you . this is a clear indicator she wants to be more than friends .