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how to know if she wants to be more than friends 2

is she acting differently around you lately or asking for your input on major life decisions some people might read this as a sign of a strengthening friendship , but it could also be a sign that shes ready to take things to the next level . does she consistently return your phone calls and text messages does she show up at important events that you ask her to attend someone who consistently makes times for you could be interested in being more than just friends . ask your friends what they think about her attitude towards you . if the general consensus is that she likes you , you can feel comfortable about trying to move forward . if they all think she just sees you as a friend , you may want to back off from making any strong advances .

do the smile test . start the conversation . talk to her as much as possible . listen carefully at all times . become friends with her . get to know about what kind of music she likes , her favorite tv show , her favorite celebrity , etc . try the waist grab test . try the hug test . try to hold her hand . play with her hair . do not flirt with other girls to see what her reaction is . notice whether she tries to touch you . notice her playing with her hair , rubbing her lips , looking at her nails , or fiddling with her fingers . notice whether she makes eye contact while talking to you . notice some typical responses from a person who might fancy you .

how to know if your crush likes you back for guys

if you look at her and shes already looking back at you , smile at her . girls like it when the guy makes the first move . hold the eye contact just for a second , then smile at her . if she likes you , shell smile back . if she doesnt like you , shell give you a weird look or turn away . smile with your eyes and make sure you have white teeth and a nice breath . dont use the smile test unless you guys know each other . dont try this with a crush that doesnt know you . note a smile and a cheesy grin are not the same thing . a cute grin is okay . start with something simple like , hey , how was your weekend or if its nearer the end of the week , hey , got anything planned for this weekend . if she likes you , shell keep the conversation going by asking you questions about your weekend - and youll get into her life . if she just mumbles something like , it was fine and then goes back to what she was doing , shes probably not interested . a lot of guys think that if they talk to a girl a lot then theyll think hes pathetic , or clingy , but thats just not true . girls love it when you hang out with them and actually try to talk about all sorts of topics . try to relate to what she says , but dont try to be someone youre not . dont daydream while she is talking , shell hate that and find it a turn off . this is vital before continuing on with the next steps . you can only keep testing her interest if you are good friends . so , become good friends find out all that you can about stuff like that . if she likes you , this will turn into a conversation , because shell ask you what your interests are too . if she doesnt like you , it will sound more like an interview . it sounds creepy if youre just sitting there asking her all these questions and shes responding with one - word answers . if this is the case , stop the conversation immediately . make sure you know each other a lot before you try this , or it will totally backfire sneak up on her from behind , and gently grab her waist . dont squeeze her skin or anything , just put your hands on her waist and leave them there . she may freak out a little at this––remember , someone has just sneaked up on her and put their hands around her waist if she jumps slightly or screams and turns round , say , its only me and then smile . do not laugh . keep your hands on her waist . if she likes you , shell smile back and maybe giggle a little bit , then return to her original position . your hands should still be on her waist . notice whether or not she leans in closer to you . if she does , tighten your grip ever so slightly , but then let go . if she is not interested , shell probably just laugh and walk away . if you two are shy friends , shell probably ask why youre doing this , and how do you explain that have a ready answer prepared beforehand , such as i was just feeling affectionate . note only attempt this if the waist grab test was successful . go up to her and hug her for no apparent reason . make sure you hug her gently , not like you would with one of your guy friends . put your hands on her upper back steering well clear of her bra and slowly rub your hand in up - and - down or circular motions . if shes interested , shell hug you back . notice whether her chin is resting on your shoulder . if it is , theres some chemistry there . rest your chin on her shoulder too , and bow your head a little bit so it looks like youre looking at the ground . if she doesnt hug you back and moves away , shes not interested . if youre lucky enough to sit together in a class , attempt to hold her hand . but this has to be done very carefully . make sure her hand is off the table and resting on her seat . if shes right handed , sit on the left side of her . if shes left handed , sit on the right side of her . slowly move your hand towards hers and gently touch her wrist . she may jump a little at first remember , this girl may like you . if she doesnt pull away , take your hand off her wrist and touch her hand . attempt to hold her hand by slowly sliding your fingers in between hers . if she likes you , she will definitely hold your hand back . if she does , try to stay holding hands for the remainder of the lesson . if she has a strand of hair in her face , gently tuck it behind her ear . if shes interested , shell likely smile . if shes not interested , shell likely move away . if this girl does like you back , seeing you flirt with another girl will just make her feel stupid . she wont know youre doing it to see what her reaction is - shell think youre doing it because you have a crush on the girl youre flirting with . if you reach something out for her to take , see if she gently touches your hand before she takes it . this may be a sign of her eagerness to get closer to you . beware it could just mean she bumped you by accident . these are all possible signs that shes nervous and may mean that shes interested in you . if not , it could mean she is nervous , or just doesnt make eye contact , or doesnt like you . these include blushing , complimenting you often , giggling , making excuses to hang around you , teasing you , staring but looking away quickly when caught , hugging you and whispering to friends when you walk by .

pay attention when shes around . note if she likes to giggle with her friends . watch her body language . see if she gets clumsy near you . ask your friends what they think . watch for signs on social media . notice how often shes around . pay attention to what your instinct is telling you . pay attention to when her shyness hits . use her friends to your advantage . make eye contact . smile at her . make opportunities for her to talk to you . say hi . its an easy first step and a way to acknowledge that youre noticing each other . think about how to start a conversation . engage her in conversation .

how to know if a girl you have never talked to before likes you

if you two havent met yet , and this girl likes you , then she may stare at you and smile to get your attention . make sure you smile back , and watch her reaction . shy girls may blush and outgoing girls may smile back . youre basically engaging in a little flirting . if she notices youre around and she likes you , she may want to appear more interested in her friends , so shell start laughing . she may also feel nervous when youre around , and many people giggle or laugh when theyre nervous . does her face turn red when around you she might stare at you for a long time , and smile when you look . maybe when you look at her , she looks quickly away . these signs may mean she likes you . she may also look nervous because she has butterflies , meaning she likes you . if you notice she seems to drop things when shes near you , that could be a sign she likes you . it could indicate she gets nervous when shes near you , causing her to drop things or be a bit clumsier . your friends may have heard whether the person likes you or not . even if they havent , theyll probably be better at guessing than you are . thats only because when its you in the situation , you have a harder time stepping back and analyzing it , and you may feel a little self - conscious thinking about a girl liking you . therefore , asking a good friend can help you analyze the situation better . one way to see if a girl likes you is to watch how she treats you on social media . of course , you first need to friend her . once you do , watch how she interacts with you . if she seems to pay extra attention to you , she may like you . for instance , maybe she likes everything you post or tags you in a number of her posts . for instance , if she writes cute on a selfie you posted , it may be shes flirting with you . if a girl likes you , shes going to find reasons to be near you . even if youve never talked to her , youll look up , and shell be at the next table in the library or a few benches down at the basketball game . its not that shes stalking you . rather , shes probably hoping youll notice her . this approach may include things like walking through your line of sight or talking to people near you . if youre trying to figure out if someone likes you by analyzing everything she does , she may not be that into you . if someone likes you , youll generally know it in your gut , with the exception of very shy people . however , if youre not sure , its always best to give it a shot by talking to her . the worst she can say is no if you notice that she seems to go up and talk to everyone , but avoids talking to you , she may just be nervous about talking to you . in other words , she doesnt talk to you because she likes you , and that makes her scared . another step you could take is to talk to one of her friends , particularly if you have a class with one of them . a simple , hey , youre jesss friend , right can i ask you something do you think jess likes me is really all you need . you can also watch how her friends react when youre around the whole group of them , including the girl you like . for instance , they may start whispering to each other , teasing the girl , or even pushing her in your direction . see if she wants to keep your attention or if her eyes move away from yours . if she is consistently making eye contact and sometimes blushing while doing it , chances are shes interested in you . she may also try stealing quick glances at you when she thinks youre not looking . of course , you dont want to just stare at her because that will come off as creepy . just glance in her direction , or try to hold her eyes for a couple of seconds . however , some girls are just shy , and they may not want to make eye contact with you . try encouraging her with other steps . smiling shows your interest , and makes it easy for her to smile back at you . sometimes , it might take a while for both of you to just make eye contact and smile before youre ready to actually talk to each other . even if youre nervous , smiling is a good way to make contact because a smile actually acts as a reward to other people . in other words , when you smile at her , her brain perceives it as a reward , making her happier to be around you . dont just hang around with the same group of friends . its much easier to approach someone who is alone rather than someone whos with a large group , so if you make sure youre alone sometime when shes around , she might come over and talk to you . you could also try and go alone to a place you know she will be to make yourself a little more available . you never know what might happen . for instance , maybe you notice she spends time at the library after school . make it a point to show up there , too . try sitting at a table near her , where she can see you . you dont have to do much more at first if youre shy . if shes unwilling to say hi back , she might not be interested . try it a few more times , but if she never responds , let it go . you might be nervous about approaching her , but the only way you can really test your theory of whether she likes you or not is to actually talk to her . if shes responded to your greeting , you can move ahead to actually talking to each other . consider what you know about her , as that can lead to a conversation . is she part of the drama club , or does she play sports engaging with her about school activities is a great first way to make conversation . you could even try to be funny , but that can be hard . you could ask , is your training on the track team really hard or what did you think of the pep rally you could also say something like , wasnt the food gross in the cafeteria today isnt it awful what they call food or dont you think mr . harrison looks and sounds a lot like yoda now that you have some possible questions , find a good time to talk to her . it should be a time when neither of you is hurrying off to class or activities , and hopefully when youre both alone . it can feel really awkward the first time , but it does get easier . if she really responds and starts asking you questions too , chances are that she is interested in you . if she doesnt really respond , its likely shes not that into you . for example , if you asked whether her track training was hard , she might say , yes , but i love it in that case , you could say , cool what do you love about it ive always thought about getting into running , but it seems really hard .

look for an increase in eye contact . watch for more touching . take note if she cant stop teasing you . notice her smiles . see if she becomes suddenly interested in your social media accounts . notice an uptick in activity from her . watch for a change in relationship status . wait for a message back . take note if she cancels plans with other guys . watch for signs of anger if you talk about other girls . look for a suggestion to hang out alone . observe her reaction when you admit you like her .

how to know if a girl likes you back

typically , an increase an eye contact is a good sign that someone is into you . its particularly good if they hold eye contact for a while and dont look away . continuously locking eyes with you is her way of letting you know its ok to approach her . keep in mind that girls who are shy may not make eye contact as often . if you know shes shy , dont take a lack of eye contact as a sign that she doesnt like you . an easy gesture to understand and to watch for , is flirtatious behavior and touching . if shes suddenly touching your shoulder or brushing her hand against yours , chances are shes into you . asking for a hug before you part ways is another good indication of her feelings . some women are more subtle in their approach . they may ask you to help them out or want to show you something on their phone . this is their way of closing the physical gap between the two of you . be aware that not all physical contact is a sign that she likes you . a girl may tap you on the shoulder or ask for a friendly hug without having other intentions . its important to look for other signs in addition to physical contact . whether shes making fun of your hair or giving you a hard time about always being late teasing can be a sign of affection . teasing followed by a smile is even better if her teasing is followed by a smile , shes probably just trying to be playful . she may tease you about your age , past girlfriends or hobbies . this is her way of trying to get a reaction from you . being mean or hurtful is not a sign that shes into you , so dont waste your time on someone who puts you down . of all the clues she might be giving you , facial expressions are some of the easiest to understand and to read . if she seems to light up when you come into the room , you can probably rest assured that the feelings are mutual . if shes always smiling when you look at her or even when youre not this is a sure sign that shes attracted to you . smiling and laughter go hand in hand . if you notice her laughing at all of your jokes even when theyre not funny , this is her way of affirming your feelings . if she suddenly sends friend requests to all of your social media accounts , chances are that shes trying to get to know you better . you may see numerous requests from her all at once . if she not only wants to be your friend on facebook , but would like to follow you on twitter as well , this is a definite sign . if she mentions that you can find her on facebook or should connect on instagram , thats probably a good sign that she likes you . a girl who likes you may take an interest in your friends as well . find out if your buddies have received friend requests from her . whether its a status like or a message that just says hey , if you see a sudden increase in activity from the girl you like , shes definitely sending you a sign that she has a crush on you . for the shy girls , this may be one of the best ways to determine if they like you . social media provides people with the opportunity to open up in a less intimidating environment . look for an increase in private messages . similar to texting , if someone is replying to you quickly , theyre giving you a clue as to how much you matter . you may notice that she posts and tags a lot of pictures of the two of you together . this may be her way of telling other girls to back off because she wants to be your girlfriend . you may notice that shes broadcasting her newly single status . if she seems happy about it and is trying to draw attention to the fact that shes currently single , this may be her way of letting you know shes ready to mingle . if youre uncertain as to how she feels about her newly single status , try sending her a private message . if she responds quickly and includes many positive emoticons , shes trying to let you know shes more than ok . if you feel more comfortable broaching your feelings with a girl via social media , send her a private message . let her know how you feel about her and wait for a response . though were in the habit of sharing our thoughts and feelings via social media , that doesnt mean you should broadcast your feelings publicly . send her a private message instead of putting your feelings out there for all of the world to know . if the girl is shy , this may be a good way of reaching out to her on a platform that shes comfortable with . this also gives the girl a chance to thoughtfully consider her response to your feelings , should she not share your affections . if shes canceling plans with other guys to hang out with you , keep that in mind . if you notice shes not as quick to talk about her latest beau either , chances are she views you as more than a friend and wants to be in a relationship . this is particularly true if she has talked about other guy crushes in the past , but suddenly changes the subject if you mention them . when she stops viewing you as one of the girls and refuses to share anything about her love life , you can rest assured that the feelings are mutual . in the past , you used to be able to get her take on your love life . now she seems to blow up at the mere mention of another woman . if this happens , its probably safe to assume that she wants to be your only leading lady . she may tease you about past relationships , but if you mention someone you currently like , it may not go over well . past relationships may be her way of teasing you , but mentioning a recent crush will ensure she wont be smiling for long . in the past , you were more likely to hang out in a group setting . now that she keeps asking to spend time alone with you , this may be a clue shes into you . if youre being consistently invited to places that her past boyfriends accompanied her to , such as weddings or dances , you should probably have a discussion about whether youre more than friends . if shes a good friend , she will appreciate your honesty . though it may be awkward at first , youll ultimately feel relieved once youve been honest . tell her how you feel . while it could be awkward and you may feel extremely nervous about revealing your feelings to her , youll be glad you did it . its much better to say something than to not say anything at all . you may notice a look of relief on her face when you share your feelings with her . if she lights up when you tell her about your feelings , it is probable that she feels the same way . begin the conversation by telling her how much you respect your friendship with her and that youve recently been having feelings that are beyond that of a friend . let her know that its ok if she doesnt feel the same way , but that you felt it was important to be honest with her and to share how you really feel . dont worry if she doesnt return your sentiments . if shes a good friend , shell stay friends with you and will be able to joke about it later . most importantly , if she doesnt feel the same way as you , dont act as if the whole thing was a joke and that you dont really care that much either .

check out her body language . see how she looks around you . see if you make her blush .

how to know if a girl in middle school likes you 1

body language can go a long way in helping you see whether or not the girl really likes you . her words may not tell you that she likes you , but her body can give her away . if the girl really likes you , then she may turn her body toward you and try to lean in when shes talking to you so she can get a little closer . here are a few more signs that shes into you see if she twirls her hair or looks down at her feet . this means that shes feeling shy and nervous about talking to you because she likes you . see if she shuffles her feet or plays with her hands or jewelry . this is another sign that shes fidgeting because she likes you . see if she breaks eye contact . if you share a moment of intense eye contact and then she looks away , it may mean that shes feeling shy about talking to you . check out her smile . does she smile when shes talking to you , even you dont say anything that should make her smile this may mean that she likes you . do you notice that she dresses up more when she knows shell be around you if you know youll be running into her at the mall and shes all dressed up and wears more makeup than usual , it may be for you . if she knows shell see you on the weekend and puts on a new dress , she may be trying to look good for you . she may also put on a hint of perfume if she knows shell be around you . if you dont think she wears perfume during school but suddenly puts it on when youre at a group hang at the movies , it may be for you . this is a dead giveaway that she really likes you . if you catch her blushing after you look at her , or if her face turns bright red in the middle of a conversation with you , then shes feeling shy because of how much she likes you . observe her for a while . see if shes the kind of person whos just really shy , or if she blushes only for you . if she only blushes in front of you , then she thinks youre special .

watch for signs . be confident about how to react to her . when you ask her out be sure of yourself and almost insist that she join you for a bite to eat or a walk in the park .

how to know if a girl likes you 20s

she doesnt mind you touching her . try bumping into the girl , stand so that your arms touch , any kind of kino will immediately be noticed trust me shes a girl . once they notice the touch , they have two choices , to either move or stay . if they stay , she is at least comfortable with you . 5 points she is willing to hold eye contact . assuming of course that this girl is not incredibly shy , if you can look her into the eyes while you are talking to her , and you find her staring directly back , only turning away occasionally to smile , then you are definitely making a good impression . 2 points she always seems to have lip gloss on . ok so , this is very key . as subtle as this one is , pretty much every girl does it . when a girl fantasizes about a guy , usually there is a lot of kissing involved . whereas guys tend to skip the kiss and jump to the ravaging . if a girl is always keeping her lips nice and glossy around you , she is hoping that by the off chance a kiss does happen , she will be prepared . 2 points she always keeps you in her vision range . the average persons field of vision is about 150 degrees . this means that at any time , a person sees about 40 of the activity around them . if you somehow always end up in that 40 , well . she probably likes you . 1 point she brings up things you guys have talked about . yea , you forgot that you mentioned how much you enjoy fishing last week when you saw her . now she is trying to invite you on a fishing trip with half the people on her contacts list . 1 point she tries to get you to hang out with her best friend and her best friends boyfriend . aka , she wants you for a double date but is too shy to ask for the date . even if it is just with her best friend , youre still pretty in . think about it , would you show a horribly unattractive girl off to your best friend bonus points if this happens shortly after you meet her . 4 points she is naturally competitive with other women around you . practice complimenting people often , just in general , not exclusively . youll notice that girls who like you will pay a lot of attention to any compliments you throw out and subconsciously adjust themselves accordingly . if you tell someone you love it when a girl wears blue and the next week she starts to look like a smurf , you are in . 5 points she seems like she is always having a good time around you . when it comes down to it . this is the best indicator . most girls in their 20s now start to realize that their lives arent the exciting fairy tales they always thought theyd live . no daddy is around to love and care for them . no more boys are leaving love notes in their lockers . no more all day hikes and spontaneous camping trips . but wait , every time she is with you , all these childhood delights seem to be coming back . she is in that naive bliss once again and you have done your job as a man . she has checked you off as a possible provider , protector , and partner . 10 points she never seems to have anything to do after seeing you . you know why its because she made sure of it . she didnt need an escape plan because she didnt plan on escaping . she cleared up her to - dos because she wanted to spend the entire day with you . if you didnt have to go home to save the world from an endless horde of nazi zombies , she would still be hanging out with you . 3 points after she said she has no plans , she turns out to have a few . if for some reason you bump into her later in the day or go back because you forgot your phone , and it turns out that she is hanging out with somebody . that means that she had a bunch of people she wanted to see , but kept putting them off to spend more time with you alone . 3 points , however use common sense there is a difference between being persistent and being needy for example if the girl is saying no again and again but still smiling and talking to you then asking her again with another angle could be beneficial . on the other hand if she is saying no again and again with a serious tone and body language this is a cue for you to back off and leave her alone .

see if you can catch her staring at you . see if she easily giggles around you . see if shes always laughing with her friends when they pass you . see if she tries to gently touch you . see if she gives you a small gift .

how to know if a girl in middle school likes you 2

if youve looked across the room in english class and have caught her staring at you , then she may like you . if she abruptly looks away , blushes , or doesnt look in your direction for the rest of the class , that makes it even more likely that she likes you because she feels like shes been caught . you can also see if you catch her eye in group hang - outs . look her way from across the room at a party and see if shes staring at you . if shes the type who just stares off and daydreams a lot , then she may not be directing her attention towards you . if you talk to her and find her giggling for no good reason , or even outright laughing even when you havent said anything funny , then this may be because she likes you . laughter is a natural way to shed some nervous energy , so the girl is probably laughing or giggling because shes nervous or excited to be around you . see if she laughs around everyone , or if you have a special effect on her funny bone . if the girl passes you in the halls with her friends , and her friends are laughing and nudging her when you come by , this is a sign that they all know that she likes you and are teasing her . if she says stop or gently shoves her friends or refuses to make eye contact with you when this happens , then this makes it even more likely that shes into you . if a girl in middle school has a crush on you , its almost guaranteed that her friends will know . watch her friends carefully for any signs that they know how she feels about you . shell most likely touch you in a teasing way like a playful shove , or tap you on the shoulder to tell you something . still , this is her way of flirting and trying to get close to you . notice if she touches all the guys around her or only you . if she only pays special attention you , then its a sign that she likes you . if she touches all the guys around her playfully , then she may just be a physical person . if she gives you a bowl she made in ceramics class , or if she even went to the mall and got you something silly like a pencil with your favorite sports teams logo on it , then shes telling you that she likes you . if she brings candy or cookies to school and makes a point of offering you some , then shes trying to impress you and telling you that she likes you .

see if she tries to talk about common interests . see if she looks for any excuse to talk to you . see if she teases you . see if she flirts with you . see if she asks who you like . notice what she says to you over facebook or texting .

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if she knows that the warriors are your favorite basketball team and has suddenly started talking to you about them , then she may have picked up a new love for the team just because of you . if she knows you love watching game of thrones and suddenly knows everything about the characters , then she may just be trying to impress you with these new interests . if shes never shown an interest in your interests before but suddenly seems to know everything about the things you like , then she probably likes you . if she approaches you and asks a question that you know she can easily get answered by someone else , like how hard the math test was , or what new sport you played in gym class , then shes clearly just looking for an excuse to talk to you . if she asks what you think of a certain teacher or the new kid in school , shes just trying to spend more time with you by asking any question that comes to her mind . if the girl teases you , then its almost definitely true that she likes you . if she makes fun of you , from laughing at your shoes , giggling at your new outfit , or makes a comment about how messy your locker is , then shes just teasing you because she likes to be around you . sometimes , her teasing can even get a little mean , but that doesnt mean she doesnt like you . just remember the golden rule if shes paying attention to you , she likes you . teasing is just one way of paying attention . in middle school , teasing and flirting are almost interchangeable . still , there are some signs that the girl is flirting with you . if she winks at you , even jokingly , shes definitely flirting . if she teases you about your new haircut and maybe even says its an improvement , then shes flirting with you . if she acts coy , playful , or just a little bit silly around you , then shes flirting with you . if she makes fun of you for liking another girl , especially when you clearly dont like another girl , then shes just flirting with you . if the girl is suddenly interested in who you like and if you want to ask any girl out , then she wants to know if you like her - - unless shes playing matchmaker for one of her friends . if shes always bugging you about who you like or even throws out some names of people she knows you dont really like , then shes just trying to talk to you about your romantic life to get close to you . if she makes fun of any girlfriends youve had in the past , or just makes fun of other girls around you , then shes probably just jealous because she really likes you . middle school girls love flirting over facebook and texting . remember the first rule if she pays attention to you , then theres a good chance she likes you . if shes always texting you or posting on your facebook wall for no reason , then she probably likes you . if she posts a video or a link to something you like on your facebook wall , then its even more likely that she likes you . if she asks what youre doing over the weekend when she texts you , then shes interested in you plans because she likes you . check out her facebook activity . does she talk to other guys on facebook as often as she talks to you , or are you special

ask her friends . ask her yourself . react appropriately .

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asking her friends is she likes you is a less bold way of basically telling her that youre interested in her yourself . still , if youre feeling shy but really want to know how she feels without asking her directly , then just ask her friends how she feels about you . they probably wont tell you how she feels , but theyll make it obvious that she likes you by acting excited and saying that you should talk to her . theyll also tell her that you like her right away , so be careful . her friends will , however , let you know if the girl doesnt like you and this will spare your feelings if she doesnt . if youre feeling brave and really want to date this girl , then just find a time when youre alone together , like by your lockers after school , and ask her how she really feels about you . you can even admit that you like her first if you do and wait for her to respond . dont put too much pressure on her - - just casually say that youve noticed that she might like you and that you want to know how she feels . you can even complement her a bit to put her at ease . if she admits that she likes you and you like her too , you dont have to jump up and down for joy or youll look uncool . instead , just show her that youre excited that you both like each other and ask her if she wants to hang out some time . if she doesnt like you , dont be a jerk about it . just say , cool , its no big deal , and act cool and calm as you say goodbye . this will show her that youre comfortable with yourself and who knows - - maybe shell change her mind about you in the future . whatever happens , remember that youre in middle school . relationships in middle school are fun , but theyre usually short and shouldnt be taken too seriously . just try to have fun and if it doesnt work out with this girl , someone else will definitely fall for you .

pay attention to her body language around you . watch for clues that she is trying to avoid you . observe if she flirts with other guys . pay attention to how her friends act while youre around . notice if she ever looks your way . look at her eyes .

how to know if a girl doesnt like you back 1

if you ever touch her , does she touch you back or does she avoid contact when you talk , does she lean towards you does she open her shoulders up to your when youre talking or does she keep her distance and remained reserved these arent foolproof ways of knowing that she does or does not like you , but they can help you get an idea . some girls might be more comfortable messing around with and touching guys even if they dont like them . if she avoids or finds excuses to get out of time that you would otherwise share together , she probably doesnt like you . if she was thinking about how she liked you she would probably be making excuses to be around you more , not the other way around . dont take this as gospel – there is always the chance that she is really shy . however , if you find that shes constantly scheduling her doctors appointments during the free period you have together that probably isnt a good sign . , she might not be interested in you if she flirts with other guys , but she might be trying to make you jealous so dont immediately assume the worst . theres also no way to know if shes really flirting with the guy or just being friendly . it is a good idea to see how much attention she pays to other guys versus how much attention she pays to you . again , if shes really shy she may be more comfortable talking to guys that she doesnt like versus someone she does – maybe you girls often tell their friends who they like . if her friends ever laugh at you or her , they might think its funny that she likes you . they might act immaturely and tease you and her . not all friends do this , but if you pay attention you might catch a friend winking at your crush or giving them an elbow nudge . keep your eye out for these types of clues . sometimes when you like someone all you want to do is stare at him or her . if you catch her looking over at you often , she might like you . if she never even looks your way , she may be trying to hide the fact that she likes you . or she could just be focused on her work . if you often make eye contact across the room that is a very , very good sign . , when the two of you talk she will probably make lots of eye contact if she is interested in you . she probably will smile often and pay attention to what you are saying too .

take a look at yourself and see what changes can be made . listen to yourself when you talk . be confident . always be neat and clean with no bad boy image . try to be friends with her . when you finally know your crush , try to attract her . after three or four such conversations , or till you feel that you two are pretty close , ask for her phone number , email address , etc . if you sense some signs that she likes you ex she gives you her phone number without you asking and is more comfortable with you than any of the other guys , you might have succeeded . try to hold longer conversations with her on the phone . after doing all this , if the girl notices you , move to the third level . if she asks you about a coffee , you should not always say yes to her . if your crush didnt ask you out , gather up all your courage and ask her - at least try your luck instead of staying quiet . the next and final step , you must be alone with her and say that you want to have an important talk . if she doesnt feel the same way , its okay , whether you have won your crushs heart or not , know that you have tried your best and thats what counts .

how to impress a high class girl

if you tend to dress like a slob ex wrinkled , baggy untucked shirt , baggy pants , dirty sneakers , see what else you have in your wardrobe that may be more presentable . high class girls like boys who dress decently and neatly , but they must also have the ability to sweep them off their feet . suggestions for clothing may be a nice fitting shirt that complements your face , hair , eyes , etc . a nice fitting pair of pants that doesnt look off jeans are also another option , but it depends on what kind of girl youre dealing with here combed hair it doesnt have to look like you spent an hour on it , but messy bed hair may not be appealing to high class girls a decent pair of shoes it doesnt have to be dress shoes , but make sure your shoes arent scruffy and dirty looking the way you dress will depend on the preferences of the high class girl youre trying to win . if she tends to dress more casually , you can be a little more casual . however , if she dresses extravagantly and formally , you may have to lessen the casual look and go more for the formal look but not too much . high class girls tend to look down on bad words , lazy vocabulary and pretty much any styles of talking that sound dirty , low class and unruly . listen to how your crush talks and try to talk like she does , but not so much that you sound like an exact replica of her pick up words from her here and there , and dust up your vocabulary . refrain from cursing or doing any bad talk in front of her , and definitely keep away from dirty andor perverted jokes . if you plan on telling her jokes , only tell her a couple that you know are uproariously funny to everyone , not just to your friends practice telling your jokes to other high class girls to see if they laugh if they dont , you may have to rethink your jokes before presenting them to your crush confidence goes a long way . if you appear shy and nervous in front of her , the chances of her being impressed by you will be extremely low . however , if you talk clearly - not too loudly or it will annoy her - and appear confident in who you are , she will be interested and want to know you more . speak up and dont be afraid of who you are avoid practicing what youre going to say in front of her , as you will sound like you had prepared it . you will also sound mechanical and lifeless , almost like a parrots words . your conversations with her should be casual and flowing , not like stiff and resembling an interview high class girls dislike these types of boys . remember to never try to be extremely cool . high class girls understand that you are not meant to be theirs . start a conversation with a girl who knows your crush , and converse with her about your crush . tell that girl that you like your crush - she could act as a common friend never go and talk to your crush until that common friend introduces you to her . remember not to have personal talks with her that are direct . either ask her about her hobbies , her favorite color , try to converse about what you two have in common , and so on . slowly you will see that you two are sharing a good bond with each other . however , make the question casual - ask her in the middle of a comfortable conversation and dont ask for all her personal information at once . otherwise , she will see you as desperate and perhaps creepy . dont forget to give her your email address , phone number , etc . avoid asking for her address at this point . she may think youre trying to stalk her . dont ask for all this information at once . if your crush wishes to tell , let her . if not , move onto the next step or wait a while before asking again . however , dont be pushy or whiny , meet with her or say hi whenever she sees you . always keep smiling but not too much or creepily , preferably when youre with your friends so that it attracts her attention . try to be or talk with other girls a little so that she will become a little jealous . you will notice the change in her . say yes if you have time . otherwise , politely decline and say , maybe another time . im busy after school . if you always accept , it creates an image for the boy next door . if she says no , do not get frustrated . only say , okay . maybe another time always make eye contact with her and do not be shy . girls dont like to talk to shy boys . you should be confident while asking her so that she is not able to easily say no . tell her that you like her . if she says that she feels the same way , great before starting a relationship with her , tell her about your reality and that you are a middle class boy - not a high class boy . if she accepts you the way you are , she really does love you . you two can still be friends and she may realize in the future that she does love you . there are plenty of girls out there and the perfect one for you is waiting in the world - you have to let go of your crush for now in order to find her . it will be worth it . dont put yourself down because of this , but dont get cocky either

listen to what tone she talks to you with . wait for her to strike up a conversation with you . keep an eye out for verbal gestures . keep track of how nice she is to you .

