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13fpz9d | [deleted] | 0 | False | false | 0 | 2 | 2023-05-12 19:37:08 |
13fpz9d | Not being so god damned insecure. | 0 | False | false | 1 | 0 | 2023-05-12 20:00:26 |
13fpz9d | being funny. | 0 | False | false | 1 | 0 | 2023-05-12 20:17:03 |
13fpz3i | It was amazing. if you are curious, I highly recommend to explore it at least once | 0 | False | false | 0 | 0 | 2023-05-12 19:48:48 |
13fpz3i | 8/10. Would recommend. | 0 | False | false | 1 | 0 | 2023-05-12 19:36:30 |
13fpz3i | Women ☕️ | 0 | False | false | 1 | 0 | 2023-05-12 20:39:38 |
13fpytd | They are lazy pieces of shit. Should start rubbing their noses in it | 0 | False | false | 2 | 0 | 2023-05-12 19:43:46 |
13fpytd | It’s fertilizer | 0 | False | false | -2 | 3 | 2023-05-12 19:33:59 |
13fpytd | I know people who do it, they say they do it cuz they can | 0 | False | false | 1 | 0 | 2023-05-12 19:34:22 |
13fpytd | I always pick it up, but if we aren’t immediately leaving, I sometimes forget the bag when we do leave because I’m absent-minded. Sorry bout that, I promise I’m not trying to be inconsiderate. | 0 | False | false | 1 | 0 | 2023-05-12 19:36:19 |
13fpyon | my very own face | 0 | False | false | 2 | 0 | 2023-05-12 19:33:28 |
13fpyon | My parents couch when I was 17. They were in the room too. Mom wasn’t happy, dad laughed. I had to clean it up. | 0 | False | false | 2 | 0 | 2023-05-12 19:34:57 |
13fpyon | On my bass guitar. Cleaning under the strings on the bridge really sucked | 0 | False | false | 1 | 0 | 2023-05-12 20:17:59 |
13fpyek | Good Anxiety by Dr Wendy Suzuki, Being Wrong Adventures on the Margin of Error, Man's Search for Meaning
Getting safe should help
Good luck | 0 | False | false | 1 | 0 | 2023-05-12 22:40:09 |
13fpyct | That's silly. But I suppose all earlier prepared foods are leftovers from the original source | 0 | False | false | 5 | 0 | 2023-05-12 19:33:16 |
13fpyct | No. Leftovers are what ever is left over from a food or meal that was served and eaten. The unopened can of soup in your pantry hasn’t been served or eaten before. | 0 | False | false | 3 | 0 | 2023-05-12 19:36:23 |
13fpyct | Leftover soup is usually defined as soup that has been cooked and stored in the refrigerator for longer than a day or two. Canned soup would not be considered leftover soup since it is generally not cooked before being canned. | 0 | False | false | 1 | 0 | 2023-05-12 19:32:39 |
13fpyct | When it's time for the next meal. | 0 | False | false | 1 | 0 | 2023-05-12 19:35:59 |
13fpyct | Soup can never be left over. If only everything could be like soup. | 0 | False | false | 1 | 0 | 2023-05-12 19:56:29 |
13fpy7k | I don't believe they could comprehend that the experiment that they started would last so long. Or what kind of technology and social issues would spring from it. | 0 | False | false | 2 | 0 | 2023-05-12 19:32:02 |
13fpy7k | No, they only wanted white landowner men to vote | 0 | False | false | 2 | 0 | 2023-05-12 19:49:16 |
13fpy7k | Leaving aside obvious points about them being slaveholders and the sexist attitudes of the day... it's hard to say. They'd probably like some things. They'd probably hate others. I bet they'd think stuff like the postal service is the bee's knees.