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if you find that shes on her best behavior when you are around that is a good sign . however , dont take it to heart if she is brief with you sometimes . she might seem in a hurry or she might not want to be around you right at that moment . sometimes she might just be grumpy or having a bad day . pay attention the theme of your conversations , not one specific instance . for example , if she tries to engage you in interesting conversations then she probably thinks you are interesting . if youre always the one to talk to her , she might assume she doesnt have to put any work into the relationship . talk to her a few times and then leave the door open for her to start a conversation with you . if she doesnt then she probably doesnt want to talk to you anymore . for example , if she asks you how your soccer game went or your piano recital it means she is paying attention to your interests . thats a good sign . if she likes you , she might ask for help on a lot of things . she might ask you for help on the new homework in the hall , just so she can get closer to you . she might ask you a lot of questions about your interests . she might even just say something about how shes excited youll be living in the same neighborhood next year , or something like that . keep an eye out for these clues . if she is a straight a student , and she asks you for the history assignment , she probably already has it and she just wanted to talk to you . but be careful , she might really need help , so dont get your hopes up too high . this sounds simple , but honestly sometimes the simplest clues are the most important ones . if she is nice to you and asks questions , she probably likes you . theres a myth that sometimes girls will act mean to you to get your attention . thats not true . they might tease you flirtatiously , but they arent going to outright insult you . take the teasing in stride because its probably a good sign . for example , if she teases you for being late to school that day she might like you . if she tells you youre dumb because you failed a test , she probably doesnt .

ask the girl on a date . ask your crush if she likes you . ask one of your crushs friends if your crush likes you .

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even if its scary this will answer a lot of your questions . stop snooping around trying to guess her every intention . everyone will respect you if you go up and ask her on a date . they will admire your bravery and wish that they had the guts to do something like that . even if its just a girl who works at the bookstore , go up to her and see if she wants to get lunch with you sometime . the worst that happens is that they say no and they will probably be really flattered . if they say anything mean then they werent worth your time to begin with . for example , just ask her what shes doing for lunch tomorrow . ask her if she would be up to grab some tacos with you . its as easy as that it might be a good idea to find out if she has a boyfriend . if she does , she probably is more interested in him than you . if she has a boyfriend , the best thing to do is lay off of her . if she doesnt have one , she could be interested in anyone this is another way of being direct and finding out the answer to your question . however , the benefit of this method is that you dont have to follow through on a date and neither do they if youre on the younger side a date is a difficult thing to accomplish , just asking if they like you is a good way to start . you can build from there after your question has been answered . you dont have to say do you like me . try telling her that you feel like you guys have a really good connection and you find yourself wondering if it might be something more than friendship . then ask what she thinks . this isnt the bravest way to go about it , but it might work . try to choose one of her friends who you are close to also . if the friend knows you are a good person they might be willing to help you out and tell you the truth . it might be hard to hear , but at least you wont be constantly worrying about if she likes you or not . if they refuse to answer then thats probably a good sign however , the friend also might just say that they dont know .

be a gentleman . figure out your intentions . get close . develop an excellent sense of humor . confidence is key . leave her wanting more . dont tell her about her looks . but do compliment her . hide in plain sight . friendly get togethers .

how to impress a girl whos way out of your league

dont pretend to be jerk so that you can impress her . both lying about your true self and being rude will put distance between you and the girl . however , dont be afraid to tease her a bit . once youve talked a few times , most girls will be comfortable with you making a few lighthearted jokes at her expense as long as its a two way street and she can do the same to you . it shows that youre confident enough in yourself to make a small gamble that she could be offended . if she takes a joke seriously and is offended , just apologize calmly and let her know you were only kidding . first , ask yourself why you want to impress this girl . is it because she is the most popular girl in school , or because you truly enjoy her company hang out near her and listen to what the girl and her friends are saying . dont make it a dead giveaway that youre listening . then approach them and say , i couldnt help over hearing blah blah blah . it should go naturally if not then perhaps you should rethink this girl . chemistry matters beautiful girls dont look around and see faces as attractive as their own - they see your face and others like it . but they do appreciate someone who makes them laugh . be optimistic and cheerful . youve seen people walk around with their heads hanging , shuffling their feet as they walk . they look beaten , unhappy , defeated . that isnt attractive to anyone if you want to attract a woman whos out of your league , then show her youre confident . hold your head up , walk like youre proud to be you , delighted with who you are - but not arrogant , maintain eye contact if talking to her . watch how others walk and carry themselves and try to mimic the confident behaviors you see . dont wait for her to break the conversation off the first few times . keep conversations short , interesting and active , and then go away . let her know you have to go she doesnt need to know why , wish her a good day , and walk away . find out what other qualities she has that make her an outstanding woman . ask her about herself and who she is . women who are used to being noticed for their outer appearance wont be swayed easily by comments on their physical appearance . be different and find the inner beauty you can still admire the outer beauty in your own thoughts . did she do an awesome job on her speech in history let her know , and be genuine . highlight some parts that you enjoyed or tell her about an article you read on the topic . sometimes , you meet and upon spending a little time with a girl , realize you have very strong feelings for her that you wont be able to hide . dont . just keep it light and start hitting on her immediately . if you make a little joke of it and say things like , shes crazy about me , or of course im staring at you , youre the girl of my dreams . wiggles eyebrows up and down suggestively with a big , cheesy smile for herto her friends while shes standing right there , it will just be part of the way you get along very early on . but careful if she doesnt giggle or seem amused and a little bit flattered , this will not work and will become tiresome very quickly . watch for her reaction and adjust . ask her out on a friendly date so you can see how much you guys really have in common . and if she is conceited then you will be grateful you didnt ask her out on a real date . be very cautious to only do the friendly date once or twice . if you do it too much , shell start to look at your relationship as friendship , and this can be a difficult perception to reverse .

be the center of attention . treat others well . stay active during class . establish your space . have fun . think about what she might like . make eye contact . get her attention with a fun gesture . smile . dress well . practice good hygiene . watch your body language . keep your body open .

how to impress a girl in class without talking to her

getting a girls attention and making an impression is much easier to do when youve surrounded yourself with others . if she sees you as being the center of attention , she may become curious about you , wondering what draws people to you . try surrounding yourself with friends and getting along with those around you to catch her interest . try meeting with your friends just before or after the class starts . be somewhere in the class that she can see you and how well you are engaging with your friends . you might try walking into the class with your friends while you are telling a great story . if you want to make a good impression , its always a good idea to treat others around you well . chances are , if a girl is interested in you , she will be judging how you treat other people to get an idea of how you might treat her . make it a point to show your character by supporting those around you in class . try complimenting good ideas that come up in class . avoid saying anything negative or sarcastic to others . remember to thank others who help you during class . always speak supportively and kindly to those around you to help make a good impression . if you want to get the attention of the girl you like , you will need to make yourself stand out during class . sitting quietly and taking notes wont get anyones attention . its important to engage the instructor and answer or ask questions to help you stand out and make an impression . try not to be a show off during class . answering too many questions might make a bad impression . make sure your questions are actually aimed at furthering the topic under discussion . dont make inappropriate jokes during the class . women are generally attracted to men who appear more dominant and confident . to show how confident you are , you can try to establish your space whenever you are around a girl you like . simply taking up whatever space you need can be a good way to get her attention . when you sit down , feel free to relax and take up whatever space youd like . for example , you might try extending your arm over an empty chair that you are sitting next to . stretching your arms up into the air can be a good idea . try to avoid being too aggressive or obnoxious . make yourself comfortable , but not if it means making others uncomfortable . there are few things more attractive than a person who is happy , joyful , and having fun . whenever you are near a girl that you like and with some friends , it can be a good idea to be open about how much fun you are having . people are naturally interested in sharing in good times with others . enjoying yourself can be a simple and easy way to make an impression . talk about an exciting idea or project you and friend are working on . let your enthusiasm show to help catch her attention . try sharing a joke with your friends before class starts . make sure you say it loud enough so she can hear it . talk with your friends about something exciting you have planned , such as going to a concert or going on a trip . even though you havent spoken with the girl you are interested in , you might still learn a few things that she is interested in . knowing what she likes can help you steer your conversations and actions in a direction that can make an impression . you may have noticed that she was reading a book about a certain artist . you can try asking a question about that artist during your art class to show your interest . maybe she carries a backpack with her favorite band on it . you might try bringing up that bands genre during a music history course . try talking about something you know she likes with your friends during class . making eye contact is a great way to show youre interested in a girl and to judge her interest . whenever you feel its appropriate , try meeting her gaze for a moment . however , dont stare too long as this may make her uncomfortable . try to meet her eyes for as long as you feel is appropriate to get her attention . remember to wear a friendly look on your face , offering a smile . try not to glance away quickly as this might make you seem un - confident or nervous . if youve caught her gaze for a few moments , you might want to make a playful gesture . this can be something simple such as making a silly face or sticking your tongue out . playing around like this can demonstrate your confidence and interest to her . its important that you feel and represent yourself as being friendly , open , and approachable . you want to convey that you are confident , comfortable , and have a kind personality . use your smile to break the ice and make a good impression on the girl that you like . dont force your smile . let your genuine happiness show through . dont put on a big grin or smile too long . this can cause you too look disingenuous or strange . your appearance makes an impression on everyone you meet . this rule applies to any girl that you want to impress . you dont have to wear a suit to make an impression , but you will have to wear clean and sensible outfits . try evaluating what your clothes say about you to judge if you are making a good impression . make sure your clothes are clean when you wear them . check to make sure your clothes fit well . clothes that are too big or small may give you an odd appearance . make sure your clothes match or present an image that you think is appropriate . a huge part of impressing a girl you like is by practicing good personal hygiene . chances are , if your hygiene is lacking , you may actually make the wrong impression when being around the girl that has your interest . keep some of these basic hygiene tips in mind to help you make a good impression take a shower everyday . wear deodorant . brush your teeth at least once a day . keep your fingernails trimmed . your body language says a lot , without you ever having to speak a word . take a careful look at your body language when you are near the girl you like . make sure to keep these tips in mind when you are trying to say the right thing with your body languagedont hunch your shoulders down or forward . have them naturally pushed back . stand up straight at all times , keeping your head up . avoid slouching whenever sitting down . if you are nervous or guarded when you are near a girl you like , youre body language might demonstrate those feelings . any kind of closed off body language will prevent people from approaching you . taking an open and relaxed stance when standing or sitting can help show your confidence and send the message that you are open to interacting with her . keep some of these tips in mind when trying to maintain open body language . make sure you stand so that you are directly facing her . keep your arms down , at your sides . avoid crossing your arms or otherwise blocking the other person off .

make sure that you actually know the girl . try to be nice in appearance . dont overdo the jokes . find something that you both have in common . remember important information like birthdays , holidays and promises to hang out . be her biggest cheerleader . give your girl presents . dont show off . remember to be yourself . try to be involved in a lot of different things . get good grades in school . try to be generally polite . be normal buddies , when you think that you and your new friend are close enough to take it to the next level , go ahead and map her realize you like her . dont brand bash .

how to impress a girl by and still be polite

talk to her in a friendly and casual way . you dont have to make it obvious that you like her , try just being friends first . while talking , be confident . most likely , shes nervous too most girls will appreciate a guy that takes the lead . that way , they dont have to stutter and mumble their way into a conversation . dont dress like a slob in a baggy chili stained sweatshirt and sweat pants , but dont wear a suit and tie everyday either its also important to smell good . wear a scent that isnt too strong , and dont spray it on too heavy . theres nothing worse than the girl you like being covered in your cologne after she talks with you some girls are more confident than others , and some will take them well and some wont . if your girl is on the less than confident side , dont attempt a joke about her appearance . she might take you seriously and think youre a jerk . also , make sure that your jokes are actually funny if you are talking about that hard math test , dont relate it to your friends pet turtle . it not only be a mood killer , but just plain awkward . maybe youre both book or band geeks , or love the same movie . if your girl is into something that youre not , try to be open minded about it . for example , if she likes painting , grab a brush and try it with her . you could also try something new to both of you if you both have never tried photography , take a class together . something you thought of before as stupid or boring could actually turn out to be really fun another thing to try would be dancing classes . dancing is classically romantic , and taking a class will set the mood without being too obvious . its pretty embarrassing to show up without a present or at least something to say when its a special day . go to her sporting events , recitals , concerts , art shows and performances . its important to encourage her hobbies and interests by attending to show that you care . it doesnt have to be anything fancy , just a stuffed animal , or a card . maybe you dont have a lot of money to spend . thats okay just a heartfelt letter can be enough . dont make a big deal of it either . just slip something in her locker , or send her a text or an email . even a cheery , happy birthday the next time you see her will make her pleased that you remembered . it comes off as annoying , or even conceited when guys constantly brag . it doesnt hurt to mention something about your football practice the other day , but dont constantly say things like , since im the star on the football team , this will be no problem when guys always follow whatever the new trend is , they start to be less like themselves and more and more like other people . its good for the world to have differences because if everyone in the world were the same , life would be really boring dont be someone youre not just to impress her . if she doesnt like you for you , shes not the right girl for you . sports are fun and healthy activities to be involved in , and help make you a well rounded person . but remember that its good to be involved in more than just sports . there are a wide range of activities to choose from including music , theatre , dancing , photography , visual arts , singing , playing an instrument , book clubs , environment clubs , wood shops , writing workshops and countless others . being involved will show your girl that you know how to live life to the fullest its good to remember to stay focused on schoolwork because it will benefit you in the future . girls also enjoy studying with guys , and its a good way to spend quality time with the girl you like . dont talk with your mouth full , and remember to use a napkin . when meeting her parents , say please and thank you . don burp , pass gas , sneeze or cough , dont do it in front of her . if you absolutely have to , leave the room for a moment . sometimes this happens accidentally , and that can be really embarrassing just say excuse me and move on . try to avoid making a joke unless she laughs . then its okay . otherwise , its just rude and disgusting . treat the girl you like as if she were any other friend at first . dont be afraid to punch her on the arm , give her a high five , or give her a hug . none of these things have to be romantic , so there shouldnt be any difference . once you and your girl start to become closer , than you can start with the romantic stuff . dont go crazy and start bringing her flowers , but try to be subtle . when you two are alone and happy , lightly brush your hand against hers . look at her face to see if she responds well . if she still looks happy , gently take hold of her hand . be gentle , and dont make a big deal out of it . if she seems uncomfortable , let go . most likely , she will be happy that you were brave enough to map the first move , and might be more comfortable seeing you as a romantic partner rather than a friend . if your girl is still responding well , put your arm around her . if she likes that , its all downhill from there . e . g . do not tell her gmtomboy - made nissan or nissanrecall - esque gm . thisll get her not to like you .

show her that you have a great personality . make sure that you always look and feel great . look for opportunities to showcase your unique abilities and resources . do things that you love to do .

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demonstrate your great personality to the girl before you even ask her out . by being positive , kind , funny , thoughtful , and well - mannered , you can show her that you are a great guy who would make an excellent boyfriend . if you feel like your personality is lacking in some way , focus on improving yourself . for example , if you tend to be pessimistic , make it your goal to identify three positive things about your life every day . over time , you will begin to find it easier to see the positives in your everyday life and you will also benefit from higher self - esteem , better sleep , and improved empathy . remember to talk to her . research has shown that a great personality can make people find you more attractive . but if you never talk to her , she may never get to see how great of a guy you are . looking and feeling good will help you to be confident around the girl you like and that may be enough to win her over . take plenty of time every day to eat healthy , exercise , sleep , and groom yourself . feeling good about yourself will help you project happiness and confidence , which are always attractive . eat healthy and exercise regularly . rest and relax every day . make sure your hair looks good . wear clothes that express your personality . wear cologne and deodorant . some girls may find certain things attractive in a guy , while others will not . but the only way that you can find out if the girl you like finds your unique talents attractive is to look for opportunities to showcase them . for example , if you are an excellent guitar player , invite the girl you like to come to one of your bands practices or shows . or if there is a sport that you excel at , ask her to come to one of your games . some girls are impressed by guys who are passionate about their hobbies and make time for themselves . if you have things that you love to do , make sure that you make plenty of time to do those things . for example , if you are an avid reader , make sure that you keep doing that even while you are pursuing this girl . it will give you more things to talk to her about when you see her and she may even be impressed to find you reading in a coffee shop some random afternoon .

dont try to impress . bring forth your real talents , the ones that define who you are , not what you own or want to possess . show your true self while trying to impress a girl and try to be your best self . flirt and use body language to show your interest in her . be kind , thoughtful and considerate . communicate clearly and often . be dependable and caring . treat her as well as youd treat a good mate , only better . stay in touch .

how to impress a girl you fancy

perhaps this is the biggest secret but really , its the clincher . the best way to impress a girl is to not set out to impress her . now you might be wondering how this really works . the issue at heart is that when most guys try to impress girls , they tend to become less authentic and when this happens , they can try to show off with almost anything and everything . girls are not impressed by such tactics and tend to end up putting you in the show off category , unimpressed by the antics and bravado . the best way to impress a girl is to be yourself , let things happen automatically and keep the show pony antics for your mates . if you thought that girls are impressed by money and material things all the time , then you are mistaken . the best way to impress a girl and retain your status is by the way of natural talents which involve the way you talk and present yourself . you need girls to respect you for who you are . if the girl is impressed by your money , then she is probably looking for money and not you , so thats a good telltale sign to back off . dont talk to her with the quest to impress rather try to do what you normally do . one of the best aspects which almost every girl demands and gets impressed by is intellectuality . try to develop your intellectual skills . this can be done by the way to reading books , quality online articles and being up - to - date with the latest happenings . remember that being a good talker is the foundation of impressing almost any girl . have something which is different from the rest . girls normally get hit on by several men every day and almost all those men try to impress them with all theyve got . if you are doing and following the same tactics as all those men , then you wont succeed in your quest to impress girls . avoid being erotic or crass , that just scares girls off . make it clear that you like her . if she is insecure , anything you do to to get her attention must be positive and slow . when you take your time , it shows her that you care enough to take it slowly . the way to melt a girls heart is to show kindness and to be considerate of her needs . notice the person she really is and compliment that , not her looks , clothes or hotness . actually show that you care about her by noticing her personality , intelligence , style and creativity . tell her she is pretty with no makeup and sweats with her hair in a messy bun or ponytail . compliment her on the care she has taken to present herself she will feel appreciated when its noticed . buy her a gift , like chocolate it doesnt have to be special or expensive , its the obviousness that you were thinking about her in your free time that makes her blush . if she is cold , or just for fun , give her your sweatshirt or coat––it has your smell and she will like to wear it . theres nothing a girl likes more than being talked to by guys , even if there is an age difference . hold actual conversations with the girl and talk about the things that matter to both of you , but let her do more of the talking to begin with , to allow you to learn about her . dont tell tall stories to try to impress her . shell see through it and youll come across looking daft . girls really want someone who will not let them down and who is a promise - keeper . if you cant do something you said youd do , tell her the truth , dont make up stories . girls love a guy who cares about her , and who wont make fun of her if shes in a bad situation . be playful in a fun and kind way . also be wary of the following dont make her feel awkward when she is with you . dont be a jerk . girls hate it when you try to get their attention by putting other people off or making a bad comment about what someone looks like . dont be a horndog and make comments about doin it with her thats an immediate turnoff . dont pressure her to do anything she doesnt dont want to do with you . dont brag about what youve done in intimacy with her to your mates . thats a code breaker and potentially a relationship breaker too . call or contact her at least once a day when you see her , and twice when you dont . it helps her to feel special .

plan your approach . be well dressed and groomed . meet her gaze . stand up straight and tall . keep it short and direct . shrug it off if she says no .

how to impress a girl and make her fall in love with a boy 2

asking a girl out on a date can be frightening , but if you make a plan it might not be as scary . think about when , where , and how you plan to ask her out . try to work out what you want the moment to look like and spend some time visualizing a positive response . you want to look your best when you ask her out for the first time . if you are wearing your grubbiest shirt and havent showered in a couple of days , she will not have a good impression of you . but you dont need to wear a tuxedo or get a makeover before you ask her out either . just make sure that you are clean , wearing some flattering clothes , and that your hair and facial hair are groomed . confidence is sexy , and one of the most confident things you can do is look her in the eyes when you ask her out . while it may feel more comfortable to look at the floor and mumble your question to her , this will not impress her . look her straight in the eyes and hold your head up high to show her that you are confident . the way that you stand can also indicate how confident you are . if you are slumping or crossing your arms , she might interpret this as fear or nervousness . instead , stand up tall with your arms hanging loosely at your sides . keep your shoulders back and your chest puffed out a bit . this will show her your full height and breadth , which will be much more impressive than if you approach her in a hunched over position . theres no need to talk to her for an hour before you ask her out . in fact , if you take too long to ask , you might lose your nerve . instead , walk right up to her , give her a quick compliment , and then tell her that youd like to spend some time with her . if youd rather call her , thats fine too , just dont ask her out via facebook or text message or she may think that you are too nervous to talk to her . try saying something like , hi . you seem really cool listen , i am in a bit of a hurry , but i thought id see if you would be interested in going out with me sometime . can i get your number sometimes , despite your best efforts , a girl will say no when you try to ask her out . the occasional no is something that you will have to deal with when you ask a girl out on a date . if she says no , dont get upset . just shrug it off , and try not to act like too disappointed . try saying something like , its cool . you just seem like a fun person to chill with so i thought id ask . but no worries have a good day

be an amazing date . compliment her . talk about safe subjects at first . ask more questions to get to know her even better . keep seeing her and be patient .

how to impress a girl and make her fall in love with a boy 3

if the girl that you like says yes and you do get to go on a date with her , make sure that you do all that you can to make sure that she wants to go out again sometime . little gestures like opening doors , helping her put her coat on or take it off , and paying for dinner can be very impressive to some girls . if you really want to wow her , show up at her door with flowers , take her somewhere fancy , and impress her with your food recommendations at the restaurant . to impress her even more on your first date , find out what she likes through casual conversation and plan a date that incorporates those likes . for example , if she is a big fan of horror movies , take her to see the latest horror flick . if she is a chinese food fanatic , take her to a chinese restaurant for dinner . if she loves to play mini golf , take her to play some mini golf , when you first pick up or meet up with the girl for your date , make sure that you pay her a sincere , specific compliment . you can say something simple like , you look amazing in that dress or , your hair looks really pretty . whatever you choose , just make sure that you deliver the compliment in a direct way and look her in the eye as you say it . keep the compliments coming as you continue to date and get to know each other . dont just compliment her appearance either . make sure that you also compliment her intelligence , her sense of humor , and her other talents as you learn about them . for example , you can say something like , i really admire your talent at track and field . when you are first getting to know a girl that you like , you should be careful not to delve too deeply into personal issues . stick to things that wont get her feeling uncomfortable or vulnerable for example , you can ask about her favorite music , movies shes seen recently , or her hobbies . avoid discussing topics that might be uncomfortable for her such as your ex - girlfriends , family conflicts , or your religion . instead , focus on questions that help you get to know her better . ask her about her likes and dislikes , her friends and family , her interests , etc . it is important to have fun while you are getting to know a girl , so make sure that you also ask questions that reveal her personality . by now you should know a bit more about her likes and dislikes , so you can probe a bit further into those topics as well . for example , if she told you what her favorite movie was on your last date , ask her what she likes about that movie , how many times she has seen it , who her favorite character is , etc . she will be impressed by your memory of what she said and your sincere interest in something she enjoys . getting to know someone can take a long time and it may be a while before she falls for you . but dont get discouraged or impatient . just keep trying your best to show her a good time and get to know her . try to look at each time that you go out or spend time together as an opportunity to find out more and show her what makes you worthy of her love .

talk to her . listen to her . laugh at her jokes . compliment her . sit next to her in class . be helpful . listen to her problems . comfort her when she is sad . stare at her . flirt with her . dont flirt with other girls . invite her over . chat with her online . remember her birthday . give her a phone call . tell her how you feel if youre gutsy enough .

how to give easy to notice signs to a girl you like

saying hi name and smiling as you pass her is a good way of doing this . ask her questions about herself e . g . how are you , how did you go on the maths test . be friendly . when she talks to you , show interest in what she has to say . make eye contact . try to keep the conversation flowing . even if they are lame . give her compliments like your hair looks nice today , or thats a pretty dress . every girl loves a compliment . , if she drops something , pick it up for her . if she doesnt understand a math question , explain it to her . sometimes a girl just needs someone to talk to about something bringing her down . sympathize with her . if she brings up an issue of hers , make sure you listen attentively , and offer constructive advice but dont over - do the advice . if she is upset , be there for her . if youre good friends with her , hug her dont do this if you think she definitely doesnt like you . dont over - do this step , but occasionally let her catch you staring at her from afar . when she notices you staring , you can either smile or wink if you think you can pull it off or quickly look away . playfully teasing her , poking her gently , and stealing her pen from her are effective and easy ways of signalling to a girl you like her . if you want to take it up a notch , gently make contact with her hand . you can incorporate this in other types of flirting , e . g . if you steal her pen , hold it in your hand so that if she wants her pen back she has to pry it from your hand . also dont overdo it , the girl may get annoyed . this gives her mixed signals , often resulting in her constantly questioning whether you like her or not . show her that you want to socialize more with her . ask her to the movies , to hang out with some friends , or ask her over to your house . and comment on some of her photoswall posts on facebookmyspace but dont overdo this . if you dont know when it is , ask by casually bringing it up in conversation . give her a card or a small present on her birthday , or maybe even a hug . every now and then , ring her , just to talk with her and see how shes doing . this is quite obvious , but it gets the message across . be confident , most of the time even if the girl doesnt like you she will let you down easy and nothing is more annoying than a guy that likes you but wont make a move .

make sure that she likes you too . have confidence in yourself . act normally . allow happiness into your life . make plenty of eye contact when talking to her . sit near her in class . offer to tutor her or study with her , especially if you are aware of certain classes that she isnt doing too well in . engage her in daily conversations that rotate around a variety of interesting topics she enjoys to talk about . invite her to group outings . purchase gifts for her only on special occasions , such as christmas or her birthday . write a letter to her . approach her and ask her . dont ask her about her feelings for you over text , email , internet , etc . dont send a friend to ask her about her feelings for you . dont leave your letter to her unsigned .