But, and much more importantly, why would we care? They weren't divine political prophets or something, just mortal men of their time. Their thinking and solutions are origins of, and attuned to, the context in which they lived - a fundamentally different context from today. | 0 | False | false | 1 | 1 | 2023-05-12 19:35:39 |
13fpy7k | Not really. They often fought about "colonizing America" where the country expanded, taking over other places like the British had done. If they saw the size of modern America and our worldwide military dominance they would be shocked and a little disappointed. | 0 | False | false | 1 | 0 | 2023-05-12 19:39:51 |
13fpy7k | The reasons would differ from person to person, but every one of them would find some reason or other to be completely aghast. | 0 | False | false | 1 | 0 | 2023-05-12 20:02:28 |
13fpy7k | They would be insulted that women and nonwhites have so many rights. But pleased with the gun violence. | 0 | False | false | 1 | 0 | 2023-05-12 20:25:21 |
13fpy7k | Hell no.
You think with the state of the economy, international relations, crime waves, and progressive ideologies/ politicians they’d be happy? | 0 | False | false | 1 | 0 | 2023-05-12 20:29:38 |
13fpy7k | no not at all | 0 | False | false | 1 | 0 | 2023-05-13 02:15:46 |
13fpxvv | Have you talked about this at all with a manager or the tech lead directly? The lead may assume that everything is fine and have no idea how you are feeling or interpreting his actions. | 0 | False | false | 3 | 0 | 2023-05-12 19:49:23 |
13fpxvv | You've probably got some valid concerns but you're going to have to have a mindset shift to pull out of a tailspin. Nobody is going to come rescue you because you're putting in increasingly less effort - they're going to PIP you.
I'd suggest you be proactive. Talk to your manager or lead. Ask for the things you need and make an effort to earn the support. I'll always go the extra mile to support a peer who is truly making an effort because I know it'll pay dividends.
If you can't get that to work, try to make a switch but expect it to be difficult. The market is poor and it sounds like your accomplishments have been dragging. In either case, prepare yourself mentally and emotionally to grind a little in the new role to carve out something you really enjoy. Most good work environments are bi-directional in terms of effort! | 0 | False | false | 3 | 1 | 2023-05-12 20:15:10 |
13fpxvv | It sounds like you're handling things poorly and not going to succeed here with your current attitude and plans. | 0 | False | false | 2 | 5 | 2023-05-12 19:57:17 |
13fpxvv | It might help to start considering things from the perspective of your tech lead and coworkers. From their perspectives, they all have work to do too and are daily solving problems and finding solutions to things they may have never seen before just like you are. They have no way of knowing:
- what you already have a strong skill set in/knowledge of
- what you need to improve on
- how you best learn/what way of helping you is actually helpful to your long term growth
- what you are motivated towards learning
- when you are ready to take on more consequential work tasks
It’s their job to help and guide and mentor as needed BUT it’s YOUR job to make your needs known clearly and effectively. Reach out to actually ask, don’t wait for them to come mentor you. If you need someone to engage in reviewing your work and they seem to be ignoring it, just ask and specify what you want them to review for and what type of guidance you are seeking. IT IS OKAY to frame questions as “I have tried x, y, and z and am still experiencing problem w, I’m hoping you can guide me in the right direction for what to look at next without solving the problem for me”. You want more important tasks? Ask. Tell them you feel ready to take on bigger tasks and are feeling under challenged.
I don’t mean this to come across unkindly, but you cannot expect to be spoonfed mentorship. You need to be on your own actively growing your skill set, stretching how much of a problem you can solve before asking for help, getting better at asking for help and communicating what you’ve already tried, etc. It’s your responsibility to demonstrate through increased quality of work and increased breadth of work that you are ready for bigger tasks. And of course, always remember that you could be the grand poobah of the best developers in the world and you’re still going to sometimes be assigned easy/boring/inconsequential tasks. Not every task is going to be life changing and you need to be okay with that. You’re not going to get constantly patted on the back for a job well done and you’re not going to have a massive stream of constant feedback either. That’s okay, and is a natural progression as you grow into independence.