how to get the girl you like when she knows you like her

ask a friend that she is not entirely unknown to her , to ask her if she likes you . like , do you like this person  i was just thinking that the way you look at him . and the way you smile at him . that youve been hitting on him . your relationship with your crush may feel awkward and tight after she discovers your feelings for her . not only may she avoid you , but she may also refuse to talk to you for a while . however , know that it is not necessarily you she doesnt want to see , but she may be only trying to ignore the awkward feelings in order to prevent herself from making stupid mistakes . if you dont believe in yourself and have confidence that youll get through this with her , it makes the situation harder to solve , and you may not have enough courage to rescue your relationship with her . although things may not feel the same , act as if they are . it will cause her to relax and slowly let her guard down because shell know that youre still the same person she is friends with , even though she now knows you have feelings for her . you may need to crack a few more jokes than usual in order to get her laughing , but making her feel comfortable with you should be your top priority right now . it may be hard to act as if the awkwardness doesnt exist , but after a while , it wont exist at all if you try hard enough . however , avoid going overboard and acting fake . a fake smile and stiff words will take you nowhere , and it may worsen the situation . make no mention of your feelings for her . although you may be curious , dont ask her how she feels about you . at this point , she may feel very confused , insecure , and uncomfortable . you dont want her to start avoiding you because this could lead to the death of your relationship with her . keep romance out of your conversations and interactions with her . while the temptation to flirt with her remains , resist it at least until she settles down and is relaxed with you once more . despite the circumstances and how insecure you both may feel , act happy and go about your life normally . happiness and smiles tend to be contagious , and you may be able to smooth out your relationship with her even faster if you have a joyful , bright attitude that makes her smile and laugh . however , avoid going overboard and acting extremely crazy . unless if she is used to your insane behavior , you should refrain from this behavior at this point because you might unintentionally scare her off . this will show that you have an interest in the conversation and what she is saying . also , it will make her feel comfortable because she has the assurance that someone is listening to her . however , avoid staring at her or she might feel uncomfortable , but remember not to look bored or look away too often . find a healthy amount of eye contact in order to benefit both you and her . although you have the option of sitting directly next to her , you may also choose to occupy the seat behind her or in front of her . dont feel limited when it comes to your seating options . while you may believe that sitting next to her is the only way to get her attention , remember that sitting behind her and in front of her hold their own advantages as well . use your seat near her as an opportunity to talk to her and work together with her . however , be familiar with the appropriate times to speak in order to avoid getting her in trouble . one way to get her attention is to immediately take the blame if the teacher catches both of you talking . not only will she feel grateful towards you , but shell also think of you as a kind person , especially if you already are kind towards her . however , avoid treating her as if she is helpless because shell only feel annoyed . if you sit near her , youll have the chance to ask her to work with her on group projects and assignments . however , avoid asking her too frequently in order to give her the chance to work with her friends and other students she may want to interact with . even if she rejects your offer , know that the thought counts . try again another time when she seems in a good mood . having a good relationship with her can increase your chances of being accepted . if she constantly rejects your offer , know when to stop asking her . this shows that she may not be interested in you . stop before she has to ask you to stop . it helps if you perform better in those classes than her , but remember not to act as if you are better than her or know more than her . although one of the two may be true , you should never make her feel bad about herself . you want to make her feel good about herself when she is around you . then , shell want to be with you more often . only offer to tutor her if she asks you or complains about the poor grades she is receiving in the class . depending on the type of person she is , she may take your kind offer as an insult , and she may refuse to speak to you afterwards . if she accepts your offer to study with hertutor her , make your times with her comfortable and memorable . treat her as if she was a good friend . avoid staring at her or inserting romance and flirting into your interactions with her . youll make her feel uncomfortable , and she may not want to study with you . she may feel surprised at first if you treat her like a good friend , but shell eventually get used to it and enjoy it . use this method to become good friends with her quickly . you may have to start most of the conversations at first , but once she gets used to talking to you every day , shell eventually start the conversations without you having to approach her first . however , if she is shy , she may enjoy talking to you , but she may not have enough courage to approach you . know that it is not you she is avoiding , but she may be too shy . during these conversations , subtly read her body language . note how comfortable she feels and the physical contact she makes with you ex touching your arm or shoulder while laughing at your jokes . run her words through your mind and search for any hints of her feelings for you . remember to have a healthy amount of eye contact with her . end the conversation before it turns into an awkward silence . while you dont want to abruptly end it at the wrong time , make sure you finish it in a polite manner when it is still good . although you may not want to end it , its best that you may her look forward to the future conversations since they all end on a good note . it may take a few conversations and some practice before you know when to perfectly end it , but keep persisting till you understand . have a good excuse when you end it so that suspicion and hurt feelings dont rise within her when you leave . always end it in a friendly manner while showing you enjoyed talking to her and would like to have another conversation with her ex it was nice talking to you , but i have to finish my chores now or lets continue this conversation another time . i dont want to be late for class . this step should be performed only when you two have gotten to know each other well enough . invite your friends to the movies along with her , but make sure she is not the only girl in order to avoid making her feel uncomfortable or insecure . select a movie you know she would enjoy or ask her to choose one . before the movie starts , purchase a separate drink for her if you wish - do not share a drink with her - and a bag of popcorn for you both to share . if you offer to share the popcorn with her before the movie starts , the chances of you being able to sit next to her increase . during the movie , make sure you occupy the seat next to her . one way to ensure that the seat is yours is to follow her behind . that way , youll know where she is sitting , and youll be close enough to immediately sit down next to her . avoid selecting romantic movies because it may lead to her to remember that you like her , and she may feel extremely uncomfortable . select a comedy or an action movie to get you all laughing . act like a gentleman . this includes opening the doors for her and allowing her to go ahead of you . however , avoid acting as if she is helpless because this will only annoy her and make her feel bad about herself . your conversations with her afterwards can consist of the movie and whether she enjoyed it or not . afterwards , invite her to other group outings , but make sure they dont occur too frequently in order to give her the opportunity to attend other outings she would like to go to . if you play sports , invite her to your games , even if you know she doesnt enjoy watching sports . she may appear at your games just to support you if she has feelings for you . however , make sure your gifts for her are not sappy or romantic . they should be the type of gifts that make her smile and enjoy them . an example would be to purchase her the cd album she has always wanted . if you want to give her a gift on valentines day , make sure your gift isnt romantic . avoid going to elaborate lengths and making her feel uncomfortable . instead , purchase an object as simple as a cute teddy bear . not only is this sweet , but this will make her feel more comfortable . she will have enough time to respond as she pleases , and shell also have more time to sort through her thoughts and feelings . she may be able to come up with an answer that is better than the answer she may give you if you ask her right on the spot . shell be able to think logically and ask for needed advice , and the choice that she makes will be much wiser and healthy for both of you , depending on her personality . add a small spritz of your cologne onto the letter so that it leaves a faint , pleasant smell . this will instantly make her think of you , and itll be harder for her to get you out of her mind . avoid adding too much cologne so that it creates an overwhelmingly powerful smell . annoyance may prickle her , and she may dislike you . this requires a lot of courage and bravery , which will make her think twice before answering you . she might feel impressed if you yourself approach her , and she wont think of you as a coward . however , make sure you ask about her feelings for you in an area where she feels comfortable , but make sure no one is listening to your conversation . because it is less intimate , and she may think of you as a coward since you have a screen to hide yourself behind . not only will you appear as a coward , but shell also feel more intimidated because your friend might tell others about her answer . pressure may influence her into making a bad choice or sharing her true feelings for her . this may lead her to come up with a lie or a sharp answer to discourage you from pursuing her . not only will she be unaware of who her secret admirer is , but shell also be uncertain of who to reply to . leaving yourself as anonymous tends to be cowardly , and it can make her feel annoyed . she may end up trashing the letter or leaving no response because she wont know who sent the letter or how to answer . if you send her another letter in the future and sign it , she may connect the dots and instantly know it was you who wrote the anonymous letter . she may dislike you because of your cowardly move , and you will not leave a good impression upon her .

relax your body . make eye contact . smile . start a simple conversation . join extracurricular activities . meet girls through others . share your thoughts and feelings . talk on social media . ask questions . invite a girl to hang out . rehearse what you want to say . write down conversation starters . discuss your fears with friends and family . practice socializing .

how to get to know girls in your school

if you want to make contact with a girl you like , first try and relax your body . you want to make sure you dont communicate nervousness or defensiveness , as this may put a girl on edge . try to stay calm going into the conversation . if youre nervous , you may lean forward and dip your chin down slightly . this can make you look aggressive . try to be aware of your posture . make sure your chin is straight and level . keep your hands and arms loose at your side , or put your hands in your pocket . this will help make you look relaxed and nonchalant . this will make you look approachable . another good way to initiate contact is eye contact . eye contact can help convey interest and allow you to initiate a conversation . if youre interested in getting to know a girl from your class , try starting off with eye contact . try to catch a girls eye and hold her gaze for a few moments before looking away . however , be careful not to stare . this can come off as creepy . try to make and hold hold eye contact briefly . if a girl is not returning your eye contact after a few seconds , look away and try again . you do not want it to look like youre staring . a calm and friendly smile is a great way to grab someones attention . once youve made eye contact , try smiling . try to think about something that genuinely makes you happy when youre smiling . you want your smile to look real and genuine , as a fake smile can easily give you away . once youve gotten a girls attention , you should make an effort to make conversation . it can be stressful to make conversation with someone you dont know , but with a quick observation or introduction you should be able to start a conversation . start by introducing yourself . you can simply say something like , hi , im paul . it may feel a little awkward , but if this is someone you see in class a lot , its perfectly acceptable to introduce yourself . try to open with an observation . when youre in school , theres a lot to observe and comment on . you could talk about the upcoming test or make an observation about what happened in class today . try to give the girl the opportunity to share by posing an observation as a question . for example , dont just say , wow , that was a crazy test last week . instead , say , wow , that was a crazy test last week , right this invites the girl to share her opinion as well . during the average school day , it may be hard to stop and make conversation with a girl . however , if you join some extracurriculars , you may find its easier to find people with common interests . extracurriculars also provide you with the opportunity to socialize and make friends . this can help you meet girls . find an after school club that caters to your interests and includes members of both genders . youre unlikely to meet girls on a boys sports team . however , something like the school newspaper may help . the advantage of meeting people through a club is that youll automatically have something in common . if you sometimes struggle to make conversation , youll have something to discuss right away . one of the easiest ways to establish a connection to someone else is through another person . its easier to feel close and relaxed around someone if you meet in a casual social setting . if you have any friends who are close to girls in your school , mention you would like to try to meet some girls . see if that friend can invite you to parties and events where his female friends will be present . in order to get to know someone , you need to share your thoughts and feelings with that person . long talks in which you communicate openly are what foster the closeness that forms a friendship , and possibly a romantic relationship down the road . it may take time to get to the place where youre sharing feelings with a girl in your school , so be patient . you may have to spend some time socializing with her outside of school or at an after school club before the two of you feel close enough to open up to one another . be patient and let things happen organically . you cannot force intimacy . as you get to know someone , youll find you begin sharing things naturally as you feel more comfortable with one another . the girl may mention her family , share her opinion on a social issue , or tell you how shes feeling on a given day . try to listen genuinely to what she says , and share your own emotions in turn . social media can be a great way to get to know someone , especially if you tend to be shy . many people meet in real life , and then strengthen that existing bond on social media . once youve gotten to know girls in your school a little , add them on facebook , twitter , and other social media outlets . you can comment on a girls facebook post and talk to her through the messenger feature . many people feel more relaxed talking online , and if youve established a bond online it may make face - to - face communication feel easier . keep in mind , however , not to overdo it . if you pester a girl too much on social media , she may get annoyed . do not , for example , like all her statuses , or comment on all her posts . use discretion . asking questions is a great way to promote the flow of a conversation . they help the conversation move forward and show that youre genuinely interested in what the speaker has to say . when talking to girls in your school , ask a lot of questions to get to know them better . ask general questions to start a conversation . for example , you can ask something like , how was your day or how did you do on that last test as the conversation continues , ask questions about the topic at hand . for example , if the girl mentions her family is getting a new puppy , dont just say , oh , thats cool . instead , ask about this . say something like , what breed are you getting him from the shelter or a breeder after youve talked to a girl a bit , and know her somewhat , try inviting her to hang out . you can invite her to hang out in a group with you and your friends . however , you can also ask her to hang out with you one - on - one . if you want to go on a date , ask the girl to go somewhere with just you that feels date - like . you could ask her to go see a movie , to get dinner , or to grab coffee . you can also invite a girl to a social outing with your friends . this can be a great way to get to know a girl as a friend . you can also expand your friends group by introducing a new member . it can be hard to get to know people if youre shy . if social situations make you nervous , there are ways you can overcome shyness . it may sound strange , but rehearsing what you want to say ahead of time may actually help . if you have to talk to a girl on the phone , or you know youll see her in class , try writing down what you want to say . obviously , you cannot plan out a whole conversation , but try jotting down what you want to talk about . try to rehearse these words out loud , in front of a mirror . when you end up talking to the girl , the conversation may not play out exactly as you planned . however , you may be less nervous as you have some kind of a plan . it can also help to write down conversation starters . if youre going on a date , or getting together with the girl socially , conversation starters can be particularly helpful . jot down things you could use to start conversations , such as observations i cant believe its still snowing in march , complements thats a great jacket on you , and questions do you know what time the assembly is today . it may sound silly , but many people choke in the moment and fail to start a conversation . having a plan can help . for many , shyness can be very difficult to overcome . it can help to talk out your issues with shyness with friends and family members . they may offer support , advice , and insight on how to cope with shyness . choose people you feel will listen without judgment . put - downs and lectures are unlikely to be helpful , so dont talk to people who like to give unsolicited advice . select people who will listen and try to understand without trying to dismiss your shyness . talking to girls in your school can be very intimidating . many high school students are shy around girls . it may help to practice socializing in other places . make conversation with boys in your class , make small talk with a clerk at the drugstore , call a family member who lives far away . practice socializing in situations where youre less likely to feel nervous . this can help you relax more when talking to a girl .

let yourself be sad , but only for a while . stop communicating with her . get rid of any mementos from your relationship . talk to your friends about how youre feeling . write it out . celebrate your freedom . get busy .

how to get your mind off a girl 1

eating ice cream and binge - watching some television show on netflix isnt just for girls who get dumped . if you want to be bummed and slop around the house for a while , do it . no shame . its a necessary phase , sometimes . dont let it go on for too long , or it just becomes whiny and depressing . good rule of thumb let yourself grieve one day for each month you were together . if it takes longer , it takes longer , but let yourself get over her . whether youve been dumped or broke it off mutually , stop talking with the girl . if youre stuck on someone , maintaining your distance is the key . stop texting with her . stop calling her . stop talking to her on g - chat . just stop all forms of communication . if you have to see this girl , in school or elsewhere , keep it cool . make your interactions professional and brief . if she keeps bothering you , say something like , i dont have anything to say to you . unfriend her or block her posts on social networking sites . theres nothing to be gained from constantly checking your exs page to see who shes been talking to . thats only going to make it worse . that jersey your girlfriend gave you get rid of it . the cute cards and notes she sent you in the trash . theres little value in surrounding yourself with things that remind you of this person who hurt you . if you really like something that reminds you of your girlfriend , or you just dont want to get rid of it entirely , its still a good idea to box it up and put it somewhere you cant see it . give it to a friend to take , or shove it into a closet where you cant see it . often , guys have a hard time talking about their feelings , especially with their male friends . if most of your conversations revolve around sports , music , or some other hobby , its still good to just talk . get together and talk about something to distract yourself , and bring up how youre feeling if it comes up . consider talking to your dad about it . while he might seem like a gruff dinosaur , hes also probably been there . open up a little . its also fine , and maybe even better , to talk to female friends , if you need to . talk to a sister , cousin , or a close friend who you can lean on . get advice , or just vent . sit down with a piece of paper and a pencil , and write about how youre feeling . nobody needs to read it , and you dont even need to look at it when youre done . but if youre struggling to deal with your emotions , and you cant stop thinking about someone , try to write it out , then tear it up when youre finished . just vent , then burn the evidence . write her name at the top of the paper , and address the letter to her if it helps you focus your attention . tell her exactly what you wish you could . then , of course , get rid of it . every breakup is like a coin . on the one side , theres loss and sadness and all the bad stuff . yeah , youre alone . yeah , you got dumped . on the other youre free . even if you were happy in the relationship , theres a lot to be said for being single , and having options . kick up your heels a little , when it feels right . sometimes , going out for a dumb night with the boys is called for . you dont have to ask permission . try to think of something that you wouldnt have been allowed to do in your relationship . blasting acdc at 9 am while you eat ribs for breakfast and watch mma do it . be responsible , even if youre hurting . a break - up isnt an excuse to abuse alcohol , tobacco , or drugs . if all youre doing is padding around your room and moping , its no wonder that youre stuck on some girl . get out of the house and start doing things . find something to occupy your time , so this girl wont . skip to the last section for tips on distracting yourself and getting busy .

decide what you want . research your crush . evaluate your chances . be patient . keep your options open . focus on your passion . dress nicely . be yourself . check your attributes . stay active . acknowledge her presence . join her friend group . talk to her . friend her on social websites . spend time together . exchange numbers . communicate with her . talk to her about her relationship . talk about girls around her . flirt with her . tell her your feelings . respect her choice . try it if you think she likes you back . try it if shes open to dating other people . dont take it too far if she doesnt seem interested .

how to get the girl you want if she already has a boyfriend

weigh your options and decide if you really want to pursue this girl . going after a girl with a boyfriend is frowned upon , but it happens . make sure you actually like this girl and not the idea of her . sometimes the unattainable can spark desires , but before you do anything be sure you like her . be honest with your feelings . look her up on social media websites like facebook or twitter . see if you share interests . imagine if you can really picture yourself with this person . talk to someone who knows her . if youre unsure if she has a boyfriend , ask someone who knows her better than you do . dont stalk this girl in real life . its only acceptable to look into her internet presence . youll need to be realistic with your wishes . are you in her social circle if shes always hanging out and making eyes at the football captain and youre kind of a gamerbookish dude or vice versa . its just not going to happen regardless of what magazine articles , tv shows , or movies may want you to believe . youve got to be at least on her radar . this process could take years . nobody knows how long a couple will stay together . the only ones who do know are the people dating , and usually , if theyre young , they have no idea . throughout your pursuit dont limit yourself to only this girl . there is a high chance that she will stay with her partner . it is not healthy to hold onto the idea of someone without giving anyone else a shot . whenever you begin strong feelings towards a girl , youll typically develop more energy than usual . try to use this energy as a creative force . write songs or poems . draw or paint whatever is in your head . this will also give you something to show off when youre ready to reveal this to your crush . once you understand what type of friend clique she is in , you should have an idea of the type of style she likes . dont go overboard with changing your appearances . you need to put effort into your appearance but not too much effort . dont change for a girl . plenty of guys do this and its not a terrible reason to change , but you shouldnt do it . try focus on the qualities you think she would like about you . accentuate these attributes about yourself . younger girls typically like guys who are older and taller than them . being in shape and having a good sense of humor are also positive traits for attracting a girl . weigh your chances of this girl being attracted to you . when you start to develop a crush on someone forbidden , you should stay physically active . there is a chance of you becoming depressed and anxious at home . staying active will help curb these feelings and keep your feelings in reality . if you see her around , make sure you say hi , even if youre with your friends or parents . if youve never talked before this could be weird for her . if you feel uncomfortable speaking to her , smile at her in passing . this should be a slow process . the goal is to try to truly make friends with the people your crush is friends with . fake friends are no good . go for the people you wouldnt mind hanging out with . careful making friends with her girl friends . they could get the wrong idea and develop feelings for your . this could also spark an interest from the girl you like . gauge the situation . once she notices you and you actually have similar friends , you should talk to her . dont flirt with her when you first start talking . be genuine and try to be funny , but let it come out naturally . talk about the things you know she likes . share with her your opinions on whatever it is she cares about . getting into a serious conversation about your interests is good , and should create an impression . add her on facebook and twitter after youve already had a conversation about something . now shell be faced , at home , with the thought of you . like one of her recent status or a profile picture to show that youve took time to look at her page . start to hang out with her outside of school or college . invite her and her friends to join you and your friends . make it a group oriented affair at first . dont ask her to hang out alone or she may feel uncomfortable . it helps if there is an event that you are both going to . be as casual as possible , and dont make it seem like you are desperate . be smooth and try to appear innocent . slowly but surely , start to talk with her , a little more each day . try to talk as much as you can without being overbearing . a little communication will deepen the friendship , and potentially open more feelings to develop . find out from her if she is happy with the way things are going in her relationship . talk about the actual relationship with her and not just about her boyfriend . she might appreciate the chance to talk about things . this will also drop a hint to her that you are interested . dont be crude when you talk about another person . youre introducing thoughts about being attracted to girls . this is obvious , but if you talk about girls who are a similar type as her , she might pay attention . if she is slightly interested , she might become a little jealous by this . this can seem like a counter productive technique , but youre simply trying to add more attention to yourself . just dont make it obvious eye contact is a powerful agent in attraction . when appropriate try to touch her shoulder in order to get her attention . she could become very uncomfortable by this . gauge her response and dont over do it . this can be a tough move to make , or it could feel like the most natural one . once youve laid the ground work for the big move , you need to talk to her . be honest with both yourself and especially to her . pick a time when you are both alone . let her know that she doesnt have to do anything she doesnt want to do . tell her that you still want to be friends no matter what she decides . even if she isnt ready to be with you now , she could come around if youre available . if all her friends start acting cold towards you , youre probably not welcome to hang out anymore . gauge the situation based on her body language and what she tells you . most people are flattered to learn someone likes them . other people can become creeped out by this , especially if theyre in a committed relationship . going for a girl who is taken can be controversial , but if you think she might like you , too , its ok to try . after all , shes free to choose what she wants to do , even if right now she has a boyfriend . think about interactions youve had with her . did she give you reason to think shes romantically interested if so , as they say , alls fair in love and war . however , make sure you arent interpreting friendliness as romantic interest . just because shes nice to you doesnt mean she wants to break up with her boyfriend for you . you should also consider your relationship with her boyfriend . if youre friends with him , you might want to consider his girlfriend off - limits , out of respect . maybe shes not in an exclusive relationship with her boyfriend . lots of people date more than one person at once , so this could be an option shes open to . its still good to make sure shes interested in you , though , before you go too far . even if shes open to dating around , she may not see you that way . girls dont particularly like to be asked out after theyve turned someone down - especially if they already have a boyfriend . even flirting constantly could annoy her . if she seems happy with her boyfriend , let her stay that way . the best you can hope for is becoming her friend .

take a shot . make new and different friends . work on yourself for a while . change up your priorities . dont worry about finding the one . find someone else to crush on .

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if you cant stop thinking about a girl , but are too afraid to actually do anything about it , you should do something about it . pining for someone who doesnt know you exist is way worse than getting turned down . at least youll know , and then you can move on . dont make it complicated , or over - think it . dont use any lines . just walk up to this girl youve been thinking about a lot and introduce yourself . say , hey , i know this might seem kind of random , but ive just always noticed you . you seem really sweet , and i like you a lot . would you like to hang out sometime read this article to learn more about talking to girls . if youve got a major crush on someone that you cant be with , that can be a tough situation . maybe its a friend who is already seeing someone , or a girl who doesnt even know you exist . whatever the case , its always a good idea to form new and different relationships with friends , and try to find the group you feel most comfortable around . try to find some girls that you enjoy hanging out with , but arent necessarily attracted to . often , younger people will only focus on looks . consider just getting to know some girls as friends and hanging out instead . youll learn a lot . hang out with a variety of different people . make some artsy friends . make some sporty friends . make some friends from all sorts of different families . some people can get totally focused on what someone else thinks . but its important , especially when youre young , to really focus on forming your own identity , and working on yourself . pursue your fun hobbies , doing things that you enjoy . throw yourself into your school work . hang out with your friends . theres nothing wrong with just enjoying your life as it is . theres plenty of time for dating . if youre pretty young , dont worry about these youth romances . itll get better . when youre young , a lot of guys will focus on the popular girls . if youre stuck on some girl because shes very social , or very pretty , or all the other guys like her , thats pretty normal . but , its also usually not real . its better to find people that you actually have something in common with , and enjoy being around . thats not always the super - attractive cheerleader type . try to focus less on superficial things and more on making a genuine connection with someone . open yourself up to people and be friends first . when youre young and fixed on young love , it can seem like youll never find anyone as perfect as this girl youre crushing on . it can seem like youll be alone forever , even if youre just a teenager . but its really hard to know what you want when youre young . remember how into that toy you were obsessed with when you were like 7 how do you feel about it now thats usually how youll feel about crushes and young relationships when you get older . the single best way to move on from a crush that hasnt worked out is to turn your attentions elsewhere . who else has got your eye who else seems like an interesting , attractive , and engaging person in your world crushes are fun and all , but its also good to look inward . focus on having fun with your friends and spending time with your family . theres plenty of time for romance .

start exercising . distract yourself with work . go out more . consider moving , or making some other big change . pick up a new hobby .

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an excellent way to get both your mind and body under control is to start using your body in positive ways . if youre feeling stuck and down because of a girl , head to the gym , the track , or the basketball court . get moving , and work out your frustrations and your sadness by getting in shape . if you like sports , get together with some other people and play . play touch football , basketball , or some other sport you enjoy playing . turn all that energy into competing . if you dont like sports , find a cardio - strength training routine that you can do by yourself . pick about 10 basic exercises that you can repeat in brief circuits to get yourself moving . many studies report that exercise helps to reduce the risk and the symptoms of clinical depression . aside from the obvious cardiovascular health benefits , exercise is proven to make you feel better . whatever you do , do more of it . if you have a job , start taking on extra responsibilities , spending extra hours on the job , and working hard at being the best worker there . if youre in school , throw yourself into your readings and your assignments . distract yourself by bettering yourself with activity . alternatively , it might be good to take some time off . if youre struggling to concentrate and take things seriously , try taking a week off . call in sick . go camping for the weekend and get away from you responsibilities . use the opportunity to socialize more . hang out with new friends , old friends , and your family . hit up a new movie , a new dance club , a new bar . go to shows , go on hikes , go out . do anything that gets you out of your house and keeps you from moping around . try to be with other people as much as you can . its cool to go out by yourself , but its also a goo idea to hang out with other people , wholl be able to talk with you and take your mind off things . try meeting people , if and when you feel ready . give yourself the challenge of chatting up a stranger youre attracted to . its a good exercise . if youve shared an apartment or house with a girl , it can be really hard to stay there . seeing the same coffee shops , restaurants , and neighborhood spots where you always spent time together can just be annoying . find a new place , if you can . explore a new neighborhood on the other side of town . in some cases , its a good idea to split up different hangouts . give your ex one coffee shop , but take another . make a rule the other cant go there . if youre struggling to stop thinking about a girl , give yourself something new to think about and get obsessed with . there are all kinds of things that are better uses of your time than pining over a girl . wikihows a great resource for it as well play guitar mountain bike make art appreciate death metal make a model ship collect coins

make sure she actually does like you . look at her sometimes . sit next to her . ask her out . plain and simple , tell her , get right to the point . make eye contact , it shows confidence . never ask her out right away . talk for about 2 minutes to her , make it short and interesting , keep eye contact , then you say you have to get going .

how to get the girl who likes you to know you like her back

dont stare at her for a long time , but if she likes you , she would be happy if you noticed her . if you look at her , and she looks back at you , smile . if you are going to sit down , sit next to her . if you are standing in a room , walk over to her and say , hi , insert name if you are standing outside a classroom waiting to enter , go up to her and say hello , or hi . ask her out , and then ask her for her phone number but only if she looks like she is able to get out a piece of paper and write down her number . if she likes you , she would probably say yes . however , make sure its just the two of you , because if shes with a group of friends and she says no , youll be humiliated . , talk to her but not for too long . if she is in a group of friends , never shake her hand first or talk to her first . talk to the group and go around . make the whole group laugh . have a friend with you so he distracts the group while you talk to the girl you like . dont talk for too long . when you leave say it was a pleasure talking to her , and then leave . as you are walking away , look back to see if she is staring at you . if she is , smile with a little smile , and turn around and keep going .

pick the girl you want the most out of all of the girls you know . smile at her when you walk past her in the hall . talk to her friends if you can and find out what she likes . find something you have in common . talk to her casually about whatever you both are passionate about and get her to open up to you . try to talk to her outside of a peer area , such as school , work , or around their or your family . gain confidence and have the guts to ask her out .

how to get the girl you want to like you

dont plaster a goofy grin on your face though . keep it normal and relaxed . make it seem casual , and make eye contact . be cool about asking her friends so not to tip them off and go blabbering to the babe you like . for example , books , music , etc . if theres nothing you have in common now , look up something she likes and see if you might like it too . try reading the the hobbit . , dont worry if she says no though , you can always try again another time

demonstrate your confidence . talk to her . show her what makes you special .

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a girl may not be interested in you if you seem insecure or lacking in self - confidence . women are more likely to be interested in confident men , so it is important that you show her how confident you are . there are lots of different ways that you can project your confidence , but some of the most effective ones includemake eye contact . making direct eye contact is a great way to show a girl that you are interested and also project an air of confidence . take up space . taking up space projects your confidence as well , so walk around and stand tall . joke around with your male friends . demonstrating that you are social by laughing and joking with your male friends is another way to show her that you are confident . strike up a conversation with her and show her what a great guy you are . research has shown that you can increase someones interpretation of your physical attractiveness if you have a great personality . but if you never talk to her , she may never get to see how great of a guy you are . try asking a favor to break the ice . ask her if she can pass you a napkin or ask if she will watch your stuff for a minute while you run to the restroom . try asking a question . ask if she is enjoying her meal or ask how she usually takes her coffee . try making a statement . say , i love this restaurant or its a beautiful day today , everyone has something that makes them special and some people may find these talents or resources attractive . figure out what you have to offer as a special talent or resource that she may appreciate and then , look for an opportunity to show her this talent or resource . just make sure that you find a genuine opportunity to show her this side of yourself . avoid showing off or concocting an unrealistic situation to show her . for example , if you play in a band , invite her to one of your shows . or , if you are bilingual , find an opportunity to use your second language it in front of her . or , if you collect movie posters and you know that she is a movie buff too , mention your collection during a conversation and invite her to come and see it .

take good care of your health . make sure you are always well dressed and well groomed . live your life . play hard to get .

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taking good care of yourself is essential for your overall well being . as an added bonus , she may be attracted to you more if she sees that you are a healthy person . make sure that you are taking care of your basic needs , such as diet , exercise , and sleep , before you go looking for love . if you are not in good health , take some time to improve your situation before you try to get this girl to notice you . improve your eating habits , such as by reducing fat and sugar , or eating more fruits and vegetables . incorporate 30 minutes of moderate physical activity into your daily routine . sleep for about 8 hours every night . try meditation , yoga , or deep breathing exercises to help you relax . in addition to tending to your health , you should also be giving plenty of attention to your looks . looking your best whenever you run into this girl will make it more likely that she will take notice . try to make grooming and dressing well a part of your daily routine . shower and shave or groom your facial hair every day . get a haircut if you have not had one lately . buy yourself some new clothes . wear nice smelling cologne and deodorant . by keeping busy and active in your own life , you will show this girl that you are independent and that you have a great life . it will also prevent you from becoming too focused on her , which can be unhealthy . keep your commitments and make plans with your friends often . if the girl asks to see you , be honest about your schedule and dont cancel plans just to spend time with her . a girl may be more likely to find you desirable if she has to work for your affection . that does not mean that you need to start ignoring the girl you like , but she may take more interest in you if you also seem a bit uninterested . for example , you could greet her the same way that you greet the rest of your friends and avoid giving her any special treatment or compliments .

take it slow . gaze into her eyes . mirror her body position . smile at her . watch for signs of interest . know when to move on .

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when you are first getting to know a girl , it is important to avoid sharing too much about yourself too soon . sharing too much about yourself too soon can be overwhelming for a girl and also makes you seem less mysterious . keep some of the mystery alive by withholding certain details until you get to know each other better . for example , you should avoid discussing topics like your ex , family conflicts , or your personal finances . instead , focus on questions that help you get to know her better . ask her about her likes and dislikes , her friends and family , her interests , etc . research has shown that prolonged eye contact can increase feelings of attraction between two people . if you are trying to win her over , try looking into her eyes with a penetrating gaze . just keep in mind that she may break the gaze if she is not interested . if she is interested , she will most likely give you some encouraging looks and smiles , even if she takes her eyes away from yours now and then . if a long gaze does not seem appropriate yet or you are just too nervous to hold a long gaze , try giving her frequent , quick glances . mirroring her body position can show a girl that you are interested and provide opportunities for her to do the same . you might already be doing this without noticing it . but if not , make a conscious effort to start mirroring her body position . for example , if a girl is leaning in towards you with one arm on the table , you can lean in with the opposite arm so that you look like a mirror image of her . smiling is an easy way to show a girl that you are interested in her and give her a chance to give you a smile in return . smiling may also make you seem more attractive to the girl , which may work in your favor as well . try to keep your smile as natural and relaxed as possible . dont force it or smile in a way that is unusual for you . as you flirt and do other things to impress a girl , watch for signs that she is interested in you . if she is smiling , making eye contact , and mirroring your body position , then this might be a good sign . other positive signs include touching her hair , adjusting her clothes , raising and lowering her eyebrows , or giving you a casual touch on the arm . sometimes two people are just not meant to be together . if a girl does not show interest after you have done your best to get her attention , move on . she may never change her mind about you and , if you keep chasing her , you may miss your opportunity to meet someone else who really does like you .

give her your full attention . make her laugh . talk about your skills without boasting . establish connections with her .

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inspire a girls confidence in you by giving her your complete attention during a conversation . make direct eye contact , nod and react while she is talking , and repeat things back to her to convey that you are listening . this will work to make you look charismatic and empathetic to her . for example , if she is telling you about her current project at work , interject with positive comments like , i can imagine that involves a lot of commitment or it sounds like you have great time management skills women respond to humour and appreciate people who can make them laugh . laughter may also reduce shyness or defensiveness and make her feel comfortable with you . tell a joke , do an impression , or share a funny anecdote about yourself to make her feel happy and at ease . bring up your skills and hobbies in a tactful way to impress her without seeming arrogant . wait for the conversation to lead there naturally , or ask her about her interests or hidden talents to set up the topic . interesting talents or pastimes will make you seem more intriguing and dynamic . for instance , talk about your surfing skills by saying something like , its a fun and challenging activity . ive been devoting a lot of time and practice to getting better at it . create a rapport by looking for connections between the two of you . shared interests , hobbies , or experiences can forge a bond between people . ask questions until she reveals an aspect of life that you share , then highlight that mutual connection . for instance , if she mentions a love of zombie movies , express your appreciation for the genre by telling her your own favorite films .

try role - reversal . speak clearly . dont feel pressured because you arent trying to make a point , youre not trying to impress anyone , and youre definitely not trying to write a book about her , if you feel nervous , then you need to talk to every girl you see whether or not you like her .

how to get brave enough to talk to girls

unless shes too full of herself , shes not aware that you think shes special because normally , women arent scanning to see who wants them . dont approach women like a salesman trying to close a deal , but rather with the attitude of trying to be friendly and pass the time . if you feel nervous , imagine you two are locked in the room and theres nothing else to do . so talk always start with hello , what is your name this is a good opening because its honest . you want to know her name , so you asked . if she doesnt want to tell you her name or seems timid , then some light - hearted playful questioning will show her that theres nothing to fear arent you gonna ask me my name or nice name , is there a story behind it or you look like a stacey , dont you think the goofier and dumber you think you sound , the less timid shell become around you . all youre doing here is relating . she says something , you think about a similar experience and tell her about it . keep it short and let her ask you about it if she wants to know more . ex i love music , im always going to concerts then you could say never been to a concert , sounds fun though or what kind of music do you like again , keep it honest you dont have to like what she likes or be into the same stuff . eventually , they begin to feel more like people instead of girl and once you can see them as people , it becomes easy to just say hi . once you take the intimidation out of it , you can see more easily as to how she feels . maybe what you once saw as a girl thats not interested , was actually too nervous to talk to you then you can say the things youd want to hear to calm her nerves . on the other hand , she might be comfortable talking to you and enjoys the attention . either way , theres no shame in wanting to get to know someone .

read her body language . find out about her hobbies . listen to her favorite music . ask about her family and friends .

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look for physical cues that may indicate how she feels about you . postures and motions may reflect what she is thinking and feeling , and provide insight into how you should act around her . some possible body language cues may includeif she mirrors your movements , she is likely intrigued by you . if she plays with her hair , she is likely trying to get or keep your attention . if she dangles a shoe off her foot , it is a sign that she is comfortable with you . if she locks eyes with you for several consecutive seconds , it likely means that she wants the interaction to go further . ask her what she likes to do in her spare time , and if she has any regular hobbies . hobbies can tell you a lot about a persons creativity , social life , talents , and passions . to really get to know her , ask to join her for a class , excursion , or event to experience her favorite hobby firsthand . for instance , ask if you can join her for a bike ride or yoga class . a persons favorite music is closely linked to their personality , so knowing what she listens to may give you more insight into who she is . ask her who her favorite bands or artists are , or look for any preferences she might have listed on her social media accounts . use a digital streaming service to preview or download songs or albums that she likes and listen to them , on your own , or with her . understanding someones relationship with their loved ones can provide a great deal of insight into who they are . inquire about her family and friends indirectly by asking who the most influential people in her life are . how she answers the question i . e . who she mentions and how she talks about them will tell you a great deal about her life .

do breathing exercises to relax before seeing her . speak with a confident voice . present an easy - going attitude . dress to impress .

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looking cool and confident will definitely make a better impression than being nervous or jittery . right before seeing her , do breathing exercises to settle your nerves . breathe in through your nose , hold it for five counts , then exhale through your mouth for another count of five . repeat this ten times to achieve the full effect , to sound confident when talking to a girl , speak clearly and audibly . make sure that youre not speaking in a soft or muffled way by talking slightly louder than you instinctually would . practice beforehand to get comfortable with the tone and volume . being laid back is a great way to convey that you are comfortable in your own skin , which is bound to get her attention . use your body language to convey it by leaning back and facing forward while speaking to her , demonstrating openness and a casual vibe . avoid getting insulted or worked up in conversation , and avoid looking over - eager . for instance , instead of asking , do you like this restaurant we can go somewhere else if you dont , say , i really like this restaurant and thought it would be a great choice . hope you like it too . choose clothing that makes you feel confident but also reflects your original style . to look put together , opt for a fitted or tailored outfit and avoid anything baggy , shapeless , or ill - fitting . wear a color or pattern that you feel most attractive in , and add unique accessories to emphasize your unique personality . wear fitted jeans and a sophisticated black blazer , and add a colorful bracelet or favorite scarf to accent the look .

establish how well you know the girl in question . find some music in similar genres that you both like . be yourself , dont pretend to be something youre not . dont talk too loud , fast , or without taking breaks . be appropriate . hang out with her a lot . be friendly . attend music events . hang out together . buy her band merchandise . make her something try making a collage of photos of you and her or of the things she likes or both personalize an item of clothing for her draw on some sneakers make art write her a song and perform it for her .

how to get an emo girl to like you

is she your friend , or are you total strangers if its the latter , try to strike up a conversation the best way to start a conversation is to find common interests . if this girl is emo , then you can almost guarantee that her interests will be music related , like listening to , writing or composing lyrics , maybe even art related pass - times . its even better if she has band merchandises on or has lyrics written over her stuffs . find out what bands she likes and talk to her about them . ask about her favorite bands or those bands members , how they look , act , or sound and what she thinks on the topics . you might be able to suggest them to her . these can include anything from hardcore , post - hardcore , metal , metalcore , heavy metal , emo , punk rock , pop rock or even alternative . dont pretend to know things just because shes interested in them . , be yourself and talk as yourself but remain quiet and try to be personal . dont make inappropriate gestures or try ridiculous schemes to gain her attention . dont try to impress her with skills you do or dont posses , but instead try to be a friendly , warm person who she can relate to . that means talking with her and also becoming friends with her friends and trying to be accepted into their friendship group . try to talk to her about everything , not just music or school . show her that her opinion matters and that you understand where she is coming from . however , if she tells you to stop talking to her , respect her wishes . , go to a concert of a band you both like . it is a great experience that you can treasure but may be slightly expensive . local shows - seeing a small band in your town is an even better idea because you can be close whilst still being around others . this experience is much more special and you can find other like - minded people at these events while helping home grown talent . going to a small cd store - not many of these exist anymore , so if you do have one near you utilize it they are great places to get music advice from other people whilst being in a beautifully quaint location that is probably relatively unknown . go to a park - sometimes you dont want to go too far away and a local park is just what you want . set up a cute picnic or watch a local team play . you can go for a walk . bring down a ball to kick around or even better , an instrument and play her a song . stay home - and sometimes you dont want to leave the house . try watching a scary movie or a horrible one . cook . try new recipes explore your tastes together . craft . artisan crafts make great bonding experiences . try to get her something she has wanted for a long time . be careful with clothes though . ask a friend of hers to go shopping with you so you can get her size . or try to buy something else like a necklace or a hat

look her in the eye to get her attention . smile to let her know youre interested . practice good hygiene to make a good impression . dress well to impress her . be confident around her . write her a sweet note or letter . get her to talk to you first . ask her questions to get to know her . find what you have in common with her . show her your intelligence and wit . listen to her and be polite . avoid teasing her . participate in some of her activities . sit next to her at lunch . get to know her friends . stand or sit near her . beware of harassing a girl .

how to get a sixth grade girl to notice you

catch the eye of the girl you like , whether youre in class or at a social gathering outside of school . try to hold her gaze for as long as possible , and remember to smile while doing so if youre shy or nervous and find it difficult to hold eye contact , try just catching her eye for a short period of time before looking away . or , look at the center of her forehead or nose for the same effect if thats easier . avoid getting caught looking too much and getting distracted in class by making eye contact just a couple times per class period . try to smile at the girl you like as much as possible , whether youre passing her by in the hall , catch her attention in class , or you get to talk to her . let her know youre friendly and interested in interacting her with just a simple smile whenever you look at her . smiles are contagious chances are that shell smile back at you if you smile first , so youve got nothing to lose , be clean and fresh whenever you get to see or talk to her . shower frequently to wash your body and hair , brush your teeth , use mouthwash , and put on deodorant . if you choose to wear cologne or a highly scented deodorant or body spray , note that less is more . you dont want the girl you like to notice you because shes revolted by an overwhelming smell of cologne . choose clean clothes without a lot of wrinkles to wear to school or other places where youll see the girl you like . you dont need to be extra stylish , just wear something comfortable thats not stained or torn and fits you well . you might not know her well yet , but if you know she likes a certain band , book , or movie , try wearing a t - shirt that features it . she might even strike up a conversation with you about it before you even work up the courage to talk to the girl you like , you can project confidence in yourself that she will take notice of . have good posture , with your head held held high and your shoulders back , make eye contact with people , and engage in whats going on around you . confidence is very different from arrogance . be confident by knowing that you are successful and a pleasant person to be around without acting like you are the best in the universe . to help you feel confident on the inside , which will show on the outside , make an effort to accept compliments when people give them to you . instead of brushing off your friends compliment of your shoes or shirt by saying , yeah , whatever , man , just say , thanks , dude . also try making a list every day of five things , large or small , that you did well . if youre not quite ready to talk to her but still want her to notice you , try slipping a sweet or funny note into her locker , a school book , or someplace else she will find it . you can leave your note or letter anonymous by signing it with a code name or word and tell her she has to figure out who it is through clues you give her in each letter . stick with a simple joke or compliment in your letters if you dont want to be too forward with your feelings right away . observe her to see what kinds of books she reads , music she listens to , or teams she follows . try picking up a book by the same author or wearing a t - shirt with the band or team she likes when youre around her , and she might just strike up a conversation about it . even if she doesnt start talking to you , she will likely notice if youre wearing , reading , or looking at something shes interested in , too . smile if she looks over at you , or even say hey , hows it going to start up a conversation . theres no need to snoop or be overly observant to find out the things she likes . just pay attention when you see her wearing , reading , or talking about something excitedly . chances are you already like some of the same things , or would want to learn more about them . start up a conversation more easily by having a question in mind to ask her . you can start with hey , how are you or hey , hows it going but you can also be more specific with something like , hey , did you catch what the homework was for english i missed it , or , hey , did i see you at last weeks basketball game dont be disappointed if your question doesnt lead to much of a conversation or if you blank out on what to say after the question you had in mind . just smile and thank her for talking to you before walking away . shell remember that you were nice and went out of your way to talk to her . if you strike up a conversation with her , ask her questions about her family , hobbies , school , movies , books , or sports and you are bound to find some things in common . say , i really like art too or i have a big family as well three older sisters and one younger brother . shell remember these things , and take more notice of you in the future . you can use subjects you find in common with her to strike up future conversations . for example , if youre both into learning about bugs and insects , you could bring a book you found on the subject to school and tell her , hey , look , i found this book with really cool pictures of beetles . i thought youd like since we had that conversation about how we both like bugs . remember to be honest and tell her true things about yourself . avoid the temptation to tell small lies or say you like something just because she likes it . the truth will only come out and make you look bad later if she continues to talk to you and get to know you better . let the girl know that youre smart and funny by sharing fun facts , participating with answers in class , and telling jokes . share the things youre knowledgeable about with her and tell her a new joke when you talk to her . never downplay your intelligence or play dumb to get the attention of the girl you like or to seem cooler around your friends . avoid boasting about the things you know or trying too hard with silly jokes . just make funny observations , engage in school , and dont pretend to know a lot about something unless you really do give her your full attention and listen carefully when she talks to you to show her that you really care what she has to say . use polite language like please and thank you when youre asking her a question , and wish her a good night or weekend when youre parting ways . kindness and respect can really make you stand out if other people she knows just try to tease her or end up being mean to get her attention . everyone likes to be listened to and respected , and being mean is an immature way to get noticed . remember things she says that you can bring up in later conversations . if she talks about a tv show she likes , you can start another conversation the next week saying , hey , did you see that there was a marathon of that show you like on tv yesterday show you are more mature than other boys by not engaging in some of the things you might see other boys doing , like teasing or taunting girls to get their attention . know that girls mature sooner than boys , so even if youre in sixth grade too , a sixth grade girl may be going through changes that you dont know about yet . never tease a girl about her body or call her bad names that you hear on tv or from other boys . the girl will not respond well or like you at all if you do these things . instead , use respectful and polite language with her , and give her compliments on aspects of her personality , like her sense of humor or her taste in music , rather than on her appearance . if you talk to her about how you like her or ask to go on a date or start a relationship and she says no , dont get upset or mad . respect her feelings and dont bug her about it . understand that she may not be ready for a relationship yet , could have mixed feelings about you , or just not have those feelings at all . be friends with the girl if shes not interested in dating or anything else with you . join a club , sport , or other extracurricular activity that she does to spend more time around her and get to know her better . talk to her about the club or sport , and even ask her for tips if youre new and just learning about what youre doing . avoid joining in on everything that the girl is a part of , as she might become suspicious or annoyed that youre suddenly everywhere she goes . instead , choose some of her activities that you are genuinely interested in getting involved with and learning more about . join her at a table at lunch , sit next to her in a class , or another occasion during or after school . you dont need to sit right next to her at lunch , just at the same table and close enough that you can start a conversation and make eye contact with her . start with a simple hey , can i sit here then you can move on to other easy topics , like school subjects or a school dance coming up . dont be afraid to talk to everyone else at the table , too , and not just her . talk to her friends individually or when theyre in a group and get to know them by being kind , asking questions , and finding things in common , just like you do with her . learn more about her through them , and she will notice and feel comfortable around you when youre friendly with all of her friends , too . dont worry about trying to get her alone and away from her friends if you always see her with them . it might be hard to talk to her with others around , but if you talk to everyone in the group , not just her , it will be a lot easier to feel comfortable with them and get chances later to catch her one - on - one . when youre in a group or sitting together , stand or sit near her so you can be ready to start a conversation . dont violate her personal space or boundaries , or touch her without permission , but you can let her know youre there with a wave or come up closer to talk to her . if you dont want to get too close to her , you can still subtly mimic her body language to send a signal that youre paying attention to her . if she crosses her arms , leans her head on her hand , or stands with her hands in her pockets while shes talking to you , wait at least 20 seconds and do the same or something similar . dont engage in teasing or taunting behavior that you might see other boys doing to get a girls attention she will not like you or be interested in you at all . never touch her or her stuff without asking first , tease her with names , or say anything about her body . treat her with respect and be kind to her if you want her attention . you can get suspended or expelled from school or get into other major trouble for touching or harassing a girl , so dont do it . even calling her names or teasing her when youre chatting on the computer or texting is wrong , could get you in trouble , and should never be done . dont follow what you learn on tv or movies , from video games , or other boys your age or older if they talk about calling girls certain names or making any comments about how a girls body has changed or how it looks . call a girl by her own name or what she prefers to be called , and say nice things to her , preferably about her personality rather than how she looks . be friends with a girl if shes not interested in dating or anything else with you . also listen to what she says and leave her alone entirely if she asks you to .

its hard , dont text , dont call her friend , dont call her by any cute terminology , dont give her as many compliments as you used to , have the balance of being nice guy and a bad boy , what if she calls you friend , bud , or anything platonic , just ignore it , especially if you like her or even love her . dont always agree with her . tell her how you feel , dont just sit around thinking about her . if this fails , try moving on .

how to get out of the friend zone guys

but it will take time for her to realize if she really likes you . if you get put into the friend zone , it might not be your fault . maybe shes just not ready for something serious yet . or , she may have a boyfriend . ring . if you ring her more than you text her , it may be good for is your confidence , because she will likely take it as your friend . especially if you want to get into a relationship with her , and get out of the friend zone . no matter how much you want to , this will just push you further into the friend zone no matter how much you want to , she will take notice of the ones you do give , and she will more likely to return the compliments to you . the nice guy approach is good sometimes , but with some girls the nice guy gets nowhere . all girls are different and the bad boy doesnt always work out all the time , either . this is hard if you and her are close friends agree in a couple of things , this is good . if you agree with her all the time , it means that shes winning , not you . be honest about your feelings , see what she thinks , and hopefully someday you two will be in a relationship . although , dont worry yet , this is a hard task that may take some time get a plan , and make her yours there are plenty of fish in the sea , have confidence . and most of all enjoy life , dont let her hold you back

take your time . take a break . keep busy .

how to deal with having a crush on your friends sister 1

dont rush into pursuing your feelings . remember , crushes dont last forever . you may feel intensely for just a few weeks about this person before your feelings begin to mellow out . if you find you still have feelings for your friends sister after a few months , then you may wish to pursue it . in the meantime , you may wish to keep your distance and figure out how you feel . getting over a crush can almost feel like getting over an addiction . crushes cause the brain to produce dopamine - - the same chemical that drives a drug addicts next high . so if it feels difficult to step back , thats because it is force yourself to stay away from your friends sister for a week or so and see if you feel any differently about her . you might just be attracted to her because you are seeing her a lot . stop visiting their house and spend time with your friend elsewhere . sometimes people develop crushes on others just because they are around those people frequently . this is called the exposure effect or the familiarity principle the more you are around or exposed to somethingsomeone , the more you will like it . if you are spending a lot of time at your friends house and their sister is always hanging around , for example , you may start to have feelings for her . taking a break from seeing the sister will help you to discern if your feelings are genuine . have your friend come over to your house instead , talk to them on the phone , or hang out somewhere else . find something else to occupy your thoughts and time , whether it is learning a new skill , taking up a new hobby , or earning some money . surround yourself with other friends to keep your mind off your crush and keep an active social life . go exercise at the gym . go to the library and read . start a babysitting program . get a job . do things for your own self - improvement . have an active social life . visit other friends and fill up your weekends with activities and social events . plan a big party or outing for your friends .

talk to your friend . listen to your friends response . remember that friendships usually outlast romance .

how to deal with having a crush on your friends sister 2

yes , this may be an awkward conversation . you may want to be honest and tell your friend about your crush , however , particularly if you continue to have strong feelings . your friend may be able to provide some perspective and advice . you could say , this is kind of embarrassing , but i really like emily . ive liked her for a few months now . i thought id tell you because im not sure what i should do , and id like to hear what you think . keep in mind that your friend might have a strong reaction , like ew , no , shes my sister or im totally freaked out by this . you could respond , i know how weird it probably is for you . i thought a lot about whether or not i should tell you . but i decided to be honest with you about it , because my feelings havent changed . your friend might be angry , disgusted , or maybe even think its a great idea . ask your friend what they think you should do . they may be able to see something about the situation that you are blind to . you could say , i was wondering if you think i should ask her out . but i dont want to let this get between us and ruin our friendship . i dont want to do it if it will be too weird for you . give your friend some time to think about their response if they need to . if your friend doesnt want you to date their sister , accept their answer and do your best to move on . if you go against your friends wishes to pursue their sister , you will likely damage your friendship . keep in mind that later in life , you will likely have a greater regret about losing a friendship than not pursuing a crush .

determine if it is worth the risk . figure out if she is interested . get to know the sister . ask her out . go on a few dates . be sensitive to your friends feelings .

how to deal with having a crush on your friends sister 3

consider the possibility that a romantic relationship between you and the sister could have repercussions on your relationship with your friend . family loyalty runs deep , and you may find yourself running into problems with both siblings . if you and the sister break up , your friend may take her side and be angry with you . the sister may not want to pursue a relationship with you if she sees how upsetting it is to her sibling . observe her behavior and determine if you think she might like you . because of the potential of damaging your friendship , you might not want to pursue her unless you know you have a good chance of being successful . for example , maybe she is talking to you a lot , making eye contact and smiling . those could be signs she is interested in you . if the only thing you know about her is that shes cute and is related to your friend , spend some time learning more about her . her personality may make her more or less attractive to you . talk to her while at your friends house . ask her about her interests and favorite things . find out what you have in common besides your friend . for example , you could ask are you going out for the swim team again next year which events did you do this year or i heard you have mr . winters for geometry . how are you doing in that class it was impossible for me . try to get to know her without your friend present , but do not try to ditch your friend to do this . wait until your friend leaves the room , for example . you may find out that while you enjoy hanging out with the sister in your friends presence , you may find that the dynamic changes when you and the sister are alone . for example , you may enjoy the way your friend and their sister tease each other in your presence , but you and the sister do not have that same component to your relationship . if your friend is okay with it and if the sister seems interested , you may decide to ask the sister out . find a moment when the two of you can be alone without your friend present and let her know how you feel . acknowledge that the situation is strange . the sister might be uncomfortable with the idea at first . she might feel loyalty to her sibling and not want to hurt their feelings . give her some time to think about it . you could say , i know its weird because im brians friend . but weve been hanging out so much together this summer , and ive gotten to know you better and enjoy your company . so i was wondering if you wanted to go out sometime . let her know that you have talked to her sibling about it . you could say , i told tina how i feel and she is okay with me asking you out . we talked about it for a long time . i didnt want to cause any problems in your family . if she doesnt seem interested , let it go and move on . it is not worth pursuing her to risk your relationship with your friend . see how it is hanging out with just the sister . see if you have any romantic connection , or if she is just someone you care about as a friend or like a sister . if she seems to like you , too , take things very slowly . do not rush the relationship . you do not want to move too fast and cause hurt feelings that could damage your relationship with your friend . if it doesnt seem like you have a connection beyond just a friendship , stop dating her . dont force the relationship to happen . it could complicate your relationship with your friend and their family . for example , you could say , i really like you , but i think we are better as friends . i dont want to hurt your feelings , but i also dont want to end up hurting your familys feelings , too . i really like your sibling and think that trying to make this work will just create bad blood between all of us . understand that a relationship with their sister changes the dynamics of your friendship . your friend might be jealous that you are spending more time with their sister than with them . balance your time between the sister and your friend . you may want to be spending all your time with the sister , but keep in mind that you were friends with her sibling first . make a special effort to do things with just your friend . invite your friend over to your house , without the sister present , to do something that you both enjoy . keep your relationship with your friends sister separate . do not invite your friend out with you and the sister , for example .

become familiar to her . talk to her . find out what she is interested in . try to establish a friendship . give her sincere compliments . be nice to her friends . act relaxed and confident when you are around her . make small romantic moves .

how to get a girl to notice you 1

girls are more likely to talk to a guy if they are not complete strangers . catch her eye in class and smile , nod at her in the school hallways , or make an effort to sit near her at lunch . of course , dont follow her around that might creep her out but simply making sure she knows your face will make her more receptive to talking to you at some point . little things like asking her the date or hanging out at the same after - school spot will make her begin to start noticing you . while this might seem obvious , lots of guys struggle with the idea of approaching the girl they like . however , youre just going to have to go for it . walk up to her before class and strike up a conversation , talk to her in the lunch line , or say hey to her at a party . make a passing joke about your teachers silly tie in math class or ask her what she did this weekend while waiting in line for lunch . be observant . what does she like to do are there any clues that can give you an idea of what she likes maybe she is constantly doodling in class , or carrying a soccer ball around . this little things you observe about her can help you to come up with ideas for what to talk to her about . to do this , youll have to be bold . once youve talked to her a bit , you should start asking her questions about herself . what does she like to do what movies is she into whats her favorite sport , art or food the possibilities are endless , but the answers will help you to form a friendship . however , keep in mind that you shouldnt just pummel her with questions that may be sort of weird but ask a question and let the conversation develop naturally . once you guys have talked and she knows who you are , consider asking her to hang out . start by asking her to do something in a group and tell her to bring her friends along this will make her more inclined to say yes . ask her to come to the movies with your friends , play a pickup soccer game , go on a hike , go to a concert , etc . when you guys hang out , be attentive to her but not clingy - - just act like you would with anyone else in your friend group . everyone likes to complimented now and then - - make her day and give her a compliment that you really mean . its important to say something that you really believe - - fake compliments can sound stiff and are easily spotted . if you like her dress , tell her her dress is really cute . if she just played a song for you on the guitar and it was great - - tell her that no matter what , you should always treat girls with respect - - regardless of whether or not they are the one you are interested in . it helps to be extra nice to her friends . if they see you as the caring , sweet , funny guy you are , chances are they will tell the girl you like . however , dont hang out with her friends or just one of her friends all the time - - it might give her the idea that you are romantically interested in one of her friends . even if your heart lurches weirdly into your mouth , or you start sweating , act as relaxed as you can when hanging out with her , particularly if you dont want to make a romantic move just yet or clue her in to the fact that you want something more than friendship . girls like a confident guy , not someone who becomes a hot mess whenever they approach him . part of acting relaxed is reminding yourself that youre a really cool and nice dude - - any girl would be lucky to have such a great guy interested in her . smile like you mean it . a sincere smile is a very attractive thing . if she makes a joke , allow yourself to laugh . when you look at her , or wave bye when walking to class , smile genuinely . make eye contact . look your girl in the eye when you guys are talking . eye contact is a sign of confidence . if you look anywhere but at her face , she might think you are uninterested in her or that you have better things to do besides hang out with her . once you have established a friendship and you know that you want to make it something more , start making some romantic gestures that will clue her into the fact that you like her . remember important dates like her birthday and do something nice for her on that day , walk her to her next class and then sprint to yours , or ask her to a dance . when you feel confident enough to do so , ask the girl you like out .

show her you have a sense of humor . be confident in yourself . be attentive . display good manners . show passion for the things you are interested in . let her know that you have emotional depth .

how to get a girl to notice you 2

everyone loves to laugh . humor is a great way to get and keep a girls attention , so long as it is the right sort of humor . while this might not apply to some girls , most girls are generally a little turned off by crude or mean humor . of course , being funny doesnt mean that you need to transform yourself into the next chris pratt , but throwing some humor into a conversation can definitely catch a girls attention . if youre not a natural - born comedian , here are some tips on creating your style of humordont wait for the girl to laugh . quick , witty humor that seems unassuming is a good way to go - - if she thinks youre funny , shell laugh . however , never draw attention to the fact if she doesnt laugh - - that will just make the situation awkward , and you a little desperate . example dont say something like oh so you didnt think that was funny find some inspiration in famous comedians . if you feel like you need a little help getting into the comedic mood , watch comedians on tv or pay attention to the funny characters in movies . watch how they deliver their jokes , but dont memorize their jokes and simply repeat them that could come across as rather stiff . use situational humors . while dishing out witty one - liners can make a girl laugh , try commenting on your situation or environment in a funny way . dont pick on the girl youre interested in . while teasing may be funny at first , dont rely on it as your only source of humor because that can definitely get old . if you find that teasing is something youre pretty good at - - tease yourself . self - deprecating humor can be funny and will show the girl that you are confident enough in yourself that you can make fun of your own flaws . confidence is a very attractive quality . feel good about yourself because you are an awesome dude - - your inner confidence will shine through and your girl will notice . walk with your head held high , volunteer interesting information , and dont hesitate when walking up to the girl you like - - just do it . having confidence also means laughing at yourself and not getting in a huff when the girl you like has other plans or talks to another guy . being confident does not mean that you should act cocky . there is a fine line between being confident and being a self - involved jerk . when you are confident , you have faith in your abilities without holding that over others . when youre cocky , you brag about how awesome you are . avoid the latter . girls are attractive to guys who are confident without telling everyone around them how great they are , constantly . when you are talking to the girl you like , give her your undivided attention . listen carefully to what she has to say - - you may learn something you didnt know about her , or find that you both have mutual interests , dreams , or ideas . ask her about herself . not only will this show that you care , it will also give you information you can use to woo her later . any questions that are sincere and respectfully asked are fair game - - find out what movies she likes , what her dreams are , what her favorite meal is , etc . give her time to answer . dont interrupt her a lot when shes speaking - - you asked the question so you should give her time to speak her mind . plus , the fact that she wants to talk to you is a really good thing - - dont cut it short . when youre getting to know a girl , it is important to be polite . after all - - a lot of girls feel like chivalry is dead . show her that this is not the case . open doors for her , offer to help her carry her stuff , etc . avoid offensive behavior sexistracistderogatory jokes are definitely off the table - - but you shouldnt be saying that kind of stuff anyway . if you are really interested in something , show it . when you throw yourself into something you are really passionate about , it is pretty obvious and attractive - - it shows that you care about something outside of yourself , and that you are dedicated . try to be the best you can be - - youre sure to catch you girls attention . dont be embarrassed about what you are passionate about . if you are enthusiastic , confident , and happy , people will become interested in what you are into or at least respect your interests . if you are crazy about hiking , pick a hike that is gorgeous and relatively easy to take your non - hiking friends and the girl you like on - - theyll be sure to have fun . this doesnt mean that you need to sob like a baby when a sad topic gets mentioned , but you should allow some of your feelings to show . this means that you might need to say something like when i watched the notebook , i kept thinking about how hard it must be to have a loved one with alzheimers . it made me feel so sad for people experiencing that disease . saying things like this and meaning them will show the girl you like that you have a deeper side .