If you are truly doing your part in all this and still feel the workplace sucks, then maybe the culture at this place is not a good match for you. That’s okay, it takes people a few tries sometimes to find a good match. | 0 | False | false | 2 | 2 | 2023-05-12 22:22:49 |
13fpxn6 | I was driving down a pretty busy road in Milwaukee during the morning rush once, when I saw some gnarly looking dude with white afro on one half of his head, perfectly baby smooth on the other, wearing nothing but a diaper, and using a plastic princess wand to paddle a walker down the fast lane, it was a 45mph road. | 0 | False | false | 1 | 0 | 2023-05-12 19:33:52 |
13fpxiv | Chicanery. | 0 | False | false | 1 | 0 | 2023-05-12 19:51:42 |
13fpxiv | Hello matey | 0 | False | false | 1 | 0 | 2023-05-12 20:00:45 |
13fpxiv | Yo | 0 | False | false | 1 | 0 | 2023-05-12 20:04:00 |
13fpx6p | What is the benefit to this? Scammers arent going door to door to scam their neighbors. They do that stuff to people across the world through internet and phone. | 0 | False | false | 1 | 0 | 2023-05-12 19:56:28 |
13fpwph | That’s like asking if you can stop depression by just being happy, or fix a broken arm by doing pull-ups. If you can just not care, then you don’t have gender dysphoria. The fact that it causes you involuntarily mental distress is what makes the diagnosis. | 0 | False | false | 6 | 0 | 2023-05-12 19:32:34 |
13fpwph | No, you can't. It's an internal process that creates anxiety and depression, you have no control over it. | 0 | False | false | 1 | 4 | 2023-05-12 19:32:16 |
13fpwph | “Blind? Just see!” | 0 | False | false | 1 | 0 | 2023-05-12 19:37:42 |
13fpwph | If you say to yourself “I don’t care how I look”, does it affect how you perceive your gender inside? Try it. Try as hard as you can to convince yourself that your appearance is irrelevant. Can you convince yourself hard enough that you become genderless? I’m guessing you can’t. That’s how it is for someone with gender dysphoria | 0 | False | false | 1 | 0 | 2023-05-12 20:34:28 |
13fpwf2 | Red hair, left handed. | 0 | False | false | 1 | 0 | 2023-05-12 19:30:27 |
13fpwf2 | 34 year old virgin. I'm asexual, and really don't care about it | 0 | False | false | 1 | 0 | 2023-05-12 19:33:32 |
13fpwf2 | Being neuro divergent | 0 | False | false | 1 | 0 | 2023-05-12 19:48:43 |
13fpwbm | 33 | 0 | False | false | 3 | 0 | 2023-05-12 19:35:29 |
13fpwbm | 38 | 0 | False | false | 2 | 0 | 2023-05-12 19:29:26 |
13fpwbm | 27 | 0 | False | false | 2 | 0 | 2023-05-12 19:31:06 |
13fpwbm | 37 | 0 | False | false | 2 | 0 | 2023-05-12 19:31:55 |
13fpwbm | 17 | 0 | False | false | 2 | 0 | 2023-05-12 19:32:19 |
13fpwbm | 28 | 0 | False | false | 2 | 0 | 2023-05-12 19:32:40 |
13fpwbm | 53 | 0 | False | false | 2 | 0 | 2023-05-12 19:33:26 |
13fpwbm | 46 | 0 | False | false | 2 | 0 | 2023-05-12 19:36:49 |
13fpwbm | 29 | 0 | False | false | 2 | 0 | 2023-05-12 19:43:01 |
13fpwbm | 39 | 0 | False | false | 2 | 0 | 2023-05-12 19:44:40 |
13fpwbm | 37 | 0 | False | false | 2 | 0 | 2023-05-12 19:58:10 |
13fpwbm | 16 | 0 | False | false | 2 | 0 | 2023-05-12 20:03:47 |
13fpwbm | 35 | 0 | False | false | 2 | 0 | 2023-05-12 20:19:04 |
13fpwbm | 52 | 0 | False | false | 1 | 0 | 2023-05-12 20:44:43 |
13fpwbm | 19 | 0 | False | false | 1 | 0 | 2023-05-12 20:49:20 |
13fpwbm | 83, and still kickin’ | 0 | False | false | 1 | 0 | 2023-05-12 21:05:10 |
13fpw99 | How do centaurs sleep | 0 | False | false | 2 | 0 | 2023-05-12 19:29:30 |
13fpw5j | Home ownership | 0 | False | false | 3 | 0 | 2023-05-12 19:29:36 |
13fpv9g | To whomsoever scrolling on this thread
remember to sort by controversial | 0 | False | false | 2 | 0 | 2023-05-12 19:30:24 |
13fpv9g | Cardi B is like nails on a chalkboard.... | 0 | False | false | 2 | 0 | 2023-05-12 19:50:01 |
13fpv9g | I think a large majority of the most popular musicians of the last 20 years don't even make real music, they perform tech demos. | 0 | False | false | 3 | 0 | 2023-05-12 19:36:30 |
13fpv9g | Traylor Swift. I wouldn't call her music trash because I don't think it's bad. It's just kinda like vanilla ice cream or the missionary position. It'll get the job done but there's nothing about it that seems exciting or worth remembering y'know? | 0 | False | false | 2 | 1 | 2023-05-12 19:32:28 |
13fpv9g | All of them | 0 | False | false | 1 | 0 | 2023-05-12 19:30:09 |
13fpv9g | Red Hot Chili Peppers. My brain implodes in fury when I hear them. | 0 | False | false | 1 | 0 | 2023-05-12 19:40:12 |
13fpv9g | Queen.