groom yourself . put a little effort into how you dress . consider your body language . stay in shape .

how to get a girl to notice you 3

if you do nothing else , remember this - - you should shower regularly and brush your teeth . no girl is going to want to cozy up to a guy who has stuff in his teeth and smells like b . o . bust out that great - smelling body wash and deodorant and start thinking of your toothbrush as your best friend . of course , there are plenty of other things you can do to get her attention with your well - groomed looks . going beyond the basics find a cologne that will make girls swoon , wash your face so that your skin is blemish free , add a little bit of styling gel to your hair to get that ‘i just got out of bed but im so manly that i just look this good all the time look - - the possibilities are endless . if its going to make you smell good , look good , and feel good , its probably something you should try . considering body hair clip that nose hair and pluck that unibrow if youre rocking some facial hair , props to you . just make sure to keep it in check - - its generally better to have no beard than a flowing , ‘ive just been asleep for 100 years rip van winkle look . clipping your nails do it . you dont want to be thinking about holding her hand , only to cut her with your talons when you make a move . while youre at it , scrape that dirt out from under there . this doesnt mean going out and buying a whole new wardrobe , but you should definitely give your wardrobe some consideration . ditch any articles of clothing that are stained or torn . everyone has their own style - - but ‘slob style is definitely the least attractive . dont wear the same shirt every day of the week , and try to put a bit more effort into your outfit instead of just throwing on a sweatshirt and sweatpants . play up your style . whether you are a hipster , jock , or have some style all your own , put a little effort into what you wear in the morning . believe it or not , your posture actually plays a big part in how girls perceive you . if you have a tendency to hunch , avoid eye contact and play with your hands , a girl is going to be less inclined to come over and strike up a conversation . stand up straight , keep your eyes up , and get a smile going - - you will look much more approachable . keep in mind that while you really should have good posture , you should also carry yourself with ease . standing up straight does not mean walking around like a robot or holding yourself so rigidly that you look like frankenstein . if you dont know how to carry yourself with ease , draw inspiration from movies or tv . watch how the lead guy holds himself and eventually charms his way into the lead girls heart . while this does not mean that you have to lift for your life , you should keep in mind that if you want to get that drop dead gorgeous girl to notice you , youre going to have to keep your physique in mind . she puts effort into her looks , so you should too . start an exercise routine that combines both cardio and weight - training for an all around toned look . keep in mind that most girls like a guy who looks fit , but not one that has muscles that are about to rip through his t - shirt every time he raises his arm in class . if your goal is to look like arnold schwarzenegger when he was mr . universe , you may want to tone it back a bit .

introduce yourself to her by saying hello . youll need her to know that you exist . break the ice with an indirect approach . use her first name . ask her what she does in her spare time . laugh when she makes a joke . smile at her . talk about shared passions . be yourself by sharing your true interests and values .

how to drop hints to a girl that you like her 1

if you like a girl but havent had the chance to actually meet her , start with a simple introduction . be relaxed and start with a simple greetingyou could say , hi its so great to finally meet you . my name is john . you might say , hello my name is susan . so lovely to finally meet you although breaking the ice can be intimidating , try to find a way to keep the conversation going beyond an initial greeting . you might try an indirect approach , such as asking for a favor , making a statement , and expressing curiosity . if you are at the cafeteria , you could say , do you mind passing the salt if you are at a coffee shop , you could say , wow , the dark roast is excellent although it may sound simple , girls love it when you say their name in a conversation . when you address them in a conversation , remember to include their first name . for instance , you should use their name when you ask them for a favor . you could say , susan , could you pass the ketchup you should also use their name when you ask them a question . for instance , you might say , susan , i was wondering , what inspired you to get into competitive swimming if you go to school or work together , you could ask her what she enjoys doing in her own time . by showing an interest in her life , youll be subtly hinting that you like her . if she shares something about her life , listen and learn , laughing is one of the best ways to drop a hint that you like a girl , especially if she has a sense of humor if she cracks a joke , dont be the person who ignores it or fails to get her way of seeing the world . show your appreciation for her sense of humorif you have an inside joke , bring it up often . crack a joke even if its lame , shell laugh at the attempt and may even find it cute . since she makes you happy , express yourself with a nice grin be genuine and use body language , such as touching your face or hair while you smile . shell appreciate how friendly and genuine you are with her , and she may very well smile back , you can develop a friendship with her by finding a common interest , such as a band or an artist you both like . once you find a common interest , nurture the friendship by taking time to learn about your common interest together . for instance , if the band you like comes to town , you could see if she wants to go see them with you . once you find a band you both like , you could ask her which album she likes best . if you are both really into the same band , you could ask her on a concert date . you could say , i have an extra ticket to the drake concert in july . do you want to go instead of pretending to be someone you think she will like , youre better off simply being yourself share your true interests , beliefs , values , and opinions . by giving an honest picture of yourself , youll be showing how much you like and respect her .

dont give them any signs that you are desperately in love . if youre interested in getting a date with this person , stay calm . get help from a trustworthy friend . act cool and collected around them . stay clean . before you try to talk to them , have a mental outline of what youre going to say . when dealing with a person that has had a recent break - up , let them know that they have your support and that they can talk to you . dont act too confident , dont stress out .

how to deal with a crush for guys

instead , try to get to know them or even be friends . they wont like or date you if they dont know you . dont make a fool of yourself . try to speak to them but make sure you dont do anything bizarre . tell them your problem and pay attention to any advice they give you . since your friend is not the one in love , they are probably more clear - headed than you are just now . try to pay attention to your appearance and look nice , but dont overdo it . just be yourself . you dont want them to think youre a slob . make sure you smell good - no expensive cologne needed , just dont reek . whatever you do , dont wear a ton of anything scented - especially stuff like axe . everyone can get sick of this . believe me . the commercials about people attacking you are wrong . know your topic , what you want to say about it , and what you want to ask them about it . yes , you have to ask them questions , otherwise you are simply talking at them and you look dumb . but dont go overboard . you have to make sure that you dont sound like you are going to force them to cry on your shoulder . although you should have some confidence in yourself , people really like it when guys are shy and awkward and cute . too much confidence makes you look like arrogant or maybe even rude . but dont overdo the awkwardness , it will come naturally . overall , just behave naturally , like you would around your friends . although you might not believe youre on a date with the person dont stress out about it because stressing can lead to a date disaster . try to think about things they like if the conversation steers the wrong way .

make eye contact with her at an event . pass her a short handwritten note . show your support for something she is doing . remember what she is drinking .

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if you find yourself at a party or an event with her , you should try to make eye contact . although you dont want to stare at her in a creepy way , you should make eye contact with her to show your interest and hopefully strike up a conversation , although you may feel too nervous to approach her out of the blue , you could express your interest in her by writing a short note . use a nice pen or pencil . write a short note and pass it to her at the end of class or after a shift at work . if you are writing a note in class , you should try to give it to her directly . if you have a business card , you could write your note on it . if there is an opportunity for you to show your support for her , you should take it attend any performances she might be giving , such as dance recitals , concerts , and theatrical performances . it is a great chance to learn more about her , meet some of her friends and express your feelings for her . if she is performing a concert and shared a group invite with you on social media , go and show your support dont go to her performances or events if you are not invited . she may get the impression that you are a creep , so stick to the events that she actually invites you to attend . if you are at a bar or a coffee shop , try to remember what she orders . the next time you are at the establishment with her , you could order her the drink before she has a chance . shell likely be surprised and touched that you remembered , and may get the hint that you like her . when she is in line at the coffee shop , you could jot down a note of her drink order . it could also be a mental note . if she goes to the bar to get a drink , you could go with her and listen to her order . the next time she needs a drink , youll know what to order .

buy her a fancy drink . treat her to something sweet . give her a book you really like . make her a mix tape that tells a story

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pick her up a nice coffee , fancy tea , wine , beer , or any other drink that she enjoys . although youll still need to express your appreciation for her in conversation , it may give her a hint that you really enjoy spending time with her . find out if she has a favorite dessert . the next time you hang out , give her something she really likes . for instance , you could treat her to an ice cream , candy , chocolate bar , crepe , chocolate cake , or a piece of pie . ask her what she likes best . you might say , whats your favorite candy bar you could start finding common interests by sharing books with her . although she may not have the same taste in reading , you can express how much you value her opinion and ideas by sharing a book that you really like . after she reads it , listen to her opinions about the book . if you show a genuine interest in her ideas , shell hopefully get the hint that you like her on multiple levels , including her minddont be offended if she doesnt like the book . you can always find other things in common express your feelings for her by compiling a mix tape . add songs that you have listened to together , as well as songs that you want her to hear because of their significance for you . try to tell a story with the mix tape , such as a story about your growing relationship or your feelings for her . instead of a tape , make a spotify playlist for her . give the mix tape after you have had a chance to get to know her .

put aside your feelings about your weight . spend time talking together . be well groomed . pluck up the courage to ask . be persistent . keep calm . if you feel that you are unhappy with your appearance , see a doctor or a health professional and discuss your options . as for the girl youre pursuing . make sure you like her for the right reasons .

how to date a girl at middle school when youre overweight

use your weight to your advantage . act confident and like you know youre overweight and dont care . a lot of of girls will feel that you offer protection . if you really like a girl , the important thing is for her to like you back . she is more likely to respond positively to you if you are a caring , vibrant and outgoing person who shows respect and interest in her . girls respond to kindness , respect and displaying interest in their life and needs . she will be less likely to focus on your weight and see your wonderful personality if you do too . try to get to know her first . strike up a conversation over shared interests , such as books when in the library or nature when outdoors . after you have spent time talking together , start to compliment her in little ways here and there . she will notice and this will go beyond the matter of your size . brush your hair , take a daily shower using good smelling shampoo , conditioner , and body wash . wear deodorant , and if you like , a little cologne . brush , floss , and use mouth wash for oral hygiene . clean your clothes , never wear them twice in a row . think of a place that the two of you can go together where you will feel comfortable and that you think she will also like to go . suggest going there together in a friendly , casual manner . if she says no , you are simply in dating land . do not refocus on your weight . instead , focus on the reality that dating is hard work your strength still remains in letting your potential girlfriend know what a great person you are by always being friendly , helpful and caring in your attitude toward her . and if you are naturally funny , share jokes and fun stories as well but dont force it and dont use humor to put yourself down - there is never any need to draw attention to your looks or weight in a derogatory manner . a calm , smooth and confident voice will always command attention , as will genuine eye contact . focus on all the dating techniques - there are plenty on wikihow . join a gym or try to get hold of some home gym equipment and do some light weights and build up a regular cardiovascular exercise program . there are always ways to combat weight problems , they may take time and they may take a lot of effort but if you persevere you will get there . if you only like her because shes hot , its probably not going to work out . you want a girl to see who you are as a person , so why not do the same for other girls

breathe . look away . get out of the situation . find a friend to talk to . one of the best ways to cope with this situation is to immediately track down one of your friends and talk to them .

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seeing your crush with another guy is not a good feeling , especially if you had no idea she was with someone else already . you thought you had a chance with her and suddenly you realize that you dont . your first instinct might be to panic or even get angry . getting upset is a normal reaction . you might find yourself breathing very fast or holding your breath when this happens . this can make your anxiety a lot worse , unfortunately . take a moment to focus on your breathing . breathe slowly and deeply . if it helps , close your eyes for a moment . inhale while counting to five , then exhale while counting to five . the more you look at her with someone else , the more it will hurt . its going to be hard , but force yourself to look away . if you dont , you might start getting visibly upset , which will make you feel even worse . if youre staring , she might notice and get uncomfortable . her boyfriend might also notice and get angry . youll feel better if you focus on something else . pull out a book or your class notes and focus on reading . even if youre too upset to read , do what you can to keep your eyes on the page . if youre not in class , pull out your phone and text a friend or play a game . this isnt always going to be an option , but if you can , get up and leave the room . try to do this as calmly and naturally as you can . keep your pace normal as you head for the door . find a quiet place where you can have a moment of privacy . your thoughts will probably feel really negative at first . you might feel angry at yourself , or not good enough . this is normal . for every negative thought you have , try to immediately follow it up with a positive one . for instance , you might think , he is way more popular than me and better at sports , too . of course she likes him over me . try to counter this with a positive thought right away . you could think , but im popular , too . i have lots of friends . maybe im not good at sports but im good at other things . make sure its someone you trust and can be open with . tell your friend what happened , even if you feel a little embarrassed about it . chances are , your friend has experienced this very same situation . it tends to happen to everyone at some point talking about it with a friend can help you feel a lot better .

unfollow her social media accounts . this can be a tough one , because youll naturally want to see what shes doing . avoid the places where she hangs out . you probably know where she tends to spend a lot of her time , which makes it easy for you to avoid these places completely . stay busy . it can be easy to isolate yourself when you feel sad about a crush .

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unfortunately , her social media will probably involve lots of pictures and posts of her with someone else . stop following her twitter , instagram , and tumblr accounts . you dont have to unfriend her on facebook – she will probably notice this and it could make your friendship awkward . instead , use facebooks privacy settings to block her updates from showing up in your feed . having to deal with her presence constantly online will make the situation so much harder for you . unfollowing her on social media will help you think about her less and keep you from obsessing over what shes doing . this doesnt have to be a permanent thing , and you should never feel like a place is off - limits to you because of another person . however , youll probably feel better if you avoid her known hang - outs for a short time , at least at first . out of sight , out of mind is an old cliché that can be very useful when youre trying to get over a crush . youll make it harder on yourself to get past the situation if its in your face all the time . you might not feel like being around people and it may seem preferable to be alone in your room . make an effort to focus on your school work or find a new hobby that will keep you actively thinking about other things . look for activities that will get you out of the house and around other people . it might take a little extra energy to focus on something other than your crush , but you can do it . trying out new hobbies and making plans with your friends can help you keep your mind distracted .

get support . find an outlet for your feelings . take care of yourself . be open to a new crush . make an effort to hang out with people who you share similar interests and hobbies with . build your resilience . learn how to handle disappointment .

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if having this crush is affecting you too much or in a negative way , talk to your friends and family about it . ask your friends to distract you and change the subject when you bring up your crush . sometimes it helps to vent to someone you trust , like a parent or sibling . if you feel too shy to talk to your parents or friends about your crush , consider talking to a guidance counselor or school therapist about your feelings . sometimes its easier to talk openly with someone who you dont have to see every day . many people find that writing their feelings down in a journal helps them feel better about bad situations . if you dont enjoy writing , there are lots of other ways to express your emotions . try doing something creative , like art or music . if you respond better to physical activities , get involved with a sport or take frequent walks . try loading your favorite songs into your ipod and hitting the jogging trail . physical activity can help you focus on something else and it can have positive effects on your well - being . being upset about a crush can have a lot of negative effects . you might have a hard time sleeping at night . sometimes people lose their appetite and they start skipping meals . these are normal reactions to sad feelings . even if you dont feel like it , try to practice self - care during this time . drink plenty of water and eat well . get as much sleep as you can . whenever your body gets run down , dealing with emotional issues is much harder . keeping yourself physically healthy will help you move on faster . not only will this keep you distracted , but it puts you in a good position to meet a new crush . for a short time , it might feel like your current crush is the only girl in the world . you may think youll never like another girl as much as her ever again . this is a normal feeling and it will pass . remember , there are other girls out there its okay to feel sad for a little while , but not forever . meeting someone new can help you get over your crush and move on . resilience is a quality that helps you to keep moving forward when you encounter difficult situations . try to develop your resilience to help make moving forward easier on you and to protect yourself in the future . some things you can do to develop your resilience includedevelop a positive view of the future and of yourself . set realistic goals . get to know yourself . as you move forward , it is important to recognize that this is probably not the only time that you will experience disappointment . however , you can develop your ability to deal with disappointment so that you will be better equipped to handle it in the future . some things you can do includefacing your disappointment head on . instead of avoiding the situation , acknowledge it and look for learning opportunities and solutions . let yourself feel the emotions you are having for a little while . it is okay to feel express your feelings when you are disappointed . just make sure that you do not dwell on these feelings . try telling a friend how you feel or writing about your feelings to help you get them off your chest . do something nice for yourself . when things dont go your way , you might also find it helpful to do something kind for yourself , like you might do for a friend who is feeling down . buy yourself a new book , pair of shoes , or an outfit . take yourself for a massage or manicure . or , just give yourself permission to spend the day doing whatever you want , whether that is playing video games , watching movies , reading , or hiking in the woods .

shift your gaze around . wear sunglasses to obscure your eyes . watch her from afar . use your peripheral vision . check her out quickly .

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staring makes it obvious that youre checking a girl out . instead of keeping your eyes on her , pretend like youre looking around the room naturally . as youre moving your head and eyes around , sneak looks at the girl that you want to check out . for instance if you notice her at a sporting event , you can pretend to watch the game but steal looks at her instead . if you share the same lunch period you can act like youre looking around the cafeteria or looking at your friends , when youre really checking her out . sunglasses will hide where youre looking and enable you to check out a girl without her thinking that youre looking directly at her . if you want to use sunglasses , make sure that you get ones with dark or reflective lenses so that she cant see your eyes . if youre far enough away from the girl , she wont be able to see your eyes or where youre looking . if you dont want her to notice you , wait for her to walk at least five feet 1 . 5 m away before turning to look at her . dont follow the girl around , just check her out when shes around you . dont do this repeatedly or she and her friends may think youre creepy . instead of looking directly in the girls direction , you can use your side vision , or your peripheral vision , to check them out . you can practice this in your room by keeping your head straight and trying to look at things on the side of you . instead of turning your head or facing the girl , look at her from the side . theres no reason why you need to stare at someone . instead , just take a quick glance , check her out , and then look at something else . if you check her out for too long , it could come off as creepy and isnt a habit you want to get into .

pretend that youre reading . look at her while shes preoccupied . create a distraction . pretend that theres a reason to be around her .

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put a book or a newspaper in front of you and pretend that youre reading it . when the girl comes near you or walks past you , you can lift your gaze and check her out without her noticing . if you pull it off correctly , shell just think that you were reading . if the girls concentration is on something else , she wont be looking at you and you can check her out without her noticing . she could be talking to someone else , eating , exercising , or her head could be turned . just make sure that her attention is on something else so that she doesnt catch you checking her out . if the girls attention isnt on anything , you can create a distraction to misdirect her . drop something on the ground or ask her to help you with homework and then check her out while shes concentrating on it . you can also ask her opinion of a piece of art , show , or event , and then sneak a look at her . try to come up with valid excuses of why you might need to be around her . group up with her for group projects or try to sit next to her if you share classes together . if she regularly shops at a certain place , you can start shopping there so that you have more opportunities and excuses to be around her .

dont make the girl feel uncomfortable . apologize and stop checking her out if she catches you . introduce yourself to the girl instead of checking her out . look at girls in the eye . dont check out girls around your significant other .

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if you keep checking the girl out and staring at her , it could make her feel uncomfortable and threatened . if the girl looks or tells you that she feels uncomfortable , stop looking at her and walk away . if the girl catches you , dont try to avoid the situation . instead , admit that you were checking her out , apologize , and stop doing it . she will appreciate your honesty and your apology . you can say something like , im sorry , i didnt mean to stare i just think youre really pretty . i wont anymore . if you think a girl is pretty and want to look at her , you can introduce yourself to her . go up to her and introduce yourself by telling her your name and then asking for hers . take a look at her body language . if she seems interested in talking to you more , make small talk with her . you can say something like hey , my name is dan . whats your name instead of checking out a girl , you should really try looking them in the face or the eyes . this shows respect and is a gesture that girls can reciprocate . if you have a bad habit of looking at women in an inappropriate way , try looking at them in the face more often . if youre checking out girls around your significant other , it can do more than just make the girl that youre checking out feel uncomfortable . it can also cause your significant other to get jealous and mad at you . avoid checking out girls around your significant other or keep it as stealthy and unnoticeable as you can .

become physically fit . dress to attract . maintain your personal hygiene . uphold good posture . eat well .

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many people think that you have to lift weights to get fit . this is not the case . you can do a full work out without a gym membership . push - ups work your chest and triceps massively while crunches work your abs . you also want to try step out of the house for your cardio by biking , running , or swimming . do sit ups by putting your calffeet on the seat of a chair , with your back on the ground . then put your hands on the back of your head and move your head towards the ceiling . exercising not only tones your body to promote your attractiveness , it also gives you more energy and confidence . dressing your age tells a lot about your personality . it is proven that a guy who dresses like he is 16 isnt as attractive as a guy wearing a mature look . you dont have to wear a sport coat but a simple upgrade to your style will help . invest in chinos and nicer jeans instead of continuing to wear old worn out denim . go for slim cuts in both your top and bottom . try out several colors and pick the ones that accent your attributes hair , skin , and eye color the most . look after your shoes . discard your sneakers after they start to rip or loss their thread . care for your leather shoes by treating them twice a year . also a good thing to take into account is the feel of your clothes . when you break the touch barrier , girls like things that feel nice and its also important that you feel physically comfortable in them . one technique to attract someone is by wearing an eye - catching outfit . scientifically , women are more inclined to be attracted to a man wearing red . its the same reason a cop is more inclined to pull over a red sedan over a blue sedan . red catches the eye . take care of your body and smell nice . take a shower everyday and use shampoo and soap products that compliment your body . find a deodorant that smells good with a pinch of musk . consider a touch of cologne for those special dates , but never use more than two squirts . brush your teeth regularly , at least twice a day , and use other dental hygiene - related items like floss and mouthwash . consider using lotion for the colder months so your skin stays moist and healthy to the touch . this is something simple thatll increase your daily presentation . it is easy to miss this when most jobs require you to slouch over a computer at a desk . straightening your posture will make you look taller , stronger , and more confident . imagine your upper torso is molded on a coat hanger . eating well not only helps with your body image , but it helps yourself in several ways . improving your diet can increase your energy , confidence , and your general well - being . these factors will help embellish other features of yourself that a woman may find attractive . start small and be sure to drink enough water everyday about eight glasses . increase the amount of fruits and vegetables you consume . avoid carb heavy meals like bread , potatoes , pastas , and rice . you can eat these as long as they are paired with other foods that hold higher nutritional benefits .

pursue a passion . talk to women more often . practice respect and kindness . take risks to have fun . be intellectually curious . use your sense of humor . be a confident person .

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women are attracted to men with a passion in their lives . it is attractive to live outside the cookie cutter routine of eat , work , sleep , and repeat . pick up a hobby and plan to change your hobby into your passion . try your hand at a musical instrument , a craft like pottery , cooking , writing , running , rock - climbing , and more . when you express a sincere passion she will respond positively . life is too short not be passionate about something . dont be bashful and try your luck at something . there is nothing to lose unless you get into extreme sports . just relax when youre talking to a girl . women like it when a guy is direct they are not mind readers . speaking to someone you dont know can produce a lot of anxiety for some . you can approach someone without opening yourself up to being evaluated . eventually , youll be confident enough to talk to them in a normal conversation . try some of these cues ask a small favor like can you watch my stuff while i get coffee this creates attraction from the person doing the favor . ask a question . use whatever situationlocation you are in to your advantage . ask a relevant question like have you seen this band before or you think texas could be a country be whimsical if you are feeling it . a great way to prove yourself to a woman is showing her that you not only respect her , but all women . it is too common for guys to view picking up girls as a macho competition instead of wanting to get to know a woman . you can show respect by listening to what she has to say , respecting her personal space , making sure not to interrupt her , and refraining from making statements like you wouldnt want to do that , its a guy thing . never make fun of a girl when youre trying to tease them . a little bit of joking is okay , but avoid anything that could be taken as offensive by someone . generosity also goes a long way . no one likes a guy who is too stingy to have a good time . the same can be said about someone who refuses to give a dollar from time to time . be a fun person by acting on spontaneity . it is attractive and more interesting to be around someone willing to go on an adventure . this can also show her how interesting you can be . being silly and having fun also shows youre confident and not afraid of taking risks . careful not to be a know - it - all or overly pretentious . most girls will like a guy who reads from time to time and is interested in the world around him . put down the video game and pick up a book . try getting into the habit of reading the news every morning . youll have more to add to a conversation when you are on top of current events . not every girl cares about this . making someone laugh is a great thing and it is attractive . it is one of the most desirable traits women look for in a man . dont modify your humor to appeal to someone in particular . your natural humor will attract the type of person who youll be able to relax around . laughter affects people on a chemical level . it increases the level of serotonin in our brains which causes our brains function to work more efficiently . this doesnt always have to do with your looks , but how you think of yourself . have confidence that youll achieve your goals . change your mentality if you think youre attractive you will be attractive . thinking positively is the first step , but then to ‘act positively will increase your self esteem even more . this can be simple like talking to people in a positive manner and focus your energy into acting this way . have ambitions for your life . when you have a serious drive for your life , women will take notice . change one of your bad habits . start small like waking up without hitting snooze two or three times or drinking 64 ounces of water a day . start small and progressively work to improve yourself in larger ways . do something youve been procrastinating . there is no time like the present . it can even be a small thing like cleaning your room .

look for signals of flirting . seek out someone in your league . never shy from an opportunity .

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there are some universal signals that are used frequently . this is a classic flirt used by women a girl smiles at you and then lifts her eyebrows quickly while locking into eye contact . dont rely on someone to initiate flirting . this will not always happen candidly . be on the lookout for eye contact and a smile . dont be afraid to make the initial flirt with someone . guys and girls are typically attracted to those who are in their league . when people date out of their league , relationships typically suffer because of jealousy or lack of interest . take a moment to look at yourself in the mirror and ask yourself how attractive am i this could be hard for some and most people need help if they dont understand what league they fall into . your physical appearance doesnt take into account everything . your attractiveness also depends upon your personality including your humor , your dance moves , your hobbies , your friends , your family life , and more . there are successful relationships where members of the couple are out of each others league . take this with a grain of salt and know that keeping this in mind will simply make things a little easier for you . in general if you feel a connection with someone , you probably have a shot . you are also probably in the same league if you feel some type of chemistry . just go for it never limit yourself to where you should try to attract someone . you never know when the magic spark will light up . there is still a chance even if youre working late and on the subway at night . never shy away from an opportunity to attract a woman . flirting in an unusual place like a subway or waiting room shows confidence . you never know until you try it . dont come off as too strong . it is important to seize the moment , but do it in a way where the girl doesnt feel uncomfortable . employ active listening when talking to someone . this will give you more of an opportunity and show her you care . listen to obtain information , to understand her , for enjoyment , and to learn .

build up your self - confidence . practice in the mirror . find a way to run into her . start with a compliment . ask her for help . figure out her interests . join something she is a part of . hang out in person . be yourself . communicate often . pay attention . remember the important details . make her laugh . drop hints that you like her as more than a friend . look for signs that she likes you . tell her how you feel .

how to befriend a girl you like

talking to a girl you like can be a scary experience and requires a lot of bravery and belief in yourself . before you go and talk to her , create a list of your best attributes . once you read over your list , youll discover that you have a lot to be confident about . if you stand up straight youll automatically feel more confident . keep your arms uncrossed to signal with your body language that you are open and friendly . remember to try and look your best . put on an outfit that you feel comfortable in and makes you look good . if youre very nervous about talking to the girl you like , practice what you want to say in front of the mirror . be careful not to practice too much or you may sound robotic when speaking to her in real life . look for the perfect opportunity to run into the girl you like . if you go to the same school , you could hang out where you know she has lunch or if you work at the same job , you could take your break at the same time she does . be sure to pick a place that is casual and comfortable for both of you . for example , you wouldnt want to run into her outside of her house if youve never been there as that may seem creepy and scare her . pick a time to run into her when its a good time to talk . for example , if she is running late to an after school activity , waiting for her after class lets out would not be a good idea as she would be rushing to leave . try to find a time when she wont be surrounded by a big group of friends . it can be hard to approach a girl if she is with a big group of people . the easiest opening line is a genuine compliment . your compliment should show that you pay attention and should be specific to the girl you like . a good compliment can easily lead into a conversation . for example , if the girl you like scored a goal at her last soccer game you could say , congratulations on that goal youre an awesome soccer player . how long have you been playing for this compliment shows that you noticed her soccer skills , paid attention to the last game and are interested in learning more about her . avoid generic compliments like youre pretty or youre nice as these can sound insincere and impersonal . a great way to start a conversation is to ask her for help on something she has expertise in . people like to feel useful and share their knowledge . for example , if you run into the girl you like at the library you could ask her for a book recommendation . if you both enjoy reading , this could lead to a great conversation on the latest things youve read or your favorite books . do a little detective work and discover some things your crush likes or dislikes . you may find you have some interests in common or at least something to talk about . to help figure out her interests , you can talk to some mutual friends to learn more about her . you can also check out her social media pages to see what sorts of things she likes to do . most people love to talk about the things that they are interested in . once you find out one of her interests you can ask her about it to learn more . for example , if you know she is interested in basketball , you can ask her how long she has been playing . this can also lead into the two of you going to play basketball together . in order to spend more time with the girl you like , it is helpful to join something she is part of like an after school club , a team or a volunteer organization . for example , if the girl you like volunteers at a retirement home on the weekends , you could also sign up to volunteer at the retirement home . if she is part of the debate club at school and youre interested in debate , you could join that club and spend more time with her there . it may be tempting to hide behind a screen but you need to spend time with the girl you like in real life . your relationship will develop when you have connections in the real world and not only over the phone or computer . dont ever try to be someone youre not . you want the girl you like to like you , not a persona youve invented . for example , if she is part of the school band but you dont play an instrument , you shouldnt join the band just to spend time with her . you could attend the bands concerts to support her while finding another activity or interest you have in common . remember to keep up your own interests as well . if youre spending time doing an activity that she likes , still make time to do activites that you like . girls like when you have your own interests and hobbies . good communication is the key to any relationship , romantic or not . you should try and communicate everyday , whether in person , over the phone or through social media . remember not to overdo it with your communication . if the girl you like is pulling back or cutting your conversations short , take a break from communicating . she may be busy or simply uninterested . make sure you are listening attentively when she talks . keep comfortable eye contact and nod while she speaks so she knows youre listening . follow up with relevant questions to really show that youre paying attention and care about what she has to say . if she is sharing something with you , try to commit it to memory . this shows her that you care about what she is saying and that youre interested in her . for example , if she says , my brother , carson , really loves basketball . he has a game this weekend , you should remember her brothers name . that way , after the weekend , you can say something like , hey how was your weekend how did carson do at his game girls love when people make them laugh . embrace your natural sense of humor and ensure you are both having a good time whenever you hang out . you dont have to be a stand - up comedian to make the girl you like laugh . you can share a funny story youve heard or a silly pun one of your friends came up with . if youre shy or dont think youre funny , dont force yourself to tell jokes . focus on making the girl you like smile while you learn what sort of things make her laugh . for example , you could watch a comedy special together or go to an improv show and laugh together . drop small hints , like compliments or hanging out one on one , that show this girl you like her as more than just a friend . for example , if you notice she is wearing a new sweater you could say , wow , that sweater looks great on you . you look really beautiful today . this type of compliment is sincere , shows you notice small details and sounds romantic , which may help her to see you in a romantic way . you could also ask her to hang out one on one . for example , you could suggest a study date by saying , do you want to go to a cafe and study for our spanish test tonight just the two of us . ill treat you to a cup of hot chocolate . a great hint that you like her is giving her a gift . you want to make sure the gift is a small and thoughtful token and not something expensive and impersonal . the gift should be something you bought because it made you think of her and shows that you care . if the girl you like is interested in you as well , she may begin to drop some hints that she wants to be more than friends . look for moments when she is acting flirty , touching you or making plans to spend alone time with you . she may also be dropping hints that she is not interested . if she invites other people to hang out with you or talks about other people she has feelings for , she may not be interested in anything more than friendship with you . everyone has a slightly different way of showing that theyre interested . just because she is showing lots of signs that she likes you doesnt mean that she does for sure . and if she isnt showing any signs , it doesnt mean shes not interested . its important to be honest with the girl that you like as youre building up your friendship . be direct and tell her how you feel . if you think she might be feeling the same way , you could follow up by asking her on a date . for example , you could say , ive enjoyed all this time weve been spending together lately and i really like you . would you want to go out with me make it obvious that you are inviting her on a romantic date because you have feelings for her and not just a hang out as friends . give the girl you like time to answer . whatever her answer , be respectful of her decision and accept how she feels .

be confident . be assertive . being assertive is really a part of being confident . get some experience . be mature .

how to attract an older woman teens 1

if you want to attract an older woman , then confidence is absolutely key . if youre a teen , then youre probably still figuring out who you are , who your friends are , what you want to do with your life , and how you fit in . thats all fine , but when you see or hang out with the older woman , this stuff shouldnt come to the forefront . instead , you should show her the positive thoughts you have about yourself . hey , you may still be figuring it out , but you love who you are , you love hanging out with other people , and you love having a good time . if she sees you noticing her , stand tall and proud . show the woman that youre comfortable with yourself instead of trying to fit in all the time . you should speak clearly , make eye contact , and act like you know what youre talking about - - even if you dont . its natural to have insecurities , and as you get to know the woman or older girl , you can bring those out , but you should come out strong out of the gate . remember your competition - - older guys who are in college or who are maybe even starting their careers . if the woman sees that youre still struggling to find yourself , shell move on . being assertive means that youre comfortable enough with yourself to know what you want , and to be okay with telling people what you want . instead of being wishy - washy or unsure , you should be clear about your needs - - whether its that you want to get to know her , you want to take her out , or that you have a great idea for a date . though you should respect her age and wisdom , dont defer to her all the time just because shes older , or shell start to think that you dont have much to contribute . once you see the woman you like , let her see you notice her . dont be shy about it . you can even smile at her , or approach her , if the timing is right . dont cower in the corner . just come up to her , even if its only to say hi . if you want to be assertive , you have to say what you mean and mean what you say . be clear , even if youre only introducing yourself . its okay to get nervous , but try to minimize fidgeting , stumbling over your words , or looking at the floor because shes too beautiful . it may be hard to get experience when youre only sixteen years old , but every little thing you do counts . this doesnt mean that you should try to hook up with as many girls as possible or to backpack across europe to understand what life is really all about . it does mean that you should do what you can to broaden your horizons , so the older woman will see that you have depth and that you have some things to teach her , too . if she constantly feels like she knows everything and has to train you to be an adult , then things will get old fast . here are some ways to get some experience travel . spend your summer or even your spring break traveling to a new place , whether its to costa rica on a service trip or just to visit a relative a few states away . the more places you see and people you meet , the more youll see that the world is bigger than your own backyard or hometown . date . you shouldnt date girls just to get experience , but dating even a girl or two can help you understand how to deal with women , and can also help you get some experience when it comes to hooking up . an older woman will be less likely to date you if its obvious that youve never even had another girlfriend , because thats a big burden for her to take on . immerse yourself in a variety of activities . you may love baseball , but if baseball is the only thing you know and love , you may run out of things to talk about with the older woman pretty quickly . spend your sundays volunteering , join the french culture club or school paper , or just do a few things that can help you develop a passion about a variety of subjects . again , though it may be difficult to feel or act mature when youre a teenager , youll have to do your best to impress the woman . women already mature a bit faster than men , and the difference in your maturity levels may be more noticeable if youre a few years - - or more - - younger than the woman . you should work on controlling your moods , having reasonable reactions to disappointing or upsetting situations , and minimizing your vulgar language , fart jokes , and other loud noises that may go over well with your buddies on the football team . part of being mature is being in control of your feelings . let the woman see that you dont get easily angry or upset , or shell think youre throwing a temper tantrum . another part of being mature is to not complain about every little thing . if you complain about the minor things that irk you , the woman will think that you dont have the good sense to appreciate all of the wonderful things in your life . avoid gossiping about your friends or other people the woman may know . she may love to gossip too , but try not to do it too much , especially at first , or shell think that youre not mature enough to respect people who arent in the room . be polite to everyone you see . if you take her out , be polite to servers and anyone else you encounter . this is a big sign of maturity .

keep things fun . use your age to your advantage . avoid topics that make you sound young . be independent .

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you should work on developing the characteristics that would make you appeal to an older woman , but you shouldnt forget to keep things fun . there must be something she likes about hanging out with or even dating a younger guy - - one of those things could be that younger guys have less baggage than older guys , and less worries about their college classes , jobs , or whatever it is the guys in her age bracket normally worry about . theres a difference between being immature and goofing off . every woman loves to goof off from time to time , so dont be afraid to show her the silly aspects of your personality . make her laugh . if your sense of humor is one of your best features , dont hide it because you worry itll make you look immature if you try to make her laugh . as long as you pick relatively tasteful jokes , youll be fun . keep it light . though you want her to see that you have depth , you dont have to talk about the most serious thoughts you have late at night the second you meet her . have a good time first - - the rest will come later . dont think of being younger as a hindrance - - instead , it should be something that appeals to the woman . your boyish good looks , amazing dance moves , or goofy jokes can be exactly what the woman likes about you . dont say , i know im only seventeen , but . instead , act like you love being seventeen and that the world is your oyster . maybe you havent done that many things , but you can impress the woman by talking about all of the things you will do , and how excited you are about life . impress her with your energy and enthusiasm . you may be a lot more energetic than guys her own age - - and thats a good thing . though you obviously cant - - or shouldnt - - hide your age , you should avoid topics that make her realize how young you really are . if shes a college student and youre only in high school , then you shouldnt talk too much about the homecoming game , your tenth period math class , or about that time when you got detention for talking back to a teacher . you shouldnt hide high - school like aspects of your life , but you shouldnt emphasize them either . talk about your family , friendships , or current events - - make her see you outside your high school bubble . if youre both in high school or college but youre a freshman and shes a senior , talk more about the things you want to do later in your coursework instead of what its like to be brand - new at a school . its likely that shes matured a lot between her freshman and senior year , and if shes constantly reminded that youre only a freshman , shell see that you may have a lot of growing up to do . an older woman will have more mature friendships , more varied and intense interests , and a more busy schedule . though you may want nothing more than to spend as much time as possible with this woman , you need her to see that you have your own friends , your own schedule , and your own needs . if you start dating each other seriously , then you may start spending a lot of time together , but if youre just trying to attract her and get her attention , you cant be clingy or shell be turned off . if she does hang out with you , dont say , when can i see you again right away . play it cool and ask her out a few days later . talk about your schedule . let her see that you have a lot going on too . if she thinks that all you do is sit at home and play video games and wait for her to call , shell be less eager to hang out with you .

be a gentleman . show a real interest in her . keep up a good conversation . dont bring up your age difference all the time . dont forget to be yourself .

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if you want to treat an older woman right , then you absolutely have to be a gentleman . this may be a foreign concept to you , but all it really means is that you should treat her like a lady and give her kindness and respect . if you pick her up in your car , hold the passenger door open for her , and hold the door open for her if you enter a restaurant or any other location . if she comes over , take her coat and hang it up . here are some other ways to be a gentleman show up on time , or even a little early . let her see that she means a lot to you . always complement her . tell her she looks stunning , beautiful , or however she may look that day . dont be embarrassed to tell her what you really think - - this will win her over as long as you do it in moderation . dont spit , scratch yourself , burp , or do other un - gentlemanly things . always look nice . make an effort to shower , groom yourself , and to wear unwrinkled and well - fitting clothing . this will show her that youve put thought and effort into seeing her . take her out on nice dates . dont take her to the local burger king . you may not have a lot of spending money , but you should make an effort to do something that is at least romantic , even if its eating at a dimly - lit sushi bar or taking a long walk on a starry night . dont make her think that you just have a fetish for older women and that being with her or talking to her means youve won some kind of prize . instead , you should ask her about her interests , what she likes to do on the weekends , and about the relationships that mean the most to her . as youre getting to know her , you dont have to pry or interview her , but you should show that you want to know who she really is - - its cool that shes four years older than you , but thats not her defining characteristic . when you see her , ask her how her day was . it can be as simple as that . ask her opinion on a variety of subjects , from her favorite bands to a new political candidate . older women tend to be more confident and experienced than younger women , which means that they can keep up a better conversation a lot of the time . while recapping last nights football game for an hour may be okay with your buddies , you should make an effort to read the papers , watch the news , and read interesting literature that makes you a more well - rounded person . this way , youll not only broaden your horizons , but youll have more to talk about . if you read something really interesting that day , talk to her about it . see what she thinks . talk about relationships . you can discuss you relationship with your siblings , or your bond with a close friend - - just dont talk about your ex girlfriend . talk about your travel experiences . even if all you did was spend a summer a few states away , discuss the interesting aspects of your trip . maintain a witty banter . if she says something funny , dont just laugh , but counter her comment with another funny statement . this will show her that you can really keep up . though it may have been amusing or fun for her to be talking to a younger guy at first , you dont have to keep joking about how much younger you are , or how shes so much more experienced . unless you want her calling you junior and thinking of you as a kid brother , you should avoid mentioning this too much , or shell think that youre obsessing over it - - or worse , she may start obsessing over your age difference too . dont bring it up in front of others , either . if youre meeting her friends or introducing her to your friends , keep it cool . her friends may not even notice that youre a bit younger if you play your cards right . you may be so focused on trying to impress and attract an older woman that you may be forgetting who you really are . you shouldnt act like a different person completely , or shell see right through you . no woman wants to be with a guy who isnt genuine . remember that youre building your maturity and developing desirable qualities that would make you appeal to a woman - - or any woman , really - - but that it doesnt mean you have to be someone else completely . if you have a secret dorky hobby , dont be afraid to tell her about it if it means a lot to you . let her see the best qualities that your other friends see . the friends who are your age must like you for some reason , so dont hide your strongest qualities completely .

talk to her , spend more time with her . make her laugh . find common ground . dont be afraid to be yourself , take care of yourself . go on a date . follow up with a second date and another , and another .

how to attract a christian girl 1

yes , youve all heard this a million times , but it works if youre in the same youth group , talk to her about the bible study . ask her if shes planning on going to the meeting next week , or if shes planning on going to the up coming worship night . that sort of thing . those are great conversation starters dont say , oh , so you help your dad clean here on saturdays . how interesting ask her opinion . you cant truly love someone without getting to know them , so if you have a crush on some girl , start trying to get to know her better look for opportunities to share gods love together . for instance , try sitting next to her in bible study . dont be afraid to talk to her . more than likely , shell be happy to start a conversation with you . there is no greater joy than gods gift of laughter . everyone loves to laugh . try making a habit of engaging in some good - natured humor with your crush , you have an opportunity to strengthen the bond between the two of you , making way for greater love . god gave every person talents and interests - capitalize on the ones your crush and you share if the object of your affection is in to drawing and you are too , then try drawing together sometime . or better yet , draw each other simultaneously - this is a real challenge that will probably make you laugh at how bad you both are at it . if , on the other hand shes into something that you arent , like queuing for hours to get an autograph , you dont have to lie and pretend to like it , but do try instead to give it a shot . try finding out why she likes it so , did you learn the yakima flute gradually , or were you a natural you dont have to like everything she does , but shell really appreciate your attempts to become interested in what she likes . girls want to know the real you . usually , the reason girls want boyfriends is because of the special bond a boy - girl relationship offers . serious relationships allow a soul - to - soul intimacy that even being best friends cant replicate . a relationship , especially one founded on the love of jesus , is no place for masculine posturing or for playing a a predefined role . christian women appreciate strong and honest yet sensitive men - men that can laugh and can cry as well , men who can fess up , and men who can protect them yet still be kind and gentle . self - respect , demonstrated through the care you show yourself , is just as important to them as it is to anyone else . pay attention to your physical appearance and hygiene . try to stay healthy with proper diet and exercise . keep a busy but reasonable schedule . by doing these things , not only do you make yourself more attractive , you also show the proper respect for the body you have been granted by god . religious people have fun too take your girl to the movies , a sporting event , a skating rink - anything shed like based on her interests . enjoy yourself , but maintain your respect for her and your love for christ at all times by acting with tact and kindness . above all , never , ever , force her into an uncomfortable situation . dont let a successful first date lead nowhere after your date , drop hints that you would like to see her again . say things like , see you soon , or do you want to hang out next week if she seems game , follow through with it over time , it should become natural , even expected , to be dating each other .

make the first move . accept rejection . be careful . dont trick her . be friendly . act casual and be yourself . be consistent . the kiss . be clear . remember , the most important thing be yourself

how to act around girls for boys

girls are often very insecure and dont want to embarrass both themselves and you by coming on too strong , so you should make the first move . one thing that may be going through a girls mind is , what if he doesnt like me back if he likes me , he can get off his shy butt and come over here and tell me if you ask a girl for her number and she rejects you , move on , as shes obviously not interested . if , however , she does give you her number , try to only use it to arrange dates . it is all too easy to give a girl the wrong impression about how you feel . for example , constantly texting her will probably give her the idea that you are in love with her , and set very high expectations for your relationship . dont lead a girl on if you are going to change your mind . of course you should not go out with her after the first date if there is no connection . if you feel there is no connection , say so early on and dont leave her hanging , this will result in resentment from her . let her know you are interested , but dont be too eager . see how she reacts when you start the conversation , and go from there . girls are much more likely to fall for you if you be yourself , rather than falling for the person youre pretending to be . dont behave strangely towards her around your friends . many boys think that their friends will tease them if they are all loved up with their girlfriend . to make it easier , see your friends separately from your girlfriend . if you are together though , be yourself with your friends but make sure you dont leave your girlfriend out . to get a girl to kiss you , you should be sure first that she likes you back . then hint , touch her arm and look into her eyes , or look at her lips then at her . it is a good idea to make some contact before the kiss , so holding her hand or tucking her hair behind her ear is a good start . lean in - but slowly so that if she doesnt look up for it you can just touch her arm and say something instead . if she leans toward you as well then good move your head slightly to one side first and she will follow . if she pulls away before you expected , dont be awkward , just act like you wanted it to end then as well . dont pressure her into anything . if a girl is hitting on you and you arent interested , make it clear . sure , she might get upset , but that is better than going along with it and breaking up with her later .

have a strong , healthy love for the lord . treat her with respect . pray for her and ask her to pray for you . put the lord first . act like a gentleman

how to attract a christian girl 2

often , one of the things a christian girl will find most attractive in a guy is a heart for god . a great way to display this love is to become a devout believer . youll probably want to attend mass regularly especially the masses she attends and to take an active interest in scripture . however , youll want to avoid extreme forms of dogmatism - dont use your religion to criticize her or impose limits on her . everyone hates condemnation - any conviction should come from her conscience , and if she asks you for advice , listen and share . shes a christian girl , so , chances are , shell want a boy who will treat her like a real woman . conduct yourself like a christian should , by treating her with respect . be a gentleman to her in whatever way you know how . to some , this will mean opening doors , carrying her books , and offering her your seat , while , to others , such traditional displays of respect will seem outdated . never be casually lewd around her . talking dirty may impress your friends , but most christian girls will be off - put by this sort of talk . some will show a wild side when theyre more comfortable around you , while others never will . if you are both very religious , you may want to pray for the object of your affections and cautiously ask her to do the same for you . you may ask for general well - wishing prayers , or for guidance from god for something specific you are struggling with in your walk with god . this has the potential for awkwardness , so try to avoid sharing intensely personal details until you are very close with this person . instead , you may want to speak in generalities - sometimes , just asking for a prayer with no other explanation is enough . your christian girlfriend should be a very important part of your life , but not your reason for living . if your love for jesus isnt motivation enough to grow in maturity and pursue godliness , then you are not ready for a christian woman . your first goal as a christian man should be to grow in your relationship with god and to keep him at the center of your life . do this before you think of starting a close relationship with any christian woman . only when jesus is placed in the middle of the relationship and , more importantly , your own life , you can truly experience love as it is meant to be . most christian girls are very classy , and they want classy men . open the doors for her , pull out her chair , and always pay for the date . remember to be polite and respectful around her family most christian moms , and especially fathers , look for this in guys . they want a guy to treat her daughters right and be polite by doing that , parents will probably approve of your relationship with her much more quickly , and it might give you a better chance to be alone with her quickly

look at her stance . pay attention to eye contact . take context into account . notice if she touches you or tries to get closer . pay attention to whether she randomly hugs you . see if she mirrors your moves . notice if shes playing with her hair . look for signs of nervousness or fidgeting . notice if she smiles around you .

how to know if a girl likes you 1

when a girl likes you , she will face in your direction . if a girl has her torso turned towards you in an open manner , this means that she is confident talking with you . if she has a closed body position , namely crossed arms or legs , she may be shy or nervous to talk to you or she may simply be creating a barrier to signal that she is uninterested . when she is sitting with her legs crossed , watch her feet . if they are pointed towards you , it might mean that she likes you and wants to get closer to you . if a girl likes you , she will tend to either hold her gaze on you for a few seconds or glance down the moment your eyes make contact with hers . either of these responses could mean that she likes you . if she pulls away quickly , it often means she is nervous or not ready to reveal her true intentions yet , but she may still like you . when a girl likes you , her pupils might dilate , though this will be hard to tell . if you happen to glance at the girl and you see her staring back at you , this could mean that she likes you . the way you interpret a girls body language will vary depending on the context . for example , if youre talking one - on - one with a girl , her touching your arm for a few seconds could be considered flirting . however , if she quickly taps your shoulder to get your attention and tell you that your friend is looking for you , she may really just be trying to help , not flirt . if you are having an intense conversation , a girl may look at you without breaking eye contact . this does not necessarily mean she likes you . it could just be a conversational practice of hers . however , if she makes eye contact with you for an extended period of time without talking , or if she looks at you and breaks away the minute you look back at her , she may be intrigued by you . when a girl likes you , she will often try to touch you , as this is a noticeable yet still subtle way to flirt . it allows a girl to size up how responsive you are . she may touch your arm when you say something funny , accidentally brush your shoulder or hands with hers , or gently place her hand on your knee . not all girls will feel comfortable reaching out using touch . in this case , dont assume that she doesnt like you just because she doesnt try to touch you . she may be too nervous to do so . if you like her , dont be shy––break the touch barrier yourself and see how she responds . she may also find other reasons to touch you , such as softly punching your arm . these one - of - the - mates moves can be a thinly disguised way of getting closer to you without it being too evident to your friends and hers . this is especially significant if her random hugs are reserved mostly for you . hugs are a friendly , affectionate way of getting closer to you and touching you without it necessarily compromising her stealthy flirting skills . return the hug if you like her back , or gently refuse her hug if you dont want her to get the wrong impression . if a girl imitates you - for example , if you run your fingers through your hair and you notice her do the same a few seconds later - she may be subconsciously mirroring your movements . this can be a tell that she likes you . gently twirling strands of her hair or partaking in other grooming behaviors like running her hands through her hair could be signs of flirting . when a girl likes you , she will touch her lips , collarbone , or neck to draw your attention to these areas . she may even apply lipstick in front of you . this may be her way of signaling to you that shes comfortable and happy in your presence . when a girl likes you , she may also laugh at your jokes regardless of how funny they actually are .

be receptive to compliments . observe her friends reactions . notice her style . be mindful of gentle , friendly teasing . notice if she makes excuses to talk to you . notice if she mentions your relationship status . look for damsel in distress moments . test her interest by asking her for help . notice how she acts around others .

how to know if a girl likes you 2

if a girl compliments you , she could very well like you . this may be her way of making you feel desired . she might say things like you have amazing eyes or youre so athletic - do you play any sports if you see most of her friends glancing back at you and smiling or giggling , this probably means that she has told her friends about you and theyre in the know . in some cases , a friend may actually be bold enough to come and tell you that her friend likes you . when she is having a conversation with her friends and you come over , they might stop talking all of a sudden . this likely means that you were the subject of the recently ended conversation . when a girl likes you , she will often try to impress you with her style . she may choose to wear slightly revealing clothes or put on lipstick to catch your eye . every girl has a different sense of style , and not all girls will try to dress as aforementioned when they like somebody . however , if you notice that the girl youre wondering about dresses a little more nicely around you , it could be a sign that she wants to impress you . when a girl likes you , she may tease you lightly about certain things you do or say . ways of teasing include calling you out on a joke that actually wasnt that funny , poking fun at something youre wearing , or lightly telling you that youre trying too hard . she may friend you on social media , talk to you in person every day after class , or text you randomly . these could be signs that this girl is intrigued and wants to get to know you more . this alone is not a definitive sign that a girl likes you . a girl who just wants to be friends may also try to engage in conversation with you . but if a girl tries to talk to you often , exhibits a number of flirty body language cues , and compliments you often , she may be trying to tell you that she likes you . when a girl likes you , she will want to know whether you are single or not so that she can decide if she should flirt with you . she may directly ask you if you have a girlfriend or she may use a subtler approach . she might tease you by saying things like i bet you went to see that movie with your girlfriend . if you like her , use this as an opportunity to flirt back . you could say i dont have a girlfriend , but i have been meaning to see that movie . want to go with me friday night when a girl likes you , she may pretend to be in a mildly vulnerable situation to test your response . for example , if youre outside and the girl you like starts saying im cold thats a subtle hint that she wants you to give her your sweater . doing so is a very sweet gesture , especially if you want to show the girl that you like her . sometimes a girl will pretend to be really bad at doing something , like saying she doesnt understand the homework . that is your chance to offer some assistance be aware that she will most likely be doing this on purpose just to test your reaction in hopes that you will help out . when offering assistance , if she doesnt fancy you but there is somebody she likes in the room , she may pout or show other signs of disappointment if you offer to help first . in this case , at least youll know how she feels and will be able to move on . if shes always there for you when you need her , she might like you . but dont assume that shes into you only from one experience . ask her occasionally for small things , like chewing gum or a pen , and notice how she reacts . if shes eager to help you and shows other signs of liking you , then she very well might . dont use this approach too much or a tasks that seem too difficult , she may think youre lazy , testing her , or are even a bit of a nuisance . so dont overdo it you dont want to risk her ceasing to like you if she indeed does . if a girl flirts with you , it doesnt necessarily mean that she likes you . she may just get a thrill out of flirting , or she may not even notice that shes flirting . the best way to see if she is just flirting with you and its not just her naturally flirty demeanor coming through is to notice how she acts around other people . if she treats you differently than she does others , be it by holding eye contact just a bit longer with you than with anybody else or by being gentler in her teasing with you , then she may like you .

smile at her . strike up a conversation . be attentive . suggest that you like her . ask her out . be receptive to her signals . avoid overanalyzing .

how to know if a girl likes you 3

a natural , genuine , carefree smile is the perfect way to let a girl know that you like being around her . it will also let her know that youre a happy person , and since happiness can be contagious , shell associate positive emotions with you . if she returns your smile , you can bet she feels comfortable around you . this is a great way to gauge her interest level . as you talk , notice if she gives you any signs or hints that she likes you or if uses vaguely romantic language . she could also show her interest in you by nodding frequently or repeating some of your phrases . to start a conversation , you can ask her an open - ended question about class , work , or pop culture . it could be something as simple as what do you think about this band or hows your day going dont fret if the girl you like doesnt initiate a conversation with you . if she likes you , she may be too shy or nervous to do so even if she seems like the most confident girl you know , she may have had a bad experience in the past or simply may not be ready to approach you yet but will be receptive if you start the conversation first . if youre already friends , starting a conversation will be easy . in this case , the most effective way to tell if she likes you is to pick up on body language cues or to see if she treats you differently than she does her other friends . if you like the girl , put your best foot forward by remembering a few small details about the things she tells you . listen carefully to the things she says so that you will have them for future reference . for example , if she tells you the name of her favorite band , bring up one of the bands songs during your next chat . shell be impressed that you took notice if she wasnt already interested in you romantically , she might start to reconsider once she sees how attentive you are . talking also provides another opportunity to observe her body language , so watch for physical cues such as subtle touches . only do this if you actually do like her and if you get the sense that she likes you back . this is a blunt move which can seem daunting , but if you like the girl and are fairly certain she might like you back , a bold approach which could open the door to you asking her out on a date with the certainty that she likes you back . you can let her know youre interested by saying something like i really like having you as a friend , but id love to be more than friends . dont tell her you like her if you are just looking to satisfy your curiosity about her interest in you . this can be hurtful and can sever her trust in you . if you like the girl but arent sure if she likes you back , you can test the waters by saying ive been hearing great things about this movie , would you like to come see it with me keep the tone casual . if she says yes , youll know shes interested . if she says no , you can change the conversation to something else . back off if you get the sense that she actually doesnt like you or engage in a flirty banter if you sense there is mutual interest . if the girl you like objects to your romantic advances , even when you thought she liked you back , dont take it personally . a good relationship starts with a strong mutual connection . moreover , there are plenty of other girls who will be right for you . trying to figure out whether a girl likes you can be all - consuming and distracting . over - analyzing her behavior may result in your becoming obsessed with simply winning her over rather than getting to know her as a person . rather than investing tons of time in determining whether or not she likes you , take opportunities every now and then to spend time with her and her friends . just make sure to make your intentions relatively clear via subtle flirting , or else you may become permanently friend - zoned .

get to know her . show her that you like her regardless of her age . dont rush into it . be friendly and caring . flirt , be understanding . practice , practice , practice

how to attract a younger girl that barely knows you

this is the first and most important step . it doesnt matter if she is younger than you , before you ever engage in a relationship , you need to get a better understanding of each other . for most girls , a good conversation is a turn - on and may open her eyes to you . ask questions about her , her family , what she likes to do , etc . this could also help decide if she is the girl for you , or if maybe you dont like her as much as you thought you did . if you have your eyes set on a girl in her young teens , remember how young she is . maybe not ready for the kind of relationship that you are ready for , at whatever age you are . so you may have to wait or dismiss the idea that you will ever go out shell be able to tell if youre constantly mentioning it , which will make you seem less genuine and truthful . resist the urge to just ask her out . real relationships take time and effort to build . besides , randomly asking her out will confuse her and increase your chances of being turned down . ask her how shes doing today . dont ignore her in front of your friends just because she is younger . show your interest , first in a platonic sense . this will let her know that you care , first as a friend , and then later as something more . a really good idea is to invite her along and get her to feel included . but only when you feel like your relationship has progressed to that point . subtle romantic gestures are cute , such as random flowers . use your knowledge of her to think of specific ideas that will make her swoon . perhaps wait until she starts to flirt with you maybe she doesnt want to date you . maybe she isnt ready . above all , you must remember that a relationship takes two people . dont pressure her into anything she doesnt want to do . any skill worth having is worth developing , and like anything , this is a skill that takes time . if at first you dont succeed , keep trying with someone else . theres plenty of fish in the sea , and the best fishermen dont fish for the fish itself , they fish just for the experience of fishing . try catch - and - release for a while until you get comfortable . you can learn what to do with your catch later .

learn about what her interests are and start getting interested in them . play sports with her or hang out with her . find out some funny jokes . leave the clothing compliments aside . make sure she is available before making your move on her . slowly but confidently start flirting with her . build things up . be patient . ask her out to a place where a tomboy would go .