I can already hear people hiring snipers and bounty hunters that are coming for me | 0 | False | false | 1 | 0 | 2023-05-12 20:36:28 |
13fpv9g | Thanks! | 0 | False | false | 0 | 0 | 2023-05-12 19:30:01 |
13fpv9g | Miley Cyrus
I don't know why, but she reminds me of the Anna Farris character in Just Friends. | 0 | False | false | 1 | 0 | 2023-05-12 19:51:54 |
13fpv9g | Lil pump | 0 | False | false | 1 | 0 | 2023-05-12 19:55:01 |
13fpv9g | Beyonce. She has some good songs, don't get me wrong. But I would never listen to a whole album of hers for fun. | 0 | False | false | 1 | 0 | 2023-05-12 20:21:12 |
13fpv9g | I have always thought that Britney Spears has the most grating voice and stoooooopid lyrics | 0 | False | false | 1 | 0 | 2023-05-12 20:59:36 |
13fpv0e | r/aocismommy | 0 | False | false | 2 | 0 | 2023-05-12 19:28:10 |
13fpv0e | r/ooer | 0 | False | false | 2 | 0 | 2023-05-12 19:28:36 |
13fpv0e | r/clowngirls is a personal favorite | 0 | False | false | 2 | 1 | 2023-05-12 19:29:03 |
13fpv0e | r/AskReddit | 0 | False | false | 2 | 0 | 2023-05-12 19:29:22 |
13fpv0e | Bazzar? I guess the word you were looking for was *bizarre*
This is so [r/boneappletea](https://www.reddit.com/r/boneappletea) | 0 | 1683909352.0 | false | 2 | 2 | 2023-05-12 19:32:21 |
13fpv0e | r/worldnews | 0 | False | false | 2 | 0 | 2023-05-12 20:22:16 |
13fpuyi | Not a stoner anymore, but one time I was high I spent about twenty minutes listening to a dripping faucet because the sound it made just sounded so beautiful to me. | 0 | False | false | 1 | 0 | 2023-05-12 19:29:10 |
13fpuq4 | language | 0 | False | false | 2 | 2 | 2023-05-12 19:27:55 |
13fpuq4 | The development of agriculture. People stopped roaming around. They started to alter the environment to fit their needs. And they built civilization. | 0 | False | false | 2 | 0 | 2023-05-12 19:31:54 |
13fpuq4 | Jesus | 0 | False | false | -1 | 0 | 2023-05-12 19:34:34 |
13fpud5 | China | 0 | False | false | 1 | 0 | 2023-05-12 19:32:16 |
13fpud5 | Probably China, but their demographic problems are going to start haunting them in a decade or so. | 0 | False | false | 0 | 0 | 2023-05-12 19:35:17 |
13fpud5 | Idk, but the process of the powershift wouldn’t be fun for anyone. | 0 | False | false | 1 | 0 | 2023-05-12 19:29:07 |
13fpud5 | Japan | 0 | False | false | 1 | 1 | 2023-05-12 19:30:33 |
13fpud5 | Not one country, but if there's to be a change, the European Union. | 0 | False | false | 1 | 0 | 2023-05-12 19:54:16 |
13fpu87 | Identify your desires and really ask yourself how much you need it and what you would do to get it. If you find you don't need it, and can only obtain it by means that compromise your character, is it worth it? | 0 | False | false | 6 | 1 | 2023-05-12 19:32:11 |
13fpu87 | The only time you look in your neighbor's bowl is to make sure that they have enough.