how to attract a tomboy

naturally , dont change yourself just try to see if some of those interests enthuse you and adjust a little . do this progressively , so as not to freak her out with your sudden interest in her sporting activities . ask her about some sports and video games , riding bikes and outdoor activities . try some things she does and see if you like the game or the sport or activity . most girls love funny guys , even if they are tomboys . even if its bad puns , be funny . its vital . it is not really a good idea to compliment a tomboy on her outfit . the chances are that she became a tomboy to avoid the whole girly - girl cutesy thing . girls and tomboys dont like guys hitting on them when they have a boyfriend already . do this in a way that isnt that noticeable and more by way of mate - ship . if you persevere and keep it casual but kind , after a time , she will start to find herself liking you . show affection . talk to her as much as possible . joke around . after awhile , if she shows signs that she likes you too then you can turn up the flirting a notch . dont play too easy though then she wont feel that she is powerful , and most girls like thinking they have a sense of power over love . love should be shared , not be a power struggle . make physical contact . hold her hand and look them in the eye and say something funny , then smile . its often the way that tomboys make friends and it gets easier for you both if the guy puts his hand on her shoulder or just tries to grab her hair . if she is the confident tomboy many tomboys are , then she might either ask you out or tell you she likes you . if she doesnt do this , then ask her out . for example , a baseball game or a minecraft night . most definitely dont ask to go to the mall or a restaurant that requires anything fancy , since tomboys would show up in jeans anyway .

give her a few days to think about your offer , but dont avoid her . find some time alone with her . talk to her in other places that you normally see her . be encouraging . act normal . dont rule out frankness . have a life .

how to act around a girl who knows you fancy her

talk to her like you would to anyone else . if you ignore her , shell think that you are angry with her . that is not a good place to start a relationship . explain it to her that you are sorry for any upset you have caused her girls love to know that a guy truly cares . straighten out any rumors that are flying around . make sure that in doing this , youre not pressuring her . itll help her feel more relaxed and show that you take time for her . compliment her , but not too much or youll sound obsessive . make sure you only compliment her if what you are saying is sincere . talk to her , but act like she doesnt know you fancy her . do not pretend not to like her because its not polite or nice to her and then you will never have a chance with her . just because you like her does not mean you withhold any helpful views from her . if you feel that she must know something , say it frankly but gently . she will appreciate you . if she is mature enough , she may also consider you to be a gentleman . the message is to be nonchalant . liking someone puts ones dignity under risk as most feel vulnerable and curb the desire to hurt the girl . one way you could maintain a stand or save face is by being relaxed and minding your own business . for that you must have some business . engage into productive and positive activities and see yourself appear brighter before her and the rest of the crowd . being busy will also guard you against being overtly exposed to any shock or disappointment if any .

smile and make eye contact to get her attention . walk up to the girl with confidence . introduce yourself and ask her a question . dont try to force the conversation . find a good time to talk to her . talk about things that she finds interesting . dont be upset if she doesnt want to talk to you . try to be funny and dont be too serious .

how to approach a girl in fifth grade 1

eye contact and smiling are signals that indicate that you are interested in someone else . if she returns your glances or smiles back , then it might be a sign that she would feel comfortable talking to you . other signs that she may like you is if keeps looking into your direction or plays with her hair when shes looking at you . dont stare into her direction and make her feel uncomfortable . just look at her long enough for her to notice . keep your shoulders back and your posture straight while you maintain your smile . doing this will show the girl that you feel confident in your actions and may make her more receptive to talking to you . dont slouch , look scared , or look unsure . dont rush up to the girl . walk slowly , deliberately , and with confidence . its easier to approach a girl if you know who she is or have interacted with her in the past . if shes talking to someone else , wait until their conversation is over before walking up to her . if you havent interacted with the girl in the past , she may not know your name . make sure that you introduce yourself , then ask her a question to get the conversation started . good questions include are you having a good day and dont we have the same class together if you share the same hobby or interest , ask them a question about your hobby . say something like my favorite artist is drake . who do you like once the conversation dies down , go and do something else . if she doesnt want to talk to you , she may just be nervous . in both cases , walk away and then try to talk to her again in the future . if you arent good at maintaining a conversation , thats okay , because chances are the girl youll be talking to will have a lot to say . pay attention to what shes talking about and respond to what shes saying . the more you listen and allow her to talk , the more likely she will want to talk to you in the future . dont interject or try to speak over her . dont be overbearing with advice if she asks you for it . suggest what you think is best , but say its up to you in the end . if you go to the same school as a girl , you may have a chance to approach them during lunch or recess . if you have the same teachers , see if you can speak to them before or after class . if none of your classes are the same , then try to catch them in the hallway between classes or at other events that your school is hosting . if you play the same sport , see if you can talk to her before or after practice . take opportunities to be in the same group for classroom assignments or projects . dont expect it to be a long conversation when you first start talking to a girl . start with short talks until she feels comfortable with you . try to find common interests with the girl . it could be a video game , music , cartoon , show , movie , or comic book character that you both like . if you can find a shared interest , youll have a lot more to talk about . try to notice things about what she owns and wears . for instance , if she has a shirt with her favorite show , then youll know what kind of shows shes interested in . fifth grade is a hard year for both girls and boys . girls are usually undergoing changes physically and emotionally , so its important you try to see things from their perspective . if she doesnt like you , its not your fault . it just means that she prefers other things . try to find another girl to approach if the one that you like is giving you the cold shoulder . an excellent way to put someone at ease is to be funny . if people know that youre a funny person , it wont be as stressful for the girl if you approach her . this is particularly the case in situations that would otherwise be awkward or tense . if you can make a girl laugh at your jokes , it will make approaching her feel much less stressful .

get her attention during class . pass her a note or leave it in her locker . wait for the right time to avoid getting in trouble . talk to one of her friends . ask an aid if you can sit next to her during lunch .

how to approach a girl in fifth grade 2

you can say hello in the morning or make eye contact during class to get her attention . the point is for her to notice you , so that when you approach her its not awkward because she already knows who you are . also , making eye contact with her will show that youre interested in becoming friends . dont stare at them because it could be considered creepy or rude . if you feel nervous and anxious about approaching her and you just cant do it , then it might be a good idea to pass her a note or leave it in her locker . make sure to include a way for her to contact you , like email address or phone number , and let her know that you want to be friends . keep in mind that she may be nervous too . if she doesnt respond to the note , you might have to approach her . if you want to be safe , dont make the note romantic . it might come off the wrong way and scare her off . talk about being friends at first . talking to her or passing her a note at the wrong time could get you both in trouble , which is a terrible way to start things off . dont talk to her while your teacher is instructing or any other time that you should be silent . wait for times where youre allowed to talk , like during lunch or recess , to start a conversation . your note can say something like hey jessica , i think youre cool and noticed youre into drake . would you want to hang out anytime and listen to his new album many girls in fifth grade tend to a have a lot of good friends , so you can talk to one of them before approaching the girl . be aware that in fifth - grade girls care about social cliques in school . consider who the girls friends are , and if they like you before talking to them . if her friends pick on your or tease you , dont try to talk to them . say something like , hey , you know your friend anna i think shes cool . do you think she would want to talk to me most kids in fifth grade still have assigned seats . if this is the case , ask if you can get your seat switched to sit next to her for the day . it doesnt have to be a permanent thing , but it will give you the time to talk to her . you can tell the aid that you want to speak to the girl about a class assignment or project . if you dont have assigned seats , check to see if there are open seats around her .

get a mutual friend to introduce you . overcome your fear and go for it . dont make inappropriate jokes . wait until shes alone before trying to approach her .

how to approach a girl in fifth grade 3

if you both share the same friends , it might be less stressful if you ask one of them to introduce you to the girl you want to approach . in this case , you can approach the girl with your friend , and she will most likely already be open to meet you . ask your friend do you mind introducing me to morgan i want to be her friend . when your friend introduces you to the girl , some good things to say are , are you having fun here whats your favorite thing about this place or what school do you go to girls look for confidence in people , and its important that you dont take too long to approach her . the longer you take , the more awkward it will feel when you finally decide to approach . if she doesnt like you , you werent meant to be friends in the first place , but there isnt anything wrong with you . practice makes perfect . the first time you approach a girl , it might not go well , but youll learn from every experience and become better at it over time . stay respectful at all times . dont make negative comments about her appearance , or make fun of her . even though your friends may laugh , it can ruin your relationship with a girl . stay away from sexual jokes or things that are disgusting . you can tease a girl a little bit , but dont go too far and hurt her feelings . if shes not smiling or laughing , you know youve gone too far . if it looks like shes having fun with her friends , then you may want to wait till after shes done . some girls in fifth grade are concerned with social status , and will probably want to make sure that youre cool enough to her friends . she may be pressured by her friends to ignore you .

strike up a conversation if you want to get to know her better . compliment her from time to time . smile often and make eye contact . mirror her body language . be chivalrous , but dont overdo it . communicate with less pressure via social media . text her frequently , but not too eagerly . be bold and give her a call .

how to act around a girl that likes you 1

if you and the girl who likes you arent close but its clear that she likes you , start small and bring up a common interest . this will break the ice , make things less awkward , and establish a bond that you can progress from . if youre on the soccer team and shes on the volleyball team at school , consider starting a conversation about sports . start a conversation about a class you have together by saying something like , im so glad that last chapter is over with . what did you think about last nights reading a unique , tasteful compliment can go a long way . whether youre referencing a physical characteristic or personality trait , giving a girl a compliment is a great way to express your affection , especially if you remain composed and relaxed when you do this . complimenting her here and there is better because too often might make her annoyed or uneasy . if she tells you that she did well on a test that she got back today , you might say , thats great it doesnt surprise me at all youre very smart and hard - working . if she has particularly attractive blue eyes , you might say , i really like your eyes . theyre a very pretty blue . smiling a lot and looking her in the eye at appropriate moments communicate that youre confident and interested . this is a good first step in beginning to flirt with her . be careful not to stare , because excessive eye contact often seems creepy . acknowledge her in the hallway by giving a casual wave , smiling , and making brief eye contact . since she likes you , she might lean in closer when talking to you or turn her hips , torso , and feet to face your direction . mirror movements like these to show her that you like her too . holding a door open for someone is always a nice gesture , but doing it every time seems a little over - the - top , even to someone who likes you . avoid big gestures like giving her flowers because this might be off - putting and overwhelming . it isnt an appropriate time in your barely budding relationship to give a gift like this . wait until youve been dating someone for a while . if youre shy , liking one of her statuses on facebook , leaving her a sweet comment on an instagram photo , or even just friending or following her on social media are easier ways to show that you like her and are paying attention to her . especially since you like her back , it might be tough to not text her several times in a row , write long passages , or confront her about not responding . this usually comes off as clingy , so as a good rule of thumb , stay relaxed and text her as much as she texts you . in todays world , texting has become the norm and calling a love interest is seen by many women as an act of courage . if your conversations in person and via text are long , comfortable , and natural , calling is the next step to take .

ignore her advances if you arent interested . drop hints before you tell her you dont like her . counter her body language . be honest , kind and clear if shes not getting the hint . text her in a kind but minimal manner .

how to act around a girl that likes you 2

the best way to show that you dont like her as more than a friend is by acting like it isnt happening . if you just act normal while shes making her feelings obvious , she will probably eventually realize why . exhaust all other options before you tell a girl directly that you arent interested in her . since she has feelings for you , she will most likely be hurt and embarrassed if you reject her so harshly . keep your conversations with her relatively brief and dont deviate too much from small talk . if this doesnt do the trick , try hinting in one or more of the following ways to insinuate that you arent interested in a more subtle way be unreceptive when she tries to make plans to meet up in the future . tell her that youre in a relationship with someone else . tell her youre really busy and dont have time for a relationship right now . she will probably make small movements and position her body in a way that is welcoming . to show that you dont feel the way she does , counter her movements . if she sits a little too close to you , scoot away from her a little bit . also consider crossing your arms sometimes when she approaches you . this is a natural sign of resistance . if youve tried to be clear in other ways and shes still being forward , its probably time to be direct . remember to speak to her the way youd like to be spoken to if you were in her position . try using i statements to keep the conversation more about you . listing reasons why you dont like her is rude and will damage her confidence , so dont do that . instead , try saying one of these statements im really sorry , but i dont see you that way . i think youre great , but im looking for something else right now . ive enjoyed talking with you , but im not really feeling a romantic connection between us . since you dont like her more than a friend , keep your texts friendly , but short and relatively infrequent . texting her too much can give her the wrong idea , which could get her hopes up and make her feel more disappointed later on .

choose the right means . link it with an action . consider what you want to highlight with your compliment . pick the right time . be confident . be authentic . use more creative words . take it deeper .

how to tell a girl shes beautiful

there are lots of different ways to tell a girl that shes beautiful and they dont always mean just saying youre beautiful to some girl . anyone can do that . if you want to stand out , youve got to get a little creative . choose how you want to deliver the compliment . do you want to talk to the girl in person , or do you want to do something like write her a letter or text her telling her about how beautiful you think she is . writing a letter is fun and old - fashioned and something very few people do nowadays . shell definitely remember a letter telling her shes beautiful . instead of just telling her shes beautiful , accompany it with an action . this could be as simple as giving her a flower or an origami flower or small , individual token when you give her the compliment . you could give her a small item and say i just wanted to make sure you know how beautiful you are . just saying youre beautiful is very vague . what about her do you find beautiful does she have gorgeous green eyes or long , thick curly hair you should also consider inner and outer beauty . instead of telling how beautiful she looks , say something like i love how you manage to light up an entire room just by being you . just blurting out youre beautiful to a girl probably isnt going to do much for her or you , especially if either of you are drunk . telling a girl shes beautiful if youre looking to do it properly needs to be properly timed . try to do it at an unusual time . most girls have been told theyre beautiful when theyre all dressed up for a night out . try telling her shes beautiful just after shes come back from the gym , or when shes not wearing any make - up . itll feel more meaningful and sincere . instead of looking at this moment as you putting yourself out there , try to think of it as you trying to make someones day brighter . this way youll feel better about yourself and youll find it easier to tell the girl shes beautiful . being nervous is okay , though . you can even tell her i really wanted to tell you how beautiful you are , but you make me really nervous . when youre telling her that you find her beautiful , be authentic about it . focus on what you do indeed find beautiful about her , in terms of looks and in terms of personality . words like beautiful and pretty and hot have been way overused and dont have that much meaning , anymore . try to find different words to describe her that mean beautiful , or can get across how beautiful you find her . to name a few fun and different ones radiant , breathtaking , elegant , riveting , or dazzling . telling a girl that shes beautiful can be part of your way to let a girl know that youd like to have a better and more meaningful connection with her . tell the girl that you love to be with her , that you find her beautiful and her presence makes you happy .

remove the hay , water bucket and manger to avoid contamination and keep the stall clean . remove all the bigger , more obvious droppings on the surface with the shavings fork or rubber glove . when you have done this , toss the shavings to the sides of the stall , removing any droppings that fall out of them as you do so . scoop up the wet shavings with the shavings fork . sweep the floor and shovel up any remaining manure . if possible , leave the floor to dry and air for a while before pulling back the shavings to lay the bed . if necessary , add new shavings . use the four - pronged pitchfork to loosen them and dump them into the stall . spread the shavings around to make a comfortable stall . replace the water and feed bowls . sweep the yard if necessary and put the tools back neatly .

how to muck out a stall

removing the horse is also a good idea . sift the shavings through the pitchfork so all that remains is manuredroppings . then , deposit the manure in the wheelbarrow . , bank up the shavings against the walls . to open the bale , cut the tape with scissors or a special safety barn knife that has a recessed blade . , if you couldnt remove the water bowl because it was fixed to the wall , change the water . this is especially important if you are boarding your horse .

start things off to invite her to talk . ask her some questions . make yourself look good throughout the conversation . accept pauses . keep the conversation light . focus on body language . keep the attention always on her . end on a good note if she tells you that she has to leave .

how to keep the conversation flowing with a girl for guys

pay attention to the scenario , and mold your invitation to the circumstances . dont , for example , ask her a random astronomy question when shes shopping for shoes . here are a different ways to accomplish this if you want to strike up a conversation with a girl you dont know , try making a recommendation . for example , if you see a beautiful girl at a coffee shop , and she looks undecided about her order , then recommend your favorite drink or tell her that youre going to guess exactly what she wants just by looking at her . when you already know the girl , start with some common ground . if youre in school together , then make a comment about classes or talk about your extra curricular activities . if youre working together , then start a chat about some workplace news , or ask for her help with something that youre working on . ask her for a minor favor . for example , ask her to watch your stuff like your phone while you go get her something to drink . girls will feel more interested in you if theyve done a favor for you . it will also make them feel trustworthy and maybe even curious . pay her a compliment . if she looks great that day or if she said something amazing during class , then tell her so . compliment her hair , or her smile , or her dress . stay away from her more feminine features . make sure your compliment is genuine and not phony . you want to show her that youre interested in her while at the same time deciding whether shes really worth your interest . a great question will make her think , laugh , and like you , all at the same time . avoid yes and no questions . a question like , did you like the new movie that came out this weekend will get you either a yes or a no but may not launch a meaningful conversation . instead , ask her what other movies shes seen and why she likes them . this type of question will get a much longer answer from her . girls often like guys to make the first move . instead of waiting for her to ask you questions , be proactive and do the asking first . once shes answered your question , nod and then provide your own perspective . you want a balanced conversation in which you find out what shes all about while also sharing parts of yourself . find out what shes passionate about . if you like this girl , then chances are you find something about her really fascinating . ask her why she likes what she likes , or why she thinks what she thinks . ask her something that you genuinely want to learn more about instead of asking questions just to get her to talk . if youre insincere , shell know , and your conversation will be dead in the water . people love to talk about themselves . if you find out what shes passionate about , the conversation will go naturally and easily . this is the easiest way to build a connection . you want to find out as much as you can about her , but you also want to make sure that you show yourself at your best . talk about a subject that makes you feel passionate and persuasive . when youre talking about something really positive , youre going to be at your best . if youre passionate about music , then talk about your favorite bands . if you have something that you love to do , then talk about it with her . make sure that you give her equal time . you definitely want to share something about yourself , but if you only talk about you , shes going to think youre self - centered , and shes not going to talk to you . dont offer opinions about subjects you know nothing about . your goal is to impress the girl with your wit , your conversation , and your intelligence . if you blather about something youre opinionated but uninformed about , you wont come off as very intelligent . youre not going to be able to think of something to say at every point during the conversation , and thats completely okay . pauses are a natural part of conversation . get her comfortable with the idea of pauses by using pauses or deliberations sparingly in your own speech . smile at her , take a sip from your drink or look around the room until you come up with something new to say . as long as you seem confident and interested , shell wait with a lot of anticipation for the next step in the conversation . if you look nervous or stare at your feet , then shell feel uncomfortable , and shes likely to say see you later . use pauses throughout the conversation . when you pause , look as though you are carefully considering what you want to say . shell be invested in trying to find out what youre going to say next , and she may feel compelled to fill the silence with her own conversation . peoples rate of speech naturally synchronizes when theyre talking . that means that people unconsciously mimic how quickly the other person is talking . so if you talk slowly , shell talk slowly , and the conversation will last longer . the secret to talking slowly is being confident , not nervous . think of the pauses as her chance to impress you . dont feel like you need to generate topic after topic for conversation . during the pause , you want to silently invite her to take the initiative . if she does , then youll know that shes enjoying talking to you . dont delve into any controversial subjects or anything that she may find uncomfortable . also , dont gossip about other people , because she may think that youre not genuinely nice . use your sense of humor . dont dive in with a really off - color joke or something that could be shocking to her . keep it light and test the waters before you say anything that she might think is mean or offensive . practice funny stories . more than simply jokes , people love hearing stories about funny things that happened to you . so keep track of funny or entertaining things that happened to you and rehearse the story you want to tell with friends . know your pop culture . keep up on the latest celebrity news and whats new in movies and music . when you know whats going on out there , youll always have something light to talk about . plus , you might just impress her with the number of things that you know . for yourself , use great eye contact , sit up straight and smile warmly . when you do these things , shell feel as though youre focused on her . watch the way she uses her body . if she makes eye contact with you , lightly touches your arm or leans in toward you while youre talking , then you can feel confident that shes into you . make sure youre projecting good body language , too . dont cross your arms , tap your feet , sigh or groan audibly . all these tics are signs that youre bored or dissatisfied with her . if shes constantly looking away , fiddling with her drink or her jewelry or looking like she cant wait to escape , then you may be losing her interest . you can try saying something like , are you having a bad day you look like youre a million miles away . or , if the conversation hasnt been all that interesting to begin with , just politely say , nice talking to you and walk away . let her know that you think shes important . dont be cagey about turning the spotlight on you . instead , focus it mainly on her . turn off your cell phone while youre having a conversation with a girl . if you go outside to take a call , you may come back and find that shes moved on . if you run into friends , introduce your friends to her but remain focused on your conversation . try to send nonverbal signals to your friends letting them know that they need to talk to you another time . tell her that you enjoyed talking to her and getting to know her . if you felt a real connection to her , ask for her phone number . the next morning , send her a text saying that you had a great time , and wish her a good day . you might get a second chance at continuing that initial conversation if she texts you back . a good rule of thumb is to wait a least a day before you call her , especially if you approached her as a stranger . you dont want her to think youre too forward , and you dont want to appear too needy , so it is best to delay for a day . when you call her , keep things short and sweet . unless shes really enjoying the conversation , simply ask her if shed want to see a movie or go out for coffee and leave it at that . you want to impress her in person , where you can do better damage - control if something goes wrong . keep it low key until you know that she really likes you . she may feel a bit weird if youre pushing really hard and shes not , so try to get a good balance going . and at all times , keep the conversation flowing .

check the pasture . note the problem areas . clean the pasture . deal with fencing . examine the pastures resources . bring in the horses .

how to prepare a pasture for horses

walk over the entire pasture and check for anything that could harm your horse . such things to watch out for would be glass , ragwort , barbed wire , splintered wood , large or even small pieces of metal , and holes . these can all cause serious harm , or even death , to your animal if not removed , so take careful note . do not pick up or fill in anything in the first run - through of the pasture . make a map of the pasture , and mark where there are problem areas that have any of the aforementioned problems . this will help you later when you are doing the final run - through , as well as help you notice any pattern in the locations of debris . if you see broken glass or pieces of man - made materials in a certain area more than once , make a mark on the map , and check the surrounding area extra carefully , just in case something was broken or dumped around that area , and spread . with a large plastic garbage bag , thick rubber gloves , and a shovel , address any problem areas in the pasture . if you already have a horse living in the pasture , make note of if they are afraid of plastic bags - some horses are . if this is the case , steer clear of the horse while doing this , or place the horse in another pasture entirely . fill in the holes . this will take a while , of course , but is one of the most important parts to ensuring the safety of your horses . take dirt from an area where there is some extra , such as from the embankment of the pond , and where you can expect the dirt to fill in relatively soon . fill in any holes large enough for you to stick your fist into . take care - if you cannot see the bottom of the hole , it very well may be a snake or gopher hole . if you are not prepared to deal with such animals , make a red mark on the map where that hole is , and come back later when you are prepared to do battle . for all other holes , fill in liberally , tamp the dirt down to make sure its packed tightly , and come back in a week to make sure that the dirt hasnt settled into the hole , causing another hole . dispose of the garbage . recycle if at all possible . otherwise , itll end up being trash in someone elses pasture , or just dumped into the ground , and thats not much good in the long run , is it eradicate any weeds . not only do weeds reduce the feeding value of your pasture , but some plants can make horses sick , so find out which species are common in your area . learn to identify them so that if you see them in the pasture , you can remove them with a shovel , root and all . keep an eye on those spots for regrowth and use herbicides if necessary . walk the length of the fencing you are using for the pasture , and make sure it is intact . if you have fencing that breaks often , you may want to replace the entire fence . barbed wire is not a good idea for horses - they can easily hurt themselves by various means with barbed wire , and , to boot , many rescue agencies dont allow you to adopt a horse from them if you have barbed wire . wooden fences are a safe bet , but break often if you dont maintain them well . electrical fencing may sound like a good idea , but only in moderation . using one cord of electrical fence on the top of a wooden fence is normally a relatively safe idea if you have a horse that jumps the fence a lot , but , for the sake of the horse and your electrical bill , turn it down as low as possible . examine all entrances and exits to the pasture . these are normally the weak points in fencing , since gating may all be dependent upon one half - inch thick rope , and thats it . if your gating situation is similar , seriously consider purchasing a metal gate that has an actual lock on it . even if your horses are quite tame and docile , the sweetest horse can still take any chance to escape . its quite a hassle to round them up again . in addition to keeping the horses in , a strong gate is vital to keeping other things out of the pasture . while a determined person probably could just jump the fence , a large animal is easily stopped by maintaining the gating and fencing situation . talk to your neighbors if you share a fence with them . tell them that you are preparing to bring in a new horse and need to be sure that they are not planning on changing anything about the fencing if the current fence is acceptable . if the current fencing is not acceptable , tell them before changing anything about the fence , as they may have a reason for leaving the fence as it is . if that is the case , you may have to build a second fence on your side of the pasture . this cuts off your land earlier , but solves any neighbor problems you may be having , and helps control any unruly animals they may have that could pose a danger to your horses . now that it is clean , take this chance to make sure the pasture is actually habitable by horses . make sure the food supply is adequate . are your horses going to eat purely grass from the pasture , and survive off of that if so , see the tips below . or are you planning on feeding them hay and horse feed make sure that the feeding area is near water , and if you have multiple horses , set up multiple feeding areas broken off from one another . very often , one horse dominates over the other , and will steal the weaker horses food . if they are just going to graze for food , verify that there is enough grass . if you live in a dry , arid climate , there may very well not be enough grass growing to feed your horses . buying bales of hay in the winter is a very good idea you can simply place a bale out in the pasture , and let the horses eat off of it when they wish to . ensure adequate water is available for your horses . this is absolutely crucial . a larger paddock may have a dam in it , or it may have a river running through it . in many horse paddocks , you may have to ferry water to a water trough or tub . simply take a couple of old wash tubs and place them out in the pasture . fill with water whenever possible . take another tub and place it where you can easily get to it , and keep it supplied with water at all times . ensure that the troughs are clean , and away from over hanging branches , as falling leaves will cause the water to become unsanitary faster . have the trough close to a fence , so as it wont become a hazard to running horses , and so you are able to remove the trough if portable in a case of emergency or situation . if you have two adjoining paddocks , an old bathtub may be useful , as you are able to have it in both paddocks by cutting a hole in the fence and having half of the bathtub on each side . make sure that the tub is clean and free of cracks and sharp edges . a plug is essential to prevent the water from draining out . you can pick up old bath tubs from recycle plants or you can inquire at your local bathtub specialist . bring your horses in during daylight hours , preferably 3 or more hours prior to the sun setting . this way , your horses can learn about their new surroundings , and there will be a less of a chance of finding an injured horse in the morning . watch them carefully for a couple of days and inspect any wounds that they may develop . if any wounds do develop , and you have reason to suspect that it had something to do with the pasture that could have been avoided e . g . a long gash along the side , indicating barbed wire somewhere in the field , remove the horses and go back to step one . you want the horses to be as safe and as happy as possible . checking the fence at least once every 2 or 3 days is also a good idea . if you have time , do a quick check of the pasture and fence once a day .

provide suitable grazing . provide water . be sure to provide shelter . be sure to divide the field . know what to feed your horses . do a daily clean up droppings . examine the grass for holes or sharp bits of material . prevent loneliness .

how to care for horses living out

keeping a horse in a field seems simple , but a good field needs regular care to provide enough grass to eat . each horse or pony needs at least 12 a hectare one acre to graze , or more if possible . the grass should be healthy , and free of poisonous plants such as ragwort or yew . a clean water supply is vital , as horses drink about 36 litres 8 gallons a day . ideally , there should be a trough which refills from the mains water supply automatically . if this isnt possible , fill the trough each day with buckets of clean water . if it becomes cloudy , the trough needs draining with a scrubbing brush which is clean , but with no detergent . horses need shelter to escape from flies , the sun and bad weather . a high dense hedge is enough for some ponies , but ideally they should have a three - sided shed . the open side has easy access to in and out of the shed and prevents one horse from getting trapped in the corner by the others . dividing the field - if horses live in one field for a long time , the field may become horse sick . this is where some areas are over grazed , and the grass become sparse , but around the horses droppings it becomes lush and infested with worms . to prevent this , fence the field off into 2 sections and graze one section at a time . the other left - section has been allowed a rest from grazing for a time to grow back more grass . when a horse lives out for most of the year and no one is riding him , he doesnt need any extra food in the summer months and only needs hay in the winter . if a horse is being ridden regularly , he needs other food , such as horse cubes or nuts , grains or sugar beet , to keep his energy levels up . the amount he needs depends on how big he is , and how much work he is doing . chaff is chopped up hay . it is a good addition to a horses winter diet . pony cubes are an excellent all round source of energy for a working horse . , being herd animals , horses get lonely if they are kept in a big space on their own . if possible , a horse should be kept with at least one other horse for company . even another animal such as a sheep will be better than nothing .

assess your area . hold a fundraiser if you dont have enough money for all the repairs . start your work

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what facilities are there what needs to be changed will there need to be renovations made or is it just a matter of sweeping the corridor and picking the manure forks up how long will it take will it cost money , and how much if big things need to be done , such as replacing a door of a stall or fencing a meadow , ask the proprietors permission first . you dont want to get in trouble , but they may praise you for pointing out a danger . these are especially good in livery stables , because its almost certain that people would buy a raffle ticket to help raise money for new equipment in their yard however , if you are a private stable , get creative . lemonade stands , car boots sales and anything else could help you save up some extra cash . if you plan on doing things like busking , get the local counsels permission first , as you may need a licence . gather a team if needed , many people would be happy to help , and having people that are handy is even better

muck out completely . replace or fix broken hay nets , water drinkers , food troughs , doors etc .

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this will let you see any dangers that you could have missed either in the manure or perhaps where the floor has broken . regularly cleaning stalls is good in case a horse has a scratch , as it could get easily infected in a dirty stall . broken things are dangerous make sure you know how to fix them properly , because a badly fixed item could be more dangerous than something broken .

find all the tools that are lying around , collect them and put them in a proper , safe place . learn how to store them correctly , such as with forks , if you lay them against a wall , the prongs must face towards the wall . clean all bits of bailing twine , empty feed sacks , and other rubbish away . sweep the corridor or courtyard completely to check for any other hazards .

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this will prevent many accidents , how many cartoons have you seen where a character has been hit in the face with a rake handle it happens imagine the farrier vet bill if your horse steps on a prong .

, dont touch other peoples stuff though . put your things correctly on their hooks and stands , clean out your locker if you have one .

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start with your tack in the tack roomstable lounge , take it apart and polish it . well cared for material is safe material . if something looks uncared for , gently encourage the person to do something about it , dont pressure them though . give the floor a good dusting and sweeping . clean the lounge , too . in the lounge if you are so lucky to have one put everything away so it can be found easily and vacuum or sweep the floor .

check for loose bits of wire or nails in the paddock , or anything else . replace any mineral licks or remove empty or broken feeders . check to make sure the water drinkers work properly and check the hay feeders for anything that looks odd . scour the hedges or plains for toxic plants and make sure any electric fencing is running dont touch it to test it . make sure there are no lost horseshoes and that the gates are in good condition .

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replace broken letters in the schooling areas around the arena . fix or throw away broken jumping poles , perhaps repaint them if needed . make sure all the safety signs can be read easily , order new ones promptly if they are broken or sun damaged . collect any stray crops and put them in a bucket either in the tack room or in the school . make sure there are no stones or sticks in the schooling yard or round pens . replace old or broken equipment . keep everything tidy .

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, check to make sure that everything meets the current safety standards . this will help you spot hazards before an accident . it will also make your yard look better , and more professional . also , no matter how hazard free your yard may seem , always take out insurance , it will help you in the case of something you didnt spot .

be honest with your friends . make sure your friends know that youre serious . seek to have a two - way discussion . reevaluate your friendships if your friends refuse to stop .

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sometimes , friends wont know if youre not comfortable with their teasing until you say something . they might even think you enjoy it , since it gives you a chance to talk about your crush . try simply telling them that you dont like to be teased about your crush . express yourself and dont give your friends the impression that youre okay with their comments and remarks if youre actually not . dont try to make your friends guess how you feel . if you smile and laugh on the outside , but secretly wish theyd stop , its up to you to be more straightforward about the effect their teasing has on you . if your friends usually treat you well and respect your feelings , they will be glad you said something , and theyll probably stop teasing you right away . if you arent used to confronting people , it can be difficult to get your point across clearly . you might be tempted to joke about it or act like its no big deal . however , your friends might not understand how much you dislike the teasing unless you take a more serious approach . when you bring up the teasing with your friends , use an assertive tone . assertiveness helps with honest communication and helps cultivate genuine relationships . it allows you to be absolutely clear about your needs . being assertive isnt the same as being condescending or rude . there is nothing rude about politely telling them how you feel . start your discussion with phrases such as i dont like it when you tease me because… or your teasing make me feel… be honest and direct without any intentions of hurting or offending your friends . wait for a time when everyone is feeling relaxed and has time for a full conversation . ask your friends if they understand how their teasing makes you feel , and really listen to the answer . if you can create a dialogue of understanding , your friends will be much less likely to keep teasing you . communication is also a two - way street . be receptive to getting feedback from your friends . they will be more willing to listen to you if youre willing to listen to them in return . ask follow - up questions such as how does that make you feel in order to understand any feelings or reactions your friends may be going through . deep talks on subjects that feel personal can lead to even better friendships . if they just dont get it , even after you tried to have a serious discussion , you may want to stop talking about your crush with them . you may even want to reconsider whether they are really your friends if they decide to keep teasing you after youve asked them to stop . when the subject of your crush comes up , dont reveal your feelings youll just give them more fodder for teasing . consider talking about your crush only with people you trust not to use the information to get laughs .

occupy your friends attention with other things . guide them away from the subject of your crush . have a go - to topic ready to discuss .

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the goal is to divert their attention to anything else other than your crush . get your friends talking about what theyre up to or the things that theyre interested in . make the conversation less about you and more about them . ask questions about their day , any plans they may have for the weekend , or about the latest movie they watched . be excited about what they are saying in order to encourage them to keep talking more about them and less about you and your crush . encourage your friends to open up . ask them about the love interest in their life or if they have their eye on someone . your interest can make them feel comfortable with expressing themselves about whats going on in their lives . if your friends insist on bringing up your crush , you dont have to talk about the person if you dont want to . when it seems like theyre about to start teasing you , try one of these approaches tell your friends , i dont want to talk about that right now . shrug , then turn it around and bring up one of their boyfriendsgirlfriends . act like you didnt hear what they said , and change the subject entirely . if unwanted teasing starts happening , transition into in a more welcoming conversation . if theres something you have in common that you could both talk about happily for hours , jump straight to that instead of lingering on the subject of your crush . for example , if your friend is a huge sports fan , bring up their favorite playerteam or recap last nights sports highlights . friendly banter about whose playerteam is the best can help switch the conversation gears to more pleasant conversation .

dont let them see you sweat . keep some of your crush details under wraps . spend time away from friends who wont stop teasing .

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more often than not , your friends will find pleasure in ruffling your feathers . let your outer image exude confidence and nonchalance about their banter and teasing . if they see that you arent phased by their silly teasing , they wont bother doing it anymore . be as cool about the situation as you can . even if you may feel uneasy about your friends teasing on the inside , your confidence and carefree attitude will show them that their words andor actions wont throw you off your crushing game . deflect with humor if youre having difficulty with ignoring your friends teasing . come up with a witty phrase or comeback that lets your friends know that their teasing is nothing more than a laughing matter . your friends dont need to know everything that goes on between you and your crush . avoid giving your friends too much teasing ammo and pull back the reigns on over sharing . a little mystery goes a long way . your friends will still more than likely bug you about spilling the beans about you and your crush . share only the details that youre comfortable with sharing . you could even tell them that you dont have a crush on the person anymore . playing it cool might mean spending more time with people who respect you . teasing might seem like its all in good fun , but it stops being fun with it begins to hurt . find people to hang with who are mature enough to leave you along when youve asked nicely . as a last resort , you could even tell your friends that you dont want to spend time with them anymore because of their behavior . if your friends apologize and want to earn back your trust , its up to you whether you want to give them another chance . it could be a learning experience for both you and your friends . if you feel that the teasing has gone past the point of playfulness and into bullying territory , tell your parents or another trusted adult . you deserve to be treated well by your peers , so dont be afraid to seek help if you need it .

spend less time on im . paint your nails . talk with a lot of other people . listen to music you enjoy . plan your reply . let him start the conversation with you . play a game . get an egg timer and set it to ten or twenty seconds , whatever feels right , and set it ticking if he says something , and forbid yourself from answering until it pings . end the conversation yourself .

how to stop answering instant messages from your crush so quickly

for one , hell think youre a tiny bit lifeless if youre always sitting at your keyboard , not to mention if youre not there in the first place you arent tempted to talk with him . plus , extended times in front of your computer gives your skin a funny look , which wont make him like you any more . while they are wet you cant type so fast without smudging them , and it looks nice and shows you care for yourself . having five other conversations going at once will stop you answering him straight away , especially if you tell yourself not to answer him until you have answered everybody else first . if you can close your eyes and enjoy your favourite song it distracts you from him . if you look at what hes said , then you can start thinking about a great reply that will make him laugh , or make him think , or generally think youre an all - round great person . if he logs on and your hand flies to the start conversation button he will probably get annoyed . wait around a bit , and if he doesnt start a conversation with you after ten minutes or so , say hi , otherwise let him do the talking . racing games are good distractions as you cant just stop and go back five minutes later . avoid the pause button and finish your game when he says anything . , if you feel its been going on a long time , just say that youve got to leave . if he asks , answer vaguely to create an air of mystery

never run in the yard . never yell or shout . never look a horse in the eye . never approach a horse from behind . never make loud noises as you may spook the horse . even if it is raining , dont use an umbrella or were flapping waterproofs . dont be silly . never leave a horse unattended . dont climb over gates . no smoking . be kind and polite , especially to the yard owners . dont distract people who are riding . obey any and all rules that the yard may have in place .

how to act in a stable

running can scare the horses , and is dangerous for you too a you can easily slip . walk , or power walk if the horses are calm . yellingshouting can scare the horses . use a calm quiet voice at all times . this is thought of as threatening . look just below or around the shoulder . go calmly towards their shoulder . spooked horses can often panic and hurt themselves . these can spook even the most quiet of horses . no splashing water at your friends or galloping around the yard . save this for the park . if they are tied up , tacked up , etc . this can be quite dangerous . this causes them to drop . open them them like everyone else . smoking is prohibited in all yards for obvious reasons . one cigarette in the straw and you have a barn fire on your hands . , they may be trying something difficult , and not only may you throw their concentration , you could also spook their horse .

you can meet someone anywhere . walk up to the person you are interested in and talk about random things . build a rapport by flirting a bit . dont go too far . sometime during the conversation , exchange names . continue flirting . assess whether closing in for their phone number would be ideal . if ideal , go ahead and see if you can their phone number ex is she flirting back , ask for the number by saying something like it was nice meeting you , unfortunately i have to go , but i would really like to continue this conversation . proceed to pull out your cellphone , enter her phone number . call it so she has yours . say good - bye and leave . wait for a day . call . dress accordingly and flirt by talking less and asking more questions . call again at your discretion . suggest a private meeting next time , such as your place for a movie . build more rapport by asking about topics such as her dreams and childhood , talk about how she is unique , look mesmerized and then slowly work into a kiss . repeat steps 13 through 15 and then after a few weeks , ask her out on an official date . congratulations , at this time you may also want to hang out apart from just organized dates for the sake of hanging out , like with your guy buddies . have a serious discussion on whether you guys should be in a relationship . the relationship has either started or youre still casually dating .

how to start a relationship from dating a stranger

be advised that unless you have some kind of something to say , you might frighten who you are talking to . , maintain some eye contact . , has she mentioned a possible boyfriend can i get your number so we can get together sometime . , if no answers , leave a brief but informative message such as hi , its tom , we met while we were walking to class . i had a good time talking to you and im interested in hearing from you . give me a call back at insert time youre not busy at this number insert number ill talk to you later . or if your call is answered , hey mary its tom , we met on the way to class . how are you doing i dont have much time , but i would like to see you again . im going to do lunch today at 3 , would you like to join me if she says yes , set up a location and time for the lunch meeting . you should lightly tease her , and end the meeting early . do not talk about a second date but end with i had a good time and ill call you later . , do not have sex , but be intimate . , you are now dating officially . at this point , friends of yours and hers meet and mingle and everyone sees you together . , good for you

make a list of qualities you find attractive . do things you enjoy . consider your social circle . explore the internet .

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many people meet someone and jump straight into a relationship because they prefer not to be single . while this does fill one of your needs , you have no way of knowing of that person will make you happy in the long run . the first thing that you should do is reflect on what you want out of a relationship and out of a partner , and what attracts you to someone else . think about things likedo i want to be with someone who is career or family oriented what physical features do i find attractive in a person what about a persons personality attracts me do i want to be with someone who is spontaneous or predictable think about your list , but remember that no one can ultimately make you happy but yourself . think about the traits that would compliment what you want in a happy life , rather than depending upon someone else to bring fulfillment to you . the best way to meet people that have things in common with you is to go out and do the things you love doing . inevitably , you will meet someone that enjoys doing the same things . this is a great start to a potential relationship , as you will naturally attract people when you are doing something you enjoy . for example , if you are an avid book reader , you might join a book club for people around your age . there are many organizations and groups from book clubs to adventure clubs that can help you spark a relationship with someone who enjoys similar things . the friends you already have are likely to have common interests and know other people with interests like your own . sometimes , a friendship can transition into a relationship easily if theres an attraction between the two people . friends can also introduce you to someone that they know and think youd like . do not try to force a relationship with a friend . this can lead to a failed relationship and a failed friendship . though the internet makes it easy for people to create a false representation of themselves , there are people out there who are looking for genuine relationships . you can explore dating sites and social media to meet people and get to know them . just be careful when going out with a person you meet on the internet . you should always meet in a safe , public place .

spend time together . learn about the other person . create trust .

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once you find someone that you are interested in , spend time with them . go out on dates , meet up for lunch , or even just go for a walk and talk . seeing each other frequently will give you the chance to connect with the other person . you should not see each other constantly . a few times a week is usually healthy , but smothering each other every day can actually be damaging to a new relationship . moreover , coping with space may show you are not needy , which can also be attractive . while you are spending time with the other person , it is important to ask genuine questions and pay attention to their answers . the more you learn about the person , the deeper your relationship can grow . they will also appreciate your honest desire to understand and care for them . for example , you might ask them about what things they liked to do as kids or whether or not they have any family nearby . delay sexual intimacy until you feel comfortable communicating with them . that way you are less likely to have a misunderstanding when you finally do hook up . creating trust takes time . you have to be consistent and show up when the other person needs you . you have to keep promises that you make to them , whether its showing up for a date or helping them clean their house . it is also important to always tell them the truth , and if they ask something that you are uncomfortable sharing , tell them that . for example , if they asked you something deeply personal on a second date , you could say im not really comfortable talking about that right now , but we can discuss it when we know each other better . trust often happens when you make yourself vulnerable . opening yourself up to someone and showing them both your positive traits and your fears and insecurities help create deeper , lasting connections .

express your interest in a sustained relationship . discuss boundaries . be willing to compromise .

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even though you are seeing each other frequently and going out on dates , the other person cant be sure of your intentions unless you tell them . let the person know that you are ready and interested in a relationship . you should also be willing to hear whether they want the same thing or not . for example , you could say weve been going out for a while , and i know that we both enjoy being around each other . i just wanted to let you know that i am interested in a serious relationship when the time is right for both of us . once you agree to be in a relationship , there are certain rules that come with that . the tricky part is that these rules are not the same for every person or couple . you should both sit down and discuss what boundaries you expect to be followed in the relationship . for example , your partner might be okay with staying friends with exes , while that makes you uncomfortable . you discuss both sides , and agree on a set of boundaries that makes you both comfortable . creating boundaries can help you to find a happy medium between what makes you comfortable and what makes your partner comfortable . for example , you might agree that being friends with exes is okay , but constantly communicating with them is crossing the line . one of the hardest things about a relationship is that both people must be willing to compromise to make it work . that means you will have to do some things that you dont like , and so will the other person . keep an open line of communication about the relationship , and make sure that both people are giving and taking . for example , you might both hate doing dishes and laundry . as a compromise , one of you could do dishes , and the other do laundry . work to keep your lines of communication open throughout the course of your relationship . unspoken issues may arise and create even larger problems later on if not addressed .

learn your crushs interests and hobbies . get a feel for your crushs personality . get a rough idea of your crushs schedule . look good to feel good . pick the time and place . start the conversation with confidence . use open questions . listen actively and pay attention to your crushs body language . be yourself and allow your crush to do the same . talk about something going on with school or work . comment on something happening around you . comment on something about them . ask a question . ask for help . ask about their history . talk about a current event . talk about a movie or tv show . compliment them , be honest .

how to start a conversation with your crush

pay attention to what your crush does for fun . people generally enjoy talking about things that they know and like . look for common ground between you two for topics to discuss . for example , find out what their extra curriculars are or what they do on the weekends . you can ask their friends or just pay attention to what they say theyre doing . are they shy maybe they are very social and extroverted taking cues from his or her social interactions will give you an idea of how to eventually approach your crush . for example , if theyre shy , talking to them around other people or being very open with your affection may scare them , and this should be avoided . you can only have a conversation if you are both in the same place at the same time . this information will increase the likelihood that you will have an impromptu run - in with your crush if simply paying attention doesnt help , you can always recruit one of their friends to help you out . good friends will want to help their friend get a boyfriend or girlfriend . just make sure theyre trustworthy . you want to look you best , to show your crush that you think theyre worth the effort . feeling comfortable with your outward appearance will also give you an extra boost of confidence take special care with hair - get a fresh haircut or style your hair in a nice way . dont go for a totally new hairstyle though . it will look out of place clothes - wear an outfit that your crush might like . above all , make sure your clothes are clean , fit your body , and are free of wrinkles or stains . grooming - washing , shaving , and smelling pleasant will go a long way check out information on grooming here . depending on what you learned about your crush , choosing the when and the where of your conversation could be very important . if you want to have an intimate one - on - one conversation , start the conversation when your crush is alone . if you are in a group or in a loud location , the conversation can be more casual . speak clearly and make eye contact with your crush . your body language says much about your interest . a smile wouldnt hurt , either remember that they are just another person , just like you . you dont have to be nervous , and even if things dont go exactly as you plan , everything will still be okay in the end . these are questions that cant be answered with a simple yes or no . the goal is to get them talking and keep them talking , because this will give you the most opportunities to have something to respond to , creating a real conversation open questions usually start with why or how , or deal with complex subject matters . for example , you could ask what was it like growing up in new york and then having to move here , why did you want to take this class , or how are you liking working with try asking follow - up questions on topics that your crush seemed genuinely interested in . tone of voice and body language can give you an idea of how the conversation is going . if they seem very disinterested or distracted , quit while youre ahead . you dont want to give them the impression that youre super awkward . just excuse yourself sorry , i forgot i was supposed to call my aunt for her birthday and try again another time . once the conversation gets rolling , express your opinions and interests while giving your crush space to express theirs . just make sure that youre focusing the conversation on them in the early stages of getting to know each other . you dont want them to feel like youre self - centered . you can start a conversation by talking about what youre guaranteed to have in common school or work depending on how you know each other . have you taken math with heiser im trying to figure out if i want to take it next semester . did you hear that theyre going to remodel the break room im holding out for a new tv . what about you you can also comment on something thats happening nearby , while youre standing near each other . just be sure it isnt critical of or insulting to other people since this will give your crush the wrong impression of what youre like . did you see that i wish more people were considerate like that these days . its so nice to see . such a shame how hes talking to her . she deserves more respect . she works really hard . comment on something that theyre wearing , asking a question about its origin or story . try to look for things that theyre clearly proud of , such as badge pins , nice shoes , or tee shirts with band logos . thats a cool burning man tee . have you ever gone ive always wanted to go . sweet adventure time button . whos your favorite character ask them a question about something that you think they might know about . this is a good way to get yourself talking to them , but the subject will usually need to be changed pretty quickly if you want a conversation to keep going . do you know where the smith building is do you know how to open this ive been struggling with it but i cant tell if im dumb or just have really weak wrists . ask them for a tiny favor , something that takes less than a minute of their time . people like to feel useful and it will give you a way to start a conversation with positive feelings . i dont suppose you could help me reach the stuff on the upper shelf none of these chairs are safe to stand on . can you hold this coffee for a second while i put this away i dont want it to spill . ask them about how or why theyre in a specific place . for example , if youre at a party , ask how they know the host . if youre at school and just hanging out in class or with other friends , ask them if theyve always lived in the area . talk about something thats happening in the news , either nationally or in your local area . this can be a good way to launch into more serious topics , if youre really wanting to get to know them as a person . did you hear about that protest rally for this weekend i was thinking about going . did you hear the city is planning on tearing down that highway traffic is going to be murder . comment on or ask about a recent movie or tv show , either one that you like a lot or one that you havent see yet . get their opinion and use it to launch into a conversation . even if they havent seen it , you can turn the conversation into a usable topic . have you gone to see the new spider man yet im trying to figure out if its worth seeing . oh man , please tell me you watch game of thrones because i need someone to be excited with you dont you should . its awesome , etc . a compliment about something not - creepy is a great way to start a conversation . try to compliment them on something they control , like their clothing choice or something theyve done or made , instead of something that they dont , like their hair or eyes . complimenting things like hair or eyes might as well be a compliment for just about anyone and isnt unique to them . just tell them that you want to talk to them because they look interesting or fun and you want to get to know them . many people will appreciate the honesty , especially people who are on the attractive side and are used to people trying to be manipulative or coy in order to talk to them .

explore your attraction . take a second look . put yourself out there . try online . be honest with yourself . start subtle . practice flirting . conquer your shyness . keep it straightforward . learn to take a no . get a second opinion . celebrate returned feelings .

how to officially have a crush on someone

physical attraction is often the first step in developing a crush . dont feel shallow for initially being drawn to someone because you like how tall they are or because their eyes make you swoon . when it comes to attraction , humans have biological impulses . look around you at work or at school . if someone makes your heart flutter on first sight , try to meet them . find excuses to spend time around them like asking them to help you with a school or work project . dont discount people because they arent your type . sometimes crushes come in the least expected packages , so dont lose opportunity by being close - minded . not all crushes come out of initial physical attraction . look at the friends and acquaintances you already have . who do you find yourself wanting to spend the most time with have you ever had an inkling of something more than friendship with any of them look for the laughs . genuine and frequent laughter is often a good sign of initial compatibility . if someone makes you smile , its worth a lot . if you know a friend has a crush on you but youre not sure if youre physically attracted to the person , ask yourself some questions about the emotional side of things . try writing a list of all the things you like about that person . ask yourself how the list makes you feel . often , as emotional attraction grows , physical attraction follows . , its simple—if you dont put yourself into new situations , you wont meet new people . try attending events and joining activities that reflect your interests . this will help you meet like - minded people and give you an automatic conversation starter . , its not for everyone , but its an undeniable part of dating today . online dating can be an easy way to break the ice and find people with similar interests . if you use online dating , be sure to meet in person as soon as you can . theres no substitute for body language in conversion , and youll be able to determine if the spark is really there . research dating sites . like dating in real life , different dating sites are right for different people . they all offer different types of services and levels of customization . dont overlook social media . social media can be a great way to reconnect with old flames or old friends or to meet new people . it takes some of the risk out of online dating . through someones social media profile , you can see a slightly less curated version of their lives and check if you have mutual friends or interests . sending a quick , personal message is painless , and theres no pressure for the other person to respond if they arent interested . sometimes crushes are unavoidable . know when you should let your crush in on your attraction or keep it to yourself . if your crush is in a relationship of any kind , let it go . period . you dont want to break up your crush and their significant other , and chances are they wont return your feelings . even if they do , its sure to become messy quickly it should go with out saying , but only approach good people . if you have any knowledge that your crush has done or said something violent , cruel , or illegal , run in the other direction . no matter how romanticized in books and movies , the bad girl or bad boy never makes for a good partner . if you do like a friend , make sure its worth the risk . letting a friend know you want more out of the friendship might lead to awkwardness or distance . make a pros and cons list , and think about how this specific person might respond if they dont return your feelings . , if you decide your crush is worthy of your attention , begin with small gestures of attention . this way you can clue them in on your feelings without scaring them away . invite them to group events . you dont have to start out asking your date to a romantic dinner for two . try inviting them to casual hangouts with your friends . you can show them how fun you are in a social setting without the pressure of private conversation . extend an open - ended invitation . for example , if you find out this person likes sushi , say something like , we should get sushi sometime if they say yes , it leaves it up to them to make the actual plans , and if they never follow up , they probably werent truly interested . use body language . when youre hanging out , give them a small touch on the arm , or sit slightly closer to them than you would one of your friends . gauge their physical reaction to your closeness . if they return these small gestures unconsciously , chances are good that they like you , too . simple flirting can help you win over your crush . flirting doesnt have to be stressful or complicated . add emojis . if youre texting , try adding just a few smiley faces to your messages to let your crush know that talking to them makes you smile . tease him a little . dont be mean , but little bit of playful teasing can go a long way . use your eyes . let him catch you staring and quickly look away . being shy can make talking to your crush that much more difficult . work on your confidence so you can approach your crush . its okay to be nervous . dont try too hard to hide it . your crush will think its sweet . focus on your crush , not yourself . think about all the great things about them . shyness often begins when you are too focused on your own insecurities . start with a common interest . talk about something you love and are very familiar with . this will help you avoid awkward pauses . text . communicating through texts can be a great way for a shy person to get to know someone . it will help you become comfortable and make it easier to talk in person . after you have hinted your affections subtly for a while , let your crush know how you feel . dont think you have to wait for your crush to make the first big move . keep your statement short and simple . dont feel like you have to initiate in person . write a quick note or send a text message after a hang out sessions . after this , invite them to do something that is clearly a date . say something like , i have really enjoyed getting to know you better would you want to go out to dinner with me on thursday keep it simple and specific . if someone doesnt respond to your flirting or rejects you outright , let them go . dont dwell on what you could have done differently , and dont try to change their mind . at this stage in the relationship , take what your crush says at face value . look at a no as an opportunity to meet someone even better . remember , this will take time . dont be discouraged if you continue to have feelings for your crush . just do your best to interact with new people , and dont be tempted to continue trying to flirt with your crush . let yourself be sad . its fine to take a day or a week to wallow a little . vent to your friends . treat yourself to a nice meal . if youve been flirting with your crush for a while , but youre still not sure whether or not they return your feelings , it can help to ask friends . try to ask friends who know your crush fairly well . sometimes , an objective opinion can help you understand what someone really feels . if your friends think your crush is interested , it may be time to be more blunt with your crush about their feelings . just ask them like this hey i have a confession to make . i have been really crushing on you lately . just wondering if maybe you felt the same if your crush returns your feelings , let yourself enjoy the moment . keep flirting , and keep things light - hearted for a while . dont feel pressured to progress into the serious stage of a relationship too quickly .

say hi . make casual conversation . use body language . compliment them . suggest an activity and make plans . be yourself . stay present and focus on them . get to know their friends . invite your crush to activities where the two of you can be alone . pay attention to your crushs body language . make the move yourself .

how to show interest in your crush without overdoing it

its a simple first step , but its an important one . your crush cant know you if you never talk to them . if youre not comfortable with talking to your crush , saying hi is a good way to break the ice and build your confidence . this will make it easier to talk to them in the future . once youve gotten used to saying hi , it will be easier for you to engage your crush casually . keep it simple and light early on , showing an interest but without getting too personal ask how their day is going . talk to them about the latest events happening in your town or at school . ask them how any school activities they participate in are going . how did football practice go today whens the next event for the debate club ask what they like to do in their spare time , and ask follow - up questions about that . getting to know your crushs interest is a great way to both learn more about him and make him feel appreciated . for example almost everyone likes music what kind of music do you like is a great icebreaker . once youre comfortable enough to talk to your crush , dont forget to incorporate body language . eighty per cent of human communication is nonverbal . doing these things can help indicate your interest smile at your crush when they look at you . this shows youre happy to see them , and will engender good feelings in them about seeing you in return . meet your crush with uncrossed arms and a gaze upward - - dont look down at your shoes or phone . this shows your availability to being approached . make eye contact . eye contact is a great way to both show your crush has your attention , and to establish intimacy . lean closer when you talk to them . this indicates both an interest in what they are saying , and will over time make them more comfortable with sharing space with you . brush their arm or lightly touch them occasionally as you talk . making someone comfortable with physical contact with you is a great way to build intimacy . it also shows youre comfortable with them . generally , this is a better approach if you are a woman and your crush is a man , but it can still work if your crush is comfortable with you doing this . you dont want to overdo this , or it comes across as flattery , but try to remember it when you see them . everybody likes to feel appreciated , and like many of the other techniques described here , this will grow positive feelings in them about seeing you . in particular , if they shows up looking different in some way , compliment that . i like your new haircut . is that a new outfit it looks great on you . if youve been talking to your crush a bit , and know more about their activities and hobbies , you can find ways to compliment them on their efforts there , as well . the more genuine you can be , the better if , say , your crush is an athlete , watch them practice or compete , and compliment something they did well , rather than trying to guess at it . i saw you make a great catch at practice the other day goes a lot further than well , i dont know anything about football , but you must be good once you and your crush are more comfortable with each other , you can make plans to spend more time together . at first , you may want to suggest something where something is going on , or where other people will be , to take some of the pressure off having to maintain conversation the whole time . some examples might include a local sporting event , particularly for one of your schools teams if youre at the same school . the basketball team is playing friday night do you want to go invite them to see a show of some sort a band , a movie , or a theater production . this one is great for people uncomfortable with conversation because it creates a shared experience , an important part of getting closer to someone , while also not putting too much pressure on either party to talk . invite them to a party or social gathering coming up . if youre trying to fake an interest in things you dont like , or in behavior that isnt you , because you think it will impress your crush , then theyll eventually notice your awkwardness and discomfort with it . hell respect you more and youll get along better if youre honest , rather than if you lie about your tastes in order to try to please him . , many people practice staying in the moment through meditation or other exercises . you dont need to become a zen master for your crush , though . simply pay attention when theyre talking and respond appropriately . theyll appreciate your interest and attention . todays world is full of distractions dont let things like your smartphone take your attention away from the person youre spending time with . many people value the opinion and respect of their peers . it isnt strictly necessary that you get to know your crushs friends , but if your crush is feeling interested in you but unsure about whether to proceed , the encouragement and approval of their friends will help . you dont have to please them , but just letting them get to know you a little better can go a long way in winning their endorsement . since youve already established a comfort level with spending time together in social situations , you can propose activities where its just the two of you spending time together . going out for a cup of coffee , or going for a walk in the park , are two good examples . your crush may be showing signs they are interested in you , too . some of these signs differ in men and women , but here are some keys to look for if a guy straightens his posture or fixes his hair when he sees you , its because he wants to look his best around you . similarly , women will smooth their clothing and toss their hair back to allow their face to be better seen . how a woman handles her purse can tell you a lot about what shes thinking . if she is holding it tightly or in front of her , shes uncomfortable . if she holds it to her side or loosely , she is comfortable with you , and doesnt want it to get in the way of getting closer to you . when youre talking , if your crush touches their face , fidgets or stutters , or is on the edge of his seat when you talk , these are signs theyre nervous - - because they are feeling attracted to you , too . wanting to get physically closer to you , or whisper in your ear , is a great sign for you these behaviors indicate your crush desires intimacy . nothing says you have to wait . if you think your crush is interested in you but hesitant to make the first move , you may want to go ahead and make it . sometimes your crush is shy or intimidated by you , and in these cases youll have more luck making the move yourself . ask them on a date , tell them about your feelings , or even make the first move physically , like with a kiss on the cheek . i really like hanging out with you would you like to go on a date sometime tradition dictates that men ask women out , but that is less strictly true in this day and age , so no matter your gender , if you feel the time is right to make a move , go ahead and make it .