I don't know the secret to happiness, but I do know the secret to unhappiness. And that is to constantly compare yourself to others. | 0 | False | false | 5 | 0 | 2023-05-12 19:57:01 |
13fpu87 | If you’re human, you’re going to get jealous sometimes. There’s no way around it. The important thing is to manage your reaction to jealousy. Don’t grow bitter and mean, but use that feeling to motivate you to turn your life into what you want. | 0 | False | false | 2 | 0 | 2023-05-12 19:41:23 |
13fpu87 | Remember nothing will matter in 100 years from now. | 0 | False | false | 0 | 1 | 2023-05-12 21:25:26 |
13fpu6l | Nice try. | 0 | False | false | 2 | 0 | 2023-05-12 19:27:50 |
13fpu6l | I often wonder what would life be for everyone around me if I just didn't exist. Not like me taking myself off the census, but more like if I never existed, did I really do a significant change in my friends and family's life? Was it good? Bad? Enough? | 0 | False | false | 1 | 1 | 2023-05-12 19:51:41 |
13fpu6l | I really don't have an ambition. I didn't avoid college because of anything to do with fears of getting a job after or the cost I simply avoided it because I just don't fucking know what I want to do with my life, I don't really have any long-term goals. I don't really have anything particular I'm striving towards
Every few days I find something new and interesting to fixate on for a little bit but I've never really found that one niche that I really want to do for the rest of my life. Can't even handle working like a retail or fast food job because after a few months of working there I just get completely crushed and shut down because I just don't enjoy doing the same thing over and over again even when the job itself wasn't that terrible. It's truthfully why I struggle to keep jobs for very long because it's fine enough for the first few months but after like 6-8 months I just get this like soul crushing depression and stop putting in any effort until I either get fired or find a new job somewhere else.
I just find it absolutely insane that throughout my entire life people were expecting that by the time I was 18 I would have figured out something that I want to dedicate basically the rest of my life to in terms of my profession and education
Like I have hobbies I have things I enjoy but most of them would kind of be ruined if I turned them into a job
Truthfully I don't even really want to pursue a career path I don't want to dedicate my life to a job I don't enjoy working I just want to find the least annoying way to get by
I don't need tons of money to be happy with a functional internet connection and a decent computer and some food I'm happy. I have good friends especially online people who I'm closer with than my own family.
I spend most of my free time either playing games with them or in discord calls within or spending time with all of them in virtual reality. This makes me happier more than any thing else in my life
I don't want a career and I don't even know what the fuck I would do anyways. I just feel so bad because throughout my life I've had various family members seem disappointed in the fact that at this point in my life I'm still just working boring entry level jobs but I just don't have any ambitions to seek out a full on like profession. The world is full of so many amazing things to try and see and do and it's absolutely maddening and infuriating that everyone expects me to just pick one of those things and just do it forever till I fucking die or retire | 0 | 1683911871.0 | false | 1 | 0 | 2023-05-12 20:14:49 |
13fpu6l | I'm on Reddit. | 0 | False | false | 1 | 0 | 2023-05-12 20:21:44 |
13fpu6l | -.- nice try. China. | 0 | False | false | 1 | 0 | 2023-05-12 21:25:51 |
13fptbe | [removed] | 0 | False | false | 1 | 2 | 2023-05-12 19:27:53 |
13fptbe | play video games | 0 | False | false | 1 | 1 | 2023-05-12 19:27:57 |
13fptbe | Pokémon Go | 0 | False | false | 1 | 1 | 2023-05-12 19:27:57 |